मेने iit की तैयारी की थी .....मुझे कुछ समझ नही आता था.....मे बहुत डिप्रेस्टिन् मे रहने लगा .....मेरे पापा ने अपनी LIC पालिसी को तोड़वाकर ट्युशन कराई पापा सब्जी/फल का ठेला लगाते थे......पर पापा ने बोला बेटा अगर निकल जाये तो ठीक हे......नही तो कोई दिक्कत नही .....IIT मे नही हुआ ....फिर PRIVET से ENGINNERING की ......आज मे इंडियन RAIWAY मे LOCO PAILOT हुँ....... IIT ही सब कुछ नही होता ......सबको अपनी क्षमताओं के अनुसार कार्य करना चाइए 😢😢
The most important falling into the trap of distraction and guilty feeling ...making self confidence low,,high over thinking..due to which our focus distracts and we will not be able to catch topics easily and we feel we are dumb.... and the most important thing that hurts is ur parents hope and their love,,u start feeling that u are not worth to be loved and you are doing injustice with your parents..... ur parents are providing everything you need by sacrificing their needs but u are not able to make them happy...the depression in this case is mostly because of self frustration and you start feeling that u are worthless,useless,just a waste of ur parents had earned money..... bro trust me,,,at the end ur parents just want to see their child happy so they do everything that they feel so ...and u deserve all the love of ur parents... Bro trust me I have gone through this for almost 1 and half yrs...I can provide u some tips..., First don't regret on anything...example if u wasted ur time and u are feeling it now,,stop it there and then start studying...if u don't stop that feel8ng u get trapped into the guilty trap...and this same thing will repeat everyday and becomes a habit... Second,,don't try to pretend that u know this if u don't...if u really know then it's ohk but don't pretend to be at the above level if u are still at below....bcz teachers are there to help u out...and u are preventing a teacher from doing his duty,,,and this makes ur lose....don't clear with ur teacher if u got the concept say it and if u don't say it... And weakly nightmare,,,weekend tests ,don't worry they won't matter at end bcz when I tallied after getting real results with mocks then they were different... and no one's gonna judge u based on ur marks...if they do so one can't remember anything more than 10sec bcz they have more things to do I there life....
@@BusyLizzie parents kyaa karenge bhai. Wo bas tumhari future ki chinta karte hein . Unka bharosa dhire dhire Kam ho jata hai . Achhe se mahnat kar ke padhoge to ye sab nahin hoga
@thezoldics7648 Abe yha bakwas mat Kar agar Kisi Ka padai me Man nhi ha toh chahe Tu use Kitna bhi samjale ya tu us se android phone hi kyu na chin le woh fir bhi padai nhi karega padai ke alava aur Kuch bhi Kar lega par padai nhi karega. pura din yu hi gumta firta nikal lega. Jisko science ki itni heavy padai acchi nhi lagti Woh nhi Kar sakta esi padai. Ma -baap ko samjna Chahiye ki IIT aur UPSC se bhi alag bhot Kuch ha life me karne ko. Hardik Pandya 9th class dropout ha aur Virat Kohli bhi 10th pass ha bas. Bade bade bussinessman jese Ambani aur Adani bhi jayda pade likhe nhi ha. Jaruri nhi jo padai me accha ho wo hi successful ban sakta ha ya jaruri nhi ha ki paisa kamane ki liye sirf IIT aur UPSC yhi do option ha India me. In dono se alag bhi bohot option ha logo ke paas. Toh Parents ko samjana Chahiye ki wo dusro ke baccho ko dekh kar apne baccho par unke jaisa ban ne ka dabav na banaye. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Bhai Pressure aur wo halat jo humare control me na rhein to situations bhut negative ho jaati ha hum bhagne lgte ha cheezon se phase krna to Chodo soch hum paate tk nhi ha bhut disturbances create ho jaate ha ma khud itna sab jhel rha hu sochkr bta nhi skta Mehnat ki iit nit me admission le liya par ye nhi pta tha ki whn jaakr ma hindi medium ka ladka sarkari college se bachelor krne wala whn phuckr kaisa feel krunga jo cheez smjh aa jaaye ek baar me ab to wo bhi 1 baar me smjh nhi aati ha bhut saari smasyaien ha jo har din jhelta hu bs bhagwan par bhrosa ha mera usi par sab kr rha hu chala jaa rhaa hu because I believe in God only God😢
Beta jis age me tum 7th class me the na us age me maine 10th pass kar liya tha.....khud ki trah sabko kamzor mat samjho.... Aaj ke date me bhi 9/10 saal ke aise bachche dekhe hai jo usi age me 10th exam easily pass hi nahi top bhi kar lenge.. Mai bhi ek teacher hi hu bachchon ko bahot hi bariki se pakad leta hu kon hira hai aur kon jira hai.
Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy, It's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way. Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills. Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it. Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only. It's the Government which should be blamed
IT'S SHAMEFUL WHY INDIA CANNOT PROVIDE GOOD EDUCATION TO EVERY ONE WHY ONLY 10,000 PEOPLE. Vote educated people who works on making education system better.
Good education mil rhi h bhai compiition hi bohot jyada h online lo sasti and best education main baat ye h maa baap ke pass jyada paise nhi h isiliye vo Apne baccho Ko padhai ke alava kuch nhi karvana chahate
@@lakshyasharma3826Rising Unemployment and wealth disparity has forced majority parents to choose from only few options. Kudos to Government by reducing the population this way.. Masterstroke by NodiJi..
पहले का क्या ही दौर था - पहले के बच्चें पढ़ते थे, खेलते थे, मस्ती करते थे, अच्छे से जॉब भी पा जाते थे।।। लेकिन अब के ज़माने में - कंपटीशन भरी दुनिया में पढ़ाई मानो कितनी मासूमों की जान ले रही बच्चा अपने कबलियत के हिसाब से nhi padh paa rha isi तनाव के कारण सुसाइड की ओर जा रहे ।।।। हमें सरकार से यही मांग है प्लीज एजुकेशन सिस्टम pe dhyan de baccho ka us type ka environment create ho taki use padhai padhai lge depression jaise cheezen nhi।।।।।😢
And nowadays, students are so caught up in competition of getting IIT and Medical seats that very less of them get the fun of studying and their passion
UPSC करने वाले बच्चे जो मुकरजीनगर और ओल्ड राजेंद्रनगर रहते है वे सब ग्रेजुएट पोस्टग्रेजुएट होते है वे मैच्योर है है उनकी उम्र लगभग 22- 25 साल होती इसलिए वह ऐसी घटना बहोत कम देखने को मिलती है ....कोटा में बच्चे 16- 20 की उम्र वाले होते न वे इतने समझदार नही होते इसीलिए वहा ऐसी घटना देखने को मिलती रहती है ..... भगवान इस बच्चे की आत्मा को शांति दे 😢❤
I can understand the pressure because i am also a student of class 12 and preparing for NEET 😊 Sabse badhiya Ghar pe reh ke Online class kren aur sbb ke sath khusi khusi se aapne goal ko achieve karen......😊
Guys i also prepared for jee and despite putting in two years of JEE prep and taking a gap year, my scores weren't great. My board exam results were disappointing too. It felt like everyone was against me, and I struggled with depression and anxiety for six months. There were times when I felt like giving up, but something inside me kept me going. I enreolled in a tier 3 college and now, as I'm about to graduate, I have some amazing job offers in hand, ones that even some IITians would envy.Through all of this, I've learned that tough times don't last forever. Every setback has made me stronger. No matter how tough things get, there's always a way forward. So to anyone going through a rough patch, plz hang in there, believe in yourself, and keep pushing forward. Things will get better, and you'll come out stronger on the other side..
@Anonymous-ue7vp hi mate I graduated from IIT Delhi in 2000. Trust me college is important only UpTo an extent . If you want to achieve what we need is motivation and focus. So try with full heart 2 years and may be at most 1 gap Year. If do not get admission move on to next avaible college. This is where life starts, focus on learning don't leave it to guesess and when you come out of college or any college be ready to chase your aims and goals. Last but not least goals demand motivation
@@cryptoboi9584 sahi kaha ladko ki to shadi hogi bhi ya nhi ye bhi ek problem hai ( out of topic hai par problem toh hai ) Aur family ka bhi bohot pressure hota hai ladko ko ki unki financial responsibility bhi unhi par he bhale koi koi family jyada bol kar na dikhaye iss baat ko par woh pressure bhi hota hai ....
Mere neighbours ke vaha bhi eklauti girl thi, aur vo Kota me NEET ke liye prepare kar rhi thi, but sadly She Suicided 1 saal pehle ki baat hai ye, tab vo 12th me thi
Ladkiyon par bhi bahut pressure hai .. pta nahi kis dunia mein log ji rahe hai..aajkal ladkiyan bhi career aur job ka sochti hai . parents unpar bhi ladko ke barabar paisa lgate hai .. unse bhi ummide rakhte hai..vo time gya ki ladki ki shadi ho gyi aur baat khatam..aajkal ladke bhi well educated aur professional ladki chahte hai.. sabse pahle puchte hai ki ladki ki job kya hai aur kitna package hai.. aur ladkiyan khud ke liye aware ho gyi hai
@thezoldics7648 Abe yha bakwas mat Kar agar Kisi Ka padai me Man nhi ha toh chahe Tu use Kitna bhi samjale ya tu us se android phone hi kyu na chin le woh fir bhi padai nhi karega padai ke alava aur Kuch bhi Kar lega par padai nhi karega. pura din yu hi gumta firta nikal lega. Jisko science ki itni heavy padai acchi nhi lagti Woh nhi Kar sakta esi padai. Ma -baap ko samjna Chahiye ki IIT aur UPSC se bhi alag bhot Kuch ha life me karne ko. Hardik Pandya 9th class dropout ha aur Virat Kohli bhi 10th pass ha bas. Bade bade bussinessman jese Ambani aur Adani bhi jayda pade likhe nhi ha. Jaruri nhi jo padai me accha ho wo hi successful ban sakta ha ya jaruri nhi ha ki paisa kamane ki liye sirf IIT aur UPSC yhi do option ha India me. In dono se alag bhi bohot option ha logo ke paas. Toh Parents ko samjana Chahiye ki wo dusro ke baccho ko dekh kar apne baccho par unke jaisa ban ne ka dabav na banaye. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I can't explain what I m feeling right now, this is really Very Heart-melting... Puri life or family ko tyag kr aspirants jindagi se muh mod le rhe hain
ये बहुत दर्दनाक है, माता पिता बच्चों से उनकी क्षमताओं से ज्यादा उम्मींद रखते हैं, और जब बच्चे उनकी अपेक्षाओं पर खरे नहीं उतर पाते तो बच्चों को लगने लगता है कि जान देना ही आखिरी उपाय है 😢 माता पिता से निवेदन है कि बच्चों पर अपनी आशाओं को मत थोपो, जो बच्चों को सही लगे वो ही करने दो.
Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy, it's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way. Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills, Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it. Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only. It's the Government which should be blamed.
@@EvergreenConsultancydo merriage or child if people are financially strong so they can support their children financially other wise don't do it iit's my humble request leave a lonely life rither bringing a child in this world and make his life a helll and don't expect gov they do something ....
@ashutoshkr1367yha p galti k baat nhi ho rhe kiski h kiski nhi parents ko bacho p apne sapne nhi ladne caheye har bacha ek sa nhi hota h bache ko shi rasta hmesa dekhana caheye par inna v pressure na de k bache mental presan ho jaye or ese glt decision le
अभी तो खेल शुरू हुआ है। इस बच्चे की जान चार कारणों से गई है। 1 देखी देखा वाली दौड़। 2 माता पिता का गैर जिम्मेदारना व्यवहार। 3 हमारी अव्यवस्थित तरीके कि शिक्षा व्यवस्था। 4 समाज के अंदर तार्किक विचारधारा की कमी। कम से कम हमारी सरकार को हर एक school's cocing's और college's में एक free Mental Health Department तो बनवा ही देना चाहिए। बच्चों के ऊपर कितना मानसिक दबाव रहता है। आत्महत्या करना हलवा खाने जैसा आसान काम नहीं होता। कितना दबाव और कितनी तनावग्रस्त स्थिति हो जाती है। समाज, माता पिता और सरकार तीनों लोगों को गंभीरता पूर्ण तरीके से इस मुद्दे पहल करनी होगी।
mera beta 1 year ka hai...and jo problems maine face ki hai....society pressure ko le kar.......main kabhi bhi koi bhi pressure nahi aane dunga.......mere bhatije bhi hai...unko bhi es condition se bachaunga
Nhi koi shanti dene k jrurat nhi hai, uski aatma bhatkni chahiye and nark me jana chahiye, suicide se bda pap koi nhi hai ab to Mr gya na ab sadega nark me agar jinda rhta to kuch bhi kr leta aur maa baap ko bhi koi shaanti nhi milni chahiye zindgi bhr pachtaane chahiye. Taki baki log seekh le sake
Pehli baat parents ko friendly bankar rehna chahiye theeke unse itni umeed nhi lagani chahiye ki kar lega agr gf ke chakkar mai karta toh samajh aata ki sadega marega har ek ko jeene ka haq tumhare iraado pr koi nhi chl sakta
@@varinderSingh-co3xp Kya log ho tum. Sach me kabhi exam ka pressure nhi dekha shayad . Aur exam ala chij hui agar mom dad aur jyada expectation laga baithe ho to aur depression hota he . Kuch nhi pata ho to bura to mat socho
I am also a NEET aspirant and I must tell that students at my age like below 20 are not mature enough to handle this cut throat competition. Only a parent can understand their children if he or she can take this pressure. They must always motivate their children to share with them the entire journey and if they can't run in this rat race then without any hesitance parents must allow and guide any other alternative for student. Our main motive in our short span of life is to remain happy and keep others happy then what is the point to force someone do thing which someone has no interest on?. Engineering and doctor and IAS are not only people working there and being happy their entire lifetime....hundreds of other opportunities are also present...Remember mates you are not lost until your last breath, stay strong and give your best, if you succeed then it's nice but if you fail don't worry more opportunities will knock at your door....just stay happy and keep others happy!
Beautiful thing to say🤍 coaching centers r scam they push students to score as high as possible and poor students follow them:( Students need to understand that (stop focusing on scorring full marks) if the highest mark is low then cut off will be low..so if every single student stop studying like all day and participate in other activities and enjoy life then the cut off will be very low and the ones who study like 4-5 hours/ 6hours max daily will be able to clear the exam...now the problem is the only thing these students do is study all day or think about studies all day..that's unhealthy for brain. It's a big scam where gov. is also engaged(lower post workers- Which r corrupt). The only thing to realize by everyone is "U got this Life once and don't let anyone (these scammers or corrupt ppl) take it from you and make the best out of every situation in Life, death is not a solution to a problem" Ps- "not saying that don't study, just maintain balance in Life, anything in excess is bad" and "only compete with your past self"
100 reasons to stay alive: 1. to make your parents proud 2. to conquer your fears 3. to see your family again 4. to see your favourite artist live 5. to listen to music again 6. to experience a new culture 7. to make new friends 8. to inspire 9. to have your own children 10. to adopt your own pet 11. to make yourself proud 12. to meet your idols 13. to laugh until you cry 14. to feel tears of happiness 15. to eat your favorite food 16. to see your siblings grow 17. to pass school 18. to get photo chips 19. to smile until your cheeks hurt 20. to meet your internet friends 21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve 22. to eat ice cream on a hot day 23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day 24. to see untouched snow in the morning 25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire 26. to see stars light up the sky 27. to read a book that changes your life 28. to see the flowers in the spring 29. to see the leaves change from green to brown 30. to travel abroad 31. to learn a new language 32. to learn to draw 33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them 34. Puppy kisses. 35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek). 36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them. 37. Trampolines. 38. Ice cream. 39. Stargazing. 40. Morning walk. 41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets. 42. Receiving thoughtful gifts. 43. “I saw this and thought of you." 44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you." 45. The relief you feel after crying. 46. Sunshine. 47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention. 48. Your future wedding. 49. Your favorite candy bar. 50. New clothes. 51. The first Love in life. 52. Really good bread. 53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time. 54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.) 55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling. 56. The smell before and after it rains 57. The sound of rain against a rooftop. 58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing. 59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them. 60. Trying out new recipes. 61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio. 62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage. 63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable. 64.Breakfast in bed. 65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater. 66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning). 67. Pray (if you are religious) 68. Forgiveness. 69. Water balloon fights. 70. New books by your favorite authors. 71. Fire works on New year. 72. Birthdays. 73. Realizing that someone loves you. 74. Spending the day with someone you 75. Opportunity to create meaningful and lasting relationships. 76. Joy and happiness in the little things. 77. Potential to learn, grow, and evolve as a person. 78. The power to inspire others. 79. The ability to create art, music, and other forms of self-expression. 80. Explore different cultures, traditions, and ways of life. 81. Thunderstorms. 82. Experience the joys of parenthood and raise a family. 83. Walking in Rain. 84. Spontaneous adventures. 85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed. 86. First day at gym. 87. Holding hands. 88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world. 89. Singing off key with your best friends. 90. Road trips. 91. The taste of your favorite food. 92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes. 93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees. 94. Make a positive impact on the environment and help protect the planet. 95. Cloud watching. 96. Walking at night under the shadow of stars. 97. The Pleasant breeze at sea side. 98. The day when everything finally goes your way. 99. Compliments and praise. 100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realize you did it. Ps : Never forget you are a beautiful person 💕 Life is so beautiful so live, live like no one else exist, live for yourself, don't care of bad people, you are strong, May God Blessed you all ☺
He literally said ki uska padhai me man nahi lagta tha or vo bas phone chalana chahta tha! Isme Indian education system ki galti nahi uske maa baap ki galti hai jinhone uspe itni badi zimedari sopi!
His father seems very much sensible and open minded person.he is young too and of modern generation then don't know why Rachit is getting problem in communicating with his Father.before taking any such steps the children must think about their families
There's something wrong with how Parents are raising their children. I am blessed that I had parents who were really good at communicating things with us and were always there for us.
16 -17 or even 18 year old student is not that mentally mature for extensive pressure, i think they should prepare for such competative exam online from their residence in presence of their parents.
Rising Unemployment and wealth disparity has forced majority parents to choose from only few options. Kudos to Government by reducing the population this way.. Masterstroke by NodiJi..
Surveero ki dharti prr kayar janm lene lgg gye 😢 itna v bda kaand nhi tha ki sucide krne ki nobat aa jaye ek baar bol deta ghr pr nhi mn lg rha padhne me kahi or lgba dete nokri jindgi bhar maa baap ko kast dekr chla gya
Hi.. Students This is Amit i went Kota in 9th class for IIT but i didn't get it, but i took private college,now i am im I.T company and also i am following my passion too So please jaisa chal raha hai chalne do ye waqt bi guzar jaaega❤😊
Online coaching is best for a sincere and well disciplined student...no offline coaching needed. Ghr me reh ke kam paiso me aram se pdh skte hain..and pressure bhi feel nhi hota!🙂 *Well disciplined and sincere students* sbke liye Naa bol rhi ....Jo procrastinators hote h wo kisi bhi mode se nhi pdh skte.... And Maine ye specially un students k liye bola Jo ye soch ke dipressed rehte ki rank Naa aayi to parents ke paise bekar jaenge 🙂
When I was in Kota during 2017-18 I went through the same phase but being single child of the parents I convinced myself and came out of it looking at the responsibility of life especially mata pita.... Although it was very difficult but now I'm very happy that I didn't do such harsh thing and currently I'm doing good in life
Hey Kid, Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy, It's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way. Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills. Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it. Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only. It's the Government which should be blamed
@@a6hijeet darasal indirectly ye modi ko keh raha hai, I think owaisi brothers have University in Hyderabad,go there he helpout from this govt policies.
Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy, It's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way. Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills. Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it. Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only. It's the Government which should be blamed
I agreee with your all points except top5% has 60 % wealth.because my father is also cheif manager in pnb and have good life but i also hve to give neet this year. The problem is mentality of parents to tell in public that there child is more successful then yours@@EvergreenConsultancy
यह जंगल नहीं है भाई, मैं कोटा का निवासी हूं, यह एक बाघ अभयारण्य है। वहां लगभग 4 -5 बाघ, 20 तेंदुए और कई अन्य जंगली जानवर हैं। पिता को वन अधिकारियों से मदद मांगनी चाहिए थी Iहालाँकि, अगर पुलिस वाले मदद नहीं करना चाहते थे तो पुलिस को उन्हें वन अधिकारियों से बात करने में भी मदद करनी चाहिए थीI
ये बच्चा हमारे राजगढ़ जिले के ब्यावरा विधानसभा के सुठालिया तहसील के गांव का रहने वाला है, बच्चा मात्र 16 वर्ष का था बहुत बुरा हुआ😢 , थोड़ी खबर ये भी है की बच्चा ऑनलाइन गेमिंग का भी शिकार था सरकार को इसकी जांच करवाकर ऑनलाइन गेमिंग एप या साइट्स पर कार्यवाही करवानी चाइए
Ye online gaming ne india ko barbad kr rkha mai bhi 1 saal waste Kia hu aur apne ma bap ki saving bhi . Maine himmat krke apne mata pita ko bataya maa ki aankho me aasu aa gye Ye jindgi mere mata pita kee hai ise se jee rha huehnat kr rha hu❤
@@dipannitasaha5317 tabhi to tummhare jaise kitne teachers hamko thik se nahi padhate aur berozgaar baithe ho spelling mistake hone ki baat kar rahe ho
Ye video har parents ko dekhni chahiye ☹️💔 may he is rest in peace 💐😞 agar bache ko pressure or burden handel nahi hota to koi bhi kadam lene se pehele apne parents,teachers or friends ko share zarur kare apke is kadam se mata pita ko jo darad sehna padega vo ap jan bhi nahi sakte
I am a former MARCOS and request all parents to motivate your children to participate in sports, which will make strong mental status and strong mental status will reduce such kind of incidents because no parents can shadow their kids all the time. Thanks
another wrong advice. parents bs suggest krna chahiye na ki thopna chahiye. bachcho ko options dena chahiye aur kabhi nhi bolna chahiye bachcho ki apne parents naam roshan kro isse wo aur pressure me aa jate h.
The problem is that also, during schooling, some of the children could not get proper education, if they are from government or common schools, but some of the other who have proper facilities and guidance from the childhood, unhe competition thoda aasan rhte, bcs they are preparing from years. Or hm seedhe competition m utr jate hain😢😢
Yes I too agree....poor primary and junior education leads to this extreme pressure and teachers in kota are not very humble if you ask them any doubt even if it was of the previous topic
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Nhi koi shanti dene k jrurat nhi hai, uski aatma bhatkni chahiye and nark me jana chahiye, suicide se bda pap koi nhi hai ab to Mr gya na ab sadega nark me agar jinda rhta to kuch bhi kr leta aur maa baap ko bhi koi shaanti nhi milni chahiye zindgi bhr pachtaane chahiye. Taki baki log seekh le sake
UnEk advise 10th 12th , dropper sbke liye jo kota aane wale hain ya aana chahte hain ..(mein bhi kota mein hoon abhi) Kota me padhai ka pressure to rhega kyuki class me kitne toppers hote hain unke beech rehke khud pr kaam krna muskil hota hai, upr se yaha ki bheed bhaad , mehnge hostels, mehngi coaching or papa ka itna paisa lgta hai or fir test marks nhi aate to hm students ka dimaag positivity se jyada negativity ki side chala jata hai , hm depress hone lgte hai .. upr se mess ka ganda khana ,jisse bacche beemar bhi hote hain... Bhot paise kharch or kuch bhi dhang ka na mile to bachho ko padhai se jyada papa ke paise ki chinta hone lgti hai... Ye itni saari baaton ka hm apne upr pressure bna lete hai , Ab jb paise lg hi gy hain to chinta krne se to wapas aayenge nhi isse acha hai ki hmare pass jo time hai usko utilise kre or km se km time ka to sahi se use krna seekh lein.. As your senior, agr ap emotional strong hain or hr chhoti chhoti baat pr rote nhi hai , tension nhi lete or pressure nhi lete yo ap kota jrur aaye...but wo bachche jo apne ghar se , mummy papa se door kbhi nhi rhe wo bachche thoda dhyan rakhe , itna serious nhi hona hota life me ,sb ho jata hai ,sb ho jayega ,faltu tension nhi paalni hoti .. hmara krtavya hai ki hm apni trf se honesty se padhein , jruri nhi hai ki tum topper nhi ho marks km aate hain to tum bekaar ho ,aise nhi hota ,kai baar kaafi cheeze hme ek lesson dena ke liye bhi hoti hain, tumhara selection ho ya na ho sbse pehle tum mayne rakhte ho mummy papa ke liye , galtiyan ho jaay to mummy papa ko btao or sorry bolo, jyada regret nhi krna bss ek baar firse restart kr dena padhai ke liye... Bhot jyada expectations mt rakhna khud se .. jo hoga behtar hoga , nhi hoga to hm usko achha bnayenge zindagi bhot badi hai ,apni soch itni chhoti mt bna lena ki jee ,neet hi sb kuch hai ,kota aana hai but yaha se kuch hardwork wale golden pal sath lekr jaana hai .. kota aakr zindagi khtm nhi hoti yaha se to experience milega.
Bol to ese rha hai jese society de rhe the tere bche k palne se padne ka pesa. Sbkuch jb vo apne ghr se kr rha hai to society ka kya mtlb bna murkh insaan konsa society vale bhot khush hai apni life Mai unhe to bs moka chie bolne ka or inmai hi unki life kat jati hai
yrr jitna apeksha parents nahi karte utna bacha maan leta hai sabka karan sirf ek hi hai aur vo hai aaj kal bahut hi jyada distracions badh gye hai hai resources ke sath
@@ketansingh7482Rising Unemployment and wealth disparity has forced majority parents to choose from only few options. Kudos to Government by reducing the population this way.. Masterstroke by NodiJi..
मैं हर एक पेरेंट्स को यही कहूंगा कि जो अपने बच्चों को कोटा में पढ़ना चाहते हैं एक बार बच्चों को कोटा में bhagnae से पहले जरूर देख ले यहां का माहौल कितना कितना खराब है
Obviously yes jisko jo shi lage vo kro yrr jaan mt lo khud ki aage peeche bhi bhut se log hote hai trying to do best everyday in this life there is a lots of struggle but u have to prove how heal with it bzc you are not come to this far to lose you are a winner dost ❤
Ye ummeed ye bharosha ye expectations -- acche bujurg pura nahi kar paate hum baccho pe ye ummeedon ka pahadh khadha kar hum unse kya Ummeed karna chahte hain. I literally cried hearing this 😔😔😔
Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy, It's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way. Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills. Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it. Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only. It's the Government which should be blamed
Dimag kharaf he kya aap logo ka.. Har maa baap chahte hein ki unka bachaa sabse achi education le oor kuch baan jaye.. Jab bacha khud likha he ki main phone ke ilawa kuch nahi janta!!! Iske baad bhi parents ki galti!! Sharam aani chahiye.. Jo aapke bare mein sabse zyada sochte hein... Unko ese bolte hue
Sharam tujhe ana chahiye 😡🤬 ,, jab baacha padna hi nhi chata toh force kyu karna bas ek acche pakage ke liye ,, kya hoga uss pakage ka aese bhi agar vo apne interest ko follow karta toh aaj bohot bada insaan banata ,, Saari galti maa baap ki hi hoti hai ,, tum mat sikhao 🦍 hame ki duniya kesi hai @@priyadarshinipanda2536
काश स्टूडेंट के मन की बात को पेरेंट्स समझ जाए 😢 मां बाप पहले ध्यान नहीं देते हैं बेटे के मरने के बाद उसकी भी आंखे खुल जाती हैं। मेरा छात्रों से यही निवेदन है कि जब भी रूम लेकर पढ़ाई करे तब अकेले में पढ़ाई न करे साथ में एक दो और छात्रों को भी रखे जिससे आपका अकेलापन और दुख को दूर किया जा सके । और पेरेंट्स से यही निवेदन रहेगा वो अपने बच्चो पर किसी भी प्रकार का दबाव न डाले । सबसे बड़ा कारण मुझे ये लगता हैं कि जब कोई स्टूडेंट अपने मां बाप से बोलता है की मुझे ये करना है लेकिन बाद मे उसे लगता हैं की नहीं मुझे ये नहीं वो करना था । इसी परिस्थिति में वो अपने पेरेंट्स से कुछ नही कह पाता है उसे लगता हैं की अगर मेने पापा से बोल दिया तो वो सोचेंगे कि ये कुछ नहीं चाहता है केवल पैसे बर्बाद करता है। मेरे पापा ऐसे हैं कि में कितना भी उदास क्यों न बैठा रहूं लेकिन पापा कभी नहीं बोलते है की बेटा इतना उदास क्यों है। 😢😢
Bilkul sahi but ye baate ki IIT crack ho gya to maze hi maze hai ye to teachers hi batate hai.. I'm neet aspirant sab bolte hai ak baar madical college mil jaaye mze hi mze hai.. Bss hum iske aage soch hi nhi paate..
😢mai bhi IIT ka tayari kar raha hu😢lekin Maine haar nhi mani mai abhi jee advanced ka tayari kar raha hu ,aur mera jee mains me hogayaa hai and now I work hard for jee advanced 😇!!
पुलिस की जगह सैनिक जबान होते तों बच्चे को जीवित पकड़ लेते दुःख भरा पिता नीचे झाड़ीं में जा सकता तो पुलिस क्यों नहीं जा सकती है यही फर्क है जवान और पुलिस में भगवान् माता पिता को शक्ति दे
खूपच दुःखदायक घटना..हृदय पिळवटून निघतं अशा बातम्या ऐकून....कसं काय ही मुलं एवढे मोठे निर्णय घेतात??..एकदा तरी आईवडिलांचा विचार करायचा..खूप वाईट वाटलं...😞त्या मुलाच्या मनात पण नेमकं काय चाललं होतं कसं कळणार..काही मुलं स्वताच्या मनातलं express पण करत नाहीत...आई वडिलांनी मुलांचे मित्र बनून सगळं त्यांच्या मनातलं जाणून घेण आवश्यक आहे..मुलांना कशात interest आहे त्याकडे लक्ष देण गरजेच आहे..मुलांवर आपल्या अपेक्षांच ओझं टाकू नका pls..मुलांना एवढं मोठं करून त्यानंतर त्यांना गमावणं ह्यासारखं एका आई वडिलांसाठी ह्या जगात दुसरं दुःख नाही..मुलांपेक्षा महत्त्वाचं काही नाही..
Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy, It's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way. Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills. Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it. Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only. It's the Government which should be blamed
@@Rikivibes Not Completely, as Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy, It's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way. Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills. Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it. Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only. It's the Government which should be blamed
@@EvergreenConsultancysab chiz ko gov se mtt joro usne note me kiya likha h mai class nhi kri book nhi padha sirf mob me mnn lgta h 😂 ab ye v gov ki glti h isko nokri degi gov jisko mob me mnn lgta h sir or maa papa se baat v ktne ki himmat nhi
मुझे बच्चों की कोटा की ऐसी खबरें बहुत रुला जाती हैं प्लीज़ पेरेंट्स अपने कलेजे के टुकड़ों को मजबूर मत करो, उन्हें नेचुरल तरीके से अपना कैरियर चुनने दो ।
I am grandfather's age now and lived first 45 years of my life in India and now last 22 years in USA. Igot raised in Indian tradition and put pressure on my child to do well in education till class 12th. With my exposure to the USA, I realize now that it was unnecessary and regret it. Here they support their child but do not have an expectation. The child is expected to do well based on his own merit, efforts and choices. Hope some young parents reading this will benefit from this. There are now unlimited opportunities outside education and degrees and there is no need to make it the sole success criteria.
o bhai parents ki etni bhi glti nai h jab koi ladki bole to motivate lagta h or ma baap bole to pressure lagta h phle souch badlo bacho ko bhi smjna chiye ki ma baap h vo koi bhar k nai h kuch problem ho to share karo fir bhi na smje to ma baap ko glt bol skte h expection sabhi karte h to usme etna glt kuch nai h
I too agree, ki Yeh parents ki galti h. Unke bachhe ne pressure liya h. But bachhe pressure lena seekhte hi parents se h. Ma Baap asal Mein soch hi nai paate ki suicide kar sakta h baccha. Unko lagta h, Jitna bolenge, utna padhega aur sab achha ho jayega. Fir comparison... Ab yahan se toh comeback bhi nai ho sakta. Ki agar ma Baap bol bhi diye ki koi Baat nai toh bhi jis pados k bachhe se compare kiye ho, woh toh usko dikhega na roz. Ki mummy papa ko aisa beta chahiye tha. Yeh sahi bachha h, main isse bura hoon.
My son took humanities in 12 we never force him to take science or commerce as he was not interested or we also knew he will not be able to cope up with the pressure of the studies........now he is college doing course of his choice we all are happy...... yaar jinda rahe to kuch na kuch to kar hi lega....
@@anshitajain8196 Amir or garib ki baat nahi maa baap ke liye unke baccho se jyada important kya ho sakta hai......by the way l am from a middle class family......apne paale hue bacche ko khone ka dukh paise hone ya na hone se matter nahi karta
@@amazingstuff3425 kash mere parents bhi esa sochte 😅 pr yha toh compilation chalta h mere and meri sister ke bich ... Chalo Sabki situation alag rhti h
I am 19 years previous year in 2023 I completed my schooling but got sick for months becoz I found I had severe stomach infection which jaundice and in reports there was written that I had many internal organ problem specially of liver so I didn't join the college nor I didn't give neet just cuet but failed in that becoz I couldn't even see clearly becoz on 26 I have exam on 25 I am on bed fully unconscious soo my parents decided not to let me join college this year I didn't go coching even just on my own I told them clearly I don't wanna be doctor I can't handle that much I know my limits and they understand be dispite of being strict ❤they say you will not be going kota because I dad know conditions of their he was posted in bharatpur and he met few kota student knowing their condition he told that He didn't send me and students said Uncle u did right it's hell were we are thrown into 😢
जब डिप्रेशन हावी हो तो शांत हो जाना यारो बस शांत स्थिर हो जाना डिप्रेशन के अंधेंपन को दूर होने देना फिर सही कदम उठाना बहुत दुखद है भगवान उनके परिवार को इस दुख से उबरने की शक्ति दे
I was a JEE aspirant. I studied in online mode and the total cost of my prep was around 20k for those 2 years(11th and 12th). So, i never felt this pressure that i am wasting my parents money. Though I couldn't do well in the exam. Fortunately, got 90+ in boards and cleared WBJEE. Got a tier 2 state level government college(CU). In my preparation days, i didn't even knew about other exams and colleges. And these other institutions offer a decent placement. I really feel the need that students must know about other fields and examinations. JEE and NEET solely cannot define anyone's success.
बिल्कुल नहीं डरना बच्चे अपने मां बाप के बारे में सोचना जीवन ऐक बार मिलता है इस जीवन को खुशी से जियो रिजल्ट जो भी हो सिर्फ दो रोटी ही खानी है सबको कछ भी करके खा सकते हैं
मेर नाम राजगुरू है मै एक क्लास 10th का छात्र हूँ और मै अक्सर विकास सर का वीडियो देखता हूँ जिससे मुझे यह प्रेरणा मिलती है की अगर मै हार भी गया तो उसे दोबारा करने का सक्ति मुझ में है जिसमें अगर मुझे दोगुना भी मेहनत करनी पड़े तो I think मै तैयार रहता हु और मै सोचता भी हु की मै restart करु क्युकी तब हम चीजों को समझने और पकड़ने मैं ज्यादा 𝙼𝚊𝚝𝚞𝚛𝚎 हो गये होंगे
There should be only one authorized central university. So that everyone studies from same college ❤ no more cruel competition to study from iit and nit and all
Usne ek bat boli thi ke mera man mobile me lga rehta tha padhai me mn nhi lgta tha, ye pura social media ka kiya dharya h jo aj kl ke bacche ko bigad ke rakh diya h
Mere dost ka keypad phone hi h 200 300 ate h marks test me din bhar rota rahta h mere 500 550 ate h smart phone h lekin mai bhi rota hi rahta hue isilye phone nahi h yaha pe karan yaha karan h ki 600 jiske ate h wo hi kush h bas@thezoldics7648
i believe government should start regular counselling sessions for all the students of such coaching centres. the law makers should make a law against the mental pressure been given to children. Their childhood is taken away. no body talks about the students who do not get selected ,the ones who are facing problem in concentrating,students who are preparing for such exams without any interest in them they go through a ton of pressure
I was an Average student but My parents always compared me with the toppers in our neighbors. He always said that how they are so strong in mathematics and I don't practice enough. I was always lazy one, my homework was never complete but luckily I was blessed to score decent with little effort. I always studied to get good marks just to avoid my Dad anger and keep him proud. Now I earn more than all those toppers as a Software Engineer so he gives me freedom to live my life in my terms. I still know those guys are way more smarter than me, and mathematical geniuses but I have my own set of skills. Coding comes naturally to me because of my introvert personality but I was looked down upon before. My dad used to say that Extrovert go better in life because they have better social circle.
same bhaiya mere papa bhi yahi sab bolte he vo mujhe relatives or neighbours ke topper baccho se compare karte rahte he or ..hamesha ye hi bolte rahte he ki bolna sikh or jab me friends banane ki kosshish karta hu toh mujhe acche friends na banane ke liye criticize karte he ....unko bas ye chaiye ki me sirf topper baccho ke saath friendship karu ...jabki vo saare topper bacche mera bhale hi pure din majak banye....or me 9th class me tha tab se introvert hu pehle me aisa nhi tha but mujhe kisi se baat krna itna pasand nhi he fir bhi jabardasti baat karna ka pressure daalte rahte he😓
@@Kanishk26... be who you are, as a Intovert you can read and learn a lot of things. Also Introvert are more susceptible to video games and mobile addiction avoid that. Read and learn while most extrovert waste there time in over socializing. Also try to socialise on you own pace slowly because it's important find like minded people. Have a hobby.
hila...hila...hila...bas hilate ja...system ko hila ke rakh de..aur fir hila ke so ja..ek din sab thik ho jayega.. meaning double hai par depend karta hai tumhara dimag kis meaning ko choose karta hai.. desire is the root cause of troubles..don't desire anything just do the work without desiring outcomes in your favour. A desire-less man is the happiest man in the world.
Maa baap ka sb se bda kusoor hai.... Kya apne hi bche se aisa rishta hai ki bche apne dil ki baat ni keh paate apne hi maa baap se 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢bchon k dost bniye maa baap ho aap hain hi
Its not about education system. Bhut bacche taiyaari karte hain kuch bacche hote hi weak hain unki khudki khamiyon ki wajah se. Ladna hi nahi jaante woh
why he don t talk to family isme elvish bhai modi education ki kya galti agar nahi karni iit to mat karne do na ye baat bolna chaiye papa or mummy se acha tum to katve ho to theek hai fir gali do modi or elvish ko 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can easily understand and feel the pain of him how students prepare for the IIT exam for their dreams And in reality iit exams are really tough specially advanced but please don't suicide bcz only one exam will not define you although iit exam is really tough bcz before entering into IIT they(professor )just try to develop the capability to handle the pressure inside IIT bcz whatever they teach in class it's very advanced level that's why they prepare before entering into IIT , I am in IIT BOMBAY and the how much pressure student have which I can easily understand but please don't loose your hope and don't suicide bcz many successful people are not from any iit 😊😊😊 so please keep hope and keep trying rest leave on God 😊😊😊
@@ThePositiveInsaanShorts it's okay because now many things are coming in future new technology are coming into market which we can learn from internet although I also understood that the environment in iit ( positive environment) you will miss but there are a lot of opportunities to enters into IIT even one day you can come as a guest speaker in IIT 🙂🙂🙂🙂 so never think that oh I didn't get iit many people give talk which are non iitian in my campus 🙂🙂🙂 jo hota hai acche ke liye hota hai bas mahnat important hai aur kuch nhi kahi Naa kahi to wo mahnat kaa fal.milta hai kisi ko jaldi milta hai kisi ko late isi ko luch kahte hai 🙂🙂
कितनी मासूमियत होती है ना इन लोगो के चेहरे पर लगता है थी सबसे बड़े शुभचिंतक है वो बंद कमरे की गालियां वो उम्मीदों के बोझ वो झूठे दिलासे देते वक्त ये बात याद नहीं आती की कहा से करेंगे ये छोटे कंधे इन भरी उम्मीदों को सहन
मेने iit की तैयारी की थी .....मुझे कुछ समझ नही आता था.....मे बहुत डिप्रेस्टिन् मे रहने लगा .....मेरे पापा ने अपनी LIC पालिसी को तोड़वाकर ट्युशन कराई पापा सब्जी/फल का ठेला लगाते थे......पर पापा ने बोला बेटा अगर निकल जाये तो ठीक हे......नही तो कोई दिक्कत नही .....IIT मे नही हुआ ....फिर PRIVET से ENGINNERING की ......आज मे इंडियन RAIWAY मे LOCO PAILOT हुँ....... IIT ही सब कुछ नही होता ......सबको अपनी क्षमताओं के अनुसार कार्य करना चाइए 😢😢
Good job bhai इस बात में आप और वीडियो बनाओ और लोगों को जागरूक करो ताकि नए बच्चे हिम्मत ना हारे
Sitaro ke aage ek jaha aur hai
Am proud of u ❤
Sahi batt bole bhaya. Hame log en sabh ke bare me etana bata dete hai ki hum n chahate huye bhi karte hai our bad me (zero ) result nikalata hai
Jay Hindi sir ❤
बच्चों की जिंदगी बहुत दुखो से भरी है भगवान हर पढ़ने बाले को कामयाब करें
Two things: 1) Lack of clear communication with parents.
2) Comparing your life with others.
The most important falling into the trap of distraction and guilty feeling ...making self confidence low,,high over thinking..due to which our focus distracts and we will not be able to catch topics easily and we feel we are dumb.... and the most important thing that hurts is ur parents hope and their love,,u start feeling that u are not worth to be loved and you are doing injustice with your parents..... ur parents are providing everything you need by sacrificing their needs but u are not able to make them happy...the depression in this case is mostly because of self frustration and you start feeling that u are worthless,useless,just a waste of ur parents had earned money..... bro trust me,,,at the end ur parents just want to see their child happy so they do everything that they feel so ...and u deserve all the love of ur parents...
Bro trust me I have gone through this for almost 1 and half yrs...I can provide u some tips...,
First don't regret on anything...example if u wasted ur time and u are feeling it now,,stop it there and then start studying...if u don't stop that feel8ng u get trapped into the guilty trap...and this same thing will repeat everyday and becomes a habit...
Second,,don't try to pretend that u know this if u don't...if u really know then it's ohk but don't pretend to be at the above level if u are still at below....bcz teachers are there to help u out...and u are preventing a teacher from doing his duty,,,and this makes ur lose....don't clear with ur teacher if u got the concept say it and if u don't say it...
And weakly nightmare,,,weekend tests ,don't worry they won't matter at end bcz when I tallied after getting real results with mocks then they were different... and no one's gonna judge u based on ur marks...if they do so one can't remember anything more than 10sec bcz they have more things to do I there life....
Kyaa jarurat this bhai ye essay likhne ki 🙂@@ikay-b8u
@@ikay-b8uyou are right 😊i am agree with you and than you so much for your tips ❤i really need these tips and i apply it in my life from now
N parents pressure 😢
@@BusyLizzie parents kyaa karenge bhai. Wo bas tumhari future ki chinta karte hein . Unka bharosa dhire dhire Kam ho jata hai .
Achhe se mahnat kar ke padhoge to ye sab nahin hoga
हर रोज एक नई खबर, 17से18 साल का बच्चा, इतना समझदार नही होता, जितना उन पर प्रेशर होता है।
It's totally wrong to say like that. Books are most important things to clear the exams. It's not the mean that androids phone the cause of sucide.
@thezoldics7648i am student myself you are 100% right.
@thezoldics7648 Abe yha bakwas mat Kar agar Kisi Ka padai me Man nhi ha toh chahe Tu use Kitna bhi samjale ya tu us se android phone hi kyu na chin le woh fir bhi padai nhi karega padai ke alava aur Kuch bhi Kar lega par padai nhi karega. pura din yu hi gumta firta nikal lega. Jisko science ki itni heavy padai acchi nhi lagti Woh nhi Kar sakta esi padai. Ma -baap ko samjna Chahiye ki IIT aur UPSC se bhi alag bhot Kuch ha life me karne ko. Hardik Pandya 9th class dropout ha aur Virat Kohli bhi 10th pass ha bas. Bade bade bussinessman jese Ambani aur Adani bhi jayda pade likhe nhi ha.
Jaruri nhi jo padai me accha ho wo hi successful ban sakta ha ya jaruri nhi ha ki paisa kamane ki liye sirf IIT aur UPSC yhi do option ha India me. In dono se alag bhi bohot option ha logo ke paas. Toh Parents ko samjana Chahiye ki wo dusro ke baccho ko dekh kar apne baccho par unke jaisa ban ne ka dabav na banaye.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Bhai Pressure aur wo halat jo humare control me na rhein to situations bhut negative ho jaati ha hum bhagne lgte ha cheezon se phase krna to Chodo soch hum paate tk nhi ha bhut disturbances create ho jaate ha ma khud itna sab jhel rha hu sochkr bta nhi skta Mehnat ki iit nit me admission le liya par ye nhi pta tha ki whn jaakr ma hindi medium ka ladka sarkari college se bachelor krne wala whn phuckr kaisa feel krunga jo cheez smjh aa jaaye ek baar me ab to wo bhi 1 baar me smjh nhi aati ha bhut saari smasyaien ha jo har din jhelta hu bs bhagwan par bhrosa ha mera usi par sab kr rha hu chala jaa rhaa hu because I believe in God only God😢
Beta jis age me tum 7th class me the na us age me maine 10th pass kar liya tha.....khud ki trah sabko kamzor mat samjho....
Aaj ke date me bhi 9/10 saal ke aise bachche dekhe hai jo usi age me 10th exam easily pass hi nahi top bhi kar lenge..
Mai bhi ek teacher hi hu bachchon ko bahot hi bariki se pakad leta hu kon hira hai aur kon jira hai.
मेरी मम्मी बोलती है, सरकारी नौकरी लगी तो ठीक वर्ना कोई बात नहीं... खेत हे अपना किसान का बेटा है ऐसे फालतू कदम मत उठाना ❤❤❤❤😢😢 love you mammi
Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy,
It's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way.
Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills.
Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it.
Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only.
It's the Government which should be blamed
जिनके पास ज़मीन ना हो , उसके पास तो कोई ऑप्शन नहीं होता ।
हां खेत बेचकर धंधा करना, सही है तुम्हारी लाइफ सेट है।
Aur bhi chiz h bhai gov job nahi legi to khhate k elawa aur bhi chiz h😅, 30 year tak gov job try useke baad bhi aur chiz h
Fir to tum ab pdhte hi nhi hogi
We lived in the same PG.
He was a sweet and decent kid!
To usne kbhi kuch apse share nhi kra kya?
@@laxitarajchouhan8664nhi kr pate h log kisi se bhi share💔😓
Yes please tell ?
@@xyz7511soja bhai😢🙂
😔🙏
IT'S SHAMEFUL WHY INDIA CANNOT PROVIDE GOOD EDUCATION TO EVERY ONE WHY ONLY 10,000 PEOPLE. Vote educated people who works on making education system better.
Vote de kar bhi dekh lo largest population in the world me har kisi ko job nahi provide Kara paigi government
Skilled based education chaiye
Good education mil rhi h bhai compiition hi bohot jyada h online lo sasti and best education main baat ye h maa baap ke pass jyada paise nhi h isiliye vo Apne baccho Ko padhai ke alava kuch nhi karvana chahate
उसने स्पष्ट बोला है की वो पढ़ाई नही करता था घरवालो से झूठ बोलता था, सारा दिन मोबाइल देखता था,
इसमें एजुकेशन सिस्टम का क्या दोष है ?
@@nikku5423it's because ur made to think so as government made the propaganda out of it as they
Naach naa aave to aangan tedha
@@lakshyasharma3826Rising Unemployment and wealth disparity has forced majority parents to choose from only few options.
Kudos to Government by reducing the population this way..
Masterstroke by NodiJi..
आज फिर रैंचो की बात याद आ गई
😢😢😢
Kya kaha tha lencho ne
All is well
@@Unknownaspirants-v1usne kaha tha ki ye suicide nhi murder hai jab drone wale student ne suicide Kiya tha college me
@@Unknownaspirants-v1 lencho said that the people in the post office were a bunch of crooks..
Movie name plz
पहले का क्या ही दौर था - पहले के बच्चें पढ़ते थे, खेलते थे, मस्ती करते थे, अच्छे से जॉब भी पा जाते थे।।।
लेकिन अब के ज़माने में - कंपटीशन भरी दुनिया में पढ़ाई मानो कितनी मासूमों की जान ले रही बच्चा अपने कबलियत के हिसाब से nhi padh paa rha isi तनाव के कारण सुसाइड की ओर जा रहे ।।।। हमें सरकार से यही मांग है प्लीज एजुकेशन सिस्टम pe dhyan de baccho ka us type ka environment create ho taki use padhai padhai lge depression jaise cheezen nhi।।।।।😢
Wahi zindagi achhi thi ...
And nowadays, students are so caught up in competition of getting IIT and Medical seats that very less of them get the fun of studying and their passion
Yes me aap ki baat se sahmat hu ❤
Aur bhai एक ये आरक्षण general walo ki to 😢
No vote bjp bhai
UPSC करने वाले बच्चे जो मुकरजीनगर और ओल्ड राजेंद्रनगर रहते है वे सब ग्रेजुएट पोस्टग्रेजुएट होते है वे मैच्योर है है उनकी उम्र लगभग 22- 25 साल होती इसलिए वह ऐसी घटना बहोत कम देखने को मिलती है ....कोटा में बच्चे 16- 20 की उम्र वाले होते न वे इतने समझदार नही होते इसीलिए वहा ऐसी घटना देखने को मिलती रहती है .....
भगवान इस बच्चे की आत्मा को शांति दे 😢❤
Right 👍
Yy😊
Bilkul
I can understand the pressure because i am also a student of class 12 and preparing for NEET 😊
Sabse badhiya Ghar pe reh ke Online class kren aur sbb ke sath khusi khusi se aapne goal ko achieve karen......😊
UPSC ka trend sirf UP and bihar mai hai unlike jee or neet
Guys i also prepared for jee and despite putting in two years of JEE prep and taking a gap year, my scores weren't great. My board exam results were disappointing too. It felt like everyone was against me, and I struggled with depression and anxiety for six months. There were times when I felt like giving up, but something inside me kept me going.
I enreolled in a tier 3 college and now, as I'm about to graduate, I have some amazing job offers in hand, ones that even some IITians would envy.Through all of this, I've learned that tough times don't last forever. Every setback has made me stronger. No matter how tough things get, there's always a way forward.
So to anyone going through a rough patch, plz hang in there, believe in yourself, and keep pushing forward. Things will get better, and you'll come out stronger on the other side..
@Anonymous-ue7vp hi mate I graduated from IIT Delhi in 2000.
Trust me college is important only UpTo an extent .
If you want to achieve what we need is motivation and focus.
So try with full heart 2 years and may be at most 1 gap Year.
If do not get admission move on to next avaible college.
This is where life starts, focus on learning don't leave it to guesess and when you come out of college or any college be ready to chase your aims and goals.
Last but not least goals demand motivation
Very good
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@jeeaspirants9984same question
Baçhho ke uper apni upakesye na lado🙏🙏
I also lost my cousin sister last month she is juts 19
Kb smjhenge log ki bacha v presan hota kewal parents nhi😢
That's very sad ...
Ladkio ko atleast ni karni chaiye. Life set hojati hain shaadi kar. But not for boys.
@@cryptoboi9584 sahi kaha ladko ki to shadi hogi bhi ya nhi ye bhi ek problem hai ( out of topic hai par problem toh hai )
Aur family ka bhi bohot pressure hota hai ladko ko ki unki financial responsibility bhi unhi par he bhale koi koi family jyada bol kar na dikhaye iss baat ko par woh pressure bhi hota hai ....
Mere neighbours ke vaha bhi eklauti girl thi, aur vo Kota me NEET ke liye prepare kar rhi thi, but sadly She Suicided 1 saal pehle ki baat hai ye, tab vo 12th me thi
Ladkiyon par bhi bahut pressure hai .. pta nahi kis dunia mein log ji rahe hai..aajkal ladkiyan bhi career aur job ka sochti hai . parents unpar bhi ladko ke barabar paisa lgate hai .. unse bhi ummide rakhte hai..vo time gya ki ladki ki shadi ho gyi aur baat khatam..aajkal ladke bhi well educated aur professional ladki chahte hai.. sabse pahle puchte hai ki ladki ki job kya hai aur kitna package hai.. aur ladkiyan khud ke liye aware ho gyi hai
प्रशासन मंत्री की भैस क़ो ढूंढ़ लेती पर वो तो किसी साधारण मा बाप का हीरा था जिसकी बाजार मे कोई कीमत नहीं 😭😭🙏🙏
600 rupee thi bhai ki kimat
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माँ बाप को भी ये समझना पड़ेगा कि बच्चे आपसे मन की बात क्यों नहीं कह पा रहे हैं। 😞
Unhe to keval government job chahiye or kehna kya hi hai
@thezoldics7648lol
@thezoldics7648you are totally wrong bro, this is not solution 😡😡
@@singhaditya7709jab dimag kabu se bahar ho tab kya kare kya na kare pata nahi chalta
@thezoldics7648 Abe yha bakwas mat Kar agar Kisi Ka padai me Man nhi ha toh chahe Tu use Kitna bhi samjale ya tu us se android phone hi kyu na chin le woh fir bhi padai nhi karega padai ke alava aur Kuch bhi Kar lega par padai nhi karega. pura din yu hi gumta firta nikal lega. Jisko science ki itni heavy padai acchi nhi lagti Woh nhi Kar sakta esi padai. Ma -baap ko samjna Chahiye ki IIT aur UPSC se bhi alag bhot Kuch ha life me karne ko. Hardik Pandya 9th class dropout ha aur Virat Kohli bhi 10th pass ha bas. Bade bade bussinessman jese Ambani aur Adani bhi jayda pade likhe nhi ha.
Jaruri nhi jo padai me accha ho wo hi successful ban sakta ha ya jaruri nhi ha ki paisa kamane ki liye sirf IIT aur UPSC yhi do option ha India me. In dono se alag bhi bohot option ha logo ke paas. Toh Parents ko samjana Chahiye ki wo dusro ke baccho ko dekh kar apne baccho par unke jaisa ban ne ka dabav na banaye.
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I can't explain what I m feeling right now, this is really Very Heart-melting... Puri life or family ko tyag kr aspirants jindagi se muh mod le rhe hain
ये बहुत दर्दनाक है, माता पिता बच्चों से उनकी क्षमताओं से ज्यादा उम्मींद रखते हैं, और जब बच्चे उनकी अपेक्षाओं पर खरे नहीं उतर पाते तो बच्चों को लगने लगता है कि जान देना ही आखिरी उपाय है 😢
माता पिता से निवेदन है कि बच्चों पर अपनी आशाओं को मत थोपो, जो बच्चों को सही लगे वो ही करने दो.
@ashutoshkr1367 best👍💯
Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy, it's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way.
Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills,
Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it.
Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only.
It's the Government which should be blamed.
@@EvergreenConsultancydo merriage or child if people are financially strong so they can support their children financially other wise don't do it iit's my humble request leave a lonely life rither bringing a child in this world and make his life a helll and don't expect gov they do something ....
@ashutoshkr1367sahi kaha parents ka parents ki bhi galti hai yaha
@ashutoshkr1367yha p galti k baat nhi ho rhe kiski h kiski nhi parents ko bacho p apne sapne nhi ladne caheye har bacha ek sa nhi hota h bache ko shi rasta hmesa dekhana caheye par inna v pressure na de k bache mental presan ho jaye or ese glt decision le
अभी तो खेल शुरू हुआ है। इस बच्चे की जान चार कारणों से गई है।
1 देखी देखा वाली दौड़।
2 माता पिता का गैर जिम्मेदारना व्यवहार।
3 हमारी अव्यवस्थित तरीके कि शिक्षा व्यवस्था।
4 समाज के अंदर तार्किक विचारधारा की कमी।
कम से कम हमारी सरकार को हर एक school's cocing's और college's में एक free Mental Health Department तो बनवा ही देना चाहिए। बच्चों के ऊपर कितना मानसिक दबाव रहता है। आत्महत्या करना हलवा खाने जैसा आसान काम नहीं होता। कितना दबाव और कितनी तनावग्रस्त स्थिति हो जाती है। समाज, माता पिता और सरकार तीनों लोगों को गंभीरता पूर्ण तरीके से इस मुद्दे पहल करनी होगी।
And teachers ko bhi
Sarkar ke bharose na raho aap bhi bahut ke sister ya brother, teacher hoge to aapki responsibility hai ki aap unhe samjhao
@@MrigankaYadavwo bas aise hi bol rhe hai ki sarkar ke bharose mat raho ... Tumne to baat pakad li it's so stressful i think u r so stressed
Education system me sahi guidance nhi mil pata specially govt school me
I agree 💯
I am also a student studying in kota and this type of news is common for us to listen .
It is like a routine for us.
True
Sad reality though
Khi next number tumhara na ho🚩
@@amitpandey5527yee yeddaa🤬
It's shocking 😐
mera beta 1 year ka hai...and jo problems maine face ki hai....society pressure ko le kar.......main kabhi bhi koi bhi pressure nahi aane dunga.......mere bhatije bhi hai...unko bhi es condition se bachaunga
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Bhai sahab bolna asan h karna aur hona bhut muskil h
U r great sir... ❤❤❤
🙏😔
Apni experience bi sajha karna duniya kse h or aage kaise saamma krna h, ✌✌
Bhagwaan bachhe ki aatma ko shanti de.. hridayvidarak...🙏🙏🙏
Nhi koi shanti dene k jrurat nhi hai, uski aatma bhatkni chahiye and nark me jana chahiye, suicide se bda pap koi nhi hai ab to Mr gya na ab sadega nark me agar jinda rhta to kuch bhi kr leta aur maa baap ko bhi koi shaanti nhi milni chahiye zindgi bhr pachtaane chahiye. Taki baki log seekh le sake
@@vivekpandagre3763 truly agreed
Apne ma bap ki aatma ko ashant kar k gya hai.Kaise milegi shanti.Kayro ki aatma ko kabhi shanti nahi milti.
Pehli baat parents ko friendly bankar rehna chahiye theeke unse itni umeed nhi lagani chahiye ki kar lega agr gf ke chakkar mai karta toh samajh aata ki sadega marega har ek ko jeene ka haq tumhare iraado pr koi nhi chl sakta
@@varinderSingh-co3xp
Kya log ho tum. Sach me kabhi exam ka pressure nhi dekha shayad . Aur exam ala chij hui agar mom dad aur jyada expectation laga baithe ho to aur depression hota he . Kuch nhi pata ho to bura to mat socho
I am also a NEET aspirant and I must tell that students at my age like below 20 are not mature enough to handle this cut throat competition. Only a parent can understand their children if he or she can take this pressure. They must always motivate their children to share with them the entire journey and if they can't run in this rat race then without any hesitance parents must allow and guide any other alternative for student. Our main motive in our short span of life is to remain happy and keep others happy then what is the point to force someone do thing which someone has no interest on?. Engineering and doctor and IAS are not only people working there and being happy their entire lifetime....hundreds of other opportunities are also present...Remember mates you are not lost until your last breath, stay strong and give your best, if you succeed then it's nice but if you fail don't worry more opportunities will knock at your door....just stay happy and keep others happy!
তোর বয়স কত?? আমার ৩৩ বছর।
Beautiful thing to say🤍 coaching centers r scam they push students to score as high as possible and poor students follow them:(
Students need to understand that (stop focusing on scorring full marks) if the highest mark is low then cut off will be low..so if every single student stop studying like all day and participate in other activities and enjoy life then the cut off will be very low and the ones who study like 4-5 hours/ 6hours max daily will be able to clear the exam...now the problem is the only thing these students do is study all day or think about studies all day..that's unhealthy for brain. It's a big scam where gov. is also engaged(lower post workers- Which r corrupt). The only thing to realize by everyone is "U got this Life once and don't let anyone (these scammers or corrupt ppl) take it from you and make the best out of every situation in Life, death is not a solution to a problem"
Ps- "not saying that don't study, just maintain balance in Life, anything in excess is bad" and "only compete with your past self"
@@bunny19-xk5mj well said
Jada hi English ho gya😢
@@Barkhachaturvedi-nh2tf He may be from CBSE/ICSE board.
My mom raised a soilder and I never bow down to anything I will face every hardship in my life and be a great human being.
Right bro your mom definitely raised a soldier your spirit is amazing
Kisi ko marne ka shok ni hota or teri mom ne kiya akele pala posha h tujhe 😒
@@akahsanagurjar35If you don't like ppls comment then don't reply them either being violent to them..anger issues kahi or dikhaya kr
@@systumhai8150 yai pura reply jo tune kiya y pura tere pr fit bethta hai 😂😂
100 reasons to stay alive:
1. to make your parents proud
2. to conquer your fears
3. to see your family again
4. to see your favourite artist live
5. to listen to music again
6. to experience a new culture
7. to make new friends
8. to inspire
9. to have your own children
10. to adopt your own pet
11. to make yourself proud
12. to meet your idols
13. to laugh until you cry
14. to feel tears of happiness
15. to eat your favorite food
16. to see your siblings grow
17. to pass school
18. to get photo chips
19. to smile until your cheeks hurt
20. to meet your internet friends
21. to find someone who loves you like you deserve
22. to eat ice cream on a hot day
23. to drink hot chocolate on a cold day
24. to see untouched snow in the morning
25. to see a sunset that sets the sky on fire
26. to see stars light up the sky
27. to read a book that changes your life
28. to see the flowers in the spring
29. to see the leaves change from green to brown
30. to travel abroad
31. to learn a new language
32. to learn to draw
33. to tell others your story in the hopes of helping them
34. Puppy kisses.
35. Baby kisses (the open mouthed kind when they smack their lips on your cheek).
36. Swear words and the release you feel when you say them.
37. Trampolines.
38. Ice cream.
39. Stargazing.
40. Morning walk.
41. Taking a shower and then sleeping in clean sheets.
42. Receiving thoughtful gifts.
43. “I saw this and thought of you."
44. The feeling you get when someone you love says, “I love you."
45. The relief you feel after crying.
46. Sunshine.
47. The feeling you get when someone is listening to you/giving you their full attention.
48. Your future wedding.
49. Your favorite candy bar.
50. New clothes.
51. The first Love in life.
52. Really good bread.
53. Holding your child in your arms for the first time.
54. Completing a milestone (aka going to college, graduating college, getting married, getting your dream job.)
55. The kind of dreams where you wake up and can’t stop smiling.
56. The smell before and after it rains
57. The sound of rain against a rooftop.
58. The feeling you get when you’re dancing.
59. The person (or people) that mean the most to you. Stay alive for them.
60. Trying out new recipes.
61. The feeling you get when your favorite song comes on the radio.
62. The rush you get when you step onto a stage.
63. You have to share your voice and talents and knowledge with the world because they are so valuable.
64.Breakfast in bed.
65. Getting a middle seat in the movie theater.
66. Breakfast for dinner (because it’s so much better at night than in the morning).
67. Pray (if you are religious)
68. Forgiveness.
69. Water balloon fights.
70. New books by your favorite authors.
71. Fire works on New year.
72. Birthdays.
73. Realizing that someone loves you.
74. Spending the day with someone you
75. Opportunity to create meaningful and lasting relationships.
76. Joy and happiness in the little things.
77. Potential to learn, grow, and evolve as a person.
78. The power to inspire others.
79. The ability to create art, music, and other forms of self-expression.
80. Explore different cultures, traditions, and ways of life.
81. Thunderstorms.
82. Experience the joys of parenthood and raise a family.
83. Walking in Rain.
84. Spontaneous adventures.
85. Being wrapped up in a warm bed.
86. First day at gym.
87. Holding hands.
88. The kind of hugs when you can feel a weight being lifted off your shoulders. The kind of hug where your breath syncs with the other person’s, and you feel like the only two people in the world.
89. Singing off key with your best friends.
90. Road trips.
91. The taste of your favorite food.
92. The feeling of sand beneath your toes.
93. The feeling when the first ocean wave rolls up and envelops your toes and ankles and knees.
94. Make a positive impact on the environment and help protect the planet.
95. Cloud watching.
96. Walking at night under the shadow of stars.
97. The Pleasant breeze at sea side.
98. The day when everything finally goes your way.
99. Compliments and praise.
100. to look on this moment in 10 years time and realize you did it.
Ps : Never forget you are a beautiful person 💕 Life is so beautiful so live, live like no one else exist, live for yourself, don't care of bad people, you are strong, May God Blessed you all ☺
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Aur bhi 100 mil jaenge agar khojna start karoge toh.....
U saved me, screenshotting this thanks
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Ye suicide nhi murder hai .... good job indian Education System
He literally said ki uska padhai me man nahi lagta tha or vo bas phone chalana chahta tha! Isme Indian education system ki galti nahi uske maa baap ki galti hai jinhone uspe itni badi zimedari sopi!
@@anukriti_ehhexactly, people preparing for jee need a strong heart and dedication..
Parents responsible.
@@anukriti_ehh bilkul system ki galti hai kyu education system mai usse pressure handling nhi sikhayi gyi
His father seems very much sensible and open minded person.he is young too and of modern generation then don't know why Rachit is getting problem in communicating with his Father.before taking any such steps the children must think about their families
Sab kand ho jane par Sabhi father ese hi bolte hai.😮
are bhai hawabaji me gya hoga kota taiyariii krne fir mauj msti me lag gya to fir jhuth bolega to ka hoga
Yes. It's heartbreaking and immense pain to the family. But we can't blame him, maybe he was not in the right condition of the mind.
modern generation!??. yeh kya bawasir hai bhai
Main problem is these so called coaching industry govt should ban all coaching
There's something wrong with how Parents are raising their children. I am blessed that I had parents who were really good at communicating things with us and were always there for us.
Sorry for your loss. Must be very painful.
@@sudhakar7889 Bro what
@@sambhajibodkhe1499 he used had and were
@@sambhajibodkhe1499 past tense mein likha hai "were" matlab tha
They compare kids with other relative kids hoe much they are earning or doing
ऐसी घटना तो लगता है हर दिन सुनने को मिलता है कोटा से 😢😢बहुत दर्दनाक घटना है
मंज़िल तो तुम्हारी यही थी बस...
जिंदगी गुजर गयी आते आते...
क्या मिला इस दुनिया से तुझे..
अपनों ने जला दिया जाते जाते 😢😢
Yaha musayra nahi ho raha hai
@@rajuprasad6512 haan...aur teri ammi aur behan mujra v kr rhi hai🙄🙄
Lekin sch hai @@rajuprasad6512
@@rajuprasad6512😂😂😂😂
हर पतंग को एक दिन कचरे के ढेर में जाना होता है लेकिन उससे पहले उसको आसमान छू के दिखाना होता है.....
16 -17 or even 18 year old student is not that mentally mature for extensive pressure, i think they should prepare for such competative exam online from their residence in presence of their parents.
Rising Unemployment and wealth disparity has forced majority parents to choose from only few options.
Kudos to Government by reducing the population this way..
Masterstroke by NodiJi..
@@EvergreenConsultancyagr population kam bhi ho to kya padhai ka pressure kam ho jayega?
@@EvergreenConsultancy😂🎉😢😢
@@नरेंद्र_मोडी_चायवाले it's not the Population which ur fed to think in that way..
It's government, as
Naach naa aave to aangan tedha
Surveero ki dharti prr kayar janm lene lgg gye 😢 itna v bda kaand nhi tha ki sucide krne ki nobat aa jaye ek baar bol deta ghr pr nhi mn lg rha padhne me kahi or lgba dete nokri jindgi bhar maa baap ko kast dekr chla gya
Hi.. Students This is Amit i went Kota in 9th class for IIT but i didn't get it, but i took private college,now i am im I.T company and also i am following my passion too
So please jaisa chal raha hai chalne do ye waqt bi guzar jaaega❤😊
Yrr mai ek khudd neet ka student hun bahut pressure or tension hota hai😢😢😢😢😢
Online coaching is best for a sincere and well disciplined student...no offline coaching needed. Ghr me reh ke kam paiso me aram se pdh skte hain..and pressure bhi feel nhi hota!🙂
*Well disciplined and sincere students* sbke liye Naa bol rhi ....Jo procrastinators hote h wo kisi bhi mode se nhi pdh skte....
And Maine ye specially un students k liye bola Jo ye soch ke dipressed rehte ki rank Naa aayi to parents ke paise bekar jaenge 🙂
You are lucky ki ghar par aaram se padhai ho pa rahi hai
True@@Khushi32405
bullshit
Ye online wali bakchodi sabke liye nhi hoti bas kuch hine chune log hi kr paate hai
Online is good but there must be limitation to no. of students like Max 30-40...
Else there would be disturbance.
When I was in Kota during 2017-18 I went through the same phase but being single child of the parents I convinced myself and came out of it looking at the responsibility of life especially mata pita.... Although it was very difficult but now I'm very happy that I didn't do such harsh thing and currently I'm doing good in life
Hey Kid, Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy,
It's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way.
Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills.
Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it.
Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only.
It's the Government which should be blamed
Good 👍
@@EvergreenConsultancy Tumhare hisaab se konsi govt best hai phir? Aur practical answer dena thoda
@@a6hijeet darasal indirectly ye modi ko keh raha hai, I think owaisi brothers have University in Hyderabad,go there he helpout from this govt policies.
Bro I m also a single child preparing for neet with no interest in it.. so want to know what did u do later on...
I imagine that scene when his father hug tightly after seeing his part of soul 😢😢 that's remind him all life journey sad to think but its true🙏
Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy,
It's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way.
Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills.
Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it.
Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only.
It's the Government which should be blamed
I agreee with your all points except top5% has 60 % wealth.because my father is also cheif manager in pnb and have good life but i also hve to give neet this year. The problem is mentality of parents to tell in public that there child is more successful then yours@@EvergreenConsultancy
👉Tum kaise officer ho forest main jane se darate ho 😡😡 sharm aani chahiye 😡😡 hamari India ka force itana kamjor to nahin 😢
You are right bhai
@@RanjeetYadav-zz4dh ❤❤❤
यह जंगल नहीं है भाई, मैं कोटा का निवासी हूं, यह एक बाघ अभयारण्य है। वहां लगभग 4 -5 बाघ, 20 तेंदुए और कई अन्य जंगली जानवर हैं। पिता को वन अधिकारियों से मदद मांगनी चाहिए थी Iहालाँकि, अगर पुलिस वाले मदद नहीं करना चाहते थे तो पुलिस को उन्हें वन अधिकारियों से बात करने में भी मदद करनी चाहिए थीI
Engineer aur doctor ke alwa bhi duniya hai bhai... bahat ucha aur acha kaam hai... sar utha ke jio
Right 👍
ये बच्चा हमारे राजगढ़ जिले के ब्यावरा विधानसभा के सुठालिया तहसील के गांव का रहने वाला है,
बच्चा मात्र 16 वर्ष का था
बहुत बुरा हुआ😢 ,
थोड़ी खबर ये भी है की बच्चा ऑनलाइन गेमिंग का भी शिकार था
सरकार को इसकी जांच करवाकर ऑनलाइन गेमिंग एप या साइट्स पर कार्यवाही करवानी चाइए
Ye online gaming ne india ko barbad kr rkha mai bhi 1 saal waste Kia hu aur apne ma bap ki saving bhi . Maine himmat krke apne mata pita ko bataya maa ki aankho me aasu aa gye
Ye jindgi mere mata pita kee hai ise se jee rha huehnat kr rha hu❤
Education system ❌ dipression system ✅😔😔😐
Depression ke ese spelling likhne walo ki depression hona lazmi hain
@@dipannitasaha5317 tabhi to tummhare jaise kitne teachers hamko thik se nahi padhate aur berozgaar baithe ho spelling mistake hone ki baat kar rahe ho
isliye chor diya stady maine 12th ke baad😢😢
Ye video har parents ko dekhni chahiye ☹️💔 may he is rest in peace 💐😞 agar bache ko pressure or burden handel nahi hota to koi bhi kadam lene se pehele apne parents,teachers or friends ko share zarur kare apke is kadam se mata pita ko jo darad sehna padega vo ap jan bhi nahi sakte
Physics, Chemistry, maths can be sometime
Pagal, crazy, mental 🙂
It's so heartbreaking 😭💔
I am a former MARCOS and request all parents to motivate your children to participate in sports, which will make strong mental status and strong mental status will reduce such kind of incidents because no parents can shadow their kids all the time. Thanks
दुःख की बात ये है की जब sport में participate करना होता है तब का सारा समय बेकार कि चीजों के पीछे भागने में चला जाता है
another wrong advice. parents bs suggest krna chahiye na ki thopna chahiye. bachcho ko options dena chahiye aur kabhi nhi bolna chahiye bachcho ki apne parents naam roshan kro isse wo aur pressure me aa jate h.
Paani mei rhte hai naa marcos to?😁
The problem is that also, during schooling, some of the children could not get proper education, if they are from government or common schools, but some of the other who have proper facilities and guidance from the childhood, unhe competition thoda aasan rhte, bcs they are preparing from years. Or hm seedhe competition m utr jate hain😢😢
I agree
Yes I too agree....poor primary and junior education leads to this extreme pressure and teachers in kota are not very humble if you ask them any doubt even if it was of the previous topic
Here are some ways to live life to the fullest:
1. Practice gratitude daily.
2. Pursue your passions relentlessly.
3. Embrace failure as a learning opportunity.
4. Cultivate meaningful relationships.
5. Stay curious and never stop learning.
6. Travel and explore new places.
7. Volunteer and give back to your community.
8. Live in the present moment.
9. Take care of your physical health through exercise and proper nutrition.
10. Nurture your mental health through mindfulness and self-care.
11. Set goals and work towards achieving them.
12. Be kind and compassionate towards yourself and others.
13. Surround yourself with positivity.
14. Embrace change and adaptability.
15. Spend time in nature and appreciate its beauty.
16. Find joy in the little things.
17. Practice forgiveness and let go of grudges.
18. Be open-minded and embrace diversity.
19. Express yourself creatively.
20. Take risks and step out of your comfort zone.
21. Laugh often and don't take life too seriously.
22. Practice meditation and mindfulness.
23. Prioritize experiences over material possessions.
24. Face your fears and overcome them.
25. Live with integrity and stay true to your values.
26. Foster a sense of purpose and meaning in your life.
27. Show appreciation for the people you love.
28. Be authentic and true to yourself.
29. Cultivate resilience in the face of adversity.
30. Celebrate your successes, no matter how small.
31. Practice self-reflection and introspection.
32. Learn to say no and set boundaries.
33. Find balance in all aspects of your life.
34. Take time to rest and recharge.
35. Seek out new challenges and opportunities for growth.
36. Embrace your uniqueness and celebrate individuality.
37. Stay connected to your inner child and maintain a sense of wonder.
38. Foster a sense of belonging in your communities.
39. Practice empathy and compassion towards others.
40. Continuously strive for self-improvement.
41. Be mindful of your environmental impact and live sustainably.
42. Stay humble and maintain a beginner's mindset.
43. Practice active listening and seek to understand others.
44. Take responsibility for your actions and choices.
45. Find beauty in diversity and embrace multiculturalism.
46. Be open to new experiences and perspectives.
47. Cultivate inner peace and tranquility.
48. Find purpose in serving others.
49. Be generous with your time, resources, and love.
50. Foster a sense of wonder and curiosity about the world.
51. Practice humility and gratitude in all circumstances.
52. Stay connected to your spiritual beliefs and practices.
53. Live authentically and embrace your true self.
54. Practice patience and tolerance towards others.
55. Cultivate a sense of humor and don't take life too seriously.
56. Be present in each moment and savor life's experiences.
57. Take time to disconnect from technology and connect with nature.
58. Find joy in the simple pleasures of life.
59. Live with intention and purpose.
60. Practice forgiveness, both towards yourself and others.
61. Stay true to your values and beliefs.
62. Embrace uncertainty and see it as an opportunity for growth.
63. Cultivate a sense of wonder and awe for the world around you.
64. Stay curious and never stop learning.
65. Make time for hobbies and activities that bring you joy.
66. Surround yourself with positive influences and supportive relationships.
67. Practice self-care and prioritize your well-being.
68. Set boundaries and learn to say no when necessary.
69. Be open to new experiences and opportunities.
70. Take risks and embrace failure as a learning opportunity.
71. Show compassion and kindness towards yourself and others.
72. Practice gratitude daily and focus on the blessings in your life.
73. Find purpose and meaning in your work and relationships.
74. Cultivate resilience and bounce back from setbacks.
75. Live with authenticity and integrity.
76. Stay true to yourself and your values.
77. Foster a sense of connection and belonging in your communities.
78. Be mindful of your impact on the world around you.
79. Practice empathy and understanding towards others.
80. Seek out adventure and embrace new experiences.
81. Take time to reflect on your experiences and learn from them.
82. Surround yourself with positivity and optimism.
83. Show appreciation for the people in your life.
84. Practice mindfulness and be present in each moment.
85. Find joy in the little things and savor life's simple pleasures.
86. Cultivate a sense of wonder and curiosity about the world.
87. Be open to new perspectives and ideas.
88. Pursue your passions and interests wholeheartedly.
89. Take care of your physical and mental well-being.
90. Prioritize relationships and connections with others.
91. Practice gratitude and focus on the positives in your life.
92. Embrace challenges and see them as opportunities for growth.
93. Live with purpose and intention.
94. Show kindness and compassion towards yourself and others.
95. Find balance in all areas of your life.
96. Stay true to your values and beliefs.
97. Embrace change and adaptability.
98. Cultivate a sense of resilience and perseverance.
99. Practice self-love and acceptance.
100. Live with joy and enthusiasm for each day.
Very very sad! Om Shanti🙏
Nhi koi shanti dene k jrurat nhi hai, uski aatma bhatkni chahiye and nark me jana chahiye, suicide se bda pap koi nhi hai ab to Mr gya na ab sadega nark me agar jinda rhta to kuch bhi kr leta aur maa baap ko bhi koi shaanti nhi milni chahiye zindgi bhr pachtaane chahiye. Taki baki log seekh le sake
mahakal unki aatma ko shanti de.......
Hum smj skte hai ki vo kitna depression m hua hai because I am also a neet aspirant 😭
@@Vivek6767vk it's sis and all the best 🙂
kitno ko Shanti dogi di 😭
🥺.... ❤️🩹🖤 Dear... ....ese mai us ladke ki kya galti hai ese mai to us ke mummy papa ki galti hai
The pain in his father’s voice…at the end when he said humara beta mil Gaya was so heartbreaking 💔
UnEk advise 10th 12th , dropper sbke liye jo kota aane wale hain ya aana chahte hain ..(mein bhi kota mein hoon abhi)
Kota me padhai ka pressure to rhega kyuki class me kitne toppers hote hain unke beech rehke khud pr kaam krna muskil hota hai, upr se yaha ki bheed bhaad , mehnge hostels, mehngi coaching or papa ka itna paisa lgta hai or fir test marks nhi aate to hm students ka dimaag positivity se jyada negativity ki side chala jata hai , hm depress hone lgte hai .. upr se mess ka ganda khana ,jisse bacche beemar bhi hote hain... Bhot paise kharch or kuch bhi dhang ka na mile to bachho ko padhai se jyada papa ke paise ki chinta hone lgti hai... Ye itni saari baaton ka hm apne upr pressure bna lete hai ,
Ab jb paise lg hi gy hain to chinta krne se to wapas aayenge nhi isse acha hai ki hmare pass jo time hai usko utilise kre or km se km time ka to sahi se use krna seekh lein..
As your senior, agr ap emotional strong hain or hr chhoti chhoti baat pr rote nhi hai , tension nhi lete or pressure nhi lete yo ap kota jrur aaye...but wo bachche jo apne ghar se , mummy papa se door kbhi nhi rhe wo bachche thoda dhyan rakhe , itna serious nhi hona hota life me ,sb ho jata hai ,sb ho jayega ,faltu tension nhi paalni hoti .. hmara krtavya hai ki hm apni trf se honesty se padhein , jruri nhi hai ki tum topper nhi ho marks km aate hain to tum bekaar ho ,aise nhi hota ,kai baar kaafi cheeze hme ek lesson dena ke liye bhi hoti hain, tumhara selection ho ya na ho sbse pehle tum mayne rakhte ho mummy papa ke liye , galtiyan ho jaay to mummy papa ko btao or sorry bolo, jyada regret nhi krna bss ek baar firse restart kr dena padhai ke liye... Bhot jyada expectations mt rakhna khud se .. jo hoga behtar hoga , nhi hoga to hm usko achha bnayenge zindagi bhot badi hai ,apni soch itni chhoti mt bna lena ki jee ,neet hi sb kuch hai ,kota aana hai but yaha se kuch hardwork wale golden pal sath lekr jaana hai .. kota aakr zindagi khtm nhi hoti yaha se to experience milega.
Thanku for guiding like an elder sister r❤ aap biht smjhdar ho behn
Thank you aap ne bahut sahi kha bahan
Thank you thank you so much Di I really need this 💖
Lesson for every parents 🌹 Rip
आत्महत्या किसी चीज का हल नहीं है बल्कि आगामी समय का वो दर्द है जिसका एहसास आत्महत्या करने वाले को नही बल्कि उसके परिवार वालों को होता है।
Right
Aatmahatya jindabaad
आत्महत्या किसी चीज का हल नहीं है सर ये सही बात है पर जीवन का कोई कोई मोड़ ऐसा आता है जिस समय जीवन से अच्छा मौत लगती है😢😢
भाई जिस पर बितता है उसी को मालूम चलता है
It’s not about parents, parents also have the pressure of society.
What is society?? Its nothing bro !
Bol to ese rha hai jese society de rhe the tere bche k palne se padne ka pesa. Sbkuch jb vo apne ghr se kr rha hai to society ka kya mtlb bna murkh insaan konsa society vale bhot khush hai apni life Mai unhe to bs moka chie bolne ka or inmai hi unki life kat jati hai
Dude what???
Society is formed by parents only.
Society ki aisi ki taisi. Society kya khoya hua baccha wapis kar degi?
कड़वा है पर सत्या है ऐसी घटनाओं का ज़िमेदार पैरेंट्स की अपनी अपेक्षा थोपना है..! 😢💔
Galat bat
yrr jitna apeksha parents nahi karte utna bacha maan leta hai
sabka karan sirf ek hi hai aur vo hai aaj kal bahut hi jyada distracions badh gye hai hai resources ke sath
Acha tu jyada samajhdaar hai
इसमें बच्चे की क्या गलती है शाहब इसमें समाज और मां बाप और कोचिंग इंडस्ट्री की वजह से हो रहा है 😢😢
🙌
Ma-Bap ko pata hona chahiye ki Mera beta kya lar rha he,
Sahi kaha aapne
life bhi kitni ajib h jisko padhne ka mn hota h wo padh nhi pata or jiska mn nhi hota h usse sab force karte hai
F#ck education system 😑
fuck pressurizing parents😐
@@ketansingh7482lmao well said 👏
Not the education system its the upbringing, parenting and situations
उसने स्पष्ट बोला है की वो पढ़ाई नही करता था घरवालो से झूठ बोलता था, सारा दिन मोबाइल देखता था,
इसमें एजुकेशन सिस्टम का क्या दोष है ?
@@ketansingh7482Rising Unemployment and wealth disparity has forced majority parents to choose from only few options.
Kudos to Government by reducing the population this way..
Masterstroke by NodiJi..
मैं हर एक पेरेंट्स को यही कहूंगा कि जो अपने बच्चों को कोटा में पढ़ना चाहते हैं एक बार बच्चों को कोटा में bhagnae से पहले जरूर देख ले यहां का माहौल कितना कितना खराब है
Obviously yes jisko jo shi lage vo kro yrr jaan mt lo khud ki aage peeche bhi bhut se log hote hai trying to do best everyday in this life there is a lots of struggle but u have to prove how heal with it bzc you are not come to this far to lose you are a winner dost ❤
Ye ummeed ye bharosha ye expectations -- acche bujurg pura nahi kar paate hum baccho pe ye ummeedon ka pahadh khadha kar hum unse kya Ummeed karna chahte hain. I literally cried hearing this 😔😔😔
राजगढ़ इंदौर का लड़का है मे इसे जानता हूँ 😔🙏 भगवान रचित की आत्मा को शांति दे
तुम कितने साल के हो भाई
Kaisa Ladka tha bhai Padhai me Man nahi lagta hai To Q Bhejta hai
Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy,
It's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way.
Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills.
Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it.
Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only.
It's the Government which should be blamed
मेरे गांव के पास का ही है मरा हुआ मिला है पुलिस को
अरे उस वक्त मैंने इसे कूदते हुए देखा था पर मेरे चिल्लाने से पहले वो कूद चुका था।
He bhagwaan😢😢😢😢
थु है ऐसे माँ बाप और ऐसे समाज को जो बच्चो को जीने भी नहीं देते😢😡
Dimag kharaf he kya aap logo ka.. Har maa baap chahte hein ki unka bachaa sabse achi education le oor kuch baan jaye.. Jab bacha khud likha he ki main phone ke ilawa kuch nahi janta!!!
Iske baad bhi parents ki galti!! Sharam aani chahiye.. Jo aapke bare mein sabse zyada sochte hein... Unko ese bolte hue
Sharam tujhe ana chahiye 😡🤬 ,, jab baacha padna hi nhi chata toh force kyu karna bas ek acche pakage ke liye ,, kya hoga uss pakage ka aese bhi agar vo apne interest ko follow karta toh aaj bohot bada insaan banata ,, Saari galti maa baap ki hi hoti hai ,, tum mat sikhao 🦍 hame ki duniya kesi hai @@priyadarshinipanda2536
Un bachho me himmat nhi sach btane ke jitne bachho ne suicide kiya unhone bta diya hota to shyd ma baap koi aur rashtra niklte
@@R.k-miri haa vahi ,, but maa baap bhi Kam nhi ,, kyu hamesha aacha pakage ke liye force karte hai ,, asliyat me baccho ka interest miane rakhta hai
😊
भोला बाबा अबोध बालक की आत्मा को शांती दे ओर माँ बाप को ये दर्द सहने की शक्ती दे। हर हर महादेव 😌🙏
काश स्टूडेंट के मन की बात को पेरेंट्स समझ जाए 😢 मां बाप पहले ध्यान नहीं देते हैं बेटे के मरने के बाद उसकी भी आंखे खुल जाती हैं।
मेरा छात्रों से यही निवेदन है कि जब भी रूम लेकर पढ़ाई करे तब अकेले में पढ़ाई न करे साथ में एक दो और छात्रों को भी रखे जिससे आपका अकेलापन और दुख को दूर किया जा सके ।
और पेरेंट्स से यही निवेदन रहेगा वो अपने बच्चो पर किसी भी प्रकार का दबाव न डाले ।
सबसे बड़ा कारण मुझे ये लगता हैं कि जब कोई स्टूडेंट अपने मां बाप से बोलता है की मुझे ये करना है लेकिन बाद मे उसे लगता हैं की नहीं मुझे ये नहीं वो करना था । इसी परिस्थिति में वो अपने पेरेंट्स से कुछ नही कह पाता है उसे लगता हैं की अगर मेने पापा से बोल दिया तो वो सोचेंगे कि ये कुछ नहीं चाहता है केवल पैसे बर्बाद करता है।
मेरे पापा ऐसे हैं कि में कितना भी उदास क्यों न बैठा रहूं लेकिन पापा कभी नहीं बोलते है की बेटा इतना उदास क्यों है। 😢😢
Sach ye hai parents ujadd jaahil hei unki society unka khuda hai
Dukhi mat ho dost to hai na unse share kro aap achche parent bnna aisa mat krna
I am an IITan. And trust me you can achieve anything without having tag of IIT.
Bolna aasan h
Bilkul sahi but ye baate ki IIT crack ho gya to maze hi maze hai ye to teachers hi batate hai..
I'm neet aspirant sab bolte hai ak baar madical college mil jaaye mze hi mze hai..
Bss hum iske aage soch hi nhi paate..
@@Pnmvskrm hm 👍🏻
😢mai bhi IIT ka tayari kar raha hu😢lekin Maine haar nhi mani mai abhi jee advanced ka tayari kar raha hu ,aur mera jee mains me hogayaa hai and now I work hard for jee advanced 😇!!
Ab kya hua aapke jee advanced mein?
पुलिस की जगह सैनिक जबान होते तों बच्चे को जीवित पकड़ लेते दुःख भरा पिता नीचे झाड़ीं में जा सकता तो पुलिस क्यों नहीं जा सकती है यही फर्क है जवान और पुलिस में भगवान् माता पिता को शक्ति दे
Sahi baat hai❤
खूपच दुःखदायक घटना..हृदय पिळवटून निघतं अशा बातम्या ऐकून....कसं काय ही मुलं एवढे मोठे निर्णय घेतात??..एकदा तरी आईवडिलांचा विचार करायचा..खूप वाईट वाटलं...😞त्या मुलाच्या मनात पण नेमकं काय चाललं होतं कसं कळणार..काही मुलं स्वताच्या मनातलं express पण करत नाहीत...आई वडिलांनी मुलांचे मित्र बनून सगळं त्यांच्या मनातलं जाणून घेण आवश्यक आहे..मुलांना कशात interest आहे त्याकडे लक्ष देण गरजेच आहे..मुलांवर आपल्या अपेक्षांच ओझं टाकू नका pls..मुलांना एवढं मोठं करून त्यानंतर त्यांना गमावणं ह्यासारखं एका आई वडिलांसाठी ह्या जगात दुसरं दुःख नाही..मुलांपेक्षा महत्त्वाचं काही नाही..
100% sahi kaha aapne
Same situation....but I will never give up
आत्महत्या दुनिया का सबसे बड़ा अपराध ही तो है , कहने को आत्महत्या है पर ये भी एक हत्या है हमारे द्वारा किया गया ?🙏🙏🙏🙏
By the society
By illiterate society
Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy,
It's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way.
Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills.
Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it.
Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only.
It's the Government which should be blamed
@@Rikivibes Not Completely, as
Every Parents want their Child be successful and happy,
It's the fault of government policies and approach that they had created so much Unemployment (highest since Independence) and wealth disparity (Top5% has 61% wealth) that parents are forced to think that way.
Do you know in Engineering field, Less than 9% Engineers have Industrial skills.
Secondly government don't promote non-professional courses due to massive investment in education for it.
Government has become more capitalist and takes everything with respect to it only.
It's the Government which should be blamed
@@EvergreenConsultancysab chiz ko gov se mtt joro usne note me kiya likha h mai class nhi kri book nhi padha sirf mob me mnn lgta h 😂 ab ye v gov ki glti h isko nokri degi gov jisko mob me mnn lgta h sir or maa papa se baat v ktne ki himmat nhi
मुझे बच्चों की कोटा की ऐसी खबरें बहुत रुला जाती हैं प्लीज़ पेरेंट्स अपने कलेजे के टुकड़ों को मजबूर मत करो, उन्हें नेचुरल तरीके से अपना कैरियर चुनने दो ।
I am grandfather's age now and lived first 45 years of my life in India and now last 22 years in USA. Igot raised in Indian tradition and put pressure on my child to do well in education till class 12th. With my exposure to the USA, I realize now that it was unnecessary and regret it. Here they support their child but do not have an expectation. The child is expected to do well based on his own merit, efforts and choices. Hope some young parents reading this will benefit from this. There are now unlimited opportunities outside education and degrees and there is no need to make it the sole success criteria.
Me isme 100% parents ki galti manta hu😢😢😢😢
तुम्हें कुछ पता ही नहीं है
Dipretion ke karan
o bhai parents ki etni bhi glti nai h jab koi ladki bole to motivate lagta h or ma baap bole to pressure lagta h phle souch badlo bacho ko bhi smjna chiye ki ma baap h vo koi bhar k nai h kuch problem ho to share karo fir bhi na smje to ma baap ko glt bol skte h expection sabhi karte h to usme etna glt kuch nai h
Nhi ye sach nhi hai.. galti isme 100% Ghatyia Education system ki hai
I too agree, ki Yeh parents ki galti h. Unke bachhe ne pressure liya h. But bachhe pressure lena seekhte hi parents se h. Ma Baap asal Mein soch hi nai paate ki suicide kar sakta h baccha. Unko lagta h, Jitna bolenge, utna padhega aur sab achha ho jayega. Fir comparison... Ab yahan se toh comeback bhi nai ho sakta. Ki agar ma Baap bol bhi diye ki koi Baat nai toh bhi jis pados k bachhe se compare kiye ho, woh toh usko dikhega na roz. Ki mummy papa ko aisa beta chahiye tha. Yeh sahi bachha h, main isse bura hoon.
My son took humanities in 12 we never force him to take science or commerce as he was not interested or we also knew he will not be able to cope up with the pressure of the studies........now he is college doing course of his choice we all are happy...... yaar jinda rahe to kuch na kuch to kar hi lega....
☺️aap Amir hoge esliye aapne esa kraya apne bete se sab esa nhi kr sakte
@@anshitajain8196 Amir or garib ki baat nahi maa baap ke liye unke baccho se jyada important kya ho sakta hai......by the way l am from a middle class family......apne paale hue bacche ko khone ka dukh paise hone ya na hone se matter nahi karta
@@anshitajain8196tu gareeb h bhai to aur be job h jaruri thodi h yah
@@amazingstuff3425 kash mere parents bhi esa sochte 😅 pr yha toh compilation chalta h mere and meri sister ke bich ... Chalo Sabki situation alag rhti h
@@GauravLingwal-zp8do bhai jab tumari khud li sister city top kre neet me toh tumari halat kharab ho jati h har taraf se
I am 19 years previous year in 2023 I completed my schooling but got sick for months becoz I found I had severe stomach infection which jaundice and in reports there was written that I had many internal organ problem specially of liver so I didn't join the college nor I didn't give neet just cuet but failed in that becoz I couldn't even see clearly becoz on 26 I have exam on 25 I am on bed fully unconscious soo my parents decided not to let me join college this year I didn't go coching even just on my own I told them clearly I don't wanna be doctor I can't handle that much I know my limits and they understand be dispite of being strict ❤they say you will not be going kota because I dad know conditions of their he was posted in bharatpur and he met few kota student knowing their condition he told that He didn't send me and students said Uncle u did right it's hell were we are thrown into 😢
जब डिप्रेशन हावी हो तो शांत हो जाना यारो बस शांत स्थिर हो जाना डिप्रेशन के अंधेंपन को दूर होने देना फिर सही कदम उठाना
बहुत दुखद है भगवान उनके परिवार को इस दुख से उबरने की शक्ति दे
जहाँ एक ओर IIT ओर NEET ने देश को कई प्रतिभा दी है वही दूसरी ओर कई माँओ की "गोद " उजाड़ भी दी है
God bless his soul ji
I was a JEE aspirant. I studied in online mode and the total cost of my prep was around 20k for those 2 years(11th and 12th). So, i never felt this pressure that i am wasting my parents money. Though I couldn't do well in the exam. Fortunately, got 90+ in boards and cleared WBJEE. Got a tier 2 state level government college(CU). In my preparation days, i didn't even knew about other exams and colleges. And these other institutions offer a decent placement. I really feel the need that students must know about other fields and examinations. JEE and NEET solely cannot define anyone's success.
Which college from wbjee?
@@arpitjaiswal4939 Calcutta University
@@arpitjaiswal4939 Seems she ignored your comment.
@@arpitjaiswal4939 University of Calcutta
@@dittocto My RUclips notifications were off. I just checked now
डर तो हमको भी लग रहा है 2nd attempt के लिए लेकिन ये देखकर डर और भी बढ़ गया 😢
बिल्कुल नहीं डरना बच्चे अपने मां बाप के बारे में सोचना जीवन ऐक बार मिलता है इस जीवन को खुशी से जियो रिजल्ट जो भी हो सिर्फ दो रोटी ही खानी है सबको कछ भी करके खा सकते हैं
@@KiranBarthwal29 thank you
Aatmahatya jindabaad
parents plz dont compare your kid with other its hit to soul😢😢😢
मेर नाम राजगुरू है
मै एक क्लास 10th का छात्र हूँ
और मै अक्सर विकास सर का वीडियो देखता हूँ जिससे मुझे यह प्रेरणा मिलती है की अगर मै हार भी गया तो उसे दोबारा करने का सक्ति मुझ में है जिसमें
अगर मुझे दोगुना भी मेहनत करनी पड़े तो I think मै तैयार रहता हु
और मै सोचता भी हु की मै restart करु क्युकी तब हम चीजों को समझने और पकड़ने मैं ज्यादा 𝙼𝚊𝚝𝚞𝚛𝚎 हो गये होंगे
Disha online classes restrat karo bro 🤟🤟🤟🤟💘
Mentality of
European - we want developed country
Indian - we want hindurashtra
What does that have to do with this case ?
Sabse bakwas comments
Bullas making 51 Islamic countries are jealous of 1 Hindu country... Jokers
Senseless comment
Ye apna propoganda chalane aa gaye topic kya comment kya kar rahe
There should be only one authorized central university. So that everyone studies from same college ❤ no more cruel competition to study from iit and nit and all
Usne ek bat boli thi ke mera man mobile me lga rehta tha padhai me mn nhi lgta tha, ye pura social media ka kiya dharya h jo aj kl ke bacche ko bigad ke rakh diya h
Right point
Mere dost ka keypad phone hi h 200 300 ate h marks test me din bhar rota rahta h mere 500 550 ate h smart phone h lekin mai bhi rota hi rahta hue isilye phone nahi h yaha pe karan yaha karan h ki 600 jiske ate h wo hi kush h bas@thezoldics7648
To mobile de dete ismein kya burai thi bachche ko control kyu krne chahte ho har waqt..
Rest in peace 🙏 ❤
Thanks bhai hum students ki felling ko samaj ne ke liye ♥
Atleast bacche ko iss matlabi dunia se chutkara mila... Khush ho gae hoange na sabb abb 😊
i believe government should start regular counselling sessions for all the students of such coaching centres.
the law makers should make a law against the mental pressure been given to children.
Their childhood is taken away.
no body talks about the students who do not get selected ,the ones who are facing problem in concentrating,students who are preparing for such exams without any interest in them
they go through a ton of pressure
May his soul rest in paradise om shanti to Rachit 😔😰🙏
बहुत दुख हुआ। माँ पापा को अपने बच्चों से खुल कर बात करनी चाहिए और बच्चे भी अपने मन की बात अपने माता-पिता से करनी चाहिये।
I was an Average student but My parents always compared me with the toppers in our neighbors. He always said that how they are so strong in mathematics and I don't practice enough.
I was always lazy one, my homework was never complete but luckily I was blessed to score decent with little effort.
I always studied to get good marks just to avoid my Dad anger and keep him proud.
Now I earn more than all those toppers as a Software Engineer so he gives me freedom to live my life in my terms.
I still know those guys are way more smarter than me, and mathematical geniuses but I have my own set of skills.
Coding comes naturally to me because of my introvert personality but I was looked down upon before.
My dad used to say that Extrovert go better in life because they have better social circle.
what you want now
I am not good in academics I. Am. Learning coding
Sir pls apki insta id do ekbar ek baat puchninh pls 🙏
same bhaiya mere papa bhi yahi sab bolte he vo mujhe relatives or neighbours ke topper baccho se compare karte rahte he or ..hamesha ye hi bolte rahte he ki bolna sikh or jab me friends banane ki kosshish karta hu toh mujhe acche friends na banane ke liye criticize karte he ....unko bas ye chaiye ki me sirf topper baccho ke saath friendship karu ...jabki vo saare topper bacche mera bhale hi pure din majak banye....or me 9th class me tha tab se introvert hu pehle me aisa nhi tha but mujhe kisi se baat krna itna pasand nhi he fir bhi jabardasti baat karna ka pressure daalte rahte he😓
@@Kanishk26... be who you are, as a Intovert you can read and learn a lot of things. Also Introvert are more susceptible to video games and mobile addiction avoid that.
Read and learn while most extrovert waste there time in over socializing.
Also try to socialise on you own pace slowly because it's important find like minded people. Have a hobby.
Rip😢
जीवन से कीमती कोई भी exam नही है, माता पिता को बच्चो से मित्रता व्यवहार करना चाहिए, और उसकी रूचि अनुरूप career चुनाव में मदद करनी चाहिए।🙏
Pressure.....bahot hai sir...kya kare
Bro stay calm 😢
hila...hila...hila...bas hilate ja...system ko hila ke rakh de..aur fir hila ke so ja..ek din sab thik ho jayega.. meaning double hai par depend karta hai tumhara dimag kis meaning ko choose karta hai..
desire is the root cause of troubles..don't desire anything just do the work without desiring outcomes in your favour. A desire-less man is the happiest man in the world.
Maa baap ka sb se bda kusoor hai.... Kya apne hi bche se aisa rishta hai ki bche apne dil ki baat ni keh paate apne hi maa baap se 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢bchon k dost bniye maa baap ho aap hain hi
"Modi h toh yahi mumkin h"💀
well education systummm....elvish bhai ka systumm faaddd gayaa
abe kabhi to samajhdari ki baat kar liya karo
Its not about education system. Bhut bacche taiyaari karte hain kuch bacche hote hi weak hain unki khudki khamiyon ki wajah se. Ladna hi nahi jaante woh
Har mauke pe propaganda failana hai tum child theRAPIST Nabi Muhammad followers ko
why he don t talk to family isme elvish bhai modi education ki kya galti agar nahi karni iit to mat karne do na ye baat bolna chaiye papa or mummy se acha tum to katve ho to theek hai fir gali do modi or elvish ko 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Tum logo ko har jagah modi chahiye ... Itna khof aa gaya tum logo ke andar modi ka
I can easily understand and feel the pain of him how students prepare for the IIT exam for their dreams And in reality iit exams are really tough specially advanced but please don't suicide bcz only one exam will not define you although iit exam is really tough bcz before entering into IIT they(professor )just try to develop the capability to handle the pressure inside IIT bcz whatever they teach in class it's very advanced level that's why they prepare before entering into IIT , I am in IIT BOMBAY and the how much pressure student have which I can easily understand but please don't loose your hope and don't suicide bcz many successful people are not from any iit 😊😊😊 so please keep hope and keep trying rest leave on God 😊😊😊
Ryt
Mera khud 2 attempt me nahi hua but ye suicide ka kabhi nahi socha ... I'll give my best ho hoga dekha jayega ❤
@@ThePositiveInsaanShorts it's okay because now many things are coming in future new technology are coming into market which we can learn from internet although I also understood that the environment in iit ( positive environment) you will miss but there are a lot of opportunities to enters into IIT even one day you can come as a guest speaker in IIT 🙂🙂🙂🙂 so never think that oh I didn't get iit many people give talk which are non iitian in my campus 🙂🙂🙂 jo hota hai acche ke liye hota hai bas mahnat important hai aur kuch nhi kahi Naa kahi to wo mahnat kaa fal.milta hai kisi ko jaldi milta hai kisi ko late isi ko luch kahte hai 🙂🙂
कितनी मासूमियत होती है ना इन लोगो के चेहरे पर लगता है थी सबसे बड़े शुभचिंतक है वो बंद कमरे की गालियां वो उम्मीदों के बोझ वो झूठे दिलासे देते वक्त ये बात याद नहीं आती की कहा से करेंगे ये छोटे कंधे इन भरी उम्मीदों को सहन
IIT is not a joke.if everyone could easily crack it then their would be no words existing like depression, anxiety
bba kr rha na tu bhai?
@@SakshamPatel-k1s bro i am currently serving in indian army
Lol
Parents expectations creates pressure 😓
Jo such me mata pita se pyar karte h wo esa kadam utha hi nahi sakte 😢
Parents bhi agar sach mei bachcho ki sunte to aisa nhi hota
Ye sare बच्चे वही होते है जो दो से अधिक भाई होते है, जो इकलौता है ना वो तो ये कर ही नही पाते। मां पापा के वजह से। वरना..
Bilkul sahi kaha
Bhai mere Ghar ke bagal Mai bhi ek maa baap ka beta tha aur vo bhi societ kar liya
@@satyamkumar.9thb244 भाई उसे समझना चाहिए था, उसके बिना उसके मां पापा का क्या होगा. ऐसा काम बहुत ही अपवाद ही होता है।
@@chaurashiajiladki ka ma bapp kasa jita ha basa hi jiyega ab vo