What Does It Mean To Be INFJ? The INFJ personality type, commonly known as The Advocate or Counselor, is one of sixteen in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). INFJs account for about 1-3 percent of the population. If you get an INFJ personality type, it suggests you're introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. Dominant: Introverted Intuition is your primary cognitive function. Extroverted Feeling: Auxiliary Introverted Thinking (tertiary). Extroverted Sensing is inferior. The MBTI test was designed to help people understand their own communication styles and how they connect with others. Knowing your MBTI type can help you better understand your mental processes and behavior, as well as adjust your interpersonal approach to various situations and people. 00:00 INTRO 00:29 10 They hate the idea of cutting people off of their life 01:35 09 They hate having to call someone out of their disrespect 02:55 08 They have to deal with the aloneness that comes with boundaries 04:06 07 They sometimes get tired of waiting for high-quality relationships to come 05:30 06 They frighten people with their assertiveness 06:36 05 They don't want to be constantly antagonized 07:46 04 It makes them feel frustrated in their relationships 08:43 03 Too much time alone is unhealthy for their minds 09:43 02 They hate disappointing everyone with their firm decisions 10:42 01 They want to take risks from time to time ♥♥♥Help Us Serve You Better! ♥♥♥ Show us love and support through our Patreon: www.patreon.com/ON_TRACK Do You Have Topics In Mind? Comment Below... Share This Video Right NOW: ruclips.net/video/2ci-Irhw7PI/видео.html ------------------------------------------------------------------------- Thanks for Watching! Are you an INFJ? What more would you like to add? We would definitely love to know! DROP A LIKE, SHARE, Click the SUBSCRIBE Button and HIT that notification bell to get the latest updates! SUBSCRIBE to our CHANNEL NOW 👉👉👉 bit.ly/2LY533N Help Our Channel Reach Awareness Share it With your Friends and Family. Caption Our Video To Your Language Here: 👉👉👉 bit.ly/3gBgWbU -------------------------------------------------------------------------- Videos You May Also Like: 10 Ways That CAN TURN ON AN INFJ ruclips.net/video/9C_hjpv5Whg/видео.html 10 Reasons Why The INFJ Stands Out From The Rest ruclips.net/video/dRYZI9crnbs/видео.html Here's Why YOU SHOULD NEVER MESS With An EMPATH ruclips.net/video/42CKb6wGZr4/видео.html Is The INFJ The TRUE ALPHA Of The MBTI? ruclips.net/video/CBgu8SnxxHI/видео.html 10 Shocking Confessions of A TRUE INFJ ruclips.net/video/iliHHAtMhm4/видео.html How TABOO Is The INFJ Personality? ruclips.net/video/jIHFIBeXNr0/видео.html
After absolution, I was able to quickly note the infj stereotype behavior within myself. I cannot stress heavily enough, the value of said cognition. I see myself mirroring, and absorbing. Hip-check thineself, that isn't you. Or me, as it were. Boundaries begin with self cognizance, and only then can the you come out.
It's the same reason I don't want to be a manager anywhere because I don't want to tell grown people to do their job it's the same with setting boundaries you shouldn't have to tell people to show you the same respect that they would want shown to them
And you are well ahead of the emotional curve refusing to do so. I'm older, and only recently enlightened to infj, a story unto itself. Outside of that, it has been my experience that common people will torpedo you for ANYTHING outside their comfort zone. Even if it eases their burden. "But that's the way we've always dun it." Anymore, I am proven against such naysayers, but NOTHING will stop them from trying to tear you down. My best advice: stay in the shadows and let others carry your torch. Let others make your confidence, and disregard all incursions. "Never argue with a fool, onlookers won't know the difference. "
Oh, this is what I want to say too - I feel like you shouldn't HAVE to tell people not to disrespect you, especially when you are friends, you are being nice, respectful and considerate towards them AND you see they are perfectly capable of respecting others. My biggest problem is that I let too many things slide, because I always try to understand my friends, where they are coming from and why did they behave the way they did. It's very difficult for me to open up, but when I want to keep a friend, I will do it and let them know they hurt me. But because I'm that forgiving and understanding, they keep overstepping my boundaries, always with some excuses, either they didn't notice, were careless or they were going through something rough. But once I witness how careful they are with how they treat other people, at all times, even if they had a bad day, but they are so disrespectful towards me and I am supposedly their close friend? Closer than those people? This is when I finally draw a line. Unfortunately, usually at this point, the overstepping boundaries has gone way too far that the only way for me is to drastically cut the friend off. The thing is, when you don't set boundaries early in the friendship or any relationship really, then it's extremely hard to do that later, because people are so used to you letting shit slide. Had to do this few months ago, with a best friend of over 10 years.
Exactly! This is the same reason that dating at the age of 50 sucks! You shouldn't have to tell grown men how to act like grown men. Lolol oh my goodness I'm going to be alone forever 🤷 but I have firmly decided I will not go down as the crazy cat lady. No no that will not be me. Lol. I've decided I'm going to find a box turtle 🐢🐢 something I could just keep in my backpack and take with me everywhere lol I will even take it to the dog park because you know they don't even have turtle parks. Yes this is what I'm going to do I will take my turtle down to the dog park and let it slowly creeping around with the dogs.... And then one day I will be found in my home dead, because I can't find a mate who who will just act like a grown-up lol I wonder though will a turtle eat the face off its owner? Sorry about that I just a little infj dark sense of humor lol you know how it is. You have to make jokes about things because what is the other option? Go sit in a corner and cut? 😜🤷💯😜 Lolol okay that last bit was just so wrong. I'll stop now. You all have a beautiful night I'm an infj, somehow I just became a bit this way... A bit of a beautifully twisted disaster.
It depends. Servant leadership is the only way to manage people properly, unfortunately most superiors don't operate that way. Even if you do, you will be exploited by those above you who want to climb the ladder at your expense. Toxic supervision is a clue in making that choice.
There is a difference in accommodating someone and them wiping their ass on you. It's a matter of perspective. Especially childlike narcissistic insecure individuals.💪❤️💯
@@vanessamaximus Amen 🙏😇 he hath put his words in my mouth as a sharp sword. Meaning (people who have to hide from the truth and can't handle the truth will hear 👂 the truth).
I set boundaries on the only person that I have a right to: myself. There is no point in setting boundaries on others if those boundaries are not respected. I respect my own boundaries. And I keep it simple. Two things: What am I going to do. What am I going to accept from others. Those are the boundaries that seem effective to me.
What Does It Mean To Be INFJ?
The INFJ personality type, commonly known as The Advocate or Counselor, is one of sixteen in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). INFJs account for about 1-3 percent of the population. If you get an INFJ personality type, it suggests you're introverted, intuitive, feeling, and judging. Dominant: Introverted Intuition is your primary cognitive function. Extroverted Feeling: Auxiliary Introverted Thinking (tertiary). Extroverted Sensing is inferior. The MBTI test was designed to help people understand their own communication styles and how they connect with others. Knowing your MBTI type can help you better understand your mental processes and behavior, as well as adjust your interpersonal approach to various situations and people.
00:00 INTRO
00:29 10 They hate the idea of cutting people off of their life
01:35 09 They hate having to call someone out of their disrespect
02:55 08 They have to deal with the aloneness that comes with boundaries
04:06 07 They sometimes get tired of waiting for high-quality relationships to come
05:30 06 They frighten people with their assertiveness
06:36 05 They don't want to be constantly antagonized
07:46 04 It makes them feel frustrated in their relationships
08:43 03 Too much time alone is unhealthy for their minds
09:43 02 They hate disappointing everyone with their firm decisions
10:42 01 They want to take risks from time to time
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After absolution, I was able to quickly note the infj stereotype behavior within myself. I cannot stress heavily enough, the value of said cognition. I see myself mirroring, and absorbing. Hip-check thineself, that isn't you. Or me, as it were.
Boundaries begin with self cognizance, and only then can the you come out.
It's the same reason I don't want to be a manager anywhere because I don't want to tell grown people to do their job it's the same with setting boundaries you shouldn't have to tell people to show you the same respect that they would want shown to them
And you are well ahead of the emotional curve refusing to do so.
I'm older, and only recently enlightened to infj, a story unto itself.
Outside of that, it has been my experience that common people will torpedo you for ANYTHING outside their comfort zone. Even if it eases their burden. "But that's the way we've always dun it."
Anymore, I am proven against such naysayers, but NOTHING will stop them from trying to tear you down.
My best advice: stay in the shadows and let others carry your torch. Let others make your confidence, and disregard all incursions.
"Never argue with a fool, onlookers won't know the difference. "
Oh, this is what I want to say too - I feel like you shouldn't HAVE to tell people not to disrespect you, especially when you are friends, you are being nice, respectful and considerate towards them AND you see they are perfectly capable of respecting others.
My biggest problem is that I let too many things slide, because I always try to understand my friends, where they are coming from and why did they behave the way they did. It's very difficult for me to open up, but when I want to keep a friend, I will do it and let them know they hurt me. But because I'm that forgiving and understanding, they keep overstepping my boundaries, always with some excuses, either they didn't notice, were careless or they were going through something rough.
But once I witness how careful they are with how they treat other people, at all times, even if they had a bad day, but they are so disrespectful towards me and I am supposedly their close friend? Closer than those people? This is when I finally draw a line. Unfortunately, usually at this point, the overstepping boundaries has gone way too far that the only way for me is to drastically cut the friend off. The thing is, when you don't set boundaries early in the friendship or any relationship really, then it's extremely hard to do that later, because people are so used to you letting shit slide.
Had to do this few months ago, with a best friend of over 10 years.
Exactly! This is the same reason that dating at the age of 50 sucks! You shouldn't have to tell grown men how to act like grown men. Lolol oh my goodness I'm going to be alone forever 🤷 but I have firmly decided I will not go down as the crazy cat lady. No no that will not be me. Lol. I've decided I'm going to find a box turtle 🐢🐢 something I could just keep in my backpack and take with me everywhere lol I will even take it to the dog park because you know they don't even have turtle parks. Yes this is what I'm going to do I will take my turtle down to the dog park and let it slowly creeping around with the dogs.... And then one day I will be found in my home dead, because I can't find a mate who who will just act like a grown-up lol I wonder though will a turtle eat the face off its owner?
Sorry about that I just a little infj dark sense of humor lol you know how it is. You have to make jokes about things because what is the other option? Go sit in a corner and cut? 😜🤷💯😜
Lolol okay that last bit was just so wrong. I'll stop now.
You all have a beautiful night I'm an infj, somehow I just became a bit this way... A bit of a beautifully twisted disaster.
It depends. Servant leadership is the only way to manage people properly, unfortunately most superiors don't operate that way. Even if you do, you will be exploited by those above you who want to climb the ladder at your expense. Toxic supervision is a clue in making that choice.
I literally stepped down from a supervisor position from this. Adults can be children at times and it's very annoying.
There is a difference in accommodating someone and them wiping their ass on you. It's a matter of perspective. Especially childlike narcissistic insecure individuals.💪❤️💯
I see the world clearly that’s what is sad
Yes, you've hit the nail on the head! I'm trying to prioritise myself, and not to let my people pleasing tendancy completely take over.
Stupid is what stupid does.
@@vanessamaximus My spin of humor. I'm happy 😂 you caught that. I'm smiling 😊.
@@vanessamaximus Amen 🙏😇 he hath put his words in my mouth as a sharp sword. Meaning (people who have to hide from the truth and can't handle the truth will hear 👂 the truth).
@@vanessamaximus Indeed. 🙏😇✌️. That spiritual path or direction definitely includes yourself.
As a older infj if you’re bad behaviour leads me too even think about boundaries you’re gone it’s not my problem to teach you too be good bye bye 👋
This is a very good video, this is explaining my life.
I disagree with this one completely! I have no problem telling people they are disrespectful
I set boundaries on the only person that I have a right to: myself. There is no point in setting boundaries on others if those boundaries are not respected. I respect my own boundaries. And I keep it simple. Two things:
What am I going to do.
What am I going to accept from others.
Those are the boundaries that seem effective to me.
No.Yes. A Lots 😅sigh..yes I miss them everyday, and there’s a time that I really miss my friends and loves one
Yes I really hates it that I have to do that. When it comes to do that normally it’s my climax because my insanity is on the line
Present 👋