I would never hook up with my husband in my daughter's bed. That's so f*cking creepy. One time while my daughter stayed the night at her grandma's, I was chilling on her bed after cleaning up the room a bit and my husband came in, asked if I wanted to do the dirty, and we both proceeded to leave her room and go to our own. Because that is f*cking wierd to do that in your child's bed. Period.
This exactly! Just because sex is how your child was conceived doesn't mean you have the right to go at it in their bed in the apartment they share with someone else. It's creepier for parents to do it in their child's bed than their sibling doing that in their bed.
My mom did that... While I wasn't home. She had also done things with her bf (ex now) with me in the same room. I was sleeping on the couch because I was sick with a fever and I was 16 years old. She told me it was my fault for not sleeping in my room.
The person who was threatened with instutionalisation and had the stroke due to the stress. That is horrific and I feel bad for them. Their parents are selfish monsters that they cant even admit to being inconsiderate and causing the stress event.
I'd find it difficult to move past this, with both parents and husband. So she's actively suffering from anxiety (not any other diagnosis), says that a short stint hasn't "fixed" her (there's nothing to fix, only regulate/medicate) and they wanted to send her away, by herself (be it locked away or to the mountains)... this isn't 1950, you can google a diagnosis, find ways to help, what symptoms are, triggers, talk with professionals. Awful people, I really hope the hubby takes a really good look in the mirror and becomes a better partner
If they aren't right.. because if they are, the story would be 95% delusion and would actually make more sense than if she weren't.. the problem with mental health issue in women is that they are so much better than men at masking and are constantly misdiagnosed and released too early from services. As someone who spent 5 years living with someone who is bipolar I see this story as a delusional rant due to persecution fantasies
@@JosephEllis-ep7sg So you think, the storey as read in the video was posted by a fantasist and that none of it happened? Possible, but also if it did, there would be a huge slice of irony to not believe it. I suppose there are a larger amount of fantasists posting online then we think the number is. So worth having that pinch of salt.
The first story Yes the mother was in her right to not buy the concert tickets because the girl needs to learn a lesson that there are consequences for your actions
The dad complaining about 36 hours, while I as a 20 year old student work 41,5 hours a week. And 23,5 hours not even getting paid because that is just internship. The dad gets on my nerves
I don't think he's really that upset about thirty six hours. I think he's more upset that she didn't communicate any of her decision, And didn't let him have a say. I think that they should have came to an agreement about what the money was going to be used for, And future working arrangements. I think it would have worked out best if they both went down to working 3 Days a week (24). That way both of them could have four days off a week to be with their kids and each other. As a (31 yr old) I'm used to working 61 hours a week but I also have no kids
@@MtnDewWarriorWorking full time while studying is commendable and time consuming lol. Specially if you only get paid for around half that working time
I think the SAHM should agree that she needs to earn her spending money, then send a bill to her husband charging the local going rates for providing daycare, cleaning services, ubering as needed, and the other services she does that would need to be hired out if they were both working. Of course since the baby is a shared child and the home is a shared home, she can offer to comp 50%, so he only has to pay "his share".
Not the jerk for the OP left out of their moms will. It’s messed up how the mom drew it up to avoid family conflict just to truly create it sooner than later smh
I'm wondering if the OP was the dad's affair baby or something. So weird to adopt and raise a child then alienate them in such a cruel way in front of their siblings.
mom is a really nasty person for gaslighting her adoptive daughter and trying to make everyone turn against her by playing the victim! did she adopt her just to hang it over her head, to make herself look like a savior in the eyes of others? how could she say those things to her daughter.
Basement girl was likely never told by the landlord that the reason or said no is because the landlord refused to take it off the bill so she probly just thinks he's keeping it cuz he wants it. Of course the landlord isn't gonna make it seem like they r the reason
I have always been taught that the homeowners sit at the head and foot of the table. A guest even more senior does not. Growing up in a house of 8, I ended up with a “boarding house reach” to serve myself. An old mechanic taught me a trick to help clean hands after working on a car. Dig your nails into a bar of soap prior to starting work. The soap will flow away leaving clean nails.
Lmfao even if you're unemployed you still have to pay child support. Dude thought he was a genius "I'll just quit and report no income".You have a minimum to pay, and if you don't, you go to jail. It's that simple.
The child support story: if the dad decides to quit his job, he'll still be responsible for support based on his "earning potential". Basically, his income from his last job. She needs to go ahead and take home to court and start taking pictures of the clothes he sends their son home in. Also, record EVERY conversation they have on the phone or in person. Obviously, don't break the law to get your evidence.
@@alexandermccall227 I had a similar problem. My two sons would go to their father's every other weekend where there were 5 other children. Several times I saw his step kids wearing clothes that I bought for my boys! I also did not get any child support as worked two jobs for their needs. He had the nerve to tell me that I was out of line for demanding that the other kids not wear my sons' clothing!
the parking spot thing is dumb as hell. the landlord can just swap the amount that he charges for the spot to basement girl so he isn't losing money, basement girl gets the spot and OP gets a reduced rent
Uni student is absolutely NOT the A-hole! James is not her child! The parents just assume that she'll make their lives easier and they arent above gaslighting her to get their way! The fact that her brothers jigh school studies preclude him from being able to help, but her Uni schedule does not, just proves they have no concern for her needs.
Mom who left adopted child out of will... I would apologize by saying "I'm so sorry you don't see me as your real daughter because I've always loved you as my real mom"... But I'm petty af
When FIL said I won't eat then, I think OP said exactly the right thing. When someone acts passive aggressively the best thing to do is call their bluff.
@@VoodooAngel63 what else should they say, right? Argue with the FIL? Allow the FIL to manipulate the situation to get their way? No. Absolutely the correct response. Makes it clear that BS won't be accommodated in their home!
The lady with the panic attacks needs to be away from her parents. What is the saying? "The road to hell is paved with:" oh. Thats right, what the parents say, "good intentions." She and hubby need to leave. As for the kid STEALING food from her diabetic step mom. She does need to be punished. She needs to understand why this is wrong. I wonder if she does it to have someone pay attention to her? If dad will not take care of it, you buy a locking fridge and keep your things in it. Op on the bus and the lady with the fake baby. NTA. Those are creepy af.
That sister who dumps her kids off at her siblings door is a horrible mother. I hate how like 90% of parents I’ve met are such selfish jerks. So many people focus on how much they want a baby, they don’t stop to wonder if they actually deserve one.
Listening to that story just irritated me! My husband is diabetic and I have food sensitivities, so I can understand where she's coming from. I make sure to have snacks and meals that my husband can eat, and the same for me. If I was in OP's place, I may be looking at divorce, if he didn't do something to correct his daughter's behavior and possibly therapy. It sounds like something is going on with the stepdaughter for the change in attitude after a long-term relationship like that.
@@Travis7x70probably is. The dad is going to enable it until OP has enough and wants a divorce. Messing with a diabetics food or eating it all can be bad and he needs to defend his wife while also finding out what’s up with his kid
The one with the "boy"friend and the safe: if you have to do all that, then you should just break up. He clearly doesn't respect your boundaries and probably gets off on doing it. Not worth the pain of having to lock your things up from someone you should be able to trust.
Wow. The a-hole who refused to pay for his wife's (SAHM) hobbies... In this case, I sincerely hope she starts charging him rent for living RENT FREE in her house and for having funded a cushy retirement fund for him. He is ridiculously cheap, insanely greedy, and an absolute moron to top it off.
So, she takes her retirement and pays off the house and buys some stuff for them then quits her job so that she can live the life of being retired yet doesn't have any money to spend on herself and then demands that her husband keeps working and giving her more money so that she can live it up while he has to still work?
@@whitedragon153if her requests are what you consider "living it up", I feel sorry for your spouse. She paid off his portion of the mortgage. Being fair would require him to pay her rent which she could in turn use on the items she wants to buy.
@@whitedragon153or she could just take the money she invested in his retirement back, since it's hers. He won't have any more retirement plan but hey you'll have to spend less money on her " hobbies". I think you're also forgetting that she is not working because she's staying at home and taking care of their child. Childcare is ridiculously expensive and it doesn't sound like they have enough money to cover that anyway.
@@whitedragon153 she isn't retired, she is working full time as a parent. She also bought HIM a house, gave birth to HIS baby. He fully doesn't understand how much work being a SAHP is
8:25 this one is so frustrating, because it has a simple solution. "No branding, logos stickers or otherwise are permitted beyond the markings that came with the car from the factory. No political stickers or markings, no references to firearms. Are allowed on a vehicle acting as a company vehicle. If your vehicle contains any of the above, you must park at the office and take a company vehicle.
I’ve seen the boyfriend staying over without the parents situation before. It’s when I was on a jury about a r@pe. A person inviting their boyfriend over and he proceeded to sneak in a younger siblings bedroom. Five months it’s not a hell of a lot of time to truly know somebody. The whole thing was very ugly. The boy actually said that the your sister had enticed him.
ok, as a twin, i understand having to share things. my sister and i shared A LOT growing up. even now, we share things. I understand wanting to have a separate, like, existence. But i also think op's family is the worst for not caring about their daughter's children - even if only one of them is hers.
Meg yelling about how her past actions affected how her sibling sees her is just... Wow. Yes, of course your past shitty actions that hurt your sibling's best friend has affected your sibling relationship. It's almost like actions have social consequences 🤔
The stories are great, but for heaven's sake, don't put this type of music in the background. I've been listening for 2 hours and my head is gonna explode. Great job narrating the stories! Your voice was made for it : )
Not only is the mom of the 16 year old girl with a total lack of respect empathy or responsibility is not wrong to not buy concert tickets. As a matter of fact as a mom of 3 now grown daughters and as a daughter of a very fair and loving mother my view even BEFORE the daughter acted so cruel towards the teacher and son , I would not have bought concert tickets unless it was a present . My mom taught us to work for perks. If we did something to earn half of the cost of a somewhat expensive perk she would pay the other half . This is probably one of the best lessons she ever taught us . But that behavior ..... Let's just say we would have STILL. been trying to convince my mother that we had learned our lesson . My mother was never violent but man she knew how to make a point . She probably would have made us volunteer doing something that help people.
Minor disability, got worse after bearing his child and suffering grief… how do you say that it disability is minor how can you quantify grief? Additionally OP she paid for your whole house and both of your cars are you freaking kidding me suck it up and help your wife get through what she’s going through once she is able to possibly go back to work. I’m sure she may. If not, you guys made this arrangement and you agreed to it so be her partner or don’t
WTF kind of person won't allow you to hire a dog walker but refuses to do it himself.... That's animal abuse... Poor spud. I'm sure he's super cute doggo... They all are.
No they aren't your kids and it's stupid to think they ever will be. The story of the brother walking the sister down the aisle to honor the bio dad is a perfect example of this. Step parents get all the responsibilities and none of the rewards fuck that noise.
OP who kicked a person with tourette's out of their wedding obv didn't research the disorder enough to get tourette's diagnosed you need at least 1 vocal tic. Majority of people with tourettes have vocal tics, with around 10% of all people with TS having Coprolalia. Not to say they shouldn't have told OP about the severe vocal tics, but it's kind of a given to expect a vocal tic from someone with the disorder. light ESH in my opinion. (source: i have diagnosed TS)
It's called parentification and it is a form of abuse/neglect. Based on what OP laid out in the story, the parents aren't doing what they're doing out of a lack of resources. They just would rather pass the buck to their child at their child's expense. Parents that pull that crap need a reality and either a firm talking to or (if the former fails) a slap in the face by adults their age. THEY chose to have their kids, not their older children. Their older children are THEIR responsibility. And that includes securing alternative care when they have other obligations.
So if you go to u/estrangedbrothrow you can read his past comments, dude is starts off apologetic, then starts fighting the commenters, trying to defend his actions. It’s actually kind of funny to read.
@44:00 NTA kid is doing the action intentionally and it is crocodile tears. Even though is 10 years old, I don't buy that they didn't do it deliberately.
The person who wanted to share her daughter's birthday with the stepdaughter's: I can maybe understand doing that from the parent's view i.e. financially and time wise, but everything then onwards was completely mishandled. I agree with what Storytime said, but wanted to add my view on you asking your daughter to share her gifts. For a 15yo, she communicated her feelings very clearly. For a 40yo, you didn't hear her at all. Instead, you chose to punish her. A sure way of ensuring animosity between her and you three, and her slowly starting to feel like an outcast everywhere. Maybe next time check gift recipients in advance and consider fixing the problem yourself instead of expecting the kids to do that. Also, let them live their own lives comfortably (unapologetically) and teach them empathy so they can choose each other and not feel suffocated by a forced "sisterhood"
That really made me mad! And just like her daughter said “you force me to share everything with her”. That’s not right to take away from her daughter and force her to share everything with her step sibling.
The girl who told the foster kid she wasn’t his aunt is a garbage person. That poor kid didn’t get to pick his parents. She should have felt honored that he thought highly enough of her to call her his aunt. I don’t understand how callous some people can be. Poor kid had a shitty enough life, and her brother obviously loved that kid. Such a selfish woman
With the mortgage story, I think it’s more of a matter of mentality. Mortgage and houses are seen as an investment. You pay money in it to raise the value of it and decrease your on liability on it. OP’s point is that it’s not a very wise investment to pay into someone’s mortgage when you don’t know how long you’ll be living in that house.
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The concept of having party to invite every child in a classroom to a child’s birthday party is absurd. It would be rare that a child would be close enough to every child to want the kids there. Children need to learn that not everything is for them. The mom did send food for the class. My grands invite their friends as they should.
The one about the girl wanting to protect herself moving in is valid, and comparing it to renting elsewhere doesn’t make sense because she’d have different rights if she rented whereas the boyfriend can just kick her out whenever he wants
No he wouldn't be able to "just kick her out". He'd have to go through the exact same eviction process that any landlord would have to. She's going to throw money away on rent no matter where she lives so it makes a whole lot more sense to throw away half as much on the bf house versus double on a stranger's house!
Checked the comments to see if anyone else had the same thinking. She already was paying bills or helping out. If he isn’t putting her on the title, then she doesn’t need to pay the mortgage. He’s the one who got it so he can continue to pay it. Plus there’s stories of bfs having their gfs buy a house and then break up with them and tries to keep the house Would love an update on that story cuz I want to know what OP did in the situation
1:58:09 , how is this mother perfectly okay with her son dating and potentially marrying the childhood bully of her OWN DAUGHTER AND THE ONE WHO SLEPT WITH HER DAUGHTERS BF. this mom is definitely gonna wonder why their kids dont talk to them anymore
The jealous friend over the cost of another persons wedding is selfish and the ahole not OP. How are you mad about how somebody wants to spend the money THEY earned?!? Dump that friend. And to say she should of asked for more and they're selfish for not helping them more??!! WTF?? Like YOUR family is YOUR responsibility. Stop expecting people to take care of you and take care of yourself and your family! The dad who won't buy his son clothes...ugh. I've dealt with that kind of mentality personally. You are responsible for the things that YOUR child needs at YOUR home. And to send him home in clothes that don't even fit??! She was too nice about the situation. Take pics and go to court please
If someone wants to plaster their personal vehicle with radicalized, hate-filled, offensive stickers, they have every right to do so on their personal time. However, the business owner has every right (and then some) to choose what image they want to represent their company out in the field. The company policy has always been that employees were to drive company vehicles to the job sites. It's no different than requiring your employees to change out of their personal clothing and wear a uniform while on the job. The ex-employee was not only disrespectful to the customers in their own driveways, he was obviously hurting the reputation of his employer and the business on social media. You can best bet that the ex-employee cost future business and referrals from the customers he disrespected. Furthermore, he had already been told that he needed to use the company vehicles when going out to interact with the customers. He ignored a direct order from his employer and the employer was right to kick him to the curb. Not only that, but the guy whined and acted like a victim on social media after he fxked around and found out. "Discrimination?" What a joke. Not only is "hateful political views" NOT one of the protected statuses under employment law, but if they live in an At Will employment state, then the employer can fire him for any reason or no reason at all. Say whatever you want to say when you're on your own personal time. When you're working on company time, you're on the boss's dime. I feel like we all used to understand that. Too bad, so sad.
That's not true about at will states. They still can't fire people out of retaliation or because of a disability, you have to have a paper trail to prove it, but you have to in any state. At will doesn't mean what most people think it does.
@@AlanisStroud People aren't entitled to any particular job. Cry more. It's not "discrimination" when you get fired for offending the customers and costing the business money. MAGA crybabies always want it both ways.
Hello??? The motorcycle one??? Dude is acting so concerned about money, and at first I guess thats acceptable, if the family is in a tough spot, you cant be spending that much, That is until its mentioned that he has a SECOND HOUSE
So in 2020 my husband had a mental breakdown due to the stress of the pandemic and I had to have him put in a psychiatric facility for the safety of myself and our children because he was really out of it. In order to get him into that facility, I had to go to court and get paperwork from a judge as well as had documentation from a police officer that an employee at the mental health hotline helped me get in touch with before they would take him. They only took him because I was able to get evidence that he was not in a good mental state. A facility dealing with psychiatric patients won’t just take anyone.
The person who didnt want their step siblings as special roles for their wedding isnt an asshole for that, they are an asshole for treating them differently, not everything has to do with blood
For the person who didn't want to fund his wife's nonessential since she chooses not work; didn't he say his wife is disabled and had to return to work anyway, even though it was very difficult for her. She bought a house, cars, made investments for their future and now is a stay at home Mom. He works 36 hours per week. Really? Have you any idea how many hours per week a stay at home Mom works. This guy is a jerk. I hope the house is in her name.
2nd story mom is not the AH. She should be grounded from going to the concert. She is luck she has the mother she has. If she was mine, she would not only be writing the teacher an apology but also a 100 word Essay. On why she should not make fun of others nor bully others and then read it to the whole school.
on a long haul flight, aisle seat in the center of the plane. you may not have the view, but you don't have to get up for the most part because the person in the middle seat has two options to get out.
Involving the situation with the truck covered in political stickers, for op, this wasn't about the politics, but for many of the customers, it was. You have to make your customers happy, so if your boss says not to bring your truck because the customers don't like it, that's honestly just tough. The problem I do have with this though is that unwittingly, the employer is participating in cancel culture. What we're seeing here. Is a textbook example of cancel culture. The people angry over the political stickers aren't just filing one little complaint with the guy's boss, they're getting on social media and naming the company. They are trying to put pressure on this man. They want him fired. They want that company to suffer for hiring him in the first place. This is the kind of witch Hunt that you see all over the internet. The employer is in a pretty rough spot, and I really wish that he had some way of not being dragged along by this, but I don't know that he does. I'm afraid the employer just has to do what he has to do, but I do have an issue with telling everyone they are now required to take company vehicles. It's very common for employers, and authority figures of any kind, to implement a policy that punishes people who didn't do anything wrong because of either the actions of one person, or in this case, the controversy over one person. It may feel as though there's really no way out, but if someone does something wrong, or there's an incident like this one, keep it within the situation. Don't let it affect people who didn't do anything wrong. Go ahead and allow people who aren't doing anything wrong to drive their personal vehicles, and address each situation individually as you did with this one This was a special situation. The employer addressed it specifically and did not need to make a broad sweeping policy that would be strictly enforced on all employees.
All OP and that 1 story where the dad Sends the kid's back and the clothes that don't fit needs to do is apply for food stamps and medicaid. The state will then go after the father for child's park
My ex used to pull this crap. I would get clothes for the season in the proper size. His mother would buy the kids clothes for their birthdays and Christmas only. Both kids have late fall birthdays so they would get winter clothes only. While I was thankful we'd have a few months where all of my new clothes didn't go missing, my ex never bought the kids clothes for any other season. He makes about 20k more per year than I do and my childsupport is all of $100/mo. What I started doing was taking the clothes from the prior season and the ones that were too small to a consignment shop and basically trade them in. They'd give me cash for the items of mine that they wanted to buy from me, I'd shop there and could usually find some brand names like Old Navy or Nike or Justice - nothing too fancy, but still recognizable. I'd spend about another $30 per kid and get a new season's wardrobe. Most clothes at this store were in good shape and in some cases brand new with original store tags on. My parents would buy a new outfit here or there and I was thankful for that as well. I made it work but it was very frustrating for a long 5 or so years. Now they're older and can weed out the too small clothes at his house and they generally wear things I buy for them back to my house. Much better than the never ending black hole of disappearing clothes I'd buy and see the kids wear once and never see them again!
That's what I was thinking. I'd say at least 99% of people in the hobby just like taking their babies out. We're not trying to scam anyone. Also, why look in the stroller in the first place? Creepy much?
Honestly I could see it, people use strollers for their stuff in my city ( mostly homeless) and I’ve seen them not give up seats on the bus and people do assume a baby is in the strollers so they deal with it and stand or move for them. That being said, if there was an actual fake baby in the stroller that’s probably not the case. The person might genuinely be treating the doll as a baby. That being said. Asking her to move after realizing doesn’t make them a jerk to me.
44:49 the daughter obviously has an eating disorder, she needs help, op was DEFINITELY NOT THE AH but that girl needs help now, I used to do this, I was horrible and I know it, I'm ashamed of it, I was called out so many times (it wasn't purposely expensive stuff, sometimes it was just plain oats and water) but I just couldn't stop, I had hardcore bulimia and was extremely depressed (I also suffer from various other mental health disorders) and when I got extra depressed I just couldn't stop myself from binging and purging, and the shame from that and being yelled at just got into a really evil loop, so although it is 100 percent not the parents that are in the wrong, they do need to be the responsible one that trys to figure out WHY it's happening and getting help for their child
So, with the doll, I can see of psychology being that she lost her actual child, and it was her emotional support, to be safe in the public as she slowly copes with such a thing. Idk though. Just another perspective.
While i personally think 72K is ridiculous to spend on a wedding, it's really not up to me. If it's what the couple wants, and they can afford it, good for them! The friend, however, is an A-hole! How dare her, after being financially assisted by someone who is under no obligation to do so, say that it's not enough? And to do so right after accusing rhe bride of being financially irresponsible! If i were the bride, I'd say, "You're right. We have been irresponsible with our money. And, although it hurts mebto see your greed so vehemently expressed, it has helped me see that. So, I will no longer be able to grant loans, or help you pay for your household needs as I'm going to be more mindful with my money from now on."
STAHM story- in-laws need to stay out of it and let the parents decide. Men are as able to stay home and care for a baby as the mom. People need to get over traditional gender roles. Some men might prefer to be home with the baby.
@@maryjane4432good for y'all. He loves you too. He said so on TV a long time ago. I'm sure everyone remembers him saying that he loves the uneducated.
My dad is like the fil in the first story! I was 11 and I had to make him breakfast! And he wasn’t the bread winner! I hated my childhood! I always had to come home from school and cook and clean for him because my mom was at work. As a grown adult and if we are at family functions, he doesn’t ask he demands I serve him, i tell him no! My husband asked me to please do it, that’s ur dad, on our way home, I decided to be an open book about my childhood, he knew somewhat, not just everything and the whole story, next time he told me to service plate my husband does it.😂 now he doesn’t ask me no more. My husband is tell me I need to forgive. But he doesn’t understand he has the best dad in the world! The dad that puts his kids first. I told him it’s easy for you to say because you have good parents. I always had to take care of myself and my brother. I’m not even a feminist and I hate when a man the man, a woman to do something or a man see a woman as an object for to use, and their personal maids. In my household my husband and I have the traditional rolls but he doesn’t demand it, if I’m exhausted he doesn’t mind if I don’t cook or do the cooking, if he stressed out on his day off, he’ll tell me to relax and we will go out for dinner. Either he will clean or I’ll just do it the next day. Yeah op did nothing wrong, but I understand why her dad wants her to apologize because he’s dad,😂 he what is the one that raised her, so he doesn’t want to feel like he did it, teach her to have manners, or some kind of filter. 😂either way i wouldn’t apologize if i were her, but maybe to humor her dad other than that she should tell him in a nice way, if you don’t eat that ok, when you get hungry the food is here, but no I won’t be serving a plate.
The last story. The person with shingles... That ish is contagious! You shouldn't be going out in public at all! Dads also got the right to be upset.. Hes taken on a lot of time consuming tasks that are normally divided equally between the 2 of them. Shes risking public health AND acting like an entitled brat all in one. This is ludacris.
I know they say you can watch something else but me too, it's hard to find reddit stories on RUclips though. Especially videos this long but I'll be respectful and say we can agree to disagree! Thanks for your opinion on the video though I do agree, I don't agree with some of the narrator's opinions but also he has put a lot of editing into this video which I appreciate!
29:00 how was OP rude? How did OP challenge her? Someone else asked about it and OP was like, this wasn’t on me, but now that you mention it I have questions too. I need more info on this.
The one about the brother and his family going to the wedding without there sober and clean brother just frustrates me. I would much rather have a relationship with my brother, especially after he has turned his life around, than an asshole aunt that still views him as a failure. OP and family definitely were the AH.
The truck at work story: The thing that sticks out to me about this one is that, as far as I can tell, OP never told his employee WHY he wasn't allowed to drive his truck to work anymore. From context, we can see that other employees were still being allowed to drive their trucks to work, so Truck Guy probably felt like he was being unfairly targeted. Why didn't OP just tell him he was getting multiple customer complaints about the vehicle, and ask him to remove or cover the stickers? Now, it seems like he's lost an otherwise decent employee over something that could have been easily resolved, and he's managed to get the rest of his staff angry at him by revoking a privilege for seemingly no reason. I don't know if OP is necessarily TA, but he definitely needs to work on his communication skills
The mortgage story I don’t think that he actually understood fully bc part of it was a renters contract which would mean she couldn’t be kicked out without notice, and she’d have tenant rights, she’d get notice for things, know he bills and how much she be charged each month on bills including with increases calculated, if her stuff gets stolen, wether or not people could be over, if they broke up he couldn’t make her leave unless she broke a big rule, even then with a notice. I mean if they just broke up she could end up temporarily homeless
I wouldn't want Steve's political sticker truck parked on front of my business all day either. (If he parked there to take a company truck to jobsites.)
i feel like OP with the whole wedding situation was just trying to find a reason to brag about how much money she has without actually having to brag about it LOL
Op and boyfriend rental situation. If she is paying "rent" then she deserves the protection that a lease would provide her. He could decide to evict her suddenly. It would take at least a month to evict but if she had a contractual arrangement and he broke the agreement, she would have to pay compensation. Works the other way as well.
My grandmother used to carve my name in my supplies with a tiny metal torch. Why is your child's teacher so adamant that children rob each other in her class? Because she's basically telling them that it's not fair if your parents have more money than another child's parents. Life is not fair. When I was a kid, you could tell who the rich kids were.They all had brand new pickup trucks from the local car lot. But I didn't hate them because my grandmother dropped me off in a buick.
The gay teen story could go either way. Depending on which country it is. Many of the countries that are at the top of the anti lgbt lists are only there because they will arrest gay people for holding hands and kissing in public.. but they will arrest straight couples for the exact same crimes so it literally has nothing to do with sexuallity. So yes or no it depends 🤷
I was gonna do a project once on this subject. It was canceled before I finished, but I went deep enough into it that I saw some of those lists, many of which list stoning people as a punishment for being gay, and that's just off the top of my head.
@daring6983 lol sorry but no. 7 countries worldwide have the death penalty for homosexuality and none of them make the top 10 of most anti lgbtq countries according to the publicised lists.
I mean it's so badly written they will probably have a good laugh, I would however maybe have a s*x Chatt to cover the bases on consent, BDSM ( not the stuff depicted) etc
The guy who didn’t take the note off the hand towels; every woman knows it was not about the note. He cleaned the GARAGE and the BACKYARD while I’m guessing she did literally everything else. Also I’m guessing he had ruined perfectly good hand towels among probably many other things by carelessly getting grease on them. Yeah. He didn’t ‘forget’ to take the note off
for the sister who tore up all the baby things and tried to blame it on the 3-year-old twins. I hope she didn't do anything horrible to the babies while she spent the entire night on a rampage in their home. Check the children for marks and put up security cameras
As for the op that sends her son to dad and he sends him back in clothes that don't fit. All op has to do is send her son back to the father in the same clothes his father sent him home in. Problem solved. Explain to her son that until dad can provide his clothes back to her, he can not wear his good clothes to dad's . That clothes cost so much that she can not afford to provide clothes for both places. As for CHILD SUPPORT, take him to support court. You can do the papers yourself. Also the court can provide you with a lawyer. And the dad can stop working, but that don't stop the child support and his driver license can be spender, as well as he can do jail time. Op needs to be a mother and get a backbone and stop letting that so call dad bully her.
1:02:25 Yeah NO! that wife is in the wrong. She did not help. She took her inheritance and set it up where SHE was the one retiring and demanding that the husband keep working while she stops working and lives a retired life and wants him to keep working so she has money to PLAY with... Yeah, NO!
Just remember! You're only hearing ½ of the story when you listen to these things! If they're real stories, you're only hearing 1 side, there's 3 sides to a story. There's the story teller, the "other" person/people, and the TRUTH, Which can be seen via security camera/ recordings. I don't really believe any of these stories, but they're entertaining.
The kid that is stealing food clearly already has an eating disorder.
More likely had it in for the op.
I would never hook up with my husband in my daughter's bed. That's so f*cking creepy. One time while my daughter stayed the night at her grandma's, I was chilling on her bed after cleaning up the room a bit and my husband came in, asked if I wanted to do the dirty, and we both proceeded to leave her room and go to our own. Because that is f*cking wierd to do that in your child's bed. Period.
I agree
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This exactly! Just because sex is how your child was conceived doesn't mean you have the right to go at it in their bed in the apartment they share with someone else. It's creepier for parents to do it in their child's bed than their sibling doing that in their bed.
Lmmfao
My mom did that... While I wasn't home. She had also done things with her bf (ex now) with me in the same room. I was sleeping on the couch because I was sick with a fever and I was 16 years old. She told me it was my fault for not sleeping in my room.
Concert tickets story: the grounding is a simple slap on the wrist, now the concert tickets will teacher her not to do it again.
The person who was threatened with instutionalisation and had the stroke due to the stress. That is horrific and I feel bad for them. Their parents are selfish monsters that they cant even admit to being inconsiderate and causing the stress event.
I agree, I call it that they are not the AH, they had a heckin' stroke due to what their family did!
Yes. Clearly she should stay non- contact with them.
I'd find it difficult to move past this, with both parents and husband. So she's actively suffering from anxiety (not any other diagnosis), says that a short stint hasn't "fixed" her (there's nothing to fix, only regulate/medicate) and they wanted to send her away, by herself (be it locked away or to the mountains)... this isn't 1950, you can google a diagnosis, find ways to help, what symptoms are, triggers, talk with professionals. Awful people, I really hope the hubby takes a really good look in the mirror and becomes a better partner
If they aren't right.. because if they are, the story would be 95% delusion and would actually make more sense than if she weren't.. the problem with mental health issue in women is that they are so much better than men at masking and are constantly misdiagnosed and released too early from services. As someone who spent 5 years living with someone who is bipolar I see this story as a delusional rant due to persecution fantasies
@@JosephEllis-ep7sg So you think, the storey as read in the video was posted by a fantasist and that none of it happened? Possible, but also if it did, there would be a huge slice of irony to not believe it. I suppose there are a larger amount of fantasists posting online then we think the number is. So worth having that pinch of salt.
The first story
Yes the mother was in her right to not buy the concert tickets because the girl needs to learn a lesson that there are consequences for your actions
If more parents would just stick to their punishments we'd all be better off.
Half of these stories have me just screaming "break up" or "divorce"
Where's Morgan and her hot takes lol
or "go no contact"
After listening to all of the stories, it still blows my mind how selfish and delusional people can be.
The dad complaining about 36 hours, while I as a 20 year old student work 41,5 hours a week. And 23,5 hours not even getting paid because that is just internship. The dad gets on my nerves
Being able to work alot as a 20 year old is not impressive, it's easy lol
I don't think he's really that upset about thirty six hours. I think he's more upset that she didn't communicate any of her decision, And didn't let him have a say.
I think that they should have came to an agreement about what the money was going to be used for, And future working arrangements.
I think it would have worked out best if they both went down to working 3
Days a week (24). That way both of them could have four days off a week to be with their kids and each other.
As a (31 yr old) I'm used to working 61 hours a week but I also have no kids
@@MtnDewWarriorWorking full time while studying is commendable and time consuming lol. Specially if you only get paid for around half that working time
I think the SAHM should agree that she needs to earn her spending money, then send a bill to her husband charging the local going rates for providing daycare, cleaning services, ubering as needed, and the other services she does that would need to be hired out if they were both working. Of course since the baby is a shared child and the home is a shared home, she can offer to comp 50%, so he only has to pay "his share".
Not the jerk for the OP left out of their moms will. It’s messed up how the mom drew it up to avoid family conflict just to truly create it sooner than later smh
I'm wondering if the OP was the dad's affair baby or something. So weird to adopt and raise a child then alienate them in such a cruel way in front of their siblings.
I’m sorry but I could never see myself doing this to a child mine or not
mom is a really nasty person for gaslighting her adoptive daughter and trying to make everyone turn against her by playing the victim! did she adopt her just to hang it over her head, to make herself look like a savior in the eyes of others? how could she say those things to her daughter.
Right? That she wanted to let them know AHEAD of time shows she wanted to let him know he's not valued like the others.
OP could legally say she was forgotten, and could get some of the money. Hopefully OP does that
Basement girl was likely never told by the landlord that the reason or said no is because the landlord refused to take it off the bill so she probly just thinks he's keeping it cuz he wants it. Of course the landlord isn't gonna make it seem like they r the reason
I have always been taught that the homeowners sit at the head and foot of the table. A guest even more senior does not.
Growing up in a house of 8, I ended up with a “boarding house reach” to serve myself.
An old mechanic taught me a trick to help clean hands after working on a car. Dig your nails into a bar of soap prior to starting work. The soap will flow away leaving clean nails.
Lmfao even if you're unemployed you still have to pay child support. Dude thought he was a genius "I'll just quit and report no income".You have a minimum to pay, and if you don't, you go to jail. It's that simple.
The child support story: if the dad decides to quit his job, he'll still be responsible for support based on his "earning potential". Basically, his income from his last job. She needs to go ahead and take home to court and start taking pictures of the clothes he sends their son home in. Also, record EVERY conversation they have on the phone or in person. Obviously, don't break the law to get your evidence.
It depends on where they're located. Where I am, if either party has no income, there's no child support
@@ricksanchez7540and where are you located exactly?
@@ricksanchez7540and where are you located exactly?
Check my comment in the comment section I agree with you
@@alexandermccall227 I had a similar problem. My two sons would go to their father's every other weekend where there were 5 other children. Several times I saw his step kids wearing clothes that I bought for my boys! I also did not get any child support as worked two jobs for their needs. He had the nerve to tell me that I was out of line for demanding that the other kids not wear my sons' clothing!
the parking spot thing is dumb as hell. the landlord can just swap the amount that he charges for the spot to basement girl so he isn't losing money, basement girl gets the spot and OP gets a reduced rent
Uni student is absolutely NOT the A-hole! James is not her child! The parents just assume that she'll make their lives easier and they arent above gaslighting her to get their way! The fact that her brothers jigh school studies preclude him from being able to help, but her Uni schedule does not, just proves they have no concern for her needs.
That story made me see red....
Mom who left adopted child out of will... I would apologize by saying "I'm so sorry you don't see me as your real daughter because I've always loved you as my real mom"... But I'm petty af
When FIL said I won't eat then, I think OP said exactly the right thing. When someone acts passive aggressively the best thing to do is call their bluff.
He's been a perpetual child his entire marriage. 🤦 He swapped one mom for another he could f***.
@@VoodooAngel63 what else should they say, right? Argue with the FIL? Allow the FIL to manipulate the situation to get their way? No. Absolutely the correct response. Makes it clear that BS won't be accommodated in their home!
The lady with the panic attacks needs to be away from her parents. What is the saying? "The road to hell is paved with:" oh. Thats right, what the parents say, "good intentions." She and hubby need to leave.
As for the kid STEALING food from her diabetic step mom. She does need to be punished. She needs to understand why this is wrong. I wonder if she does it to have someone pay attention to her? If dad will not take care of it, you buy a locking fridge and keep your things in it.
Op on the bus and the lady with the fake baby. NTA. Those are creepy af.
That sister who dumps her kids off at her siblings door is a horrible mother. I hate how like 90% of parents I’ve met are such selfish jerks. So many people focus on how much they want a baby, they don’t stop to wonder if they actually deserve one.
Diabetes special food story: That looks like a divorce waiting to happen.
Listening to that story just irritated me! My husband is diabetic and I have food sensitivities, so I can understand where she's coming from. I make sure to have snacks and meals that my husband can eat, and the same for me. If I was in OP's place, I may be looking at divorce, if he didn't do something to correct his daughter's behavior and possibly therapy. It sounds like something is going on with the stepdaughter for the change in attitude after a long-term relationship like that.
@@rykkihart5966 agreed!
Sounds like the child is doing it on purpose at this point to cause a rift
@@Travis7x70probably is. The dad is going to enable it until OP has enough and wants a divorce. Messing with a diabetics food or eating it all can be bad and he needs to defend his wife while also finding out what’s up with his kid
10 is old enough to know not to steal when explicitly told not to and the reason for it
The one with the "boy"friend and the safe: if you have to do all that, then you should just break up. He clearly doesn't respect your boundaries and probably gets off on doing it. Not worth the pain of having to lock your things up from someone you should be able to trust.
Red flags!!! Red Flags!!🚩 run!
Wow. The a-hole who refused to pay for his wife's (SAHM) hobbies... In this case, I sincerely hope she starts charging him rent for living RENT FREE in her house and for having funded a cushy retirement fund for him. He is ridiculously cheap, insanely greedy, and an absolute moron to top it off.
So, she takes her retirement and pays off the house and buys some stuff for them then quits her job so that she can live the life of being retired yet doesn't have any money to spend on herself and then demands that her husband keeps working and giving her more money so that she can live it up while he has to still work?
@@whitedragon153if her requests are what you consider "living it up", I feel sorry for your spouse. She paid off his portion of the mortgage. Being fair would require him to pay her rent which she could in turn use on the items she wants to buy.
@@whitedragon153or she could just take the money she invested in his retirement back, since it's hers. He won't have any more retirement plan but hey you'll have to spend less money on her " hobbies".
I think you're also forgetting that she is not working because she's staying at home and taking care of their child. Childcare is ridiculously expensive and it doesn't sound like they have enough money to cover that anyway.
@@whitedragon153yeah eff that go tf back to work bish
@@whitedragon153 she isn't retired, she is working full time as a parent. She also bought HIM a house, gave birth to HIS baby. He fully doesn't understand how much work being a SAHP is
8:25 this one is so frustrating, because it has a simple solution.
"No branding, logos stickers or otherwise are permitted beyond the markings that came with the car from the factory. No political stickers or markings, no references to firearms. Are allowed on a vehicle acting as a company vehicle. If your vehicle contains any of the above, you must park at the office and take a company vehicle.
I’ve seen the boyfriend staying over without the parents situation before. It’s when I was on a jury about a r@pe. A person inviting their boyfriend over and he proceeded to sneak in a younger siblings bedroom. Five months it’s not a hell of a lot of time to truly know somebody. The whole thing was very ugly. The boy actually said that the your sister had enticed him.
Yeah, I was thinking the same thing. If OP is a girl, definitely NTJ. If OP is a guy, I understand it less.
Serving yourself at dinner is best so you don't get too much on your plate =))
Im deathly allergic to shrimp. Food allergies are serious in some cases, and some ppl are pretty stupid about it.
ok, as a twin, i understand having to share things. my sister and i shared A LOT growing up. even now, we share things. I understand wanting to have a separate, like, existence. But i also think op's family is the worst for not caring about their daughter's children - even if only one of them is hers.
This dudes voice is so soothing that it constantly gets my pets to fall asleep sooo quick
That kid food thief is a horrible git, and the dad is being a bad parent.
Meg yelling about how her past actions affected how her sibling sees her is just... Wow. Yes, of course your past shitty actions that hurt your sibling's best friend has affected your sibling relationship. It's almost like actions have social consequences 🤔
The stories are great, but for heaven's sake, don't put this type of music in the background. I've been listening for 2 hours and my head is gonna explode. Great job narrating the stories! Your voice was made for it : )
Yeah, that music sounds like a sleazy piano bar!
Not only is the mom of the 16 year old girl with a total lack of respect empathy or responsibility is not wrong to not buy concert tickets. As a matter of fact as a mom of 3 now grown daughters and as a daughter of a very fair and loving mother my view even BEFORE the daughter acted so cruel towards the teacher and son , I would not have bought concert tickets unless it was a present . My mom taught us to work for perks. If we did something to earn half of the cost of a somewhat expensive perk she would pay the other half . This is probably one of the best lessons she ever taught us . But that behavior ..... Let's just say we would have STILL. been trying to convince my mother that we had learned our lesson . My mother was never violent but man she knew how to make a point . She probably would have made us volunteer doing something that help people.
Minor disability, got worse after bearing his child and suffering grief… how do you say that it disability is minor how can you quantify grief? Additionally OP she paid for your whole house and both of your cars are you freaking kidding me suck it up and help your wife get through what she’s going through once she is able to possibly go back to work. I’m sure she may. If not, you guys made this arrangement and you agreed to it so be her partner or don’t
WTF kind of person won't allow you to hire a dog walker but refuses to do it himself.... That's animal abuse... Poor spud. I'm sure he's super cute doggo... They all are.
bruh if you marry someone with kids their kids become yours its messed up to treat them like they aren't family simple as that
No they aren't your kids and it's stupid to think they ever will be. The story of the brother walking the sister down the aisle to honor the bio dad is a perfect example of this. Step parents get all the responsibilities and none of the rewards fuck that noise.
You're not rich, but you have a 175 thousand dollar car. Sorry man, but you rich.
OP who kicked a person with tourette's out of their wedding obv didn't research the disorder enough to get tourette's diagnosed you need at least 1 vocal tic. Majority of people with tourettes have vocal tics, with around 10% of all people with TS having Coprolalia. Not to say they shouldn't have told OP about the severe vocal tics, but it's kind of a given to expect a vocal tic from someone with the disorder. light ESH in my opinion. (source: i have diagnosed TS)
I listen to these while I study
Ah the Hispanic treatment taking care of your siblings and parents think you don’t have a life besides being a caretaker
It's called parentification and it is a form of abuse/neglect. Based on what OP laid out in the story, the parents aren't doing what they're doing out of a lack of resources. They just would rather pass the buck to their child at their child's expense. Parents that pull that crap need a reality and either a firm talking to or (if the former fails) a slap in the face by adults their age. THEY chose to have their kids, not their older children. Their older children are THEIR responsibility. And that includes securing alternative care when they have other obligations.
I used to have a dog named Spud as well. He was a chihuahua who had to be put to sleep back in 2015. Still miss that little guy.
So if you go to u/estrangedbrothrow you can read his past comments, dude is starts off apologetic, then starts fighting the commenters, trying to defend his actions. It’s actually kind of funny to read.
😢Why did she have to be institutionalized? Her family would do this ? So wrong 😑 and they caused a stroke .
@44:00 NTA kid is doing the action intentionally and it is crocodile tears. Even though is 10 years old, I don't buy that they didn't do it deliberately.
OMG! As someone aware of the dilemma of "show" towels, if I'd have seen the note, i would have died laughing!
2:35:05 who cares you don’t take your daughters stuff and give it to your step daughter! That’s absolutely ridiculous!
The person who wanted to share her daughter's birthday with the stepdaughter's: I can maybe understand doing that from the parent's view i.e. financially and time wise, but everything then onwards was completely mishandled. I agree with what Storytime said, but wanted to add my view on you asking your daughter to share her gifts. For a 15yo, she communicated her feelings very clearly. For a 40yo, you didn't hear her at all. Instead, you chose to punish her. A sure way of ensuring animosity between her and you three, and her slowly starting to feel like an outcast everywhere. Maybe next time check gift recipients in advance and consider fixing the problem yourself instead of expecting the kids to do that. Also, let them live their own lives comfortably (unapologetically) and teach them empathy so they can choose each other and not feel suffocated by a forced "sisterhood"
That really made me mad! And just like her daughter said “you force me to share everything with her”. That’s not right to take away from her daughter and force her to share everything with her step sibling.
Plus where were that girls family?
The girl who told the foster kid she wasn’t his aunt is a garbage person. That poor kid didn’t get to pick his parents. She should have felt honored that he thought highly enough of her to call her his aunt. I don’t understand how callous some people can be. Poor kid had a shitty enough life, and her brother obviously loved that kid. Such a selfish woman
With the mortgage story, I think it’s more of a matter of mentality. Mortgage and houses are seen as an investment. You pay money in it to raise the value of it and decrease your on liability on it. OP’s point is that it’s not a very wise investment to pay into someone’s mortgage when you don’t know how long you’ll be living in that house.
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The concept of having party to invite every child in a classroom to a child’s birthday party is absurd. It would be rare that a child would be close enough to every child to want the kids there. Children need to learn that not everything is for them. The mom did send food for the class. My grands invite their friends as they should.
The one about the girl wanting to protect herself moving in is valid, and comparing it to renting elsewhere doesn’t make sense because she’d have different rights if she rented whereas the boyfriend can just kick her out whenever he wants
Thank you!! I hated his take on that. She was absolutely right about protecting herself.
No he wouldn't be able to "just kick her out". He'd have to go through the exact same eviction process that any landlord would have to. She's going to throw money away on rent no matter where she lives so it makes a whole lot more sense to throw away half as much on the bf house versus double on a stranger's house!
Checked the comments to see if anyone else had the same thinking. She already was paying bills or helping out. If he isn’t putting her on the title, then she doesn’t need to pay the mortgage. He’s the one who got it so he can continue to pay it.
Plus there’s stories of bfs having their gfs buy a house and then break up with them and tries to keep the house
Would love an update on that story cuz I want to know what OP did in the situation
It's pretty clear that no one has the right to hurt someone else and think there won’t be any consequences.
I'm glad that he left the wedding video up on the internet. I would've too.
1:58:09 , how is this mother perfectly okay with her son dating and potentially marrying the childhood bully of her OWN DAUGHTER AND THE ONE WHO SLEPT WITH HER DAUGHTERS BF. this mom is definitely gonna wonder why their kids dont talk to them anymore
The jealous friend over the cost of another persons wedding is selfish and the ahole not OP. How are you mad about how somebody wants to spend the money THEY earned?!? Dump that friend. And to say she should of asked for more and they're selfish for not helping them more??!! WTF?? Like YOUR family is YOUR responsibility. Stop expecting people to take care of you and take care of yourself and your family!
The dad who won't buy his son clothes...ugh. I've dealt with that kind of mentality personally. You are responsible for the things that YOUR child needs at YOUR home. And to send him home in clothes that don't even fit??! She was too nice about the situation. Take pics and go to court please
If someone wants to plaster their personal vehicle with radicalized, hate-filled, offensive stickers, they have every right to do so on their personal time. However, the business owner has every right (and then some) to choose what image they want to represent their company out in the field.
The company policy has always been that employees were to drive company vehicles to the job sites. It's no different than requiring your employees to change out of their personal clothing and wear a uniform while on the job. The ex-employee was not only disrespectful to the customers in their own driveways, he was obviously hurting the reputation of his employer and the business on social media. You can best bet that the ex-employee cost future business and referrals from the customers he disrespected.
Furthermore, he had already been told that he needed to use the company vehicles when going out to interact with the customers. He ignored a direct order from his employer and the employer was right to kick him to the curb.
Not only that, but the guy whined and acted like a victim on social media after he fxked around and found out. "Discrimination?" What a joke. Not only is "hateful political views" NOT one of the protected statuses under employment law, but if they live in an At Will employment state, then the employer can fire him for any reason or no reason at all.
Say whatever you want to say when you're on your own personal time. When you're working on company time, you're on the boss's dime.
I feel like we all used to understand that. Too bad, so sad.
That's not true about at will states. They still can't fire people out of retaliation or because of a disability, you have to have a paper trail to prove it, but you have to in any state.
At will doesn't mean what most people think it does.
Words hurt your little feelings
@@AlanisStroud People aren't entitled to any particular job. Cry more. It's not "discrimination" when you get fired for offending the customers and costing the business money. MAGA crybabies always want it both ways.
@@AlanisStroud You've been here two weeks. Do you get paid in rubles?
Hello??? The motorcycle one??? Dude is acting so concerned about money, and at first I guess thats acceptable, if the family is in a tough spot, you cant be spending that much,
That is until its mentioned that he has a SECOND HOUSE
So in 2020 my husband had a mental breakdown due to the stress of the pandemic and I had to have him put in a psychiatric facility for the safety of myself and our children because he was really out of it. In order to get him into that facility, I had to go to court and get paperwork from a judge as well as had documentation from a police officer that an employee at the mental health hotline helped me get in touch with before they would take him. They only took him because I was able to get evidence that he was not in a good mental state. A facility dealing with psychiatric patients won’t just take anyone.
The person who didnt want their step siblings as special roles for their wedding isnt an asshole for that, they are an asshole for treating them differently, not everything has to do with blood
Not if they never bonded. I have three half siblings and don’t have a relationship with them.
For the person who didn't want to fund his wife's nonessential since she chooses not work; didn't he say his wife is disabled and had to return to work anyway, even though it was very difficult for her. She bought a house, cars, made investments for their future and now is a stay at home Mom. He works 36 hours per week. Really? Have you any idea how many hours per week a stay at home Mom works. This guy is a jerk. I hope the house is in her name.
2nd story mom is not the AH. She should be grounded from going to the concert. She is luck she has the mother she has. If she was mine, she would not only be writing the teacher an apology but also a 100 word Essay. On why she should not make fun of others nor bully others and then read it to the whole school.
on a long haul flight, aisle seat in the center of the plane. you may not have the view, but you don't have to get up for the most part because the person in the middle seat has two options to get out.
I took a look at my screen and read "she did crack eventually though." and thought the story had escalated VERY quickly.
Involving the situation with the truck covered in political stickers, for op, this wasn't about the politics, but for many of the customers, it was.
You have to make your customers happy, so if your boss says not to bring your truck because the customers don't like it, that's honestly just tough. The problem I do have with this though is that unwittingly, the employer is participating in cancel culture. What we're seeing here.
Is a textbook example of cancel culture. The people angry over the political stickers aren't just filing one little complaint with the guy's boss, they're getting on social media and naming the company. They are trying to put pressure on this man. They want him fired. They want that company to suffer for hiring him in the first place. This is the kind of witch Hunt that you see all over the internet.
The employer is in a pretty rough spot, and I really wish that he had some way of not being dragged along by this, but I don't know that he does. I'm afraid the employer just has to do what he has to do, but I do have an issue with telling everyone they are now required to take company vehicles.
It's very common for employers, and authority figures of any kind, to implement a policy that punishes people who didn't do anything wrong because of either the actions of one person, or in this case, the controversy over one person. It may feel as though there's really no way out, but if someone does something wrong, or there's an incident like this one, keep it within the situation. Don't let it affect people who didn't do anything wrong. Go ahead and allow people who aren't doing anything wrong to drive their personal vehicles, and address each situation individually as you did with this one
This was a special situation. The employer addressed it specifically and did not need to make a broad sweeping policy that would be strictly enforced on all employees.
Inlaws need to stop showing up uninvited!
All OP and that 1 story where the dad Sends the kid's back and the clothes that don't fit needs to do is apply for food stamps and medicaid. The state will then go after the father for child's park
can also call CPS on him and maybe even the police for stealing his shoes and clothes, thus making you have to buy them all over again.
My ex used to pull this crap. I would get clothes for the season in the proper size. His mother would buy the kids clothes for their birthdays and Christmas only. Both kids have late fall birthdays so they would get winter clothes only. While I was thankful we'd have a few months where all of my new clothes didn't go missing, my ex never bought the kids clothes for any other season. He makes about 20k more per year than I do and my childsupport is all of $100/mo.
What I started doing was taking the clothes from the prior season and the ones that were too small to a consignment shop and basically trade them in. They'd give me cash for the items of mine that they wanted to buy from me, I'd shop there and could usually find some brand names like Old Navy or Nike or Justice - nothing too fancy, but still recognizable. I'd spend about another $30 per kid and get a new season's wardrobe. Most clothes at this store were in good shape and in some cases brand new with original store tags on. My parents would buy a new outfit here or there and I was thankful for that as well. I made it work but it was very frustrating for a long 5 or so years. Now they're older and can weed out the too small clothes at his house and they generally wear things I buy for them back to my house. Much better than the never ending black hole of disappearing clothes I'd buy and see the kids wear once and never see them again!
Why would the woman with the fake baby on the bus be doing it for advantageous parking spaces?
That's what I was thinking. I'd say at least 99% of people in the hobby just like taking their babies out. We're not trying to scam anyone. Also, why look in the stroller in the first place? Creepy much?
Honestly I could see it, people use strollers for their stuff in my city ( mostly homeless) and I’ve seen them not give up seats on the bus and people do assume a baby is in the strollers so they deal with it and stand or move for them.
That being said, if there was an actual fake baby in the stroller that’s probably not the case. The person might genuinely be treating the doll as a baby. That being said. Asking her to move after realizing doesn’t make them a jerk to me.
so she could get better parking
Why can’t Steve just take a company vehicle home.
44:49 the daughter obviously has an eating disorder, she needs help, op was DEFINITELY NOT THE AH but that girl needs help now, I used to do this, I was horrible and I know it, I'm ashamed of it, I was called out so many times (it wasn't purposely expensive stuff, sometimes it was just plain oats and water) but I just couldn't stop, I had hardcore bulimia and was extremely depressed (I also suffer from various other mental health disorders) and when I got extra depressed I just couldn't stop myself from binging and purging, and the shame from that and being yelled at just got into a really evil loop, so although it is 100 percent not the parents that are in the wrong, they do need to be the responsible one that trys to figure out WHY it's happening and getting help for their child
So, with the doll, I can see of psychology being that she lost her actual child, and it was her emotional support, to be safe in the public as she slowly copes with such a thing. Idk though. Just another perspective.
While i personally think 72K is ridiculous to spend on a wedding, it's really not up to me. If it's what the couple wants, and they can afford it, good for them! The friend, however, is an A-hole! How dare her, after being financially assisted by someone who is under no obligation to do so, say that it's not enough? And to do so right after accusing rhe bride of being financially irresponsible! If i were the bride, I'd say, "You're right. We have been irresponsible with our money. And, although it hurts mebto see your greed so vehemently expressed, it has helped me see that. So, I will no longer be able to grant loans, or help you pay for your household needs as I'm going to be more mindful with my money from now on."
STAHM story- in-laws need to stay out of it and let the parents decide. Men are as able to stay home and care for a baby as the mom. People need to get over traditional gender roles. Some men might prefer to be home with the baby.
8:56 lifted truck... I know exactly what kind of stickers are on it lmao
Yep. Wonder if it would have been a problem if they were biden stickers instead..... lol we all know that answer
@@boblee7998so glad I live where I do. Everyone here loves our little town and trump!
We all do. Lol
@@maryjane4432good for y'all. He loves you too. He said so on TV a long time ago. I'm sure everyone remembers him saying that he loves the uneducated.
@@michelewalburn4376 see? He loves you even if you don't align with his political views, truly just a great and giving man😘😀
My dad is like the fil in the first story! I was 11 and I had to make him breakfast! And he wasn’t the bread winner! I hated my childhood! I always had to come home from school and cook and clean for him because my mom was at work. As a grown adult and if we are at family functions, he doesn’t ask he demands I serve him, i tell him no! My husband asked me to please do it, that’s ur dad, on our way home, I decided to be an open book about my childhood, he knew somewhat, not just everything and the whole story, next time he told me to service plate my husband does it.😂 now he doesn’t ask me no more. My husband is tell me I need to forgive. But he doesn’t understand he has the best dad in the world! The dad that puts his kids first. I told him it’s easy for you to say because you have good parents. I always had to take care of myself and my brother. I’m not even a feminist and I hate when a man the man, a woman to do something or a man see a woman as an object for to use, and their personal maids. In my household my husband and I have the traditional rolls but he doesn’t demand it, if I’m exhausted he doesn’t mind if I don’t cook or do the cooking, if he stressed out on his day off, he’ll tell me to relax and we will go out for dinner. Either he will clean or I’ll just do it the next day. Yeah op did nothing wrong, but I understand why her dad wants her to apologize because he’s dad,😂 he what is the one that raised her, so he doesn’t want to feel like he did it, teach her to have manners, or some kind of filter. 😂either way i wouldn’t apologize if i were her, but maybe to humor her dad other than that she should tell him in a nice way, if you don’t eat that ok, when you get hungry the food is here, but no I won’t be serving a plate.
The last story.
The person with shingles...
That ish is contagious!
You shouldn't be going out in public at all!
Dads also got the right to be upset..
Hes taken on a lot of time consuming tasks that are normally divided equally between the 2 of them.
Shes risking public health AND acting like an entitled brat all in one.
This is ludacris.
The story about the step daughter eating the mom's food, it really does sound like the kid is starting to struggle with binge eating disorder.
This narrator is crazy and it’s hurt my head to listen to him do hot takes
I know they say you can watch something else but me too, it's hard to find reddit stories on RUclips though. Especially videos this long but I'll be respectful and say we can agree to disagree! Thanks for your opinion on the video though I do agree, I don't agree with some of the narrator's opinions but also he has put a lot of editing into this video which I appreciate!
29:00 how was OP rude? How did OP challenge her? Someone else asked about it and OP was like, this wasn’t on me, but now that you mention it I have questions too. I need more info on this.
The one about the brother and his family going to the wedding without there sober and clean brother just frustrates me. I would much rather have a relationship with my brother, especially after he has turned his life around, than an asshole aunt that still views him as a failure. OP and family definitely were the AH.
The truck at work story: The thing that sticks out to me about this one is that, as far as I can tell, OP never told his employee WHY he wasn't allowed to drive his truck to work anymore. From context, we can see that other employees were still being allowed to drive their trucks to work, so Truck Guy probably felt like he was being unfairly targeted. Why didn't OP just tell him he was getting multiple customer complaints about the vehicle, and ask him to remove or cover the stickers? Now, it seems like he's lost an otherwise decent employee over something that could have been easily resolved, and he's managed to get the rest of his staff angry at him by revoking a privilege for seemingly no reason. I don't know if OP is necessarily TA, but he definitely needs to work on his communication skills
The mortgage story I don’t think that he actually understood fully bc part of it was a renters contract which would mean she couldn’t be kicked out without notice, and she’d have tenant rights, she’d get notice for things, know he bills and how much she be charged each month on bills including with increases calculated, if her stuff gets stolen, wether or not people could be over, if they broke up he couldn’t make her leave unless she broke a big rule, even then with a notice.
I mean if they just broke up she could end up temporarily homeless
I wouldn't want Steve's political sticker truck parked on front of my business all day either. (If he parked there to take a company truck to jobsites.)
So someone else’s opinion bothers you, but guess what? We have free speech. As long as it’s not threatening there isn’t much you can do
i feel like OP with the whole wedding situation was just trying to find a reason to brag about how much money she has without actually having to brag about it LOL
Op and boyfriend rental situation. If she is paying "rent" then she deserves the protection that a lease would provide her. He could decide to evict her suddenly. It would take at least a month to evict but if she had a contractual arrangement and he broke the agreement, she would have to pay compensation. Works the other way as well.
My grandmother used to carve my name in my supplies with a tiny metal torch. Why is your child's teacher so adamant that children rob each other in her class? Because she's basically telling them that it's not fair if your parents have more money than another child's parents. Life is not fair. When I was a kid, you could tell who the rich kids were.They all had brand new pickup trucks from the local car lot. But I didn't hate them because my grandmother dropped me off in a buick.
Adult thrillers probably has sexual content......
The one with the inlaws coming over is honestly her fault she never communicated that
The gay teen story could go either way. Depending on which country it is. Many of the countries that are at the top of the anti lgbt lists are only there because they will arrest gay people for holding hands and kissing in public.. but they will arrest straight couples for the exact same crimes so it literally has nothing to do with sexuallity. So yes or no it depends 🤷
I was gonna do a project once on this subject. It was canceled before I finished, but I went deep enough into it that I saw some of those lists, many of which list stoning people as a punishment for being gay, and that's just off the top of my head.
@daring6983 lol sorry but no. 7 countries worldwide have the death penalty for homosexuality and none of them make the top 10 of most anti lgbtq countries according to the publicised lists.
Book age appropiate: would you let your 15yo read 50 Shades of Gray?
No
Sure. That’s pretty tame compared to what’s instantly accessible from their phone or friends.
I mean it's so badly written they will probably have a good laugh, I would however maybe have a s*x Chatt to cover the bases on consent, BDSM ( not the stuff depicted) etc
@@ericw4329 nope. Absolutely not.
Who thinks to bring their kids to a cannabis themed wedding?!
He never wanted to go to begin with cuz otherwise this makes no sense.
Let me tell you as someone who smoked since they were 14 (10+) years its time to quit
Its easyer than it seems and take some time to walk please
The guy who didn’t take the note off the hand towels; every woman knows it was not about the note. He cleaned the GARAGE and the BACKYARD while I’m guessing she did literally everything else. Also I’m guessing he had ruined perfectly good hand towels among probably many other things by carelessly getting grease on them. Yeah. He didn’t ‘forget’ to take the note off
Diabetes story the daughter is messed up and is doing it on purpose obviously 🙄
for the sister who tore up all the baby things and tried to blame it on the 3-year-old twins. I hope she didn't do anything horrible to the babies while she spent the entire night on a rampage in their home. Check the children for marks and put up security cameras
As for the op that sends her son to dad and he sends him back in clothes that don't fit. All op has to do is send her son back to the father in the same clothes his father sent him home in. Problem solved. Explain to her son that until dad can provide his clothes back to her, he can not wear his good clothes to dad's . That clothes cost so much that she can not afford to provide clothes for both places. As for CHILD SUPPORT, take him to support court. You can do the papers yourself. Also the court can provide you with a lawyer. And the dad can stop working, but that don't stop the child support and his driver license can be spender, as well as he can do jail time. Op needs to be a mother and get a backbone and stop letting that so call dad bully her.
There is no substitute for home made cinnamon rolls
1:02:25 Yeah NO! that wife is in the wrong. She did not help. She took her inheritance and set it up where SHE was the one retiring and demanding that the husband keep working while she stops working and lives a retired life and wants him to keep working so she has money to PLAY with... Yeah, NO!
Just remember! You're only hearing ½ of the story when you listen to these things! If they're real stories, you're only hearing 1 side, there's 3 sides to a story. There's the story teller, the "other" person/people, and the TRUTH, Which can be seen via security camera/ recordings. I don't really believe any of these stories, but they're entertaining.
Person with the dog, run just run. Clearly they don't actually love the dog