Stop UNDERvaluing Yourself and OVERvaluing Others by doing this...(the comparison trap)
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This video I'm going to show you how to stop undervaluing yourself and overvaluing others. I'm going to show you exactly what to do so that you stop that negative cycle.
Welcome back to another video. My name is Aaron and I help people expand their consciousness. Now in this video I'm going to be sharing with you something that I think if you're in the pattern of and if you keep this cycle going, you will continue to experience more and more resistance in your life.
You'll find that you view yourself in a certain way and therefore other people feel that insecurity on you. But when you apply what I share with you, it will change everything like that. It has to do with understanding your own value and then also the value of other people...
Having this balanced perspective so that you don't vibrationally separate yourself from either connecting with other people or from experiencing what you want in your life. So I know for a long time in my own life I spent years not feeling like I was worthy....
Now I'm feeling like, uh, I guess not having that self image, that self concept of myself, that I was somebody that was worthy of accomplishing great things in life. And when I say that it's because I used to, um, you know, you may know some of my past, but I kind of had it literally put into me that, you know, you're not worthy.
You're not, uh, capable of much. When I was a kid, it was like, you're a kid and you're meant to be seen and not heard. There's a certain level of value there where I felt undervalued and because of that I always had experiences in my life of somebody that would reflect that undervaluing back to me.
It was a vibrational energy that I was holding onto a self image that I was holding onto that was keeping me in a certain state and keeping other people responding to me in that certain way. So when we're talking about undervaluing and overvaluing, it has to do with the mismanagement of value.
It has to do with the mismanagement of the way you see yourself. I've seen either other people on a pedestal or seen yourself lower than them. And because of that, what happens is you go through life kind of getting banged around. It's almost like you start to, in a way, in a way, become part of a certain archetype, like a, like almost a victim archetype.
Now, archetypes are these energies that we all have within us because we're all connected to collective consciousness. And sometimes as we start to identify with them, we then start to experience more and more of a reality as reflective of it. And as an example, think about your favorite movies and why you identify with certain characters.
Well, sometimes you might be watching a movie, you may identify with the hero, you may identify with the best friend of the hero. You may identify with the person that's in trouble that needs saving. You may identify with the villain, you may identify with the mentor...
Or to support a family member. Whatever type of character you identify with. Many times they'll be part of your own identity. And the thing is, as many people have fallen into roles that no longer fit, they may have fallen into a role of being the cameo in everyone else's movie where everyone else is then overvalued because you're just there to be the water boy or the water girl to be the cameo, the person that's just trying to weasel your way in there instead of claiming your star role, which is really who you are.....
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heyyyyy everyone! I think this meditation is perfect for shifting your self-image & breaking free from the comparison trap. listen for 21 days and watch how your life changes :) ruclips.net/video/EedAyORl0Ds/видео.html
Thank you kind sir if you would like to try a short meditation with me I would be honoured but obviously I know you have lots of request from the viewers and totally understand if you are unable to, thank you for being a guide to so many of us souls of the light, I send many kind blessing's to you and all always 🙂💡🙏🌎🌕🌙✨💧❤️
This is FANTASTIC and true!! Aaron, Can you PLEASE make a video about people who Overvaluing themselves and Undervaluing others?!!
I meet people who think everyone else is less than or no good!
Thank you for all the knowledge you share❤
Thanks
Steve Stone agree my ex like this
@@bellabwz thanks, yes you see it's hard to deal with them. Even though I know that every one is just a reflection of an aspect within me, I can't really enjoy their presence! It's always not good enough for them 🤦🏻♂️
Just wanted to tell everyone I love you! You’re worthy! You’re amazing!
And I must say to you I love you and you are worthy and very much amazing
Thank You Brandi ,You are worthy and Amazing ,I Love You too
Brandi you are worthy and amazing too
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You too Brandi, feeling your great vibes!
I love you too
“If you want to change your reality about how people value you, change your story about how you value yourself.”
Got it
I should steal this one as well lol
Thank u!!!
Perfectly worded, wow what a quote.
Life changes the moment that you decide that you are WORTHY, SPECIAL and BEAUTIFUL... when you feel confident and you value and love yourself, others will see you the way you see yourself!!! :) self-love is truly everything
yasss Erika!
@@AaronDoughty44 sending love !!!
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@@arvindreddy.business much love Arvind !!! ♡♡♡
That was really nice to read ♥️♥️♥️
1. Stop competing and comparing yourself to others and know that you are cut from the same cloth.
2. Make the choice to find your vision.
3. Take action with your vision and be dedicated and consistent with it.
4. Stop being the cameo and take centre stage in the limelight.
5. BOOM - you are a STAR, worthy and valued. 😊🙏 ⭐️🌟✨💫
should i keep my attention on what i want when i let go or just forget about it
Serge Beaulieu - hey Serge I see no one has responded to your question
May I
This works for me
I think when you're manifesting something its near impossible to just forget it
Even the things we'd prefer not to manifest!!!!
I say my daily affirmations and then go about the day
If it pops into my mind, which it usually does if it important enough, I figure my subconscious brought it up so I'll recognize the thought (observe it) and
Give thanks - something like 'thank you that what is mine is mine, only what is best for me comes to me and comes to me easily and now. I accept the best and now leave the rest.
Then just carry on with what ever I was doing. This seems to take any stress out of the remembering or not remembering or hanging on to tight
Hope that helps at least a little
Have a great day and expect the best for yourself- blessings to you
@@louisejeffries7155 so how much time a day should i act as if thx
Serge Beaulieu - every time it comes to mind
And it does come to mind more and more often until it becomes apart of you - who you are.
It's truly amazing what happens, what comes into your life and how things just work out
Hey I don't want to be high jacking Aaron's site here so I'm signing out now
But it's really good to having been chatting Serge
Blessing to ya
I like this.
*_comparing ourselves_* to others tends to lead to undervaluing yourself
This is huge! Something we all fall victim to from time to time. The key is stay in our own lane! If we're gonna compare ourselves, we should only compare ourselves to who we were yesterday. Much love!
Well said Bryan!
Just be aware of being worthy . As said , joy , love and peace are our true nature if we allow it . Just like a cork if released when under water , it pops up ...
This is so true. We can only compare ourselves to ourselves.
@@AaronDoughty44 Just because you did the vlogging and it worked for you, you go "yay it was my calling." You know that ticked me off a bit when you said that. Because I've gone after my passions and had 0 support from family and friends and fuckking, shit didn't work out for me the way i wanted. So i tried another passion and that didn't fuckin work out either. Okay? Do you hear where I am Aaron? I'm pissed off it appears things aren't working out for me, it feels like I gave up trying, it feels like im a loser. So it aint as easy as you say it is.
Bryan, thank you for clarifying what staying in your lane means. I've been wondering about this, you know on a deeper level..
Self love : the power is inside of you. 🙏 Yesterday's video is very important on narcissists 💫 warrior Aaron 🙏🌞⚡🕊
much love bro!
Self love is so important
Self love is so vital. I wish more people knew what a difference it makes 😩
“You can only perceive that which you are in the vibration of” 🤯
Yes, WOW…!!!
A Leeor burrito in its natural habitat 😂✌
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"stay consistent in the way you prefer to be" that really stood out for me, thank you ❤
This came in the right moment bro! Holy SH....I was just thinking of this for the past 3 days on how i can stop feeling inferior to other people. I always felt like i had to chase something to be great. I keep repeating the words of my mentor, "You are not broken, you are growing". I am worthy!
Dare To Be Better - I've read a few of your comments in a few places now - you're cool
@@louisejeffries7155 Thank you! Love engaging with other content creators like Aaron as well as the community. Much Love
So I'm on the right path if I've started SEEING myself as this awesome, big, superstar artist and filmmaker and musician and I carry myself like a "main character" and an important presence. I like to think I make a positive impact and inspire others so I make it a point to live from that perspective as much as possible!
Id love to see videos on dealing with toxic parents...
Yes definitely! Narcissistic abuse is no joke
Leeor there ...lol.. I didn't even notice her in the beginning 🤣🤣now I'm only watching her
Bro, you do not know what you just did. Although I almost cried n shit, I feel so empowered and invincible I think I am going to save the World.
111 comments! 👼🏽
I really needed this Aaron, thank you! I felt like the Divine was speaking to me through you.
Much thanks 🙏🏾
Aaron you're manifesting millions of subscribers so easily and fast👏👏💖💖
So so true
So deserving 🙌
Perfectly timed because I had to realise this at this moment in time. It seems I had too much pride, while at the same time wondering why I couldn't connect to people, even after healing myself.
I found the answer: EVERYONE has the SAME VALUE.
When I realised this, my reality and feeling of it started to shift tremendously. Possibilities and miracles started flowing in and the old ways started breaking down.
Why?
Because "same value" breaks down the seperation structure "this person vs I", allowing in unity/oneness to take place. No matter how much skill someone has, or how much material they own, everyone has the same value as a living being.
And yes, ultimately, everyone is special, but don't think this way because the ego loves to hear you or someone else is special (the pedestal Aaron is talking about). Think in "same value", KNOW "everyone is special" (deeper layer beyond the ego)
Exactly and the reason why everyone has the same value because we are all one wow talk about Goosebumps now LOL we are all connected
The Mirrors in the mind shall reflect the best within Self, not the worst within others.. Thanks Aaron
with home office we had a little vacation from negative people at the office, now we need your videos again! The office environment destroys any hope of harmony at work.
Don’t tear yourself or others down, everyone is valuable - it’s beautiful content 💗
Period! When you look up to people, they have no choice but to look down on you
Thanks our sweetheart.
We are unstoppable
To everyone listening.. you're so precious...God is your worthy... you're priceless.
Aaron for the first time I understood the phrase “you get/attract in life what you are” and you clarified that it is about the image of oneself. No other speaker has made that clear. Because of that I now understand what I’ve been doing wrong. Blessings to you!
Yes for sure!
Our conditioning definitely contributes to our level of self love. Most people don’t recognize the connections between childhood beliefs & what we attract as adults. Although whatever was said or done to us in childhood was not out fault, it IS our responsibility as adults to shift those under serving beliefs about ourSelf, because no one can do it for you.
I ran into this video for a reason I swear I went from Dishwasher to owning my own boutique & I worked for it. Right now I was thinking man what if I am not worth that job what if I am not good enough for it I might as well go back to labor but I have the skills for the better job. Thank you so liberating!!😭💕I have always been worth it relationship wise & job wise 💅🏼
I've been needing to this video for a long time!! Up until a couple a years ago, I was positive that I was the only person in the entire world without a purpose and I put everyone else on a very high pedestal. That was before my spiritual awakening,
Aaron you just speak to my soul. I listen to your videos while I walk, take notes, and read again. Changing from the inside out♡
I was taught the same thing when I was young “ be seen and not heard”. Thank you for sharing this, it helps so much.
When you said this happened “for me “ instead of to me, that really clicked and opened my eyes a lot. Thank you 🙏🏼
Being in the present and in full acceptance can awaken these concepts we must love our inner first at all cost .
Blessings to whoever is reading this right now.
You are enough.
You are valuable.
You are worthy.
You are amazing.
You are beautiful.
I so needed this. I am always there for everyone. The first to help. But no one ever seems to be there for me. I guess as I am always seen as the strong one. And when I fall down everyone comes down with me.
Haha so notice how the camera refocused as you said you only perceive that which you are the vibration of!
I've gone through a lot of difficulty with putting people on a pedastal, not believing in myself and mental illness, suicidal thoughts, not growing up etc.
Soo much so I've had a lot of difficulty with career, and crystalising the vast array of ideas I've received through spirit.
What you're saying is speaking to me directly , you're a huge inspiration really!
Dedication as Bashar says, is one of the 4Ds.
After major depression and anxiety this year, I've had to dedicate myself to do a lot of healing and inner work. My self esteem had plummeted big time.
NOW all of sudden, my friends are coming to me saying I sound like a "spiritual teacher" and my words are compelling etc (I'm paraphrasing, and they're pretty in tune themselevs too so they know their stuff!) ..
It brought me to tears because it spoke to my core, I've been afraid to step up and made a lot of destructive choices in my process. It's taught me so much though!
So if people are giving you messages and it touches you deeply, please listen guys!
So much love and gratitude 💜
Thank you Aaron. I had a narcissist mother so I think you are right. There is something that happens to children of these people. Thank you
You make me feel all warm and fuzzy and I love myself so much more now.
I need that motivation. Let’s keep the good vibes coming!
much love & namaste
Aaron Doughty namaste to you too big bro!
Aaron,thank you!
Your videos are always in timing with what I am going through. 🙏
I absolutely love and admire your breakthrough and success! 😊❤😍however, i absolutely abhor when Anyone says get rid of the old beliefs that No longer serve you!
When have they have served you or anyone?! When has limiting beliefs, negative talk, self-worth that came from parasitical low-vibe/low-character lost souls ever served anyone? No one was born with low self-worth, insecurities! No one was born petrified and feeling beneath Anyone! That is other people's doing! And it is super sad that one is left with all that detriment, trauma, sadness and/or anger to heal. Takes a lifetime for some! 😓😢
Thank you, Aaron, thank you for your words. Thank you from the buttom of my heart.
Much abundance, extreme happiness, joy, creativity to you and the amazing Leeor 💖
I'm feeling my purpose now thanks for the message
You're a great mood booster and cheerleader! We all need people like you!
Thank you, Thank you....cant thank you enough for this one 🙏💖
This is cool I had to hear this message . Very important . Thank you. This makes people complete .
So powerful, really spoke to me and opened new doors in my mind. Thank you Aaron . ❤️
Aaron, Just listened to you brings me positive vibes & lightens my soul. Thank you!
The part about thinking you're the exception and everyone else is on a pedestal.... wow, that hit deep! It really is a very selfish mindset but I forgive myself for having it and release myself from that thought pattern ❤❤❤
Wow. This was truly the most mature and helpful video of Aaron I've seen to date. Blessings to you (the good kind) Thank you!
watching this a year after you posted but damn this is great. vision = focused. actions = aligned. worth = OVERVALUED.
we’re going far & high places baby ✨
I needed to hear this today...💖💖...I do deserve what I Believe. No one is taking that away from me. Maybe Selfish...It's who I am now. 💖💖Compete with youself. Not with others. All about me. And not how others see me. I Love your smile. I need to practice that more often...🤗🤗 Ty Aaron. I do love your video's. 💖
Thank you for the value that you are adding to everyone’s life❤️
I sometimes feel afraid to open your videos, I get shocked Everytime! 😍 Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
I love this! Much love to everyone here! Never give up on anything is key! You are the best as long as you give your best!!!!!
I've always been treated as under valued. So I felt as though I were not valuable. Not anymore! I am the most important person in my life and I AM valuable. I will not allow anyone to treat me that way again!
I liked this video like 2 minutes in, and then continued to try to like it over and over throughout the rest of the video. So timely. Thank you so much!
Aron you have been posting videos on this time and it really helps because no matter what kind of a day I have had I end it on a positive note ..thanks⭐🏆😀
I loved this ! It’s like you spoke from the bottom of your heart with so much passion and it touched my heart in some way . Loved it !
Aaron, you are amazing! Keep the videos coming. You've given me so much direction and valuable insight. I watch your videos every day! Thank you! Namaste!
Thank you so much for your videos. They're exactly what I've needed and I'm truly grateful that I came across them. The fact that you're able to make a difference for so many people like myself is also really inspirational and amazing 🙏
This right here is my mane pronlem, thank you aaron for making this video
Ur so right. I've needed this for quite sometime. It is hard to overcome childhood experiences. Thank you.
This video touched my soul. I cried through most of it. Thank you for this empowering video!
Thank you man I appreciate everything you have done for my life. I feel the shift. believe in these meditations he has on his channel and I promise your life will change. Faith THEN action. Love yall
Thanks for your clear, down to earth, deep videos Aaron. I just wanted to say I love you. TY!
I loved this message!✨ I really needed this reminder to help push me to continue to grow my channel and help others like me!💫💜
At the right moment, ment to be, thank you.
Namaste, much love and light from the Netherlands.
Aaron. Your words are so powerful. Thank you for being the light I needed at this time in my life. Namaste my brother!
You are extraordinary. Thank you for the love and healing you bring to the universe.
Hey Aaron, I'm new to connecting to the energy you are presenting here on your channel, it's beautiful work brother, much respects and love :) X Namaste all the way!
Love it and I get it, as usual you throw it out there at the perfect time!!!
Thank you for this video! I needed this today. I found myself falling back into old vibrations and thoughts of insecurity over the last two days and I needed a reminder of my value.
This video has opened my eyes to what I have been putting myself through , so glad i found it! Thanks so much!!
God & Creation doesn’t make mistakes-Such a Fabtastic video!!!!!😀😀
Quality of our life's are the Quality of our emotions
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Thank you Erin, what a beautiful reminder, the reach you have with people, there's no doubt how valuable this is to so many, thank you, god bless 🌹
This nothing short of AMAZINGLY OUTSTANDING!
Your twin flame experience is almost identical to mine! Accept I don't think mine knows what's going on yet.
Been watching you for a while and I think this is one of your best videos. Keep up the good work and thank you for sharing your awesome energy with the world
You do a great job of explaining mentality in this video! As long as you have that mindset, then you can accomplish anything! Amazing video!
Great video. Something I have been struggling with and am close to overcoming. Just need a reminder every now and then.
Thank you! You've clicked a switch in me. I have always felt that successful people had something that I just did not. I'm starting to learn now with your coaching.
Such a powerful video.. Im nearly in tears.. Thank you so much... ❤️
Thank you, Aaron. I'm loving your content. The more esoteric information, as you say, is really resonating with. It's so fun to see and hear others talk about this stuff. I don't feel alone and it normalizes these conversations for me so that I can feel more confident in talking about these topics in my own life. I had a huge leap in my spiritual awakening back in 2007 and I am finally stepping into my role as teacher and guide for others. I was too chicken to do it before, but thanks to your videos I'm feeling, yes, I can do this, too! I'm sure if I'm feeling it, many others feel it , too. So thank you! 💖
Absolutely love this video. Could relate to it so much as a person who undervalues myself too much I can definitely see how me sending out that energy is attracting people who also undervalue me as that's how I feel about myself. This has given me so much to think about. I need to rise up to become the person I want to be. Thank you so much. I found so much value in this.
Aaron , you are a diamond , thank you so much for this , i really needed to see this
I agree thanks for encouraging ,keep focus on what you wanna be and compare your self from your self before be better by time thats my prinsip to before i got relationship with toxic person and make me undervalue myself..and now i try to come back to my self before and keep better by time .And i wanna add something i learn from life ..we are have same value..money fam n succesfull or apparance not make us less than the other..What make us less ,are less respect to our self and other.
I just began tuning into you and it’s totally helping! Making more time for meditation and self love!Thanks 😊 🙏🏼💗💗💗💯💯💯
Hi my name is Robert I'll be 40 at the end of May so this is a milestone I've been doing a lot of work on myself and I've dealt with some therapists that were money hungry and I hadn't realized that I owe the answer within myself and thank you so much for your videos they are so liberating and they are grounding during my journey ....so much of what you say is true about being your own person that's where the energy goes to want to watch your videos letting go I mean it resonates with me and I feel that connection when I'm in tune with myself people are attracted to me if I'm attracted to someone else it's a repellent I mean it's so universal and pretty beautiful
Dude each video you've posted lately has been a total reflection of where i am each f-in day. No lie, I feel like it's something small missing in my overstanding or subconscious that when the switch is flipped once i get what it is, it all will jus make sense in manifest through me... 🤦🏾♀️ What is it though?
Because you're pleading with me/us who understand to value myself/ourselves... We so needed this bro!!!!
Here🌹 There's a 🌹 a rose!
This is great stuff, as always! I was just wondering if I've been underselling myself and giving out insecure vibrations with my art, and here you are! Always speaking directly to me somehow... You ALWAYS help me so much!!! THANK YOU, AS ALWAYS!!!
Exactly what I needed to hear today! You are appreciated 💫
This video was 10 months ago and it’s speaking to me I really know who I am and what I’m capable of thank you so much Aaron love you 😊❤️
Thank you Aaron this video came at Devine timing for me. Peace and long life to you.
facts! Eye just woke up feeling bad about myself. Aaron is anointed
Thanks Aaron. I needed this reminder 🤙💎
You're videos are awesome I'm in a very hard time in my life trying to find myself again and fix my life I have a difficult time with my mind but your videos are helping alot. Thank you
thank u so much Aaron,this message is super important for me right now
Big big big loves bro! I have seen so much so called positivity content...but you are by far the best at teaching in a tangible way. You can feel your peace through your words. A rare quality. I used to be like that self consciously...but I ate the forbidden fruit...knowledge of good and evil...
YOU ARE VERY HELPFUL AARON I APPRECIATE YOU
Aaaron!! Thanks you soooo much for this video! You save me today! I had an awful experience yesterday... that put my vibration on the lower level in months... I'm hearing you now and I'm shifting out and you remind me that I'm wordy... and so valuable!!! Thanks for your energy, thanks for being here...
Thank you Brother 🙏 This was just what I needed to hear today. Thank you for teaching us so practically so we can share this stuff into the little spaces of the universe. - where it is needed most 🙏 Your next trip will have to be New Zealand! 🇳🇿
Im just listening to you while Im drawing, I have a feeling that is my passion and I plan to be the best version of me in this area in order to be successful🙏🏻 thank you for this motivational video! I needed to hear that❤️ in this exact moment!