Cuddlist: Professional Cuddling Session Relieves Loneliness
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
- Cuddlist.com has released a video to raise awareness around the
loneliness that’s felt by so many people and yet never discussed. A lack of non-sexual touch can create a feeling of loneliness for anyone, but this especially affects the queer community.
The video shows a typical cuddling session, immediately bringing the viewer into the intimate, safe space of cuddling. The viewer can see the power of touch and the healing that can take place through human connection and being fully present for another human. Cuddling sessions happen in a safe space with clear boundaries and consent.
I'm Chris. I'm 25 years old and I am a professional cuddler with cuddlist.com. I am trained and certified to cuddle with people, which means that when you come to me, you are signing up for an experience that's going to help make you healthier, help make you happier and give you a safe space where you can really just be yourself.
I work with people all across the spectrum, gays, straight, male, female, transgender, all different races and ages. Really, if you're looking to be held, then this is the place for you.
Gerhard: My name is Gerhard. When I tell people that identify myself as a global citizen, or gender fluid, or queer, or I just genderless in general, they just look at me that I have three heads. That through time generates certain type of rejection or you start feeling a little bit isolated.
Chris: I myself am queer and I really enjoy working with other people who are LGBTQIA. The reason that I got into this line of work is because I want to be a part of the fight against LGBTQIA suicide. There's so much research that shows that the gay community is experiencing loneliness and depression.
I've experienced this myself. A big part of my coming out was feeling really lonely, and feeling detached and scared, and even at times depressed. I think that what this does is it actively fights against that loneliness. It creates a space where we can come together and we can experience intimacy in a safe non-sexualized way.
Gerhard: What I find in this cuddling session is I felt the energy, which creates that he's very open and zero judgemental, and I feel like I could just talk and listen to him and be listened to. Cuddling, to me, it really helped me to set boundaries and to really exercise your right and say I feel comfortable doing this, I feel comfortable doing that.
Chris: I think cuddlist.com is the most accessible, reliable source of connection out there right now. And because of that, I'll do this as long as I can.
Gerhard: Cuddlist has helped me to live a healthier life.
Learn more about Cuddlist at www.cuddlist.com
The fact that cuddling became a business is really sad. Many people suffer from loneliness. Some of them can't even get a friend or a boyfriend/girlfriend to hug them!! It says a lot about our society.
Nowadays, people are also so afraid to even want to engage in conversations with strangers let alone hug them. I also blame our hypersexualized culture to make any form of human touch especially around the opposite sex to initiate to becoming something sexual. I truly believe it’s belief system like that creates more fear in adults to be more vulnerable and show more empathy…
Knowing myself I would accidentally fall in love with the person
Same
Being single and lonely (romantically) for 10 years.... Same here.
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Im like that, but I didnt feel anything. It was exactly like a massage. Comforting and relaxing, but not an emotional connection.
I'd rather chose to keep it a secret and keep comming for paid cuddles. If I want xxx I'd pay for it elsewhere. So I will love alone which is great and at the same time I'd get my cuddles and xxx with other people
Love is not easy and that's if you find it in this day and age.
This is just so beautiful. A much needed service and human need!!!
Just watching them cuddle made me feel less depress!
I'm shocked with how cold people are in the comments section. Y'all need cuddling.
Cuddling is the best...
People who have never felt true loneliness are really blessed, lucky people! Human touch is so under appreciated!!! I consider it vital for maximum health
beautiful video. The cuddlist here is very authentic and caring and I can imagine him doing very well across the board with anyone.
This should be covered by Medicare. Boys not caressed and hugged by their fathers grow up to 'sometimes' be cold. Enough of the touch-free body. Hugs are not sexual.
Motto: Hug a fellow human today.
Dane B. McFadhen why do we even need to charge cuddling in the first place?
@@TigerTummy23 there's nothing stopping you from starting a free cuddling service, or offering to spend an hour or two snuggling someone for free. 😁
No. Humans are disgusting why would I want to go out and hug one? Do you realize how many germs and diseases they have?
@@Jane-ow7sr Geez, you're a prized catch there Jane! NOT..
The fact that it relives loneliness, which can do as much harm to your body as smoking multiple packs of cigarettes, is enough reason for it to be covered. Not to mention it also can alleviate depression and anxiety, which are growing
I could use this, but would prefer a gay male, since I'm a straight post-menopausal female who badly misses cuddling.
Yes!!! I love the focus of your video! I'm going to share it with our Queer women and Transgender Cuddle Party attendees! Thank you!! Kat - St. Paul, MN
really moving and beautiful. A must watch...
I'm curious... How do you protect yourself from legal issues? What's to stop a client from claiming you were inappropriate, even if you weren't? Do you video tape the sessions?
I’ve also wondered about that. I’m interested in the profession
How do they protect themselves legally, even physically. What if a client has ill intent?
@@Magical_Trash they sign something before this happens
this dude was man the Real World.
Holy shit, I thought he looked familiar. He was in the lost season, he was friends with Ceejai. lol.
Having never done this I still question that without any emotional connection with the cuddlist is it that fulfilling.
You don’t need an emotional connection for this to work
You don't need a deep emotional connection to get the feel good response that comes from hugs.
Im not really sure that hugging really requires someone to be a professional necessarily, but this seems pretty nice.
"Helps" with boundaries. Interesting.
I'll just leave this right here
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Chris has such a different look.
Super pale and Ginger with super dense hair follicles. His brows look microbladed there so dense.
Cuddling with Charlie Manson. Ya, that will make the money.lol
I would like a session plz
Thank you for reaching out! You can visit the website below to find a Cuddlist in your area!
cuddlist.com/cuddlers/
This is amazing
Which country this is in?
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Good thing i have a wife....
Can I have a. Cuddle bfor I go to sleep plse, xx😌😔
He's a cuddler?
Also, this isn't just cuddling so he should just say that it's more paying for friendship
Yo his guy was on the dirty thirty, I love him!!!
"Certified"
Everybody wants to b coddled these days... Weak
Internet tough guy alert.
Yeah these people are weak.
More like, everyone wants to be cuddled! Cuddling is fun! Quit being so damn judgmental. Just because no one wants to cuddle you doesn't mean it isn't good for you.
Is this real wtf people are desperate
Just nasty!
eww creepy
As I see it this guy knows how to, other than the cuddling, make one feel special, has the personality, and I would come away from a session with my head held high. 🥲