Deon Cole | The Way To A Woman's Heart

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  • Опубликовано: 9 ноя 2024

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  • @anelisamorgan8590
    @anelisamorgan8590 2 года назад +4816

    Communication is key. Either side of the fence.

    • @melaniestarkey7868
      @melaniestarkey7868 2 года назад +9

      Communication:
      Do you have any money? Do I have any money yes let's go.

    • @chessflower2092
      @chessflower2092 2 года назад +3

      In real life. That's a key to a better day with a partner. And having a plan if, A doesn't work. 😄 I like my girl to walk beside me. Not a head or behind. Even though it's a nice view from behind at times. But as the saying goes. Beside ever good man there's a good women that helped get were they got😏🤑.

    • @Hufi2.
      @Hufi2. 2 года назад +1

      100% true

    • @carolh7309
      @carolh7309 2 года назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @lokiprepper
      @lokiprepper 2 года назад +2

      Been married 13 years, and communication is definitely one of the absolute most important things to a successful relationship. Good communication that is. Some kinds of communication are not so good.

  • @scottpollock6549
    @scottpollock6549 2 года назад +4694

    "Not yet? Okay." absolutely sent me 😂

    • @razorr1077
      @razorr1077 2 года назад +13

      😂🤣

    • @kngaman9
      @kngaman9 2 года назад +8

      NO WAY SCOTTY P

    • @ANJIN-p4q
      @ANJIN-p4q 2 года назад +11

      He's right tho. Listening works sometimes but it's unbearable.

    • @TheSCPStudio
      @TheSCPStudio 2 года назад +5

      @@ANJIN-p4q that's your fault for choosing someone you don't like talking to.

    • @dragonflyjones4611
      @dragonflyjones4611 2 года назад +1

      Scott buttocks

  • @vlynettemcnulty5102
    @vlynettemcnulty5102 2 года назад +11

    He's actually CORRECT.
    💯💯👏🏾👏🏾
    👍🏾👍🏾🥇🥇

  • @cherylharrison5785
    @cherylharrison5785 2 года назад +7

    It was the handful flip out for me...😂😆🤣🦋💜

  • @omarkingrivera9344
    @omarkingrivera9344 2 года назад +5

    The "not yet" part was super funny!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🐐🐐🐐🐐🐐👑👑👑👑💙💙💙💙💙💯💯💯💯💯🙌👏👍🙏🤓🍻

  • @ewms4931
    @ewms4931 2 года назад +8383

    Well, she actually has to wanna talk to you first...

    • @dripzzyute1331
      @dripzzyute1331 2 года назад +68

      Truss me🤣

    • @mrsoshadabaadman
      @mrsoshadabaadman 2 года назад +80

      It's a guide to escape the friendzone.

    • @g-saviour6581
      @g-saviour6581 2 года назад +81

      And she don’t do that unless you roll up in the newest most expensive car

    • @AD_Apex
      @AD_Apex 2 года назад +8

      Wtf is that bro who tf taught you grammar

    • @noobpro9759
      @noobpro9759 2 года назад +25

      I promise, you get her talking about anything and you show you're a good listener and can be worried about and remember her problems and likes then you are practically in.

  • @blooeagle5118
    @blooeagle5118 2 года назад +2818

    Age old thing, just be yourself and find contentedness in your life, keep it simple. You attract the person that will want to be around you

    • @Mr_Yeah
      @Mr_Yeah 2 года назад +16

      Although that aspect is necessary to develop a long-lasting relationship, it's not sufficient because it misses the initial spark to start such a relationship.

    • @ifyoulikepinacolada254
      @ifyoulikepinacolada254 2 года назад +23

      You’re completely right. Changing yourself or forcing something from nothing is a terrible basis for a relationship. The best, long-term relationships start from friendship because it establishes that you enjoy each other’s company. It’s not just about physical romance because you just genuinely being around them. Mind you, you don’t solely rely on them for your happiness but when you’re around them, you bring out the best in both of you. Because those kind of relationships where you’re dependant on “the good times” often fail because you can’t handle arguing, even if those arguments could bring you closer. That’s why people say that love is a choice, not a feeling. You choosing to support the other because you know what they’re going through and then both coming out happier and stronger.

    • @blooeagle5118
      @blooeagle5118 2 года назад +25

      @@Mr_Yeah why do you need a spark? Life isn't a disney film

    • @marcocampiani6606
      @marcocampiani6606 2 года назад

      @@blooeagle5118 lmao

    • @allbottledup9513
      @allbottledup9513 2 года назад +11

      @@Mr_Yeah If you’re yourself, you will find a woman who has the natural chemistry to create the spark. If you have to artificially create the spark, it isn’t gonna work.

  • @SakitomiXD
    @SakitomiXD 2 года назад +7

    Lmaooo the "not yet" part took me out 😂😂😂

  • @squilliamfancysoniii
    @squilliamfancysoniii 2 года назад +3

    I honestly couldn't help but like the video as soon as Deon Cole opened his mouth lol. I love him on Blackish and especially Grownish.

  • @IntergalacticSpaceKitten
    @IntergalacticSpaceKitten 2 года назад +1

    Support and uplift each other, push each other to be the best you & they can be. You got each others back.

  • @Maquackadack
    @Maquackadack 2 года назад +108

    Not just listen. Remember. Even the smallest things

    • @camerondrain8166
      @camerondrain8166 2 года назад

      🧢🧢

    • @_stupidbro
      @_stupidbro 2 года назад +2

      Yeah, it's the little things that really make it

    • @T-Mr.Unknown93
      @T-Mr.Unknown93 7 дней назад

      ​@@camerondrain8166 No, it's not. That's the truth.

  • @sapnapaul3930
    @sapnapaul3930 2 года назад +1

    ART OF TALKING ND GIFT OF GAB is the absolute winner in life yoooo!!!😭💀

  • @kimberleyhosmer5997
    @kimberleyhosmer5997 2 года назад +296

    He’s also listening to body language and has learned her body’s signals.😉

  • @Phantoms7203
    @Phantoms7203 2 года назад +2966

    Take it from a listener, that’s how you get friendzoned

    • @KyleJB007
      @KyleJB007 2 года назад +220

      Love how this is the most liked comment, cause that’s exactly correct.

    • @AA-hb9fe
      @AA-hb9fe 2 года назад +39

      Charge it to the game my man

    • @sambrian174
      @sambrian174 2 года назад +359

      From a woman, no not really. If I was attracted to you from the beginning, you listening will make me even more interested. If I don't feel that way about you, doesn't matter what you do, you'll always get friendzoned.

    • @mommasbigboy8656
      @mommasbigboy8656 2 года назад +290

      @@sambrian174 aka, “be handsome and you can literally do anything and I’ll be interested”

    • @Marcus96s
      @Marcus96s 2 года назад +76

      You get friendzoned by not making her know you are listening because you are interested in her. You gotta talk too not just listen

  • @jaganize
    @jaganize 2 года назад +341

    “Just listen”
    Proceeds to keep talking

    • @ICE_1212
      @ICE_1212 2 года назад +7

      He waited for his opportunity

    • @patrickedgley7103
      @patrickedgley7103 2 года назад +10

      Lol i was thinking that. Tells her how she's feeling then what she's supposed to do.
      Unless you hear "what do you think i should do?" In that context, best to stick with "that really sucks, can i make you a cup of tea and heat up the wheat bag?"

    • @justapassingbycommenterrem5642
      @justapassingbycommenterrem5642 2 года назад +2

      Pretty sure he meant just "validate" As in just agree with everything she thinks and never argue back.
      I would've been like hell naw for that btw

  • @Witchypoo5576
    @Witchypoo5576 2 года назад

    Have my back 100%; be faithful and truthful; and have a good heart and kind soul; great sense of humor. And that sums up my hubby.

  • @spartan_gainz4198
    @spartan_gainz4198 2 года назад +9

    I'd say consistency is also another factor too. Just be there for her. When you're on her mind that's when you're in

  • @andreaharkless8735
    @andreaharkless8735 2 года назад

    LMBO😍you got me crying🤣😂Just Listen, yep😂🤩And a little more❤️🙏🏽🖤❤️🙌🏽

  • @avihs92
    @avihs92 2 года назад +545

    I know it’s comedy but literally everyone I know seems to mix up “love,” and “getting laid.”

    • @EMBEEAY
      @EMBEEAY 2 года назад +86

      Yeah same here, as a guy who grew up w a single mom I have always been her “therapist” without issue, and something is just so unflattering about the concept of pretending to care about someone just to have sex with them. He ain’t doing our gender a favor that’s for sure lol but yeah it should be treated as strictly comedy….

    • @hiralsheth8885
      @hiralsheth8885 2 года назад +11

      Well said.

    • @purgetheXYs
      @purgetheXYs 2 года назад +26

      @@EMBEEAY my best friend and I were just talking about this. Its actually really disturbing and predatory, yet totally normalized especially in urban blk culture

    • @downfromthereeefters
      @downfromthereeefters 2 года назад +14

      @@purgetheXYs - it’s normalized in Western culture in general. An entire generation of people raised with the sociopathic belief that it’s okay to use someone like a slab of meat and discard them once you’re done. That ain’t right!

    • @koolkat5217
      @koolkat5217 2 года назад +1

      You don't want to have sex with the person you love? The very best sexual experiences I've ever had is getting " laid" by the person I love. How is that wrong or predatory?

  • @badwabbit
    @badwabbit 2 года назад

    Facts. Communication is more attractive than a perfect image.

  • @MythicBeanProductions
    @MythicBeanProductions 2 года назад +3

    Aside from the humor the point is that you aren't going to get very far if you're only caring about what YOU want. Not that you can't care about the things you want but if you're gonna be in a relationship you need to care about the other person more than yourself which is something that will also take time to build.
    Just make sure that you know they care about you and aren't taking advantage of you for money, status, or other things.
    This goes for both men and women

  • @johnarnold2895
    @johnarnold2895 2 года назад +1

    Bang on point

  • @davidusa47
    @davidusa47 2 года назад +86

    This is how my wife landed me. I’m a sucker for flattery

    • @KindJoey636
      @KindJoey636 2 года назад +9

      damn you must be beautiful to have that sht the other way around

    • @leperiv4378
      @leperiv4378 2 года назад +19

      @@KindJoey636 bruh if she likes you she'll find any excuse to flatter you

    • @jarastar6499
      @jarastar6499 2 года назад +4

      That’s so cute, hope y’all are having a great life together!

    • @davidusa47
      @davidusa47 2 года назад +6

      @@KindJoey636 that plus I make it rain

    • @kungflupenguin1067
      @kungflupenguin1067 2 года назад +1

      I think any guy is a sucker for flattery. It's just a 1/100000 chance of actually happening. You got yourself a keeper with your luck

  • @exceptiontotherule8597
    @exceptiontotherule8597 2 года назад

    Listening and honesty.

  • @TradRaider
    @TradRaider 2 года назад +52

    I thought this was an old spice ad

  • @hakadmedia
    @hakadmedia 2 года назад

    The pause got me 😂😂

  • @Why_soSeriouss
    @Why_soSeriouss 2 года назад +23

    You have to buy her things and listen, I'm living that now 😂😂

  • @rhitam6527
    @rhitam6527 2 года назад

    That face he made while listening😁😁😁

  • @MrWonkawonka
    @MrWonkawonka 2 года назад +683

    He's listening with a lot of money in his bank account

    • @Ares-ij7id
      @Ares-ij7id 2 года назад +32

      Very basic and old-fashioned sexist comment indeed

    • @Hoooosh
      @Hoooosh 2 года назад +34

      @@Ares-ij7id no.

    • @chickenlegs5061
      @chickenlegs5061 2 года назад +23

      @@Ares-ij7id cope

    • @cringcring8473
      @cringcring8473 2 года назад +21

      @@Ares-ij7id hey snowflake go back to twitter

    • @MamaSnuggles
      @MamaSnuggles 2 года назад +6

      Nah we have our own money

  • @Traviii97
    @Traviii97 2 года назад

    I need to start listening more 🤣🤣

  • @DarktheEagle
    @DarktheEagle 2 года назад +22

    The key to making people like you, and this goes not just for women, but anybody. BE A GOOD PERSON. Listen to them, yes, but also find common ground where you both connect. Find things you enjoy doing together, and for the love of God COMMUNICATE!!!! Talking with someone you want to be with and making your intentions known in a non-creepy way can be the thing that sets the tone for the whole relationship. If you don't tell the person, "Hey, I'm interested in you romantically" (not in those exact words), they're not a damn mind reader. And if you get rejected: DO NOT PUSH IT!!!! That's a sure-fire way of getting someone who may have potentially been interested in you with time to not be anymore. If you like someone as a person, and the attraction goes beyond just physical, then be happy to have that person in your life. The friendzone doesn't exist because nobody owes you sex or a relationship.
    Thank you for coming to my TED Talk.

    • @jonathanjoestar6729
      @jonathanjoestar6729 2 года назад +1

      Friendzone does exist cuz, believe it or not, it is possible for someone to genuinely be attracted but still get rejected.
      Agree with everything else u said tho ;)

  • @Angel-qt3xy
    @Angel-qt3xy 2 года назад

    Well said ,be a great listener and it goes both ways

  • @k20z3keith7
    @k20z3keith7 2 года назад +10

    I feel like a hero every time I listen to my girl talk about her job lol

    • @paytonward2169
      @paytonward2169 2 года назад +1

      Why?

    • @mikemaffe
      @mikemaffe 2 года назад +5

      @@paytonward2169 Keith believes he is an alpha male because he thinks less of women

    • @k20z3keith7
      @k20z3keith7 2 года назад +3

      @Mike Maffe Lol sure bud. It's not that. It's something called interest. Do you think she cares when I talk about cars and politics?

    • @mikemaffe
      @mikemaffe 2 года назад +4

      @@k20z3keith7 no but she listens because she cares about you and your INTEREST. Tell her you don’t care next time instead of letting her waste her breath. 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @k20z3keith7
      @k20z3keith7 2 года назад +3

      @Mike Maffe Well work isn't an interest. Especially talking about work when not at work. I listen to her and give advice all the time. I know a lot about ppl I've never met. She confides in me because I give her advice. But with interests I can tell she's not listening or doesn't want to hear it. Doesn't mean she doesn't respect me but the interest isn't there. I try to teach her stuff but it's just not for her. Is what it is.

  • @koolkat5217
    @koolkat5217 2 года назад +1

    I was thinking simp. I was pleasantly surprised. Thankyou sir.

  • @brain2728
    @brain2728 2 года назад +30

    You listen for couple of days then you start to get crazy .

    • @joskeyo4877
      @joskeyo4877 2 года назад +2

      Tell me about it! Sometimes, I can’t take any more talking. I’ll blow a fuse!

    • @lesliwilliams6684
      @lesliwilliams6684 2 года назад +3

      So conversing with your partner is off the table? Bruh I'm so confused. Like if you need a break from all these brutal listening exercises yall been doing then just say so🤣🤣🤣

    • @CoolDude-kc4he
      @CoolDude-kc4he 2 года назад +2

      @@lesliwilliams6684 but it isn’t just talking, conversations are a great way to communicate and interact with almost anyone, but it’s the rambling that’s the problem the talking about nothing and stretching it into hours long conversations.

    • @jordonp3149
      @jordonp3149 2 года назад +1

      @@CoolDude-kc4he honestly I do that sometimes too as a guy and I apologize for it afterwards…. Probably a big reason why I don’t pull woman coz my brain is way to fast 😐

    • @tbvolcomskater
      @tbvolcomskater 2 года назад +1

      @@jordonp3149 dating with adhd is fucked

  • @blueapplegirl1
    @blueapplegirl1 2 года назад

    Listening is not enough, paying attention and acting accordingly is what seals the deal 💯

  • @the_wandering_viking9031
    @the_wandering_viking9031 2 года назад +27

    Listening is easy for me, though others I have dated would say I'm not. Sorry if I have asperger's and I listen better when I'm not looking at you

    • @RjayBoofd
      @RjayBoofd 2 года назад +2

      Bruh same I got Asperger’s and if I look at someone while they talk it goes in one ear and out the other

    • @naturegirl2110
      @naturegirl2110 2 года назад

      Hmm sounds like me. I should get tested

    • @slipperydick
      @slipperydick 2 года назад

      Meanwhile I've told multiple people not to look at me when I am telling something lol

    • @a.b.2850
      @a.b.2850 2 года назад +1

      For the love of me, I cannot hold any conversation with almost anyone if I have to look at their face for more than 1/5 of a second. I completely lose my thoughts and direction, what I was going to say, and the pertinence of it, which only makes me talk more but also less and less relevant, and it hurts to think about how weird I looked each time, about that look of reservation and judgement, and the ambiant awkwardness that ensued. In job interviews and in uncomfortable meetings with higher management is where it sucks most. When I’m on the spot, one on one (or 2). I’m still working on figuring out ways to avoid this from happening and avoid looking weird too often but that would also work for me (as a senior advisor in a very specific field, requiring higher knowledge and understanding about medecine and health, laws, regulations and politics, mechanics and engineering, statistics and a few complex actuarial calculations, but also that I have to engage with high level managers and directors, vice-presidents/presidents, etc, and after all this, my field is closely related and often associated with human ressources 😒 That’s where I get stuck. Whatever knowledge I have still doesn’t cut it for my lack of competence in social interactions… as it appears so.

  • @abuthearabe
    @abuthearabe 2 года назад

    So... it's listening AND flattering

  • @danielapollo
    @danielapollo 2 года назад +16

    I thought he was gonna say: “they give all their old spice body wash collection with 0 complaint”

    • @dmiller4088
      @dmiller4088 2 года назад +2

      How are people not talking about old spice? Lol

  • @hannatownsend6649
    @hannatownsend6649 2 года назад

    He said listen I was like😳 he got me lol

  • @simplynuki8078
    @simplynuki8078 2 года назад +2

    This is so true ❤❤❤❤

  • @shuronmckinney4883
    @shuronmckinney4883 2 года назад

    I’m fucking dying over here🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆

  • @shayekisitu
    @shayekisitu 2 года назад +6

    My husband is the best listener I’ve ever known.❤️👌🏻

    • @laughingdragon8858
      @laughingdragon8858 2 года назад +2

      But you still banging the ex from highschool.

    • @gatosurfista4947
      @gatosurfista4947 2 года назад

      @@laughingdragon8858 ew, wtf is wrong with you?

    • @laughingdragon8858
      @laughingdragon8858 2 года назад

      @@gatosurfista4947 lots of things, would you like me too explain the joke. How is your life this empty...

    • @laughingdragon8858
      @laughingdragon8858 2 года назад

      @@gatosurfista4947 you have no respect for woamen do you, they all need saving?

    • @gatosurfista4947
      @gatosurfista4947 2 года назад

      @@laughingdragon8858 dude, when someone says they’re married and you say they are cheating on they’re partner that’s fucked up, no matter the gender

  • @GassedUpCam_
    @GassedUpCam_ 2 года назад +1

    Bro this is so funny 😂 it’s even funnier cause I talk to my girl exactly like this

  • @constantvitriol7426
    @constantvitriol7426 2 года назад +47

    Comments section is r/niceguys material

  • @kaptain_korn
    @kaptain_korn 2 года назад

    Damn right Preach it Man!!!

  • @ronan3048
    @ronan3048 2 года назад +6

    Wow. This comment section cant agree on anything. Maybe its cuz wen are people and theres no catch all way to get ppl to like you? Nah sry guys, must be tripping.

  • @astersarte1282
    @astersarte1282 2 года назад

    Fkin accurate af!!! 😂😂😂

  • @joelsimons3239
    @joelsimons3239 2 года назад +63

    “To get any girl buy old spice moisturizer”

    • @Ahmad_Stn
      @Ahmad_Stn 2 года назад +12

      This is a secret they don’t want you to know

    • @ericolens3
      @ericolens3 2 года назад +4

      I see what you did there.

    • @Red._.stories
      @Red._.stories 2 года назад +2

      that's where I've seen him. I knew he looked familiar but I couldn't figure out from where then I saw your comment.

    • @melaniestarkey7868
      @melaniestarkey7868 2 года назад +2

      Joel, Why did you have to tell the secret it's not supposed to get out there. There's nothing like Old spice

    • @melaniestarkey7868
      @melaniestarkey7868 2 года назад +1

      Hey guy you wouldn't happen to be an aquarius would you and I need one past the age of 60 in good shape

  • @epiccthulu
    @epiccthulu 2 года назад

    Give consistent moral support, gotcha!

  • @vinsvids1
    @vinsvids1 2 года назад +6

    Also, don't say you're trying to find the way to her heart, when it's really her cat you're after.

  • @hotrides09
    @hotrides09 2 года назад

    That “not yet” got me

  • @walterpearlman143
    @walterpearlman143 2 года назад +4

    Brilliant !

  • @Tool_Addicted_Carpenter
    @Tool_Addicted_Carpenter 2 года назад

    That hit way too close to home lol

  • @smithamy1982
    @smithamy1982 2 года назад +16

    He was close, until he said "what you need to do is ______" never tell a woman what to do

    • @SirCollinsLuv
      @SirCollinsLuv 2 года назад +1

      He should have just listened 😂😂😂

    • @galadriel3134
      @galadriel3134 2 года назад +1

      @@SirCollinsLuv exactly! He was nowhere close.

  • @ranodm_
    @ranodm_ 2 года назад +2

    i only watched the first part and immediately went “nope it’s not, it’s food”
    like bitch food is just amazing

    • @seangrabowski3142
      @seangrabowski3142 2 года назад

      So you didn’t hear the punch line? damn you missed out

  • @lukeclarke8054
    @lukeclarke8054 2 года назад +65

    The way to a woman’s heart requires precision and sharp knives 🔪

    • @sista363
      @sista363 2 года назад +4

      Now that's what I needed to know

    • @honkhonk3192
      @honkhonk3192 2 года назад +9

      My state after reading this can be described as the fine line between amusement and being mortified

    • @brandonmay3094
      @brandonmay3094 2 года назад +3

      @@honkhonk3192 that’s what the truth does

    • @ziggyzhane7620
      @ziggyzhane7620 2 года назад +2

      What the fuck is going on🤣🤣🤣🤣✋🏽

    • @lukeclarke8054
      @lukeclarke8054 2 года назад +2

      Glad this comment was able too make a few people laugh.

  • @freddyg6940
    @freddyg6940 2 года назад

    Your time is the most valuable thing you have.

  • @usmanhussain9845
    @usmanhussain9845 2 года назад +10

    Instructions unclear: now listening to a 6 hour lecture by my girlfriend of why I'm a waste of space

    • @RoxanneGutierrez010
      @RoxanneGutierrez010 2 года назад +1

      Damn. And you still stick around?

    • @galadriel3134
      @galadriel3134 2 года назад

      Stop complaining and find out how you can rectify the situation. Get past her hurt and really actually listen.

    • @usmanhussain9845
      @usmanhussain9845 2 года назад +2

      @@galadriel3134 wow someone didn't get the joke lol🥴 go take a break off the Internet

  • @LADskateboarding
    @LADskateboarding 2 года назад

    His voice is so damn cool

  • @RockMonger
    @RockMonger 2 года назад +67

    Yea, listen to her tell you how she wants you to buy her everything.

    • @kstar1489
      @kstar1489 2 года назад +10

      Ok incel

    • @princessaur
      @princessaur 2 года назад +2

      I'm so sorry your mom or ex-gf was such a shitty person. :(

    • @sigmamale6128
      @sigmamale6128 2 года назад +4

      @@princessaur cope, stop projecting

    • @slipperydick
      @slipperydick 2 года назад +1

      Don't go after women who want you to buy stuff for them?? lmao, easy as that

    • @_stupidbro
      @_stupidbro 2 года назад +1

      Bruh no???

  • @s_mari29
    @s_mari29 2 года назад +1

    Loved this as Charlie in black-ish

  • @thedondaithi1304
    @thedondaithi1304 2 года назад +10

    Depends on the chick 💯

  • @maskedrebel9670
    @maskedrebel9670 2 года назад

    The pants he's wearing look super comfy, I want a pair.

  • @DaughterofZion4Life
    @DaughterofZion4Life 2 года назад +3

    Ummm... Dude have your finance game together! 👀💯

  • @danutcrackerstream5799
    @danutcrackerstream5799 27 дней назад

    I love how he's not listening at all he's just talking non stop😂😂😂

  • @riverpubby
    @riverpubby 2 года назад +13

    “You gotta listen”
    Proceeds to enact giving unsolicited advice and telling her what she HAS to do

    • @mikeyfreeman5776
      @mikeyfreeman5776 2 года назад +2

      And telling her whatever he thinks she wants to hear

    • @dreugh424
      @dreugh424 2 года назад

      I don't understand what the problem is. I'm the type of person that will put everything off until it goes away or comes back to bite me. I'll also just take whatever abuse is thrown at me at work because I struggle with confidence and understanding I have value. I know it's not the same across the board; but sometimes, especially when I'm stressed about it and freaking out because I don't know what to do, someone simply laying out what I need to do instantly grounds me and I can move on from there. If I was freaking out about something going on at work, someone giving me a bullet point list of what I need to do to fix the situation would be invaluable. I hardly think the advice is unsolicited if you're having a conversation about it, right?
      If you're talking on the phone and a stranger comes up to you and starts railing you with advice out of nowhere about a conversation that doesn't involve them, fair point. But imagine talking about your problems with someone and them just staring at you, unable to speak because you did not solicit a response. To talk with someone about your problems IS to solicit their advice. That or just complaining for the sake of complaining. The wording is unfortunate, but I think that most people realize it's not literal speech. Just like "I'm dying to go home". No, you're not dying. You just very badly want to go home. Just as you don't NEED to do anything. It's nobody's place to force you to do something you don't want to do. But you might NEED to do something if you want to have a good outcome in a situation. You might NEED to do this or that, if you want to have a good future. A better way to phrase it might be, "If you want more respect in the workplace, you need to...", etc. But if someone was giving me advice (which I hope they are, if I actually want to fix my problem) and they said i needed to do something, my first reaction would not be to get offended at the message they weren't trying to convey and instead take a second to realize that they mean "for the best possible outcome, you need to...", and aren't trying to boss me around.

  • @iszrafiel8848
    @iszrafiel8848 2 года назад

    That's so wholesome

  • @gabesleepy9240
    @gabesleepy9240 2 года назад +43

    i can say thats how i got my girlfriend😂

    • @user-pj9xy1gc2r
      @user-pj9xy1gc2r 2 года назад +1

      So, did she take it ?

    • @opticfloyyyd
      @opticfloyyyd 2 года назад +1

      Same here

    • @UrBrothaInChrist
      @UrBrothaInChrist 2 года назад +1

      @@user-pj9xy1gc2r WE NEED ANSWERS

    • @kstar1489
      @kstar1489 2 года назад

      I feel bad for her if you only pretend to care for sex. Do her a favor and leave.

    • @gabesleepy9240
      @gabesleepy9240 2 года назад +1

      @@kstar1489 thats not what i was referencing but okay😂 she just needed someone to talk to during a tough time and i was the only one who listened. now we are going on 3 years strong

  • @IrenaDeacon
    @IrenaDeacon 2 года назад +1

    Not yet?
    OKAY😂😂😂😂

  • @RofICopters
    @RofICopters 2 года назад +4

    You gotta listen!
    Proceeds to lecture and preach to the hypothetical woman

  • @nightwolfv7541
    @nightwolfv7541 2 года назад

    Now that is comedy!

  • @Elguapo93
    @Elguapo93 2 года назад +26

    He was trying to get deep here and it wasn’t it lol

    • @kxnghypnos
      @kxnghypnos 2 года назад +3

      spotted the redditor

    • @m.d.sharpe8892
      @m.d.sharpe8892 2 года назад +1

      Uhhhh no, he's doing stand-up. Know what that is?

  • @JosiahMoon
    @JosiahMoon 2 года назад

    Words of wisdom 😂

  • @kevp2856
    @kevp2856 2 года назад +102

    Biggest load of shit I’ve ever heard 😂😂😂

    • @mh20162
      @mh20162 2 года назад +1

      It's fuckin stand up of course it's bullshit 😂

    • @jcmillzmusic8768
      @jcmillzmusic8768 2 года назад +3

      That's why it's a comedy routine. Women are definitely laughing the hardest and the listeners in the crowd are clenching their teeth in a fake ass smile

    • @kevp2856
      @kevp2856 2 года назад +3

      @@mh20162 Stand up is meant to be funny this isn’t?

    • @jordonp3149
      @jordonp3149 2 года назад +2

      @@kevp2856 I think you gotta reevaluate your sense of humor, just a recommendation.

  • @Pourlafrance2024
    @Pourlafrance2024 2 года назад

    Lmaooo "not yet? Okay."

  • @kclay3306
    @kclay3306 2 года назад +10

    My boyfriend does this shit🤣🤣🙌🏾

  • @taraseidel7942
    @taraseidel7942 2 года назад

    Man is preachin truth

  • @shannonsisk
    @shannonsisk 2 года назад +34

    They sure do like when you buy them shit tho…

    • @destanecallistro3759
      @destanecallistro3759 2 года назад +4

      Of course we like that too lol

    • @serenitybrown2741
      @serenitybrown2741 2 года назад +4

      So do men, it’s nice to buy things for people you care about

    • @jordonp3149
      @jordonp3149 2 года назад +2

      I like it when people buy me stuff too but I’m never gonna ask for people to buy me materialistic bullshit I don’t need 😂😂

    • @slipperydick
      @slipperydick 2 года назад +1

      I mean, who wouldn't?

  • @sarahharrell9136
    @sarahharrell9136 2 года назад

    I mean it's true I don't talk alot cuz no one really listens but I recently met someone who genuinely likes listening to me and it makes me so happy♡

  • @kingmoses6135
    @kingmoses6135 2 года назад +28

    This is how you created a simp

    • @GoldFishCracker
      @GoldFishCracker 2 года назад

      All he said was to listen to your girl

    • @kingmoses6135
      @kingmoses6135 2 года назад

      @@GoldFishCracker don’t listen to women’s watch there action’s

  • @dawnrose9150
    @dawnrose9150 2 года назад

    Yep communication is key!

  • @michele33s68
    @michele33s68 2 года назад +5

    Not necessarily true.

    • @nickslaughter6284
      @nickslaughter6284 2 года назад +1

      I don’t know if you noticed, but it was a joke. 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @diananoonen2262
    @diananoonen2262 2 года назад

    TRRRUUUTH! PREACH IT LOUDER!

  • @deshia1471
    @deshia1471 2 года назад +5

    D. Cole is funny as hell but I have so much more respect for him after watching The Harder They Fall....I had no idea that he was such a good actor.

  • @1380576
    @1380576 2 года назад

    This is so true I swear

  • @Steam_Engenius
    @Steam_Engenius 2 года назад +11

    When you think that listening means giving advice

  • @comfyspecs9058
    @comfyspecs9058 2 года назад

    This and cleaning. If a man cleans up (not just after himself, but in general!), he becomes like gold to me

  • @Yoko.Kurama
    @Yoko.Kurama 2 года назад +7

    Money is the most effective. Don't know what this dude is talking about

    • @jacobbruce1005
      @jacobbruce1005 2 года назад +1

      Also the most shallow

    • @MrStaybrown
      @MrStaybrown 2 года назад +2

      They are lowkey shallow..just don't exploit that fact. Money Money Money 💰

    • @Yoko.Kurama
      @Yoko.Kurama 2 года назад

      @@MrStaybrown exploit? They ain't victims lol

    • @stubborndirt5432
      @stubborndirt5432 2 года назад

      Well....If you into the wrong woman then yeah, money always work for them.

    • @gatosurfista4947
      @gatosurfista4947 2 года назад

      @@Yoko.Kurama bruh if you actually think this way, you’re the victim here lol

  • @freddiepadenjr1145
    @freddiepadenjr1145 2 года назад

    Straight up

  • @hermanlaidlaw9185
    @hermanlaidlaw9185 2 года назад +2

    Lmaoooooo that’s cap

    • @_stupidbro
      @_stupidbro 2 года назад

      Eh, not entirely. Good listening skills doesn't make a relationship, but bad communication can kill anything that might've happened otherwise, and listening is essential for that.

  • @billilyon3227
    @billilyon3227 2 года назад

    Either that or make her LAUGH...🤪🤣💯🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @BiggRippa
    @BiggRippa 2 года назад +8

    Denzel and Jamie had a baby?

  • @melaniestarkey7868
    @melaniestarkey7868 2 года назад

    Keep buying it does make a lot of them happy

  • @mastercief1998
    @mastercief1998 2 года назад +7

    Instructions not clear I'm so far in the friend zone now I'm never getting out

    • @hardcoregaming7467
      @hardcoregaming7467 2 года назад +1

      Time to scout another and try again? There’re enough fis- i mean people for everyone

    • @Here_Today_
      @Here_Today_ 2 года назад +1

      Have you specifically asked her to go on a date with you?

    • @mastercief1998
      @mastercief1998 2 года назад

      @@Here_Today_ yep usually ends up with the reply that they don't want to ruin our friendship

  • @peaceformula5830
    @peaceformula5830 2 года назад

    He did listening and then just pulls out his phone and says not yet. Great joke haha

  • @goblingoose
    @goblingoose 2 года назад +8

    Men: women are so confusing! There's no way of knowing what they want.
    Women: I'll tell you if you'll liste--
    Men: id rather die. Gosh you're impossible.
    (This is just a comment on society, i have many wonderful men in my life that make me feel heard)

  • @yohannapsalmdelosreyes3196
    @yohannapsalmdelosreyes3196 2 года назад

    WHY DID I FOUND OUT BOUT DEON COLE
    2 YEARS LATER LOL THIS GUY IS GOOD
    UNDERRATED
    NEW SUB FOR U PEEPS!!

  • @sporty15shorty
    @sporty15shorty 2 года назад +5

    Yes.....us women just love it when a man uses being a good "listener" to try and get us in bed. Such a great guy 🙄

  • @edwinjamessutphin3361
    @edwinjamessutphin3361 2 года назад

    True that bro 😎