Brian GRILLS Her For Going On 50 DATES In 50 DAYS!
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Man am such a BLESSED guy! My wife was 19yrs, virgin, college student, living at home when I met her. She’s Japanese very very feminine, strong, loving and great cook. 33 years later, 2 kids and going strong.
Hmm.. so according to statistics.. shouldn't be long now..
(JK)
;)
W BLESSED guy
@@StupidEarthlings Do you mean your own marriage?
How old were you?
@@Papidivine 24
This also proves that ultimate amount of “choice” ruins women’s ability to settle down and be with!
"The paradox of choice is a phenomenon where an abundance of options can counterintuitively lead to less happiness, less satisfaction, and hamper the ability to make a decision."
Also woman usually have hard time taking the decision in any instance. Having even more options leads to taking the choice at random.
Absolutely. Deluded sense of self worth and over confidence.
She’s so proud of it like it’s accomplishment 😅🤦♂️
It's the only thing she'll accomplish in her life, so she has to take it as one.
She’s completely vainglorious and has inflated sense of self worth.
Literally all she had to do was respond to men. Her "accomplishment" costed her nothing and costed the men a total of thousands of dollars.
I can’t believe that these women don’t see anything wrong with the scenario of dating different guys everyday, even though it’s not a proper date and it was just for coffee. If the situation was reversed, these women would go ballistic on these men.
Yep. Totally inequality between the sexes. In dating terms. And we’re r supposed to care about the gender pay gap.
yeah bec they have that choice so they will like to keep it
You're what they refer to as a "keeper".
50 is excessive however , to go on more then one date in a week is reasonable and is how TRADITIONAL courtship occurred. (Even Kevin samples said go on 2-3 dates per week ) .He said his prefer is she goes on one a month .. well the downfall to that is she has to now dismiss and say to a potential suitor all because she went on one date. Also these are people who don’t know if they even like eachother so nothing was invested. It’s no different if she encountered multiple men in person on a day to day and a few of them decided hey let me pay for that for you.
She was literally speed dating , but instead of going through that many men at an event , they were spread out day to day
I want my lost brain cells back.
Me too lol
AMEN
I can assume her 50 dates in 50 days were with chads, I bet she gave the box up to at least half of them !
100% she probably also slept with the 2 dates in a day guys too
My thoughts exactly 😂 these shows are starting to make me hate women 😂
She’s been ran through.
Ran through like a train thru a tunnel..and..speaking of trains..
Going out on 50 dates in 50 days, doesn't give you a chance to connect with someone. This shows that some woman know if they're into you or not within meeting. Plus, going on multiple dates, I'm just another dude. And it looks sorta way.
I wouldn't really mind it if she was up front about it but when she admitted she ghosted some of the guys you know she was stringing them along in other words kept a roster and even bragged to the guy she liked about ghosting her roster like it meant something lol. Like you said, you want to be with someone who is into you everything else can keep moving
Women* idk why everyone is confusing the two now
The problem here is that broads have massively downgraded the meaning of the word "date".
To them it just means "simply meeting people" when in reality a date is to know people for a possible relationship...........and it takes more than one day to do that (which is why it can only be done one at a time if you are for real).
The problem is that women have different definitions for dating.
Some think it's meeting someone.
Some think it's vetting them for a relationship.
Some think it must be dinner, where the guy pays.
Some think it's having sex, or could include sex.
When I was young , it was, "talking to " another dude.
exactly, can't be taking it too seriously when you have the distraction of 2 or other guys in the back of your mind
A heart breaker. Not worth the time.
A woman that discards men just because of the color of their hair says everything I need to know about her.
Man…. Every woman on earth does this. It’s called their “type” I applaud this woman for dating outside her “type”…
It’s called having a preference dude. A man will discard a woman because of her weight for example. It’s preference. People that watch red pill content too much don’t seem to think for themselves and only regurgitate what they hear on RUclips or at least what they think they hear.
Totally true. Completely facile.
@@marcorodriguez7694 so you're totally ok with a girl saying, "I don't like black guys.",? Or, "I don't like Asian guys.," yes, there are preferences. I really dig blonde and redhead girls. Most of my relationships have been with brunettes.
@@toddtravis2596 I am perfectly fine with anyone having their preferences, yes. Freedom of speech. I’m not here to control anyone’s opinions, preferences or beliefs. We all have the rights to our preferences and if you don’t like it then too bad for you isn’t it.
This girl is a liar, you can tell right away
Actually her body language suggests the opposite, she isn’t lying at all. Especially how well she answers his spitfire questions.
@@summerassaf Exactly. She spoke well, was calm, didn't seem nervous, articulated her points very well and was respectful. Brian on the other hand seemed triggered while she respected his opinion.
Agree.. amazing how many people just don't have that 'sense' to tell when someone is lying. (IE, Brian believing most 304s on the show).
@@marcorodriguez7694 Brian has so many issues, idk on what planet he considers himself a value man, he really seems to have a chip on his shoulder to me.
I know you don’t want to believe it but she is attractive and nicely spoken enough to pull it off. Only a top tier guy well known, great looks, rich if not wealthy, and substantial status can do such.
She is drop-dead gorgeous, but i wouldn’t trust her. Which would ruin relationship from the start.
Right, she’s pretty but knowing that she’s been on multiple dates has some trust issues to me. More just like a hit and run then long term lol.
Average.
Stop simping.
She's overrated, could land a jumbo jet on that forehead. Total turn off after hearing her talk.
@@chitownbob9714If you could do better, you'd be knocking the bottom out of her equal. Yet, here you are.
This proves “Genuine Burning Desire” actually exists with Women!
She’s either super into you or She’s not!
It also proves that women don't understand what that means what it's for or how to cultivate it
Brian you’re tripping, yeah 50 guys is a lot. But she wasn’t sleeping with the guys. You’re making too much out of this
Brian wants complete loyalty & devotion from women he’s attempting to go on a first date with 😂😆😂 this is the same delusion they talk about women having 😂
I get the feeling brian has been hurt a lot. He talks about wanting a girl to be completely invested before meeting in person for the first time. Thats crazy. I personally would want to date around to see whats out there and choose the right one for me. I get it that some guys rarely date but you can't expect that from a girl especially if shes good looking.
if she is good looking and at a certain age its a red flag
Can you imagine a ten min clip of whatever without Brian repeating the same sentence 5 times in a row and not being able to carry a convo
Brian can have his preferences but I feel Brian is reaching a bit in this convo. It's a different dating environment out there. I don't really have an issue with the lady's approach cause it's a casual 1st date that's doesn't sound like it's a hookup. Once she found a good one, she committed and got out of the market. She's attractive and so she has the ability to pull 50 dates to quickly find a new potential partner. Context is important cause the reality is a lot of girls will drag guys along for multiple dates and that's the situation we should be more upset about if we're being honest.
I went on a date with a woman..... she threw up on our first date!
I could have walked away feeling like I had been trodden on, rejected and feeling like I was discussing, but I didn't....
I am now engaged to that same woman. She has been with me through thick and thin and I love her more than anything in the world.
Honest truth is that if it was you who threw up on y’all first date there wouldn’t have been a 2nd date… difference between men and women.
Haha, mine and my wife's first date story is very similar.
She has a dairy allergy and we didn't know that our appetizer had parmesan.
The date was going well, but she suddenly asked me to drive her home abruptly and I ended up having to pull over to let her throw up.
She was convinced she would never hear from me again.
5 years later, were married with a kid. Haha
But why did she throw up? Information helps understanding context. 🤦🏾
@@Whitesquall123 i wouldnt date somebody that is alergic to parmesan
@@alejandrohayling8381 she's allergic to all dairy, unfortunately - not just parmesan.
Well, almost all dairy, we learned that she can drink A2 pasteurized milk. If you have any friends with a dairy allergy, tell them to try A2 milk.
What’s hard about having that many dates is manipulating that many people to think that you are genuine and actually interested in them or want to get to know them where they’re literally just a number in a sheet you have that is a sick way to think of any human being.
Brian is only voicing His opinion. He doesn’t speak for me. I don’t think a majority of guys would disqualify a girl doing on multiple dates. And she’s right, if a guy could he would go on multiple dates.
There's always one guy willing to be called N E X T
if a guy can pull that many dates there would be more marriages
Her face is screaming extreme arrogance from the fact that she did this. I feel sorry for whatever dude "wins" out of 100000 dates
To think that she thinks that it’s justifiable for the 50 dates pay for her. I love it when they say they offered to go halves. Why don’t they ever offer to foot the whole bill, or buy both of the coffees.
@@cseosborn892they offer to go halves, but will never talk to the guy again. That’s the issue. They will do it, but will look down on him. If it’s just a meeting then it should be half and half. My last first date I had I paid for. But we had been talking a lot on the phone already and already falling for each other.
Not together now but we had a fun week with lots of s*x. Totally worth the $40+ tip lol
I'm one of the hottest guys in my city.
Tall, rich, athletic.
I don't date.
I just laugh at them.
They hate me. 😅
Bryan failed to explain that we as men have a perception that a woman that went on those multiple dates were sleeping with multiple men. Even if that not true that type of behaviour is 304 activity.
No dude is looking forward to being N E X T
Yes, you can tell by her looks and how she said "and they both matched" AKA she only swiping right on Chads..and it's more believable that a few of those Chads got to smash during this process.
Brian is so unlike me
Brian was hurt so bad lol damn it’s saf
Not telling is being deceitful and selfish because the only intent is your benefit and your only.
Yes and women will NEVER disclose to you if they are seeing multiple guys at once. You actually have to ask them (and hope) they will be honest with you.
The men on this comment section are as bad as Brian. How can you be jealous of potential?!
this is mens "ick" no exclusivity,50 dates and you believe she aint ran through ?
They can't get dates because they're intolerable men that think women are against them because they take the women on this podcast as an average pool of women when they're not
After 49 dates and 49 kisses you get to be lucky # 50 🤮. And she won’t tell you beforehand either. But remember she chose you 😀. And we’re supposed to be happy with this? Stay single men. Or get a passport. This is revolting
I really think you need to analyze your idea of talking to and a date. A date is like dipping your toe in the water to see if you want to swim in the pool. Talking is actually swimming in that pool. If she cancels a date with another guy because sue interested in you so she can open her schedule to follow up that date. Bottom line, if you’re actually genuinely interested in a woman, you have been prepping your whole life to impress her with who you are as a person, why not go in to show that you appreciate the opportunity to take her out. Your duty as a man is make a woman that you are interested in feel special, feel important to you, and feel that you want to continue further with a second date.
For the streets!
she talks trash to Brian and throws it in his face "why, is it because you can only get 2 dates a month?" like, she is so good because she dated 50 guys in 50 days; where did dating those 50 guys get you?
9:17 it is horrifying that these women can't understand that a date has the presupposition that it is to look at building a relationship not just talking like friends that's not a date that's a meeting, that's hanging out that is nowhere near a date and the fact that this woman is claiming that she was hanging out with 50 dudes on 50s is kind of suspicious and kind of disgusting because she's simultaneously claiming that she was giving men she would never give a chance to a chance which means each of them supposedly had equal amounts of chances to get with her like the two men that did which is horrifying to contemplate because of each of them have the same amount of chances that's not hanging out that's not dating that's interviewing boyfriends.
And not to mention that it was coercive and manipulative because these men did not know what you were doing you were also, dating with Moline intention, because you did have the intent to do something it was to find out what was out there, that you're "missing".
You are quite literally advertising to the world right now on this podcast that what you did as an experiment used men, and that it is a good thing for women to do.
Whilst complaining that men use women all the time, that women are oppressed and abused and used because men have intentions that women don't understand.
I pray you learn to use logic one day
mEN LIVE ON DATING WEBSITES WITH MILLIONS OF WOMEN, BUT HE CALLS HER BAD???
I don't think he called her bad, I heard he'd pass on her and let the 50 other dudes figure it out.
Intimate Speed Dating....that sounds icky
Brian is tripping
Dude who "forgot" his wallet lowkey W
This is absolutely amazing... the fact they really cannot wrap their heads around how fucked up it is dating numerous men without telling each one what youre doing.
Clueless to the concept that no man wants to be called N E X T. Wouldn't touch her with a 10 foot pole.
I feel like rip van winkle bad watching these videos like knock me the f out again wake me up 2049.
@@areuarealman7269 lol
I just don’t understand it.. I just turned 31 and I’ve only been with 2 men in my life.. I rather spend my time bettering myself then sleeping around. I’d rather meet someone organically & in the meantime, I’ll be learning to cook, refinish furniture and all that good stuff. What happened to traditional women?
Feminism on steroids. While they were being taught to stand up for themselves they were also taught their poop don't stink and to hate men, first, last and always.
Her going on this podcast to expose her scam is essentially dry snitching.. on HERSELF! 😂🤡
some one can explain to me the girl who alwais have a helmet and the guys in uniform we see since couple weeks please im just curious 🙂
I havent had 50 dates in the 3 years amd this girl had 50 dates in 50 days. Bruh its really your turn when its your turn aint it
Brian is against speed dating to find a connection and then start a relationship
Its better than hook up culture
Brian is just always whining
Yep, a guy with standards, character, wants and needs from his partner is a whiner and must be destroyed.
@@busher69
You absolutely missed the point. I see that you are unable to to listen because you are too damn defensive.
Having standards and boundaries and such is not whining.
Im saying he is completely judgmental about EVERYTHING.
Look the girl met men. In a public place. She said some dates were only 15 minutes for a cup of coffee.
She didn't want to waste time. She wanted to find someone she clicked with. Once she found that guy..she stopped all the dates. She didn't sleep with anyone she was just meeting them.
Maybe when your older ypu will understand how its hard to find a connection. Finding a random hook up at a bar is easy and leads nowhere. She wanted a boyfriend so she gave men a shot..met in a public place and hangout for a bit. Seriously kid I think you should just let the adults talk ok..
Have a good day at school
I'm curious, have any of these women ever dated an actual man ?
That text 2 speech shit is the worst. IT's like Opie from Opie and Anthony radio show where he would do everything possible to stop the funny from all the guys talking hilarious shit and Opie jumping in with dumb comments or going to the phones to hear from the listeners while Anthony, Patrice, Bill Burr or whoever was on that day going in hard on funny shit about race, sex, guy stuff etc.
He's being sorta a judgemental prick tbh. Makes some decent points, but cut out the "Scummy" comments
Lmao she used 50 first dates as her reason. The comparison is legit the exact opposite 💀 I’m out
Never take advice from someone who have not been successful at what they are advising you on
Then, they want to speak about the wage gap. If you are on 2 dates in one day when do you work.
If she is dating with no intent, why couldn’t a man meet to try and hook up equally with no intent?
Brian has no strong argument in this one. I fail to see where he grills her. She made more sense than him.
50 dates straight isnt a turn off? salute to hook up culture
@lnb252 not the best thing to do: agreed, but it is still reasonable considering that she was transparent about it.
@joseguardado565 well she admit these r not meet and greets. There was kissing. Imagine 50 days kissing 50 different guys and u were #51 Mr.Right
@Truthone-f7j yes, but she says some of them, not all.
None of the 50 guys had chance, she didnt went on the dates with idea to get to know them and find a guy, a partner for herself, but to be entertained for an evening, of half of it, and move one, to perform social experiment, they were just line in her excel sheet she prolly made to keep track of them.
shes repeating she did to give chance to more and to different types of guys but she ended up with guy she found attractive( so nothing new here) but hes blond not brunet as most of her previous partners, thats all whats new about him, and hes not one of the 50 victims.
the 50 guys believed theyve got at least minimal chance and spent time and money on her while for her they meant nothing, just personal challenge to go out with anyone for two month.
Exactly, after a date she hollers N E X T and she's off to the next guy in line.
Again no accountability!!!!
The man is putting everything into that date. And you have no interest cuz you’re doing 50guys and I’m a number. We are putting everything into it. And her your just a number.
Bet ya none of the guys were aware of the other 49 guys… sorry I’m no oil painting but that is just shallow and horrible and don’t give a hoot about the guys feelings… SHAME ON YOU!
Also, get some real adult actresses on your podcast! Would love to hear that conversation
50 first dates is much different than dating 50 people… I actually love what she did. Accept the dating app thing, and idk why.
Wait hold on, you want a woman all to yourself in every way, but you also want her to be easily attracted to anyone & everyone? I can’t with this episode.
She said it just getting to know people. Yeah at their expense. Then when she decides to be with you she demands monogamy.
What’s crazy is this is ACTUALLY how dating was done in the 1950s. Super casual no expectations, they all dated multiple people, but there was no sex.
@markasread4349 most people didn’t have premarital sex in the 50s. Television isn’t where this information comes from!!! My grandparents told me this. The women were so scared to get pregnant and be sent to a unwed women’s home
Good lord...there are guys dying to just go on one date..this lady had 50 dates lined up day to day! Christ
These shows are making me hate women
14 dates it’s all in the introductory and experimental stage and she is wise enough to know that she could benefit from an overload personality types and develop a level of sophistication to weed out the shite 🤷🏻♂️
There's putting all your eggs on one basket, and then there's weaving a basket for every egg. Sheesh! 😮💨
Is that Steve Irwin’s daughter in the middle? Lol.
Crickey!! I recon it is!
Nah, the Irwins are decent people
Brian is delusional lol traditional dating, ollllld school courting was many men flocking to the single women of town and competing for their attention. I think he has an idea that traditional was just boys and girls chance meeting and falling in love lol lol
thats his point women should pay for dates untill the guy agrees to give them a relationship
Yeah? Women also had doweries as well. We aren't back then anymore though so...
Brian I understand your concept about dating, but I like how she dates too.
Exactly, she's an easy make and one to avoid and run like hell from
I concur with Brian and Q, and every man should as well.
Heroin use is a big turn off.
So to simplify and not waste time, I exclude all heroin users, as they tend to have destroyed lives and tend to destroy others lives.
So to save time, I choose not to date that type of person.
I don't know why he fumbles around so much and often, if it's real, or he is like a woman playing a role.
Imagine you are a vegan, and don't want to date a person who will eat meat.
Dating for the sake of dating is a waste of time and money and good will.
Maybe it's the use of the word dating.
In the old days if you were dating you were exclusive to each other.
As opposed to going on a date and watching a movie, eating dinner, going dancing, etc...
Every guy should remember those faces and know what they'll be used as (hook up and move it along)
You can go on a lot of dates and not have sex. You can tell if there is chemistry. Dates don't have to be expensive.
@markasread4349 I think the internet glorifies 304s. 15 years ago I went on a lot of public coffee dates especially in the summer when I was single. I know my husband was the one when we first met.
Sure, but women are also VERY selective with who they go out with. She was likely dating the top 10% type of guys. You know the types of guys who CAN get one night stands from women? 😮
Even if men could do this, I don't believe we would. Especially with the precondition that men are to pay for dates. We'd go broke after the first round of dating 😂😂
Women can do this because of two major reasons:
1. The ease by which they can procure dates.
2. They're not expected to pay.
Women take for granted how easy the dating market is for them.
Woman also cheat emotionally right? So when she goes man to man to test their attention that’s showing she happy to manipulate and play the field for her full advantage. It’s self serving and borderline sociopathic to treat others in such a way. If the guys knew the deal that would be fair but it’s like the bachelorette but these guys don’t know they are on a show. I’ve had over 90 women and never did I lie about what I was looking for or lead anyone on infect most of the girls had not wanted any relationship at that time and the select few that did understood where I was coming from at the time. Yes I looks back and see a few I should’ve date but I never played games
The lady wins this argument. The other lady was also right. You are never guaranteed a second date. That where the argument ends.
want a traditional dude but they aint traditional women,they can pay for their own dates
I think the point is that 1. People shouldn't go on dates with someone that they don't truly consider a possible romantic interest. And 2. It makes it near impossible to actually give a guy a fair chance if you're already thinking about the 6 other dates you have lined up that week. You have no reason to dig deeper, and you feel justified for disqualifying the person for even the most petty of reasons. Not to mention it will very quickly give someone an overinflated ego to move this way. It's no way to properly get to know someone, so no, she didn't "win" and it isn't a healthy practice.
That '50 1st dates' chic looks decent.. like a mix between Eliza Dushku, and Neve Campbell..
I think the word Brian was trying to find was “selective”. If a woman is going out on 50 dates that tells me she isn’t selective and isn’t going to invest her time on one person because she has a string of men lined up. Also, there is this notion of “grass is greener” or “what if” meaning if on date 2 she gets on with someone there is always going to be that thought in her mind of what she left on the table. Personally, when I use dating apps the first week is a vetting process. How long you been single, when was your last date etc etc. It’s information to help me build a picture of the type of person they are and whether they are someone I want to meet up for a date. Women get overloaded with messages from men on apps so they get confused on how they feel about people because there is always someone seemingly better messaging them.
You can tell that chick on the right of Brian’s screen was NOT happy about the men not enjoying women frequently dating and dismissing the importance of truly investing your time and effort into dates lol. She argues just as much as the 50 dates chick
Black guy 4:53 “even i can’t get 50 dates “. 23:58 “I can charm any woman “He really thinks he is like a movie star 😂. Internet popularity has produced narcissistic people. More women of course but some men too, like this case
women understand that dating is ez and to certain extent they understand dating is hard for men but where the disconnect happens is they don't know HOW hard itis dating as a man, she went on 50 dates and maybe maybe about 10 of those guys had other options. To her and 10 guys its just a first date but to the other 40 its do or die time. Which why most men i think would perfer to be dismissed, we know how picky women are so to even get a first date with a women men knows she has to be at least around 70% + into you before she agrees to a first date, so if women just go into like "ehhh lets see" his chance drop from 70% to like 30%. So he's going in their think he at least has a good chance when in reality unless he brings 200% A game he got no chance, now he wasted HIS time HIS money which couldve been spent on a girl who had an actual interest in him even if it took longer to find
She actually spitting so much truth dude
She's good from a far but far from good
There is nothing wrong with how Brian feels. I actually find it very attractive that he thinks this way. I understand where he is coming from too.
It’s easy to go on 50 dates if they’re all free.
Not really. Finding 50 different people that are all interested in you at one time is pretty crazy.
@@karlmyles9097 It’s easy if you’re female
@@karlmyles9097 lol absurd. The only issue she would have is whether or not SHE likes the guys profile enough to swipe right..and you know she is only swiping right on the top tier guys in her area. She even stated she had two weeks of blocked out times for dates every day...she didn't have ANY trouble getting 50 dates like most women wouldn't.
@@zenzorkle5160 . Stop listening to these men who really believe they know everything. Finding 50 men who are all available for dates is not easy for the average woman. Idc what is often stated on these types of podcasts.
@@karlmyles9097 this chick on the panel literally had 14 dates over 14 days. SHE was the one who said it. It wasn't the guys. Again, a woman can go on ANY of these dating apps and match with 100 guys plus in one day if they are located in a decently populated city.
Now it's the women who are extremely picky who may only choose 15-20 of those guys out of 100 to go out in dat s with. But they will still you continue to get more matches daily...you don't realize how EASY it is for women to get hundreds ot matches people week on dating apps.
The biggest issue for women isn't the lack of options for them, it's just the time it would take to sift thru those options. Again..that's having it on easy mode when it comes to dating.
.when a woman's complaint is "gosh it just takes so much time to go through ALL the options I have". That's dating on easy mode.
A chick who is a 5 or a 6..could easily get 100 matches per week.
If u think getting 50;dates off of that is hard .then u don't live in reality
19:00 Sure, a guy would like to have more dates...but pay every day for another person without gettin something from her? hell no
Sounds to me that dating apps are the problem. Dating apps a great for boosting women's egos and giving women the option to spin plates.
You r being way hard on this girl who was just trying to meet her guy. She paid for her own shit on several of the dates... you keep bringing up the 2 date thing as a scenario for long term but she made it clear she broke it off as soon as she met her guy. It's not a women's fault we are able to Date more often then men. There are pluses to being a women and pluses to being a man... no, not masaginist and yes I would vote for him.
Nah. She was doing it way too much of a "numbers game" instead of actually trying to at least get to know a guy even a little bit before the date. I don't just go on dates with women unless I have had one 10-15 minute phone conversation w them before the date. She didn't do that at all to even get to know a guy even a little bit. Remember guys also have that ability to cancel a date if they talk to a woman first and there is something "off" or that they don't like about her. She totally took that option away from any man to "prescreen" her before the dates.
She was making it essentially impossible to give most of the guys an actual fair shake though. Why even get to properly know someone if you have 6 more dates lined up this week? You can go ahead and immediately disqualify him for something totally petty or inconsequential, all because you have the ever elusive chance of finding "the perfect guy" on one of your other myriad of dates. Your attitude is the same as all the other single women that move like this. Spoiled for choice, but always choosing wrong because hey, I've got the chance for a better option tomorrow. There's a reason she isn't still with ANY of those guys.
@@blubirdhill2608 exactly. And when u are having to divide the time with so many men and dates, even going on coffee dates on ur lunch hour (which would be hurried and she would be checking her phone to see how much time she had left) is abbreviated and a half azz way of doing it.
If she would have spread her dates out by weeks say she went on one date a week but had a week before each date so she could give that guy people oper attention and have some communication that would have at least been better.
But she did a half azz numbers game instead of giving guys a "real shot" and it's likely why she is no longer with any of the guys she actually picked. She self sabotaged herself but is too dumb to realize it..
If a man went on 50 dates in 50 days with 50 different women, he would end up broke and insane.
Wait..
I can't keep up with this insanity.
What happened to the MeToo movement?
I hope you know this channel is ultimate brain rot from all parties involved
Hes just scared the girl might find a guy that's not cheap 😅
The one girl that keeps saying "reference" instead of preference 😂
Jesus coming back soon for these unrighteousness souls out here
So was this guy she gave chance to short and a bus driver? 🤔
She spends like 300 bucks on just her hair lol bye
Both men and women who are single typically have a roster, both men and women who are single talk to multiple people, both men and women who are single have non-exclusive relationships.
most men dont date let alone able to get multiple dates within a year
Doesn't realise she sounds really shallow, not the sharpest eh
I actually don't care. One first date a week, two a month, 10 a month? What is too many dates? As long as I'm the last she dates, while we date, idgaf. Hell, who am I to speak anyways? I'm out here spinning plates😂
All yours brother.
Enjoy the degeneracy I guess 😂
😂😂 how many dates WTF Dead girl walking
11:21 having options, is nowhere near the same thing as stopping exploring those options, after you've met the guy and expecting him to find that complimentary because what you were doing is you are saying you were just one of many. I felt good about myself when I was exploring many options at the same time, just because you make me feel good.
Do you understand the connotations of that, do you understand the implications of your character in saying that?
You are saying that even when you find nice things you're still exploring options and it's only when you find something that is good enough to make you feel good about yourself, do you stop.
That means as soon as he stops making you feel good about yourself, you're just going to explore options again and I guarantee you you have problems with men doing the same fucking thing.
Because oopsy Daisy you're making moralistic arguments with a non-realistic secular viewpoint about what dating and relationships is because it's not finding someone that you feel you can hold the duty and responsibility to love them, it's how you feel.
With dating apps out there, paying on the first date is like paying people to come interview for a job. They haven't shown you any value besides a first glance resume (picture and tinder profile). They're demanding to be paid well for the interview (dinner and drinks paid). Some of them are just using interviews as a side hustle (foodie calls). They're demanding to be paid just for their time interviewing and them making themselves presentable (pay for my beauty routine), they show no interest after the first 5 mins, and just want their paycheck so they can line up a better interview that day (foodie call first booty call second), they complain there are no good jobs out there, because the ones she actually wants just schedule a few interviews and don't hire her (overvaluing themselves)
To be honest, I kind of cool how that lady who had dates lined up went about things, as long as she truly stopped talking to the other guys after finding someone shes interested in.
I think Brian and most guys (like myself) would just find it hard to trust that shes actually not talking to other guys after the fact, at first. Might just take time to build that trust.
Intentions are hard to validate.
These girls are so low-key mad that Brian is rejecting their ideas. He's not even rejecting them personally, he's simply rejecting their dating ideals - and they can't stop insisting that he *must* be wrong. In their minds they have to be right 100% of the time and cannot handle any other outcome.
They have no concept that no guy is gonna stand in line and be called N E X T. Self absorbed air heads.