Bhaiya I have been following you from above 3 years now.. and I'll tell you that I haven't seen a more perfect man than you. I may sound stupid.. I know that one shouldn't judge another person on the basis of particular Quora answer or a single youtube video.. but it's not that. I have read thousands of your answers.. and seen hundreds of your videos recently.. but I have failed all the time to pick up a single default in you. At times you leave me at awe.. that how can one be so perfect? I don't know bhaiya.. I guess you need to make a video about your "bad side" or "defaults" someday :P otherwise you are becoming an epitome of perfection for me. XD Lastly, I'd just say that I love you, bhaiya. And what you are doing is really helpful. Not just to me.. but to thousands others who are watching it and millions others who will watch it in future, after you get very famous here (I genuinely want that to happen) Keep going ❤️
Thanks a lot Aaman, your message made me emotional. I definitely have a bad side, In fact, I have much more flaws than normal people, but whatever I am, the amount of respect I have got from brothers and sisters like you is indeed a huge achievement for me. God bless you :)
@@dikshapandey8100 jb dono court marriage kr lie h toh fir dare q rhe...unhe manae, smjhae, k hm dono court marriage kr lie h..toh alag toh waise v nai hone wale ..aap log man jaenge toh achha rhega... Ladka agr settle h toh apni wife k sath alag rhe.. parents av nai maan rhe ...dhire dhire toh maan hi jaenge...apne bacche se parents naraj nai rhte...
Sir ldki ke parents mrne ki dhamki dete h jisse ldki dr jati h bolte h oske sath jaogi to hm log mr jayenge wo Sochti h sch me mr jayenge hme lgta h bs oski family ose drati h
Qualities to be seen ur life partner :--- 1. Money should not be first priority but financial stability is must 2. Critical requirements and Interest should be cleared with ur partner 3. Understand their way of life 4. Understand their behaviour n nature 5. Never run behind looks 6. Understand their way of thinking
Much needed video... Sir, log shaadi main paisa, looks hi matter karti hn aaj kal.. Relationship ki koi value nai hain.. Aur apne sahi kahan... Requirements clear honi chaiyea. As u said kuch log hi hello b ni bolte.. Hadh toh tab hogayi jab larke walo ne muje bola shaadi k baad frget yr mom.. Maine kushi kushi un logo ko bye boldi.. Muje aise log chaiyea ek family banke rahe naki rishto ko tode..Aur jo log looks dekar ate hn unhe b chod deti hun... Infinite likes from me to this video.. Thanks a ton..
Sahi farmaya aapne. Imaan, Insaf aur mohabbat mein sabit kadam rakhna chahiye. Jhoot bolne se faasle bante hain aur sach bolne se Faisle hote hain. Jhoot bolkr short time ke liye riste bachane se achha hai sach bol kar apne jamir ko bachaya jaye. Ek din apne rab se bhi mulaqaat karni hai.
Ye khubsurti wali baat k liye apko Salam q ki mere Ghar me khud huaa h asa .... 4 din ki Chadni hoti h ye khubsurti fir ladka ho ya ladki ♥.... Bahut suqriya apse bahut koe bahut kuch shikh sakte h ...bahut aachi lagi apki msg ..... Thqq sir
Kuch batein hoti jo hme pta hoti h pr ham use pyar me bhul jate h ,but your vdo realizes me that ki wo batein itni bhi simple nhi hoti ...ek life mili h ,usme galti hongi pr ,kuch bhi krne se pahle sochna chahiye....you really motivating lots of people ....we luv u sir...
Dukh ki baat yahi hai ki log sab jante huye shadi ke tym pe parents aur bachho ke thinking nhi mil pati..logo ki soch badlne ki jarurat hai..aapki bat bilkul sahi hai..
@@Futtrade lagta hai aapke pass kuchh jyada hi degrees hai, school main teacher ki job aasani se mil jayegi Aap Apna yeh gyan wahi jakar sikhana mujeh isaki koi zarurat nahi hai ....
The last one I can totally understand bcz I trusted my bf blindly nd also I was soo emotional...but at that moment I faced a situation in which I exactly got to knw about him even after 2 yr frndship u can't judge a person the person can chng and yeah situation will tell u about the person not the person ....but now I overcome from that trauma nd I m strong and nd smart to judge .. Btw thanku❤️❤️
Mere life iske chakkar me barbadi ho gyi, kash kuch waqt pehle dekh lete to, to avi dhoka ka jaldi arrange marriage ke fal avi devorce tak na jete👍apke video abhi inspired deti hein, thnku🙏
I came across u this time but since my life has all shades n I can relate to Ur wisdom I m getting in the process of marrying my man whom I love yes it's a love at first sight but with time we understand each other n Everything is great with god's blessings
Sir you look like a doctor who live near my house. Love from Gujarat. You explained very well all topics. And you clear some doubts, my problems and my things and thoughts.
Sir, I discovered your channel just a few days back. It is very heartening to know that there are guys like you in India. While I agree with all the points you mentioned here, the problem is how to judge in a matter of months. Like who would know, if a guy is insecure. There is no way to ask that and expect an answer. The only way to figure it out, is to spend enough time with the person. What if you get to know he is a very doubtful and possessive guy once you get married?
@@shreehari2681 galat baat hai ,aapke papa ko nhi maarna chahiyea mummy ko , and kaun kaha arrange marriage aacha nhi hota , ladke to wahi hote hai na , and purane zamane ke raja maharaja to kabhi apni wife pr haath bhi nhi uthaya tha , devi bolte the , and wife bhi bhut respect krte the husband ko , and aaj pseudofeminism western culture ke karan na husband wife ko respect deta hai na wife husband ko
Definitely..i choose partner on basis of degree , beauty and life becomes hell after year... always select partner on basis of nature, understand and respect
Abhi aur tutenge jamaane ke bhram..😍😍.. Aap isi tarah video bnate rhe to muskurayegi bhuli bisri khwahishe aur dur Ho jayenge dilo ke waham........ God Bless you 👏👏👏👏
हर नारी को नारायण मिले!😊🙏 ओर नारायण वाले विष्णु वाले तो वैसे भी अपने अंदर जीते हैं उनको बाहरी आकर्षण से क्या आकर्षित होना लक्ष्मी जैसी नारी खुद ब ख़ुद चलकर आ जायेगी जय श्री कृष्णा ❤️🙏
Sr...wow..every single point is based on logic ...by chance today i found ur vds..this vd is 2nd valuble chpter fr m...nd god bless u many more..u r doing a gr8 job
Sir apki ya video ...bhaut helped full hh ...isssa hmara life partner ka jaanna ka ussa smjhna ussa parkhna ka pta lg jata hh ...m bhi relationship m hu sir abhi hum dono life partner ek dusre ko smjh ra hh ...ab apki ta video dekhti hhe sir bhaut acha feel ho ra hh ... thnkú sir thnkú so múch very very helpful video sir😊😇
I visit ur channel at first time ...coz of my mother 🙃...she watched ur video and like it ...she download this video 🙂... And I don't know about it 😅...when I continued my study on RUclips ...I see this video in my download history 😂😂...and then I watched ur 10+ video at the same time 😂😅... literally your work are very appreciable ❤️😊...thank you so much sir 🙏🏻❤️!
I read your answers on Quora a lot years back. Good to see you on RUclips. In our families, you get 10-15 minutes to decide in an arranged marriage set up so it's not possible to know a person. Secondly age factor also mattes a lot, like I am 34 now unmarried with good job and everything, but now I don't have luxury to see spend more time to select the right partner. Everything becomes so messed up that you can't think clearly.
Sir your videos honestly helped me a lot.. Bit by bit every words u have spoken is logical and relevent.. Keep motivating n Sir I wish you grow as a successful RUclipsr in near future.. Regards
Thank you very much... this video was a must needed one. You encovered all the critical points, one should think before choosing their life partner. Appreciate your efforts.
Meri nazar main perfect life partner wahi h jo ek 2sre ki kamiyo k saath apnaaye itna pyar de ki khud woh aapki marzi k hisaab se ban jaaye.ek 2sre ki feelings ko samjhe.
आज के जमाने में अच्छी रोजी -रोजगार की बहुत बड़ी समस्या है ।ऐसे में पति-पत्नी दोनों को सामाजिक, आर्थिक, पारिवारिक समस्याओं का मुकाबला करने लायक होना चाहिए ।
Yes u right sir ji Only money n looks r not important for marriage 🙏 whole life u hv to spend with ur partner Nature , ,Qualifications ,personality ..Compatibilty ...I would say .Understanding is another imp..factor . between 2 people
Sir aapke vidioes kafi jyada knowledable h plz aap issi tarah vidioes banate rahiye isse hume ek Achhi siksha milti h or aisi baante humko sayad hi koi vidio me mil pati thanks for this🤗
@@komalmalgunde748 higher lower class kaha se a gya love marriage me bhi kai successful hote h aur highter class me aliya Bhatt ranbir kappor love marriage kiye dipika Padukone ranbir singh kitne saree highter class kiye love marriage successful bhi hai aur jo love marriage krte h iska mltb y ni ki bad insaan h vo highter ho y lower love arrange sab chlta h ok bakbash na kro bina soche samjhe
How to make parents convence? That wife Earnings is also important as husband earnings?? The day we All come to know that Earning is = self respect and Independency. We all will be free no particular gender suffered anymore.
Your point is very valid but English is weak. Always use the language that you are most comfortable in. Yeh main aap ko chhota karne ke liye nahi bol rahi hoon. Just advice as an elder sister or aunt
When you go for marriage proposal add in profile or biodata what kind of spouse u need whether it is second or first marriage then select your partner instead of chating online and rejecting doing time pass ,wasting time n your age on this internet world 🙏 .Today generation dont know when to get settled n when to plan family .only chatting online n going into relationships n then huge break ups ...Again move on to new relation ..todays generation i feel gets quite matured by the time of marriage . 🙏
It's need a platform in india ... where people can find some one who having like minded (I.e.... intellectual n healthy thought process).... mujhe bi ek progressive , honest, innocent Girl ki talaash hai .
Shaddi ke liye 1st priority hi h jo v bate ho apas me clear sach bole bcz jooth bolne ka faida hi nhi h...sachai samne aa hi jaana h !! Logo ko ye smjhne m hi wqt lg jaata h
Shadi se juri apki baten suni , sabkuchh sahi kaha apne . Ek bat Shayad chhut gai , apne barabar walo se hi rista jorna chahie .worna ek paksh dusre paksh Ko dabata rahega
Meri bahno pyar ke chakar me mat pdna sisters anubhav sir jese insan 1000 me se ek milta hai baki bholi bhali ladkiyo ko fasate hai physically AUR emotionally khelte hai unke sath. bas me kahna chahti hu is chkar me mt pdna vrna depression hi aapka future hoga
First thing no one is perfect and everything has positive and negative aspects so why go for negative just look for positive and understand what they have, because perfection doesn't exist it's only an illusion of mind so always be happy with what you have because expectations always kill your happiness...
Sir you are an amazing person.. ek video divorced logo ke liye bhi bnaiye jo fir se apni life shuru krna chahte unko kaun si baato ka dhayan rakhna chahiye apne partner ko select krte huye.. please 🙏🏻
Please make video for divorced people like us as well. I have seen many divorced people on matrimonial site with reasons of their past marriage due ideological differences between partners, involment of third person, fraud or concealation of facts, extra marital affair, lack of physical attraction, not compatibility with each other, etc... And it also takes time to arrange remarriage once we get painful experience in past.
Mera fiance aisa tha sir maine engagement todh di kyon ki woh apni family ko hi bas importance deta tha rishtedaro ko dosto ko magar mere liye na waqt tha aur dimand thik ki job nahi kar sakti tum aur tumhare relative dost humare ghar nahi asakte hain maine fir rishta todh diya thanks aap amazing video banante hain
Kai log beautiful bhi hotay h or BAHut acchay bhi hotay h unmay to manay koi ego Dekha Nahi per Jo Nahi hotay h vo Unsay itayna jaltay bhuntay h. Or UNKi image bigadnay Ka try kertay h....ye manay real life m Dekha h or Kutch na a Chau dikhtay h or character s bhi bakar or ego bhi ...Kamal ki BAAT h jiski Diya usko god n BAHut Kutch Diya Jisay na Diya Usay Kutch bhi Nahi ...... Or upper s beauty with bran painting bhi aati h ,writer bhi h,cook bhi ,singer bhi , caring bhi ,honest bhi ...... Ha Kai bar ho bhi SAKTA h Jo aap bolay per manay to Kai place per ye Dekha h.... Kutch log hotay hogay Jo acchay Nahi dikhtay per Acchi Hoti h.......her insan different HOTA h per manay to upper vala BAHut Dekha h...
Bhaiya I have been following you from above 3 years now.. and I'll tell you that I haven't seen a more perfect man than you. I may sound stupid.. I know that one shouldn't judge another person on the basis of particular Quora answer or a single youtube video.. but it's not that. I have read thousands of your answers.. and seen hundreds of your videos recently.. but I have failed all the time to pick up a single default in you. At times you leave me at awe.. that how can one be so perfect? I don't know bhaiya.. I guess you need to make a video about your "bad side" or "defaults" someday :P otherwise you are becoming an epitome of perfection for me. XD
Lastly, I'd just say that I love you, bhaiya. And what you are doing is really helpful. Not just to me.. but to thousands others who are watching it and millions others who will watch it in future, after you get very famous here (I genuinely want that to happen)
Keep going ❤️
Thanks a lot Aaman, your message made me emotional. I definitely have a bad side, In fact, I have much more flaws than normal people, but whatever I am, the amount of respect I have got from brothers and sisters like you is indeed a huge achievement for me. God bless you :)
Hmare FD ki cast alg bt osne court marriage kr li fir bhi mere FD ke ghr wale nhi man rhe h wo mentally disturb ho rhi kya kre wo
@@AnubhavJain plz sir help kriye hme to Dr rehta h ki wo dono khi Kuch kr na le
@@dikshapandey8100 jb dono court marriage kr lie h toh fir dare q rhe...unhe manae, smjhae, k hm dono court marriage kr lie h..toh alag toh waise v nai hone wale ..aap log man jaenge toh achha rhega... Ladka agr settle h toh apni wife k sath alag rhe.. parents av nai maan rhe ...dhire dhire toh maan hi jaenge...apne bacche se parents naraj nai rhte...
Sir ldki ke parents mrne ki dhamki dete h jisse ldki dr jati h bolte h oske sath jaogi to hm log mr jayenge wo Sochti h sch me mr jayenge hme lgta h bs oski family ose drati h
भाई शादी एक जुआ है , आप चाहे कितना भी सोच समझ कर शादी करो इससे कोई फर्क नही पड़ता , समय के साथ हालात और लोग बदल जाते हैं ।
Yes
It Happens only in India.
"Dont talk to strangers
Marry them."😀
👌👌👌👍👍😁😁😁😁🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂right dear
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Shivnath Maharaj 😂😂😂....
Sach mein yaar 😅
Qualities to be seen ur life partner :---
1. Money should not be first priority but financial stability is must
2. Critical requirements and Interest should be cleared with ur partner
3. Understand their way of life
4. Understand their behaviour n nature
5. Never run behind looks
6. Understand their way of thinking
Money should not be first priority bt financial stability is imp
@@soumsgaming238 financial and emotional stability is very important..👍
@@aishwaryasingh6960 Yess mutual understanding is also imp
@@soumsgaming238 I agree 👍
money is the first priority 😭
सर वीडियो लम्बी नही हुई दिमाग घूम गया जीवन जीने का तरीका आपने बता दिया ,बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद दिल से💐💐💐
Much needed video... Sir, log shaadi main paisa, looks hi matter karti hn aaj kal.. Relationship ki koi value nai hain.. Aur apne sahi kahan... Requirements clear honi chaiyea.
As u said kuch log hi hello b ni bolte.. Hadh toh tab hogayi jab larke walo ne muje bola shaadi k baad frget yr mom.. Maine kushi kushi un logo ko bye boldi.. Muje aise log chaiyea ek family banke rahe naki rishto ko tode..Aur jo log looks dekar ate hn unhe b chod deti hun... Infinite likes from me to this video.. Thanks a ton..
Bahut sahi karti ho. All the best :)
@@AnubhavJain thanks sir😊🙏
Bilkul Sahi Kaha sir Apne .... Choti Soch k insan SE door hi rehna Chahiye .
हर बात आपकी सही है 👍👍100%
Hi
Oh my god .............this way of thinking makes you genuine man seriously this vedio is worth to see
Sahi farmaya aapne. Imaan, Insaf aur mohabbat mein sabit kadam rakhna chahiye. Jhoot bolne se faasle bante hain aur sach bolne se Faisle hote hain. Jhoot bolkr short time ke liye riste bachane se achha hai sach bol kar apne jamir ko bachaya jaye. Ek din apne rab se bhi mulaqaat karni hai.
I am agree with u
Ye khubsurti wali baat k liye apko Salam q ki mere Ghar me khud huaa h asa .... 4 din ki Chadni hoti h ye khubsurti fir ladka ho ya ladki ♥.... Bahut suqriya apse bahut koe bahut kuch shikh sakte h ...bahut aachi lagi apki msg ..... Thqq sir
Kuch batein hoti jo hme pta hoti h pr ham use pyar me bhul jate h ,but your vdo realizes me that ki wo batein itni bhi simple nhi hoti ...ek life mili h ,usme galti hongi pr ,kuch bhi krne se pahle sochna chahiye....you really motivating lots of people ....we luv u sir...
Thank you Pooja
@@AnubhavJain aur biwi ko kaam ki chij na lake de vo?
I have no words to appreciate you ...you have cleared all my doubts...and apna bilkul sah bola ki perfect life partner kaise milta ha😘
Kya aap mere friend banoge ji
I don't know why but I feel your way of thinking or expressing is 90% similar to my old and durable way of thinking or belief system... 🙏☺️😊🙏
:)
Dukh ki baat yahi hai ki log sab jante huye shadi ke tym pe parents aur bachho ke thinking nhi mil pati..logo ki soch badlne ki jarurat hai..aapki bat bilkul sahi hai..
🙂
Great sir. What ever you said is fact how people show off their marriage on social media 😂 4 din ka honeymoon aur saari Umar compromise.
👍🏻👍🏻
😂😂😂😂😂
@@vinodhatwar1567 u cheap man.. Don't need to use abusive words
@@vinodhatwar1567 mind your language ok bro.tumhari ma bahn bhi to ek ladki hai bhai👈👆
Right
Sir mujhe apki bat sunke bht confidence milta hai wrna main kuch logo ki bat sunke demotivate ho jati hu
Im confused for partner
Sir your childrens are soooooooo lucky in whole world....you are world's most bestest parents....
Thank you :)
Correct
@@Futtrade bestest ka Matlab sabse aachha hota hai or agar khudko Samaj main nahi aaya to khud ko anpadh samjo dusro ko nahi samje... 😡😡😡😡😡
@@Futtrade lagta hai aapke pass kuchh jyada hi degrees hai, school main teacher ki job aasani se mil jayegi Aap Apna yeh gyan wahi jakar sikhana mujeh isaki koi zarurat nahi hai ....
@@Futtrade thank you so much for advice.....
Kabhi कभी video🎥 देखती हूँ आपके sir लेकिन बहुत कम age मे सब बाते समझ आ गई 😅😀😀😀🙏 thank you sir
I was watching , listening this video. My mother also listen your thoughts and she appreciated you.
Thank you :)
Same here😊
@@VoiceOfLiterature24 CRT p my jiju F W
@@AnubhavJain sir apka number do na
The last one I can totally understand bcz I trusted my bf blindly nd also I was soo emotional...but at that moment I faced a situation in which I exactly got to knw about him even after 2 yr frndship u can't judge a person the person can chng and yeah situation will tell u about the person not the person ....but now I overcome from that trauma nd I m strong and nd smart to judge ..
Btw thanku❤️❤️
True fact is everyone should do meditation everyday to make mind calm to make life perfect ❤️from assam
Yes
Muje apne sare questions ka jvaab mil jata h ..when I see you my face already to blossom...😍
God bless you :)
Anubhav sir I want to talk u in personal . Please give me ur email id
आंख में आंसू आ गए sir ,may God bless you 🙏🙏💐💐💐💐💐
Mere life iske chakkar me barbadi ho gyi, kash kuch waqt pehle dekh lete to, to avi dhoka ka jaldi arrange marriage ke fal avi devorce tak na jete👍apke video abhi inspired deti hein, thnku🙏
I came across u this time but since my life has all shades n I can relate to Ur wisdom I m getting in the process of marrying my man whom I love yes it's a love at first sight but with time we understand each other n Everything is great with god's blessings
All the best. God bless you :)
Sir you look like a doctor who live near my house. Love from Gujarat. You explained very well all topics. And you clear some doubts, my problems and my things and thoughts.
Sir, I discovered your channel just a few days back. It is very heartening to know that there are guys like you in India. While I agree with all the points you mentioned here, the problem is how to judge in a matter of months. Like who would know, if a guy is insecure. There is no way to ask that and expect an answer. The only way to figure it out, is to spend enough time with the person. What if you get to know he is a very doubtful and possessive guy once you get married?
I love your videos because you don't waste your time, you just explain everything with examples... I appreciate it 😊💯
Today I visited your channel for the first time... Really true sir.. The 2nd last point is so much true..
Thankyou sir, mere jese bht logg jo preshan ho kisi b vjh se , achi baate mature bnati sikhati h,, thanx , hope aisi achi vedios bnate rhege🙏🏻
I have been looking for these only unconsciously. I'm happy to watch this
Ji bilkul sahi, 28 Saal se meri mummy sab Kuch akele face Kar rhi hai 😔
Same my mom
@@optimisticgirl5420 kya aapki mummy respect krte hai papa ki , kabhi gussa nhi hoti papa pr , ekdum sach bolne
@@shreehari2681 galat baat hai ,aapke papa ko nhi maarna chahiyea mummy ko , and kaun kaha arrange marriage aacha nhi hota , ladke to wahi hote hai na , and purane zamane ke raja maharaja to kabhi apni wife pr haath bhi nhi uthaya tha , devi bolte the , and wife bhi bhut respect krte the husband ko , and aaj pseudofeminism western culture ke karan na husband wife ko respect deta hai na wife husband ko
Same
Hi
Each and every word is true , and straight forward.
This video really help to solve my confusion and find a good life partner...aapne sahi kaha khayalat milna bhaut jaruri hai ..thanks..👍🙏💛
Definitely..i choose partner on basis of degree , beauty and life becomes hell after year... always select partner on basis of nature, understand and respect
Abhi aur tutenge jamaane ke bhram..😍😍.. Aap isi tarah video bnate rhe to muskurayegi bhuli bisri khwahishe aur dur Ho jayenge dilo ke waham........ God Bless you 👏👏👏👏
Thank you :)
हर नारी को नारायण मिले!😊🙏 ओर नारायण वाले विष्णु वाले तो वैसे भी अपने अंदर जीते हैं उनको बाहरी आकर्षण से क्या आकर्षित होना
लक्ष्मी जैसी नारी खुद ब ख़ुद चलकर आ जायेगी
जय श्री कृष्णा ❤️🙏
I don't know how I landed up to this channel, but every point of urs is perfect.
Thanks for sharing it was to the point.🙂🙏
Actually
Kya aap mere friend banoge ji
Sr...wow..every single point is based on logic ...by chance today i found ur vds..this vd is 2nd valuble chpter fr m...nd god bless u many more..u r doing a gr8 job
Very nice Sir.... Compatibility, understanding, way of life and living, behaviour / nature, ego, thinking is main for life partner ...true👌👍
Hii
Sir apki ya video ...bhaut helped full hh ...isssa hmara life partner ka jaanna ka ussa smjhna ussa parkhna ka pta lg jata hh ...m bhi relationship m hu sir abhi hum dono life partner ek dusre ko smjh ra hh ...ab apki ta video dekhti hhe sir bhaut acha feel ho ra hh ... thnkú sir thnkú so múch very very helpful video sir😊😇
God bless you :)
I love your vedios you always encourage tha girls to be independent ❤️
Thank you Kajal :)
Yea i also agree 🙂
I visit ur channel at first time ...coz of my mother 🙃...she watched ur video and like it ...she download this video 🙂... And I don't know about it 😅...when I continued my study on RUclips ...I see this video in my download history 😂😂...and then I watched ur 10+ video at the same time 😂😅...
literally your work are very appreciable ❤️😊...thank you so much sir 🙏🏻❤️!
Thank you, convey my best wishes to your mother as well :)
U r really great sir🙏🙏 every girl should watch this vedio. Hat's off u👏👏👏👏
Everyone must watch this video🙏
Sirji 🙏
Nobody is born perfect in this world ..
I read your answers on Quora a lot years back. Good to see you on RUclips. In our families, you get 10-15 minutes to decide in an arranged marriage set up so it's not possible to know a person. Secondly age factor also mattes a lot, like I am 34 now unmarried with good job and everything, but now I don't have luxury to see spend more time to select the right partner. Everything becomes so messed up that you can't think clearly.
Can u send me a link of his Quora account?...pls...thnx in advance
KuchB naam hai bhai aapka
@@wintherace108 you can search anubhav jain quora
Sir ji itna perfect to aaj kal koi bhi nhi hai....
Compromise only ladkiya hi krti hai jyadatar kyonki vo paiso ke mamlo me independent hoti hai
Sb ladki nhi hoti h kuch khud pe hi depend rhti h. Self depend
.ye bahut km dekhne milega hmm
Apki baton ko sunkar sukun milta hai sir🙏 ek sawal k sath kayi sawalon k jawab mil jate hen.🙏💯👍
बहुत अच्छे विचार है।कम लोगो मे ही कड़वा सच कहने की हिम्मत होती है जो आपमे है।धनयवाद सर्🙏
Exactly...very true .. independent hoba bahot jaruri hy...ladka always dominant krta hy👍
My family presurising for marriage but before that I have seen this video nice sir it will really help me for seeing all point in videos 🙏
Salute bhai , Salute. Ye banda kis intent se jeeta hai yar. Superb , nailed ..
Sir your videos honestly helped me a lot.. Bit by bit every words u have spoken is logical and relevent.. Keep motivating n Sir I wish you grow as a successful RUclipsr in near future.. Regards
Thank you, glad to know that. God bless you :)
I guess , u r from Odisha
@@arunkumardash7090 Yes, I belong to Odisha
Hii❤️
@@asharath43 m also from Odisha and day by day m growing as a great fan of Anubhav Jain.
Thank you very much... this video was a must needed one. You encovered all the critical points, one should think before choosing their life partner. Appreciate your efforts.
Thank you :)
Kya aap mere friend banoge ji
This is what everyone in this society should know about 💯💯
Hi kya aap mere friend banoge ji
Meri nazar main perfect life partner wahi h jo ek 2sre ki kamiyo k saath apnaaye itna pyar de ki khud woh aapki marzi k hisaab se ban jaaye.ek 2sre ki feelings ko samjhe.
i have learnt many points from this video,really practical points will help me in future, thanks...
आज के जमाने में अच्छी रोजी -रोजगार की बहुत बड़ी समस्या है ।ऐसे में पति-पत्नी दोनों को सामाजिक, आर्थिक, पारिवारिक समस्याओं का मुकाबला करने लायक होना चाहिए ।
Seriously this is reality of our life.....
sir you said everything is right ....🙂
Sir aapne toh dil jeet liya hamara
Kya insight diya hai aapko mera salaam
Thank you :)
Yes u right sir ji
Only money n looks r not important for marriage 🙏 whole life u hv to spend with ur partner
Nature , ,Qualifications ,personality ..Compatibilty ...I would say .Understanding is another imp..factor . between 2 people
Sir aapke vidioes kafi jyada knowledable h plz aap issi tarah vidioes banate rahiye isse hume ek Achhi siksha milti h or aisi baante humko sayad hi koi vidio me mil pati thanks for this🤗
Sir you have a very practical approach...n the way u speak is very captivating....
Thank you Manisha :)
1000 %sahi baat hai sir jo bhi aap ne bataye hai .kaas 5 saal pehle a video dekh leta ....
I like the way u started the video..without wasting time..👍
Thnku apki is video's sare doubt clear ho gye
U r ryt sir....sbki soch nhi bdl skte
Apki bato NE meri soch bdl di mai hmesha sochti thi arrange Marriage me ldka kaisa hoga lekin ab sbse phle mere liye jaruri hai ki Mai self depend hu
arrange marriage to life ki bohot badi risk he😟 insan ka nature, thoughts acche na ho, to me nahi rahe sakti😩
Same problem
Haa to love marriage krlo tumko kisne roka h 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@THE ZOLDICS
Higher class wale to lower class wlonsebhi jyada kmine hote hey
@@komalmalgunde748 bilkul sahi kaha
@@komalmalgunde748 higher lower class kaha se a gya love marriage me bhi kai successful hote h aur highter class me aliya Bhatt ranbir kappor love marriage kiye dipika Padukone ranbir singh kitne saree highter class kiye love marriage successful bhi hai aur jo love marriage krte h iska mltb y ni ki bad insaan h vo highter ho y lower love arrange sab chlta h ok bakbash na kro bina soche samjhe
Thank you so much sir 🙏 I cleared my self just because of ur videos
Good Nature compatibility understanding is much needed than love/looks.
Sir apka baat mujhe bahaut accha lagta aisa hota hai ki aap hi mere gav Family ko samajhane aa jaye
Sir you are best relationship mentor ❣️
Apne pyar se kisi ki bhi mentally challenge Kari ja sakti hai ❤❤
How to make parents convence? That wife Earnings is also important as husband earnings??
The day we All come to know that Earning is = self respect and Independency. We all will be free no particular gender suffered anymore.
We don't have to convince, we have to stand by ourself
Your point is very valid but English is weak. Always use the language that you are most comfortable in. Yeh main aap ko chhota karne ke liye nahi bol rahi hoon. Just advice as an elder sister or aunt
True
When you go for marriage proposal add in profile or biodata what kind of spouse u need whether it is second or first marriage then select your partner instead of chating online and rejecting doing time pass ,wasting time n your age on this internet world 🙏 .Today generation dont know when to get settled n when to plan family .only chatting online n going into relationships n then huge break ups ...Again move on to new relation ..todays generation i feel gets quite matured by the time of marriage . 🙏
It's need a platform in india ... where people can find some one who having like minded (I.e.... intellectual n healthy thought process).... mujhe bi ek progressive , honest, innocent Girl ki talaash hai .
U will surely find someone.
Very soon, u will get the right girl 👍 hope for the best.
mujhe bhi same ladki chahiye bro.....im government employee too now.
Moreover mujhe LOYALTI jyada matter krti he.
Shaddi ke liye 1st priority hi h jo v bate ho apas me clear sach bole bcz jooth bolne ka faida hi nhi h...sachai samne aa hi jaana h !! Logo ko ye smjhne m hi wqt lg jaata h
Thank you so much Sir...🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thnku so much sir... Ye video mene bhut sahi time pr dekhi hai .... Allah ne mugh bcha liya shyd bhut bdi musibat se..
Each words you say is right sir thanks today's we all need this kind of information
Kash apki tarah soch har ladke ki hoti. Well said!
To err is human... Perfection is only Divine. ☮️🅰️
Sir I salute you mere dil me aapke liye sach me bhut se bhi bhut izzat hogi your all videos is heart' touching
Bhot hi practical points..... Amazing!!!
Shadi se juri apki baten suni , sabkuchh sahi kaha apne . Ek bat Shayad chhut gai , apne barabar walo se hi rista jorna chahie .worna ek paksh dusre paksh Ko dabata rahega
Meri bahno pyar ke chakar me mat pdna sisters anubhav sir jese insan 1000 me se ek milta hai baki bholi bhali ladkiyo ko fasate hai physically AUR emotionally khelte hai unke sath. bas me kahna chahti hu is chkar me mt pdna vrna depression hi aapka future hoga
First thing no one is perfect and everything has positive and negative aspects so why go for negative just look for positive and understand what they have, because perfection doesn't exist it's only an illusion of mind so always be happy with what you have because expectations always kill your happiness...
Sir you are an amazing person.. ek video divorced logo ke liye bhi bnaiye jo fir se apni life shuru krna chahte unko kaun si baato ka dhayan rakhna chahiye apne partner ko select krte huye.. please 🙏🏻
Please make video for divorced people like us as well. I have seen many divorced people on matrimonial site with reasons of their past marriage due ideological differences between partners, involment of third person, fraud or concealation of facts, extra marital affair, lack of physical attraction, not compatibility with each other, etc... And it also takes time to arrange remarriage once we get painful experience in past.
@@avantihejib right Avanti ..
Ho to yhi ra h sir,bs sundar sundar krte h,ldkiyon pe alag hi pressure hotaa h,,,aapki soch mai b same rakhti hu❤❤❤❤
Well said sir 😇! Thank you for directing us right path!
Mera fiance aisa tha sir maine engagement todh di kyon ki woh apni family ko hi bas importance deta tha rishtedaro ko dosto ko magar mere liye na waqt tha aur dimand thik ki job nahi kar sakti tum aur tumhare relative dost humare ghar nahi asakte hain maine fir rishta todh diya thanks aap amazing video banante hain
Tumne maturity dikhai, apne jeevan ki khaatir, Jo bahut zaruri tha. God bless you
@@AnubhavJain thank u sir 🙏🙏🙏
Good tips 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Human relationship is very complicated.
Kai log beautiful bhi hotay h or BAHut acchay bhi hotay h unmay to manay koi ego Dekha Nahi per Jo Nahi hotay h vo Unsay itayna jaltay bhuntay h. Or UNKi image bigadnay Ka try kertay h....ye manay real life m Dekha h or Kutch na a Chau dikhtay h or character s bhi bakar or ego bhi ...Kamal ki BAAT h jiski Diya usko god n BAHut Kutch Diya Jisay na Diya Usay Kutch bhi Nahi ......
Or upper s beauty with bran painting bhi aati h ,writer bhi h,cook bhi ,singer bhi , caring bhi ,honest bhi ......
Ha Kai bar ho bhi SAKTA h Jo aap bolay per manay to Kai place per ye Dekha h....
Kutch log hotay hogay Jo acchay Nahi dikhtay per Acchi Hoti h.......her insan different HOTA h per manay to upper vala BAHut Dekha h...
Thank you so much guiding me, I strongly agree with all the points. 💯 True
Aap khush kar dete hai sir 😊❤
That's why still thinking about marriage don't knw abt future thank you 😊
Ye wakai aapne bahut soch samajhkar bataye hain facts..Thank you 😮sir👍👍