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  • Louis CK on his Marriage and his relationship with his wife (now ex) and his kids on O&A show.
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Комментарии • 548

  • @youngThrashbarg
    @youngThrashbarg 7 лет назад +233

    If he's the breadwinner he catches hell for mentioning it. But if he had no job and she was the breadwinner.. she would dump him and leave with the kids in a heartbeat.

    • @fernie51296
      @fernie51296 7 лет назад +2

      youngThrashbarg yup

    • @mmkarima112995
      @mmkarima112995 7 лет назад +4

      And he did do that

    • @jeffrichey3623
      @jeffrichey3623 7 лет назад +3

      1000% true.

    • @2126Eliza
      @2126Eliza 5 лет назад

      Not if he's caring for kids.

    • @nickdipaolofan5948
      @nickdipaolofan5948 4 года назад +16

      yup, and you BETTER believe that she would be mentioning that she is the breadwinner all the time. Every time the man bought something she thinks is excessive, she will confront his ass and remind him he needs permission to spend HER money. When they go out to dinner, she will likely insist she gets the check just to emasculate him in front of others at the table. When a woman is the breadwinner, it is not "their" money but when the man is the breadwinner it is "their" money.

  • @fountane
    @fountane 7 лет назад +519

    My parents have been happily married for 24 years, and it's a traditional marriage where my Dad is a business man and makes all the money, and my Mom just stays home and cleans and took care of my brother and I when we were younger. And everyone understood what goes on. Mom makes dinner every single night, she cleans the house, does some other random stuff that needs doing, then she does whatever she wants. We would all agree that Dad was the bankruptcy trustee that makes the dough, and Mom was the Domestic Engineer who used to be a teacher, but doesn't work anymore, and no one was offended because we're not insane.

    • @StereoMonolith1
      @StereoMonolith1 7 лет назад +44

      Devin Taylor Thank the political left for undermining traditional marriage.

    • @fountane
      @fountane 7 лет назад +41

      Looks like someone's projecting.
      You jealous or something? Your parents marriage didn't work out?

    • @Buckarew
      @Buckarew 7 лет назад +9

      Geraldo Costa is everything you don't necessarily agree with pure evil?

    • @fountane
      @fountane 7 лет назад +3

      bj0rn Now imagine not being a shitty person that deserves what they get.

    • @DEUCALION109
      @DEUCALION109 7 лет назад +4

      bj0rn the proble
      There is that you're seeing it as a "transaction"; ideally, you'd do you work and provide for your family because you want to, not because that will grant you some sort of reward. I say ideally because in reality it isn't that simple, we are all expecting something f from someone else and all that...
      The solution would be to put all the cards above the table, talk shit out in the most detailed and civilized way, and bring the topic of "expectations", and try to build up from that point on
      But who knows, sometimes everything just blows up

  • @xarocknrollax
    @xarocknrollax 7 лет назад +58

    sad but the most honest thing I have ever heard .

  • @claymac7895
    @claymac7895 2 года назад +12

    Louie was literally divorced the next month after this. You can’t say stuff like this on the air 😂

  • @mqbitsko25
    @mqbitsko25 4 года назад +50

    "If marriage didn't exist.....would you invent it?" -Doug Stanhope

    • @inkonpaperhero
      @inkonpaperhero 4 года назад +16

      Baby this shit's so good we gotta get the government involved!

    • @BM-is5ei
      @BM-is5ei 4 года назад +1

      Take my likes, my fellow Stanhope fans 💪

    • @nathanjones6421
      @nathanjones6421 3 года назад

      Someone did...

    • @jacobjorgenson9285
      @jacobjorgenson9285 6 месяцев назад

      Wow, we are in love, we love living together, it’s amazing….. you know what we need to make it better….. get the government involved

  • @thothheartmaat2833
    @thothheartmaat2833 7 лет назад +41

    Louis ck.. the first thing he said when he started his new routine after throwing away all his stock material: I never understood why people throw their babies into the garbage can until I had kids.

    • @thothheartmaat2833
      @thothheartmaat2833 7 лет назад +5

      now we know the comedians who talk shit about their wife or girlfriend in their act how they get away with it. they have bitter relationships with them.

    • @redrobotnia8087
      @redrobotnia8087 7 лет назад +3

      I would see it differently, maybe the price you pay for being with someone so funny and brilliant. Great sense of humor is a major turn on.

    • @thetruth418
      @thetruth418 7 лет назад

      Louis CK is sexual predator people. "Funny and brilliant?" The guy forces women to watch him masturbate by forcibly not letting them leave his hotel room. He's a complete and total scumbag. Google it if you don't believe me. I can't believe there are are still people that actually like this Bill Cosby wannabe. Even Bill Cosby now is like, meh, OK, I'm caught. I'm sorry everyone. CK is like hey everybody it's funny when I sexually assault women remember? Remember because I 'm a comedian so it's funny right? *nudge nudge wink wink*

    • @drsuperbus
      @drsuperbus 7 лет назад +10

      The Truth theres a huge difference between facts and rumors. You may wanna read more than a headline, asswipe, before judging people

    • @moboroxjones9044
      @moboroxjones9044 7 лет назад

      slimlokz559 COCK

  • @javierlopeira7446
    @javierlopeira7446 6 лет назад +1

    Great, I love this guy and I identify a lot with him.
    Luois CK is the best!!

  • @Secular_Scot
    @Secular_Scot 7 лет назад +7

    Louis CK is a god.

  • @rossrobertson674
    @rossrobertson674 6 лет назад +12

    This is the reason for the plummeting birth rate in America

    • @mmartinisgreat
      @mmartinisgreat 4 года назад +2

      Good thing all the colored people are coming in.

    • @dustinrisinger1958
      @dustinrisinger1958 4 года назад +1

      @@mmartinisgreat diversity is our strength tho

    • @onedeep6460
      @onedeep6460 7 месяцев назад +2

      Femenism being the main reason, of course

  • @backup4ever
    @backup4ever 7 лет назад +16

    my wife is awesome. thanks guys

  • @anypercentdeathless
    @anypercentdeathless Год назад +2

    On the farm-they're free labor; in the city-expensive furniture.
    (-P.Z.)

  • @zombiewack
    @zombiewack 6 лет назад +2

    Traditional families are the best

  • @wmfelber
    @wmfelber 7 лет назад +2

    You're the Man Louis!

  • @Swiatlocien
    @Swiatlocien 7 лет назад +31

    I like his edgy humor and all, but damn, this piece is so sad. How must have his then-wife felt hearing him admit that he no longer cares about her whatsoever.

    • @spittingblood
      @spittingblood 5 лет назад +23

      She was probably telling him he was a cunt and a shit father at home. Fuck her.

    • @2126Eliza
      @2126Eliza 5 лет назад +15

      He's a great comedian, but not a nice person. Terrible partner.

    • @destroyermaker
      @destroyermaker 4 года назад +4

      It's not exactly what he meant. Of course he cares, he was just making the point of how much more of a bond you have with your kids vs your wife. He talks about it in one of his specials.

    • @bendadestroyer
      @bendadestroyer 3 года назад +1

      Probably the same way he felt when he realized she was never gonna fuck him again.

  • @_6doughver
    @_6doughver 7 лет назад +37

    It got a little too weird at the very end

    • @spittingblood
      @spittingblood 5 лет назад +3

      Man people used to all live in the same room like Charlie and the chocolate factory and use their kids as a mattress while they fucked. That's just what's it's like have little retarded cunts in your house.

  • @MusicIan423
    @MusicIan423 7 лет назад +48

    This is why I will never get married.

    • @hangukhiphop
      @hangukhiphop 4 года назад +4

      Same. The nuclear family was such a stupid fucking idea. Grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins need to be more interconnected to split the workload and give everybody a break from their immediate family once in a while. I remember getting so sour at my parents and siblings from overexposure due to being stuck in a house with them. And oh man what a giant respite it was to have literally anybody else over for a bit!

    • @MusicIan423
      @MusicIan423 4 года назад +2

      @@hangukhiphop and think, how much less abuse would happen if more people were involved with raising children. less chance to be alone together, more people to notice changes in behavior, etc. Community raising is definitely a better idea in my eyes.

    • @hangukhiphop
      @hangukhiphop 4 года назад +1

      @@MusicIan423 Ohhh man that's another one of the major core benefits yeah
      Idk if I'd go as far as the whole community, but extended family with more pro-socially designed neighborhoods would be such a massive improvement for everyone involved

    • @MusicIan423
      @MusicIan423 4 года назад

      @@hangukhiphop word, these days we are pretty separate from our neighbors. In my ideal world, we would work closer to our neighbors and have closer relationships with them as a result. In that world, community can be trusted to raise kids.

    • @cinnamondan4984
      @cinnamondan4984 4 года назад +2

      I am married and love it. It really does depend on the chemistry of the couple.

  • @Eddie_Gee
    @Eddie_Gee 7 лет назад +10

    I always tell my friends " your getting married?!! Good for you, why should you be happy!!"

    • @pauls4742
      @pauls4742 4 года назад +1

      That's why they need to allow gay marriage - why should they be happier than anyone else?

  • @Bradatimrkonja
    @Bradatimrkonja 7 лет назад +26

    I never fully understood the american concept of one parent sacrificing his adult life basically just for kids. It's just bound to spawn hostility and resentment for the other partner. Both of my parents work, and most other people I know have parents who both work full time AND do the housework.

    • @skellymom
      @skellymom 7 лет назад +6

      There are those of us in the US that don't buy into that. Love my daughter, but I still have needs and am my own person. I think people really set themselves up to be personal slaves to their kids and their children never realize that their parents are separate (and sometimes even wonderful) people. Recipe in disaster. Everyone really misses out and resents each other.

    • @cefb8923
      @cefb8923 6 лет назад

      I honestly am not sure its that in the way that you are thinking. I usually feel like in these situations the women does not have a real skill, trade, or education. So them working is not going to bring in much money anyways. So when you factor in the cost of daycare (primarily) and all the other costs and consequences (such as you feeling the responsibility to be there to raise your own child) of raising a kid.. the Mom tends to stay home in those situations.
      You see this a lot with military wives. The husband has a good, secure, fairly well paying job and the wife sits at home all day commenting on Facebook, getting fat, watching movies and raising the kid. Its like a right of passage.

  • @jitao
    @jitao 7 лет назад +12

    These guys don't realize how much work goes into keeping up a household. Also, how much humility and benevolence must go into a marriage to make it work, if possible. If you are fortunate to have money, just throw it at your shortcomings... that you get to project on the person not making any, because of our capitalist paternal system. It's hard, and it's also a shame. In the end, the children are affected: they see and understand everything, and get to grow up with a lot of unnecessary issues. A lot of pain for all because of selfishness, lack of perception and misunderstanding.

  • @tximinoman
    @tximinoman 7 лет назад +9

    I was listening to this and thinking two things:
    1-What did his wife think of what he said on the air? I understand their relationship was dead at this point but even so, if my partner said things half as bad about me as Louie said about her on the radio I'll be fucking pissed.
    2-I wonder what their kids will think if they eventually run into this videos. Because I seriously wouldn't know how to feel if my parents divorced and years after that I run into my dad saying he kept being misserable because of me.

    • @perkeles23dobre59
      @perkeles23dobre59 4 года назад +1

      My parents got divorced when i was twelve, and my dad never talked shit about my mother and vice versa, and i can tell you this ;
      Both were very flawed human beings who did good, but dad could not deal with the grief and pain, i Believe so eventualy our relationship dissaperd, no fight no big argument he just stopped calling, and that FUCKS you up, because no one teaches you about what you have to aim att
      Mothers give stabilty and roots while dads are suppose to give you aim.
      So no aim i have
      However i would still want that than listen to my dad as this ck guy, he shows so much bitternes and impotent rage...
      Louis should have listen to patrice o neil

    • @bendadestroyer
      @bendadestroyer 3 года назад

      Louis might be spiteful but at least he's honest and not holding back.

  • @ericmondello3880
    @ericmondello3880 7 лет назад +2

    this is about his ex wife. 2007.

  • @NavyLady82
    @NavyLady82 4 года назад +1

    If a woman doesn't work a guy shouldn't have to do anything at home except spend time with the kids.

    • @lmnll2742
      @lmnll2742 3 года назад

      If a man doesn't work a woman shouldn't have to do anything at home except spend time with the kids.

  • @zombiezombie1977
    @zombiezombie1977 7 лет назад +1

    Love this shit... :)

  • @Genenat
    @Genenat 7 лет назад +68

    What many men don't get is that household chores and taking care of kids is BORING AS FUCK for a lot of people - both men and women. But often it's the woman who has to give up a career that she probably loves and become a maid to her family. It is a sacrifice...it's mundane as hell when you are trained to do something else. Many men don't get that getting to earn money is a privilege unless you hate your job. If you hate your job then you are also doing a chore and then surely you should be exempt from doing household chores in addition.

    • @kawabungadad8945
      @kawabungadad8945 7 лет назад +18

      Most people hate their jobs.

    • @stephanezick4658
      @stephanezick4658 7 лет назад +8

      Genenat lol u go work 8_10 hours a day
      and worry about the bills and the food
      and gime the house work any day
      lol u fucking kiddng me
      house work :)))

    • @Genenat
      @Genenat 7 лет назад +7

      amar coldx I do work 8-12 h a day as a scientist and so does my husband. When/if we have kids, we are both very much open to the idea that either of us will sacrifice/compromise on our beloved careers that each of us spent a decade studying for to basically become a maid to the family. Household chores and raising children can be very frustrating if that's all you do after studying so much. So yeah I would gladly let my husband stay at home while I earn as long as he is happy doing that but we both know he won't be.

    • @dannyk847
      @dannyk847 7 лет назад +8

      Genenat i tell you something right now.....based on how you love your career and speak about it..DONT HAVE KIDS! you will hate your husband and divorce.. or be resentul FOREVER. Try 2 dogs...

    • @Genenat
      @Genenat 7 лет назад +5

      daniel kirschke I am more and more inclined to not having kids. I have almost made up my mind not to. Thanks for this random suggestion. It's rare to get an affirmation in a world where majority is trying to convince you that you are absolutely nuts for not wanting to have kids.

  • @mmmmmmm3246
    @mmmmmmm3246 7 лет назад +2

    I love not being married or having kids; lots of money, freedom, no stress, fuck what other people think I "should" do just because "I'm supposed to".

  • @billyjean9484
    @billyjean9484 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love Louie, but am comforted that athiest / communist don't stay married or have many kids.

  • @tregggabbard6917
    @tregggabbard6917 5 месяцев назад

    I feel like Louis just had a bad marriage lol, I love the guy but his experience isn’t universal, I’ve been married with kids for thirteen years and it’s nothing like this, even if it went to shit tomorrow it’s been a great thirteen years, no regrets

  • @MikeCustalow
    @MikeCustalow 7 лет назад +1

    What was that outro beat?

    • @NeighborhoodWatch
      @NeighborhoodWatch  7 лет назад +9

      It's a Royalty Free Music from Bensound under the name of "funny song"

    • @Derek_Keenan
      @Derek_Keenan 7 лет назад

      Good for Ant for throwing a little incestuous pedophilia in there at the end

  • @redscorpion9325
    @redscorpion9325 7 лет назад +19

    I guess his Wife got a free Cheating Pass

    • @lucho1limte
      @lucho1limte 4 года назад

      whan can detain your wife to do the same

  • @SoccerWizdom
    @SoccerWizdom 4 года назад

    How is no one commenting on 5:50 to 5:53😂

  • @nnamdi5611
    @nnamdi5611 5 месяцев назад

    Breast feeding at 2 is wild.

  • @BigPhatMan
    @BigPhatMan 7 лет назад

    I know that he and his wife are divorced, but did he remarry?

  • @Redmayne152
    @Redmayne152 3 года назад

    2:33 Oh gee Opie, is that what Ant was talking about? Thanks for helping him out and blatantly saying what he was describing, I never would have figured it out without your terrific insight

  • @fleadoggreen9062
    @fleadoggreen9062 6 месяцев назад

    Yea ok
    Didnt louie get remarried??

  • @maribel2
    @maribel2 7 лет назад +3

    So,if he had nothing when he met her and she still married him and then came the money and all he could do was complain about having to do A FEW chores here and there instead of getting her A MAID or a nanny,she was busting her ass doing ALL THE WORK at home... who comes out the real a-hole in all this?

  • @chewface
    @chewface 3 года назад +1

    Cell phones ruined modern marriages. How can couples expect to commit to each other when you have 50 other flirtatious people DMing you in your pocket?

  • @Angelatopia
    @Angelatopia 7 лет назад +27

    I generally like him, but this is disappointing. I see why the marriage failed. I would never want the job of staying home with kids and cleaning 24-7. In fact, if I made enough money, I'd rather have a stay at home husband. The difference? I would appreciate him for it.

    • @neiloch
      @neiloch 7 лет назад +4

      He actually said he appreciates it, the problem was she didn't seem to hold his working in high regard. This tends to happen to comedians a lot because their 'work' seems like they goof off for a living. So even if they are writing for 40 hours a week or doing whirlwind tours across the country they get treated as if they are always on vacation.

    • @javierlopeira7446
      @javierlopeira7446 6 лет назад +1

      Angelatopia this is why you will stay single for the rest of your life. We don't want and don't appreciate a woman like you

    • @Dre2Dee2
      @Dre2Dee2 6 лет назад +2

      A woman who will respect a house husband? HAH! I'll believe it when I see it

  • @chowder8802
    @chowder8802 7 лет назад +3

    wonder why they're divorced

  • @dagster115
    @dagster115 7 лет назад

    grim

  • @lullanie
    @lullanie 7 лет назад +3

    So sad to see Louis act this way. I enjoy so much of his work but whatever was going on in his relationship it really sucks that he chose to speak of it in such a demeaning way publicly. I guess he didn't think this through because if he loves his kids so much that he was willing to go to therapy to save a loveless marriage it was counter-productive to say the least to sabotage these efforts by trash talking his wife on the radio.

  • @NorthernObserver
    @NorthernObserver 4 месяца назад

    The key is NEVER, EVER care about the kids more than your spouse.
    The minute you do that, the marriage is dead.

    • @sayno2lolzisback
      @sayno2lolzisback 4 месяца назад

      So that explains how my parents are still together after 5 kids

  • @hooklineandinker
    @hooklineandinker 7 лет назад +1

    This. Is. Why. I'm. Never. Having. Kids.

  • @keggerous
    @keggerous 6 лет назад +2

    Look at all the emotionally weak and triggered women in the comments! lol . . .

  • @sstyblo
    @sstyblo 7 лет назад +65

    I like Louis. but this is the only time I've been offended by him, I hope SHE left his ass, guessing that's what happened.

    • @joeytrimble1558
      @joeytrimble1558 7 лет назад +18

      can't take the truth?

    • @sstyblo
      @sstyblo 7 лет назад +27

      Joey Trimble True or not, you don't slam your spouse & mother of your children like that on national radio! None too classy.. Plus he's talking about the relationship as if he's had nothing to do with it.

    • @nawal8821
      @nawal8821 7 лет назад +41

      I agree I usually like how honest he is, but here he's really ragging on her and letting all these men rag on her too with zero respect. sometimes marriage works and sometimes it doesn't but it takes two to tango

    • @SweetSoulBrother0
      @SweetSoulBrother0 7 лет назад +4

      He's the one that left her after getting advice from a friend on how to get joint custody

    • @mr.chelovek687
      @mr.chelovek687 6 лет назад +2

      I know it's a year late, BUT NONE OF YOU HAVE BEEN MARRIED

  • @frankelee
    @frankelee 7 лет назад +4

    Louis was the worst at marriage. Helicoptering his poor kids until they probably wanted to kill themselves, and then blaming them for ruining his marriage and making him want to kill himself. If your children can't manage themselves for 20 minutes at a time, it's because you've done a horrible job raising them.

  • @drosophilamelanogaster3957
    @drosophilamelanogaster3957 4 года назад

    Marriage is living in a horror story .

  • @inthewoods999
    @inthewoods999 7 лет назад +6

    Love me some Louie,,but.....it's totally his fault he doesn't have fun with his kids. He will prob look back in his old age and want those "boring" times back for anything. take your kids out of the house once and awhile, do something with them, you have the means.

  • @maribel2
    @maribel2 7 лет назад +1

    I'd love to see men scrub the toilet,wash every dish and leave the sink spotless clean, sweep/vacuum,mop, do the yard, make breakfast,lunch,dinner,put up with noisy kids once they get back from school,help them with homework,deal with school issues,drive them places,go grocery shopping,etc. Oh,and it doesn't pay. MAYBE she'll get to go out for dinner on Mother's Day or their anniversary. THAT'S IT.
    It's a 24/7 job,honey. Typical macho men will always say, "what's the big deal? it's not like it's hard!" F.Y. It is. I'm neither married nor have kids and housework makes me cranky A.F.,so I make it a goal to pay a lady to come do it every other week cause it's just too much.

  • @cadmus777
    @cadmus777 7 лет назад +72

    This was before he got divorced. While he was being completely honest, and many of us completely agree with him, her hearing it like this would probably be enough for her to make the call. Ballsy to be a comedian and still expect to maintan a 'normal' relationship...

    • @travismcnasty4239
      @travismcnasty4239 4 года назад +3

      Yeah, but they didn't go through a lawyer and a judge. Those people just want to make things as expensive as possible so they get paid.
      Louis and his ex wife talked to a mediator, who basically keeps everything civil and no one murders the spouse or the kids.

    • @onedeep6460
      @onedeep6460 7 месяцев назад +6

      And it's stupid for a woman to marry a comedian, have kids with him and complain about his schedule especially if he's successful.
      Zero accountability, always his fault

    • @orangewarm1
      @orangewarm1 5 месяцев назад

      Really depends what you say. Many comedians leave their wives out of it.

    • @orangewarm1
      @orangewarm1 5 месяцев назад

      ​@onedeep6460 it didn't break down because of schedule.

    • @andromedaiscoming185
      @andromedaiscoming185 4 месяца назад

      ​@@onedeep6460It probably has more dimensions than that don't you think, like we don't know what it's like to be married to Louis, he is hilarious and insightful and intelligent and darkly poetic but hes kind of a drag emotionally I imagine.

  • @jomay78
    @jomay78 7 лет назад +53

    I fucking love this guy for his honesty.

    • @gginpar
      @gginpar 5 месяцев назад +1

      my exact same though. All truth, no fluff...

  • @maidenaust8238
    @maidenaust8238 7 лет назад +453

    If married people told non married people what marriage was really like....no one would get married ever again

    • @thothheartmaat2833
      @thothheartmaat2833 7 лет назад +15

      Maiden Aust I get my cues from the ones that do and from the men who've suffered divorce.

    • @halfhigh
      @halfhigh 7 лет назад

      Maiden Aust good riddance, thanks for telling

    • @amsd1231
      @amsd1231 7 лет назад +5

      lol you don't need any more encouragement to not get married. If both parties are equal they wouldn't get married.

    • @phibeslives4048
      @phibeslives4048 7 лет назад

      @ Mihai D - Ha ha ha, subscribed.

    • @napoleonk.5146
      @napoleonk.5146 7 лет назад +2

      Maiden Aust i think it depends on which kind of marriage you find yourself in.

  • @RTC1655
    @RTC1655 7 лет назад +77

    The brutal truth of a 'married with children', right there.

    • @winterwarden
      @winterwarden 3 года назад +2

      unhappily married with children* people act like it's a curse and you can't be happy lmao

    • @77eah
      @77eah Год назад

      It is brutal..

  • @evansgate
    @evansgate 4 года назад +21

    thanks for editing out Opie's "contributions" (phone calls that add nothing)

  • @rudysmustache
    @rudysmustache 11 месяцев назад +10

    Thank you Louis for plowing through so Opie couldn't derail the conversation going to that call.

  • @hwy9nightkid
    @hwy9nightkid 7 лет назад +56

    recorded in 2007, they got a divorce in 2008 :(

    • @destroyermaker
      @destroyermaker 4 года назад +7

      No need to be sad. Divorce is a great thing. He talks about it in Hilarious.

    • @TheSnoozeFox
      @TheSnoozeFox 3 года назад

      You mean :)

    • @TheJoshMaggot
      @TheJoshMaggot 3 года назад +3

      "Divorce is a good thing....because no good marriage ever ended in divorce" -Louis CK

  • @2126Eliza
    @2126Eliza 7 лет назад +20

    Yeah, some people only have kids in common. Literally nothing else.

  • @pevitzachast6892
    @pevitzachast6892 7 лет назад +54

    The marriage is the basis of a healthy, happy family. The minute you subjugate it to your kids, you're done. Not surprised they're divorced. I don't know how people don't get this. Your kids will grow up and leave. Your kids come into your life, not the other way around.

    • @eladbari
      @eladbari 4 года назад

      @SW Sweetie can you please explain? putting your relationship with your wife first- how will it put your kids first? [+putting kids first is the wife's main goal usually]...

    • @emilio_agu_ra
      @emilio_agu_ra 4 года назад

      very wise words

    • @Zaemon037
      @Zaemon037 Год назад

      Exactly! Your kids are watching you, learning from you. You are role models, modeling what a healthy relationship should look like. That marriage should be the sun around which the kids revolve, not the other way around.

    • @famousmortimer7933
      @famousmortimer7933 6 месяцев назад +1

      Cringe boomer take.

  • @atomicalien4
    @atomicalien4 3 года назад +12

    i love the way opie went to the phone and louis completly ignored the caller XD

    • @nickhexum01
      @nickhexum01 4 месяца назад

      I hate shows that have callers.

  • @baalstone675
    @baalstone675 7 лет назад +11

    I just had an out of body experience listening to that.

  • @eladbari
    @eladbari 7 лет назад +26

    Why do I feel like CK is telling the universal truth here?
    Amazing..its like you really have no choice in life. Either youre married with kids & feel imprisoned with a fighting wife. OR you stay alone..youre free, yet lonely & youll never experience your 2nd childhood with ur offsprings..

    • @hv3115
      @hv3115 4 года назад +5

      Yes exactly. There are pros and cons to every choice in life. I think though for men these days, feminism has ruined women and incentives for men to get married. The cons to marriage greatly outnumber any pros. Men need to smarten up and understand just how much the odds are stacked against them and should avoid marriage with western feminist women at all costs.

    • @w8m4n
      @w8m4n 4 года назад +3

      I have a girlfriend and kids but I live separately, a few streets over. It works out well for us all so far and we get on greatly. It's the second try with us and it's strong as it is. She's just made me a three course meal out of nowhere, what a star! The other day I took the kids for a long walk and brought back some wild flowers for her, she liked that.

    • @NG-cf7zh
      @NG-cf7zh 3 года назад +2

      @@w8m4n hope it's still working out for you all bro

    • @gastondeveaux3783
      @gastondeveaux3783 Год назад +2

      @@hv3115 There is not one good reason to get married today, for men. Worst deal ever. Avoid at all cost.

    • @GoldHamSam
      @GoldHamSam Год назад

      or you figure out who you truly are before getting into a relationship and then find someone else who has done the introspection and self-analysis and is able to enter into a partnership that prioritizes growing together and active communication. Plenty of people have lifelong happy marriages and it's because they didn't avoid confronting themselves and figuring out who they are as people.

  • @kobuslol
    @kobuslol 7 лет назад +88

    I don't really like the other people in the room.

    • @JammastaJ23
      @JammastaJ23 4 года назад +5

      I really find these O&A interviews hard to listen to. It's like aggressively low brow cackling idiots that just rub me the wrong way.

  • @stormont666
    @stormont666 7 лет назад +4

    Sounds right, with a splash of her being addicted to him giving in. All men are entitled to their opinion, just not around most women

  • @ninjawatcher6955
    @ninjawatcher6955 5 месяцев назад +1

    You’re listening to a man that just got tired of an unappreciative woman, a bitter cont, that hated her role.

  • @bruhhh._.150
    @bruhhh._.150 6 лет назад +5

    *LOOK AT ALL THESE WOMEN IN COMMENT SECTION GETTING TRIGGERED*

  • @JohnDoe-cd6ro
    @JohnDoe-cd6ro 3 месяца назад +1

    It's hilarious hearing this because Louis used to boast about how much he loved his wife.

    • @Dingusdankus88
      @Dingusdankus88 9 дней назад

      U can love someone and still be annoyed by them it's normal and healthy when ur with the same person constantly

    • @JohnDoe-cd6ro
      @JohnDoe-cd6ro 9 дней назад

      @@Dingusdankus88 Exactly. It's normal and healthy to be with the same person.

  • @Cathy24601
    @Cathy24601 7 лет назад +44

    But if a woman is cleaning the house, taking care of the yard, tending the house, budgeting for the home...isn't she saving you all the money you would be spending on all those things? As long as she's not just sitting on the couch painting her nails etc what's the problem?

    • @Cathy24601
      @Cathy24601 7 лет назад +9

      evnickols you probably do believe that you did all your housework in three hours, but I can promise you, you didn't. It's sweet that you think you did everything though.

    • @Cathy24601
      @Cathy24601 7 лет назад +1

      evnickols you probably do believe that you did all your housework in three hours, but I can promise you, you didn't. It's sweet that you think you did everything though.

    • @ChanelleFT
      @ChanelleFT 7 лет назад +1

      evnickols Some housewives do homeschooling. That'll kill time.

    • @neiloch
      @neiloch 7 лет назад +4

      He's talked about this before. Another one where she would get MAD at him for going on tour, WORKING, because then he would be away from the house not 'sharing the load' even though she doesn't have a job.

    • @souldry
      @souldry 7 лет назад +10

      Cathy24601
      If you maintain your house, it really doesn't take more than a couple of hours a day, and I'm being generous. It's cute how you overvalue your importance and the amount of work you do. But if maintaining the house takes you more than a couple of hours a day, you're shit at what you do.

  • @Altair.1187
    @Altair.1187 7 лет назад +4

    louis was really tense in here, he was steaming off on air and maybe he's dissappointed that she doesn't appreciate him more

  • @felixthehashman6234
    @felixthehashman6234 7 лет назад +6

    lol the concentration camp joke was spot on !!!

  • @SausosiosIsrugos
    @SausosiosIsrugos 7 лет назад +4

    oh boy, ladies didn't like this one very much.

    • @pauls4742
      @pauls4742 4 года назад +2

      And it's men's fault. We're too passive and afraid of offending women and being cut off.. so most guys are suck-ups and liars when it comes to relationships with women and tell them what they want to hear. Too often guys will be honest among themselves and then say something different to their wives and gf's...just like women do. At this point in life (60) I don't care anymore and I'm brutally honest and it's much easier for me... and my gf - she's 35 and is shocked to find that men actually think that way and appreciates my honesty and tells me that it helps to explain a lot that she's experienced. We've been together for 5 years and it's better than ever now. But few women can handle the honesty.

  • @mitchellbowman22
    @mitchellbowman22 4 года назад +2

    She probably said he would never be famous and never supported his dream, why else would he feel this way toward her. Had she supported him then she would be the queen in his castle

  • @joemushroom11
    @joemushroom11 7 лет назад +47

    oh yeah, if you have a strained relationship with your wife/ mother of your children, talking on a radio show about it is sure to help.

    • @SausosiosIsrugos
      @SausosiosIsrugos 7 лет назад +3

      I don't think he was even trying to save his crumbling marriage at that point. he put his wife on a speaker during a radio show, lol. I think they both knew that they would get divorced anyway after the kids moved out. just chose not to suffer for a decade.

  • @nikadavise-br9lx
    @nikadavise-br9lx 7 лет назад +12

    Funny i don't know one woman who doesn't have to work(many who are the sole support of their entire families) so must be nice in hollywood or new york or where ever this is actually still going on.....

    • @thothheartmaat2833
      @thothheartmaat2833 7 лет назад

      nikada vise celebrities. rich people.

    • @thisanonymous5956
      @thisanonymous5956 7 лет назад +3

      I don't work. My husband 'brings home the bacon' and we both love that arrangement - even though nowadays it gets us side-eyed.

    • @thisanonymous5956
      @thisanonymous5956 7 лет назад

      Josh V We're actually going to Paris for a couple of weeks in December. Sorry you don't have the same life. :)

    • @thisanonymous5956
      @thisanonymous5956 7 лет назад

      Josh V I have a Master's to fall back on. Jealous, peasant?

    • @Celtic-Texan
      @Celtic-Texan 7 лет назад +2

      I agree with +This Anonymous. You don't have to be rich to have a single income family with a decent lifestyle. I'm nowhere near rich and my wife hasn't worked since the late 90's and she loves it. I didn't ask her to be a stay at home mom but was able to afford to pay the bills with just my salary. She's been able to connect with the children so much better and give them a great start in life. Interestingly most of our friends have a similar single income arrangement and are doing fine.

  • @felipedandrea124
    @felipedandrea124 4 года назад +5

    I agree with everything he said here

  • @Michael-hw5wk
    @Michael-hw5wk 2 месяца назад

    Good for him for leaving the gold-digger. Tim Bennett, George Determan, and Darnell -- you watching (and your names and connections have been provided on a list of those who are possible hacks)?

  • @andystegall7407
    @andystegall7407 3 месяца назад

    I don't know what he expected marrying an "artist". She obviously had a pretty skewed opinion on what a marriage should be especially if she didn't bother working and sponged off of Louis' wealth

  • @Lordaramiz
    @Lordaramiz 7 лет назад +7

    Marriage is not the problem, kids are. Kids are a prision, you die as an individual the moment you become a parent.

    • @pretzelzetzel
      @pretzelzetzel 7 лет назад +7

      I feel sorry for your kids.

    • @skellymom
      @skellymom 7 лет назад +1

      Kids are awesome. Mine or someone else. Especially when they are young, start talking without the social filter. LOVE the honesty! Plus, if you want to color, sing out loud at any time or play with blocks, they don't judge and join in! Kids and dogs...lots of work, but the best!!!

  • @LemonJackRazer
    @LemonJackRazer 7 лет назад +3

    this outro. I've heard this exact melody while playing a porn game lol.

  • @maribel2
    @maribel2 7 лет назад +1

    Love the guy but this was sad.
    Someone pointed out the Hollywood married way, he works,she stays at home... Sure,in some cases they BOTH work but Matt Damon and Matthew MacConaughey don't seem to mind.
    And seriously,those people have nannies,maids,gardeners,nutritionists.

  • @chadhiggins9944
    @chadhiggins9944 2 года назад +1

    When I hear Anthony talk about having to do chores I cringe so hard. Those hardly even rate as problems to me. I know his ex was a drunk though and that is ridiculously hard.

  • @smuj77
    @smuj77 5 месяцев назад

    I like he starts by going through his struggle and all the things he’s saying but can’t say. Hack. Next

  • @wfla2285
    @wfla2285 7 лет назад +8

    love the honesty. you almost mentioned it but didnt quite get there. the thing that keeps us together after kids is that feeling that everything else in the world is meaningless compared to the kids. you feel like you would take the whole world on, you qould give up everything-- just to get them sonething like a ride on a pony, a good education, safety, security, its everything all tied up together. then, you look across a room at a pta meetibg and you see your spouse and you realize that in this whole world they are the one other person that feels the same way about your kids. and that more real than any other love stuff.

  • @Wolfman7870
    @Wolfman7870 7 лет назад +12

    If you are a housewife that doesn't work, your job is to maintain the household. Don't give the man who goes to a job 8 hours+ a day, little mundane chores that you can easily do in between Ellen and Oprah just so you can feel some sense of empowerment and control. Does the man ask you to take his shifts his job so he can feel like empowered? It's one thing if the woman is also working and contributing financially to the household then yes, share the housework but it's another if the only thing you do is maintain the home and take care of the kids. How often do you even need to vacuum or mop a floor, like once, twice a week but women don't want to do it because because feminism is teaching them that doing house work is demeaning and finding a woman that cooks these days is like trying to find water in a desert.

    • @jeffgillson
      @jeffgillson 3 года назад +1

      You definitely don’t have kids if you think you only need to vacuum or sweep 2x/week.
      Those little fuckers are messy.

  • @topg1084
    @topg1084 4 года назад +1

    Omg he said kill the children and go to the carabians. Any one heard of lorry vallow and chad daybell

  • @alexven92
    @alexven92 7 лет назад +3

    Bill Burr and Louis CK right? Their voices sound so distorted it's weird..

    • @Kaddywompous
      @Kaddywompous 7 лет назад +1

      MisterDeadGuy Neither is burr.

    • @alexnelsonamaya1
      @alexnelsonamaya1 7 лет назад

      its opie and anthony

    • @alexven92
      @alexven92 7 лет назад

      opie and anthony besides Louis ck?

    • @phuckfacee
      @phuckfacee 7 лет назад

      Jim Norton.

    • @ctown61
      @ctown61 7 лет назад +1

      I thought it was Paul Giamatti's voice..

  • @fernie51296
    @fernie51296 7 лет назад +9

    I think the biggest problem is how much people feel they need to make it work. It's why marriage is falling out of favor. Relationships can be great, but they don't need to be forever.

    • @eladbari
      @eladbari 4 года назад +1

      very smart observation. Maybe if [at least] one partner went into the relationship- knowing it will end after having kids- then it wouldn't be so dramatic to end it.
      BUT, then comes divorce, and alimony and all that shit that will make you live in the street. That's the practical problem.

  • @mic7able
    @mic7able 7 лет назад +1

    Wow! Back when Anthony Cumia was a reasonable, very funny, spontaneously brilliant person. Spanning Radio host and comedian perfectly. And I mean PERFECTLY!

  • @dmartinez9496
    @dmartinez9496 Год назад +1

    That’s why I still love my married with kids friends despite them still being jealous of me

  • @goodwilltapes
    @goodwilltapes 7 лет назад +2

    Kids shouldn't grow up with loveless parents

  • @leonardstilwell1894
    @leonardstilwell1894 7 лет назад +2

    I get the fact these guys may be riffing and goofing off a bit, but for those of you who seem surprised/appalled by Louis' astonishment at what it takes to run a household ... good call. You come home from work to GO to work. Yeah, it's really hard sometimes, but that's what it is.

    • @sandworm9528
      @sandworm9528 2 года назад

      "you come home from work to go to work" .. what is this sentence supposed to mean. Did you have a heart attack while typing this?

    • @leonardstilwell1894
      @leonardstilwell1894 2 года назад

      @@sandworm9528 Marriage/parenthood/maintaining a home is its own kind of work.

    • @sandworm9528
      @sandworm9528 2 года назад +2

      @@leonardstilwell1894 thanks for clarifying, not sure anyone would disagree with that assertion. But it's not that hard, if you're organised. I mean c'mon he's only got two kids it's not like running a family with 8 kids (like my grandma did)

  • @TIOLIOfficial
    @TIOLIOfficial 5 месяцев назад +1

    Oh my god, that last line was FCKING WILD. And hilarious. Love this.

  • @mistahtut
    @mistahtut 5 месяцев назад

    Honestly it sounds like they both have some serious character issues

  • @oshin33anika
    @oshin33anika 7 лет назад +107

    I get louis coz his marriage is at rocks and obviously he is frustrated... but wtf are these other guys... they seem so aggressive... gross

    • @teddy2868
      @teddy2868 7 лет назад +1

      anika Oshin I know, right!!!!It's brutal!

    • @hayleypdowd
      @hayleypdowd 7 лет назад +13

      some serious fucking mommy issues. the "I WORK OUTSIDE THE HOUSE I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO VACUUM". ummmm .... what the fuck? taking care of the house isn't a 9-5 job. it's a 24/7 job.

    • @Celtic-Texan
      @Celtic-Texan 7 лет назад +1

      If both work yes, but if one is a stay at home then guess who gets the task, nuff said.

    • @walterm.robertsiiiphd2157
      @walterm.robertsiiiphd2157 7 лет назад +1

      I honestly think the point was more the way she "rags on him" if it does not get done. When a wife degenerates to the "reproving mother" mode, that is a bad thing. I have never been married, but have this on witness from my recently divorced best friend.

    • @errant3
      @errant3 7 лет назад +2

      hayleypdown
      "taking care of the house isn't a 9-5 job. it's a 24/7 job"
      Bullshit. You do what you have to do, and then you sit down and relax. You mean if you clean the house as a "job" you don't sleep ever, like a normal person? you don't watch tv or read books or whatever the fuck?

  • @Aramishhh
    @Aramishhh 7 лет назад +71

    I like Louis CK, but I'm happy he isn't my dad

    • @christopherbriscoe4937
      @christopherbriscoe4937 7 лет назад +23

      Felipe Forero Louis C.K. is a great father. The dude makes sacrifices for his children, and cares about their intellectual development. This guy talks about his children all the time, and from what I gather, they are the most important people in his life.

    • @lucho1limte
      @lucho1limte 4 года назад +1

      felipe stop masturbating is doing brain damage

    • @erikrohr4396
      @erikrohr4396 4 года назад +3

      I'm with you Felipe. A good father doesn't insult his childrens' mother publically like that. How humiliating.

  • @IslamicRageBoy
    @IslamicRageBoy 5 месяцев назад

    So weird. “I can’t say that.” Yes you can

  •  7 лет назад +1

    only a fuckin idiot would get married in this day and age...im sorry but Louis seems like a totaly liberalized parent thats weird

    • @phantompower
      @phantompower 7 лет назад +1

      Lmao, bull fucking shit.

    • @chromo48
      @chromo48 7 лет назад +3

      +Maathiu Ra Yin I don't think you know how to properly use the word 'cuck'.

    • @thothheartmaat2833
      @thothheartmaat2833 7 лет назад

      Rename no.5 should I look up feminism too while im at it? cuz the dictionary definition is so accurate. why don't you look up racism, socialism and libtard while you're at it and learn something.

    • @thothheartmaat2833
      @thothheartmaat2833 7 лет назад

      Rename no.5 should I look up feminism too while im at it? cuz the dictionary definition is so accurate. why don't you look up racism, socialism and libtard while you're at it and learn something.

    • @thothheartmaat2833
      @thothheartmaat2833 7 лет назад

      here's an article explaining what cuck means ever since the internet got hold of it.. and what do we have here.. 2 different memes of you guessed it.. Louis ck..
      ageofshitlords.com/what-cuck-means-and-why-you-should-be-offended-by-it/

  • @BodyByBenSLC
    @BodyByBenSLC 4 года назад +1

    Women think men go to work because we like it. We don't.

  • @Whatever-lx1kt
    @Whatever-lx1kt 4 месяца назад

    I love Louis CK but this was less than standard.

  • @davidribeiro
    @davidribeiro Год назад

    Imagine being in a situation where you can't state facts without being called an a**hole?

  • @costag7241
    @costag7241 7 лет назад +1

    Vinegar is the best solution for anything, the perfect brand is Dickens' Cyder, apple cyder. You can't go wrong with Dickens' cyder folks

    • @pauls4742
      @pauls4742 4 года назад

      You beat me to it - damn! ;)

  • @nicolastambuyser3822
    @nicolastambuyser3822 7 лет назад +6

    whenever I hear people talking about having a kid I just wanna shake them and go "Are you outta your fucking mind!"