Sounds like there were a lot of people defending the cheating girlfriend. What’s the matter? _Can’t stand to see one of their own get some consequences?_
Especially the one who called him a narcissist. The one who called them that calls themselves a 'Devils advocate.' In other words a negative karma farmer.
ST1 CountessVanna seems to think it’s ok to make stuff up, defend a cheater and blame the person who got cheated on and abused, CountessVanna is the one who is a narcissist.
To play devil's advocate... From what OP said, CountessVanna is probably just projecting. They were in a nasty relationship with a narcissist, and this story probably hit a bit close to home, and she just substituted her own experiences with OPs.
I'm SO SICK of seeing people alologize for going through their SO's phone/computer when they suspect cheating and get proven right. Like JFC; they were CHEATING! It's not a breach of trust once they're already cheating FFS!
The commenters in story 1 is the typical Reddit responses you will see when it comes to male and female violence Also did OP in the second story keep his mom affair a secret to keep the family together I'm just saying if OP ever get cheated on in the future and no one tale him about it he shouldn't even be mad
S1: Op as much as I hate your ex, she was right about one thing, you deserve better. She's cheated on you and then broke up with you and when found out, she assualted you. But now that she got arrested, you should be able to live your life all you want now that your a free person.
Story 1: Ant "friend" that pushes me or gets upset with me for not taking back a cheater is no "friend" of mine. People need stop acting like cheating's a "mistake" a mistake is accidentally using salt instead of sugar in your coffee, a "mistake" is accidentally turning in the wrong homework assignment to the wrong teacher. Sleeping with an entirely different person who isn't your partner, ISN'T a mistake-it's an active choice. The only exceptions for any possible reconciliation is unless your partner was SA'd against their will.
ST 3 OP's Ex preparing for his wife'a death only to kill his marriage is darkly poetic. I hope, for everyone involved's mental health, that he limits his contact with his dad.
People that say “ouuuu privacy” on cheating stories I’m just like well I hope you’re not getting cheated on or feel like 100 percent you are being cheated on but all you need is that one push of proof to slap you in your face and all it takes it a peek in the messages Respect that privacy sir or madam because privacy
The people that would call out the invasion of privacy as worse when compared to the cheating are usually the ones with many skeletons to hide in their own closet.
Story one: these people who are still convinced that OP is TA after getting cheated on and then getting ASSAULTED by his ex just because he went through her phone... wow. Story two: literally no sane person in this story. Mom is a cheater, dad is staying with a cheater, brother didn't bother telling the dad about the cheating, brother and sil believed the parents over OP after he repeatedly told them to stay out of his room and OP is STILL letting all of them live in his house. Story three: these people are insane. The fact that the ex-husband was rather getting divorced than getting therapy... either he has some SERIOUS issues or the father is a really good manipulator (I'm guessing the second). I hope OP and her daughter are doing well.
Everyone talking about S1 but S2 was the drama with all the great twists and turns. 👍 S3: No pregnancy needs that kind of negative comments and energy. 🤦🏽♀️
“Hi OP. I know you don’t want to hear from me. But I have decided it is more important that you hear from me one more time, because… I know you don’t want to, and this is the only power flex left to me. So I am contacting you, against your wishes. But I’m doing it for what I think is your benefit, and not what you think is your benefit. You’re welcome.”
I’ll be the bad guy again as I always am down to be, and say: once you act so shady as to illicit a response of a partner looking at your messages in order to confirm what their gut is already telling them, who gives a flying crap about your “privacy” anyway. You’ve already broken the trust with your behavior which is why they even need to look in the first place, so “boo hoo hoo” to your lost privacy whine fest 😂. You’ve lost that right by cheating and being deceitful. You can rant all you want about how they confirmed that irrefutable cheating fact, and twist it to make someone seem controlling and bad. It won’t make it true. What IS true is that the cheater IS a cheater, just like their partner suspected. How they found out is irrelevant. The CHEATER is the bad guy, not the person who looked through messages in order to protect their own life, heart, and body from potential sexually transmitted diseases. Some of those cause permanent reproductive damage that cannot be reversed. So no, your right to privacy while cheating does not trump a partners right to protect their own heart and health. Period, end of story. If I was one of those people posting a “my partner’s cheating because I saw messages on his phone” stories and people screamed at me about his privacy-I would verbally rip off their heads and hand them their butts. They’d be so sorry they came at me for that. Not that it will happen, because Hubbs and I have an open phone policy anyway. We are free to grab each other’s phones and go through them at will if we want to. Neither of us have anything to hide anyway so it’s a big waste of time 😂
"Reading her messages is crossing the line."
Yeah, so is cheating. These idiots would've rather had him remain ignorant to being cheated on
Story 1 op would be a godlike level doormat if he even considers the thought of reconciling with his ex. Glad he doesn't want to
all I can say is he is not a doormat
@@SecretVoices25thank god he ain’t OP deserves someone better than his ex
Sounds like there were a lot of people defending the cheating girlfriend.
What’s the matter? _Can’t stand to see one of their own get some consequences?_
They’re cheaters and narcissists
Especially the one who called him a narcissist. The one who called them that calls themselves a 'Devils advocate.' In other words a negative karma farmer.
@Datgote nah, they're just projecting more than a movie theater.
Sounds like regular reddit comment section.
Ikr, Reddit is so toxic, someone really needs to make a series calling them out because they are actively harming people who are seeking help tbere
ST1
CountessVanna seems to think it’s ok to make stuff up, defend a cheater and blame the person who got cheated on and abused, CountessVanna is the one who is a narcissist.
This!
To play devil's advocate...
From what OP said, CountessVanna is probably just projecting. They were in a nasty relationship with a narcissist, and this story probably hit a bit close to home, and she just substituted her own experiences with OPs.
Ikr, why do Redditors go out of their way to be as punchable as possible all the time?
It could’ve been someone who’s trolling but I wouldn’t too be surprised with how some people defending cheating lately
@@dontaejones7419you must be the countesses second accounts
I'm SO SICK of seeing people alologize for going through their SO's phone/computer when they suspect cheating and get proven right. Like JFC; they were CHEATING! It's not a breach of trust once they're already cheating FFS!
those comments from reddit is annoying if OP was a woman they would defend her since it’s a male he’s a narcissist what a joke
The commenters in story 1 is the typical Reddit responses you will see when it comes to male and female violence
Also did OP in the second story keep his mom affair a secret to keep the family together I'm just saying if OP ever get cheated on in the future and no one tale him about it he shouldn't even be mad
OP told the father in story 2... The brother was the one who did not tell the dad
@@maxwellmukwevho1383
Oh I must not heard all the way then
S1: Op as much as I hate your ex, she was right about one thing, you deserve better. She's cheated on you and then broke up with you and when found out, she assualted you. But now that she got arrested, you should be able to live your life all you want now that your a free person.
s1- My girlfriend cheated on me
Reddit- You're the bad guy
Story 1: Ant "friend" that pushes me or gets upset with me for not taking back a cheater is no "friend" of mine. People need stop acting like cheating's a "mistake" a mistake is accidentally using salt instead of sugar in your coffee, a "mistake" is accidentally turning in the wrong homework assignment to the wrong teacher. Sleeping with an entirely different person who isn't your partner, ISN'T a mistake-it's an active choice. The only exceptions for any possible reconciliation is unless your partner was SA'd against their will.
ST 3
OP's Ex preparing for his wife'a death only to kill his marriage is darkly poetic. I hope, for everyone involved's mental health, that he limits his contact with his dad.
I remember Story 3 from a while back, but I never knew there were updates! Im so happy to hear OP got out of there ❤
People that say “ouuuu privacy” on cheating stories I’m just like well I hope you’re not getting cheated on or feel like 100 percent you are being cheated on but all you need is that one push of proof to slap you in your face and all it takes it a peek in the messages
Respect that privacy sir or madam because privacy
The people that would call out the invasion of privacy as worse when compared to the cheating are usually the ones with many skeletons to hide in their own closet.
S1 the ones saying you are in the wrong for reading her messages they are cheating on their partners too
Reddit really gaslight OP1 to thinking he was wrong for checking his cheating girlfriend’s messages.
Y r they defending the ex yep definitely cheaters and narcissists
Story one: these people who are still convinced that OP is TA after getting cheated on and then getting ASSAULTED by his ex just because he went through her phone... wow.
Story two: literally no sane person in this story. Mom is a cheater, dad is staying with a cheater, brother didn't bother telling the dad about the cheating, brother and sil believed the parents over OP after he repeatedly told them to stay out of his room and OP is STILL letting all of them live in his house.
Story three: these people are insane. The fact that the ex-husband was rather getting divorced than getting therapy... either he has some SERIOUS issues or the father is a really good manipulator (I'm guessing the second). I hope OP and her daughter are doing well.
Oh good i was scared that husband and fil killed op
Yeah no op in st1 was in a emotional abusive relationship
Invasion of privacy? Someone projecting a lot ofthe comments were
S2- screams 'do it for dan'
I like how story 1. Is called sotry 1
Me: sees “cheated behind my back” in the title.
Me: but that's how cheating usually is done 😂😂😂
Everyone talking about S1 but S2 was the drama with all the great twists and turns. 👍
S3: No pregnancy needs that kind of negative comments and energy. 🤦🏽♀️
Classic Reddit commenters. Women right, man is wrong
A bunch of mysandrists and simps, who will defend anything a woman does no matter what lame excuses they need to pull out of thin air
“Hi OP. I know you don’t want to hear from me. But I have decided it is more important that you hear from me one more time, because… I know you don’t want to, and this is the only power flex left to me. So I am contacting you, against your wishes. But I’m doing it for what I think is your benefit, and not what you think is your benefit. You’re welcome.”
Story 1: Ops motive are understandable but his actions are questionable.
In this scenario It’s not about the destination but the road.
I’ll be the bad guy again as I always am down to be, and say: once you act so shady as to illicit a response of a partner looking at your messages in order to confirm what their gut is already telling them, who gives a flying crap about your “privacy” anyway. You’ve already broken the trust with your behavior which is why they even need to look in the first place, so “boo hoo hoo” to your lost privacy whine fest 😂. You’ve lost that right by cheating and being deceitful. You can rant all you want about how they confirmed that irrefutable cheating fact, and twist it to make someone seem controlling and bad. It won’t make it true. What IS true is that the cheater IS a cheater, just like their partner suspected. How they found out is irrelevant. The CHEATER is the bad guy, not the person who looked through messages in order to protect their own life, heart, and body from potential sexually transmitted diseases. Some of those cause permanent reproductive damage that cannot be reversed. So no, your right to privacy while cheating does not trump a partners right to protect their own heart and health. Period, end of story. If I was one of those people posting a “my partner’s cheating because I saw messages on his phone” stories and people screamed at me about his privacy-I would verbally rip off their heads and hand them their butts. They’d be so sorry they came at me for that. Not that it will happen, because Hubbs and I have an open phone policy anyway. We are free to grab each other’s phones and go through them at will if we want to. Neither of us have anything to hide anyway so it’s a big waste of time 😂
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2:20 what's wrong with the cat?
story 1 is appalling. op is a victim of physical violence and cheating, they are a victim, what the hell
Comment section is full of cheaters
Story 2: wait was there a typo or did OP really threaten to kick a pregnant woman if he saw his brothers stuff in his room?
*kick her out.😂 Pretty sure it was a typo.
@@ryanbarclay7939 lol i figured
Jesus , op is so pathetic
Day 196 of commenting to help secretvoices
Story 1 damn people normalizing cheating!!!!! Is cheating the new thing now?????