Social media killed true love. Edit: Thanks for the likes y’all. Yeah, I’m posting this via social media as well. Many of you seem to think the most general ideas about how social media killed love. I was laying in bed next to a brick wall and all I wanted was a conversation about how their day went. They preferred TikTok shorts. Some of us speak from true/past experiences. Lighten up when you target people about things they comment about. You never know when you’ll be the one giving your attention to somebody who prefers a screen over a bonding conversation.
This has only been a thing for like five years since Tate himself and onlyfans was popular We had 10 15 years with social media and it has never been like this So to say every problem is at the root a social media problem makes it clear to me you don't understand the problem
@@TJenki I'm not saying he's saying all problems but he is saying that true love is killed because socials And you here others say this or that was killed because socials So it's a the group mentality that it's has been the downfall of a lot of things Yet here this man and every other complainer is ON social media If you truly think it's evil or a bad idea stop using it because it's not going away while they still have users
He is not wrong. I grew up in the 60’s-70’s. Life was real. Not lived on a phone screen or computer screen. But you actually went out and met your friends, did things together, etc. it was as AMAZING.
I grew up In The 90z so I basically had both. I thought all the new tech was so amazing when it first came out untill I slowly over time realized it was a digital prison and missed having a pager and a payphone.
24 yr old here… I’m more old school than most. Dating girls is nearly impossible these days cus they all talk to 10+ dudes at a time. If they’ve been to college there’s a 90% chance she’s f’d a handful of dudes. I just want a nice young girl with a pure heart and soul who hasn’t been in these gross situations. But the internet just invites all of it, endlessly. They have to resist offers every single of their lives, most just give in. And ofc the men aren’t angels either. They’re consumed just as much, but women loving attention how they do naturally it really scrambles their brains beyond repair. My ex gf was born in Turkey. For her, being a Ho is unacceptable. Crazy. Unheard of in her home town. But here in America every girl listens to ice spice and is vaping at age 15 and having sex at 16…. Then after all these years of getting destroyed we’re supposed to marry them when they’re 28?! It’s insane to me. And a lot of these problems revolve around the internet. I rlly do wish I was born in the 60s sometimes…. A simpler life
With this false perception of endless partner optionality, that dating apps provide, people are less likely to selflessly spend the time and energy that is required to create an honest connection. When the next date is only a swipe away, relationships have become predominately transactional, with a solipsistic focus on personal happiness above all else. Traits like integrity, virtue, morality, duty and sacrifice are no longer seen as requirements within one’s partner.
No one really knows which is better. Just different ways of life. I'm glad I was born in 74. I have watched and changed with technology but did experience my parents not understanding us in the 80s. No different now.
@@theriaults07 I would argue that the statistics on divorce rates, single parent households and all of the negative outcomes as a result, would logically suggest that it sure isn’t beneficial for society as a whole.
Agreed. 👍🏻 There’s a lot I personally don’t care for about him. The things that I do like that he sometimes says, are gold. As you say, “second to none.”
Because most people in couple, are not sharing their union with the real person they always loved. Everybody knows someone from their past who was really their true match. I do, you do, and apparently she does too...
He comes off as a hater n didn’t expect that reaction from her. She had a happy cry n he’s probably given her hurt crys. Not mind blowing at all- just pure unfiltered facts. He shoulda thanked Andrew
Cap. You don’t live in her head. She could’ve been thinking about it being mind blowing, or she could be thinking about her first love or about others that have been in that position that she’s feeling for.
@@blackberry8924that is a good point. I never looked it that way. So why get into a relationship in the first place ? If there’s a high chance you’re not either their first option or if they’re holding back because they’re truly jaded of the past?
@@RichObiQuan On average, men produces more than 200 million seeds per day on lifelong lifespan, while women produces 1 egg per month for the 1/3 of their average lifespan. Our purpose as couples is to make babies, working as a man to feed the family, while women passes the rest of their non-fertile life taking care of the family's well-being and the proper education of the children. So back then, the contract of being married was strong enough to keep couples together longer. But nowadays, economic and social challenges, makes the society view faithfulness as an old principle, limitating each individuals to be free from having a change of heart. Today, men has many former girlfriends, like women has many former boyfriends. Thus, when a relation breaks, toxic or not, we always end up having someone in mind we regret not having started a family with.
my grandfather couldnt speak or write to my grandmother in almost two years in ww2, she didnt even know if he was alive, true love! miss the good old days
@@jakemac1396A man cheating is nowhere near as bad as a woman cheating. That has been the truth for 100,000 years, until the current era. Women are the most privileged part of Western society and are also the most unhappy. Ask yourself why that is.
This pains me soo much...Growing up, my neighbor was my best friend..We use to chill on the fence for hours talking..Our parents already knew about our fence spot😂..He was my 1st love though we never dated or anything.. Now we hardly see each other or even talk but when we do😂we stand there for hours just like the olden days.. Weird that he wants to have kids with me and I too but we don't talk about sex or relationship but just having a family together... It confuses me to no end
Yeah and your missus has 4 kids to different milkman as well as no dna test. Modern world is a blessing and a curse. Society was shit back then and it’s still shit now. Nothing has fucking changed except we know what’s happening behind our backs because of technology
He starts off by making you think about your past, distancing himself from the conversation, so you forget he is a sex trafficker, a thief and a liar. Then he want 50€ a month for you to be part of his crypto-bro team.
@@UndomesticatedWizardLoser love when people just throw buzz words out there with nothing to back it up, you just called someone you’ve never met a sociopath, that’s pretty fucking retarded
Underrated clip 🙏🏾 we've all fallen into the social media rabbit hole 🕳️ and its slowly stripping our humanity away... The more technologically advanced we become, the more we lose connection with ourselves... Too many options is never a good thing 🤦🏾
Andrew spit some serious facts on this one. I grew up before cell phones were a thing and my feelings were different back then. They’re different now unfortunately and this video made me realize this. Relationships hit way different now and not nearly as good
You completely missed what I am meaning and what Andrew Tate means. Being screwed over has nothing to do with my point or Tates. There’s a massive disassociation created by technology and it’s changed society and not in a good way
Not to mention you didn't constantly know what your partner or friend was doing every single moment, and vice versa. Now if you don't answer a message in 2 seconds, she/he thinks that you are ignoring her/him or you're with someone else. Life was so different back then. We were so different.
@@an.20.24 Very true. A lot less jealousy and distrust back then. Phone calls actually meant something because there was no texting, which can be very convenient and in the same token, an easy way to avoid talking to someone.
@@bassmanaustin nah I didn’t miss what you meant at all I fully understand your point. I was just saying past betrayals has an effect on how relationships “ hit “ in conjunction with social media.
Lol he ran a online sex site.... literally what he is complaining about he contributed to... this is like a cigarette company saying how much better it would be if people just didn't smoke lol and you like wow what a nugget of knowledge
I hope you’re good and doing well Nathan. I won’t resort to telling you what I think of your ex wife, but I don’t have a nice opinion of people who walk out on a marriage, it’s the lowest of the low to do to the other half. Causes pain and misery that you’d never do to them, because that’s what marriage is about, working through things together instead of the horrid alternative. Are you on a path to better things buddy?
I have felt the love, and I never stalked his social media or stayed in touch. I think about him still now and again, and I truly hope he's living a great life and he's happy ❤
The most painful part is it if you still love her you'll still follow her on something and see her life go on and you see her happy with some new love, you can't go one moment without thinking of her
Oh no... Now you makes me remember my crush 😢 I don't even have a guts to confess to her at that time and now she has a two child and husband that have good financial while I'm still single and struggling with my current job and finances. Some people life in sucks and painful while other people enjoy glory and prosperity... and im on the painful side.😂
This is the problem with tech. Nobody is going to put their real life out there on social media. They are going to make their life look perfect. You are not gonna see the cheating husband/wife, or fights over $$$, or the depression some people just can't shake, or the drugs/alcohol use that people hide, domestic violence, etc.... Nobody's life is as perfect as they portray online. So don't beat yourself up man. Life can be cruel and painful but trust me, you are not alone. You will find someone right for you and look back one day to realize the pain you are feeling was temporary. But it is the dichotomy of the good and bad that makes us relatable to each other.
@@fadlisani2080 maybe it’s time that you treat your life like a video game? Sounds silly I know. Think about it like that: you can always start over. If there is something about yourself that you don’t like - change it. You can learn about anything if you want to. Pretty much you can always improve. For example if you would think that you are a boring person you can pick up hobbies. If you think you are not confident, you can do things that make you more confident. Life is a video game in which we all(hopefully) stuck in for the next 50 or so years. Might as well make it interesting because yeah just for the sake of it I guess. Because there is literally nothing else to do :)
This is the exact reason why when I split up with my ex, I unfollowed her on everything, deleted her number and never saw or spoke to her again. We never stayed in contact, and I never looked her up on social media ever again. It’s been 4 years now and whenever I tell people this, they act like it’s super unusual, but I truly think it’s the best way to move on with your life after a breakup - even though it hurts like hell for a while you have to swallow your pride, cut your loses and know when it’s time to walk away with pride, ultimately it’s for the best in the end.
I agree bro, I did the same thing and it was for the better. She's reached out a couple of times in the last 4 years and it's a healthy conversation about important things that we shared after being together for many years.
Definitely the best way to move on, I have done the same, we are over why do I need to see what you are doing now? He isn't my friend so why bother, I did find my boyfriend stalking his ex on Instagram, liked all her photos, except the one with her fiancé...It changed how I saw him, I was all for him but yet he was still all for her Social media isn't the issue though it's how we use it
@@orls9068 Exactly! If you’re not dating that person, then I really don’t see what good it achieves tbh 🤷♂️ but each to their own I guess. And I agree, social media has the ability to be a net positive, but unfortunately the way we use it has created these kinda problems.
My now husband and I met at 16 years old back in 2000 before social media was really a thing. We dated for 6 months and split up, he thought I was the one that got away. We both moved on but he never got over our relationship. I thought of him too from time to time but knew that he had gotten married and life goes on. In 2008, he reached out to me on Facebook as his marriage was coming to an end and drove 5 hours to come see me just for a friendly visit, he ended up taking care of me after my long-term boyfriend just broke my heart. We parted ways for two more years until finally in 2010, on a day when I got stood up for a date with another dude, my now-husband hit me up asking if I wanted to hang out, I figured why not and went and the rest is history. We've been doing life together ever since. So thanks to that guy for standing me up that day, I was ticked off at the time but now I don't even remember his name.
This hits hard because it shows how little we all are as people compared to our fathers and mothers . I feel like we all lost 90% of our heart, soul, emotions, passion, compassion etc and we are just shells walking around thinking we are okay when we are clearly not
@@yogijaya2897 I understand that I have room for growth, but how can I attain a kind of love where I fear losing someone because of how extraordinary she is? And I'm not losing her through mere separation or losing touch but losing her that when I depict this woman to my friends, It sounds like a figment of my imagination. This is genuine love because once it vanishes, it's gone like death, so you learn to protect it.
@@pietervanderpukkepet1408 Sadly, you can't control it because of platforms like Tinder and Instagram. I yearn for the kind of emotion that lingers like regret, where you spot a girl in a café whom you have a crush on, and one day she vanishes, leaving you to recall her like a dream. Even death becomes more poignant because you lack a photo or video of them, making you treasure the memories even more dearly. Maybe I sound dumb but these thoughts keep me up at night 😂
Absolutely true! Back in 1992 I broke up with my girlfriend and never ever saw her again until 2yrs ago I saw her on Facebook after 30yrs damn! I miss the old days before social media 😢
This gave me goosebumps because I had a little taste of that kind of life. I left school in 2000 when a phone was a phone and didn’t have access to the world through my fingers. Great times.
I went through this, even with the internet. She told me while I was in the hospital with blood clots in my lungs that she was seeing someone else. I spent years working on myself and now in shape making money and doing better than ever. But it changed me more than anything could
Imagine the hurt of seeing a girl or guy you truly loved, move on with other people. Andrew is right, you never saw them again and you healed from the hurt. nowadays its like this emotional wound that keeps getting opened.
Kinda crazy that it was only a couple of years ago, men stay a ghost , your value is in how rare you are in life, Andrew is correct, chivalry is not dead
Andrew literally took her back in time and it was such a shock to hear now a days she was speechless and I love it oh how few of us are jealous of the times she grew up in ❤
It's funny how "the 1🙋♂️ that Got Away" hits these females. Being that Guy for several women it amazes me how stupid they are. We give you complete access to the Real US, show you Real Love & in some cases will doing anything you ask. But then one day her feelings die & the smart ones Walk Away vs simp out & chase her trying to change her mind. It's not that we " Got away" it's more like they didn't appreciate us when they had us & us men never forgot that there's millions apon millions more & moved on. Me personally if I loved you 100% once & she pushed me away because her feelings changed, I never Go Back. For Smart men once we check out & kill those feelings for her we're done for ever!!! At this very moment I have 2 trying to show me they made a mistake. Both of which no longer exist in my world. Even if they put themselves in my field of vision I still don't see them🙋🏽♀️🤷♂️🙍♀️
Man when people are not distracted and offended by him trashing worthless people that happen to have the same traits as them. They realize he's actually smart.
This clip also sums up the world and the current media and exchange of information. When she heard his name she thought “oh this piece of work that I’ve been hearing about” then she sees his true self and it brings her an emotional response that would’ve never happened if someone didn’t introduce her to the truth. Solid metaphor on current society
That is so damn true.. I grew up in the 70’s and 80’s… we were just seeing cell phones when I graduated high school.. The last 40 years have been so surreal…
They werw conditioned to hate who the media says is "bad" .. but when they actually listen .. They get confused about how they're supposed to respond! 😒
I've been married to my hubby for 35 years. We had known each other since 14 but lost touch for a few years. When we met back up we talked about the time apart and realized we circled each other the whole time not knowing it. I could never imagine being without him now.
Imagine doing this in the middle of a world war. That’s what your grandparents did. They just wanted a person to come home to or to know that someone in a really bad place knew they were loved.
The Tates are actually seriously wise, thoughtful men. Those of us who have actually listened to what they say, instead of listening to the opinions of the ignorant, find them very compelling fellows.
Social media killed true love.
Edit: Thanks for the likes y’all.
Yeah, I’m posting this via social media as well. Many of you seem to think the most general ideas about how social media killed love.
I was laying in bed next to a brick wall and all I wanted was a conversation about how their day went. They preferred TikTok shorts. Some of us speak from true/past experiences. Lighten up when you target people about things they comment about. You never know when you’ll be the one giving your attention to somebody who prefers a screen over a bonding conversation.
This has only been a thing for like five years since Tate himself and onlyfans was popular
We had 10 15 years with social media and it has never been like this
So to say every problem is at the root a social media problem makes it clear to me you don't understand the problem
@@xxxstindo9531 They never said every problem rooted from social media, also, only fans is kind of a form of it.
@@TJenki I'm not saying he's saying all problems but he is saying that true love is killed because socials
And you here others say this or that was killed because socials
So it's a the group mentality that it's has been the downfall of a lot of things
Yet here this man and every other complainer is ON social media
If you truly think it's evil or a bad idea stop using it because it's not going away while they still have users
@@TJenki and saying of is a social media is like say redtube and RUclips are the same because you stream videos and can comment
No, it took men and women to a delusional level of infestation on narcissistic behaviors.
That woman just remembered her first love again 😮
I think you're righ. She may also be sad that her grandkids won't be able to find love like she did in this world. I haven't.
@@JayGreggy4973nah, the way she reacts is too strong and quiet. she’s thinking about a person or people for sure.
Will you lot stfu and stop pretending like you can read minds ffs
Yup
@@CoolinMacLaurinI think it’s a mix of either doing this or having done this and realizing what the world has come to
He is not wrong. I grew up in the 60’s-70’s. Life was real. Not lived on
a phone screen or computer screen. But you actually went out and met your friends, did things together, etc. it was as AMAZING.
This isn't a hot take.
I grew up In The 90z so I basically had both. I thought all the new tech was so amazing when it first came out untill I slowly over time realized it was a digital prison and missed having a pager and a payphone.
No cell phones and selfies
24 yr old here… I’m more old school than most. Dating girls is nearly impossible these days cus they all talk to 10+ dudes at a time. If they’ve been to college there’s a 90% chance she’s f’d a handful of dudes. I just want a nice young girl with a pure heart and soul who hasn’t been in these gross situations. But the internet just invites all of it, endlessly. They have to resist offers every single of their lives, most just give in. And ofc the men aren’t angels either. They’re consumed just as much, but women loving attention how they do naturally it really scrambles their brains beyond repair. My ex gf was born in Turkey. For her, being a Ho is unacceptable. Crazy. Unheard of in her home town. But here in America every girl listens to ice spice and is vaping at age 15 and having sex at 16…. Then after all these years of getting destroyed we’re supposed to marry them when they’re 28?! It’s insane to me. And a lot of these problems revolve around the internet. I rlly do wish I was born in the 60s sometimes…. A simpler life
I miss it, the way it was..
She heard of Andrew and then she heard Andrew big difference
Underrated comment of the year my friend 🍻
This comment is perfect down to the last minute detail.
@@Kamehamehobby😲🫶🏽
@@toecamle8583 🙏🏽 😊
I see exactly what you’re saying! Sheesh! 😮 💯
She was expecting the toxic masculinity she's been hearing about. She got Andrew Tate.
She didn't hear the part where he says men can cheat and women can't. Andrew just like the modern world he hates.
On god most people hate Andrew without even listening to what he says
so did you hear how he talked about grabbing women by their ti**ies?
and then he says "I'm nice"😢
"imagine how true feelings used to be". Our generation will never understand it.
They will. Stop using social media. Focus on real life interaction. Learn how to be vulnerable and open without feeling sorry for yourself
With this false perception of endless partner optionality, that dating apps provide, people are less likely to selflessly spend the time and energy that is required to create an honest connection. When the next date is only a swipe away, relationships have become predominately transactional, with a solipsistic focus on personal happiness above all else. Traits like integrity, virtue, morality, duty and sacrifice are no longer seen as requirements within one’s partner.
I feel so sorry for you kids.
I know it must be harder for you to deal with this than it was for us to never see our true love again..
No one really knows which is better. Just different ways of life. I'm glad I was born in 74. I have watched and changed with technology but did experience my parents not understanding us in the 80s.
No different now.
@@theriaults07 I would argue that the statistics on divorce rates, single parent households and all of the negative outcomes as a result, would logically suggest that it sure isn’t beneficial for society as a whole.
Andrew Tate is a very deep man, with very deep feelings. He just shows people a character so that he doesn't get hurt. He has a gentle soul.
K dad
His sincere side is second to none
Jesus
@@ethanmanley3341ur one of those acting like he’s done something wrong already hahahaha. Dear lord my generation man
@@alihajali9218to give him the benefit of the doubt, he might’ve been suggesting that only Jesus’ sincerity was second to none
Agreed. 👍🏻
There’s a lot I personally don’t care for about him. The things that I do like that he sometimes says, are gold. As you say, “second to none.”
🥱 get your tongue out of his ass his sincere side is an act
That was NOT bizarre! That was mind blowing. That's why she cried!🥺😭👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Because most people in couple, are not sharing their union with the real person they always loved. Everybody knows someone from their past who was really their true match. I do, you do, and apparently she does too...
He comes off as a hater n didn’t expect that reaction from her. She had a happy cry n he’s probably given her hurt crys. Not mind blowing at all- just pure unfiltered facts. He shoulda thanked Andrew
Cap. You don’t live in her head. She could’ve been thinking about it being mind blowing, or she could be thinking about her first love or about others that have been in that position that she’s feeling for.
@@blackberry8924that is a good point. I never looked it that way. So why get into a relationship in the first place ? If there’s a high chance you’re not either their first option or if they’re holding back because they’re truly jaded of the past?
@@RichObiQuan On average, men produces more than 200 million seeds per day on lifelong lifespan, while women produces 1 egg per month for the 1/3 of their average lifespan.
Our purpose as couples is to make babies, working as a man to feed the family, while women passes the rest of their non-fertile life taking care of the family's well-being and the proper education of the children.
So back then, the contract of being married was strong enough to keep couples together longer. But nowadays, economic and social challenges, makes the society view faithfulness as an old principle, limitating each individuals to be free from having a change of heart.
Today, men has many former girlfriends, like women has many former boyfriends. Thus, when a relation breaks, toxic or not, we always end up having someone in mind we regret not having started a family with.
my grandfather couldnt speak or write to my grandmother in almost two years in ww2, she didnt even know if he was alive, true love! miss the good old days
Now that's a movie 🎬 🎞 🎥
He had another chick over seas. Trust me on that.
@@jakemac1396on this episode of, “this totally happened because i think it did”
❤
@@jakemac1396A man cheating is nowhere near as bad as a woman cheating. That has been the truth for 100,000 years, until the current era. Women are the most privileged part of Western society and are also the most unhappy. Ask yourself why that is.
Its true.. years ago neighbours would speak to one another.. nowadays noone speaks
I love speaking to my neighbour, I'm 31, and my neighbour is an 85 year old retired prison warden and ex navy seal, always a good chat to be had
This pains me soo much...Growing up, my neighbor was my best friend..We use to chill on the fence for hours talking..Our parents already knew about our fence spot😂..He was my 1st love though we never dated or anything..
Now we hardly see each other or even talk but when we do😂we stand there for hours just like the olden days..
Weird that he wants to have kids with me and I too but we don't talk about sex or relationship but just having a family together...
It confuses me to no end
Ehh. I love my neighbor. We both have keys to each others front doors lol.
what hes explaining is a crazy feeling. the way life just goes on.
He makes you think.
I used to loath the feeling but now I cherish it
She remembers nostalgia 😎💯🇺🇲
She had flashbacks on how it use to be. In her age. True love and dates was real
I recommend dating the old fashioned way.
Put the phones away and carry a pen and paper with you at all times.
She got wet for the first time in 25 years
Yeah and your missus has 4 kids to different milkman as well as no dna test. Modern world is a blessing and a curse. Society was shit back then and it’s still shit now. Nothing has fucking changed except we know what’s happening behind our backs because of technology
Its amazing how your attitude changes from what you heard about someone versus what happens when you hear them.
True love was different. It was real. It was beautiful. It felt DIFFERENT.
Man’s a poet when he’s not trying to insult you for your stupid life choices
Idk why this made me laugh 😂😂😂
Yeah but ironically he made his millions from cam girls
@@langfordjeremy100not only that but he is scamming men with his hustlers university
@skystryker2037 Good moneybags morning my brother how you going G? Make any money today?
@@TypicalIndian1981
It’s not a scam if people get results I don’t think you understand what a scam is .
Expecting something basic and getting something so deep and profound that it brings your soul to tears.
She starts off by rolling her eyes at the fact that she had the hear him speak. Then he made her cry with his words
He starts off by making you think about your past, distancing himself from the conversation, so you forget he is a sex trafficker, a thief and a liar.
Then he want 50€ a month for you to be part of his crypto-bro team.
Both are dumb reactions. Only an american goes from hating a person to being ao moved by them
She didn't roll her eyes.
@@greenpeonCope
@@Kal-El207 he admitted all that on video, you saying its cope means you dont believe him?
When you become unconditional love, you love them all the exact same. Even the ones that break your heart
Soft ideology
You don’t practice what you preach
What the hell does that mean? Sounds like you're playing a character. You don't love no two people the same. Be authentic. And don't take no shit
People don’t realize how smart tate is
I think they do hence why they want him cancelled
I do
He’s super smart but he’s also a deep thinker
He super smart and also a sociopath.
They usually are.
@@UndomesticatedWizardLoser love when people just throw buzz words out there with nothing to back it up, you just called someone you’ve never met a sociopath, that’s pretty fucking retarded
The fact that she felt that so deeply made me feel it too ❤
"Omg andrew tate bullies an elderly woman into crying" 😂😂
BBC headline definately. "Tate emotionally assault a middle age woman".
😂
I wouldn’t be surprised if they did exactly that
Underrated comment
Andrew Tate accused of eye-rayp. Forcing this old woman's eyes to get wet without consent. Lock him up
Ppl hate Andrew cuz they haven't really heard him and go by what they are told. He speaks facts always
She was in love with someone who she hasn’t spoken to just like Tate
Underrated clip 🙏🏾 we've all fallen into the social media rabbit hole 🕳️ and its slowly stripping our humanity away... The more technologically advanced we become, the more we lose connection with ourselves... Too many options is never a good thing 🤦🏾
This is why I'm social media free. RUclips shorts for the restroom breaks only lol
The life, I've been on that for 5 months and the time i have and thoughts. I don't remember when last i thought that much
😂😂😂True im in the toilet right now. At work
Because it's shit, and should only be used where we shit.
Same, and people think I'm weird because I still go to my local library to look for books to read instead of wasting my time on these apps.
Youre lying, but its ok. Youre not important to anything or anyone
That's not an Old woman, that's a beautiful lady!
who says she cant be both, they dont contradict each other.
Andrew spit some serious facts on this one. I grew up before cell phones were a thing and my feelings were different back then. They’re different now unfortunately and this video made me realize this. Relationships hit way different now and not nearly as good
That’s also cause you’ve been screwed over a time or two.
You completely missed what I am meaning and what Andrew Tate means. Being screwed over has nothing to do with my point or Tates. There’s a massive disassociation created by technology and it’s changed society and not in a good way
Not to mention you didn't constantly know what your partner or friend was doing every single moment, and vice versa.
Now if you don't answer a message in 2 seconds, she/he thinks that you are ignoring her/him or you're with someone else.
Life was so different back then. We were so different.
@@an.20.24
Very true. A lot less jealousy and distrust back then. Phone calls actually meant something because there was no texting, which can be very convenient and in the same token, an easy way to avoid talking to someone.
@@bassmanaustin nah I didn’t miss what you meant at all I fully understand your point. I was just saying past betrayals has an effect on how relationships “ hit “ in conjunction with social media.
REAL SERIOUS FACTS OF LIFE, BY ANDREW TATE 🎉🎉❤.
He’s so right it’s insane
Yeah. He’s right. When the one that got away *really* is totally gone from your life in all regards, the memory of them hits way harder.
People let the troll things tate says bother them to much to listen to actual gems he be dropping sometimes
Lol he ran a online sex site.... literally what he is complaining about he contributed to... this is like a cigarette company saying how much better it would be if people just didn't smoke lol and you like wow what a nugget of knowledge
I loved a boy like that once..... And i pray that he's happy and one day I'll hug him in heaven. ❤️N.G.❤️
As a divorced dad whos Wife left him for a man she met online, I totally cried to this video also
I hope you’re good and doing well Nathan. I won’t resort to telling you what I think of your ex wife, but I don’t have a nice opinion of people who walk out on a marriage, it’s the lowest of the low to do to the other half. Causes pain and misery that you’d never do to them, because that’s what marriage is about, working through things together instead of the horrid alternative. Are you on a path to better things buddy?
I have felt the love, and I never stalked his social media or stayed in touch. I think about him still now and again, and I truly hope he's living a great life and he's happy ❤
That’s nice
Lovely being... sigh.
The most painful part is it if you still love her you'll still follow her on something and see her life go on and you see her happy with some new love, you can't go one moment without thinking of her
Oh no... Now you makes me remember my crush 😢
I don't even have a guts to confess to her at that time and now she has a two child and husband that have good financial while I'm still single and struggling with my current job and finances.
Some people life in sucks and painful while other people enjoy glory and prosperity... and im on the painful side.😂
This is the problem with tech. Nobody is going to put their real life out there on social media. They are going to make their life look perfect. You are not gonna see the cheating husband/wife, or fights over $$$, or the depression some people just can't shake, or the drugs/alcohol use that people hide, domestic violence, etc.... Nobody's life is as perfect as they portray online. So don't beat yourself up man. Life can be cruel and painful but trust me, you are not alone. You will find someone right for you and look back one day to realize the pain you are feeling was temporary. But it is the dichotomy of the good and bad that makes us relatable to each other.
@@jayr.9266Or it can motivate you to a degree to get what's yours and see that person someday and thank them for saving you
@@fadlisani2080 maybe it’s time that you treat your life like a video game? Sounds silly I know. Think about it like that: you can always start over. If there is something about yourself that you don’t like - change it. You can learn about anything if you want to. Pretty much you can always improve. For example if you would think that you are a boring person you can pick up hobbies. If you think you are not confident, you can do things that make you more confident. Life is a video game in which we all(hopefully) stuck in for the next 50 or so years. Might as well make it interesting because yeah just for the sake of it I guess. Because there is literally nothing else to do :)
If you do that you are crazy and need treatment. Ok?
Andrew Tate did some growing up while he was away? What a fantastic thing to happen, I’m serious! 🌹❤️
She misses him
Yeah! She does. The man sitting next to her doesn’t even know it 😩
Life was so much better 30-40-50 and so on years ago.
This is the exact reason why when I split up with my ex, I unfollowed her on everything, deleted her number and never saw or spoke to her again.
We never stayed in contact, and I never looked her up on social media ever again.
It’s been 4 years now and whenever I tell people this, they act like it’s super unusual, but I truly think it’s the best way to move on with your life after a breakup - even though it hurts like hell for a while you have to swallow your pride, cut your loses and know when it’s time to walk away with pride, ultimately it’s for the best in the end.
I agree bro, I did the same thing and it was for the better. She's reached out a couple of times in the last 4 years and it's a healthy conversation about important things that we shared after being together for many years.
Well said and done my friend
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Definitely the best way to move on, I have done the same, we are over why do I need to see what you are doing now?
He isn't my friend so why bother, I did find my boyfriend stalking his ex on Instagram, liked all her photos, except the one with her fiancé...It changed how I saw him, I was all for him but yet he was still all for her
Social media isn't the issue though it's how we use it
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Exactly! If you’re not dating that person, then I really don’t see what good it achieves tbh 🤷♂️ but each to their own I guess.
And I agree, social media has the ability to be a net positive, but unfortunately the way we use it has created these kinda problems.
My now husband and I met at 16 years old back in 2000 before social media was really a thing. We dated for 6 months and split up, he thought I was the one that got away. We both moved on but he never got over our relationship. I thought of him too from time to time but knew that he had gotten married and life goes on. In 2008, he reached out to me on Facebook as his marriage was coming to an end and drove 5 hours to come see me just for a friendly visit, he ended up taking care of me after my long-term boyfriend just broke my heart. We parted ways for two more years until finally in 2010, on a day when I got stood up for a date with another dude, my now-husband hit me up asking if I wanted to hang out, I figured why not and went and the rest is history. We've been doing life together ever since. So thanks to that guy for standing me up that day, I was ticked off at the time but now I don't even remember his name.
That’s awesome
Fake Love
This hits hard because it shows how little we all are as people compared to our fathers and mothers . I feel like we all lost 90% of our heart, soul, emotions, passion, compassion etc and we are just shells walking around thinking we are okay when we are clearly not
God Bless You for recognizing this.
You can make it better
It's up to YOU!
This is exactly how I think about this. This hyper modernism made us so out of touch with ourselves and others.
@@yogijaya2897 I understand that I have room for growth, but how can I attain a kind of love where I fear losing someone because of how extraordinary she is? And I'm not losing her through mere separation or losing touch but losing her that when I depict this woman to my friends, It sounds like a figment of my imagination. This is genuine love because once it vanishes, it's gone like death, so you learn to protect it.
@@pietervanderpukkepet1408 Sadly, you can't control it because of platforms like Tinder and Instagram. I yearn for the kind of emotion that lingers like regret, where you spot a girl in a café whom you have a crush on, and one day she vanishes, leaving you to recall her like a dream. Even death becomes more poignant because you lack a photo or video of them, making you treasure the memories even more dearly. Maybe I sound dumb but these thoughts keep me up at night 😂
That's just you bro. Love has never been more vivid and intense for me. Mindset is everything.
Beautiful sensitivity as only men can express.
I remember that time..comes back to me every now, then 😢
Hahaha it took grandma back to her younger years.. u can tell she still fantasize about her young love life.. true love still full her heart
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😂 true
He still has a place in her heart, she misses him 💙
Thank You Mr A Tate for bringing us all down baxk to reality 💙
Absolutely true! Back in 1992 I broke up with my girlfriend and never ever saw her again until 2yrs ago I saw her on Facebook after 30yrs damn! I miss the old days before social media 😢
This gave me goosebumps because I had a little taste of that kind of life. I left school in 2000 when a phone was a phone and didn’t have access to the world through my fingers. Great times.
Shit made me tear up too, because, like her, I can remember.
Yep I agree, this why I don't persue women or friends, the internet has changed the social aspect of life and not for the better
Delete
They were tears of realisation not rage. Shout-out to you Top G love u man
I went through this, even with the internet. She told me while I was in the hospital with blood clots in my lungs that she was seeing someone else. I spent years working on myself and now in shape making money and doing better than ever. But it changed me more than anything could
Imagine the hurt of seeing a girl or guy you truly loved, move on with other people.
Andrew is right, you never saw them again and you healed from the hurt.
nowadays its like this emotional wound that keeps getting opened.
Dam bastard breaking old women's heart
I still feel the light. I still know the love of god.
Social media made the world twice as shallow. That’s the truth.
He is spot on here to be fair
Tate often makes good points.
She's thinking of,”the one who got away”😢😢😢
How I feel about Nadia - saw her last 1978. Still love her.
Social media made us all so unsocial
social media is anti-social
It's true. Nothing today is as uplifting as it was.
OH MY GAWDDDD ANDREW TATE HATES WOMEN HE MAKING ELDERLY CRY OMG HE CANCELLED FOR REALLLL
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When you said goodbye to an ex, it was really goodbye.
The memories.
Protect the love that you have within you, my friend.
She didn't thought andrew could say something like that ig
Becz what his image has been made by his haters
he is a true poet how he talks about the "B-words" he loves.
No one women is romantic the way us men are
They used to be.. for a fact. Look at the movies and music from then..
Our grandparent remained together
"look at the movies".. bro... Lets use our brains for a second.@@bigzachful
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@@bigzachful You the type of guy to believe WWE is real.
Even with social media,i will never ever forget my first love.... 😢💔 He will always be my first love... But it just wasn't meant to be... 😢
Kinda crazy that it was only a couple of years ago, men stay a ghost , your value is in how rare you are in life, Andrew is correct, chivalry is not dead
Andrew literally took her back in time and it was such a shock to hear now a days she was speechless and I love it oh how few of us are jealous of the times she grew up in ❤
A Lot of people have a response and missed to listen
I say this too often. Just worded differently. People listen to respond instead of listening to understand.
Im 24 and it honestly makes me hate way the world is now and seeing her cry i feel it in my chest it is just hurts
She's crying over the one that got away
So am I.
It's funny how "the 1🙋♂️ that Got Away" hits these females. Being that Guy for several women it amazes me how stupid they are. We give you complete access to the Real US, show you Real Love & in some cases will doing anything you ask. But then one day her feelings die & the smart ones Walk Away vs simp out & chase her trying to change her mind. It's not that we " Got away" it's more like they didn't appreciate us when they had us & us men never forgot that there's millions apon millions more & moved on. Me personally if I loved you 100% once & she pushed me away because her feelings changed, I never Go Back. For Smart men once we check out & kill those feelings for her we're done for ever!!!
At this very moment I have 2 trying to show me they made a mistake. Both of which no longer exist in my world. Even if they put themselves in my field of vision I still don't see them🙋🏽♀️🤷♂️🙍♀️
I'll never understand the hate he gets for speaking truth
He is proud that he can control and use young women, for one thing. He claims to have converted to Islam, but he beds every woman he can.
@@andsoitgoes1142 Who cares, though?
If that discredits what he has to say for you then that is entirely your erroneous judgement to make.
Made me cry cuz he's absolutely right
Big true
Man when people are not distracted and offended by him trashing worthless people that happen to have the same traits as them. They realize he's actually smart.
Pfffft
100% TRUE!!! Those of you who understand, that feeling came back to you just then as you were sucked back in time.
It's the way it used to be where you treasured the people you met and carried them in your heart.
I miss those days too
This clip also sums up the world and the current media and exchange of information. When she heard his name she thought “oh this piece of work that I’ve been hearing about” then she sees his true self and it brings her an emotional response that would’ve never happened if someone didn’t introduce her to the truth. Solid metaphor on current society
That is so damn true.. I grew up in the 70’s and 80’s… we were just seeing cell phones when I graduated high school.. The last 40 years have been so surreal…
They werw conditioned to hate who the media says is "bad" .. but when they actually listen .. They get confused about how they're supposed to respond! 😒
I've been married to my hubby for 35 years. We had known each other since 14 but lost touch for a few years. When we met back up we talked about the time apart and realized we circled each other the whole time not knowing it. I could never imagine being without him now.
i love old people when they try to connect with new generations by using social media
they feel so authentic in a world based on actors
He’s not lying. Men had more partners before social media. I feel sorry for this young men.
She probably realized her kids probably will never know what that feeling is.
Imagine doing this in the middle of a world war. That’s what your grandparents did. They just wanted a person to come home to or to know that someone in a really bad place knew they were loved.
Now i understand why people back then started wars for love
That old lady remembered back in the day, the first girl she loved back when she was a boy, its hard getting old.
That was one of the main things that made me like going to school damn im getting old
Hes telling the truth, love is aching for that special person ❤❤
Powerful, and nothing but the truth.
The Tates are actually seriously wise, thoughtful men. Those of us who have actually listened to what they say, instead of listening to the opinions of the ignorant, find them very compelling fellows.
Beautiful. Love these guys.
TRUE MEN RIGHT THERE.
This video should be shown to any person who thinks tate is just a toxic misogynist. Truth is bitter and that's exactly what he says sometimes.