@@NahuCommNS So you're saying simping has nothing to do with a man's actions but rather how she responds to those actions? That doesn't seem logical. How do you know he wasn't just being respectful because he is a gentleman? By my understanding, a simp does what he does to gain a physical relationship with a woman, he doesn't do it out of respect. How do you know he was trying to gain such a thing? Maybe he was just raised to respect women and he was just doing what he thought was right, y'all like to jump to some crazy conclusions lol
@@gimmethatquan5309didn't you watch the beginning like shit he helped her out and everything even got her snacks or whatever with his cash and she already had a bf from the flashback, the bigger guy, she walked in with her hands in his so clearly together she was just using him
Basically he wanted to be friends with her but when she kissed him it reminded him of his toxic ex and so he tried avoid her so he didint have to go through the same pain
There was no using. The frickin girl kissed him and that's when he started acting.... inexplicable. Video makes no sense at all.... unless the message is, guy rejects girl who shows authentic signs of interest. Tf is this?
How many Gatorades does it take to feel used? 2, 20, 100? If you have opportunity buy her more than 2, you should have asked her out by then. Life is short, find a nice girl and always treat her well.
@@JayS.-mm3qrYou are a dumb guy or a girl. The woman wasn't interested but when she wasn't validated no more she started undressing in frobtnof him to get attention back. This is what women do when they friendzone you.
No one deserves to be used and it doesn't matter is your a man or a woman. Women like this make me sick . Personally I don't like excepting help or offers of help from others cause I don't want them to think at any point that their being used. It's sad, but I do it cause I know what it feels like to be used, and it hurts.
@@JayS.-mm3qr I think you missed some of the points they are trying to show in this video. While I don't necessarily agree with what he's trying to say there are 3 phases. 1-He's showing her interest. She's responding with platonic action, perfectly fine. 2- she's with another guy so he starts to avoid her for his own heart feelings. 3- it's only when he rejects her does she show interest and flirt. I think that's what they are trying to show anyway. Could be wrong.
For those who dont understand, the guy behaves nicely to the girl in this story and always helps her with everything. The guy eventually comes to liking the girl but she just uses him for everything. This happens irl too.
@@R.Sole88109 It depends on the manipulator's skills itself. If he/she knows how to make it look extra genuine then there's no way to ever think against them instantly.
@@voltspade I'll leave you with some advice I learnt as a kid. Learn from the mistakes of others, you won't live long enough to make them all yourself.
Nah he was just being overly nice to a girl that was taken. Not only that she looked uncomforted by his gestures and was extremely uninviting. For some odd reason it traumatized him to find out she had a bf so now when a girl shows him interest he acts like this. The other one didn’t go viral so that’s why everyone thinks bro got used or whatever. Ngl this writing is pretty good.
@@efrainmar470 but maybe this makes her confuse, thinking about her and in the end she identfies this feeling attraction, love. Women often back-ratonalize which means: "i think about him, so he has to be a lot for me etc"
Depends on the definition of "nice guy". If a guy is genuine nice guy he will be nice but he will not be a floor mat and he will expect nothing in return. If a guy acts as a "nice guy" to get in her pants but fails to do it so then he has a weak game and it is his fault only - no reason to act as a spoiled brat.
@@ProjectExMachinaand that is why i am no longer nice... you call it "game." But i say, "whats the difference between flirting and harassment? A: If he is hot or not." Thing is i am decent looking... a little squany... could cares less about packing on muscles... i am toned enough. I rather just attract with my natural assets and not try to make up for those areas of weakness with others like that. Social media has globalized the sexual marketplace and vanity and promiscuity has made people ugly... not to mention the irresponsibikity and lack of accountability.
*No - that **_is_** a nice guy that has learned the difference between a dumb one and a smart one.* *Now he knows he should go out with a smart one instead.*
@@wannaspritecranberry6311 The bad guy wants to sleepn with her too. The nice guy just gives her respect and human decency. But i guess women don't like equality that much and want to be treated bad. As a man im not attracted to bad girls. I want a nice girl who is nice to me.
For those that don't understand the reel, he was simping to her so she was using him for attention and anything else she could get out of him until he saw her with Chad, then he realized it was all for nothing and she didn't really like him at all, she liked the other dude instead.
@@davidkreitzer4401 it's not about physique, Chad's are alpha males, the bad boy type that doesn't care what others think; confidence. The Simp is a beta male "nice guy" who puts women up on a pedestal, cares what everything thinks, is a people pleaser, has 0 boundaries and obsesses over 1 women.
If you want to know what makes guys bitter, Redpill or haters of women...its shit like this happening OVER AND OVER again regardless of how "great" and "Safe" they think the girl is.
Yeah but every one of us who gets sucked into that has been f*cked over at some point by a female. It’s not all of them, but one has to be very careful atm.
Nah it’s when you realize women want the opposite of what they say they want. It makes you mad you have been lied to ur whole life. But that’s a good thing bc females want a guy that can stand on buisness and say/do what they want. It’s all biology if you think about it a women wants to feel safe but they don’t feel safe around nice guys that can’t even defend there point of view. They want the ones that have manly traits they can have on their side.That’s who they choose and then they say they want a nice guy but they have never been with a nice guy😬😬and it’s the opposite for a guy we just want a happy nice woman that doesn’t cause problems that’s top priority for me I don’t care about anything else
I find it hilarious of how many people think the red pill brainwashes men. No, it's men experiencing the same things over and over again, they start looking for answers and then they discover red pill. It's not about hating women, it's about learning women's nature.
If you actually like someone, just get to know them a little then ask them out. Don't be overly too nice and give someone everything right away with the hopes for something in return. There's a difference in being a friendly good man, and being too nice. And as soon as someone takes advantage of your kindness set clear boundaries. And bro don't ever give up, do the complete opposite and build yourself up even higher and see what's out there. There's always going to be at least someone who will appreciate and love who you are. You gotta shift through a few rocks to find a diamond.
This is funny. Look, genetics play a role in how you’ll look when you self actualize your physical form, and to some extent, how hard it is for you to get there. I’ll hear sneaky comments sometimes in the sauna, and always call it out. “Whisper, whisper, genetics…blah blah.” No. Do you think training calisthenics at a high level since 16 (40 now), doing Ironmans, Ultramarathons, high level solo alpinism, eating extremely well and understanding nutritional science, regular sauna use, had something to do with it?
Man, ain’t this the exact God’s honest truth. Women wonder why guys want nothing to do with them anymore, or if they do , it’s not for anything long term or serious. I’ve seen this happen to a ton of guys and just shake my head each time .
There aren't straight guys who want nothing to do with women. There are simps who got hurt and can't succeed with women so they get afraid to keep trying and give up. Then say they don't want anything to do with women to feel better about themselves and get mad at females for being what females naturally are. Can't get mad at biology bro you just gotta learn how to cope in the real world. Don't pretend like you don't want anything to do with women, everyone knows that's a lie.
@@grzeh9713lmao dude they don't think they're impressing you. They're fucking the Chad's and you're in the friendzone. Quit lying to yourself, they just don't like you dude. Do better
Oh totally dude. You're such a nice guy with your nazi meme short. Such a nice nice guy. Lmfao no nice guy labels themselves as such. Wasn't shocked when i saw that as your second video. 😂😂 Your a piece of trash just like everyone else time to step down off the delusion horse. 😂
@@jacobstephens6073There is good guys and there is nicw guys who want something in return. Good guys intention by being nice is not take take off her panties but NiceGuys are just being nice cus they want to take of the girls panties. But zhe video is i dont know what is about cus this is nonsense lol.
@@jacobstephens6073 A lot of people seems to not understand the video i don't know why, i think it's pretty easy to understand. The guy clearly being nice to the girl because he likes her, he makes it so obvious, helping her everywhere, even using his cash to buy those drink, and she accepted it all. But she has boyfriend, the big dude that's with her in his flashback, that's why he feel used and want to get away from her
@@jacobstephens6073 Nice people want others around them to feel good by doing favours for them. But many people exploit this habit by using nice guys/girls for their own sake. The worst part is that nice people keep making favours without realising that they are probably being used (unless they notice early)
He's fortunate that he's good-looking, if he would have been an ugly guy, she would have accused him of being a creep when approached her the first time. Remember good-looking=flirting, ugly guy=creep
Welcome 2 life my ugly broski ! Unless you have a shitload of cash it's safer to play in your own league and date an ogre. And I'm not saying this from a position of authority , I'm ugly myself lol , but I've accepted it a long time ago.
This is a deep and well made story about the good guy not falling back into that trap or situation he's already lived from past experiences. But he himself is still trapped in this hurtful protective behaviour.and it might bite him in the butt when he does meet the right person, then he will regret it cause she's gone.
@@jacobstephens6073becuase that's were he was put in the beginning of the relationship. Just like all the ones before her did him.. Just like most after her will.. He is remembering things he has been through and it's keeping him from making the same mistakes as before.
The man's heart was not only broken at one time, but devastated! For only the brief encounters they have at the gym with eye contact and flirty smiles gave him hope. All of that was shattered when she walked in with the juice head. His heart dropped, he will never trust a woman again! Some of the games women play just isn't right! Maybe one day he will trust his heart again.
This is accurate to a T, women should just ask the guy hey why do you do nice things for me? Or do you like me? Instead of just using a guy and stringing him along because she doesn't want to hurt his feelings and so on, yet women get mad when men walk away and then gaslight everyone into believing he was just mad that she didn't like him back. Sad isn't it fellas.
The ones who get have been there or still going through it. The ones who don’t, I’m glad you don’t. Stay strong, stay accountable and watch over yourself boys and girls.
In my gym everyone man and women have headphones on, as a new to the gym about 1 year ago, wanted to ask how to use one machine, i couldn't find one person without headphones, luckily gym manager was passing by so i asked him. In all this time in gym i saw only one guy recording himself once. And i had occasions when women started to 'workout' in front of me for attention or whatever, i knew what is happening so i looked away, they looked at me and left after seeing im into their c r a p.
This is one of those things where you dont get it so you just come up with your own meaning and are like "yeah i get it" but you dont, not a single bit
You may not expect anything, but if you're being insulted, you have my permission to leave. You'd be spending your time more wisely by helping people who'll be grateful for it than ones who dismiss you. By wasting time, you're doing nobody a favor. The world will not be a better place because of this.
You're right, the moment he brought out the card, she changed her tune. Then she was acting all nice to him. Just watched the other videos to make more sense out of this.
I had a gorgeous girl that pursued me endlessly at work, everyone and even my best friends told me she was a sweetheart who was trust worthy. I absolutely liked her back, but I was always too nervous to make it work. Eventually she got sick of being ignored and gave up, but looking back on it I truly had no idea how to date her. Why? Let's just say I've been through an exceptional amount of bullsh*t in the past. I'll leave you to guess what that means.
I never strive to be a nice guy. I always hope that ppl that strive to be a nice guy always get the shit on. What I want is to strive to be a good guy thru and thru with or without a girl. Good guys are the type I always root for
He was all about her so he developed feelings and his insecurities came along with these feelings. Once he reexamined her actions around other men that he witnessed while working out. His already hurt heart went up on guard and chose to be alone rather than taking the chance of another heartbreak. That’s the point of the video
@@Cacaboy666 I disagree. You implied he was hurt and all those funny insecurity accusations used as shaming language. My take is he simply has commonsense and slices through b.s
You lose a part of yourself that you feel can never be regained. The new moments of kindness now have a slight hue, the light no longer gleams as bright, each smile doesn’t last as long or is followed by a watering eye, you become wary of trusting your feelings, intuition now is a default.
When the girl gives all the signs and the second as I nice guy you reciprocate she tells you its not gonna work. Thats why you don't even try with that.
You can easily control a woman that controls you first by suddenly stopping the favors. I love watching their emotions get destroyed after you convinced them you were usable.
Lmao you're a virgin aren't you. This stuff isn't just stereotypical, there's scientific research on this. Women don't like the nice guy. Men who don't get it just haven't been hurt enough yet and still live in a fantasy. Unless you're like 6'5, rich and have a perfectly symmetrical face then you can be as nice as you want but 95+% of guys can't be the nice guy. And in the bedroom you can NEVER be the nice guy
As the nice guy towards everyone except himself. Just know being the nice guy will always make you finish last. So why am I still the nice guy? I still hate myself so I want to reflect my positive feelings towards ether people to make them smile, happy, laugh, blush etc as that makes me happy. Learning to be comfortable In your skin doesn’t go hand in hand with loving yourself. Focus on you king, do YOU’RE best, try YOU’RE hardest. Keep that chin up, suck your stomach in, shoulders back and smile you’ve got this fam no matter how hard it gets doesn’t mean you should quit. Just keep going everyone believes in you and if no one does. Well just remember I do
Keep talking like that and thinking like that and you'll be a virgin for life. Never advertise weakness like that. And never sacrifice your pride and live for others unless it's your wife or children.
Seriously I'm trying to help you out. Don't talk in a soft way like that as a man. Even if that's how you feel on the inside. It's okay to feel that way but you gotta portray some level of hardness, you don't gotta be a dick but when a grown man starts spewing off all this lovey dovey mushiness people will LIKE you but won't RESPECT you, especially not women. Women will like you a lot as a friend but they will never even consider dating you or fucking you.
For those who don't get it. It's a simp who slowly realises the girl giving him breadcrumbs doesn't actually like him at all and only gives him little touches and stuff for attention. He sees him with another guy and realises she's manipulating him for attention. He then decides to cut himself off from her, she then tries to get attention from him and he starts ignoring her.
Rule number one: Love yourself (put yourself first ALWAYS). Rule number 2: Never let any girl treat you as an option. Last rule: Never simp Ive been played before by not only girls but people who i thought were there for me and man did it hurt. From there i made the decision to stop caring for others and took the cold hearted route. Only talk when its necessary, get my errands done and go on about my day. Cant tell the last time ive felt the need to cry or anything, just feeling emotionless and ive come to accept it.
You'll get it when you get older and have more experience. It honestly shocks me how many zoomers don't get it though. By the time you graduate Highschool you should be able to understand this video
The same thing happened to me. My ex came to my gym and I have been avoiding her like him. I don't want to replay bad memories when I have already moved on. It's harder for men to move on. Every man knows that by heart.
So basically he was just chillin at first and helping her but as the time passed he observed her getting better and better with rapid growths in physic. He started to acknowledge her natural potential and feared she might take away the local bb championship on which he has been working for years. Thus, in order to regain his ambition he continued to avoid her company and any type of distractions and focus on being the best version of himself.
They think a nice guy is weak but when he's had enough watch out.the old saying he is a nice guy but don't ever cross him. you see he doesn't just think of him self all the time. and he is the true warrior among us. the one who pulls over and fixes your flat tire. it's all about love the secret to life is love so many people have died defending love.and you know what. we all need love what is so wrong or weak about that so cheers to all us nice guys
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A. Stop simping
B. Don't ever be an option
C. Set boundaries and hold them. Attention is currency don't spend it so easily
💯🎯
How do you know he was simping? What if he was just being a gentleman?
@@joefriesen5296 Is she giving him something of equal value in exchange? If not, he's simping.
Being respectful to women is not “simping”.
@@NahuCommNS So you're saying simping has nothing to do with a man's actions but rather how she responds to those actions? That doesn't seem logical. How do you know he wasn't just being respectful because he is a gentleman? By my understanding, a simp does what he does to gain a physical relationship with a woman, he doesn't do it out of respect. How do you know he was trying to gain such a thing? Maybe he was just raised to respect women and he was just doing what he thought was right, y'all like to jump to some crazy conclusions lol
The guy's like: Let me do my reps damn.
Why was the guy so mean to her tho…
@@gimmethatquan5309because he didnt want to be in a toxic relationship or used
@@Jep0.0 he seems more like the toxic one from this point of view…
@@gimmethatquan5309 i dont know im just going off the vid title
@@gimmethatquan5309didn't you watch the beginning like shit he helped her out and everything even got her snacks or whatever with his cash and she already had a bf from the flashback, the bigger guy, she walked in with her hands in his so clearly together she was just using him
Im not understanding shit rn
Basically he wanted to be friends with her but when she kissed him it reminded him of his toxic ex and so he tried avoid her so he didint have to go through the same pain
you can watch part 1 and part 2
@@iffah_hana_
I think there might be 2 of each.
@@TreyCaterIts his sister if I sure
@@TreyCaterthat is the most retarded shit I've ever heard
Self-respect is always better than the friend zone
Okay, incel.
@@bradydavis5791 who am I an incel???
100% agreed. 👏🏻
@@bradydavis5791incels wait in the friendzone like you.
@@definiteg4909The guy calling you an incel is probably projecting his own issues.
I’m either
a) missing something
b) high as fuck
c) having a stroke
d) all of the above
e) THIS IS ALL A DREAM DECKARD, JUST A DREAM
stroke
D
I’m b and c
This comment took me out 😂😂
This is how villan arcs start. He's been used before. The trauma is causing flashbacks and now he's put his walls up.
This isn't an anime my dude tf you talking about villan arc nigga
glad you could stick a narrative onto this HORSESHIT.
Boom
Yup
That's how it starts, sir. The fever, the rage, the feeling of powerlessness that turns good men... cruel.
This is every single slice of WTF with a “where exactly am I?” cherry on top 🥇🤮
You called?
the anime
If this the final part I don't wanna know what the first part is
As you get older you learn a lot, don't worry you will understand that women are replaceable very quickly. Just don't fall in love with a 304
You let you into the comments section man @StayGold.
Some men take a long time to get fed up being used. Whe they had enough, they are done.
There was no using. The frickin girl kissed him and that's when he started acting.... inexplicable. Video makes no sense at all.... unless the message is, guy rejects girl who shows authentic signs of interest. Tf is this?
How many Gatorades does it take to feel used? 2, 20, 100? If you have opportunity buy her more than 2, you should have asked her out by then. Life is short, find a nice girl and always treat her well.
@@JayS.-mm3qrYou are a dumb guy or a girl. The woman wasn't interested but when she wasn't validated no more she started undressing in frobtnof him to get attention back. This is what women do when they friendzone you.
No one deserves to be used and it doesn't matter is your a man or a woman. Women like this make me sick . Personally I don't like excepting help or offers of help from others cause I don't want them to think at any point that their being used. It's sad, but I do it cause I know what it feels like to be used, and it hurts.
@@JayS.-mm3qr I think you missed some of the points they are trying to show in this video. While I don't necessarily agree with what he's trying to say there are 3 phases. 1-He's showing her interest. She's responding with platonic action, perfectly fine. 2- she's with another guy so he starts to avoid her for his own heart feelings. 3- it's only when he rejects her does she show interest and flirt.
I think that's what they are trying to show anyway. Could be wrong.
For those who dont understand, the guy behaves nicely to the girl in this story and always helps her with everything. The guy eventually comes to liking the girl but she just uses him for everything. This happens irl too.
Only if you let it.
The secret is stop thinking with your short head😉
@@R.Sole88109 It depends on the manipulator's skills itself. If he/she knows how to make it look extra genuine then there's no way to ever think against them instantly.
@@voltspade
I'll leave you with some advice I learnt as a kid.
Learn from the mistakes of others, you won't live long enough to make them all yourself.
She looks like she’s ready to hop on. Using him would look a little different.
@@R.Sole88109 Nobody is interested in other's lives. We learn from our own mistakes.
these two just discovered a new kdrama genre: Gym Melodrama 💀
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
"I can't get fooled again"
@@Uniulehits hard
It’s also in mystery of ascaris dragon prince netflix
-a wise man
“Fool me one time, shame on you, fool me twice, can’t put the blame on you”
Hes scared of it all happening again
Yeah man yeah
Oh yeah
Nah he was just being overly nice to a girl that was taken. Not only that she looked uncomforted by his gestures and was extremely uninviting. For some odd reason it traumatized him to find out she had a bf so now when a girl shows him interest he acts like this. The other one didn’t go viral so that’s why everyone thinks bro got used or whatever. Ngl this writing is pretty good.
@Swysherr she literally kissed him ln the cheek in the beginning.
Definitely
She only started seeing him in that way when he didn’t want her
Bingo
They always want things they cant have
Nah. They don't start seeing you in a different way, they only want the guy's attention back.
@@efrainmar470you said it
@@efrainmar470 but maybe this makes her confuse, thinking about her and in the end she identfies this feeling attraction, love. Women often back-ratonalize which means: "i think about him, so he has to be a lot for me etc"
He learned his lesson, felt like a fool. Now avoids u and your bs. Smart man
My advice to all young men stay single stay sober n have a happy life 🎉
The fantasy world where a random girl would ever interact this much with a gymcell for any reason.
Straight up! I had to watch it twice to get the point he was making😂
Tf is a gymcell?
@@DuolingoWrath Incel who inhabits the gym, I assume.
@@aquamarine99911 Interesting.
Christ. Gymcel? Really?
Some guys who are nice don't like to be used.
i think u meant all guys:))))
Depends on the definition of "nice guy". If a guy is genuine nice guy he will be nice but he will not be a floor mat and he will expect nothing in return. If a guy acts as a "nice guy" to get in her pants but fails to do it so then he has a weak game and it is his fault only - no reason to act as a spoiled brat.
@ProjectExMachina the first is a normal kind person, the second is a people pleaser
@@ProjectExMachinaand that is why i am no longer nice... you call it "game." But i say, "whats the difference between flirting and harassment? A: If he is hot or not."
Thing is i am decent looking... a little squany... could cares less about packing on muscles... i am toned enough. I rather just attract with my natural assets and not try to make up for those areas of weakness with others like that. Social media has globalized the sexual marketplace and vanity and promiscuity has made people ugly... not to mention the irresponsibikity and lack of accountability.
@@JJ-xi5or Not so much people pleaser as an entitled brat - "I am nice to you so you MUST fall head over heals for me or you are bad person"
Her having negative rizz is crazy
Just because the other person is broken, doesn't make her rizz negative
He just wanted the bag nothing much else from her. So waste of time
you don't understand
Tbh this is actually very on point 😂 the moment you start showing interest back to a guy is the moment he loses interest .. usually
@@sammyz4evaReally? I personally loses interest when the girls are playing hard to get or just don't like me. I like girls that like me back.
Thx for making this very relatable reel.
Gives us nice guys some form of recognition
A bro betrayed in less than 1 minute. I love short stories.
Thats not a nice guy, that is a respectful guy who have self respect
Just because you hate the word nice it won't change the meaning. Thats a nice guy who got disrespected. Stop corrupting words.
I think he payed for her stuff. That's very nice guy move
*No - that **_is_** a nice guy that has learned the difference between a dumb one and a smart one.*
*Now he knows he should go out with a smart one instead.*
@@tuinov6286most people say nice guy when they talk about a man who acts nice with a girl only to sneak in her bed
@@wannaspritecranberry6311 The bad guy wants to sleepn with her too. The nice guy just gives her respect and human decency. But i guess women don't like equality that much and want to be treated bad. As a man im not attracted to bad girls. I want a nice girl who is nice to me.
For those that don't understand the reel, he was simping to her so she was using him for attention and anything else she could get out of him until he saw her with Chad, then he realized it was all for nothing and she didn't really like him at all, she liked the other dude instead.
You mean the dude she was talk to while she made side eyes to the hard gainer?
They are BOTH Chad's, one is just more massive than the other huge guy.
The nice guy is facially attractive but could put on more muscle
@@Blinkers2007GameDev wtf...he has more muscle than estetic
@@davidkreitzer4401 it's not about physique, Chad's are alpha males, the bad boy type that doesn't care what others think; confidence. The Simp is a beta male "nice guy" who puts women up on a pedestal, cares what everything thinks, is a people pleaser, has 0 boundaries and obsesses over 1 women.
If you want to know what makes guys bitter, Redpill or haters of women...its shit like this happening OVER AND OVER again regardless of how "great" and "Safe" they think the girl is.
Yeah but every one of us who gets sucked into that has been f*cked over at some point by a female. It’s not all of them, but one has to be very careful atm.
Nah it’s when you realize women want the opposite of what they say they want. It makes you mad you have been lied to ur whole life. But that’s a good thing bc females want a guy that can stand on buisness and say/do what they want. It’s all biology if you think about it a women wants to feel safe but they don’t feel safe around nice guys that can’t even defend there point of view. They want the ones that have manly traits they can have on their side.That’s who they choose and then they say they want a nice guy but they have never been with a nice guy😬😬and it’s the opposite for a guy we just want a happy nice woman that doesn’t cause problems that’s top priority for me I don’t care about anything else
I find it hilarious of how many people think the red pill brainwashes men. No, it's men experiencing the same things over and over again, they start looking for answers and then they discover red pill. It's not about hating women, it's about learning women's nature.
Nawalt, /rolleyes
This has been me my whole life and I’m not even sure why. It’s almost made me want to give up on everything.
I don't give up just because I don't want people talking about how I gave up 🫠
If you actually like someone, just get to know them a little then ask them out. Don't be overly too nice and give someone everything right away with the hopes for something in return. There's a difference in being a friendly good man, and being too nice. And as soon as someone takes advantage of your kindness set clear boundaries.
And bro don't ever give up, do the complete opposite and build yourself up even higher and see what's out there. There's always going to be at least someone who will appreciate and love who you are. You gotta shift through a few rocks to find a diamond.
Relationships are not worth it
I am now committed to my bank account.
Lol, many women despise nice guys. They view his strength that way as a weakness. But if true, bravo. What if he invited you to church?
If only this wasn’t for the 1% of guys who are nice and built like Aphrodite and ares made a golden child, strong and gorgeous.
None of us are made I’ll admit some or gifted with genetic gifts but even you can build muscle and achieve great strength put in the work
1/100 is still quite a lot considering the billions of people in the world
@@comboghastakazombiehackerm602 ye, but consider it in 4-5 "school classes" of your year. It would be THAT guy/girl you remember out of 100 ppl
This is funny.
Look, genetics play a role in how you’ll look when you self actualize your physical form, and to some extent, how hard it is for you to get there.
I’ll hear sneaky comments sometimes in the sauna, and always call it out. “Whisper, whisper, genetics…blah blah.”
No. Do you think training calisthenics at a high level since 16 (40 now), doing Ironmans, Ultramarathons, high level solo alpinism, eating extremely well and understanding nutritional science, regular sauna use, had something to do with it?
@@Patrick-wc7nj if in the sauna they're talking about the donger then they're right about genetics 🤣🤣
Man, ain’t this the exact God’s honest truth. Women wonder why guys want nothing to do with them anymore, or if they do , it’s not for anything long term or serious. I’ve seen this happen to a ton of guys and just shake my head each time .
It happens to me and those girls think they impress me by meeting with Chads
Guys dont want anything to do with girls? Is everybody here very gay? ,get off the net in reality even ugly dudes got wives and girlfriends.
Finally someone see it 😅🎉
There aren't straight guys who want nothing to do with women. There are simps who got hurt and can't succeed with women so they get afraid to keep trying and give up. Then say they don't want anything to do with women to feel better about themselves and get mad at females for being what females naturally are. Can't get mad at biology bro you just gotta learn how to cope in the real world. Don't pretend like you don't want anything to do with women, everyone knows that's a lie.
@@grzeh9713lmao dude they don't think they're impressing you. They're fucking the Chad's and you're in the friendzone. Quit lying to yourself, they just don't like you dude. Do better
For those who didn't understand,
" I ALSO FREAKIN DIDN'T UNDERSTOOD!!! "
Freedom is better than need them! Stay strong Kings! Chase excellence, not women!
As a nice guy i know this feeling
Oh totally dude. You're such a nice guy with your nazi meme short. Such a nice nice guy. Lmfao no nice guy labels themselves as such. Wasn't shocked when i saw that as your second video. 😂😂 Your a piece of trash just like everyone else time to step down off the delusion horse. 😂
What is the feeling? I don't get what this video is saying
@@jacobstephens6073There is good guys and there is nicw guys who want something in return.
Good guys intention by being nice is not take take off her panties but NiceGuys are just being nice cus they want to take of the girls panties.
But zhe video is i dont know what is about cus this is nonsense lol.
@@jacobstephens6073 A lot of people seems to not understand the video i don't know why, i think it's pretty easy to understand. The guy clearly being nice to the girl because he likes her, he makes it so obvious, helping her everywhere, even using his cash to buy those drink, and she accepted it all. But she has boyfriend, the big dude that's with her in his flashback, that's why he feel used and want to get away from her
@@jacobstephens6073 Nice people want others around them to feel good by doing favours for them. But many people exploit this habit by using nice guys/girls for their own sake. The worst part is that nice people keep making favours without realising that they are probably being used (unless they notice early)
He's fortunate that he's good-looking, if he would have been an ugly guy, she would have accused him of being a creep when approached her the first time. Remember good-looking=flirting, ugly guy=creep
You can try and do it irl instead of the sigma videos
Guys it’s almost 2025, we’re all creeps
Welcome 2 life my ugly broski !
Unless you have a shitload of cash it's safer to play in your own league and date an ogre.
And I'm not saying this from a position of authority , I'm ugly myself lol , but I've accepted it a long time ago.
Ain't that the truth
This is a deep and well made story about the good guy not falling back into that trap or situation he's already lived from past experiences. But he himself is still trapped in this hurtful protective behaviour.and it might bite him in the butt when he does meet the right person, then he will regret it cause she's gone.
Why he's refusing to get out of the friend zone?
@@jacobstephens6073becuase that's were he was put in the beginning of the relationship.
Just like all the ones before her did him..
Just like most after her will..
He is remembering things he has been through and it's keeping him from making the same mistakes as before.
@@marcanthony8475 Ah I see
Booooommmm!!!!
If they don't deserve you! They will fuckin show it
The man's heart was not only broken at one time, but devastated! For only the brief encounters they have at the gym with eye contact and flirty smiles gave him hope. All of that was shattered when she walked in with the juice head. His heart dropped, he will never trust a woman again! Some of the games women play just isn't right! Maybe one day he will trust his heart again.
exactly
Being kind and caring is one of the most important things. 😮💨😮💨💪😮💨
Not if you want to attract women my guy. Keep running with that philosophy and see where that gets you. You'll learn
@@McCarthy1776what about Tom holland?
Imagine helping someone without expecting them to fall in love with you?
Pls pin this so the simps learn something today
She was teasing him all along.
@@cliftongalea6544Why, because she gave him a kiss on the cheek? To some people that’s a normal thing to do to a friend.
This is accurate to a T, women should just ask the guy hey why do you do nice things for me? Or do you like me? Instead of just using a guy and stringing him along because she doesn't want to hurt his feelings and so on, yet women get mad when men walk away and then gaslight everyone into believing he was just mad that she didn't like him back. Sad isn't it fellas.
Or maybe men just need to learn and stop letting themselves be used.
“Not this time buster”
The ones who get have been there or still going through it.
The ones who don’t, I’m glad you don’t.
Stay strong, stay accountable and watch over yourself boys and girls.
Being a nice guy towards someone you love and doesn't show anything or doesn't love you back does hurt. still hurts
Don't show love to someone who reciprocates nothing. If she refuses to like you, she is probably not worth it.
Im going to stop the chain
🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡
🫡🫡🫡🫡🫡
Broke the stupid chain
Wut iz 'the chain'?
Just don't stop the "gains" king
Gym drama. Now i know why some guys put on headphones and zone out.
In my gym everyone man and women have headphones on, as a new to the gym about 1 year ago, wanted to ask how to use one machine, i couldn't find one person without headphones, luckily gym manager was passing by so i asked him.
In all this time in gym i saw only one guy recording himself once.
And i had occasions when women started to 'workout' in front of me for attention or whatever, i knew what is happening so i looked away, they looked at me and left after seeing im into their c r a p.
@@IloveGod-q4qoh really bro. Why did you assume they want attention no hate brother just asking
Seems like dude didn't want sloppy seconds lmao
It feels better to reject women than sloppy seconds. It seems like you have no experience and you are desperate😂
This is one of those things where you dont get it so you just come up with your own meaning and are like "yeah i get it" but you dont, not a single bit
Be good because you are good, don't expect anything in return, heroes don't save the world because of the glory, but because it needs to be saved
Lavora alla vigna?
You may not expect anything, but if you're being insulted, you have my permission to leave. You'd be spending your time more wisely by helping people who'll be grateful for it than ones who dismiss you. By wasting time, you're doing nobody a favor. The world will not be a better place because of this.
Its not nice to be nice in a cruel world we live in
You better say that again, but LOUDER Sir! 🫡
Word. Learnt that shit the hard way
Bro got the last huey out of Nam with that 1000yd stare
I almost choked from laughing. He is chunk norris walking through the bug out lmao
This is really great edit 😭🌟
That girl reminds me of someone. 😂♥️
She change her mind after she saw the America express card lol 😂
Facts😂
lol. Was about to comment she should have ran. That's a red flag if he's using a platinum card to buy snacks. He's getting no value from that.
You're right, the moment he brought out the card, she changed her tune.
Then she was acting all nice to him.
Just watched the other videos to make more sense out of this.
I had a gorgeous girl that pursued me endlessly at work, everyone and even my best friends told me she was a sweetheart who was trust worthy.
I absolutely liked her back, but I was always too nervous to make it work. Eventually she got sick of being ignored and gave up, but looking back on it I truly had no idea how to date her.
Why? Let's just say I've been through an exceptional amount of bullsh*t in the past. I'll leave you to guess what that means.
I never strive to be a nice guy. I always hope that ppl that strive to be a nice guy always get the shit on. What I want is to strive to be a good guy thru and thru with or without a girl. Good guys are the type I always root for
Nice = good
He was all about her so he developed feelings and his insecurities came along with these feelings. Once he reexamined her actions around other men that he witnessed while working out. His already hurt heart went up on guard and chose to be alone rather than taking the chance of another heartbreak.
That’s the point of the video
Thanks for the explanation because I had no freaking idea wtf just happened.
@@thattrickydudeHe is completely wrong though. It's about a guy who refuses to stay in the friendzone.
Naah...he simply got his wits about him finally and stopped giving her the one thing she needs more than oxygen: Attention.
@@marcmuwanga68 way to just say the same thing twice 🙌🏻
@@Cacaboy666 I disagree. You implied he was hurt and all those funny insecurity accusations used as shaming language.
My take is he simply has commonsense and slices through b.s
I can’t wait for you to have the comment section you deserve, keep going brother only a matter of time
You lose a part of yourself that you feel can never be regained. The new moments of kindness now have a slight hue, the light no longer gleams as bright, each smile doesn’t last as long or is followed by a watering eye, you become wary of trusting your feelings, intuition now is a default.
Fellas remember when we used to go to the gym to lift heavy weights?
This is actually beautifully shot. Well done 👍
When the girl gives all the signs and the second as I nice guy you reciprocate she tells you its not gonna work. Thats why you don't even try with that.
As someone who has suffered a lot of setbacks recently. This video found me. Time to get into Hatebreed. Thanks PRMBA.
You can easily control a woman that controls you first by suddenly stopping the favors. I love watching their emotions get destroyed after you convinced them you were usable.
This is true nice people are always getting taken advantage of and yet we get bad things happen to us😢
Bless you
This is the reason why I don't talk to anyone at the gym.
Bro forgot to buy comments😭
😂😂😂😂😂
wdym
Show the part where the rich guy walks in and the girl discards everyone who actually cares about her.
"I'm not going to stop the wheel... I'm going to break the wheel."
I'm pretty sure the person who said that became exactly what they were trying to destroy.
@ryancbarrett96 just like bro will
Pov: "the nice guy" more like the sigma guy
That guy is not a Sigma. Sigmas accept rejection and know how to deal with it. This guy is a hurt Omega.
@@winfriedmaus probs ur right but i said with sense of humour
This hits so deep, stay strong
I felt that. I think everybody who trains long enough had this kind of situation at least once.
In reality, 'nice guy' is a Chad, and she would be repulsed by the 'roid head.
Lmao you're a virgin aren't you. This stuff isn't just stereotypical, there's scientific research on this. Women don't like the nice guy. Men who don't get it just haven't been hurt enough yet and still live in a fantasy. Unless you're like 6'5, rich and have a perfectly symmetrical face then you can be as nice as you want but 95+% of guys can't be the nice guy.
And in the bedroom you can NEVER be the nice guy
Absolutely devastating, not the situation but this video. Wtf man, wht yo tryin na say
Nah for real 😂
Amazing editing! It was actually sad 😥
This is sooo goood. He gets spooked by the gol digger vibes then realizes everything at the end
As the nice guy towards everyone except himself. Just know being the nice guy will always make you finish last.
So why am I still the nice guy?
I still hate myself so I want to reflect my positive feelings towards ether people to make them smile, happy, laugh, blush etc as that makes me happy.
Learning to be comfortable In your skin doesn’t go hand in hand with loving yourself.
Focus on you king, do YOU’RE best, try YOU’RE hardest. Keep that chin up, suck your stomach in, shoulders back and smile you’ve got this fam no matter how hard it gets doesn’t mean you should quit. Just keep going everyone believes in you and if no one does. Well just remember I do
Keep talking like that and thinking like that and you'll be a virgin for life. Never advertise weakness like that. And never sacrifice your pride and live for others unless it's your wife or children.
And it's "your" not "you're" that means "you are" lol
Seriously I'm trying to help you out. Don't talk in a soft way like that as a man. Even if that's how you feel on the inside. It's okay to feel that way but you gotta portray some level of hardness, you don't gotta be a dick but when a grown man starts spewing off all this lovey dovey mushiness people will LIKE you but won't RESPECT you, especially not women. Women will like you a lot as a friend but they will never even consider dating you or fucking you.
Half of what you said is good shit, just don't say it like that lol. Don't sound like a left wing guidance councilor
Imagine a guy did all of that 😂
Friend zoned with a vengence 😂😂
My brain farded and shitted itself
Oh my god, look at that Amex platinum card! That silver color radiating class and stature everywhere!
I know that pain bro, I've been through that more than one time
Remember, nice guys always finish last.
Dont run the race if u think u will finish last
Not true. People who have met or know Tom Hanks (just to name one of many), say he's the nicest person you'll ever meet.
@@garygoodrich7495 The nicest person is the most fake.
@@russellfield5010 You're sad and pathetic.
@@russellfield5010Tell Keanu Reeves that.
What a rollercoaster of emotions omg
Man: "I just wanna workout!" 😫
For those who don't get it. It's a simp who slowly realises the girl giving him breadcrumbs doesn't actually like him at all and only gives him little touches and stuff for attention. He sees him with another guy and realises she's manipulating him for attention. He then decides to cut himself off from her, she then tries to get attention from him and he starts ignoring her.
Rule number one: Love yourself (put yourself first ALWAYS).
Rule number 2: Never let any girl treat you as an option.
Last rule: Never simp
Ive been played before by not only girls but people who i thought were there for me and man did it hurt. From there i made the decision to stop caring for others and took the cold hearted route. Only talk when its necessary, get my errands done and go on about my day. Cant tell the last time ive felt the need to cry or anything, just feeling emotionless and ive come to accept it.
Where's the person who gives an in-depth paragraph explaining what's going on?
Theres part 1 and part 2
@@TheAdviser1 Ah.
Lost in translation.
You'll get it when you get older and have more experience. It honestly shocks me how many zoomers don't get it though. By the time you graduate Highschool you should be able to understand this video
@@McCarthy1776 Uh. I'm old enough to look like a discount Santa Clause. And I still didn't get it.
leave him alone gurl 😂
This is deep man but i do want love 😢
It's an illusion. Most people aren't even in love anyway, they try to give the facade
The same thing happened to me. My ex came to my gym and I have been avoiding her like him. I don't want to replay bad memories when I have already moved on. It's harder for men to move on. Every man knows that by heart.
As much as I hate the word “cringe”, there is just no better word to describe this video. Truly horrifying levels of it as well
Yes yes, a dude who got used before is afraid of it happening again, what a tragedy when someone is nice back for once
He is not afraid, he just learned his lession haha
So basically he was just chillin at first and helping her but as the time passed he observed her getting better and better with rapid growths in physic. He started to acknowledge her natural potential and feared she might take away the local bb championship on which he has been working for years. Thus, in order to regain his ambition he continued to avoid her company and any type of distractions and focus on being the best version of himself.
She came off as a creepy stalker
Nahh you guys need God😭😭😭
Nope. No one needs this fictitious mf 😂💀
Nah, we don't need imaginary friends. 😂
@@EllasPOSEiDONRepent brother. Find Jesus.
@@stevo1110 Just as I said before. We don't need imaginary friends. Wake up from from the delusion, find reality.
@@EllasPOSEiDONrepent.
His fault- he accepted her behavior and she took advantage of it.
They think a nice guy is weak but when he's had enough watch out.the old saying he is a nice guy but don't ever cross him. you see he doesn't just think of him self all the time. and he is the true warrior among us. the one who pulls over and fixes your flat tire. it's all about love the secret to life is love so many people have died defending love.and you know what. we all need love what is so wrong or weak about that so cheers to all us nice guys
It's good to test them, because who the hell wants fake respect.
Who else waited for the hardstyle to kick in?
Bro nice guys finish last
Ayo are u with the girl
Some don’t even finish the race.
Nice guys finish last, also nice guys have the right to reject used good's .
Most don't even get into the arena, let alone the race
@@mariotop742 bro what you mean with "reject"? You cant reject nothing.
Whoever directed this has a future! Add a SCRIPT on the next one. Good work.
Happens way more and subtle than people realize.
And she'll say the nice guy is abusive.
Why is this so good 😭
I get it! she got in his head without him wanting her there. I relate... so many just wanna make you feel sick all over
That's not what happened in the video😂
@@McCarthy1776 what was it?