How My Luxury Lifestyle Started!

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  • How my luxury lifestyle started! I share with you the entire story of how I began my journey in the elite circles & what was the beginning of my many years of jet-setting. If you want to know more, join my FREE workshop by visiting fabulousfutureformula.com/ Hurry up to register before doors close!
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  • @RauhaPaulus
    @RauhaPaulus 4 года назад +3207

    For the first time I feel at home. I don''t feel judged for liking the finer things in life. I love the platform you have created.

    • @warrior9760
      @warrior9760 4 года назад +2

      Hi

    • @jessicadaaa9297
      @jessicadaaa9297 4 года назад +5

      So true same !

    • @senzyndlovu2292
      @senzyndlovu2292 4 года назад +19

      I get so comfortable here 😌😌😌😌

    • @kennedyjazzy
      @kennedyjazzy 4 года назад +57

      YES SIS! The world tries to make it seem like this horrible thing that a woman wants a good life! I say to that “ BYE AND NEXT”

    • @xeniastephenson8076
      @xeniastephenson8076 4 года назад +39

      Yes I always feel out of place in the world because how I want to live ppl see it as selfish and greedy but I'm glad someone else feels the same

  • @ErikaMartinez-od1jr
    @ErikaMartinez-od1jr 4 года назад +3361

    I don't see why so many are criticizing her. She likes the luxurious lifestyle don't act like you wouldn't want that if you could have it too.

  • @yourfunsister
    @yourfunsister 5 лет назад +4468

    A word of caution about extremely wealthy men. They like to control. Not necessarily in an abusive way, or intentionally abusive. But they are accustomed to getting what they want. There is a price to pay when you rely on someone financially. They own you until you find a replacement. Dating a wealthy man or woman is fine. But maintain your independence. Make your own money and rely on yourself. Enjoy your wealthy partner if that person treats you with kindness and respect. But do not rely on them.

    • @goldengalsclazy
      @goldengalsclazy 5 лет назад +152

      Preach it sister! This is very true! This is why some rich divorcees end up either losing all of their $ because they themselves didn't have their own $, or have other financial resources at their disposal.

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 5 лет назад +86

      That's why you have to hustle them and play the game back duh!

    • @EmpressofChrist
      @EmpressofChrist 5 лет назад +89

      You're not falling in love you are enjoying his money and being his wife so you can get his life insurance!

    • @tianamiller6820
      @tianamiller6820 5 лет назад +411

      This could also apply to poor, broke men. A lot of them are insecure and have low self esteem therefore they take that anger out on their spouses and become emotionally and physically abusive. The average, everyday man isn't necessarily going to treat you better than a rich, wealthy man.

    • @silviasilver51
      @silviasilver51 5 лет назад +160

      @@tianamiller6820 Right? A smart woman always has a secret stash and knows all the secrets in her man's life so that if he would ever be a threat to her or kids she can actually fight against him. Rich people have to care about their reputation. A kept woman is smart y'all.

  • @user-gn4le3pb2b
    @user-gn4le3pb2b 4 года назад +591

    “Travel far enough. You meet yourself.”

  • @jodiemagbutay7549
    @jodiemagbutay7549 5 лет назад +3064

    She's honest, I like her a lot.

    • @beigelover95
      @beigelover95 5 лет назад +13

      love her so much

    • @glendagonzalez9038
      @glendagonzalez9038 5 лет назад +15

      Beautiful, charming and honest.

    • @Ru-gv2if
      @Ru-gv2if 5 лет назад +14

      @jodie magbutay
      I agree. Another part of her appeal is her honesty. Very refreshing and real!

    • @miamanning7871
      @miamanning7871 4 года назад +6

      I like her but it’s not what I teach my daughter.. although respect anyone’s perspective or opinion

    • @avera6724
      @avera6724 4 года назад +3

      Yes, i like her a lot too.

  • @paragonpartners2058
    @paragonpartners2058 4 года назад +1783

    The summary is: Be a pretty girl, hang out in rich environments, and meet rich people. This is an age-old formula, and nothing wrong with it. However, nothing beats making your own money.

    • @dianprasetyo104
      @dianprasetyo104 4 года назад +7

      Paragon Partners true

    • @EmilyDickmesome
      @EmilyDickmesome 4 года назад +269

      I do both. And I don't wanna meet just "rich people" in general. I wanna meet high quality people and esp men. Class is lacking sooo much these days.

    • @dianprasetyo104
      @dianprasetyo104 4 года назад +15

      EP lmao who tf you think you are?

    • @EmilyDickmesome
      @EmilyDickmesome 4 года назад +82

      Dian Prasetyo Why would I tell you? You don't even know me lol

    • @dianprasetyo104
      @dianprasetyo104 4 года назад +12

      EP you said “class is lacking sooo much these days” is like you are above all of this people..

  • @rosegarcia2371
    @rosegarcia2371 5 лет назад +2961

    I agree, when a guy treats you like a queen it is hard to put up with cheapos after......

    • @lessandra602
      @lessandra602 5 лет назад +4

      Rose Garcia lol 🤣

    • @belizepassion2602
      @belizepassion2602 5 лет назад +5

      Rose Garcia Amennnnnnnn!!!!!

    • @yanderdreams7489
      @yanderdreams7489 5 лет назад +4

      Exactly

    • @andiemorgan961
      @andiemorgan961 5 лет назад +97

      Why would one put up with "cheapos" in the first place? In the 21st century a woman should have the self esteem and confidence not to feel being single is a stimga and be free to select who they choose for a suitable partner.

    • @glendagonzalez9038
      @glendagonzalez9038 5 лет назад +5

      Very true.

  • @rachriri
    @rachriri 5 лет назад +1365

    You said that “if youre not a boring person people will like to talk to you” , can you do a video on how to be a “fun” person in a classy way?

    •  4 года назад +57

      Read and travel. Being able to talk about a multitude of topics will make it easier.

    • @wordsculpt
      @wordsculpt 4 года назад +25

      You might find it helpful to check out the work of Vanessa Van Williams. Start online to check her out, and look into her book Captivate. I checked out a copy from my local library. The name of the book tells you what it's about.

    • @misso1806
      @misso1806 3 года назад +26

      Can't remember where I heard this but I remember being told "to be interesting, be interested" people like to be asked about themselves.

    • @minnie6163
      @minnie6163 3 года назад +1

      @@misso1806 thats so good! I'll remember that !🌸

    • @veryconfused9768
      @veryconfused9768 3 года назад

      Yesss please

  • @cierarose7637
    @cierarose7637 5 лет назад +1671

    this is the perfect example of someone utilizing the law attraction and being truly limitless, i admire your courage

    • @betty179
      @betty179 5 лет назад +10

      Yes! I agree :)

    • @timotheecuisson7769
      @timotheecuisson7769 5 лет назад +19

      The law attraction doesn't exist. Have a nice day.

    • @sky_rae7062
      @sky_rae7062 5 лет назад +5

      New age teaching.

    • @katyh.2501
      @katyh.2501 4 года назад +27

      If she wasn’t beautiful the law of attraction wouldn’t work for her. Italian men love blonde girls, all nordic girls know this.

    • @katyh.2501
      @katyh.2501 4 года назад +1

      What made you think that she says the truth? These youtubers collect viewers for money.

  • @amandaanssari3446
    @amandaanssari3446 5 лет назад +473

    I'm also from Sweden and i did exactly the same thing and took that student loan and started a new chapter in London. Best decision of my life.

    • @mellowyellow532
      @mellowyellow532 4 года назад +19

      What a coinscidence, did exactly the same thing, before even finding her videos. I am from Germany and also now in London. Cool to see others do the same all around the world

    • @amandaanssari3446
      @amandaanssari3446 4 года назад +16

      @@mellowyellow532 it's been the best decision for me. Personally i would recommend anyone who's able to try and live in a different country. It gives people such great life experiences Hope you're finding London great and good luck.

    • @filmwiz7636
      @filmwiz7636 4 года назад +4

      @@mellowyellow532 you and @Amanda riz should meet!!

    • @amandaanssari3446
      @amandaanssari3446 3 года назад

      @@filmwiz7636 Would love that

    • @amandaanssari3446
      @amandaanssari3446 3 года назад +1

      @Kaity Torres haha really? its been three years for me and i am still happy about that decision. Excited to graduate and pay back the student loan as i work my dream job

  • @prettygurlrockx
    @prettygurlrockx 4 года назад +626

    I’ve been told by guys that my standards are too high and that I’ll never meet anyone who meets my expectations. That I’ll end up alone. I’ve even been shamed for it and I was starting to think that maybe my standards were unrealistic... But finding your channel has helped me to say “Screw you!” Now I know they were just saying these things because they knew they could never be on my level so they tried to bring me down to theirs

    • @catclelland2447
      @catclelland2447 4 года назад +30

      Pretty Gurl Rock yup. Stick to your standards

    • @joseph4star
      @joseph4star 4 года назад +13

      Loads of idiots like you with fat heads and big ideas and will end up as single and old spinsters because nobody was good enough Ive seen it happen to so many its the karma they deserve,

    • @irenekay7934
      @irenekay7934 4 года назад +11

      You will end up alone eventually

    • @user-oq9ks3hc3h
      @user-oq9ks3hc3h 4 года назад +45

      joseph4star who hurt you?

    • @judithra
      @judithra 4 года назад +8

      You just described my life

  • @rashak9697
    @rashak9697 4 года назад +694

    You girls from the western world are so lucky to have the choice to travel alone , i’m from Saudi Arabia and we do travel every year but as a family off course, so you are not allowed to talk to strangers especially men . I would prefer to be poor but free to explore the rather than to be rich and stuck . All the love for you anna from Saudi Arabia. Your videos are amazing ❤️❤️

    • @janejones3847
      @janejones3847 4 года назад +13

      with a. I dont know anything about your country,YES it's TRUE over hear ,,where life actualy begins!we beautiful women in the western world are not shackled or caged up and forced into cultural prison like practices,,,like the rest of this dirty backward planet,, our lives are lived ,healthy beautiful and carefree we are protected in our society,, with endless options for our successful lives and careers as American familys with peace of mind you know it really sucks,,,if your born on the complete wrong side of the planet chow!

    • @janejones3847
      @janejones3847 4 года назад +3

      In Alot of foreign countrys all they have to do to actually get a head in history ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,(drum roll) for ounce is,,, simply copy America piece by peice our towns citys economy ,neighborhoods entertainment language dialect gov.constiution bill of rights American culture food clothes etc.. .. instead they continue to choose to live in primitive backward going nowhere fast sht-ole countrys and will be forever sucking Americas tail dust!

    • @wacekemwaura6998
      @wacekemwaura6998 4 года назад

      Can you kindly Whatsapp me please +254701582431

    • @snowyskylar8821
      @snowyskylar8821 3 года назад +19

      Christ is king

    • @mercury_rising
      @mercury_rising 3 года назад +83

      Wow, what horrible responses to your comment. Shows all the non-classy women from the West. Hope they learn some manners from these videos!

  • @Hebe20
    @Hebe20 5 лет назад +2171

    I really don’t get the negative comments ... she is amazing .. most honest women I’ve ever seen ..and by the way she is teaching you to be elegant ..act elegant and be your best ...look at the big picture ladies ..

    • @ulaszostkowska8127
      @ulaszostkowska8127 5 лет назад +18

      What big picture? Glorified housewife she is.

    • @SS-bu8ez
      @SS-bu8ez 5 лет назад +90

      @@ulaszostkowska8127 What's wrong with that? Being a housewife is hard work. You have to do all the chores and take care of the kids all day and night without pay or appreciation from the ones you do so much for. As for rich families, they often don't allow the wives to work. Because if the wives have to work then they are not rich enough. It's embarrassing for them.

    • @1216miriam
      @1216miriam 5 лет назад +49

      The negativity comes from jalousy hehe

    • @annalisa14
      @annalisa14 5 лет назад +21

      Ula Szostkowska - what are YOU, Ula... an UN glorified housewife ??

    • @fred1783
      @fred1783 5 лет назад +2

      Act elegant? I’m from Rome. We love swedish tourists in here when they come for vacation. They are very elegant on their knees when their mouth is full hahahaha

  • @elbartova9297
    @elbartova9297 5 лет назад +945

    She is the perfect example of woman who takes responsibility for her future and cares about her dreams. This is a goal. No matter who says what i admire her for having the guts to do what her heart was telling her.❤

    • @jankarvala385
      @jankarvala385 4 года назад +8

      She is example ofnbeautifull young girl , who doesnt want to work so just spreading legs for better lifestyle, nothing anyone should admire. However im thankfull she share her story, coz now i see its sofisticated calculated game, i always thought its incosiouness

    • @lightningxx2213
      @lightningxx2213 4 года назад +1

      @@jankarvala385 ooof. So what? Get off her channel.

    • @irenekay7934
      @irenekay7934 4 года назад +1

      @@jankarvala385 very true

  • @tg7112
    @tg7112 5 лет назад +1370

    Everyone talking about her preaching about getting a man to pay your bills... Did you even listen to her?😖😖. She's talking about breaking out of your self/society inflicted cage, getting yourself a fresh strong pair of wings and flying to the unknown till you start to live your best life..which ever way you define it.
    She's talking self love, and somewhat owning yourself and your life. Not only in this video but in others too. The hateful comments are clearly from struggling people with issues and they have missed the whole point.
    Je t'adore Anna...You are inspiring.

    • @tg7112
      @tg7112 5 лет назад +7

      @Sylvia FavorExactly!!

    • @sandianbc8732
      @sandianbc8732 5 лет назад +15

      Amen sister. Like i haven't seen any billionaires complaining here😂😂😂

    • @shontzukeoy813
      @shontzukeoy813 4 года назад +4

      she's an amazing, independent and vision-driven woman who doesn't need a whiny man who can't take care of himself. She deserves an equal partner. I love her.

    • @carolinemwangi3619
      @carolinemwangi3619 4 года назад +1

      You have said it better, as an expart in Dubai I wish I watched this long time ago

    • @totit_t1445
      @totit_t1445 3 года назад +1

      @@carolinemwangi3619 Are you from Kenya?

  • @Mimi-gj1fq
    @Mimi-gj1fq 4 года назад +85

    I met a guy who treated me like a queen couple of months ago & honestly after that i jus cant accept anything less..i just cant n refuse to

  • @claudiakuit313
    @claudiakuit313 5 лет назад +156

    Wow feels like i hear myself talking! I left Holland for Paris when I was 19 years old. I love the freedom, walking in the streets, reading books in the park. Best time of my life!!

    • @anyapi987
      @anyapi987 4 года назад +5

      Paris is an arab city nowdays. Totally not worth it.
      Better go to Lisbon and meet high class there.

    • @anastaciarabelomelo
      @anastaciarabelomelo 4 года назад +4

      done that in Munich, best years of my life.

  • @sarahsmile2883
    @sarahsmile2883 5 лет назад +1216

    A country that is generous with student loans and encourages you to travel and love life, not just be a slave to the system? Wow what a novel idea.

    • @PreppyHeiress26
      @PreppyHeiress26 5 лет назад +111

      Countries outside of the U.S. that have socialism permanently embedded in their democracy allow for life like this.

    • @merituulia1370
      @merituulia1370 5 лет назад +33

      I honestly quite doubt that she really had a ''student loan'' for a language course abroad... something smells like fish

    • @Snitchich
      @Snitchich 5 лет назад +211

      Merituulia I am from Norway and we actually do have student loan for everything. You can basically get a student loan for taking sailing courses, traveling, language courses in Bali, Australia or wherever. She is not lying.

    • @ninninin656
      @ninninin656 5 лет назад +34

      @@PreppyHeiress26 Sweden isn't a socialist state, lol.

    • @isobel64
      @isobel64 5 лет назад +26

      @@velvetvascular8085 in what US is student loan easy? gtfo with the lies. They deny you on your parent's salary

  • @elisasierrabruno2428
    @elisasierrabruno2428 5 лет назад +204

    It's not easy to leave your contry, no matter the age. She is very brave.

    • @kateoc8
      @kateoc8 3 года назад +1

      Easy as you make it unless you live in a misogynistic dictatorship. Just takes guts, some funding, and planning. I'd rather spend on travel than a flashy car or two, excessive makeup, jewellery, fast food etc etc....I live kind of frugally just so I can do this because it's the greatest thrill to me, not pointless consumerism. E.g. 5 years ago I travelled to the South of France and had a wild time around the Cote d'azur, on a shoestring, getting a great deal on a hire car, and exploring the area. I stayed in euro camp chalets and small, family run guesthouses. St Tropez was possibly the most wonderful , affluent, yet welcoming place I have ever been to. But that's because I made sure I dressed appropriately, know how to interact socially, and speak mediocre French! You can do it if you want to, dont let anyone dissuade you!

    • @alaaaaa4132
      @alaaaaa4132 3 года назад

      free the fears

  • @janetlis2613
    @janetlis2613 4 года назад +19

    I went to a private school and learned all the manners Anne is teaching. The problem was when you go out in the world people do not have manners and it is frustrating. But she is correct.

  • @carichung9292
    @carichung9292 5 лет назад +2044

    This is soo funny to me, but it is actually true. Although I met my millionaire ex in South Korea while I was doing my masters, and we lasted three years. It is good an all, but nothing tops having your own money and paying for your own stuff without having to ask anyone. Even inviting him meals or give him gifts once in a while. Do not meet people just cause of money, rich people are humans too and they often have more miserable lives than us mortals.

    • @thegiftedseer6764
      @thegiftedseer6764 5 лет назад +47

      So why are you even on this video???

    • @everydayculinarywithcyndyj5658
      @everydayculinarywithcyndyj5658 5 лет назад +109

      Carina Chung you NEVER dated a REALLY Rich guy or were you ever in the Circle because if you were, you’ll understand that to have “Your own money” you need to be around the RICH AND INFLUENTIAL as a woman you have more advantage to do so. All powerful people had HELP social networking and all. Except you want to work and toil and sweat in vain fir the rest of your life, you need contacts and connections to grow. Get real hon

    • @petersmith2040
      @petersmith2040 5 лет назад +67

      @@everydayculinarywithcyndyj5658 Exactly. Wealthy people have good connections all over the world and they like to help each other in order to get things done easily be it in business, political influence in order to pass certain laws for their own advantages, or even matchmaking to other wealthy families to marry for them to preserve their fortunes.

    • @everydayculinarywithcyndyj5658
      @everydayculinarywithcyndyj5658 5 лет назад +58

      C S Anna bey is SMART and WISE that’s why I’m watching her video. She gets it...she understands what it is to step up and want the best from life.
      But the lady who was doing her Masters needs to understand, I know many INTELLIGENT BROKE GIRLS OR WOMEN. Your intelligence means nothing if you don’t add “The worldly knowledge to it” Your Masters degree will give you a good life yes! But what quality of life? If you are content with a $100,000 a year salary then this video is not FOR YOU. But if you DESIRE MORE FROM LIFE and are PATIENT AND WISE enough to OPEN YOUR MIND AND PREPARE YOURSELF FOR THE BEST LIFE HAS TO GIVE, then this video is for YOU. Watch the lives of extra ordinary women like Coco Chanel you’ll see most of her success came from CONNECTIONS. So my darling...you need Wealthy people in your life if you want to be next wealthy person.

    • @iamlakesivad4675
      @iamlakesivad4675 5 лет назад +19

      @@petersmith2040 she could have been a sugarbaby. They dont care if you have money or jobs they just want you to be attractive, fun, and intimate.

  • @gubbimari4112
    @gubbimari4112 3 года назад +43

    Thank you so much for this Video, loads of love to you ... My little story: I was born in a small town in India. Studied really hard till 18 years. Then got medicine seat but had no money or courage to take huge bank loans. However took some loan and studied my Engineering Degree. Was among top 5 in the class. I couldn’t have fun cos I had no money, just worked as part time teacher after college to have pocket money. After Under graduation got job as a Software Developer. My life changed. Then found my now husband who was already in Germany ( he is Indian ) . Came to Germany at the age of 25 finding job on my own, got married at 26 , I’m still on Independent Visa Status working as Software Developer in Germany . I am proud of my journey. Just put in the work n be courageous, life will bless you with all you want.

  • @isobel64
    @isobel64 5 лет назад +228

    I love partying without the drinks and drugs too! I dont understand people who cant enjoy clubs without both

    • @dinisibiya7493
      @dinisibiya7493 3 года назад

      Me too...ask again

    • @icetea8751
      @icetea8751 3 года назад

      Same

    • @vanefreja86
      @vanefreja86 3 года назад +1

      I don't even like clubs. Was on one for 30 min. once - I rushed out!

  • @Angelina-eh1ct
    @Angelina-eh1ct 5 лет назад +114

    If I had a daughter, I really would tell her to be picky to your first boyfriend, because this person will change your personality.
    I am happy for you! Nothing wrong with chasing and creating the influent lifestyle as long as you work on it and know how to protect yourself.

    • @Eirlys0104
      @Eirlys0104 Год назад

      How will the first bf change a girls personality??

  • @Prissified
    @Prissified 5 лет назад +460

    I'm moving to LA in a couple of months. I basically know no one there, so this story really gave me confidence in my plans. I'm going to be more outgoing, start my own business and pursue my dreams. Thank you so much!

  • @Nadia-18
    @Nadia-18 4 года назад +137

    I really love how genuine you are. I'm a normal traditionnal gal went to university, working, living life and never stop learning. I never let any man pay for me as I thought I needed to be a feminist and accomplish it all by myself. But when I saw your videos, I understood that I had such a narrow point of view on how a feminist should be. You are an example to us all, you wanted a specific kind of life, you went for it and you got it. I am more than proud to see women like that. You are to me, a true feminist. Not all feminists are the same, and you are a great example of that. I love it.

  • @rubabkhan5839
    @rubabkhan5839 5 лет назад +575

    All these hate comments in here and I'm just admiring her journey and how she got where she is.

    • @carolynsuhor354
      @carolynsuhor354 5 лет назад +9

      Definitely. On the internet people are rediculious and hateful. Glad she is above that. Thanks for sharing your story.

    • @annalisa14
      @annalisa14 5 лет назад +6

      sanam husain - you are right. So many women just crumble and follow traditions and lose their good years, and therefore, their lives...
      To do what Anna is doing takes planning and brains, AND some struggle. Any time you break tradition, you are up against fearful ones who criticize you ruthlessly, because they secretly are ashamed of their cowardliness to try doing the same...

    • @favoritevideos6940
      @favoritevideos6940 5 лет назад +2

      Hello Rubab Khan
      Good Music
      1 second ago
      So, because someone has an alternative view to her "method" of living the jet set life makes them a "hater"? You may admire her, and that is your privilege, it's also other people's privilege to express feeling uncomfortable with her climbing the social ladder by looking for wealthy men. However, to each their own. She has put herself on this social platform, and not everyone will agree with her. I didn't notice anyone saying they hate her, or threaten her, or call her bad names, etc.
      I tried out this channel, and won't be wasting any more of my time here, because it's not for me. I don't hate her. I feel sorry for her. I hope amidst all her strategic quests for high society and wealth she will one day find true love - even if the guy is not a millionaire, lol.

    • @irinaiacob8833
      @irinaiacob8833 5 лет назад +4

      I don't think being a sugar baby is something to admire. In this video she basically said she was a sugar baby. I have nothing against sugar babies or sugar daddies. If you're a sugar baby, make sure you invest the money you get - invest in yourself, in your future (by getting a diploma, buying an apartment/house you can rent to others, to have money coming in.) And also be smart about the agreement you have with your sponsor - write things down, if you must.

    • @michellerjackson5776
      @michellerjackson5776 4 года назад

      Very VERY INSPIRING 👏👏👏👏

  • @TheT74
    @TheT74 5 лет назад +286

    Hypergamy is how it’s always been done. What’s the first thing parents ask when you bring a man home? “Does he have a job ?! “

    • @starrix4712
      @starrix4712 4 года назад +30

      Exactly, I’m not even allowed to bring a broke man home so don’t shoot me, if you want to complain then preach to a complex survivalist system haha

    • @liemh9290
      @liemh9290 4 года назад +6

      No Job, 7 figure bank account ok? ;D

    • @briana14333
      @briana14333 3 года назад

      Right!

    • @itssashaax7457
      @itssashaax7457 3 года назад +5

      they’re right for that because why would you want a man with no job, why would you want to be the only person in the relationship that’s financially stable...

    • @jifeak
      @jifeak 3 года назад +6

      "Does he have a job?" is NOT hypergamy. You have a job, he should have one too. That's just being a responsible adult.

  • @DinaStrange
    @DinaStrange 5 лет назад +94

    For me personally, I am attracted to intelligence. And a lot of really smart guys tend to be well off. But if a guy is a jerk, no amount of money can make me like him or stay with him. It's all about how he treats me. I had been proposed by wealthy guys - but the price tag was too much for me. It was his control over me.
    I don't do well with coercion, I don't do well with manipulation and I don't do well with arrogance. Overall, I think a woman should have her hobbies, her own career or ability that she develops and a man should help her grow her talents same as she will push him for more.

    • @moats7788
      @moats7788 5 лет назад +1

      Dina Strange yea he looks down on you bc of his money

    • @Nonie_Mnisi
      @Nonie_Mnisi 4 года назад

      You broke down everything I am. ✌🏽

  • @anabellik
    @anabellik 5 лет назад +285

    I did lots of travelling and nice (let's say luxurious) things thanks to my hard work. I also used to have a rich boyfriend, who would sometimes pay for our travels. In comparison, I have to say, everything tastes 10 times better when you know you achieved them yourself. When something is paid for you, you feel like it's not really your experiences and you don't have 100% right to enjoy them. And then, rich boyfriend can break up with you any day. If you are good at something, your work and abilities are not likely to disappear suddenly.

    • @emilywang7686
      @emilywang7686 5 лет назад +5

      anabellik I totally agree with you.

    • @PeggyRoses
      @PeggyRoses 4 года назад

      You are so right 👉

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  • @kwailcamp
    @kwailcamp 5 лет назад +122

    It's a good thing that you didn't grow up in Jamaica. Then you have to be affluent to think about travelling at 19. We have to get our butts to University before the money runs out😂😂😂

  • @styliciabowden8682
    @styliciabowden8682 3 года назад +16

    Personal fulfillment is all about taking a risk to live the life of your dreams. At the age of 19 I dropped out of college because it wasn't for me & left to travel around the world by joining the military. I took a risk & it changed my life tremendously. My first duty station was Iceland...and that was the beginning of my international lifestyle.
    Love this video

  • @noogy8020
    @noogy8020 5 лет назад +275

    Learn to make money. Get tickets for business seminars. Invest in your knowledge. This is the easiest way for anyone (fat, tall, short...) to be around rich people. If you're just investing in your look/appearance, then you're playing short- term game.

  • @ellaaa2612
    @ellaaa2612 5 лет назад +246

    Ah I think I’m at this stage where I love the finer things in life and acting more classy and ladylike! I used to be such a tomboy and go out partying but I’m starting to realise how the luxury life is great quality but also be humble, kind and elegant

    • @dlightfulheiress
      @dlightfulheiress 5 лет назад

      ellaaa well said 👏

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      @Dietxcokex00 5 лет назад

      @M.C.Honey Rose well that's obvious

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  • @bea8140
    @bea8140 2 года назад +2

    I always travelled alone.I was 18 when I left for London, later I lived in Rome and Athens.Now I'm married and I live in Canada, those were the best years of my life.

  • @sunkissedcoco9393
    @sunkissedcoco9393 4 года назад +46

    My parent’s and grandma literally raised me to be elegant lady and love the finer things in life. But even though
    they taught me those values I always did my own thing. My grandma would always encourage me to buy dresses and jewelry! A true elegant woman forreal! I took her for granted but I’m glad she’s still here to see me blossom lol. Now that I’m in my mid twenties going into my late 20s (which is insaneeeee) I’ve dealt with life and ppl I realized I’m not as much of a hippie as I thought and my mind body and soul is craving to be around nice things and people bc that’s just how I grew up. And there’s nothing wrong with that. Im planning on moving to a new state by my birthday and I’m excited to create a brand new life for myself! I always found luck in meeting the right people in my current city. And I’m sure Ill keep that luck lol. This video has inspired me even more to step out of my comfort zone.

  • @shirleyshine1285
    @shirleyshine1285 5 лет назад +264

    When I was younger,I squashed tons of opportunities to have that luxury lifestyle ,because of "what people would think of me"
    At the end of the day,I got into college and
    became a Biochemist, I regret every bit of it since I would have gone for and I International relations and Communications.
    The funny part of it all was, I left home earlier at 12 to boarding school till 17.
    So,I had all the tools, friends,mates,resources to prepare me for jet-setting life but that mindset of what people would think of me was a huge factor that I still regret till present.

    • @annalisa14
      @annalisa14 5 лет назад +7

      SHIRLEY Shine - love 💕 your honesty

    • @interlene
      @interlene 5 лет назад +22

      Shirley Shine, life's a journey, learn from your experiences and move on, if that lifestyle was meant to be for you, you would have had it. You could have easily open to someone and they would have helped you see that your thinking was wrong, but it did not happen and there is a reason for it. Love and Peace to your heart.

    • @ms.x1669
      @ms.x1669 4 года назад +5

      I love your honesty too

    • @drfaithabraham
      @drfaithabraham 4 года назад +10

      Stop regretting and start jet setting! You still have time 💜

    • @klover7890
      @klover7890 4 года назад +1

      Thank you

  • @rkwayne
    @rkwayne 7 месяцев назад +3

    I am currently 16 years old. Watching this validates my feelings because, just like you, I can’t see myself enjoying a life that is only full of studying. I am very ambitious. Growing up in a financially unstable household, I have always wished to live a luxurious life. I want a life that I know is too much, but will pay for the life I didn’t get to experience. I hope, when I get older, I get the courage to take a risk, just like how you did. Thank you for this!

    • @Ash_Queen16
      @Ash_Queen16 4 месяца назад

      I wish you all the best ❤❤

  • @silvacleo329
    @silvacleo329 4 года назад +266

    I'm very glad that these experiences turn up to be positive for you, but girls still need to be very carefully, especially in a foreign countries.
    There's a human trafficking and all kind of a perverts that gladly, will take advantage of trusting and an innocent or an inexperienced girl or a woman!

    • @chanakyan-thewiseman5707
      @chanakyan-thewiseman5707 4 года назад +6

      Correct

    • @apranabanana8738
      @apranabanana8738 4 года назад +13

      Definitely. There is alot of sex trafficking where I live and loans etc are NOT generously given here. You can't even hang out on your own in my country before you get robbed or raped. Also...even with good jobs we can't afford luxury lifestyles or to travel to seek it. If you come from a broken family like I did - your chances of making are already limited due to finances and exposure. There are girls who do what is advised - be elegant, hang out in rich places and get with rich guys who take care of them. I chose to focus on my education as it was a more secure path to follow in taking care of myself and my family. Scoring a rich man is one thing...it's a next to keep them interested in just you. I like Anna though and it's fun listening to her and dressing tips etc but I definitely can't devote my life to attaining this lifestyle esp with my job and hobbies.

    • @silvacleo329
      @silvacleo329 4 года назад

      @@apranabanana8738 👍
      where u from?

    • @apranabanana8738
      @apranabanana8738 4 года назад +3

      @@silvacleo329 Trinidad and Tobago

    • @silvacleo329
      @silvacleo329 4 года назад +1

      @@apranabanana8738 oh wow! Nice! 🙂

  • @lipikascorpion894
    @lipikascorpion894 5 лет назад +117

    A lot of people might criticize her in ways, but this is the reality, accept it or not. She is just introducing you to the real world where the importance of elegance, affluence, class is too much..I really appreciate your work, thank you for sharing your experience.

  • @lucybraun2963
    @lucybraun2963 5 лет назад +20

    I did the same thing. No one I knew wanted to travel, so I left all by myself, on a student loan. It didn't really put me on a jet set path, but it definitely broadened my perspective. 15 foreign countries and almost all the states later, and I'm not a jet setter, but it is so easy to talk with people I don't know. The thing is to just keep moving on, but with purpose.

    • @carl3819
      @carl3819 5 лет назад +3

      What do you even talk about with strangers? Business? Politics? History about the country?

  • @nicrose3500
    @nicrose3500 5 лет назад +275

    I have zero judgment when it comes to the sugar baby lifestyle. I even crave it. However, I think a woman shouldn’t 100% depend on a man for money, a rich man would be a great additive to your life, not the main only source of income.

  • @susanholler2128
    @susanholler2128 3 года назад +3

    Do you have any recommendations for an older lady who wants to have a more elegant life. I’m a retired teacher, but I want life to get better. I don’t want to fade away.

  • @he2769
    @he2769 4 года назад +31

    And I went to Italy all alone to study medicine, only 18 years old.

    • @danberryy
      @danberryy 3 года назад +3

      May I ask how was it, how did you apply and how was your experience? Who helped you while in Italy? Financially etc..

  • @user-bh6is8yl8n
    @user-bh6is8yl8n 5 лет назад +83

    I am from Sweden and love seeing a Swedish youtuber. I have been looking for a page just like this as Europeans have a lot of class and speak with authority but not exaggeration with like many Americans! Thank you Anna 💕
    “Drinking beers and sitting on the pavement.” Love this! 😂

  • @microman99
    @microman99 5 лет назад +31

    This is inspiring!
    I'm 19 now, still struggling with what I want to do everyday, hopefully able to figure it out before it's too late.

  • @luvmelove5742
    @luvmelove5742 4 года назад +25

    Wow girl! I took my kids walking to our nearest coffee shop that’s a 1.5 miles away from my house and I felt so empowering lol 😂

  • @TheMisscostaa
    @TheMisscostaa 4 года назад +7

    I am an architecture student and I am so happy about what I am doing ! University is so important ! Older I will have money and buy things by my own without asking a men. I am also learning so much and, it is more interesting than sitting in coffees !

  • @armetta99
    @armetta99 5 лет назад +31

    Please tell the story about Ibiza!! I've always wanted this lifestyle but I feel like people shame it and call it materialistic... I just want to enjoy life for what it is. So happy I found this channel!!

  • @JudyNepune
    @JudyNepune 5 лет назад +30

    I also always use the law of attraction, i manifest miracles daily and am able to help people with my self-growth! I manifested my youtube subscribers, a viral video, being a motivational speaker at my university, a healthy family, great relationship and happiness ❤️❤️ it's always important to listen to your gut too!!

  • @daria504
    @daria504 3 года назад +20

    Can't stress enough how important is to travel when you're in your twenties or even later, but move somewhere where you don't know anybody, I did Erasmus as a student and then moved to that city after all alone without having a plan. I met so many interesting people, I was outgoing, positive, and had so much fun. I am not after rich men but my story is similar to Anna's as I met a rich boy as well and we had so much fun and it was just an unforgettable experience, as I truly lived in the moment and learned so much about myself and especially how to be independent and how sweet is independence for a young woman as you get to explore so much. I was smiling all along with the video as it made me remember my own experience and I can relate so much to the vibe thing since you really have to be open and positive and a little bit adventorous and things will happen to you. Thank you Anna for sharing! :)

  • @melinahamezos8951
    @melinahamezos8951 3 года назад +32

    Finally someone that owns they like the finer things in life! I am the same way, but I am afraid at times of revealing it because I don’t want people to think I’m stuck up. Moral of the story: Be true to yourself 😁

  • @margauxperel5278
    @margauxperel5278 5 лет назад +115

    how did you deal with self-confidence back then? was that easy to you to get close to rich men?

    • @radhiadeedou8286
      @radhiadeedou8286 4 года назад +29

      Rich men and beautiful young women will always be comfortable with each other

    • @pseudonamed
      @pseudonamed 3 месяца назад

      When you’re beautiful you’re used to getting attention of quality men, it leads to greater confidence

  • @prjeva
    @prjeva 5 лет назад +33

    I traveled to Italy by myself when I was younger not to relocate but vacation. Just that did changed me and I came back so inspired what she said is totally true great video

  • @lesleyrobertson5465
    @lesleyrobertson5465 10 месяцев назад +2

    I went to Dubai by myself and I felt free alive

  • @Jasminesj569
    @Jasminesj569 5 лет назад +60

    Love to see your videos, i learn a lot teach Thai lady by your content. Thank you very much

  • @rebeccacarraway480
    @rebeccacarraway480 5 лет назад +380

    AMEN about 18-yr olds taking on loads of debt to go to school to learn to do something for the next 50 years. Your BODY isn’t even finished growing til your mid-20s. Who ever thought this was a good idea??

    • @hazelbaby8081
      @hazelbaby8081 5 лет назад +44

      thank you, i’m 18 and i haven’t started college because i have no clue what i want to do but i will figure it out

    • @rebeccacarraway480
      @rebeccacarraway480 5 лет назад +45

      Amanda Johnson I don’t know how kids these days deal. Maybe work and take some classes. It’s a hell of a lot to expect of an 18yo. Bless your heart. I found my calling when I was 32 and already had a 4 year degree. Just explore your options, do kooky stuff that you think you may hate (you may LOVE it), and save save save. Go overseas. Do charity work. Do charity work overseas. WHATEVER lol!! Find your you and your niche. Good luck and Godspeed!

    • @rebeccacarraway480
      @rebeccacarraway480 5 лет назад

      T South THAT!!! What he said!!!

    • @KDbelieves
      @KDbelieves 5 лет назад +58

      I wish someone told me that.
      I went straight to college after graduating despite not knowing what I wanted to do. To top it off, my crazy manipulative dad tampered with my brown university acceptance letter so I missed the chance to go to a really good school. I ended up failing my first year of school because I was so miserable. Then I took a year off. I'm 2 years late to graduate because of this. I'm 22 now. I have no idea what to do with my life, but one thing I know is I'm done listening to my unsuccessful parents tell me how to be successful.

    • @wendyisafarmer
      @wendyisafarmer 5 лет назад +33

      I started college at 17, finished my degree in the traditional 4 years, and have been in my dream career ever since. It does work for some people, but I totally agree that if it's not for you, no shame in going to college later, or not st all!

  • @sashapalma2033
    @sashapalma2033 5 лет назад +355

    this might be a personal question but I thought this video was going to be more about how you attained your luxury lifestyles? how do you generate income to maintain a luxury lifestyle?

    • @tammieparrishmiller3669
      @tammieparrishmiller3669 5 лет назад +77

      @@peachyme1401 You are so rude.

    • @rushdialrashed9627
      @rushdialrashed9627 5 лет назад +60

      Tia Randle exactly. How else?!

    • @bunnybaby975
      @bunnybaby975 5 лет назад +68

      Tammie Parrish Miller how is that rude ? That’s literally what a bunch are girls do

    • @bunnybaby975
      @bunnybaby975 5 лет назад +31

      Gina Reynolds they aren’t getting pimped they are escorting .

    • @SometimeAgo65
      @SometimeAgo65 5 лет назад +21

      @@bunnybaby975 Right, that's what I meant to say 😉

  • @meenturt
    @meenturt 4 года назад +18

    Such a classy lady. I love her positive vibe. So inspiring

  • @lorenadragoslavic9943
    @lorenadragoslavic9943 5 лет назад +16

    I totally understand when you are saying that you could be whoever you wanted to be. Moving into another country takes courage . That's what I did and I got to know myself and my capabilities. 👍👍

  • @MosesBarr
    @MosesBarr 5 лет назад +159

    Great Message here and story. I made a post the other day that stated "We were created to want nice things. A poverty mentality is not always about not having money but just being comfortable in a low state. God made us to like new things, new paths and new journeys with nice things." I love your story and I am encouraged.

    • @jorieriemann5518
      @jorieriemann5518 5 лет назад +3

      Gorgeous! Wonderful experience & I love your style.

    • @sarahsmile2883
      @sarahsmile2883 5 лет назад +8

      Where does it say in the Bible that God wants us to like new things?

    • @erinmichelle4804
      @erinmichelle4804 5 лет назад +4

      @@sarahsmile2883 the word does say that God wants us to be abundant and fruitful.

    • @deannalachelle9319
      @deannalachelle9319 5 лет назад +4

      Dojocho
      Correct...
      Jesus did overturn tables but it was in the TEMPLE!!! He said “you’ve turned my Fathers house into a house of thieves”.....
      God has no problem with us having money and nice things. It’s when we worship money.... Money is the root of all evil..
      people kill for money. Do anything for it.
      But, I suppose not everyone puts money above God. I know I don’t.

    • @francesheredia86
      @francesheredia86 5 лет назад +4

      @Dojocho Tell that to the televangelist.

  • @goldenrain87
    @goldenrain87 5 лет назад +18

    I can relate to that so much! My life changed so drastically after moving from Switzerland to London

  • @Uasila
    @Uasila 3 года назад +16

    I love how determined you are, and knowing what you want and just go for it!!!

  • @luisaso1109
    @luisaso1109 3 года назад +3

    I love watching her. She is not only an epitome of grace but she is intelligent and speaks so well. I admire Sweden for encouraging young people to see the world and find what they want in life. Love that!

  • @audry9660
    @audry9660 5 лет назад +12

    Admirable person because she is true to herself and dedicated to personal development, you can tell it runs deep. Thank you for passing your life experiences on to help others seek out their best life.

  • @mk8648
    @mk8648 5 лет назад +25

    I admire her confidence and wonderful tips. Beautiful intelligent girl. She appears very independent w/ insight to wealthy people’s life style. She has created nice relaxing life style for herself as well. All that is very impressive.
    Men’s reality is that No man is ever going to give you anything w/o wanting something back unless it’s your father. Even your father has expectations from you to make something out of yourself or to make him proud.
    Don’t allow these men to play with you unless you want to be man’s doll that he throws away after playing with it and perhaps pay some money or gifts etc to keep this doll around. Some rich guys are messed up, probably because they do get so many women throwing themselves at them directly or indirectly. Some of these girls are as young high schooler looking for sugar daddy (real experience of a friend who had to threaten pretending to call cops on this young girl who wouldnt stop trying to get close to him, wonder what kinda parents raise these kids). Intelligent rich guys do sort through and can figure out who’s after money & who wants to have guinue conmection. You or your parent worked all that hard only to get spouse or significantly other who got with you because of your money. That’s a shame!
    Being a doll to a man and being his queen are 2 different things. You don’t have to be the prettiest girl or the most popular to be the one he adores. Being wife/queen have different expectation then one men pay to play with! Stay classy ladies, keep your integrity!

  • @dreamergirl1140
    @dreamergirl1140 4 года назад +6

    I love your courage to move somewhere new without knowing anyone! That's what I did, and I've grown and learned so much in the year that I've even just been in a different state. It's made me more independent, more open to traveling, and more tolerant. You meet some incredible people and have some incredible experiences when you step outside of your comfort zone!

  • @foxtanii9056
    @foxtanii9056 5 лет назад +360

    Hahahah I thought you were Eastern European

    • @sudeeliferoglu6049
      @sudeeliferoglu6049 5 лет назад +140

      Fox Tanii she was born in estonia and then lived in the soviet union, after that her family moved to sweden

    • @foxtanii9056
      @foxtanii9056 5 лет назад +70

      @@sudeeliferoglu6049 thank u. That's why the mix of accent. I love it though.

    • @vi-kl1cc
      @vi-kl1cc 4 года назад +97

      I could immediately recognize a compatriot. Her younger pictures scream about it, her manner nowadays whispers the same thing to those who have ears. And it is also typical that she kind of misrepresents herself as someone from Sweden.

    • @larisa4809
      @larisa4809 4 года назад +20

      @@sobermind2374 И не только акцент, но и манеры

    • @vi-kl1cc
      @vi-kl1cc 4 года назад +20

      @@larisa4809 Да и менталитет:))

  • @dejatheeempath985
    @dejatheeempath985 3 года назад +10

    I wish I was as privileged as you were as a 19-year-old! But now that I look back I'm glad I didn't because I didn't have that mindset or confidence like you did. I'm still 25 years young and I intend to go after this lifestyle I've dreamed about my whole life 💞 Thank you for all your work!!!

    • @Ash_Queen16
      @Ash_Queen16 2 года назад

      Same! I’m 26 and I’ve gained confidence during my mid 20s compared to my early 20s and now I’m ready to explore my path in this world.

  • @aliciateresa9776
    @aliciateresa9776 3 года назад +11

    I have never felt at home where I am now and have a passion for travelling and exploring other cultures. I am so excited to go to other places around the world and meet new people :)

  • @halakhalid6390
    @halakhalid6390 3 года назад +5

    I definitely recommend having to live abroad on your own in your early 20's and you will thank yourself later. Thankfully I had the chance to be an exchange student in Germany for a year, lived my life to the fullest and travelled the world and I cannot thank myself enough for what that experience have molded me to choose wise decisions later.

  • @user-fd1zw3dz7g
    @user-fd1zw3dz7g 5 лет назад +26

    You are such a positive person, thank you for the video I really appreciate your honesty, I'm leaving my country in a week to do pretty much the same thing has you did 😊 you are an inspiration, I wish you a lot of happiness 🌹

  • @mk_4445
    @mk_4445 4 года назад +10

    This was very inspiring, I’m introverted and I barely leave my apt. You made me realize there’s nothing to be scared of. Thank you for sharing.

  • @millie-anngrenon1600
    @millie-anngrenon1600 5 лет назад +65

    I really do hope, us women, know that we can get the life that we want and deserve, without the help and the money of men. Achieving your goals, learning, and developing yourself as the successful person you which to be is way more rewarding than enjoying someone else’s money. (That being said it is just an opinion and I do like her videos about etiquette and fashion 🙃)

    • @TheVassit
      @TheVassit 4 года назад +8

      I cannot agree more - I watched this video and I'm like she talks about rich men as it is the only way for a woman to exist or to make a life for herself....that's just sad

    • @thandosdance1504
      @thandosdance1504 3 года назад

      Agreed.

  • @EmpressofChrist
    @EmpressofChrist 5 лет назад +5

    I love your videos girl! You are so refreshing🌹 keep doing your videos. You are changing the lives of many women to love themselves

  • @siasia483
    @siasia483 3 года назад +19

    This is so inspirational. And I'm sitting here, crying over my not-so-perfect ex boyfriend while listening to some old emo music, how pathetic. This ends right now. You are literally a work of art, it's enjoyable to just look at you and to hear your calm yet confident voice.

  • @anastasiyasdiary
    @anastasiyasdiary 5 лет назад +36

    This is so inspiring!!! Thank you so much for sharing! You are amazing Anna! ❤️

  • @Amyahkyra
    @Amyahkyra 3 года назад +4

    The lesson here is follow your heart to what is the inside desire..and Have a courage to make a difference towards yourself.💕

  • @poutymochi3783
    @poutymochi3783 3 года назад +3

    "I nees to create life because life is not going to wait for me"
    Woah that Hit me hard-

  • @hc2159
    @hc2159 5 лет назад +82

    I had multiple opportunities and even dabbled in this lifestyle. However I turned my back on it because I was not being authentic with myself and knew I was only saying yes because of their money.... I tried it for a bit...I learnt a lot but I felt my time is precious and I don't need to kiss ass (literally or figuratively) to get money. I am charming but have more skills then that. Why waste time on people just because they have money as opposed to others who are fun without it also?
    Now I make a killing at my own job. Because I believes in myself enough to be more then the charming girl with the pretty face that I was. I doubted my choices are times but now I know I made the right one. No way I would have had if I maintained that lifestyle. It's not all as wonderful as she makes out...I felt dirty like it reeked of desperation and being unhappy with myself... Money and high society doesn't help those problems just distracts.
    Plus prowling around for people to date, especially rich men, is pathetic... There is no talking around it. Expect more for yourself and you'll get it

    • @JNoMooreNumbers
      @JNoMooreNumbers 5 лет назад +9

      A lot of rich guys are slumming. I preferred middle class and similar likes and hobbies and almost exactly the same age. Growing together with a best friend was great. 22 years together but now widowed but now got out of the city and love being closer to nature than any city. I always felt like an old sould even as a teen and liked simpler things. Did some traveling but nowadays there are so few places that I could feel safe. To me do it yourself is the most satisfying thing. I flipped a foreclosure almost all by myself when widowed and made 150 percent profit to move to a better place. Being society or whatever you want to call it would bore me to tears. Give me a challenge.

    • @saadetisildar2951
      @saadetisildar2951 4 года назад +6

      H C you sound like a very intelligent woman..reading some of the comments where young women are yearning for a lifestyle like this made me feel sad..they don't know what they're risking

    • @laurabezden1874
      @laurabezden1874 2 года назад

      One has to be super alert in regards to the people you hang out with. There are bad people in every socio economic strata.

  • @mel_christine
    @mel_christine 4 года назад +5

    I’m from Norway and had the same thing! I went to London all by my self!

  • @kritikitti3868
    @kritikitti3868 4 года назад +8

    Wow! I remember 19. Not everyone has a real choice in life; fun to hear about it. Prob helps is one is tall, slim, adorable AND beautiful. Let's learn what we can, ladies (elegant or not)😗😻🎈

  • @lailaaberin3667
    @lailaaberin3667 Год назад +1

    i guess its all about determination,,and if they want that kind a living,,if they only knew how to live differently in disciplinary ways,,really attracts positivity😊

  • @skbennett5761
    @skbennett5761 5 лет назад +2

    You made a very wise decision after finishing school, and I admire the way you got yourself to Italy. You really immersed yourself in the whole experience and culture instead of moping around your apartment, wanting to go home without having really done anything. A lot of youngsters do that!

  • @Lani1151
    @Lani1151 5 лет назад +249

    Such a nice video. Thank you for emphasizing getting out of your comfort-zone.

    • @becky15707
      @becky15707 5 лет назад +6

      Please do

    • @orchidsoleil6650
      @orchidsoleil6650 5 лет назад +4

      Please do this 😍

    • @mills752
      @mills752 5 лет назад +1

      I live very close to Geneva!
      Lausanne. xx

    • @Lani1151
      @Lani1151 5 лет назад +2

      Anna, thank you so much! :) If you have any tips where to go in order to meet new, interesting people, please let me know. I am pursuing my degree here and thus am a bit restricted to the Uni-student perspective of Geneva. :-)

    • @Lani1151
      @Lani1151 5 лет назад +2

      @Mills: Nice! Would love to meet new people outside of my university and study-circles. :)

  • @terijoyn6447
    @terijoyn6447 5 лет назад +30

    I’m so happy I came across your RUclips channel because it’s been my favorite thus far! You’re such an inspiration. I’m trying to figure out that formula you’re talking about because I am meeting the right people, but there’s certain things about me that I have to adjust so I’m able to obtain what I want

  • @beautywinsfails8867
    @beautywinsfails8867 3 года назад +8

    I love this, you followed your heart and went for it, and didn’t let fear get in your way of your dreams.

  • @EGOCOGITOSUM
    @EGOCOGITOSUM 5 лет назад +341

    Study and work hard girls that how you get into high society

    • @kfarr3037
      @kfarr3037 5 лет назад +92

      No, you will gain intelligence and hopefully an excellent career. No guarantee to opening the doors to affluence, a stable marriage, if you are able to meet a decent man at all from the smaller selection pool at that point and marry at all, and children. I speak from experience. I followed the "rules" of getting the grades, having lots of friends, graduating, even having 2 LONG relationships leading to engagements, yet still single, middle aged, dating pool is pretty non-existent b/c I would rather be single than marry a problem, and obviously since I never married, any hopes of children sailed away as well. I just feel children deserve a mother and father when possible and I wasn't going to contribute to the single parent pool. As a teacher, I saw that up close and personal - TOUGH! I knew I didn't want that job and it wouldn't be fair to have a child just b/c I "wanted" one. So no...going to school and studying will not pave a guarenteed path to an affluent life.
      Just wanted to keep things real, not trying to crush a fairytale.

    • @novaexx6587
      @novaexx6587 5 лет назад +46

      As a medical student, I'm dying while trying to keep up with all these hard lessons and books we're having to learn every day.. and I don't think I'll regret that. I may have lost my "best years of life". I don't have time to go out at all, I'm keeping my friends at minimum because I don't have time for a lot them. I must study..BUT in the end I'll be the one who will create my own luxury life with hard work, I won't let men pamper me... btw, my opinion is that college you choose definitely results in the amount of money you will have and people you will be surrounded with.

    • @sayuri3917
      @sayuri3917 4 года назад +15

      @@kfarr3037 So true... The same way is naive to believe in prince charm, it is to believe that study and work hard is the way to high society and luxury. If you don't have a wealth family background, you can, with lucky, achieve a comfort life with hard work, but don't a lifestyle that Anna has. In my country, at least, it's one in one million. That is the real world.

    • @annajackson8782
      @annajackson8782 4 года назад +2

      @@novaexx6587 high five, the same uni course, the same issues, the same opinion! ❤️

    • @novaexx6587
      @novaexx6587 4 года назад +1

      @@annajackson8782 👏👏 I hope we will succeed! 😊

  • @Hitomimatoba
    @Hitomimatoba 4 года назад +22

    ANNA you are such an inspiration to young women everywhere, thanks for always sharing! (':

  • @maggiea.2272
    @maggiea.2272 5 лет назад +10

    I absolutely love your channel. It was about time someone talked about all these. Your channel is unique and the content is refreshing. I feel Like I should thank you for this ❤️

  • @yourfunsister
    @yourfunsister 5 лет назад +2

    My first time out of America, I went to Scotland, Ireland and N. Ireland on my own. I can very much relate to simply wandering around by myself and talking to people. To this day I am friends with several and one of those friends ended up becoming my amazing husband of 19 years.

  • @SUZABQ
    @SUZABQ 5 лет назад +12

    I like Anna Bey's idea of pushing yourself, expanding your boundaries and living in another country. I agree that living in other country can open your mind and give you experiences to make you grow. However, this "luxury lifestyle" seems not sustainable and the push to look rich and meet rich people seems superficial and boring. I do however, like Anna's personal dress style - it looks elegant and French to me (I am a Francophile). It reminds me of another blogger who is French and talks about how to dress like a French woman and be elegant. But, Anna's obsession of the "jet set lifestyle" and to look "rich and elegant" and meet "wealthy and rich people" is not for me.

  • @ivanacotic9827
    @ivanacotic9827 5 лет назад +4

    I'm 18 and I'm in the same situation. I want to go to London after summer and start new life,find myself, upgrade, learn language etc. Your video is very encouraging for me. 😄

  • @aqua36918
    @aqua36918 5 лет назад +25

    I love your positive energy. I left my country at age 21 after finishing college found a job overseas and been traveling a lot too. I’m a go getter but not so sociable and kinda shy when it comes to men, and that blocked me from dating quality men because I don’t think I deserve it. I lived my life, worked hard so I can provide for myself. It was a slow process learning to love myself and to accept that I deserve a good partner & a comfortable life. Then I attracted a quality man ( educated, decent & financially stable), he is now my husband of 8 years. I wished I knew all this stuff earlier. I am happily married and well taken cared for but I am still learning a lot from you. I want to be always in the process of being the best version of myself.

  • @Graciefrohst
    @Graciefrohst 4 года назад +2

    The point is she knew what she wanted somehownand she got it. This is so better than claiming to be miss independent yet resentful for not gettin what you want in life.

  • @paulinalinalina
    @paulinalinalina 5 лет назад +1

    I started with law school a few year ago, but I gave up because I am more interested in fashion,art,music and philosophy, traveling, but I don't know exactly what to do, and since today I felt guilty and very bad, but you change my point of view. I feel more valuable, and I feel like I have more open options. You really inspire me.

  • @alexh.4842
    @alexh.4842 4 года назад +5

    Anna, after hearing u talking about this, I just realised for how long I’ve ignored your determination, intelligence and brace behind your pretty face. And thanks for frankness and sharing!

  • @ML-li8ll
    @ML-li8ll 5 лет назад +4

    You made a choice. It worked out for you positively. Life has multiple avenues. I do not understand why people are judging or hating on your experiences. Fascinating stuff.

  • @valentinaflores1937
    @valentinaflores1937 3 года назад +2

    It’s amazing you experienced this lifestyle so young ...I used to hang out with less value people than me and I didn’t get anything except troubles