About time Harvey admitted he’ll miss Louis if he goes...That’s why I love this series , the characters are flawed but show tremendous growth...and when the main guy admits he is flawed and envious after so many years of wins, just goes to show how brilliant the writers and actors are
I love Dr. Lipschitz. He's calm, points out facts in a completely soothing, non-threatening manner, and allows Harvey to express himself, thereby, letting him understand the things that get in the way of his relationships. This is the ideal therapist.
Part of the job of being a therapist or a counsellor is that you dive into issues that the client initially doesn't want to talk about. It's in the job description to talk about the uncomfortable things, by apologising up front he is stating that what he is asking is not a personal attack it's to get a deeper understanding of what is going on in Harvey's brain and thought process. Therapy and counselling is hard work for both the patient and the counsellor. Some people tend to snap at people when talking about touchy subjects. It's a defence mechanism
@@juanarocha8629 Every Therapist has their own approach, to me it seems like what Lipshitz is doing what might be classed as Psychoanalysis. Of course i'm only going what i have read about the subject matter, i'm not a counsellor at all
@@Elisa-gn5nj I'm guessing the woman he threw under the bus to save his client. To be fair though she was unlucky to get herself in a lose lose situation by getting involved with Harvey prior to the events.
One of my favorite scenes in all of Suits. Harvey’s development, his entire relationship reaches its truth right here. “Everyone leaves. Including Louis.”
I still don’t get why everyone hate her I mean she wasn’t a bad person or anything and I don’t think she wasn’t a bad therapist to Harvey at that moment…I mean she helped him anyway 😢
@Daredevil i agree with what you’re saying but I still think at the time he was seeing Paula as a therapist it was what Harvey needed. I mean dr lipshitz is too much pacific and when Harvey needed Paula he wasn’t up to just listen to someone talking, he needed someone to confront to let out all his anger and understand the things on himself. Besides he wasn’t ready to tell someone about the panic attacks and he lied at first about them to get pills which isn’t a great solution..
@@annehonime752She was a bad therapist. When she felt attracted to her patient and the fantasies started, she had to give up being his therapist. She manipulated him in therapy and turned into his friend to attract and make him dependent on her. Then, as a friend, she used the information from the therapy to manipulate him.
I don't find Harvey's concern surprising. I am 29 and all of my friends recently had babies. I am the only one who has no children and also still has no interest in having children soon. And I feel very alone. They don't have time any more. Every conversation (at the rare occasion you meet each other) is about their kids. I feel glad for them because that's what they wanted, but for me I sometimes feel sad.
My best friend, who used to have a small circle of close friends just like this (before we met), mentioned the exact same predicament to me. It's hard to lose people in some ways when circumstances change. I'm in the same boat as her (e.g. single, having children seems far off at the moment), but I'm just glad we have our shared experience, even though I'm sad that her friendships with those people she continues to love has changed.
01:53 and following. So, so relatable. No matter how eloquent or powerful you may be, this emotion will always stick. The inevitability of the people you love going their own way. It doesn’t even have to be malicious or anything, it’s just natural. People outgrow their need of you. And that’s a hard thing to cope with.
Lipsitz walks his patients through understanding their issues on their own. Paula just tells them and expects them to admit it. He's a way better therapist
Paula was messed up herself, Lipschitz wasnt or at least he was better at forbidding his feelings cross his profession. Thats what makes him a better therapist
Harvey is right, indeed everyone leaves. I did so much for a person above and beyond and today she leaved. And I came back to see this part and to relate to that.
@@McSquizzy962 and more importantly from what I remember after mike went to prison they ended up getting closer leaning on each other more. It was much more difficult for them than the others.
can someone tell me why dr. Lipschitz use was in the "your brother was getting a divorce" instead of is? iirc, at this point of the story Harvey's brother is still in the middle of divorce *as someone who is not native speaker and care too much abt grammar it will be a huge helps. thank you
You mean how does one deal with people leaving them in real life? Thats not a easily answerable question, some people will use other people as a sort of cur all becoming to busy socially to have time to think on it Others will regress inwards and become MORE alone. Others like Harvey do a mixture of becoming busy and being socially isolated, Harvey as we see him in Suits has the marks of a workaholic
@@Tcrumpen yup, what I was trying to say back them is that he used to had friends, but a lot of them leaved him, so... I don't get why he doesn't have to feel bad
Sadly no matter how you look at it... you will become isolated. Your friends have children now... your brothers have children now... and you are in your 40s, divorced and kids are an ocean away... building a new life without you. No matter what you do... they always leave.
@@josedavidcastilloblanco2437 The thing with trauma especially if in our formative years is we will often internalise and blame ourselves for it Harveys family fell apart cos of his mother cheating, Harvey hates on himself for not telling someone sooner He idolised his dad and when his dad left it was cos he blew up at him and blurted out that his mother was cheating So unconsciously or otherwise he believes he is to blame for their family falling apart and as such develops a almost crippling abandonment complex because his dad left him in a way Also kind of projection he feels like he abandoned his brother But hey thats just my 2 pence on it
About time Harvey admitted he’ll miss Louis if he goes...That’s why I love this series , the characters are flawed but show tremendous growth...and when the main guy admits he is flawed and envious after so many years of wins, just goes to show how brilliant the writers and actors are
And it great that they had someone other than Donna help him realise that
I love Dr. Lipschitz. He's calm, points out facts in a completely soothing, non-threatening manner, and allows Harvey to express himself, thereby, letting him understand the things that get in the way of his relationships. This is the ideal therapist.
I like the fact that the Dr apologises before expressions his point
Part of the job of being a therapist or a counsellor is that you dive into issues that the client initially doesn't want to talk about. It's in the job description to talk about the uncomfortable things, by apologising up front he is stating that what he is asking is not a personal attack it's to get a deeper understanding of what is going on in Harvey's brain and thought process. Therapy and counselling is hard work for both the patient and the counsellor. Some people tend to snap at people when talking about touchy subjects. It's a defence mechanism
@@Tcrumpen you can say that again, I will say that I like him better than Paula for a therapist
@@juanarocha8629 Me too 👍
@@juanarocha8629 Every Therapist has their own approach, to me it seems like what Lipshitz is doing what might be classed as Psychoanalysis. Of course i'm only going what i have read about the subject matter, i'm not a counsellor at all
Man, you could feel that Harvey HAD to say what he said... the pain was too much to hold in, that's such a human reaction.
Such a phenomenal scene, and so well acted!!
This guy brought Harvey Specter to tears in 2 minutes. Now that scares me.
Well Harvey had already been to therapy once and although not the right therapist for him he knows that you cant bullshit or lie during therapy
@@TcrumpenWho was not the right therapist for him?
@@Elisa-gn5nj I'm guessing the woman he threw under the bus to save his client. To be fair though she was unlucky to get herself in a lose lose situation by getting involved with Harvey prior to the events.
@@HarmonyEdgePaula behaved unprofessionally and unethically both in and after therapy.
One of my favorite scenes in all of Suits. Harvey’s development, his entire relationship reaches its truth right here. “Everyone leaves. Including Louis.”
Best psychatrist Ever..managing Harvey ego and Luis insecurity not an easy task 🙏..amazing ....
well, Jessica recommend him.
@Daredevil why? she's not recommending him anymore?
@Daredevil it's intentionally written in present simple brother
@Daredevil my bad
God I love that doc.
I wish I had someone like that to get me through stuff.
He’s waaaayyyyy better than Paula!!!
Paula was the worst, make me sick
The only therapist better that Lipschitz would be Dr. Linda Martin from Lucifer...
I still don’t get why everyone hate her I mean she wasn’t a bad person or anything and I don’t think she wasn’t a bad therapist to Harvey at that moment…I mean she helped him anyway 😢
@Daredevil i agree with what you’re saying but I still think at the time he was seeing Paula as a therapist it was what Harvey needed. I mean dr lipshitz is too much pacific and when Harvey needed Paula he wasn’t up to just listen to someone talking, he needed someone to confront to let out all his anger and understand the things on himself. Besides he wasn’t ready to tell someone about the panic attacks and he lied at first about them to get pills which isn’t a great solution..
@@annehonime752She was a bad therapist. When she felt attracted to her patient and the fantasies started, she had to give up being his therapist.
She manipulated him in therapy and turned into his friend to attract and make him dependent on her.
Then, as a friend, she used the information from the therapy to manipulate him.
I don't find Harvey's concern surprising. I am 29 and all of my friends recently had babies. I am the only one who has no children and also still has no interest in having children soon. And I feel very alone. They don't have time any more. Every conversation (at the rare occasion you meet each other) is about their kids. I feel glad for them because that's what they wanted, but for me I sometimes feel sad.
I'm that guy but also with BPD... its a lot worse when people start their families and leave.
My best friend, who used to have a small circle of close friends just like this (before we met), mentioned the exact same predicament to me. It's hard to lose people in some ways when circumstances change. I'm in the same boat as her (e.g. single, having children seems far off at the moment), but I'm just glad we have our shared experience, even though I'm sad that her friendships with those people she continues to love has changed.
SAME
Maybe you need a therapist
01:53 and following. So, so relatable.
No matter how eloquent or powerful you may be, this emotion will always stick. The inevitability of the people you love going their own way. It doesn’t even have to be malicious or anything, it’s just natural.
People outgrow their need of you.
And that’s a hard thing to cope with.
Gabriel Macht you beautiful, beautiful actor!!!
1st time you really see Harvey's emotions. Kinda breaks down. Made me emotional.
I raise you "its my damn fault" from S5
Lipsitz walks his patients through understanding their issues on their own.
Paula just tells them and expects them to admit it.
He's a way better therapist
Exactly! The Paula thing was the worst of the show, even hard to watched 😬
Paula was messed up herself, Lipschitz wasnt or at least he was better at forbidding his feelings cross his profession. Thats what makes him a better therapist
According to Jessica, Dr. Lipsitz was best in he business way before Paula came to the picture. So, he is quite experienced in the business.
He missed one name.... Donna... The leaving of Donna was also traumatic for him
Note how he mentioned work people first and family last...
Are the casting directors in Hollywood sleeping? This guy has to be the next Batman.
The voice , the accent and the sound mind of this Dr. is way out of this world , who ever writes his script is so smart but the actor is smarter
the loneliness of Harvey Specter..
Harvey is right, indeed everyone leaves. I did so much for a person above and beyond and today she leaved. And I came back to see this part and to relate to that.
You need to put yourself first many people only take and take and they don't feel that they need to do anything.
Thank you for your advice, I appreciate it!@@grimmjow6toR
Perdere piano piano le persone a cui più tieni ti mangia l'anima.
Touching moment.
Why did Paula even came in!! Harvey should have gone for Dr.Lipshitz since beginning.. Which therapist shacks up with patient.. It was so gross..
It was over the legal limit. Perfectly legal
I agree paula and harvey didnt have chemistry at all and if i may say, it did feel gross
@@Tcrumpen it wasn’t about the time it was gross because he was her patient, she knew his witness and never help him it was the worst
I didn't get to this episode yet. But when I get there, I'd cry at this scene
What an amazing actor
Powerful scene
*2:11* the hidden fear of Harvey
This guy is the Gold standard
If Harvey had gone to Lipschitz earlier, the show would have ended in 2 seasons 😂
I searched this because I fear something similar is happening to me. This is so relatable. Everything will be okay.
What’s happening?
I didn't realise Rachel was important to him
She was his associate for the better part of… what 3 years? Even when Mike came back it was Rachel who ended up working for him more often than not.
@@McSquizzy962 and more importantly from what I remember after mike went to prison they ended up getting closer leaning on each other more. It was much more difficult for them than the others.
it was actually emotional
Everyone leaves. 😭
Everybody leaves. :)
Am I the only one that thinks of the Rugrats everytime I hear that doctor's name?
Acting at it’s best
the doc found this man has loyalty/trust issues
I heard of children envying younger siblings, but envying a colleague's baby...
can someone tell me why dr. Lipschitz use was in the "your brother was getting a divorce" instead of is? iirc, at this point of the story Harvey's brother is still in the middle of divorce
*as someone who is not native speaker and care too much abt grammar it will be a huge helps.
thank you
Lipschitz is thinking about having a bubble bath
Can someone tell me what happens next please?
Harvey makes up things with Louis
Harvey's jealous
Soundtrack from 2:14 please?
Search for suits soundtrack you'll find a 40min video on RUclips
Typical TV yh
Did you found it
Has anyone found it yet?
nostalgia by christopher tyng.. its unrelased though
His family
Mike
Rachel
Jessica
Sister in law
Can someone how you deal with something like that in real life? I mean, if your people leaves, let's you alone, how are you supposed to feel?
You mean how does one deal with people leaving them in real life? Thats not a easily answerable question, some people will use other people as a sort of cur all becoming to busy socially to have time to think on it
Others will regress inwards and become MORE alone. Others like Harvey do a mixture of becoming busy and being socially isolated, Harvey as we see him in Suits has the marks of a workaholic
@@Tcrumpen yup, what I was trying to say back them is that he used to had friends, but a lot of them leaved him, so... I don't get why he doesn't have to feel bad
Sadly no matter how you look at it... you will become isolated. Your friends have children now... your brothers have children now... and you are in your 40s, divorced and kids are an ocean away... building a new life without you. No matter what you do... they always leave.
@@josedavidcastilloblanco2437 The thing with trauma especially if in our formative years is we will often internalise and blame ourselves for it
Harveys family fell apart cos of his mother cheating, Harvey hates on himself for not telling someone sooner
He idolised his dad and when his dad left it was cos he blew up at him and blurted out that his mother was cheating
So unconsciously or otherwise he believes he is to blame for their family falling apart and as such develops a almost crippling abandonment complex because his dad left him in a way
Also kind of projection he feels like he abandoned his brother
But hey thats just my 2 pence on it
This episode convinced me that feminists have done more harm than good