SOLVED: The Case of the Pan Family | Jennifer Pan’s Web of Lies

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  • Опубликовано: 10 ноя 2024

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  • @dr.drishti
    @dr.drishti Год назад +471

    I had talked about this case with my mum, especially about the ultimatum. She told me that if she was in Jennifer's shoes, she would have left the family and stayed with the boyfriend as they had given her that choice too. She wanted to be a piano teacher as she said in her interview. She could have focussed on that. But then again, social stigma and money/inheritence were involved. Instead of just losing her parent's respect, she lost the respect of the whole world. Instead of having her piano teacher job, she is in jail. I'm glad that she got caught but this also gives a retrospect into tiger parenting. She seemed like a sweet innocent girl but you never know what people are truly capable of.

    • @PastleLif3
      @PastleLif3 Год назад +9

      Yup she needed that education after all as her critical thinking skills were not bright 😂

    • @sophiag612
      @sophiag612 Год назад +21

      It’s very hard to leave your abusers. Especially if they’re you’re only family.

  • @keeliekalayidol8876
    @keeliekalayidol8876 Год назад +1131

    It seems Jennifer would've been happiest if she had kept her restaurant job and piano hustle going and moved into an apartment with Daniel (or a studio alone) and cut ties with her parents.

    • @stephjovi
      @stephjovi Год назад

      Yeah should have done that and she would've lead a happy life. Instead of murdering her parents

    • @time2livelife
      @time2livelife Год назад +5

      Perhaps those jobs did not grant her the financial independence to move out.

    • @an0nymousc3ptorythus
      @an0nymousc3ptorythus Год назад +1

      ​@@time2livelife it would...an studio it was not that expensive and she could've saved up since she didn't pay any bills as far i know...so your comment has no sense

    • @back2back379
      @back2back379 Год назад +5

      Yeah, but that would mean she’d have to actually work for her money instead of her parents providing for her. She was given the freedom to make that choice, but she chose to move back in under the agreement of stricter house rules.

    • @rebeccaphillips2207
      @rebeccaphillips2207 Год назад +1

      She’s too mentally deranged to consider that. Instead she chose to hire a hit and give them lifelong torture with PTSD and panic attacks.

  • @sandral8318
    @sandral8318 Год назад +329

    My parents are identical to Jennifer's. I was 23 and couldn't even go out with my friends. I had no sense of independence or freedom. I can't explain how depressing it was. I felt really trapped living in their house so I decided to move out. Never thought to k*ll them. I'm so much happier now I've moved out. It's done wonders for my wellbeing

    • @SD-tu1tn
      @SD-tu1tn Год назад +10

      Same .I’m 20 and an adult.But my mom tries to control every single thing about my life

    • @sandral8318
      @sandral8318 Год назад +10

      @@SD-tu1tn it's the worst. It left me so traumatised. I've been in therapy due to how controlling and emotionally draining my parents were. Hang in there

    • @mistiweatherwax468
      @mistiweatherwax468 Год назад +8

      Same! In my 40's now and I've done a lot of healing. So much love and strength to you

    • @Ftrtts.
      @Ftrtts. Год назад +3

      Me rn 😭😂

    • @back2back379
      @back2back379 Год назад +6

      For the record, there are plenty of Tiger parents who are harsher and stricter than Jennifer’s, but their children don’t murder them…

  • @ChelseaLynnThibodeaux
    @ChelseaLynnThibodeaux Год назад +1796

    Her parents were absolutely emotionally abusive. I understand people from other cultures parent differently, but to keep your grown daughter in her 20s under lock and key like a toddler is mentally damaging. Threatening to abandon your child because they want to live their life differently is so manipulative so it's clear to me where she learned manipulation from.

    • @jaydf2180
      @jaydf2180 Год назад +44

      Classic case of rebelling except to another level 😶

    • @KatKaleen
      @KatKaleen Год назад +65

      I'm very sorry for what happened to the family, and I kind of understand the family's reaction, and I don't usually say this, but... her family broke her. This is the parents putting so much pressure on their daughter that she saw no other way out. There might have been a chance if they had sent her to a therapist after her lies about her college education and volunteer job were revealed, but instead they continued to put even MORE pressure on her.
      I feel bad for the family, but I also feel bad for Jennifer and her friends. There were other A LOT of other ways out of this situation!
      ... I'm a little surprised Jennifer's lawyer didn't charge her parents with false imprisonment. I'm not a lawyer, but I'd totally done that.

    • @dumbysoup9011
      @dumbysoup9011 Год назад +75

      Her killing them was wrong but it feels like she had no control over her life at all, like she had no way out. I just wish she found another way out and ran away instead of getting them killed but I know where her anger for them is coming from

    • @IW21
      @IW21 Год назад +17

      I can’t agree fully. Her parents were looking at her best interest. She could have discussed this with her parents to start

    • @JesusismyRock773
      @JesusismyRock773 Год назад +57

      @@dumbysoup9011 She did not have to murder her parents. She was 24 years old. She could have left and have no contact with them. She wanted the money. She deserves to spend the rest of her life in jail.

  • @xoxoamirtha
    @xoxoamirtha Год назад +59

    I like the way that you framed this case. I’ve heard other people cover it but they never highlighted how their parenting style impacted Jennifer

  • @lucysteele
    @lucysteele Год назад +961

    It’s kind of annoying when you hear 911 recordings and the operator always sounds annoyed with the person on the line.. they’re going through something traumatic why can’t they have more patience 😢

    • @CourtneyTunbridge79
      @CourtneyTunbridge79 Год назад +165

      I think the worst 911 call I heard was a lady getting swept away in her car in flood waters, while on the phone to the 911 operate she was asked why she has even driven into the water to begin with, she was also told to shut up, be quiet, stop crying and complaining, you can actually hear the moment when the lady in the car drowned to death, all the while the 911 operator keeps asking her to look at street signs and if she was north or south, this is while this poor lady is stuck up against a tree while her car filled with water, it was awful.
      The 911 operator eventually quit after massive backlash from the community, it was AWFUL,
      Makes you wonder how some of these people even get the job to begin with.

    • @aliasavova5950
      @aliasavova5950 Год назад +23

      If you got paid the miserable wages the operators do you wouldn't have the strength to be empathetic either. Demand reforms not the workers "to do better" they are tired as we are all. Very out of touch take.....

    • @poisonkiss201
      @poisonkiss201 Год назад +29

      They have to stay calm and to the point, so they can get as much info as possible.

    • @werte1997
      @werte1997 Год назад +156

      ​@@aliasavova5950 In what world is it out of touch to expect someone to be empathetic and competent in the face of someone's most fearful/dangerous/terrifying moment, especially when that is their job. If it's that bad then they need to find another job.

    • @JesusismyRock773
      @JesusismyRock773 Год назад +15

      @@werte1997 So true.

  • @drperch4952
    @drperch4952 Год назад +529

    They stressed their daughter out with their expectations so much that she faked an entire college career. I can’t wrap my head around the parents responding by being more strict.

    • @arthurlove7857
      @arthurlove7857 Год назад

      Lol so kill them? Like grow up and tell them the truth about your goals... Newsflash people are going to disappoint their parents

    • @octavianr526
      @octavianr526 7 месяцев назад +3

      Her dad was insane, a dictator, and he damaged his daughter's brain too.

    • @echo8933
      @echo8933 6 месяцев назад +1

      To be fair, after finding out she lied for over four years and was secretly dating a drug dealer, are they supposed to still support her and loosen the reigns? I get that they pushed her toward that path, but ultimately she took a very bad one that, honestly, less supervision or her supporting herself were the answers

  • @lc2962
    @lc2962 Год назад +109

    I think because Jennifer wasn’t allowed to grow up, she was immature and couldn’t see another way. Though she was behind this awful crime, I feel sorry for her. She didn’t have the mental capacity to think beyond seeing her oppressors gone, by any means necessary, is what I think happened. Such a sad story.

  • @keeliekalayidol8876
    @keeliekalayidol8876 Год назад +106

    Already know this story inside out; solely here because I miss and love Bella and her style of storytelling 🤗💗 So happy for your big move too! Thank you for making time for us.

  • @maggiegilbert412
    @maggiegilbert412 Год назад +255

    I knew a korean girl with Tiger Parents. They promised to buy her a car if she got a perfect score on the SAT. (talk about impossible). They even admitted later they would never get her a car but they wanted her to study as much as possible. At some point she attempted suicide. But it was all hush hush because she had to get back to her AP Calc class. I wish there were more support within Asian communities to deal with mental health and facilitate conversation and boundaries between family members. Wishing all the best to Han and Felix.

    • @Victoria-jq6sj
      @Victoria-jq6sj Год назад +10

      Definitely agree with you there! I'm Vietnamese and grew up with stereotypical Tiger Parents. I feel a lot of the times in Asian cultures, this controlling parenting style is just seen as normal or wanting the best for your kids. It is honestly so damaging though

    • @Zsp05
      @Zsp05 Год назад +2

      agreed. i feel like people don't understand the restrictions imposed on people in asian communities and although they feel it is easy, it's not s easy as people think

  • @sorrelbee113
    @sorrelbee113 Год назад +183

    My mother was abusive but not usually this bad (in these specific ways - she did other things). One thing she did do was make implications to make us paranoid, show up to our schools at random times to watch us, and tell us she had all the teachers watching us and reporting to her. We believed it, too.
    Once I was an adult, she told me how one of my favorite teachers told her how manipulative I was - but at that time I had Facebook and just messaged my teacher to ask about it. My teacher said the alleged conversation never happened.
    I can definitely understand Jennifer thinking that her dad had someone following her. Controlling parents who don't let you have any privacy at all can convince you of things like that.
    I'm not surprised she killed her parents, either, and I think parents should see situations like this as cautionary tales. Your kids are much less likely to kill you if you don't mistreat them.

    • @RealElongatedMuskrat
      @RealElongatedMuskrat Год назад +23

      I'm so sorry you grew up having to deal with that kind of abuse and pressure. I really hope you're happy and living a free life now.

    • @back2back379
      @back2back379 Год назад +5

      It’s strange that you’re not surprised, when there are plenty of Tiger parents who are much harsher and stricter, on top of this case being such an anomaly. It would be one thing if this was happening frequently, then I would understand not being surprised, but it’s not happening, and with Tiger parents who are even more strict and harsh.

  • @lauriesmith1321
    @lauriesmith1321 Год назад +167

    I think if you tell your child no all the time and don't let them do the teenage things. It will definitely back fire. I wasn't allowed to do anything and I rebelled. I still have the opposite thing now. If I get told I can not do something. Makes me want to do it more. It's like the don't press the Red Button thing.
    It does make you wonder. Was she pushed into this. As in she felt trapped and had no other options. Or did she always have the traits in her to do it?

    • @lauriesmith1321
      @lauriesmith1321 Год назад +4

      @@Balletified Exactly. If you don't get the chance to experience normal teenage things it can definitely affect your personality

    • @back2back379
      @back2back379 Год назад +4

      No, she wasn’t pushed into this, she had the traits to do this. Note that these parents weren’t even remotely close to being the harshest and strictest of Tiger parents, there are plenty of people with harsher and stricter Tiger parents and you do not see this happening. She is the anomaly. Note also that she has a sibling who was raised by the exact same parents.

  • @jazlyndee1909
    @jazlyndee1909 Год назад +242

    Side note - 911 operators should not be allowed to say “calm down”. I feel like I would let them say whatever they are screaming or whatever and take as much info as I can and then clarify as soon as I could like ugh nothing pisses me off more

    • @martaribeiro96
      @martaribeiro96 Год назад +28

      For real, I've heard many 911 calls and this one annoyed me so much, she seemed almost angry and impatient like what the hell lady, keep yourself calm and try to reason with the person calling, don't tell them to calm down

    • @jena5634
      @jena5634 Год назад +19

      Being blunt works better. You can’t get key details off someone if they work themselves up into hysterics - yes, it’s very very frustrating to hear, but they’re just doing their job. You’re not there for therapy and to talk it out, you’re there to send help and monitor the situation

    • @aliasavova5950
      @aliasavova5950 Год назад +2

      Pay workers more if u want better service. Demand reforms do not blame the singular worker. Do better

    • @jazlyndee1909
      @jazlyndee1909 Год назад +4

      @@jena5634 very fair but the way she was saying “calm down” over and over isn’t effective. telling someone to calm down does not work 99% of the time especially in dire situations i feel. but being blunt is effective i agree

    • @ErinPJC
      @ErinPJC Год назад +14

      Literally “I know it’s hard but I need you to be as calm as you can so I can help you”

  • @magikarp653
    @magikarp653 Год назад +180

    Apart from the interviews featured on JCS, I researched this case for many hours. Honestly, I'm not surprised it ended this way.

    • @ShrinkhalBhushan
      @ShrinkhalBhushan Год назад +2

      2:40 😅😅

    • @elliebellie561
      @elliebellie561 Год назад +1

      can you explain your thoughts on why

    • @back2back379
      @back2back379 Год назад

      You’re not surprised? So you see kids having their Tiger parents (many are much more harsh and strict) killed all the time for money? So then are you surprised that the brother did not have the parents killed?

  • @emmaphelan7614
    @emmaphelan7614 Год назад +65

    You should cover the murder of Sophie Toscan du Plantier, she was a French woman who was murdered in a rural area in Ireland in 1996 and to this day it has still not been solved

    • @miskagano
      @miskagano Год назад +1

      We don’t want unsolved cases

    • @nicholad3222
      @nicholad3222 Год назад +4

      I think I watched something on Netflix about this. So unsettling though.

    • @NatalieTheSnail
      @NatalieTheSnail Год назад +11

      @@miskagano speak for yourself. I love unsolved cases

    • @emmaphelan7614
      @emmaphelan7614 Год назад

      @@nicholad3222 yeah there’s a Netflix documentary on her murder

  • @dkp7073
    @dkp7073 Год назад +70

    She could have left. Many people grow up in traditional strict families, myself included and we don't kill our parents. We move out and forge our own path.

  • @llpbm
    @llpbm Год назад +19

    I’ve watched a few videos on this case and didn’t even know she had a brother. Your research is so informative and the way you present is so respectful❤

  • @mrs.kenoobi
    @mrs.kenoobi Год назад +75

    I’ve had my fair share of abuse from a parent, so to see how far she lied to her parents is definitely relatable, for me. She must’ve feared her parents to the MAX, and felt undeniable pressure and stress from them. Not dismissing her crime at all. I think she just cracked one day.

    • @swaqqerificc
      @swaqqerificc Год назад +19

      Same. Definitely not an excuse or a justification - but the silver living here is that love on your kids & make them feel loved, more than their grades or what they achieve. I was on the other end - only person I wanted to hurt was myself, but I guess some people go to other lengths when they can’t take it anymore.

    • @terridemaio2926
      @terridemaio2926 Год назад +4

      Yeah shevwas just pushed to the Limit

    • @manalab1628
      @manalab1628 Год назад +6

      i also think she was abused but she was 24 and could have moved out and financially supported herself

  • @Kamarca
    @Kamarca Год назад +151

    It's always interesting when a crime from my neighbourhood is covered. Curious to hear your take. I have empathy for Jennifer but definitely do not condone her actions.

  • @mollyr0418
    @mollyr0418 Год назад +25

    The case that basically got me into true crime! I remember watching hours & hours of the integration on RUclips!

  • @afiafarzana5956
    @afiafarzana5956 Год назад +22

    I get it that her parents were strict. And they had high expectations and put a lot of pressure on her. But that is not the reason to murder them. She had options. She was the one who chose to lie and fake the whole university thing. The parents gave her the option to either stay and fining studying or move out and cut off. If she hated them that much, she could've just move out.

    • @Zsp05
      @Zsp05 Год назад +2

      although i agree with not killing them it's not easy to say she can just easily cut them off. in my experience, trying to move out and cut off your family leads to a lot of backlash from other family and people in your community. news spreads fast in asian communities and knowing that anytime you cross someone from the same race they could be judging you harshly takes a toll on you. my point is i understand you but it's easier said than done.

  • @time2livelife
    @time2livelife Год назад +18

    Being raised like this, she definitely was never fully mentally capable of understanding anything other than her own trauma. It doesn’t excuse her, but it definitely was an obstacle that made it near impossible to have a fulfilling life. As someone who is half Vietnamese, I can relate to some of the difficulty of having strict parents, though in my case my parents mostly have treated me as an adult once I left for college. All around, it is a sad situation. I would also argue though that just because something is a cultural norm (such as overbearing authoritarian parenting styles in Asian cultures), it does not make it okay. It was not okay for her parents to treat her this way and it was not okay for her to murder them.

  • @ivanasvobodova63
    @ivanasvobodova63 Год назад +47

    There were other alternatives. She was an adult, she had a job, she could cut ties. Only a shitty person would choose murder. She was convinced that she is such a good liar she would get away with it and get money too. She just didn’t want to lose the comfortable life in her parents’ home and wanted freedom at the same time.

    • @futuredisneystar2
      @futuredisneystar2 Год назад +4

      definitely! she wanted to have her cake and to eat it too

  • @SharineWalker
    @SharineWalker Год назад +8

    I grew up in a same situation but mine had physical abuse as well. If i were Jennifer, I’d just run away. Cut ties with everyone and start a new life. My sister did that. I moved out and cut ties with mine for 8 years

    • @echo8933
      @echo8933 6 месяцев назад

      right? Honestly she sounds a bit spoiled to me. Sounds like she had some rough stuff but nothing to push it to this extreme, and basically wanted the "easy" way out so she didn't have to support herself. After all, her parents gave her the option of leaving, they would just no longer support or pay for her

  • @dericksmith6526
    @dericksmith6526 Год назад +26

    I've heard about this case quite a few times and I remember reading a disturbing comment of someone saying "it sucked" than Han lived and Bich died because it's clear Han was the harsher parent who Jennifer wanted gone more. Messed up, I know. But, if you ask me, Han's situation isn't much better. Yes he lived, but he's going to be traumatized for life by the loss of his wife, the fact that he saw Jennifer being involved in this hit on him, the lifelong physical damage to his body, the separation from his son (the last family he had) due to not wanted to be associated with the situation, and the fact that he's forced to live in the home where all of this happened alone for the rest of his life. Some may call it "karma" because of how he treated his daughter, but overall none of this needed to happen and it's sad however you look at it.

    • @yadusolparterre
      @yadusolparterre Год назад +2

      Nah, screw him. As a survivor of abuse, I'll call this karma. Every man sits down to a banquet of consequences sooner or later.

    • @katiegaffney8939
      @katiegaffney8939 Год назад

      ​@@yadusolparterreso did you kill your parents then. Grow up

  • @bebicake
    @bebicake Год назад +12

    Amazing video Bella love from Germany ! There is a case here in Germany of Rebecca Reusch. She‘s been missing for a few years now and there is so much media coverage on it but it’s unsolved. So many things link to the fiancé of her sister but the family is backing him up it would be great to see ur take on it love u!

  • @paranormalpredicaments4686
    @paranormalpredicaments4686 Год назад +10

    If i remember right, you've been moving? I hope everything has gone smoothly and I'm happy to see you back!!

  • @erinstettner1
    @erinstettner1 Год назад +20

    Mental and emotional abuse is not a parenting style.

  • @Gustava10
    @Gustava10 Год назад +6

    Thank you Bella for posting this on January as you promised!!😍🙏 We probably won’t see another video of you for quite a long time because of your new adventures in Europe, but hopefully we’ll see another one and that you still want to keep up with these crime videos!🙏 We appreciate it so much!! The unique cases you pick and the way you present them is just all so freaking amazing!! I wish you a great and safe journey to UK!!🤗❤️❤️🙌

  • @missbecca5667
    @missbecca5667 Год назад +11

    Honestly one of my favourite true crime, if that’s the right way to put it, the video of her interrogation😮 fascinating thanks for doing this video. 😊

  • @stephjovi
    @stephjovi Год назад +16

    They were definitely abusive over controlling parents. But she was in her 20s. She could've worked more moved in with her boyfriend and leave. Nobody made her stay with her parents

    • @echo8933
      @echo8933 6 месяцев назад +2

      Also they only got extremely controlling after finding out she lied and had a drug dealer boyfriend

  • @stephaniemcquillan1930
    @stephaniemcquillan1930 Год назад +5

    I have a disability and wasn’t allowed to go out with my friends in my 20s, go to their place or have them over. Partly because I have a disability, which doesn’t stop me living my life, but a lot of it was disapproval of them because of their backgrounds which was assumed by my parents. At times they were right, but not always. So excited for you for the move! Can I ask where you are moving to? I know you currently live in Queensland. I would honestly love to visit there!
    Edit: read some comments. Welcome to the U.K.! I’m in Northern Ireland 🙂 I missed your previous video somehow. Watching it now. Also, congrats on your engagement - about time!! 😂

  • @oliviahendrix9394
    @oliviahendrix9394 Год назад +39

    I really cannot understand why she wouldn't run away from home. I recognize that I will never fully understand her perspective growing up under such strict guidelines, but wouldn't planning to escape your home be easier than murder? I suppose Daniel's involvement was entirely tied to the money, which his presence along with the financial independence needed to start a new life must have been a guiding force. Such a sad case on so many levels.

    • @echo8933
      @echo8933 6 месяцев назад

      Personally I think she hated the idea of having to support herseld

  • @anahis7592
    @anahis7592 Год назад +4

    I absolutely love the way you’re able to retell stories. I miss you funky cool earrings!

    • @littlegummiebear
      @littlegummiebear Год назад +1

      I was looking for a comment that mentioned her earrings 😂. Her earrings was one of the things that set her apart from other RUclipsrs.

  • @NataliaPessoaXOXOMAKE
    @NataliaPessoaXOXOMAKE Год назад +8

    It’s the first time I know a case already

  • @achsah6120
    @achsah6120 Год назад +2

    My parents treat me and my sister the same way Jennifer's parents treated her...I'm 21 and my sister is 25 and still we are not allowed to speak to boys or go out with friends and lot more....so I can feel what Jennifer might have felt but she had multiple other options to do...but again we need a lot of courage to do anything...

  • @gabihogan6239
    @gabihogan6239 Год назад +11

    Bella! I have a case I would love to see you cover. Non of my true crime girls have covered it. The case of Erin and Caden Thompson. I believe it’s truly tragic but bizarre and I’d love to hear your take.

  • @Emrose93
    @Emrose93 Год назад +164

    I get that her parents were very strict on Jennifer but to go about lying to them for so long and to traumatise her dad and help kill her mum is just awful.

    • @thang92
      @thang92 Год назад +12

      Especially because the mom seemed more supportive! Like why do that? Truly baffles me

    • @RealElongatedMuskrat
      @RealElongatedMuskrat Год назад +23

      @milkandcereal yeah I wonder how much of her actions were informed by that severe trauma over years and years. Like for us on the outside it seems insane, but I wonder had she come to think that she had no other option, like it was a 'kill or be killed' scenario. Perhaps she couldn't imagine any life free of her parent's abuse unless they were deceased, because she couldn't see them letting her go free after such a life of scrutiny and control. Obviously we can say it was an extreme reaction, but after being abused and controlled for years, I think she might have lacked some emotional development whilst having psychological damage. She even talks like a little girl in those interviews, when she's a grown woman. It's very odd.

    • @thang92
      @thang92 Год назад

      @@RealElongatedMuskrat I don’t know I wouldn’t excuse her actions just because she was abused. Many people are abused and traumatised but don’t go killing. Especially their parents! Like she’s Asian and there’s such respect in regards to elders. Maybe in her mind she thought this was the only way? Or she was manipulated by her boyfriend? Either way she deserves to be in jail for murder.

    • @hanywhiskey
      @hanywhiskey Год назад +8

      i’m not advocating for her at all but as someone who was severely emotionally abused by my parents, i understand what drove her to it. i personally never channeled my frustration outwards on others (cause i was never allowed to show even a bit of negative emotion) but rather on myself so i don’t understand the idea of killing the parents but i do understand why she lied and the kind of pain she was in. getting out of the palm of the hand of my parents was one of the hardest things i’ve ever done and i get that somebody just breaks down like that. again, what she did is inexcusable but i just kinda get it

    • @tealhearts5455
      @tealhearts5455 Год назад

      Shut Up

  • @bumnenembele9947
    @bumnenembele9947 Год назад +7

    To people saying she could’ve left home, it’s not that easy. It’s years of emotional and mental abuse she felt trapped and that was the only way (in her head) that she could get away.
    Btw I’m not justifying what she did. It’s obviously unacceptable.

    • @futuredisneystar2
      @futuredisneystar2 Год назад +1

      i mean they did say she can leave and get cut off but she decided to stay and ended up trying to kill them bc she wanted the inheritance…. they def were abusive but they gave her a choice and she chose to stay. she wanted her cake and to eat it too

  • @lbernabe96
    @lbernabe96 Год назад

    Right now Im not doing really well but your voice and bubbly ways give me so much comfort. Love you Bella :D

  • @yanna_
    @yanna_ Год назад +3

    Bella please do a moving vlog! I missed watching you ramble about your life while you do your makeup. 💗 safe travels to you both!

  • @billbosconovitch752
    @billbosconovitch752 Год назад +5

    Bella is back let's goooooo

  • @juliadillman3409
    @juliadillman3409 Год назад +6

    bella you look so vibrant and pretty in pink!!!! thanks for making my monday! 😌❤️

  • @SatumainenOlento
    @SatumainenOlento Год назад +6

    Hope you did read Shelly Marie's comment under CASE OF JOE CINQUE-video:
    "Hi Bella, My sister disappeared in 1999. It took me over 13 years to find out what happened to her. Her name is Sherry Leighty. It would be great if you could tell her story because her killer will be up for parole again next year. Feel free to reach out to me for any information. Thank you for your time. ~Shelly"
    Please, make a video about her sister ❤

  • @contessaviola3699
    @contessaviola3699 Год назад

    I've been following you for a long time and I find you impeccable, sweet and empathic. Being Italian, I'm really sorry not to see my extremely bloody cases told by those who don't live in our country. Trust me, there are tons of them. Your story today reminds me of Aral Grabriele, who was convicted of killing both parents, probably because he was unable to confess that he had dropped out of school, while his parents were already preparing the graduation party. The process is really interesting. Thank you anyway and always for being there and a big hug❤ , Francesca

  • @ghoulz_meg
    @ghoulz_meg Год назад +3

    Missed you! Hope you’re all settled into your new home❤️ Appreciate you so so much

  • @rebeccacrash9272
    @rebeccacrash9272 Год назад +7

    I absolutely disagree with what Jennifer did to her parents, however, they were extremely emotionally abusive towards her. She was an adult and they were still treating her like a four year old. I honestly feel sorry for her to an extent.

  • @morganneluse
    @morganneluse Год назад +2

    "Points to him for not being a murderer" made me laugh more than it should have.

  • @courtneyrobinson9079
    @courtneyrobinson9079 Год назад +6

    WOOOOO!! Finally!!! I hope you’re keeping well and had the best Christmas and New Year! Did you move to London yet? Best of luck!! Come visit Scotland ❤️

  • @melissaclark6578
    @melissaclark6578 Год назад +1

    So many parents put on so much pressure that kids end up harming themselves because the parents make them feel like such a disgrace.
    OR the kids do what Jennifer has done.

  • @malgmyt
    @malgmyt Год назад

    i would have never imagined something like this would happen in my home city. its so devistating

  • @kotakay4715
    @kotakay4715 Год назад

    Your videos came off my page and I'm so happy I found ur videos again! I love hearing your opinion on the cases

  • @breemidge8660
    @breemidge8660 Год назад +4

    If your from Australia DO NOT GET HELLO FRESH! It’s all old and rotting and the boxes melt by the time you get home! I honestly think that they’re better meals out there! I used them for 2 months and gave 6 boxes a go and all the fruit & veg were old and not “crisp and fresh”! That’s for sure 🤢

    • @breemidge8660
      @breemidge8660 Год назад

      If your from Aus I personally use youfoodz. Some of the stuff has gotten sweeter (there sweet potato mash) though so I rarely get it anymore but when I do it’s what I get instead and just choose what I know I’d eat

  • @WendyRivero429
    @WendyRivero429 Год назад +1

    Wow I have no words this case really settled low for me. Rest in peace and prayers to the family. 😢

  • @zuziapyra1788
    @zuziapyra1788 Год назад +1

    thank you for another amazing episode!! we've missed you

  • @lauramorgan2970
    @lauramorgan2970 Год назад +1

    so off topic of the video but it's so cute seeing u and ur fiance together in vids !!

  • @kathrynbillinghurst188
    @kathrynbillinghurst188 Год назад +5

    G’day Bella! 👋🏽
    Now my daughter watches your episodes! Good luck with your move away from Our Great Aussie Land 🇦🇺! I hope you’ll miss us a little because we will miss you 🫵🏻, our little ‘Princess Oz’!
    I hope you keep on ‘tubing’ and keep us updated on how you’re going! I wonder how your pets will react?! Do you think they’ll adjust to the diverse accents?
    🤔🤷‍♀️🐶

  • @ineshu8716
    @ineshu8716 Год назад

    My parents were just like that, probably worse, but it was never a big deal because almost every kid around me got beat up and yelled at. I was a very happy kid, even when heavily invested academics and extracurriculars. It was not until I moved to the US, after sharing stories with friends and teachers, they viewed me as a victim, my perception on my past slowly changed. I went into depression and was repetitively traumatized by what I had been through. Looking back today, the victimization was completely unnecessary. We have a different culture (you can say the “abuse” is normalized); the cultural contradiction exacerbated my confusion and extorted the meaning behind my parents behavior. The love of an Asian parent is paramount, just in another way or form. My parents will sell their place and buy me one or send me overseas even if they’d have no where to live, but we do get the downside of the traditional mindset and the controlling behaviors. It’s an intense emotional entanglement that other cultures have a hard time understanding.
    I’m sure Jennifer was confused and is resentful. Her parents treated her differently compared to other families around. I feel her, and I doubt she would end up in this situation if she lived in an Asian country.

  • @EmelyPhan
    @EmelyPhan Год назад +5

    I used to live in the same general area where she use to live and went to high school. We are unrelated cause common last name doesn't mean everyone with that last name is related. Also, I think it has to do the amount of tickets and guests they can seat.

  • @HopeeInk
    @HopeeInk Год назад +5

    The way their parents treated her is insane, but also sounds extremely normal as a child of immigrants and being black. I had parents who were strict, but not to that extend, but my friends around me from the community they grew up on such similar ways to Jennifer. It’s something that I deeply sympathetic towards and saying just leave is easier said as done, since you literally in an abusive relationship. But with all that being said, these ain’t excuses to kill you parents. That’s completely insane. And shouldn’t even be justified, hope she rot in jail. Poor Felix

  • @Einzelreiter
    @Einzelreiter Год назад +4

    Hi Bella! Please can you cover the case of Marianne Bachmeier? It’s a really interesting one!

  • @js09js09
    @js09js09 Год назад +13

    No amount of "abuse" means that the parents deserved to die. And I put "abuse" in quotation marks because nobody knows if the parents were actually abusive or if this is just Jennifer's side of the story. Being strict with your children doesn't mean the parents are abusive. Jennifer sounds of out touch with reality. Because at one point during her interrogation, she asked "What happens to me?". Uh, you go to prison. That is what happens to you. Not understanding this and thinking your stories would be believed are signs of psychopathy. It was that psychopathy that caused her to kill her parents rather than simply move out and cut them out of her life. She could have done that without murdering her parents, but she wanted revenge on them and probably was also looking forward to getting all of the life insurance money that she would get if both parents had have died as intended.

    • @DrHouse-xo4lb
      @DrHouse-xo4lb Год назад +7

      Thank you! This comment section is a mess. People just talking about how "traumatized" she was and not the actual crime and her greed for insurance payout that led to this.

    • @futuredisneystar2
      @futuredisneystar2 Год назад

      i mean they were trying to control every part of her life even when she was like 22…. that’s emotional abuse but yes she def just wanted that inheritance

    • @futuredisneystar2
      @futuredisneystar2 Год назад

      i feel like you can understand and sympathize with her without condoning and excusing what she did

    • @js09js09
      @js09js09 Год назад

      @@futuredisneystar2 Controlling her life doesn't equal murder. Many parents are controlling. The child simply needs to live an honest life and mature with their parents. Otherwise, cut off contact with the parents if the expectations and pressure are too much. Murder isn't an answer. She murdered a parent that paid for her roof over her head because she was feeling too much pressure? Not acceptable.

    • @futuredisneystar2
      @futuredisneystar2 Год назад

      @@js09js09 well yeah? i never said it did? i was saying people can sympathize with what she was dealing with, with her parents yet also at the same time condemn what she did. like yeah it must be rough growing up like that but in no way does that mean kill them especially if you chose to stay. two things can be true at once, it doesn’t have to just be one or the other. i never once said it was an acceptable thing to do, in fact in my original comment i said it shouldn’t be excused or condoned and that she definitely just wanted the inheritance so i don’t get why you’re telling me who literally agreed with you that it’s not acceptable….. also i mean paying for a roof over a child’s head is literally what a parent is supposed to do. i think it’s horrible what she did to her parents but i’m not gonna act like it was the healthiest way to raise a child even if they gave her a choice at some point to leave or stay.

  • @priyashreechanda3901
    @priyashreechanda3901 Год назад

    I totes manifested your video. I mean just yesterday I was listening to Desi Crime Podcast and I LOVEEE their Podcast but I was just like “huh miss Bella and her videos” and hereeee you areeee ✨🥹🫰🏻🌻

  • @Alllineedisonemic
    @Alllineedisonemic 3 месяца назад

    Yikes! Things get wild when you withhold electronics

  • @Al-Vr-al
    @Al-Vr-al Год назад

    Welcome back! You were missed dearly ❤

  • @coreyrobinson6676
    @coreyrobinson6676 Год назад

    I been waiting for this! glad you are back I’ve been needing my true crime fix!

  • @briannaoppong-antwi9702
    @briannaoppong-antwi9702 Год назад +2

    I’ve been waiting for this one!

  • @gregmeyer9595
    @gregmeyer9595 Год назад +6

    $1,500 to murder someone??? OMG, that’s the cheapest hit in history, I mean at least throw in a bucket of curly fries and a soda or something.

    • @missbieber1211
      @missbieber1211 Год назад

      There’s definitely been way cheaper haha

  • @pedrozalithzy
    @pedrozalithzy Год назад +1

    girl where have you been ☹️ i’ve been waiting on this

  • @aoifedempsey4011
    @aoifedempsey4011 Год назад +3

    Ooo I’ve been waiting for this case!

  • @christinavasiliou5924
    @christinavasiliou5924 Год назад +1

    My aunt was a juror for this case!

  • @astrowolvez
    @astrowolvez Год назад +1

    Stress from home and forced to do many extra curricular activities, who would blame her for failing a class.

  • @Mikal0l
    @Mikal0l Год назад +4

    omg Bella I've missed your videos!!

  • @dillonnoreen773
    @dillonnoreen773 Год назад

    Thank you again Bella for sharing your info with mystery and food dishes

  • @BetaRayBlitz
    @BetaRayBlitz Год назад +1

    The same thing happened again a couple years back in the exact same city where this time it was a guy who killed his family. Similar story to this as well.

  • @octavianr526
    @octavianr526 7 месяцев назад +1

    Her dad was insane, a dictator, and he damaged his daughter's brain too. Therefore she could not think clearly of alternatives, like we or an outsider can. She should report his father's behavior to some institution and her mother should be on her side. Dictators are sometimes murdered by those whom they oppressed.

  • @volusize
    @volusize Год назад +3

    Oh Bella 😍 cant wait for this. Cheers me dear 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿🇦🇺

  • @aliciasarahraimundo
    @aliciasarahraimundo Год назад

    Hey! So i went to high school with Felix. I want to point out that all of media around this and articles only interviewed her and her partners - as my friend refused to talk to the media (as did his dad when he recovered). She controls the narrative for sure.

  • @anikasoffline
    @anikasoffline Год назад +2

    Honestly I’m not surprised she murdered them. It wasn’t just an overnight thing, this rage built up inside of her. Those in the comments saying “just leave” is not easy if you’re Asian especially if you’re a woman. It’s not easy.

    • @PolevayaMysh
      @PolevayaMysh Год назад

      Well it might not be easy, but it should - for a normal person - be easier than murder.

  • @racheljones2967
    @racheljones2967 Год назад +1

    "Points to him for not being a murderer" girls, our standards have reached rock bottom

  • @asaha7
    @asaha7 10 месяцев назад

    The moment she said break-in, I think we all knew who hired those "robbers"

  • @Danimarie820
    @Danimarie820 Год назад +1

    I have never heard someone scream the way her dad was screaming on that 911 call. You hear it in movies but that dude literally just got shot in the face.

  • @shepromotes5173
    @shepromotes5173 Год назад

    Just so you know, I fangirl over you Bella 💖 I could listen to your videos allll day! Thanks for the upload

  • @ToshaJette
    @ToshaJette Год назад +4

    omg i’ve missed you.

  • @miskagano
    @miskagano Год назад

    Well about time you posted

  • @pattimilner6396
    @pattimilner6396 Год назад

    Hope you are all settled in and enjoying your new environment!! ❤️ from 🇨🇦

  • @laurengrant3931
    @laurengrant3931 Год назад +4

    bored at work, great timing 😝 x

  • @Tubaraoteamo-mi9fd
    @Tubaraoteamo-mi9fd Год назад +7

    It's sad that she was abused but as an Indian I think she got wayyyyyy freedom then 90% indian teens. Here you can't even have a sleepover until your friend's parents call your parents and ask if we can stay over there place or not so there is no way we can sneak to someone else's house and say we were in our friend's place

  • @xRaGxRaGx
    @xRaGxRaGx Год назад +2

    I was looking forward for your next video! Thank you Bella ❤️

  • @ashleyb6621
    @ashleyb6621 Год назад +4

    Yeaaaaaaah, I remember this case. And how close it was to me at home. I'm literally in my neighborhood.. #crazy
    So 50/50 with it though. I absolutely do NOT condone her actions, although her parents were borderline abusive... but I can almost understand snapping.
    To be honest she didn't snap because it was thought out.... it would be one thing if there was an argument and her mom hit her or something, so with all that bottled up anger I could see something horrible happening... but she thoroughly planned it......😬😬😬😬😬 Huge difference

  • @simran5cimo
    @simran5cimo Год назад +3

    Hi Bella!!!!! Missed your content ❤🥲

  • @aditip9327
    @aditip9327 Год назад

    Can you please do a video on the disappearance of Tej Chitnis from Melbourne? He's a big face in missing people from Australia, and my friends and I would really like to know what may've possibly happened to him.

  • @asaha7
    @asaha7 10 месяцев назад

    *"I mean, points to him for not being a murderer"*
    😂😂

  • @BbyMxM
    @BbyMxM Год назад +1

    Heard this story From so many versions But somehow I knew Bella was give me !ore with this case definitely told !e small details I didn't hear from.others

  • @ChelseaLynnThibodeaux
    @ChelseaLynnThibodeaux Год назад +5

    Also you're so right I would pay more than 500,000 dollars to spend 5 minutes with my momma again.

  • @princesscouney1922
    @princesscouney1922 Год назад

    The Way I get so Excited when Bella Posts😂🤭It's Crazyyyy

  • @mystery_sauce
    @mystery_sauce Год назад +13

    Hi Bella, thank you for your hard work and this post, I’m looking forward to hearing it. I’m always looking forward to your uploads! You are literally in the top 3 of favorite true crimes storytelling. You have influenced me in a positive way to start my own true crime channel and so far so good… so thank you for being a positive role model.

  • @abrilgalvan5326
    @abrilgalvan5326 Год назад +14

    She destroyed her family. No Matter what her parents were like, they never deserved her betrayal. I can have a little empathy for Jennifer, since she seems to have been under arrested development with parents who seemed to care very little (if any) for her happiness and her worldview. That said, her actions reflect her as childish, manipulative, lazy and ultimately evil. What a tragic story.
    P.S Bella, wishing you sucess and peace with such a huge endevour. Remember to also savour the goodbyes. Congrats on the move!!! Besos desde México

    • @alexisbas10
      @alexisbas10 Год назад +2

      Oh they definitely deserved her betrayal. You could argue they didn’t even deserve to be parents, but they didn’t deserve what they got

  • @jamesross184
    @jamesross184 Год назад +1

    I'm a new subscriber and I enjoyed the video and I can't wait for more videos

  • @munchie420monster
    @munchie420monster Год назад +3

    So excited!