Struggling to Adjust with the New Baby

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2023
  • Struggling to Adjust with the New Baby
    It's been a little hectic and chaotic since Nana left and we've been in a little over our heads. #newborn #homebirth #largefamily
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Комментарии • 83

  • @chandrablackwell8317
    @chandrablackwell8317 9 месяцев назад +6

    I think you guys are doing an awesome job with everything! I have seven girls and three boys. My youngest is six months old, so we are still adjusting and trying to find our flow. I got more done when my kids were in school, but when I started homeschooling two years ago everything changed. My time is divided much more. I am dealing with many of the same things as you now, so I understand. Give yourself Grace. You guys are an inspiration to many! Cohen is definitely your twin...Congrats on your baby boy!!

  • @murphybridget3
    @murphybridget3 9 месяцев назад +4

    I can't imagine how you guys are managing homeschooling and all the animal care aswell! Especially with that cute baby face to be staring at all day!❤

  • @margiebrickeen6705
    @margiebrickeen6705 9 месяцев назад +2

    My first son was constantly busy and inquisitive about everything it makes for a busy mom.

  • @elizabethkoobs1060
    @elizabethkoobs1060 9 месяцев назад +1

    Dani, Cohen is your mini-me. He's gorgeous! Newborns are just the sweetest things. I love their smell, their soft skin, how they like to cuddle, their little noises.🩵

  • @julesbee6249
    @julesbee6249 9 месяцев назад +2

    Y’all are doing great. You’re fortunate to have the initial help and both parents at home. That transition is hard. He’s beautiful, as are all your kiddos.

  • @tinagaughan6297
    @tinagaughan6297 9 месяцев назад +3

    You are so blessed to be able to have eight children. I was not able to have one.

    • @rosielani1930
      @rosielani1930 8 месяцев назад

      😢 I’m sorry, that’s so sad.

  • @goshera1
    @goshera1 9 месяцев назад +2

    You two are so cute. Your the real deal. I love that you don't script your videos. 😊
    I have a busy little grandson. He is only one but is going through the terrible twos. Lol 😆 but he's so cute! He's already learned to scowl.

  • @carolpainter4305
    @carolpainter4305 9 месяцев назад +2

    Just came across your channel and subscribed immediately.
    Wishing you and your family lots of joy and happiness in all that you do. ❤

  • @heathermarthers3703
    @heathermarthers3703 8 месяцев назад +1

    As this came across my videos, how is everyone so well off? Like I watched like 30 of your videos and enjoyed them buy you guys are so well off with 8 kids!! HOW? I can barely afford to feed mine(one child)!

  • @nordic7286
    @nordic7286 8 месяцев назад +1

    Your home looks lived in! That's wonderful! ❤

  • @XoMaRgO108
    @XoMaRgO108 8 месяцев назад

    I found this channel when you guys had 4K subscribers and OMG ALMOST 400K RIGHT ON MURRAY FAMILY!!! AND YOU HAD YOUR FIRST BOY!?!? I’m about to binge and catch up congratulations on growing this channel, I remember you guys saying you guys wanted to be stay at home parents and grow this channel im just TICKLED you made your goals happen and dreams are coming true SO RAD ❤️‍🔥😁😁😇

  • @borntoteach9523
    @borntoteach9523 9 месяцев назад +2

    When you’re doing wood working or carpentry you use a lot of math including geometry! There are a lot of things we learn that’s irrelevant however, a lot of curriculum we do learn, is helpful no matter your career choice. It’s also helpful for students to determine their future career.

  • @morganakers9293
    @morganakers9293 9 месяцев назад

    Me and my family love Usborne Books!❤ Baby Cohen is adorable!❤

  • @blueseptember2174
    @blueseptember2174 9 месяцев назад +1

    Its good for the kids to see the mess after baby because hey, its real life. One day if they ever have kids then they wont freak out because theyll know its a season of transitions.
    I just became a single parent and its been a messy year so the kids understand. We had emotional priorities to deal with. But now we are getting neat again.
    Its an ebb and flow

  • @RowesRising
    @RowesRising 9 месяцев назад +4

    What a blessing to have her there to help for that time🌻
    I’m cracking up cause having a boy after 6 girls is a shocker I am 100% sure it is. We had a son first- and he has been non stop destructive for 11 years. 😅 I have 3 boys. They need a designated person to have them on a leash. (Not for real a leash). We have 2 daughters sandwiched in between to soften things up a bit and I think I’d be crazy if it weren’t for the girls. And I mean that. They are helpful, quiet, considerate, gentle. Far cry from our sons who will eat the sofa and spit it outside if unsupervised for a minute. Who needs furniture anyways?

    • @elinhagglund33
      @elinhagglund33 9 месяцев назад

      Hahaha yes my boys are like that ! And i see neighbors girls playing soo much calmer 😅

  • @gypzysmoon69
    @gypzysmoon69 9 месяцев назад

    such a beautiful beautiful family

  • @conniemckenzie7801
    @conniemckenzie7801 9 месяцев назад +2

    Danielle, you look great!

  • @rachelinthelionsden
    @rachelinthelionsden 6 месяцев назад

    They done studies on estrogen and testosterone and how it affects whether or not a person has diffuse awareness versus single focus. Which would make it easier for one person to be “called” by many unorganized things versus prioritize other things because of the “single” focus.
    So Jon has a point about “man and woman” thing.

  • @TheBonita94
    @TheBonita94 9 месяцев назад +1

    You are such amazing parents though! Idk what I'd do with that many beautiful children and I'm not saying it in a bad way I love watching you guys

  • @nadianazariodiaz6696
    @nadianazariodiaz6696 9 месяцев назад

    Por Dios! Que hermosa familia! Dios los bendiga siempre!

  • @dawnbrown1042
    @dawnbrown1042 9 месяцев назад +1

    My husband is the EXACT same way!! He never notices clutter or messy areas or the trash… but if I ask him to do any of it, he’ll totally do it… at some point! 😂

  • @BRIMCG303
    @BRIMCG303 9 месяцев назад +2

    In what what is Chase a “livestock guardian dog”?? You got him to be a family dog and gave him a new job when you moved ?

  • @Milaperadotti
    @Milaperadotti 9 месяцев назад

    It will get better I promise just like everybody else in the comments is saying it will get better. Make sure that you still take some time for yourself.

  • @cilenelacerdadelimalacerda122
    @cilenelacerdadelimalacerda122 9 месяцев назад +1

    Que família linda❤😊
    Glória a Deus ! Vocês são lindos
    Estou super feliz em ver os vídeos de vocês, parabéns! Que Deus os abençoe grandemente

  • @Janski06
    @Janski06 9 месяцев назад

    Enjoy them all while they are small, it goes past far too fast 💞

  • @elinhagglund33
    @elinhagglund33 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thats What my boy is like. I have gotten another boy also and he is also busy busy. As soon as i hand them a toy its broken. I honestly belive its a bit calmer with girls 😅buuut i dont know i dont have one ..yet :) ❤congratulations to your new baby boy 🎉

  • @sheriyando8039
    @sheriyando8039 9 месяцев назад +1

    What a beautiful blessing from Abba Father. May The Father Bless you all and keep you under His Mighty Hands. In Jesus Mighty Name. Shalom Shalom 💖 💜 💖

  • @kiwi9813
    @kiwi9813 9 месяцев назад

    I love that you said Johnathan Clark, lol. I've been watching smallville lately.

    • @blueseptember2174
      @blueseptember2174 9 месяцев назад

      Oh yeah. You know I never made that connection before lol

  • @mollyv8b705
    @mollyv8b705 9 месяцев назад +2

    Please please please don’t take offence to this. Your family is beautiful but your husband makes me giggle so much 😂 He has the, ‘sexy bedroom eyes’ look down to perfection 😂😂😂 Mom is talking about looking after her newborn and dream boat dad is in the background doing duck lips and sexy eyes 👏🤣🤣🤣
    Your family is awesome. I have so much respect for the beautiful life you have worked so hard to create. God bless

  • @TheBonita94
    @TheBonita94 9 месяцев назад

    That's how me and my husband also. Learning and teaching them is hard aspecialy in there 2s lol and my husband always say LISTEN TO MOM

  • @letsgoearthing104
    @letsgoearthing104 8 месяцев назад

    Wow ❤❤❤

  • @kathymcdougle4575
    @kathymcdougle4575 9 месяцев назад

    Y’all are doing great as parents. Much in my prayers. God Bless you all.

  • @karenwatson5917
    @karenwatson5917 9 месяцев назад

    Cohen is gorgeous Danielle 💕

  • @Greylock21
    @Greylock21 9 месяцев назад

    Ppd is a real thing too. Rest rest rest people. Pray, ❤ and smile
    Sleep. Eat. Smile

  • @carolfree6040
    @carolfree6040 9 месяцев назад +2

    Momma looks so beautiful

  • @Mimi2thebestboysever
    @Mimi2thebestboysever 9 месяцев назад

    Israel looks exactly like Jon!!

  • @6marshall311
    @6marshall311 9 месяцев назад

    Poor John he's just venting... I have 6 and 2 under 5 and a 3 month old talk about crazy . Miss my husband and help when he's at work 😢

    • @lollife2023
      @lollife2023 8 месяцев назад

      John does 99% of everything in that house and Danielle says she’s sick, tired or pregnant again to lie in bed. I’m another video the jobs Danielle was meant to do are getting passed off to the older girls

  • @kodithompson2645
    @kodithompson2645 9 месяцев назад

    Just have to ask how much on average does it cost to feed your family? I have a family of five, I find it very spendy these days to feed them. Lol you have a beautiful family by the way. My best friends aunt had 12 and they are all grown up now and starting there families well she has four still at home. I really love watching you videos!

  • @tracyzabelle
    @tracyzabelle 9 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jodiupchurch
    @jodiupchurch 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hello Murrays 😘

  • @judyann4394
    @judyann4394 9 месяцев назад

    Israel's a cutie , every 😅 child's special they all bring something to the table

  • @katiethornton2020
    @katiethornton2020 9 месяцев назад

    Cohen is so cute most definitely Danielle's twin

  • @kelsraquel1916
    @kelsraquel1916 9 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @jessicaspindle232
    @jessicaspindle232 9 месяцев назад +2

    Boys are totally different my boys taught me the reason for baby safety equipment.just know as a parent of 11 kids that you are not alone in feeling that!

  • @kristamott3358
    @kristamott3358 9 месяцев назад

    How did I miss this so happy for y'all

  • @haloSrising
    @haloSrising 8 месяцев назад

    Not just boys! 🤣 I share the Struggle it’s Real 😊

  • @Suebearish
    @Suebearish 9 месяцев назад +3

    Really takes about 3 months to settle in to your new normal. Some days okay to let schooling just be about reading and working with the animals and exploring outside

  • @stefaniebenson2949
    @stefaniebenson2949 9 месяцев назад +10

    I have a little boy that is busy like Israel. It is exhausting!!! I want to say it gets easier, but I would be lying.

    • @TheBonita94
      @TheBonita94 9 месяцев назад +1

      Dido and I need friends I'm home all day alone with my son and fur babies and I have bad depression aspecialy when I have no one to talk to

  • @stephanieenglert2014
    @stephanieenglert2014 9 месяцев назад +3

    Let’s just say boys plays different then girls ….😊

  • @chehiwat-malika-boubkri
    @chehiwat-malika-boubkri 9 месяцев назад

    مبروك عليك الولد الجميل،،🌹🌹🌹

  • @user-um2nx5hf9y
    @user-um2nx5hf9y 9 месяцев назад +1

    hi hello im from the phillipines

  • @kellyribar5976
    @kellyribar5976 9 месяцев назад +5

    I have to be honest Danielle i’ve been watching your channel for quite some time now well over two years maybe three. I don’t see you doing much, even when you’re not holding a newborn. It’s pretty obvious that John handles the bulk of the load. I’m trying to remember if I’ve ever seen you do something other than build a cage and bake a cake and do a grocery hull.
    You can clearly see John is overwhelmed. As his spouse, you should be backing him up and acknowledging when he shares some thing that’s frustrating for overwhelming. Instead of criticizing him or criticizing his Way. And also you threw your mother-in-law under the bus you didn’t even say you missed her or appreciated her stay.
    It’s been three weeks now. It’s time to engage. I’m sure I’ll get some slack from this comment, but in reality Your fans do not hold hold you accountable. They pacify you with complements. Getting the game Danielle your husband need you.

    • @wolverinemoviemaker6041
      @wolverinemoviemaker6041 9 месяцев назад +1

      I think they balance each other well. I don't think she was criticizing him, they were just sharing strengths and weaknesses. I think they are both wonderful parents.

    • @willscottrell6919
      @willscottrell6919 9 месяцев назад

      You come across as VERY jealous.....feel sorry for you. She runs their business.

    • @rosielani1930
      @rosielani1930 8 месяцев назад +1

      I think she’s stating her opinion and nothing more.

    • @lollife2023
      @lollife2023 8 месяцев назад +1

      Omg yes I’ve been saying this for a long time. She’s always sick, tired or pregnant and resting in bed. Another baby for poor jon to take care of, on top of the house, the farm, the kids, the home schooling, trips out etc. He needs to take a 2 week holiday by himself and she can get off her back side and parent her kids and look after the home and farm she wanted

  • @debwhite5281
    @debwhite5281 9 месяцев назад +1

    I have 2 boys like that. They both started fires. God watched of us. Assign one child to watch over Israel ever day.

  • @amygomez8806
    @amygomez8806 9 месяцев назад

    Yeah I think that's a natural thing for me to move my hair out of the way so the kid/ baby doesn't pull or eat it lol. I think you just like to have your hair in front

  • @blueseptember2174
    @blueseptember2174 9 месяцев назад

    With as many littles as yall have you might benefit from hiring a mommy's helper with chores and things.

  • @Greylock21
    @Greylock21 9 месяцев назад

    Guilt. Exhausted. Relax. If something serious happened to anyone of you, this chat would be voided.
    Cant control or Change an adult. Mom more rest, you need it. Dad, more help. Wont 4 ever. Boys v girls wY different. You are amazing and loved 😍
    This too will pass. No readinv books ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @lollife2023
      @lollife2023 8 месяцев назад

      Omg Jon can’t do anything more, he does 99% of everything in that house. She takes advantage of his kind nature and is always resting or sick or pregnant and in bed. She wanted another kid for poor job to have to care for and to look after the farm and the house and everything else. I guarantee she’s pregnant before this baby is 1.5 years old

  • @debwhite5281
    @debwhite5281 9 месяцев назад

    I had 6 kids and never had help

  • @KimlovesOT
    @KimlovesOT 9 месяцев назад

    Is his name Jonathan Clark?! That’s my dads name ❤

  • @kellyclawson
    @kellyclawson 9 месяцев назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @TheBonita94
    @TheBonita94 9 месяцев назад

    Ask mom idk lol 😂

  • @jeanmason3559
    @jeanmason3559 9 месяцев назад

    Maybe 8 is enough ?

  • @christyS.898
    @christyS.898 9 месяцев назад +2

    Got a question, what is the color of your siding on your house????? You look beautiful Daniel, John, that is a boy issue, boys are so dif from girls, they get easier than girls as they get older, promise!!! Both sexes have there special mile stones, you have the most beautiful family❤❤❤❤

  • @tiffanysannicolas448
    @tiffanysannicolas448 9 месяцев назад

    I think it’s a male/female thing. Women prioritize the home and “nesting.” Men prioritize providing, protecting and leisure.

  • @helenkinsey533
    @helenkinsey533 9 месяцев назад

    I felt fantastic after having my baby 3 weeks later I ended up in hospital bleeding badly

  • @TheBonita94
    @TheBonita94 9 месяцев назад

    Spoiler Jon lol

  • @conniemckenzie7801
    @conniemckenzie7801 9 месяцев назад +2

    Why not have a small trash can at your bedside?

  • @catmeissner4795
    @catmeissner4795 8 месяцев назад

    How are you guys so rich??!

    • @nordic7286
      @nordic7286 8 месяцев назад

      Yes they are rich with such a beautiful large family! ❤

  • @PattyJonas
    @PattyJonas 9 месяцев назад

    Sounds like coen was doing a great big poop xo

  • @meganhasprey4959
    @meganhasprey4959 9 месяцев назад

    I had 2 boys then 2 girls. I tell everyone the first 3ish years especially is spent basically making sure my boys didn’t self destruct because they lacked any sense of self preservation 😂 their level of busy shifts a bit I promise.

  • @monamonroe7569
    @monamonroe7569 9 месяцев назад

    He wants a diaper change 🎉

  • @lollife2023
    @lollife2023 8 месяцев назад

    Poor Jon is burnt out doing everything by himself. Having a baby doesn’t make you disabled Danielle. Get up and help your husband or you will loose him as you can only push him so far. Also you sound so ungrateful about your mum being there, you should be singing her praises for all she did