TOXIC FRIENDSHIPS and HABITS : Know When to Walk Away!

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  • Опубликовано: 19 янв 2025

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  • @sweetn_sourrrrr
    @sweetn_sourrrrr 3 месяца назад +220

    You guys really need to get Matladi and Lucas for a reunion episode because we haven't forgotten how good the were when the podcast just started. Would be great to see them back!!!

  • @londekasibiya670
    @londekasibiya670 3 месяца назад +60

    Lebo always makes my day like I genuinely get happy when I get to watch Lebo and he could literally be saying anything if you were president I’d vote for you Lebo ❤️

  • @AnetteNellyChikono
    @AnetteNellyChikono 3 месяца назад +107

    I hope Thato is really okay. He seems a little off hey. I hope he knows how much his supporters love him.

    • @Declocks
      @Declocks 3 месяца назад +2

      The conment I was looking for 😢!!!

  • @Pantherpip_Trades
    @Pantherpip_Trades 3 месяца назад +88

    Lebo carried this episode 😂❤ love him. Thato needs loosen up hey ,myb we overthinking it but on this episode bro somewhere looked like u were not connecting with lebo , omo fella pelo. But myb it was a bad day or had matters to attend to.
    Also Thato bro loosen up, pat urself on back u work hard. Its not unnoticed we been here since Varsity days. Not everything needs to be perfect. We get u are 27 but allow urself to make mistake u learn from them. Allow urself to live. Get back to the thato that loves this content shit not doing it for survival cz you know u love it. Malume RUclips ❤
    As a fan i have to say you are lacking with the consistency. I get that you got lives but mantain the consistency. It's no a longer a channel, this is a network. Rampedi Media to the world.

    • @Dimphokruger
      @Dimphokruger 3 месяца назад +14

      Responding to the first paragraph: I think a lot of people in the comment section really did overthink or misread the room. What we're probably failing to see is that Thato is a big brother and a friend to Lebo. There are times where the brotherly instinct kicks in more than him just being a friend. One thing for sure, he has Lebo's best interest at heart as a big brother more than anything. Him looking out and wanting what's best for Lebo, or not wanting him to say things that could cost him, like breaching his NDA with the bank, that is probably what people are misinterpreting as being too hard on him or go mo fella pelo.

    • @Pantherpip_Trades
      @Pantherpip_Trades 3 месяца назад

      ​​@@Dimphokruger true valid points ❤. Seems like we misread the room.

    • @CORYANTIDOTE
      @CORYANTIDOTE 3 месяца назад +2

      They’re just siblings chief you’re reaching 😭 you never talk to your siblings and just go “yeah” sometimes? Aowa

  • @kelebohilemotsamai7752
    @kelebohilemotsamai7752 3 месяца назад +53

    Does milk need a name😂Lebo is so hilarious 😅

  • @LaoTheDesigner
    @LaoTheDesigner 3 месяца назад +32

    Lebo’s mindset, smart fella

  • @kobebennette
    @kobebennette 3 месяца назад +24

    Lebo we need to meet dude and chat. Your mindset is out of this world.
    Thato, your work ethic is out of this world. You have done well. In all that, learn to relax. You are still young, allow yourself to be 27. ❤ Much love my boys

  • @Life-b01
    @Life-b01 3 месяца назад +22

    Lebo is such a happy soul, Thato on the other hand is too serious at times .

  • @kesegokgagodi4425
    @kesegokgagodi4425 3 месяца назад +30

    Lebo has already built a name for himself now. He now is a whole brand. Thanks to Rampedi media. But he will forever be forced to tone down his excellence & quality of reasoning if he won’t start his own thing. It feels as though Thato is over Lebo or feels intimidated by how Lebo is valued in his own space. Energy speaks volumes🥹and unfortunately it cannot be hidden. Lebo must go start his own thing, he will bloom. It’s guaranteed! ❤️ He’ll always be funny and laced, AT ANY AGE.
    It’s sad how Lebo ends up agreeing with Thato even when he’s trying to tone him down😭. Nooo Lebo, you’re GREAT AND UNSTOPPABLE! Don’t agree on anything that opposes that, and don’t laugh it out either.
    Otherwise, thank you Thato for allowing him to build his name on your platform. 🌸 Camera quality, the shooting angles, the sound quality, sticking to the theme of the episode👏🏽🔥 I loveeee!!!!!

    • @NhlamuloHobyane-q1u
      @NhlamuloHobyane-q1u 3 месяца назад +6

      100% Thato holds back a lot and Lebo speaks his mind, which we love and he is so smart and has sooo much potential in the entertainment industry especially podcasting. Lebo will only experience his full potential the day he works with other people outside of Thato and that’s what he needs. We love you Lebo and we love you because you are you and you just the best and I hope you see what we see in you one day❤

  • @thanditracy9275
    @thanditracy9275 3 месяца назад +9

    Tbh if Lebo left this and did his own thing, it would definitely hurt this podcast but simultaneously might be what his career needs in the long run, to be the star he can be❤ love both you guys though 🫶❤️

  • @nonhlanhlamoriri9166
    @nonhlanhlamoriri9166 3 месяца назад +21

    Need Matladi and Lucas back for one episode nyane bathong 😭

  • @Kazi281
    @Kazi281 3 месяца назад +10

    "Every single day the are people who have less than you and they have never given up to themselves "

  • @TraceTheFace62
    @TraceTheFace62 3 месяца назад +28

    I have to agree with Thato on the Oscar Wilde quote. The quote only makes sense to people who come from wealth because they have the means and the freedom to try a million different things and fail at those things. Living with no purpose??! Pure hell! 🤣 the average South African cannot afford to live a million different lives before finding their “thing”. Thato is right, the reality of not knowing what you want is not as lovely as it sounds.

    • @siyavuyamvinjelwa57
      @siyavuyamvinjelwa57 3 месяца назад

      Absolutely! As soon as I heard it it just felt like a load of bs, there’s no time for such when most of SA either lives below the poverty line or if they are above it, they’re not that far from it at all! I’ve always been grateful for knowing what I wanna do and I’ve always felt bad for those who didn’t and didn’t have the comfort of old money and being allowed to search for your purpose with no economic pressures! Life is not roses and honey! Oscar’s statement is short sighted imo

  • @alungilegxabu8618
    @alungilegxabu8618 2 месяца назад +1

    Couldn't finish this episode, Thato's Energy is so low. 😢
    Lebo carried this entire episode alone ❤
    I hate to agree with most of the comments here but honestly, Lebo should start his own thing outside Thato. There's more to him that we wish to see, under Thato's wing we are deprived.
    We'll always appreciate Thato for how big you've become but please, both of you should consider this.
    Whatever you decide to do Lebo, we'll support you. You're not alone, we're here for you. WE LOVE YOU & your authenticity. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @KuhleN_
    @KuhleN_ 3 месяца назад +10

    It’s as if God knew in the path of rebranding I needed to listen to other peoples perspectives on friends and habits , gosh your platform is amazing

  • @Ayanda-zee
    @Ayanda-zee 3 месяца назад +13

    The camera quality is on another level !!!!! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @AndyKanv
    @AndyKanv 3 месяца назад +22

    When the guyz are older,As majita could be the south african version of impractical jokers😂😂

  • @mentinelefftie5515
    @mentinelefftie5515 3 месяца назад +7

    Lebo is hilarious,Also smart.🌹🌹🌹love listening to him

  • @nompumelelonomvula8394
    @nompumelelonomvula8394 3 месяца назад +12

    That no name milk joke killed me cause it’s true 🤣😂🤣😂🤣 no need

  • @Thato2448
    @Thato2448 3 месяца назад +13

    Thato = Will.
    Lebohang = Be Thankful.

  • @Lebohang_T
    @Lebohang_T 3 месяца назад +36

    It was so challenging for Thato to connect with Lebo in this episode, he was all over the place.🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @WetsoMogorosi
      @WetsoMogorosi 3 месяца назад +3

      he was not prepared, heard him say he doesn’t know what they speaking about in the beginning

  • @MelvaMaphaha
    @MelvaMaphaha 3 месяца назад +11

    I agree with Thato when you do not know what you want to do with your life, you feel lost and confused that feeling is not nice

    • @TraceTheFace62
      @TraceTheFace62 3 месяца назад +1

      @@MelvaMaphaha I think you mean you agree with Thato

    • @MelvaMaphaha
      @MelvaMaphaha 3 месяца назад

      @@TraceTheFace62 thank you yes thato

  • @Fundi_kay
    @Fundi_kay 3 месяца назад +6

    Lebo 😢 it’s time for you to start your own journey, away from your brother ❤

  • @oloratosebolao
    @oloratosebolao 2 месяца назад

    I know I've been viewing old videos, but I am so addicted to this podcast now. I've been hooked on Seated lately, and it's been a game-changer for me. Your willingness to dive into uncomfortable, humorous, and profound discussions has created a safe space for me to explore my emotions, to be me, and to set boundaries because I think I've been struggling with that a lot. The podcast's authentic and vulnerable approach has inspired me to confront and express my feelings more openly. I've learned so much from you guys and I am inspired each and every day. Oh, not to forget my vocabulary is getting better day by day. There's so much to say hey. Thank Thato and Lebo, my favorite person🥺❤💯. I just hope you guys realize how much of an impact you have on so many people's lives.

  • @Koketso609
    @Koketso609 3 месяца назад +31

    Thato o fela lebo pelo sometimes 😢

  • @tonersa00
    @tonersa00 3 месяца назад +5

    24:15 thats true... a messy space goes a long way in bringing a very unproductive dark space

  • @SinesiphoSiyaka-qu2px
    @SinesiphoSiyaka-qu2px Месяц назад

    The example Lebo referred to in 20:27 is actually a "joke" by Dave Chappelle about Anthony Bourdain (True story) and a guy Chappelle said he grew up with. It left an an impact on me too.💛

  • @kayrab_t
    @kayrab_t 3 месяца назад +1

    Please continue to create content like this very authentic and evolving alot of young people in thier 20s can connect with this

  • @kekegwambe7262
    @kekegwambe7262 3 месяца назад +10

    Thato listens to respond.

  • @epistemicpolymath6813
    @epistemicpolymath6813 3 месяца назад +15

    31 minutes in, Lebo is cooking, i live that journey now, today Thato is left or negative who hurt him, he must losen up yoh, your 27 not 37 brav!!!!

  • @tonersa00
    @tonersa00 3 месяца назад +8

    26:11 we are lazy, but we have a vision 😂😂😂 we're pioneers, but we might not be so great with executing things ourselves

  • @oloratosebolao
    @oloratosebolao 2 месяца назад

    There was so much to learn in this podcast guys, Thato had no clue what they are going to talk about but look at you guys you mastered it. At some point I became emotional by reason of there's so much wisdom here and there was so much to learn from you guys.🥺❤Just made me do the self-introspection. And oh, I felt the same about Piano love.

  • @Justice.Molapo
    @Justice.Molapo 3 месяца назад +14

    Issa good day family ♥️ I am already here all the way from Maseru Lesotho,

    • @Thato2448
      @Thato2448 3 месяца назад +1

      Areng fela Morena wa rona ngwaneso ? ❤

    • @Justice.Molapo
      @Justice.Molapo 3 месяца назад

      ​@@Thato2448ke sharp hle ngoaneso,Wena?

  • @nosisnyman8056
    @nosisnyman8056 3 месяца назад +4

    Lebo carried this episode,i laughed so much 🥰🤣🤣Thato needs to loosen up,it was very cringy that he looked bhod.

  • @dianatshilidzi5563
    @dianatshilidzi5563 3 месяца назад +3

    I love you'll sit downs❤
    I hope Thato is okay because he seems a bit off.

  • @kesegokgagodi4425
    @kesegokgagodi4425 3 месяца назад +3

    The Art- 40% Creative contribution: Talent brings unique skills, charisma, and emotional connection to the project.
    2.⁠ ⁠Public draw: Their presence attracts audiences, generating revenue.
    3.⁠ ⁠High demand: Top talent is scarce, driving up market value.
    How we make the Art (PRODUCTION TEAM)-60%
    This is because, for talent to become art, it needs a production team. 1.⁠ ⁠Technical expertise: Production teams bring technical skills, ensuring high-quality output.
    2.⁠ ⁠Project management: They oversee logistics, scheduling, and budgeting.
    3.⁠ ⁠Behind-the-scenes work: Editors, cinematographers, and others shape the final product.
    BUT: A balanced approach ensures fairness and motivates both talent and production teams to deliver their best work. Maybe one can research market rates for talent and production teams to be precise, also consider each individual's impact on the project's success and encourage open communication to ensure fair compensation (basically collaboration).
    Mhm, 😂I might be wrong.

  • @ofentsemapaseka9200
    @ofentsemapaseka9200 3 месяца назад +1

    This is what call a good episode where you pause and reflet.
    Love to you gents

  • @LaoTheDesigner
    @LaoTheDesigner 3 месяца назад +7

    I like Lebo, fun Kid😅

  • @boipelommileng
    @boipelommileng 3 месяца назад +2

    We're supposed to enjoy the journey, but we expect to know from the get... and just be 1 thing forever. Life is long. You can be so many things in 1 lifetime.

  • @a.isheeeee
    @a.isheeeee 3 месяца назад +1

    Thato is glowing 😭 you are definitely happy 😂✨

  • @k_mich.elle24
    @k_mich.elle24 3 месяца назад +2

    My spirit needed this podcast
    Please i laughed so hard😂
    Keep up the good work guys

  • @nosisnyman8056
    @nosisnyman8056 3 месяца назад +2

    The art is more important,because what is the production company without the artists? 60 for the artists and 40 for the producers

  • @anelle05
    @anelle05 3 месяца назад +6

    30 is such a young age guys i think y'all are over looking it.

  • @Ayanda-zee
    @Ayanda-zee 3 месяца назад +1

    My day becomes soooooo much better when you guys drop ❤️🔥!

  • @1975bohemian
    @1975bohemian 3 месяца назад +1

    If anything, the people who feel lost, confused and have no idea what they want often feel envious or a magnifying of pressure to see others like them having an understanding of what it is they want. Lebos perspective is one side of the coin and an empowering perspective to have because nothing is more exciting than possibilities and having that feeling of "everything will be Arlight"
    But usually most people don't see that side and that could be because of the society we live in, our parents or our own self esteems. Being lost and confused is... Idk taboo? It's like it casts a shadow over you. You wouldn't be filled with confidence and courage to say that out loud. You'd sort of feel... Like a loser? Shameful? As if there's something wrong you because o dira eng ka bophelo when your peers are thriving and settling into their new lives
    But IT IS something to. Embrace👌(lebos perspective)

  • @BenThemba-ok6ry
    @BenThemba-ok6ry 3 месяца назад +3

    32 I'm with Thato ey you got to have direction in your life ey ,not knowing what you want is very confusing ey

  • @selfimprovementmbuyim7658
    @selfimprovementmbuyim7658 3 месяца назад

    OMG the music playlist is such a dope idea. Give me 14 of those rn!

  • @Thulare_Ramokgopa
    @Thulare_Ramokgopa 3 месяца назад +1

    I finished Blood Legacy in 2days😅🤞🏾. Beautiful show!!!
    I enjoyed watching you guys😂🤍

  • @banelemagobiyane7244
    @banelemagobiyane7244 3 месяца назад

    10:00 , "Does the milk need a name" 🤣😭so real!!!

  • @_Montlenyana22
    @_Montlenyana22 3 месяца назад +2

    My favourite duo!🌟🏆

  • @laronathembelihle8163
    @laronathembelihle8163 3 месяца назад +2

    56:40 real. Piano Love was a waste of time and money. I didn't finish it too

  • @Thato2448
    @Thato2448 3 месяца назад +1

    I Think the Art is mor important than the resources that actualize the Art , Respect the Art.

    • @Thato2448
      @Thato2448 3 месяца назад

      On the room bro.

  • @Blessing_0214
    @Blessing_0214 3 месяца назад +2

    give us that playlist!! ❤️❤️

  • @mphomomokheseng
    @mphomomokheseng 2 месяца назад +1

    Lebo is so funny😂

  • @Prince_Haremgard
    @Prince_Haremgard 3 месяца назад +3

    am a forex trader, lowkey i use that line with my people 😹😹😹😹😹😹

  • @leanbackc
    @leanbackc 3 месяца назад +1

    that happy dude working at a shoe store is a Dave Chapelle reference.

  • @Geegee-r1n
    @Geegee-r1n 2 месяца назад +1

    Lebo you need a shot at radio or tv..

  • @zulu.esethu
    @zulu.esethu 3 месяца назад +1

    I agree with Thato about Oscar Wilde's quote

  • @bonangdew5122
    @bonangdew5122 3 месяца назад +1

    You doing great Thato

  • @nelisiwexulu3327
    @nelisiwexulu3327 3 месяца назад

    how we make the art plays a huge role

  • @mapulemolosha9984
    @mapulemolosha9984 Месяц назад

    I love Lebo big time ❤

  • @tshenoloagnes881
    @tshenoloagnes881 2 месяца назад

    Checking in ❤

  • @mapasekamulane9492
    @mapasekamulane9492 3 месяца назад +1

    I am with Lebo :)

  • @Life-b01
    @Life-b01 3 месяца назад +13

    Whuuu so Thato looked at this episode, saw how cold he was towards Lebo and decided to post it either way😢?

  • @bahlesangweni7615
    @bahlesangweni7615 2 месяца назад +1

    70%talent and 30% production or 60-40

  • @starr8121
    @starr8121 3 месяца назад +1

    😂😂😭I love you guys so much!
    But so many ads!😭 haa

  • @nontokozodubazane6986
    @nontokozodubazane6986 3 месяца назад +3

    I'm seated, watching & listening!

  • @motlatsi219
    @motlatsi219 3 месяца назад +4

    I actually don't get how people clown 30 broo you are actually still a ntwana at 30.

  • @serakemanabile3075
    @serakemanabile3075 3 месяца назад +1

    Blood legacy and blood and water are from the same production house 🔥

  • @SupriseRabelani-xi6xg
    @SupriseRabelani-xi6xg 3 месяца назад +3

    Really don’t need a name especially as a student 🤣🤣🤣😭

  • @dianatshilidzi5563
    @dianatshilidzi5563 3 месяца назад +2

    I think the talent should get a bigger cut. I think a good 60-40. I mean, you can be very talented with horrible cameras, but we will still watch your videos..

  • @sesonasiphongcanga4889
    @sesonasiphongcanga4889 3 месяца назад +1

    I think the story you're referring to is from Dave Chappelle's Netflix special

  • @Tumi_Phororo
    @Tumi_Phororo 3 месяца назад +4

    Operators let's gather here! 🤣🤣

  • @samusiqkulture
    @samusiqkulture 3 месяца назад +1

    Smoking is a bad habit period,

  • @ingahendrick2972
    @ingahendrick2972 3 месяца назад

    Lebo really carried this episode😂

  • @amogelangmokaila1011
    @amogelangmokaila1011 3 месяца назад +1

    28:09 i thought of ella mai.

  • @SibsM93
    @SibsM93 3 месяца назад

    I just live you guys, I just live this podcast. That's all I wanted to say 😊

  • @siyabongamgee8040
    @siyabongamgee8040 3 месяца назад

    😂😂 tell us more about the banks😂😅

  • @tlotloramelotsana8205
    @tlotloramelotsana8205 3 месяца назад +1

    i work in the telecommunication sector🤣🤣 people need to be careful what they do online incognito mode doesnt work

    • @Pantherpip_Trades
      @Pantherpip_Trades 3 месяца назад +1

      Aowa come with tea 😂😂phela we search crazy stuff

  • @laronathembelihle8163
    @laronathembelihle8163 3 месяца назад +2

    Hiiii Tladi!!!!!!

  • @siyabongamgee8040
    @siyabongamgee8040 3 месяца назад +1

    Will Smith is also a content creator

  • @siyabongamgee8040
    @siyabongamgee8040 3 месяца назад

    Banks are a form of soft power

  • @thabangemanuelmpane1550
    @thabangemanuelmpane1550 3 месяца назад

    Matladi and Lucas I Agree

  • @tokollomoitoi8409
    @tokollomoitoi8409 3 месяца назад

    Thato nkare o boregile

  • @YolandaMaphosa
    @YolandaMaphosa 3 месяца назад +1

    Lebo is soo boring for the volcano comment🤣🤣

  • @JSFootballfanclub
    @JSFootballfanclub 3 месяца назад

    Pay the vessel that moulded the creation.

  • @laronathembelihle8163
    @laronathembelihle8163 3 месяца назад +1

    I'm going to look for a blesser so that I can have the #seated merch in all colors😍😍😍😍

  • @UnarineAenonMuravha-ow9bo
    @UnarineAenonMuravha-ow9bo 3 месяца назад

    Operators checking in

  • @LaoTheDesigner
    @LaoTheDesigner 3 месяца назад +1

    Sila 📍

  • @rigby8266
    @rigby8266 3 месяца назад +1

    I think Thato is just tired guys

    • @gracemaranke6684
      @gracemaranke6684 3 месяца назад +1

      Which is allowed but it really messes with the chemistry of the video. On days like this thats where they could find a guest to stand in for whoever cause if smmm people are complaining about the episode being off its not nice

  • @tokaMahlagaume-c1v
    @tokaMahlagaume-c1v 2 месяца назад

    is thato okay lena

  • @TRlNlTY-NATION
    @TRlNlTY-NATION 3 месяца назад

    i relate

  • @AmahleCharmaineNcube
    @AmahleCharmaineNcube 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @asekhoyonela4327
    @asekhoyonela4327 3 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @Deebbraa
    @Deebbraa 3 месяца назад

    #seated

  • @tshwarelomo_kholo
    @tshwarelomo_kholo 3 месяца назад

    Me as a 34 year old who makes content 😭

  • @lazarusmacheke2448
    @lazarusmacheke2448 3 месяца назад

    So you can't listen to Amapiono is you're above 30 years?
    Wow....😅😅😅

  • @TsatsiIllustration
    @TsatsiIllustration 3 месяца назад +2

    #seated / halala😅

  • @nontokozodubazane6986
    @nontokozodubazane6986 3 месяца назад

    📍

  • @tokaMahlagaume-c1v
    @tokaMahlagaume-c1v 2 месяца назад

    lebo thinks life is a game