People like this are exhausting but often reveal themselves early. That's why some of us either ride solo or keep our friendship circles very small and separate from new associations. 🙏🏽
The secret animosity, jealously, envy, mimic/copying, One upping the list goes on. I had to cut off so called ''friends'' who turned out to be narcissist because of this. All they wanted to do was try and destroy me and bring me down. I thank the lord I got rid of them.
The most self-destructive people I have ever met are people who are ENVIOUS. They try to destroy your life with lies meanwhile the truth about who they are will destroy them 🤦🏽♀️. Just wow, they are a reason to thank God that He has not given you over to the powers of darkness that has possessed them. Thank you Jesus
This was a great video Cassandra. I had to learn the hard way dealing with envious people. It’s best to cut them off at the first sign of shade or deception. Go no contact with no explanation. A person who doesn’t mean you any good, doesn’t deserve any access to your life, PERIOD ‼️
As soon as I hear that sideways conversation from someone I’m hanging out with… they’ll NEVER hear from me again ❣️ I’ve learned to listen more than I speak, because they usually always let the evilness come out! “Its not unclean hands that defiles a man, it’s what’s stored up in their hearts that comes out of their mouths”
That's why I am also very selective accepting friend requests on social media as well. I keep my accounts private. People be hating under the radar. Snakes in the grass.
This is what I’m talking about. When Fb first came out around 2009 is when I had it. A lot of people I didn’t want to connect w added me and I was feeling a bit violated, about Sharing my pictures, what I was up, too. No one ever liked my posts. I was a former people pleaser and added everyone except those who I knew were evil.
So sorry for the loss of your friend. I know how you feel about being alone. I keep reminding myself the God is with me lately. I also find that because of past experiences I do block people that are trying to get into my life. But I truly believe if you learn to love being with yourself, know the type of people you want in yourlife and keep working on yourself, the right people will come your way. At least, I've noticed God will send someone to help me when I need it, even though we may never become friends, but had to learn to accept the help. I pray God brings you good friends.
Keep in mind we can't & don't lose real friends or family to snakes Period. No snake could come around me & fool me about anyone I truly Love & care about Facts
This is exactly what happened to me. I trusted her for years and she was turning people against me. Even my own family. But I no longer deal with her and I never will. I learned my lesson on trusting the wrong people.
1: They slither into your life to see who's near your heart. 2: Alienate and Isolate people who you're close to. 3: Dig around trying to find your flaws and insecurities, and they'll try to initiate entire conversations. 4: They purposefully take a conversation you have about a friend out of context and give the other person misleading tidbits about the conversation between you two. James 3:16 Thank you so much for this, Sis. Mack 💖. I've had to learn this the hard, as I've been isolated since childhood but yearned for connection: was a silent kid and my mommy's shadow, if you will. I like to thoroughly read and dissect🚦 and 🛑 signs so I can get far away from people like that.
It was your videos that were my sign to distance myself from my competitive ‘friend’. Since then my anxiety, self esteem and peace has improved significantly and the people I spend time with are so genuine. It also showed me places where envy speaks to me. Thank you Cassandra 🙏
WOW … I’m convinced that God led me to this video because I honestly thought my situation was an isolated situation ☹️ never realized that people really plot to do such evils 😈
You went in on this one Ms. Cassandra, Envy runs deep in relatives, friends and those who tries to come in your circle without testing they spirit. The person my brother married masked herself for years until she got that ring she open extreme warfare and witchcraft on me, she didn’t know it wasn’t my first rodeo. I masked myself to her as well as a prophet of God. And took her down she been in hiding since lol. We hold the power to tread over these serpents, wolves in sheep clothing.
@@lovelylinda8891 You have to move silently around them and go completely No Contact. Cut off everyone that mess with them even if you was cool with them. You have to set up shop around jezebel if you don’t that spirit is powerful but not powerful then God. Go in isolation and in the wilderness God will direct your path. Hope this help much Blessings✨
I have had this happen to me from a person who I thought was A REAL friend for 35yrs this person has been going up & down on CRACK & METH all his life add that to the mix forget it they have no shame in getting in your relationships... It's FUkn crazy B.S.!! Cut them off immediately!!.
Lord, help me through these difficulties. Lord knows I'm innocent of the things they have accused me of. I have always shown them love and kindness, but they were only jealous of my blessings. I feel alone in this world.
@Beverley Reid Thank you so much. I've been pushed out of the family. God is my everything. Then, and even more now. Blood is not always thicker than water!!. I have had to turn to strangers for support. May God be with you always
All of these traits/tricks sound like a Narcissist to the TEE.💯👹👿 My friend is a Psychologist that specializes in all the types of Narcissists. They're all very manipulative & cunning people. The *Covert Narcissists* are even WORSE than the *Grandiose Narcissists* aka the Loud Narcissist because the Grandiose Narcissist does evil things OPENLY, they don't care.💯 Coverts are the "wolves in sheep's clothing", they're VERY SNEAKY.👹👿💯🐏🦊 They're also known as the "Hidden Narcissist" or "Closet Narcissist".👹👿💯 Thank you for your wonderful video/audio.😊❤️🎉💯
Sister Cassandra, You are absolutely 💯 correct ✅, they usually tell on their own selves . You must pay attention to their reactions , responses & body language ‼️ You are appreciated so much ! Have a good & blessed day ! 💕💗💕💖
This video is confirmation that I should feel nothing but BLESSED that God removed certain “friends” out of my life. I was the antagonist ALL THE TIME with those girls!😩
I've had some ppl in my life that just wanted to keep me down. They usually have nothing good to say about u! They want to make us feel less than GOD says we are. Some of them love telling all the great things their children have done. Some of them even make up lies!! I just remember GOD is so good to me. Why would Iet satan ppl bring me down. I don't live in a mansion, but I'm blessed with peace & quite in my home!! Ain't GOD good!! Praise The LORD!!!
💯 spitting facts. Watch out for snakes their everywhere slithering around gaslighting good people. Remember your good news is better kept to yourselves even family are best not knowing. Walk away dont argue just rise above it.
Someone wanted my home, my ministry, even my haircut. I was told to let her have it or get killed. So, I’m here. People are envious of me here. I’ll pay attention to the yellow lights today. Thank you for your wisdom.
Cassandra you’re on point. I’m angry with myself bc I kept ignoring my intuition, Gods nudges. I kept making excuses bc her antics were so subtle,and the person took advantage of my vulnerabilities after my car accident.I discovered the major Red Flag is she got angry & annoyed when positive events unfolded for my son and I. She would roll her eyes, huff and or not even acknowledge the good news
Oh Min Mack. a very insightful discussion and message. As a mature person now in my 50’s I’m very cautious of my associations. Being that I ,for the most part , am a people person, I who enjoys developing friendships. I think it always a blessing to meeting and expanding your circle of contacts. Recognizing that there are different types of friendship categories. What I have had to become better at is detecting the ones that be-friends me with an agenda. That’s when red flags go up. Their movements are subtle but definitely their intent and goal is to ruin you in some fashion.Usually it doesn’t take long because it usually comes to surface and the I have to address accordingly. Let’s just say, I’ve had to use the ‘Block caller’ feature on my cell a little more regularly these days. Lol
I’ve done this but it was never out of envy but actually cared 💯 I don’t feel like it’s wrong to expose people if someone is doing them wrong. At the moment they hate it but then realize I was right later on
The key word you said is if someone is doing them wrong. This video is not referring to instances where an individual is being protective of those they care about by exposing a person's predatory behavior because they don't want anyone else to get hurt. This video is specifically referring to people who cause division from a place of envy towards someone who did not wrong them. .
@@CassandraMack right I think it’s very easy to mix these two up because it’s hard to tell if someone actually cares or is just envious. Most people will automatically assume it’s envy
@@niathomas184 a envious person alway says I’m only saying this cause I care ( their favorite line). You could be operating from an envious place and not even know because envy also trick the person it’s hiding in.
...when they come in through a relationship with the person or family member you care about...and they start the covert social aggresions, undermining, violating boundaries, right up to line of "plausible deniability" ... to get rid of you
This is going on in my life right now. When I learned that this person was jealous of me I cut her loose and never dealt with her again on any level. I was even respectful towards her after the fact but didn’t deal with her again under no circumstances whatsoever. Now today I am isolated, stay to myself, lots of mud on my name, lots of lies, and constantly stirring up confusion. Now I live my life as a castaway and the fact that she’s getting away with this makes me sick every day. It doesn’t matter when your heart is in the right place. People are able to get away with doing dirty to others and nothing ever happens to them.
Love your examples Cassandra! It makes it clear to understand spotting these negative people. For my situation, I was new attending an event. This person was super welcoming and nice. It was great that this person had showed me the ropes to make me feel included. But a few months in, this person explained to me in every detail like a brief "bio" about each person that was in their clique. "Oh, ___has had many partners and they died. They feel guilty that they survived..." So I listened. I didn't contribute, just observing this person's behavior. The next time we hung out, he said "well____had a rough upbringing too." I just listened as we were walking and said ok. That makes sense. Thanks for mentioning context. I am working on slowly distancing myself from this person as well as their "clique." I never knew why the very people that he provided bios on, I didn't like. I didn't know what it iwas, I just knew that there was something off. Like our energies won't be matching. I reflected on this while taking a step back, and I realized that it was him. Sometimes too, what's telling is not only the "main" toxic person is a red flag, but their own circle of friends you have to analyze. It's insane how we have to prepare ourselves just to make friends.
I had a much older man that did this often. Whenever I would call him out, he always say I'm just an innocent old man, but he was clever and slick as a snake. He met two if my so-called friends and needless to say they just dropped off. I believe ine if the females was envious anyway. The other Idk for sure. I just have a feeling he had something to do with it. He was always asking about them. I questioned him and he said how do they put up with you 😮. Long story short, we no longer talk and all if the signs were there with this old guy but I let it linger. He was an energy sucker. Omg and he loved to love bomb me and it felt so insincere. I asked him to stop but he wouldn't. He said I thought thats what women like. I said sure when its genuine. Even just talking on the phone he would start with the love bombing. Anyway I knew he was just an old jealous devil. As fir my 2 "friends" they were just naive to his game. He literally was gas lighting one of them one day (he winked his eye at me to play along). I told him to leave her alone. He used to do me the same way so I was aware of his behaviors. Old geezer!!
Miss Mack you dropped so many gems you are right about those who compliment you omg. I witnessed this personally myself, this lady at my job was praising me never trusted her. She hated me so much this woman is supposed to be a preacher.
Thank you. It feels so much better to hear the truth. Envy hides. Evil people are not gonna tell u the truth of how they hurt u U have to open ur eyes and see We can't listen to their words as much as we see their actions People should just accept people for who they are.
Everything you said is very true. I'm going through it with close family members as we speak. I can't make a clean break and cut them off as yet. Praying to God to keep me focused on the future.
13:51 I’m always leery of people who are way too overly obsessed with me upon first meeting me.🚩 That’s happened to me a few times within friendships, and those people later on backstabbed and betrayed me in horrific ways.
She has no friends, she wants to be with my friends but when we went out with my friends she's very polite to them n was condescending to me and passes it off like a joke n acting like I'm wrong for not enabling it. I told her to her face that her personality n mine clashes so I can only tolerate her once a month. She just wasn't stopping so I made it clear. She don't belong in my life. She has no friends. Also office manager organized birthday flowers n dinner for all employees n never for me in all 6 years. Recognize haters. No one will put out my shine.
Great message❤️, so true. Just thinking why certain situations went south with ppl even when you been kind. Honestly, we all need to either proceed with caution or stop soon as possible. You are so right about how sometimes it’s out out control on getting done proceed with caution.
Yes Lord every conversation all day long was staring and talking about me she this and she that hit the nail on the head I thank God for the Holy Ghost you can discern this spirit right away 🙏🏻🙏🏾🙏🏼🙏Thank you Lord for heads up and giving me the strength to go through this long season of haters backbiters envious spirits in men woman and bisexual communities Lord please deliver them and let elevate to higher ground 🙏🏾🙏🏼🙏🏻🙏
I have one that does this its a girlfriend of my son she has does everything to destroy my relationship with my son so far she hss won he cant talk to me cant do anything for me and he lives with me and he moved her in with us what a nightmare 💔
The ex husband to a T.. I eventually crawled out of there with nothing but the kids all the while he looked like the vicitim which was confusing to begin with as he retained everything including family and friends and house etc.. to this day I have nothing to do with any of them but it is a lonely road
Considering someone just typed text inside my phone app notepad “I hate you” I believe that is true. I don’t know why I’m blindfolded. I can’t watch other people in their homes through the “little eye in the sky” but everyone else does.
Hmmmmm. That is probably why the Lord kept allowing me to see that title of an episode. Yeah. Someone I know that is related to me told the pastor something that I didn't say. He didn't say angry or anything but it is and was very toxic, messy, and uncalled for. SMH. Because things like that can and will create drama, chaos, mess, division, and separation.
I've had people played that game toward me and the funny thing I never brought them to these people nor even told them and if it wasn't for God they would of got dump on the lake by violating my privacy
I have no idea why...i swear i subbed to your channel months ago yet it shows I was not?! So i re-subbed! Dunno why that happened! The other thing is...Why is it your video topics always coincide with the the traumatic memories I'm thinking about? Haha. Also why is it there are so many strangers lately who literally come up to me or online who go out of their way to tell me I'm not compatible with my partner and that he doesn't love me and he's blah blah blah?! What is up with that? This has been bugging me. Like they don't even know you the people that do this?! So bizarre! Love from Eng land 🇬🇧 and 🇫🇷 😊
If someone is complimenting you about something, that seems genuine, but they try to get involved in the same field they complimented you about, and then as you're part of the same community, you're starting a project together and they try to control the project and make it seems like they were at the root of the project from the beginning when it wasn't..but it's ambiguous because they started to take a lot more action than me after they discovered which project I was involved in.. is that me being jealous and imagining things and not wanting to share or is it them?
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They hate that you are actually a good person while they pretend to be.
Amen.
This is so true...
This
That’s good! So true!!!!
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People like this are exhausting but often reveal themselves early. That's why some of us either ride solo or keep our friendship circles very small and separate from new associations. 🙏🏽
Ride solo mostly!
Yep adora w that's why I don't deal with them PERIOD
Solo!
Yes indeed ✌🏽💖
Solo dolo ❤
Be careful of envious men as well ladies
Envy hides, masquerading as a friend. 😢
The secret animosity, jealously, envy, mimic/copying, One upping the list goes on. I had to cut off so called ''friends'' who turned out to be narcissist because of this. All they wanted to do was try and destroy me and bring me down. I thank the lord I got rid of them.
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Ohhh ugh the Copying.
Makes me wonder if Mimic-ing is always envious. Coz, Some gals be Inspired.
It’s Annoying.
But, ? It is what it is :/
Went through this with my twin sister..I went no contact after she smear my name to my dad and sabotaged my happiness on our birthday smh.
This is exactly how narcissist operate all day every day!!
The most self-destructive people I have ever met are people who are ENVIOUS. They try to destroy your life with lies meanwhile the truth about who they are will destroy them 🤦🏽♀️. Just wow, they are a reason to thank God that He has not given you over to the powers of darkness that has possessed them. Thank you Jesus
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Amen
If people are trying to pull you down,they are already beneath you..❤❤
You are absolutely right.
@@colacola9234 😄
Etch this in my memory bank!! I never thought of this.
@@jminott1 I hear u.
This was a great video Cassandra. I had to learn the hard way dealing with envious people. It’s best to cut them off at the first sign of shade or deception. Go no contact with no explanation. A person who doesn’t mean you any good, doesn’t deserve any access to your life, PERIOD ‼️
Cut off with no explanation
Facts
Period💯👏🏾
As soon as I hear that sideways conversation from someone I’m hanging out with… they’ll NEVER hear from me again ❣️ I’ve learned to listen more than I speak, because they usually always let the evilness come out!
“Its not unclean hands that defiles a man, it’s what’s stored up in their hearts that comes out of their mouths”
@@AJ-tb9cr3:32 ,,
That's why I am also very selective accepting friend requests on social media as well. I keep my accounts private. People be hating under the radar. Snakes in the grass.
This is what I’m talking about. When Fb first came out around 2009 is when I had it. A lot of people I didn’t want to connect w added me and I was feeling a bit violated, about Sharing my pictures, what I was up, too. No one ever liked my posts. I was a former people pleaser and added everyone except those who I knew were evil.
I literally have no friends. My bestie passed. I don't trust family im alone
You are never alone. The lord is with you, and he will bring the right people in your life. My condolences on the passing of your friend 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
So sorry for the loss of your friend. I know how you feel about being alone. I keep reminding myself the God is with me lately. I also find that because of past experiences I do block people that are trying to get into my life. But I truly believe if you learn to love being with yourself, know the type of people you want in yourlife and keep working on yourself, the right people will come your way. At least, I've noticed God will send someone to help me when I need it, even though we may never become friends, but had to learn to accept the help. I pray God brings you good friends.
I definitely can relate to you. I feel the same way. Always know that there's no better friend than ☝️🙏❤️🫂.
Alone is different from lonely. Honestly, I would rather have no friends than snake family and friends
@A J Yessss.....ain't that the truth! I agree🎯💯👏! Like I said sooo relatable! You can do bad by your lonely.
I got rid of someone who was like this. She was messyyyyyyyyy. Very sneaky snake. People who behave that way are very unstable.
Keep in mind we can't & don't lose real friends or family to snakes
Period.
No snake could come around me & fool me about anyone I truly Love & care about
Facts
This is exactly what happened to me. I trusted her for years and she was turning people against me. Even my own family. But I no longer deal with her and I never will. I learned my lesson on trusting the wrong people.
U too....? MOST are women with make parts aqui
1: They slither into your life to see who's near your heart.
2: Alienate and Isolate people who you're close to.
3: Dig around trying to find your flaws and insecurities, and they'll try to initiate entire conversations.
4: They purposefully take a conversation you have about a friend out of context and give the other person misleading tidbits about the conversation between you two. James 3:16
Thank you so much for this, Sis. Mack 💖. I've had to learn this the hard, as I've been isolated since childhood but yearned for connection: was a silent kid and my mommy's shadow, if you will.
I like to thoroughly read and dissect🚦 and 🛑 signs so I can get far away from people like that.
What I did was I just distanced myself. Time will fix everything and people will figure out everything.
It was your videos that were my sign to distance myself from my competitive ‘friend’. Since then my anxiety, self esteem and peace has improved significantly and the people I spend time with are so genuine. It also showed me places where envy speaks to me. Thank you Cassandra 🙏
U too?
WOW … I’m convinced that God led me to this video because I honestly thought my situation was an isolated situation ☹️ never realized that people really plot to do such evils 😈
Yes indeed ✌🏽
Absolutely.
You went in on this one Ms. Cassandra, Envy runs deep in relatives, friends and those who tries to come in your circle without testing they spirit. The person my brother married masked herself for years until she got that ring she open extreme warfare and witchcraft on me, she didn’t know it wasn’t my first rodeo. I masked myself to her as well as a prophet of God. And took her down she been in hiding since lol. We hold the power to tread over these serpents, wolves in sheep clothing.
Nice! I've experienced something similar... Any advice on how you went about the battle? Scriptures? Etc?
@@lovelylinda8891 You have to move silently around them and go completely No Contact. Cut off everyone that mess with them even if you was cool with them. You have to set up shop around jezebel if you don’t that spirit is powerful but not powerful then God. Go in isolation and in the wilderness God will direct your path. Hope this help much Blessings✨
@@Peculiar000 Thank you for your feedback.
@@Peculiar000 what do set up shop mean?
@@akishapeters It means to set up operation to destroy that person in a very strategic and wise manner.
I have had this happen to me from a person who I thought was A REAL friend for 35yrs this person has been going up & down on CRACK & METH all his life add that to the mix forget it they have no shame in getting in your relationships... It's FUkn crazy B.S.!! Cut them off immediately!!.
Envy misery suffering 💯
Lord, help me through these difficulties. Lord knows I'm innocent of the things they have accused me of. I have always shown them love and kindness, but they were only jealous of my blessings. I feel alone in this world.
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Hang in there and hang on to God. I know exactly how you feel. Don't give up.
@Beverley Reid Thank you so much. I've been pushed out of the family. God is my everything. Then, and even more now. Blood is not always thicker than water!!. I have had to turn to strangers for support. May God be with you always
All of these traits/tricks sound like a Narcissist to the TEE.💯👹👿
My friend is a Psychologist that specializes in all the types of Narcissists. They're all very manipulative & cunning people. The *Covert Narcissists* are even WORSE than the *Grandiose Narcissists* aka the Loud Narcissist because the Grandiose Narcissist does evil things OPENLY, they don't care.💯 Coverts are the "wolves in sheep's clothing", they're VERY SNEAKY.👹👿💯🐏🦊 They're also known as the "Hidden Narcissist" or "Closet Narcissist".👹👿💯 Thank you for your wonderful video/audio.😊❤️🎉💯
This message is the reason why I don’t deal with certain spirits within ppl I protect my peace I stay solo dolo 🤓
This message is Great! I’m dealing with this right now! Can you please pray for me concerning this issue. I feel very betrayed! 😢
Sister Cassandra, You are absolutely 💯 correct ✅, they usually tell on their own selves . You must pay attention to their reactions , responses & body language ‼️
You are appreciated so much !
Have a good & blessed day ! 💕💗💕💖
Been there done that and i conduction myself accordingly. Envy is rampid out here
Yea ppl do do that. But I pretend like I don’t hear it. I got other things to focus on. 😂🙏🏾
This video is confirmation that I should feel nothing but BLESSED that God removed certain “friends” out of my life. I was the antagonist ALL THE TIME with those girls!😩
I've had some ppl in my life that just wanted to keep me down. They usually have nothing good to say about u! They want to make us feel less than GOD says we are. Some of them love telling all the great things their children have done. Some of them even make up lies!! I just remember GOD is so good to me. Why would Iet satan ppl bring me down. I don't live in a mansion, but I'm blessed with peace & quite in my home!! Ain't GOD good!! Praise The LORD!!!
This can be applied to the advice Keep you friends close and your enemies closer.
💯 spitting facts. Watch out for snakes their everywhere slithering around gaslighting good people. Remember your good news is better kept to yourselves even family are best not knowing. Walk away dont argue just rise above it.
Envy hides
Someone wanted my home, my ministry, even my haircut. I was told to let her have it or get killed. So, I’m here. People are envious of me here. I’ll pay attention to the yellow lights today. Thank you for your wisdom.
Cassandra you’re on point. I’m angry with myself bc I kept ignoring my intuition, Gods nudges. I kept making excuses bc her antics were so subtle,and the person took advantage of my vulnerabilities after my car accident.I discovered the major Red Flag is she got angry & annoyed when positive events unfolded for my son and I. She would roll her eyes, huff and or not even acknowledge the good news
Wow divide & conquer it’s insane .. you are definitely got this
Oh Min Mack. a very insightful discussion and message. As a mature person now in my 50’s I’m very cautious of my associations. Being that I ,for the most part , am a people person, I who enjoys developing friendships. I think it always a blessing to meeting and expanding your circle of contacts. Recognizing that there are different types of friendship categories. What I have had to become better at is detecting the ones that be-friends me with an agenda. That’s when red flags go up. Their movements are subtle but definitely their intent and goal is to ruin you in some fashion.Usually it doesn’t take long because it usually comes to surface and the I have to address accordingly. Let’s just say, I’ve had to use the ‘Block caller’ feature on my cell a little more regularly these days. Lol
7:46 So true! It’s like domestic violence, but within female “friendship.”
I’ve done this but it was never out of envy but actually cared 💯 I don’t feel like it’s wrong to expose people if someone is doing them wrong. At the moment they hate it but then realize I was right later on
The key word you said is if someone is doing them wrong. This video is not referring to instances where an individual is being protective of those they care about by exposing a person's predatory behavior because they don't want anyone else to get hurt. This video is specifically referring to people who cause division from a place of envy towards someone who did not wrong them. .
@@CassandraMack right I think it’s very easy to mix these two up because it’s hard to tell if someone actually cares or is just envious. Most people will automatically assume it’s envy
@@niathomas184 well envy alway mask itself as caring….
@@akishapeters not really
@@niathomas184 a envious person alway says I’m only saying this cause I care ( their favorite line). You could be operating from an envious place and not even know because envy also trick the person it’s hiding in.
...when they come in through a relationship with the person or family member you care about...and they start the covert social aggresions, undermining, violating boundaries, right up to line of "plausible deniability" ... to get rid of you
This is going on in my life right now. When I learned that this person was jealous of me I cut her loose and never dealt with her again on any level. I was even respectful towards her after the fact but didn’t deal with her again under no circumstances whatsoever. Now today I am isolated, stay to myself, lots of mud on my name, lots of lies, and constantly stirring up confusion. Now I live my life as a castaway and the fact that she’s getting away with this makes me sick every day. It doesn’t matter when your heart is in the right place. People are able to get away with doing dirty to others and nothing ever happens to them.
WOW. THIS IS RIGHT ON TIME TO AND FOR ME. THANK YOU, HOLY SPIRIT. THANK YOU, HOLY SPIRIT, FOR THE CONFIRMATION. THANK YOU, LORD. AMEN. ❤❤❤
Love your examples Cassandra! It makes it clear to understand spotting these negative people.
For my situation, I was new attending an event. This person was super welcoming and nice. It was great that this person had showed me the ropes to make me feel included. But a few months in, this person explained to me in every detail like a brief "bio" about each person that was in their clique. "Oh, ___has had many partners and they died. They feel guilty that they survived..." So I listened. I didn't contribute, just observing this person's behavior. The next time we hung out, he said "well____had a rough upbringing too." I just listened as we were walking and said ok. That makes sense. Thanks for mentioning context. I am working on slowly distancing myself from this person as well as their "clique." I never knew why the very people that he provided bios on, I didn't like. I didn't know what it iwas, I just knew that there was something off. Like our energies won't be matching. I reflected on this while taking a step back, and I realized that it was him.
Sometimes too, what's telling is not only the "main" toxic person is a red flag, but their own circle of friends you have to analyze. It's insane how we have to prepare ourselves just to make friends.
I needed this message several different times in my life. Thank you
You are in it!!!!! Sneaky, building alliances, they compliments what they envious about. They take words out of content......BULLSEYE
I had a much older man that did this often. Whenever I would call him out, he always say I'm just an innocent old man, but he was clever and slick as a snake. He met two if my so-called friends and needless to say they just dropped off. I believe ine if the females was envious anyway. The other Idk for sure. I just have a feeling he had something to do with it. He was always asking about them. I questioned him and he said how do they put up with you 😮. Long story short, we no longer talk and all if the signs were there with this old guy but I let it linger. He was an energy sucker. Omg and he loved to love bomb me and it felt so insincere. I asked him to stop but he wouldn't. He said I thought thats what women like. I said sure when its genuine. Even just talking on the phone he would start with the love bombing. Anyway I knew he was just an old jealous devil. As fir my 2 "friends" they were just naive to his game. He literally was gas lighting one of them one day (he winked his eye at me to play along). I told him to leave her alone. He used to do me the same way so I was aware of his behaviors. Old geezer!!
Thank you Cassandra, reason why we are mindful of who we trust, much truth in the words spoken in this video. God bless you 🙏💗🕊️
I wonder if there's a way to preemptively prepare our friends when we discern somethings off with the envious person, to protect our friendships
Half the time the jealous and envious are your friends.
Miss Mack you dropped so many gems you are right about those who compliment you omg. I witnessed this personally myself, this lady at my job was praising me never trusted her. She hated me so much this woman is supposed to be a preacher.
TEACH,‼️
💯💯so true. 🚩🚩🚩🚩Missed many red flags over the years. Now I can 👁
Thank you. It feels so much better to hear the truth.
Envy hides.
Evil people are not gonna tell u the truth of how they hurt u
U have to open ur eyes and see
We can't listen to their words as much as we see their actions
People should just accept people for who they are.
Everything you said is very true. I'm going through it with close family members as we speak. I can't make a clean break and cut them off as yet. Praying to God to keep me focused on the future.
Right on time with this msg thank you god I received it
13:51 I’m always leery of people who are way too overly obsessed with me upon first meeting me.🚩 That’s happened to me a few times within friendships, and those people later on backstabbed and betrayed me in horrific ways.
This is Confirmation😱💯
The Confusion part….
I've had to take restraining orders out on backstabbing men, and know 1 of them and know he still won't leave me alone
Thank you so much for these words of wisdom ❤.
Thank you for this video . I completely understand this because I know what it is....
This was powerful. And oh so accurate. Thank you Cassandra
She has no friends, she wants to be with my friends but when we went out with my friends she's very polite to them n was condescending to me and passes it off like a joke n acting like I'm wrong for not enabling it. I told her to her face that her personality n mine clashes so I can only tolerate her once a month. She just wasn't stopping so I made it clear. She don't belong in my life. She has no friends.
Also office manager organized birthday flowers n dinner for all employees n never for me in all 6 years.
Recognize haters. No one will put out my shine.
Great message❤️, so true. Just thinking why certain situations went south with ppl even when you been kind. Honestly, we all need to either proceed with caution or stop soon as possible. You are so right about how sometimes it’s out out control on getting done proceed with caution.
Always good content. Slither! Perfect word for this type of person.
I love this video! This is so true!!
i have such evil people around me
Yes Lord every conversation all day long was staring and talking about me she this and she that hit the nail on the head I thank God for the Holy Ghost you can discern this spirit right away 🙏🏻🙏🏾🙏🏼🙏Thank you Lord for heads up and giving me the strength to go through this long season of haters backbiters envious spirits in men woman and bisexual communities Lord please deliver them and let elevate to higher ground 🙏🏾🙏🏼🙏🏻🙏
One sign, and this is a BIG ONE, is that they sleep with your person. Watch out for that big sign, People.
Cassandra this was Sooooo helpful! You don’t even understand!!! Thank you!!!!
I have one that does this its a girlfriend of my son she has does everything to destroy my relationship with my son so far she hss won he cant talk to me cant do anything for me and he lives with me and he moved her in with us what a nightmare 💔
Put them both out. That's the only way he will see her for who she is
Show them both the door! He.s worse than her!
The ex husband to a T.. I eventually crawled out of there with nothing but the kids all the while he looked like the vicitim which was confusing to begin with as he retained everything including family and friends and house etc.. to this day I have nothing to do with any of them but it is a lonely road
I don't have any friends either. Everyone treated me like dirt. God and Jesus are my friends. Amen!
Considering someone just typed text inside my phone app notepad “I hate you” I believe that is true. I don’t know why I’m blindfolded. I can’t watch other people in their homes through the “little eye in the sky” but everyone else does.
People 😴 don't tell you
Thank you for this much needed message!
It happened to me in school.
James 3.10
Love you miss Mac. Truly a gift. Highly insightful
Hmmmmm. That is probably why the Lord kept allowing me to see that title of an episode. Yeah. Someone I know that is related to me told the pastor something that I didn't say. He didn't say angry or anything but it is and was very toxic, messy, and uncalled for. SMH. Because things like that can and will create drama, chaos, mess, division, and separation.
And I feel like this is very dangerous
Do not give out information about your Love life, finances & anything you dont want others to know.
I've had people played that game toward me and the funny thing I never brought them to these people nor even told them and if it wasn't for God they would of got dump on the lake by violating my privacy
I have no idea why...i swear i subbed to your channel months ago yet it shows I was not?! So i re-subbed! Dunno why that happened! The other thing is...Why is it your video topics always coincide with the the traumatic memories I'm thinking about? Haha. Also why is it there are so many strangers lately who literally come up to me or online who go out of their way to tell me I'm not compatible with my partner and that he doesn't love me and he's blah blah blah?! What is up with that? This has been bugging me. Like they don't even know you the people that do this?! So bizarre! Love from Eng land 🇬🇧 and 🇫🇷 😊
I've been there before.
What if this person is your own mom? She has ostracized and spread malicious rumors about me to her family to make people not like me.
My sister
AMEN!
My mom is the Confusion so I'm not 100% honest with her
Ugh the obsession....
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What you are describing is a narcissist.
If someone is complimenting you about something, that seems genuine, but they try to get involved in the same field they complimented you about, and then as you're part of the same community, you're starting a project together and they try to control the project and make it seems like they were at the root of the project from the beginning when it wasn't..but it's ambiguous because they started to take a lot more action than me after they discovered which project I was involved in.. is that me being jealous and imagining things and not wanting to share or is it them?