@@KaylaRose if you cut off the lowest layer you won’t have the mullet look and it tends to make it look fuller. I basically had to do that about every other month. Once you get to a year it basically just looks like shoulder length hair with face framed bangs
I have kinda mullet look rn bc my bob cut grew out and i don’t want to endanger anyone by going to a salon since I’m an essential worker. Don’t feel bad about how it looks, i think the pixie cut looks really great on you! I can’t wait to get mine cut, it’s nearly to my shoulders and gets all in my face 😩
@@beth7921 I totally agree. The secret is keeping the bottom trimmed very regularly, maybe even buzzed until the top grows out to a bob, then let it grow together and you never have a weird hair faze.
Kayla, please don’t say you regret your decision. We all know why you did it. It was because your hair was damage from bleaching it 3 times in one day. Your hair needed to be reset. You’ll be happy that you did that in the future. And ignore the haters. Believe me when I say this, you are absolutely beautiful Kayla; mind, body and soul. Will always love you. Until next time, God bless
The hair can grow without shaving? You just dont do anything to it, other than taking good care of it, and then you can snip the ends, as the natural hair grows out. I've never seen/heard going to this extreme to get healty hair.
@@randi0068 mine became like wet noodles/breaking off from bleach an inch and a half from the roots. That's why I personally had too. If not the breakage will just continue to break and you'll have an inch length in hair and longer in other areas. Not a nice look either.
@@siaw6487 that sounds absolutely horrible and kind of insane, that it could come so far. I thought that you would stop doing things that damage the hair, as soon as it starts to get bad, so I thought that you could stop there and let the hair grow. A brand that I really like to use to take good care of my hair, is OLAPLEX. I'm sorry that you had to go through that.
Imagine watching a whole tik tok just to say something cringey like "she went from an easy 9 for me to a 4" the internet is filled with such hateful loser 😂 Also hope your hair grows back quick if thats what you want but just know you always look pretty gorl 🤙
It's the fact that somebody actually takes the time to write a nasty comment about someone they have never even met. I think you look great, short hair really suits you and your hair looks healthy. Forget the whingebags - your hair will grow back - they are stuck with their mean personality
I did a super short pixie once and when it got to that stage, I just kept cutting the mullet and letting the top grow until it became a very cute bob! So if you want to get through the growth without the mullet that's what I recommend. It's basically a bottom layer pause until it's all one length. But regardless, you look lovely!!
This was my plan, but since I grew it in quarantine, I just had my mom cut the back so it wasn’t great but was better. My pixie was considered long to begin with so I’m at the 13 month mark and my hair is past the shoulder now even with waves making it look shorter.
Gooorrl! This is one year of your whole entire life, don't regret this minor decision. Your hair will be grown out before you know it and you might actually find yourself missing these awkward phases. Not to mention you are literally so beautiful and I'm not just saying that to make you feel better. It's the truth! You have such delicate facial features and the short hair really makes them pop. It's what caught my eye when I first came across your channel okayyyy, so don't let these nobodies online get you down bc you look like a fairy princess fr fr.
Keri that's sweet of u, but the truth is it can give u severe depression and anxiety no matter how many times a person says we r beautiful..I think she is trying to be real and help us learn it's not something we should do on a whim, if one feels like they don't want to get up and ready in the day it's tough,iv been through it with acne...ur words were kind but when I cut my hair an inch,I hate it for months,lol...
@@KaylaRose what kind of shampoo did would u use and how often did u wash your hair I shaved my hair on January 5 and now I’m on my 3 month I’d say and I’m struggling
people commenting "no one cares" on her tiktok and yet they watched it all and took the time to comment? some people really be out there with literally no braincells huh. Also, the bangs look amazing, and that pic with the black bow is super cute!
Growing out my hair felt really uncomfortable when I reached the mullet stage. Cutting the mullet-y part at the back so that it looks more like an intentional pixie cut really helped my self-esteem! Some people like mullets, but I am just not one of those people. You look great though!
i buzzed my hair to a 1 in may so im about a month ahead of u. i think u aren't in a stage of regret. u just miss having long hair and being able to experiment with different styles, color, just being able to do stuff with ur u used to do. and now that its the healthiest its ever been u dont wanna damage it with color but u miss that feeling. im right there with u. i have curly hair so im always dying to straighten the shit out of it or dye it but i am resisting the thoughts bc i want my hair to be super healthy when its long :) stay strong it will teach u patience and be so rewarding to have healthy hair!
it’s crazy how people say those things just over hair.. you’re so so so beautiful and young, don’t worry about looks right now because you’re in your prime girl :)
I got a basically shaved head in June last year, just like you. I went through all the highs and lows of growing it out. So I feel your struggle :)) If you don't like the mullet look, then I would highly recommend going to a hair dresser, or asking someone you trust to trim the hair on the back of your head. It can make so much difference in how you feel about your hair. Or if you like the mullet, then go for it :) You rock girl!
You shouldn't worry what you look like and it's definitely not something to regret, you look great and now you've figured out which style you prefer, you learned from it and that's why it shouldn't be a regret
I went trough a lot of different stages when I shaved my head. Now I am at the point where I can put it in a ponytail and believe me, it's worth it. My hair feels a lot better than it did before and it looks a lot healthier. I know how it feels, it sucks but believe me. Once you can style it or put it in a half up half down you will thank yourself for going trough it. I love u
I've shaved my head 3 times and loved it! The best way to grow out short hair is to get it trimmed. Honestly, I know it seems scary and coutner-intuitive, but trust me. I always start to feel so ugly and not like myself when I hit the mullet stage, but simply trimming the mullet helps SO much and gives you more of a "style" to work with! Good luck! (for the record, whatever hair you prefer is what suits you best! It doesn't matter what other people think, so live your life huntyyyy
I just realized you were the girl from the bleaching fail video and looking back, I’m actually really glad you shaved your head and I’m sure a lot of people feel the same. It looks so healthy and in turn makes you look healthy as well.
I shaved my head 3 years ago. It was fun, I did a lot of crazy styles. When I decided to grow it out, I kept the bottom really short and grew out the top first. Though I don't think I'll ever shave my head again, I do miss it. I think the biggest advice I'd give to someone wanting to cut their hair short is to fully enjoy it while you have it. 😁
I suggest not not reading the haters reviews. You are a cute girl who is brave enough to put yourself out there. Your choice. These are unhappy jealous humans. As soon as you detect it’s going to be a haters review move on. Don’t subject yourself to their unkind words. Do not let them get into your head. Have a nice day!
Omgg I shaved y head on the 31st of December, last year, and I was so happy about it. It's been growing for one month now and I already "regret" my decision, it gets really boring and sometimes it does feel like you've lost a part of your femininity. But honestly the stage that your hair is at rn is AMAZING, I want to grow it out already
I really like your hair! It's super shiny and healthy now. And also, those bangs really suite you!! If you ever feel like it, you could have them down sometimes.
You look gorgeous but I understand how you’re feeling because I have also shaved my head in the past. But don’t worry, it’s something temporary and honestly, it looks sooo good on you and makes you (and every other woman who rocks it) more fashionable too. Edit: I forgot to mention to NOT shave it again because you feel like the growing out stages are awkward. I’m saying that because I’ve done that and I regretted it 10000%
I am at almost 5 months and I am at that stage where I feel like I am regretting my decision. I am super annoyed by the length I am right now. I wear most of the time just a hat. Well, for the last 5 months I’ve been wearing a hat, except at the beginning where I felt super comfortable and beautiful with my shaved head. Now its just weird 😅 I can’t wait until I hit the 1 year mark.
Kayla I did the same thing to my hair. My hair is still in the growing process. I also had an identity crisis like two months ago. I didn’t feel feminine at all. I’ve been using beanies and soft headbands to add some style to my hair. The ninth month is usually where your hair starts to look more like a bob. Your hair is so close! Hang in there doll! You’re beautiful no matter what! 💙💙💙🦋🦋🦋
I love to see your hair updates, I shaved my nearly 3 foot long hair (90 centimeter) hair in march to donate it. and now I am getting in the same state where I don't feel feminine at all. I do cry sometimes bc of this. but I know it will change and grow out and grow longer and grow healthy, which is the most important fact for me personally. so I just kinda go through it. I have exactly the same 'problems' with waking up in the morning and HAVING to shower or wet my hair bc it looked like the pictures you showed in ur 3 month update video. we can do this sis, we are the healthy hair club. love n hugs from Germany.
I shaved my head in September 2020 and have just been told for the first time yesterday that I have hit the beginning of my mullet status. can't wait to see where it ends up next but it was fun to see you hitting all of the exact same little milestones I've had :)
I’m LITERALLY in month seven and I feel this, especially the tiny ponytails😂 I just know one day when it is long and super healthy i’ll be so glad I did it 💞 awkward stage gang!
You and I cut our hair 5 days apart and I've been growing it out ever since. But mine is curly, so I think we face different problems at different times. But hold tight, you look beautiful either way!
I am in my sixth month of growing it out and I can definitely relate to just beginning to regret it and really noticing the mullet. I’m glad to be off the hair gel though which I used in like months 3 and some of 4. Anyways yeah I totally agree with everything that you said and also it’s a bummer that you don’t like the feeling of bangs I think they would look great on you plus they’re fun to experiment with!
I’ve had my hair at various lengths over the years (currently a buzz cut which I love but I do get a lot of cowlick after sleeping). Honestly the biggest thing I can say that helps is cutting it gradually. For example you could trim up the bottom now so the top and bottom over time start to even out. Little trim ups along the way make a huge difference. Also growing out any kind of pixie or buzz there is ALWAYS the awkward phase lol, you will totally get through it, you are genuinely so so beautiful, and hair does not define what makes you feminine or makes you yourself. You can get through this ❤️
Popped in here immediately from your 3 month update. I know it's pandemic times now so getting a haircut is tricky, but if you're struggling with not feeling feminine or disliking your style, cut the back of your hair! You're not at the stage where you can get a true inverted bob, but trimming up the back will help make you feel sooo much more femme. If you can, I would do something like a longer fade in the back so that it lays nicely. Sometimes these cuts feel like backwards progress in growing you hair, but if it make you like your style through the awkward lengths, it's worth it!
I'm actually growing out a disconnected undercut right now, so I feel you on not knowing how to style my hair. I'm only a few months in, so the short stuff just kinda does its own thing. I think I'm glad I didn't shorten the topknot, if only because I can still pull it back and keep it out of my face. So it's not really all that attractive right now, but it's functional. But I definitely have days where I don't like how it looks, so you're not alone with that, believe me. Thanks for sharing your hair growth journey! It's helping me keep mine on track and I appreciate it.
I wish I had seen your video before shaving my head! Gosh, I’m at the same stage that you were in this video and I can relate sooooo much 😭 I can’t wait for my hair to grow at least past my chin. Anyway love your videos ! You’re adorable ❤️❤️
I feel like the best way to get through the awkward phase would be to keep the bottom half shorter while the top half grows out more... Then, it could turn into a bob hair cut.
I grew out my hair from a pixie a few years back, so I totally get the stage you're in rn!! I know covid might change your accessibility to a hair salon, but my best advice for you is to get regular trims to try and eventually get all the hair at a similar length. Not doing this is 100% my biggest regret when I look back at pictures from my growing out stage.
You look *PHENOMENAL* with short hair! I absolutely love it on you. Wear it with confidence & forget any negative comments ~ why would they matter to you? They're just noise. You are beautiful!
I shaved my head how years ago and when the memories popped up on fb I just shaved it again. I’m really lucky to have a job where no one cares what I look like (medical field) and it’s very liberating. I don’t think my hair will ever be long again (too hot with my job) but I am looking forward to maybe a shaved side pixie! You look great.
lucky you, mullets are in right now!! i shaved my head about a year and a half ago now and i can definitely empathize with the awkward growth stages. part of me wants to do it again, part of me misses my long hair, part of me likes my mullet right now. it was actually at my shoulders when i decided to do a mullet again, but i cut it instead of it just growing that way :) patience is key, it’ll grow sooner than you realize
Guurl the short hairlooks so good on you, especially the pixie ^^ Dont f*cking listen to haters on tik tok. Imho it looks even better then the long hair. Shaved my head 2 month ago and in the beginning i really regretted it. Everyone told it's ugly. It made me super insecure and I just wanted it to grow back. But now that it's a little longer I really like it. I'm sooo looking forward to having a shaggy/mullet. :D
Welcome to the struggle bus! Honestly I couldn't take it anymore and trimmed/ shave from the tops of my ears down so I looked like I had an intentional pixie instead of a shoddily done baby mullet
@@KaylaRose I've obsessively watched so many videos of other girls who have done this like us due to hair damage. I think I like the idea of letting it all just grow except trimming the back every month. You're so lucky though. I'm only at one inch all over and it sticks up so bad. Like spikes. I do not feel feminine at all and I'm so anxious over it now it's making me almost sick.
@@KaylaRose I've shaved my head and grown it out before and honestly, keeping the back short is the best thing you can do, if you are not loving the mullet. That way it'll just look like a series of intentional pixies of various lengths, until, one day... BOOM , you have a short bob.
I shaved my head after high school, so I had the super awkward growing-out phase during my first year of college, & I know exactly what you mean about not feeling feminine enough. For what it's worth, I think you look ridiculously pretty!
Just found your videos, when i tell you look COMPLETELY different with the long and short hair, look i think you have really pretty features that are emphasized by short hair, shorter hair makes look happy and kind
Hello Kayla, well I must say that you look extremely girly with that short hair, I love it. I did the same years ago, just got tired of my long hair. It was always me and that hair...stuck in the cardoor or carwindow, back of a chair, fighting with the band of my handbag,.... I never regretted it. I my opinion its cool to change your hair from time to time. And sometimes you need to take a risk. But better to have a nice short haircut to start fresh again instead of long damaged hair. And i'm glad you like taking risks instead of people who have the same haircut their whole life and start crying when the hairdresser cut of 3 cm instead of 2 cm lol.
You should definetely not regret your decision, you look beautiful and people who says otherwise are blind. Healthy hair looks way better than damaged hair, nomatter how short it is :) I bleached and destroyed my hair too so I shaved it all off and now I’m at 6 months soon! Yes it’s really poofy and super annoying many times, but it will grow out to a bob within 1 year and then you’ll be happy you left it alone 😊
I shaved my hair yesterday ..I need a lot of courage to do that but I feel good for a change. I think we should definitely enjoy every hair phase am excited for the coming days 😌
Dude, you are beautiful no matter what length your hair is! You have amazing eyes, a lovely smile, and a really neat style. I've done it a few times, and the growing out is truly a PITA - I'm trying to grow it out from buzzing it now, actually. If you bring the bottom of the back up with some slight layering at the bottom, it can look more intentional (and isn't a mullet if you don't like the mullet life), and will get to a short, layered bob stage for a while.
I’m with ya:) were in the same stage. I totally get you. You look awesome. Don’t pay attention to the negative. Definitely excited for the mullet stage:)
You actually look stunning at this stage of your hair growth, suits you so much. I know how hard it is though when you’re beating yourself up and you just don’t look the way you want to, but trust me - you’re beautiful, with short, long - whatever hair.
If you have a small (like tiny) flat iron you could absolutely style it into a piece-y mullet! Super cute and honestly very trendy rn! I think it looks cute regardless of how its styled hahah but I totally get the frustration, I think it happens to most people around this stage because it's just very time consuming and tricky to find a way to style it and it needs a lot of attention.
first of all, I actually really love this length on you. your beautiful. dont be so hard on yourself. second, i shaved my head a few times lol. not fully bald but almost. the stages as its growing back are so annoying. upside, mullets are really in right now so if you end up having one, rock it.
I shaved mine 8 months a go, July 1st. I totally get where you're coming from as I'm getting impatient with mine at this point. I look back at old photos and I'm like "I miss my long hair!". I still don't regret it as such, as I did it for hair health... and to get rid of all hair dye. But ah man it's so hard to remain patient at times! Don't worry girl, we shall have our long hair back soon and we will appreciate it a lot more now when we do! P.s You're gorgeous hun so don't let anyone tell you otherwise! Xx
Hey girly! I went through a similar experience. I bleached my hair so bad, that it felt like I was pulling on wet rubber bands when I tugged on it. I was young, about 14 at the time, so I just went to a hairdresser to get a pixie cut. The stage your at right now is the most awkward stage (only if you have limited styling options), and the next one is when the hair reaches below the collar bone (not quite medium or long). Your hair looked super cute in the pic where you said it was a good day! When your not having good hair days, throw on a Rosie The Riveter bandana, fix the front of your hair to a victory roll or pump, and you are GOOD. TO. GO! That's literally the only part of your hair that will show, unless if you want to have a couple strands coming from the sides (sideburn area), then that would look super cute too! I got reeeeally into Pin-up style at this time, which became my style for years, and had alot of pin-up shirts, dresses, shoes, and was never caught without red lipstick, hahaha. If you look into short Rockabilly hairstyles, it might open some doors for you in terms of new hairstyles! There's tons of things you can do with bandanas, and also scarves. I really hoped this helped! I also have anxiety too, so I know how hard it is to love yourself when you feel like you have little options for expressing yourself in any way, shape, or form. Hope this helped! If you need anything else or just to talk, you can shoot me a message! Have a great day! Peace to you, and happy hair journey! (:
Before I shaved my head 4 months ago. I watch so many videos including your original video and all of you inspired me to go through it. I am so happy I did it. Sometimes I wish it was longer. But I still think it is the best thing I could have ever done for myself. However, I wanted to know what 7 months will look like, that's how I found this video. And it 7 months isn't as long as I wish it was for an particular event. Its not the end of the world though.
GURL I HEAR YA! I chopped my hair off exactly like yours in July of last year. And then got a skin fade in September. The struggle is real and the patience testing is real. Definitely miss my long hair as well, but it tests your creativity and confidence. You look beautiful! Enjoy every stage!
You have a really pretty face and you look super cute with these short hair. (even better than with wigs for me). Don't worry about it girl, you always rock anyway💗
I shaved my head in February of 2018, The super mullet stage sucked for me personally. My hair is now touching shoulders, I've cut it a few time in between. Just give it time and remember it will get better 😊 your beautiful
I totally understand, about a year I shaved my hair completely and the growing process was awful!! I've to admit that my self esteem was like a carrousel during the five-seven month of growth.
I totally understand, i shaved my head back in April last year and I never thought it would make me feel so unattractive, especially the beginning stages of it just sticking out all different ways because there wasn't enough length to make the hair heavy enough to fall flat. It was exhilerating buzzing it off, but would I do it again, no. Some people can feel beautiful and empowered but for me it made me feel powerless.
I did! I had my hair for 1 year as a short pixie, then started growing it out. Now my hair is almost at your stage and it’s been 3 months of growing it out since my very short buzz pixie cut. I like the longer pixie hair much more! I like it on you too! I know how you feel sometimes too about feeling not beautiful, but then I remember that you can’t focus on what others think of you and you need to focus on how you view yourself.
I found your channel today because youtube recommended me the 3 month update and honestly I love what your hair looks like! I think it looks amazing on you
okay... I love this short hair on you. Enjoy this length! you are so pretty and with hair out of the way, your features totally steal the spotlight. I totally get feeling less feminine sometimes and being frustrated but you'll get through it and it's so fun to really see every length of hair you could possibly have on yourself.
I shaved my head not long after you did and I’m at the same hair length. I completely understand what you mean by not bothering to do your makeup because you don’t feel like it’ll make a difference. But it’s so worth it because we both now have really healthy hair that will grow uncompromised :)
I shaved my head before. My hair growth is very slow and it took around a year and a half to reach a length that was in my comfort zone. Had the same type of feelings as you do. After 1 year it was still very short and awkward looking (you are not far from the same length as I had at 12 months). But since your hair seems to grow faster than mine based on this video, I think you'll reach the comfortable stage to your chin around your 12-month mark. ✨I do get the feeling you have about confidence. But just wanted to say that you look really pretty this way and your hair will eventually grow out. You have the sweetest face and personality.
I shaved my head in October and I've been keeping it short and absolutely love it. I was hesitant to shave my head because I've worked in a salon, and I knew the grow out process would be painful, particularly the length your hair is at right now (for the record you still look so pretty, truly). My recommendation to you would be to find a good stylist and at least for this time get your hair cut by a professional. There are SO many cute hair cuts you can achieve at this length, just requires more trips to the salon. Make a plan with your stylist to grow out your hair. Regardless of the route you go, you are beautiful!
GIRL I SHAVED MY HEAD TOO !!! Okay so I shaved mine in October 2019, and I also went through a stage of not feeling feminine enough and not knowing how to style it - it didn’t last for a long time though. I mainly tied mine up in 2 lil pigtails. My biggest tip is to keep on cutting the back and the sides, so that it can grow back evenly (unless you want a mullet). You’re beautiful either way. I basically have a bob now. Trust the process xoxo :))))
Girl you look amazinggg, but if you hate the mullet, just cut the back shorter! Then everything will be the same length so your hair on top has time to keep growing!
I cut all my hair off a little over a year ago. I'm finally at the stage where I can comfortably pull it back into a cute ponytail. You'll get there too, so stay strong through the worst part of the re-growth process and practice healthy hair habits. Good luck!
Just found your channel. Im at 7/8 months now and I totally understand the awkward and self image days. 3/4 was definitely the easier time lol! Most of the time since it's winter I wear a hat. It's inspiring to see your cute hair styles and I'll have to give them a shot. Short hair looks adorable on you!
First off, you're drop dead gorgeous! Second off, you totally ROCK the mullet!!!! I shaved my head in quarantine cuz I was bored and I feel your struggle with the growing out process! Some days are rough. I'm in an intense and very awkward mullet stage but I found doing two half back Dutch braids look really cute and make my hair look like one length again. Good luck to you! Seriously, you look SO pretty with really short hair ❤️
you still look cute! I shaved my head in 2019 and went through the grow out process last year.. actually I still am haha.. at the moment it has grown to a chin level bob.. for me it made it easier just chopping the mullet off until the rest of the hair grew to the same length...
I shaved my head in September, and my hair is at the same stage as yours. I have the same feelings about it as you. I'm also very impatient. Something that makes me more confident is wearing a headband with cat ears, or the lil pigtails, or clipping in barettes.
I shaved my hair to one cm in april to donate it. I've been to the hairdresser a few times, so my hair has the same length as yours and I feel everything you said. I love your hair growth updates!
You look great! If you're tired of it, or maybe want to try something new, for fun or a temporary change, you could slick it back and try a headband 1/2 wig. Either way you've got a great face. Don't worry about it.
this woman has to be the prettiest woman I have seen MY ENTIRE LIFE.If I was to see her irl I would have asked her out in an instant.and those short hair look cute on you so dont regret it
It is mullet-y but mullets are in rn and I think it looks good on you personally 🤷♀️
Thank you! It’s definitely getting there!😅
@@KaylaRose if you cut off the lowest layer you won’t have the mullet look and it tends to make it look fuller. I basically had to do that about every other month. Once you get to a year it basically just looks like shoulder length hair with face framed bangs
I have kinda mullet look rn bc my bob cut grew out and i don’t want to endanger anyone by going to a salon since I’m an essential worker. Don’t feel bad about how it looks, i think the pixie cut looks really great on you! I can’t wait to get mine cut, it’s nearly to my shoulders and gets all in my face 😩
@@beth7921 I totally agree. The secret is keeping the bottom trimmed very regularly, maybe even buzzed until the top grows out to a bob, then let it grow together and you never have a weird hair faze.
Kayla, please don’t say you regret your decision. We all know why you did it. It was because your hair was damage from bleaching it 3 times in one day. Your hair needed to be reset. You’ll be happy that you did that in the future. And ignore the haters. Believe me when I say this, you are absolutely beautiful Kayla; mind, body and soul. Will always love you. Until next time, God bless
I always appreciate your kind comments🥺
Same story here and same reason here Kayla 😔
The hair can grow without shaving? You just dont do anything to it, other than taking good care of it, and then you can snip the ends, as the natural hair grows out. I've never seen/heard going to this extreme to get healty hair.
@@randi0068 mine became like wet noodles/breaking off from bleach an inch and a half from the roots. That's why I personally had too. If not the breakage will just continue to break and you'll have an inch length in hair and longer in other areas. Not a nice look either.
@@siaw6487 that sounds absolutely horrible and kind of insane, that it could come so far. I thought that you would stop doing things that damage the hair, as soon as it starts to get bad, so I thought that you could stop there and let the hair grow. A brand that I really like to use to take good care of my hair, is OLAPLEX. I'm sorry that you had to go through that.
Imagine watching a whole tik tok just to say something cringey like "she went from an easy 9 for me to a 4" the internet is filled with such hateful loser 😂
Also hope your hair grows back quick if thats what you want but just know you always look pretty gorl 🤙
Hahaha thank you! :)
Those comments were really ugly, stupid humans, I think she looks cute
"she went from an easy 9 to me to a 4"
Yikes. Nobody asked you dAnIeL
You're a fucking 0 to me 😘
It's the fact that somebody actually takes the time to write a nasty comment about someone they have never even met. I think you look great, short hair really suits you and your hair looks healthy. Forget the whingebags - your hair will grow back - they are stuck with their mean personality
I mean if u post something u have to deal with someone opinion if its not straight insulting
I did a super short pixie once and when it got to that stage, I just kept cutting the mullet and letting the top grow until it became a very cute bob! So if you want to get through the growth without the mullet that's what I recommend. It's basically a bottom layer pause until it's all one length. But regardless, you look lovely!!
I'd suggest the same, mullets are back in trend right now, but it's not for everyone haha, in which case this is the way to go :)!
Yeah, I'm doing the same and never had a really bad look. Getting the neck professionaly cut is really the key in those intermediate stages.
This was my plan, but since I grew it in quarantine, I just had my mom cut the back so it wasn’t great but was better. My pixie was considered long to begin with so I’m at the 13 month mark and my hair is past the shoulder now even with waves making it look shorter.
That's exactly what I did when growing out my pixie cut
Yup agreed! I’ve grown and cut my hair several times and growing out the front first always looked better!
Gooorrl! This is one year of your whole entire life, don't regret this minor decision. Your hair will be grown out before you know it and you might actually find yourself missing these awkward phases. Not to mention you are literally so beautiful and I'm not just saying that to make you feel better. It's the truth! You have such delicate facial features and the short hair really makes them pop. It's what caught my eye when I first came across your channel okayyyy, so don't let these nobodies online get you down bc you look like a fairy princess fr fr.
You’re so sweet!😭 I know this is going to be something I look back on and be glad I did it, but I’m not feeling the most confident right now😅
Keri that's sweet of u, but the truth is it can give u severe depression and anxiety no matter how many times a person says we r beautiful..I think she is trying to be real and help us learn it's not something we should do on a whim, if one feels like they don't want to get up and ready in the day it's tough,iv been through it with acne...ur words were kind but when I cut my hair an inch,I hate it for months,lol...
@@KaylaRose what kind of shampoo did would u use and how often did u wash your hair I shaved my hair on January 5 and now I’m on my 3 month I’d say and I’m struggling
The 2 ponytails look cute.
She looks cuter in one also 😂❤❤
people commenting "no one cares" on her tiktok and yet they watched it all and took the time to comment? some people really be out there with literally no braincells huh. Also, the bangs look amazing, and that pic with the black bow is super cute!
tiktok is sooo toxic sometimes O.o
"hope my daughter won't disappoint me like that" I feel so bad for said daughter now
Girl... you’re still a 10! Screw those negative people who NEVER have anything nice to say. ❤️❤️
Growing out my hair felt really uncomfortable when I reached the mullet stage. Cutting the mullet-y part at the back so that it looks more like an intentional pixie cut really helped my self-esteem! Some people like mullets, but I am just not one of those people. You look great though!
You look so beautiful, but you know what? You don't need anyone's validation in order for you to KNOW you look stunning
i buzzed my hair to a 1 in may so im about a month ahead of u. i think u aren't in a stage of regret. u just miss having long hair and being able to experiment with different styles, color, just being able to do stuff with ur u used to do. and now that its the healthiest its ever been u dont wanna damage it with color but u miss that feeling. im right there with u. i have curly hair so im always dying to straighten the shit out of it or dye it but i am resisting the thoughts bc i want my hair to be super healthy when its long :) stay strong it will teach u patience and be so rewarding to have healthy hair!
You just explained how I’m feeling perfectly!😅
it’s crazy how people say those things just over hair.. you’re so so so beautiful and young, don’t worry about looks right now because you’re in your prime girl :)
You're at a good length to experiment with scarves as headbands and wraps
Yes scarves and headbands, big earrings 👌🏼
I got a basically shaved head in June last year, just like you. I went through all the highs and lows of growing it out. So I feel your struggle :))
If you don't like the mullet look, then I would highly recommend going to a hair dresser, or asking someone you trust to trim the hair on the back of your head. It can make so much difference in how you feel about your hair.
Or if you like the mullet, then go for it :) You rock girl!
You shouldn't worry what you look like and it's definitely not something to regret, you look great and now you've figured out which style you prefer, you learned from it and that's why it shouldn't be a regret
You’re right! I’m still glad I did it, but I have my moments of wanting it to be longer😭
@@KaylaRose it's going to look great when it is longer too, I look forward to seeing the different stages your hair enters 😂
I went trough a lot of different stages when I shaved my head. Now I am at the point where I can put it in a ponytail and believe me, it's worth it. My hair feels a lot better than it did before and it looks a lot healthier. I know how it feels, it sucks but believe me. Once you can style it or put it in a half up half down you will thank yourself for going trough it. I love u
how long did it take until it was shoulder length?
I've shaved my head 3 times and loved it! The best way to grow out short hair is to get it trimmed. Honestly, I know it seems scary and coutner-intuitive, but trust me. I always start to feel so ugly and not like myself when I hit the mullet stage, but simply trimming the mullet helps SO much and gives you more of a "style" to work with! Good luck! (for the record, whatever hair you prefer is what suits you best! It doesn't matter what other people think, so live your life huntyyyy
I just realized you were the girl from the bleaching fail video and looking back, I’m actually really glad you shaved your head and I’m sure a lot of people feel the same. It looks so healthy and in turn makes you look healthy as well.
The mullet looks amazing on you !!
I shaved my head 3 years ago. It was fun, I did a lot of crazy styles. When I decided to grow it out, I kept the bottom really short and grew out the top first. Though I don't think I'll ever shave my head again, I do miss it. I think the biggest advice I'd give to someone wanting to cut their hair short is to fully enjoy it while you have it. 😁
I suggest not not reading the haters reviews. You are a cute girl who is brave enough to put yourself out there. Your choice. These are unhappy jealous humans. As soon as you detect it’s going to be a haters review move on. Don’t subject yourself to their unkind words. Do not let them get into your head. Have a nice day!
Omgg I shaved y head on the 31st of December, last year, and I was so happy about it. It's been growing for one month now and I already "regret" my decision, it gets really boring and sometimes it does feel like you've lost a part of your femininity.
But honestly the stage that your hair is at rn is AMAZING, I want to grow it out already
100 percent im almost at this stage and i feel the same at the edge of regret but corner of no going back so i guess we just gatta stick it out
I really like your hair! It's super shiny and healthy now. And also, those bangs really suite you!! If you ever feel like it, you could have them down sometimes.
I found keeping the back shorter helped me feel happier with how I looked overall until the rest of my hair grew. Either way, you look beautiful ❤
You have the cutest face, and are one of those people that can get away with ANYTHING. Such a beauty!
You look gorgeous but I understand how you’re feeling because I have also shaved my head in the past. But don’t worry, it’s something temporary and honestly, it looks sooo good on you and makes you (and every other woman who rocks it) more fashionable too.
Edit: I forgot to mention to NOT shave it again because you feel like the growing out stages are awkward. I’m saying that because I’ve done that and I regretted it 10000%
I am at almost 5 months and I am at that stage where I feel like I am regretting my decision. I am super annoyed by the length I am right now. I wear most of the time just a hat. Well, for the last 5 months I’ve been wearing a hat, except at the beginning where I felt super comfortable and beautiful with my shaved head. Now its just weird 😅 I can’t wait until I hit the 1 year mark.
Kayla I did the same thing to my hair. My hair is still in the growing process. I also had an identity crisis like two months ago. I didn’t feel feminine at all. I’ve been using beanies and soft headbands to add some style to my hair. The ninth month is usually where your hair starts to look more like a bob. Your hair is so close! Hang in there doll! You’re beautiful no matter what! 💙💙💙🦋🦋🦋
THE TWO PONYTAILS OMGG AA I LOVE HOW THEY LOOK ON YOUU
I love to see your hair updates, I shaved my nearly 3 foot long hair (90 centimeter) hair in march to donate it. and now I am getting in the same state where I don't feel feminine at all. I do cry sometimes bc of this. but I know it will change and grow out and grow longer and grow healthy, which is the most important fact for me personally. so I just kinda go through it. I have exactly the same 'problems' with waking up in the morning and HAVING to shower or wet my hair bc it looked like the pictures you showed in ur 3 month update video. we can do this sis, we are the healthy hair club. love n hugs from Germany.
I shaved my head in September 2020 and have just been told for the first time yesterday that I have hit the beginning of my mullet status. can't wait to see where it ends up next but it was fun to see you hitting all of the exact same little milestones I've had :)
Don't regret your actions, regret the way you think. That is what caused you to do so. You would look beautiful no matter how
you had your hair.
i just shaved my hair yesterday and i love it! i can’t wait for the whole growing out process lol
I’m LITERALLY in month seven and I feel this, especially the tiny ponytails😂 I just know one day when it is long and super healthy i’ll be so glad I did it 💞 awkward stage gang!
You and I cut our hair 5 days apart and I've been growing it out ever since. But mine is curly, so I think we face different problems at different times. But hold tight, you look beautiful either way!
I am in my sixth month of growing it out and I can definitely relate to just beginning to regret it and really noticing the mullet. I’m glad to be off the hair gel though which I used in like months 3 and some of 4. Anyways yeah I totally agree with everything that you said and also it’s a bummer that you don’t like the feeling of bangs I think they would look great on you plus they’re fun to experiment with!
I’ve had my hair at various lengths over the years (currently a buzz cut which I love but I do get a lot of cowlick after sleeping). Honestly the biggest thing I can say that helps is cutting it gradually. For example you could trim up the bottom now so the top and bottom over time start to even out. Little trim ups along the way make a huge difference. Also growing out any kind of pixie or buzz there is ALWAYS the awkward phase lol, you will totally get through it, you are genuinely so so beautiful, and hair does not define what makes you feminine or makes you yourself. You can get through this ❤️
YO IT LOOKS SICK ON U SERIOUSLY U PULL IT OFF SO SO WELL
Guurrrl I shaved my head in December and I'm on month 1 now, I'm so happy I found your channel to know what to expect
ayyy shaved mine in november
Popped in here immediately from your 3 month update. I know it's pandemic times now so getting a haircut is tricky, but if you're struggling with not feeling feminine or disliking your style, cut the back of your hair! You're not at the stage where you can get a true inverted bob, but trimming up the back will help make you feel sooo much more femme. If you can, I would do something like a longer fade in the back so that it lays nicely. Sometimes these cuts feel like backwards progress in growing you hair, but if it make you like your style through the awkward lengths, it's worth it!
I'm actually growing out a disconnected undercut right now, so I feel you on not knowing how to style my hair. I'm only a few months in, so the short stuff just kinda does its own thing. I think I'm glad I didn't shorten the topknot, if only because I can still pull it back and keep it out of my face. So it's not really all that attractive right now, but it's functional. But I definitely have days where I don't like how it looks, so you're not alone with that, believe me.
Thanks for sharing your hair growth journey! It's helping me keep mine on track and I appreciate it.
I wish I had seen your video before shaving my head! Gosh, I’m at the same stage that you were in this video and I can relate sooooo much 😭 I can’t wait for my hair to grow at least past my chin.
Anyway love your videos ! You’re adorable ❤️❤️
I feel like the best way to get through the awkward phase would be to keep the bottom half shorter while the top half grows out more... Then, it could turn into a bob hair cut.
I grew out my hair from a pixie a few years back, so I totally get the stage you're in rn!! I know covid might change your accessibility to a hair salon, but my best advice for you is to get regular trims to try and eventually get all the hair at a similar length. Not doing this is 100% my biggest regret when I look back at pictures from my growing out stage.
You look *PHENOMENAL* with short hair! I absolutely love it on you. Wear it with confidence & forget any negative comments ~ why would they matter to you? They're just noise. You are beautiful!
I shaved my head how years ago and when the memories popped up on fb I just shaved it again. I’m really lucky to have a job where no one cares what I look like (medical field) and it’s very liberating. I don’t think my hair will ever be long again (too hot with my job) but I am looking forward to maybe a shaved side pixie! You look great.
lucky you, mullets are in right now!! i shaved my head about a year and a half ago now and i can definitely empathize with the awkward growth stages. part of me wants to do it again, part of me misses my long hair, part of me likes my mullet right now. it was actually at my shoulders when i decided to do a mullet again, but i cut it instead of it just growing that way :) patience is key, it’ll grow sooner than you realize
Guurl the short hairlooks so good on you, especially the pixie ^^ Dont f*cking listen to haters on tik tok. Imho it looks even better then the long hair. Shaved my head 2 month ago and in the beginning i really regretted it. Everyone told it's ugly. It made me super insecure and I just wanted it to grow back. But now that it's a little longer I really like it. I'm sooo looking forward to having a shaggy/mullet. :D
you literally look so angelic with short hair it's unreal !!!
I think your short hair is so beautiful, you look like an actual character
Welcome to the struggle bus!
Honestly I couldn't take it anymore and trimmed/ shave from the tops of my ears down so I looked like I had an intentional pixie instead of a shoddily done baby mullet
I’ve been tempted to get it cleaned up, but the thought of cutting it more scares me😅
@@KaylaRose I've obsessively watched so many videos of other girls who have done this like us due to hair damage. I think I like the idea of letting it all just grow except trimming the back every month. You're so lucky though. I'm only at one inch all over and it sticks up so bad. Like spikes. I do not feel feminine at all and I'm so anxious over it now it's making me almost sick.
@@KaylaRose I've shaved my head and grown it out before and honestly, keeping the back short is the best thing you can do, if you are not loving the mullet. That way it'll just look like a series of intentional pixies of various lengths, until, one day... BOOM , you have a short bob.
I shaved my head after high school, so I had the super awkward growing-out phase during my first year of college, & I know exactly what you mean about not feeling feminine enough. For what it's worth, I think you look ridiculously pretty!
Just found your videos, when i tell you look COMPLETELY different with the long and short hair, look i think you have really pretty features that are emphasized by short hair, shorter hair makes look happy and kind
Hello Kayla, well I must say that you look extremely girly with that short hair, I love it. I did the same years ago, just got tired of my long hair. It was always me and that hair...stuck in the cardoor or carwindow, back of a chair, fighting with the band of my handbag,.... I never regretted it. I my opinion its cool to change your hair from time to time. And sometimes you need to take a risk. But better to have a nice short haircut to start fresh again instead of long damaged hair. And i'm glad you like taking risks instead of people who have the same haircut their whole life and start crying when the hairdresser cut of 3 cm instead of 2 cm lol.
You literally have one of the most beautiful faces I’ve ever seen in my life 😧❤️
You should definetely not regret your decision, you look beautiful and people who says otherwise are blind. Healthy hair looks way better than damaged hair, nomatter how short it is :) I bleached and destroyed my hair too so I shaved it all off and now I’m at 6 months soon! Yes it’s really poofy and super annoying many times, but it will grow out to a bob within 1 year and then you’ll be happy you left it alone 😊
I shaved my hair yesterday ..I need a lot of courage to do that but I feel good for a change.
I think we should definitely enjoy every hair phase am excited for the coming days 😌
Dude, you are beautiful no matter what length your hair is! You have amazing eyes, a lovely smile, and a really neat style. I've done it a few times, and the growing out is truly a PITA - I'm trying to grow it out from buzzing it now, actually. If you bring the bottom of the back up with some slight layering at the bottom, it can look more intentional (and isn't a mullet if you don't like the mullet life), and will get to a short, layered bob stage for a while.
You have such a beautiful face, I actually think your hair looks great at this stage! 🥰
I’m with ya:) were in the same stage. I totally get you. You look awesome. Don’t pay attention to the negative. Definitely excited for the mullet stage:)
You actually look stunning at this stage of your hair growth, suits you so much. I know how hard it is though when you’re beating yourself up and you just don’t look the way you want to, but trust me - you’re beautiful, with short, long - whatever hair.
If you have a small (like tiny) flat iron you could absolutely style it into a piece-y mullet! Super cute and honestly very trendy rn! I think it looks cute regardless of how its styled hahah but I totally get the frustration, I think it happens to most people around this stage because it's just very time consuming and tricky to find a way to style it and it needs a lot of attention.
first of all, I actually really love this length on you. your beautiful. dont be so hard on yourself. second, i shaved my head a few times lol. not fully bald but almost. the stages as its growing back are so annoying. upside, mullets are really in right now so if you end up having one, rock it.
I just “shaved “ my hair last night and I’m already wanting it back long having a wig be delivered today so I can wear it
You’re so pretty 😍 short hair looks so good on you.
I shaved mine 8 months a go, July 1st. I totally get where you're coming from as I'm getting impatient with mine at this point. I look back at old photos and I'm like "I miss my long hair!". I still don't regret it as such, as I did it for hair health... and to get rid of all hair dye. But ah man it's so hard to remain patient at times!
Don't worry girl, we shall have our long hair back soon and we will appreciate it a lot more now when we do! P.s You're gorgeous hun so don't let anyone tell you otherwise! Xx
THE TWO PONYTAILS ON TOP ARE ADORABLE WOW 🥺🥺 I just shaved my head again yesterday and now i'm getting videos like this 💖
Hey girly!
I went through a similar experience. I bleached my hair so bad, that it felt like I was pulling on wet rubber bands when I tugged on it. I was young, about 14 at the time, so I just went to a hairdresser to get a pixie cut. The stage your at right now is the most awkward stage (only if you have limited styling options), and the next one is when the hair reaches below the collar bone (not quite medium or long). Your hair looked super cute in the pic where you said it was a good day! When your not having good hair days, throw on a Rosie The Riveter bandana, fix the front of your hair to a victory roll or pump, and you are GOOD. TO. GO! That's literally the only part of your hair that will show, unless if you want to have a couple strands coming from the sides (sideburn area), then that would look super cute too! I got reeeeally into Pin-up style at this time, which became my style for years, and had alot of pin-up shirts, dresses, shoes, and was never caught without red lipstick, hahaha. If you look into short Rockabilly hairstyles, it might open some doors for you in terms of new hairstyles! There's tons of things you can do with bandanas, and also scarves.
I really hoped this helped! I also have anxiety too, so I know how hard it is to love yourself when you feel like you have little options for expressing yourself in any way, shape, or form.
Hope this helped! If you need anything else or just to talk, you can shoot me a message! Have a great day! Peace to you, and happy hair journey! (:
Before I shaved my head 4 months ago. I watch so many videos including your original video and all of you inspired me to go through it. I am so happy I did it. Sometimes I wish it was longer. But I still think it is the best thing I could have ever done for myself. However, I wanted to know what 7 months will look like, that's how I found this video. And it 7 months isn't as long as I wish it was for an particular event. Its not the end of the world though.
GURL I HEAR YA! I chopped my hair off exactly like yours in July of last year. And then got a skin fade in September. The struggle is real and the patience testing is real. Definitely miss my long hair as well, but it tests your creativity and confidence. You look beautiful! Enjoy every stage!
You have a really pretty face and you look super cute with these short hair. (even better than with wigs for me). Don't worry about it girl, you always rock anyway💗
plus my hair was super damaged and now its so soft ,and your hair will be so nice and soft and long and gorgeous so you look amazingggggg
I shaved my head in February of 2018, The super mullet stage sucked for me personally. My hair is now touching shoulders, I've cut it a few time in between. Just give it time and remember it will get better 😊 your beautiful
You're gorgeous. Ignore the haters. The short hair really suits you.
I can't wait for your 1 year update! I just finished mine and even though I'm enjoying my "long" hair- I miss the buzzcut.
I totally understand, about a year I shaved my hair completely and the growing process was awful!! I've to admit that my self esteem was like a carrousel during the five-seven month of growth.
I totally understand, i shaved my head back in April last year and I never thought it would make me feel so unattractive, especially the beginning stages of it just sticking out all different ways because there wasn't enough length to make the hair heavy enough to fall flat. It was exhilerating buzzing it off, but would I do it again, no. Some people can feel beautiful and empowered but for me it made me feel powerless.
I did! I had my hair for 1 year as a short pixie, then started growing it out. Now my hair is almost at your stage and it’s been 3 months of growing it out since my very short buzz pixie cut. I like the longer pixie hair much more! I like it on you too! I know how you feel sometimes too about feeling not beautiful, but then I remember that you can’t focus on what others think of you and you need to focus on how you view yourself.
I found your channel today because youtube recommended me the 3 month update and honestly I love what your hair looks like! I think it looks amazing on you
okay... I love this short hair on you. Enjoy this length! you are so pretty and with hair out of the way, your features totally steal the spotlight. I totally get feeling less feminine sometimes and being frustrated but you'll get through it and it's so fun to really see every length of hair you could possibly have on yourself.
I shaved my head not long after you did and I’m at the same hair length. I completely understand what you mean by not bothering to do your makeup because you don’t feel like it’ll make a difference. But it’s so worth it because we both now have really healthy hair that will grow uncompromised :)
Oh My God, you with that 'double ponytails', my heart stopped...
YOU ARE SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO ADORABLE!!!!!!!!
I shaved my head before. My hair growth is very slow and it took around a year and a half to reach a length that was in my comfort zone. Had the same type of feelings as you do. After 1 year it was still very short and awkward looking (you are not far from the same length as I had at 12 months). But since your hair seems to grow faster than mine based on this video, I think you'll reach the comfortable stage to your chin around your 12-month mark. ✨I do get the feeling you have about confidence. But just wanted to say that you look really pretty this way and your hair will eventually grow out. You have the sweetest face and personality.
I shaved my head in October and I've been keeping it short and absolutely love it. I was hesitant to shave my head because I've worked in a salon, and I knew the grow out process would be painful, particularly the length your hair is at right now (for the record you still look so pretty, truly). My recommendation to you would be to find a good stylist and at least for this time get your hair cut by a professional. There are SO many cute hair cuts you can achieve at this length, just requires more trips to the salon. Make a plan with your stylist to grow out your hair. Regardless of the route you go, you are beautiful!
I honestly LOVE it like that. I shaved my head recently and I can’t WAIT for it to grow like that!
GIRL I SHAVED MY HEAD TOO !!! Okay so I shaved mine in October 2019, and I also went through a stage of not feeling feminine enough and not knowing how to style it - it didn’t last for a long time though. I mainly tied mine up in 2 lil pigtails. My biggest tip is to keep on cutting the back and the sides, so that it can grow back evenly (unless you want a mullet). You’re beautiful either way. I basically have a bob now. Trust the process xoxo :))))
Girl you look amazinggg, but if you hate the mullet, just cut the back shorter! Then everything will be the same length so your hair on top has time to keep growing!
I cut all my hair off a little over a year ago. I'm finally at the stage where I can comfortably pull it back into a cute ponytail. You'll get there too, so stay strong through the worst part of the re-growth process and practice healthy hair habits. Good luck!
the two front pigtails and the bow hairstyle looks really cute ^-^
Just found your channel. Im at 7/8 months now and I totally understand the awkward and self image days. 3/4 was definitely the easier time lol! Most of the time since it's winter I wear a hat. It's inspiring to see your cute hair styles and I'll have to give them a shot. Short hair looks adorable on you!
First off, you're drop dead gorgeous! Second off, you totally ROCK the mullet!!!! I shaved my head in quarantine cuz I was bored and I feel your struggle with the growing out process! Some days are rough. I'm in an intense and very awkward mullet stage but I found doing two half back Dutch braids look really cute and make my hair look like one length again. Good luck to you! Seriously, you look SO pretty with really short hair ❤️
you still look cute! I shaved my head in 2019 and went through the grow out process last year.. actually I still am haha.. at the moment it has grown to a chin level bob.. for me it made it easier just chopping the mullet off until the rest of the hair grew to the same length...
I shaved my hair at exactly the same time! And now it's just as long as yours!
It looks so cute! People will always hate you no matter what so you should just do things that make you happy and things that are right for you :)
I shaved my head in September, and my hair is at the same stage as yours. I have the same feelings about it as you. I'm also very impatient. Something that makes me more confident is wearing a headband with cat ears, or the lil pigtails, or clipping in barettes.
I shaved my hair to one cm in april to donate it. I've been to the hairdresser a few times, so my hair has the same length as yours and I feel everything you said.
I love your hair growth updates!
You look great! If you're tired of it, or maybe want to try something new, for fun or a temporary change, you could slick it back and try a headband 1/2 wig. Either way you've got a great face. Don't worry about it.
this woman has to be the prettiest woman I have seen MY ENTIRE LIFE.If I was to see her irl I would have asked her out in an instant.and those short hair look cute on you so dont regret it