These NASTY Comments Left Us Dumbfounded!!

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  • Опубликовано: 6 янв 2025

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  • @JenneeB927
    @JenneeB927 Год назад +82

    I miss the days when if you couldn't say anything nice not to say anything at all. Social media has destroyed society.

    • @Bazerkly
      @Bazerkly Год назад +4

      I don't remember those days!

    • @mollycakes7080
      @mollycakes7080 Год назад +4

      ​@Bazerkly That was in a galaxy far, far away.

    • @JenneeB927
      @JenneeB927 Год назад +8

      @@Bazerkly I know it's hard to believe, but most people used to have actual manners.

    • @JenneeB927
      @JenneeB927 Год назад +1

      @@mollycakes7080 lol. Right😁

    • @sharonobryan9713
      @sharonobryan9713 Год назад +3

      I miss that, too. Kids didn't do too well, but they tried. However, adults knew better!

  • @belle-rp2zj
    @belle-rp2zj Год назад +50

    As a 60 year old straight southern woman, it is not my place to judge just to love. If me and my hubby make it to Palm Springs ,we would be proud to have lunch with you and Jim. You both seem so kind and so sweet. It would be an honor. Love your videos.

    • @janashleymoon1285
      @janashleymoon1285 Год назад +9

      You are like the nicest person on You Tube!! And it's just so upsetting that cruel people are being so mean and negative towards you!!! Just please continue your videos and ignore their hatred!! I really look forward to your videos and you and Jim have a Blessed day!!!

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +4

      Thanks for watching and sharing Belle. That’s very nice of you to say. 😊👍

    • @lee-annelandownunder4731
      @lee-annelandownunder4731 Год назад +5

      I’m so sorry for these negative key board warriors- I love your perspective on life full stop xxx

    • @SpiritFox75971
      @SpiritFox75971 5 месяцев назад

      I love your videos, look forward to them. Some of the nicest, straight forward people I have met is gay, lesbian etc. it is truly sad that people just can’t mind their own business.

    • @SpiritFox75971
      @SpiritFox75971 5 месяцев назад

      I love your videos, look forward to them. Some of the nicest, straight forward people I have met is gay, lesbian etc. it is truly sad that people just can’t mind their own business.

  • @garmo98
    @garmo98 Год назад +31

    The problem with all social media platforms is that it gives the haters a cloak of annonmity to hide behind.

  • @normhal4908
    @normhal4908 Год назад +20

    I'm a 74-year-old gay man. What I've learned mostly because of my miserable brother is there are lots of miserable people out there who are NEVER happy until they have made everybody around them as miserable as they are. Social media has gifted these people with the idea that the entire world wants to know what they think when we really don't care.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +2

      So sorry you’ve had to deal with this to Norm. Especially from your brother. 🙁

    • @normhal4908
      @normhal4908 Год назад

      thank you. Your words a very healing.@@steveinpalmspringsca

  • @markshelton5321
    @markshelton5321 Год назад +33

    As a gay Gen Xer, I love older people, especially older LGBT. They paved the way for the rights and privileges we have today. I volunteer with Senior LGBT organizations in San Francisco whenever I can and fully realize my time is coming…hopefully!

    • @RaeAnn_1202
      @RaeAnn_1202 Год назад +9

      Your comment has so much kindness, respect and is uplifting. Take care. 😊

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +7

      You sound awesome Mark. The world and the gay community needs a lot more of you in it. 😄👍

    • @andrewfaduk214
      @andrewfaduk214 Год назад +1

      That's a beautiful message xx

  • @Evehere57
    @Evehere57 Год назад +20

    My husband and I love you and Jim. We are straight but accept all. This life is already difficult without so much hate. You two are comforting, fun, and loving. Please don't be discouraged or offended you just can't fix ignorance. Block and move forward. We will stay here with y'all and love you and accept you. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ God bless

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +4

      Thank you Eve. That’s very nice of you to say I’m very nice to hear. 😄👍

  • @paean109
    @paean109 Год назад +11

    Before I retired, I had a saying posted on the wall of my office that said, "Some people are just not happy unless they are miserable." 🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +4

      Sad, that’s so true Paean! 😲

    • @gary-rr7jp
      @gary-rr7jp 21 день назад

      Or unless they can drag someone below their level of misery.🤔

  • @donnerdonner315
    @donnerdonner315 Год назад +20

    IGNORE THE HATERS STEVE!!!
    Keep posting whatever you want....if people "have a problem with your lifestyle"....keep blocking and deleting them. Social media and the Internet have created these HATEFUL MONSTERS! Like Jim said, no one tied you down and forced you to watch! People are so quick to judge others and lack patience, tolerence, and understanding! Don't let the haters win...keep up the fight Steve!!! All the true allies LOVE you both and this channel!!!

  • @andytaylor5476
    @andytaylor5476 Год назад +7

    Horrible-they would love to see us (not see us) back in the closet. I'm 70, my life has been a process of self acceptance, and affirmation. I live in San Francisco, have been over the yeqrs, in parades, and protests. Steve and Jim, what you are doing, showing your lives and allowing us in, is vitally important in our quest to end discrimination. Don't let the haters get to you (thats what they want!) Thank you for your efforts.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing this with us Andy. We appreciate it and you. 😄👍

  • @janetslicer3637
    @janetslicer3637 Год назад +3

    That's why I jumped on the English girl whose comment was just the word "garbage." Truthfully, that was the first comment I had seen like that. But it appalled me! It really hurt to the core to see that. I may not be gay, but I am sick and tired of the way some people treat others that may not be exactly like them! ENOUGH! We need more love, compassion, and understanding. Be the light we need in this world!

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +2

      Beautifully said Janet! 😄👍

    • @aksez2u
      @aksez2u Год назад +1

      I love a good comment warrior! I make it a policy to NEVER make negative comments on anyone's video. It I don't like it, I don't watch it. On the other hand, if I see a viewer comment from someone being a jerk, I will happily let them have it 🤣.

  • @letsgo1166
    @letsgo1166 Год назад +10

    I can only say/do one thing to “key board bullies” delete. Your videos are wonderful. Hugs to you.

  • @johnbeckett8028
    @johnbeckett8028 Год назад +12

    Hey, guys.
    You are so right about every thing you said.
    We are accepted as long as we stay out sight and they can pretend we don't exist.
    Thank you posting.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +2

      Thanks John 👍

    • @johnbeckett8028
      @johnbeckett8028 Год назад +1

      Thanks Steve.
      I have enjoyed your posts every since I realized they were out there.
      I really appreciate your personal recognition of my comment.
      A guy in Michigan who has made his view clear that he has no problem with us as long as he doesn't have to see us or hear about us should hear what you said in your last post. If he doesn't like seeing us then don't watch our events He has posted a video depicting how he deals with us by blowing up a pickup truck - with a rainbow painted on the side of it - using his bazooka.
      (The Columbia War Mechine.)
      😮
      What.
      He clains to be an American.
      In what country is he an American.
      Thanks.

  • @coltsfan69
    @coltsfan69 Год назад +25

    Jim & Steve don't let these people bother you. You guys are awesome. Keep up the great work.

  • @mauricewright5279
    @mauricewright5279 Год назад +1

    Thank you for you for all of the time you devoted to journaling your slices of life. The internet provides people (especially cowards)cover to say bad things. I am glad that you called out the mean ones.
    I am 51 and gay. I am lucky to live a full life because of the sacrifices and courage of my older brethren and sistren. I love that you show us that life continues to be fruitful, bountiful and you continue to evolve into a person who just is more appreciative of his/her gift of life.
    I have really appreciated the love and sense of community in a lot of your work. Palm Springs exudes an aura of inclusion, fraternity and wisdom.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад

      Hi Maurice, thanks for sharing this with us. That’s very nice to hear and I appreciate you watching and commenting! 😄👍

  • @countryboy63077
    @countryboy63077 Год назад +2

    Folks tend to hate things that they just don’t understand or that makes them uncomfortable. With these negative comments they just may be opening the door to understanding the unknown.

  • @Sandi-ke9mi
    @Sandi-ke9mi 11 месяцев назад

    Thanks! I’m so sorry that there are cowards out there that hide behind their devices, just to say mean things.
    Like Taylor says, haters gonna hate. Pay them no mind. There are plenty of us out here that love and support you. And if I ever get to Palm Springs for a visit, I want to take you and Jim out to breakfast at Elmers, my treat.
    My BFF is 89 and my husband is 76. I love older people and I’m a boomer.
    Love is stronger than hate. I love you both so much❣️🥰🙏🏻💕

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  11 месяцев назад +1

      Hi Sandi, thank you for your very kind and generous donations! You are so sweet. The world needs a lot more more people like you in it! :-) You'll be getting a shout out in an upcoming video soon!

  • @texadonkey34
    @texadonkey34 Год назад +1

    I like IKEA, because in the 1990s, they were the first magazine to show gay couples shopping in their catalogs & commercials. People in Texas went nuts, lol😜

  • @catherinecepuder3520
    @catherinecepuder3520 Год назад +1

    Hi Steve & Jim... You need to carry some beautiful rose quartz crystals (which generate love) and the energy of those crystals will eliminate all negative hateful vibrations. Sadly we live in the midst of alot of intolerant ignorance. It's our job to filter it out and not let it impact our lives. Social media has created the platform, but thankfully we can also delete and block! Those who post nasty comments are only venting their own "stuff" which in reality has nothing to do with you, your lifestyle or Palm Springs celebrating Gay Pride!! I work in a senior community where there a a few gay couples and some singles. I'm straight but have always felt an affinity with the gay community, and found the people I know to be my kind, open minded evolved and just fun to be around! Love you guys and your channel , so please keep sharing with us!🌈🤗

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      Hi Catherine, I love your message. Thank you for sharing this with us. It reminds me of a book I read years ago called “what you think of me is none of my business,” by Terry Cole Whitaker. Thanks for the reminder and for being such a good person in the world. We appreciate it! 😄👍❤️

  • @OhioGuy330
    @OhioGuy330 Год назад +23

    I'm straight myself & I love watching your videos I would never say one negative thing about you or jim

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +5

      Thank you Ohioguy. Could you please clone yourself? The world definitely needs more people like you! 😄👍

    • @OhioGuy330
      @OhioGuy330 Год назад +1

      @@steveinpalmspringsca if I could I would my friend

  • @carlajacobsen6821
    @carlajacobsen6821 Год назад +3

    I was in Palm Springs for pride, and I absolutely loved it! I just love you both, and I want you both to know that you are supported and loved and I hope you guys have a great rest of the week!❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад

      Thank you so much Carla. We appreciate that. Glad to hear you enjoyed pride in PS ! 😎👍

  • @thelmafarrow8623
    @thelmafarrow8623 Год назад +5

    Breaks my heart what you have to deal with! No one has respect anymore! I hope you know there are people out there that respect you and are here for you! ❤️

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      Thanks Thelma, we definitely do it we definitely appreciate it! 😄👍

  • @lisarussell6190
    @lisarussell6190 Год назад +4

    I'm so sorry to hear that both you and Jim are having to deal with such terrible comments. What the entire LGBTQIA community has to deal with is unfathomable. Here's to a better more loving future. For what it's worth you have my support. Your RUclips channels and your honest content are valued. Much love to you and Jim.

  • @deniseholt2198
    @deniseholt2198 Год назад +25

    It’s the millennials they don’t like anyone. People are so mean, block them all Steve, you don’t need that negativity enjoy your life and have fun. Jim is Right 100%

    • @Swampzoid
      @Swampzoid Год назад +6

      You can't block the swarm of hatred sweeping this country.

    • @deniseholt2198
      @deniseholt2198 Год назад +1

      @@Swampzoid you sure can try

    • @deniseholt2198
      @deniseholt2198 Год назад +3

      @@Ms.HarmonyJ I should of said some of the millennials I know a few

    • @deniseholt2198
      @deniseholt2198 Год назад +2

      @@Ms.HarmonyJ my brother was part of the community too and recently in 2016 passed away and I celebrate in memory of him. And if he knew one of my son is one of those millennials he would of been sad and I’m sad for him.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      Thanks Denise 😊👍

  • @susiesunshine6489
    @susiesunshine6489 Год назад +10

    What a pity that a person would put in such an effort to be negative.
    And if they are lucky enough, they will get to be an old person!
    I enjoy your videos! Love to both you and Jim ! ❤😊

  • @meganryan6887
    @meganryan6887 Год назад +8

    OMG, people are people!!. Why must people be so judgmental? It doesn't matter if someone is gay, straight, black, white, of another religion, and the list goes on. They are ALL people, let them enjoy their lives and whatever lifestyle they chose. Who are we to judge anyone? Look in the mirror haters and when you are PERFECT in every way, then come forward with your comments. Steve and Jim, you just keep on keepin on!! You are both awesome and this is coming from a straight woman!! 😀😀

  • @ilanarhian
    @ilanarhian Год назад +6

    I'm so sorry this has happened to you. You and Jim always seem like such lovely people.

  • @robinvarnadoe8429
    @robinvarnadoe8429 Год назад +6

    That's sad they made nasty comments about older people. All my friends have always been 20+ years older than myself. I'm not gay but I have several friends that are, they are still people and I love them for who they are as a person, its not based on what their sexual orientation is.

  • @jenniferbraud6750
    @jenniferbraud6750 Год назад +1

    As a 61 yo white girl, I truly wish I had some fun gay guy friends

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      Lol well, make that your New Year’s resolution to find some. We are everywhere. 😂 good luck Jennifer 🤞👍

  • @susansmith4112
    @susansmith4112 Год назад +2

    Just keep living your truth. Your both so kind. Enjoy your videos! Their the best with a lot of helpful information. As the Taylor Swift song goes “ the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate..” Who cares what they think? We love watching you both.💞💞💞

  • @patcohen4128
    @patcohen4128 Год назад +3

    Hi Steve and Jim,
    Those people who said those nasty comments are idiots. I wouldn't let those comments bother you. Live and let live. You both crack me up sometimes. Love all the channels.

  • @kimandersenjohnson2324
    @kimandersenjohnson2324 Год назад +1

    There is absolutely no excuse for those comments in a civilized world. I’m so sorry. 💔

  • @sharonobryan9713
    @sharonobryan9713 Год назад +1

    Hard to believe! All those people that "don't like," older people, gay or not, will probably pay when they reach older ages, if they reach them. They will go nuts with self-hate, if they don't learn better.

  • @MySimpleCottageLife
    @MySimpleCottageLife Год назад +1

    Negative thinking people are everywhere these days, especially when they can be anonymous (cowardly). It's easy to say "just ignore them" but sometimes it's hard to do. It costs nothing to be kind. Hugs, Mary

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад

      I’m guessing that even you have to deal with negative comments too. No channel seems to be immune these days. Thanks and hugs right back at you Mary. 😊👍

    • @MySimpleCottageLife
      @MySimpleCottageLife Год назад

      @@steveinpalmspringsca yes, I've had my share. I've always said "even if Mother Teresa had made a RUclips channel, she'd get rude and insulting comments."

  • @debiboen3990
    @debiboen3990 Год назад

    I, also, spent much of my youth as the youngest person in the room; I was most comfortable with older, more mature, people. Eventually, and inevitably, I became the oldest person in the room. This has required. Much adjusting on my part. I am saddened by each millimeter of "vim and vigor" that I lose, but what saddens me the most is the blatant ageism and arrogant assumptions of those who are currently in their prime. They are missing out on so much, and they are not somehow magically stopping the march of time - one day, they will be what they now so openly ridicule.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад

      Hi Debi, thank you for sharing with us. I agree with you. They are really missing out but not having all the people in their lives. 🙁

  • @ToddEWalnuts
    @ToddEWalnuts Год назад

    Hi Steve and Jim. I watch all your videos and I have for years now. I honestly don’t even think of it as I’m watching a gay channel, or listening to gay people. I’m just watching a fun channel with nice people. I find the channel to be entertaining, and I like your attitudes. There is so much negativity in the world and it seems to get worse each day. I watch what makes me happy, and I don’t care who is gay or straight. I don’t comment much but I always make sure to hit the thumbs up button to show support.
    Some of my favorite videos that you do are the cooking videos, or the cupboard tours. I have a bit of OCD and it’s very satisfying to see how clean and organized you two are. Keep up the good videos. Thanks for the content.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад

      Thank you Todd, for watching and commenting over the feedback. We appreciate having awesome viewers like you! 😄👍

  • @teribartolo7917
    @teribartolo7917 Год назад +1

    Hi Steve, stand tall and stand proud. Love is love. There are people out there that no matter what we do or say, they think it's fine to destroy and hurt people .. those people are not worth the effort in getting upset over .. you are a very proud man, and I applaude and respect both you and Jim .. love from Teri all the way from Australia x

  • @shosmyth1454
    @shosmyth1454 11 месяцев назад +2

    People are mean spirited and evil! Do not give them any energy! It saddens me because my daughtet is gay. Best Wishes to you and Jim!! 🌺💕💕💕💕🍷🍷🍷

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  11 месяцев назад

      sad but true. 🙁 Your daughter is very lucky to have you as a parent. 😊👍

  • @TracesofHollywood
    @TracesofHollywood 4 месяца назад

    One of the reasons I moved to PS is because I love seeing people out walking around being their true authentic selves, and if other people get upset seeing folks living joyful, fulfilling lives, that speaks more to their own personal misery than anything about you, and I actually feel sorry for them.
    I got my first two nasty comments in the last week, but I also found out I can "hide user from channel" instead of blocking so they can write all the awful things they want but nobody will see them. I also still get their page views. lol

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  4 месяца назад +1

      lol you’ve arrived! Once you start getting nasty, you know you’ve made it! 😂 between my two channels I’ve had to hide 1000s of commenters over the years! 😳 they just keep multiplying lol 😆

  • @norahs.4718
    @norahs.4718 Год назад +2

    Some people have a lot of growing up to do .. like 20+ years ago
    I’m proud of you and Jim 🤗
    I’m proud how you guys handle this issues /comments

  • @sandraray7465
    @sandraray7465 Год назад +2

    I wish we all could show kindness to each other . Have a great day.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      Nicely said Sandra. It seems so simple, yet for so many people it’s pretty impossible for them to do. 🥲

  • @cindypackard9597
    @cindypackard9597 Год назад +2

    Don’t let other people bother you, my oldest son is becoming a very beautiful daughter who I love with all my heart and my husband her father will not except her being trans and my husband is denial about our youngest son being Bi anyway with that being said, I’m very proud of all of you ❤

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing this with us Cindy. You are an awesome mom and your children are so lucky to have you. The world definitely needs more people like you. Hopefully your husband will come around and realize that love is so much more important than anything else in the end. Have you seen the TV movie prayers for Bobby? It’s star is Sigourney Weaver as a mom who refuses to accept her child when he comes out. She eventually does accept him, but it is too late and she has to live with and regret her decision for the rest of her life. I highly recommend getting your husband to watch it with you. If watching this movie doesn’t change his mind, probably nothing ever will. 🥲

  • @doncheeto8549
    @doncheeto8549 Год назад +6

    We love you both!!!!! ❤️

  • @zPOBOYz
    @zPOBOYz Год назад +1

    I'm a multi Iraq and Afghanistan 75th Ranger Regiment disabled Veteran and I have no problem with the Pride community, my question if you wouldn't mind is why a Pride Month and us Veterans get Veterans Day? I know government should do us better, VA is a joke I pay out of pocket for most medical care because I can't deal with VA. I enjoy your videos Steve been here since graveyard channel have a great day.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      Hi Poboy, thanks for sharing this with us and thank you for your service. I agree, veterans should definitely have an entire month to celebrate. In fact, I think we should celebrate veterans every day of the year. Some thing that has stuck with me my entire life is remembering just how badly military men and women were treated after returning home from Vietnam. I was so shocked at how badly veterans were treated by most of the citizens in this country. And today we have politicians treating veterans even worse. It’s pretty unbelievable. Sorry you have to deal with this kind of stuff too! 😲

    • @zPOBOYz
      @zPOBOYz Год назад

      @@steveinpalmspringsca Thanks Steve I enjoy the videos you guys Crack me up. Love each other yet do totally different and separate things. Ignore the goofballs hell I do, I wasn't around to see the disrespect Vietnam vets dealt but we deal with some as well not on that level. Have a good day.

  • @ognyc71
    @ognyc71 Год назад +1

    The elderly are viewed as scholars due their knowledge base especially in foreign countries. Perhaps these haters can learn something from them

  • @gypsyrain7289
    @gypsyrain7289 Год назад

    Don't let the haters bother you, they are just miserable people who have nothing better to do than try to make everyone miserable. I'm an old white southern woman and I look forward to your videos every day. Doesn't matter if we're straight, gay, black, white or whatever, we are all created equally. Much love to you and Jim.✌️❤️🙏🏼

  • @conniephillips8217
    @conniephillips8217 Год назад +1

    I am so sorry!!!!!! Don't change a thing. You are both good , kind and respectful men. I appreciate how you have invited us to enjoy your videos and share your lives with us. Please continue to be who you are while sharing your life with us.

  • @NosyHausfrau
    @NosyHausfrau Год назад

    Ok this is interesting timing. RUclips put you in my path and I'm glad. The other day I watched a youtuber, now going a bit viral, who sadly has a daughter who doesn't talk to her. I don't know what happened but at one point the woman said she and her husband were very accepting of "alternative lifestyles", they just don't think it should be shoved down their throats. I thought, and there it is. Isn't that the mantra of homophobes? "I don't mind but..."
    Now I am a straight woman with a straight son but I think any parent who isn't 100% accepting of their children, doesn't deserve them. I'm sick of all types of prejudice.
    We have a joke in our house, when my son told me he was straight I said, "I'm sure we'll still be close." subbed! PS Sorry to shove all that talk of straightness down your throats. :D

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      Omg Kerry, you are so funny. And so well said! I love the name of your channel and I just subscribed! Your son is so lucky to have you as a mom. Maybe you’ll consider adopting a few less lucky gay kids too! Thanks for the laughs. 😄👍

  • @mhcollectors13
    @mhcollectors13 Год назад

    I'm a straight, female, millennial and love you guys!! ❤

  • @sherroncunningham7845
    @sherroncunningham7845 Год назад +2

    I was raised to respect all people I guess that's the way they were raised My grandmother used to say overlook them that's the way they were raised their parents didn't teach them any better

  • @aksez2u
    @aksez2u Год назад +1

    I think sometimes this happens because your video randomly get pushed out to a larger audience, and you get a bunch of creeps who aren't part of your usual watching community. It can be a bad side of channel growth. Don't let the trolls get you down! ❤

  • @creativeenergy4921
    @creativeenergy4921 Год назад

    I agree with you 100%. My older brother posted on FB that straights need a pride day and is tired of homosexuals shoving their lifestyle in their faces. I told him he and other straight people are lucky that they don't need a pride day because straight people are not discriminated by society, that laws are not being enacted to limit your rights to live your life, that straights are not committing suicide because they are straight, that straights can display public affection without danger, persecution, or violence against them. Told my brother I wish for the day when gay pride does not have to exist anymore.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад

      Wow, beautifully said CE! Sadly, I’m guessing he ignored you. Logic and reality rarely convince irrational people to think rationally and logically. 😩

  • @gary-rr7jp
    @gary-rr7jp 21 день назад

    At 63, things are starting to go south. Sagging skin, jowls, eyelid sagging, blind in one eye from a cataract, hair loss in the crown of my head, crepiness, large veins on my legs. Getting old is not for the faint of heart, but there's nothing I can do for most of it, and it would be a losing battle. These people, lacking in empathy, will soon see that they are experiencing the same things, and I can only wish them the best on that journey. Sorry that people come on your channel just to make insensitive comments. Take care Steve and Jim.😁✌🤟

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  20 дней назад

      Hi Gary, thanks for sharing. I can totally relate to you lol! 😳😲😂

  • @dianamaida4172
    @dianamaida4172 Год назад

    I am so terribly sorry about that people are so rude and disrespectful 😢 I am going to support your channel and tell Jim that I said hello 👋 from Sacramento and take care.💜🙏🍁🍂

  • @THREESISTERS15
    @THREESISTERS15 10 месяцев назад

    People are mean and nasty.
    I'm a straight white 66 year old female, I watch due to the material you present.
    Keep up good work.

  • @donnsunderland2684
    @donnsunderland2684 Год назад +1

    Steve: Oh so right about being raised then to always respect your elders. Behavior and manners were front and center when we grew up. Seniors were seen as older and wiser, someone who has learned much and experienced much. Anyone older than us was addressed only as Mr. or Mrs. How times and attitudes have changed - not always for the better. Cheer up! You have far more friends than detractors.

  • @stargazergirl9932
    @stargazergirl9932 Год назад +1

    You are loved! Nasty comments right back at 'em! 👨‍❤‍👨 SGG

  • @jerrimenard3092
    @jerrimenard3092 Год назад

    A comment I get as a non-binary person is " What about the children?! What kind if exsample are you setting?" Queer is not catchy anymore then brown eyes, being short or having freckles. Its so ignorant of them.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад

      Sadly that is a very big part of the problem Jerri. People seem to get less and less education every year and states like Florida are betting books and banning classroom curriculums that would help people be more educated and decent. Very sad! 😩

  • @warriorempathshealingfromn5625
    @warriorempathshealingfromn5625 Год назад +1

    Oh Steve, I'm so sorry! As a straight woman whose career was nursing, I worked shoulder to shoulder with gay and lesbian people and they are friends too. My friends here are all gay, I trust gay and lesbians more than I trust straight folks. I love my friends as they are more authentic than my straight friends. What I saw at Pride was a community coming together to support each other, there were so many types of people celebrating and it was heart warming. When the state of Minnesota voted to make same sex marriage legal, I was at the capitol to celebrate, it was important to me to see history made and to celebrate freedom for all. When one group of people are segregated, how are any of us free? We all should have the freedom to be our authentic selves and celebrate who we are and celebrate our communities with love and freedom and yes, freedom from insults and nasty comments on RUclips. Really folks, it's much worse now than it ever was and it's time for all to grow up. I always think there is something very wrong with those who are stating these slurs, they must be terribly unhappy with themselves.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      Beautifully said Amy. The world definitely needs more people like you in it. Thanks for sharing this with us! 😄👍

  • @RaeAnn_1202
    @RaeAnn_1202 Год назад

    As a vegan I can relate to the “shoving down our throats” comment that is constantly posted in different ways on vegan sites.
    We have come a long way with gay rights but have a long way to go. I do think the younger generation seems to be more inclusive.
    If anyone has a caveat to being an ally … they are not an ally. I am not gay but raised my kids going to various events for rights for various groups. We have been to many rallies, parades and peaceful protests. Once we went to hear Dennis Kucinich speak in San Francisco. We walked into the event and realized it was a gay pride event. From what I could tell my husband, our three kids and I were the only non-gay participants. We felt like royalty. Everyone was so happy we were there. It was so much fun! Even Dennis Kucinich mentioned us during his speech. The entire 1 1/2 hr drive my kids could not stop talking about how much fun it had been and how kind everyone was.
    I am sorry you have received even one negative comment. I have found that those who are the biggest critics often have secrets in their own lives that they can not come to grips with. Sadly, they feel more comfortable criticizing others than to deal with their own business.
    You both are so kind and gentle at heart. I enjoy your videos.

    • @jacquelinefarquhar474
      @jacquelinefarquhar474 Год назад

      Totally agree about comments posted about being vegan. I’m vegetarian and get comments about forcing my views onto people which just for the record I would never do .

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      That sounds awesome NanaRae, and your kids are so fortunate to have you as parents. Thank you for sharing this with us! 😄👍 and see my comment below regarding the vegan part of your comment.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +2

      Thanks for sharing this with us Jacqueline. It never occurred to me that vegans are also discriminated against. Omg, I guess that anything that is a little bit different is fair game when it comes to people who are very insecure and uneducated and full of hate. Sorry you’ve had to deal with that too. 😩

  • @CollinW93
    @CollinW93 Год назад

    Ugh I am so sorry people are so rude Steve. To be honest, the older gay community is my one of my favorite communities. I love to learn all the stories and experiences and see how I can grow from those in my own life. You and Jim are awesome. Much love 😊

  • @maureenbair7810
    @maureenbair7810 Год назад

    When I was younger I was always close with older people. My Mom always said I had an old soul. ❤️

  • @debbiefoley558
    @debbiefoley558 Год назад +1

    Steve, been watching you for years. Found you the day you did a video with Jordan the Lion. You keep being you. Gay or straight we can’t please everyone. Much love to you and Jim.

  • @U.S.A..
    @U.S.A.. Год назад +2

    I don't know why people try to judge other people.. there's only one judge God himself and we will all be judged at the end.......

    • @sethsethmore
      @sethsethmore Год назад +1

      You are correct there's only one person who can judge another person. We are supposed to get along with each other.

    • @U.S.A..
      @U.S.A.. Год назад

      @@sethsethmore I don't care what color somebody is I don't care who somebody sleeps with . I was taught to respect everybody. It's not my job to judge anybody. My God teaches me to love and respect everybody . It's not my job to judge them

  • @Joolz520
    @Joolz520 Год назад

    Steve and Jim--Your attitude is kind and refreshing. How disappointing some people can't stop judging others and just let people live their lives. 🌈

  • @Johnny_01-f7b
    @Johnny_01-f7b Год назад

    Thank you Steve and Jim for the update and your insights. Huggs!❤

  • @texadonkey34
    @texadonkey34 Год назад

    I loved it & I will send my trans nephew to live in Palm Springs after he graduates from Sarah Lawrence👍. I loved the police car. Nice to live in a place, where you won’t be assaulted for living life. Keep up the cool videos. 😍👍

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад

      Sadly, LGBTQ plus people get assaulted here in Palm Springs too. There’s just no escaping hatred and cruelty in the world. But The attacks here in Palm Springs are very rare. Probably because the community is so accepting and protective of LGBTQ plus people. Our last mayor was a transgender woman. One of the first of the country. So even though no place is completely safe, it’s definitely a lot safer here to live your life the way you were born. Your nephew will be very welcome here. 😄👍

  • @MsBlynn
    @MsBlynn Год назад

    Love you guys . And enjoy all your videos from graves to cooking to retired life in Palm Springs! ❤ 😊

  • @rickallanolsen
    @rickallanolsen Год назад +1

    I'm not gay. I think all people are innately bisexual whatever they think they are. Put two people of either sex together in a prison cell for years and we all know what happens.

  • @palmaleestephens1906
    @palmaleestephens1906 Год назад

    Hi, Steve and Jim! Such ignorant people who posted those abusive comments. I have positive thoughts that some of those people will one day actually come out of their ignorance and understand. I know it’s a pipe dream to think they all will-that stretches credulity. You two just continue to enjoy your wonderful life. Love to you both.❤ I enjoy you very much.😊

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад

      Sometimes pipe dreams come true. Let’s hope so Palma. Wouldn’t that make this a much nicer world! 😄👍

  • @juliapatricia6223
    @juliapatricia6223 Год назад

    That is so disappointing! How rude of those commenters. This is so outrageous and very sad.

  • @katz734
    @katz734 Год назад

    If someone say in one breath “I don’t have a problem with gay people.“ then in the next breath “I just don’t want it shoved down my throat.” That’s telling me they don’t support the gay community at all. You can only be gay behind closed doors. That’s nuts to me. And I find the gay community is more respectful than the straight community. And I’m straight.
    ❤🏳️‍🌈❤

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      Thanks Katz, nicely said. I agree with you. Thank you for sharing this with us! 😊👍

  • @IsabellaBlue
    @IsabellaBlue Год назад

    😢 I don't understand why people have to be so negative. I was raised in a time when "if you don't have anything good to say then don't say anything at all"...

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      Me too Isabella. Sadly I don’t think parents teach that to their kids anymore. 😩

  • @lawrente
    @lawrente Год назад

    Love your content! There're naysayers everywhere. Keep up the good job! 😊 This is from a gay person to amazing gay people!

  • @joconnor9256
    @joconnor9256 Год назад +1

    So sorry this happened to you guys , these people don’t represent everyone , lots of love from your mates in Australia ❤️

  • @tigger06
    @tigger06 Год назад +1

    I love older people too Steve. Always have.

  • @samueljaramillo4221
    @samueljaramillo4221 6 месяцев назад

    In what way are we effecting anyone else’s way of life. No way! They indulge in hate.

  • @margiecasey9428
    @margiecasey9428 Год назад

    I love you guys! I dont understand why people would post such negative statements. If they don't like your content, they can go watch something else. Yet they stick around and say nasty stuff. Please ignore those people, Steve and Jim! You have a lot of friends out here who support you! I am among them. 😊

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад

      Thank you Margie! It’s viewers like you that make this channel worth doing. 😄👍

  • @maryannlockwood7806
    @maryannlockwood7806 Год назад

    Ever since I can remember, I always liked being around older people. So now I’m an older person myself, so I wouldn’t mind hanging out with me! Sorry you got some negative comments but I’m glad most the comments are kind.💁🏻‍♀️

  • @JohnKehne
    @JohnKehne Год назад

    I just want to see you two argue more. 😂 Love you guys.

  • @shelleydeguzman1959
    @shelleydeguzman1959 4 месяца назад

    I'm a 65 year old straight woman, my younger brother is gay, as is my brother in law, I don't judge, love them both, I believe you live your life your way.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  4 месяца назад

      The world definitely needs more people like you, Shelley! 😄👍

  • @melissaallen1943
    @melissaallen1943 Год назад

    My daughter and I love you and Jim. We support you unconditionally 😊

  • @debkrutsch6197
    @debkrutsch6197 Год назад

    Just shaking my head at the lack of respect now days. If these people were treated, the way they treat others, they would be complaining about it. Just treat people with respect

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад

      Exactly Deb! I don’t parents teach their kids the golden rule anymore? 😲

    • @debkrutsch6197
      @debkrutsch6197 Год назад

      @@steveinpalmspringsca I know right! Unfortunately, my mom passed away about 1 month ago. When her funeral procession was going down the road, there were only a few cars that stopped. When I grew up, if you saw a funeral procession, you pulled over out of respect. The lack of respect is just sad

  • @youtubehandle-
    @youtubehandle- Год назад

    I enjoy both your channels very much, if there is a video I'm not interested in on any channel I just don't watch it. Most creators get trolls from what I've seen. ❤

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +1

      Exactly, I’m like you. And yes every RUclipsr gets trolls. If mother Theresa or alive and had her RUclips channel I’m sure she would get hateful trolls leaving messages too. I know it just goes with the territory, but sometimes I still need to share them and vent lol! 😲🙃

  • @Linda-in9ns
    @Linda-in9ns Год назад +2

    Steve everyone is human it’s sad for hate in this world. I would love to be your neighbor. You and Jim are so cute and kind. I’d bring you over some good chicken noodle soup. My son said mom you will go to heaven. Ignore the rudeness. Lol take care, I’m glad I found your channel so fun! ❤️🤗

  • @maryturko6490
    @maryturko6490 Год назад

    People can be so shallow and mean. They need to mind their own business. You guys are great people. Thanks for being my RUclips friends@❤️

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад

      Thank you Mary. If people could ever learn how to just mind their own business it really would be a heaven on earth. 😄👍

  • @stevenhinds4907
    @stevenhinds4907 5 месяцев назад

    Like our mothers always said if you don't have anything positive to say.....
    Thank you for your channel and thank God for Jim

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  5 месяцев назад

      I guess mom’s don’t teach that to their kids anymore! 🙁

  • @1aikane
    @1aikane Год назад

    Sorry you had to receive such comments. Your channel is Great! I enjoy all your videos. Who can explain the behavior of the gay community or the conservative religious community? 🤔

  • @wlwal1
    @wlwal1 Год назад

    Many, many years ago, during my disco bar fun, did wonder where older gay men went to go out?
    The were some "piano bars" where older people (gay) would go to,
    Years later ( I'm 70 ) , the thought of going out would be to a resturant , not a bar.
    Every age group has their own places to go to.

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад

      Thanks for sharing that with us W. I will be 70 in a matter of days too. Are used to wonder the same thing. And I think back in the day people to do different things depending on their age. These days, I see gay people in their 70s and much much older at all of the pride parades. And even though we don’t go to the bars, from what I hear gay people are in their 70s and much older are still going to the gay bars here in Palm Springs. I think it’s nice that we have the freedom to do whatever we want to do now no matter how old we are. Even if we just want to stay at home and not do anything lol. 😄👍

  • @roselyncampisi822
    @roselyncampisi822 Год назад

    So many people can be judgemental Jim. I love you guys just the way you are. You bring alot of joy to me.

  • @tedkreibich8584
    @tedkreibich8584 Год назад +1

    To each his own. Why should others Judge a life style or preferences. Let GOD judge and others be pleased with what they have.

  • @tigger06
    @tigger06 Год назад

    Change is SO slow. And we sadly live in a hateful environment as well, most of the time. Haters gonna hate especially since they can do it hiding behind their keyboards in a most cowardly fashion. I love you guys. You are the best. Glad I found you a couple years ago. You represent and I appreciate it. I find it a bit ironic that you are 2 of the most NORMAL g ay people I've ever seen, i.e., PEOPLE. Lol. We all are. But seriously, it just shows that there is so much more work to be done. Hard to believe the fight goes on still. Just to BE.

    • @nancysmall9793
      @nancysmall9793 Год назад

      Gay people are normal.

    • @tigger06
      @tigger06 Год назад +1

      @nancysmall9793 no kidding...I know..I AM one. I've experienced much of what they have. THEY know what I mean. Being funny, that's all

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  Год назад +2

      I agree Tigger! It often feels like one step forward and two steps back. And here we are in 2023 and even though there has been a tremendous amount of progress and someways it is even worse than it was in 1953! Thanks 😄👍

    • @tigger06
      @tigger06 Год назад

      ​@@steveinpalmspringscaI know !

  • @carolynpurser7469
    @carolynpurser7469 Год назад

    Unfortunately some people don't realize how ignorant they truly are. If you are truly accepting of anyone you don't need to tell them, you show it in your behavior towards them and you certainly don't add qualifiers. Just love and accept people for who they are.

  • @davidburris6873
    @davidburris6873 Год назад

    The people are sick...they judge people ...remember judge not lest yea be judged....sick people.

  • @neveradullmoment6
    @neveradullmoment6 Год назад

    Ignore them. The people that leave nasty comments are usually very unhappy and have nothing better to do than spread misery. Keep going Steve! Love your videos!

  • @jillybeans70
    @jillybeans70 Год назад

    Totally agree. If you don’t like it, scroll on. No need to be negative.

  • @dangwerebored9682
    @dangwerebored9682 6 месяцев назад

    I'm like you that way. In fact in school I made friends more with the teachers. I think discrimination is wrong in any capacity. You do you is my motto. As long as Noone is getting hurt let people be. I'm pansexual and I know I can't get away from the "straight" or "normal" lol

    • @steveinpalmspringsca
      @steveinpalmspringsca  6 месяцев назад +1

      Nicely said d! When the world will be a much nicer place if everyone would just mind their own business lol? 😄👍

  • @haidon03
    @haidon03 Год назад

    I love watching you guys, Stay Strong and positive. Hope you and Jim have a Happy Thanksgiving. Much Love to you both. ❤

  • @jodywoodruff6473
    @jodywoodruff6473 Год назад

    Whatever happened to the saying " If you have nothing nice to say don't say it at all" I'm so sick and tired of all the negativity against the LGBT community. I think some people need to do some soul searching and take a break from social media and maybe get some therapy. The people in the LGBT community deserve to live happy and fulfilling lives . It kinda reminds me of the Depeche Mode song People Are People. That part of the song where it saids "It obvious you hate me though I've done nothing wrong" really stands out to me. Love is love. I🎉🎉'm bi sexual and I understand the negativity the LGBT community gets. I love you guys. Just keep being you and screw the naysayers. ☺️🌈🌈❤️❤️❤️

  • @thewilscott
    @thewilscott Год назад

    You will never be able to please everyone, just ignore or block the negative posts or bots.❤❤❤❤

  • @lauravessey7302
    @lauravessey7302 Год назад

    I totally agree with Jim. You do a good job letting us know what is in the video by description or the thumbnail. So if it looks like you aren't going to enjoy it just don't watch it. That is my rule for all the channels I subscribe to. Keep up the good work Steve. Also hope you both found everything you needed at Walmart this week.