So sad, then. I read many cases of serious child abuse that passed undistinguishable by cops for normalizing this. Teaching with violence teaches violence.
I loved how he interrogated the kid to establish it was a act of discipline and not a child abuse before giving it out to the kid. That was just brilliant...!
@@bobbats0517 He Better be his Mom loves him and he doesn't need to waste the cops time. Cops could tell she is not the abusive type especially after inteegating the kid there is nothing to worry about
@@markwashington7731 they could tell she’s not the abusive type? What kind of argument is that? Also it’s not just his mom that can be abusive towards him. Maybe the cops should’ve taught him the difference between abuse and discipline instead of threatening to hit him the next time he calls them.
@Joel A. All I know is kids now are killing themselves, eating tide pods and doing all sorts of the stupidest shit imaginable that they definitely wouldn't have gotten away with before spanking was classified as "abuse".
When I was a kid growing up in an inner city area, this is how the police were with us. They knew every kids name. They knew where we lived and if we screwed up, we were getting dragged home by the ear. Taught me respect and I thank them for it.
In America, you can't hit a woman because she's considered weak, but you can hit a kid who's even weaker ???! What the hell is wrong with you guys??? This video is 💯 CHILD ABUSE and must be removed
@@kazadikashama6098your crazy, child discipline is a good way of teaching a valuable lesson to a child on how to behave. If you don't like the laws in this country then you can take your snowflake self and leave. 👋🏿😁
This kid got spanked with a belt? Hahahaha my dad used to spank my brothers and I with anything he can get his hands on when we did something wrong. One time it was a shopping cart. This kid will learn hahaha. I don't hate my dad at all for it either. Grew up to understand why he did that.
@@entidade_000the child commited a crime, a false police report. The police officer COULD have taken him to jail, sat him down in the tank and scared the piss out of him for an evening and give the kid PTSD. OR, he can talk sternly to the boy, like a father does, and educate him on how what he did was wrong and that there are consequences for wrong actions. If i wouldve called the cops on my parents for 3 swats? Lawd have mercy, unless they could do 80 in a 20 they werent making it in time 😮
@@entidade_000 Literally speaking, you are full of it, corporal punishment is not a crime in ANY state in the US. What counts as abuse is CONSTANT maltreatment that leads to painful marks and bruises which can lead to both physical and mental repercussions. You can say it all you want, doesn't change the fact that you are wrong about corporal punishment, there will ALWAYS be a difference between actual physical/mental abuse and getting a well deserved smack. ...sigh, you are comparing the video that portrays getting smacked with a belt(a pathetic average-sized belt that is not even hard leather) to standing in freaking broken glass??? Basically, any parent that uses their common sense and smacks their kid after AT LEAST trying to use their words first is doing fine parenting. And yes, threatening the kid instead of taking him downtown for an ACTUAL CRIME(phony 911 calls are misdemeanors at best, and at worst they are felonies) is fine police work. So do yourself a favor and stop trying to get other parents to be lazy hippies with their kids, talking doesn't always solve things, at times kids need to know there are consequences to their disregard for authority.
This was John on a good day. If that had been his kid he'd have lost it because every parent's worst fear is that they have brought shame upon their family.
@@M4A1BestGirl So a parent's worst fear is that their child makes them look bad? Shouldn't their main priority be helping their child and protecting them from harm?
There are no ethnicities that discipline more or less harsh. Good parents will discipline all the same! I never had a belt taken to me but I knew if I screwed up I would get one. Every household should discipline their child if they screw up.
Devastater 97 I hate this video! Parents should never spank their kids as a discipline method! Instead they should use non-corporal punishments i.e: timeouts, groundings, taking away privileges, sending them to bed early and and so on. Spankings are abuse and may break a child’s spirit, lower their self-esteem, and/or teach them that it is OK to hit others. Spankings are the lazy way of parentings. Fuck this video!
Spankings tend to teach children to be violent and just not want to get into to trouble. We want kids to love their parents and not fear them and be able to come to them.
@@singalingalongaling lol..You guys are nerds... Everybody in my country is whooped and my country is literally known for family values... American nuts lol!!
In America, you can't hit a woman because she's considered weak, but you can hit a kid who's even weaker ???! What the hell is wrong with you guys??? This video is 💯 CHILD ABUSE and must be removed
@@singalingalongalinga healthy balance between love fear and respect. Make children grow into better people. If you don't believe me look at children raised 40 years ago vs today. The difference is night and day.
God if I ever did this I'd be dead, I remember what my dad told me when we saw a show talk about the same thing, "if you ever call the police on me you'll be in the hospital longer than I'm in jail" lol
@@granitegobbler95 then you need to educate the kid right. Hitting is just for lazy people who are terrible parents. If you hit your kid with a fucking belt thats 100% abuse
If I were the cop and I caught your dad inflicting grievous bodily harm on someone (including a child), I would put your dad in the hospital as well and depending on how thing goes, I might put your dad in the hospital's basement.
@@lyingonthekitchenfloorasus608 Not all parents are lazy. Some of the most mature, intellectual and disciplined parents still have spoiled brats that know better. Back in June they had a 12 and 14 year old break into someone’s house and tried to shoot and kill police for absolutely nothing!! Kids like that need the belt!!
In America, you can't hit a woman because she's considered weak, but you can hit a kid who's even weaker ???! What the hell is wrong with you guys??? This video is 💯 CHILD ABUSE and must be removed
Lightdragoon88 Actually, no. Studies have also been done on very problematic/difficult kids. Spanking doesn't work here either, in the long term. Indeed, they also simply seem to worsen the misbehaviour with this very misbehaving children. Criminals are far, far more likely to have been spanked as children than those who were never shown that might is right and that the strong can make the weak do as they please - which is what spanking ultimately is. I truly and sincerely do not mean to sound condescending when I say all this. I just don't want people to hold the wrong and sickening belief that sparing the rod spoils the child, when it's very much the opposite that's true.
Well my study shows spanking and discipline has a 100% success rate in children turning into successful and productive adults. And by study I mean my life.
Mike Wang That's not a study. You don't know how you'd have turned out if you hadn't been spanked, do you? You might have been a stronger, healthier, smarter, more independent individual, who's less aggressive and more sociable. Maybe you were so lucky that spanking had no effect on you, but that's all you can hope for, really. Even on very "bad" kids who misbehave a lot, spanking has not been proven to work. Spanking is not effective as a method of parenting. Everything achieved by it can be achieved by non-violent means, without the noticeable risk of damaging your child in the long run. Please tell me what you think a child learns by being spanked instead of punished by through non-violent means. It's humiliated and harmed by a person who should be the very, very last person to do so - a person that they should be able to trust 100%, without question. A person whose love should be absolute and unfailing. The child is taught that it has to comply with mom's orders - not because she's right and it's best, but because she has most force. So does a schoolyard bully. Might is not right. Spanking doesn't work. Please tell me what it learns. This subject is too important to fight over, so I'm not out here to condescend or belittle you. I just want to convince you that you don't have to harm your (future?) children to make them all they can be.
Okay this is GARBAGE! Don't ever call the cops on your mom? Say a woman actually is abusive and beats their child on a daily basis and for no reason. What? Is it still not okay to call the cops on her? Ridiculous. As far as I'm concerned, the kid who skipped class might be spoiled but hitting him would just make it worse.
Agreed, plus this is just conditioning abuse is something he should just put up with and showing him if he needs help there’s no point asking someone for it because they’ll just do this
aww i'm sorry that you have an abusive mom and you're projecting it on the TV mom who is not abusive and hit the kid with the belt who deserved it cause he's ditching school and lie about it.
Seems like you didn’t read enough of the comments. A lot of people differentiate between discipline and abuse. You don’t support it? Your choice. Don’t cry in 10 years when they grew up to be a spineless Karen who can’t do anything.
Physical abuse and discipline are two different things and people are sensible enough to know which is which. This privileged generation thinks so little of authority and believe when they do wrong, it is okay. In the long run, they and others will suffer for it.
It is possible to discipline and punish a child without striking it. It is perfectly possible to be a strict parent without hurting your kid. It's not a choice between a) an upstanding, awesome parent that sometimes must spank a child in order to discipline it for its own sake or b) a loathsome, worthless, spineless junkie weakling, who never cares about their child or its behaviour. In actual fact, spanking makes kids act worse. It leads to increased levels of aggression, lack of social skills, lack of independence, and ultimately an increased risk of crime. This is not a matter of opinion. It's a matter of fact - unless you don't care at all about what the many, many, many studies consistently show, or only focus on the very few, very biased ones that come from religious organisations.
AsifIcarebear3 All cases can be different. Not that it's your business, but I was spanked. I didn't become an antisocial jerk or a criminal. People are smart enough to know where the line of abuse is drawn. As long as you let your kid know you care, as well as call them out when they do wrong, things work out for the best.
Sean Griffin "All cases can be different." Not that different, no. Statistics consistently show that people who were spanked as adults are not better citizens, people, humans. They commit more crime, handle social aspects worse, have more aggressions. No, not 100% of every single one. Some are lucky enough for spanking to not have affected them at all. Pretty much none whatsoever benefited from being spanked. Besides, you can achieve everything you want from spanking without spanking. Spanking is unnecessary, and indeed a mild form of child abuse - even though "child abuse" is of course a very strong term. "People are smart enough to know where the line of abuse is drawn" This is also incorrect. People often go too far in rage or carelessness. "As long as you let your kid know you care, as well as call them out when they do wrong, things work out for the best" Again, you don't have to spank - and even if you sit down and say: "Johnny, you did X wrong this, that means Y amounts of slaps on the butt as punishment so you won't do X again", the kid is still confused. A loving parent, striking them? Humiliating them? Someone who's supposed to defend them from harm, harming them? This is, no matter how you spin it, incredibly weird and confusing - and in my opinion sickening. Be a strict parent. Discipline your kid. Punish it. But don't strike it, because it doesn't work.
Spanking a child isn't the same as beating a child. Hitting a child across the ass just hard enough that it stings should be enough to get it across to the kid not to do it again. It's called tough love. Trust me, it's the best kind of love you can get from a parent. And you only discipline them when they've done wrong. Now if you hit them hard enough that you break a bone, or hit them multiple times giving them bruises all over their body, then we've got issues. And of course they're not going to be better people after getting spanked as adults; they're already adults.
nascarfanatic2425 "Hitting a child across the ass just hard enough that it stings should be enough to get it across to the kid not to do it again." Only it doesn't, as shown by studies. It will make the child comply this moment, and the next few moments, but long term it doesn't. "Trust me, it's the best kind of love you can get from a parent." This is sickening. You've been led to believe that beating your child's butt is "love". It's misguided. It doesn't work. Why are you not happy? Why are you not relieved that you don't have to strike your child to raise it proper? You can be strict, you can discipline, you can shown "tough love" without _ever_ hitting your child. Not hard, not weakly, nothing. No hitting is required. This is not a matter of opinion, this is a matter of fact. Studies _consistently_ show that people who were spanked, with any force, as children are not better adults than people who were not spanked. It's clear cut. For the sake of your children, please look into the matter, because it's so incredibly important.
in America: - you don't get to hit your wife - you don't get to hit your colleague. - You don't get to hit your pet. But you get to hit your children???! what the hell is wrong with you guys ???! This 💯% child abuse and this video should be removed!!!
@@kazadikashama6098 - So, you want to adopt adult punishments on the kids instead? A kid shoplifts a candy, they go to the county jail for up to 6 months? Get into a schoolyard fight and have a record before puberty? Nah, give em a few swats on the butt and they may think twice before doing it again. As long as it doesn't cause permanent damage, it's a good way to punish bad behavior without having to utilize punishments typically reserved for adults. Of course, I don't condone spanking for MISTAKES... like if they accidentally trip and knock into a vase and break it ... or spill some milk on the floor. But if it's something they did that's intentional, like skipping school, I'm all for it. The reason parents are permitted to use corporal punishment on their kids is 3 fold: 1.) Parents are held legally responsible for the actions of their kids. If a kid throws rocks at a car, the parent is going to be the one paying the damage. Therefore, the parent is vested in preventing future damage. The same isn't true of your wife or colleague. 2.) There are some "crimes" a kid may commit where there is no punishment possible BECAUSE of their age. They can't go to jail or be fined money. So corporal punishment is a justifiable alternative when there are no other alternatives. 3.) The punishment for corporal punishment is highly restrictive. It can't cause permanent or significant damage to the child. It can cause pain, like a slap, but can't cause marks, such as burns, large bruises or cuts. Because its so heavily restrictive, it's considered WAY below "abuse". And by the way, you are allowed to spank your pet as punishment. It follows the same restrictive rules as spanking your kid.
@@kazadikashama6098child abuse my ass, these young bucks nowadays ain't got no respect for their elders at all. If you don't whup your kids with the belt or a switch for cutting classes, being disrespectful to their elders or even hangout with friends by skipping school, how in the Hell do you expect your kids to learn respect if your ass ain't teaching and raising them right?
@@kazadikashama6098man that's child abuse at all periodt because that's how me and my sister was brought up that way and we was taught to respect our elders
in America: - you don't get to hit your wife - you don't get to hit your colleague. - You don't get to hit your pet. But you get to hit your children???! what the hell is wrong with you guys ???! This 💯% child abuse and this video should be removed!!!
@@kazadikashama6098 People like you are exactly the reason why generations now grow up as stupid entitled ignorant assholes that go through life without caring how they treat others because they grew up with zero real consequences for their actions.
@@kazadikashama6098 for real that is messed up hitting a child never makes them behave I mean c'mon really? What is the point of spanking really nothing but causing a child to be feel hatred towards their parents.
belt blows can kill a child. a single blow is more than enough to trigger a blood reflux phenomenon which can cause cardiac arrest. many children died this way, including a 15-year-old teenager near my home. this kid is 100% right, this is child abuse, NOT discipline and it should be banned. in my country, this so-called "mother" would have IMMEDIATELY received 3 years in prison and the equivalent of $27,500 in fines
@@Skeletor_playboi I know someone who was sexually abused as a child and she is still alive. should we wait until something kills a child to come to the conclusion that it is not good for him?
@@kazadikashama6098 ok bro, a whooping is NOT child abuse. And idk where you get this information from, talking about whooping can kill someone, some girl got sexual assault while as a kid I mean Jesus
southern Lone Wolf for real for real, people forgot about these old fashion ass whooping, thats why these kids growing up like an asshole with no manners
@@SapphirePaapii and also parents aren't really bothering to raise their kids. I get on video games like whatever multi-player game on Xbox or I get on VrChat, and I hear these kids like younger than 15 so haven't even hit puberty yet. They say all this shit that if my mom heard me say, even she'd have beat my ass. Hell she'd probably beat my ass now and I'm gonna be 19 this year.
I remember one time I was getting verbally assaulted by my stepdad and then when I went over to my dads place, all he did was call a taxi and send me back over there like what the FUCK. This was disappointing.
It's all about balance. Too soft on a kid, he'll think everyone else is to blame. Too hard and he'll think only he's to blame. You got to understand how to moderate between the two so the kid knows the difference between when he's at fault and when he's being victimized. This is hard, as parents aren't around their children enough to know what's going on with their kids and how they'll respond to either positive or negative treatment. So, as parents, make sure you get feedback from your child's teachers about everything that goes on at school. And when you discipline or reward your child, make sure they understand WHY. And as child, be open and honest with your parents. Don't expect them to be all-knowing about your life and what you need if you don't tell them.
@@singalingalongaling Being aggressive isn't always a bad thing, though. As a last resort, it allows kids to stand up to themselves - especially to bullies, who will always back down if the victim fights back.
@Winahh Taylahh when you're in a position of authority with a visible weapon, randomly threatening to harm children, it sure seems pretty damn close to lethal force, because that's the behavior of psychopaths. Plus he threatened to take off that belt with a gun and hit him with that so even just the weight could be blunt force trauma. Plus he never specified the body part, could just has well have been his head or face. Regardless, horrific behavior from a police officer, he should be the one to gtfo.
I was in grade 12 when I started cutting a few classes. My father found out and simply told me my punishment was not to use the car for 2 weeks. I was 6,3 and 200 pounds but I never once thought of getting violent because my father never hit me once in my life. I accepted the punishment. If you start hitting kids, they grow to be violent themselves. This scene is very funny but hitting a child with a belt is not acceptable anymore.
This is why so many old people die alone. Your kids will never forget how you treated them and when they are old enough to leave you will never see them again.
@@Cow29389 How do you have a close and meaningful relationship with your parents when they can switch any second like psychopaths and attack you lol. Parents hitting their kids will always be disturbing.
... So it's ok to hit someone who can't defend themselves? This cop and mom are cowards. If you can't discipline without hitting you're a terrible parent. When your child beats someone up don't get mad at them they are just copying the adults in their life
All the cop did was teach the kid to fear and not question authority, it's disgusting. The mother could end up killing that child, but the cops didn't look further into it
You know, my father , god rest his soul. He never ever hit us kids! He had this voice! He’s yell “knock the shit off” , at that point we knew we woke a sleeping giant!
When your parents yell and you don't stop that's how you get your ass whooped, good thing you stopped at the yelling, good thing your dad yelled first, I grew up in an Asian family, you will see a shoe or flip flop flying towards you at around 70kph, you need to dodge it to get to the yelling part.
What a sick country where hitting a child with a belt is called "discipline". If that child was a dog, that would be "cruelty towards animals" That video is 💯 % child abuse and should be removed
@@kazadikashama6098 there are lots of those sick countries that discipline their child that way they are so sick that they have rare to no school shootings, kids don't talk back to their parents and take care of them untill they pass away, those countries are so absurd that they don't have absurd amount of genders and they don't kill babies in the womb. They all grew up to be hospitable and mind their own country's policy and doesn't meddle on any other country's way if government, they don't prosecute a large number of people or pull them on a traffic stop just because they are part of a certain race, they don't push the media to change people's opinion in favor of a single political party that spread hate on anyone that doesn't share their ideals, imagine how outrageous those countries are!!!!! Ps. They don't have cancel culture, and have traditional women and men as well.
@@singalingalongalingno he didnt ngl if you was my parent i would be running all over you….if the biggest consequence is “im grounded” or a talk imma do wat the hell i want to😹😹😹😹
I think there would be a point we're a cop could whoop a young gangsters ass with a belt, like this cop if that punk was too much geah like disrespecting the cops and trying to act violent or bad talking the one's who don't respect nobody geah I think the cop would want to whoop they ass..or hit them with the Patton
I am so provoked by all the comments here. It makes me so sad reading how almost everyone here seems to think abuse is a good way to discipline kids. My parents never ever laid a hand on me and discipline has never been a problem in our family. Same goes for all my friends and everyone I know. I know that hitting a kid with a belt maybe won't hurt in the long run, but haven't we evolved and entered a society where we talk to each other instead of using physical violence. It is never the answer. Poor kids and poor future. You may not think it hurts your kid, but it does. Mentally it does, because you show them that you are willing to inflict pain instead of reasoning with them like an adult. I am just empty. No hard feelings tho, I just needed to get this of my chest :)
" you show them that you are willing to inflict pain instead of reasoning with them" Literally that. It teaches them to be fearful rather than rationally. People love to say this works, but when kids end up with anti-authority issues, this is why. Because they've been taught that authority is violence and tyranny. Why would anyone expect anyone to listen when they're being threatened rather than reasoned to.
And that, ladies and gentlemen, is how you prevent those same cops from having to deal with your son later in life. Great job by mom and great job by the officer.
@@WorldTravelA320 that was disturbing and Lydia was right, “they are going to come back 5 years later to that same kid and picking him up for assault or worse.”
One thing I do love about this scene (other than all of it) is they draw a fine line between discipline and abuse. She says she "hit" him which sounds like abuse until you hear what happened and understand that it was discipline.
@@Lolamy I think it really has to do with its necessary. Like if it was the first or second time, maybe a stern talking to and revoking privilege will do. Yes I know the kid says it was the first time but I'm 99% certain he's referring to being firmly disciplined. Think of it as a DEFCON level situation. The first two offenses need a stern talking to. A few more times and maybe revoke privileges and ground the kid. If it continues and they don't learn from their constant wrong doings then a slap or two with the belt on a non vital area like the butt should send a final message and teach a lesson. Now there is a fine line between using a belt to discipline and using a belt to abuse. A belt to discipline is you only use it if there is truly no other alternative. If you use the belt just because you're always angry then maybe its abuse. But the finest line between discipline and abuse is abuse is intended to put the lives of someone in danger.
@@Lolamy it has nothing to do with the parent you don't control the personality of a kid and you don't know what they are exposed to at school some kids will just not obey oral orders no matter what you do.
@@Lolamy there are cases that contradict your statements. Like the time 2 children kill a younger child and try to hide the evidence by setting the dead body on the train line.
@@LordangeloxD That doesn't contradict their statement. Those children were just fucked up in the head. You wanna know a fact? The overwhelming amount of people who commit violent crimes were physically hit as children or abused in some way. There are tons of statistics and research which shows that hitting children excessively is not conducive and can actually exacerbate their behavior. Now there are exceptions if your kid burned the house down or was bullying other kids I can see where a slap or two could be justified, but the kid skipping class and his mom hitting him for it will not encourage him to stop, but will piss him off and encourage him to keep doing it, but simply be more discrete. Overall spanking is not that effective, at least in the US.
I can’t believe most people supporting this. Let me explain. It’s a good thing to teach your child what’s right or wrong. Of course ditching school is bad, but violence will just correct the child’s behaviour. You will send them a terrible message to your kid. You will undermine the trust in you. Why do you think many parents can’t communicate to their kids when they reach their teen age? They lost trust in their parents. They are afraid of them. And many (like myself) will have terrible problems of self esteem. Your kid isn’t a criminal, don’t treat him or her like one. Violence is the tool that shows you haven’t earned that respect or that you lack of tools to solve a problem. Imagine them being adults and hitting you for misbehaving with them. Let me go further. Some of us hear many cases of child abuse. Sexual or physical. So… Where do we trace a line? Where do you expect a child to distinguish when is “education” and where is child abuse? Do you think a fragile and imature mind of a child can do that? Normalizing that is what prevented lots of children to be saved by the police. Be careful.
It genuinely disturbs me that violence against children is so normalized that people would go out of their way to defend it. I was beaten mercilessly as a kid, and it led to nothing more than anger and resentment, to the point i haven't spoken to my parents in years, and i don't plan to anytime soon.
You were abused, there is a difference. This scene depicts the counter to entitlement with discipline. No one glorifies beating children, but a smack isn't a beating. You seem to be doing okay, and if you haven't, that means you haven't let go of the past, and if you haven't done that, that's on you and no one else.
@@miltiadiskyvernitis Ah, yes, because as we all know, if you experience abuse for years and years and developed severe trauma and psychological issues because of it, the solution is to just "get over it"! Genius!
That's why the cop talked to the kid first. If there had been signs of abuse (a completely different scenario than discipline), the conversation would have gone very differently.
LilHongBoot no child deserves a spanking. If they do something like this, they need to do exercises like pushups, get grounded, and/or sent to bed early. If younger kids do minor things wrongs like hit their siblings, disobey their parents, back chat them, then they need a timeout or something like that or a fine.
I hate this video! Parents should never spank their kids as a discipline method! Instead they should use non-corporal punishments i.e: timeouts, groundings, taking away privileges, sending them to bed early and and so on. Spankings are abuse and may break a child’s spirit, lower their self-esteem, and/or teach them that it is OK to hit others. Spankings are the lazy way of parentings. Fuck this video!
Discipline is not abuse because if you don't teach your children discipline one day you will be hiring lawyers to defend them. Child abuse: A parent who beats their child for no reason. Discipline: A parent teaching a child a lesson for being bad or doing something he's not supposed to do. There's a difference
Dude same but it was my mom. She used to tell me, "do it, i dare you but two things will happen if you do. One, i will beat your ass and you wont be able to sit down, and two they will remove you from this home and put you in a group home and you won't get the same treatment." I kept my mouth shut and took my punishment.
What a sick country where hitting a child with a belt is called "discipline". If that child was a dog, that would be "cruelty towards animals" That video is 💯 % child abuse and should be removed
Right there with you. My grandfather beat his kids and he died all alone in a nursing home, blind and his legs amputated from diabetes. Only one of his five kids and NONE of his grandkids attended his funeral. He got what he deserved, the pos.
Rlinda mcfarlane I hate this! Spankings are abuse! I believe in non-corporal punishments i.e: timeouts, groundings, taking away privileges, going to bed early, taking away allowances, etc. They will work if people are consistent. i have seen these punishments work on child rearing reality-TV shows such as Supernanny.
So what the supporters of officers/mom saying is that if you found or felt someone did something wrong it's okay to implement physical punishment among them. If we inject this mentality to every child who's growing world will be a terrible place. I'm glad that there is a lot of people who doesn't think like this
Wouldn't it makes sense to just talk about why he skipped classes instead of hurting him. Or using reverse psychology? Or making him do extra chores in the house? If you hit him for ditching classes it's only going to make him feel like he's not valued unless he goes to school. He could end up with scars and he'll be so depressed that he can't focus in school. Hitting does not work and that old-fashioned cop needs to calm down. If you want to hit something, punch a bag
After chewing the boy out and then telling him to get inside like he is the father is awesome. The acting is on point. This is a great scene and we need more discipline in our lives
You know damned well that it's not the same thing. It's not a husbands job to raise his wife, but it is a parents job to raise a child into a decent adult, something that this boy clearly needed some help with.
@@whitbyabbey4830 So why should adult women get more protections than children? Back in the day people would have said that it actually is the man's job to discipline his wife to make sure she keeps her woman duties in check.
@@TheSuperFunPuppetShow lol what do you think punishment is? Let's forget about physical discipline for a second and talk about the other ways people punish their children. Sending them to their rooms, taking away some object of theirs, giving them extra chores, not letting them contact their friends... Would you do ANY of this to your spouse? I would hope not, because then you shouldn't be married to anyone, EVER. Does that mean that punishing a child in these ways are also abuse? No, because you are raising that child. So unless you think all forms of punishment is abuse because you wouldn't do it to your spouse then your argument doesn't hold water. Children need to be disciplined in order to survive adulthood, and unless you think the state should do it then it's no-ones job to interfere.
@@whitbyabbey4830 don't you think that there's a pretty big difference between not letting a 5 year old watch TV unless they brush their teeth vs hitting a 5 year old? Your boss is allowed to discipline you but they can't slap your buttcheeks without your consent can they?
That cop needs to chill, he should've arrested the mom, it doesn't matter what the kid did it's still child abuse. If you want to discipline your kid don't hit them, just talk to them, take their phone away, ground them or something.
Nah mate there a difference between discipline and child abuse. If kids know that the most their gonna have to face is not seeing their friends for a few weeks he aint gonna give a shit and trust me no one likes a spoilt brst
@@randomedits8399 Right no one like a spoiled brat, but ditching school isn't going to make someone a spoiled brat. Also, hitting your kid as a punishment for doing something they shouldn't? That's just plain wrong
@@A.Dennis.23 im not saying hitting them should be the first thing that comes to mind those types of parents shouldn't have kids, in this clip it looks like this isnt the first time and that the kid probably has done it before, and that is what happens kids think " so what if i skip school what she do hit me?" Ive known people like that as a kid and now these people are in their mid 20s with the mindset of children. Sometimes though love is needed buy obv i agree it should never be the first option.
Yeah, you shouldn’t always hit your child (there are exceptions) but talking to your child doesn’t always work. My little cousin is a spoiled brat and whenever he’s grounded, he’ll sit grumpily in his room and scream and whine loudly until his mom has enough and lets him out. Whenever his father sternly talks to him about what’s right and what’s wrong, he’ll yell back and throw a fit. When privileges are taken away from him, he’ll be toxic to everyone he meets. Whenever he comes to visit, he tries intimidating and scaring our dog, and when he’s told not to do that, he whines and complains that “the dog is scaring him” even tho my dog hasn’t done anything. He stepped out of line once and kept throwing his plastic toys at our dog and also kicked the dog, which angered my sister so much that she yelled at their parents to do something about this brat. So, his father angrily yelled at him and spanked him. And that cousin didn’t bother our dog, and he didn’t complain anymore when he was grounded or his privileges were taken away because I assume his father spanked him too for that. Sometimes, spanking is necessary because if you told them what they’re doing is wrong, then they won’t learn their lesson. Long story short, spanking is necessary in some cases. And there’s a fine line between discipline and abuse. But if you still think spanking isn’t necessary, then that’s your opinion and i won’t fight you for it. Have a nice day
I just finished binged watching this series I love it ❤️ it sucks they left a HUGE cliffhanger!! So many unanswered questions!!☹️ I love Ben and Sammy!!❤️💙
My pops used the belt on me when I disobeyed. I remember crying and I asked him why he hit me. His answer was, if I just yelled at you all the time when you are bad it will go in one ear and out the other, if I spank you when you are bad... you will remember not to be bad. I remember and I don’t do bad things.
Spankings are abuse! It is the lazy way of parenting! We should use modern parenting like reward charts, timeouts, groundings, taking away privileges, fines, allowances, going to bed early, exercises, sentences, essays, etc.
Eh, I personally don't think im gonna ever hit my children when I do decide I want to have some even if it's just on the butt or something. When I was younger my father "Disciplined me" in ways that definitely would warrant child abuse I don't plan on going through all the details but looking back at it it definitely does seem like abuse and for that reason alone I wouldn't bring myself to hit a child.
I get that this is a TV show, but the cop way over-stepped. Telling a mom to hit her son and threatening to do so himself is extremely inappropriate and he should be fired.
Spankings are abuse because they only teach children to fear you and can break a child’s spirit. There are better ways to discipline children such as time outs, groundings, going to bed early, swear jars, assigning extra chores, etc. I can’t stand parents who spank their kids. Discipline is all about teaching.
@@pacnwguy9056 Its not just Asians, but a lot of children are disciplined that way. Child abuse is when the parent/guardian attacks the child for no good reason or is under the influence which is illegal, while discipline is fine as long as the child doesn't suffer severe injuries.
Bro your 13, grow up then learn child psychology. This method of teaching 'discipline' brings way more negative result than positive in a child and even when they become adult as a person
@@fictoxneo1431 In the last 6 months, yes I have grown up as a 14 year old. As long as the kid isn't seriously injured it's fine. A few smacks on the hand or in the face is tolerable for little kids. A few strikes with belt would be for anyone 10 or above. It's not that serious. Abuse is very different from discipline. I believe that there does need to be at least a little sense of fear when being a parent. Not too much, but enough to keep the kid from doing bad things.
@@Kyle_1211 Whatever you say using something like belt to teach discipline isn't the right way. My parents also used methods for me to teach discipline bit it never exceeded more than only verbal or using hand or some woodmade kitchen utensils. Using a belt does kinda becomes a little overboard and turns into a violence act. (Since there are already many serious child injury cases because of it)
Yup thats call discipline aka TOUGH LOVE, showing how much that mother loves and cares for her child that she carried for 9 months and gave birth to. Children today need to know authority.
I hate this video! Parents should never spank their kids as a discipline method! It’s not tough love, it’s abuse! Instead they should use non-corporal punishments i.e: timeouts, groundings, taking away privileges, sending them to bed early and and so on. Spankings are abuse and may break a child’s spirit, lower their self-esteem, and/or teach them that it is OK to hit others. Spankings are the lazy way of parentings. Fuck this video!
discipline and 'tough love' are opposites. I also love that you say "Children today need to know authority. " this is literally an appeal-to-authority fallacy in-the-making. Children need to know why they should do something. Discipline is teaching a child the why and showing them how to have the willpower to work towards the better things, even when it's uncomfortable to do so. "tough love" is parents not understanding how or being too lazy to raise a child, so they take the short-cut; abuse. Fear doesn't let you practice discipline, it overwrites it.
Well that cop just did the opposite of a good job. Hurts seeing this young man learn the lesson we all have to eventually as people of color: The police aren't there to protect YOU
I believe that when you are a kid parents need to discipline you with the belt because you’re young you don’t really understand things but you get to an age where there is no need of hitting u understand what’s good and what’s bad my dad disciplined me so many times bc I was doing drugs I would disrespect him I was not a good kid for sure but thanks to him and to every time he disciplined me I am who I am now I have a good job, goals, I made my life i thank him every day bc if he would’ve let me on my own I wouldn’t be who I am now I support disciplining your kids with the bet if necessary but to a limit and not hitting them in sensitive areas
Abuse and Discipline are two vastly different things. Spanking your kids for discipline with a belt is a huge difference from punching them and abusing their feelings. Know the difference people!
I was "spanked" with a belt and I have PTSD because of it. It didn't do anything, but teach me that violence is sometimes the answer. If I thought I could get away with it, I'd murder my stepdad in cold blood with butcher knife, for "disciplining" me.
CaptainCringe I have repetitive nightmares of when my stepdad beat the literal piss out of me with his leather belt from my mid-back to my calves, this happened when I was just a toddler, and similar incidences happened up until the age of 14. Whenever I have this repetitive dream, I punch, kick, and scream in my sleep. When I'm awake and out living my life, I have anxiety and depression. Do not tell me tell me that I don't suffer from a traumatic experience, and don't fucking tell me how to feel about it. You claim that I'm too sensitive, but I say you're just being insensitive.
No, this was BS! Spankings are abuse! I only believe in non-corporal methods. Discipline means to teach. Examples of non-corporal punishments include timeout one-minute per child’s age (this tends to work on kids ages 2-12), groundings, taking away privileges, sending children to bed early, taking away allowance and making them fines, etc. Parents should have common sense to know if you cannot hit an adult, then you cannot child! It’s as simple as that! Spankings are abuse and that’s point blank! Spare the rod and spoil the child means to guide and discipline your children to get them to behave properly not to spank them. Too many people take that expression literally!
@@singalingalongaling ..... I so disagree with your statement. Although you are entitled to your opinion. I spanked my kids when they were kids, and they turned out to be very fine adults. You have a choice, you spank them as kids when necessary or the police will beat them when they're grown up. For you to give this kind of advise: how many kids did you have ? And how did they turn out ?
GuessWho Martin I don’t have any kids but my mom and I have watched Supernanny and the experienced nanny helps parents raise their kids. When I get married and have kids, I will not spank them and use Supernanny’s techniques. It’s a good and helpful show.
@@singalingalongaling ..... Dude, you don't have any kids, so you can't even give any advice. When you have kids and you raised them to be very fine men and women. Then you can give advice. I had kids already, I spanked them when needed. Today they are very polite and respectful. Trust me, when they are kids, if you don't spank them when needed, they will go out of control and the police will beat them as grown adults... you mark my word.
i've never been hit with a belt because i have ADHD innatentive (aka the chill ADHD) and i'm also a police enthusiast, and from my knowledge this is accurate as hell
I have ADHD/ADD, and growing up was undiagnosed autistic, was misdiagnosed as mild mental retardation, really have Asperger’s now called Autism Spectrum Disorder Level 1 and I got this quite a bit. (Recently diagnosed as an adult). I know mostly because I was difficult, my dad had drinking problems, possible bipolar disorder, and that was how he grew up. He and his brothers all got it, but my dad got it the worst. I don’t agree with this at all.
Spankings are abuse! I only believe in non-corporal methods. Discipline means to teach. Examples of non-corporal punishments include timeout one-minute per child’s age (this tends to work on kids ages 2-12), groundings, taking away privileges, sending children to bed early, taking away allowance and making them fines, etc. Parents should have common sense to know if you cannot hit an adult, then you cannot child! It’s as simple as that! Spankings are abuse and that’s point blank! Spare the rod and spoil the child means to guide and discipline your children to get them to behave properly not to spank them. Too many people take that expression literally!
Would have been even funnier if instead of mom and a beaten kid, it had been husband and a battered wife. (Oh wait, I forgot. It's not OK to hit and terrify adults... only children.)
Must be easy, yelling at a kid, threatening them to make them scared of you so they do what you say. I wonder though, what would happen if the kid wasn't scared, what if he didn't run away and stood his ground to the cop who threatened him. What would the cop do then?
And what kind of lesson does it teach a kid who's being abused by a stronger party, and has the cops take the side of the abuser? Is he gonna call 911 the next time someone is abused? I don't think so.
@@singalingalongaling every parent disciplines differently and every child is different. I never learned through a simple "timeout". I needed an ass woopin lmaoo
@@singalingalongaling sure champ ! Nah that depends on the child as some kids love to bring problems even with a parents that have the kid well fed, a roof over the head and they are present when the child needs guidances or just been heard
The kid shouldn't have cut class, but what the mom did was illegal. Corporal punishment has been banned for decades with the exception of spanking in some states like GA & LA. However, after hearing comments from people who experienced real life, it's clear cops won't make a big deal about this assuming that what they're saying is true or maybe they're writing for attention. IDK, but on a legal basis she should've been arrested by law.
Why are people here applauding this cop? A crime was reported to him and he blamed/threaten the victim and encouraged the perpetrator. He should lose his badge for this stunt! Whats wrong with americans thinking anything in this scene is even remotely okay?
different people may have different approaches towards raising their children... nevertheless there are countless scientific studies on "child discipline" and 95%of them with one clear result: any form of physical punishment turns out bad on the long run.... the madness of having so many ppl in the comment section supporting violence is only topped by ppl's unwillingness to adapt their believes.
@@maccmoses sorry just randomly read your reply. i dont have kids so i cant tell.anyway i agree many people (even including myself) would be better of in case they d have been raised a little "tougher". yet, its a trade off. as said studies confirm, physical punishment decreases the degree of openness, agreeableness and general trust in people. you may argue its for the kid's best if it develops some kind of "scepticism" but again... different people have different approaches. from my own experience...i would rather have been spanked sometimes than beeing talked to for hours about a misbehaviour of mine. a slap is easily executed, its quick but leaves the child without a proper understanding of the reason. .... a proper conversation takes times and more demanding for the parents....anyway from my point of view its absolutely worth it
@@rkb6783 the way you approach this conversation does not make your argument valid in any way :D apparently "disciplining" did not work out well for you
Studies done by people with an agenda. Everyone I know who grew up getting ass kick9ngs every once in a while are far better people. People need to know their not above getting their asses kicked.This is why we have a country full of cocky kids that feel their owed something for nothing.
@@conradglitza3077 Yeah if you "Turned out fine from spanking". RIDDLE ME THIS(I had to make a Gotham reference) Why do you justify hitting a child when there are better alternatives directly in front of your nose ? Mrhayvengames I would like a response by tonight please
I thank Mom for every beating I had in childhood whenever I deviated and acted without morals or ethics. She made me strong and not a fragile spoiled brat like those nowadays. I love you Mom for bringing me to life, feeding me, clothing me, selling your gold for my education and taking care of me every single step in my life. Now that you are old and weak it is time to pay back, take care of you and show you how much love I have for you. You are the only Rose in my garden and no woman will ever replace you... In my religion we are taught that heaven is under her feet so believers in god or not make sure to take care of your mom's folks.
Spankings are abuse. There are better ways to discipline children such as timeouts and groundings and going to bed early. Those are kinds of discipline methods I got.
@@singalingalongaling Nope I disagree those did not work out no grounding no consultations nothing for me I did very bad things and was so uncontrollable and if it was not for her I would have been in prison by now instead she created a better person who takes care of her and all others for only a handful amount of spankings she never did that up until the day when I was around 10 to stop me for strangling my sis. Thank you mother for saving me investing your youth in me and teaching me how to love myself and others job well done
I’ve been a cop in California for 15 years and this is one of the best portrayals of actual police work ever put in a TV show.
Gas in Florida gas in Florida gas in Florida
It's disgusting what worms the American police are!! Anyone who kills people in America is a hero!! Disgusting sick dictatorship...
So sad, then. I read many cases of serious child abuse that passed undistinguishable by cops for normalizing this. Teaching with violence teaches violence.
@@jiitttaaaa4508 Joe Biden, Joe Biden, Joe Biden.
Have you ever had to do stuff like this bro?
I loved how he interrogated the kid to establish it was a act of discipline and not a child abuse before giving it out to the kid. That was just brilliant...!
I don't know, I feel like it could've been handled better...
@@lifeisactuallyveryboring.7771 yeah I mean that kid is gonna be terrified of calling the police again because the officer threatened to hit him
@@bobbats0517 He Better be his Mom loves him and he doesn't need to waste the cops time. Cops could tell she is not the abusive type especially after inteegating the kid there is nothing to worry about
@@markwashington7731 they could tell she’s not the abusive type? What kind of argument is that? Also it’s not just his mom that can be abusive towards him. Maybe the cops should’ve taught him the difference between abuse and discipline instead of threatening to hit him the next time he calls them.
@@bobbats0517
You white people are too soft
I remember my Mom asking the terrifying question, "You think the police would make it here in time?" when trying to avoid a spanking. Well played Mom.
Haha same.
@Joel A. All I know is kids now are killing themselves, eating tide pods and doing all sorts of the stupidest shit imaginable that they definitely wouldn't have gotten away with before spanking was classified as "abuse".
I know right!
@Joel A. calm down
She was right tho.
When I was a kid growing up in an inner city area, this is how the police were with us. They knew every kids name. They knew where we lived and if we screwed up, we were getting dragged home by the ear. Taught me respect and I thank them for it.
Where u lived?
In America, you can't hit a woman because she's considered weak, but you can hit a kid who's even weaker ???!
What the hell is wrong with you guys???
This video is 💯 CHILD ABUSE and must be removed
@@kazadikashama6098dumbass 🤡
@@kazadikashama6098your crazy, child discipline is a good way of teaching a valuable lesson to a child on how to behave. If you don't like the laws in this country then you can take your snowflake self and leave. 👋🏿😁
@@kazadikashama6098Your joking right? Three hits on the rear end with the belt is not abuse
I told my old man if he hit me I'd call the cops, so he brought me the phone and beat me with it. I still laugh about it to this day.
Bro, I’m so happy I’m not the only one this happened too 💀
I said that once my dad remember you have from the time you hangup till when they show up alone with me. I never said it again
Best dad award lmao
I only clicked on this video because I was bored and I’m glad I haven’t done this
This kid got spanked with a belt? Hahahaha my dad used to spank my brothers and I with anything he can get his hands on when we did something wrong. One time it was a shopping cart. This kid will learn hahaha. I don't hate my dad at all for it either. Grew up to understand why he did that.
The “John!” at the end is what really sells it. When it looks like “good cop” has to hold him back, makes his threat that much more convincing.
@@entidade_000the child commited a crime, a false police report. The police officer COULD have taken him to jail, sat him down in the tank and scared the piss out of him for an evening and give the kid PTSD. OR, he can talk sternly to the boy, like a father does, and educate him on how what he did was wrong and that there are consequences for wrong actions.
If i wouldve called the cops on my parents for 3 swats? Lawd have mercy, unless they could do 80 in a 20 they werent making it in time 😮
@@entidade_000 Literally speaking, you are full of it, corporal punishment is not a crime in ANY state in the US. What counts as abuse is CONSTANT maltreatment that leads to painful marks and bruises which can lead to both physical and mental repercussions.
You can say it all you want, doesn't change the fact that you are wrong about corporal punishment, there will ALWAYS be a difference between actual physical/mental abuse and getting a well deserved smack.
...sigh, you are comparing the video that portrays getting smacked with a belt(a pathetic average-sized belt that is not even hard leather) to standing in freaking broken glass???
Basically, any parent that uses their common sense and smacks their kid after AT LEAST trying to use their words first is doing fine parenting. And yes, threatening the kid instead of taking him downtown for an ACTUAL CRIME(phony 911 calls are misdemeanors at best, and at worst they are felonies) is fine police work.
So do yourself a favor and stop trying to get other parents to be lazy hippies with their kids, talking doesn't always solve things, at times kids need to know there are consequences to their disregard for authority.
This was John on a good day.
If that had been his kid he'd have lost it because every parent's worst fear is that they have brought shame upon their family.
@@M4A1BestGirl It sounds like John has some serious anger issues
@@M4A1BestGirl So a parent's worst fear is that their child makes them look bad? Shouldn't their main priority be helping their child and protecting them from harm?
Hit 'em again! Hahahaha!!! Sounds like that cop was raised in an Irish household.
jimmykicker7775 lol sounds like my mom...
No shit 😂😂😂
That's a hardcore Italian household, I was born and raised that way
This isn’t any race or ethnicity thing. If you were raised right you were raised that way and you’re probably 20+
There are no ethnicities that discipline more or less harsh. Good parents will discipline all the same! I never had a belt taken to me but I knew if I screwed up I would get one. Every household should discipline their child if they screw up.
DUUUUUUDE THE HIT EM AGAIN LINE HAD ME DYINGGGG 😂😂😂
It’s not funny! It’s abuse!!!!!!
@@singalingalongaling Discipline*
Devastater 97 I hate this video! Parents should never spank their kids as a discipline method! Instead they should use non-corporal punishments i.e: timeouts, groundings, taking away privileges, sending them to bed early and and so on. Spankings are abuse and may break a child’s spirit, lower their self-esteem, and/or teach them that it is OK to hit others. Spankings are the lazy way of parentings. Fuck this video!
@@singalingalongaling you white
@@MrAstronaut would you hit a dog or an adult? That’s abuse too. Kids practice what their parents preach.
This is still golden. Honestly such a great scene in gest
Spankings tend to teach children to be violent and just not want to get into to trouble. We want kids to love their parents and not fear them and be able to come to them.
@@singalingalongaling lol..You guys are nerds... Everybody in my country is whooped and my country is literally known for family values... American nuts lol!!
@@singalingalongaling I'm sorry but must've learned that from liberal school
In America, you can't hit a woman because she's considered weak, but you can hit a kid who's even weaker ???!
What the hell is wrong with you guys???
This video is 💯 CHILD ABUSE and must be removed
@@singalingalongalinga healthy balance between love fear and respect. Make children grow into better people. If you don't believe me look at children raised 40 years ago vs today. The difference is night and day.
God if I ever did this I'd be dead, I remember what my dad told me when we saw a show talk about the same thing, "if you ever call the police on me you'll be in the hospital longer than I'm in jail" lol
Now THAT’s abuse
@@PoseidonGod Well many children these days are entitled, ungrateful and even animalistic brats to the point they need that. Look at TJ Lane!!
@@granitegobbler95 then you need to educate the kid right. Hitting is just for lazy people who are terrible parents. If you hit your kid with a fucking belt thats 100% abuse
If I were the cop and I caught your dad inflicting grievous bodily harm on someone (including a child), I would put your dad in the hospital as well and depending on how thing goes, I might put your dad in the hospital's basement.
@@lyingonthekitchenfloorasus608 Not all parents are lazy. Some of the most mature, intellectual and disciplined parents still have spoiled brats that know better. Back in June they had a 12 and 14 year old break into someone’s house and tried to shoot and kill police for absolutely nothing!! Kids like that need the belt!!
My dad was a cop for about 20 years (give or take) and this is exactly how he would’ve handled a call like this.
This is how you handle bs calls like this.
Good for him!!!
I’m pretty much the Sherman guy
@@WorldTravelA320 nope
@@singalingalongaling yes!!
One of the best scenes ever. Wish this show went longer than 5 seasons,
It should of went 5 more 😭
*I wish I knew about it!*
If it did it would’ve been turned into the ‘rookie’ going full liberal to appease BLM activists for pro cop shows.
In America, you can't hit a woman because she's considered weak, but you can hit a kid who's even weaker ???!
What the hell is wrong with you guys???
This video is 💯 CHILD ABUSE and must be removed
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This show was so great. So many characters and different story lines.
This clip should be made into a PSA.
Studies consistently show that spanking doesn't work. It's possible to be strict and punish without ever striking your child.
For some kids yes, for other kids a spanking can be the difference between them living a good life and them committing crimes.
Lightdragoon88 Actually, no. Studies have also been done on very problematic/difficult kids. Spanking doesn't work here either, in the long term. Indeed, they also simply seem to worsen the misbehaviour with this very misbehaving children.
Criminals are far, far more likely to have been spanked as children than those who were never shown that might is right and that the strong can make the weak do as they please - which is what spanking ultimately is.
I truly and sincerely do not mean to sound condescending when I say all this. I just don't want people to hold the wrong and sickening belief that sparing the rod spoils the child, when it's very much the opposite that's true.
Well my study shows spanking and discipline has a 100% success rate in children turning into successful and productive adults. And by study I mean my life.
Mike Wang That's not a study. You don't know how you'd have turned out if you hadn't been spanked, do you? You might have been a stronger, healthier, smarter, more independent individual, who's less aggressive and more sociable. Maybe you were so lucky that spanking had no effect on you, but that's all you can hope for, really. Even on very "bad" kids who misbehave a lot, spanking has not been proven to work.
Spanking is not effective as a method of parenting. Everything achieved by it can be achieved by non-violent means, without the noticeable risk of damaging your child in the long run.
Please tell me what you think a child learns by being spanked instead of punished by through non-violent means. It's humiliated and harmed by a person who should be the very, very last person to do so - a person that they should be able to trust 100%, without question. A person whose love should be absolute and unfailing. The child is taught that it has to comply with mom's orders - not because she's right and it's best, but because she has most force. So does a schoolyard bully. Might is not right. Spanking doesn't work.
Please tell me what it learns. This subject is too important to fight over, so I'm not out here to condescend or belittle you. I just want to convince you that you don't have to harm your (future?) children to make them all they can be.
I swear that kid sounds like the voice for any boy in Skyrim.
is that why we always try to kill them?
@@INCUBUssy6 to teach discipline
"My father says I'm too young to be using swords, so I practice with my fists!"
Or anime characters
Or a Fallout 3 kids voice too
Who’s here from that guy on TikTok and will never do a part 2 so came here
Haha yes
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Okay this is GARBAGE! Don't ever call the cops on your mom? Say a woman actually is abusive and beats their child on a daily basis and for no reason. What? Is it still not okay to call the cops on her? Ridiculous.
As far as I'm concerned, the kid who skipped class might be spoiled but hitting him would just make it worse.
Agreed, plus this is just conditioning abuse is something he should just put up with and showing him if he needs help there’s no point asking someone for it because they’ll just do this
Amen!
aww i'm sorry that you have an abusive mom and you're projecting it on the TV mom who is not abusive and hit the kid with the belt who deserved it cause he's ditching school and lie about it.
Hit him again 😂 God I love it
I hope you don't have kids
@@trekkie117 why she hit her child
@@hichemnouma8261 bad grades and skipping school
@@trekkie117 Likewise to you.
that line kills me every time
I don't even surprise that most of people defend this, but don't cry after 10 years, when this child beat you up.
And don’t cry when I watch and don’t snitch to the police because you deserved that for hitting your kid
One of my cousins beat up my uncle back in 2013, who was known to beat him frequently.
Seems like you didn’t read enough of the comments. A lot of people differentiate between discipline and abuse. You don’t support it? Your choice. Don’t cry in 10 years when they grew up to be a spineless Karen who can’t do anything.
@@rightsideup6304lmao u and ur other brainwashed commenters mean nothing
Just found my new show to binge. I respect this
Physical abuse and discipline are two different things and people are sensible enough to know which is which. This privileged generation thinks so little of authority and believe when they do wrong, it is okay. In the long run, they and others will suffer for it.
It is possible to discipline and punish a child without striking it. It is perfectly possible to be a strict parent without hurting your kid.
It's not a choice between
a) an upstanding, awesome parent that sometimes must spank a child in order to discipline it for its own sake
or
b) a loathsome, worthless, spineless junkie weakling, who never cares about their child or its behaviour.
In actual fact, spanking makes kids act worse. It leads to increased levels of aggression, lack of social skills, lack of independence, and ultimately an increased risk of crime.
This is not a matter of opinion. It's a matter of fact - unless you don't care at all about what the many, many, many studies consistently show, or only focus on the very few, very biased ones that come from religious organisations.
AsifIcarebear3 All cases can be different. Not that it's your business, but I was spanked. I didn't become an antisocial jerk or a criminal. People are smart enough to know where the line of abuse is drawn. As long as you let your kid know you care, as well as call them out when they do wrong, things work out for the best.
Sean Griffin "All cases can be different."
Not that different, no. Statistics consistently show that people who were spanked as adults are not better citizens, people, humans. They commit more crime, handle social aspects worse, have more aggressions. No, not 100% of every single one. Some are lucky enough for spanking to not have affected them at all. Pretty much none whatsoever benefited from being spanked.
Besides, you can achieve everything you want from spanking without spanking. Spanking is unnecessary, and indeed a mild form of child abuse - even though "child abuse" is of course a very strong term.
"People are smart enough to know where the line of abuse is drawn"
This is also incorrect. People often go too far in rage or carelessness.
"As long as you let your kid know you care, as well as call them out when they do wrong, things work out for the best"
Again, you don't have to spank - and even if you sit down and say: "Johnny, you did X wrong this, that means Y amounts of slaps on the butt as punishment so you won't do X again", the kid is still confused. A loving parent, striking them? Humiliating them? Someone who's supposed to defend them from harm, harming them? This is, no matter how you spin it, incredibly weird and confusing - and in my opinion sickening.
Be a strict parent. Discipline your kid. Punish it. But don't strike it, because it doesn't work.
Spanking a child isn't the same as beating a child. Hitting a child across the ass just hard enough that it stings should be enough to get it across to the kid not to do it again. It's called tough love. Trust me, it's the best kind of love you can get from a parent. And you only discipline them when they've done wrong. Now if you hit them hard enough that you break a bone, or hit them multiple times giving them bruises all over their body, then we've got issues. And of course they're not going to be better people after getting spanked as adults; they're already adults.
nascarfanatic2425 "Hitting a child across the ass just hard enough that it stings should be enough to get it across to the kid not to do it again."
Only it doesn't, as shown by studies. It will make the child comply this moment, and the next few moments, but long term it doesn't.
"Trust me, it's the best kind of love you can get from a parent."
This is sickening. You've been led to believe that beating your child's butt is "love". It's misguided. It doesn't work. Why are you not happy? Why are you not relieved that you don't have to strike your child to raise it proper?
You can be strict, you can discipline, you can shown "tough love" without _ever_ hitting your child. Not hard, not weakly, nothing. No hitting is required. This is not a matter of opinion, this is a matter of fact.
Studies _consistently_ show that people who were spanked, with any force, as children are not better adults than people who were not spanked. It's clear cut. For the sake of your children, please look into the matter, because it's so incredibly important.
Holy crap, when the cop took the belt from the kid and walked towards him, it reminded me so much of my dad 😂
Lol same 😆😆
in America:
- you don't get to hit your wife
- you don't get to hit your colleague.
- You don't get to hit your pet.
But you get to hit your children???! what the hell is wrong with you guys ???!
This 💯% child abuse and this video should be removed!!!
@@kazadikashama6098 - So, you want to adopt adult punishments on the kids instead? A kid shoplifts a candy, they go to the county jail for up to 6 months? Get into a schoolyard fight and have a record before puberty?
Nah, give em a few swats on the butt and they may think twice before doing it again. As long as it doesn't cause permanent damage, it's a good way to punish bad behavior without having to utilize punishments typically reserved for adults. Of course, I don't condone spanking for MISTAKES... like if they accidentally trip and knock into a vase and break it ... or spill some milk on the floor. But if it's something they did that's intentional, like skipping school, I'm all for it.
The reason parents are permitted to use corporal punishment on their kids is 3 fold: 1.) Parents are held legally responsible for the actions of their kids. If a kid throws rocks at a car, the parent is going to be the one paying the damage. Therefore, the parent is vested in preventing future damage. The same isn't true of your wife or colleague. 2.) There are some "crimes" a kid may commit where there is no punishment possible BECAUSE of their age. They can't go to jail or be fined money. So corporal punishment is a justifiable alternative when there are no other alternatives. 3.) The punishment for corporal punishment is highly restrictive. It can't cause permanent or significant damage to the child. It can cause pain, like a slap, but can't cause marks, such as burns, large bruises or cuts. Because its so heavily restrictive, it's considered WAY below "abuse".
And by the way, you are allowed to spank your pet as punishment. It follows the same restrictive rules as spanking your kid.
@@kazadikashama6098child abuse my ass, these young bucks nowadays ain't got no respect for their elders at all. If you don't whup your kids with the belt or a switch for cutting classes, being disrespectful to their elders or even hangout with friends by skipping school, how in the Hell do you expect your kids to learn respect if your ass ain't teaching and raising them right?
@@kazadikashama6098man that's child abuse at all periodt because that's how me and my sister was brought up that way and we was taught to respect our elders
Absolutely, the best thing I've seen ever. Of all time.
The cop handled the situation wrong. Parents should never spank their kids. This kid should have been grounded for ditching class.
@@singalingalongaling smh, another fatherless child.
@@taywrdd I’m a 27 year old adult. I will be 28 in August.
@@singalingalongaling that’s even worse.
No way you’re an adult saying kids shouldn’t be spanked by their parents as discipline.
@@taywrdd I'm an adult and say the same thing. I sure hope you're not a parent.
I, can not stop watching this video. The police officer was great. The momma, was truly a great parent. Much love. ❤❤❤❤
in America:
- you don't get to hit your wife
- you don't get to hit your colleague.
- You don't get to hit your pet.
But you get to hit your children???! what the hell is wrong with you guys ???!
This 💯% child abuse and this video should be removed!!!
@@kazadikashama6098
People like you are exactly the reason why generations now grow up as stupid entitled ignorant assholes that go through life without caring how they treat others because they grew up with zero real consequences for their actions.
Nah she and cop were piece of s***
@@kazadikashama6098 for real that is messed up hitting a child never makes them behave I mean c'mon really? What is the point of spanking really nothing but causing a child to be feel hatred towards their parents.
@@user-zi3oy3rn9r To be honest, a child who's being hit by his parents almost never ends up hating his parents. he ends up hating himself
belt blows can kill a child. a single blow is more than enough to trigger a blood reflux phenomenon which can cause cardiac arrest. many children died this way, including a 15-year-old teenager near my home. this kid is 100% right, this is child abuse, NOT discipline and it should be banned. in my country, this so-called "mother" would have IMMEDIATELY received 3 years in prison and the equivalent of $27,500 in fines
I got whoop as a child and I'm still alive 😂😂
@@Skeletor_playboi I know someone who was sexually abused as a child and she is still alive. should we wait until something kills a child to come to the conclusion that it is not good for him?
@@kazadikashama6098
you saying that there are some people out there who sexual abuse their kids and called it "discipline"?
@fred1160 missing the point entirely 😕. I'm saying that just because you survived something doesn't make it right or good for you
@@kazadikashama6098 ok bro, a whooping is NOT child abuse.
And idk where you get this information from, talking about whooping can kill someone, some girl got sexual assault while as a kid
I mean Jesus
Just call it what it is. A old fashion ass whooping. And you're lucky if you can sit afterwards.
southern Lone Wolf for real for real, people forgot about these old fashion ass whooping, thats why these kids growing up like an asshole with no manners
You’d be lucky if you didn’t get the wooden spoon as well
@Cristian Baeza Yeah. Wonderful. 😐😌😒
@@SapphirePaapii and also parents aren't really bothering to raise their kids. I get on video games like whatever multi-player game on Xbox or I get on VrChat, and I hear these kids like younger than 15 so haven't even hit puberty yet. They say all this shit that if my mom heard me say, even she'd have beat my ass. Hell she'd probably beat my ass now and I'm gonna be 19 this year.
I got smacked and sat down playing video games soooo that shit burrrrrned
I remember one time I was getting verbally assaulted by my stepdad and then when I went over to my dads place, all he did was call a taxi and send me back over there like what the FUCK. This was disappointing.
It's all about balance. Too soft on a kid, he'll think everyone else is to blame. Too hard and he'll think only he's to blame. You got to understand how to moderate between the two so the kid knows the difference between when he's at fault and when he's being victimized. This is hard, as parents aren't around their children enough to know what's going on with their kids and how they'll respond to either positive or negative treatment. So, as parents, make sure you get feedback from your child's teachers about everything that goes on at school. And when you discipline or reward your child, make sure they understand WHY. And as child, be open and honest with your parents. Don't expect them to be all-knowing about your life and what you need if you don't tell them.
In other words, hit them correctly...
It's all about balance...
And then you hide behind somebody else's face..............
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Fool Slayer hitting is child abuse. It leads to aggression. Learn to discipline without hitting. Kids practice what their parents preach!
@@singalingalongaling Being aggressive isn't always a bad thing, though. As a last resort, it allows kids to stand up to themselves - especially to bullies, who will always back down if the victim fights back.
Even the second police officer looked scared at 1:24.
Sherman was like “Oh fuck”
I would be too if my partner, who's carrying a gun, decided to threaten a child with lethal force.
Hahahahahahahahahahahahhahaha
@Winahh Taylahh when you're in a position of authority with a visible weapon, randomly threatening to harm children, it sure seems pretty damn close to lethal force, because that's the behavior of psychopaths. Plus he threatened to take off that belt with a gun and hit him with that so even just the weight could be blunt force trauma. Plus he never specified the body part, could just has well have been his head or face. Regardless, horrific behavior from a police officer, he should be the one to gtfo.
@@JoshyGee I'd say Officer Cooper gave that kid a wake up call that mommy's the boss!
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pug the pug!! Make that 199 lol they’re the only ppl that would dislike this video. Sad smh..
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Nope 237 disliked
Reaper lol 251 now
264 now
I was in grade 12 when I started cutting a few classes. My father found out and simply told me my punishment was not to use the car for 2 weeks. I was 6,3 and 200 pounds but I never once thought of getting violent because my father never hit me once in my life. I accepted the punishment. If you start hitting kids, they grow to be violent themselves. This scene is very funny but hitting a child with a belt is not acceptable anymore.
Tbh it was never acceptable period, it’s just that finally people are starting to realize that
Lol I got whoopings as a child and I’ve never even thought to be violent as an adult…..
@@demsimmons You may not, but there are there tons of people who do. That's the issue.
Oh my gosh, Jim Gordon and Abraham Ford were partners!
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This scene gave me chills from how satisfying it was. 👏🏻
It makes me cringe because no one should spank their kids. There are plenty of ways to discipline children without spanking.
No, it's outrageous. Insensitive cop took it personally and showed zero professionalism.
How the fuck was this satisfying are u high
@@deldude1412 do u expect him to reply lol he is in his own world the real world will destroy him
@@singalingalongalingyou grew up in a spoiled household I can tell you were never told no as a little child and never disciplined ever.
This is why so many old people die alone. Your kids will never forget how you treated them and when they are old enough to leave you will never see them again.
If you really abandon your parents because they disciplined you for skipping class then you might need some help ngl
@@Cow29389 How do you have a close and meaningful relationship with your parents when they can switch any second like psychopaths and attack you lol. Parents hitting their kids will always be disturbing.
@@jainee4507my dad always hit me with his belt when i came home late. But I still close with him tho
@@jainee4507 ❄
@@Thunder_00235 My dad did the same, and i haven't spoken to him in years.
Boy calls cops on an abusive woman, and the boy is in the wrong. Classic.
There's a reason songs like "Fuck Tha Police" exist.
... So it's ok to hit someone who can't defend themselves? This cop and mom are cowards. If you can't discipline without hitting you're a terrible parent. When your child beats someone up don't get mad at them they are just copying the adults in their life
All the cop did was teach the kid to fear and not question authority, it's disgusting. The mother could end up killing that child, but the cops didn't look further into it
Congratulations! YOU are why children grow up to be violent criminals!
@@dnd9865 Still, a big man threatening a small kid is cowardly.
You know, my father , god rest his soul. He never ever hit us kids! He had this voice! He’s yell “knock the shit off” , at that point we knew we woke a sleeping giant!
Knock the shit off?
When your parents yell and you don't stop that's how you get your ass whooped, good thing you stopped at the yelling, good thing your dad yelled first, I grew up in an Asian family, you will see a shoe or flip flop flying towards you at around 70kph, you need to dodge it to get to the yelling part.
What a sick country where hitting a child with a belt is called "discipline".
If that child was a dog, that would be "cruelty towards animals"
That video is 💯 % child abuse and should be removed
@@kazadikashama6098 there are lots of those sick countries that discipline their child that way they are so sick that they have rare to no school shootings, kids don't talk back to their parents and take care of them untill they pass away, those countries are so absurd that they don't have absurd amount of genders and they don't kill babies in the womb. They all grew up to be hospitable and mind their own country's policy and doesn't meddle on any other country's way if government, they don't prosecute a large number of people or pull them on a traffic stop just because they are part of a certain race, they don't push the media to change people's opinion in favor of a single political party that spread hate on anyone that doesn't share their ideals, imagine how outrageous those countries are!!!!!
Ps. They don't have cancel culture, and have traditional women and men as well.
@@kazadikashama6098 A sick country? Dude, that´s like most of the planet doing this.
we all know he got his ass beat a second time when the door closed xD
*"You Called The Cops On Me?!"*
She abused him again 😞
@@SassyLostChild What??!
@@jabaribrown5608 the little shit deserved it
@@SassyLostChild yeah I hope you don’t become a parent
@@jabaribrown5608 what do you mean? He deserves it because he called the police on his mom. You're probably a snowflake
That show was really well done.
This is cringing! The cop overreacted. Hitting a child is abuse!
@@singalingalongalingIt's not, stop being a lazy hippie.
@@singalingalongalingno he didnt ngl if you was my parent i would be running all over you….if the biggest consequence is “im grounded” or a talk imma do wat the hell i want to😹😹😹😹
that cop is right
I know he's right, but his threat is wrong. A cop hitting a random child who didn't even commited a real crime will lead his ass in to AWOL.
I think there would be a point we're a cop could whoop a young gangsters ass with a belt, like this cop if that punk was too much geah like disrespecting the cops and trying to act violent or bad talking the one's who don't respect nobody geah I think the cop would want to whoop they ass..or hit them with the Patton
@@joshuamanzanares3252 why she hit her child
@@hichemnouma8261 the reason why she hit her child on the bottom was because he was cutting class
@@FizzyArtCola the cop was not going to hit the kid at all. it is an strategy to show a kid to behave better and do not lie on his mom
I am so provoked by all the comments here. It makes me so sad reading how almost everyone here seems to think abuse is a good way to discipline kids. My parents never ever laid a hand on me and discipline has never been a problem in our family. Same goes for all my friends and everyone I know. I know that hitting a kid with a belt maybe won't hurt in the long run, but haven't we evolved and entered a society where we talk to each other instead of using physical violence. It is never the answer. Poor kids and poor future. You may not think it hurts your kid, but it does. Mentally it does, because you show them that you are willing to inflict pain instead of reasoning with them like an adult. I am just empty. No hard feelings tho, I just needed to get this of my chest :)
I agree with you!
" you show them that you are willing to inflict pain instead of reasoning with them"
Literally that. It teaches them to be fearful rather than rationally. People love to say this works, but when kids end up with anti-authority issues, this is why. Because they've been taught that authority is violence and tyranny.
Why would anyone expect anyone to listen when they're being threatened rather than reasoned to.
And that, ladies and gentlemen, is how you prevent those same cops from having to deal with your son later in life. Great job by mom and great job by the officer.
Unlike the parents later in the series who got locked out if their house while junior took a bat to everything in it.
@@WorldTravelA320 that was disturbing and Lydia was right, “they are going to come back 5 years later to that same kid and picking him up for assault or worse.”
I think you are way too wrong. Most people in jail had domestic violence as a common issue.
Now that is how you make your child hate you and your police.
THAT'S IS TERRIBLE, THAT WAS CHILD ABUSE
Reading theese comments I can see how many of you been abused as kids...
Wow, I just noticed the uploader actually played the mom in this clip. Carla Vila, you're awesome!
One thing I do love about this scene (other than all of it) is they draw a fine line between discipline and abuse. She says she "hit" him which sounds like abuse until you hear what happened and understand that it was discipline.
@@Lolamy I think it really has to do with its necessary. Like if it was the first or second time, maybe a stern talking to and revoking privilege will do. Yes I know the kid says it was the first time but I'm 99% certain he's referring to being firmly disciplined. Think of it as a DEFCON level situation. The first two offenses need a stern talking to. A few more times and maybe revoke privileges and ground the kid. If it continues and they don't learn from their constant wrong doings then a slap or two with the belt on a non vital area like the butt should send a final message and teach a lesson. Now there is a fine line between using a belt to discipline and using a belt to abuse. A belt to discipline is you only use it if there is truly no other alternative. If you use the belt just because you're always angry then maybe its abuse. But the finest line between discipline and abuse is abuse is intended to put the lives of someone in danger.
@@Lolamy Finally someone said it! Hitting them is the easy way out.
@@Lolamy it has nothing to do with the parent you don't control the personality of a kid and you don't know what they are exposed to at school some kids will just not obey oral orders no matter what you do.
@@Lolamy there are cases that contradict your statements. Like the time 2 children kill a younger child and try to hide the evidence by setting the dead body on the train line.
@@LordangeloxD That doesn't contradict their statement. Those children were just fucked up in the head. You wanna know a fact? The overwhelming amount of people who commit violent crimes were physically hit as children or abused in some way. There are tons of statistics and research which shows that hitting children excessively is not conducive and can actually exacerbate their behavior. Now there are exceptions if your kid burned the house down or was bullying other kids I can see where a slap or two could be justified, but the kid skipping class and his mom hitting him for it will not encourage him to stop, but will piss him off and encourage him to keep doing it, but simply be more discrete. Overall spanking is not that effective, at least in the US.
I can’t believe most people supporting this. Let me explain. It’s a good thing to teach your child what’s right or wrong. Of course ditching school is bad, but violence will just correct the child’s behaviour. You will send them a terrible message to your kid. You will undermine the trust in you. Why do you think many parents can’t communicate to their kids when they reach their teen age? They lost trust in their parents. They are afraid of them. And many (like myself) will have terrible problems of self esteem. Your kid isn’t a criminal, don’t treat him or her like one.
Violence is the tool that shows you haven’t earned that respect or that you lack of tools to solve a problem. Imagine them being adults and hitting you for misbehaving with them.
Let me go further. Some of us hear many cases of child abuse. Sexual or physical. So… Where do we trace a line? Where do you expect a child to distinguish when is “education” and where is child abuse? Do you think a fragile and imature mind of a child can do that? Normalizing that is what prevented lots of children to be saved by the police. Be careful.
It genuinely disturbs me that violence against children is so normalized that people would go out of their way to defend it. I was beaten mercilessly as a kid, and it led to nothing more than anger and resentment, to the point i haven't spoken to my parents in years, and i don't plan to anytime soon.
You were abused, there is a difference. This scene depicts the counter to entitlement with discipline. No one glorifies beating children, but a smack isn't a beating. You seem to be doing okay, and if you haven't, that means you haven't let go of the past, and if you haven't done that, that's on you and no one else.
@@miltiadiskyvernitis Ah, yes, because as we all know, if you experience abuse for years and years and developed severe trauma and psychological issues because of it, the solution is to just "get over it"! Genius!
That's why the cop talked to the kid first. If there had been signs of abuse (a completely different scenario than discipline), the conversation would have gone very differently.
@@youturnenwiw Yes. Get over it.
@@miltiadiskyvernitis I wish it was that easy. I really, really fucking do.
Man, I'll bet that boy won't be pulling a stunt on like this again.
This is a tv show...
@@WaffleStomple No shit, doesn't mean he won't try it again.
LilHongBoot no child deserves a spanking. If they do something like this, they need to do exercises like pushups, get grounded, and/or sent to bed early. If younger kids do minor things wrongs like hit their siblings, disobey their parents, back chat them, then they need a timeout or something like that or a fine.
Yes he will live in fear of his mother and the police since they threatened escalating violence.
@@JoshyGee you sure I don't fear my parents in any way shape or form.
One of the best dramas ever.
I hate this video! Parents should never spank their kids as a discipline method! Instead they should use non-corporal punishments i.e: timeouts, groundings, taking away privileges, sending them to bed early and and so on. Spankings are abuse and may break a child’s spirit, lower their self-esteem, and/or teach them that it is OK to hit others. Spankings are the lazy way of parentings. Fuck this video!
*I wish I knew about it!!!*
In Brazil, any form of corporal punishment is completely illegal and counts as child abuse
Good for brazil
no wonder you country like that ,one bad news after another . you couldn't raise your children properly .
It should be illegal everywhere! Parents should use modern parenting!
that is why you have so many criminals.
@@singalingalongalingModern parenting... You mean let your kids do anything they want... I hope your not a parent. This kid got off lucky imo.
Handled perfectly. Love this scene.
We need THIS more than ever!
We need Father's in the home.
We need shitty cops yelling at kids?
@@Fudge_Fantasy Not like this crazy cop!
@@singalingalongaling no way you have 433 comments on this channel, that's some determination lol
@@crusanosicus562 What do you mean and why are you saying that?
No child should be hit or beaten or abused in any way. Nothing good can come from it.
Damn, someone with common sense in this comment section? I’m surprised
Finally a decent human being out of all these imbeciles
@@mylifewithautism3958 Me too
I'll bet he got it big time when she got in that house
Ian Fettt IDEK what this show ends i just know the younger cop plays Commissioner Gordon in the Gotham TV Show
I’d hope so.
The mom and the cop are so mean!
Some of you people in the comment section need to get some serious professional help.
Discipline is not abuse because if you don't teach your children discipline one day you will be hiring lawyers to defend them.
Child abuse: A parent who beats their child for no reason.
Discipline: A parent teaching a child a lesson for being bad or doing something he's not supposed to do.
There's a difference
@@ff3player Do you advocate the same type of discipline for adults too? Yourself, for example? If not, why not?
@@ff3player I never said it was. I'm pointing out how disturbed a lot of people on this video sound.
@@ff3playerhow do you get spanking?
My grandma used to say 'go ahead and call the police, you WILL be abused by the time they get here.'
LOL! This reminds me of a Russel Peters Joke on beating your kids
Dude same but it was my mom. She used to tell me, "do it, i dare you but two things will happen if you do. One, i will beat your ass and you wont be able to sit down, and two they will remove you from this home and put you in a group home and you won't get the same treatment." I kept my mouth shut and took my punishment.
hahahahahahhaa, that's evil.
I like it
Your grandmother is abusive. Spankings and beatings are abuse.
Grandparents are a different breed.
I just love how Gordon (I don't know his name in the show) is just staring at him like. "God damn it." When he tells the mom to hit him again.
Waddlez Methot Ben Sherman.
Please do not say the Lord’s name in vain.
@@singalingalongaling yes don't
What a sick country where hitting a child with a belt is called "discipline".
If that child was a dog, that would be "cruelty towards animals"
That video is 💯 % child abuse and should be removed
I love this one.
The mom and the cop are in the wrong. Spankings are abuse.
That’s messed up no one should have to go through that
Try living with an asian mom 😊
This is how you end up with children that put you in a home and leave you there to rot and I will stand by that statement forever
Right there with you. My grandfather beat his kids and he died all alone in a nursing home, blind and his legs amputated from diabetes. Only one of his five kids and NONE of his grandkids attended his funeral. He got what he deserved, the pos.
love this
Rlinda mcfarlane I hate this! Spankings are abuse! I believe in non-corporal punishments i.e: timeouts, groundings, taking away privileges, going to bed early, taking away allowances, etc. They will work if people are consistent. i have seen these punishments work on child rearing reality-TV shows such as Supernanny.
So what the supporters of officers/mom saying is that if you found or felt someone did something wrong it's okay to implement physical punishment among them. If we inject this mentality to every child who's growing world will be a terrible place. I'm glad that there is a lot of people who doesn't think like this
It’s unfortunate that weak people like you hold so many positions of power and authority
Wouldn't it makes sense to just talk about why he skipped classes instead of hurting him. Or using reverse psychology? Or making him do extra chores in the house? If you hit him for ditching classes it's only going to make him feel like he's not valued unless he goes to school. He could end up with scars and he'll be so depressed that he can't focus in school. Hitting does not work and that old-fashioned cop needs to calm down. If you want to hit something, punch a bag
Yeah I know right. Like all of these sick fucks out here thinking it’s discipline to hit children and treat them like shit
Exactly
My childhood just flashed before my eyes
After chewing the boy out and then telling him to get inside like he is the father is awesome. The acting is on point. This is a great scene and we need more discipline in our lives
No this isn’t discipline this is violence and totalitarianism
Didn’t he end up adopting a kid in this episode?
@@carlos00700 No, although the kid begged him to
Ok, so what if a housewife calls the cops on her husband for hitting her because she's been slacking on her housework?
You know damned well that it's not the same thing.
It's not a husbands job to raise his wife, but it is a parents job to raise a child into a decent adult, something that this boy clearly needed some help with.
@@whitbyabbey4830 So why should adult women get more protections than children? Back in the day people would have said that it actually is the man's job to discipline his wife to make sure she keeps her woman duties in check.
@@TheSuperFunPuppetShow lol what do you think punishment is?
Let's forget about physical discipline for a second and talk about the other ways people punish their children.
Sending them to their rooms, taking away some object of theirs, giving them extra chores, not letting them contact their friends...
Would you do ANY of this to your spouse?
I would hope not, because then you shouldn't be married to anyone, EVER.
Does that mean that punishing a child in these ways are also abuse? No, because you are raising that child. So unless you think all forms of punishment is abuse because you wouldn't do it to your spouse then your argument doesn't hold water.
Children need to be disciplined in order to survive adulthood, and unless you think the state should do it then it's no-ones job to interfere.
@@whitbyabbey4830 don't you think that there's a pretty big difference between not letting a 5 year old watch TV unless they brush their teeth vs hitting a 5 year old? Your boss is allowed to discipline you but they can't slap your buttcheeks without your consent can they?
@@whitbyabbey4830it's the same.
That cop needs to chill, he should've arrested the mom, it doesn't matter what the kid did it's still child abuse. If you want to discipline your kid don't hit them, just talk to them, take their phone away, ground them or something.
Nah mate there a difference between discipline and child abuse. If kids know that the most their gonna have to face is not seeing their friends for a few weeks he aint gonna give a shit and trust me no one likes a spoilt brst
@@randomedits8399 Right no one like a spoiled brat, but ditching school isn't going to make someone a spoiled brat. Also, hitting your kid as a punishment for doing something they shouldn't? That's just plain wrong
@@A.Dennis.23 im not saying hitting them should be the first thing that comes to mind those types of parents shouldn't have kids, in this clip it looks like this isnt the first time and that the kid probably has done it before, and that is what happens kids think " so what if i skip school what she do hit me?" Ive known people like that as a kid and now these people are in their mid 20s with the mindset of children. Sometimes though love is needed buy obv i agree it should never be the first option.
@@randomedits8399 Alright, I'm glad we could agree that hitting shouldn't be allowed
Yeah, you shouldn’t always hit your child (there are exceptions) but talking to your child doesn’t always work. My little cousin is a spoiled brat and whenever he’s grounded, he’ll sit grumpily in his room and scream and whine loudly until his mom has enough and lets him out. Whenever his father sternly talks to him about what’s right and what’s wrong, he’ll yell back and throw a fit. When privileges are taken away from him, he’ll be toxic to everyone he meets. Whenever he comes to visit, he tries intimidating and scaring our dog, and when he’s told not to do that, he whines and complains that “the dog is scaring him” even tho my dog hasn’t done anything.
He stepped out of line once and kept throwing his plastic toys at our dog and also kicked the dog, which angered my sister so much that she yelled at their parents to do something about this brat. So, his father angrily yelled at him and spanked him. And that cousin didn’t bother our dog, and he didn’t complain anymore when he was grounded or his privileges were taken away because I assume his father spanked him too for that.
Sometimes, spanking is necessary because if you told them what they’re doing is wrong, then they won’t learn their lesson.
Long story short, spanking is necessary in some cases. And there’s a fine line between discipline and abuse. But if you still think spanking isn’t necessary, then that’s your opinion and i won’t fight you for it. Have a nice day
I just finished binged watching this series I love it ❤️ it sucks they left a HUGE cliffhanger!! So many unanswered questions!!☹️
I love Ben and Sammy!!❤️💙
My pops used the belt on me when I disobeyed. I remember crying and I asked him why he hit me. His answer was, if I just yelled at you all the time when you are bad it will go in one ear and out the other, if I spank you when you are bad... you will remember not to be bad. I remember and I don’t do bad things.
Spankings are abuse! It is the lazy way of parenting! We should use modern parenting like reward charts, timeouts, groundings, taking away privileges, fines, allowances, going to bed early, exercises, sentences, essays, etc.
@@singalingalongaling Doing all of that how did this country turn out?
Jaime A Tafur If people would use modern parent consistently, we would be alright!
@@singalingalongaling yeaaaaaa. no
Eh, I personally don't think im gonna ever hit my children when I do decide I want to have some even if it's just on the butt or something.
When I was younger my father "Disciplined me" in ways that definitely would warrant child abuse I don't plan on going through all the details but looking back at it it definitely does seem like abuse and for that reason alone I wouldn't bring myself to hit a child.
Comments are sick
Ikr, these people need to have their kids taken away if they have any… which I sure hope most of them don’t
Nah, you're just soft and never got any discipline from your parents
@@Cow29389shut up Meg
Moooooo _🐮_
@@MunaRishiToru591 okay
I get that this is a TV show, but the cop way over-stepped. Telling a mom to hit her son and threatening to do so himself is extremely inappropriate and he should be fired.
How do you get spanking?
I love this show all of a sudden
Spankings are abuse because they only teach children to fear you and can break a child’s spirit. There are better ways to discipline children such as time outs, groundings, going to bed early, swear jars, assigning extra chores, etc. I can’t stand parents who spank their kids. Discipline is all about teaching.
@Random Canadian or what
As a 13 year old Asian, I strongly agree with the cop.
Please don't ever have kids of your own.
@@pacnwguy9056 Its not just Asians, but a lot of children are disciplined that way. Child abuse is when the parent/guardian attacks the child for no good reason or is under the influence which is illegal, while discipline is fine as long as the child doesn't suffer severe injuries.
Bro your 13, grow up then learn child psychology. This method of teaching 'discipline' brings way more negative result than positive in a child and even when they become adult as a person
@@fictoxneo1431 In the last 6 months, yes I have grown up as a 14 year old. As long as the kid isn't seriously injured it's fine. A few smacks on the hand or in the face is tolerable for little kids. A few strikes with belt would be for anyone 10 or above. It's not that serious. Abuse is very different from discipline. I believe that there does need to be at least a little sense of fear when being a parent. Not too much, but enough to keep the kid from doing bad things.
@@Kyle_1211 Whatever you say using something like belt to teach discipline isn't the right way. My parents also used methods for me to teach discipline bit it never exceeded more than only verbal or using hand or some woodmade kitchen utensils. Using a belt does kinda becomes a little overboard and turns into a violence act. (Since there are already many serious child injury cases because of it)
Yup thats call discipline aka TOUGH LOVE, showing how much that mother loves and cares for her child that she carried for 9 months and gave birth to. Children today need to know authority.
I hate this video! Parents should never spank their kids as a discipline method! It’s not tough love, it’s abuse! Instead they should use non-corporal punishments i.e: timeouts, groundings, taking away privileges, sending them to bed early and and so on. Spankings are abuse and may break a child’s spirit, lower their self-esteem, and/or teach them that it is OK to hit others. Spankings are the lazy way of parentings. Fuck this video!
discipline and 'tough love' are opposites.
I also love that you say "Children today need to know authority.
" this is literally an appeal-to-authority fallacy in-the-making. Children need to know why they should do something. Discipline is teaching a child the why and showing them how to have the willpower to work towards the better things, even when it's uncomfortable to do so.
"tough love" is parents not understanding how or being too lazy to raise a child, so they take the short-cut; abuse. Fear doesn't let you practice discipline, it overwrites it.
It's been psychologically proven that spanking doesn't discourage bad behaviors, it teaches children to fear adults and that violence is ok
I don't fear my parents at all.
I agree with you, Kyle. Spankings are abuse.
I been a cop for 150 years and this is the best portrayal I've seen.
Well that cop just did the opposite of a good job. Hurts seeing this young man learn the lesson we all have to eventually as people of color: The police aren't there to protect YOU
Ikr, poor kid probably would end up in an abusive relationship as an adult too scared to get help for fear of dismissal IRL
I believe that when you are a kid parents need to discipline you with the belt because you’re young you don’t really understand things but you get to an age where there is no need of hitting u understand what’s good and what’s bad my dad disciplined me so many times bc I was doing drugs I would disrespect him I was not a good kid for sure but thanks to him and to every time he disciplined me I am who I am now I have a good job, goals, I made my life i thank him every day bc if he would’ve let me on my own I wouldn’t be who I am now I support disciplining your kids with the bet if necessary but to a limit and not hitting them in sensitive areas
People are soft nowadays
How sad
Abuse and Discipline are two vastly different things. Spanking your kids for discipline with a belt is a huge difference from punching them and abusing their feelings. Know the difference people!
I was "spanked" with a belt and I have PTSD because of it. It didn't do anything, but teach me that violence is sometimes the answer. If I thought I could get away with it, I'd murder my stepdad in cold blood with butcher knife, for "disciplining" me.
Sourpatch Bish you are such a coward. a true disgrace to all of our veterans that have real PTSD.
CaptainCringe I just said that PTSD is not some type of special condition for war veterans. Girl, bye.
CaptainCringe I have repetitive nightmares of when my stepdad beat the literal piss out of me with his leather belt from my mid-back to my calves, this happened when I was just a toddler, and similar incidences happened up until the age of 14. Whenever I have this repetitive dream, I punch, kick, and scream in my sleep. When I'm awake and out living my life, I have anxiety and depression. Do not tell me tell me that I don't suffer from a traumatic experience, and don't fucking tell me how to feel about it. You claim that I'm too sensitive, but I say you're just being insensitive.
Alex7aj Thank you very much
The best damn clip ever!
Worst! Spankings are abuse!
singalingalongaling no, spanking isn’t abuse
Yaz F timeouts and groundings and other non-corporal methods worked on me
This is like SML In a Nutshell.
Bowser Jr.-The Kid
Bowser-The Mom
Brooklyn T. Guy-The Police
Wtf is sml?
@@mui90 SuperMarioLogan,idiot
@@champthephantomthief793 so basically a Nintendo gaming channel?
@@champthephantomthief793 Imagine calling someone an idiot for asking a question you just sound like the idiot
You could taste the moisture in the air when the cop hands her the belt back and said "have a nice day".
This one is an A+ all the way. This one is gold.
No, this was BS! Spankings are abuse! I only believe in non-corporal methods. Discipline means to teach. Examples of non-corporal punishments include timeout one-minute per child’s age (this tends to work on kids ages 2-12), groundings, taking away privileges, sending children to bed early, taking away allowance and making them fines, etc. Parents should have common sense to know if you cannot hit an adult, then you cannot child! It’s as simple as that! Spankings are abuse and that’s point blank! Spare the rod and spoil the child means to guide and discipline your children to get them to behave properly not to spank them. Too many people take that expression literally!
@@singalingalongaling ..... I so disagree with your statement. Although you are entitled to your opinion. I spanked my kids when they were kids, and they turned out to be very fine adults. You have a choice, you spank them as kids when necessary or the police will beat them when they're grown up.
For you to give this kind of advise: how many kids did you have ? And how did they turn out ?
GuessWho Martin I don’t have any kids but my mom and I have watched Supernanny and the experienced nanny helps parents raise their kids. When I get married and have kids, I will not spank them and use Supernanny’s techniques. It’s a good and helpful show.
GuessWho Martin My mom loves Supernanny.
@@singalingalongaling ..... Dude, you don't have any kids, so you can't even give any advice. When you have kids and you raised them to be very fine men and women. Then you can give advice. I had kids already, I spanked them when needed. Today they are very polite and respectful.
Trust me, when they are kids, if you don't spank them when needed, they will go out of control and the police will beat them as grown adults... you mark my word.
i've never been hit with a belt because i have ADHD innatentive (aka the chill ADHD) and i'm also a police enthusiast, and from my knowledge this is accurate as hell
I have ADHD/ADD, and growing up was undiagnosed autistic, was misdiagnosed as mild mental retardation, really have Asperger’s now called Autism Spectrum Disorder Level 1 and I got this quite a bit. (Recently diagnosed as an adult). I know mostly because I was difficult, my dad had drinking problems, possible bipolar disorder, and that was how he grew up. He and his brothers all got it, but my dad got it the worst. I don’t agree with this at all.
Just because the kid was wrong doesn't mean the mom was right. Yeah he shouldn't have skipped school but she shouldn't be beating him.
Agreed, plus we have no idea WHY he skipped. Maybe there was a bully or something and he knew the mom wouldn’t listen
Love this cop he is the best
Spankings are abuse! I only believe in non-corporal methods. Discipline means to teach. Examples of non-corporal punishments include timeout one-minute per child’s age (this tends to work on kids ages 2-12), groundings, taking away privileges, sending children to bed early, taking away allowance and making them fines, etc. Parents should have common sense to know if you cannot hit an adult, then you cannot child! It’s as simple as that! Spankings are abuse and that’s point blank! Spare the rod and spoil the child means to guide and discipline your children to get them to behave properly not to spank them. Too many people take that expression literally!
"hit him again" LMFAO
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@@singalingalongaling thank you for giving me a reason further more why we should hit kids
me5150 how is that a reason in your perspective?
@@singalingalongaling so that they don't turn into a little bitch like that
me5150 You’re so wrong!
As a matter of fact, he has the right
"Hit him again." Almost the best Cooper line in the series.
Who else came here from that tiktok video when he was supposed to post part 2 but someone in the comments told us the clips name
LMAO ME BRO
If i called the police on my mom she would murder me infront of them
Right here
@@static6453 murder is a sin.
Spankings are abuse. They are not biblical. The rod was a shepherd’s rod used for guiding the sheep 🐑 not beating them.
Would have been even funnier if instead of mom and a beaten kid, it had been husband and a battered wife.
(Oh wait, I forgot. It's not OK to hit and terrify adults... only children.)
One word... refreshing
One word...abuse
Must be easy, yelling at a kid, threatening them to make them scared of you so they do what you say. I wonder though, what would happen if the kid wasn't scared, what if he didn't run away and stood his ground to the cop who threatened him. What would the cop do then?
And what kind of lesson does it teach a kid who's being abused by a stronger party, and has the cops take the side of the abuser? Is he gonna call 911 the next time someone is abused? I don't think so.
I always got the chancla lmaooo
Spankings are abuse. We should use timeouts and groundings and other positive reinforcements.
@@singalingalongaling every parent disciplines differently and every child is different. I never learned through a simple "timeout". I needed an ass woopin lmaoo
@@singalingalongaling sure champ ! Nah that depends on the child as some kids love to bring problems even with a parents that have the kid well fed, a roof over the head and they are present when the child needs guidances or just been heard
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The kid shouldn't have cut class, but what the mom did was illegal. Corporal punishment has been banned for decades with the exception of spanking in some states like GA & LA. However, after hearing comments from people who experienced real life, it's clear cops won't make a big deal about this assuming that what they're saying is true or maybe they're writing for attention. IDK, but on a legal basis she should've been arrested by law.
Agreed!
Nope.
You see this kind of shit and root for the parent but never actually think about what caused the kid to become disobedient in the first place.
Why are people here applauding this cop? A crime was reported to him and he blamed/threaten the victim and encouraged the perpetrator. He should lose his badge for this stunt! Whats wrong with americans thinking anything in this scene is even remotely okay?
@Marjorie Champion then why you on the internet?🤨
different people may have different approaches towards raising their children...
nevertheless there are countless scientific studies on "child discipline" and 95%of them with one clear result:
any form of physical punishment turns out bad on the long run....
the madness of having so many ppl in the comment section supporting violence is only topped by ppl's
unwillingness to adapt their believes.
Do you have children? If so are they well behaved? Be honest.
@@maccmoses sorry just randomly read your reply. i dont have kids so i cant tell.anyway i agree many people (even including myself) would be better of in case they d have been raised a little "tougher".
yet, its a trade off. as said studies confirm, physical punishment decreases the degree of openness, agreeableness and general trust in people. you may argue its for the kid's best if it develops some kind of "scepticism" but again... different people have different approaches.
from my own experience...i would rather have been spanked sometimes than beeing talked to for hours about a misbehaviour of mine. a slap is easily executed, its quick but leaves the child without a proper understanding of the reason. .... a proper conversation takes times and more demanding for the parents....anyway from my point of view its absolutely worth it
@@rkb6783 the way you approach this conversation does not make your argument valid in any way :D apparently "disciplining" did not work out well for you
Studies done by people with an agenda. Everyone I know who grew up getting ass kick9ngs every once in a while are far better people. People need to know their not above getting their asses kicked.This is why we have a country full of cocky kids that feel their owed something for nothing.
@@conradglitza3077 Yeah if you "Turned out fine from spanking".
RIDDLE ME THIS(I had to make a Gotham reference)
Why do you justify hitting a child when there are better alternatives directly in front of your nose ?
Mrhayvengames I would like a response by tonight please
A father doesn't hit his kids.
I thank Mom for every beating I had in childhood whenever I deviated and acted without morals or ethics. She made me strong and not a fragile spoiled brat like those nowadays. I love you Mom for bringing me to life, feeding me, clothing me, selling your gold for my education and taking care of me every single step in my life. Now that you are old and weak it is time to pay back, take care of you and show you how much love I have for you. You are the only Rose in my garden and no woman will ever replace you... In my religion we are taught that heaven is under her feet so believers in god or not make sure to take care of your mom's folks.
Spankings are abuse. There are better ways to discipline children such as timeouts and groundings and going to bed early. Those are kinds of discipline methods I got.
@@singalingalongaling Nope I disagree those did not work out no grounding no consultations nothing for me I did very bad things and was so uncontrollable and if it was not for her I would have been in prison by now instead she created a better person who takes care of her and all others for only a handful amount of spankings she never did that up until the day when I was around 10 to stop me for strangling my sis. Thank you mother for saving me investing your youth in me and teaching me how to love myself and others job well done
@@omarfthoaib8749 Because the modern parenting was not done properly!