Hay guys, I have a question, there's this thing people keep talking about online it's called outside, i was just wondering if you guys know what it is?
@kuroknight5103 I see this as sometimes it's better to say nothing if it's just a one time problem. You could create an argument yourself otherwise (usually ENTPs sadly). So I think the taking things easy approach also has benefits and more people should be like that as well to avoid many unecessary conflicts. Sometimes there is just no real problem to solve.
facing this doorslam right now with my infj gf (im a guy). and right now, after a month of waiting, I, as an entp guy, will fly to their province and try to woo her down to hopefully talk to me again. wish me luck everyfuckingbodyyyy!
@@zio.eza25 we got back together, and we're still together right now. doorslammed for about 3 weeks. aaaand she's apparently like that. i was so happy after that door reopened. sad thing is, i don't know if it's an entp thing but i'm still sticking with her even if i kinda think this infj girl is just trash. she's toxic and easily jealous, inclined to engage in conflicts, and she broke stuff in my house.
@@joantheresecruz9474 That sounds unhealthy regardless of your mbti types. You want to be with someone who doesn't mistreat you. I'm sorry you're going through this.
The INFJ should really think about installing locks on these doors 😑. But he probably didn't think about it because it's a boring and tiring concrete task, so very accurate.
Ye I'm currently dealing with my infj occasional doorslam 🙄 the good thing is the fact that I'm the only person she has doorslammed more than once, i lost count already ngl.. the others has only dealt with it once because once she doorslammed you ,you basically never existed.. but the down side is the fact that she does it occasionally when she's in that moody moods arghhh ┻┻︵ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ︵┻┻
lol i feel that. I got doorslammed by my infj more times than i can count. sadly this time i just removed him off everything because he kept reading my messages and not replying so i presume its the last doorslam :/ been months tho, hard to let it go
@@flatmattress3203 i just hope my infj will come around, forgot to mention, she's my best friend of over a decade and we live together.. she talks to me sometimes but the connection is no longer there, it's like she's only doorslamming me emotionally, I'm giving her some space instead of trying to keep tearing down the door like i usually did lol..that or I'm actually very hurt i can no longer mask it off 😅 I'm thinking of letting her go, but you know, it's really hard for me to feel this kind of connection, I've never commit to anyone this much..so part of me can't let her go.. if i do it feels like I'm gonna die ,well this is quite dramatic 😂 Anyway, from the way she talk, it's like she wants to reconcile but she's really not the type to apologize and step down because it'll hurt her ego, but i can no longer pretend like I'm not hurt so I guess i kinda play her game and now we've been like this for months 🙃
I'm an infj and have doorslammed only a few people (and each only once). Of course I'm someone that needs space if I'm upset, I don't know if that is now also considered doorslamming? I can't actually imagine what is going on inside their head if they truly are doorslamming and not just taking space for themselves to digest their emotions/thoughts. I've doorslammed people because they had bigoted views or they were involved with drugs or they were just not treating me well.
@@ellem8990 yes needing some space and doorslamming is different..when she needs some space , she'd become quiet and barely talks to anyone including her family.. when she doorslammed a person, she's only acting cold and ignoring that particular person but not everyone else.. it's just that my infj bestie admitted that whenever she does that (ignoring me for months) it's because she's considering whether or not to continue our friendship,not because I'm causing her troubles or hurts but rather , she's aware of her jealousy and possessiveness towards me.. Ngl what makes me furious is the fact that she always decide things on her own despite our countless conversation and reassurance, apparently she does that for the sake of us both , even though it clearly impacted us both negatively instead of making things better.. i mean ,i just can't see stone walling being a good idea for us both in the long run.. I'm really conflicted rn, especially when she suddenly asked if I'm considering moving out .. she said that it's better for me to stay , because of this and that.. it's the same pattern.. she'll only try to talk to me nicely when she realized I might walk away or lose interest in mending our friendship.. because I've always been the one who keeps trying to save our relationship.. so it seems like she'd freak out when i stopped trying to fix things.. one thing,that is very painful for me to admit is that ,i feel disrespected most of the time with her, i feel like a pet not a person with my own life..
@@ellem8990 btw, thank you for sharing your perspective, that made me even more sure that our relationship has turned toxic.. and I'm sorry for venting a lot i think,but i need to let it out really 😅
😂relatable yeah see this is what I usually do I avoid confrontation at ALL costs. Not even talking to some ex friends of mine to talk things out with is a go for me or about to door slam to talk to is a go for me😅
Its acctually toxic as fuck dealing with that crap. Cant talk about anything whithout getting doorslamed. Im at a point if an infj doorslams me i go and lock the door. And walk away. Childish weak behaivior.
Doorslam doesn't happen that easily, and doesn't happen because of childish reasons, when they doorslam you is because you crossed the line and you are not taking resposibility for it, besides you are not trying to really solve the problem (very frequetly this type of people just want to continue as if nothing happened). The point of the doorslam is that the "talk" didn't work, the relationship (no matter what type of relationship) didn't work, I mean, the infj tried, but it didn't work because the other person is not taking that seriously, so there's no point for the infj to waste their time with that person, they just take him out of their life and move on, and everyone's happy, maybe the doorslamed one (ENTP) is not happy at the beginning, but in the long time he'll be, the problem is that a lot of ENTPs don't care about all that reasoning and it seems they are the kind of people that feel comfortable with conflict (some of them even enjoy it), so to be honest the ENTP are the ones making this so toxic. If you are the kind of people that "lock the door" after the doorslam, then you are doing the correct thing, what you are doing is going to bring peace to the INFJ.
and I mean, I think people in internet are taking the doorslam as some kind of joke or childish behavior resulting when someone disagree with you or when someone is being just annoying, that's not how the doorslam works, INFJ tend to be very patient and understanding, in real life the doorslam is a serious and definite decision that happens when INFJ has done everything possible to be in good terms, but nothing worked. It is not a decision that comes from a hurt INFJ, but from a logical INFJ.
@@rfiscal1538 infj can not handle anything. They people please in order to be liked. There opinions are completly based on other peoples opinions or there selfish feelings. They dont care if they are the problem. They play victim when they get criticised and and always blame others. Conflict is inevetable in this world. Knowing how to manage it is a skill ENTP lern early on because they are loyal to truth. And truth creates conflict. Infj jist run away and hide from it. They can not handle anything. Always need to be protected but always listen to the person thats "nice" to them, not the one who care and want to help them the most. Thats why they are easy to scam. How do people say? Infj are easy to get but hard to keep. Because they are cowards hiding behind people pleasing behaivior.
Yes. Hilariously enough, an ENTP(like myself) will get mad and run away while slamming doors to self-isolate... & YES. We will get annoyed at our partner for chasing us. However, we love that you pursue us despite our disapproval because you’re choosing to track us down anyway. Which signals that you are somewhat crazy about us, stroking our ego. We love it when you stroke it.😉
He doesn't want to talk. My ex- used to chase me through the house to pick a fight when I just needed some time to self regulate. One reason he's an ex-.
We do not use conflict. We use doors and self-isolation. -INFJ
Hay guys, I have a question, there's this thing people keep talking about online it's called outside, i was just wondering if you guys know what it is?
@@cadenallen6776 No idea. I’ve heard about it,but idk what it is 🤷♀️
@@jo4183 I'll just go do some more research on it
@@cadenallen6776 alright. Tell me if you find anything,thanks.
@@jo4183 will do
This is literally me. My ENTP husband gets so mad when I do that lol
I need a ENTP, Please god. 😭
As an ENTP, it drives me NUTS when people in my life won't talk about things directly. This is me 100% 😂
@@OGAngie because you're a problem solver, not a bury-the-problem-deep-deep-down type of person and we need more of that!!!
@bloodpaintedoor I'm an ENTP but into far right politics sorry 😞
@kuroknight5103 I see this as sometimes it's better to say nothing if it's just a one time problem. You could create an argument yourself otherwise (usually ENTPs sadly). So I think the taking things easy approach also has benefits and more people should be like that as well to avoid many unecessary conflicts. Sometimes there is just no real problem to solve.
INFJ Man here: Yep this is me but lets be honest when shit gets real there is no room for door slamming .
Oohhh
I know, right…
It’s not funny anymore..is it?!
It’s terrifying .
this is torture for INFJs, i just realize we are the type to say "i need space"
THIS IS THE MOST ADORABLE WAY TO DESCRIBE THE MOST TRAUMATIC THING THAT AN INJURED INFJ CAN POSSIBLY TO YOU❤❤❤❤😂😂😂😂😂
So accurate lol
I'm like: No! YOU CAN'T GO BACK INTO YOUR SHELL AND IGNORE ME!
But I want to 🥺
@@cadenallen6776my heart hurts. My shell is safe.😢
@@christinemerritt974 yes🥺
I CAN AND WILL RETREAT TO MY SHELL AND YOU CANNOT STOP ME.
INFJ here and rarely have I EVER laughed so hard at an online video. 😂🤣😭 Gotta love ENTPs.
Omg I'm dying! 🤣🤣🤣 INFJ here.
I am dying too😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Me too. (INFJ)
Hello, my name is Christie, and I am a “Tony”
Hello im a Tony too 😂
Infj, yes that's me Door slams
facing this doorslam right now with my infj gf (im a guy). and right now, after a month of waiting, I, as an entp guy, will fly to their province and try to woo her down to hopefully talk to me again. wish me luck everyfuckingbodyyyy!
Don’t GIVE UP ON HER!!!!! If she opens the door back up THAT MEANS SHE LOVES YOU!
You’re a blessing
Update please 😊
@@zio.eza25 we got back together, and we're still together right now. doorslammed for about 3 weeks. aaaand she's apparently like that. i was so happy after that door reopened.
sad thing is, i don't know if it's an entp thing but i'm still sticking with her even if i kinda think this infj girl is just trash. she's toxic and easily jealous, inclined to engage in conflicts, and she broke stuff in my house.
@@joantheresecruz9474 That sounds unhealthy regardless of your mbti types. You want to be with someone who doesn't mistreat you. I'm sorry you're going through this.
I felt this in my soul 🤣🤣🤣
I feel it in every single fiber of my heart and mind and soul and body and strength.
The INFJ should really think about installing locks on these doors 😑. But he probably didn't think about it because it's a boring and tiring concrete task, so very accurate.
😂
Ye I'm currently dealing with my infj occasional doorslam 🙄 the good thing is the fact that I'm the only person she has doorslammed more than once, i lost count already ngl.. the others has only dealt with it once because once she doorslammed you ,you basically never existed.. but the down side is the fact that she does it occasionally when she's in that moody moods arghhh
┻┻︵ヽ(`Д´)ﾉ︵┻┻
lol i feel that. I got doorslammed by my infj more times than i can count. sadly this time i just removed him off everything because he kept reading my messages and not replying so i presume its the last doorslam :/ been months tho, hard to let it go
@@flatmattress3203 i just hope my infj will come around, forgot to mention, she's my best friend of over a decade and we live together..
she talks to me sometimes but the connection is no longer there, it's like she's only doorslamming me emotionally, I'm giving her some space instead of trying to keep tearing down the door like i usually did lol..that or I'm actually very hurt i can no longer mask it off 😅
I'm thinking of letting her go, but you know, it's really hard for me to feel this kind of connection, I've never commit to anyone this much..so part of me can't let her go.. if i do it feels like I'm gonna die ,well this is quite dramatic 😂
Anyway, from the way she talk, it's like she wants to reconcile but she's really not the type to apologize and step down because it'll hurt her ego, but i can no longer pretend like I'm not hurt so I guess i kinda play her game and now we've been like this for months 🙃
I'm an infj and have doorslammed only a few people (and each only once). Of course I'm someone that needs space if I'm upset, I don't know if that is now also considered doorslamming? I can't actually imagine what is going on inside their head if they truly are doorslamming and not just taking space for themselves to digest their emotions/thoughts. I've doorslammed people because they had bigoted views or they were involved with drugs or they were just not treating me well.
@@ellem8990 yes needing some space and doorslamming is different..when she needs some space , she'd become quiet and barely talks to anyone including her family.. when she doorslammed a person, she's only acting cold and ignoring that particular person but not everyone else..
it's just that my infj bestie admitted that whenever she does that (ignoring me for months) it's because she's considering whether or not to continue our friendship,not because I'm causing her troubles or hurts but rather , she's aware of her jealousy and possessiveness towards me..
Ngl what makes me furious is the fact that she always decide things on her own despite our countless conversation and reassurance, apparently she does that for the sake of us both , even though it clearly impacted us both negatively instead of making things better.. i mean ,i just can't see stone walling being a good idea for us both in the long run..
I'm really conflicted rn, especially when she suddenly asked if I'm considering moving out .. she said that it's better for me to stay , because of this and that.. it's the same pattern.. she'll only try to talk to me nicely when she realized I might walk away or lose interest in mending our friendship.. because I've always been the one who keeps trying to save our relationship.. so it seems like she'd freak out when i stopped trying to fix things.. one thing,that is very painful for me to admit is that ,i feel disrespected most of the time with her, i feel like a pet not a person with my own life..
@@ellem8990 btw, thank you for sharing your perspective, that made me even more sure that our relationship has turned toxic.. and I'm sorry for venting a lot i think,but i need to let it out really 😅
Hahahahaha you think doors can stop me? 😈 -ENTP
Lock it Tony.
Wow.. How sweet ENTPs are... As an INFJ i can relate with this doorslam behavior
😂relatable yeah see this is what I usually do I avoid confrontation at ALL costs. Not even talking to some ex friends of mine to talk things out with is a go for me or about to door slam to talk to is a go for me😅
This video makes me way too happy.
Lol coincidentally, my name is also Toni
TONI? TOOONNIII?
@@Imbroke69 aaahhh
🤣
😂
So is mine 😂
POOR TONY!!!
He looks so cute 😂😂
WHAT DID YOU DO TO BETRAY TONY??!!!!!!❤❤❤
😂 dad entp, mom infj, this is priceless
The funniest I've yet to see hahaha😂😂😂
The scream got me-
Rare specimens
Yo
Yes. Absolutely.
Darn it ENTP!
I will go insane if i don't have my space and privacy!
- a frustrated drained INFJ
Hmmmm
Jesus, what did you do? Question his values one time?
Hahahahahahahahahahahahahah
I cannot BREATHE 😂❤❤😂😂😂
lmfao
died laughing
accurate, accurate
For reals I have met some entp people like that so harrasingly 😆 🤣 lol
This is actually so funny. - infj here
Hahahahahahaaaaaaaaahahahahaha😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Oh MY GOD
I NEED AN ENTP
Sameee 😂❤❤
Funny how i watch this during my self-isolation
this is painfully accurate
I find this so funny 😂 I’m sorry for door slamming
IM SORRY NOT SORRY❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂❤
TONY HAS A BROKEN HEART 💔
Infj here. 🤣🤣🤣
Lets reverse the roles? This is intj me and entp bf whenever he messes with me before i yell at him 😂
This is too real
I as an INFJ have learned to mess with others and it feels so good to do it back to them and they look at you with fear
Weak
Sooo funny 😆😂
Lol.-ISTP(random)
ENTP male here chasing my INFJ childhood friend who has door slamming quite repeadetledy. Any thoughts from INFJs here?
This would be my nightmare LOL
[INFJ guy] i have an ENTP guy friend, he is the best person i ever met
it's always the door slam
- by a person who has an infj bff
True. But I don't have doors
Its acctually toxic as fuck dealing with that crap. Cant talk about anything whithout getting doorslamed. Im at a point if an infj doorslams me i go and lock the door. And walk away. Childish weak behaivior.
Doorslam doesn't happen that easily, and doesn't happen because of childish reasons, when they doorslam you is because you crossed the line and you are not taking resposibility for it, besides you are not trying to really solve the problem (very frequetly this type of people just want to continue as if nothing happened). The point of the doorslam is that the "talk" didn't work, the relationship (no matter what type of relationship) didn't work, I mean, the infj tried, but it didn't work because the other person is not taking that seriously, so there's no point for the infj to waste their time with that person, they just take him out of their life and move on, and everyone's happy, maybe the doorslamed one (ENTP) is not happy at the beginning, but in the long time he'll be, the problem is that a lot of ENTPs don't care about all that reasoning and it seems they are the kind of people that feel comfortable with conflict (some of them even enjoy it), so to be honest the ENTP are the ones making this so toxic. If you are the kind of people that "lock the door" after the doorslam, then you are doing the correct thing, what you are doing is going to bring peace to the INFJ.
and I mean, I think people in internet are taking the doorslam as some kind of joke or childish behavior resulting when someone disagree with you or when someone is being just annoying, that's not how the doorslam works, INFJ tend to be very patient and understanding, in real life the doorslam is a serious and definite decision that happens when INFJ has done everything possible to be in good terms, but nothing worked. It is not a decision that comes from a hurt INFJ, but from a logical INFJ.
@@rfiscal1538 infj can not handle anything. They people please in order to be liked. There opinions are completly based on other peoples opinions or there selfish feelings. They dont care if they are the problem. They play victim when they get criticised and and always blame others. Conflict is inevetable in this world. Knowing how to manage it is a skill ENTP lern early on because they are loyal to truth. And truth creates conflict. Infj jist run away and hide from it. They can not handle anything. Always need to be protected but always listen to the person thats "nice" to them, not the one who care and want to help them the most. Thats why they are easy to scam. How do people say? Infj are easy to get but hard to keep. Because they are cowards hiding behind people pleasing behaivior.
If by talking you mean trying to manipulate, I'd do it to you also
ITS BECAUSE YOU DESERVE IT, you are OBVIOULY A LIAR!!
INFJS ONLY DOOR SLAM LIARS!
But why would an entp try anyways I never found a person that even tried
😅
Yes. Hilariously enough, an ENTP(like myself) will get mad and run away while slamming doors to self-isolate... & YES. We will get annoyed at our partner for chasing us. However, we love that you pursue us despite our disapproval because you’re choosing to track us down anyway. Which signals that you are somewhat crazy about us, stroking our ego.
We love it when you stroke it.😉
Doors in real life:
😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm Tony
He doesn't want to talk. My ex- used to chase me through the house to pick a fight when I just needed some time to self regulate. One reason he's an ex-.
What the
To all the INFJ don’t estimate the enforcement of the ENTP
Lemme inside!@!!!
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I dont think its true. Entp get bored easily
i agree 🤣 as an entp, i'd just let him do the doorslam ..few knocks sure LOL but zero response will definitely make me lock the door instead ..lmao