How to live life after BETRAYAL

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Комментарии • 88

  • @amaljoshua655
    @amaljoshua655 Месяц назад +12

    Guard your heart with all your might , because it is the well spring of life

  • @free2b1988
    @free2b1988 Месяц назад +4

    This advice does not work in abusive situations. If you can clearly see a manipulative personality with a tendency to lie, you most definitely need to protect yourself. Forgiveness takes one person. Reconciliation takes both working honestly with transparency and truthfulness. Otherwise, history will repeat itself.
    Truth sets us free, consistant truth breaks the chains that bind❣️💯💥🙏

  • @marco-wk3tc
    @marco-wk3tc Месяц назад +2

    Dank Rabbi Friedman.
    Alle eer aan HaSjem
    עַם יִשְׂרָאֵל חַי
    בְּעֶזְרָת הַשֵּׁם

  • @YB-ok1ny
    @YB-ok1ny Месяц назад +13

    Rabbi you are so wise

    • @maryw4609
      @maryw4609 Месяц назад

      Live full heartedly ❤thank you

  • @bryancy4012
    @bryancy4012 Месяц назад +11

    All things work together for the good.

  • @akai.christo
    @akai.christo Месяц назад +8

    Thank you Rabbi Friedman!!✡️🙏❤️🔥🎶

  • @newhorizon5780
    @newhorizon5780 Месяц назад +7

    I love your candid yet wise approach. 💕I try to integrate what you preach into my life . Love from India. 🙂🙂

  • @honoraryamerica5943
    @honoraryamerica5943 Месяц назад +5

    Warm words. Thank you for sharing.

  • @fwdkad4001
    @fwdkad4001 Месяц назад +4

    Gotta say rabi has charm character

  • @ellen823ful
    @ellen823ful Месяц назад +1

    I experienced a betrayal years ago. More than once I’ve felt that serious heartache. Time. Forgiveness. Prayer 🙏 staying in the present. 💝. In my personal life I try to add love and kindness to others that I didn’t experience.

  • @buy.to.let.britain
    @buy.to.let.britain Месяц назад +6

    everything is a blessing AND an equal curse. so look for the hidden blessings in betrayal. they are for your advantage.
    peace and thanks to the righteous.

  • @kathleenmolo4520
    @kathleenmolo4520 Месяц назад

    Been disappointed many times but know I am of good value and deserving of good happenings!And do trust,only to get disappointed!☹️ I do not like it when I get hurt!Thanks for your wisdom!Still worth the daily pool workout to keep physically healthy and meet other seniors!

  • @maryseidler5083
    @maryseidler5083 Месяц назад +2

    Good Morning Rabbi Yep life is full of risk you can choose safety or living.😊

  • @deanhanzalamushe9768
    @deanhanzalamushe9768 14 дней назад

    Powerful message my rabbi

  • @elizabethbooth5446
    @elizabethbooth5446 Месяц назад

    Thank you rabbi

  • @papingobebeto8841
    @papingobebeto8841 Месяц назад +4

    Thanks

  • @jacksaranta7574
    @jacksaranta7574 Месяц назад +2

    Thank you for the message dear rabbi Friedman ❤
    Baruch Hashem!
    Am Yisrael Chai ❤

  • @es6544
    @es6544 Месяц назад +13

    "You will recover". It only works if you have few betrayals or you recover quickly. Most people have lots of disappointments and nobody recovers quickly from betrayal. So this advice is for rare people

    • @TheiRenaissance
      @TheiRenaissance Месяц назад

      Patience.....
      and sometimes being patient... might look like frenetic work... as you do the things that need to be done for life....as youre patiently awaiting an opportunity.... internally.... on your inner clock...
      Sometimes wounds kill... that's for sure true.... and yet...you aren't dead if youre *reading(edit)* this....
      THEREFORE......from whatever has afflicted you.... you are still recovering! "LIVE! it's GOOD!" And if, as you live, you keep in mind these different levels of awareness; the menial -> to the-> EPIC.... keeping in mind that there are many different stories inside us at any given moment.... by showing respect to your stories; from the immediate to the eternal, patience and calm should increase. So live... and as you do, boring or exciting... if its true and it's you, you will have a better and better chance of recovering.... Every. Single. Day....
      We got covid pretty nasty when it first was let out.... it felt to me like it had a very strong psycho-emotional component somehow....made one want to just sit lay; roll over and quit.....🤷‍♂️ just my impression...
      by forcing myself to stay as active and as I could( without overtaxing myself ) and forcing myself to eat when I couldn't smell anything and.... I recovered.
      And if something has got ya and it ends up taking you...to the next stop? Keep your hands and feet inside the vehicle and follow your heart. you will be okay. ❤

    • @cantseeusprius9069
      @cantseeusprius9069 Месяц назад +5

      Be rare

    • @etaishachar7086
      @etaishachar7086 Месяц назад +1

      Not true! “If you believe breaking is possible, believe fixing is possible” - Rabbi Nachman of Breslev

    • @cantseeusprius9069
      @cantseeusprius9069 Месяц назад

      @@etaishachar7086 amn

    • @Mocking_Messiah
      @Mocking_Messiah Месяц назад

      You take vengeance

  • @miguelsesma5778
    @miguelsesma5778 Месяц назад +3

    saludos desde estados unidos Tuczon Arizona 🎉

  • @valariesusan52
    @valariesusan52 Месяц назад +1

    When you dont know what to do sometimes you have to let go and let God.We have free will.God can only work for you when you let go.and let HIM work.He is the Lord of the perfect timing. I saw a photo of a rock with an eagles shadow on it as it flew over.The man was taking a picture of a mountain. One single boulder alone captured the eagles shadow.

  • @sgrinev
    @sgrinev Месяц назад +2

    Thank you Rabbi, is very important to keep all these informations inside our mind.

  • @suzyp7178
    @suzyp7178 Месяц назад

    I like your truth, Rabbi.

  • @pouyapadiav7121
    @pouyapadiav7121 Месяц назад

    Thanks you for sharing the wisdom. I found it practical in life, something which actually works.

  • @Christopherurich33
    @Christopherurich33 Месяц назад

    This can be taken on another level like me im a gentile who's trying too convert and learning as much as i can like kosher eating so this gave me a approach too keep trying with kosher even if im not used too it yeah i made a mistake mixing meat and dairy yet i recognize it and wont give up ill keep trying till i get it right why would i go back too non kosher i appreciate getting a different look from the same perspective out of this video thank you Rabbi

  • @alberttenkorang8119
    @alberttenkorang8119 Месяц назад +1

    If it doesn't kill you it makes you stronger.
    Ordinary Blackman

  • @gladyshauser218
    @gladyshauser218 Месяц назад

    Thank you

  • @rebeccacastillo4789
    @rebeccacastillo4789 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you Rabbi Friedman

  • @stefanjohansson2395
    @stefanjohansson2395 Месяц назад

    Thank you Rabbi!!!

  • @user-ib1cg1xl6f
    @user-ib1cg1xl6f Месяц назад

    Thankyou very much for the enlightenment ❤🙏

  • @tmc515
    @tmc515 Месяц назад

    Thanks Rabbi Friedman

  • @Christopherurich33
    @Christopherurich33 Месяц назад

    Thank you this helped me understand two things today

  • @alberttenkorang8119
    @alberttenkorang8119 Месяц назад +1

    If it doesn't kill you it makes you stronger.
    Ordinary Black man

  • @user-cj1kz8jf4y
    @user-cj1kz8jf4y Месяц назад

    Today we turn the page. Everything will be ok. Thank you Rav. If u only knew how much betrayal a person has endured in two years. Thank Hashem for Torah!

  • @Tobi-gi8yl
    @Tobi-gi8yl Месяц назад

    Rabbuni❤

  • @scottfrance1400
    @scottfrance1400 Месяц назад

    Trust is earnt, and a chance to earn trust is what is given.
    It is unwise to give trust until it's been earnt.

  • @wealthyraeharward5334
    @wealthyraeharward5334 Месяц назад

    Our Father says “I will forgive whom I will forgive, but of you it is required to forgive all.”
    This is something I have been doing for almost 50 years, and when it happens again and again it is hard. Yet here I am knowing that I had been in the past disappointed my loved one. I stopped and my spouse just kept right on cheating and lying. I am my Fathers child and He will recompense the sins against me, and yet I still will have no pleasure in seeing them punished by my Father. Nor will I ever it seems. Shalom

  • @loveinchrist6115
    @loveinchrist6115 Месяц назад

    I got betrayed alot by my family. And now i dont trust people. I put my trust in God. He will bring the right people. I dont betray people and i know God will bring rhe rigjt people.always a pleasure to listen yo uour lectures.

    • @juniorDaDamaja
      @juniorDaDamaja Месяц назад +1

      how do you deal with your family? I mean do you pick when they call, do you stay away, do they gaslight you? i think im going through this too, but having to be the one to navigate it is a pain

    • @loveinchrist6115
      @loveinchrist6115 Месяц назад

      @@juniorDaDamaja Junior, i have been bullied alot by my family. It gave me alot of empathy what people go through. You should not pick up the phone when they call you. I know God tells us to be good to our parents but not if they destroy us. Golda Meir said something we will have peace only if Arabs love their kids. Iam an Arab with empathy and i listen to Rabbis and Pastors and i want peace between Jews and Arabs. The thing is you could go through hell with your family it can break you to your knees. You might try to kill yourself. But , you got God. Find your tribe . Talk to Gods tribe. Read, try to make something out of yourself. Focus on goals. Do not focus on the hurts .

    • @loveinchrist6115
      @loveinchrist6115 Месяц назад +1

      @@juniorDaDamaja dont pick up if they bully you , block them forever. You might try to build walls around you and not meet people. Being harmed by your own family is very hurtful dont betray yourself like i said make something out of yourself something to be proud of. God bless you.

  • @joewalsh4685
    @joewalsh4685 Месяц назад +1

    Don't trust anyone when you catch their hand in your pocket.

  • @marcosb5850
    @marcosb5850 Месяц назад

    Some good points...and very cute.

  • @gahadaltairy2253
    @gahadaltairy2253 Месяц назад

    One of my questions was the Sabbath when the Jews would fish on Saturday when it was forbidden and not fish on the days the fish came

  • @MB-ot4eb
    @MB-ot4eb Месяц назад

    The thing about betrayal is it certainly makes interesting songs and stories one of my favorites is Samson and Delilah. It's a leaning lesson losing God's protection over a woman 😢

  • @rosered6
    @rosered6 Месяц назад

    You should trust vertically, not horizontally

  • @franke1117
    @franke1117 Месяц назад

    I cant trust my dad again. He lied to me. Stoled from me. And talked bad about me. Its so hard to get over it.

  • @omarmaxwell6971
    @omarmaxwell6971 Месяц назад

    hello rabbi

  • @gahadaltairy2253
    @gahadaltairy2253 Месяц назад

    My question was about the village that was at the sea during the Sabbath can you tell me about it.

  • @katherinemiller5497
    @katherinemiller5497 Месяц назад

  • @arulmary603
    @arulmary603 Месяц назад

    Scars of disappointment always added on a Precautionary measure to siblings, but to understand the nature of any nature is it's own approved character, like water flows, sun rays hot, children their age on must add on their nature, education, employee, married youths ,responsibility holders etc.

  • @MHLitu
    @MHLitu Месяц назад +1

    Better life will be in HEAVEN.

  • @gahadaltairy2253
    @gahadaltairy2253 Месяц назад

    I had some questions except no one wanted to answer my questions because they look at me lowly.

  • @user-bh4mk9tx5x
    @user-bh4mk9tx5x Месяц назад

    🦋

  • @crystalharris7394
    @crystalharris7394 Месяц назад

    👏👏👏

  • @TheMessiah666
    @TheMessiah666 Месяц назад

    I have a question about God and the suffering servant in Isaiah (stone edition tanakh)
    52:13
    Behold, my servant will succeed; he will be exalted and become high and exceedingly lofty.
    53:10
    Hashem desired to oppress him and he afflicted him; if his soul would acknowledge guilt, he would see offspring and live long days and the desire of Hashem would succeed in his hand.
    Does this mean that the servant will be very good and that God is hurting him for amusement (desired to attack) and wants him to acknowledge his guilt?
    Like, is God wanting him to see him as pure evil for knowingly and intentionally hurting good for amusement?
    Does God test our love and faith by hurting us?

  • @user-pn4jh6ev4m
    @user-pn4jh6ev4m Месяц назад

    Shalom my my Jewish friends I am a Christian and I want to ask how does someone go to heaven, or is there a heaven

  • @gahadaltairy2253
    @gahadaltairy2253 Месяц назад

    Some Jewish israelis asked a question, and it was why the prophet Muhammad's great great grand father's name was Hashim.

  • @shoshanabaharlias5402
    @shoshanabaharlias5402 Месяц назад

    What if is not maybe what it is a definite what is is a pattern of behavior how many time a person have to betray you that is not a maybe especially in marriage

  • @valariesusan52
    @valariesusan52 Месяц назад

    4.18 I think He loves you.

  • @angelrockstar9337
    @angelrockstar9337 Месяц назад

    When you end up a Refugee left hungry and to die very sick and everyone who you reached out for help family friends never showed up for you --when you always showed up for them --let alone you would show up and find a way to help them if it was them reaching out to you -this is what g-d says do not ignore others who reach out for help --G-d said to me --Angel dont trust them HUMANS --- TRUST IN ME and ONLY ME ....TRUST IN ME G-d ...

  • @americanbobtail1
    @americanbobtail1 Месяц назад

    What if you are chronically sick, nothing any doctor can do about it, and poor, why should you have trust?

  • @zerahio9480
    @zerahio9480 Месяц назад

    Plss Listen To Rabbi Yosef Mizrachi and Rabbi Reuven they are more kosher GUYS, listen to them for ur own soul

  • @gahadaltairy2253
    @gahadaltairy2253 Месяц назад

    And they would not fish on the days the fish would not come.

  • @gahadaltairy2253
    @gahadaltairy2253 Месяц назад

    They said Hashim in Hebrew means God.

  • @patriciaribaric3409
    @patriciaribaric3409 Месяц назад

    L'Chaim

  • @arcadealchemist
    @arcadealchemist Месяц назад

    Why do evil people think they can buy favor with grandiosity

    • @maydavies888
      @maydavies888 Месяц назад +1

      Beccause enough people have proved to them that bribes are acceptable.

    • @franzdurer5026
      @franzdurer5026 Месяц назад +1

      because they don ´t know, what is really good(but who knows that.?.). Evil means, they like bad thinks(for them god thinks, or at least bearable). So they can think, that somebody else would like them because of giving him in their eyes... these good thinks... which are in fact evil...

    • @arcadealchemist
      @arcadealchemist Месяц назад

      @@franzdurer5026 i say this cos every time i click these videos some "muslim" comes up with this vibe of "look at me i'm helping the gazan people" the aid never reaches those people however.

    • @Lund.J
      @Lund.J Месяц назад +1

      When Paul (New Testament) left the pharisees behind, and went forward in his spiritual life and found the living God, it was not a deception, but a realization of the lie he had been brought up in:
      Acts 9:4-6
      Galatians 2:20
      But since then, the Pharisees have hated him, down to modern times, and considered him a traitor to the group.
      It depends on the perspective.

    • @robertmanolatos9690
      @robertmanolatos9690 Месяц назад +1

      If you can control their fear, than you should be able to control their love. I would imagine their mindset falls somewhere in this atmosphere.

  • @nikicastanic7435
    @nikicastanic7435 Месяц назад

    ljubi o ja nije vj ra

  • @Lgalitz
    @Lgalitz Месяц назад +1

    Married to a nontrusting man for 43 years. So what doI do ? I trust for both of us and he still doesn't get it. 😂😂 oy vey

  • @chayawechter1883
    @chayawechter1883 Месяц назад

    10 years later, and I still think this Rabbi is a total creep...

  • @user-yw1lb5ru7p
    @user-yw1lb5ru7p Месяц назад

    All société are agents😂😂😂

  • @crystalharris7394
    @crystalharris7394 Месяц назад

    Thanks