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  • Опубликовано: 8 сен 2024
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Комментарии • 27

  • @trestonbrown3560
    @trestonbrown3560 6 месяцев назад +3

    Hey Clay,
    I just want to say last year in March my ex and I broke up, it was my fault and my decision. After about a month and a half I started watching your videos religiously. I couldn’t ever afford paid training but I watched every RUclips video multiple times putting everything you preach into practice.
    I never gave up even when it felt completely hopeless going through every phase, even multiple times.
    Through it all we finally got back together officially in the middle of December. Our relationship is much better than it ever was before.
    THANK YOU! I appreciate everything you have done for me, my relationship, and my mental well being. I am eternally grateful.

  • @kayeprescott8228
    @kayeprescott8228 6 месяцев назад +2

    So very sorry to hear about the loss of your mother and your sister-in-law. Sending prayers for you and your family. Looks like you have lots of information that will help people with broken relationships and we’ve all known that feeling at some time in our life. I am blessed that God placed the right man in my life. We’ve been married 54 years and have two grown sons that also have good marriages. My husband and I have known grief. He lost a younger brother and I lost a younger sister, we’ve each lost our parents and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. We have faith that we’ll see them all again in heaven🙏🏻

  • @TechnicallyJustin
    @TechnicallyJustin 6 месяцев назад +5

    Stay strong brother. I'm sure this time is awful with everything going on. Make sure not to bottle it up. Appreciate all you do

  • @ngriffin100
    @ngriffin100 6 месяцев назад +4

    I know you had alot happen to you lately, but the being speaking to me is beautiful. I hope you see it too

  • @moonwatcher8657
    @moonwatcher8657 6 месяцев назад +7

    Wonderful words, Clay.
    Stay strong after your recent bereavements. Your work makes a massive difference in people's lives 👊

  • @whispersofholiness
    @whispersofholiness 6 месяцев назад +5

    Clay....i love you. What a powerful moment. You've been transformed into a real leader with a powerful voice as a result of the impact with this doublec loss. A profound testimony has been handed to you by your great big loving God. May you grow through thus with mercy and grace. I show up here for you today with a warm love and appreciation for your work. Godspeed....❤

  • @lambeauzone
    @lambeauzone 6 месяцев назад +4

    Describes my entire life right now. Hopeless.

  • @soapboxfrannie
    @soapboxfrannie 6 месяцев назад +3

    Hello Clay, I just watched your video about your mother and sister-in-law. I am sorry for your losses. The way you presented this video and the background shown is a beautiful reminder of life. Many prayers of comfort and strength for you and your family. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY🌹🙏❤️

  • @jennifermchugh4073
    @jennifermchugh4073 6 месяцев назад +7

    I pray for your family clay❤ thank u for still being here even though u r going thru personal things🙏😊

  • @chilloften
    @chilloften 6 месяцев назад +4

    I just adore the surrounding nature. Thank you for the insight Clay. 🌲🌲🌲

  • @matthewcarrillo1951
    @matthewcarrillo1951 6 месяцев назад +3

    Love you man. Keep being strong 💪🏼

  • @marko5472
    @marko5472 6 месяцев назад +3

    When emotions are controlling you, it may be difficult to make good decisions. In any case, whatever the emotions are, you should listen to your inner voice and do what you know is right.

  • @captainbligh3894
    @captainbligh3894 6 месяцев назад +3

    We have all been there Clay . You will be fine my friend.

  • @justinkantner
    @justinkantner 6 месяцев назад

    These words really drive home, and I feel they hit harder for me since you also relate to a lot of it yourself at the moment. I always felt that I take any advice and wisdom more seriously, when I know that the person saying it has gone through similar stuff as well. They know the pain, the loss, the frustration and everything else that comes in that tornado of emotions.. And if they have experienced it - but learned how to deal with it and grow stronger by it - Those are the people I wanna listen to the most!! Not someone who just read a bunch of books and took some lectures, and claim to be experienced in the area. In a way they might be, but some things you need to experience first-hand to truly understand. And the people who did, are the ones I choose to follow in the end. That being said, you are obviously one of them. Thank you for the video and your wise words - I hope you take these words to heart as well ! ❤

  • @mikeg2538
    @mikeg2538 6 месяцев назад

    Hi Clay. Im so sorry to hear about your mom and sister in law. I lost both my parents tragically and quickly. Just before Thanksgiving 2020 I visited my mom intending to stay a month and serve as her nurse too. She was 86 and could drive but needed crutches walking and had ailment. She caught the worst form of covid and passed mid December while I was at home. I had covid too and isolated myself on other side of house. She must have kept it secret and in just days I lost her. It is all a nightmare. And my father years earlier passed after stage 4 lung cancer was detected way too late. Just 8 weeks later he passed. I miss the 5 calls and 5 texts a day from mom.

  • @junevaras9921
    @junevaras9921 6 месяцев назад

    ❤ This helps me at just the right time: Today & forward on!!

  • @beedido439
    @beedido439 6 месяцев назад +1

    Clay, I can’t help but see sadness in your eyes and in your demeanor. I am sorry for what you went through. Big hugs!

  • @blackmarkt2250
    @blackmarkt2250 6 месяцев назад +1

    Hearts Wide Open ❤ Thank you for championing being brave and doing the really hard thing today: leaning in when all the social media and our self-obsessed culture espouses leaning out 🙌

  • @thegatesofdawn...1386
    @thegatesofdawn...1386 6 месяцев назад

    Thank you!

  • @jazzy47827
    @jazzy47827 6 месяцев назад

    Stay strong

  • @natureloversadventures7335
    @natureloversadventures7335 6 месяцев назад

    I am curious where is that pretty nature? What area is that? Very beautiful. I cannot take my eyes off that beauty.

  • @sock916
    @sock916 6 месяцев назад +4

    Maybe this channel is going in a different direction. I see most of your videos are about romantic relationships. But I see you got head on straight about relationships in general. Romantic relationships are awesome, love my wife of 24 years.. Yup I want people to have happy one of those. I love the relationship I have with my kids.. Yup I want people to have happy ones of those too.. Just saying there are a lot different relationships in life. Just think about it.. If winter comes, how can I be better in spring..

    • @Jaggerbush
      @Jaggerbush 6 месяцев назад

      Until you're on reddit, confused how you didn't see your wife's affairs right under your nose.

    • @sock916
      @sock916 6 месяцев назад

      @@Jaggerbush Sorry man that is ruff. I do hope you find your peace. Wish I knew what to tell ya to make it better. But that is the hard part of life. Another human can only offer suggestion and tell you what worked for them. You have to find it and accept it for yourself. I know I would be angry if this happened to me. Would not blame ya at all for being angry. But I do know this Angry is like a hot coal, we hold onto it thinking it will harm the one that hurt us. But it only burns you more, and the people around you that are innocent. Might seem like the worst winter right now, but if you let it , spring will return to your life again. Hope the best happens for you man.

  • @truno7
    @truno7 6 месяцев назад

    Thanks /:

  • @marblehead3398
    @marblehead3398 6 месяцев назад

    Are you a licensed professional counselor?