This gorgeous woman was an attorney, Miss USA 2019, Miss Universe finalist, and a had growing career. Some things we will never understand. RIP Chelsie.
I couldn't sleep for days after finding out she died. Having read her Allure article about her fear of being in her 30s made me feel so sad for her. I wish she talked to someone to let her know it would be okay one day. She was so fun and bubbly to watch on Tiktok. Cheslie needed better people around her. I have a feeling she was felt used than supported.
I can not understand why 30 was such a big deal for her? In the North, my friends that are no longer here 30 years old was young to them. Most did not even marry until later in their 30’s.
My thoughts are just that Cheslie felt if she wasn't perfect that she wasn't worthy. She was raised to be perfect. Only God is perfect. This is a cautionary and difficult lesson.
It's her mom's fault . She only praised children's achievements not their personalities. She should look at herself and try to stop doing it with her other kids.
@@inasyal6311 So there's no foul play and it's suicide? I watched an interview about dysfunctional family and narcissistic parents and it reminded me of this. I feel like Cheslie was probably the golden child in the family. The pressure of pleasing the narcissist was exhausting. She's trying to fill in the empty bottomless void.
She was on social media (RUclips among them), and I feel that SM can create a lot of pressure, since it's a way for some to gauge their popularity, and if a person is already dealing with issues, it can push them over the edge. Plus there are many sick/mean persons online who get a kick out of insulting attractive and talented women, especially black or mixed-raced women. I'm not a psychologist, but I find her manner of suicide telling. It makes me wonder why she chose a method that would literally destroy her body and appearance. Those who bullied her online have blood on their hands. They should be publicly called out and exposed.
This interview felt weird. This lady doesn’t even seem sad about it at all. Someone just committed suicide and she just sits there answering questions with a smile on her face and all she has to say is “there were no signs”. Maybe not obvious signs but when you take time to look back at certain moments for sure you can see them. The letter she wrote about running out of time . Huge sign there ! May she Rest In Peace
The family and the publicist says there were no signs ... so where did they get this specific diagnosis "high functioning depression " . How did they know she was a high functioning depressed person if there were no signs and nobody knew ? Ummm makes no sense . Not adding up . Also the mom says she didn't know about Cheslies depression until shortly before . Did she tell her to get help? Was cheslie on medication? There is something strange going on
thought i was the only one noticing the happy grin and other behaviors...hollywood is hollyweird...poor baby..seems she was being used...something is off
This interview seems strange. I know this lady is a publicist, but every answer she uses the phrase, "high functioning depression." Maybe it's a way to provide answers to the public while still maintaining privacy, but it feels like she's being evasive while answering questions. I feel for this woman's family and friends.
I totally agree. I understand she is a publicist, but you should have a certain amount of authenticity, especially in a situation like this. It is very obvious she does not.
@@antonellaalcantara7265 Maybe she is smiling to keep from breaking down and crying when she is there to give an interview and get through it. Why are you people under this video spewing conjecture and conspiracy theories. Why can't it just be that maybe Cheslie had a date set to end her life, she did not want to leave much details, but the reason would be her secret to take to her grave. Given the way she did it (traveling to the 29th floor), indicates she was resolute in her decision (although it breaks my heart). *Respect* the family's privacy and stop with the esoteric banter. I would not be surprised if her grieving family will see these comments...
I can imagine how difficult it must have been for an introvert to always appear to be outgoing and a ray of sunshine. Being an introvert requires one to have adequate rest periods to recuperate from all the overstimulation. Otherwise, it can be overwhelming and exasperating. I'm an introvert with extroverted tendencies, and this is what
With all due respect to this lady, I'm sure she loved Cheslie very much, but she keeps saying there were no signs of Cheslie being depressed... then a minute later they talk about the essay Cheslie wrote for Allure... it reads like a cry for help. I think it would be more honest to say: you know what, there were signs, we just missed them because maybe we were too close to the picture or because we were in the denial or because we weren't educated on the subject of depression. I didn't know that essay existed... but as soon as they brought up its content... it's clear she was going through a rough patch.
Well said! I thought the same. You can’t help people if you are not willing to acknowledge something was missed. But it’s possible her family can shed more light if and when they are ready. I know in my case, there are at least 2 people who I share my heart with. It’s hard for me to imagine that Cheslie didn’t have that.
Yes, the essay was dark. Like something written in your personal journal on a bad day when you are trying to find strength to keep going. It was surprising from that publication and from a pagent winner. Even in the essay she said she spent her 30th birthday alone.
For this lady to say, as Cheslie's "good friend and publicist," that there were NO signs over again tells me she has zero emotional intelligence. How sad for Cheslie to be surrounded by people whom she felt she had to be "ON" for. What kind of a relationship is that? Rest In Peace dear Cheslie Kryst. 🙏🏽🕊😭🌹🕯
Possibly because there’s a chance she wasn’t depressed, and maybe was pushed off the terrace. Her mother said that, as a broken mother. Her own mother even said that she hid it from her as well. Her mother was her best friend, I think she said that because that’s what the situation looked like. There could have been foul play involved. Just food for thought. Tyra Banks is a perfect example. Beautiful model, went up and down in weight after her prime years. Tyra, I’m sure could have also had thoughts, as many women do, about aging. A lot of women are depressed. For Cheslie not to show ANY signs, not even to her mother, is highly suspicious. I hope there is an investigation going on behind her death. Her friend was a good friend, who saw no signs at all, her coworker sitting next to her said the same thing. No one is that good as hiding every single sign of a multitude of being suicidal.
Depression and life, to that matter, is quite complex and yet simultaneously nuanced. To suggest that EVERYONE ALWAYS shows signs and SOMEONE is CERTAIN to pickup on them or that those around her provided no space for her to be vulnerable and are the cause of her always on disposition is to oversimplify her the experience for all involved.
When you are constantly known as a ray of sunshine it’s hard to reveal your true feelings bcz you don’t want to let others down so you hide how you really feel in shame. You hide behind the smile
Idk I disagree. I know the family is grieving and I don’t mean to be disrespectful, but it’s all too weird. The mom immediately went to blame “high functioning depression” which she hid from everyone and she didn’t learn about it until the very end. I think the family spokesperson trying really hard to downplay the essay. I feel like she was trying to stop all speculation that is going on and she immediately denied the essay had ANY red flags and it was FULL of red flags 🚩.
Been thinking this lady possibly posted up that last picture? However, if that was the case, we're getting into some serious calculus, so far as time, etc.
she overloaded herself so to repeatedly say it's high functioning depression is not accurate. depression is depression and she exhibited warning signs similar to most people before suicide/suicide attempts.
What is sad now is she is not the only Queen to suffer from depression. All these resignations from the Miss USA pageant etc with the claims of abuse, just imagine what Cheslie went through. So heartbreaking. Praying for her family and friends. RIP Queen Cheslie.
Listen to some of her videos. In one where she shared family photographs, she specifically mentioned while reflecting on her childhood in one bright photo that her "energy had gone", that she was constantly "tired all the time". That's a specific reference to her troubled state. Apparently , she had lost the joy of living for some time , but was just pushing, till she could no longer push. In most of her veiled statements about herself, she was literally screaming for help to the world. Unfortunately, no one was really listening or seeing her pains concealed in all the glitz and glamour. She did not really hide her depression well. Only that people did not pay her much attention. Please-, listen to your loved ones, friends and colleagues and carefully observe them. To be candid, there are always telling signs that do not hide. There are always the movements, postures or verbal cues that should not be ignored. A little probing might help to break down any defense, and help to lead in the pathway of recovery. Of course, don't forget to pray as well.
We don’t call it high functioning depression. This is not on the DSM 5. she probably had persistent depressive disorder which used to be called dysthymia..…this is what I commonly diagnose my clients at my internship hours. Read about it please .
Great call! Either dysthymia or bipolar disorder is my thought. Her mother calling it High Functioning Depression is not a clinical term and its irresponsible to make that statement.
@@blackcherry6877 Do you think this is one reason why she had so few Friends? In her just released last text message, she talked bout pushing friends away. Could she have been privately difficult to deal with? Bipolar?
I cried for 3 days....tears still well up in my eyes. How did we miss this....She was an angel that was loaned to us. I should have been gone many times over but remain here....you truly have your wings now dear...rest and peace.
I feel that this beautiful soul Cheslie was over compensating to cover up the pain she really felt on the inside and she did her best to keep it together as long as she could. I wish she could have shared her pain and been able to get some help. I wished l had met her to be of some help. May she RIP!!
I agree. It's so sad but when you think about it it's very common for people to overcompensate or rather do anything and everything possible to cover up certain feelings for some it's pain, for some it's shame, for others fear, even illness. People do it all the time just in different ways to avoid appearing vulnerable. Some work excessively, some sleep too much, etc. Unfortunately her way was to be a huge light in the world, she did it perfectly that noone noticed she needed help. My heart and prayers go out to those close to her because if I am this sad, I can't imagine how much worse they feel
@@jeffjohnson5544 I've found myself saying this to myself severally, "if only someone was there." I can't help but feel that way.. Sad how we can't turn back time and how death is just so final 😔
It is my opinion her publicist didn’t appear to be in grief, sad at he loss of this beautiful young woman. She smiled throughout the interview. She’s not a good representative for the family in my opinion. Smiling?
Exactly I still can not believe it. Never know what people are truly going thru. Hopefully people who are trained to help in a professional resources capacity will be able to do so. Unbelievable loss. Maybe media can leave the story alone & allow family their privacy. The media is the media. 🤦🏼♀️
I think Cheslie was not comfortable in her skin, instead of helping her understand she was intelligent, smart etc she was placed in pageants and commaflagged or modelled as beauty from without instead of focusing on beauty within. She lived in an unrealistic world where thinking beauty doesnt age, but remains youthful forever. That way of thinking is completely off for a grown adult. One of the early lessons of life is that living things die. Trees or flowers are not green all the time. There are 4 seasons and every season you must expect change. Cheslie was blinded to change or reality and in the end that may have led to her demise.
@c:m prentice but this geogeous woman Cheslie never mentioned she wasn’t t comfortable in her own skin, or demonstrated a sign of insurity for crist sake she was miss USA a very confident woman so let’s not keep making assumption of what’s not true. Rest In Peace Cheslie.
My father passed. A pastor of a church. I was quite close to him. Our family maintained in the presence of others: engaged in conversation, made sure others were OK and did not experience intense emotions during public gatherings for my father. Especially when you deal with the public for many years your behavior sometimes tends to be reserved when all eyes are on you. I am used to this being the "preacher's daughter". I learned that for myself. My deep grieving I only wanted to share alone or with intimate family. Grief, especially unexpected death, leaves one numb, confused, off balanced while dealing with others and yourself. As I read some comments, I'd say don't judge the way one processes death. It is personal and we indeed are all different beings. Peace to those who are suffering in any manner.
My heart and soul weeps for this beautiful woman of compassion, so filled with life! We all miss your presence....Enter the blue light and become eternal peace of love and spirit! Lamed Vav....
Boy i wish i had high functioning depression because i had some deep depression and felt like crap couldn’t even get up and go to work. I am not buying what they are selling here to make an excuse for this incident. And i say incident because this was never investigated properly. Lot of assumptions here. This woman publicist smiling from ear to ear i find that rather disturbing as someone who was close to Chesley she seems not at all bothered by her loss.
It was very awful. No emotion is attached. Yet, her "friend"🙄🙄 Please try to get help for your depression. Praying for many people who struggle with this disease.
Someone should have told Cheslie to take a break and stop working so hard. I look at singers like Beyoncé who is a hard worker and I always said it seem as if she do too much. As well as other people in the industry with big task schedules. I still can’t shake Cheslie out of my mind so sad.
Beyoncé have a husband And Family That Supports Her Cheslie didn’t! Major Difference! And that seems odd for such a High Achiever At The Age Of 30 To Not Have A Boy Friend And Or Husband To Help Get Her Through All The Pressure’s And Stresses Of Life! This Is Weird! Who 🤔 Wants An Accomplished Life With No One ☝️ To Share It With? This Makes Absolutely No Sense! Smh 🤦♀️
Most too busy cashing in on the person ( Cheslie) in this case. Most only concerned about the money! 💰💵💸💳 Latoya, her publicist didn’t seem sad or in grief.
@@lamarshalewis5380 Well, even in death Cheslie is still a "brand" of sorts that somehow must be protected... And I hate to think that part of this is protecting that brand?
If her family didn't know she had depression up until she died, how on earth did they come about this high functioning depression they're passionately preaching to the world? Sadly, her family knew nothing about yet feel obligated to defend a diagnosis they never officially got from a doctor or psychologist. Weird.
Something aint right with this like the coverage is way too high for someone most ppl never even heard of until her death.. Also where is the footage of her walking in the building? Why are they not releasing it?
They aren't releasing it.. maybe in respect for privacy for the family members...? and why is releasing videos helpful to anyone in the public? If the police needs that info for investigation, thats for their use.. not for nosey people and news outlets who just care about raving a story on a young woman's death. This is a very sensitive time for the family and close friends of Cheslie.. she is not just a celebrity to them.
Although this Gayle says here that she is "making a difference in her death" (by deterring one fan from suicide), the larger truth is the exact opposite: such tragedies often inspire despair and "copycat" behavior in fans. So, we need now to watch those young people who were close social media followers. Wished Gayle had stated this more accurately. Missed opportunity.
right, i found that strange. i don't understand her reference of "because of cheslie i was depressed but because of cheslie im going to seek help" i dont understand
Strangely, there was a "Chelsea" Kryst on Twitter who mirrored Cheslie's feelings of suicide. Since Cheslie's death, that account has also gone dormant. One theory is that it was either an empath who also committed suicide or Cheslie's alter ego...
It seems like she had people around her who brushed her problems under the rug, you have to feel very alone to take your own life. I don’t know this woman and everyone grieves differently but only a week after her friend dying it’s odd she’s smiling and talking like a normal interview I don’t understand
I find it rather concerning considering she was close to her mum she couldn't tell her how she felt suicidal, probably because she had always been this perfect high achiever
@@tracey8698 yes it seems like they just wanted her to stay the way she’s always been but it’s not that simple I think she was wanting help and didn’t get it
We don't have to take the world upon our shoulders in order to make others happy when we are in need of help ourself. It's a beautiful thing she did giving joy to others but it's never good for us giving people to overlook our own health and peace of mind. We all matter. And I am so sorry she felt she couldn't open up about what was really going on and now many people are in pain over her loss. Such a beautiful person gone to soon. Speak up and please speak up and have the courage to let others in when you know people care about you and pray and seek God's help, guidance and comfort. He will come through but we must have courage to reach out. Speak out and speak up. My deepest condolences to all her family and friends and her tribe. May you R.I.P beautiful Cheslie
They say she had high functioning depression. If she was on antidepressants, guess what? A side effect is suicidal thoughts. If she just started taking pills (this is only speculation) it is likely that that is what could’ve happened to her.
Maybe the sign of High Functioning Depression showed itself in the positive... meaning, someone who is "ON" all the time is THE SIGN of something going on internally as we know it's not realistic to always be on the 'up and up'. Perhaps someone who doesn't ever show nor share sadness/anger (unpleasantness, etc..) is over controlling their emotions for a reason. To only appear as happy-go-lucky positive all the time has to be exhausting and most of all a mask ... a way to conceal something deeper. So sad she couldn't find the help she needed.
If this is the type of person she was surrounded with, how could she have gotten help. She looks like she is using the moment to shine, professional but cold....instead of being honest warm hearted.
She was everything. Beautiful, smart and she accomplished so much. It breaks my heart that she is gone. Beautiful soul RIP. ❤️🌻 she had so much on her plate, maybe it was getting too much for her.
I DO NOT AGREE WITH THE SUICIDE CLAIM .. furthermore she would not had gone out in that manner ,using that method ..HEINOUS! A homicide investigation should be on the table...
Definitely a must investigation should be going on right now. There’s just no possible way she would jump off the 29th floor. Especially since she was so self conscious about her beauty. I refuse to believe that as well.
There’s also so much pressure to always be the happy one, the one that lights the room, the one that everyone praises and expects to be everyone else’s “ray of light.” High archivers already place so much pressure on themselves, it’s not helpful to place more pressure on them.
@@rc6449 Yeah, i get that is what she has to do most of the time, but she should also learn to turn it off. Read the room. Looks like she's either nervous or happy to be on tv.
The ALLURE interview was definitely a sign......her handler plainly missed it........I have PTSD......and people miss all my signs......if it wasn't for GOD......BUT GOD!!!!!!!!
I still don't believe she killed herself. Her friend isn't a psychiatrist and there is something really really out of source. This woman sounds like she's selling something.
"The family will host a public celebration of life on Friday, Feb. 18 at 6:30 p.m. at Elevation Blakeney." They will give livestream link closer to the service. #RIPCheslieKryst
The people who were surrounding her like this lady who is now calling it high functioning depression and she worked on that essay with her and now saying she didn't see anything. Listen to her response about has she ever heard her say she is working to much her response is that she certainty thinks they had that conversation. She was the one booking most of her gigs therefore she knew better than anyone how stressed this beautiful woman was. That essay is so hunting.
Wow, so sad but I've been told anyone who smiles all the time is not that happy. We all have moments of sadness and whatever. Probably being pushed since childhood to say I don't want to disappoint anyone. R I P
True. I feel like even the people who are binge watching her videos and are now saying " I can actually see some sadness in her eyes" are only saying it because this happened otherwise there's nothing there. Just a very happy looking, beautiful, intelligent and well spoken young woman. This was truly a big loss
@@nunyamindyub3255 I think for the sake of her family, people should just stop it with the theories. They knew her better plus I'm sure they were first to ask all these questions everyone is asking. I'm sure they've seen footage and all that. Could be they've even seen footage of her jumping because noone would allow their loved one's case to be ruled a suicide if it wasn't. Unfortunately some people are saying they won't believe it unless they see footage. Goodness, they will wait forever because why would anyone just allow a clip of how their loved one died to be aired publicly? We really have no right to demand that footage is released or to keep saying something different from what her family has confirmed. Just coz someone didn't look depressed doesn't mean they weren't. This isn't the first of such cases
@@sophieatieno5148 I'm still shocked and he'll really beautiful she is and she had all those issues I'm wishing now she gotten the help that she needed🤔 sometimes you never know what's going on with the other person
@@sophieatieno5148 All the more reason to release some video... Will put so much of speculation to rest. No need to see her actually jumping... And if there is NO video - Why? How is that even possible?
She needed to hang around with REAL people , this person acts fake as can be. I am sorry to be rude, but real friends dig deeper and ask questions. Their relationship was clearly just surface level and I guess that is okay b/c she was her boss.
Isolation is the worst punishment .Your accomplishment worth nothing if you don't have a family or someone to share it with the worlds of my friend before she took her life.
Why all the conspiracy theories? Yes. A successful person can die by suicide. No one is immune to it.. I know a successful doctor who died by suicide. She had 3 kids. She was active, bubbly, close with her siblings.. no one knew. Now her family is spreading awareness about burnout at work and encouraging those who feel suicidal to get help.. I've had several failed attempts. Not sure why God keeps me here.. Anyways. It is possible for someone to have it all and die by suicide..sometimes suicide isn't planned. It can be impulsive. My attempts were not planned. It was impulsive and I felt at those times I should be gone.. when you're in that mindset not much can bring you out of it.. It's sad that Cheslie died by suicide but people can hide their pain very well. When others find out I live with depression they ask me how that's possible if I smile, look nice, have a business.. When I'm alone that pain comes out. I don't show my mental illness to many because there's such a stigma. It's 2022. Educate yourself.
Someone who is depressed suffering and it’s obvious by anyone. High functioning people can go to work or hang around friends, family, etc. and no one will ever know they are surfing inside. The signs are there but they are not obvious. It’s like having to look through a microscope to see it. And usually people don’t notice until tragedies like suicide happens. So then people go back and actually see the signs that they didn’t see in real time before. Trust me. It exists.
Now hearing about what is going on behind the Miss USA business with these resignations and allegations of abuse. We can only believe that she was exposed to some of these horrors. All the Queen's who have resigned have mental health issues and my goodness it was terrible what they went through. RIP Queen Cheslie. My prayers go out to her family, friends and this amazing Latoya.
This woman does not care about Cheslie. If she did she would have intervened when she read her essay. Her essay was her suicide note to the world. That’s what I got out of the heartbreaking essay after I read it. And WHY is she smiling so much!? This woman claims on her website she specializes in “ Crisis intervention” for clients....... you failed Cheslie you money hungry witch!
Seriously beginning to think she could have been involved in that final posting? Perhaps had advance notice that Cheslie was gone? However, that gets into some complex calculus
This woman had too much on her plate everything was piled up on her that's the thing about being famous being model's actors they have to have their days already planned for them they never have a plan for themselves it's overwhelmingly in does cause deep depression I've been there done that myself it is most horrific feeling you get overwhelmingly and you severely get depressed to the point of you feel so alone and no one would understand that everything just piles up on you and it's overwhelmingly overwhelmingly hard I feel for her she's such a beautiful young woman If she only had life of just being happy and not having to jump to all these different things that she had to do in order to be like her mother God-bless her soul rest and peace I feel so bad for her
I dont necessarily agree with this label "high functioning depression", it sounds contrived and somewhat of a cover up. This beautiful soul was in pain, and we may never know the source
We live in a society that makes people feel like they have to always be on their game, no one is prefect. Allow yourself and others around you to say that you need help or that they need help, it is okay to say that you need help!!!! NO MORE SHAME!!!! I have watched a lot of videos about this beautiful young lady and in some of them she spoke about aging out in reference to the pageantry world. Being the oldest to win the title of of Miss USA, this thing about running out time was ebbed in her due to this life style of pageants. Then she steps into Hollywood were she is dealing with even more pressures surrounding the age factor in Hollywood. We have got to normalize our conversations around mental health in a hurry people. Everything we do starts in our mind; why not treat it like any other body part that we rush to doctor seeking help for.
Please stop with the conspiracy theories. It’s an insult to the family and I feel so bad for them knowing so many people don’t believe she was depressed :( I’m sorry Cheslie may you RIP in heaven with Jesus forever . Rest easy 💗🙏
How does it sound suspicious, what a slap in the face to the mental health community. Stop discounting mental health just because its packaged pretty and successful. This woman took her own life!
According to insider, Cheslie was having a career crisis. Many of her childhood friends and family wanted her to pursue a career in law, instead of her career as a "correspondent" for Extra - which didn't pay well. And according to our insider, the struggle with what to do with her career, "weighed heavily on her." Also, the insider claims that Cheslie was allegedly a member of the LGBTQ+ crew - and possibly a closeted lesbian. The insider claimed that Chelsea - who was deeply religious - was struggling with being open about her sexuality.
@@queenesquiresquad it could be a cover you know she didn't come out and say she was screwing the guy. She said nothing about her level of intimacy with anyone.
@@queenesquiresquad all the gays say that, they've all had the "normal" boyfriend or girlfriend before coming out, it means nothing. They're trying to fit in to normie world.
Those are signs that something was wrong. It’s so sad because she was trying to be good enough for the world and couldn’t meet that standard! My prayers are for her family. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
CIA backdoor owns Go Fund Me. They supported Chaz/Chop even after murders but won't support peaceful trucker protesters in Ottawa. Government around the world are terrified that the people are realizing they can stand up to tyranny. Why aren't the Ottawa truckers dying from a massive covid outbreak? FBI is working with Ottawa police. Expect what the FBI does.
ABSOLUTELY A TERRIBLE LOSS, I UNDERSTAND HIGH FUNCTIONING MORE NOW...HAD SEVERAL INCREDIBLY SMART AND MASSIVELY SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE WHO CHECKED OUT WITHOUT ANY SIGNS. 🤔
This Lady is missed everything her mom did too! How could they not tell? She was very high-strung. Like she couldn't sit still. She was doing that because she didn't want anyone to pick up on her depression. And the said she ate a lot of sweets too! That definitely was not good for her either. It just added to her extreme ways of moving about her days. Mad at mom! She seemed to not really care too much about Cheslie well being!?
THERES STILL NO VIDEO OF HER JUMPING OFF THE ROOF.... NO VIDEO OF HER LANDING... NO VIDEO OF THE DEAD BODY. NO VIDEO OF HER GOING UP TO THE 29TH FLOOR EVEN IN THE ELEVATOR. SOMEBODY LYING
Ohhhhhhh her name was "cheslie" I thought the news reporter Gayle had mispronounced it😮And this "friend" who keeps repeating she thinks the "high functioning" part is just a normal part for over achievers um....sweetheart it doesn't seem very promising though because it didn't help cheslie
"""High functioning depression????!!!; that's almost every elite athlete, a list performers of stage screen even television anchors in big markets to be ""on""how do they all cope??? ..... elaborate has to be more what triggered,this tragic ending..??.may she in peace 🙏🏽🕊️......
I've said this many many many times before but I am devastated with this news I still don't believe everything that's came out is true I am a survivor from that situation once again I did it twice however to me there is a lot of unknown questions I just don't believe this beautiful woman who was so much or her looks what actually go from the 9th floor to the 29th floor and in her life it just don't seem like that would be her type of way of doing this they have to have a closed casket is horrible it a lot of please just don't sit right with me I just pray that if somebody did something to this young girl it would be my own and find out and would be Justice for her I still say from day one I just don't believe it it just don't seem like the type of way she would have took her life but my prayers go out to everybody and I don't like this viewer to Miguel was more compassionate with her words than her friend I don't like how she smelt or anyting through the situation I can imagine smiling or the interview with her friend just don't sit right to me to me it seemed like she was more about being on TV then actually talkin I just don't like it I know a lot of people going to actually look at this and it to me seen a little funny the action of the family friend all I can say is God bless this beautiful talented young lady she will be very much missed and I really hoped it we get some answers like is it her handwriting and why did she go up to the 29th floor when she was already on the 9th floor also where's the cameras that's what we'd like to hear
This gorgeous woman was an attorney, Miss USA 2019, Miss Universe finalist, and a had growing career. Some things we will never understand. RIP Chelsie.
@Joshua Dunlap Photography and???
There are certain voids that only Jesus can fill.
@ Joshua better close up “holes” and HOLD on to Jesus instead. He’ll keep you from ending up in a “hole” 🔥 for eternity!!
I couldn't sleep for days after finding out she died. Having read her Allure article about her fear of being in her 30s made me feel so sad for her. I wish she talked to someone to let her know it would be okay one day. She was so fun and bubbly to watch on Tiktok. Cheslie needed better people around her. I have a feeling she was felt used than supported.
I can not understand why 30 was such a big deal for her? In the North, my friends that are no longer here 30 years old was young to them. Most did not even marry until later in their 30’s.
Her moms sus!
She was mental and untreated. Because a normal person knows that he has to get Old.
Si true. It was most a mental illness than anything else.
My thoughts are just that Cheslie felt if she wasn't perfect that she wasn't worthy. She was raised to be perfect. Only God is perfect. This is a cautionary and difficult lesson.
It's her mom's fault . She only praised children's achievements not their personalities. She should look at herself and try to stop doing it with her other kids.
Agree
@@inasyal6311 So there's no foul play and it's suicide? I watched an interview about dysfunctional family and narcissistic parents and it reminded me of this. I feel like Cheslie was probably the golden child in the family. The pressure of pleasing the narcissist was exhausting. She's trying to fill in the empty bottomless void.
She was on social media (RUclips among them), and I feel that SM can create a lot of pressure, since it's a way for some to gauge their popularity, and if a person is already dealing with issues, it can push them over the edge. Plus there are many sick/mean persons online who get a kick out of insulting attractive and talented women, especially black or mixed-raced women.
I'm not a psychologist, but I find her manner of suicide telling. It makes me wonder why she chose a method that would literally destroy her body and appearance. Those who bullied her online have blood on their hands. They should be publicly called out and exposed.
@@inasyal6311 it is definitely possible.
This interview felt weird. This lady doesn’t even seem sad about it at all. Someone just committed suicide and she just sits there answering questions with a smile on her face and all she has to say is “there were no signs”. Maybe not obvious signs but when you take time to look back at certain moments for sure you can see them. The letter she wrote about running out of time . Huge sign there ! May she Rest In Peace
The family and the publicist says there were no signs ... so where did they get this specific diagnosis "high functioning depression " . How did they know she was a high functioning depressed person if there were no signs and nobody knew ? Ummm makes no sense . Not adding up . Also the mom says she didn't know about Cheslies depression until shortly before . Did she tell her to get help? Was cheslie on medication? There is something strange going on
thought i was the only one noticing the happy grin and other behaviors...hollywood is hollyweird...poor baby..seems she was being used...something is off
I agree, I also feel like Gail King and Nate who worked with Cheslie on Extra seemed more upset then her friend.
Wow, I’m so glad I’m not the only thought this! How , and why is she smiling?
Disagree. I saw that shes grieving as shes answering, shes holding her tears back. How is her face smiling?
This interview seems strange. I know this lady is a publicist, but every answer she uses the phrase, "high functioning depression." Maybe it's a way to provide answers to the public while still maintaining privacy, but it feels like she's being evasive while answering questions. I feel for this woman's family and friends.
I totally agree. I understand she is a publicist, but you should have a certain amount of authenticity, especially in a situation like this. It is very obvious she does not.
She was hired by Cheslie's mother so they certainly feel her representation is appropriate.
Yes. It's not personal.
And why is she smiling so much… I get that no everyone grieves in the same way but Idk just saying
@@antonellaalcantara7265
Maybe she is smiling to keep from breaking down and crying when she is there to give an interview and get through it.
Why are you people under this video spewing conjecture and conspiracy theories. Why can't it just be that maybe Cheslie had a date set to end her life, she did not want to leave much details, but the reason would be her secret to take to her grave. Given the way she did it (traveling to the 29th floor), indicates she was resolute in her decision (although it breaks my heart). *Respect* the family's privacy and stop with the esoteric banter. I would not be surprised if her grieving family will see these comments...
I can imagine how difficult it must have been for an introvert to always appear to be outgoing and a ray of sunshine. Being an introvert requires one to have adequate rest periods to recuperate from all the overstimulation. Otherwise, it can be overwhelming and exasperating. I'm an introvert with extroverted tendencies, and this is what
So am I...you are so true!
With all due respect to this lady, I'm sure she loved Cheslie very much, but she keeps saying there were no signs of Cheslie being depressed... then a minute later they talk about the essay Cheslie wrote for Allure... it reads like a cry for help. I think it would be more honest to say: you know what, there were signs, we just missed them because maybe we were too close to the picture or because we were in the denial or because we weren't educated on the subject of depression. I didn't know that essay existed... but as soon as they brought up its content... it's clear she was going through a rough patch.
I agree Kiem, this is why for this interview it might’ve been better to hire a publicist who wasn’t a grieving friend so close to the situation.
I agree . It seems like she has a narrative and she is sticking to it . Like the messaging is very off .
Well said! I thought the same. You can’t help people if you are not willing to acknowledge something was missed. But it’s possible her family can shed more light if and when they are ready. I know in my case, there are at least 2 people who I share my heart with. It’s hard for me to imagine that Cheslie didn’t have that.
Yes, the essay was dark. Like something written in your personal journal on a bad day when you are trying to find strength to keep going. It was surprising from that publication and from a pagent winner. Even in the essay she said she spent her 30th birthday alone.
Yup. The essay was extremely telling within the first sentences.
Latoya needs to stop smiling. This is not a commercial about socks. This is your client and friend who passed
Yeah thats weird.
For this lady to say, as Cheslie's "good friend and publicist," that there were NO signs over again tells me she has zero emotional intelligence. How sad for Cheslie to be surrounded by people whom she felt she had to be "ON" for. What kind of a relationship is that? Rest In Peace dear Cheslie Kryst. 🙏🏽🕊😭🌹🕯
Possibly because there’s a chance she wasn’t depressed, and maybe was pushed off the terrace. Her mother said that, as a broken mother. Her own mother even said that she hid it from her as well. Her mother was her best friend, I think she said that because that’s what the situation looked like. There could have been foul play involved. Just food for thought. Tyra Banks is a perfect example. Beautiful model, went up and down in weight after her prime years. Tyra, I’m sure could have also had thoughts, as many women do, about aging. A lot of women are depressed. For Cheslie not to show ANY signs, not even to her mother, is highly suspicious. I hope there is an investigation going on behind her death. Her friend was a good friend, who saw no signs at all, her coworker sitting next to her said the same thing. No one is that good as hiding every single sign of a multitude of being suicidal.
Depression and life, to that matter, is quite complex and yet simultaneously nuanced. To suggest that EVERYONE ALWAYS shows signs and SOMEONE is CERTAIN to pickup on them or that those around her provided no space for her to be vulnerable and are the cause of her always on disposition is to oversimplify her the experience for all involved.
With friends like her who needs enemies.
When you are constantly known as a ray of sunshine it’s hard to reveal your true feelings bcz you don’t want to let others down so you hide how you really feel in shame. You hide behind the smile
@@rarejourneys I know. Thats my life too.
Idk I disagree. I know the family is grieving and I don’t mean to be disrespectful, but it’s all too weird. The mom immediately went to blame “high functioning depression” which she hid from everyone and she didn’t learn about it until the very end. I think the family spokesperson trying really hard to downplay the essay. I feel like she was trying to stop all speculation that is going on and she immediately denied the essay had ANY red flags and it was FULL of red flags 🚩.
Been thinking this lady possibly posted up that last picture? However, if that was the case, we're getting into some serious calculus, so far as time, etc.
she overloaded herself so to repeatedly say it's high functioning depression is not accurate. depression is depression and she exhibited warning signs similar to most people before suicide/suicide attempts.
Agreed! She is not qualified to really speak about it. The questions directed at her were over her head! Need experts on this subject to talk.
I think high functioning depression means Cheslie was able to rise above the the negative feelings and accomplish so much.
What is sad now is she is not the only Queen to suffer from depression. All these resignations from the Miss USA pageant etc with the claims of abuse, just imagine what Cheslie went through. So heartbreaking. Praying for her family and friends. RIP Queen Cheslie.
Listen to some of her videos. In one where she shared family photographs, she specifically mentioned while reflecting on her childhood in one bright photo that her "energy had gone", that she was constantly "tired all the time". That's a specific reference to her troubled state. Apparently , she had lost the joy of living for some time , but was just pushing, till she could no longer push.
In most of her veiled statements about herself, she was literally screaming for help to the world. Unfortunately, no one was really listening or seeing her pains concealed in all the glitz and glamour. She did not really hide her depression well. Only that people did not pay her much attention. Please-, listen to your loved ones, friends and colleagues and carefully observe them. To be candid, there are always telling signs that do not hide. There are always the movements, postures or verbal cues that should not be ignored. A little probing might help to break down any defense, and help to lead in the pathway of recovery. Of course, don't forget to pray as well.
Yeah... Going thru her TikTok videos you can definitely sense some pain... The bleary eyes and puffed up lips in some videos were a sign of something?
We don’t call it high functioning depression. This is not on the DSM 5. she probably had persistent depressive disorder which used to be called dysthymia..…this is what I commonly diagnose my clients at my internship hours. Read about it please .
Great call! Either dysthymia or bipolar disorder is my thought. Her mother calling it High Functioning Depression is not a clinical term and its irresponsible to make that statement.
@@blackcherry6877 Do you think this is one reason why she had so few Friends? In her just released last text message, she talked bout pushing friends away. Could she have been privately difficult to deal with? Bipolar?
Still hits me that she’s gone so sad :’( rip angel ❤️
I cried for 3 days....tears still well up in my eyes. How did we miss this....She was an angel that was loaned to us. I should have been gone many times over but remain here....you truly have your wings now dear...rest and peace.
I am glad you’re still here
I feel that this beautiful soul Cheslie was over compensating to cover up the pain she really felt on the inside and she did her best to keep it together as long as she could. I wish she could have shared her pain and been able to get some help. I wished l had met her to be of some help. May she RIP!!
I agree. It's so sad but when you think about it it's very common for people to overcompensate or rather do anything and everything possible to cover up certain feelings for some it's pain, for some it's shame, for others fear, even illness. People do it all the time just in different ways to avoid appearing vulnerable. Some work excessively, some sleep too much, etc. Unfortunately her way was to be a huge light in the world, she did it perfectly that noone noticed she needed help. My heart and prayers go out to those close to her because if I am this sad, I can't imagine how much worse they feel
I wish I could have helped her, too. If only somebody had been on the terrace that morning.
@@jeffjohnson5544 I've found myself saying this to myself severally, "if only someone was there." I can't help but feel that way.. Sad how we can't turn back time and how death is just so final 😔
It is my opinion her publicist didn’t appear to be in grief, sad at he loss of this beautiful young woman. She smiled throughout the interview.
She’s not a good representative for the family in my opinion. Smiling?
I feel this woman had almost NO emotional attachment to Cheslie... Sadly
I just still can't believe it. What a loss. So grateful you folks invited LaToya Evans to share her observations. HFD is brutal. Stay strong everyone!
Exactly I still can not believe it. Never know what people are truly going thru. Hopefully people who are trained to help in a professional resources capacity will be able to do so. Unbelievable loss. Maybe media can leave the story alone & allow family their privacy. The media is the media. 🤦🏼♀️
@@Angela-cd9bj Hugs and love to you Angela. Stay strong, be well, love yourself best.
I think Cheslie was not comfortable in her skin, instead of helping her understand she was intelligent, smart etc she was placed in pageants and commaflagged or modelled as beauty from without instead of focusing on beauty within. She lived in an unrealistic world where thinking beauty doesnt age, but remains youthful forever. That way of thinking is completely off for a grown adult. One of the early lessons of life is that living things die. Trees or flowers are not green all the time. There are 4 seasons and every season you must expect change. Cheslie was blinded to change or reality and in the end that may have led to her demise.
@c:m prentice but this geogeous woman Cheslie never mentioned she wasn’t t comfortable in her own skin, or demonstrated a sign of insurity for crist sake she was miss USA a very confident woman so let’s not keep making assumption of what’s not true. Rest In Peace Cheslie.
My father passed. A pastor of a church. I was quite close to him. Our family maintained in the presence of others: engaged in conversation, made sure others were OK and did not experience intense emotions during public gatherings for my father. Especially when you deal with the public for many years your behavior sometimes tends to be reserved when all eyes are on you. I am used to this being the "preacher's daughter". I learned that for myself. My deep grieving I only wanted to share alone or with intimate family. Grief, especially unexpected death, leaves one numb, confused, off balanced while dealing with others and yourself. As I read some comments, I'd say don't judge the way one processes death. It is personal and we indeed are all different beings. Peace to those who are suffering in any manner.
Im sad that this happened to that beautiful sweet woman. I wish it didnt have to be this way.
My heart and soul weeps for this beautiful woman of compassion, so filled with life! We all miss your presence....Enter the blue light and become eternal peace of love and spirit! Lamed Vav....
Boy i wish i had high functioning depression because i had some deep depression and felt like crap couldn’t even get up and go to work. I am not buying what they are selling here to make an excuse for this incident. And i say incident because this was never investigated properly. Lot of assumptions here. This woman publicist smiling from ear to ear i find that rather disturbing as someone who was close to Chesley she seems not at all bothered by her loss.
It was very awful. No emotion is attached. Yet, her "friend"🙄🙄 Please try to get help for your depression. Praying for many people who struggle with this disease.
Yeah... I'm hoping this case is still open
Where are her real friends? No offense to this woman but she was working for Cheslie. I’m sure her real friends know her true pain.
THAT'S MY QUESTION AS WELL..SHE HAD NOONE TO TELL NOTHING?
The way that the lady in red is smiling throughout this really bothers me.
Because she is a devil in sheep's clothing. Lol... 😆
Someone should have told Cheslie to take a break and stop working so hard. I look at singers like Beyoncé who is a hard worker and I always said it seem as if she do too much. As well as other people in the industry with big task schedules. I still can’t shake Cheslie out of my mind so sad.
Beyoncé have a husband And Family That Supports Her Cheslie didn’t! Major Difference! And that seems odd for such a High Achiever At The Age Of 30 To Not Have A Boy Friend And Or Husband To Help Get Her Through All The Pressure’s And Stresses Of Life! This Is Weird! Who 🤔 Wants An Accomplished Life With No One ☝️ To Share It With? This Makes Absolutely No Sense! Smh 🤦♀️
Most too busy cashing in on the person ( Cheslie) in this case. Most only concerned about the money! 💰💵💸💳
Latoya, her publicist didn’t seem sad or in grief.
@@clashon4life843 um, it’s 2022. Not all women prioritize having a man.
@@lamarshalewis5380 Well, even in death Cheslie is still a "brand" of sorts that somehow must be protected... And I hate to think that part of this is protecting that brand?
If her family didn't know she had depression up until she died, how on earth did they come about this high functioning depression they're passionately preaching to the world?
Sadly, her family knew nothing about yet feel obligated to defend a diagnosis they never officially got from a doctor or psychologist.
Weird.
Somebody knew something, I feel... Great points
Something aint right with this like the coverage is way too high for someone most ppl never even heard of until her death.. Also where is the footage of her walking in the building? Why are they not releasing it?
She was Miss USA in 2019. Thats pretty high profile. I knew who she was and I dont follow any of that stuff.
They aren't releasing it.. maybe in respect for privacy for the family members...? and why is releasing videos helpful to anyone in the public? If the police needs that info for investigation, thats for their use.. not for nosey people and news outlets who just care about raving a story on a young woman's death. This is a very sensitive time for the family and close friends of Cheslie.. she is not just a celebrity to them.
@@RebelThoughts82 I never heard of her until now.
We do know her from miss USA o
Pageant, and from extra everyday
That's one reason why so much suspicion and speculation - Absolutely NO release of any type of video, unless NYPD is still investigating...
Although this Gayle says here that she is "making a difference in her death" (by deterring one fan from suicide), the larger truth is the exact opposite: such tragedies often inspire despair and "copycat" behavior in fans. So, we need now to watch those young people who were close social media followers. Wished Gayle had stated this more accurately. Missed opportunity.
right, i found that strange. i don't understand her reference of "because of cheslie i was depressed but because of cheslie im going to seek help" i dont understand
Strangely, there was a "Chelsea" Kryst on Twitter who mirrored Cheslie's feelings of suicide. Since Cheslie's death, that account has also gone dormant. One theory is that it was either an empath who also committed suicide or Cheslie's alter ego...
I think someone pushed her.... They need to find that person quick and stop saying she took her own life
It seems like she had people around her who brushed her problems under the rug, you have to feel very alone to take your own life. I don’t know this woman and everyone grieves differently but only a week after her friend dying it’s odd she’s smiling and talking like a normal interview I don’t understand
I find it rather concerning considering she was close to her mum she couldn't tell her how she felt suicidal, probably because she had always been this perfect high achiever
@@tracey8698 yes it seems like they just wanted her to stay the way she’s always been but it’s not that simple I think she was wanting help and didn’t get it
We don't have to take the world upon our shoulders in order to make others happy when we are in need of help ourself. It's a beautiful thing she did giving joy to others but it's never good for us giving people to overlook our own health and peace of mind. We all matter. And I am so sorry she felt she couldn't open up about what was really going on and now many people are in pain over her loss. Such a beautiful person gone to soon. Speak up and please speak up and have the courage to let others in when you know people care about you and pray and seek God's help, guidance and comfort. He will come through but we must have courage to reach out. Speak out and speak up. My deepest condolences to all her family and friends and her tribe. May you R.I.P beautiful Cheslie
They say she had high functioning depression. If she was on antidepressants, guess what? A side effect is suicidal thoughts. If she just started taking pills (this is only speculation) it is likely that that is what could’ve happened to her.
Yet, no toxicology report - Why?
Maybe the sign of High Functioning Depression showed itself in the positive... meaning, someone who is "ON" all the time is THE SIGN of something going on internally as we know it's not realistic to always be on the 'up and up'. Perhaps someone who doesn't ever show nor share sadness/anger (unpleasantness, etc..) is over controlling their emotions for a reason. To only appear as happy-go-lucky positive all the time has to be exhausting and most of all a mask ... a way to conceal something deeper.
So sad she couldn't find the help she needed.
If this is the type of person she was surrounded with, how could she have gotten help. She looks like she is using the moment to shine, professional but cold....instead of being honest warm hearted.
She was everything. Beautiful, smart and she accomplished so much. It breaks my heart that she is gone. Beautiful soul RIP. ❤️🌻 she had so much on her plate, maybe it was getting too much for her.
She is smiling so hard. It is off-putting.
@Alisha Catanach A publicist nervous?
I DO NOT AGREE WITH THE SUICIDE CLAIM .. furthermore she would not had gone out in that manner ,using that method ..HEINOUS! A homicide investigation should be on the table...
Definitely a must investigation should be going on right now. There’s just no possible way she would jump off the 29th floor. Especially since she was so self conscious about her beauty. I refuse to believe that as well.
There’s also so much pressure to always be the happy one, the one that lights the room, the one that everyone praises and expects to be everyone else’s “ray of light.” High archivers already place so much pressure on themselves, it’s not helpful to place more pressure on them.
If you look really closely at her face, she was pretty messed up
What caused the high functioning depression? Maybe it was the many a holes, narcissts, bullies and game players amongst us
She was an over achiever, everything had to be perfect
Why is Latoya smiling so hard?
She's accustomed to doing so in her role so it's likely hard to turn it off.
@@rc6449 yeah, I guess so. It just seems unsettling considering she was a 'friend.'
@@rc6449 Yeah, i get that is what she has to do most of the time, but she should also learn to turn it off. Read the room. Looks like she's either nervous or happy to be on tv.
Both
Yes I found it sickening & twisted how she was smiling instead showing sadness and grief.
The ALLURE interview was definitely a sign......her handler plainly missed it........I have PTSD......and people miss all my signs......if it wasn't for GOD......BUT GOD!!!!!!!!
LaToya is a fabulous spokesperson! She did a beautiful job with this interview in the midst of her grief.
She was smiling all throughout the interview and seemed like she was sticking to a script. I didn’t see any grief.
Are you kidding?
Speak for yourself, she sounds ridiculous
There are always signs.
Yeah... Just look at her TikToks
I still don't believe she killed herself. Her friend isn't a psychiatrist and there is something really really out of source. This woman sounds like she's selling something.
Exactly 💯
She was selling something - it's called "spin". And I've been trying to figure out, just how deep the spin has went...
"The family will host a public celebration of life on Friday, Feb. 18 at 6:30 p.m. at Elevation Blakeney." They will give livestream link closer to the service. #RIPCheslieKryst
The people who were surrounding her like this lady who is now calling it high functioning depression and she worked on that essay with her and now saying she didn't see anything. Listen to her response about has she ever heard her say she is working to much her response is that she certainty thinks they had that conversation. She was the one booking most of her gigs therefore she knew better than anyone how stressed this beautiful woman was.
That essay is so hunting.
Wow, so sad but I've been told anyone who smiles all the time is not that happy. We all have moments of sadness and whatever. Probably being pushed since childhood to say I don't want to disappoint anyone. R I P
Rest in peace beautiful soul called Cheslie Kryst🙏
To lost a child is very sad i think of take my own life because i lost my mom and now i have desprssion
I am now seeking help
Well looking at her smile you could never tell that young lady suffered from depression🤔
True. I feel like even the people who are binge watching her videos and are now saying " I can actually see some sadness in her eyes" are only saying it because this happened otherwise there's nothing there. Just a very happy looking, beautiful, intelligent and well spoken young woman. This was truly a big loss
Because she wasn’t. I smell foul play.
@@nunyamindyub3255 I think for the sake of her family, people should just stop it with the theories. They knew her better plus I'm sure they were first to ask all these questions everyone is asking. I'm sure they've seen footage and all that. Could be they've even seen footage of her jumping because noone would allow their loved one's case to be ruled a suicide if it wasn't. Unfortunately some people are saying they won't believe it unless they see footage. Goodness, they will wait forever because why would anyone just allow a clip of how their loved one died to be aired publicly? We really have no right to demand that footage is released or to keep saying something different from what her family has confirmed. Just coz someone didn't look depressed doesn't mean they weren't. This isn't the first of such cases
@@sophieatieno5148 I'm still shocked and he'll really beautiful she is and she had all those issues I'm wishing now she gotten the help that she needed🤔 sometimes you never know what's going on with the other person
@@sophieatieno5148 All the more reason to release some video... Will put so much of speculation to rest. No need to see her actually jumping... And if there is NO video - Why? How is that even possible?
She needed to hang around with REAL people , this person acts fake as can be. I am sorry to be rude, but real friends dig deeper and ask questions. Their relationship was clearly just surface level and I guess that is okay b/c she was her boss.
Right... LaToya seems to have had a purely professional relationship with CHeslie that involved very little emotional attachment
Isolation is the worst punishment .Your accomplishment worth nothing if you don't have a family or someone to share it with the worlds of my friend before she took her life.
Maybe she was ball of pain wrapped in a smile. I know that experience.
Zero emotion
Why all the conspiracy theories? Yes. A successful person can die by suicide. No one is immune to it.. I know a successful doctor who died by suicide. She had 3 kids. She was active, bubbly, close with her siblings.. no one knew.
Now her family is spreading awareness about burnout at work and encouraging those who feel suicidal to get help.. I've had several failed attempts. Not sure why God keeps me here..
Anyways. It is possible for someone to have it all and die by suicide..sometimes suicide isn't planned. It can be impulsive. My attempts were not planned. It was impulsive and I felt at those times I should be gone.. when you're in that mindset not much can bring you out of it..
It's sad that Cheslie died by suicide but people can hide their pain very well. When others find out I live with depression they ask me how that's possible if I smile, look nice, have a business.. When I'm alone that pain comes out. I don't show my mental illness to many because there's such a stigma. It's 2022. Educate yourself.
Thanks for the awareness. I pray you get through your dark days. 💪🙏
Why do u keep posting this comment everywhere. No one cares about u or ur doctor friend Tbh
Psychiatry might be in its infancy but they have great drugs available for depression nowadays. It’s come a long way.
What does “low functioning” depression look like?
Someone who is depressed suffering and it’s obvious by anyone.
High functioning people can go to work or hang around friends, family, etc. and no one will ever know they are surfing inside. The signs are there but they are not obvious. It’s like having to look through a microscope to see it. And usually people don’t notice until tragedies like suicide happens. So then people go back and actually see the signs that they didn’t see in real time before.
Trust me. It exists.
Now hearing about what is going on behind the Miss USA business with these resignations and allegations of abuse. We can only believe that she was exposed to some of these horrors. All the Queen's who have resigned have mental health issues and my goodness it was terrible what they went through. RIP Queen Cheslie. My prayers go out to her family, friends and this amazing Latoya.
This woman does not care about Cheslie. If she did she would have intervened when she read her essay. Her essay was her suicide note to the world. That’s what I got out of the heartbreaking essay after I read it. And WHY is she smiling so much!? This woman claims on her website she specializes in “ Crisis intervention” for clients....... you failed Cheslie you money hungry witch!
Seriously beginning to think she could have been involved in that final posting? Perhaps had advance notice that Cheslie was gone? However, that gets into some complex calculus
Could it be homicide?
Or assisted suic!de? That's what I've been thinking...
Rest in heaven Queen
High functioning depression = repression
Rest In Peace 🙏🙏🙏
This woman had too much on her plate everything was piled up on her that's the thing about being famous being model's actors they have to have their days already planned for them they never have a plan for themselves it's overwhelmingly in does cause deep depression I've been there done that myself it is most horrific feeling you get overwhelmingly and you severely get depressed to the point of you feel so alone and no one would understand that everything just piles up on you and it's overwhelmingly overwhelmingly hard I feel for her she's such a beautiful young woman If she only had life of just being happy and not having to jump to all these different things that she had to do in order to be like her mother God-bless her soul rest and peace I feel so bad for her
it's why people like Dave Chappelle and others simply walk away or try to disappear....
I dont necessarily agree with this label "high functioning depression", it sounds contrived and somewhat of a cover up. This beautiful soul was in pain, and we may never know the source
Well, even in death she's still a "brand" with an image... Seems like they're trying to protect that image
I knew that's what it was. Blame society.
Cheslie did not commit suicide, she was pushed off that ledge!!!
Dont trust this lady want some clout. And reason is that no emotion in her. That's wasn't her friend thats a associate
Right... A purely professional relationship - NO emotion
She’s was beautiful not to die...sorry for the family
We live in a society that makes people feel like they have to always be on their game, no one is prefect. Allow yourself and others around you to say that you need help or that they need help, it is okay to say that you need help!!!! NO MORE SHAME!!!! I have watched a lot of videos about this beautiful young lady and in some of them she spoke about aging out in reference to the pageantry world. Being the oldest to win the title of of Miss USA, this thing about running out time was ebbed in her due to this life style of pageants. Then she steps into Hollywood were she is dealing with even more pressures surrounding the age factor in Hollywood. We have got to normalize our conversations around mental health in a hurry people. Everything we do starts in our mind; why not treat it like any other body part that we rush to doctor seeking help for.
Awful, these days nobody to talk to no Godly folk like back in day, you don't know what people going through sad.
We love you Cheslie 😘😘😘😘😘
Don’t fall for the Okedoke … this woman was murdered… this is no suicide!!!!
Prioritize self care and less a people pleaser
Why is That woman smiling all the time?? She SMILES!!! -- so Freakin absurd😰. Is she happy to be on TV which covers the sadness of losing Cheslie??😢
Please stop with the conspiracy theories. It’s an insult to the family and I feel so bad for them knowing so many people don’t believe she was depressed :( I’m sorry Cheslie may you RIP in heaven with Jesus forever . Rest easy 💗🙏
No disrespect but come on with this high functioning depression , depression is depression….RIP Cheslie 🙏🏾
This whole thing sound suspicious I just hope God save her soul.
How does it sound suspicious, what a slap in the face to the mental health community. Stop discounting mental health just because its packaged pretty and successful. This woman took her own life!
So sad 😭
According to insider, Cheslie was having a career crisis. Many of her childhood friends and family wanted her to pursue a career in law, instead of her career as a "correspondent" for Extra - which didn't pay well. And according to our insider, the struggle with what to do with her career, "weighed heavily on her."
Also, the insider claims that Cheslie was allegedly a member of the LGBTQ+ crew - and possibly a closeted lesbian. The insider claimed that Chelsea - who was deeply religious - was struggling with being open about her sexuality.
But she stated in a prior interview when she was Miss USA that she had a boyfriend. So she is not gay
@@queenesquiresquad it could be a cover you know she didn't come out and say she was screwing the guy. She said nothing about her level of intimacy with anyone.
You are spreading these rumours now for a week. What's your deal?
@@queenesquiresquad all the gays say that, they've all had the "normal" boyfriend or girlfriend before coming out, it means nothing. They're trying to fit in to normie world.
@@queenesquiresquad She could be bisexual and leans more into women but wanted to hide that.
All talk of 'legacy' goes out the window when u do that to yourself. No pun.
High functioning depression is a very real thing
Those are signs that something was wrong. It’s so sad because she was trying to be good enough for the world and couldn’t meet that standard! My prayers are for her family. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
CIA backdoor owns Go Fund Me. They supported Chaz/Chop even after murders but won't support peaceful trucker protesters in Ottawa. Government around the world are terrified that the people are realizing they can stand up to tyranny. Why aren't the Ottawa truckers dying from a massive covid outbreak? FBI is working with Ottawa police. Expect what the FBI does.
ABSOLUTELY A TERRIBLE LOSS, I UNDERSTAND HIGH FUNCTIONING MORE NOW...HAD SEVERAL INCREDIBLY SMART AND MASSIVELY SUCCESSFUL PEOPLE WHO CHECKED OUT WITHOUT ANY SIGNS. 🤔
You got it right nate there was sign someone who act that way isn't real
IM CALLING BULL-ISH.....SOMETHING HAPPENED
This Lady is missed everything her mom did too! How could they not tell? She was very high-strung. Like she couldn't sit still. She was doing that because she didn't want anyone to pick up on her depression. And the said she ate a lot of sweets too! That definitely was not good for her either. It just added to her extreme ways of moving about her days. Mad at mom! She seemed to not really care too much about Cheslie well being!?
THERES STILL NO VIDEO OF HER JUMPING OFF THE ROOF.... NO VIDEO OF HER LANDING... NO VIDEO OF THE DEAD BODY. NO VIDEO OF HER GOING UP TO THE 29TH FLOOR EVEN IN THE ELEVATOR.
SOMEBODY LYING
Ohhhhhhh her name was "cheslie" I thought the news reporter Gayle had mispronounced it😮And this "friend" who keeps repeating she thinks the "high functioning" part is just a normal part for over achievers um....sweetheart it doesn't seem very promising though because it didn't help cheslie
She was a very good actress. She fooled everyone.
😔🙏🏾
She’s pressured to get to the big 3 O
"""High functioning depression????!!!; that's almost every elite athlete, a list performers of stage screen even television anchors in big markets to be ""on""how do they all cope??? ..... elaborate has to be more what triggered,this tragic ending..??.may she in peace 🙏🏽🕊️......
Everything But Jesus🙏
But what else she have to prove I still don’t gets it
I think we will all be surprised . Nonetheless - Rest .
I've said this many many many times before but I am devastated with this news I still don't believe everything that's came out is true I am a survivor from that situation once again I did it twice however to me there is a lot of unknown questions I just don't believe this beautiful woman who was so much or her looks what actually go from the 9th floor to the 29th floor and in her life it just don't seem like that would be her type of way of doing this they have to have a closed casket is horrible it a lot of please just don't sit right with me I just pray that if somebody did something to this young girl it would be my own and find out and would be Justice for her I still say from day one I just don't believe it it just don't seem like the type of way she would have took her life but my prayers go out to everybody and I don't like this viewer to Miguel was more compassionate with her words than her friend I don't like how she smelt or anyting through the situation I can imagine smiling or the interview with her friend just don't sit right to me to me it seemed like she was more about being on TV then actually talkin I just don't like it I know a lot of people going to actually look at this and it to me seen a little funny the action of the family friend all I can say is God bless this beautiful talented young lady she will be very much missed and I really hoped it we get some answers like is it her handwriting and why did she go up to the 29th floor when she was already on the 9th floor also where's the cameras that's what we'd like to hear