Against All Hope: Chris Herren on Addiction, Sobriety & Redemption | Rich Roll Podcast

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  • Опубликовано: 28 май 2024
  • Former NBA player Chris Herren recounts his battle with drug & alcohol addiction, his path to sobriety, and why service is key to his recovery. To read more about Chris and peruse the full show notes, go here👉🏾bit.ly/richroll794
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    00:00:00 Intro
    00:02:48 Speaking to College & HS Athletes
    00:06:34 The Importance of 12-Step
    00:08:16 Painting a Picture of Early Childhood
    00:09:03 "Cocaine became my therapy"
    00:12:44 The Struggle with Addiction and Fear of Failure
    00:14:22 Fall River was a Tough Town
    00:15:33 Bill Reynolds as a Mentor
    00:17:59 Introduction to Alcohol
    00:20:45 Dorm Room Cocaine Experience
    00:22:52 Cocaine was my truth seum
    00:25:24 Failing Boston College Drug Tests
    00:26:17 The Pain of Disappointing Mom
    00:26:39 Advice to Your 18 Year-Old Self
    00:28:35 Jerry Tarkanian's Belief in Second Chances
    00:30:17 Back to Show
    00:31:15 Emotion Instead of Talent
    00:37:27 Starting His Pro Career in Denver w/Mentors
    00:38:36 How Getting Traded to Boston "Broke me"
    00:40:08 Playing Basketball in Europe
    00:40:41 Denying the Help of an Opiod Blocker
    00:41:52 Getting Up to 1600MG of Oxy a Day
    00:42:49 Taking Oxy Before Big Games
    00:46:47 Traveling to Europe with Oxy
    00:48:13 Sting-Turned-Silent Intervention in Istanbul
    00:51:15 How "Unguarded" Came to Be the Doc It Is
    00:52:42 More About the Pivot from "Worst Day" to "First Day" with Students
    00:55:03 Speaking to your Inner Child
    00:56:53 Returning to the Addiction Story
    00:58:38 Where the House of Cards Finally Falls: Schoolbus Story
    01:00:08 Having Suicidal Thoughts in the Ambulance after OD
    01:03:26 How Addiction makes a Family Sick
    01:04:47 Story of How a Nurse Intervened to Save his Life
    01:05:22 How He Got Introduced to Chris Mullin
    01:06:00 Never Meeting the Man Who Put Me in Treatment
    01:08:31 Turning Life Around at the Pot Sink
    01:12:59 The Impact of Sharing Personal Stories
    01:19:43 Celebrating 15 Years of Sobreity
    01:24:16 Need for Mental Health Support in Sports
    01:27:24 Advice to Parents: Rely on Professionals
    01:28:56 The Importance of Being Vulnerable with Your Kids
    01:30:31 Marijuana Psychosis
    01:34:51 The Holistic Approach at Herren Wellness Center
    01:36:45 Criticism of Short-Term Treatment Programs
    01:38:45 Predictors of Long-Term Sobriety
    01:41:04 The Honor and Responsibility of Helping Others
    01:48:09 The Power of Storytelling
    01:53:15 The Freedom of Recovery
    01:55:24 Credits
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Комментарии • 388

  • @MrSomeoness
    @MrSomeoness 3 месяца назад +63

    The Herren Project sponsored my son Michael for sobriety. I will be forever indebted for this gift. Unfortunately, he came home on Thanksgiving and used that night and died. In his memory, money was raised to hopefully support another kid in his or her recovery. I am trying to speak on his behalf and share his story Thank you to the Herren Project for giving me the strength to do this.

    • @idkkkhi15744
      @idkkkhi15744 3 месяца назад +3

      im so sorry for your loss. You are incredibly strong, I wish u the best.

    • @hahanot4817
      @hahanot4817 2 месяца назад +3

      I wish I knew what to say. I send love, gratitude and respect for your strength.

    • @jeremyhall7495
      @jeremyhall7495 2 месяца назад

      They obviously trained him for the dangers upon release.
      Great program.

    • @davidirwin8303
      @davidirwin8303 2 месяца назад +1

      Your story, life experience riveted me . Your direct explanation belies an indescribable level of torment .

    • @lenorepaletta9267
      @lenorepaletta9267 2 месяца назад +1

      I’m so sorry. There are really no words for the grief you must feel.

  • @richardgordon5809
    @richardgordon5809 3 месяца назад +17

    This dude is the real deal. I met him at a Highschool speaking in PA. He about 6’2 and he seemed 9 feet tall cause he’s my hero

  • @norbertcastellanos2228
    @norbertcastellanos2228 6 месяцев назад +191

    Man, this was my all-time favorite guests that you've had on here. I'm in the middle battling addiction, and this conversation has really given me hope.

    • @johnelliott7502
      @johnelliott7502 6 месяцев назад +3

      We are here for you. You got this

    • @moniquecobb9051
      @moniquecobb9051 6 месяцев назад +2

      You can do it! Don’t think twice!

    • @KoutaRain
      @KoutaRain 6 месяцев назад +2

      We hear you, we see you; you're not alone.
      Hold on to that hope, and don't let go. The storm will pass and you'll come out stronger and wiser.
      We believe in you!

    • @DGBMXKID
      @DGBMXKID 6 месяцев назад +9

      Surrender is the answer. No more fighting against or battling against addiction.
      Complete and total surrender is key.
      Then you can work on and for a new way of life. Through a total change of personality.
      This will change your reality.

    • @brianlally6498
      @brianlally6498 6 месяцев назад +6

      Keep comin back. Just keep comin back. That's how it starts 👍

  • @bryanfrombuffalo7685
    @bryanfrombuffalo7685 3 месяца назад +6

    I was in rehab watching a video on him and i got a call my brother died...i got it and im still sober

  • @andrewogden5753
    @andrewogden5753 2 месяца назад +10

    From someone who's been down this road this was just one of the best podcasts I've ever listened to.

  • @deancooling3480
    @deancooling3480 6 месяцев назад +14

    "Hurt people hurt people." That's a powerful statement!

  • @EZMilos88
    @EZMilos88 6 месяцев назад +36

    I was in a halfway house with Chris when i was 20, I was chaotic and getting high while I was there. I ended up getting thrown out and as I was leaving with my irish suit case he stopped me and told me I wasnt ready for the life I was about to live...He was right. Great human, we used to play basketball to kill time, he never took a single shot.

    • @markwest8960
      @markwest8960 5 месяцев назад +1

      Very interesting story and wish you the best with your recovery. Also...was him not taking a shot some type of metaphor or something to benefit you or do you know why?

    • @joshuagharis9017
      @joshuagharis9017 4 месяца назад

      Hopefully you have found recovery 🙏. I'm 37, had my first recovery experience at 20, and relapsed. It wasn't easy, and not recommended, as I almost died many times, but I have found recovery for the past 5 years, but do the math, it took many stumbles to get here

    • @joshuagharis9017
      @joshuagharis9017 4 месяца назад

      Hoping this gives ya hope friend 🙏

    • @joshuagharis9017
      @joshuagharis9017 4 месяца назад

      I can relate, been booted from many sober homes

    • @Warriorforchristvictorhugo
      @Warriorforchristvictorhugo 18 дней назад

      @@markwest8960 well I think the answer is very simple, when you’re dominant in any sport or martial art, it’s not fun to just school your partner with dominance , what’s more fun is allowing them to work by lowering your speed and movement to allow them to even have a chance to “play the game” in jiu-jitsu it’s what most black belts will do if they’re mature
      And wise , it’s what rare lower belts do and I guess it could be a metaphor for life, something like :games aren’t fun if you don’t have a real challenge , and sometimes
      You gotta step down your abilities to make it a challenge and make it fun .

  • @rcppop3090
    @rcppop3090 5 месяцев назад +5

    I think I was in 7 grade when I had my first Budweiser 40oz and that was it, I remember thinking I was a big shot hanging with the older guys. I wish I could go back in time and talk to myself but I’m so determined to be there for my children.

  • @marelizemaritz1398
    @marelizemaritz1398 5 месяцев назад +11

    My mother was/is an alcoholic. My entire childhood, and even into university, my lief consisted of fighting to keep her alive. Trying to convince her to quit. Trying to believe she loves me even though she used me, manipulated me, just to get her next drink. I never thought I would be the same. But lately, I've been drinking more and more, using it as an excuse to calm myself, when having to work at home, when socialising, even when home alone when there is something in the fridge or cabinet. Just because it's there. I am scared, I see it slowly creeping in. But I haven't had enough self discipline or control to stop... This podcast hit me hard. Thank you.

    • @shirleyfrost9909
      @shirleyfrost9909 5 месяцев назад +3

      Please go to wn aa meeting and share what u just said
      They will understand and let u be you.
      God bless ,💜

    • @marelizemaritz1398
      @marelizemaritz1398 4 месяца назад

      @@shirleyfrost9909 thank you. I've decided to do Dry January. I've shared this with a few close friends, and trust that I will commit and make it through.

  • @ginamarie5575
    @ginamarie5575 6 месяцев назад +30

    My rock bottom was when I was 34 . Been sober now for 7 years now . Never going back to that sinful life . Sometimes no matter what you tell a kid ….they have to go through it themselves. We all have our own journey 🙏 get help if you need it

    • @luzaguirre2830
      @luzaguirre2830 4 месяца назад +3

      Alcohol is so normalized & socially accepted but is behind so much evil in this world. We need our God-given inhibitions. I wish more people could see Alcohol for what it is

    • @kate60
      @kate60 4 месяца назад

      Alcohol is poison. Drunkards will not inherit the Kingdom of God.
      Jesus Christ Crucified for your sin is the only way to Salvation. Do not love the world or the things of the world.

    • @SmokinDawG
      @SmokinDawG 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@kate60read the rest of the chapter. Don't just quote one verse.

    • @idkkkhi15744
      @idkkkhi15744 3 месяца назад +2

      @@kate60 its people like you that say these things that don't allow people to grow and get better. Please stop this toxic mindset. You are not helping many.

  • @21.1.ericamorency-scaled2
    @21.1.ericamorency-scaled2 6 месяцев назад +33

    I remember the story of Chris. He graduated a year before me. I went to New Bedford High, which was the city 20 min. from Fall River. I had no idea the depth of what he went through. I’m so sorry for all his pain, but I believe his true calling is what he is doing now. He has an amazing rehab centers but I have heard it’s extremely hard to get into. Not sure if that’s true. I love his honesty and reliability. Keep changing people lives!! God bless you Chris!

  • @beachnap
    @beachnap 6 месяцев назад +88

    Unquestionably one of the most impactful conversations you’ve had here, a deep gratitude to you both. My loved one is struggling with alcohol addiction and while he’s begun the work of recovery, he’s not ready for AA. So I chose to care for myself and also lead the way by attending my first Al-Anon meeting a few days ago. I will definitely be returning. Recovery is for everyone and it is possible. ❤

    • @butchmichaels69
      @butchmichaels69 4 месяца назад

      Go to your doctor and get on naltrexone 50mg daily prescription. It immediately curbs the craving for alcohol. Non-opioid and non-addictive. Research it. No need to struggle. No need for AA or counseling.

    • @WolfBand626
      @WolfBand626 3 месяца назад

      😊awesome. Ive stayed off the booze for over 1 month, it really does get easy. Lots of steak and some fun hobbies do the trick

  • @migo4316
    @migo4316 3 месяца назад +5

    To anyone out there who suffers from any type of addiction know that you are no less than any non “addict” we are all brothers and sisters going through life the best way we could.. no matter where you are you are not alone even if you feel lonely, there are good hearted people out there you extend your finger to them they reach out to you with their body and soul.
    You are loved ❤

  • @MegaDanman25
    @MegaDanman25 19 дней назад +1

    I was no older than ten watching Chris at Selland Arena. My grandparents used to take me down to the floor when the players ran out and I’d high five him. I thought he was the coolest dude on the planet.
    My sister committed suicide after an awful battle with addiction. My brother’s addiction has been ten times worse but he’s somehow still living and at this moment sober. Alcoholism, mental illness, and substance abuse were the prevailing themes throughout my childhood and young adult life, mostly spent in Fresno. It ravaged mine and so many other families I grew up with.
    Today I’m on the other side at 34 and am living out most (if not all) of my dreams. But it could have been me. I got lucky, and walked through the right doors to meet the right people at the right time.
    I’ll probably never meet Chris, but if by some twist of fate I do I’m going to give him a big ol’ hug. His story gives hope to those living in utter despair; the darkest corners of society. It makes me happy to see him and his family doing well. He deserves it.

  • @Hermeneuticar
    @Hermeneuticar Месяц назад +3

    This interview deserves 20 million views.

  • @theotherway1639
    @theotherway1639 6 месяцев назад +41

    Addicts are some of the strongest people I've ever met, and some of the wisest. The pull of that addiction is intense. Two books that have helped some people are The Easy Way by Carr and 30 Days to Sobriety by Harper Daniels for mindfulness exercises. It's a mission that one goes on to recover. My heart goes out to those who have been trapped a long time by the addiction.

  • @garrettjones8576
    @garrettjones8576 Месяц назад +2

    So happy for Chris. Glad to see where he's at today and everything he's accomplished in his sobriety. He's helped thousands. Fall River is a rough place. Tough city. A lot of people don't make it out. Chris now has the ability to give back to the youth there. That's his greatest gift.

  • @luis_774
    @luis_774 6 месяцев назад +32

    This is day 1 after another relapse in my battle to find and keep sobriety. Over the past year, both Chris and Rich have been amongst the voices that helped instill some hope in my heart during moments when thinking of another day was really difficult. Last Saturday after yet another bender finding this video was, for me, nothing short of a miracle. Thank you very much for everything you have been doing to show addicts and alcoholics, such as myself, that there is a way out of this path of suffering, misery and despair. You are a profound source of inspiration for this alcoholic here. May God bless you always!

    • @Dondillilochevrolet
      @Dondillilochevrolet 6 месяцев назад +3

      I recently just did it. I got 4 months now and a baby on the way. You can do this man. It’s really tough but you can do it.

    • @Dondillilochevrolet
      @Dondillilochevrolet 6 месяцев назад

      Aa helped me same as theee dudes. Just so you have something to do atlwast when your waiting for the obsession of the mind to leave you

    • @UplandPiper
      @UplandPiper 5 месяцев назад +2

      AA has been a life saver for me. Just over 11 months alcohol free and loving my new life. Good luck on your journey to sobriety!!

    • @egdowney1
      @egdowney1 4 месяца назад +3

      Hey Luis,.I speak from experience when I tell you that giving up alcohol is like being reborn. I know it's not easy but you have to do this! When you stop you will fall in love with life 🫶🙏

    • @terriweatherby5968
      @terriweatherby5968 4 месяца назад +1

      I’m back on day 1 as well💖

  • @yvonnefinlay6401
    @yvonnefinlay6401 6 месяцев назад +17

    Chris I lost both my father and husband to alcoholism and I really get it when you say that the relationship was too close for you to help your father. I lived that sense of helplessness too. Thankyou Rich and Chris. Best yet.

  • @wallyrbc
    @wallyrbc 6 месяцев назад +7

    My brother-in-law died a few months ago from alcoholism. He absolutely refused to stop, didn’t even try. It was like he felt invincible. When the doctor told him he was going to die, it was too late even if he stopped drinking, he looked utterly surprised.

  • @russmorris5129
    @russmorris5129 5 месяцев назад +17

    This is wild. I am 47 years sober...Thanks to a Message Carrier who showed up in 1992. And simply showed me how to get relief spiritually day by day. Without this woman I would have been long gone by now. In 2014 I had a 6 hour spine surgery. ONE day post op I was informed this Angel from God gently passed away

  • @actual_john_doe
    @actual_john_doe 5 месяцев назад +4

    I'm 2 years 2 months sober. I was a daily drinker. It has been a deep experience what has been revealed to me. I was a bigger mess than I could see back then. It's true what they say, that the addict is blind to the ugliness of his/her disease.

  • @malcolmlarri8236
    @malcolmlarri8236 6 месяцев назад +10

    These guys look so heathy and calm it's hard to imagine them in the depths ... great podcast and thanks to Chris for his honesty

  • @stathieb7275
    @stathieb7275 2 месяца назад +2

    Dude looks great. Hats off to ya for stopping that poison going into your veins. Chris you inspired me to quit. Can't thank you enough.❤ Love my brother

  • @jeffreythomas2419
    @jeffreythomas2419 6 месяцев назад +13

    Been waiting for this one. He is a big part of my sobriety.

  • @pneuma6421
    @pneuma6421 4 месяца назад +3

    Just left a 30 day treatment center today. Im also from fall river, Massachusetts, YOU KNOW! Thank you chris and rich. Inspiring stuff

  • @luispinheirodosmontes7219
    @luispinheirodosmontes7219 6 месяцев назад +42

    I know FOR SURE that hearing you guys stories is having an amazingly healthy impact on me. Please keep it up Rich , because not every one of us has access to therapists and AA meetings and there's a way to recover without professional help but no way one can do it totally by himself. Your podcast is gold for those of us struggling with low self esteem, addiction and lack of motivation to improve ourselfs but who are not totally out of control... Peace 🙏🙌

    • @markg.4246
      @markg.4246 3 месяца назад +1

      You obviously have access to YT, which means you have access to AA meetings on Zoom 24/7/365. "Get busy livin, or get busy dying"!

  • @Greg.Newton13
    @Greg.Newton13 6 месяцев назад +8

    4 months here, pure willpower, it’s very odd…I feel like I know a secret that not many know. Life changing.

    • @injacreatives9680
      @injacreatives9680 5 месяцев назад +2

      Willpower? As a recovery person myself the root of change for an addict isn't willpower, it's surrendering.

    • @Greg.Newton13
      @Greg.Newton13 5 месяцев назад

      Great. It was the willpower to say no for me. @@injacreatives9680

    • @MsAdventure531
      @MsAdventure531 3 месяца назад

      @@injacreatives9680
      Yes indeed

    • @MsAdventure531
      @MsAdventure531 3 месяца назад

      Not will power
      Higher Power

    • @Greg.Newton13
      @Greg.Newton13 3 месяца назад +1

      @@MsAdventure531 😂😂 no…

  • @GretchenHoechner
    @GretchenHoechner 6 месяцев назад +24

    I’m REALLY glad to here has physicians that can support those who are impacted by his story. Leaving them raw can be detrimental. I’ll have 15 years sober in January. Fully agree that year 12-15 were the hardest years for me as well. And reducing stigma is really key, words are powerful and matter. Covid was the hardest year in my recovery. But ‘by the grace of God’ - Congrats on 15 Chris! 👏🏻

    • @temprary580
      @temprary580 5 месяцев назад

      Why was 12-15 hard for you?

    • @GretchenHoechner
      @GretchenHoechner 5 месяцев назад +1

      You just get into recovery 2.0. You’re dealing with healing deeper roots not just the surface level stuff - that’s if you’re doing the work. That requires a lot of self reflection, honesty and transparency with yourself and others. It’s hard stuff. Plus Covid happened. We change quite a lot every 10 years, so it’s just natural evolution and facing the hard stuff - head on and sober.

    • @temprary580
      @temprary580 5 месяцев назад +3

      @GretchenHoechner the reason I ask is I'm 15 month sober and to think it gets harder is a scary thought lol It is hard work, but it's good work, worthwhile work, the work we do on ourselves that is. I would rather this then continued destruction in addiction. Congrats on your clean time and good luck on your journey!

    • @GretchenHoechner
      @GretchenHoechner 5 месяцев назад

      @@temprary580 yes always good work! much better than wasting your life away. Keep taking it one day, one hour at a time! My sobriety is like gold to me, no one can take away the hard work and time I've put in - let along the wisdom and character I've gained along the way. Plus you have the opportunity to help people! The whole point of sobriety is being sober-minded. Life is hard, but its much easier sober than drunk. :) (the easier softer way isn't reality) Encourage you to find a sponsor and get into some AA meetings if possible, makes things a lot easier!You got this.

    • @leonidtodorovski635
      @leonidtodorovski635 4 месяца назад +2

      ⁠@@temprary580lol I feel you on this one I’m 12 months clean I’m really good shape but 12 years of this pain and just gets harder all of sudden man just the words 12 to 15 hit her again makes me terrified 🙈🙈 lord and mercy

  • @kirstyfonzari296
    @kirstyfonzari296 6 месяцев назад +10

    Wow what an incredible conversation. I related on so many levels. I have just celebrated 10 years clean and sober and COVID hit our fellowship so badly in South Africa. You have inspired me. Thank you so much!

  • @joemcparland109
    @joemcparland109 6 месяцев назад +8

    Chris is Awesome The Pills Are The Worst January will Be 2 Years Sober For Me 💪🙏

  • @wendygreene682
    @wendygreene682 6 месяцев назад +12

    Thank-you I need this video today. I’m completely alone and struggling with alcohol.

    • @mcwaltertube
      @mcwaltertube 6 месяцев назад +4

      The best defence against alcoholism is finding a way to be comfortable with the idea of never drinking again in your life. It’s the only solution. There’s no “fixing” alcoholism. There’s only life-long abstinence. Hang in there 😊

    • @ontopmediacontentcorrea5104
      @ontopmediacontentcorrea5104 6 месяцев назад +1

      Anything is possible through- neuroplasticity, read Joe Dispenza and Andrew Huberman

    • @DGBMXKID
      @DGBMXKID 6 месяцев назад +2

      Don't be alone. Never Alone Never Again.
      Get a support group/network.
      Slow down, take it a day at a time. Even one second at a time. Everyone has there own personal journey. Very similar to everyone else but slightly different, in our own personal way. Try,try,try and then try again.
      Never give up, get upright and moving forward. You will find your way, when you find yourself. Love and Respect, Peace.✌

    • @markg.4246
      @markg.4246 3 месяца назад +1

      Find an AA meeting that is for women only, and start living in the solution, instead of the problem! "Struggling", "battling", and "fighting" will only lead to failure! Stop focusing on "not drinking", and start focusing on the root problem..."SELF"!

    • @markg.4246
      @markg.4246 3 месяца назад

      @@mcwaltertubeIt's called having a "spiritual condition"!

  • @debbiemayberymaybery2506
    @debbiemayberymaybery2506 6 месяцев назад +13

    I love this interview. My brother passed away age 56 basically due to alcohol problems. It was extremely hard for him and me. He also tried many things. I tried to help him several times. He was clean for many years paid everyone back he owed. But the alcohol kept coming back to him. The last day I physically saw him was the day I dropped him off after having an alcohol implant. He didn’t want it actually (2nd time) and was furious with me and the world. He died about a year after that. Complicated story. Very emotional for me this. I did speak to him on the phone for about 2 hours in the April. He died may 20th. I feel sometimes I should have tried harder to help. But I think some people just never get over their addictions. Well done to Rich and Chris for successfully quitting.

    • @MFJoneser
      @MFJoneser 5 месяцев назад +1

      I’m so sorry. Hang in there.

    • @sphenoidjjj
      @sphenoidjjj 4 месяца назад

      You're correct sometime people can never get over their addiction. No matter what you say or try if the individual is too far along the addiction, its virtually impossible for them or anybody else to help them get back over it.

    • @tanyabaughn3639
      @tanyabaughn3639 4 месяца назад +1

      I’m so sorry ☮️💟✝️

    • @tanyabaughn3639
      @tanyabaughn3639 4 месяца назад +1

      I was a whiskey drinker for 20 years, I haven’t had a drop of alcohol in 3 1/2 years, I never went to rehab or any kind of meetings or 12 step program. I tapered down for 3 years. It was the hardest thing I ever did, I drank out of trauma relief, no one ever wakes up one day and says, let’s get fucked up and fuck up our family and life, it definitely poisons you slowly. I have no desire for it, but my life was completely shattered and I’m still trying to put it back together. So much to even go into. It definitely was Devine deliverance! ☮️💟✝️

    • @tanyabaughn3639
      @tanyabaughn3639 4 месяца назад

      I’m a 47 year old woman from Tulsa Oklahoma ❤️💜❤️

  • @georgeturner3857
    @georgeturner3857 6 месяцев назад +8

    I've seen damn near everything Chris has up on RUclips. This conversation was incredible. Ive been to treatment to beat Adderall fairly successfully. Sadly im still not living my best life but dammit Chris gives me hope and inspiration. Love this guy!

    • @JayDabhiTV
      @JayDabhiTV 3 месяца назад

      I just quit Adderall last week. Did you deal with depression afterwards?

  • @daddiro6328
    @daddiro6328 3 месяца назад +3

    This really helped. I needed to stop. Month no weed, 2 months no alcohol.

  • @Cindyscrossstitch
    @Cindyscrossstitch 6 месяцев назад +12

    I have seen so many struggle with addiction. I can't imagine the how hard it is. His calling was to help other people, that is his gift 🌻👣✨️

  • @lisasweet4454
    @lisasweet4454 4 месяца назад +4

    I am a high school teacher and coach from Warwick, RI. Chris spoke at my school about ten years ago and his message continues to resonate and remain more relevant each day. I especially like the introduction of the marijuana psychosis portion he describes; this is what I see each day with my students and student-athletes. The impact marijuana is having on my high school students today is incredible. My students think there is nothing wrong with smoking weed all day. Many of them meet in the lavs to smoke, eat edibles, stay up all night, sleep in class etc. I try to have tough and honest conversations with them but the psychosis is real. Society is sending them the message that smoking weed is great and that everyone does it and that there are no risks involved in its use. I have read "Basketball Junkie" over and over again. I, too, have always been a Bill Reynolds fan. Please continue to do your great work!

    • @tommyroelroel4518
      @tommyroelroel4518 4 месяца назад

      I respect what you're saying but that sounds a bit one sided. I smoke almost everyday and have been for ten years to treat my anxiety disorders because I don't take Benzos, and not once have had psychosis or messed up my life because of just marijuana. But, for others it can ruin a lot of things. So yeah there are dangers to it, but it drastically differs for each individual. Its never been a problem for me. I've even gotten a 98 on a Biokinetics test I took in college where I was stoned off wax. It all depends

    • @Threewulphmoon
      @Threewulphmoon 2 месяца назад +1

      @@tommyroelroel4518 got you beat by then years yet it sill ruined my life when i got in an unrelated car accident but smelt like weed.

    • @jimparsons4312
      @jimparsons4312 2 месяца назад

      My two grand daughters started with pot in Minneapolis because all of their teen friends didn’t think it was a drug because it was legal in some states. They are now both addicted to fentanyl and 2 great grand kids in the system.

  • @realspen5082
    @realspen5082 6 месяцев назад +6

    I think Chris Herren's story is quite frankly one story than can't be over assessed, over heard, and over understood. He hasn't received the coverage he deserves and quite frankly I'm glad he did an interview with Rich Roll.

  • @jstephenson5014
    @jstephenson5014 5 месяцев назад +6

    As the daughter of a father in recovery, I am just so thrilled for Chris' children and the beautiful relationship he has built with them. Great podcast and once again struck by the ease with which you interview and speak with your guests, Rich. All the best to both of you.

    • @Kevin12321
      @Kevin12321 2 месяца назад

      I’m about six weeks off drugs. I’m having a day where I’m fighting that demon back. The reason I’m saying this to you is I’m about to be a dad. To a daughter in about two months. I needed this. Thanks for commenting

    • @jstephenson5014
      @jstephenson5014 2 месяца назад

      One day at a time, Kevin. I promise you, she will be so proud of you! She needs you!

  • @bigvslittle9565
    @bigvslittle9565 6 месяцев назад +29

    This has to be one of the best RR podcasts ever- I've listened to alot of them over the years and this is pure, unpolished, and powerful. Thank you for sharing.

  • @eaton55r
    @eaton55r 6 месяцев назад +5

    PTSD... Ruminating... Drug addiction, every time I go back there. Memories that are confusing good/bad. Repeating my history, sometimes I gloat about what an idiot I was. Imagine! Other times I am sick to my stomach or cry. For me, it is not a place to keep my thoughts for long, if at all. Maybe some fear of falling back.

  • @Phasefellatv
    @Phasefellatv 4 месяца назад +2

    Why this is so good , when I get my own podcast I want Chris on my podcast. Me and him would be great friends in real life. I’m 3 years alcohol free !

  • @nickweidman
    @nickweidman 2 месяца назад +1

    I’m 15 days sober off a wicked benzo battle and watched Chris’ 30 for 30 in rehab. Thank you Chris for the motivation.

    • @JasonBrown-dd7dj
      @JasonBrown-dd7dj Месяц назад

      Fair play one of the toughest detoxes worst than oxy, pregabs combined keep going.

  • @bro7269
    @bro7269 6 месяцев назад +2

    35 years sober here. A good friend of mine called me the other day and told me that a mutual acquaintance just passed away from an overdose. We were all in recovery at one point many years ago and he couldn’t continue the journey. He left two boys without a father. It’s so sad…

  • @7CFlo
    @7CFlo 6 месяцев назад +10

    26:32 she does know you became sober. You did give it to her

  • @lawschoolpro
    @lawschoolpro 5 месяцев назад +4

    Although I didn’t succeed at a sport like Chris, I succeeded in other ways and I live with the fear as Chris does. I’m battling my own disease, and it comforts me to see this. I’ve admired Chris for quite some time. He’s my recovery hero, and I’m trying to get where he is.

  • @davehouston2
    @davehouston2 6 месяцев назад +9

    Beautiful seeing two amazing men be so transparent and raw. Thank you.

  • @soxlover74
    @soxlover74 8 дней назад

    Love you, brother. It's been a long time. 95 Phillips St. I'm so proud of you, man!

  • @richardlevinsworth3563
    @richardlevinsworth3563 6 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you Rich Roll. We need good hero stories like that of Chris Herren. He is as real as they come.

  • @thomashull7669
    @thomashull7669 6 месяцев назад +23

    its episodes like this that make this podcast so unique and incredible. thank you rich and Chris

  • @elsbetheksteen9231
    @elsbetheksteen9231 6 месяцев назад +3

    Just finished the book Dem0n Copperhead by Barbara Kingsolver yesterday, and oh my goodness. Her novel touches on addiction, childhood and gave my a perspective like no other.

  • @alexisf4444
    @alexisf4444 4 месяца назад +1

    He came to my high school back in 2010 and I never will forget the lessons he taught that day.

  • @karenohanlon4183
    @karenohanlon4183 4 месяца назад +3

    Brilliant statements about sleep and tracking and breathwork and meditation Best person to understand struggling and addiction.

  • @richardc13
    @richardc13 Месяц назад

    Had me in tears multiple times while driving. "I have to be there for my kids, they can't wonder where I am". Broke me

  • @traceymorman1074
    @traceymorman1074 3 месяца назад +1

    One of the most impactful conversations. I have heard and talked with Chris many times. This conversation has me in tears several times. Sobriety is work and this was a raw conversation that shows that.

  • @johnshields6852
    @johnshields6852 4 месяца назад +3

    This guys story is amazing, ive struggled my whole life, its a positive message for anyone of us, thank you.

    • @markg.4246
      @markg.4246 3 месяца назад

      "Struggling" is living in the problem. Sobriety is achieved by "Surrendering", and having the "Willingness" to actually move your feet differently!

  • @bretstevens262
    @bretstevens262 6 месяцев назад +4

    One of the best Rich Roll Podcast ever! Everyone who will listen to this podcast will be affect greatly by it, regardless if they are addict or not!

  • @midgiethompson9236
    @midgiethompson9236 6 месяцев назад +15

    Thank you Rich and Chris for such an impactful discussion that felt raw, vulnerable and oh so touching. I literally gave it 100% of my attention and it touched my core. Love the idea of ‘the first day’ rather than just the last. When I think about how far we, as broken toys, have come; we are all amazing. ❤

  • @donnamalone9229
    @donnamalone9229 6 месяцев назад +20

    Thank you so much, guys. One of the best, beautiful episodes ever.

  • @juliocesarmombiela111
    @juliocesarmombiela111 Месяц назад +1

    Awesome interview. So glad they mentioned about reality of lots of recovery center don't care about recovery just a money business. I'm blessed for the gift of sobriety. Thank you God

  • @Kevin12321
    @Kevin12321 2 месяца назад +2

    I’m about 6 weeks off of them damn things man. Todays a harder one fighting back that demon. I get ya Chris. You were the reason I started trying to change a couple years ago. Keep falling. I’m trying though. White knuckling it as they say in NA. What I’d say to that kid? Nothing. I’d let him do all the talking. Bc noones hearing what he’s asking for.

  • @davemacmicken6668
    @davemacmicken6668 5 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Rich for welcoming Chris Herron and his story, battles, journey and the powerful message he shared and shares daily. Chris’s story hit so close to my heart, by far my most favourite so far for me.
    Thank you
    Dave

  • @lupegallardo4141
    @lupegallardo4141 2 месяца назад +1

    Omg 😱 this has helped me so much today ( needed to get fired back up) . being sober myself for 10 yrs and not knowing what I can I do for my husband who is a functioning alcoholic (for over 20 yrs ) just had me worn out but there’s always hope Ty again #1st time listener

  • @carolgerber6375
    @carolgerber6375 6 месяцев назад +6

    Hugs speak volumes! ❤

  • @bestillent
    @bestillent 6 месяцев назад +7

    This is one of the best conversations I have seen so far, on the podcast. I love watching Rich Rolls Podcasts , it has become my favorite and go to from day to day. Glad to have this staple in my collection. Thank you Rich. Peace Plants Namaste! Be still!

  • @MuswellMunky
    @MuswellMunky 6 месяцев назад +11

    Another awesome upload Rich, I'm stoked for this one. Besides making the NBA and being amazing at Fresno at the collegiate level (shout out to Tark and Skip), he was transcendental in High School - read Fall River Dreams.

  • @Steve-ve7mr
    @Steve-ve7mr 2 месяца назад +1

    God didn’t make a mistake with you Chris. That’s for sure. A lot of stigma will be lessened by this. God Bless fellas.

  • @BrianWelch-kj9qs
    @BrianWelch-kj9qs 9 дней назад +1

    His story reminds me of the Concrete Confessional addiction blog guy's.... They both speak with the power of people who have come back from doom

  • @rosefriel8241
    @rosefriel8241 4 месяца назад +2

    No words large enough- beyond grateful for this honest vulnerability xxx

  • @J.Foss_Oaxaca
    @J.Foss_Oaxaca Месяц назад

    Raw and moving interview. Kudos to Chris for turning his trauma into serving humanity! Thanks for having him on, Rich.

  • @Dpatz33
    @Dpatz33 6 месяцев назад +1

    Chris Herren is a fantastic example of turning your pain into purpose. This guys documentary and interviews/speeches really helped me when I was in the midst of my opiate addiction. Thank you for everything Rich and Chris. Your work is appreciated!

  • @cyndireader7945
    @cyndireader7945 5 месяцев назад +1

    What an incredible story. Chris is so honest, open and raw. I pray this gives hope to those who need it. What an inspiring human.

  • @user-cs5wq6qk4x
    @user-cs5wq6qk4x 6 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for the reminder to stay sober and prioritise beloved people and your goals over the addiction which brings only suffering and nothing else. Hug both of you 🤗

  • @CoolInOlympia
    @CoolInOlympia 6 месяцев назад +10

    This is a great interview, Rich! What a story!

  • @denisstojanovic6129
    @denisstojanovic6129 6 месяцев назад +1

    Only 10 minutes into this story i resognate with everything he said. Excet my addiction was sexual compulsive behaviour which kept me feel normal but sober now for 8months from any acting out behaviour i feel alive. My marriage was safed and i feel like a new person now. The only thing i can contribute to my recovery was having a sense of purpose in my life, and the love for my wife that i allowed to break me and feel my raw self getting through it all. Its soo worth it coming out the othwr side now, but now the game is to co tinue in recovery and be whoever i want to be now. We can love each other again and that is something worth fighting for

  • @JConnorJohnson
    @JConnorJohnson 24 дня назад

    Growing up when I’d see a homeless person I never thought that would happen to me. I had goals and dreams. I’ve been battling a heroin and fentanyl addiction for 13 years now. I was sitting on a bridge all alone and people walking by and I felt invisible and I thought back to being a kid. I never thought I’d be a homeless heroin addict. I’ve never liked who I was. I was a broken toy.

  • @digger3578
    @digger3578 3 месяца назад +1

    Wow. Addiict here. The similarities are wild. I did my coke in Fresno, woke up in a crashed car in a cemetery and my lover who is standing by me is also a Heather.

  • @Dane-Perkins
    @Dane-Perkins Месяц назад

    His life story is powerful.. God has purpose for us all ..Thank you God guide and direct my thinking so I may have the strength to help others

  • @j.m.oliver2072
    @j.m.oliver2072 2 дня назад

    They showed us that movie when I was in treatment help change my life

  • @homirasharif3516
    @homirasharif3516 6 месяцев назад +3

    My husband is alcoholic for whole of my marriage of 35 years its destroy our life a s forever his promises to stop has left our family broken the kids lost their childhood and lives living in fear - I hate what it has done to my family

  • @Oliver_issac
    @Oliver_issac День назад +1

    Thank you for the truth

  • @_LVC
    @_LVC 6 месяцев назад +9

    I only share this to let someone know it's possible , 37 years, my only goal is to die sober, I leave everything else up to gods plan, you can do it too

    • @glory2glory679
      @glory2glory679 6 месяцев назад +2

      Thank you.. I'm currently fighting for my life. May The Lord keep us both

    • @_LVC
      @_LVC 6 месяцев назад

      @@glory2glory679 there is a saying that helps me, SURRENDER TO WIN , you can stop fighting and accept that you have been defeated, and no amount of human willpower will be enough to help us stop, here is a prayer I use when I feel overwhelmed, GOD HELP ME, simple, say it once or a hundred times a day, , yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, today is a gift, that's why it's called the present 🎁 and your mind is like a parachute, it only works when it's open, I wish you well my friend,. YOU GOT THIS 👍

  • @catsteinhilb2880
    @catsteinhilb2880 6 месяцев назад +2

    As a mother, heart wrenching…to see your son sober as your dying wish…”just hug him”. Powerful interview

  • @BertoBoyd
    @BertoBoyd 3 месяца назад

    A student of mine told me about Chris last year and when I looked him up I didn’t really find anything other than a few articles. This was the perfect format to hear his story and it resonated heavily with me. Thank you Rich for bringing out the best of your guest!

  • @joshthompson6497
    @joshthompson6497 28 дней назад

    I’m 27, 28 in two months. Lost a nice car to repossession. Moved states. Got another car, got a place. Got evicted 4 months ago. About to have my second repossession. I drew the line today. Alcohol is nasty and it ruins everything. I’m so blind. Fight with parents, lose friends. Mental/physical health is no good. I’m sitting here with a migraine as I type this because I haven’t drank today. I’m grasping this 24 hr token wanting to get some beer right now. But I want change. Went to my first AA meeting today. Life changing. Instantly went to the nearest rehab center and got all the information I could. I’ll be self admitting here in a few days, after I have to burn yet another bridge and tell my room mate that I failed him and can no longer afford this. But I need to change my life before I end up on the streets or dead.

  • @kimedison6677
    @kimedison6677 6 месяцев назад +2

    My new favorite interview. I was familiar with Chris Herren's story. His recovery journey and commitment to helping others is commendable. Interesting that he never loved basketball. So glad that he found his purpose, it's gift to all of us. Just as RR is. Thank you RR & CH.

  • @kirk-b-patrick
    @kirk-b-patrick 6 месяцев назад +2

    I got a lot of inspiration from Chris and his words. It was the little spark that started the fire in me to get clean. Thanks, Chris!!

  • @joanowens7941
    @joanowens7941 6 месяцев назад +2

    This interview was intense and raw. You both have so much courage. Thank you for sharing your time with us.

  • @brittweir8844
    @brittweir8844 3 месяца назад +1

    ❤I’m so moved ❤

  • @senseofwonder4734
    @senseofwonder4734 6 месяцев назад

    What a brave and humble interview. Thank you for this.

  • @isabelltecaxco-yd3lw
    @isabelltecaxco-yd3lw 3 месяца назад

    This man sure did have a lot of people who were there for him and I think most of us don't have that kind of support. I'm a much older person who has dealt with addiction for decades.... I never had a twig to snap let alone any support... So I still struggle with it and going to these rehab places sounds bad, I've heard many stories about them and I know that I must do it on my own. I'm close but still very scared... my mental health has suffered through the years and not to mention the physical beatings I endured over and over. My head has been beaten up too much. I can only hope God will hear my prayer for freedom from these chains. Please pray for me if you read this.... thank you

  • @CBronsk
    @CBronsk 6 месяцев назад

    A very moving and impactful conversation, and easily one of your best episodes, Rich. I’m grateful to you both for what you’ve shared and for your commitment to serving others.

  • @Diamond_Motivation
    @Diamond_Motivation 6 месяцев назад +2

    I love this!! It spoke to my spirit!! Let's get it done!!!

  • @broculorevoltado1955
    @broculorevoltado1955 6 месяцев назад

    What a amazing, powerful and raw conversation! Thank you both for this episode and being so vulnerable!!! ❤

  • @SuzanneShaw-tk4np
    @SuzanneShaw-tk4np 4 месяца назад +1

    Amazing. Two incredible men . Thank you for this.

  • @cpkay33
    @cpkay33 6 месяцев назад

    great interview. thankful for these conversations. bless.

  • @mcmahonbiz
    @mcmahonbiz 6 месяцев назад +2

    Beautiful message, great interview! I agree with Chris, change the negative language and the negative self talk taught in the 12 step rooms of recovery.

  • @ErinBurch-sh6zv
    @ErinBurch-sh6zv 5 месяцев назад

    This was SO AMAZING! What a hero! Both of them! Thank you!!!

  • @joedugan9021
    @joedugan9021 6 месяцев назад +1

    This was a fantastic podcast! Strong, raw and impactful. Thank you Chris and RR for your continued inspiration.

  • @tdee1575
    @tdee1575 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for the work you do, Rich. I've been sober for over five years and you, your book and this podcast were part of the community that helped me get there.