Look forward to starting my week off with your podcast. I’ve listened to all 114, in order, and look forward to many many more. Great advice. Wishing everyone a great week. Blessings🙏 YEE YEE!!!!❤️
i haven’t i’ve listened to some of the very beginning ones and a lot of newer ones but definitely not all of them see you in the YYN live stream tonight
I so look forward to Monday mornings because of this podcast. Granger, God is surely using you, as His vessel. I'm sure I speak for many, keep doing what you're doing. We need this. May God bless you and your family always. 🙏 💙
Props to you on the question from anonymous....as someone who left a totally abusive relationship....you can't control anything about another person's behavior except how you respond to it...if you stay it will continue...the last 22 years have been amazing compared to the 14 years of hell
Granger you answers today are spot on! We taught the teen class years ago and the same advice we gave back then. You are so encouraging and a true voice of reason in this confusing world. Keep on keeping on!
40:40 so right Granger! Xander, we girls feel just as scared. I love Granger's advice. Be vulnerable. Be honest. And you will find someone in that Christian group. Wow! That last one was super great advice too!
Morning y’all . Between Ambers Arise yesterday and your podcast this morning Granger definitely hit close for me . Have a great week y’all . Yee Yee ❤️🙏🏻
Zander! Granger is right! Just ask the girl!! I’ve had several guys from high school who admitted having a crush on me. They always ask why we never went out. I simply answer “You never asked”. I tell my own son, just ask! What’s the worst that can happen, she says no. Well Zander the girl that says no is the loser. She missed a chance to get to know you. Her loss. Seriously had I known more guys would have asked me out.
Thank you for all your inspiring words. I look forward to your podcast every Monday morning I put my ear buds in and clean house listening to you. I love your whole family. God Bless and Merry Christmas
I love these podcasts! Thank you for being so involved with your fans and people in general. I've followed your music since 2014 and the first time I saw you in concert was 2015. I was so surprised at how involved you were with the crowd, it felt so genuine. These just solidify my impressions. I love what you stand for and I love supporting your music, clothing, RUclips channel, podcasts, what ever it may be!
I saw the clip from this on TikTok and I came over to listen to the whole part on dating and I needed to hear that. I went and talked to the girl and cleared the air and am feeling so much better. Thank you for this podcast and sharing yourself with us
Granger is in my top 3 country artist and I really enjoy the podcast cause I like to listen to it during my school study hall and it’s really calming to listen to this podcast
This is so true. Lots of women believe they are just floating until a man claims her. I set my intention for the kind of man I wanted and I never lowered my standards once. I met several men that were nice guys but I knew they were not the one. I’m not trying to elevate myself but if we don’t think highly of ourselves we can’t expect others to.
Had to pause podcast at break to write this comment in regards to Chris and being the male “friend” (on the side). So YOU don’t have to learn this the hard way like I did…. Does the girl’s boyfriend KNOW about you? Does she share y’all’s conversations with the boyfriend? Have you ever met in public and been afraid someone might see you? If so, what is her reasoning or explanation? If you’re hiding something you’re doing ( even just talking/ texting/ emailing) then you KNOW it’s wrong. SHE knows it’s wrong. Tell her you will NOT talk with her again as long as she has a boyfriend. But remember even if she breaks up with him, do YOU want to be with someone who can treat someone this way? You must also take responsibility for your actions. You have willingly participated in this emotional or mental cheating. Is that the person YOU want to be? PRAY write in a journal Review your thoughts Remember if it’s being hidden it IS wrong. Only sharing my most shameful life lesson. God loves you and didn’t make you to be the side guy. 💗
First question is keep praying and love him through God. People can change and turn things around if both people are willing to work on change. It can also become a pattern of habit. Respect everyone.
Hey granger this is Luke who’s looking to buy that farm, and yes it is literally next door to me, I know this place will sell fast and that’s why I want to jump on it, also I forgot to mention that my parents will also be moving on the farm and are gonna pay half of the loan, that’s a big part I left out, I do plan on getting married to her but I don’t want to end up in divorce later down the road since it’s so common now a days, fixing up this property will be a good test of our relationship I think, it will bring out the worst in both of us and the best in both of us
If the loan and title are in yours and your parents name this changes the scenario a little bit. Based on the real estate trends this sounds like a great investment for you and your family. The best advice I received from my loan officer was to not put my boyfriend at the time on the title. Long story short that relationship did not work out and had he been on the papers for the house I would have been forced to sell the property or take out a loan to be able to afford splitting the equity that had accrued. If you know your girlfriend is the one and she feels the same way, divorce shouldn’t be something on your mind. Yes, divorce does happen: but so do long lasting marriages. If you both treat each other right and love and respect each other the rest will fall into place as it should. However, please don’t dismiss your intuition, if something doesn’t feel right, listen. No matter what happens you’ll see that timing is everything and God’s plan will be so clear to you when you look back 10 years from now and realize why things happened the way they did. Good luck to you Luke!
@@steph_mcguffin thank you!! And she won’t be on the loan until we are married, same with our bank account, we won’t have a joint until we are married, but I don’t think she’s goin anywhere lol
@@lukeschrimsher7879 also, no need to use up her credit capacity to be on the loan. When you both get married it benefits you both to have her clear from as much debt as possible that way she is able to get a great rate on a vehicle or anything else that might need financing in your future :) adding her to the title is a different story, that would really signify she’s your forever girl when the time comes.
Yes, that additional information does help a lot. Seems like you should jump on this quickly since it'll be a family farm. Like Granger, I wish you'd either chosen the marriage path or waited until marriage to live together, but that horse is out of the barn. I do hope you'll rectify that part soon. Wishing the best for you. Also, super impressed that you bought your own house at 19. That's speaks well of your ability to handle your finances and make wise fiscal choices.
Really needed to hear this. Married but reconnected with a HS friend last year after ~20 years which I found out I have a lot in common with (more so than my wife). I felt I was talking with her way too much so I had to stop communicating as it was difficult to be "just friends". Hard for me to do but I feel vindicated after hearing this.
To the woman in the abusive marriage, please reach out to me. I am nobody, just someone who has been there. You can find me on Facebook. Please PM me. My heart goes out to you. God does not want us living that way. Men and women both are supposed to love and respect each other.
As someone who left an abusive relationship about 9 month ago I can tell you the abuse doesn't stop. I used to think that the abuse I endured was only because he was drinking but it became more abundant even when he wasn't drinking. I in the beginning stayed because well I didn't have a leg to stand on but God was my biggest fan and helped me get out of a bad situation. I'm going through a divorce due to the abuse. It's not easy but you can do it! They won't change qnd like Granger saud it gets worse.
For the woman in the verbally abusive relationship, counseling is necessary. Ideally, the couple would go to counseling together. He needs to get counseling to help him address his issues that make him feel like this behavior is okay, and then help him come up with a plan to stop it and become the man he should be. She needs to get counseling to help her address the internal bruises and scars she will carry with her from this abuse. Even if he never does it again, she's still going to be suffering from what she's been through in the past. For Xander/Zander, I wish the advice had been given in the opposite order. I think him working on himself spiritually is the first priority, and in so doing, I think opportunities to talk with likeminded young ladies will present themselves in abundant ways. It will come from natural discussions about how they can grow to be the people God wants to be. Hoping all works out well for both of these individuals.
Well I was in an abusive relationship for 7 years & she needs to leave him she doesn't need to stay but until she's ready she won't leave. Unfortunately many stay because they are so broken they feel like they can't make it on their own. These places that claim to help never help. I have been out of it for 2 years , I'm doing great. Anyone that's in an abusive relationship can contact me I will help them get out we need to support others and help them get out
Share in suffering as a good soldier of Christ Jesus. No one serving as a soldier gets entangled in the concerns of civilian lofe he seeks to please the commanding officer. 2 Timothy 3-5
What Biblical advice would you give to a woman whose husband is both abusive, and also traffics his wife? I need scripture that supports her right to divorce.
There isn't scripture to support the right to divorce because of abuse. It's just not there. The only scripturally supported reason to divorce is because of unfaithfulness on the part of the other spouse. The only advice that can be given for someone in that situation is to get out and get away as quickly as possible. That needs to be done for safety. Once that person is safely away, then she needs to meet with a lawyer to discuss the right legal options.
@@bowed305 it's sad that a woman being forced into adulterous situations has no recourse. And yet, the situation I know of involves her husband's unfaithfulness as well.
@@kitdriscoll1288 I don't think she is without recourse. She can get away from him for her own safety. If things can't be worked out, and I'd be really doubtful that they could, she can get a divorce, but that choice to divorce comes with limitations. You asked specifically for scriptures to support a woman in this specific situation to get a divorce. Scriptures with that specific situation don't exist. There are many situations on life for which a specific scripture doesn't exist. In those cases, when then have to look more at the totality of the message in God's word to determine the proper direction to follow. The scriptures that do deal with divorce where God has allowed it are only in the case of infidelity. That is the only situation where a person who chooses to divorce, do to the infidelity of the spouse, has God's approval to marry again. (Matthew 19:1-12 is one such set of verses). If a person does choose to divorce for any other reason, that individual needs to understand that God does not give scriptural approval for that person to ever marry again. It's a tough law, and even the disciples of Christ thought so in the scripture referenced above, but there are worse things in this life than being unmarried. In fact, there are scriptures where Paul recommends it for various reasons. I truly hope the person you are referring to can get some help soon. The situation she is in has to be awful for her.
Look forward to starting my week off with your podcast. I’ve listened to all 114, in order, and look forward to many many more. Great advice. Wishing everyone a great week. Blessings🙏 YEE YEE!!!!❤️
i haven’t
i’ve listened to some of the very beginning ones and a lot of newer ones but definitely not all of them
see you in the YYN live stream tonight
Me too. I miss the earlier format. But we are still learning about Granger in this new format.
This podcast's growth is undeniable and AWESOME! Thanks for the heartfelt conversations that I can enjoy with my morning coffee. Keep rockin'!
I so look forward to Monday mornings because of this podcast. Granger, God is surely using you, as His vessel. I'm sure I speak for many, keep doing what you're doing. We need this. May God bless you and your family always. 🙏 💙
Hello Maria..
I totally agree with you Granger about the man and woman and the friendship.
Hello Lisa..
Props to you on the question from anonymous....as someone who left a totally abusive relationship....you can't control anything about another person's behavior except how you respond to it...if you stay it will continue...the last 22 years have been amazing compared to the 14 years of hell
Coffee, fireplace, dog, sun coming up and a positive podcast. Long time fan here from Canada, ontario.
Granger you answers today are spot on! We taught the teen class years ago and the same advice we gave back then. You are so encouraging and a true voice of reason in this confusing world. Keep on keeping on!
I love that your answers are thought out and humble this is why I fallow you💚yeeyee
40:40 so right Granger! Xander, we girls feel just as scared. I love Granger's advice. Be vulnerable. Be honest. And you will find someone in that Christian group.
Wow! That last one was super great advice too!
Morning y’all . Between Ambers Arise yesterday and your podcast this morning Granger definitely hit close for me . Have a great week y’all . Yee Yee ❤️🙏🏻
Hello Jennifer..
Zander! Granger is right! Just ask the girl!! I’ve had several guys from high school who admitted having a crush on me. They always ask why we never went out. I simply answer “You never asked”. I tell my own son, just ask! What’s the worst that can happen, she says no. Well Zander the girl that says no is the loser. She missed a chance to get to know you. Her loss. Seriously had I known more guys would have asked me out.
Thank you for all your inspiring words. I look forward to your podcast every Monday morning I put my ear buds in and clean house listening to you. I love your whole family. God Bless and Merry Christmas
I love these podcasts! Thank you for being so involved with your fans and people in general. I've followed your music since 2014 and the first time I saw you in concert was 2015. I was so surprised at how involved you were with the crowd, it felt so genuine. These just solidify my impressions. I love what you stand for and I love supporting your music, clothing, RUclips channel, podcasts, what ever it may be!
I saw the clip from this on TikTok and I came over to listen to the whole part on dating and I needed to hear that. I went and talked to the girl and cleared the air and am feeling so much better. Thank you for this podcast and sharing yourself with us
You are such a bright light so lovely ..Hope you have an amazing week love and God bless always thanku yee yee x
Granger is in my top 3 country artist and I really enjoy the podcast cause I like to listen to it during my school study hall and it’s really calming to listen to this podcast
This is so true. Lots of women believe they are just floating until a man claims her. I set my intention for the kind of man I wanted and I never lowered my standards once. I met several men that were nice guys but I knew they were not the one. I’m not trying to elevate myself but if we don’t think highly of ourselves we can’t expect others to.
Had to pause podcast at break to write this comment in regards to Chris and being the male “friend” (on the side).
So YOU don’t have to learn this the hard way like I did….
Does the girl’s boyfriend KNOW about you? Does she share y’all’s conversations with the boyfriend? Have you ever met in public and been afraid someone might see you? If so, what is her reasoning or explanation? If you’re hiding something you’re doing ( even just talking/ texting/ emailing) then you KNOW it’s wrong. SHE knows it’s wrong. Tell her you will NOT talk with her again as long as she has a boyfriend. But remember even if she breaks up with him, do YOU want to be with someone who can treat someone this way? You must also take responsibility for your actions. You have willingly participated in this emotional or mental cheating. Is that the person YOU want to be?
PRAY
write in a journal
Review your thoughts
Remember if it’s being hidden it IS wrong.
Only sharing my most shameful life lesson. God loves you and didn’t make you to be the side guy. 💗
Such an amazing response. Thank you for sharing this.
I wish you would go to a reputable seminary. I love your podcast. So glad I found your channel a couple of months ago.
I'm curious. Why do you feel it would be necessary for him to go to a seminary?
You are so inspiring I absolutely am in all of your wisdom for Young such a young age
Good advice this morning.
Hello Linda..
First question is keep praying and love him through God. People can change and turn things around if both people are willing to work on change. It can also become a pattern of habit. Respect everyone.
I agree! Get down on your knees and beg the Lord to open his eyes to what he is doing! The Lord can change hearts!
Soo excited! My jerky is out for delivery today 🙌🏼
It’s sooooooo good. So fresh
@@amandajofisk85 yesss definitely a hit in our house already. So glad I got the 8 pack! 🙌🏼👌🏼🤤❤
@@christinaadams6133 I got four and then ordered four more after one bite lol
Hey granger this is Luke who’s looking to buy that farm, and yes it is literally next door to me, I know this place will sell fast and that’s why I want to jump on it, also I forgot to mention that my parents will also be moving on the farm and are gonna pay half of the loan, that’s a big part I left out, I do plan on getting married to her but I don’t want to end up in divorce later down the road since it’s so common now a days, fixing up this property will be a good test of our relationship I think, it will bring out the worst in both of us and the best in both of us
If the loan and title are in yours and your parents name this changes the scenario a little bit. Based on the real estate trends this sounds like a great investment for you and your family. The best advice I received from my loan officer was to not put my boyfriend at the time on the title. Long story short that relationship did not work out and had he been on the papers for the house I would have been forced to sell the property or take out a loan to be able to afford splitting the equity that had accrued.
If you know your girlfriend is the one and she feels the same way, divorce shouldn’t be something on your mind. Yes, divorce does happen: but so do long lasting marriages. If you both treat each other right and love and respect each other the rest will fall into place as it should. However, please don’t dismiss your intuition, if something doesn’t feel right, listen. No matter what happens you’ll see that timing is everything and God’s plan will be so clear to you when you look back 10 years from now and realize why things happened the way they did. Good luck to you Luke!
@@steph_mcguffin thank you!! And she won’t be on the loan until we are married, same with our bank account, we won’t have a joint until we are married, but I don’t think she’s goin anywhere lol
@@steph_mcguffin Very well said!!!
@@lukeschrimsher7879 also, no need to use up her credit capacity to be on the loan. When you both get married it benefits you both to have her clear from as much debt as possible that way she is able to get a great rate on a vehicle or anything else that might need financing in your future :) adding her to the title is a different story, that would really signify she’s your forever girl when the time comes.
Yes, that additional information does help a lot. Seems like you should jump on this quickly since it'll be a family farm. Like Granger, I wish you'd either chosen the marriage path or waited until marriage to live together, but that horse is out of the barn. I do hope you'll rectify that part soon. Wishing the best for you. Also, super impressed that you bought your own house at 19. That's speaks well of your ability to handle your finances and make wise fiscal choices.
Granger you’re are amazing and so wise.
40:40- yes great advice! We love and crave authenticity, no matter our age.
Thank you for answering the feelings for a friend question. I am in a similar situation nd I know I need to let her go but it's really hard
Really needed to hear this. Married but reconnected with a HS friend last year after ~20 years which I found out I have a lot in common with (more so than my wife). I felt I was talking with her way too much so I had to stop communicating as it was difficult to be "just friends". Hard for me to do but I feel vindicated after hearing this.
New here, Like what I’ve heard & seen, Great Job 👏
I love these episode’s and all your videos
To the woman in the abusive marriage, please reach out to me. I am nobody, just someone who has been there. You can find me on Facebook. Please PM me. My heart goes out to you. God does not want us living that way. Men and women both are supposed to love and respect each other.
Always enjoy the podcast brother, they always seem to center me..
Great color on that hat
Another great episode! Yee Yee nation
Oh wow, you're going to be the new after midnight with Blair Garner, now it'll be with Granger Smith!?! That's sooo awesome!!
I live in Oklahoma and 280k is a lot for 20 acres especially since I bought mine for 205k in a town 10 times bigger than Meridian.
regarding the young man strugging to talk to girls. He needs to listen to your song Stutter. It is exactly what the song is about.
As someone who left an abusive relationship about 9 month ago I can tell you the abuse doesn't stop. I used to think that the abuse I endured was only because he was drinking but it became more abundant even when he wasn't drinking. I in the beginning stayed because well I didn't have a leg to stand on but God was my biggest fan and helped me get out of a bad situation. I'm going through a divorce due to the abuse. It's not easy but you can do it! They won't change qnd like Granger saud it gets worse.
They should know How to treat You!! U learn that in the process of growing up!!!
Good morning bud🇺🇸
For the woman in the verbally abusive relationship, counseling is necessary. Ideally, the couple would go to counseling together. He needs to get counseling to help him address his issues that make him feel like this behavior is okay, and then help him come up with a plan to stop it and become the man he should be. She needs to get counseling to help her address the internal bruises and scars she will carry with her from this abuse. Even if he never does it again, she's still going to be suffering from what she's been through in the past. For Xander/Zander, I wish the advice had been given in the opposite order. I think him working on himself spiritually is the first priority, and in so doing, I think opportunities to talk with likeminded young ladies will present themselves in abundant ways. It will come from natural discussions about how they can grow to be the people God wants to be. Hoping all works out well for both of these individuals.
YEE YEE LETS GO GRANGER
Well I was in an abusive relationship for 7 years & she needs to leave him she doesn't need to stay but until she's ready she won't leave. Unfortunately many stay because they are so broken they feel like they can't make it on their own. These places that claim to help never help. I have been out of it for 2 years , I'm doing great. Anyone that's in an abusive relationship can contact me I will help them get out we need to support others and help them get out
Share in suffering as a good soldier of Christ Jesus. No one serving as a soldier gets entangled in the concerns of civilian lofe he seeks to please the commanding officer. 2 Timothy 3-5
The world has distorted the word's friend and friendship.
Just because you like something I said doesn't make you my friend.
Found a piece of Heaven.
i like your podcast
Your making a change
Wish they would've had Christian club at my school growing up.
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You should meet up with Ryan upchuch
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Zander could start communicating with a girl thru text and as they get to know each other go on a date
You stay in your marriage until God releases you from it. I’ve been there. It was over 20 years of pain. But God is faithful to us. Stay close to God.
Luke, buy the property
Can I do an internship for you, please comment
Hello Donnie..
@@Pureheart_gentlesoul hello Fred
@@donnietunsky8606 How are you doing today, I hope you are having a wonderful day so far..??
HELLO...
Are you still there..??
@@Pureheart_gentlesoul morning Fred, are you a follower of granger or do you work for him
What Biblical advice would you give to a woman whose husband is both abusive, and also traffics his wife? I need scripture that supports her right to divorce.
There isn't scripture to support the right to divorce because of abuse. It's just not there. The only scripturally supported reason to divorce is because of unfaithfulness on the part of the other spouse. The only advice that can be given for someone in that situation is to get out and get away as quickly as possible. That needs to be done for safety. Once that person is safely away, then she needs to meet with a lawyer to discuss the right legal options.
@@bowed305 it's sad that a woman being forced into adulterous situations has no recourse. And yet, the situation I know of involves her husband's unfaithfulness as well.
@@kitdriscoll1288 I don't think she is without recourse. She can get away from him for her own safety. If things can't be worked out, and I'd be really doubtful that they could, she can get a divorce, but that choice to divorce comes with limitations. You asked specifically for scriptures to support a woman in this specific situation to get a divorce. Scriptures with that specific situation don't exist. There are many situations on life for which a specific scripture doesn't exist. In those cases, when then have to look more at the totality of the message in God's word to determine the proper direction to follow. The scriptures that do deal with divorce where God has allowed it are only in the case of infidelity. That is the only situation where a person who chooses to divorce, do to the infidelity of the spouse, has God's approval to marry again. (Matthew 19:1-12 is one such set of verses). If a person does choose to divorce for any other reason, that individual needs to understand that God does not give scriptural approval for that person to ever marry again. It's a tough law, and even the disciples of Christ thought so in the scripture referenced above, but there are worse things in this life than being unmarried. In fact, there are scriptures where Paul recommends it for various reasons. I truly hope the person you are referring to can get some help soon. The situation she is in has to be awful for her.