This is so beautiful, thank you so much for sharing and what you do. As a woman I learnt how important it is for me to receive and create space to receive praise.
Yes, man nature is given, if they are not giving they feel worthless, bu they have to be aware not being manipulated by woman, it a both side work, to get balance.
He criticized my singing when we were first together, something I grew up doing and needing to feel good, so now I don’t do it around him. One of many ways I learned to suppress and hide.
The difference between John and Justin is night and day. John is open, strong, clear, loving. Justin sounds and looks all knotted up and he is forcing everything, or trying too hard, perhaps because it's so mental. Almost like he has memorized things that David Deida has said and is lost as to how to come up with something original and relevant to the person asking. John is original, fluid, humorous but also straight. Like watching a struggling apprentice (Justin) with his teacher. I think all that gym training that's knotting up his body is also partly responsible. He sounds like he's choking for air.
Great video John, How do we share this setup and these forums wider? I know you have a huge amount of experience in this area. And was wondering if you could help me with tips on how to bring this understanding further. I'm finding two specific challenges: 1) Creating a framework (time and place, finding the men) which brings men together in a space to do this work. 2) Presenting this teaching and sharing it unapologetically as you and Justin do here.
5:59 If the interaction or a remark with your woman goes south really quickly once you do not start it with praise, I would be worried. Maybe you are with the wrong woman.
is it a sex thing? all the men are single and need to get laid? why dont they just go to prostitutes? I never understand this about men - they get variety and no hassle then
As a woman, tearing up listening to how John expresses praise. My brain tingled and my heart wanted to express.
Me too. I always weep during their videos; they touch me so deeply.
This is so beautiful, thank you so much for sharing and what you do. As a woman I learnt how important it is for me to receive and create space to receive praise.
Good charisma & sensitivity classes. Definitely a turn on for me as a woman to be spoken to that way.
Yes, man nature is given, if they are not giving they feel worthless, bu they have to be aware not being manipulated by woman, it a both side work, to get balance.
so grateful for these videos, thank you!
He criticized my singing when we were first together, something I grew up doing and needing to feel good, so now I don’t do it around him.
One of many ways I learned to suppress and hide.
The difference between John and Justin is night and day. John is open, strong, clear, loving. Justin sounds and looks all knotted up and he is forcing everything, or trying too hard, perhaps because it's so mental. Almost like he has memorized things that David Deida has said and is lost as to how to come up with something original and relevant to the person asking. John is original, fluid, humorous but also straight. Like watching a struggling apprentice (Justin) with his teacher. I think all that gym training that's knotting up his body is also partly responsible. He sounds like he's choking for air.
Great video John,
How do we share this setup and these forums wider? I know you have a huge amount of experience in this area. And was wondering if you could help me with tips on how to bring this understanding further. I'm finding two specific challenges:
1) Creating a framework (time and place, finding the men) which brings men together in a space to do this work.
2) Presenting this teaching and sharing it unapologetically as you and Justin do here.
Can you define praise vs validation?
He is right, woman melt with being prised by man, it is kind woman nature, it same kind collective unconscious from ancient workship goddess.
Does speaking exactly like David Deida comes naturally to this other guy?
Omg, the video started and I haven't looked at the screen yet, and thought wait David is here? 😭🤣
No, he trained hinself to sound like someone else, completly fake.
Hahaha
My thought exactly!
Soooooo true 😂
7:16 What "container" are they talking about? Is there some container theory?
5:59 If the interaction or a remark with your woman goes south really quickly once you do not start it with praise, I would be worried. Maybe you are with the wrong woman.
Oh my.
What if you praised a quality in your woman and then it happened less frequently
what kind of men are these? Ive never seen anything like this before. Is it like anew age thing?
is it a sex thing? all the men are single and need to get laid? why dont they just go to prostitutes? I never understand this about men - they get variety and no hassle then
Knobs😂