I am 64. After covid lockdown, friends were surprised to see me looking very elegant. There were few things that covid lockdown did to me were lose weight, change hair style, and watched videos like this. There were no hairdressers so, I cut my hair. The result is fantastic. Videos like yours helped me a lot. I kept my elegant look. Thanks to you.
You make it sound so simple 😊I’m going to keep trying. At almost 67 it’s difficult to know what to wear and not look like your trying too hard or to not look frumpy. Also love your makeup. So tired of seeing all the influencers with so much makeup and overdone eyebrows/eyelashes.
Same age and yes, finding that balance between trying too hard and frumpy is my challenge as well. I like the 80/20 rule Frédérique suggested; my own approach is similar as I like to feel like I have one piece a bit more edgy with my classics.
Try to spend most of your money on basics that actually fit your lifestyle. We all have our fantasy lives, but your clothes should fit your real life. Make a list of clothes you wear on a day to day basis. Now brainstorm to see how you would want to change that. Tiptoe in that direction by buying a couple of items. See if they work for you and fit into your lifestyle and wardrobe. Think about upcoming events. Try to get separates you can rewear often to wear for your events.
😂😂 I always told my daughter the same thing you have said, clean hair, clean teeth, light make-up, clean clothes. We have a funny saying here in the UK " make sure you have clean underwear on, just in case you have an accident 😂 " Good advice video 🌹🌹
I have to ask: “have an accident” or “get into an accident”? Because if you have an accident (as in soil yourself 🫢) the cleanliness of your underwear doesn’t matter 😅
My northern French grandmother would make my sister, cousin and I walk around her large house with 3 books on our heads, and even going through doors we could not let the books fall. If we did we would have to do it all again until it was perfect. We all ended up with perfect posture. Though working many hours on the computer all day I may need to try that again. Even if you have no wealth or education you can walk amongst kings with a good posture.
My father who always impressed his friends and acquaintances with his impecable manners taught me how to control my posture by challenging me to walk with books on my head. The other thing he said: your hair has to have movement, it shouldn’t be stiff around your head like a helmet. So I totally agree with Frédérique.
When I was in Paris,we stayed 8days, stayed in an apt, and walked every where, or took the subway. We saw thousands of people and I was surprised on what they wore. Mostly jeans , t shirt or white top with sneakers. I was expecting more dressy outfits. I personally dress nice every day living in the states. On vacation I wore silk skirts and tops with flat comfortable dress shoes.
My “tip” for,looking “put together “ is to remember that your outerwear should always be considered when getting dressed for the day - by this I mean that your coat (when wearing one) and scarf, hat, etc should coordinate with whatever you are wearing underneath, as often what’s underneath will be seen at the same time. Your coat should be a part of the total look.
My friends always comment on all my coats! I buy a couple every year, mostly in classic styles and always in the best fabric that I can afford. It makes such a difference. If I could have only three I would choose a classic trench , a good black wool coat and a standout color ( whetever is your personal best) . It makes a huge difference in the way you carry yourself. P.S. you can find great quality coats at very decent prices on Poshmark. It doesn't have to cost a fortune. If they are a little outdated you can hem it or change the buttons.
I am 61 (almost 62) and have cared for my skin since I was 18. Occasionally I take off my glasses during a conversation and get comments like "how do you make your skin glow like that? How come you don't have any wrinkles?!" That's a confidence booster. I like doing my hair, wearing some make up and always earrings every day. If I realize I forgot to put on earrings for some reason I feel naked! But the whole shoes thing is an issue. I have osteoarthritis in my feet which is disabling sometimes. I have the most support and comfort in specific sneakers. So I keep my style simple and casual so the shoes don't look out of place. Thank you for your videos. I like your genuineness and how your personality shines through.
My wonderful friend Dana who was my regular hairdresser for many years told me, “Even when you dress casual you look dressed up.” One of the kindest compliments I’ve ever received. Credit should go to attention to detail. The right makeup look and appropriate accessories for the outfit and occasion, clothes in impeccable condition (even if they’re t-shirt and shorts) and the right shoes in good repair, are all important to looking polished. One thing about shoes. They do have to be comfortable. If you’re in agony in your shoes, it won’t matter that your makeup and clothes and jewelry are beautiful. The beauty won’t translate through the painful shoes. I used to sell shoes at a high-end department store and I promise there are cute shoes that are also comfortable!
Good morning. Such excellent advice, Frédérique, and well taken by an 80 year old. There were 3 stand outs for me. First, cleansing your face morning and night. Such good advice, and something I have been preaching to my granddaughter since she was very young. Second, sunscreen. In my youth, there was not sunscreen available with high SPF and what was available washed off with the first water contact. As an ocean lover in my younger years, and a South Florida lady now, I am paying for this lack of protection. And third, posture. 15 years ago, I fractured my back and it was not diagnosed. Now I am bent forward at about a 25 degree angle. So no matter what I wear and how chic it is, my posture destroys any look. What they say about not appreciating something until it is gone, is so true; so to me good posture is on a par with cleanliness about my person. Thanks again, you are such a delightful person; you make your followers feel valued.
@Judith Kerr Thank you for your comment… the wisdom you imparted that underscores the video is impactful. I remember the sunscreen [lived in Arizona] and skin care but your posture story was valuable just like Frédérique stressed. 🌸
I’m 62 and don’t have any wrinkles or visible aging yet, most people don’t believe I’m not in my late 40s. I’ve never used any skincare products, except for moisturizing, high SPF sunscreen every single day since my early 20s and before that, I never purposefully tanned. After my first field season as a young geologist, I realized that my skin wasn’t going to last unprotected, and I was only doing my face, so I had a darker, reddish V on my upper chest and neck from the openings of my shirts. Since then, I’ve always applied sunscreen, every day year-round, to my neck and upper chest, as well as my face, and any other parts of my body that might catch any sun, like feet, arms or shoulders. Most women my age have leathery, spotted, wrinkled décolletages, it’s such a mark of aging. The skin there is super-thin and delicate, so it needs extra protection. My only regret is that I didn’t start using sunscreen as a child and teen, but it really wasn’t around until the late 1970s, maybe (I turned 20 in 1980). Also, I got one vicious sunburn accidentally when I fell asleep for hours in the sun, it was that time of month and I just dozed off. Most of the sun damage I do have is from that. Dermatologists always say it’s the cumulative daily exposure that’s most important, as well as not deliberate tanning, and that every sunburn dramatically increases the chance of skin cancer. My Dad’s always having to have his squamous cell skin cancers removed, I’m trying to prevent that, too, they have had to make some very deep, disfiguring surgeries. I’m always trying convince teens and young women to start using SPF daily, with some success. Some complain about it’s “greasiness” causing acne, so I recommend non-comedogenic ones, like Oil of Olay daily (something like that), which I’ve used for years. In winter I use a minimal SPF, unless going out for my walks, etc. A little sun on the body is good to keep Vitamin D levels up, so I let my legs tan a little. But, light from the sun is radiation and it does break down skin tissue.
My beauty tip: Oil pulling with coconut oil, even just once per week for 20 minutes does so much to help your teeth stay sparkling white! I drink red wine, tea and coffee, so I know this works. I get compliments from my dental hygienist on how white my teeth stay between cleanings. Loved this video, Frédérique, thank you mama!
Your videos are always a pleasure to watch. You talking about keeping your hair well-groomed,I remembered a scene yesterday. I was at sephora and I smelled dirty hair from a girl next to me. I thought at the time: Please wash your hair first, before buying makeup. A woman can be super well dressed and if her hair is poorly maintained or dirty it destroys her image.
Aaaaa the dirty ponytail for days felt too personal for me 😂 I keep telling myself that I’m “training” my hair so I can wash it less frequently but… one of these days I’m going to admit to myself two and a half years of washing my hair less frequently didn’t do anything. My hair gets oily just as quickly as it used to before Covid and the luxury of working from home. Years ago I made a rule for myself: when in doubt - wash it. That’s about hair again. Too many times I looked at myself in the mirror in the morning assessing if my hair is good enough for another day. And after deciding it was, too many times I regretted it later in the day.
Same here. I have a ton of hair but it's thin so it gets oily fast. I use dry shampoo every nonwash day. I also try to only use conditioner on everything except the roots.
I have 32 pairs of shoes which I think is plenty! I recently got a closet organizer and my things look so nice. I had them put the shoes in the middle so they’re on display. I have a small capsule wardrobe. I love it because I am retired at 67 how many clothes do you really need?? Everything I have now is high-quality and simple. I use accessories to make them look outstanding. I have only eight purses which is enough for me. I love your videos because you’re not constantly pushing to buy new things. I have everything I need and I love it! It never goes out of style because it’s classic.
Thank you Frederique! I have been watching and following you for a long time now and I have to say.....at age 50 I get so many compliments on my "look"......simple, sophisticated, flattering, timeless. And it's all thanks to YOU, for helping me to understand shapes, lines, colors (or lack thereof) and simplicity! I have always adored the look of French women, women who look effortlessly put together. And for the first time in my life, I feel like I am one of those women! :) Please, keep your videos coming! I have recommended you to so many of my friends and family!
Frederique you made me remember my parents,, truly good advice. WWE all need this advice you gave. My mother said clean clothes and shoes, nothing torn, no threads out, stained, nor wrinkled no matter if you are rich or poor. My father said clean and polish shoes every week. I change the pillowcase everything I wash my hair. By the way you look like your glowing, so nice.
I really love your channel. You encourage women to stick to some basic style rules but also to remember that we are unique and have our own tastes, likes and dislikes. Some French stylist I’ve looked at have said things like you should only wear classic stud earrings in classic shapes, but I noticed in one of your videos that your earrings were like little safety pins. Still understated and classy but showing your fun nature. Also one stylist said only shoes in neutral colours, but I loved one of your videos where you added a pop of colour to an outfit by wearing turquoise shoes. Great. I didn’t want to end up looking boring by adopting French chic dressing hints, that was my worry, but now I can see that you don’t have to be dull and boring to be classy and chic. Thank you so much xx
Thank you Frederique for your great advice. I love how you educate us! I’m 41 and I’ve never dressed this chique. People compliment me often now. I’m loving my style. Thanks again! I adore you!
Please do a video for winter clothes.I live in Europe and as you know, we do have 4 seasons.how could we dress up in the winter and be warm and still look good.one more thing If is possible give us more options to choose from sites as many they are difficult to track and postage costs even more than the items. Thank you so much.❤❤❤
Merci ma belle! Posture and self-confidence are so important - and definitely “less is more”. Don’t be a fashion trend victim - find some classic basics - you will know what looks good on you. This is a perfect video ❤
I just found your channel this morning. I'm an American. My father came here from France when he was 28. He was from La Varenne. He's gone now, so I love listening to your accent. Anyway, I love your fashion advice and I look forward to watching more of your videos. Au revoir!
Early in my career, I met two young career ladies, like me but French, while having lunch at a restaurant. I had enough college French in those days to have a brief conversation with them. I still remember how fabulous they looked with their chic styling, and fresh, natural-looking makeup and hair. They were wearing simple, high-quality (probably wool gabardine) solid color, tailored dresses, with great, minimal accessories, one had a silk scarf on. They weren’t wearing black, but color, one dress was a beautiful, natural grass green color, no 80s neon in sight. I can’t remember their shoes, but I don’t think they were the pointy-toe stilettos some women were torturing themselves with in the 80s because I always noticed those and wondered how they could walk in them. I wouldn’t call either of these beautiful, but they looked like they were, so everyone there, male or female, obviously admired them, not just me. It’s been 40 years and I still have that French chic impression from them. I think they were just great at looking their best, but without too much effort, and everything they wore was very high-quality, simple and restrained, the three essentials of elegance, to me at least.
So much common sense advice - it's surprising how many don't apply it!! We are all precious and deserve caring for ourselves 🥰 thank you for reminding us Frederique 😘
Always love your videos Frederique! I look forward to watching every one of them. I think I should’ve been raised in Europe as I’ve loved the style and fashion sense of most European women since I was a teen- lol I’m 57 now 😂 I love going to Europe and watching women and men alike going about their day, for the most part they are put together and usually have some tension in their overall look. And the shopping is divine ❤ The North American culture of fashion is mostly relaxed and casual, with many women, young and old alike, not paying attention to even the smallest details that you’ve highlighted in this video. You are so right, you don’t have to spend a lot of money to look chic, smart, or expensive, you just have to pay attention to the small details that add up to a great overall look and feel 😌 👗 👜 👠 🧥 👄 💇♀️
I like that touch of Auburn color in your hair..it actually makes you look younger and looking less pale! I have your same haircut, and I add that touch of color too!
All good tips, Frederique. Re clothing hygiene, I am a big believer in airing clothes inside out overnight & checking for stains & smells. Of course, in our Queensland summer T-shirts need washing after a few hours' wear. I hand wash a lot to keep fabric in good condition. Anything with lycra needs to dry in shade. 😎
Dear Frederique, I so wish that I could meet you! You’re my style icon. I love your videos. Sometimes I lack self-confidence and I’m never sure what my style is!! I’d love it if you could see my wardrobe, make-up etc. to help me clear the wheat from the chaff so that I could streamline it all. I’m not very good at throwing things away but I like to think I do buy stylish pieces most of the time. I know I should have more confidence in myself but I bother too much about what others think of me! I know I need to stop doing that as, most of the time, it’s just because people are jealous! I need to walk with my head up high and not be bothered by other people’s thoughts/comments but putting that into permanent practice is difficult for me. Absolutely love your channel - you’re such a beautiful person inside and out xxxx❤
Hey Frédérique, I love your energy and upbeat vibe. Love all the wonderful tips. Thanks for the entertaining and down to earth videos - you really keep it real. You Go Girl!! 💕🥰🥰🙏🏽
This was really good! Although I practice most of it, it is always a good reminder! I am also going to show this to my daughter who is still learning...(as we all are!). Lots Love, Anne-Marie (Canada)
Great advice for the young ones: take care of your skin, check your posture and be clean! Love your videos and love to wear black! Lately, you’ve put me on to mixing camel with black. Enjoying that combo! Keep up the excellent work:)
French women don’t eat sugar? France is world renowned for its pastries, chocolate, and breads. This whole cliché of the perfect French woman usually refers to the more affluent women of Paris. The more affluent women of Manhattan, New York are also slimmer and considered more fashionable. However, in the French region of Nord-Pas-de-Calais, 20.5% of the population is obese. Some of these cliches and stereotypes only serve to make less affluent French women and those of other cultures feel inferior. An entire population of women cannot be fashionable and skinny. Impossible standards of beauty. Still love ❤the channel. Wonderful fashion ideas.
I have chronic illness and washing my hair is difficult, showering especially in a flare of symptoms. I'm sure your channel has a high quantity of people who have chronic illness but still try their best to keep their style.....but it's hard. Xxx
I have the same issue, my goal for today is to wash my hair! It’s been a week, but I couldn’t raise my arm, the usual problem. I used to always wash it daily, even though it was waist-length, now twice a week is a big accomplishment. I used to say “squeaky-clean, shiny hair is the best accessory”. I even think about setting up a regular, weekly or twice-weekly shampoo and blow-dry appointment, but my ears, neck, etc., don’t feel as clean that way as in showering and budget is a problem. Using the sink doesn’t work for me, too many problems. I do wash my body every day in the shower or tub, of course.🙂
Super conseils Frederique , merci pour cette video enrichissante. J'aurais ajoute (comme ma mere me disait quand j'etais plus jeune ) "peu importe si on porte des vetements qui ne sont pas forcement haut de gamme tant qu'ils sont repasses et sans trous, taches ou boutons manquants ca fera toujours bon effet"
I love the 80% basic/20% fashion rule. Hmmm, one tip that works for me each morning is to meditate, focus on gratitude, kindness. That brings a natural smile to my face all day. When you smile, people are attracted to that, and usually they smile back. One question for women over 50 - the vintage clothing trend is big in the US. How can we rock vintage looks? I found an original Diane Von Furstenberg dress, kind of peasant style, black background with bursts of different floral prints, and ruffles at the neck. I love it, but wonder if it will look foolish.
Frederique, I enjoy your videos SO much! I have some questions for you. 1. How do you get your teeth so white? Do you use a blue light or whitening strips or something else? 2. A coworker told me about her "pore sucker" to condition her face. These are pore vacuums. Do you have any experience with these? And facial steamers? 3. I LOVE The Ina Silver necklace you are wearing. However, they only make it in a 16" and some of us need an 18". 4. Re: Sheets. I LOVE my Indian long staple cotton sheets that I got from California Design Den. I am sure there are other brands that are good, but after getting these, I would never get polyester sheets again. They are 600 threads per inch. 5. I went to water aerobics for two hours at the YMCA. It is SO much fun! Do you have a recommendation for swimsuits that are really flattering and supportive of your bust. Thanks, and Happy New Year!!!
Frederique, could you make a video about scarves? I loved the one about the cashmere stole! However silk scarves (a la Hermès) are part of French culture, but can sometimes look "old lady". Merci!
Geometric-print, like stripes, dots, etc., scarves can look much more current than florals, Toteme has some great ones when you’re ready to invest in one. I do wear all kinds of silk scarves, but they’ve always been part of my personal style for 40 years, since my early 20s, and now I don’t much care if I look “Old Lady”, because I nearly am one at age 62. I suggest trying an inexpensive scarf with a simple stripe for an outfit or two, once the compliments start rolling in, they might feel more “you”, but if not, don’t force it. Every single time I wear a scarf, I get multiple compliments from strangers on my outfit. I needed a bit of courage to wear them at first, but I immediately began to feel wonderful in them, so I was very glad I did try them! Marie-Anne LeCouer, another fabulous French YT stylist, just put out a vid on ways to wear them, as did Shopping on Champagne (American, but also great). I think the secret is not to over over-stress or fuss with them, just throw one on and tie it!🙂
Thank you Frederique, You are always honest, entertaining and practical. I think for a tip I would reiterate what you said about washing your face every night before bed and using a silk pillow case. I totally understand the hygiene factor too! I really feel sick when I smell someone's greasy hair. 🤭 I think being fresh and clean is really important. I used to get teased for that but I feel much better going to work and bed clean!
Such a good video! Lately I forgot all of the above, but once health gets back on track all the personal grooming is back on! I love the two showers a day! An evening workout then shower and wash hair works nicely!
Lovely and practical advice from a lovely lady! Glad I found your videos…encouraging and delightful. Being modest does not have to be boring at any age. Precious! Thank you!
I totally agree with Frederique, I have always removed my makeup after work or going out and for my age I have very few wrinkles and if I go to the beach and sunbathe I put a towel over my face.
Your videos have made me realise what a bloody scruff nag I am🫣. I have totally forgotten about myself and I feel horrified at how I've left the house some days. I think it's a reflection of how I'm feeling. I'm going to buy some new clothes, the basics and sort myself out. It's like being given a good talking too 🤗. I needed this. Thank you xx
Merci... I appreciate the time you take to look at and respond to our comments. I could listen to your French accent all day. You have one if the best fashion and beauty blogs on Utube. I have learned alot of tips.
Still waiting for that bra/ underwear video I need recommendations for your favourites my friend. Thank you for these tips. Need to clean my shoes tomorrow. 😅🤍🤍
My best tip for looking polished is to dress appropriately for the occasion and the circumstances. I consult my calendar each day to see what I have planned. If I know I will be walking a lot, I will need to choose comfortable flat shoes or boots. If I need to carry a lot, I will need to choose a larger handbag or tote bag. Next, I think about where I'm going, who I will be seeing, what I will be doing, the, weather forecast, and my mood. Only then do I begin to build my outfit. Preparing for the occasion and circumstances is what gives me my savoir faire and what makes me feel comfortable, confident, appropriate and yes, polished.
Hi Fred, love love love your videos! I need the beautiful ruffled black top you are wearing in the video called 8 styling secrets to look polished. Any chance you might remember where you found this? love your style! you go girl!
In February I’m going to Belize for a week but I will be coming from a very snowy, cold place! I know you have done a few 7 day suitcase videos, but can you do one specifically for a tropical trip with some tips for what to wear on the plane? Or if you already have it a link? Adore you!
For me your style is perfect! I am 56 and found it hard to transition my style but I have found it now and love it.....I also still love quirky and try add it into my chic style. Thank you for your advice, its excellent. Xxxxx
I have a check list skin ,hair, nails usually a monochrome outfit in grey, Beige or black. I agree your grooming is the most important. Like clean shoes always check for loose threads dog hair or fuzzies , no wrinkles or stains ❤🥂
You are truly a classy woman. Thank you for your input into our lives. I am currently very heavy😢. I love watching these videos but I can’t wear hardly any of these fashions. Also, this is the first time I have corresponded with anyone from France. Blessings to you!
That's the only touch in my Capsule wardrobe I'm missing, is the Pop of color bags and shoes? Like Red, & bright green. Loved that light blue bag you showed in that picture you posted on the video! 🥰
Luv luv your videos …. I’m sitting here watch right now feeling yucky at the moment…. I as well wear a lot of black,brown & whites…. I have a closet full of stuff not sure anything looks good. I just turned 60 May 26
You look absolutely fabulous Frédérique ❤I love fashion and I love mixing feminine tops with jeans and boots..Thank you for the video and have a lovely week. ❤
I like how you take your Chic fashion knowledge seriously, and you truly know what you're talking about first hand. That's why I follow you.❤️❤️❤️😒 (Keep it up), there's not much you can improve on your Channel, as far as I'm concerned, Frederique!
My gorgeous mum is 81 and puts her “face” on every day as I now do - it makes me feel good and a puff or 3 of perfume . Oh lahLah ❤️ loved your shirt Frederique, is that a new purchase? Love from NZ
Génial bravo il y a tout 👍💪😉spf,makeup léger, des basiques de qualité, des sous vêtements propres et des cheveux nickels...😁🙏🏻 cocorico 🐓 🤣👍Bisooouuus 😘❤❤❤
I am 64. After covid lockdown, friends were surprised to see me looking very elegant. There were few things that covid lockdown did to me were lose weight, change hair style, and watched videos like this. There were no hairdressers so, I cut my hair. The result is fantastic. Videos like yours helped me a lot. I kept my elegant look. Thanks to you.
That is awesome!
Thx
You make it sound so simple 😊I’m going to keep trying. At almost 67 it’s difficult to know what to wear and not look like your trying too hard or to not look frumpy. Also love your makeup. So tired of seeing all the influencers with so much makeup and overdone eyebrows/eyelashes.
I'm with you!! I want to look great as I age - 58 now.
Same age and yes, finding that balance between trying too hard and frumpy is my challenge as well. I like the 80/20 rule Frédérique suggested; my own approach is similar as I like to feel like I have one piece a bit more edgy with my classics.
Don't try too hard
Try to spend most of your money on basics that actually fit your lifestyle. We all have our fantasy lives, but your clothes should fit your real life.
Make a list of clothes you wear on a day to day basis. Now brainstorm to see how you would want to change that. Tiptoe in that direction by buying a couple of items. See if they work for you and fit into your lifestyle and wardrobe.
Think about upcoming events. Try to get separates you can rewear often to wear for your events.
thank you Pat, don't worry about other influencers :) less is more, and we are beautiful love x
😂😂 I always told my daughter the same thing you have said, clean hair, clean teeth, light make-up, clean clothes. We have a funny saying here in the UK
" make sure you have clean underwear on, just in case you have an accident 😂 "
Good advice video 🌹🌹
lol my Nan used to say the same thing :)
In Australia too! 😀
In US also era 1950s, 60s.
Light gloss, nails, no hair ties showing!
I have to ask: “have an accident” or “get into an accident”? Because if you have an accident (as in soil yourself 🫢) the cleanliness of your underwear doesn’t matter 😅
My northern French grandmother would make my sister, cousin and I walk around her large house with 3 books on our heads, and even going through doors we could not let the books fall. If we did we would have to do it all again until it was perfect. We all ended up with perfect posture. Though working many hours on the computer all day I may need to try that again. Even if you have no wealth or education you can walk amongst kings with a good posture.
My father who always impressed his friends and acquaintances with his impecable manners taught me how to control my posture by challenging me to walk with books on my head. The other thing he said: your hair has to have movement, it shouldn’t be stiff around your head like a helmet. So I totally agree with Frédérique.
So true
When I was in Paris,we stayed 8days, stayed in an apt, and walked every where, or took the subway. We saw thousands of people and I was surprised on what they wore. Mostly jeans , t shirt or white top with sneakers. I was expecting more dressy outfits. I personally dress nice every day living in the states. On vacation I wore silk skirts and tops with flat comfortable dress shoes.
That’s my comfy, too, silk skirts, dresses and tops🙂
Same here… Did not see much fashion in Paris either…
My “tip” for,looking “put together “ is to remember that your outerwear should always be considered when getting dressed for the day - by this I mean that your coat (when wearing one) and scarf, hat, etc should coordinate with whatever you are wearing underneath, as often what’s underneath will be seen at the same time. Your coat should be a part of the total look.
My friends always comment on all my coats! I buy a couple every year, mostly in classic styles and always in the best fabric that I can afford. It makes such a difference. If I could have only three I would choose a classic trench , a good black wool coat and a standout color ( whetever is your personal best) . It makes a huge difference in the way you carry yourself. P.S. you can find great quality coats at very decent prices on Poshmark. It doesn't have to cost a fortune. If they are a little outdated you can hem it or change the buttons.
Yes ma'am, the coat is part of the total look. 👏
I am 61 (almost 62) and have cared for my skin since I was 18. Occasionally I take off my glasses during a conversation and get comments like "how do you make your skin glow like that? How come you don't have any wrinkles?!" That's a confidence booster. I like doing my hair, wearing some make up and always earrings every day. If I realize I forgot to put on earrings for some reason I feel naked! But the whole shoes thing is an issue. I have osteoarthritis in my feet which is disabling sometimes. I have the most support and comfort in specific sneakers. So I keep my style simple and casual so the shoes don't look out of place. Thank you for your videos. I like your genuineness and how your personality shines through.
My wonderful friend Dana who was my regular hairdresser for many years told me, “Even when you dress casual you look dressed up.” One of the kindest compliments I’ve ever received.
Credit should go to attention to detail. The right makeup look and appropriate accessories for the outfit and occasion, clothes in impeccable condition (even if they’re t-shirt and shorts) and the right shoes in good repair, are all important to looking polished.
One thing about shoes. They do have to be comfortable. If you’re in agony in your shoes, it won’t matter that your makeup and clothes and jewelry are beautiful. The beauty won’t translate through the painful shoes.
I used to sell shoes at a high-end department store and I promise there are cute shoes that are also comfortable!
Good morning. Such excellent advice, Frédérique, and well taken by an 80 year old. There were 3 stand outs for me. First, cleansing your face morning and night. Such good advice, and something I have been preaching to my granddaughter since she was very young. Second, sunscreen. In my youth, there was not sunscreen available with high SPF and what was available washed off with the first water contact. As an ocean lover in my younger years, and a South Florida lady now, I am paying for this lack of protection. And third, posture. 15 years ago, I fractured my back and it was not diagnosed. Now I am bent forward at about a 25 degree angle. So no matter what I wear and how chic it is, my posture destroys any look. What they say about not appreciating something until it is gone, is so true; so to me good posture is on a par with cleanliness about my person. Thanks again, you are such a delightful person; you make your followers feel valued.
@Judith Kerr Thank you for your comment… the wisdom you imparted that underscores the video is impactful. I remember the sunscreen [lived in Arizona] and skin care but your posture story was valuable just like Frédérique stressed. 🌸
I’m 62 and don’t have any wrinkles or visible aging yet, most people don’t believe I’m not in my late 40s. I’ve never used any skincare products, except for moisturizing, high SPF sunscreen every single day since my early 20s and before that, I never purposefully tanned. After my first field season as a young geologist, I realized that my skin wasn’t going to last unprotected, and I was only doing my face, so I had a darker, reddish V on my upper chest and neck from the openings of my shirts. Since then, I’ve always applied sunscreen, every day year-round, to my neck and upper chest, as well as my face, and any other parts of my body that might catch any sun, like feet, arms or shoulders. Most women my age have leathery, spotted, wrinkled décolletages, it’s such a mark of aging. The skin there is super-thin and delicate, so it needs extra protection. My only regret is that I didn’t start using sunscreen as a child and teen, but it really wasn’t around until the late 1970s, maybe (I turned 20 in 1980). Also, I got one vicious sunburn accidentally when I fell asleep for hours in the sun, it was that time of month and I just dozed off. Most of the sun damage I do have is from that. Dermatologists always say it’s the cumulative daily exposure that’s most important, as well as not deliberate tanning, and that every sunburn dramatically increases the chance of skin cancer. My Dad’s always having to have his squamous cell skin cancers removed, I’m trying to prevent that, too, they have had to make some very deep, disfiguring surgeries. I’m always trying convince teens and young women to start using SPF daily, with some success. Some complain about it’s “greasiness” causing acne, so I recommend non-comedogenic ones, like Oil of Olay daily (something like that), which I’ve used for years. In winter I use a minimal SPF, unless going out for my walks, etc. A little sun on the body is good to keep Vitamin D levels up, so I let my legs tan a little. But, light from the sun is radiation and it does break down skin tissue.
My beauty tip: Oil pulling with coconut oil, even just once per week for 20 minutes does so much to help your teeth stay sparkling white! I drink red wine, tea and coffee, so I know this works. I get compliments from my dental hygienist on how white my teeth stay between cleanings. Loved this video, Frédérique, thank you mama!
thank you Loren xxxx
Your videos are always a pleasure to watch. You talking about keeping your hair well-groomed,I remembered a scene yesterday. I was at sephora and I smelled dirty hair from a girl next to me. I thought at the time: Please wash your hair first, before buying makeup. A woman can be super well dressed and if her hair is poorly maintained or dirty it destroys her image.
thank you x 😊
Aaaaa the dirty ponytail for days felt too personal for me 😂
I keep telling myself that I’m “training” my hair so I can wash it less frequently but… one of these days I’m going to admit to myself two and a half years of washing my hair less frequently didn’t do anything. My hair gets oily just as quickly as it used to before Covid and the luxury of working from home.
Years ago I made a rule for myself: when in doubt - wash it. That’s about hair again. Too many times I looked at myself in the mirror in the morning assessing if my hair is good enough for another day. And after deciding it was, too many times I regretted it later in the day.
Same. Thin, pale hair is the worst. On day 3 I sometimes do a dry shampoo. By 3pm every time it's a big regret.
Same here. I have a ton of hair but it's thin so it gets oily fast. I use dry shampoo every nonwash day. I also try to only use conditioner on everything except the roots.
I have 32 pairs of shoes which I think is plenty! I recently got a closet organizer and my things look so nice. I had them put the shoes in the middle so they’re on display. I have a small capsule wardrobe. I love it because I am retired at 67 how many clothes do you really need?? Everything I have now is high-quality and simple. I use accessories to make them look outstanding. I have only eight purses which is enough for me. I love your videos because you’re not constantly pushing to buy new things. I have everything I need and I love it! It never goes out of style because it’s classic.
thank you lovely xx
I like it more when an older woman is teaching me how to look good ooo. thank you ma'am. from Ghana 🇬🇭 🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭
thank you x 😊
Frederick… you are the best, practical, wise and style
Thank you Frederique! I have been watching and following you for a long time now and I have to say.....at age 50 I get so many compliments on my "look"......simple, sophisticated, flattering, timeless. And it's all thanks to YOU, for helping me to understand shapes, lines, colors (or lack thereof) and simplicity! I have always adored the look of French women, women who look effortlessly put together. And for the first time in my life, I feel like I am one of those women! :) Please, keep your videos coming! I have recommended you to so many of my friends and family!
thank you so much
Frederique you made me remember my parents,, truly good advice. WWE all need this advice you gave. My mother said clean clothes and shoes, nothing torn, no threads out, stained, nor wrinkled no matter if you are rich or poor. My father said clean and polish shoes every week. I change the pillowcase everything I wash my hair. By the way you look like your glowing, so nice.
I really love your channel. You encourage women to stick to some basic style rules but also to remember that we are unique and have our own tastes, likes and dislikes. Some French stylist I’ve looked at have said things like you should only wear classic stud earrings in classic shapes, but I noticed in one of your videos that your earrings were like little safety pins. Still understated and classy but showing your fun nature. Also one stylist said only shoes in neutral colours, but I loved one of your videos where you added a pop of colour to an outfit by wearing turquoise shoes. Great. I didn’t want to end up looking boring by adopting French chic dressing hints, that was my worry, but now I can see that you don’t have to be dull and boring to be classy and chic. Thank you so much xx
Thank you Frederique for your great advice. I love how you educate us! I’m 41 and I’ve never dressed this chique. People compliment me often now. I’m loving my style. Thanks again! I adore you!
Please do a video for winter clothes.I live in Europe and as you know, we do have 4 seasons.how could we dress up in the winter and be warm and still look good.one more thing If is possible give us more options to choose from sites as many they are difficult to track and postage costs even more than the items. Thank you so much.❤❤❤
Merci ma belle! Posture and self-confidence are so important - and definitely “less is more”. Don’t be a fashion trend victim - find some classic basics - you will know what looks good on you. This is a perfect video ❤
I just found your channel this morning. I'm an American. My father came here from France when he was 28. He was from La Varenne. He's gone now, so I love listening to your accent. Anyway, I love your fashion advice and I look forward to watching more of your videos. Au revoir!
welcome lovely x
Early in my career, I met two young career ladies, like me but French, while having lunch at a restaurant. I had enough college French in those days to have a brief conversation with them. I still remember how fabulous they looked with their chic styling, and fresh, natural-looking makeup and hair. They were wearing simple, high-quality (probably wool gabardine) solid color, tailored dresses, with great, minimal accessories, one had a silk scarf on. They weren’t wearing black, but color, one dress was a beautiful, natural grass green color, no 80s neon in sight. I can’t remember their shoes, but I don’t think they were the pointy-toe stilettos some women were torturing themselves with in the 80s because I always noticed those and wondered how they could walk in them. I wouldn’t call either of these beautiful, but they looked like they were, so everyone there, male or female, obviously admired them, not just me. It’s been 40 years and I still have that French chic impression from them. I think they were just great at looking their best, but without too much effort, and everything they wore was very high-quality, simple and restrained, the three essentials of elegance, to me at least.
Spot on. In my opinion, if one wants to look polished one needs to NEVER wear torn jeans or see thru clothing. Love your channel.
Great point!
This is all great advice and forecording whats in my closet i take time to digitalize my wardrobe as digital archive in private pintrest acct
Posture, and good skin! Simple, modest style. Simplicity is the keynote to beauty. Eat well, sleep well, hydrate, hydrate, hydrate! Thanks mom!
Well said!
So much common sense advice - it's surprising how many don't apply it!! We are all precious and deserve caring for ourselves 🥰 thank you for reminding us Frederique 😘
Thanks for sharing!!
I always check my clothes for loose threads, pilling etc. But to "flog a dead horse"...any outfit will be spoilt by the wrong underwear.
Always love your videos Frederique! I look forward to watching every one of them. I think I should’ve been raised in Europe as I’ve loved the style and fashion sense of most European women since I was a teen- lol I’m 57 now 😂 I love going to Europe and watching women and men alike going about their day, for the most part they are put together and usually have some tension in their overall look. And the shopping is divine ❤ The North American culture of fashion is mostly relaxed and casual, with many women, young and old alike, not paying attention to even the smallest details that you’ve highlighted in this video. You are so right, you don’t have to spend a lot of money to look chic, smart, or expensive, you just have to pay attention to the small details that add up to a great overall look and feel 😌 👗 👜 👠 🧥 👄 💇♀️
I'm 39 and time for a revamp. Thank you for your video, this is inspiring.
I love french ppl, , I lived in France some years ago. I love the elegance of french.
I like that touch of Auburn color in your hair..it actually makes you look younger and looking less pale! I have your same haircut, and I add that touch of color too!
Excellent secrets, especially hygiene and posture which are rarely mentioned. Thanks, Frederique!
My pleasure!
All good tips, Frederique. Re clothing hygiene, I am a big believer in airing clothes inside out overnight & checking for stains & smells. Of course, in our Queensland summer T-shirts need washing after a few hours' wear. I hand wash a lot to keep fabric in good condition. Anything with lycra needs to dry in shade. 😎
Dear Frederique, I so wish that I could meet you! You’re my style icon. I love your videos. Sometimes I lack self-confidence and I’m never sure what my style is!! I’d love it if you could see my wardrobe, make-up etc. to help me clear the wheat from the chaff so that I could streamline it all. I’m not very good at throwing things away but I like to think I do buy stylish pieces most of the time. I know I should have more confidence in myself but I bother too much about what others think of me! I know I need to stop doing that as, most of the time, it’s just because people are jealous! I need to walk with my head up high and not be bothered by other people’s thoughts/comments but putting that into permanent practice is difficult for me. Absolutely love your channel - you’re such a beautiful person inside and out xxxx❤
Hey Frédérique,
I love your energy and upbeat vibe. Love all the wonderful tips.
Thanks for the entertaining and down to earth videos - you really keep it real.
You Go Girl!!
💕🥰🥰🙏🏽
Thanks so much!
This was really good! Although I practice most of it, it is always a good reminder! I am also going to show this to my daughter who is still learning...(as we all are!). Lots Love, Anne-Marie (Canada)
Great advice for the young ones: take care of your skin, check your posture and be clean!
Love your videos and love to wear black! Lately, you’ve put me on to mixing camel with black. Enjoying that combo! Keep up the excellent work:)
meerci xxx
Hello Helen
French women don’t eat sugar? France is world renowned for its pastries, chocolate, and breads. This whole cliché of the perfect French woman usually refers to the more affluent women of Paris. The more affluent women of Manhattan, New York are also slimmer and considered more fashionable. However, in the French region of Nord-Pas-de-Calais, 20.5% of the population is obese. Some of these cliches and stereotypes only serve to make less affluent French women and those of other cultures feel inferior. An entire population of women cannot be fashionable and skinny. Impossible standards of beauty. Still love ❤the channel. Wonderful fashion ideas.
I have chronic illness and washing my hair is difficult, showering especially in a flare of symptoms. I'm sure your channel has a high quantity of people who have chronic illness but still try their best to keep their style.....but it's hard. Xxx
I have the same issue, my goal for today is to wash my hair! It’s been a week, but I couldn’t raise my arm, the usual problem. I used to always wash it daily, even though it was waist-length, now twice a week is a big accomplishment. I used to say “squeaky-clean, shiny hair is the best accessory”. I even think about setting up a regular, weekly or twice-weekly shampoo and blow-dry appointment, but my ears, neck, etc., don’t feel as clean that way as in showering and budget is a problem. Using the sink doesn’t work for me, too many problems. I do wash my body every day in the shower or tub, of course.🙂
Love your videos always @Frederique . Always precious , honest and so so practical . Stay blessed ❤
thank you x 😊
Super conseils Frederique , merci pour cette video enrichissante. J'aurais ajoute (comme ma mere me disait quand j'etais plus jeune ) "peu importe si on porte des vetements qui ne sont pas forcement haut de gamme tant qu'ils sont repasses et sans trous, taches ou boutons manquants ca fera toujours bon effet"
merci x
As I get older, I find some structured pieces work well. Structured handbags, button down shirts & blazers.
I love the 80% basic/20% fashion rule. Hmmm, one tip that works for me each morning is to meditate, focus on gratitude, kindness. That brings a natural smile to my face all day. When you smile, people are attracted to that, and usually they smile back. One question for women over 50 - the vintage clothing trend is big in the US. How can we rock vintage looks? I found an original Diane Von Furstenberg dress, kind of peasant style, black background with bursts of different floral prints, and ruffles at the neck. I love it, but wonder if it will look foolish.
Frederique, I enjoy your videos SO much! I have some questions for you.
1. How do you get your teeth so white? Do you use a blue light or whitening strips or something else?
2. A coworker told me about her "pore sucker" to condition her face. These are pore vacuums. Do you have any experience with these? And facial steamers?
3. I LOVE The Ina Silver necklace you are wearing. However, they only make it in a 16" and some of us need an 18".
4. Re: Sheets. I LOVE my Indian long staple cotton sheets that I got from California Design Den. I am sure there are other brands that are good, but after getting these, I would never get polyester sheets again. They are 600 threads per inch.
5. I went to water aerobics for two hours at the YMCA. It is SO much fun! Do you have a recommendation for swimsuits that are really flattering and supportive of your bust.
Thanks, and Happy New Year!!!
Frederique, could you make a video about scarves? I loved the one about the cashmere stole! However silk scarves (a la Hermès) are part of French culture, but can sometimes look "old lady". Merci!
agreed
Geometric-print, like stripes, dots, etc., scarves can look much more current than florals, Toteme has some great ones when you’re ready to invest in one. I do wear all kinds of silk scarves, but they’ve always been part of my personal style for 40 years, since my early 20s, and now I don’t much care if I look “Old Lady”, because I nearly am one at age 62. I suggest trying an inexpensive scarf with a simple stripe for an outfit or two, once the compliments start rolling in, they might feel more “you”, but if not, don’t force it. Every single time I wear a scarf, I get multiple compliments from strangers on my outfit. I needed a bit of courage to wear them at first, but I immediately began to feel wonderful in them, so I was very glad I did try them! Marie-Anne LeCouer, another fabulous French YT stylist, just put out a vid on ways to wear them, as did Shopping on Champagne (American, but also great). I think the secret is not to over over-stress or fuss with them, just throw one on and tie it!🙂
This video had so much heart. Thank you. ❤
You are so welcome!
great video! love all the tips, posture is what i need to work with ; thanks for reminder…also- you look really great! ❤
Love your insight and easy practical advice. Your videos are always uplifting ❤
Thank you so much!
Yes...love yourself...self care is essential!!! You are worth it & deserve it!!!
Yes! Thank you!
Thank you Frederique,
You are always honest, entertaining and practical. I think for a tip I would reiterate what you said about washing your face every night before bed and using a silk pillow case. I totally understand the hygiene factor too! I really feel sick when I smell someone's greasy hair. 🤭 I think being fresh and clean is really important. I used to get teased for that but I feel much better going to work and bed clean!
Thank you for sharing this video, I have a couple of pieces of Analuisa which I am really happy with 🙂
Bonjour Frederique! Great video! You're glowing today!! Nice to see you walk the talk!! Bisous!!
Thank you! 😃
Hello Celia
Such a good video! Lately I forgot all of the above, but once health gets back on track all the personal grooming is back on! I love the two showers a day! An evening workout then shower and wash hair works nicely!
Lovely and practical advice from a lovely lady! Glad I found your videos…encouraging and delightful. Being modest does not have to be boring at any age. Precious! Thank you!
Thank you so much!
I totally agree with Frederique, I have always removed my makeup after work or going out and for my age I have very few wrinkles and if I go to the beach and sunbathe I put a towel over my face.
Your videos have made me realise what a bloody scruff nag I am🫣. I have totally forgotten about myself and I feel horrified at how I've left the house some days. I think it's a reflection of how I'm feeling. I'm going to buy some new clothes, the basics and sort myself out. It's like being given a good talking too 🤗. I needed this. Thank you xx
Merci... I appreciate the time you take to look at and respond to our comments. I could listen to your French accent all day. You have one if the best fashion and beauty blogs on Utube. I have learned alot of tips.
Thank you! 😃
I agree, grooming skin, hair & nails play a huge part in looking groomed.
You are so up beat and happy. Makes me feel good inside to watch your videos. Thank you for being so giving of yourself.
Wow, thank you
Still waiting for that bra/ underwear video
I need recommendations for your favourites my friend.
Thank you for these tips.
Need to clean my shoes tomorrow.
😅🤍🤍
Thank you, Frederique! You always look well put together and stylish!
Great sensible tips! I always enjoy your beauty and fashion tips but..
mostly your humor!🥰
My best tip for looking polished is to dress appropriately for the occasion and the circumstances. I consult my calendar each day to see what I have planned. If I know I will be walking a lot, I will need to choose comfortable flat shoes or boots. If I need to carry a lot, I will need to choose a larger handbag or tote bag. Next, I think about where I'm going, who I will be seeing, what I will be doing, the, weather forecast, and my mood. Only then do I begin to build my outfit. Preparing for the occasion and circumstances is what gives me my savoir faire and what makes me feel comfortable, confident, appropriate and yes, polished.
Hi Fred, love love love your videos! I need the beautiful ruffled black top you are wearing in the video called 8 styling secrets to look polished. Any chance you might remember where you found this? love your style! you go girl!
You are such a good teacher to learn from easy to understand thank you ma❤
Great video, self care is so important to our wellbeing, thanks for sharing. 💕
Good evening, I love your black ruffle top.What brand is it ? Is it on your Amazon shop ? Thank you 💕
www.amazon.com/shop/frederiquebros
Facial expressions are so important- smile, eye contact, etc. Love your videos!!
Glad you like them!
In February I’m going to Belize for a week but I will be coming from a very snowy, cold place! I know you have done a few 7 day suitcase videos, but can you do one specifically for a tropical trip with some tips for what to wear on the plane? Or if you already have it a link? Adore you!
God bless you, Frederique💕
I am obsessed with your channel.
Wow, thank you!
For me your style is perfect! I am 56 and found it hard to transition my style but I have found it now and love it.....I also still love quirky and try add it into my chic style. Thank you for your advice, its excellent. Xxxxx
Yay! Thank you!
Merci beaucoup🙏
I use La Roche Posay foundation because it has sun factor 50 and I do a lot of gardening.
Very simply and practice thank You Dear 😘
Thanks for the tip about shoes and posture. Hearing about the right way to look your best does help me
These videos are so positive and helpful thank you for all of the tips.
Glad you like them!
Subtle highlights that frame the face is an added plus.
I have a check list skin ,hair, nails usually a monochrome outfit in grey, Beige or black. I agree your grooming is the most important. Like clean shoes always check for loose threads dog hair or fuzzies , no wrinkles or stains ❤🥂
You're so right about posture
You are truly a classy woman. Thank you for your input into our lives. I am currently very heavy😢. I love watching these videos but I can’t wear hardly any of these fashions. Also, this is the first time I have corresponded with anyone from France. Blessings to you!
That's the only touch in my Capsule wardrobe I'm missing, is the Pop of color bags and shoes? Like Red, & bright green. Loved that light blue bag you showed in that picture you posted on the video! 🥰
Luv luv your videos …. I’m sitting here watch right now feeling yucky at the moment…. I as well wear a lot of black,brown & whites…. I have a closet full of stuff not sure anything looks good. I just turned 60 May 26
Great video, thank you Frederique! I'm a greek girl and I love wearing black, too😉.. Have a nice week
Kalimera, I’m a Hellenic-American. But a pale one, can’t wear black. 🇬🇷 🇺🇸💕
@@kimberlyperrotis8962 Kalisperaaa! Ti kanis? That's so nice! Thank you for writing
So agree with everything you have covered in this video something I have always practiced, fresh clothes everyday a must especially underwear.
You look absolutely fabulous Frédérique ❤I love fashion and I love mixing feminine tops with jeans and boots..Thank you for the video and have a lovely week. ❤
You are so welcome!
Would love to know what your lip color is. It looks fantastic with your skin!
Check my Amazon link thanks
Bonjour! Wow, I'm early haha 💜 You look stunning, ma cherie!
bonjour cherie xx
On point, diet is important in keeping a gorgeous skin. I fast and only eat healthy, less starchy food. I avoid sugar easy coz am used to it.
super video frédérique, toujours de bons conseils, j'adore
merci audrey xxx
really good information ❤
thank you x 😊
I like how you take your Chic fashion knowledge seriously, and you truly know what you're talking about first hand. That's why I follow you.❤️❤️❤️😒 (Keep it up), there's not much you can improve on your Channel, as far as I'm concerned, Frederique!
Thank you for the great tips and a lovely happy face to start a new week.
Another suggestion video in wearing scarves! How to tie. What to wear it with. Layered outdoor wear etc
i made 2 videos about scarves!
My gorgeous mum is 81 and puts her “face” on every day as I now do - it makes me feel good and a puff or 3 of perfume . Oh lahLah ❤️ loved your shirt Frederique, is that a new purchase? Love from NZ
You always make me smile Frederique!
I love black. I love going to Paris. What do you eat? I know how Parisians stay thin. They walk EVERYWHERE.
Génial bravo il y a tout 👍💪😉spf,makeup léger, des basiques de qualité, des sous vêtements propres et des cheveux nickels...😁🙏🏻 cocorico 🐓 🤣👍Bisooouuus 😘❤❤❤
bisous ma belle x