Because of my brother, I deserve to be treated well…
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"My father told me he wished I hadn't been born." This line can truly make a grown man cry 😔
Omg why i bet you are so pretty
@@Lyx_mayfly I ain't lol
My dad once told me "I love you because you're my son, but I hate you as a person"
Do
My father told me that he wanted to physically beat me and my stepmother said she wouldn't help me. I'm glad to be with my biological mother and stepfather as they know how to raise me
"I knew i was worth it because my brother would look out for me even when it made his life harder" damn that hurts
Thanks for the likes
That's the type of sibling we don't have enough of these days.
@S.Lethrud as the oldest brother in my family I agree and don't do this enough either
Iykyk❤
@@alexanderklimek9354 ik I really do
My sister literally has saved my life twice. Once when i was an infant i fell in the pool she was 7 but my mom says she dove under the water faster than her or my father had a chance and brought me up. Then another time when i was 7 or 8 my head got caught in the undertow at the beach. My sister was far out and i was close to the shore just sitting down when i got hit by a wave and my head got stuck she saw my legs kicking and got to me in seconds grabbed my leg and lifted me up out of the water. I would do anything for her no matter what it is i think thats how siblings should always feel about each other.
She's your Angel on assignment❤❤
You should stay away from large water bodies
I'm happy for you both and the LOVE you share.
The world really will be a BETTER PLACE and then the BEST if we all genuinely LOVE ourselves from HOME before mixing with other people in the society because everything begins from HOME.
I love LOVE!
Keep BLOSSOMING together in the LOVE and GRACE of God.
Cheers!
Be glad you never met my sister, she was the epitome of nastiness.
@kalhilton9703 Yeah, i got lucky. She can be pretty nasty sometimes too, but when it comes down to it, she will always stand by me. Hopefully, so would yours.
He made eye contact at the end there when he brought up his brother, loved that
Shaun is going to be a great father, unlike the greedy pig of a father he had when he was a kid
Dr. Glassman is the father he deserves
This is a TV show...
My little brother has autism. He IS worth it.
Siblings are adorable ❤and I love my sister always ❤❤❤❤❤
My mother and father were open about this with me. They despised me. Now, I am so grateful they did not want me. I would have adored them if they did. I am free. Amen.
I am so sorry for that pain. You say free, but it still hurts. I was a commodity only. They began not caring for me openly at 12. Each year, less was given to me and more to my younger siblings. They stole money and clothes and my food. At 16, they would no longer provide the last thing... a roof. The pain of not having a normal childhood will always hurt.
My mother told me she wished I was a girl when I was 5.
It’s sad that parents really speak that way. My grandmother told my mom pretty much the exact same thing. Pure cruelty.
My grandmother told me that I didn't belong in the family because I was the n word. I was adopted by white parents and I'm black and Puerto Rican mix. She absolutely hated me. My dad's mom then told me that I was all the black this family ever needed and if I ever had any black children she would never speak to me again. Well I had a black child and she never spoke to me again. My mother's mother told the assistant pastor that right in front of me. He looked at me with his eyes full of pity and hurt.
@@jenniferforeman1599 I hope you have a wonderful life with the family that loves you.
@@elliemoss6661 unfortunately I have had a very tragic life. After I left home I ended up having two children that in the last 3 years passed away and now I live by myself. My sons were 21 and 28 when they passed. One was in the military and the other one supposedly had an accidental overdose. I believe he was killed by the girl he was with. She had two other deaths of people that she was dating that were getting ready to leave her the year and a half before she met my son. And my son was getting ready to leave her as well. Then my husband had an affair with her because I could no longer support us and he got mad because he had to step up to the plate for the first time in our 10-year relationship and pull his weight. I have now decided to be alone and count down the days until I can join my children
@@jenniferforeman1599Your situation is heartbreaking 💔 but sis please try to make some new friends and get involve in some hobby. Please don't stay alone. You deserve better people in your life❤
@@jenniferforeman1599I'm sorry about what has happened to you. Please know that God loves you.
You mentioned about waiting to until you join your children that have transitioned from this life. While you wait for your appointed time to transition please seek the LORD cast all your cares on HIM, give your life to HIM, and watch HIM take of you and your situation. Also you still have one child left who most likely still needs you in one way or another (Please hang in there for the both of you).
John 3:16- For God so loved the world that He gave his only begotten son that whosoever believes in Him shall not perish but have everlasting life.
When your time comes if you want experience eternal life with God please see the next scripture and do what it says. If you want God to step in and change you and your circumstance please do the same as well. Remember God loves you so much that HE sent his son to die for you.
Romans 10:9-13- "9 If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. 10 For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved. 11 As Scripture says, “Anyone who believes in him will never be put to shame.”[a] 12 For there is no difference between Jew and Gentile-the same Lord is Lord of all and richly blesses all who call on him, 13 for, “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.”[b]"
My Dad didn't need to say it. All his actions till date proved i was worthless to him. Mom! My Mom saw me through it all. Now i know we'll always be worthy to those who truly care❤
Both my parents told me to my face they wished wasn't born and they never loved me. Their shocked Pikachu face when I went no contact and refused to help in anyway shape or form, moved half a state away. Yeah they have been going down hill fast the last 5 years. When 3 narcissistic people are forced to live in close proximity with no one to use as their gaslighting victims. Reality becomes hard. (And Im a not there fairy enjoying life)
Third person is their golden child yungest child with 5 kids, long arrest records and drug problems. She never even finished high school. Yet somehow i. Their eyes she is perfect. Hahahahaha jokes on them. She cares about no one but herself.
Many men want to Oretend their dad was Good. Even if he wasn't. They wish it so bad--to have a father they are proud of, that loves them...
Pretend
Even if the world was hunting me or god had forsaken me i lnow my brother would go through hell with me and vice versa😢❤
God will never forsake you. I thought the same. But I am an exponentially better man for the trials I overcame. God will never put a stone in front of your
that you cannot lift. Think about the type of person you would be if you were never challenged. The untested blade should not be trusted.
@@jmh1189 I know he won't this was just the most extreme example I could think of 👍
My mother locked us children out of the house in the early morning even if it was raining. Never fed us breakfast. I was 6 or 7, two sister 5 and 2. My brother was a year older than me.
If i knocked on the door she would punched and slap me and tell me she hates me and then throw me back outside. Fucked up isnt it?
I'm sorry to hear that! More so I'm sorry either of you guys had to ever experience it ❤️ I was extremely fortunate to be raised by the most loving, caring nurturing mom a person could ask for. Imagine a mix between mother Teresa, el chapo & the Mafia 😅 a person everybody knew they could count on & who'd always go to bat for them & give the shirt off her back to any stranger in need! Unfortunately my experience with her was none in the same. Put my head through walls, drug down hallways (as a fat child) by my hair while punching me in my face with a closed fist as a form of discipline; for reasons I'm still unaware of, that usually only seemed to arise while she had company & I was mid sleep.
I've consistently been gaslit since even to the point of her crazy mind games jeopardizing the welfare & well being of my own kids. I'm grateful for the experience of witnessing the love and dedication of a person who'd give anything to those they love and I'm very happy my siblings (all 5 of us from that same mother) & all 25+ of their children have such loving and devoted people in their lives. It's helped me to truly get to know & love me & better understand the depths of people and learn very early on that I am enough if even just for me! Mental health doesn't have a look & personality disorders do exist! My job is not to seek answers for any of it or condeme those suffering from it. Its being the truest, purest form of humanity I can be towards every body. & Even when the whole world can't see it or fall victim to her cruelty & form against me, I'm content with who I am every night I go to sleep & genuinely like ME. May peace be with you & the Devine guide you to your purpose 🤗
Me and my Sis. Nobody messes with my lil sister, absolutely nobody.
I have a brother who always had my back no matter the age we were I member being 16 and him 13 and I had got jumped he grabbed a bat and came to help me without hesitation. That's just one time there's multiple times I'm alive because of my brother
My brother and I no longer have this kind of relationship. When I was about 11 or 12 this big kid named Robert who disliked me got on the bus one day and just started wailing on me(I’m a girl and was around 75lbs at the time). As he was hitting me I watched as my brother turned his back and did nothing. My cousin who I rarely even spoke to saved me. At the moment the soul bond I had with my brother fractured and broke. While I still care for him, that deep love I had no longer exists and we only speak maybe once a year and I haven’t seen him in years.
My father was the only one of 5 kids that ever made something of himself his one sister died at 30 with diabetes blind and wheelchair bound so she couldn’t help it. All of his brothers though lived at home on drugs and drink. They are all dead now, before my grandmother died she told my dad that he was a disappointment even though he was the one to help with their bills and take care of them when her social security dried up.
So sad😢
Me with my former coworker Nathan with Autism..shoutouts to him..strong built dude who all he wants is to work and be left alone to concentrate..when others wouldn’t understand or mess with him, I would say you will have an issue with me if y’all don’t stop that bs..never messed with him again 🤝🏼🤝🏼🤝🏼
Good man.
Thank you for sticking up for Nathan. My son ,Cody, and I have wonderful co workers who stick up for him. ❤
Good for you!!
Out of curiosity....
Where did you work?
@@thestreamingone8885 worked at a warehouse where we delivered California lottery scratchers, medicine, glasses, special packages, etc and he was basically the sorter to the warehouse and he would have to get all our drivers their routes in correct order and then do it for 2 other warehouses and that man was always on the run and busy going left and right..the forklift guys at that warehouse work for a different company but they are douche bags in general..so one time I caught one of them making fun of him to a point where he ran into a urinal and started crying…I was pissed and I was even written up for that..went up to the dude and was ready to blitz it there, but he make excuses and got scared..since that day they knew I had his back and some of my coworkers followed suit and his parents threatened to sue the company of the bullying didn’t stop..
Im glad i had a mom that loved me
I feel selfish sometimes for this, but i desperately wish my little brother was my older brother. I wish he could have protected me from his father, I wish when he was born that I didn't hate him for being that mans son. I wish he appreciated all of the toture and pain I went through while I looked out for him. I wish he had felt it, i wish he was the older one so he could have stood up for us both because i could barely stand up for myself. I love him so much. I'd die for him with no questions asked, but now he's 16 and doesn't need me much anymore, and like his father, he doesn't want me either.
Not like my words will make a difference, as every person is different, Im youngest with 6 older brothers, only 2 are from my dad, they didn't have the best relationship with my dad, he wasn't abusive but they didn't feel loved, I didn't understand being so young and didn't see that what was childish behavior on my part they took as digs on their end and they thought we didn't love them the same, they internalized alot of bad feelings and read something else from kid behavior, things that weren't even what we felt about them but I didn't understand what they felt until they spoke up about it and I was actually an adult with a bit of life experience behind me, enough to be able to empathize. Afterwards my relationship was able to improve with them.
U can speak up about what u have experienced and wait til ur brother has time and experience behind him and hopefully ur relationship can be better but try not to take it to heart as at 16 he's far from understanding how u felt about what u went thru, everyone's different so not saying it'll be like that in ur case but as the younger sibling I loved my 6 older brothers and was proud to tell people like they were my protectors of the baby sister even tho they weren't always the ones who protected me and I got smacked quite a bit whenever there was internal fighting amongst us, our relationship was far from good but I still loved them and it just took me knowing and understanding them for our relationship to get better.
I hope seeing it from the younger sibling side u can try to stay strong and hold on a bit longer and speak up, as even tho u have been abused ur post sounds like u love ur sibling so there has to have been good times during that time, best of luck to u and ur family ties
I know this probably will not help you but after reading your comment I want to share my honest thoughts about your situation.
I think you should talk to your brother about it even if he won’t understand you immediately.
I also think you don’t want to do that because of fear for whatever reason, but you should already know by now after standing up to your father that standing by and doing nothing is not going to change your situation.
So I think you really have to be courageous and talk to your brother and share your thoughts and emotions with him, tell him what you told the people who read your comment.
Even if he won’t understand, even if he will get mad.
I think it would help you and your brothers relationship grow further than it has if you don’t give up and keep sharing your thoughts with him.
I really hope you do this, because I hate cropping my feelings and emotions up and I would not wish that anyone else experiences that.
I hope you read my selfish thoughts, wishes but what I really hope you take away from this is that I want you to not live with regret.
That’s all, bye stranger.
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He's 16, just a teenager, most teenagers just want freedom don't really appreciate what they have. He'll change his tune in the next 5-10 years when he has matured.
He will! And when he does, you’ll be there just like always. He is still coming into himself. What’s the term.. “young and dumb.”
Just wait, and know you probably saved him! And will when he needs it again. 🥰
I'd die for my brother, no questions asked. He'd do the same for me. We even have a blood pact to never ever EVER forget that we have each other, and never abandon the other. We have a tattoo together and our motto is "til the end".
He's my big bro, only four years apart, but we're so connected it's like we're twins. Even our height, how we look, what kinds of things we like. I love him SO VERY MUCH! And we'll be there for eachother until the very end.
I wish my boys have that bond if anyone in life hurts them. Theyll always have their mom and dad my older son has autism and my little guy is gonna be huge i can already tell, my older son has the smarts and his little brother is gonna be so big and so strong, theyre gonna make an amazing team !
My mother told me she wished I hadn't been born it was sad I will never be able to forget that...😢
This makes me miss my brother so much.... he died last Augest but we always had each other's back
I’m sorry for your loss. He sounds like he was a great brother.
@@iluvfoxtrot3629 thank you. He was my oldest younger brother and we were really close. He was a great person and would have given the shirt off his back if you needed it
My late father hated the fact that he only had daughters. When I decided to stop letting his constant toxic criticism bother me it was because I heardthat he’d told some male cousins that to be real men they had to exploit and lie to women for sex! That man was not a real father he was just a sperm donor
My father would abuse me n then say " i was his mistake he needed to fix " (because i was a outta wedlock baby ) sceens like this hit so close to home
My Dad, the day i was born looked at my mom and said i wasn't his, that Turners didn't have girls and he walked out and cheated on my mom with my Aunt and left us.
You were much better off . Really .
Why. ???
@lorizarnesky8353 I was the first girl born to the Turner family in 6 generations so I guess he thought it was impossible
And your mother told you this and let you carry this burden your whole life?
@@DuckyB Highly unlikely. Mom probably told her when she was old enough to comprehend it, because everyone deserves to know about the monsters among them.
“My father told me he wished I hadn’t been born. That I wasn’t worth the trouble. But I knew I was worth the trouble…because my brother always looked out for me.
*Even when it made his life harder.* “
Shaun came across so many bad and Amazing People. One of them was definitely his Brother. His brother is the Main reason Shaun became such an Excellent surgeon. Second Reason is Dr Glassman, his Father figure who is president.
My mother often told me she wished i had died instead of my twin brother. I knew she was wrong. My grandpa told me so. :)
That brought tears to my eyes.
Same, to think I don't talk to my family anymore, because they think the opposite of this. I want to help humanity, but my family would rather me have money in my pocket. I just want the world to be better off, the money won't save you like people will save you.
wow even if Shaun is just a main character to the series my mom said the same thing.
My mom said every minute of each day that I was supposed to be an abortion that I was a mistake.
I’m so glad you are here 🫶🏻
That is not a parent. I can't fathom the pain that caused you. You deserved better.
Can't imagine hearing this, I sort of feel like this is how my father feels. However if I heard him say that, he knows I'd probably seek revenge for making me live in a world I hate, while disliking me for existing
My mom told my kid sister that she wished she had abortet her like my dad's mom wanted. I lost a lot of love for my mom that day
Paragraph guy! Please show up!
To summarise, father left the business to Santiago (the ill one) cos Armando went off to college against his wishes. Armando demands the business as the price for donating a kidney, cue arguments... but eventually donates and all is well.
@@Greyrabbit22 THANK YOU!!!!!
@@Greyrabbit22 Thanks for the recap!
I’m so sorry for all of you that have/had such unpleasant parents, I sincerely hope that your future is bright and filled with happiness , and the bad memories just die away. ❤️
My granpa died
May he rest in peace 🕊️
Thanks
Sorry for your loss
Np
Never arrested? That was the whole premise of season 6 or 7 lol
I just got in contact with my bio dad. Cuz i chewed his ass for not trying more ( like calling me instead of me calling him all the time) he said he had to figure his shit out and would get a hold of me when he did. I told him he had 39 yrs to figure shit out and to have a nice life cuz he no longer had a daughter. Might be an asshole for it but he didnt even try. I gave hime many chances and he couldnt even pick up the phone and call me or show even a little interest in wanting me.
I'm sooooooooo sorry.... 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
It's difficult as a Father who has walked out.
You feel unworthy of a relationship with your children.
You feel as though you don't have the right to be part of their lives.
You feel that you will be forcing your way into their lives even if you just phone them or that you are being a nuisance if you text them.
No amount of being told it's ok can take away that guilt that we have.
But we don't stop thinking about them.
We love it when they contact us and look forward just to hear their voice.
We know how much it hurts but out guilt just makes us believe that they couldn't possibly want to be interrupted by me.
Don't give up on him❤
@@paulwarner5674 I won't give up on him but I'm also allowed to be mad. You know how nice it would of been to get a phone call wishing me happy bday.....something. it would mean the world to me if he just showed me he wants me in his life. I already told him the past is in the past and that's what it is the past. That I wanted a relationship from here on forward. That the only thing I wanted from him was to show me he wanted me in his life. That should of been the green light to do whatever it took to show me he wanted me around and he can't even make a phone call?? I won't give up on him cuz what you said touched my heart but I also can't be the only one trying. For context I'm 39 I got ahold of him when I was 18 and he still hasn't tried in the last 21 yrs so it's a touchy topic for me.
My mother was a covert Narcissist for all of my life. In hindsight, she was fashioning the context for my younger brothers and sisters to hate me since I was 7. I was the family scapegoat. She just passed away in January at 94. I thought she was going to outlive me in spite. But she fairly left me ¼ of her legacy.
"Don't rob me of my memories of [Mom]" is something my siblings would say. So much destruction followed in her wake.
Her father was a Holocaust survivor.
i havent watched this show, but this clip, as a doctor, and as a father to an autistic son, just punched me in the gut.
I have a little brother with autism this show is gonna kill me and I refuse to watch it for that reason these clips
Alone make me cry
A Brother will step up when there is no one else around.
What episode? Season??
My mother said she woshed o was never born so many times. Didnt let it get me down.
My grandmother said to me that she wished I would stop breathing because I gave her great-grandson diabetes. She apologized for it a month before she passed away. So like it was years later. Least she said it. ❤
My grandmother had to talk my mother out of getting an abortion when she was pregnant with me, and after I was born I was treated like the son she never wanted, even though she decided to keep me
Because she was coerced
Okay fine I’ll text my big brother 😭😭
I pray it goes well... BETTER than you imagined. 💜🙏🏾💜
He looks like Benedict Cumberbatch but sounds nothing like him...
This is sad 😭 because when people think that
My girls fight for each other. My oldest daughter Danielle told me that she sees her sister as the best birthday gift ever. My youngest daughter Caitie was born when Danielle was almost 3. Caitie was born a month and a few hours before Danielle's 3rd birthday. Caitie told Danielle that she felt my ex loved Danielle more. Caitie was 4 Danielle was 7. Danielle got pissed off. Told ex that if I could love them the same amount but show it differently then he could too. Danielle told Caitie that if he did love her more then he loved Caitie that was his problem. She told her baby that she was loved and wanted by myself and Danielle more then anyone else ever could be loved and that was the most important thing to remember. Remember this was a 7 yr old talking to a 4 yr old. Danielle always looks out fir Caitie. She told me that she would always but Caitlynne's saftey first.
😱😱😱😱😱😳😳😳😳😳 That’s really 100% messed up!!!!!! 🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️
I have Spina bifida and the last thing I want is to be other people's problem. I have to take into consideration the fact that they were surprised and upset with my disability. They knew they didn't have to take me home or keep me,but, they did. My brothers didn't get a lot of attention growing up because mom had to stay with me at the hospital. So I'd I have to bend over backwards to accommodate *them*, I will
I'd love to yo meet this his brother whom is more than a parent
My mother wanted to terminate me. She couldn’t when my dad found out and started telling people she was pregnant. She never wanted me and it shows. Every day.
What movie is this pla tell
It would be helpful to have season and episode.
Part 2
Wow I am so so lucky ❤❤😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Ny parents are adorable 🥰 cute 🥰 and love me so much always ❤❤❤❤❤❤😂. Are always there for me, financially, emotionally physically and mentally. Thanks 🙏 God for that. I just love ❤️ them so much , they are next to God for me, true unconditional love ❤even now when they r in their retirement they give me money without me asking them for anything ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤. My friends say I am very very very very lucky to have them and I know that it’s a blessing from Gods . Thanks lord 😊 for every everything that I have. Never was lucky enough for a good life partner to live with but absolutely wonderful parents to support me in every possible way they can . God give them great health and happiness and long long long long long sweet life with beautiful 😍 memories to live with. Amen 🙏
Episode and season please
Shawn is a very good depiction of how autistic people’s eyes move. It looks exactly like me, except that part in the end where it should probably look a bit more forced.
Me an accident
"Hahahaha"
What show is this?
The Good Doctor
What's the title of the movie?
Season 2, episode 7 - "Hubert".
That just not my problem that just not problem 😂😅😊
What is the season and episode?
Well anger words arent really what they mean
If it was an anger word, it still means that he was thinking about it somewhere in his mind. Just because you don't mean it, doesn't mean that other people won't take it seriously.
@@Cleffryea
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reminds me of when my biological father tried to use a similar method to make me leave my mother...
What hurts the most is the fact i am this scumbags daughter and he used the fact that my mother wanted to abort me as a sick blachmail of sorts and I should be grateful that he talked her out of it. and my mother is always laughing and smiling when she confirmed the fact and said she hoped to miscarry and confirmed the fact i am jusf a mistake.
sometimes i wonder how things would have turned out if i actually never existed. would she have been happier? would my father still have an affair with a married woman? would he still abonden me? would the lives around me be better?
i just feel like a reminder of shame 🤷♂️🤸🏽♀️
You are NOT a mistake. You are a child of God. Would their life have changed? Probably not. People do what they do because they have free will…we all make both good and bad choices. In other words, they most likely would have done the same thing, perhaps with different people but the same attitude and the same choices.
@@bethpowell6466 thank you for the kind words😇 ☺️ i still struggle with my self-esteem so its a painful process of healing most of the time 😅
*7!*
Movie name?
This is from the tv show The Good Doctor.
@@shatteredshards8549❤❤❤❤
There is always someone that is willing to deal with trouble for you.
If you don't know who the person is with skin on,
Consider Jesus .
John 3:16
My mom wouldn't accept me on her death bed. I begged her to say my name she she Regus
Is THIS a tv program? What's the name of it?
It is a show called the Good Doctor
I AM A SURGEON!!! I AM A SURGEON!!! I AM A SURGEON!!! I AM A SURGEON!!! I AM A SURGEON!!! I AM A SURGEON!!! I AM A SURGEON!!! I AM A SURGEON!!!I AM A SURGEON!!! I AM A SURGEON!!! I AM A SURGEON!!! I AM A SURGEON!!!
What movie is this called
Show called Good Doctor, I think
Oh ok thx
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(Not bein serious btw it’s jus a joke)
WE GOT DHAR MANN IN THE GOOD DOCTOR BEFORE GTA 6 !!!!
My dad said the same thing while drunk. But I knew it wasn't true though it took a long time
When the autistic doctor tells you "My father told me he wished I hadn't been born" you listen because you know this is some deep shit and he will give you the best advice ever. I'm glad the director made him listen and not just another person that ignores Murphy 🥹