Popular relationship advice that’s actually toxic if you want a healthy love life (part 3)
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- Опубликовано: 26 июл 2024
- Welcome to this video where I unpack popular relationship advice you've shared with me on Instagram that you weren't sure you should listen to.
If you have advice you want me to consider for next videos, leave it in the comment section below or DM me on Instagram @toolboxforlove
As always, thank you for being part of the Toolbox for Love community - xx
00:00 Intro
00:07 What you can expect
00:50 Advice #1 - Your body knows if you're with the wrong person
04:25 Advice #2 - You should end the relationship if you need to work on yourself
07:45 Advice #3 - You should click straight away with your partner & have many common interests
10:45 Advice #4 - If they display a toxic trait, you should leave
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My content doesn't apply to abusive relationships and with everything I share, context matters (every situation is unique).
I love your perspective. I also believe it's healthy to NOT have everything in common. A healthy relationship requires individual time and togetherness. Having some differences also enables people to learn from each other. Instant chemistry does not automatically mean long-term compatibility. I came out of an 11-year-long relationship with a female narcissist. This relationship taught me a valuable lesson to step on the brakes. Let things develop organically, and I'm allergic to love-bombing.
"Narcissist" has become a popular buzzword that is often used casually. However, it's important to note that unless someone consistently exhibits clear and strong traits associated with the disorder and a lack of empathy, we shouldn't diagnose them from afar. In my personal experience, I decided to leave my ex after consulting with three different qualified therapists, who all came to the same conclusion about her behavior.
🙌🙌 yesss, and I agree with what you mentioned about labeling someone a narcissist. I’m glad you got the support you needed!
In the second point........depends on the partner if they will endure the time to "go through it" an even it could may not work.....so is risky for a partner to deal with someone who has "something to work"
I get what you mean. It definitely depends on the situation & both partners ♥️ at the same time, where there’s uncertainty, there is risk - and being in a relationship is risky by default bc we can’t control the future.
What I generally recommend is that when you’re working on improving something, have a timeline & a clear idea of what you’ll be doing before deciding if it’s working or not eg. give yourself 3-6 months to see if there are any improvements & check-in with each other along the way.
Thank you great advice
You’re welcome!
Needed to hear some of this today! Thank you for these videos!
Makes me happy that this came at the right time for you ♥️
you’re very good at giving advice!
🥹🥹 thank youuu & thanks for being here ♥️
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Iyi fikir, farklı dillerde altyazı eklemeyi düşüneceğim - bu arada, transkripti burada bulabilirsiniz (Türkçe konuşmuyorum, umarım bu doğru bir transkripsiyondur) / Good idea, I'll consider adding subtitles in different languages - by the way, you can find the transcript here (I don't speak Turkish, I hope this is an accurate transcription): docs.google.com/document/d/1P5YD33RIxg2yFdpGZw3FIKhw1POcYcHfPL9QHxf9VSk/ 😘