I did not show my scars until about 6 months after i started self harming and people at school picked on me for it do i started hidding it again Now i wear short sleeves every day and im happy :))
you all prolly dont care at all but does anybody know a method to log back into an instagram account..? I somehow lost the login password. I love any help you can offer me
I live in Florida so it’s usually on the hotter side. The struggle is real 💀 but now that I’ve gotten so used to wearing long sleeves it’s just comfortable for me now and I’m trying to become okay with wearing shortsleeves again. Can’t believe something so simple takes so much effort 💀
Its so wonderful how you have been such a positive influence for me. As well as a positive representation for people who have been in rough situations but have truly turned things around. You have even made your experiences into a way to help others and really educate people. Its so good how you really are so educated and understanding of the subject. This is so wonderful and i will continue following and watching.
Everyone deserves a supportive family and friends that are not going to make you feel bad for your struggles. If they genuinely care then there's obviously no problem with talking about that topic but it's something different when they try to make you feel worse. Everyone deserves a supportive family, supportive friends. I am sorry to everyone who has mental health issues, I really am. Every single one of you deserve to be happy and not be ridiculed. You are strong and I believe in you. Please don't give up. There are always people who are going to be able to help, who want to help you. Seek help if you need to, there's no shame in that. Please. Before you decide to harm yourself or even worse. You deserve to live. You deserve to feel good. To make good memories, to travel, do see the world. There is so much you haven't seen. There's still good in the world, even when it doesn't seem like it. I genuinely mean that. It is fucking hard, I know that so well but I really think that everyone is capable of getting better. If you need a long time for recovery, that is totally fine and if you relapse, that is also totally fine too! But it's important to try at least.. Much love to everyone who reads this, I hope you know that you are worth it...
Really liked this video. Thank you for sharing more of your story. For me during the ages of 15-20 i hid them all year round till I stopped. At 21 I wasn’t ashamed or afraid. When I relapsed at 27 I hid them. These days I only hide anything fresh when I’m around friends and family
It's been quite hard hiding my scars where I live because it's becoming so hot and I have to wear long sleeves and my family look at me weird. I actually just started cutting on May 2 and I already have 40 cuts not to deep . 30hrs clean
If I can’t tell how noticeable my scars are to other people, would it be a good idea to ask someone I trust even if they haven’t seen my scars before? I have never really shown them to anyone before, but I don’t want to make the wrong judgement.
none know this about me and in summer when i have to go to family things its so stresfull all the time they ask me why i wear this when its so hot and all :/ only a few times i didnt hide em like in work because it was soo hot this day and i had to use my body to get the job done and i would die of sweeting too much XD and im quite sure at least 1 of the people i worked with saw the scars and said nothing thats nice i wouldnt handle good that situation and my birthday is in the middle of summer so being the center of attention and try to hide things aint a good mix :/ how do i tell people this? like... hey guess what¡¡? my plan is tell none and do like nice tattoos that hide em perfectly and thats it... not the best plan but sounds the easieast to me :3
Hi! Yes usually people you're not close to won't ask anything. This practically has never happened to me. And telling can be pretty hard... How you tell them depends a lot on your relationship with them
My bestfriend doesn't know I relapsed awhile ago and dosent like the fact that I did it in the first place. With summer coming up I'm scared she's gonna be mad if she sees my arms and thighs...
I show my scars when around most people, it actually doesn't bug me. Haven't had a bad experience yet though when someone saw my scars so my opinion might change.
Summer is still hard for me. I got trough one summer and it was a really hard time. The only people knowing about my self harm are my 2 best friends, even tho i only talk about it with one of them cause the other one is going trough the same thing and i think she's recovering so i don't wanna trigger her. Then there's the thing that my parents know i really like swimming. And it is quite obvious if i don't wanna go swimming at all.
My father would be very angry if he saw my scars and eventually he is going to see them someday and I'm scared and my mom always tells me to cover them and I don't blame her actually. I don't show my scars often but when I do then she tells me to hide them, it makes me sad.
@@Selfharmerproblems I'm guessing because she knows that she has been abusive in the past and while it's not her fault that I started harming myself, she played a big part in why I am the way I am now.
I did not show my scars until about 6 months after i started self harming and people at school picked on me for it do i started hidding it again
Now i wear short sleeves every day and im happy :))
Good job!
Now that is courageous! I'm seriously afraid of even showing it to my family.
Kids are A-holes, man. I'm sorry about that.
you all prolly dont care at all but does anybody know a method to log back into an instagram account..?
I somehow lost the login password. I love any help you can offer me
I live in Florida so it’s usually on the hotter side. The struggle is real 💀 but now that I’ve gotten so used to wearing long sleeves it’s just comfortable for me now and I’m trying to become okay with wearing shortsleeves again. Can’t believe something so simple takes so much effort 💀
Right?! Crazy how we can adapt
Its so wonderful how you have been such a positive influence for me. As well as a positive representation for people who have been in rough situations but have truly turned things around. You have even made your experiences into a way to help others and really educate people. Its so good how you really are so educated and understanding of the subject. This is so wonderful and i will continue following and watching.
Wow this is so kind. Thank you so much ❤️
I am sick of hiding my scars this summer I will wear them out in public
Everyone deserves a supportive family and friends that are not going to make you feel bad for your struggles. If they genuinely care then there's obviously no problem with talking about that topic but it's something different when they try to make you feel worse. Everyone deserves a supportive family, supportive friends. I am sorry to everyone who has mental health issues, I really am. Every single one of you deserve to be happy and not be ridiculed. You are strong and I believe in you. Please don't give up. There are always people who are going to be able to help, who want to help you. Seek help if you need to, there's no shame in that. Please. Before you decide to harm yourself or even worse. You deserve to live. You deserve to feel good. To make good memories, to travel, do see the world. There is so much you haven't seen. There's still good in the world, even when it doesn't seem like it. I genuinely mean that. It is fucking hard, I know that so well but I really think that everyone is capable of getting better. If you need a long time for recovery, that is totally fine and if you relapse, that is also totally fine too! But it's important to try at least..
Much love to everyone who reads this, I hope you know that you are worth it...
Really liked this video. Thank you for sharing more of your story. For me during the ages of 15-20 i hid them all year round till I stopped. At 21 I wasn’t ashamed or afraid. When I relapsed at 27 I hid them. These days I only hide anything fresh when I’m around friends and family
It's been quite hard hiding my scars where I live because it's becoming so hot and I have to wear long sleeves and my family look at me weird. I actually just started cutting on May 2 and I already have 40 cuts not to deep . 30hrs clean
It’s 2 years later, how are you doing now?
If I can’t tell how noticeable my scars are to other people, would it be a good idea to ask someone I trust even if they haven’t seen my scars before? I have never really shown them to anyone before, but I don’t want to make the wrong judgement.
If you do that I would say do it with someone you're really close to.
none know this about me and in summer when i have to go to family things its so stresfull all the time they ask me why i wear this when its so hot and all :/
only a few times i didnt hide em like in work because it was soo hot this day and i had to use my body to get the job done and i would die of sweeting too much XD and im quite sure at least 1 of the people i worked with saw the scars and said nothing thats nice i wouldnt handle good that situation
and my birthday is in the middle of summer so being the center of attention and try to hide things aint a good mix :/
how do i tell people this? like... hey guess what¡¡?
my plan is tell none and do like nice tattoos that hide em perfectly and thats it... not the best plan but sounds the easieast to me :3
Hi! Yes usually people you're not close to won't ask anything. This practically has never happened to me. And telling can be pretty hard... How you tell them depends a lot on your relationship with them
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My bestfriend doesn't know I relapsed awhile ago and dosent like the fact that I did it in the first place. With summer coming up I'm scared she's gonna be mad if she sees my arms and thighs...
merci petit ange, ta maman et ta vidéo sont géniales!! much love xx back to stalk you (': xx
I show my scars when around most people, it actually doesn't bug me. Haven't had a bad experience yet though when someone saw my scars so my opinion might change.
Great video 💕
Summer is still hard for me. I got trough one summer and it was a really hard time. The only people knowing about my self harm are my 2 best friends, even tho i only talk about it with one of them cause the other one is going trough the same thing and i think she's recovering so i don't wanna trigger her.
Then there's the thing that my parents know i really like swimming. And it is quite obvious if i don't wanna go swimming at all.
Hey. I am following you for a while and I was wondering what's your name? You probably said your name recently but my English is terrible.
My name is Malika!
@@Selfharmerproblems Thank you. Hope I am not looking so stupid in your eyes...
I haven't scarred in like few months
My father would be very angry if he saw my scars and eventually he is going to see them someday and I'm scared and my mom always tells me to cover them and I don't blame her actually. I don't show my scars often but when I do then she tells me to hide them, it makes me sad.
Aw I'm sorry... Do you know why she asks that?
@@Selfharmerproblems I'm guessing because she knows that she has been abusive in the past and while it's not her fault that I started harming myself, she played a big part in why I am the way I am now.
@@Leo-iq6ks I'm sorry to hear that, it the same thing with my step dad, he wants me to hide them
Summer seriously sucks for me atlest.
Yes if you hide it can be pretty tough