Her kid had more consideration and forethought to prep his mum a plate, than what hubby has - that's pretty sad for the husband to be so mentally and emotionally stunted. And MIL would know it urks/inconveniences OP, plus she gets free food and no mess to clean; 100% intentional, childish bullshitery
Because one mother raised her son right to be considerate and the other raise the son to be a spoiled brat that OP didn’t realize until after she had a baby or two
dude, calm your tits. yes thats a no go, but talk to the husband first, tell him how serious it is and that a divorce could actually be on the table. if he still does shit, than go ahead. but dont just DIVORCE!!!!!! at the start.
The fact that the kids are more considerate than the husband and mother-in-law. Speaks volumes my goodness. I hope those kids continue to take after their mother. As for this woman, I think that she should seriously. Just contact a lawyer and for separation or divorce. Because that man is gonna keep hanging on to Mommy dearest
He expects HER to "act like an adult" and...do what exactly? Sit back and let MIL do whatever she wants? They KNEW it wasn't leftovers, they both know what MIL is doing, its like they're teaming up on her for some fucking reason but she needs to separate from him asap. He doesn't care about her.
My family used to do that after I would have a baby. I would lose it on them after a while and would refuse to cook, clean, or even converse with any of them. I only dealt with the baby and let them fend for themselves. They soon changed.
@@denco37Well nowadays Women know what a boundary is and won't suffer in a relationship like women did in past Maybe you should be the one thinking this over and not be mocking people who give genuine advice So sit your ass back down and shut up
@@EmmMcCarthy she has given him at least 4 chances to change and deal with his mother but he just keeps defending her. So at this point there are no more chances to change. It is time for OP to tell him it is his wife and children or his mother. The Mother in law is taking food that she knows is for OP and knows that she is nursing a baby so she needs to eat more than normal so that she can feed her baby.
Nta. In general, when the family is having a meal and a person hasn't come to the table yet, the other saves the person's portion and eats their portions. Also, there were FOUR pizzas. The husband should have reminded the MIL to be considerate of the wife and save her portion of food. The husband and MIL are just being neglectful, and both need to apologize and change .
As a mother of 4 who I have breastfed, I have never experienced anything like this! Sometimes I've been fed first, while others have looked after the baby so I could eat in peace! What seems like a power play from MIL is, at a minimum, a parade of red flags!
@@FuryOfTheSwarm just get a prescription for laxatives then she’s taking ur meds which is also illegal and if u don’t say anything they can’t prove u tried to “poison her”
@@FuryOfTheSwarm Yeah but how are they gonna prove it without the OG food to test and sample. By the sounds of it, she'd eat the whole thing, and get the runs some time later lol
@@mspaint93 That's in a fair world, a lot of times people in the U.S can get convicted simply because they believe something to be true vs. there being an actual abundance of evidence. that being said, they could also look at purchase records. I.e she purchased laxatives, MIL had laxatives, ergo she did it.
No. It wasn't an honest mistake. An honest mistake is once, but this is time and time again. Tell your husband he needs that chat you have been going on about with his mother now. If he says again, he has. Say do it again now, or you will. And trust you, it will be better if her son does it. She knows what she is doing and knows it winds you up. Tell him you are not mental. You are raising a family like he should be. He should be defending you. You are the mother of his children. I would suggest divorce let his mother have him back.
@EmmMcCarthy people who behave like this have emotionally incestuous relationships in like 90% or more of these fake, insane stories. It's a generalization on a trend in AI-generated stories and not genuine advice. No need to freak out about it, bud
Honney! My MIL is bringing food since I gave birth... not taking it. If people comes to help you with the kid (kids in your situation) they should always bring food and be available to help the way YOU need help. NTA
Your husband is capitulating to his mom, while you work hard to raise your children! Tell you MIL if she's not coming over to help, not to come at all. If your husband can't see how selfish and frankly gluttonous his mother is being, then he can go stay with her!
Yeah... Divorce him.. He is very much letting his mother do it on purpose and the may the woman acted say that she is doing it all on purpose.. Also check him because he may be a mam boi and mamas boys tend to put their mother before their wife so much that they end up getting divorced.. Because there is no reason the MIL should be showing up simply to *"eat, drink and exist."* when she wasn't invited at all.. And the husband shouldn't be letting her show up and eat everything from you unless he truly don't give a crap if his own wife goes hungry...
No he is the mental one and by the sounds of it a mummy boy. Is his father alive in his life at all. Either the males in the family have NO backbone or he is no longer with his mother. Either way why should you be punished for looking after your baby.
Slpen is right no excuses even if you say you love him you don't want to divorce him that's no excuse if you ever Post in part 2 saying he's your husband and you love him and don't want to divorce him and you don't want anyone to control you will do better than too bad to say divorce him I don't care no excuses
Not mental, exhausted. In all honesty, she should have MIL stay away for a while at least, as it is giving her stress. Or at least set up a rule of no unannounced visits unless its an emergency. Even then, have them call first.
Tell your husband to stay with your mother in law until he can stand by your side! And tell mother in law to stay away from your home! Get keys back from her if she has one! Tell her has to start paying food!
Please leave him both him and his mother are the worst sort of ppl they are trying to eat you put of house and home and doesn't bother to save any for you that is selfish toxic narcissistic behavior they knew exactly what they are doing they just doesn't care
My husband has always made sure I either eat first or he guards my food until I eat if I had one of the babies to take care of. How do you not care your mom ate all the food and nothing left for your wife? At least attempt making it right and go get her take out.
I think the husband wants a divorce and is trying to drive the wife to ask for it. He sure doesn't act like a man that is in love, or wants to stay married. Big Ole mama's boy!
You should wait till he gets home make him put the baby down to sleep and eat all the food with your kids so he understands what you feel because he’s being a total peace of s**t
“Yeah we ate all the food. Sorry.” Then you’re cooking something for me. Don’t tell me there’s snacks in the pantry or nothing. Get off your ass and make me something to make up for it.
This is just....so beyond wrong. You are the one who needs to eat have food made FOR you. You are probably still exhausted and weak and the adults should be catering to you right now. It seems like she is literally doing it on purpose to make you suffer, like she wants you in pain and weak
The mother needs to realise the boundaries, however the husband needs to realise that he enables the mother. I see lots of comments on “divorce him now”, why? It is a problem that can be fixed without extreme measures. Husband needs to take care of his wife’s needs now more than the mother.
People seriously think this is a reason for divorce? Are you kidding me? theres so so many other ways to handle this that wont ruin the childs sense of security
@ personally I could never marry someone if I couldn’t address their parents myself or someone who doesn’t know what a marriage actually is (your wife and kids are above your parents and siblings).
Her kid had more consideration and forethought to prep his mum a plate, than what hubby has - that's pretty sad for the husband to be so mentally and emotionally stunted. And MIL would know it urks/inconveniences OP, plus she gets free food and no mess to clean; 100% intentional, childish bullshitery
The adults are not talking care of you, they're just taking . Keep raising empathetic children.
Honest question. Do these stories, fake or not, make you wanna beat the crap outta the bad guy?
@@Mercury_NeptuneYES
@@Mercury_NeptuneAbsolutely! 😂😂😂
Because one mother raised her son right to be considerate and the other raise the son to be a spoiled brat that OP didn’t realize until after she had a baby or two
TIME FOR DIVORCE!!!!! NO EXCUSE FOR TOXIC BEHAVIOR! POOR EXAMPLES FOR THE KIDS! YOU DON'T NEED EITHER ONE AROUND!
It ain't that deep bro
@@toshe_032kinda is you can't walk around someone else's house eat everything and not have the respect and decency to help out
dude, calm your tits.
yes thats a no go, but talk to the husband first, tell him how serious it is and that a divorce could actually be on the table.
if he still does shit, than go ahead.
but dont just DIVORCE!!!!!! at the start.
@jamesrider4597 didn't she already talk to him and got a cold response
@wallsterrence you are clearly not in a relationship.
Talking and talking with mentioning of divorce are two completely different things.
The husband has the audacity to say his wife isn’t ‘acting like an adult’ while his OWN SON is acting more like an adult than he is.
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The fact that the kids are more considerate than the husband and mother-in-law. Speaks volumes my goodness. I hope those kids continue to take after their mother. As for this woman, I think that she should seriously. Just contact a lawyer and for separation or divorce. Because that man is gonna keep hanging on to Mommy dearest
He expects HER to "act like an adult" and...do what exactly? Sit back and let MIL do whatever she wants? They KNEW it wasn't leftovers, they both know what MIL is doing, its like they're teaming up on her for some fucking reason but she needs to separate from him asap. He doesn't care about her.
My family used to do that after I would have a baby. I would lose it on them after a while and would refuse to cook, clean, or even converse with any of them. I only dealt with the baby and let them fend for themselves. They soon changed.
Nice.
Every time you had a baby? After the second, I'd stop giving them opportunities to pull that crap on me!
Maybe time for a divorce if he doesnt wanna start being a man and keeps attached to his mother like a baby
People nowaday you have the divorce so easy .....
@@denco37Well nowadays
Women know what a boundary is and won't suffer in a relationship like women did in past
Maybe you should be the one thinking this over and not be mocking people who give genuine advice
So sit your ass back down and shut up
@@denco37 We just don't want to suffer like you do.
or maybe talk with him and give him a chance not just divorce
@@EmmMcCarthy she has given him at least 4 chances to change and deal with his mother but he just keeps defending her. So at this point there are no more chances to change. It is time for OP to tell him it is his wife and children or his mother. The Mother in law is taking food that she knows is for OP and knows that she is nursing a baby so she needs to eat more than normal so that she can feed her baby.
Nta. In general, when the family is having a meal and a person hasn't come to the table yet, the other saves the person's portion and eats their portions. Also, there were FOUR pizzas. The husband should have reminded the MIL to be considerate of the wife and save her portion of food. The husband and MIL are just being neglectful, and both need to apologize and change .
Bull. That just makes them gluttons. That isn't cute at all. They knew what they were doing
As a mother of 4 who I have breastfed, I have never experienced anything like this! Sometimes I've been fed first, while others have looked after the baby so I could eat in peace! What seems like a power play from MIL is, at a minimum, a parade of red flags!
JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE A MOTHER IN LAW DOES NOT MEAN YOU OWN YOUR DAUGHTER IN LAW'S HOUSE OR FOOD
Put laxatives in the food or very spicy chili powder make her paranoid to the point she will not want to eat your food
Or just make food the mother in law is allergic to or food she hates
if it's in the U.S she could go to jail for that.
@@FuryOfTheSwarm just get a prescription for laxatives then she’s taking ur meds which is also illegal and if u don’t say anything they can’t prove u tried to “poison her”
@@FuryOfTheSwarm Yeah but how are they gonna prove it without the OG food to test and sample. By the sounds of it, she'd eat the whole thing, and get the runs some time later lol
@@mspaint93 That's in a fair world, a lot of times people in the U.S can get convicted simply because they believe something to be true vs. there being an actual abundance of evidence. that being said, they could also look at purchase records. I.e she purchased laxatives, MIL had laxatives, ergo she did it.
No. It wasn't an honest mistake. An honest mistake is once, but this is time and time again. Tell your husband he needs that chat you have been going on about with his mother now. If he says again, he has. Say do it again now, or you will. And trust you, it will be better if her son does it. She knows what she is doing and knows it winds you up. Tell him you are not mental. You are raising a family like he should be. He should be defending you. You are the mother of his children. I would suggest divorce let his mother have him back.
Your husband need to get his ass in order and check his mother
BAD HUSBAND! RED FLAG!! Tell him to go marry his mother since there's clearly something wrong with them 😭
bro wtf is wrong with you
@EmmMcCarthy people who behave like this have emotionally incestuous relationships in like 90% or more of these fake, insane stories. It's a generalization on a trend in AI-generated stories and not genuine advice. No need to freak out about it, bud
@@EmmMcCarthy
Have you ever heard of sarcasm before? You really think someone is saying that 100% seriously? Your too dense
He's shown you who he is, and who he supports: Believe him.
So there's 2 other kids? How long has Minnie the Mooch been around?
Evil Husband 🚩 Evil Mother-in-Law
They didn’t even make the food. What a bunch of selfish assholes trying to get rid of them permanently.
She’s a mooch, husband does consider her before eating suggest reevaluating this marriage.
Are you kidding, first she enters your house whenever SHE wants. She eats YOUR food, over and over even when you asked her not too
The audacity of all of these inlaws & mama's boys. Good lord
BS BOTH OF THEM ARE DIS RESPECTFUL OF YOU
Mil hates dil as well as the husband who’s practically begging for a divorce
Should have told the ah to go get you a pizza with his money since they ate your share.
Divorce time, a gaslighting husband and MIL are horrible like that, especially when they have numbers
The way I would PERFORM the big back song to that mom with passion is insane
Ban mil from house except when specifically invited!
Police now. Idk what to charge them but like... theif? Trespassing??? Idk but call the damn police
Time for divorce. Poor examples for the kids
They ate 4 homemade pizzas and left you none while you are taking care of a new baby? WTF id be pissed too NTA
The husband is so stupid, oh my god. OP deserves better. I don't understand WHY she's STILL WITH HIS USELESS ASS.
Honney! My MIL is bringing food since I gave birth... not taking it. If people comes to help you with the kid (kids in your situation) they should always bring food and be available to help the way YOU need help. NTA
The kids being more considerate than a fucking adult is actually crazy, Just get a divorce
He can’t even stay on your side. Dump him. He is a red flag
I'm sorry did she just say she was the one who flipped out???❤❤❤
Your husband is capitulating to his mom, while you work hard to raise your children! Tell you MIL if she's not coming over to help, not to come at all. If your husband can't see how selfish and frankly gluttonous his mother is being, then he can go stay with her!
Yeah... Divorce him.. He is very much letting his mother do it on purpose and the may the woman acted say that she is doing it all on purpose.. Also check him because he may be a mam boi and mamas boys tend to put their mother before their wife so much that they end up getting divorced.. Because there is no reason the MIL should be showing up simply to *"eat, drink and exist."* when she wasn't invited at all.. And the husband shouldn't be letting her show up and eat everything from you unless he truly don't give a crap if his own wife goes hungry...
THIS!!!!!!
I think this women is just trying to piss you off. She literally drank a pot of coffee who Drinks that much coffee in a day
Yeah..... OP needs to leave that family. Bring the son, leave the MIL & husband!
She (mil) sounds like she has no respect for her dil. She doesn't help just takes takes takes.
He’s a wimpy mama’s boy, let him go live with her. 2 birds, one stone.
Lack of manners must run in their family. That is just positively rude.
No he is the mental one and by the sounds of it a mummy boy. Is his father alive in his life at all. Either the males in the family have NO backbone or he is no longer with his mother. Either way why should you be punished for looking after your baby.
When their kids begin to imitate monster in law's entitlement
it will be too late.
divorce him
Slpen is right no excuses even if you say you love him you don't want to divorce him that's no excuse if you ever Post in part 2 saying he's your husband and you love him and don't want to divorce him and you don't want anyone to control you will do better than too bad to say divorce him I don't care no excuses
He can go marry his mother.
Good for you ❤❤❤
Not mental, exhausted. In all honesty, she should have MIL stay away for a while at least, as it is giving her stress. Or at least set up a rule of no unannounced visits unless its an emergency. Even then, have them call first.
Divorce and push for full custody that loser definitely puts his mommy above everyone probably his own kids too
Mamas boys will always be mamas boys ut not important. And ur kids will see this and think its ok to treat u this way
An honest mistake is doing something by accident, this is intentional.
All these boys secretly in love with their mom is mental.
D-i-v-o-r-c-e👏👏Divorce👏👏
Put something she's allergic to
Keep your doors locked. Your husband is the problem. Tell him to decide. It's your family or her.
Went to the post, no update
I would honestly call the police if somone comes in without your permission. Considering thats almost like breaking in.
Tell your husband to stay with your mother in law until he can stand by your side! And tell mother in law to stay away from your home! Get keys back from her if she has one! Tell her has to start paying food!
you had me at giving birth four months ago
Please leave him both him and his mother are the worst sort of ppl they are trying to eat you put of house and home and doesn't bother to save any for you that is selfish toxic narcissistic behavior they knew exactly what they are doing they just doesn't care
My husband has always made sure I either eat first or he guards my food until I eat if I had one of the babies to take care of. How do you not care your mom ate all the food and nothing left for your wife? At least attempt making it right and go get her take out.
Change locks. Time to call divorce lawyer. You'll have more peace in your home
He has a weird relationship with his mother
How does one finish 2-3 pizza’s in a single serving??
Trail separation immediately.
I think the husband wants a divorce and is trying to drive the wife to ask for it. He sure doesn't act like a man that is in love, or wants to stay married. Big Ole mama's boy!
Girl the next time they come put what she doesn't like
You didn’t overreact! Your MIL is toxic & your husband is an enabler. Also your husband doesn’t love or care about you. Kick him to the curb!
Divorce him cause he's not stopping mil and he stole from u
He is mental not to think of you is wrong you are his.childs mother
Men kender du fasar??
Nahh, det gør min vikar
Divorce.
Them.
Yesterday.
not that deep maybe it's time to have a conversation with them and set boundaries no need to break up with your lover
Who else thinks MIL is doing that bc she wants OP to lose weight 🙋♀️
You should wait till he gets home make him put the baby down to sleep and eat all the food with your kids so he understands what you feel because he’s being a total peace of s**t
“Yeah we ate all the food. Sorry.”
Then you’re cooking something for me. Don’t tell me there’s snacks in the pantry or nothing. Get off your ass and make me something to make up for it.
Horrible people.
Divorce.
Divorce him
Change the locks, sell his clothes and order Chinese!
Momma's boy
Ok cool but why is she posting it
You're husband is stupid.. better let him leave..
Youre son.. is great..❤
Divorce
Divorce babe
This is just....so beyond wrong. You are the one who needs to eat have food made FOR you. You are probably still exhausted and weak and the adults should be catering to you right now. It seems like she is literally doing it on purpose to make you suffer, like she wants you in pain and weak
Divorce your husband
The mother needs to realise the boundaries, however the husband needs to realise that he enables the mother. I see lots of comments on “divorce him now”, why? It is a problem that can be fixed without extreme measures. Husband needs to take care of his wife’s needs now more than the mother.
People seriously think this is a reason for divorce? Are you kidding me? theres so so many other ways to handle this that wont ruin the childs sense of security
Yes divorce he ain't crap
A lot of the time the mother isn’t the problem, I bet he didn’t even talk to her when u asked, so she doesn’t know she’s an issue
Someone needs to speak up,I guess it's YOU? How much do you wanna try to work this out?
@ personally I could never marry someone if I couldn’t address their parents myself or someone who doesn’t know what a marriage actually is (your wife and kids are above your parents and siblings).