Me and my fiancé actually went through this a few months ago- me being the one working too much. I don’t have the best job, but when we first started dating I told him that I stay working cause I have goals. We fought a whole lot because he reacted how she did. Trust me, I always said “I need you to be patient,” or “you stay trippin,” but then I finally realized that it wasn’t fair in a way... I thought I prioritized him, but I really was prioritizing my money flow more then anything. When I started to give him more time, went out with him more, I learned that he like everyone else, just wanted to feel loved... not told that he’s loved everyday or that I miss him 24/7, he wanted to feel it. I showed him this song and he told me he slowly started to prepare himself for that change- mentally. I can’t tell y’all how much that hurt and sad it made me just to hear it, but we engaged now! And we as happy as we can be even with everything going on right now. Sometimes all it takes is trying and seeing it from both sides cause Lord knows I need him! 🤣 Sorry for the novel. 😂🤦🏽♀️
Lol I didn't mind reading all, that, your story turned out so beautifully, I'm glad you both realized you had to make time for each other... I'm not putting any blame on you because like you said you have goals and you wanted to reach it, I respect that alot 🙌 but anyway I'm glad it worked out well for you ❤️
Yip I totally agree I've been with the 'busy' man and I was the one busy recently my fiance would kick a fit cause I came home when the kids were sleeping and I used to just be too darn tired
at the beginning i also thought either that was a weak script or that was the most ridiculous reason i've ever seen start a fight. but then again, a woman doesn't just up and make petty fights for nothing,i kept watching and hell he been keeping her waiting with no hesitation, coming late for dinner, surely he knew what time dinner was, but you can't be ,made to feel you're at the back of the line all the time and be secure with your apparent number 1 position.
A woman with confidence needs no validation. She is unstoppable. She makes no apologies for her growth. No one has to validate her every move. She finds her own unique lane and shines in spite of. She competes with no one. She simply thrives to be the best version of herself. She rises regardless. You, yes you...That woman lives inside of you...It's time you meet her and share her with the world...Share her amazing talents and creativity...It's time to RISE...See you at the top😉🤗.
This message definitely needs to be in a frame and put on All Women’s walls to remind herself how special she is... Thank you so much for this message God bless you
You saw a little snippet and made up your own theories....who feels it knows it...Phone faced up,answering in front of her...least of the problems...You shouldn't have to fight for time and love from your partner...we are all not the same....we all have different needs and wants...respect that!
I moved on...now I’m married, currently pregnant. Must say it was hard to let the past go! The best thing I could do tho! My heart is full and God never takes something away and doesn’t replace it with something better and blessed 💖
But you should always remember that no matter how busy someone is in life, if they love you as much as they claim they do, they will make time no matter what!
If the tables were turned for most in any situation we wouldn’t like it. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you is a simple concept and action and yet...
Then when she get way more busy than him and the feelings are reversed then what..he cheats cuz he gets less of her? There needs to be balance or you build with your person.. wen time goes theres no gtn it back.
People make time for what they want to make time for. I own multiple businesses and I schedule things accordingly. In the event a business meeting may overlap an event for my wife or children due to time zone constraints, etc then I'll communicate the situation with my family beforehand. The perk of being the boss is you can delegate, set parameters, create your own schedule, openly communicate your needs, etc. You should never stretch yourself so thin that you can't make time for the person or people that matters the most to you. Most importantly, never sit & wait for a person to validate your worth.
You are unfairly judging this woman by the beginning of the video which was one moment.... But her mental state reflect what she's been dealing with the whole relationship. Possibly for years and the entire video reflects that... Hence the title of the song.
Omg this was me the last 2 days on the treadmill. I guess while I thought my heart was really broken I wanted to make sure I still had a pulse honey. This love thing is strong.... praying 💗
I’m still crying and the video done went off like 2 mins ago 😭😭 Toni you are the one . This song is needed bad . Gotta move on . My life has to move on . Just in general with every aspect in my life I’m dealing with . Love you girl & HER . Beautiful song
Got out of a 7 year relationship 5 months ago and I really felt this song. I was just digging myself deeper being in the relationship and felt like I was going no where. I have never lost myself more than I did when I was in a relationship. I have done so much in in the past 5 months of self growth than I have done in those 7 years. People need to know their worth and evolve into the better self they are meant to become.
Moral to the point she is tired not having a moment of his time. Shes lonely. She hurt. He has 2 jobs his wife and work ALL the wealth with nobody share it with. She misses him
Hi Toni Braxton, when i was young i listen to your song so many times. (And sing). Now many years later i am over 40 years and come back after maybe 20 years to listen to your songs. 🍀i hope you are okay. Take care and thank you for showing your voice
I don't think the beginning was truly about the overreaction at all. I think it was a perfect example of someone staying too long in something that clearly is not a good fit. People devolve into less attractive or unhealthy versions of themselves when they settle. I don't think him taking that call was a problem at all but her staying long enough for it to become a blow-up moment is. Gosh, surviving abuse taught me a lot, but the most it taught me was: Leave early when red flags are not able to be resolved or you find there are major things that make a situation one that is all about incompatibility. Don't stay so long that you begin to change in unhealthy ways. You'll end up having to undo unhealthy habits and behaviors that are triggered by trauma later. My fiance is super patient with me today due to this. That girl's reaction is so triggering. Love this Toni and H.E.R.! Beautiful music and artistry as usual. Keep it coming!
You can have the nice house, the luxury stuff, all the money in the bank but as a woman sometimes all you just want is your man’s love and attention. It’s the little things that matters and touch our hearts 💓
So true, because I've been married 5yrs and nothing but "patient" and currently walking away from it all... he can have this big beautiful house that he constantly reminds me he got for me... I need love, so I'm showing myself exactly that.
Its all bs a person that really cares about you automatically will put us first naturally so i also had to learn that Nope sis he aint the one NEXT!!!!
Me too. So condescending! It's the worst when they TAKE YOU FOR GRANTED thinking that you'd never leave (that's why he likes her and puts her on the back burner that she'd still be waiting for him at home). It's the worst! The only way to stop it all is to GET OUT and Move On. Remember this ladies, you are taken for granted because you let them! I learned this the hard way.
I'm a guy, but I actually understand the song and concept of this video, and feel that it makes sense, I'm shocked by most of the comments here mostly girls are missing the point, is it maybe because you girls actually got used to being mistreated and not given the time that you actually deserve that you feel it's ok for your feelings and needs to be neglected, you only care that your men has to keep working as long they bringing in the money and not the time and love that you also deserve? The woman also works but is doing her best to balance everything, why can't the guy do the same? the video and the lyrics proves that it has been like this for too long time and the woman is fed up, yes it took a simple short call for her to snap coz the guy has been neglecting her for too long, keeping her waiting and him not showing up on their plans.....I swear some of you girls here are broken if you really feel its ok to be treated this way
Bror I got what you mean but never be kind to Ladies till she is your girlfriend cos ladies love drama. It is good to be kind but that will lead you only to be a NICE GUY cos most women donot love NICE GUY but a guy who will treat them like a shit.
Love this song. TONI, YOUR VOICE IST SO WARM AND NICE, FOCUS ON IT. YOUR AGE DOESN'T MATTER. YOU ARE WELL KNOWN IN GERMANY, TOO AND WE CHERISH CLASSY WOMEN.
Living legend of R&B. Toni's sultry , velvet voice is so unique and freaking amazing. Always have loved her and she honestly gets even hotter with age! Gorgeous!
It's kind of hard these days to find a quality type man who can give a woman love, affection, attention, etc. If he's not working we bust their asses for not being productive. When he has a career we still do the same. In order to have a healthy relationship each person shouldn't give up their life for the other but can compromise if the relationship is worth salvaging.
No such thing. A good quality selfless male figure of adult age is a unicorn now a days. Too many options. Too much social media. Too much flesh to satisfy
Been there, done that. You can have a hobby, work and friends...but if the one you with is married to their career...you still basically single. Might as well move on.
He was showing her love, affection, and complimenting her. He didn't answer the first call but answered the 2nd incase of an important phone call. She over reacted. If you want a successful, hard working man, sometimes you have to be more understanding and supportive. I didn't see anything wrong with what he did. I saw more wrong doing in her. Choose your battles ladies. His phone is faced up, he answered in front of her. He isnt hiding anything. He's working hard to take care of home. Some of yall just find reasons to be miserable and unhappy in a relationship. I see a grown ass man, in a relationship with an immature girl in this video.
This is simply the tell tell signs of a person who doesn’t have a life outside of their partner. A few of my boyfriends where like this. They didn’t want me to do anything outside of them. It was weird and overwhelming. I made sure to not marry someone like that. My husband is the complete opposite. But I will admit that when I was depressed I experienced being like this for a little while, but I had to get my sh** together 😂. All of that senseless pain and crying just because you “think” you aren’t getting enough attention is very childish and stressful and you are just hurting yourself more than you are hurting the other person. My husband hated seeing me hurt like that, but we knew it was because I was depressed. I will never put myself through that again 🤦🏾♀️.
I actually agree with you. To me she seemed kinda needy and toxic. I have been in relationships where you had the bad and the good before anybody want to tell me something. She needs to chill. How does he supposed pay the bills? I am self employed as well and have to take calls.
I think she was too devoted to the relationship in terms of not going after things for herself that way she would feel fulfilled with or without him being there and she would understand he is doing his thing and she is doing her thing to keep things in order in the home that way when they spend time together its "quality time" cause you both would've covered the nuances of other aspects outside couples time. A simple schedule would suffice. Like if she k owns he comes home late in the evenings why not do what you can around the house if you're a stay at home wife get a little nap and when he gets there you can either prepare dinner together or you can just prepare dinner leave it for him when he gets home and then plan a date night on the weekend with no phones... so may work arounds but ehh what am I talking about with my single azz 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The voice of an Angel that as been held back by the elite , sad state of affairs when the best don't get there true worth.. This lady is a priceless vocalist..🎙👏👏👌
She in her feelings singing this i hoped u moved ON TONI cause your a beautiful flower 🌼 and a Beautiful Queen those knuckle heads dnt deserve you will truly be happy one day be patient sis. Love u 💓 stay safe stay blessed 🙌 🙏. ❤
Alright, Imma need Toni to go Live more often cooking, talking or whatever to grow subscribers, so the next album she drops goes Platinum before it's released! These young folks will NOT outsell the artist of my generation! The devil is a Lie💯🙏❤
Married they say you will find time for each other, I have been there and ten toes down and I still don't get time. Time turns into spending with his friends. Never alone, every time alone is about the guys but this song clearly makes a point.
I originally thought she overreacted to the phone call, but literally the entire rest of the video is her alone. She blew up because she hit a breaking point, he’s been doing that to her and wasn’t going to stop, wasn’t validating her feelings. She wasn’t wrong.
It is sad that most ladies in this comment section think her reaction was overboard. We can't accept to be treated like this. Life must have a balance. There's time for everything. If it's our time, it's our time.
Confidence has absolutely nothing to do with needing to feel important and being put first feels damn good, it just is understood it can be all the time and maintain a lifestyle. That’s where confidence in your love for each other comes in ! I love this video because it’s showing it’s ok to want more and it’s ok to be vulnerable in love 😻
At some point they must put you first. In essence, it's all about finding balance by creating a solid foundation. Success is beautiful, yet, it can end up lonely if they do not do the work to balance their relationship. Thank you for this video. Wishing you all love and light.💖
Career oriented people arent relationship oriented. Its one or the other . Asking someone for patience when you dont make them feel loved and arent around is incredibly selfish . You can always make money back, time is precious yall .
Exactly...time is so limited.. that's why every second counts. Make time ...esp when 15 out of 24 hours a day used to be spent spending time together only it got drop from 15 to 2..I mean wth ...who's gtn the 13 cuz work got the 9
I hear everything all yall saying about him being successful and working. I am for a successful man and woman, but when you are trying to build a family...You have to make time for the wife or husband youre trying to build with. No amount of money can make up for loss time. Money doesnt make anyone happy. Take for instance some financially successful people who still snorting coke and overdosing on all sorts of drugs. I see from different angles in this video. Big ups to H.E.R on the guitar baby! You are so amazingly talented! Toni, you will always and forever be one of my favorites!! I love how you are still shining with the new age! Big ups to the producers of this video as well! I love how the storyline brought out conversations and debates from different views! God bless you all!
I almost missed this one Ms Toni Braxton. Funny, I was just humming to myself that its time to move on and then I run across this song. Well Now I have Theme Music while Im Packing . Thank you for your Brilliance In Music. I have Loved you and Practiced your Hits since Day 1!! My Dad ha a Fabulous Picture with you Ill never forget. When you were performing in Vegas year ago. My Father got picked by you and called to the stage. How Cool was that. He passed last April( Covid and Pnemonia). However the memories will live on and LOVE NEVER DIES.
Kinda torn... sometimes a man wants to over compensate and PROVIDE for his family, and if he don’t he feels less than a man due to his own inner issues...
Ok, so please don't hate me. Toni is soooo fricken underrated. Her vocals are stellar! she is the Adele of soul. I don't enjoy seeing Toni doing the t&a in her videos. She is beautiful and I don't think seeing her in skimpy lace does anything. Maybe it's her management team, maybe she feels she needs to do it to sell her music. Toni is sooo past that stage in her life/career. top 20 pop crap, maybe. Toni is aiming for other audiences. contemporary, soul, r&b, I don't know, I'm white, and I have always loved her vocals and her sound, (and her beauty). I'm getting up there in age and I know she is too... but she still has it. I'd love to see her work appreciated for her voice and not what she's wearing or how much grinding the director told her to do.
I whole heartily agree with you. I love this song and her voice is so smooth. She is so on point with this song. Now just a little constructive criticism is she doesn't need to dress skimpy, and too over the top sexy that it looks out of place it doesn't fit the song or add to the sex appeal. I don't know why she always feel the need to show too much skin. She doesn't realize how beautiful and sexy she is with just her self. Toni's gowns that had peek a boo lace that's enough. I love the guitar player that added to the song (Had a little Purple Prince or Isley Brother's vibes) to it. It could gave had a different Woman playing the part and the way she was riding that bike was too psychotic..I think instead of having the wedding gown on at the end she have shown her Packing the wedding gown and took off her ring. Had her suitcase packed and walking out the door like Good Bye to this Life..
She's ALWAYS Dressed Very Seductive & Sexy...Never Slutty Nor Sleazy Tho,She Doesn't Have To keep up with the new school...Her Anointed Voice Makes Way For her! #LivingLegend 🤘
So true thats why i walked away from my past relationships. Im so glad and happy i did im blessed im healed im free im strong and im beautiful. Thank you God helped me grow learned and moved on to my new relationship. Don't stay in no toxic relationship it is not worth it you deserve better. Stop wasting time on people who don't deserve your time.God always have better for us. God bless everyone.
@@andrewmark2783 Not every girl is a Queen. Putting people people on pedestal means you don't value yourself. You should be treated like a King before you treat her like a Queen.
The Fact That Toni Braxton "Legendary" H.E.R "Effortlessly Talented" Collabed! Truly Blows My Mind. I Truly Love The Evolution Of Music In General. No Limits 💜
Me and my fiancé actually went through this a few months ago- me being the one working too much. I don’t have the best job, but when we first started dating I told him that I stay working cause I have goals. We fought a whole lot because he reacted how she did. Trust me, I always said “I need you to be patient,” or “you stay trippin,” but then I finally realized that it wasn’t fair in a way... I thought I prioritized him, but I really was prioritizing my money flow more then anything. When I started to give him more time, went out with him more, I learned that he like everyone else, just wanted to feel loved... not told that he’s loved everyday or that I miss him 24/7, he wanted to feel it. I showed him this song and he told me he slowly started to prepare himself for that change- mentally. I can’t tell y’all how much that hurt and sad it made me just to hear it, but we engaged now! And we as happy as we can be even with everything going on right now.
Sometimes all it takes is trying and seeing it from both sides cause Lord knows I need him! 🤣
Sorry for the novel. 😂🤦🏽♀️
Lol I didn't mind reading all, that, your story turned out so beautifully, I'm glad you both realized you had to make time for each other... I'm not putting any blame on you because like you said you have goals and you wanted to reach it, I respect that alot 🙌 but anyway I'm glad it worked out well for you ❤️
Yip I totally agree I've been with the 'busy' man and I was the one busy recently my fiance would kick a fit cause I came home when the kids were sleeping and I used to just be too darn tired
Good for you! It takes maturity to see it from both sides without taking offense 💯
at the beginning i also thought either that was a weak script or that was the most ridiculous reason i've ever seen start a fight. but then again, a woman doesn't just up and make petty fights for nothing,i kept watching and hell he been keeping her waiting with no hesitation, coming late for dinner, surely he knew what time dinner was, but you can't be ,made to feel you're at the back of the line all the time and be secure with your apparent number 1 position.
Lucky you!
A woman with confidence needs no validation. She is unstoppable. She makes no apologies for her growth. No one has to validate her every move. She finds her own unique lane and shines in spite of. She competes with no one. She simply thrives to be the best version of herself. She rises regardless. You, yes you...That woman lives inside of you...It's time you meet her and share her with the world...Share her amazing talents and creativity...It's time to RISE...See you at the top😉🤗.
Thanks for this message 🙏❤ i totally resonate with this... like you read my mind 🤗 this just came at a perfect time! Thanks once again 🥰
Wow! That hit deep sis. Thank you ❤x
Yesss I receive this!!! 🥰🥰
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 well said!!
This message definitely needs to be in a frame and put on All Women’s walls to remind herself how special she is... Thank you so much for this message God bless you
I LOVED the acting & the story line. When sis was exercising & crying- I felt that shit in my SOUL.
Me 2 bc I recently did that
Word..
You saw a little snippet and made up your own theories....who feels it knows it...Phone faced up,answering in front of her...least of the problems...You shouldn't have to fight for time and love from your partner...we are all not the same....we all have different needs and wants...respect that!
Amen….
H.E.R IS A BEAST
I moved on...now I’m married, currently pregnant. Must say it was hard to let the past go! The best thing I could do tho! My heart is full and God never takes something away and doesn’t replace it with something better and blessed 💖
Wow I truly felt this comment, my situation is almost identical, wishing you all the happiness in the world.
Amen! Amen! Amen!
Congratulations 👏 to you, husband, and child. May God continue to bless you and your family...by the way, thanks for the encouragement 🙏🏼
Congratulations Liz 👏👏❤️ 👌.
@@sassybull501 I hope you have many more blessings thanks for sharing.
But you should always remember that no matter how busy someone is in life, if they love you as much as they claim they do, they will make time no matter what!
OMG Halema You just hit the ball out the ballpark with those comments TRUE DA 4SURE!!!!
That's a fact simple
Thank you!!!
Facts !!!!!
@@user-xe2io2go1f pp
Toni Braxton never fades, she is the real definition of beauty.
Yep!!!
Ampofo Kyei: Yeah! That's why she shouldn't have to be dressed in intimate clothing on her own video!
That’s All Bird Man
Beyonce
🇧🇷Toni ❤️
H.E.R was jamming that guitar like an Isley Brother 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🧐🤤😧😦
Agreed!👍🏼
Facts... I was thinking Prince 🥰😅
H.E.R. just killlled it in pieces, pulverized it in dust with Toni. Love it ❤️
on some summer breeze type swag and rif
@@mika9883 hella! That too
Moving on mentally is the HARD part
PACKING up is easy 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
I would like this twice if I could!
#DEEP
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@@latreciaowens1280 lol
Facts I’ve made physical moves yet the mental part is what has me up at 1am clicking on this video 🤷🏽♀️
You make time for the people you care about. No one is ever too busy.
H.E.R's guitar rift was dope sick!
If the tables were turned for most in any situation we wouldn’t like it. Do unto others as you would have them do unto you is a simple concept and action and yet...
Always twisting things to justify pettiness/antics...what tables could turn to make a right thinking man act berserk?
Move on..
A woman with a successful man must have her own so she doesn't get lost waiting on her turn. Stoke it H.E.R.
Then when she get way more busy than him and the feelings are reversed then what..he cheats cuz he gets less of her? There needs to be balance or you build with your person.. wen time goes theres no gtn it back.
People make time for what they want to make time for. I own multiple businesses and I schedule things accordingly. In the event a business meeting may overlap an event for my wife or children due to time zone constraints, etc then I'll communicate the situation with my family beforehand. The perk of being the boss is you can delegate, set parameters, create your own schedule, openly communicate your needs, etc. You should never stretch yourself so thin that you can't make time for the person or people that matters the most to you. Most importantly, never sit & wait for a person to validate your worth.
ABSOLUTELY.#Yearofwisdom#Blackdiamond ~
You are unfairly judging this woman by the beginning of the video which was one moment.... But her mental state reflect what she's been dealing with the whole relationship. Possibly for years and the entire video reflects that... Hence the title of the song.
Omg this was me the last 2 days on the treadmill. I guess while I thought my heart was really broken I wanted to make sure I still had a pulse honey. This love thing is strong.... praying 💗
Didn't know H.E.R. had it like that!! She's awesome with that guitar 🎸 😍
This is my soooong and H.E.R. played the hell out of that guitar 🎸
Yeeaaaaasss! That guitar Break was EVERYTHING!🎸
The HELL 🙌🙌🙌🙌
I’m still crying and the video done went off like 2 mins ago 😭😭 Toni you are the one . This song is needed bad . Gotta move on . My life has to move on . Just in general with every aspect in my life I’m dealing with . Love you girl & HER . Beautiful song
You better go Toni!
The guitar break with H.E.R 🔥🔥🔥😫
Got out of a 7 year relationship 5 months ago and I really felt this song. I was just digging myself deeper being in the relationship and felt like I was going no where. I have never lost myself more than I did when I was in a relationship. I have done so much in in the past 5 months of self growth than I have done in those 7 years. People need to know their worth and evolve into the better self they are meant to become.
Talk truth
I'm feeling and going through the same thing. Everything you said is is exactly what and how I'm feeling.
and dont go back taking up your good years. realize that wall came fast
Thank you. May Blessings come your way. Keep moving. Forward.
Me too. Its something about that year 7!
Toni's voice is so distinctive, so beautiful and unique. I'd love to hear a Toni Braxton, Anita Baker, Tracy Chapman and Brandy song.
Tracy Chapman is so underrated put some respect on the Jackson’s cousin
Yesssss,that would be a great colaberation 👍👍
Grace Carter ❤in it too
Toni with the vocals & body on point . Her killed that guitar.....
Toni's voice is priceless...she doesn't age.
Moral to the point she is tired not having a moment of his time. Shes lonely. She hurt. He has 2 jobs his wife and work ALL the wealth with nobody share it with. She misses him
Right if she wasn’t asking for his time then he would feel she only wants what he can provide...
So true
Well said Latoya!
True
U get it
Miss Legend is here to stay. Her voice always gives me goosebumps :)
Omg yasssssss Toni!!!! Been threw this and walked away and didn't look back. Plus he was mentally abusive. Glad I got out
Amen sister God bless you.
Was also in a mental abuse relationship.... I left and never looked back 6 years free and liberated.
Love that for us !!! ❤
Toni never miss😢
Hi Toni Braxton, when i was young i listen to your song so many times. (And sing). Now many years later i am over 40 years and come back after maybe 20 years to listen to your songs. 🍀i hope you are okay. Take care and thank you for showing your voice
Really wish Toni would do a duet with Barry Gibb, or even a whole "album" produced by Barry Gibb with a different style to her usual music ! :)
I don't think the beginning was truly about the overreaction at all. I think it was a perfect example of someone staying too long in something that clearly is not a good fit. People devolve into less attractive or unhealthy versions of themselves when they settle. I don't think him taking that call was a problem at all but her staying long enough for it to become a blow-up moment is. Gosh, surviving abuse taught me a lot, but the most it taught me was: Leave early when red flags are not able to be resolved or you find there are major things that make a situation one that is all about incompatibility. Don't stay so long that you begin to change in unhealthy ways. You'll end up having to undo unhealthy habits and behaviors that are triggered by trauma later. My fiance is super patient with me today due to this. That girl's reaction is so triggering. Love this Toni and H.E.R.! Beautiful music and artistry as usual. Keep it coming!
Well put
Why am I crying with herrr as she’s working out 💔😭😭😭 I FELT THAT GUITAR SOLO AND HER CRYING especially when she asked “where’s my time? 😢”
H.E.R came in like the female Santana !
She was playing the hell out of that guitar. I love it ❤ Go girl!
@@smblew01 qlll
On gawd!🔥😂
Didn't she.....
SHEESH 🔥
I love Toni Braxton❤️♥️ she sings with compassion😢and lovee❤❤and yes we do need God in-between our relationships
You can have the nice house, the luxury stuff, all the money in the bank but as a woman sometimes all you just want is your man’s love and attention. It’s the little things that matters and touch our hearts 💓
So true!
So true, because I've been married 5yrs and nothing but "patient" and currently walking away from it all... he can have this big beautiful house that he constantly reminds me he got for me... I need love, so I'm showing myself exactly that.
Amen
YESSS!!!!!
I think Toni’s point is: COULD A MAN HANDLE THIS ? 🤨 & remain dedicated?
NOPE!!!
Not at all they are not built like us woman💪
Yup that was the point
I concur!❤💯
Some men can't handle it
" I’ve been nothing but patient " smh I felt that. 😣😞
lol come talk to me honey 🤣
Its all bs a person that really cares about you automatically will put us first naturally so i also had to learn that Nope sis he aint the one NEXT!!!!
Amen indeed!!🙏🏼
Me too. So condescending! It's the worst when they TAKE YOU FOR GRANTED thinking that you'd never leave (that's why he likes her and puts her on the back burner that she'd still be waiting for him at home). It's the worst! The only way to stop it all is to GET OUT and Move On. Remember this ladies, you are taken for granted because you let them! I learned this the hard way.
Hmmm...Who else think this song is about Birdman?
I'm a guy, but I actually understand the song and concept of this video, and feel that it makes sense, I'm shocked by most of the comments here mostly girls are missing the point, is it maybe because you girls actually got used to being mistreated and not given the time that you actually deserve that you feel it's ok for your feelings and needs to be neglected, you only care that your men has to keep working as long they bringing in the money and not the time and love that you also deserve? The woman also works but is doing her best to balance everything, why can't the guy do the same? the video and the lyrics proves that it has been like this for too long time and the woman is fed up, yes it took a simple short call for her to snap coz the guy has been neglecting her for too long, keeping her waiting and him not showing up on their plans.....I swear some of you girls here are broken if you really feel its ok to be treated this way
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PREACH!!!
👏🏽👏🏽 say that! I'm appalled by a lot of these comments! And by women to boot! Wow.
Bror I got what you mean but never be kind to Ladies till she is your girlfriend cos ladies love drama.
It is good to be kind but that will lead you only to be a NICE GUY cos most women donot love NICE GUY but a guy who will treat them like a shit.
Amen
Love this song. TONI, YOUR VOICE IST SO WARM AND NICE, FOCUS ON IT. YOUR AGE DOESN'T MATTER. YOU ARE WELL KNOWN IN GERMANY, TOO AND WE CHERISH CLASSY WOMEN.
This song right here is a complete gem! Toni Braxton did it again and H.E.R on the electric guitar was a awesome!
Living legend of R&B. Toni's sultry , velvet voice is so unique and freaking amazing. Always have loved her and she honestly gets even hotter with age! Gorgeous!
Toni Been releasing a lot more music the past four years. It's weird.
From Unbreak my ❤️ to Gotta move on, you have influenced my life and saved me from giving up on myself. 💗
Both toni, and HER, are the loves of my life. Both of them together,are pure heaven
Such power ,such grace, such presents
I'm overwhelmed!!
H.E.R coming through there with the electric guitar 🎸😍❤️yaaas queen
Toni Braxton is still bad baby.
It's kind of hard these days to find a quality type man who can give a woman love, affection, attention, etc. If he's not working we bust their asses for not being productive. When he has a career we still do the same. In order to have a healthy relationship each person shouldn't give up their life for the other but can compromise if the relationship is worth salvaging.
No such thing. A good quality selfless male figure of adult age is a unicorn now a days. Too many options. Too much social media. Too much flesh to satisfy
It takes balance x managing expectations x compromise. Work makes our lives work but our lives got to work to make all the work worth it.
The 🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸🎸guitar sounds soooooooooooooooooo fabulous, indeed❗❗❗❗❗❗❗❗❗❗❗
Been there, done that. You can have a hobby, work and friends...but if the one you with is married to their career...you still basically single. Might as well move on.
I love Toni Braxton ❤😘❤️
There's a huge difference between making time for someone and having time for someone
Love it!! Toni never disappoints! That's why she a #LIVING LEGEND!
He was showing her love, affection, and complimenting her. He didn't answer the first call but answered the 2nd incase of an important phone call. She over reacted. If you want a successful, hard working man, sometimes you have to be more understanding and supportive. I didn't see anything wrong with what he did. I saw more wrong doing in her. Choose your battles ladies. His phone is faced up, he answered in front of her. He isnt hiding anything. He's working hard to take care of home. Some of yall just find reasons to be miserable and unhappy in a relationship. I see a grown ass man, in a relationship with an immature girl in this video.
This is simply the tell tell signs of a person who doesn’t have a life outside of their partner. A few of my boyfriends where like this. They didn’t want me to do anything outside of them. It was weird and overwhelming. I made sure to not marry someone like that. My husband is the complete opposite.
But I will admit that when I was depressed I experienced being like this for a little while, but I had to get my sh** together 😂. All of that senseless pain and crying just because you “think” you aren’t getting enough attention is very childish and stressful and you are just hurting yourself more than you are hurting the other person. My husband hated seeing me hurt like that, but we knew it was because I was depressed. I will never put myself through that again 🤦🏾♀️.
If you identify with that chick, seek help. You'll ruin every relationship you have
I actually agree with you. To me she seemed kinda needy and toxic. I have been in relationships where you had the bad and the good before anybody want to tell me something. She needs to chill. How does he supposed pay the bills? I am self employed as well and have to take calls.
I agree.
I think she was too devoted to the relationship in terms of not going after things for herself that way she would feel fulfilled with or without him being there and she would understand he is doing his thing and she is doing her thing to keep things in order in the home that way when they spend time together its "quality time" cause you both would've covered the nuances of other aspects outside couples time. A simple schedule would suffice. Like if she k owns he comes home late in the evenings why not do what you can around the house if you're a stay at home wife get a little nap and when he gets there you can either prepare dinner together or you can just prepare dinner leave it for him when he gets home and then plan a date night on the weekend with no phones... so may work arounds but ehh what am I talking about with my single azz 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Never neglect your partners needs and emotions. Love doesn't abandon
OK she's spoiled? Of I'm on the outside looking in😊. "A woman's gotta have it". She's gotta know that she's needed& wanted around❤
Always proud of Our 410 Sista. Thanks Toni needed this one to add to the Soundtrack of Life
The voice of an Angel that as been held back by the elite , sad state of affairs when the best don't get there true worth.. This lady is a priceless vocalist..🎙👏👏👌
one of my favorite rnb legends 💕
Legendary Lady! Forever a force to be reckoned with! ❤️💙💜💪🏾
You are on time and the times is off times and if you was in our time you wouldn't be hearing this message God bless straight up 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She in her feelings singing this
i hoped u moved ON TONI cause your a beautiful flower 🌼 and a Beautiful Queen those knuckle heads dnt deserve you will truly be happy one day be patient sis. Love u 💓 stay safe stay blessed 🙌 🙏. ❤
Never settle! I don't need your money because I make my own.Together though, we can make all the right moves to keep us together 💯✌🏽.
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The most important thing relationships are missing today, is God.
Well said 😢
I totally agree with you because I have been into this kind of situation. It is hard and painful and at some point the only option is to move on...😔
Sim ❤👐🏻
Yes perfect ❤
Así es
Alright, Imma need Toni to go Live more often cooking, talking or whatever to grow subscribers, so the next album she drops goes Platinum before it's released! These young folks will NOT outsell the artist of my generation! The devil is a Lie💯🙏❤
Married they say you will find time for each other, I have been there and ten toes down and I still don't get time. Time turns into spending with his friends. Never alone, every time alone is about the guys but this song clearly makes a point.
😯 wow… Toni looks amazing and H.E.R. Is outstanding as always! These two are 🔥 🔥 🔥
Toni killin it💃 & Gabriella (H.E.R.) gettin it, like a female Prince ! 🎸
All Lies & That’s the Truth!broken hearts are all around😢😭😭😭💔
Not going back standing in my truth!
Toni the Legendary helps me recover!
Dope song. I pray someone sees this and get their act together before they get the memo.
The beat gets me everytime. It's so smooth
I originally thought she overreacted to the phone call, but literally the entire rest of the video is her alone. She blew up because she hit a breaking point, he’s been doing that to her and wasn’t going to stop, wasn’t validating her feelings. She wasn’t wrong.
This is a vibe I'm really loving it and Toni still looks good has a matter of fact she's looking absolutely beautiful 😍 ❤ 💕💗
Love this comment. Absolutely agree
Magnificently executed.....Toni's voice is heaven 🇯🇲😍😍
She was born to keep her beauty eternally.
H.E.R. is BEYOND TALENTED/SKILLED/GIFTED!!
Hello my name is Yolanda. Ochoa I am 62 years old and until this day I still hear you music I do love you music Yolanda Ochoa🎉❤😅🎉🎉❤❤😅😅🎉😂❤❤🎉🎉
Now this is the TONI BRAXTON we all know and love! 😍❤️⭐️
YES, because DANCE was not it!😡😂
It is sad that most ladies in this comment section think her reaction was overboard.
We can't accept to be treated like this. Life must have a balance. There's time for everything. If it's our time, it's our time.
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Such a freaking UNBELIEVABLE beauty!!!😍😍😍
This hit my home, sadness I'm never paid attention to or an priority.. 😔😔 this song moves me and sad at the same time
Confidence has absolutely nothing to do with needing to feel important and being put first feels damn good, it just is understood it can be all the time and maintain a lifestyle. That’s where confidence in your love for each other comes in ! I love this video because it’s showing it’s ok to want more and it’s ok to be vulnerable in love 😻
At some point they must put you first. In essence, it's all about finding balance by creating a solid foundation. Success is beautiful, yet, it can end up lonely if they do not do the work to balance their relationship. Thank you for this video. Wishing you all love and light.💖
That's the best solo guitar I've heard in a long time 👍🥳
Career oriented people arent relationship oriented. Its one or the other . Asking someone for patience when you dont make them feel loved and arent around is incredibly selfish . You can always make money back, time is precious yall .
Exactly...time is so limited.. that's why every second counts. Make time ...esp when 15 out of 24 hours a day used to be spent spending time together only it got drop from 15 to 2..I mean wth ...who's gtn the 13 cuz work got the 9
Goodness somebody gets it.
I hear everything all yall saying about him being successful and working. I am for a successful man and woman, but when you are trying to build a family...You have to make time for the wife or husband youre trying to build with. No amount of money can make up for loss time. Money doesnt make anyone happy. Take for instance some financially successful people who still snorting coke and overdosing on all sorts of drugs. I see from different angles in this video. Big ups to H.E.R on the guitar baby! You are so amazingly talented! Toni, you will always and forever be one of my favorites!! I love how you are still shining with the new age! Big ups to the producers of this video as well! I love how the storyline brought out conversations and debates from different views! God bless you all!
Listen Toni, thank you, you definitely understood the Assignment
Omg! SHE IS BACK! 😭😭❤❤❤
the legend NEVER left
@@deetruthofit I agree with this ☝❤ #ToniBraxton
Vc marcou minha infância.
E eu ainda amo as suas músicas. Obrigada de verdade❤
Love the music. I definitely got that 80's feel with that guitar solo. Sooo good❤
Love Toni.
I almost missed this one Ms Toni Braxton. Funny, I was just humming to myself that its time to move on and then I run across this song. Well Now I have Theme Music while Im Packing . Thank you for your Brilliance In Music. I have Loved you and Practiced your Hits since Day 1!! My Dad ha a Fabulous Picture with you Ill never forget. When you were performing in Vegas year ago. My Father got picked by you and called to the stage. How Cool was that. He passed last April( Covid and Pnemonia). However the memories will live on and LOVE NEVER DIES.
Classic Toni Braxton, hope Tamar is listening!
My man by Tamar better
Shade and I love it
Yep
Y'all must have forgot she wanted to kill herself . They both can sing just have different styles of it.
I love Toni as a person but Tamar voice is wayyy better and has a wider range 🤷🏽♀️
H. E. R GIVES ME CHILL.... GIVING ME PRINCE PURPLE RAIN VIBEZ
Gotta move on 👏🏾 I feeling like this now I just gotta move on why stay with a person who doesn't even notice you there 😓 I'm my feeling 💔
Kinda torn... sometimes a man wants to over compensate and PROVIDE for his family, and if he don’t he feels less than a man due to his own inner issues...
So true
Yes Another One My Ladies.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Auntie Toni is the G.O.A.T. I can listen to her voice all day and H.E.R. played the hell out that electric guitar. Love them both
Ok, so please don't hate me. Toni is soooo fricken underrated. Her vocals are stellar! she is the Adele of soul. I don't enjoy seeing Toni doing the t&a in her videos. She is beautiful and I don't think seeing her in skimpy lace does anything. Maybe it's her management team, maybe she feels she needs to do it to sell her music. Toni is sooo past that stage in her life/career. top 20 pop crap, maybe. Toni is aiming for other audiences. contemporary, soul, r&b, I don't know, I'm white, and I have always loved her vocals and her sound, (and her beauty). I'm getting up there in age and I know she is too... but she still has it. I'd love to see her work appreciated for her voice and not what she's wearing or how much grinding the director told her to do.
I whole heartily agree with you. I love this song and her voice is so smooth. She is so on point with this song. Now just a little constructive criticism is she doesn't need to dress skimpy, and too over the top sexy that it looks out of place it doesn't fit the song or add to the sex appeal.
I don't know why she always feel the need to show too much skin.
She doesn't realize how beautiful and sexy she is with just her self. Toni's gowns that had peek a boo lace that's enough. I love the guitar player that added to the song (Had a little Purple Prince or Isley Brother's vibes) to it. It could gave had a different Woman playing the part and the way she was riding that bike was too psychotic..I think instead of having the wedding gown on at the end she have shown her Packing the wedding gown and took off her ring. Had her suitcase packed and walking out the door like Good Bye to this Life..
what does t&a stand for?
She's ALWAYS Dressed Very Seductive & Sexy...Never Slutty Nor Sleazy Tho,She Doesn't Have To keep up with the new school...Her Anointed Voice Makes Way For her! #LivingLegend 🤘
I absolutely agree with your comment! Toni is the BOMB and definitely underrated as an artist 🥀
my favorite braxton! ms toni braxton, beautiful lady. 💯
Never keep a man who doesn't treat you like the Queen you are.
So true thats why i walked away from my past relationships. Im so glad and happy i did im blessed im healed im free im strong and im beautiful. Thank you God helped me grow learned and moved on to my new relationship. Don't stay in no toxic relationship it is not worth it you deserve better. Stop wasting time on people who don't deserve your time.God always have better for us. God bless everyone.
What if she isn't a queen? Then treat her how she's treating you
Truth!
@@Junior-cp9se if she isn't your Queen then maybe you just aren't right for each other...
@@andrewmark2783 Not every girl is a Queen. Putting people people on pedestal means you don't value yourself. You should be treated like a King before you treat her like a Queen.
From your first to your last i will rock with you Toni Braxton
The Fact That Toni Braxton "Legendary" H.E.R "Effortlessly Talented" Collabed! Truly Blows My Mind.
I Truly Love The Evolution Of Music In General.
No Limits 💜