I found dealing with my loss of a few Cats I had was very difficult for me,as they are very loving animals and have their own personalities. I still deal with the grief as it is like waves in the ocean that ebbs and flows but actually never goes away. Thank you.
I've had a lot of cats over the years. Most of them shelter cats, ageing between 5 and 10 years when I got them. When they come to the end of their natural life, I have always followed them during their last moments. Usually holding them in my arms. The first time was the worst, but it's always terrible watching them take the last breath. 😥 I know how you must feel.
Yes, I've read that many caregivers don't want to be there in their pet's final moments and I don't understand it. I held mina in my arms and her last act was to look into my eyes and give me the slow blink to let me know she was ready. I will always miss her.
I hate life because of death. My cat is dying and after the shock and crying now I am having panic attacks and can't breathe. She is hiding somewhere behind some furniture but I know she is dying. My heart is broken. I don't want her to die. I call her mama because ever since my mom died, I started calling her mama. :(
My family had to give up most of out cats, so they could have a better life with people who actually had money, unlike us. I process emotions weirdly because im neurodivergent, and its been a few weeks, but its really getting to me now. I look at the remainder of kittens we were able to keep, and i love them, but i cry for their moms who we had to let go of. I dont think ill ever get over them because i saw them grow up, literally since birth. I dont want to let go, i want to feel happy and remember them beautifuly, but all I feel right now is guilt. I love them so much. I want to hug them and let them know theyre safe. Thankfully the moms arent dead, but they just have new homes, and i miss them with all if my heart. My heart is melted thinking of them.
Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful words. I've lost my beloved Abyssinian Dylan at the age of 11 to lymphoma. Dylan was so much a part of me, all day every day, as I work from home. My little soulmate. His absence is hitting me hard and there is a huge void now that can not be filled. I look in every part of the house and he is not there. He was my teddy bear in bed, my company wherever I was in the house. I've never been impacted by the loss of a cat the way I have been with Dylan. There well never be another Dylan.
Thank you for the wonderful video. I lost my 2 cats in the space of 4 days. Both developed the same stomach tumour. Literally back from the vets 1 hour. Just cannot believe they're both gone. One was the Mother and the other was the son. Amazing animals. Only 11 and 12 years. My cat family wiped out in the space of 4 days. Absolutely gutted.
I just lost my absolute best friend ever . Constantly by my side for the last 16 years. I’m devastated 😭😭😭😭. Thank you for sharing your experience and the book recommendations.
Just lost our family cat of 17 years, she died unexpectedly in her sleep last night. I never got to say goodbye, which is very hard for me to deal with right now, can't stop crying. First time dealing with this level of grief, thank you for making a video like this and sharing your story with us.
On October 29th I had to say goodbye to my beloved cat Frisky. It was very stressful and painful. He will be sadly missed because He was such a sweet cat.
What a beautiful baby, Lucy! How loving. I just put my baby girl Autumn to sleep a week ago today. Miss her greatly and having a tough time. Thank You for this video, it does help knowing there are people who love and bond with animals like I do and how much they are missed when gone. Prayers to you and Lucy.
I’m so very sorry.. I had my soul kitty for 16 years. I adopted him from the shelter when he was guesstimated as 3. I’ve had a bunch of cats and dogs (and a bunny) during my life & there was nothing I wouldn’t do for them, I loved them all so much. But my cat Buddha was just over the top because we went through a lot together. I lost my sister & my Dad during our time together & he was with me in a way no human could be. He was diagnosed with diabetes about 3 years ago and for most of that time he did well on his insulin & had a great quality of life. But the last 6 months or so he just kept declining - once he completely stopped eating I knew it was time. I cried for 3 days straight knowing I had to do it for him but struggling with it at the same time. I felt like I was killing him and it was so heartbreaking.. My vet who I was with for years, she made it so comfortable for him, and for me- with lots of time, soft music, and dimmed lights to calm him. We all cried together. He passed peacefully with me holding him and talking to him the whole way. It was January 29th of this year. I still cry a lot and I miss his presence and his snores and snuggles and the way he used to look at me and listen to me when I’d tell him about my day at work, & so many other things about him. I’m so grateful and lucky that he was (and will always be) a part of me. A few weeks ago I adopted a 10 year old boy from the shelter whose parent sadly passed. I went there to spend some time with the cats & dogs to help my sadness… I saw him and brought him home for a “sleepover”. Ended up adopting ❤ I think Buddha sent him to me so I could help him and he could help me. I wish you peace and comfort… 💞
My sincere sympathies for the loss of Buddha. I love all cats, but there are always those special ones who touch you in some way. I can't even put it into words. May your Buddha continue to inspire kindness in your heart.
My beautiful Russian Blue cat was euthanised last week Kidney disease she had. 15 years my best friend Feels like half my heart is ripped out. Thankyou for this video 👍🐈
I found dealing with my loss of a few Cats I had was very difficult for me,as they are very loving animals and have their own personalities. I still deal with the grief as it is like waves in the ocean that ebbs and flows but actually never goes away. Thank you.
Just lost my cat yesterday. The pain is real, I can't stop crying.
I'm so sorry. Please try to take care of yourself and know that there are those of us who understand and share your pain.
I lost my cat at 17 yrs old Thursday. I am jus completely depressed. He slept with me since he was a newborn. And now jus gone.
I just lost my sweet boy today of 14 years. Absolutely devastated, my heart hurts... Thank you for sharing this video.
I've had a lot of cats over the years. Most of them shelter cats, ageing between 5 and 10 years when I got them.
When they come to the end of their natural life, I have always followed them during their last moments. Usually holding them in my arms.
The first time was the worst, but it's always terrible watching them take the last breath. 😥
I know how you must feel.
Yes, I've read that many caregivers don't want to be there in their pet's final moments and I don't understand it. I held mina in my arms and her last act was to look into my eyes and give me the slow blink to let me know she was ready. I will always miss her.
lost my 9year old cat 2hours ago.was diagnosed with Fib.He was born in my hands and he died on my hands.i ll never forget you my boy❤
I'm so sorry to hear that. Please take care of yourself.
@@KittyHelpDesk thank you so much,time is the greatest healer
I hate life because of death. My cat is dying and after the shock and crying now I am having panic attacks and can't breathe. She is hiding somewhere behind some furniture but I know she is dying. My heart is broken. I don't want her to die. I call her mama because ever since my mom died, I started calling her mama. :(
I'm sorry you're going through that. I hope you'll take the time you need to experience your grief and allow it to become a part of you.
My family had to give up most of out cats, so they could have a better life with people who actually had money, unlike us. I process emotions weirdly because im neurodivergent, and its been a few weeks, but its really getting to me now. I look at the remainder of kittens we were able to keep, and i love them, but i cry for their moms who we had to let go of. I dont think ill ever get over them because i saw them grow up, literally since birth. I dont want to let go, i want to feel happy and remember them beautifuly, but all I feel right now is guilt. I love them so much. I want to hug them and let them know theyre safe. Thankfully the moms arent dead, but they just have new homes, and i miss them with all if my heart. My heart is melted thinking of them.
Thank you so much for your kind and thoughtful words. I've lost my beloved Abyssinian Dylan at the age of 11 to lymphoma. Dylan was so much a part of me, all day every day, as I work from home. My little soulmate. His absence is hitting me hard and there is a huge void now that can not be filled. I look in every part of the house and he is not there. He was my teddy bear in bed, my company wherever I was in the house. I've never been impacted by the loss of a cat the way I have been with Dylan. There well never be another Dylan.
Thank you for the wonderful video. I lost my 2 cats in the space of 4 days. Both developed the same stomach tumour. Literally back from the vets 1 hour. Just cannot believe they're both gone. One was the Mother and the other was the son. Amazing animals. Only 11 and 12 years. My cat family wiped out in the space of 4 days. Absolutely gutted.
I'm so sorry that you're going through that. Please remember to take care of yourself.
I just lost my absolute best friend ever . Constantly by my side for the last 16 years. I’m devastated 😭😭😭😭. Thank you for sharing your experience and the book recommendations.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that your friend had a wonderful life.
Just lost our family cat of 17 years, she died unexpectedly in her sleep last night. I never got to say goodbye, which is very hard for me to deal with right now, can't stop crying. First time dealing with this level of grief, thank you for making a video like this and sharing your story with us.
I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your dear friend. Please take care of yourself.
@@KittyHelpDesk Thank you so much:')
On October 29th I had to say goodbye to my beloved cat Frisky. It was very stressful and painful. He will be sadly missed because He was such a sweet cat.
I'm so sorry to hear that. Please remember to take care of yourself.
❤😢your cat looks the image of my cat who passed away two weeks ago he was 17 years old toby,,,,😊
Again, so incredibly sorry to hear about your loss. It's good to see you have again.
Thank you!
What a beautiful baby, Lucy! How loving. I just put my baby girl Autumn to sleep a week ago today. Miss her greatly and having a tough time. Thank You for this video, it does help knowing there are people who love and bond with animals like I do and how much they are missed when gone. Prayers to you and Lucy.
I'm so sorry. It truly is one of the most difficult things I've faced. Wishing you all the best.
Wow this is the best video on the subject I’ve found. Needs more traffic as was very helpful for me. Thank you
I'm glad you found it helpful. Please take care of yourself.
Happy to see you again. Be kind to yourself.
Thank you!
I’m so very sorry.. I had my soul kitty for 16 years. I adopted him from the shelter when he was guesstimated as 3. I’ve had a bunch of cats and dogs (and a bunny) during my life & there was nothing I wouldn’t do for them, I loved them all so much. But my cat Buddha was just over the top because we went through a lot together. I lost my sister & my Dad during our time together & he was with me in a way no human could be. He was diagnosed with diabetes about 3 years ago and for most of that time he did well on his insulin & had a great quality of life. But the last 6 months or so he just kept declining - once he completely stopped eating I knew it was time. I cried for 3 days straight knowing I had to do it for him but struggling with it at the same time. I felt like I was killing him and it was so heartbreaking.. My vet who I was with for years, she made it so comfortable for him, and for me- with lots of time, soft music, and dimmed lights to calm him. We all cried together. He passed peacefully with me holding him and talking to him the whole way. It was January 29th of this year. I still cry a lot and I miss his presence and his snores and snuggles and the way he used to look at me and listen to me when I’d tell him about my day at work, & so many other things about him. I’m so grateful and lucky that he was (and will always be) a part of me. A few weeks ago I adopted a 10 year old boy from the shelter whose parent sadly passed. I went there to spend some time with the cats & dogs to help my sadness… I saw him and brought him home for a “sleepover”. Ended up adopting ❤ I think Buddha sent him to me so I could help him and he could help me.
I wish you peace and comfort… 💞
My sincere sympathies for the loss of Buddha. I love all cats, but there are always those special ones who touch you in some way. I can't even put it into words. May your Buddha continue to inspire kindness in your heart.
I recommend "The Fall of Freddie the Leaf: A Story of Life for all ages" by Leo Buscaglia. 💚
Thank you, I'll check it out.
My beautiful Russian Blue cat was euthanised last week Kidney disease she had.
15 years my best friend
Feels like half my heart is ripped out.
Thankyou for this video
👍🐈
I'm sorry to hear that. Please take care of yourself.