Just started a new job and already there's a guy giving off this vibe. I hate that I've picked up on it cos I really don't want trouble this year. Especially at work.
Lol good luck with that. there is always someone at work or school who has a big mouth and exposes secrets! The key is never date or hookup with coworkers in the first place!
Well guess what, you're not an introvert! That's just your mindset, your frame. You believe you're an introvert just because it fits in the confort frame you've created for yourself, thus becoming one. Now I'm not saying you should do stuff you don't like, but work on your self image and learn to enjoy socialization, it's beautiful once you step out of your frame/confort zone. Find some more materials on YT, think about it. Have a good one!
It's funny how terms like introverts, extroverts, anxiety etc. got sooo popularised in the 21st century, but they're nothing more than excuses. Excuses for our insecurities, self image, self esteem, confidence. Extroverted people have no problem with that and that's why they're enjoying socialization much more. Those are fields that anyone should work on, someone less, someone more.
Punchbag 100 exactly there is no inbetween for these dudes out here. They lay it on way too heavy with flirting or they are oblivious af to you flirting with them. Lol
Vogue Girl this my issue. We have 4 female workers and 22 males. Straight competition. I just let them fight among each other and watch my crush from a distance
Simple Answer: Don't try to ask your co-worker out, I asked one out after hearing from her while on the other side working up the nerve to do so how excited she was someone was gonna ask her out but then when she realizes it was me when I asked her personally she gets offended after lying to me saying she doesn't date and even goes out of her way to get me fired.....
What do you mean lying she doesn't date? How do you know? Just because it happened to you doesn't mean you should tell people not to ask them out. Sorry. Sorry that happened but that is not all cases.
Never ever ever flirt with a coworker this is the worst mistake anybody can make. No way. I never have but i been close to flirting. And im so glad i never did. Everything can go wrong.
I admitted to my coworker back in January that I have feelings for her but she told me that she wasn't interested in having a boyfriend at the time. It's now April and she's been giving me mixed signals lately by helping me out around the store, playfully poking me in my arm, and offering to wear my hat (which she looked really cute wearing). Are these possible signs that she may be starting to like me or am I accidentally reading too much into these actions and have the wrong idea and she's just being friendly?
Homegirl is playing with you a little bit. Maybe she feels bad by just ignoring you so she randomly gives you attention. I'm in a similar situation right now and this is how I would interpret it. Let her make the move. If you try it once again, you'll get hurt.
What's the update? To me, she just wants your attention knowing you like her already. Just be direct and tell her you aren't interested if she isn't interested.
It's a few thick beautiful women at my job. I try my best not to look at them because I want to stay focused and I wouldn't ever risk flirting and getting fired. I wish I saw them in public lol
The only problem I have is that you feel as if you competing against other girls and you feel as if they are skinny than you, prettier than you , more intelligent than you etc.
This is good advice because I have a crush on two of my co-workers and I would date either of them if I had the chance. They’re both a few years younger than me, but they’re both handsome and sweet. We’re pretty close and we talk a lot at work. I’m too afraid to let them know I have a crush on them because I don’t want to make things awkward between us. On the other hand, I would be jealous if they were in a relationship, so maybe I should let them know before it’s too late. I’m not sure if they feel the same way about me, though.
Ur telling me u can tell me how to flirt with my coworker in 2 min while I haven’t figured flirting at workplace my entire career.. I’m even against having relationship at work now.. but yh interesting video😅
1. Roleplay and say something like "I've noticed you, what's your name" even though you know them already. 2. Say "it's a good thing we're coworkers or else we'll be wild"
We have so many in common and talk a lot about a lot of things, always make me smile he told me he has a girlfriend and live together. I like him a lot, he is attractive and sometimes I have sexual fantasies with him. How can I deal to stop thinking about it and just mantain what we have.
I work with this guy at my company so often.. and, the thing is.. we are both married.. he would join me for lunch we would eat and talk about serious things.. he is such a gentleman. We are always joking around. And last week we had our company christmas party .. he drink a few glasses of whisky.. and he was being touchy and whenever im not beside him he would always be looking at me.. it not good i know but i dont know why i like it..
Update* So after the christmas party thing.. we actually started being close and going out more. Like going on parks and stuff.. but, one night.. we kissed!!!! We freaking kissed!!!!! I was so shocked but it was soooooo gooooddd!!! 😥😥😥 i kept on avoiding him till now and since then we never talked again and im actually transferring to another company which i think is a good thing. But i would surely miss him.
BTS Army Got7igot7 Please do not do that again. Protect your marriage and guard your heart. Do not take an impulse act to jeopardize the joy of growing together with your hubby. Guard your heart. The Bible says flee sexual sin. Do not make excuse, donor underestimate the consequences, avoid, flee, get transfer... whatever you can do to keep your heart for your hubby and family. The temptation shall pass if you give not attention to that. With love and care.
Is there a possibility that a female coworker is interested in me if she asks me what I’m doing after work? (I’m interested in her) or is she just trying to have a conversation so she can get to know me better?
@SA J I asked for her number which she gave to me but we agreed to be friends for now cause she isn’t interested in having a boyfriend right now so let’s see what happens cause she may change her mind someday (hopefully) but if not then I’m fine with just being friends
@@joshuafuqua4154 Make your move. Women don't know what they want and sometimes will say things they don't really mean. You will get friendzoned if you don't pursue her. She may be testing you to see if you're man enough to try. You have to try or you will never have a chance.
Ryan it’s very rude and needs to learn how to allow other people to speak. I really don’t like him from this video. He can’t stand not having the attention on him, like get over yourself. If you have a guest on the show, that means you brought them to hear their perspective. STOP interrupting people while they’re in the middle of a sentence. Learn some manners
Just started a new job and already there's a guy giving off this vibe. I hate that I've picked up on it cos I really don't want trouble this year. Especially at work.
Trouble is calling your name. And it’s calling mine too.
@@mrexecutive You smooth MF!! 😎
1 year later, how'd it go?
Just don’t engage.
Haha, same situation. 😅
Dating co-workers?
Discretion is the key; from both sides.
Lol good luck with that. there is always someone at work or school who has a big mouth and exposes secrets! The key is never date or hookup with coworkers in the first place!
Now the entire America is gonna go running around with the Matthew's same pickup lines.
I'm an introvert..dating your co-worker feels like deathtrap.. why I'm watching this.. thanks RUclips..
Same, lmao.
Well guess what, you're not an introvert! That's just your mindset, your frame. You believe you're an introvert just because it fits in the confort frame you've created for yourself, thus becoming one. Now I'm not saying you should do stuff you don't like, but work on your self image and learn to enjoy socialization, it's beautiful once you step out of your frame/confort zone. Find some more materials on YT, think about it. Have a good one!
It's funny how terms like introverts, extroverts, anxiety etc. got sooo popularised in the 21st century, but they're nothing more than excuses. Excuses for our insecurities, self image, self esteem, confidence. Extroverted people have no problem with that and that's why they're enjoying socialization much more. Those are fields that anyone should work on, someone less, someone more.
Not if you're from different departments.
that creepy Jameson face behind Mathew
why is it creepy?
What's creepy about his face?
It's illegal now and called harassment
Just don’t harass people and it won’t be considered harassment
James Taylor yup
Punchbag 100 exactly there is no inbetween for these dudes out here. They lay it on way too heavy with flirting or they are oblivious af to you flirting with them. Lol
What if you do it outside of work like at abowling alley or driving range. Could it be considered sexual harassment?
If she doesn't find you attractive yeah if she does the no problem.
The only problem I have is that you feel as if you are competing against other girls.
Vogue Girl this my issue. We have 4 female workers and 22 males. Straight competition. I just let them fight among each other and watch my crush from a distance
Exactly.
@@msmichelleelizabeth same haha
lol when i notice dudes simping over women, i just fall back. being aloof gets the women's attention if you're good looking enough
'i dont work with you.' 'exactly ;)'
Simple Answer: Don't try to ask your co-worker out, I asked one out after hearing from her while on the other side working up the nerve to do so how excited she was someone was gonna ask her out but then when she realizes it was me when I asked her personally she gets offended after lying to me saying she doesn't date and even goes out of her way to get me fired.....
What do you mean lying she doesn't date? How do you know? Just because it happened to you doesn't mean you should tell people not to ask them out. Sorry. Sorry that happened but that is not all cases.
Lmao
Wow..that's one bad luck.
I had a stroke trying to read this 🙄
only do this if you're good looking enough and notice her looking at you alot. also if you notice her around you alot.
Never ever ever flirt with a coworker this is the worst mistake anybody can make. No way. I never have but i been close to flirting. And im so glad i never did. Everything can go wrong.
Wait I don’t get this did u think u weren’t going to see each other again or?
thats why you find an excuse to get their number. once you do, its easy. she'll be bold in text if she likes you
I want to flirt with mine, but I don’t know if they like me the same way.
Never find a honey where you make your money
Why? :0
I admitted to my coworker back in January that I have feelings for her but she told me that she wasn't interested in having a boyfriend at the time. It's now April and she's been giving me mixed signals lately by helping me out around the store, playfully poking me in my arm, and offering to wear my hat (which she looked really cute wearing). Are these possible signs that she may be starting to like me or am I accidentally reading too much into these actions and have the wrong idea and she's just being friendly?
I would suggest not to start any conversation about that with her because you’ve already been rejected once .. let her do the move
Homegirl is playing with you a little bit. Maybe she feels bad by just ignoring you so she randomly gives you attention. I'm in a similar situation right now and this is how I would interpret it. Let her make the move. If you try it once again, you'll get hurt.
Yeaaaa she playin witcha
What's the update? To me, she just wants your attention knowing you like her already. Just be direct and tell her you aren't interested if she isn't interested.
Run dont do it many things can go wrong
It's a few thick beautiful women at my job. I try my best not to look at them because I want to stay focused and I wouldn't ever risk flirting and getting fired. I wish I saw them in public lol
Bro just knock one off
Pump and dump one
Got a new job and a chick been hitting on me asking if I have a girlfriend
The only problem I have is that you feel as if you competing against other girls and you feel as if they are skinny than you, prettier than you , more intelligent than you etc.
Vogue Girl We men feel the same, but "he is more confident, better looking, he works out".
That's all of life. He is offering tools to set yourself apart and make the difference where it may mean more than just being pretty.
This is good advice because I have a crush on two of my co-workers and I would date either of them if I had the chance. They’re both a few years younger than me, but they’re both handsome and sweet. We’re pretty close and we talk a lot at work. I’m too afraid to let them know I have a crush on them because I don’t want to make things awkward between us. On the other hand, I would be jealous if they were in a relationship, so maybe I should let them know before it’s too late. I’m not sure if they feel the same way about me, though.
Maybe first make up your mind who you like most, then you have a back up if it doesn't work out.
I'm in a similar situation right now and I feel the same way. What ended up happening?
Whats #3?
Why did you cut him off of his meaningful line…
this guy is amazing ;)
Ur telling me u can tell me how to flirt with my coworker in 2 min while I haven’t figured flirting at workplace my entire career.. I’m even against having relationship at work now.. but yh interesting video😅
1. Roleplay and say something like "I've noticed you, what's your name" even though you know them already.
2. Say "it's a good thing we're coworkers or else we'll be wild"
Yep I totally prefer this one
Why did I think Jameson was a poster 😭🤣
seacrest doesnt know when to jump in, kept interupting him unnecessarily
We have so many in common and talk a lot about a lot of things, always make me smile he told me he has a girlfriend and live together. I like him a lot, he is attractive and sometimes I have sexual fantasies with him. How can I deal to stop thinking about it and just mantain what we have.
Depends on the job.
I believe its ok ,,but one of you have to find new job !!
I love Matthew so much 💜
I work with this guy at my company so often.. and, the thing is.. we are both married.. he would join me for lunch we would eat and talk about serious things.. he is such a gentleman. We are always joking around. And last week we had our company christmas party .. he drink a few glasses of whisky.. and he was being touchy and whenever im not beside him he would always be looking at me.. it not good i know but i dont know why i like it..
This sounds spicy
Update*
So after the christmas party thing.. we actually started being close and going out more. Like going on parks and stuff.. but, one night.. we kissed!!!! We freaking kissed!!!!! I was so shocked but it was soooooo gooooddd!!! 😥😥😥 i kept on avoiding him till now and since then we never talked again and im actually transferring to another company which i think is a good thing. But i would surely miss him.
Darn! At least the kiss happened to relieve the temptation!
BTS Army Got7igot7 Please do not do that again. Protect your marriage and guard your heart. Do not take an impulse act to jeopardize the joy of growing together with your hubby. Guard your heart. The Bible says flee sexual sin. Do not make excuse, donor underestimate the consequences, avoid, flee, get transfer... whatever you can do to keep your heart for your hubby and family. The temptation shall pass if you give not attention to that. With love and care.
@@btsarmygot7igot719 your username betrays you...you're a 15 year old girl
Didn’t Ryan sexually harass his make up stylist? No wonder he asked this.
Hahaha-such complete bunk!! Have a very normal to slightly unattractive person (read: most of us) succeed at this-that’s who we should listen to!
Me and a coworker did the dirty in the break room bc of this video
This video aged terribly.
Is there a possibility that a female coworker is interested in me if she asks me what I’m doing after work? (I’m interested in her) or is she just trying to have a conversation so she can get to know me better?
@SA J I asked for her number which she gave to me but we agreed to be friends for now cause she isn’t interested in having a boyfriend right now so let’s see what happens cause she may change her mind someday (hopefully) but if not then I’m fine with just being friends
I had a thought that she may be trying to play hard to get but I doubt it 🤔
@@joshuafuqua4154 Make your move. Women don't know what they want and sometimes will say things they don't really mean. You will get friendzoned if you don't pursue her. She may be testing you to see if you're man enough to try. You have to try or you will never have a chance.
@@pepepez6335 we’ve been bonding a lot more since so hopefully we’ll end up together after all 😁
get her number if you can. if she likes you she will be bold in text / more direct in her interest
How should I go about asking a person that i like that work in a school?
What?
I don't think you should ever date a co worker.
What if you're already put in your 2 weeks?
Alpha Wolf_god 😂😂😂😂😂
I learnt the hard way. You become the office gossip
Yeah well jus get ready to work with them everyday 🤣
You can’t do that in front of loads of people lol
Guys stop talking I came here for the dating expert not to hear chit chat
Dude resembles Daniel Radcliffe.
Being playful
It's totally wrong and stupid.
Number one i think its a jerk thing.
it is but a normalized jerk thing
Il est parfait Matthew
I just lost at desk or no desk f
Yea we all know how Jared kept the weight off now. Hits different in 2021.
hussey? rlly....
Why does Ryan straight go to “hook up” no sexual manners till marriage. Preserve life.
Just hope you dont hit on wrong woman boddy her husband might fix you with out you knowing :))
I'm a mommy of four kids
What was the second one?
Ryan You and I Shall Ride.
Don't! 🤢🤮
I am completely distressed by JAMESON~~~~LOL LOL LOL~~~
Playful
Ryan it’s very rude and needs to learn how to allow other people to speak. I really don’t like him from this video. He can’t stand not having the attention on him, like get over yourself. If you have a guest on the show, that means you brought them to hear their perspective. STOP interrupting people while they’re in the middle of a sentence. Learn some manners
Single parent of four kids 4sons
Okay?
Is this "expert" for real? He is weird