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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 3 года назад +438

    The deepest craving of human nature is the need to be appreciated

    • @eigbiremolenstanley6331
      @eigbiremolenstanley6331 3 года назад

      *✝2349156496383⏯*⏯⏯⏯⏯ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up............

    • @eigbiremolenstanley6331
      @eigbiremolenstanley6331 3 года назад

      I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman. I was helped by Dr favour he can also help you out too...

    • @taylorgawne3176
      @taylorgawne3176 2 года назад +8

      nah it’s a sense of communication/connection

    • @TheHermitTeller
      @TheHermitTeller 2 года назад +5

      @@taylorgawne3176 I believe they're both under the same umbrella

  • @annilionz
    @annilionz 3 года назад +320

    The last sentence is soo true !!! ‘People come alive when they feel seen and not judged’ 👌🏼

  • @ondemandaquaworkouts
    @ondemandaquaworkouts 3 года назад +190

    Well said. I recently listened to another smart guy who said: it is very easy to find a beautiful, fit, fun, charming, hardworking and mature match.
    Make sure you are all of the above first.

    • @abdulrasheedali7787
      @abdulrasheedali7787 3 года назад

      Do you wish get your ex back or restore someone you love?if yes then I’d like to recommend you to love specialist who brought my ex back ....♥️♥️💕💞♦️

    • @abdulrasheedali7787
      @abdulrasheedali7787 3 года назад

      WhatsApp 💞💞💞💞 he can help you

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      @abdulrasheedali7787 3 года назад

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    • @ondemandaquaworkouts
      @ondemandaquaworkouts 3 года назад +3

      No ! I do Not want my ex back . Ex is ex for the reason

  • @IevaKambarovaite
    @IevaKambarovaite 3 года назад +371

    A mother telling her son he's not perfect is probably the most solid life advice someone can give and get. Loved this video. That perfect person truly doesn't exist. Took me years to understand that. I'd go from one relationship to the next one looking for that Mr Perfect

    • @erikasoberon21
      @erikasoberon21 3 года назад +2

      My mom doesn’t like my bf and I still don’t understand why. 😓

    • @tracertongsdong2267
      @tracertongsdong2267 3 года назад +2

      Your comment makes no sense. I'm a son and my mother told me zero about my looks growing up. So I just assumed I was nothing special. So I'm guessing from your comment it's normal for mothers to tell their sons they are perfect. Is that what you're assuming?

    • @geoffreyokrongly916
      @geoffreyokrongly916 3 года назад +1

      So, may I insinuate from this that you still haven’t come to terms with your own fallibility, yet?

    • @intellifly747
      @intellifly747 3 года назад

      @@erikasoberon21 woman can be selfish. Your mom wants you for herself. My mom did this and even admitted a (single) female friend of her influenced her to be shitty to my dad. My dad died. Now she openly regrets it

    • @eigbiremolenstanley6331
      @eigbiremolenstanley6331 3 года назад

      I'm so excited my broken relationship has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me for another woman. I was helped by Dr favour he can also help you out too...

  • @MS-ns4ki
    @MS-ns4ki 8 месяцев назад +12

    I think some people try to force, but eventually, you will become resentful when you really didn't get what you wanted.

  • @alishar9831
    @alishar9831 3 года назад +36

    People come alive when they are seen and understood and not judged!

  • @IevaKambarovaite
    @IevaKambarovaite 3 года назад +126

    *What you're asking for right now, you're not bringing.* Boom! That one hit me hard. I'm going to be more fun if I want to see my partner bring more fun and play into our relationship.

  • @ozzyoz5210
    @ozzyoz5210 2 года назад +125

    I just want a relationship where I can be me and be accepted for that!!

    • @yamnaanwar795
      @yamnaanwar795 Год назад

      Same here ;(

    • @LizaLavolta
      @LizaLavolta Год назад +20

      I don't. I want someone who sees me but always pushes me to grow and be better.

    • @quitshame9659
      @quitshame9659 5 месяцев назад +1

      you cant expect people to straight up do that for you tho, most people simply wont care for you enough if you dont slowly try to get them accustomed to who you truly are rather than scaring them away with all that you are from the get-go. That in the very leasty is how I do it and have done it all my life.
      Once someone cares for you and actually knows your true self to a large extent too, they will care for you no matter what comes. Thats at least how my mind works (:

  • @Bluesmoke4200
    @Bluesmoke4200 6 месяцев назад +4

    This man is so amazingly. Incredibly insightful. And unlike a lot of so called "dating coaches" you can tell he is doing it not to make money but because he really wants every human being to be happy.

  • @bayyinahwatts2351
    @bayyinahwatts2351 2 года назад +39

    I never fell in love before & I’m 30. Never made it pass 6mos of dating, not because I don’t want too or I’m not vulnerable enough I think I’m definitely too vulnerable at times. I feel like I get involved with ppl that love the idea of me & when we get together they get scared because things feels to good to be true so they sabotage the relationship before we even get deep enough

    • @hadley_6563
      @hadley_6563 2 года назад +1

      Sounds like you attract Fearful Avoidant (FA) people.

    • @Prytimina
      @Prytimina 2 года назад +6

      Never change , people like you are rare ! Your fit will stick !!!!

    • @wombat9199
      @wombat9199 9 месяцев назад +2

      I’m on the other end and regret losing someone like you so much.

  • @lc11214
    @lc11214 2 года назад +30

    Again, his concept of "find that person who is willing to build that castle with you" is emphasized here.

  • @melissat9120
    @melissat9120 3 года назад +15

    Wow, I could totally feel that you had the whole room with you.

  • @clairebaron9061
    @clairebaron9061 Год назад +5

    I was never looking for perfect because I always say I never am. I can live with that. But I want a man who's considerate and close to my wave length as a a person. The rest does not matter. So making peace resonated with me. Because am making peace with myself and not beating myself any more for it not working.

    • @ansumuth5626
      @ansumuth5626 3 месяца назад

      I too wanted the same..now I am dating I feel like should I consider the looks also..I am doubtful

  • @clairebaron9061
    @clairebaron9061 Год назад +2

    Men can not be perfect but that won't stop you falling in love. When you truly fall in love their flaws are put aside. It's true what they say love is blind and I was blinded for a long time 😩😩

  • @5thdimensionliving727
    @5thdimensionliving727 2 года назад +8

    So true 👍 both parties have to be at peace with each other. Indeed, nobody is perfect. If we keep discounting people, we will never be in a relationship with anyone. Relationships are not easy. Relationship are living beings with a life of their own. Life is short and time stops for no one. After 6 years of searching, I am settling for a person now I met 5 months ago. I don’t think
    I would not have settled if I hadn’t reached this level of acceptance about myself and the other person. Everyone has imperfections and idiosyncrasies that we are not always going to like. But it’s part of being human. Being human is about change as well. However, when people change, so should relationships. I think I was far too picky before, mainly because I had trust issues after my 20 year marriage broke down. No relationships are perfect. I’ve now drawn a careful balance between self scrutiny and qualifying/verifying people. If both people invest in themselves and the relationship, genuinely loves, cares for and appreciates the other person, then this established a frequency for 2 people to enjoy what a great relationship has to offer. Practising the 5 love languages regularly, sometimes each day really works for me. Great video 🙏🙏

  • @Innocent.beautysalon
    @Innocent.beautysalon 3 года назад +5

    I was the one emotionally stable.. He took me for granted and he always blamed on the fact that he was single for a long time and he forgot how to behave with a woman (I was required the bare minimum from him) and still nothing after 2 years of long distance relationship... After he was like he was dumped me telling me he doesn't like to see me suffering because of his behavior and he needs time to fix himself "if he wants to fix doing it in his own timeline" lol. So he decided to dump me and left behind just hope.

  • @kaybennett5324
    @kaybennett5324 Год назад +8

    I've been doing a lot of self reflection recently after many years single but successful in other areas of my life. Your comment that if you never fall in love, you're not ready I really identify with!
    I got to fourth date last night which is unheard of for me as I'm wanting to break down this wall which has become into my consciousness

  • @fifyestrella6554
    @fifyestrella6554 3 года назад +19

    I love everything you said and I'm following every advice you are giving not to attract a man but to be the best person for myself. For meeee ❤

  • @davidthomspson9771
    @davidthomspson9771 2 года назад +3

    My mom told me a similar thing years ago when I was going through THE most darkest period of my life.At the time I could not appreciate nor grasp what she what she was trying to get through to me.Full circle years layer I have come to grips with it

  • @Lexi_Bean
    @Lexi_Bean 3 года назад +9

    Something about the fact that the cut to the audience being all women is what’s the issue with a majority of relationships. This is a role model for men but yet they tend to only listen to the guys telling them what they want to hear. It saddens me. I’ve been questioning all the younger guys becoming famous these days and if Gen z has a male to be an actual good role model and I don’t see any.

  • @peace-yv4qd
    @peace-yv4qd 2 года назад +14

    What strikes me today, I'm an older man from a different generation, is the number of very attractive Women walking by themselves or with a female friend and just being a single woman in general who never go out on a date. How profoundly sad. In My generation these women would be snatched up quickly.

    • @meaganalexander2088
      @meaganalexander2088 2 года назад +6

      Hookup culture, insecurities due to ease of access to social media, pickiness, and decline in standards/values for a potential partner. These are all issues women of my generation battle with - not to mention the idea of the “girl boss” pushed by third wave feminism that says there is more to be admired in an independent, hard working woman who neither needs or wants a man’s support or love.

    • @peace-yv4qd
      @peace-yv4qd 2 года назад +4

      @@meaganalexander2088 Good response. My feelings exactly. When you advertise that you don't need a Man, in general Men will leave you alone.One thing that strikes me odd are the number of couples sitting together and each looking at their cell phones when they should be looking at each other. They might as well be alone.

    • @homiesenatep
      @homiesenatep 2 месяца назад +1

      I would say it’s just loneliness and technology. It hasn’t gotten better in here

  • @silverlimosine
    @silverlimosine 3 года назад +57

    Love your videos Matthew! I had a dream last night that you came to my house to help me take care of my daughter and clean the house, and my husband came back from work and he was like “Who is this dude??”/ and I was just like “Chill out, it’s just Matthew!” 🤣

  • @alexandrapierri5706
    @alexandrapierri5706 3 года назад +23

    you are dating a guy, you are 75-80% compatible in an overall sense. There is a 20-25% incompatibility that you know might make you end this relationship eventually. Do you go for it and live the experience, or do you pull back?

    • @abdulrasheedali7787
      @abdulrasheedali7787 3 года назад

      Do you wish get your ex back or restore someone you love?if yes then I’d like to recommend you to love specialist who brought my ex back ....♥️♥️💕💞♦️

    • @abdulrasheedali7787
      @abdulrasheedali7787 3 года назад

      WhatsApp 💞💞💞💞 he can help you

    • @causeitso
      @causeitso 3 года назад +7

      I presume you are asking this question for the general public. I think not all compatabilities are the same. Those 20-25% incompatability might be in something crucial and in this case it won't work.

    • @MsArtaUSA
      @MsArtaUSA 3 года назад

      Pull back

    • @thedorkydoodlesden
      @thedorkydoodlesden 2 года назад +11

      Is that 20 to 25% about what pizza toppings you like and what Netflix show to binge next, or is it about values like money, raising children and communication? You mentioned that it could be something to "make you end this relationship" so I'll assume it's not insignificant stuff we're talking about. You can be 80% compatible and still be perfect for each other or 80% compatible and horrible for each other. That 20% really does matter. If it's something you can't really tolerate now you won't tolerate it better later on. If it's something they are actively working on to change, or something you're actively working on to accept, (or vice versa) then great. But if this 20% incompatibility is about something significant and it's something that's here to stay... then in some ways it might as well be 100% incompatibility. Proceed at your own peril if that's the case.

  • @destinycomillee
    @destinycomillee 3 года назад +7

    Honestly true. I sometimes mistreat my boyfriend and make him feel not good enough because I want Mr.do everything right. But I’m not even ms. Do everything right. I expect so much from him and I don’t even do the things I’m expecting

    • @millerbestman7991
      @millerbestman7991 3 года назад

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      @millerbestman7991 3 года назад

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    • @yaseerahmad7971
      @yaseerahmad7971 3 года назад

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    • @yaseerahmad7971
      @yaseerahmad7971 3 года назад

      Send him a message on Whatsapp

  • @ChoppedByTPodcast
    @ChoppedByTPodcast 3 года назад +5

    Was watching family or fiance, and the groom said you venture into uncharted water when you open yourself up to a partner, which can become a risk of losing the relationship. We're all out here taking risks. Just gotta make sure it's worth it to you and only you.

    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад +1

      My dear if you seriously want help to get ur ex or a specific person
      Mr Samson is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he helped me get my ex and he can also help you

    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

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      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

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      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

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      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

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  • @FreeFlow__
    @FreeFlow__ Месяц назад

    Funny how we all neglect trauma but the thing is, 90% of us have it, and we should be someone who can love us while resolving it.

  • @sherrikins3557
    @sherrikins3557 Месяц назад +2

    My cousin met her husband at a bar one night the next night she went back to the bar, went to his apt and they’ve been married 50 years.. my mother met my dad at a bar went home with him that night and never left.. got married 2 months later, lived with him till his death

    • @thrivedru
      @thrivedru Месяц назад

      Wow, the sex must have been great 😂

  • @pinintjefarina1121
    @pinintjefarina1121 3 года назад +7

    Like John legend sings "All your perfect imperfections"🎶

    • @ibrahimjibrilfalgore3254
      @ibrahimjibrilfalgore3254 3 года назад

      +2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup.,

  • @hookaboowho
    @hookaboowho 3 года назад +2

    Yes, making peace.... he did make peace, I made peace we married after 8 1/2 years

    • @abdulrasheedali7787
      @abdulrasheedali7787 3 года назад

      Do you wish get your ex back or restore someone you love?if yes then I’d like to recommend you to love specialist who brought my ex back ....♥️♥️💕💞♦️

    • @abdulrasheedali7787
      @abdulrasheedali7787 3 года назад

      WhatsApp 💞💞💞💞 he can help you

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      @abdulrasheedali7787 3 года назад

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  • @barbb3934
    @barbb3934 2 года назад +1

    Talking to guy from Dating App, switched over to Texting app (Chat), within a few days (5) Now he wants to meet right away. I am not ready, I would prefer to either talk on phone and/or Face time first.

  • @julitaserrano5550
    @julitaserrano5550 3 года назад +7

    Totally know what you mean Matthew. I like the way you put that, that we need to make peace with certain things regarding someone.

  • @F1fletch
    @F1fletch 3 года назад +15

    I appreciate the thought and it’s a nice sentiment. I have caught myself looking for perfection in potential future female partners and it can be a slippery slope. Good thing my mirror in the restroom is 4K because I get a great look (often) at my true reflection and then reflecting on who I am today and what I have to offer.
    Thank you sir!

    • @millerbestman7991
      @millerbestman7991 3 года назад

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      @millerbestman7991 3 года назад

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    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get ur ex or a specific person
      Mr Samson is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he helped me get my ex and he can also help you

    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

      T e x t him vla what’sapp

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      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

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  • @yanis80
    @yanis80 3 года назад +5

    Oh, Matthew, priceless! I'm all of the above, fall in love too fast then dismiss everyone, it's a cycle! Also, I only meet 1 person a year...so I guess that makes sense! LOL, priceless!

    • @blessingsfromspirit6881
      @blessingsfromspirit6881 Год назад

      So how do we fix that pattern? I had that pattern with every really good guy I ever dated the married a man I wasn’t sure about and was unhappy for 15 years. I don’t want to make that mistake again so I think I push everyone away or maybe have expectations above the norm

  • @amyp9010
    @amyp9010 3 года назад +8

    This was perfectly said I love it and I'm probably not ready for marriage

  • @blessingsfromspirit6881
    @blessingsfromspirit6881 Год назад

    I came from a marriage where the man was driven and successful in making money willing to do all the things I loved but socially/emotionally void. After 15 unhappy years (and 3 kids) I divorced and vowed all I wanted was someone I connected with emotionally and socially…I can give myself everything else in life. I have someone like that now but he is much younger & has no real drive or goals at this point. It feels like he has no vision that he can create anything bigger for himself but he is happy to step into my full life and support me. I’m torn on whether that could work or I need someone more driven like I am.
    I don’t want to be with someone who has low standards or expectations in life…but we also have fun and talk about everything…

  • @mariahconklin4150
    @mariahconklin4150 3 года назад +7

    Wow this is so true. It was recommended to me that I spend an hr a day on the phone with a guy so I started to do and as I talk to him more I realize that he’s able to open up more maybe because I’m able to open up more. It’s a pretty cool thing though.

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      Hello dear I recommend you Dr Ezekiel,he was the one who helped me restore back my 6 years broken 💔 relationship,he can make your ex come back begging for a second Chance, Also Dr Ezekiel always keep to his promise, I will advice you seek his help,thanks.

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      Message him on whatsapp

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    • @juniormccarthy5732
      @juniormccarthy5732 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get ur ex or a specific person
      Mr Samson is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he helped me get my ex and he can also help you

    • @juniormccarthy5732
      @juniormccarthy5732 3 года назад

      T e x t him vla what’sapp

  • @catherinesdoukou4505
    @catherinesdoukou4505 3 года назад +2

    The last 3 words you mentioned are priceless.

  • @pikachu_candy
    @pikachu_candy 4 месяца назад

    may tamang tao para sa lahat 😂❤ kalma❤❤❤

  • @makeitcount2985
    @makeitcount2985 2 года назад +1

    The relationship I'm in now is toxic, he's always critical of me... I think it's time to end it. I think this is it for me, I'm giving up on dating and relationships, I've tried a number of times, failed each time... So much toxicity...

    • @mindstein2823
      @mindstein2823 Год назад

      If that's what you feel deep down I'd say go with it because you deserve to be happy right? If you gotta rock alone, then rock alone, 🎸 a person's happiness doesn't depend on a mate it's possible to be happy alone and there's a bright side to it

  • @pikachu_candy
    @pikachu_candy 4 месяца назад +1

    everyone is imperfect 😂

  • @suryasingh425
    @suryasingh425 3 года назад

    Movies, social media has eventually spoiled us. Our parents, grandparents are together just not because they love each other but they have committed to each other.

    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get ur ex or a specific person
      Mr Samson is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he helped me get my ex and he can also help you

    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

      T e x t him vla what’sapp

    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

      ➕1917

    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

      -773-

    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

      9685

  • @millycapel4332
    @millycapel4332 6 месяцев назад

    Attraction is important to a degree

  • @KeyserTheRedBeard
    @KeyserTheRedBeard 3 года назад +2

    neat upload Matthew Hussey. I broke that thumbs up on your video. Continue to keep up the outstanding work.

    • @manifoku1505
      @manifoku1505 3 года назад

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back.,

    • @manifoku1505
      @manifoku1505 3 года назад

      Wh'stapp him

  • @agnestish9739
    @agnestish9739 Год назад

    Wow. This was a wake up call for me. Thank u

  • @TheSunshinefee
    @TheSunshinefee 3 года назад +4

    "What you’re asking for, you’re not bringing.”
    Does that also count for beautiful women who often lack the wealth and lifestyle but due to their looks manage to find a rich husband who funds their lifestyle. do we also ask them if they bring wealth into a relationship

    • @abdulrasheedali7787
      @abdulrasheedali7787 3 года назад

      Do you wish get your ex back or restore someone you love?if yes then I’d like to recommend you to love specialist who brought my ex back ....♥️♥️💕💞♦️

    • @abdulrasheedali7787
      @abdulrasheedali7787 3 года назад

      WhatsApp 💞💞💞💞 he can help you

  • @Itsochepcar
    @Itsochepcar 3 года назад +1

    Not always a fan but I like this video a lot.

  • @chrismccaffrey8256
    @chrismccaffrey8256 2 года назад

    Now that's one GOOD mum!

  • @kateroth7154
    @kateroth7154 2 года назад +1

    Beautiful advice.

  • @larisamiller5320
    @larisamiller5320 3 года назад

    My husband is far from perfect but he took my son in as his own when he didn't have to. I see the amazing father and family man he is and provider, we don't always see eye to eye, we took our time moving in together, and he was so different from the man I usually go for, I go for a man who's usually passionate and declaration of love my husband took his time and it's bc it lasts...our love. Fo for someone different you will then find the right one for you...

    • @millerbestman7991
      @millerbestman7991 3 года назад

      Contact her for all kind of problems including saving your marriage or relationship from divorce or breakup,

    • @millerbestman7991
      @millerbestman7991 3 года назад

      ✝️‪19177370809⏭⏭⏭

    • @millerbestman7991
      @millerbestman7991 3 года назад

      WhatsApp💕💕💕💕her she can help you💕💕💕💕💕

    • @juniormccarthy5732
      @juniormccarthy5732 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get ur ex or a specific person
      Mr Samson is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he helped me get my ex and he can also help you

    • @juniormccarthy5732
      @juniormccarthy5732 3 года назад

      T e x t him vla what’sapp

  • @lucierjane6651
    @lucierjane6651 3 года назад +2

    Thanks Matt you're always on point 😊👍

    • @ibrahimjibrilfalgore3254
      @ibrahimjibrilfalgore3254 3 года назад

      +2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup.,

  • @lifeskill8381
    @lifeskill8381 3 года назад

    Your video on limbo loop was really eye opener. Thanks.

    • @briannacy2060
      @briannacy2060 3 года назад

      +2349154661736⏯⏯⏯⏯ ⏮⏮⏮⏮ Hello it's v works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break up..*..

  • @Taraboertzel
    @Taraboertzel 3 года назад +2

    Thanks for sharing this!

    • @briannacy2060
      @briannacy2060 3 года назад

      +2349154661736⏯⏯⏯⏯ ⏮⏮⏮⏮ Hello it's v works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break up..*..

  • @pamelas.8249
    @pamelas.8249 3 года назад

    There is beauty in YOU Matthew, not in people :-D

  • @womenwhodate7643
    @womenwhodate7643 3 года назад +1

    Oh Matthew what a piece again, your advice are on point! 👌

  • @kyrabon6497
    @kyrabon6497 3 года назад

    Hi Mathew… if somehow you ever see this message I would be beyond grateful. I’m in such a hard spot right now and I don’t even know where to start. I don’t trust myself to make my own decisions but I have the choice of getting back with my boyfriend of 2 years or staying broken up… it’s been 1 week and he left me because he wanted to focus on his career more and become more successful and I guess he couldn’t do that while he’s in a relationship. A couple days later he regretted his decision and has been desperately begging for me back. I feel so lost and confused. If I wasn’t enough for him when he had me then why should I trust him now just because he’s hurting. He swears he just made a huge mistake and it’s not just his emotions speaking. Please help me get out of this mess I will listen to you!!

    • @manifoku1505
      @manifoku1505 3 года назад

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back.,

    • @manifoku1505
      @manifoku1505 3 года назад

      Wh'stapp him

    • @Frank22164
      @Frank22164 3 года назад

      As a man. You're making excuses for your boyfriend. He has done it once and he will do it again. He takes you for granted, has no compassion, and telling someone that they need to be dropped because of a focus on career, that's complete b.s.

  • @loristarkey
    @loristarkey 3 года назад

    Is there a way to “drop the handkerchief” online? Or- is there a free live tutorial practice date option?
    I immediately think when I see a great guy that I am not worthy enough for that. I know it’s a terrible way to think. I feel like I do have standards but when I find someone that vastly exceeds them that it’s out of my league. I just watched a video of yours that mentioned you being single. I have a feeling most women are very intimidated, maybe I’m totally wrong. Thank you for the content. I love hearing your perspective and hope it pays off soon. I have made a lot of mistakes in my life... I see them all as resources. The accent 👌 lovely

    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get ur ex or a specific person
      Mr Samson is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he helped me get my ex and he can also help you

    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

      T e x t him vla what’sapp

    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

      ➕1917

    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

      -773-

    • @ashleymaria3519
      @ashleymaria3519 3 года назад

      9685

  • @cynthiafiadjoe4152
    @cynthiafiadjoe4152 3 года назад +1

    Mattew Hussey you are right for me? ❤

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      Hello dear I recommend you Dr Ezekiel,he was the one who helped me restore back my 6 years broken 💔 relationship,he can make your ex come back begging for a second Chance, Also Dr Ezekiel always keep to his promise, I will advice you seek his help,thanks.

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      Message him on whatsapp

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      ±2347054407388⏭⏭◀⏭

  • @b.johnny369
    @b.johnny369 3 года назад

    Very well put.

    • @briannacy2060
      @briannacy2060 3 года назад

      +2349154661736⏯⏯⏯⏯ ⏮⏮⏮⏮ Hello it's v works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break up..*...

  • @patricetrotter
    @patricetrotter 17 дней назад

    I fear that he is not the protector of

  • @lynndevilliers6283
    @lynndevilliers6283 3 года назад

    Good morning Matt. Lynn for Cape Town South Africa 🇿🇦 ❤

    • @abdulrasheedali7787
      @abdulrasheedali7787 3 года назад

      Do you wish get your ex back or restore someone you love?if yes then I’d like to recommend you to love specialist who brought my ex back ....♥️♥️💕💞♦️

    • @abdulrasheedali7787
      @abdulrasheedali7787 3 года назад

      WhatsApp 💞💞💞💞 he can help you

    • @abdulrasheedali7787
      @abdulrasheedali7787 3 года назад

      ✝️2348103378310⏯⏯⏯😊😊

  • @nora1172
    @nora1172 3 года назад +2

    👍😁Like it! So true.

    • @ibrahimjibrilfalgore3254
      @ibrahimjibrilfalgore3254 3 года назад

      +2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup.,

    • @manifoku1505
      @manifoku1505 3 года назад

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back.,

    • @manifoku1505
      @manifoku1505 3 года назад

      Wh'stapp him

  • @EagleWhistle
    @EagleWhistle 5 месяцев назад

    How MUCH do u have to make peace with?

  • @RAE-homely-fairy-of-the-light
    @RAE-homely-fairy-of-the-light 3 года назад

    Just love all the stuff that you talk about🧚‍♀️

    • @matthewhussay5298
      @matthewhussay5298 3 года назад

      Awwwwww....thanks

    • @RAE-homely-fairy-of-the-light
      @RAE-homely-fairy-of-the-light 3 года назад +1

      @@matthewhussay5298 good one! you ain't no MH...Can't even spell his name right lol

    • @manifoku1505
      @manifoku1505 3 года назад

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back.,

    • @manifoku1505
      @manifoku1505 3 года назад

      Wh'stapp him

  • @nopoys
    @nopoys 3 года назад +4

    If u have to ask, if they the right for you, they are definitly not!!!!

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      Hello dear I recommend you Dr Ezekiel,he was the one who helped me restore back my 6 years broken 💔 relationship,he can make your ex come back begging for a second Chance, Also Dr Ezekiel always keep to his promise, I will advice you seek his help,thanks.

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      Message him on whatsapp

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      ±2347054407388⏭⏭◀⏭

    • @juniormccarthy5732
      @juniormccarthy5732 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get ur ex or a specific person
      Mr Samson is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he helped me get my ex and he can also help you

    • @juniormccarthy5732
      @juniormccarthy5732 3 года назад

      T e x t him vla what’sapp

  • @SalamSinjab
    @SalamSinjab Год назад

    Thanks

  • @MandEmma7
    @MandEmma7 Год назад

    beautiful

  • @Srishtiiiiiiiiiii
    @Srishtiiiiiiiiiii 3 года назад +1

    Love from india ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jyotirekha9586
    @jyotirekha9586 3 года назад

    How to change the attachment styles that ones have or cope with the partner who has opposite attachment style?

    • @ibrahimjibrilfalgore3254
      @ibrahimjibrilfalgore3254 3 года назад

      +2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup.,

    • @manifoku1505
      @manifoku1505 3 года назад

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back.,

    • @manifoku1505
      @manifoku1505 3 года назад

      Wh'stapp him

    • @jyotirekha9586
      @jyotirekha9586 3 года назад

      @@manifoku1505 I wish, although I don't have his contact details 😂

  • @yomiseno
    @yomiseno 11 месяцев назад

    No

  • @Laphroaig16
    @Laphroaig16 3 года назад +1

    When it comes to this type of content, the word 'perfect' needs to be removed.
    We are who we are, this it. And trying to be something that you are not when attempting to attain this 'perfection' will only land you in trouble.

    • @ibrahimjibrilfalgore3254
      @ibrahimjibrilfalgore3254 3 года назад

      +2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of breakup.,

    • @manifoku1505
      @manifoku1505 3 года назад

      I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back.,

    • @manifoku1505
      @manifoku1505 3 года назад

      Wh'stapp him

  • @roseinkhouse855
    @roseinkhouse855 3 года назад +1

    I feel like my boyfriend is married to his mother and having an affair with me! He lives with her. She has absolute control over his daughter and he is scared of her and what she might do if he stands up to her. He has autism and she uses his daughter to get money out of him and control everything he does. He can’t even leave the house for ten minutes without her permission. I’m not happy in this relationship, but I would be absolutely miserable without him. I feel like if I left him he would just be very isolated and lonely and bullied by his family. But he is so loyal to them I can’t stand how he doesn’t seem to able to fight for us, his daughter or even himself.

    • @millerbestman7991
      @millerbestman7991 3 года назад

      WhatsApp💕💕💕💕her she can help you💕💕💕💕💕

    • @millerbestman7991
      @millerbestman7991 3 года назад

      ✝️‪19177370809⏭⏭⏭

    • @yaseerahmad7971
      @yaseerahmad7971 3 года назад

      Dr Frank Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restore back my broken relationship of 5 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Frank alw ... Read more

    • @yaseerahmad7971
      @yaseerahmad7971 3 года назад

      WhatsApp 🙏🙏him he can help you

    • @yaseerahmad7971
      @yaseerahmad7971 3 года назад

      ✝ 19294435267💕⏭⏭⏭

  • @davaa7649
    @davaa7649 Год назад

    Anyone here pls tell me how to he peace with my partner. Im at the edge of wanting to let go the relationship. Hes great as a person but he never text much, specially when hes busy. It hurts me and i told him but he said hes busy (i know that). I said just random pictures or any response that you're busy in the moment would be fine. As long as i feel he cares about my feeling but nothing changes. Should i just let go? 😥

  • @janessmorales7072
    @janessmorales7072 3 года назад +1

    Are u alright mathew u sound funny

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      Hello dear I recommend you Dr Ezekiel,he was the one who helped me restore back my 6 years broken 💔 relationship,he can make your ex come back begging for a second Chance, Also Dr Ezekiel always keep to his promise, I will advice you seek his help,thanks.

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      Message him on whatsapp

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      ±2347054407388⏭⏭◀⏭

    • @juniormccarthy5732
      @juniormccarthy5732 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get ur ex or a specific person
      Mr Samson is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he helped me get my ex and he can also help you

    • @juniormccarthy5732
      @juniormccarthy5732 3 года назад

      T e x t him vla what’sapp

  • @amyp9010
    @amyp9010 3 года назад

    But I'm searching and I want to be I want to have a family and the benefits of one

  • @jocelynm0111
    @jocelynm0111 3 года назад +1

    Sad truth is that if this was a graded speech, my teacher would've given him an 80 💀

  • @opticalman6417
    @opticalman6417 2 года назад +1

    i would rather have decent pair of studio monitors over a relationship partner these days the word love means noting to me that what you get for been abused by your family
    im thourgh with women for life dont need them im over sex and and totally over women leting go of desire free you of the suffering of wanting men dont need women and women dont need men

  • @janessmorales7072
    @janessmorales7072 3 года назад +1

    Well yeah can u explain to that abby person she is a crazy person stalking me

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      Hello dear I recommend you Dr Ezekiel,he was the one who helped me restore back my 6 years broken 💔 relationship,he can make your ex come back begging for a second Chance, Also Dr Ezekiel always keep to his promise, I will advice you seek his help,thanks.

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      Message him on whatsapp

    • @eunicedang1247
      @eunicedang1247 3 года назад

      ±2347054407388⏭⏭◀⏭

    • @juniormccarthy5732
      @juniormccarthy5732 3 года назад

      My dear if you seriously want help to get ur ex or a specific person
      Mr Samson is the best when it comes to recovery relationship, he helped me get my ex and he can also help you

    • @juniormccarthy5732
      @juniormccarthy5732 3 года назад

      T e x t him vla what’sapp

  • @invernessfan3017
    @invernessfan3017 3 года назад

    Yikes.

  • @glue7225
    @glue7225 3 часа назад

    30 seconds in and he barely says anything. Pass.

  • @osenijames5735
    @osenijames5735 3 года назад


    2349156286771⏭⏭⏭⏭⏭⏭⏭⏭⏭⏭⏭⏭⏭⏭

  • @cynthiatanera850
    @cynthiatanera850 3 года назад

    Firstttt

    • @briannacy2060
      @briannacy2060 3 года назад

      +2349154661736⏯⏯⏯⏯ ⏮⏮⏮⏮ Hello it's v works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break up..*..

  • @valentinaina01
    @valentinaina01 3 года назад

    So much bullshit on this channel. So much contradiction between the different videos. No connection to what reality has to offer. Highly unethical.

  • @Sunnigirl07
    @Sunnigirl07 Год назад +2

    Feel heartbroken as I ended it and we had that spark/chemistry but I wasn’t sure if I could go on as he had full custody of his 6 year old daughter, I’m 45 and child free, we were always relying on babysitters and was difficult having alone time. Me and him got on fab and I miss him dearly and I don’t mean to sound selfish re the daughter but I wasn’t sure I could do it 🥲

    • @mindstein2823
      @mindstein2823 Год назад

      I'm in a slightly similar predicament, I'm 28 with no kids and she has two and can't have any due to her tubes being tied

    • @dianeatpeace337
      @dianeatpeace337 2 месяца назад

      It's not selfish to decide the type of life you want to lead. If you can't envision yourself happy as full-time step-mom to that little girl, then you are absolutely doing the right thing by ending things with her dad now. Sometimes timing or circumstances make life decisions for you. It sucks, but it's just real life -- part of the human condition 🤷🏻‍♀️