The Paranoia of the Narcissist in Action

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  • Опубликовано: 28 дек 2024

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  • @christinebeames712
    @christinebeames712 9 месяцев назад +6

    I am never surprised that there are monsters out there, but what does surprise me is the amount of people prepared to tolerate this kind of behaviour,

  • @24Ruiner
    @24Ruiner 9 месяцев назад +2

    HG reading it back in his elegant voice is priceless.

  • @callalilly1988
    @callalilly1988 10 месяцев назад +8

    Wow, this brought back memories. The flashbacks. I know exaclty how that poor girl feels. It's sickening looking back. I hope she gets out.

    • @maryanneelliott97
      @maryanneelliott97 9 месяцев назад

      Agree, once involved it's so hard to see what's going on.

  • @Tarnia11
    @Tarnia11 10 месяцев назад +12

    I really would end up dead if I had to deal with this as I wouldn’t be able to stop laughing 😂🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @NikkiBikkiNZ
    @NikkiBikkiNZ 10 месяцев назад +19

    Oh god living with someone like this would be a nightmare, I couldn’t stand listening to this for few minutes

  • @Marcia_Toms
    @Marcia_Toms 10 месяцев назад +24

    I’m really liking these examples. Thank you H.G.

  • @OnsKleinGezinnetje
    @OnsKleinGezinnetje 10 месяцев назад +12

    Somebody really is with him listening to this!? Amazing 😂

  • @lauracox3856
    @lauracox3856 10 месяцев назад +21

    No accountability. Everyone is against him for criminal activity but it doesn't click that he's actually guilty. Paranoia then makes everyone seem like the enemy.

    • @AliciaM5555
      @AliciaM5555 10 месяцев назад +2

      Exactly. That would be my brother (narcissist) and all his cameras 🤦 ugh.

  • @MarinaM-o6p
    @MarinaM-o6p 9 месяцев назад +3

    THE NARCISSIST LOVES TO COERCE AND CONTROL …..YOU ARE RIGHT …..YOUR CHOICE OF A PICTURE ON THIS VIDEO IS TRUE ….. THEY ARE STALKERS TOO .

  • @madcatter972
    @madcatter972 10 месяцев назад +6

    This Narcissist In Action series is fantastic H.G. The examples are excellent, & your analysis extremely helpful. I always learn things. Thanks for all you do.
    Interesting how close paranoia skates to very high levels of anxiety. As someone with PTSD my survival instincts are ALWAYS on high alert for finding the trap, because there was always a trap when it came to the various periods of abuse on my life. I'm safe now, but the hypervigilance remains.

  • @jacmacsgirl
    @jacmacsgirl 10 месяцев назад +4

    Land of the "bent blinds.." I've been there..

  • @Néerlandais-p1q
    @Néerlandais-p1q 10 месяцев назад +2

    So good explaining the behavior, of my brother so sad

  • @lukehanley5392
    @lukehanley5392 10 месяцев назад +3

    You’re saving lives HG.

  • @SkylarK_x_bk_0
    @SkylarK_x_bk_0 10 месяцев назад +3

    HG's 'The Narcissist's Reality Gap' came to mind during this video.

  • @Ciara1594
    @Ciara1594 10 месяцев назад +3

    My mother would sit in the darken living room peering through the blinds (like it shows in your thumbnail photo) spying on the neighbors. She was absolutely convinced that "they" were "spying and talking" about her. Seriously. She would even call the police on them but they never responded. The police I mean. She would always tell me (as if she was bragging/her choice )
    that she never had any friends at school. I never said anything but I thought plenty. That judging from the hard glint in her eyes and her rictus grin, that she was (still) very angry and hurt at being ignored
    probably teased and made fun of. Except for her oldest sister and a niece,
    even her family would avoid her.

    • @Vixinaful
      @Vixinaful 10 месяцев назад +2

      Sounds a bit like my mother. She always had the blinds down and spied on the neighbours, convinced they were selling drugs. The other neighbour she thought was a prostitute. Hated having light into the apartment aswell. She lost custody of me later on.. They're braindamsged. The damages can be seen on MRIs and PETs. Look it up, its real sad.

  • @maryanneelliott97
    @maryanneelliott97 10 месяцев назад

    So my past life (with ex narc) flashes before my eyes. Thanks HG.

  • @LulusMom1961
    @LulusMom1961 10 месяцев назад

    So much Schizophrenia. So many scenarios. I wanted out of that trailer or wherever in the Deliverence hell they were recording from!! This breakdown was excellent. Thank you HG.

  • @1WhoCares
    @1WhoCares 10 месяцев назад +2

    Can't wait to catch this one!

  • @Space_cadet0007
    @Space_cadet0007 10 месяцев назад +1

    Very interesting thank you for teaching us

  • @kimberlyelliott7933
    @kimberlyelliott7933 10 месяцев назад +9

    I legit couldn't/wouldn't deal with that for 1 minute 🤢

    • @kauffrau6764
      @kauffrau6764 10 месяцев назад

      Seriously!

    • @Geeronimo99
      @Geeronimo99 10 месяцев назад +2

      All he does is talk...lijes sound of his own voice...like wordsalad folk...

    • @maryanneelliott97
      @maryanneelliott97 10 месяцев назад +2

      It's scary and real when you're in the middle of these relationships. To the poor empath involved, it's not as easy as just ending it or walking out the door.

  • @rubytroy7756
    @rubytroy7756 10 месяцев назад +2

    Love your work ❤❤❤

  • @rubytroy7756
    @rubytroy7756 10 месяцев назад +1

    Good evening HG❤

  • @normabracken9958
    @normabracken9958 10 месяцев назад +1

    Oh this will be superb..❤

  • @darcybarwick3766
    @darcybarwick3766 9 месяцев назад

    They are paranoid because of all of the damage they have done .. one day someone might wanna get even

  • @mrs_rick_s
    @mrs_rick_s 10 месяцев назад +1

    H.g. Tudor is really Harry’s voice…😂 If I don’t stop this…nobody will(where is your inheritance)(Meghan,Harry,Me)(Lady Diana Spencer..is still your mommy?)Theresa(Mothers Mary)(We are GOd)(no higher house)(hot girls)(who are already spoken for)(they picked us remember?)(King Charles?My new Dad?)(good I thought there might be some ongoing type threat)(military WW3)(We already took it all)(easily…we are somatic narcissists)(with young children)(I am working on it again)(sure I am 18 again)(They took my pot away…I was already old enough to be drafted…and drive at 16)(I will show up 9 months preggo…if he wants me to)(huge and pregnant…with as many babies as can fit)(GOD tricks…can shrink to fit at least the last 7 👑 I already took from Billy no gate 🎉 4/17 💎

  • @imago9059
    @imago9059 10 месяцев назад +14

    Typical NPD monologue, grandiosity, trying to boost himself up. Paranoia feeding the grandiosity and victim play. Best she can do is prepare to leave quietly and keep recording him until then.

    • @billrichards2000
      @billrichards2000 10 месяцев назад

      TOW will not leave quality. As soon as she did, she would lose the "Duchess" title, and thus, her meal ticket 😅

  • @lionessroarsjohnson2684
    @lionessroarsjohnson2684 10 месяцев назад +4

    Are paranoid schizophrenics misdiagnosed and, they are actually narcissist? Can a person be both? Odd that he brought it up saying a doctor would give him schizophrenic medicine.

    • @Vixinaful
      @Vixinaful 10 месяцев назад +1

      The covert that abused me had schizophrenia.

    • @lionessroarsjohnson2684
      @lionessroarsjohnson2684 10 месяцев назад +3

      @@Vixinaful I wonder if both are connected? I'm so sorry that you were abused. It's terrible that people with feelings for another end up getting hurt.

  • @GearsinMotionGraphics
    @GearsinMotionGraphics 10 месяцев назад +1

    Sounds like my uncle, who I just got an OP on, and kicked him out of the house he's been living in over 19 years.🕒

  • @lightbeforethetunnel
    @lightbeforethetunnel 10 месяцев назад +1

    How was it determined the man in the video is a narcissist? Couldn't he just be paranoid? And have substance use issues?

  • @melanieeyquem9166
    @melanieeyquem9166 5 месяцев назад

    If that was me I'd tell him to go to the doctors because he definitely needs those meds lol what a nut job!!!!

  • @MaartjeTosca
    @MaartjeTosca 10 месяцев назад +3

    Wonder if Hitler's infamous table monologue were like this one.

  • @Journeyoflove13
    @Journeyoflove13 9 месяцев назад

    Wow, this paranoid narc just sucked the life right out of me. 😵🥴

  • @maxhammer4067
    @maxhammer4067 10 месяцев назад +2

    My brother coked up looked out his bedroom window,he seen his nabours get out of a taxi and go in to there house, is brain snapped and he thought the nabours where spying on him, in his pjarmers he walked out and knocked on there door, he forced his way in to there home and held them hostage, he then calls the police to come get them, the police arived and arrested my brother and he was sectioned

  • @lionessroarsjohnson2684
    @lionessroarsjohnson2684 10 месяцев назад +8

    That dude is all over the place. Too many energy drinks or something has him hyped up. Going on and, on about something that makes no sense.

    • @skyleawood2649
      @skyleawood2649 10 месяцев назад

      Lol😂😂😂^^^THIS

    • @clarissimaadayinthelifeofa1782
      @clarissimaadayinthelifeofa1782 10 месяцев назад +1

      Yep, I thought so, too. He was manic. At one point, he was talking so fast that he was stuttering. It almost sounded like Tourettes. If that's him smoking weed regularly, then what's he like not smoking it?!

    • @lionessroarsjohnson2684
      @lionessroarsjohnson2684 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@clarissimaadayinthelifeofa1782 I have no idea. Could this person also have manic depression? Can a narcissist be manic? Is it what he's smoking? Whatever it is its not good.

    • @lionessroarsjohnson2684
      @lionessroarsjohnson2684 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@skyleawood2649 I didn't mean this to be funny. Actually he sounds manic. I don't know if it's the narcissism or some other mental illness or the Marijuana.

    • @clarissimaadayinthelifeofa1782
      @clarissimaadayinthelifeofa1782 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@lionessroarsjohnson2684 Yes, is mania part of narcissism ? That is the question. Probably separate from and not necessarily part of his narcissism, is my take. Other than that as he gets more paranoid, he gets *even more paranoid* and more nervous, so everything speeds up on in him, or in him. I was already wondering from the previous case of the narcissist in action, whether he could be a paranoid schizophrenic, but he wasn't. This guy actually might be, along with happening to be a narcissist, perhaps.
      Nb. Weed can make you paranoid, but not so hyped up. He could be on other 'pharmaceuticals' and use weed to 'come down'..He might be off his usual medication, as he seems to mention.Or of course, he is just plain bonkers.

  • @Vixinaful
    @Vixinaful 10 месяцев назад +1

    HG, I'm wondering about a series about Geri Halliwells husband who's cheated and I see signs on her arm of bruising, so maybe he also abused her physically? Theres one picture in the daily mail where he holds her neck in a grip as a doll he's steering and I recognize that grip all to owell so I think he could be a cluster B'er. Would be interesting to dig into.

    • @juliechurch1799
      @juliechurch1799 10 месяцев назад

      Vix please be careful cos that's slander? No proof !

    • @Vixinaful
      @Vixinaful 10 месяцев назад

      @@juliechurch1799Haha, right. WHo are you going to bust? Vixinaful? 😆 be real, she has a bruise and he is a cluster B, it cant get more obvious.

  • @clarissimaadayinthelifeofa1782
    @clarissimaadayinthelifeofa1782 10 месяцев назад +1

    Very interesting how this guy's paranoia links into the existing standby operating paranoia of the narcissist, looking out for those threats to control, always wary..Hyper alert.

  • @ZYX54321
    @ZYX54321 10 месяцев назад +1

    👀
    👄…

  • @billrichards2000
    @billrichards2000 10 месяцев назад +1

    The male's accent is distinctively American!!

  • @Kintsugi979
    @Kintsugi979 10 месяцев назад +1

    Are they in a gym?

    • @BalmzZz
      @BalmzZz 10 месяцев назад +1

      No they are probably in the kitchen/ living room with a high ceiling I can hear the kids TV show playing in the background. There is also a ceiling fan running

  • @MaartjeTosca
    @MaartjeTosca 10 месяцев назад +1

    He very much sounds like a Somalian that chewed a bit too much qat.

  • @Dj.D25
    @Dj.D25 10 месяцев назад +1

    I thought taking weed was supposed to relax you?

    • @KissMahGrits
      @KissMahGrits 9 месяцев назад

      Depends on the strain. If this idiot is smoking sativas he'll be out of his mind paranoid

  • @madmadgrrl
    @madmadgrrl 10 месяцев назад

    Sounds just like Kanye🤮