Currently experiencing this😭 my doctor treated my ectopic pregnancy like yours, expected management because my HCG turns 450 from 1400 in a span of 48hrs so my doc said we will wait and see after a week but now i’m having intense cramps . Thank you for posting this 🥺 You really helped my anxiety. Healing to us🙏🏻
Just yesterday afternoon I had ectopic pregnancy surgery 😢, after 7 long years first ever time I got positive pregnancy and this happened just one week happiness turned into sadness 😢, I totally feel you dear , please heal yourself , definitely good news is coming soon, god bless you❤
@@rukayyaahmad4391 I had an ectopic pregnancy in December 2011, 9 months after I had my first child. After my ectopic pregnancy, I had 3 more babies (boys).
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I had surgery to remove an ectopic pregnancy a week ago and I can see echoes of my experience in yours. It’s good to feel that I am not alone.
My dear friend Jade...Marie and I just watched this video. We love you so much. You and your husband are in our thoughts and prayers...and glad to see that you are on the mend. We are so happy that your situation was nearer to a best case scenario, but really sad that you had gone through this traumatic experience. Yes, we hope for good news in the near future. Talk to you, soon.
@@BedtimeBookworm - Most definitely. You are not alone in this struggle. Lean on your friends and family. We will support you through this. All our love to you.
Thank you for sharing. Same exact thing happened to me. No gestational sac on 5weeks, no pain, no bleeding. Was told to do another transvaginal ultrasound the following week. Then they saw the mass measuring 4.5cm, with fetal pole and cardiac activity. My right fallopian tube has been removed this Nov. 5, 2021 because the mass was too big. It’s just so painful because it was our first pregnancy. 🥺😭 I cry every day, every night. 😭😫 I’m hoping to get pregnant again next year. ☹️
i feel you I also experienced an ectopic pregnancy i've undergo into caesarian operation due to so much pain i'm feeling they remove one of my fallopian tube i felt so lost but we had no choice to undergo on the operation or else i'll die if we kept the baby you're lucky you don't undergo into caesarian operation but we're still looking forward for a baby girl some other time ... God will give us what we wish on a perfect time may god bless us :) stay strong
I'm so sorry you had to go through that! I'm so glad you are ok. I'm actually currently pregnant now, so my rainbow baby is (hopefully) coming in August!
Wow, I had no idea your body could flush out an ectopic all on its own. I can relate, I had one in 2017 and it ruptured and I lost my right tube. I know what you mean about the feelings and the ups and downs, the pains etc. You're so strong! Thank you for sharing your story!
Aw, all the baby dust your way Jade. I know we talk about this privately, but still, I think it’s amazing that you made this for both yourself and the other people out there who will learn and relate 💕 Also, leave it to doggies to not read the room 🐶
Oh Jade, I am so sorry for your loss. I have also had a miscarriage and am glad that people now talk about it more openly so women can find healing through other's stories when the worst happens. Best wishes and hugs 💕
I honestly wasn't expecting the outpouring of love and support I've received on this video since yesterday. Thank you all so much for your kind words and most of all for just listening to my story. You guys are awesome 💕💕
Currently in exactly the same situation first was 63, next 91, 143, then this last was 4 days instead of 2 and 590.... we are waiting for ultrasound at 6wk and terrified... ivf is drained us completely and we can't loose her tube that would be devastating 😢
Thank you for sharing! This is such a powerful story and I agree that stories like this help others. We should normalize these topics because it it normalizes it, and then allows more people to share and heal. You are amazing and thank you ❤️
Yes, I want to help normalize talking about things like this because no one should have to go through pregnancy loss or infertility alone. So many women experience it and it can be so lonely if you don't talk about it. Thank you for your kind comment ❤
I wish women will speak up about their miscarriages instead of trying to keep it a secret among family and friends. It happens more than we think and unfortunately health care professionals are not there to advocate for us! I lost my baby as a result of being misdiagnosed of an ectopic pregnancy and I was given methotrexate. We need to stand up for urself and raise awareness!
I’m going through this. Yesterday they gave me the injection and it’s been the worst day of my life. I still can’t believe this, but I still hope that one shot is enough, I don’t wanna go through that again😩😩
We don't know each other, but I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what you went through and are still going through. My wife and I have yet to start trying for children, so I can't even begin to put myself in your shoes. Thank you so much for sharing this story with us, though, and for those who may be going through or have gone through something similar.
The strength you have in sharing your story is absolutely incredible. I know words might seem meaningless right now, but I want to send you so much love and healing. Thank you for putting your story into the world ❤️❤️
Maybe I am missing something but 80->120 is a 50% increase (40 points is 50% of 80)...and 120->230 is almost double (ie close to 100% increase). I just went through this in May and some of my increases were also about 50% which is too low... 35->38->65->90-> 235->420->630->810->900 -> Methorexate
I realize I'm not your target audience for this video, and that I don't really know you, only on RUclips where I rarely even comment, but I just wanted to let you know that I cried for you while watching this video. Me and my wife have been trying to conceive again (not our first) for quite a while and it's been a struggle. She's on clomid right now and every time she gets her period is a little sad. Just the thought of getting that positive result only to lose it... I can not even imagine what it was like for you and the pain you must have felt and still feel. My heart breaks for you. I will be praying for you. Now for a dose of positivity. Maybe we will both have some positive news soon. Good luck, baby dust, and best wishes!
Oh wow, thank you so much for sharing your story with me. I hope we both get our babies soon ❤ Thank you for your sweet comment and support, it means a lot.
I am so sorry! I don’t know you, and I’ve only seen your videos here on YT but I am deeply saddened by this as if you were a friend. No woman should suffer this. I am happy that you had so much family support for the good and the bad. Clump of cells my ass, I acknowledge your loss as you felt it, even if you knew it was doomed from almost the start.
I am also having an ectopic pregnancy last november,they remove my right fallopian tube😢 its not yet ruptured but they found out that my fallopian tube has scratch like that. I was crying seeing your vdeo😭 I feel so sorry for what happens..Also my first pregnancy but it end up ectopic😥.I feel what your feeling right now.
Im sorry for your loss sweety.. My mom also had an ectopic pregnancy when i was a child but after that she was better and had my little sister and then had twins So dont be afraid everything will be just fine ❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing this. I am currently dealing with my recovery of my ectopic pregnancy. My ectopic pregnancy was bad requiring surgery. As you expressed your feeling, heart break and pain. I felt like I was there with you. I’m still a couch potato its hurtful to have this happen. I finally watched some videos about this to help me get through this emotionally. I’m sending you positive vibes and praying for you to have your rainbow 🌈
I just found out today I’m pregnant suffer from endometriosis but have symptom of ectopic pregnancy please pray for me and I pray for you to get pregnant be positive.
I only found out @ 7 weeks that I’m having ectopic pregnancy. :( and have to get my right Fallopian tube removed. Cause it was ruptured. :( I hope you are feeling better! Your rainbow baby will find their way to you soon! ❤️
I'm recovering from ectopic surgery now. My surgery was on the 7 week mark, the day before Christmas. I feel so lonely in my experience but videos like yours help. Thank you.
I just found out my pregnancy was ectopic yesterday and had to get the methotrexate injections. I’m currently on bed rest. It’s definitely something I never thought would happen. And you do feel empty right after.thank you for sharing your experience .
Hey, I just had my surgery 2 weeks ago on April 5th. I know exactly what you are experiencing! I had to say a quick prayer for you because I remember sitting in bed crying wondering why did this happen to me... I just want you to know that everything will be okay and that you WILL bare more children! Don’t give up. ❤️✨ You’re not alone ✨
I lost my baby from ectopic pregnancy as well as my right fallopian tube. It was the most traumatizing experience I've ever had in my life and that was in the middle of pandemic where they didn't allow visitor in the hospital so I was alone for 3 days. But i’m currently 5 weeks pregnant again after 17 months! After being told I might not conceive naturally anymore and should prepare myself for IVF. I just had an ultrasound last night and baby is there and my hcg is tripling up! Dont lose hope ladies! God Bless! 🥰
I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage back in June of 2018 (and then dealt with infertility for the next two years). I also had unexplained infertility. Ended up going into IVF, which we had success with. So much of your story resonates with me so much. The healing process is long and the road is hard, just know that you have support from lots of us, even the lurkers. I really enjoy your channel, thank you so much for sharing your story with us.
Jade, thank you so much for sharing your story. I can't imagine how difficult and saddening this is. Thankful you have a supportive family to help you get through this. Believing in you and your fertility journey whenever you're ready to try again.
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know exactly how you feel because I just had an ectopic pregnancy removal on April 5th. This was the worst day of my life. I have watched a lot of videos regarding ectopic pregnancy and the removal of 1 tube. It scares me because I want to give my 7 year old daughter a little sister or brother.. and now I’m worried about my fertility. I have been praying, taking my vitamins, and eating healthy since then. I still cry about my ectopic pregnancy. I don’t know how it happened honestly. I’m lost. I’m so happy I came across your video. It helped me to know that I am not alone. Love you girl. ✨💕
❤️ I'm glad you were able to share your story as part of the healing process, and I hope this helps other women going through ectopic pregnancies. Very much wishing you guys the best in getting pregnant!
I am going through the EXACT same thing..I am devastated and so empty.. I had the shot 2 days ago and I am struggling in the mornings cos the one thing that woke me up with so much joy is gone😔😔
Sending you virtual hugs, praying for you, I myself just had ectopic pregnancy ended up removing one of my Fallopian tube and it’s just so unfair but I know everything has it’s reason, It’s only been a week since the surgery and as soon as I’m fully recovered I’d have to see a specialist to help me figure out what I can do to get pregnant again. God bless and your turn to be a mom will come in his time.
Thank you so much for sharing I had experienced the same pain and my tube had ruptured. I had to have one of my tubes removed but the doctor said we can try again to conceive again. This would’ve been my first child and mentally I’m still trying to deal with it. Sending you love and light 💗
Thank you for sharing all of that. I'm sorry for your loss and a lot of us dealing with fertility problems and treatment know how painful miscarriages and that long journey can be. This video will help women who go through the same feel support, so thank you again been so brave to share your story.
I hope you know how strong & inspiring you are. In November it will have been 9 years since I lost my son when I was 6 1/2 months pregnant with him. I had been going through chemo & radiation treatments when he was conceived & he had heart complications. I've never felt comfortable openly talking about it. I wish you the best. 💗
Si sorry for your loss 😢😢 I wanted to ask.. I found out a week ago that im pregnant. I’m still pretty early I calculate about 5 weeks and I’ve been having period like cramps..since even before I took pregnancy test I had those. Thinking I would get my period but then started feeling bit nauseous and my breast started feeling sore.. so I decided to take a home test. Obviously it was positive but I was still having those cramps.. And how I feel cramp pain on my left side of my lower abdomen all the way to my thighs. I haven’t seen any bleeding.. is this concerning??? Btw it’s my first pregnancy ever so I’m completely clueless 😕 I’d appreciate your opinion
I've always heard that if you have cramping OR bleeding, it's probably normal, its more when you have them together that's a concern. Both are really common during early pregnancy. If you have sharp shooting pains that last awhile that's definitely more concerning. Of course, if you are concerned you should speak with a medical professional! I wish you the best of luck with your first pregnancy! ❤
Hello! I know you wrote this a year ago but I am currently 5 weeks 5 days pregnant and I have the same symptoms you described, sharp pain on left lower abdomen that has lasted for several days now and some crampings,how did it go for you if I don't mind me asking?
Sending so much love your way Jade ❤️ I think it's so important for women to share their stories of loss, I think it helps everyone not feel so alone. But I'm sure it took a lot of courage to make this video. Hoping you get some good news soon 🥰
Jade, thank you for making this video, for your bravery in sharing such a painful story. Because infertility and pregnancy loss is such a lonely state of being. I am glad to hear it was not as bad as it could have been and you are able to try again. I will be sending all the baby wishes your way! As soon as I saw the title I had to click. So much of your story is very familiar to me, all that TTC language. I’m going to share a little of my story which has a painful beginning and middle and a happy end but feel free not to read if you’d rather not. I had also tried for a little over a year when I started seeing a RE and was diagnosed unexplained infertility. First, I opted to have surgery for a uterine septum he discovered (and which could have increased chance of miscarriage) which meant I had to take a short break from TTC. After, the RE recommended IUI, Clomid and an hcg trigger to time ovulation and miraculously I got pregnant the first round. At that point we had tried for 17 months. My first US at 7 weeks I learned I was having twins and we were shocked, thrilled, nervous. A week later I had a follow up US and learned we had lost one of them. It’s called vanishing twin and I wouldn’t have known it if I wasn’t being closely followed like you. But it was devastating and hearing you talk about your traumatic US was very familiar. I was terrified for at least half of that pregnancy but I continued to carry the remaining twin and he will be four in December. Most miraculously when we went to try again, I expected trouble and was at least fully prepared to do IUI again. But that time I got pregnant the first try (imagine my absolute shock) and my youngest son is 20 months. I know hearing of others losses and successes can be both helpful and painful so I hope it wasn’t the latter (if you read it). I found so much support from other women TTC online. I look forward to hearing happy news from you someday!!
Wow, thank you for sharing your story Rebecca, it means a lot to me! IUI is definitely the next step my doctor recommends, but I'm hoping to ease into that. I'm hopeful we won't need it since I was able to get pregnant with just letrozole but I know it's the next step when we are ready to take it. I'm so glad your story had a happy ending (although losing one twin must have been devastating and scary) and that your second pregnancy was easier to conceive, something I've heard from others as well. Hopefully I will have better news to share soon as well. Thank you again for your kind comment and your support! ❤❤
@@BedtimeBookworm you sound like you are extremely well educated on all of your options and have a good support system which is so important. But if you ever have a question about IUI or for any other reason don’t hesitate to reach out. Either way I will keep you in my thoughts and send all the baby dust your way!
Aww, Jade. I'm so sorry. I had one too and it is devastating. I had to have a ruptured tube removed but even with only 1 available ovary I got pregnant with my son within 6 months. I'm hoping you have a short wait for your rainbow baby too. ❤️❤️ If you need to talk, shoot me a DM on Twitter.
I’m currently experiencing my 3rd ectopic . 1st one lost left tube . Last one was ruptured needing laparotomy n c section w 3 pints of internal bleeding suctioned out . This one I caught early enough to only require a laparoscopic surgery . Wishing you the best on your journey love 💕🌈
@@aleenajaved9560 i started bleeding and A throbbing pain on my left side . Once I started bleeding I knew something was wrong so headed to the er. It’s very important if you think you are experiencing one to go ASAP . I am extremely lucky to be alive from the 2nd one .
Thanks Michael ❤ Your comment gives me hope knowing that you have two (?) beautiful children now ☺ and LOL about the baby dust haha, I tried not to drop too many TTC (trying to conceive) terms in this video but I honestly thought that was going to be the main audience for it so I didn't explain some terms haha
Thank you for sharing your miscarriage online. I know so many women who need to hear about experiences like yours. Definitely not alone. 💔 I'm so certain you'll get your family. Hopefully you won't have to wait much longer
My ectopic pregnancy experience was a lot like yours in that I was testing almost every day prior to my period so knew I was pregnant very early & caught it early on. I had no rupture, but was so confused when I started bleeding and the ER told me I lost it. Then I went to my follow up appointment where they told me my beta numbers were doubling, and that I most likely had a viable pregnancy. Then when they did the ultrasound and showed nothing, my heart shattered. My doctors actually never located my ectopic pregnancy. Therefore I had to get the shot, which I was okay with. It was such a weird, sad experience. I hope you & your husband have a healthy pregnancy in the future.
Ugh I'm so sorry you went through this as well. That sounds so confusing and such a rollercoaster of emotions. I'm glad you were able to avoid a rupture though, that would have definitely been worse. I'm actually currently 30 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby! I hope you have a healthy pregnancy in the future as well ❤
I'm so sorry. I'm glad making this video is helping you come to terms with it. I only recently started following your channel. I had a miscarriage last year, and while not ectopic, I had some of the same things as you, the really faint second line on the pregnancy test and my HCG not rising fast enough. I had a US at 7 weeks and they moved my due date back one whole week. Two weeks later, I had an emergency US and found out there was no heartbeat. We've been TTC for almost 3 years now and because of my age, who knows if things will work out. Anyway, thanks for your story. It helps to hear other people's stories.
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My wife is also experiencing the same thing right now. She always cry because she doesnt want to lost the baby but we have to do, for her sake. The doctor is also advicing to observe her ectopic pregnancy journey. Last week she has hcg test only at 29. We will go back to the hospital for another HCG test and transV.
I experienced the same 😭. Though i undergone surgery cause the doctor said it already ruptured so they took my right fallopian tube. I just came out from the hospital and yes, it pains me to think i wouldn't be expecting an april baby anymore 😭
I am in a similar situation today. my hcg was over 1200 day before yesterday. I am in my sixth week. but the sac couldn't be seen anywhere..its a wait n watch..n i am sort of already grieving..
I'm so sorry to what you had to go through I really hope you manage to have a healthy beautiful baby I have a mirena coil fitted in as I didn't want any more children as the doctors have advised me against it because off my the impact it would have on my health since Friday I have been feeling awful having really bad cramps in my lower abdomen followed by dirrehea bloating and gas also a high fever and then Saturday I had bleeding still had cramping I have done some research I think I may be going through a ectopic pregnancy I need to do a pregnancy test im really scared xxx
I'm so sorry. I've never had an ectopic but I have had two miscarriages. It messes you up for quite some time. I still think about those little babies that I lost. The pain is deep and (for me) it never went away, but I found ways to cope. It's ok to grieve for a loooong time - if it becomes overwhelming I highly suggest seeing someone to talk out those feelings with. Sending love ❤
I'm sorry you went through this. My mother went through seven miscarriages before she had my brother and then, as in now, a lot of people who haven't gone through it are dismissive of how hard it is. Thoughts and best wishes for you and Jade.
Thank you for sharing your experience and I'm so sorry for your losses. ❤ I know the pain and the dreams I had for that baby will never go away, but I too am finding ways to cope with the pain.
I feel for you beautiful. I hope and pray that God works a miracle over your life. In the name of Jesus! There’s no equation that can explain the works of miracles but I do believe that it could happen to you as it has happened to me. Much LOVE to you guys
I hope you are doing better. I totally understand you i lost my baby at 22 weeks last year (2020) and it was the worst experience of my life :( and it hurts so bad till this day!
Thank you for sharing Jade, I know it means a lot to so many people to hear they aren't alone. I'm so sorry you experienced this. Sending you ALL the good baby wishes!
I'm so sorry that happened to you, especially after how long you tried for a baby before that. I wanted to watch this video because I have several friends who are trying to get pregnant, and one who did have an ectopic pregnancy, and I wondered how one finds out they have an ectopic pregnancy. I'm really glad your situation was a best-case scenario and that you're able to feel more ok now. And that's definitely weird about 2020 being a difficult year, because in addition to everything going on with covid, etc, so many of my friends are suffering the worst they have in a long time, like deaths in the family, divorces, etc, much more so than in a typical year. It's so strange, and I really hope that ends in 2021.
Its a misconception that HCG cannot rise with ectopic. HCG can rise normally with ectopic. My HCG was 4300 at 6 weeks and at 7 weeks when it ruptured it reached 20,000 like normal preg but the uterus showed nothing and a mass could be seen on my left with a lot of fluid in douglas pouch. I had laprotomy and methotrexate was not even an option left for me.
I had a rupture at 8.5 weeks & lost my left fallopian tube, still desperately researching for natural TTC after 1 ectopic, 5 previous miscarriages, & 1 chemical pregnancy after my ectopic. Thank you for sharing your story.
I’m so sorry for your loss! It’s definitely possible to get pregnant with just one tube so keep trying! I just had my rainbow baby a few months ago ❤️❤️❤️ don’t lose hope!
My surgeon said 10-15% risk of ectopic. I'm a pretty positive person so I heard "85-90% chance it won't happen to you". But it did. Then my other tube ended up blocked. I'm a super lucky person sometimes. Honestly, I regret going tr and not straight to ivf, but it isn't worth dwelling on and eventually things worked out. It just took a lot of heartache, faith, and money to get my gorgeous daughter. It is truly a leap of faith and boils down to either it'll work or it won't.
I’m going through an ectopic pregnancy and it’s my first time and I’m really scared. Because I’ve searched up what an ectopic pregnancy is and I’m having symptoms. I also have a daughter and she’s 5 years old, I just wanted to get pregnant so she could have a little brother/sister and so I could have another baby! But I loved your video! I just wanna know a lot of women’s stories about ectopic pregnancy, because it is very dangerous and scary to go through, especially if it’s your first time. But I loved your video, you explained a lot of details and I also cried when you got emotional. I wish you the best ! 💞❤️
I'm so sorry you're going through this and for your loss. It's so difficult but you will get through it! There are a wide range of stories out there about ectopic pregnancies. I'm currently pregnant with a little boy! I hope you get your rainbow baby soon and can give your daughter the sibling you want! Good luck!
This broke my heart for you. I hope you are able to grow your family one way or another. I'm sorry you had to go through this. Sending love and prayers ♥️♥️♥️
I have followed you for maybe four years and usually don't comment. But I just wanted to say I'm sorry. And it's strong of you to make this video and I'm sure it will help others in the same situation. I will "hold my thumbs", as we say in my country (think you say cross my fingers though?), and hope you will have better news to give us in the future.
Oh wow, thank you for all your support through the years! Yes, here it's cross my fingers, but I like holding thumbs!! Thank you so much for your kind comment ❤
So sorry you had to go through this Jade. So brave to talk about your experience, and I have no doubt it will help other people experiencing the same thing! Sending you lots of love!
I’m so sorry for your loss as someone who can relate to your experience I’ve had an ectopic ovarian pregnancy last year I was bleeding internally and then they’ve to do ovarian artery Embolization to stop the bleeding feeding the mass that was from the product of conception on my right ovary thankfully they told me everything is ok but can’t get pregnant for the next six months and currently I’m on TTC journey it was very tough journey again I’m so sorry for you loss praying for your healing.
Thank you for sharing your story and I'm so sorry for your loss. I haven't experienced an ectopic pregnancy but I did have a suspected ectopic with one of my pregnancies and also a miscarriage when I was younger. I'm glad that nowadays that people are more open to discussing pregnancy loss as it's such a lonely thing to go through, even with a partner and family in your life, it felt like it was only happening to me because it was MY body that was experiencing it and nobody else was really discussing it. This was back in 2007 so things like pregnancy loss, mental health etc was still sort of not discussed. Sending love your way with a huge sprinkle of baby dust. ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss as well. I agree that pregnancy loss and infertility can be so isolating, but i've always wanted to be more open about it because I don't think they should be stigmatized. I'm glad things have changed over the last 10 years. Thank you for your kind comment and your support! ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss. I had an ectopic pregnancy this last February where mine was too far along for the Methotrexate to even work. My HCG kept going up after the 2 shots I took. I actually had to go in and see my babys heart beat before I elected for emergency surgery to remove it and my fallopian tube to avoid rupture. It's a horrible horrible thing to go through and you should know you're not alone.
Big hugs, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope it will happen for you and that you and your partner will get what you want so badly 💕 🙏🏼🤞🏼 I'm sending you baby dust!
I don't comment on stuff usually. But I just want you to know... I'm so sorry, and you're not alone. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I've lost one too and it's the worst most horrible feeling in the world. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Thank you so much for sharing and baring your soul here. I know you're not a christian.. but I'm praying for you, that your soul would heal and that another pregnancy would stick.
All the hugs, also thank you for the puppy bloopers! I honestly feel like in your situation I would have done the same thing, I very much like to research all the facts I can find. Wishing you all the luck and I am glad that you are in the part of grief that lets you enjoy things again.
I hope that being able to share your story makes it easier to process the loss. You have been in my thoughts and I will continue to send you goofy cat pictures if it means that it will help you take your mind off stressful and difficult things even for a little bit. You can have all of my baby dust! Lots of hugs. 💖
I don’t comment often, just lurk and like lol. I’m sorry you had to go through this. Sending you good healing vibes and hope for the future!
Thank you!! ❤❤ And lurking is totally fine hahaha
Currently experiencing this😭 my doctor treated my ectopic pregnancy like yours, expected management because my HCG turns 450 from 1400 in a span of 48hrs so my doc said we will wait and see after a week but now i’m having intense cramps . Thank you for posting this 🥺 You really helped my anxiety. Healing to us🙏🏻
Just yesterday afternoon I had ectopic pregnancy surgery 😢, after 7 long years first ever time I got positive pregnancy and this happened just one week happiness turned into sadness 😢, I totally feel you dear , please heal yourself , definitely good news is coming soon, god bless you❤
I had my ectopic surgery last 2 weeks 😢 please where you able to conceive after yours?
@@rukayyaahmad4391 I had an ectopic pregnancy in December 2011, 9 months after I had my first child. After my ectopic pregnancy, I had 3 more babies (boys).
Thank you so much for sharing your story. I had surgery to remove an ectopic pregnancy a week ago and I can see echoes of my experience in yours. It’s good to feel that I am not alone.
My dear friend Jade...Marie and I just watched this video. We love you so much. You and your husband are in our thoughts and prayers...and glad to see that you are on the mend.
We are so happy that your situation was nearer to a best case scenario, but really sad that you had gone through this traumatic experience.
Yes, we hope for good news in the near future.
Talk to you, soon.
Thank you so much for all your (and Marie's!) kind words and support, it really means a lot to me. Here's to hoping to for good news in the future 🍻
@@BedtimeBookworm - Most definitely. You are not alone in this struggle. Lean on your friends and family. We will support you through this. All our love to you.
I’m so sorry you went through this. This is heartbreaking. Wishing you all the best and sending you lots of love 💕
Thank you so much! ❤
I wish you healing and peace, Jade. I’m sorry for your loss.
Thank you Riddhima! ❤
Please don't cry. Please be strong happy. I understand but please be happy. Wish u loveable enjoyable life. Exactly 2020 year is worst for me too
Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
Thank you for sharing. Same exact thing happened to me. No gestational sac on 5weeks, no pain, no bleeding. Was told to do another transvaginal ultrasound the following week. Then they saw the mass measuring 4.5cm, with fetal pole and cardiac activity. My right fallopian tube has been removed this Nov. 5, 2021 because the mass was too big. It’s just so painful because it was our first pregnancy. 🥺😭 I cry every day, every night. 😭😫 I’m hoping to get pregnant again next year. ☹️
I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope you get your rainbow baby soon! ❤❤❤
@@BedtimeBookworm thank you and congratulations on your baby. Someday, I will have mine. 🙏
i feel you I also experienced an ectopic pregnancy i've undergo into caesarian operation due to so much pain i'm feeling they remove one of my fallopian tube i felt so lost but we had no choice to undergo on the operation or else i'll die if we kept the baby you're lucky you don't undergo into caesarian operation but we're still looking forward for a baby girl some other time ... God will give us what we wish on a perfect time may god bless us :) stay strong
I'm so sorry you had to go through that! I'm so glad you are ok. I'm actually currently pregnant now, so my rainbow baby is (hopefully) coming in August!
Wow, I had no idea your body could flush out an ectopic all on its own. I can relate, I had one in 2017 and it ruptured and I lost my right tube. I know what you mean about the feelings and the ups and downs, the pains etc. You're so strong! Thank you for sharing your story!
I know, bodies are so cool in that sense. It definitely doesn't happen all the time obviously but it CAN happen. I'm so sorry for your loss ❤❤❤
So sorry 😢😞
Thank you ❤
This is what am going tru now 😭
All the baby dust. All of it.
Make it rain baby dust hahaha! ✨✨✨
Aw, all the baby dust your way Jade. I know we talk about this privately, but still, I think it’s amazing that you made this for both yourself and the other people out there who will learn and relate 💕 Also, leave it to doggies to not read the room 🐶
Thank you friend! I so appreciate you being there for me during this rough time. and omg yes, toby was NOT reading the room hahahah
❤️❤️ this was incredibly strong of you to share your story. I’m so sorry. I’m praying for you and your family! Sending you alllll the baby dust!!!!!
Thank you friend! ❤
Oh Jade, I am so sorry for your loss. I have also had a miscarriage and am glad that people now talk about it more openly so women can find healing through other's stories when the worst happens. Best wishes and hugs 💕
Thank you!! I'm sorry for your loss as well ❤
I honestly wasn't expecting the outpouring of love and support I've received on this video since yesterday. Thank you all so much for your kind words and most of all for just listening to my story. You guys are awesome 💕💕
Currently in exactly the same situation first was 63, next 91, 143, then this last was 4 days instead of 2 and 590.... we are waiting for ultrasound at 6wk and terrified... ivf is drained us completely and we can't loose her tube that would be devastating 😢
Thank you for sharing! This is such a powerful story and I agree that stories like this help others. We should normalize these topics because it it normalizes it, and then allows more people to share and heal. You are amazing and thank you ❤️
Yes, I want to help normalize talking about things like this because no one should have to go through pregnancy loss or infertility alone. So many women experience it and it can be so lonely if you don't talk about it. Thank you for your kind comment ❤
Currently going through this! I cry soo much and end up hurting my throat 😔 Hope everyone worked out for you!
I wish women will speak up about their miscarriages instead of trying to keep it a secret among family and friends. It happens more than we think and unfortunately health care professionals are not there to advocate for us! I lost my baby as a result of being misdiagnosed of an ectopic pregnancy and I was given methotrexate. We need to stand up for urself and raise awareness!
I’m going through this. Yesterday they gave me the injection and it’s been the worst day of my life. I still can’t believe this, but I still hope that one shot is enough, I don’t wanna go through that again😩😩
I suffered an ectopic pregnancy in feb this year which resulted in losing my right tube. 😢 all the love to you, you’re so strong. ❤️
The same happened to me last year
We don't know each other, but I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine what you went through and are still going through. My wife and I have yet to start trying for children, so I can't even begin to put myself in your shoes. Thank you so much for sharing this story with us, though, and for those who may be going through or have gone through something similar.
Thank you Allen ❤
The strength you have in sharing your story is absolutely incredible. I know words might seem meaningless right now, but I want to send you so much love and healing. Thank you for putting your story into the world ❤️❤️
Thank you Tori! It definitely wasn't easy to make this video but I hope it helps others out there ❤
@@BedtimeBookworm ur fallopian tubes were blocked ??,?
I'm so sorry jade. You havnt had the best luck this year. I hope things turn up for you soon. Thankyou for sharing your story
I hope so too! Thank you for your kind comment and support ❤
Hope you heal well and sending lots of love
Thank you! ❤
Mine was in August 2023 😭😭 ectopic is the most horrible pain one can go through
Maybe I am missing something but 80->120 is a 50% increase (40 points is 50% of 80)...and 120->230 is almost double (ie close to 100% increase). I just went through this in May and some of my increases were also about 50% which is too low... 35->38->65->90-> 235->420->630->810->900 -> Methorexate
I realize I'm not your target audience for this video, and that I don't really know you, only on RUclips where I rarely even comment, but I just wanted to let you know that I cried for you while watching this video. Me and my wife have been trying to conceive again (not our first) for quite a while and it's been a struggle. She's on clomid right now and every time she gets her period is a little sad. Just the thought of getting that positive result only to lose it... I can not even imagine what it was like for you and the pain you must have felt and still feel. My heart breaks for you. I will be praying for you.
Now for a dose of positivity. Maybe we will both have some positive news soon. Good luck, baby dust, and best wishes!
Oh wow, thank you so much for sharing your story with me. I hope we both get our babies soon ❤ Thank you for your sweet comment and support, it means a lot.
I am so sorry! I don’t know you, and I’ve only seen your videos here on YT but I am deeply saddened by this as if you were a friend. No woman should suffer this. I am happy that you had so much family support for the good and the bad. Clump of cells my ass, I acknowledge your loss as you felt it, even if you knew it was doomed from almost the start.
Thank you so much for your kind comment and support ❤ "clump of cells my ass" definitely made me laugh - you are so right!
@@BedtimeBookwormI am glad you can find humor in this, you are very strong indeed 💪🏻 sending all the baby dust I can muster your way!
We definitely aren't alone in this. Hopefully things turn for the better very soon along with all the baby dust.
Thank you! ❤
I am also having an ectopic pregnancy last november,they remove my right fallopian tube😢 its not yet ruptured but they found out that my fallopian tube has scratch like that. I was crying seeing your vdeo😭 I feel so sorry for what happens..Also my first pregnancy but it end up ectopic😥.I feel what your feeling right now.
Im sorry for your loss sweety.. My mom also had an ectopic pregnancy when i was a child but after that she was better and had my little sister and then had twins
So dont be afraid everything will be just fine ❤️❤️
@@ianojnpc6446 thank you💛 in gods grace and perfect time🥰
Thank you for sharing this. I am currently dealing with my recovery of my ectopic pregnancy. My ectopic pregnancy was bad requiring surgery. As you expressed your feeling, heart break and pain. I felt like I was there with you. I’m still a couch potato its hurtful to have this happen. I finally watched some videos about this to help me get through this emotionally.
I’m sending you positive vibes and praying for you to have your rainbow 🌈
I had my ectopic pregnancy last june on the 23/06/24.. it's so painful losing my pregnancy.
Sending you guys so much love and support!
Thank you so much ❤❤
I just found out today I’m pregnant suffer from endometriosis but have symptom of ectopic pregnancy please pray for me and I pray for you to get pregnant be positive.
I only found out @ 7 weeks that I’m having ectopic pregnancy. :( and have to get my right Fallopian tube removed. Cause it was ruptured. :( I hope you are feeling better! Your rainbow baby will find their way to you soon! ❤️
I'm recovering from ectopic surgery now. My surgery was on the 7 week mark, the day before Christmas. I feel so lonely in my experience but videos like yours help. Thank you.
I just found out my pregnancy was ectopic yesterday and had to get the methotrexate injections. I’m currently on bed rest. It’s definitely something I never thought would happen. And you do feel empty right after.thank you for sharing your experience .
Hey, I just had my surgery 2 weeks ago on April 5th. I know exactly what you are experiencing! I had to say a quick prayer for you because I remember sitting in bed crying wondering why did this happen to me... I just want you to know that everything will be okay and that you WILL bare more children! Don’t give up. ❤️✨ You’re not alone ✨
When did u try after the mtx injection
I lost my baby from ectopic pregnancy as well as my right fallopian tube. It was the most traumatizing experience I've ever had in my life and that was in the middle of pandemic where they didn't allow visitor in the hospital so I was alone for 3 days. But i’m currently 5 weeks pregnant again after 17 months! After being told I might not conceive naturally anymore and should prepare myself for IVF. I just had an ultrasound last night and baby is there and my hcg is tripling up! Dont lose hope ladies! God Bless! 🥰
I’m so sorry for your loss and trauma but I’m SO happy to hear about the new pregnancy! I just had my rainbow baby in Aug ❤️❤️❤️ never lose hope!
Lov you lady your words are my hope😭🫀
I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I had a miscarriage back in June of 2018 (and then dealt with infertility for the next two years). I also had unexplained infertility. Ended up going into IVF, which we had success with. So much of your story resonates with me so much. The healing process is long and the road is hard, just know that you have support from lots of us, even the lurkers. I really enjoy your channel, thank you so much for sharing your story with us.
Thank you for your comment and I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️ Thank you for your support, it means so much.
Jade, thank you so much for sharing your story. I can't imagine how difficult and saddening this is. Thankful you have a supportive family to help you get through this. Believing in you and your fertility journey whenever you're ready to try again.
Thank you Hope! ❤
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know exactly how you feel because I just had an ectopic pregnancy removal on April 5th. This was the worst day of my life. I have watched a lot of videos regarding ectopic pregnancy and the removal of 1 tube. It scares me because I want to give my 7 year old daughter a little sister or brother.. and now I’m worried about my fertility. I have been praying, taking my vitamins, and eating healthy since then. I still cry about my ectopic pregnancy. I don’t know how it happened honestly. I’m lost. I’m so happy I came across your video. It helped me to know that I am not alone. Love you girl. ✨💕
I am going thru this now, watching this made me cry because i get that feeling when she says i can feel my baby dying..thats how i feel..
❤️ I'm glad you were able to share your story as part of the healing process, and I hope this helps other women going through ectopic pregnancies. Very much wishing you guys the best in getting pregnant!
Thanks Shannon, I really appreciate all your support! ❤
I am so happy we were able to fight infertility naturally .. and for those people who keeps battling the same sending you love..
Thank you!
I am soo sorry you had to go through that. After trying to get pregnant
Sending much love your way.
Thank you! ❤
I am going through the EXACT same thing..I am devastated and so empty.. I had the shot 2 days ago and I am struggling in the mornings cos the one thing that woke me up with so much joy is gone😔😔
I am so sorry you're going through this. It's ok to be sad, but I hope you get your rainbow baby soon!
Did your tests ever get as dark as the control line?
Sending you virtual hugs, praying for you, I myself just had ectopic pregnancy ended up removing one of my Fallopian tube and it’s just so unfair but I know everything has it’s reason, It’s only been a week since the surgery and as soon as I’m fully recovered I’d have to see a specialist to help me figure out what I can do to get pregnant again. God bless and your turn to be a mom will come in his time.
I am literally going through the same thing my prayers goes out to you ❤️
You can have ALL of my baby dust!!!! More and more and more baby dust!!
I'm so happy for you that you made this video despite how difficult it was. 💗
Thanks friend!! Thanks for being there for me through all of this ❤
Thank you for sharing your story. Sending you best wishes ❤🌹
Thank you so much!
Thank you so much for sharing I had experienced the same pain and my tube had ruptured. I had to have one of my tubes removed but the doctor said we can try again to conceive again. This would’ve been my first child and mentally I’m still trying to deal with it. Sending you love and light 💗
I'm so sorry you experienced that, I'm sure it was SO scary! Good luck on trying to conceive again, I wish you all the luck with that!! 💖 💖 💖
Thank you for sharing all of that. I'm sorry for your loss and a lot of us dealing with fertility problems and treatment know how painful miscarriages and that long journey can be. This video will help women who go through the same feel support, so thank you again been so brave to share your story.
Thank you for watching and leaving such a kind comment ❤❤❤
I hope you know how strong & inspiring you are. In November it will have been 9 years since I lost my son when I was 6 1/2 months pregnant with him. I had been going through chemo & radiation treatments when he was conceived & he had heart complications. I've never felt comfortable openly talking about it. I wish you the best. 💗
I'm so sorry for your loss, that is such a heart breaking story. Thank you for sharing it with me ❤❤
Si sorry for your loss 😢😢 I wanted to ask.. I found out a week ago that im pregnant. I’m still pretty early I calculate about 5 weeks and I’ve been having period like cramps..since even before I took pregnancy test I had those. Thinking I would get my period but then started feeling bit nauseous and my breast started feeling sore.. so I decided to take a home test. Obviously it was positive but I was still having those cramps.. And how I feel cramp pain on my left side of my lower abdomen all the way to my thighs. I haven’t seen any bleeding.. is this concerning??? Btw it’s my first pregnancy ever so I’m completely clueless 😕 I’d appreciate your opinion
I've always heard that if you have cramping OR bleeding, it's probably normal, its more when you have them together that's a concern. Both are really common during early pregnancy. If you have sharp shooting pains that last awhile that's definitely more concerning. Of course, if you are concerned you should speak with a medical professional! I wish you the best of luck with your first pregnancy! ❤
Hello! I know you wrote this a year ago but I am currently 5 weeks 5 days pregnant and I have the same symptoms you described, sharp pain on left lower abdomen that has lasted for several days now and some crampings,how did it go for you if I don't mind me asking?
Sending so much love your way Jade ❤️ I think it's so important for women to share their stories of loss, I think it helps everyone not feel so alone. But I'm sure it took a lot of courage to make this video. Hoping you get some good news soon 🥰
Thank you so much friend ❤❤
Jade, thank you for making this video, for your bravery in sharing such a painful story. Because infertility and pregnancy loss is such a lonely state of being. I am glad to hear it was not as bad as it could have been and you are able to try again. I will be sending all the baby wishes your way!
As soon as I saw the title I had to click. So much of your story is very familiar to me, all that TTC language. I’m going to share a little of my story which has a painful beginning and middle and a happy end but feel free not to read if you’d rather not.
I had also tried for a little over a year when I started seeing a RE and was diagnosed unexplained infertility. First, I opted to have surgery for a uterine septum he discovered (and which could have increased chance of miscarriage) which meant I had to take a short break from TTC. After, the RE recommended IUI, Clomid and an hcg trigger to time ovulation and miraculously I got pregnant the first round. At that point we had tried for 17 months. My first US at 7 weeks I learned I was having twins and we were shocked, thrilled, nervous. A week later I had a follow up US and learned we had lost one of them. It’s called vanishing twin and I wouldn’t have known it if I wasn’t being closely followed like you. But it was devastating and hearing you talk about your traumatic US was very familiar. I was terrified for at least half of that pregnancy but I continued to carry the remaining twin and he will be four in December.
Most miraculously when we went to try again, I expected trouble and was at least fully prepared to do IUI again. But that time I got pregnant the first try (imagine my absolute shock) and my youngest son is 20 months.
I know hearing of others losses and successes can be both helpful and painful so I hope it wasn’t the latter (if you read it). I found so much support from other women TTC online. I look forward to hearing happy news from you someday!!
Wow, thank you for sharing your story Rebecca, it means a lot to me! IUI is definitely the next step my doctor recommends, but I'm hoping to ease into that. I'm hopeful we won't need it since I was able to get pregnant with just letrozole but I know it's the next step when we are ready to take it. I'm so glad your story had a happy ending (although losing one twin must have been devastating and scary) and that your second pregnancy was easier to conceive, something I've heard from others as well. Hopefully I will have better news to share soon as well. Thank you again for your kind comment and your support! ❤❤
@@BedtimeBookworm you sound like you are extremely well educated on all of your options and have a good support system which is so important. But if you ever have a question about IUI or for any other reason don’t hesitate to reach out. Either way I will keep you in my thoughts and send all the baby dust your way!
Aww, Jade. I'm so sorry. I had one too and it is devastating. I had to have a ruptured tube removed but even with only 1 available ovary I got pregnant with my son within 6 months. I'm hoping you have a short wait for your rainbow baby too. ❤️❤️ If you need to talk, shoot me a DM on Twitter.
I'm so sorry to hear you had a rupture, that is so terrifying and I'm glad you're ok. And that you now have your beautiful son, that gives me hope! ❤❤
I’m currently experiencing my 3rd ectopic . 1st one lost left tube . Last one was ruptured needing laparotomy n c section w 3 pints of internal bleeding suctioned out . This one I caught early enough to only require a laparoscopic surgery . Wishing you the best on your journey love 💕🌈
What signs n symptoms u were experiencing during 5th n 6th week when it was ectopic???
@@aleenajaved9560 i started bleeding and A throbbing pain on my left side . Once I started bleeding I knew something was wrong so headed to the er. It’s very important if you think you are experiencing one to go ASAP . I am extremely lucky to be alive from the 2nd one .
Thank you for sharing Jade
Thanks Michael ❤ Your comment gives me hope knowing that you have two (?) beautiful children now ☺ and LOL about the baby dust haha, I tried not to drop too many TTC (trying to conceive) terms in this video but I honestly thought that was going to be the main audience for it so I didn't explain some terms haha
@@BedtimeBookworm We have three now. Amanda and I both hope that you guys are able to conceive again smoothly and without complication
Thank you for sharing your miscarriage online. I know so many women who need to hear about experiences like yours. Definitely not alone. 💔
I'm so certain you'll get your family. Hopefully you won't have to wait much longer
Thanks for being one of my supports through all of this Rachel, your friendship means the world to me! I really hope I get my family soon too ☺
My ectopic pregnancy experience was a lot like yours in that I was testing almost every day prior to my period so knew I was pregnant very early & caught it early on. I had no rupture, but was so confused when I started bleeding and the ER told me I lost it. Then I went to my follow up appointment where they told me my beta numbers were doubling, and that I most likely had a viable pregnancy. Then when they did the ultrasound and showed nothing, my heart shattered. My doctors actually never located my ectopic pregnancy. Therefore I had to get the shot, which I was okay with. It was such a weird, sad experience. I hope you & your husband have a healthy pregnancy in the future.
Ugh I'm so sorry you went through this as well. That sounds so confusing and such a rollercoaster of emotions. I'm glad you were able to avoid a rupture though, that would have definitely been worse. I'm actually currently 30 weeks pregnant with my rainbow baby! I hope you have a healthy pregnancy in the future as well ❤
@@BedtimeBookworm after I posted this comment, I found a recent video & realized. Congratulations!! I’m also pregnant again 🥰 just turned 7 weeks.
I'm so sorry. I'm glad making this video is helping you come to terms with it. I only recently started following your channel. I had a miscarriage last year, and while not ectopic, I had some of the same things as you, the really faint second line on the pregnancy test and my HCG not rising fast enough. I had a US at 7 weeks and they moved my due date back one whole week. Two weeks later, I had an emergency US and found out there was no heartbeat. We've been TTC for almost 3 years now and because of my age, who knows if things will work out. Anyway, thanks for your story. It helps to hear other people's stories.
Ugh I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, thank you for sharing your story. I wish you luck on your TTC journey and I hope you get your babies soon ❤
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I am so sorry for your loss Jade. I cried watching this. Sending you love and hugs and good vibes and baby dust 💕
Thank you! ❤️❤️
I'm sorry to hear about this, Jade. My mom had a ruptured ectopic when I was a little boy. I was too young to grasp what was going on at the time.
Oh man, how scary! I'm so glad we were able to detect mine before a rupture. Thanks Thomas ❤
Hi sister
My wife is also experiencing the same thing right now. She always cry because she doesnt want to lost the baby but we have to do, for her sake. The doctor is also advicing to observe her ectopic pregnancy journey. Last week she has hcg test only at 29. We will go back to the hospital for another HCG test and transV.
I experienced the same 😭. Though i undergone surgery cause the doctor said it already ruptured so they took my right fallopian tube. I just came out from the hospital and yes, it pains me to think i wouldn't be expecting an april baby anymore 😭
I am in a similar situation today. my hcg was over 1200 day before yesterday. I am in my sixth week. but the sac couldn't be seen anywhere..its a wait n watch..n i am sort of already grieving..
I'm so sorry to what you had to go through I really hope you manage to have a healthy beautiful baby
I have a mirena coil fitted in as I didn't want any more children as the doctors have advised me against it because off my the impact it would have on my health since Friday I have been feeling awful having really bad cramps in my lower abdomen followed by dirrehea bloating and gas also a high fever and then Saturday I had bleeding still had cramping I have done some research I think I may be going through a ectopic pregnancy I need to do a pregnancy test im really scared xxx
I’ve had this in my watch later waiting for a time when I was in the headspace to watch. You’ve been in my thoughts, sending you guys tons of love. ❤️
Thank you so much my friend ❤❤❤
I'm so sorry. I've never had an ectopic but I have had two miscarriages. It messes you up for quite some time. I still think about those little babies that I lost. The pain is deep and (for me) it never went away, but I found ways to cope. It's ok to grieve for a loooong time - if it becomes overwhelming I highly suggest seeing someone to talk out those feelings with. Sending love ❤
I'm sorry you went through this. My mother went through seven miscarriages before she had my brother and then, as in now, a lot of people who haven't gone through it are dismissive of how hard it is. Thoughts and best wishes for you and Jade.
Thank you for sharing your experience and I'm so sorry for your losses. ❤ I know the pain and the dreams I had for that baby will never go away, but I too am finding ways to cope with the pain.
Thank you Samantha ❤ I'm so sorry to hear about what your mom went through and I'm glad she has you and your brother now
I feel for you beautiful. I hope and pray that God works a miracle over your life. In the name of Jesus! There’s no equation that can explain the works of miracles but I do believe that it could happen to you as it has happened to me. Much LOVE to you guys
I’m so very sorry for your loss, Jade. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you ❤
I hope you are doing better. I totally understand you i lost my baby at 22 weeks last year (2020) and it was the worst experience of my life :( and it hurts so bad till this day!
Thank you for sharing Jade, I know it means a lot to so many people to hear they aren't alone. I'm so sorry you experienced this. Sending you ALL the good baby wishes!
Thank you friend! ❤
I'm so sorry that happened to you, especially after how long you tried for a baby before that. I wanted to watch this video because I have several friends who are trying to get pregnant, and one who did have an ectopic pregnancy, and I wondered how one finds out they have an ectopic pregnancy. I'm really glad your situation was a best-case scenario and that you're able to feel more ok now.
And that's definitely weird about 2020 being a difficult year, because in addition to everything going on with covid, etc, so many of my friends are suffering the worst they have in a long time, like deaths in the family, divorces, etc, much more so than in a typical year. It's so strange, and I really hope that ends in 2021.
Thank you friend 🥰I also feel like my friends and family are having a worse than normal year... there's something in the water!
I just want to give you a big hug. Stay strong and wishing you much success on your journey. ❤
Its a misconception that HCG cannot rise with ectopic. HCG can rise normally with ectopic. My HCG was 4300 at 6 weeks and at 7 weeks when it ruptured it reached 20,000 like normal preg but the uterus showed nothing and a mass could be seen on my left with a lot of fluid in douglas pouch. I had laprotomy and methotrexate was not even an option left for me.
That's very true, that's why i think every woman should get early scans to check. I'm so sorry for your loss, that must have been terrifying ❤❤❤
Same case with me also,it happened one week back. I can feel the each word and pain u had gone through ☹️sorry for your loss
What was the reason for your ectopic 💜 i went through this 2 months b4 i dont when to start tryinh or wt to do b4 doing it..
May Jesus comfort you and bless you with Children.
Sending virtual hug keep moving forward Po laban lang
I had a rupture at 8.5 weeks & lost my left fallopian tube, still desperately researching for natural TTC after 1 ectopic, 5 previous miscarriages, & 1 chemical pregnancy after my ectopic. Thank you for sharing your story.
I’m so sorry for your loss! It’s definitely possible to get pregnant with just one tube so keep trying! I just had my rainbow baby a few months ago ❤️❤️❤️ don’t lose hope!
My surgeon said 10-15% risk of ectopic. I'm a pretty positive person so I heard "85-90% chance it won't happen to you". But it did. Then my other tube ended up blocked. I'm a super lucky person sometimes. Honestly, I regret going tr and not straight to ivf, but it isn't worth dwelling on and eventually things worked out. It just took a lot of heartache, faith, and money to get my gorgeous daughter. It is truly a leap of faith and boils down to either it'll work or it won't.
Congrats on your rainbow baby! ❤❤❤
I’m going through an ectopic pregnancy and it’s my first time and I’m really scared. Because I’ve searched up what an ectopic pregnancy is and I’m having symptoms. I also have a daughter and she’s 5 years old, I just wanted to get pregnant so she could have a little brother/sister and so I could have another baby! But I loved your video! I just wanna know a lot of women’s stories about ectopic pregnancy, because it is very dangerous and scary to go through, especially if it’s your first time. But I loved your video, you explained a lot of details and I also cried when you got emotional. I wish you the best ! 💞❤️
I'm so sorry you're going through this and for your loss. It's so difficult but you will get through it! There are a wide range of stories out there about ectopic pregnancies. I'm currently pregnant with a little boy! I hope you get your rainbow baby soon and can give your daughter the sibling you want! Good luck!
I.fouf out.i.had one back in.july 😪😪😪
This broke my heart for you. I hope you are able to grow your family one way or another. I'm sorry you had to go through this. Sending love and prayers ♥️♥️♥️
I have followed you for maybe four years and usually don't comment. But I just wanted to say I'm sorry. And it's strong of you to make this video and I'm sure it will help others in the same situation. I will "hold my thumbs", as we say in my country (think you say cross my fingers though?), and hope you will have better news to give us in the future.
Oh wow, thank you for all your support through the years! Yes, here it's cross my fingers, but I like holding thumbs!! Thank you so much for your kind comment ❤
So sorry you had to go through this Jade. So brave to talk about your experience, and I have no doubt it will help other people experiencing the same thing! Sending you lots of love!
Thanks Aoife! ❤❤
I’m so sorry for your loss as someone who can relate to your experience I’ve had an ectopic ovarian pregnancy last year I was bleeding internally and then they’ve to do ovarian artery Embolization to stop the bleeding feeding the mass that was from the product of conception on my right ovary thankfully they told me everything is ok but can’t get pregnant for the next six months and currently I’m on TTC journey it was very tough journey again I’m so sorry for you loss praying for your healing.
I'm so glad you are ok! Thank you for sharing your story and I wish you luck on your TTC journey! ❤
Thank you for sharing your story and I'm so sorry for your loss. I haven't experienced an ectopic pregnancy but I did have a suspected ectopic with one of my pregnancies and also a miscarriage when I was younger. I'm glad that nowadays that people are more open to discussing pregnancy loss as it's such a lonely thing to go through, even with a partner and family in your life, it felt like it was only happening to me because it was MY body that was experiencing it and nobody else was really discussing it. This was back in 2007 so things like pregnancy loss, mental health etc was still sort of not discussed. Sending love your way with a huge sprinkle of baby dust. ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss as well. I agree that pregnancy loss and infertility can be so isolating, but i've always wanted to be more open about it because I don't think they should be stigmatized. I'm glad things have changed over the last 10 years. Thank you for your kind comment and your support! ❤
I'm so sorry for your loss. I had an ectopic pregnancy this last February where mine was too far along for the Methotrexate to even work. My HCG kept going up after the 2 shots I took. I actually had to go in and see my babys heart beat before I elected for emergency surgery to remove it and my fallopian tube to avoid rupture. It's a horrible horrible thing to go through and you should know you're not alone.
OMG that sounds terrible, I'm so sorry for your loss!! Thank you for sharing your story ❤
Big hugs, I am so sorry for your loss. I hope it will happen for you and that you and your partner will get what you want so badly 💕 🙏🏼🤞🏼 I'm sending you baby dust!
Thank you! Fingers crossed 😆
I don't comment on stuff usually. But I just want you to know... I'm so sorry, and you're not alone. I'm so sorry you had to go through this. I've lost one too and it's the worst most horrible feeling in the world. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy. Thank you so much for sharing and baring your soul here. I know you're not a christian.. but I'm praying for you, that your soul would heal and that another pregnancy would stick.
Thank you so much for your kind words I'm so sorry for your loss too. Even though I'm not Christian, I will take those prayers!! ❤
Thank you so much for sharing! You are a real hero.. my heart goes for you. I hope you will have a healthy baby soon. 💕
All the hugs, also thank you for the puppy bloopers! I honestly feel like in your situation I would have done the same thing, I very much like to research all the facts I can find. Wishing you all the luck and I am glad that you are in the part of grief that lets you enjoy things again.
Hehe puppy bloopers are the best!! Thanks Angela ❤❤
I hope that being able to share your story makes it easier to process the loss. You have been in my thoughts and I will continue to send you goofy cat pictures if it means that it will help you take your mind off stressful and difficult things even for a little bit. You can have all of my baby dust! Lots of hugs. 💖
Thanks friend, I really appreciate the goofy cat pictures! ❤