NYC Vlog: Nail Art, Thoughts on Cohabitation, Adulting, Unboxing new Adidas!
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- Опубликовано: 11 янв 2025
- Come with me to get my nails did! Talk about “Shacking up” unbox my new purchases of the week!
Links to items in this video:
Nasty gal jacket rstyle.me/+HBh...
SCHUTZ boots schutz-shoes.c...
Adidas x bad bunny adizero SL 72baa
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The one thing I’d suggest, especially because you’re leaving your safe place, is to not move in with him but get a new place that you both can start fresh in. No one can say this is mine, it’s ours.
Yes! I agreeee
RIGHT, THAT RIGHT THERE, WHAT MS. SANDRA IS SAYING. HOWEVER, PRAY ON IT AND IF, I SAY, ISAY, IF,
Y O U NEED TO WAIT, GET TO KNOW HIM!!!!! ASK 1,000+ ?s , AND GO BACK AND REPEAT SOME OF THEM TO SEE IF YOU GOT THE SAME ANSWER: CONSISTANCY, TRANSPARENCY, INTEGRITY, MORAL FIBER ARE WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING AT; THIS IS YOUR LIFE, AND IF THERE IS ANY RESISTANCE FROM HIM, PRESS THE BUZZER, AND HIT THE ROAD, ON THE GIDDY UP! CHURCH FANS UP!! 😅
@@catherinejones9196I’ve known him for over a decade! We are best friends! But living together idea is new and scary 😂
@br00klynbetty917
Ok, don't get it twisted, I am not a clinical relationship expert, but maybe you were not doing what you are doing now, and there is much to be gained by co-habitating. Above ALL else, be careful, PROTECT YOUR MIND AND YOUR HEART!
Church Fans Up!
Good advice
Yesssssss Marika ! Loving this ❤
Thank you
Glad you popped up on my timeline! Love your fashion style. Just subscribed!
Thank you sooo much 🙏🏽 welcome
Love your channel!!!! BTW Sis, life puts you where you need to be!!! Change is good, live in the moment with no anxiety❤ Love & Light
I totally agree! Learning to embrace change and operate from abundance! Thanks for the encouragement 😢
So glad I found you. One thing I will say I've been married for (10) years, what I can say that your husband has to be your best friend, good , bad, ugly or indifferent. Happiness is from within. I hope it all works out for you.
I totally agree! Being best friends really builds the trust and the love! Like really liking him as a person is the most important part bc that’s what helps the willingness to compromise etc
Totally agree with you. Take it one day at time. You'll get to know each other, everyday is a new adventure. Either you grow together or you fall apart. My husband became my best friend after going the Breast Cancer.
@@Yvette-e8fyes! That is through sickness and health I’m glad you have himmmm 🩷
It was challenging but having a comforter, frenemy, and supporter meant more than words can express. There's a difference between a Man vs a boy.
I love love love your style. Congratulations on moving in with your person.
🥺🥺 thank you
Yes I agree with everything you saying, your family sometimes will hold you back from figuring things out
Yes! They will make you fearful bc they can’t see past their own pain
All of the unboxed pieces are dope af, I love them all, and yes keep the jacket❤!
Thank you! I’m pretty sure ima keep the coat 😩
the skin is givinggggg!! Also very happy to hear about this step in your love journey
Thank you beautiful 😢
I dont know what I did to get you in my algorithms...but I'm siced❤. Your content is so good. Im learning new fashion terms, love your style and cackling.
Omg thank you! I’m happy you found meeee! I love to laugh 😂
That matcha looks amazing ! Love your style !
Thank you! That’s my fave matcha spot 😂
First off the skin is SKINNING 😍 Coat game insane, you showcased some beautiful pieces. Now as far as cohabitation, IMO it’s alil different in NYC since rent cost more than most places. Traditionally I’d say get a place together. But if one of you has a rent stabilized apt that has feasible space for both of you them move into that space. If you have a rent stabilized apt and can hold onto it while yall get a new space together then Id do that. I’ll stay tuned to see what happens 😊
Yessss all fair points! I eventually wanna leave NYC but while I’m here I’m going to make the move both have rent stabilized but his space is bigger
I just came across your video and now subscribed. I like your whole vibe. I was married with children in my 20s and that experience of all that living with a man is still a lesson as I'm in my mid 40s now. Good luck to you because change can be scary but I will say make sure you are on the lease whether you're moving in with him or getting a new place together. God Bless
Thank you! Very sound advice
The long coats are awesome! And I love your content❤
Thank you 🙏🏽
Know yourself before you try to know anyone else. What will you put up with, what won’t you put up with! Gotta be on the same page of things at least 85-90 % of the time it won’t work! Know one another’s history for sure!! Make yourself #1! Trust and Conversational must be key!
Just stumbled upon your channel the vibe is giving 🤗
🥺🥺 thank you so much
I just subscribed I love your vibe and style and great sense of humor 😂
Welcome! Thank you! I’m a little crayyyy 😂
Hello, your coat game is crazy ❤.
Heyyyyy! Thank you so much
That’s why i subscribed I think I have well over 100 coats and 85% have tags and I do not care 😂I LOVE COATS 🧥
@DemureDarlings now I don't feel so bad, I can totally relate 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ Right! I can not wear the same coat with every outfit, not going to happen😂👏🏽🧥
@@DemureDarlingsyou need flavors 😂
Love your channel, thank you for sharing these moments with us!
😢😢 thank you 🙏🏽
The nails 💅🏾 are goals! ❤
Thank you! It took a long time for me to find this nail tech 😢
@@br00klynbetty917 can I have the deets to your nail tech
You’re whole Dear Diary message! ❤
Thank you! It was really on my heart
We need preparation for everything we do! Our elders just did it and didn't think about things like we do. I believe we should live with them first. My parents was only on a plane ONCE, my father was 93 when he passed. LIVE YOU LIFE GURL!!
This is a good point! I honestly just wished that I asked more questions about this growing up! Definitelyyyyy gotta live my lifeeeee
Sis!!! I just started to watch and loving the convo so far. I am currently cohabitating and I agree that it is the true test of how it'll be if you get married. Now onto the rest of the vlog!! BTW, I have been supporting you on IG for the fashion slay, but really love this side of you! 🥰
Ahhhh fellow cohabitator! I’m mad at you now for not telling me how tricky it can be 😂 thank you thank you I appreciate you so much 🩷
Im here because my son is very eclectic and I want to learn so I can support his dreams
I love those rings.
😢😢😢 I really love that! Yes, expose him to many things! When brands are featured in museums take him to see the exhibits
Half up and half down hairdo is crazy haha the way I hollered!!! Enjoyed your video!
😂😂😂 that’s what I immediately thought when I saw itttt! Thank you
Congratulations on moving in with your partner, i.wish u 2 the best!!!❤❤❤your style & how u always step out of the box!!!Happy Holidays!!!!
Thank you so much! Happy holidayyyyyssss
So I'm in my oversized black and white striped sweater then you put that black and white striped oversized blazer coat situation on screen.. Heck yeah !! Glad you're having fun with these new videos! Also glad you still traveled!
Yessss! Oversized black and white?!!! I know it’s a great sweater! Thank you 🙏🏽
@br00klynbetty917 Hehe you're welcome!
Lmaoo at talking about the play! Cus he play 😂😂😂 but I really love the transparency in this video😢… & the skirt details ate 😍
😂😂😂😂 that’s ya dad 😅
If I can give advice on cohabiting, as someone who’s been married for 16 years and cohabiting for 18, don’t go in with the mindset of “ if it works out, it works out, and if it doesn’t it doesn’t”. Our brains are tricky and tend to catch others doing things wrong more then right. So Go in with a mindframe “this will work out”. And see if little things that bug you really matter in a big scheme of things. My husband to this day leaves crumbs in the kitchen and is little messy for my liking, but he is more than that so i pick my battles. My house is not IG perfect & who cares. Having boundaries on important relationships things is important, the little things, we all got them.
Happy for you doing it inspite of fear. I read somewhere “fear is a belief in the evil” so that’s been my big battle and when you’re on the other side, it’s gooood. And as an alpha woman in the first half of my relationship, it took a while to trust and give up control over everything. It’s nice to be on the softer side 😂🥰.
I completely agree, relinquishing control is my main battle! Putting trust in someone to lead and care for me after I’ve been doing it for self for so long! I never go into anything thinking it will fail so I’m not worried about that it’s more so the clashing of personalities! I’m the messy one 😂 so just being mindful and respectful of those things will be the biggest challenge
Heyyy girl! You know I love you dowwwn! 🫶🏾🫶🏾 So glad to see you on YT! I’ve been cackling the entire time watching this video!🤣😂🤣
😂😂😂 love you backkk sisss! Thank you for indulging me 🙏🏽🩷
Thank you for this advice! I love this! 🫶🏾
I am so glad you got something out of it! 💖
- Youngest child gang!! 🤟🏾😏
- i love the adidas!
- I don’t have any experience with cohabitation just yet, however, I hope that this experience is a positive one and you both have the chance to grow together 🤎
Thank you!!! Youngest gangggg
The Gucci bag is just so good!! I am so glad you have it and got it for the low
Yessss! Thanks for the assist sis!
Those ponytail boots boots are 🔥!
Love themmmmm so much
Subscribeddddd , Im a NYC girl and this vlog was so relatable
Thank you so muchhhh! Hey NYC 😊
The freepeople coat is 🔥! I vote to keep it ! Well wishes on your transition to cohabitating ! Continue your self care regiments/routines & expand on your creativity in all ways ! 😎
Thank you! I think I’m keeping the coat! It’s sold out now so I don’t wanna have fomo 😂 self care always!!!! 🩷🩷
Love your content..btw the pink and brown coat is a keeper ❤
Thanks! I think soooo tooo
I feel the same way about the calf hair boots but it took so freaking long for them to come I just settled for what I have, now I’m about to look at my boots again 😂
lol don’t dooooo it! You’re gonna be stresssedddd
@@br00klynbetty917 and was 😂😂
I’m a new subscriber. I’m glad I came across your video. You have great vibes! Best wishes with moving in with your person.😊
Thank you so much! 🥰
The denim jacket absolutely stunning🥰
Thank you! It’s y project
I truly agree with you.... I recently was thinking about trying moving in with an interest..
👀👀👀 yea??? Make a list of pros and cons, talk about roles and responsibilities of the household! And do a trial period! Like stay with them for a week or two to see what’s up
Yessss moving to the BX.... You'll love riding your bike in Pelham Bay Park... Let the moving vlogs and closet sales begin 🙌
lol I’m soooo nervous about the bike rides but I’m sure I’ll find some good places! I wanna bike to orchard beach! Definitely big closet sales coming next month
Omg sister please tell me you're recording on a iPhone, share tge settings set up ❤😍
Yep iPhone 16 pro ; record video on 4K at 30 fps
Love this ! So dope
heyyyy love the stripe coat, the freepeople coat the furry part is a lot but it look nice on. wishing you all the best with your cohabitation....I'm 46 and I've never had that experience and I don't know how accommodating I would be at this point.
Thank youuuuu! Yes totally on the fence about the FP coat! Thanks! I really wasn’t too accommodating when we first had the talk but that was bc of my conditioning growing up! It does get harder to compromise as you get older! So I’m just trying to navigate the best I can at this point 😩🫠
Okkkk I just found your channel and I’m 2 minutes in and liking your vibe so far. I’ll be back though😂😂 let me watch your older videos to catch up
😂😂 thank youuuuu I hope you enjoy
Hello can you please share the link for that yellow teddy coat. Thanks
The free people one? It’s sold out but you can stalk it www.freepeople.com/shop/bali-true-north-faux-fur-coat?color=071&size=5000
1."shaking up" is not for the weak.
2. I have a long puffer from Missguided, when i wear it I think of the song by Crystal Waters "Gypsy Woman (She's Homeless)".
I have a long puffer from missguided!!! Before they changed ownership years ago!!! It is such a good coat! I’m sad that their stuff isn’t as good anymore
Br00klynBetty when I tell you I am happy that you are doing this, girllllllll!!! So, the the black and white Beetlejuice jacket, is to die for!!!! The Free People coat has to grow on me, but you always pull it off. Keep it but make sure to get that price adjusted 😉. One other thing the commentary is so descriptive, honeyyyy🍯. I'm here especially for that. Half up and half down hair do??? The freest of people???? My favorite thing to make is reservations???🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂. See you next week Sis!
😂😂😂 the beetle juice is my fave!!!😍 girllll I ammmm insane!!! I’m happy you tuned innnn🙏🏽 thank you
Your outfit looks so nice ( in the thumbnail ) 🤍
Thank youuuuu
Question how was the shipping with free people hearing so many bad reviews about the shipping would love to hear your experience i thank u and love your style of fashion
Honestly I’ve had one issue out of all of times I’ve ordered with them! And it was last month! They took forever to ship and when they did it ended up being returned to the warehouse before they could even deliver it 🫠😡 other than that I never had an issue and I’ve been shopping with them for years
I absolutely agree with you that you should live with the person you believe is your soulmate first!!!! My lord I don’t think I want to ever date again after my experience 😂😂
Ohhhh nooooo! Don’t give uppppp
Love your vlogs!!! You vlog with your back cam? The quality looks amazing!! 🫶🏾
Thank you! Yes I use my back camera! That’s the best clarity
@@br00klynbetty917Go head, mama! I love your vibe! 🫶🏾
Just came upon your channel and you are such a vibe. You are so funny, love it. Remind me of me with my sister's. Immediate follow❤
Thank you soooo much! I’m happy that’s how it feels bc that’s how I’m talking to yall! Like my best friendddddd
Not “reservations” lmaoooo
😂😂 big fact! I never want the food at home 😩🫠
Congrats on the soon to be move!
Thanks boooo
Traderish Joseph!😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 he too tricky he make me buy more stuff I don’t need than target!!
New SUBBIE! Coat 🧥 lover here👏🏽
I’m obsessed with aaaaaaa COATTT! Welcome and thank you
The hardest thing in life is to live with someone
I think sooooo bc who is this person here now?!!!😂
Love your nails 💅🏾🤌🏾 how much do nails cost in nyc?
Thanks! My nail tech charges $80 so $100 after tip every 3 or 4 weeks
Having to raise your parent as an adult!!! Felt that. They really do act like children 🫢🙃
It’s soooo ghetto! 😂 bc you grow up and learn your own values then you realize their way wasn’t always the best way 😢
I have never lived with a man and I currently live alone, but I do live in Brooklyn. Why the Bronx if I might ask? I used to go to school and work there and I hated the hills, I couldn’t imagine living there.
I’m in my early 30s and don’t want to live with anyone but if I do meet a man decide to get serious, that’s probably the next person I’d live with.
Not a fan of it either but it’s more living space and cheaper than Bk
@@br00klynbetty917 I get it! Good luck on your move
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Do not recommend. Depends on your end goals tho imo. If marriage is it, then I definitely wouldn't do it. It rarely works long-term. But keep us posted no matter what you decide. Best wishes
I think as the times change certain expectations change most of my married friends lived with their person before engagement. I don’t think moving in or not should change that. There just needs to be a plan forward
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Not the cow parents were black 😂
😂😂😂 had to beeee! That fur was thickkkk
No guide because you shouldn’t do it😂
❤❤❤❤❤ love you, girlfriend!
Heyyyyyy happy to seee youuu hereeeee bf!!!😂😂😂
@br00klynbetty917 BEEN here! 💋✨️
First video🫶🏾
As a very particular only child who has lived with her partner for a little over a year now I will say pick your battles 😂😂 men do ALOT of things that make absolutely no sense and trying to address every minor inconvenience will drive you insane.
Not half up half down hair style 😂😂😂
😂😂😂 that’s what it gaveeee the contrast was so different
Keep the coat
I think I willlll
Have you spoke on expectations about money, sex, hanging out with friends, house cleanliness, cooking etc. Stay there two days straight and build from there overtime if possible to see if you GEL, DON'T GIVE UP YOUR APT. 😊BEST!
😂 yea we’ve discussed that! I’ve stayed there about a week and it was fine!
Sis, I'm 67-year-old military retiree and a new subscriber. I understand why your mom and grandmom don't agree with cohabitation. They, as well as me, are coming from a Christian point of view. The bible speaks against sex before marriage. Unless you all aren't sexing each other in the words of the old girls, go for it. I don't know what they have against you traveling. All I can say is be care. Be on your Ps & Qs.
lol I think that’s what the problem is for me honestly, biblically speaking sex before marriage shouldn’t be a thing but my mom had my brother at 19 out of wedlock so it’s hypocritical to me. Most ppl are having pre marital sex so to choose to draw the line at cohabitation being the big “no no” doesn’t sit well with me
heavy on shielding you from life lessons, experiences and wisdom!!
Jesus Christ loves you. He died on the cross for all of our sin. He was risen on the 3rd day!
Sup fly woman
Howdy! Thank you
Did he ask you to be his woman? Did he ask you to move with him because he wants to see a preview of you as a wife? I would say cool. But if you asked him, nah because you will have to continue to lead the relationship
I wouldddd never ask a man anything like this! He initiated everything in pursuit of building our future
I can’t stand last minute sh1te. I need one to two week advance notice or I ain’t coming.
Facts! Likeeeee why you “thought” to ask me last minute?!! Keep it
God forbid
Notttttttt
Loving the videos, I've been following you on IG for years 5 stars ⭐👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🫶🏽
😢😢😢 thank youuuu heyyy cousinnnnnn
@br00klynbetty917 heyyyyy 🙌🏽🫶🏽 I need you to post again because i already binged all of these lol
@@Godsmizfhitlolol every Sunday! But eventually it will be twice a week just give me a little second to get my RUclips training wheels off 😂
@br00klynbetty917 ok I'll be patient don't want you falling off the RUclips bike lol 🚴🏽🚴🏽♀️🚴🏽♂️
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Not half up half down hair style 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂 it really felt like that