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  • @PrakharkePravachan
    @PrakharkePravachan  Год назад +27

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    • @DCTravelerExperience
      @DCTravelerExperience Год назад +1

      Just purchased AOC last week. Haha

    • @join2shubham
      @join2shubham Год назад +1

      Just signed up for Ultimate Value Bundle, will go thru in June due to examination ❤🤝

    • @AmitSinghIITH
      @AmitSinghIITH Год назад

      Dont say Nonsense the place you dont beleong to, the place you dont know about. Jee has given the best Engineers, Neet has made the best doctors . Do Respect that, Beside that the video is really good.

    • @spyflash1185
      @spyflash1185 Год назад

      @@AmitSinghIITH read the recent news maybe you'll change your mind too

    • @natleon123
      @natleon123 Год назад

      promo code not working

  • @karanvats4830
    @karanvats4830 Год назад +89

    10 mins in the video and I already know its top notch content! My man Prakhar never fails to amaze me.

  • @AKSHATKUMAR312
    @AKSHATKUMAR312 Год назад +48

    bhai yrr tere thumbnail ne nostalgia de diya

    • @ua1093
      @ua1093 Год назад

      Bro ...on the psycho level also 😮

    • @rahul-rz5uj
      @rahul-rz5uj Год назад

      Changed

  • @RanveerSingh-qe6px
    @RanveerSingh-qe6px Год назад +215

    Year goal :- have vocabulary as good as baba Prakhar.

    • @SachinDolta
      @SachinDolta Год назад +6

      Multi year*😊

    • @Sol-ck3tp
      @Sol-ck3tp Год назад +35

      Na bhai. Vocabulary to bahuto ki theek hoti hai, articulation is superior to vocabulary

    • @RanveerSingh-qe6px
      @RanveerSingh-qe6px Год назад +4

      @@Sol-ck3tp agreed

    • @sumedhst
      @sumedhst Год назад +3

      More like articulation brother

    • @cinegrinder250
      @cinegrinder250 Год назад +11

      Only if you have meaningful things to say, articulation /vocab will come handy. This person is selling you English instead of whatever his titles claim to sell and people are still falling for it. Sad

  • @BrVr
    @BrVr Год назад +39

    W for long detailed video. Lets Go. Keep making such long videos on more topics .
    Video suggestion : "Masculinity Guide for Those Without a Father Figure"

  • @shivamsinghpawar
    @shivamsinghpawar Год назад +15

    Bro keep running the channel like olds days ❤ Long and Raw Content !

  • @shivamp1022
    @shivamp1022 Год назад +7

    Thank you for not making this video members only.
    These are genuinely very helpful

  • @samgill2737
    @samgill2737 Год назад +4

    this video feels like in depth version of HOW TO CHARM PEOPLE ( 4 rules ). Great video as usual. have to say I'm liking these in depth long videos.

  • @Vedant-M
    @Vedant-M Год назад +68

    28 mins in the video and would like to say, Damn! Prakhar never disappoints with his content.

    • @ua1093
      @ua1093 Год назад +5

      Never ever...😮..
      Baba apne vachan k pakke hai

  • @amanawake5202
    @amanawake5202 Год назад +13

    Introversion is good if you have few close friends (2-3 max)
    Otherwise struggle is for those with 0 friends like me. I don't even feel bad for it anymore.
    Advice in this video is gold. Prakhar is best

    • @shivanshshukla5883
      @shivanshshukla5883 Год назад +5

      Make effort to make friends you can't just stay by yourself and say you are introverted lol introverts do have friends they can be good in social skills as he said.

    • @rahul-rz5uj
      @rahul-rz5uj Год назад +2

      I will prefer to make efforts to make friends even if they're someone who doesn't have the same goals as yours. Don't be a people pleaser another thing

    • @rahul-rz5uj
      @rahul-rz5uj Год назад

      ​@@shivanshshukla5883 intoversion for introverts is more like a phase of life. They can change to a great extent if they just get out of their zone and try to reach another depths

    • @shivanshshukla5883
      @shivanshshukla5883 Год назад

      @@rahul-rz5ujI still have made only one good friend but maintaining that friendship requires lot of fights, resourcefulness is important, and then bakchodi sab kuch hona chahiye and friendship requires lot of give and takes ek quality honi chahiye tumhare paas atleast jisse dusra Banda tumhara saath time spend karega.
      Ek acha dost banane ke liye 2 mahine same cheeze pe kaam Kiya tha saath mai ne toh atleast uske baad bahut effort laga. No same hobbies no same goals friendship is a must for introverts or extroverts both.

    • @amanawake5202
      @amanawake5202 Год назад

      @@shivanshshukla5883 friendship is not must.
      Close relationships are must friendship is more of choice thing

  • @yhbarve
    @yhbarve Год назад +7

    28:17 the 2 mins before this are pure gold. I can relate so very much to this. Thanks a lot Prakhar!

  • @primedevil3883
    @primedevil3883 Год назад +3

    My god, what a video I can't explain how much I needed it in my past interactions with people, learned my mistakes which were actually not my mistakes it was just me not trying hard enough. Just thankful from the bottom of my heart for these videos.

  • @yashmishra3507
    @yashmishra3507 Год назад +5

    Hey Prakhar, I really appreciate what you're doing. Keep up man. Let's go sher gang. Let's gooo!!

  • @unsharma9229
    @unsharma9229 Год назад +6

    I am not an introvert...i am just uncomfortable with my self...which i will work on...thanks prakhar

  • @harshit73
    @harshit73 Год назад +12

    thank you so much Prakhar bhai, I am one of those people that was shy but have improved a lottt after watching your content and putting efforts and taking the harder choice to interact with people, but still I feel (from what I understand) that I lie more on the introverted side, such detailed content is of immense value to people like me, keep such bomb long form content coming, only ❤ & support for you

    • @DhruvGuptad
      @DhruvGuptad Год назад

      Was

    • @harshit73
      @harshit73 Год назад

      @@DhruvGuptad I was one of those people*?

    • @mouthearnose
      @mouthearnose Год назад

      The part about you still feeling you're an introvert, I think that's expected. Prakhar said there can be 2 types of introverts: one by nature, and one who acquired it.
      Tbh, I think in most people there's usually a combination of the 2 in varying degree. We usually have some predisposition towards one side (introvert or extrovert) and then on top of that our life experiences solidify our personality.
      And I do feel that the natural predisposition is quite difficult to remove, and honestly it's useless to even try to remove it, since that's just the way we naturally are.

  • @satyamjha9250
    @satyamjha9250 Год назад +5

    Your clarity of mind is damn amazing Prakhar ❤️🔥

  • @yashrajmane8424
    @yashrajmane8424 Год назад +4

    Video Suggestion : Harsh realities of life to be understood at earliest

  • @harshbhawnani8304
    @harshbhawnani8304 Год назад +4

    You're a genius prakhar! Just know it!!

  • @prasadkhambadkar
    @prasadkhambadkar Год назад +2

    It's actually so much relatable to many of the situation I faced up till now.
    It's like I got then answers to many questions I had up till now.
    Great content, truly appreciate it.

  • @oyeraj_
    @oyeraj_ Год назад +15

    Finally, first time I feel proud to be an introvert.
    Honestly, for me reprogramming maybe the only useful thing to ponder upon right now (gem)
    All material after that, is what we learn in bits here and there (it's valuable for sure)
    I don't know how many serious hours of journaling, therapy, exploring
    would have taken me to dig up all those misguided beliefs
    Thanks so much Prakhar ❤❤ Love You
    (Btw i already have bought your AOC Course
    I feel This Video, should be the Introduction right before the course beginning)

  • @osmanbawany
    @osmanbawany 4 месяца назад

    That thing that you said " Once I get comfortable it's easy for me to be myself" that's 200% true and thanks for that tip of being more comfortable in first interaction.

  • @prasadacharya860
    @prasadacharya860 Год назад +1

    ya, I'm my true authentic self now..I can do what I set my mind to..

  • @rishimehraa
    @rishimehraa Год назад +1

    Dayum The best, the best video for introverts, Now I am able to understand introverts better.

  • @realsherNo1
    @realsherNo1 Год назад +2

    "Yeh toh meri baat kr rha hai" fits soo well

  • @ganggang2176
    @ganggang2176 Год назад +6

    The Map
    Intensity not energy.
    Dissimilarity not similarity.
    Stellar not dominant.
    Expressing not impressing.
    Work your strength.
    Big sample size less try hard.
    People PRIMARILY operate on emotions and body language.
    Not being judgemental to your insecurity and that enables them to not be judgemental with theirs.
    Tell them they are supported.
    People love talking about themselves, and they'll love you for listening.
    If you can ease their discomfort by predicting it from their body language.
    If you opens their mind, make them think, not easy.
    If you have a flavour of non conformity, authenticity, it allows them to be authentic and that's what they've been looking for all their lives
    CHEAT CODES:
    CONVICTION, degree to which you are convinced of what you're saying.
    BEING FREE OF SOCIAL STUPIDITY, everyone recognises it and accept regardless how they feel about it. If you are beyond it, it's a breath of fresh air, communicates that you're liberated
    FREE OF NEEDINESS, what neediness looks like is, like me like me, leans too close, cares too much that you like them, impressing not expressing, lack of conviction and end statements with the tonality of a question, and it's communicated in their body language.
    IF YOU NEED NOTHING FROM A PERSON, they like you so much more, if you are very intense very direct and speak in very few words, carry certainty in their words and actions.
    CERTAINTY, in a world drowning in uncertainty about the future, if you are sure of what you're communicating it is communicated as you being clear about the future, that you know your shit.
    People confuse CERTAINTY for CLARITY, and very easily so. It comes from, Purposeful eyes, Passion, your investment into niches that you really care about.
    OBSTACLES:
    FEAR OF REJECTION, if you're okay with rejection, the possibilities for you are virtually infinite, IT SUCKS no question about it, but if you're able to transcend it, it's a superpower.
    FEELING LIKE AN OUTSIDER, exoticize the OUTSIDE, one of the simplest thing, you already have something they don't and probably never will, all is left for you to do is own it. Use what you've got and make it flowery
    FEAR OF MAKING THE FIRST WRONG IMPRESSION, people that are supposed to like you will like you regardless of your mistakes, it's a pre-selection thing. If you show your true self bones and all, people that won't like you were not meant for you in the first place so you're not actually loosing something but filtering out what's not for you. Bad strategy to PRETEND with someone you want to date, cuz then you attract the wrong kind of people for the pretend version of you, who'll punish you every time to try to be true so you stick to the pretend. Take those rejections but find the right person.
    SUTRAS:
    COMFORT LEVEL, assuming comfort carefully with conviction where it's not there, people play along. If you can manage to be just a lil more invasive that signals comfort you become more comfortable exponentially faster with each meet.
    USE YOUR STRENGTH, if you want to speak less, speak less with intensity, be impactful with your words, use the impact and intensity instead of energy, don't play to your weakness.
    COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR BODY AND EYES, if your head is free of the nonsense programming you'll automatically communicate that in your body, you don't have to consciously think about it.
    MYSTERY, reveal yourself in degrees of mystery, it's works way better than the extrovert way of putting everything on the table too soon.
    This doesn't cover the whole video but only the things I found useful for myself.
    For The Technique, check out art of conversation.

  • @karanvirsingh
    @karanvirsingh Год назад +3

    Such a beautifully written video! Perfectly delivered

  • @harika3423
    @harika3423 Год назад +2

    What u said is true yar, i also used to thought that I'm introvert and then i also thought it depends on person, now I'm thinking I'm kind of ambivert😂, that fear is true when I was preparing for competitive exams i thought i couldn't make it but after 3 years shit this is so easy, then i understand it's the fear my parents and people in our circle created in my head, my parents always say u buying books u study these? they'll just create that self doubt fear bcoz of that I didn't buy courses or books, then when i test and read i feel like books r so good, even self help books, I'll buy those i want to and i feel so connected❤

  • @d1vyvnsh
    @d1vyvnsh Год назад +3

    Literally one of the best video I've seen on internet.
    Thanks bhai

  • @Hustler0109
    @Hustler0109 Год назад +6

    Yaar iss topic par video banao na "How not to get hurt easily?"

  • @shubhamkharade2710
    @shubhamkharade2710 Год назад +3

    Hamza Ultra Pro Max!🔥

  • @neel_ghodasara
    @neel_ghodasara Год назад +3

    old PG is back! Keep creating gold brother

  • @ThatsGoodMoneyy
    @ThatsGoodMoneyy Год назад +2

    Learnt so many new things and realised the mistakes i was doing all this time…keep up the good work!

  • @ameygad7198
    @ameygad7198 Год назад +2

    Prakhar, Please next detailed video on How to convince someone or negotiate what you want from a relationship/interaction.

  • @Akashsen24
    @Akashsen24 Год назад +2

    This one will go far beyond ✨

  • @anant0609
    @anant0609 Год назад

    Why did not I watched this video earlier, it was like you said everything I wanted to hear. When you sai "You don't need to be liked by every person or talk everytime you see someone", I just felt very light, even though I am very fat. Thankyou brother, this help of yours will definitely increase the quality of my life.

  • @nikhil_01a
    @nikhil_01a Год назад +7

    Make something for Indians to feel comfortable in America. I know you have mentioned a couple of things about having a certain mindset but if you make a dedicated video about how to completely get rid of the inferiority complex then I think it well help many watching your videos
    Edit: Also a question: Are you yourself completely free of the inferiority complex or not?

  • @sharwinharkal9933
    @sharwinharkal9933 Год назад +3

    Yo would love the *EXTRA* notes' content. Great stuff.

  • @nikhil2925
    @nikhil2925 Год назад +2

    kindly, please make a video on How to Market our self ?

  • @yashwanthsai1860
    @yashwanthsai1860 Год назад +1

    The way he says felt like jordan b peterson

  • @itzzmee5934
    @itzzmee5934 Год назад +1

    Damn yrr!? your contnet is just on a whole another level man..thanks a lot for such a valuable content

  • @digantchad
    @digantchad Год назад +2

    Bro a Part 2 of Indians moving abroad and how to define the exact game to conquer , a video on that would be much appreciated , i mean i ll watch it and im sure alot of your audience will move abroad at some point so you got demand too , cz i also think your ideas on this topic must have matured too since your last video.

  • @TopLobster11
    @TopLobster11 Год назад +3

    Maybe maybe maybe, you can make these videos Members only after few weeks

  • @prathamsolanki742
    @prathamsolanki742 Год назад +2

    Thanks for premium level content bro
    Love you man❤❤

  • @sourabhsharma4185
    @sourabhsharma4185 Год назад +1

    21:30 law of reverse effect ~osho

  • @ramanchoudhary5780
    @ramanchoudhary5780 Год назад +2

    Gorgeous. Respect and love.

  • @engineerofemotions1183
    @engineerofemotions1183 3 месяца назад

    I got equally obsessed with your content as OSHO's preachings😊 it hypnotic indeed ❤

  • @keeratrekhi
    @keeratrekhi Год назад +8

    Prakhar never fails to amaze me.

  • @anujtiwari8163
    @anujtiwari8163 Год назад +1

    Please add the step to step guide, would be very helpful
    BTW LOVED THE VIDEO

  • @mukulmehar9250
    @mukulmehar9250 Год назад +1

    What a coincidence.........I read about "the weak of large numbers" on same day this video came out

  • @veerdosi00
    @veerdosi00 2 месяца назад

    - introvertism is a sedative misconception: “I guess this is who I am”
    - inherent introverts and acquired introverts: people who socialise poorly socialise poorly
    - introverts and being good at communicating are not correlated at all
    - social game is about intensity (more impactful) (with which and of which you communicate) not energy.
    - energy needs words, intensity doesn’t (it works by body language and emotion)
    - extroverts win by making their impact area larger by saying more
    - mistake of first interaction is not my first impression, is there no second interaction, don't be fixated on fucking up or doing smth wrong
    - a good adage is focus on expressing not impressing cause that’s what is worth remembering about anyone, be comfortable with talking about what you are like and what you like to talk about
    - how you express things in language becomes how reality is then mapped
    - articulation is fixing the puzzle with words
    - social map is how you understand the matrix of social reality: the grid that creates social reality: understand the landscape: what is it that does what
    - people primarily operate on emotion and body language
    - people don't care if they get what you are saying, they care if they feel they get it
    - body taking space, eyes being purposeful, for smile to be radiant: words are a wrapper on top
    - communicating key emotions:
    happiness: step in the way you walk, a smile, a levity in the way of your behavior
    safety: make them feel comfortable with your insecurity: be non judgemental of yours and they will feel comfortable with their insecurities
    supportive: the general lack of support that people have in an everyday basis: bro I know you: “you got this”
    fun: that up and down, that playfulness, that humour
    - what are people’s propensity’s what is it that people actually like: people like when they get to talk about themselves for a long time, people like you when they spend time with you (people only review conversations or incidents I free time when they can build a story around that), movement equates to psychological time, if people feel understood (soften what they are tensed about), if you tell something that opens their mind (ask meaningful questions), people who stand in a non confirmist way or who stand apart in their own way since a liberty emotion or that of freedom is passed along (be driven and convinced about it if their is a difference about you in public (not drinking))
    - conviction behind what you do (be convinced of your opinion)
    - being free of social stupidity: if I met you for the first time, I have to be politically correct or some opinions that we must not say, express being not tied to things but not radically
    - non neediness: if you are fine in yourself, something like Vihaan,
    - authenticity: how comfortable are you with who you are, own up to it, confident, be certain (since people confuse certainty for clarity)
    - passion: try speaking about this,
    - exoticise whatever outside you are coming from: something so cool and unattainable for the new person who has never been to that outside

  • @Ram-bg9iz
    @Ram-bg9iz Год назад +1

    You spoke about Offering all our acts as an offering to god in the previous stream it is a fundamental teaching of sri Aurobindo's as well prakhar would reccomend reading sri Aurobindo's essays on the gita

  • @thats.ujjwal
    @thats.ujjwal Год назад +1

    helpful video. would be happy to see the step by step guide you talked about in the end

  • @astindods_
    @astindods_ Год назад +4

    Didn't watched the video yet , but I know it's another baap video... cfbr

  • @sushil6509
    @sushil6509 Год назад +6

    Hamza with brain

  • @AnuJ-vu5xn
    @AnuJ-vu5xn Год назад +1

    Bhaii pls make podcast on how to control inner self from feeling insecure after hearing so many ppls thier stories and experiences ..

  • @swasti89000
    @swasti89000 Год назад +1

    what a useful video!!! loved each part

  • @shreyashsaxena9748
    @shreyashsaxena9748 Год назад +1

    I have a Strong Superiority complex and often don't speak to people my age since they usually talk about stuff Far from my domain and interest, BUT now Whenever I Get a chance to Speak to people High on the value chain on me I am certainly weak On building Good rapports Hence never would Make a great Connection to anyone....

  • @fardeenkhan___
    @fardeenkhan___ Год назад +1

    Will surely implement just made a 1 page note of few points that i completely understood

  • @kashyapp23
    @kashyapp23 Год назад +1

    thanks prakhar,
    this is gold for me

  • @tonystark2358
    @tonystark2358 Год назад +2

    How to Ace social world as introvert chahiye plz ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
    Also, loved this stream❤❤❤
    4-5 baar aur dekhunga

  • @GaneshSharmaa
    @GaneshSharmaa Год назад +2

    LOVE HIM MAN....
    ❤❤❤

  • @mrigendrajha2690
    @mrigendrajha2690 Год назад +2

    We want the video of exactly how to do it.....plzz prakhar make it happen....👊❤

  • @niteshsingh3939
    @niteshsingh3939 Год назад +2

    Thankyou so much mam

  • @hanumanpatil1568
    @hanumanpatil1568 Год назад +1

    Prakhar bhai vocabulary is too hard😅 but the content is amazing, really whenever i listen your content my mind is like , uff dimag ghum jata h pura, a huge knowledge of everything keep it up brother.

  • @thankyouwelcome320
    @thankyouwelcome320 Год назад +1

    yes give us how to ace social world as an introvert

  • @kushchopra4300
    @kushchopra4300 Год назад +1

    I want that course you talked about in the end

  • @itzzmee5934
    @itzzmee5934 Год назад +1

    can you please make a video on physical strength and fear of getting beaten ( overall, how to become fearless)?!

    • @terabhai_boogeyman
      @terabhai_boogeyman Год назад +1

      You can't be fearless. Being fearless is stupid...
      Fear is a survival instinct.
      And yes if you wanna get rid of fear of getting beaten up is get beaten up. Ykwim?
      Walk towards your fear #sheracadmy
      Be a sher

  • @AbhayKumar-vu7zz
    @AbhayKumar-vu7zz Год назад +1

    Dude. Everything makes sense now. Thank you

  • @lakshayarora7132
    @lakshayarora7132 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much for this❤

  • @lamoded7926
    @lamoded7926 Год назад +2

    changing thumbnails will do the job

  • @tejas.parjane
    @tejas.parjane Год назад +1

    Want 2nd video on step by step guide to ace the conversation

  • @MrBlackjack456
    @MrBlackjack456 Год назад +1

    This piece was much better.

  • @Desi.Superman
    @Desi.Superman Год назад +1

    Go for it... pointed advices

  • @patelaaditya8934
    @patelaaditya8934 Год назад +1

    Never delete this video......

  • @sodimmsorack
    @sodimmsorack Год назад +1

    Do we have an AOC 4.0 comming out anytime soon?

  • @trupti2805
    @trupti2805 Год назад +1

    prakhar is looking so fine here🥵

  • @Nikhilkate.
    @Nikhilkate. Год назад +1

    Love you prakhar thank you so much ❤️❤️

  • @ganeshdandu9042
    @ganeshdandu9042 Год назад +1

    Subscribed immediately ❤

  • @giggty6109
    @giggty6109 Год назад +4

    Bhai yr wapas se pehle wala prakhar chaiye ab shawl vegere leke passionately cheeje batane wala shudh hindi me😢

  • @bhav7179
    @bhav7179 Год назад +2

    More of this me lord!

  • @gauravrohra3049
    @gauravrohra3049 Год назад +7

    1:11:15 yes we want it

  • @parthijardar
    @parthijardar Год назад +1

    Try uploading the video by increasing the audio volume by 5-10db in premiere pro

  • @fkn6741
    @fkn6741 Год назад +2

    28:00

  • @kalyanimandavgade4338
    @kalyanimandavgade4338 5 месяцев назад

    25:05🙌

  • @TopLobster11
    @TopLobster11 Год назад +2

    Saath Saath Spotify pe daal diya karo

  • @dipeshsandalwar8383
    @dipeshsandalwar8383 Год назад +1

    Just amazing bro 🤘

  • @shreya7181
    @shreya7181 Год назад +1

    bro fr like i hate when people confuse shy/underconfident/socially awkward/not popular people with introverts

  • @Rahulkumar-dg5pu
    @Rahulkumar-dg5pu Год назад +1

    Great content, the Content I need more clarity and help

  • @rhinks6405
    @rhinks6405 Год назад +1

    Amazing video. Prakhar I have a personal question for you for no particular reason : Do you like understand little bit of Gujrati ? you said your mother is from Ahmedabad and you have visited it quite a few tiimes or I may be wrong about that. just curious coz I am also from Ahmedabad

  • @ayushgarg8520
    @ayushgarg8520 Год назад +1

    Hey can i use some of this content in my college speech related to introvertism

  • @AnshSingh-mk4hx
    @AnshSingh-mk4hx Год назад +1

    Thanks bhaiya..for helping me

  • @addycool444
    @addycool444 Год назад

    He is the kind of friend we all want

  • @s9chit206
    @s9chit206 8 месяцев назад

    Big applause for you Prakhar . Thank you so much for making this video.
    Ps. I don't usually comment on a yt video

  • @sodimmsorack
    @sodimmsorack Год назад +1

    Thanks.

  • @LifeUpgradeLab
    @LifeUpgradeLab Год назад +1

    Awesome content !!

  • @nihalshrivastava7846
    @nihalshrivastava7846 Год назад +1

    Brilliant, thanks ❤

  • @harshgoel9448
    @harshgoel9448 Год назад

    now i watch your content for how to create it not for consumption purpose.

  • @prateek3606
    @prateek3606 Год назад +1

    What's the "inner circle"?

  • @debjoydas7834
    @debjoydas7834 Год назад +1

    Loving the content.

  • @rishabhmajithiya9887
    @rishabhmajithiya9887 Год назад +1

    PTS : 41:30
    55:00
    1:00:00