Fi is such a sweetheart. Whilst Fe is so fake. Fi is honest, authentic, sympathetic and loves deeply. If Fi loves animals, nothing will change Fi's opinion. Great series. Your creativity is brilliant. Thanks for sharing the mind of the INTJ, with the world. This British INTJ, is well impressed. Awesome work.
"Fe is so fake" yes, I agree. For example, opening presents is awkward. I need time to think about my gift and Ni needs time to understand the meaning while Se is expected to appear immediately and Fi may need a tissue, first. Or if the gift has no discernible meaning to Ni, she may ask (us) to stab something...or someone, lol You know those 7/11 flowers bought at the last minute really should come with a stabbing/poking device...mwahaha
@@arturkvieira I was not suggesting anyone is fake and I do not think any of us were calling anyone 'fake'. We were suggesting or I was that our 'Fe' often must fake a feeling for the sake of the other people in the room. I, or we take a while to process emotions and we, or I prefer to do this alone unless the emotion is absolutely authentic and then we have no choice, sometimes.
She's the one who reminds me, whenever she finds it necessary, that "I don't know why we are here, but I'm pretty sure that it is not in order to enjoy ourselves."
Lol, I love how well you portrayed Fi! She was super sweet. 😂 I actually have an Fi dom friend (we're not super close but, we have a few classes together) and it was hilarious seeing the resemblance. He loves puppies and is just super innocent and happy go lucky. Sometimes it's annoying but mostly funny!!
From my Fi to yours...Li Jo allow me to Te my compliments on your video. “Deep down, below the surface of the average man's conscience, he hears a voice whispering, "There is something not right," no matter how much his rightness is supported by public opinion or moral code.” ― Carl Gustav Jung
A few weeks ago I was in a room with a bunch of puppies. Like you said, my Fi and Se were like LETS GO LOVE THEM but the rest of me was like THIS IS NOT GOOD, THERE ARE OTHER PEOPLE AROUND, STAY AWAY, YOU'LL GET ATTACHED, THE PAIN OF LEAVING THEM WILL BE HORRIBLE. So we had no interaction for like 30 minutes until I finally let one bite my finger.
These vids were so aesthetically pleasing. The idea of each function being their own person is so beautiful. Kinda reminds me of Steven Universe. Since the whole show is based on gems, an each1 has their own personality. Thank you. -INTJ-A {1w9}
My Fi embarrassed the hell out of me during a lecture in my Developmental Psychology class a few weeks ago. We watched a video about experimentation conducted by Harlow on monkeys and I DID NOT HANDLE IT WELL.
This is so beautiful I have just learned what these cognitive functions mean for me as an INTJ. Thanks LiJo.. this was very creative. Especially the makeup difference was so clever.
This was a really excellent series. That situation where Fi suddenly pulled the emergency breaks on something Ni&Te were mindlessly pursuing was actually something that happened to me only a few months ago, but I didn't recognize it at the time. So thank you so much for putting that into words, that was an amazing revelation!
Also I'd like to point out I giggled when you were talking about using animals for food, then said when making those decisions we should let them "marinate" first. If that was on purpose you are now my favorite RUclips channel ever!
Girl you nailed it! What a fun video with good insight! Very creative. As an ENFP, connected WITH YOU on this video more than any other video. Probably because you looked the most happy in this video. Interesting. Love your channel. Learning so much from your insights & understanding of people.
just discovered this channel -- as an INFJ, i really appreciate your work and your insight! Also, given some similarities (hello Ni, Se) I am learning a lot about myself as well. Thank you!!
To get out of Ni:Fi loop you need to go back to Te (extraverted thinking). Extravert your thoughts to the external world (e.g. speak to someone). A friend, a mentor, a coach, the mental health people etc. Healthy Se activities can also help. Walking outside, hopefully in the sun.
Ma Mu Yes I’m infp, its pretty scary and dark if I have this FiSi loop in negative experiences. It feels like a trauma, collections of bad experiences that you reliving and it feels the same pain just like the first time you felt it or past mistakes that i experienced and revisiting it again, that will result of guilt and frustrations. But it can also happen in good memories where i will relive the good things and get stucks on my own dreams and forget other things like Time. Basically just a rabbithole of things that sometimes i get lost in my own head. Also, did I mention a relentlessly overthinking of things, creating wasteful scenarios and ideas because of my Ne. Lol Hahaha
As a dominant Fi user (Fi Ne) (INFP), I thought you did an excellent job representing Fi. "Sense without meaning doesn't matter". It is a complicated navigator, but it always leads me to places worth visiting.
Hiiii there Lindsay! INFJ here 😊 I really LOVED this serie of videos you made about the INTJ functions. As an INFJ I can relate well with Fi and Ni of "yours". I definetly think, if my type wasn't INFJ, I would be an INTJ. ❤
Hi Lindsay, ENFP here! I'm dating an INTJ and your videos have really helped me to understand her better so I can help her in whatever she needs. I was wondering if you would do a video on ENFPs and how we use our cognitive functions some time? I really enjoy the way you explain things ☺️. Keep up the great work!
Thank you for addressing the individual functions and not just the "types." Your cognitive function videos are helping this INFJ to better understand her INFP husband and daughter. Not easy for Fe to understand Fi (or Ni to understand Ne, for that matter.) I wonder whether Fi has the same issue as Fe, losing track of her/his own emotions in the deluge of the emotions of others.
I'm an INTJ and my mom is an ISFP. She's really easygoing and very spontaneous. One day I'm driving them home and she insisted me to detour to see what's in that place, and me saying "Next time mom we will :)" while me inside my head saying (I want to take you home as fast as possible). She finds happiness in adventure especially long drives. ISFP is really fun to be with especially if we're going out on a trip. You can see how happy she was during those days while me still looks like disconnected in reality. Of course that's fun I can't deny it, but sometimes during happy times like that, Ni and Te kicks in lol. Having an ISFP mom satisfies my Fi and Se functions.
I have a thing about trees. People randomly attack trees with chainsaws, destroy their form leaving them to pump out their vital fluids, call them dirty or messy & cut them to the ground for just being what they are. I can't read "The Giving Tree" wo crying my eyes out. Trees connect the earth to the heavens. Fi can be sooo intense!
Important to us & the bigger picture = win win. All INTJ business endeavors I have ultimately found have a moral compass involved & are values driven in a sense. Which ultimately lead to us having the willpower to complete the mission. lol, also love the vegan plug. #herbivoreforlife #createcompaniesforchange
I was looking forward to Fi and I was not dissapointed! Fi is adorable!! Btw it was a very nice detail how your voice broke a little bit every once in a while, my Fi does the same! XD Also we may think Fi is very sensitive and that may drive us crazy, but you know something? (I'm talking to you, Te) Fi is the function that allows us to actually feel good and enjoy the process of achieving a goal by letting us know when what we're doing rings authentic to our core values. It's thanks to Fi that people sees us as very consistent and trustworthy people. Another nice detail was how many expressions you had, you nailed it! Keep these videos up!
OMG. I was literally watching puppy and fox videos on YT just yesterday... and considered watching suggested otter videos but got sidetracked by videos of dogs enthusiastically diving into big piles of leaves... LOL. Hey, it was Saturday!... and I was relaxing. :-) Don't Judge. LOL.
The amount of feels i got from this video made me realize how much of fi has an impact with my happiness xD and Fi is right omg xD why enjoy doing it properly only when you can do it properly because you are enjoying it xD much wow.
I've been trying to listen to my Fi more lately but it's hard finding something I am passionate about that will pay the bills. So I'm depressed because I'm stuck doing something that brings me no joy but what brings me joy makes me poor which also makes me depressed. It's hard trying to find meaning and balance in life.
Yeah I know what you mean. Think of them as stepping stones on the way to doing what you’re truly Fi passionate about. They are temporal. Keep your vision in your foresight.
Yeah it's true that she kinda tends to show up late, sometimes I am planning/doing something, and only find out it's meh for me halfway through. I wanna connect to my Fi more, as that'll spare me lots of difficulties, but also because I'm sure life is way more enjoyable if she's truly present. I wonder if just doing stuff you enjoy for the sake of enjoyment helps?
This is on point, who says intj are not good with expressing things? yet your nailing every cognitive you have! I know that this might not be relavant to this video but i really need your advice, i have a superior intj and he is very good copywriter and I’m designer. We sometimes connect to our Fi but nowadays it’s seems off because he sees it as an irrelevant thing (my fi). He shutdowns my Ne to the ground because of his strong Ni and his grunging my Fi to the core with his Te. Now my question is, how will I communicate with an intj without having a feeling that I’m eating their time? And that we understand you guys even most of the time, you think that we dont? -Infp
Sounds like you both need find something both of your Fi’s found interesting to connect on. Something to give you a break from the work. Anything you are both interested in?
Valentina D AsuraPsych is actually an INFJ and not INTJ! Don’t even try to recommend him to collaborate working with a true INTJ. For reference in the truth of this fact - see Binyamin Tsadik interview with him in this “reliable gentleman’s Typology -channel”! (This Man just spouts out words to the host without thoroughly analysing the effect of his answers to the questions asked one can only cringe in dismay at his very ignorant naivety and undisguised feelings of self importance!!!)
I love animals. They are pure. I have tamed many wild animals! My deer population needs to get with the program, though. When I talk to them, they should not run away. Fi lives.
that "I love animal topic" had me pausing the video and remembering my first doggo that made me sleep outside our house just for me to snuggle with her, I made her chubby to the point that these F-ers turned her to stew... kinda disturbing but I was eating her before I knew it... I ended up not eating for a day and crying and shtuff until I ate her 'cuz "I want her to be a part of me" I was 6.
Natasha Peterson, yes and if you also include Ferrets like my Wynstan Ferret who was a farm ferret, then I go grrr... I have had six rescue farm bred free roam raw fed Ferrets because my family said, "No" to seven. Marshall's is the name of the big Ferret farm here in America but I do hope every Ferret finds their Forever Home. Fi loves her animals and so does Ni, Te, and Se who reminds us that a raw fed Ferret will smell like Grape Koolaid.
That was really insightful, the whole series made me wonder, well maybe better word is assure, that having NiTeFi and Se at last in 4-stack make you go through a really long path to express yourself emotionally, to feel safe about talk this stuff out loud to someone you trust. Will you go through other 4 functions or maybe make this series for other types?
I’m not sure! It’s really hard for me to feel as though I’m doing justice for other types other than my own. But maybe with some more confidence I’ll get there. I know people would like it. It’s just that I understand myself the best and I don’t want to misrepresent anyone.
@@InternetLiJo Yeah, that seems resonable, and 8 functions? To be fair I'm not that much familiar with theory with 8 functions stack. I heard that there are even approaches which contains 32 or 64 subtypes of each 16. Is there some 'main way' to order other 4 functions?
Good question! So this video is on the functions as they would appear in the INTJ stack, not as they would appear in general. However I could make a more general one!
-My mind: I'll give attention to this video about FI -My mind 5 minutes later: *while ignoring the video* if I build the desk with the drawers on the left, then the stand for the pc must be at least 10 cm... -My mind after ending the video: No, I said I'll watch it, I need to comprehend my FI better to be a more developed person. Focus this time, David. -My mind 5 minutes later: *while ignoring the video... again* so, if the top is 190x60, I can accommodate a Corsair 4000D under it, plus I'll have space for working on architectural models on the left while working on the pc on the right... I promise I'll watch it a third time, It's just that I'm too excited with my new workspace and I can't stop thinking about dimensions and materials. I made this comment because it's funny to me how I'm trying to learn about FI but my TE won't shut up
I have a weak spot for cats. Puppies are cute but I don't get that urge to cuddle them and take them back home with me. Yesterday I got to pet a baby sheep and it was SO cute.
Okay, but I say "actually" a lot and I have Fi in my first position. And Fi in this video is saying "actually" a lot. Is that like a thing? Do people with high Fi or people high in either introverted decider function say "actually" a lot? And if so, why? Is it due to a self vs tribe / self above tribe mentality that makes a person with a high Di more likely to say "actually" a lot?
I always felt kinda curious about INFP's, as this is their main function. I'm an INFJ (Fi on 6th place) and I wish I had much strong sense of what I love and hate and won't depend so much on that Fe...
Right?! It’s so crazy to me to imagine NOT having Fi. Like what is that even like?! I mean I can simulate the understanding of it, but it seems so unnatural to me.
@@InternetLiJo It does feel unnatural for me even to feel everything around me but not my own feelings. What is it like to want something for real? I mean, I think I know (Ti), but I *think* it rather than *feel* it.
I'm affrait such feels are far too complex and nuanced to express in a youtube comment, is all I'm going to say :P Keep in mind that since this is our 1st function its not as tiresome as you might think, in fact I'd say conciliating that with the Te world we live in is whats tiresome about it.. and Te is our 4rth function >.< -An INFP
I thought I was Fi savior but now I realized I do a lot of things just because I need to do them, because it's good for me and it will help me in my life. Not because I enjoy it. I'm not even sure what I like anymore so I just do the things that I'm supposed to be doing.
I struggle with how to respond to an INTJ venting to me. This has happened on several occasions. As an ENFP I want to encourage, but I’ve heard that it’s best not to propose a solution, if I wasn’t asked by the INTJ. It makes sense, since the INTJ probably wants to solve it themselves. If the INTJ isn’t venting in person but virtually (text, voicemail, phoning), I kind of feel a bit helpless, because I cannot communicate that I care through non-verbal gestures. Are there questions I should ask to expand their perspective through my NE function and help them get in touch with Fi, or should I just validate their feelings and say,“Hey, I can understand why you feel this way“? What do you recommend I should do when an INTJ tells me he/she feels overwhelmed? I’ve got 5 close INTJ friends. By the way, I don’t know how that happened, haha.
Lol!! The best thing you can do for us is holding a space, without judgment, to let us vent and be. We naturally feel uncomfortable around emotions so you making them “ok” and “normal” and helping us to normalize the emotional spectrum is the best help. We don’t need solutions, we probably already have them. We just need to process internally, and we need other people to be ok with that. :)
Fi insists on talking to animals. all of them. I love it when my squirrels give me a full face attention! They are so cute if they are not in your house. I raised and fed 6 foxkits one spring and fed them nutritionally balanced meals. really. They would come when I called. I realize this all has to do with food. the crazy food lady.....
I decided I'd count the number of times LiJo said the word "thing" or "things" and, when that reached 7, I would switch off. This time it took 2 minutes. Bye!
I'm an INFP but omg this video is so descriptive of my dominant function! ESPECIALLY when you talked about animals, that was amazing and so unexpected and exactly how I feel! Are you vegan? :)
I don't think vegans need fake food... Fake food is just another attempt from capitalist industries to profit by exploiting the vegan movement. Of course vegans can grow their own foods if they want to...
Ad the animals point, I love animals, I agree that they are one of the purest things on earth. But you need to acknowledge that even though humans can survive off of a plant-based diet our biology shows we are more suited for digesting meat... meat is the most efficient food and yes, we can agree that we should maybe have a bit more balanced diet but not eating meat at all is just crazy... And regarding any ethics point of view, we either hunt those animals thus making it natural or we "farm" them and there it gets interesting morally because those animals would never been alive in the wild. We gave them these perfect conditions for breeding, thus giving them their meaning of life of being our food and if we don't eat them, then we take that meaning away and how dare you do that then? Animals are clever yeah... but they are not people... that's why we eat them and not talk with them about future...
except feelings are also hatred, rage, pain, irrational selfish, animalistic, toxic crap, that doesn't give a F about anything or anyone. it's not just puppies and rainbows. this almost had a cliche extroverted, selfless vibe to it. I think you could do better, more thorough. and of course, sorry if this hurts your feelings.
LiJo already unsubscribed. You might consider some current research, since it’s something you profess to love 😉 ruclips.net/video/9_1hRyudwRY/видео.html
Pumpkin Forever this post is a month old that you’re resurrecting. Then you imply that Lijo is allowed her opinion, but I'm not 🙄 🥱 at least you’re bringing more attention to the link I shared maybe people will see that and learn.
Fi: the heart wants what the heart wants!
TeNi: we'll see about that.
Se: yeah you heard them Fi, we will see-
TeNiFi: shututp Se
Lmaoo 😂 well put
one F for Se
Fi appears to be the function with the most joy. So awesome!
She is! Couldn’t do life without her.
@@InternetLiJo As an ENFP, I couldn't agree more 😁💝🎉
Fi is such a sweetheart.
Whilst Fe is so fake.
Fi is honest, authentic, sympathetic and loves deeply.
If Fi loves animals, nothing will change Fi's opinion.
Great series. Your creativity is brilliant.
Thanks for sharing the mind of the INTJ, with the world. This British INTJ, is well impressed. Awesome work.
Ah dang thank you so much! I can’t imagine not having Fi in my life.
"Fe is so fake" yes, I agree.
For example, opening presents is awkward. I need time to think about my gift and Ni needs time to understand the meaning while Se is expected to appear immediately and Fi may need a tissue, first.
Or if the gift has no discernible meaning to Ni, she may ask (us) to stab something...or someone, lol
You know those 7/11 flowers bought at the last minute really should come with a stabbing/poking device...mwahaha
Intjs are the fakest of all types, and have no right to call amyone else fake
@@arturkvieira I was not suggesting anyone is fake and I do not think any of us were calling
anyone 'fake'. We were suggesting or I was that our 'Fe' often must fake a feeling
for the sake of the other people in the room.
I, or we take a while to process emotions and we, or I prefer to do this alone
unless the emotion is absolutely authentic and then we have no choice, sometimes.
Fun Fact: Fi can sniff out a group of puppies from 1.32 km away.
This has been laboratory tested by a team of highly trained INTJs.
YOU ARE SO 110% correct
Do the Shadow functions now! Please. A fellow INTJ's request.
She's the one who reminds me, whenever she finds it necessary, that "I don't know why we are here, but I'm pretty sure that it is not in order to enjoy ourselves."
Yesss 100%
Lol, I love how well you portrayed Fi! She was super sweet. 😂 I actually have an Fi dom friend (we're not super close but, we have a few classes together) and it was hilarious seeing the resemblance. He loves puppies and is just super innocent and happy go lucky. Sometimes it's annoying but mostly funny!!
Right? Fi has this child like quality. I love it. Haha
@@InternetLiJo Totally!
Omg this was soo cute. Tiny Fis are adorable.
She is :)
From my Fi to yours...Li Jo allow me to Te my compliments on your video.
“Deep down, below the surface of the average man's conscience, he hears a voice whispering,
"There is something not right," no matter how much his rightness is supported by public opinion or moral code.”
― Carl Gustav Jung
Damn what a perfect pairing. Thank you 😍
@@InternetLiJo Thank you.
This is so inspiring!
There is always something better that can be reached.
A few weeks ago I was in a room with a bunch of puppies. Like you said, my Fi and Se were like LETS GO LOVE THEM but the rest of me was like THIS IS NOT GOOD, THERE ARE OTHER PEOPLE AROUND, STAY AWAY, YOU'LL GET ATTACHED, THE PAIN OF LEAVING THEM WILL BE HORRIBLE. So we had no interaction for like 30 minutes until I finally let one bite my finger.
These vids were so aesthetically pleasing. The idea of each function being their own person is so beautiful. Kinda reminds me of Steven Universe. Since the whole show is based on gems, an each1 has their own personality. Thank you.
-INTJ-A {1w9}
Thanks for the appreciation :) I’m a 1w9 myself.
@@InternetLiJo ouuii that's so cool!
My Fi embarrassed the hell out of me during a lecture in my Developmental Psychology class a few weeks ago. We watched a video about experimentation conducted by Harlow on monkeys and I DID NOT HANDLE IT WELL.
This is so beautiful I have just learned what these cognitive functions mean for me as an INTJ. Thanks LiJo.. this was very creative. Especially the makeup difference was so clever.
Haha thanks! Whatever it takes to convey the point you know?
This was a really excellent series.
That situation where Fi suddenly pulled the emergency breaks on something Ni&Te were mindlessly pursuing was actually something that happened to me only a few months ago, but I didn't recognize it at the time. So thank you so much for putting that into words, that was an amazing revelation!
Also I'd like to point out I giggled when you were talking about using animals for food, then said when making those decisions we should let them "marinate" first. If that was on purpose you are now my favorite RUclips channel ever!
😍👋🏻👋🏻
Im so glad u talk about being amazed about sunsets and not sunrise
Haha interesting, why do you say that? Hour of the day?
@@InternetLiJo there's something about the structure, glow, and colors that only sunsets can satisfy and not sunrise.
Girl you nailed it! What a fun video with good insight! Very creative. As an ENFP, connected WITH YOU on this video more than any other video. Probably because you looked the most happy in this video. Interesting. Love your channel. Learning so much from your insights & understanding of people.
Thanks so much :) I was happy making this video
just discovered this channel -- as an INFJ, i really appreciate your work and your insight! Also, given some similarities (hello Ni, Se) I am learning a lot about myself as well. Thank you!!
"The things that make me just want to stab something..." OMG I have said those EXACT words before! Is that an intj thing?
I was in a stabby mood earlier. lol When NiFi doesn't feel like getting along with the Universe.
Lolol.... STAB STAB
just eat nature’s vegetables and write a book
10 seconds in...I love your concept here. This is sweet! Ok now I'll go back and watch but sister intj, loving it!
Make a video on how to get the heck outta NiFi loop. I so hate when this happens and my brain is in total meltdown and I cant think straight.
To get out of Ni:Fi loop you need to go back to Te (extraverted thinking).
Extravert your thoughts to the external world (e.g. speak to someone). A friend, a mentor, a coach, the mental health people etc. Healthy Se activities can also help. Walking outside, hopefully in the sun.
Ma Mu How about FiSi loop? whats the solution?
@@igabcruz5038 Is that INFP? Don't know the answer to that I'm afraid.
Ma Mu Yes I’m infp, its pretty scary and dark if I have this FiSi loop in negative experiences. It feels like a trauma, collections of bad experiences that you reliving and it feels the same pain just like the first time you felt it or past mistakes that i experienced and revisiting it again, that will result of guilt and frustrations.
But it can also happen in good memories where i will relive the good things and get stucks on my own dreams and forget other things like Time.
Basically just a rabbithole of things that sometimes i get lost in my own head. Also, did I mention a relentlessly overthinking of things, creating wasteful scenarios and ideas because of my Ne. Lol Hahaha
As a dominant Fi user (Fi Ne) (INFP), I thought you did an excellent job representing Fi. "Sense without meaning doesn't matter". It is a complicated navigator, but it always leads me to places worth visiting.
Surprised how high INTJ Fi is in the stack when I saw that a month or two ago
She's just happy she isn't last :)
yes INTJ when high get to show the Fi. I feel weed relaxes the Te and gets Fi and Se more present 👍
Hiiii there Lindsay!
INFJ here 😊
I really LOVED this serie of videos you made about the INTJ functions.
As an INFJ I can relate well with Fi and Ni of "yours". I definetly think, if my type wasn't INFJ, I would be an INTJ.
❤
Woot! So glad you enjoyed it
Great video. I was waiting for your Fi video. Thanks for making such nice contents. Hope you achieve all you want!
Thank you!
Hi Lindsay, ENFP here! I'm dating an INTJ and your videos have really helped me to understand her better so I can help her in whatever she needs. I was wondering if you would do a video on ENFPs and how we use our cognitive functions some time? I really enjoy the way you explain things ☺️. Keep up the great work!
Sure! Have you seen my other videos with my ENFP?
@@InternetLiJo yes and it was awesome!
Haha I loved the Te vs Fi part. Definitely feel the two conflicting a lot.
Also sunsets are amazing!
I loved these monologues. Thank you!
Thanks Jarrod!
Absolutely in love with this concept. I'm an INTJ too so I can relate to all of this, and it's really helpful.
Thank you so much for putting this up!
Thank you for addressing the individual functions and not just the "types."
Your cognitive function videos are helping this INFJ to better understand her INFP husband and daughter. Not easy for Fe to understand Fi (or Ni to understand Ne, for that matter.) I wonder whether Fi has the same issue as Fe, losing track of her/his own emotions in the deluge of the emotions of others.
Now I know why I adore animals. Thank you!
😍
Fi ... often shows up way too late 🤷♂️ but if she does, its awesome haha
Hahaha so damn true
Honestly.
This series has been so relatable and hilarious. 🤣 I tell people I need to “marinate” all the time.
Hahah it’s my word! Everyone makes fun of me for it but it conveys the meaning I need it to
I'm an INTJ and my mom is an ISFP. She's really easygoing and very spontaneous. One day I'm driving them home and she insisted me to detour to see what's in that place, and me saying "Next time mom we will :)" while me inside my head saying (I want to take you home as fast as possible). She finds happiness in adventure especially long drives. ISFP is really fun to be with especially if we're going out on a trip. You can see how happy she was during those days while me still looks like disconnected in reality. Of course that's fun I can't deny it, but sometimes during happy times like that, Ni and Te kicks in lol. Having an ISFP mom satisfies my Fi and Se functions.
Oh my god
I love this monologues❤
These are so funny and informative, I am watching all 4. Thanks. … baby elephants.. lol .. awww
I have a thing about trees. People randomly attack trees with chainsaws, destroy their form leaving them to pump out their vital fluids, call them dirty or messy & cut them to the ground for just being what they are. I can't read "The Giving Tree" wo crying my eyes out. Trees connect the earth to the heavens. Fi can be sooo intense!
Oh gosh the giving tree..I had the same reaction.
I've been waiting for this one. Thanks for this series. It's been amazing! Will you be doing shadow functions as well?
Oh snap good thought! Perhaps that will be another 4 series 😊
😁 Looking forward to it!
Important to us & the bigger picture = win win.
All INTJ business endeavors I have ultimately found have a moral compass involved & are values driven in a sense.
Which ultimately lead to us having the willpower to complete the mission.
lol, also love the vegan plug.
#herbivoreforlife #createcompaniesforchange
Vegan Fi for the animals 😍
This is a really cool idea. I like it. 😊
Glad you like it!
I was looking forward to Fi and I was not dissapointed!
Fi is adorable!! Btw it was a very nice detail how your voice broke a little bit every once in a while, my Fi does the same! XD
Also we may think Fi is very sensitive and that may drive us crazy, but you know something? (I'm talking to you, Te) Fi is the function that allows us to actually feel good and enjoy the process of achieving a goal by letting us know when what we're doing rings authentic to our core values. It's thanks to Fi that people sees us as very consistent and trustworthy people.
Another nice detail was how many expressions you had, you nailed it! Keep these videos up!
Thank you friend! She is a sweet one. It's nice when she gets out once and awhile.
When you were talking about the 5 minute burger, I expected Te to come and take you out.
This video and that outfit....
Illuminating strange lights in my unconscious 🙃
As I get older my Fi gets louder and louder. Guess maybe just getting soft in my old age (40).
tmerema Yes, is this a thing.
OMG. I was literally watching puppy and fox videos on YT just yesterday... and considered watching suggested otter videos but got sidetracked by videos of dogs enthusiastically diving into big piles of leaves... LOL. Hey, it was Saturday!... and I was relaxing. :-) Don't Judge. LOL.
That sounds lovely!!
The amount of feels i got from this video made me realize how much of fi has an impact with my happiness xD and Fi is right omg xD why enjoy doing it properly only when you can do it properly because you are enjoying it xD much wow.
Haha omg..this one. 😶😅🤣 the accuracy. Watching them all. It's the thing. I'm in the thing.
I've been trying to listen to my Fi more lately but it's hard finding something I am passionate about that will pay the bills. So I'm depressed because I'm stuck doing something that brings me no joy but what brings me joy makes me poor which also makes me depressed. It's hard trying to find meaning and balance in life.
Yeah I know what you mean. Think of them as stepping stones on the way to doing what you’re truly Fi passionate about. They are temporal. Keep your vision in your foresight.
Yeah it's true that she kinda tends to show up late, sometimes I am planning/doing something, and only find out it's meh for me halfway through. I wanna connect to my Fi more, as that'll spare me lots of difficulties, but also because I'm sure life is way more enjoyable if she's truly present. I wonder if just doing stuff you enjoy for the sake of enjoyment helps?
Absolutely it does
Good job, was looking forward to more drama with Te.
Fi is too nice to Te!
She's my sweetest function :)
This is on point, who says intj are not good with expressing things? yet your nailing every cognitive you have!
I know that this might not be relavant to this video but i really need your advice, i have a superior intj and he is very good copywriter and I’m designer.
We sometimes connect to our Fi but nowadays it’s seems off because he sees it as an irrelevant thing (my fi). He shutdowns my Ne to the ground because of his strong Ni and his grunging my Fi to the core with his Te.
Now my question is, how will I
communicate with an intj without having a feeling that I’m eating their time? And that we understand you guys even most of the time, you think that we dont?
-Infp
Sounds like you both need find something both of your Fi’s found interesting to connect on. Something to give you a break from the work. Anything you are both interested in?
LiJo Were actually fine if were not talking about work but if its related to work, thats different story. Hahaha
Spot on as always!! You should do a collab/interview with AsuraPsych so we can see two INTJs in action :D
Haha we chatted recently actually!
Valentina D AsuraPsych is actually an INFJ and not INTJ! Don’t even try to recommend him to collaborate working with a true INTJ. For reference in the truth of this fact - see Binyamin Tsadik interview with him in this “reliable gentleman’s Typology -channel”! (This Man just spouts out words to the host without thoroughly analysing the effect of his answers to the questions asked one can only cringe in dismay at his very ignorant naivety and undisguised feelings of self importance!!!)
I love animals. They are pure. I have tamed many wild animals! My deer population needs to get with the program, though. When I talk to them, they should not run away. Fi lives.
Gorgeous!
that "I love animal topic" had me pausing the video and remembering my first doggo that made me sleep outside our house just for me to snuggle with her, I made her chubby to the point that these F-ers turned her to stew... kinda disturbing but I was eating her before I knew it... I ended up not eating for a day and crying and shtuff until I ate her 'cuz "I want her to be a part of me"
I was 6.
Can u plz do this with infjs middle two? Your delivery is so unique and tangible and I'm still figuring out which of the two I am
Fellow intj lady, I understand your rant on factory farms but then you go and talk puppy's that are just as farmed, it made me grr.
Baby animals aren’t exclusively farmed! They exist in many constructs.
Natasha Peterson, yes and if you also include Ferrets like my Wynstan Ferret who was a farm
ferret, then I go grrr...
I have had six rescue farm bred free roam raw fed Ferrets because my family said, "No" to seven.
Marshall's is the name of the big Ferret farm here in America but I do hope every
Ferret finds their Forever Home.
Fi loves her animals and so does Ni, Te, and Se who reminds us that a raw fed Ferret will smell like Grape Koolaid.
That was really insightful, the whole series made me wonder, well maybe better word is assure, that having NiTeFi and Se at last in 4-stack make you go through a really long path to express yourself emotionally, to feel safe about talk this stuff out loud to someone you trust. Will you go through other 4 functions or maybe make this series for other types?
I’m not sure! It’s really hard for me to feel as though I’m doing justice for other types other than my own. But maybe with some more confidence I’ll get there. I know people would like it. It’s just that I understand myself the best and I don’t want to misrepresent anyone.
@@InternetLiJo Yeah, that seems resonable, and 8 functions? To be fair I'm not that much familiar with theory with 8 functions stack. I heard that there are even approaches which contains 32 or 64 subtypes of each 16. Is there some 'main way' to order other 4 functions?
It's like weird, you know? I got sentimental with this
Do you have any plans to do a series like this on all the types, or at least the other functions?
Good question! So this video is on the functions as they would appear in the INTJ stack, not as they would appear in general. However I could make a more general one!
SEVERAL 5-minute burgers! Steaks and soups, too! They lived and died for an honorable cause 😋
As an INTJ I want to how to know what others feel
-My mind: I'll give attention to this video about FI
-My mind 5 minutes later: *while ignoring the video* if I build the desk with the drawers on the left, then the stand for the pc must be at least 10 cm...
-My mind after ending the video: No, I said I'll watch it, I need to comprehend my FI better to be a more developed person. Focus this time, David.
-My mind 5 minutes later: *while ignoring the video... again* so, if the top is 190x60, I can accommodate a Corsair 4000D under it, plus I'll have space for working on architectural models on the left while working on the pc on the right...
I promise I'll watch it a third time, It's just that I'm too excited with my new workspace and I can't stop thinking about dimensions and materials. I made this comment because it's funny to me how I'm trying to learn about FI but my TE won't shut up
Lol this is pure gold
Hehe thanks
I have a weak spot for cats. Puppies are cute but I don't get that urge to cuddle them and take them back home with me.
Yesterday I got to pet a baby sheep and it was SO cute.
Okay, but I say "actually" a lot and I have Fi in my first position. And Fi in this video is saying "actually" a lot. Is that like a thing? Do people with high Fi or people high in either introverted decider function say "actually" a lot? And if so, why? Is it due to a self vs tribe / self above tribe mentality that makes a person with a high Di more likely to say "actually" a lot?
I always felt kinda curious about INFP's, as this is their main function. I'm an INFJ (Fi on 6th place) and I wish I had much strong sense of what I love and hate and won't depend so much on that Fe...
Right?! It’s so crazy to me to imagine NOT having Fi. Like what is that even like?! I mean I can simulate the understanding of it, but it seems so unnatural to me.
@@InternetLiJo It does feel unnatural for me even to feel everything around me but not my own feelings. What is it like to want something for real? I mean, I think I know (Ti), but I *think* it rather than *feel* it.
i love this
Yay! Fi approved
God is this what being an INFP feels like?
*monotone screaming* ahhhhhhh
@@InternetLiJo I saw this video after watching the Lil Peep documentary, felt way too emotional yesterday 😅 overwhelming tbh
I'm affrait such feels are far too complex and nuanced to express in a youtube comment, is all I'm going to say :P
Keep in mind that since this is our 1st function its not as tiresome as you might think, in fact I'd say conciliating that with the Te world we live in is whats tiresome about it.. and Te is our 4rth function >.<
-An INFP
Dang Fi child has it rough. On a side note, I think Aubrey Plaza is an INTJ. Her and Conan get on well which makes sense since he is a suspected ENTP.
I thought I was Fi savior but now I realized I do a lot of things just because I need to do them, because it's good for me and it will help me in my life. Not because I enjoy it. I'm not even sure what I like anymore so I just do the things that I'm supposed to be doing.
Yep! Same here.
I struggle with how to respond to
an INTJ venting to me. This has happened on several occasions. As an ENFP I want to encourage, but I’ve heard that it’s best not to propose a solution, if I wasn’t asked by the INTJ. It makes sense, since the INTJ probably wants to solve it themselves. If the INTJ isn’t venting in person but virtually (text, voicemail, phoning), I kind of feel a bit helpless, because I cannot communicate that I care through non-verbal gestures. Are there questions I should ask to expand their perspective through my NE function and help them get in touch with Fi, or should I just validate their feelings and say,“Hey, I can understand why you feel this way“? What do you recommend I should do when an INTJ tells me he/she feels overwhelmed?
I’ve got 5 close INTJ friends.
By the way, I don’t know how that happened, haha.
Lol!! The best thing you can do for us is holding a space, without judgment, to let us vent and be. We naturally feel uncomfortable around emotions so you making them “ok” and “normal” and helping us to normalize the emotional spectrum is the best help. We don’t need solutions, we probably already have them. We just need to process internally, and we need other people to be ok with that. :)
LiJo Thanks a lot!:)
Fi insists on talking to animals. all of them. I love it when my squirrels give me a full face attention! They are so cute if they are not in your house. I raised and fed 6 foxkits one spring and fed them nutritionally balanced meals. really. They would come when I called. I realize this all has to do with food. the crazy food lady.....
Te needs you for motivation
I decided I'd count the number of times LiJo said the word "thing" or "things" and, when that reached 7, I would switch off. This time it took 2 minutes. Bye!
I'm an INFP but omg this video is so descriptive of my dominant function! ESPECIALLY when you talked about animals, that was amazing and so unexpected and exactly how I feel! Are you vegan? :)
FI is really hot. Third in the stack, first in sexy.
Lmfao 😂🦄
The most accurate part about Fi is the valley girl accent
Green tea is my shiot
Hi fellow INTJs, please let me know your blood type...
is there any O type INTJ?
"What are you responsible for?"
Fi: For making INTJ a vegan
Lmao truth right there
Fi can be a cunty function at times. ME ME ME
❤
When she described what animals go through so we could eat a burger I felt sick... I hate that I like meat but it's so good...
0:14
Lots of « actually »... Ni isn’t far 😏
😂
That was such a cool vid! It also made me want to go vegan!
Fi loves hearing that 💗😭
Yesss. Go vegan is good.
Respecting everyone’s right to be alive.
I watch you because you're attractive is that bad?
Bad on what scale of measurement? Lol
babe
Eyy
I’m guessing you are vegan but you also marinate a lot 😂
OMG, this Fi video made me wanna go vegan!
She loved that you said that 😭💗
Melissa Hill wait... why can’t we eat food from our garden lol?! Why are vegetables off limits?!
I don't think vegans need fake food... Fake food is just another attempt from capitalist industries to profit by exploiting the vegan movement.
Of course vegans can grow their own foods if they want to...
Ad the animals point, I love animals, I agree that they are one of the purest things on earth. But you need to acknowledge that even though humans can survive off of a plant-based diet our biology shows we are more suited for digesting meat... meat is the most efficient food and yes, we can agree that we should maybe have a bit more balanced diet but not eating meat at all is just crazy...
And regarding any ethics point of view, we either hunt those animals thus making it natural or we "farm" them and there it gets interesting morally because those animals would never been alive in the wild. We gave them these perfect conditions for breeding, thus giving them their meaning of life of being our food and if we don't eat them, then we take that meaning away and how dare you do that then?
Animals are clever yeah... but they are not people... that's why we eat them and not talk with them about future...
except feelings are also hatred, rage, pain, irrational selfish, animalistic, toxic crap, that doesn't give a F about anything or anyone. it's not just puppies and rainbows. this almost had a cliche extroverted, selfless vibe to it. I think you could do better, more thorough. and of course, sorry if this hurts your feelings.
Sure but this is my Fi. And this is how she is 🤷🏼♀️
Agree. Feelers can be so toxic people. I don't usually trust feelers in position of power. Too much moodiness to handle.
I loved your channel until right now. Carnivore for health 🥩
You can do whatever you like on behalf of your own Fi :)
LiJo already unsubscribed. You might consider some current research, since it’s something you profess to love 😉
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Pumpkin Forever 🤣 hypocrite
Pumpkin Forever this post is a month old that you’re resurrecting. Then you imply that Lijo is allowed her opinion, but I'm not 🙄 🥱 at least you’re bringing more attention to the link I shared maybe people will see that and learn.