I am not on that part yet either, but I think that is a blatant sign that the girlfriend should keep it pushing. They definitely got something going on, and I personally refuse to be apart of the B.S
If you are anti-drugs and he isn't, RUN! Otherwise, you are either going to be annoyed the entire relationship or you are going to start doing drugs with him. So, if those aren't your goals, then you should find someone who is a better fit. I have experienced this and have seen it happen to many women. Ignoring the drug use (yes, marijuana is a drug) did not work. Once I included "drug-free" as a part of my requirements in a partner, I began to meet quality guys who didn't participate in that behavior. People will try to convince you that everyone does it so you should settle or accuse you of being judgmental, etc. Please do not listen to them. Just like everyone should respect his right to do drugs, it is your right to select someone who shares your same values and that should also be respected.
I absolutely agree with this. Im also a non-smoker/non-substance use user too. I personally hate the smell of weed, too strong for me and too much of it gives me a headache for some reason. So if I wanted a partner, I'd honestly wouldn't want that factor tbh.
@@Stephaniealicianaturalhair yet she has none of the above... I'm not saying what you said is wrong but don't make the exception the rule please. Let's be honest here, how many happily married couple without a ring do you know? "you can be" everything, that doesn't make it right nor fair
@@AliceMichele My parents that have been married since 1991 and my coworkers that have been married for about 20 years. My supervisor also been married to his wife for almost 30 years and no rings.
"If you tell someone dont slap you and they do it again they dont love you" Me thinking back to my ex that called me stupid and I said stop I dont like it. Then he proceeds to to tell me I cant keep up with any conversation that we have. Emotional slapped.
so on the weed thing, i’m a person who smokes everyday, and when you date you have to acknowledge that not everyone smokes nor is everyone okay with it. the best thing honestly is for smokers to be with other smokers to stop that issue. I’ve never been broken up with because of my smoking, but it’s always brought up
I used to smoke but my dude still does. Every now and again I may request he slows down on the smoking to be more present with me but generally I'm fine with it. I think it comes down to understanding it.
to sis worried about how he will treat the next girl, he could also do her worse. She could end up his baby mama with him still acting the same or worse. Please move on love.
My favorite part was when Isi said better is out there for you and shows her ring!!! OKAY SIS !!! ENCOURAGE QUALITY LOVE👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 we love to see it #blacklove
I love these segments. I love when Isi is blunt Isi and Josh is savage Josh. It's hard for us to hear the truth from people we love, but hearing it from y'all just gives more confirmation
Chile me and "him" just broke up TODAY 💔 If y'all knew him Josh and isi you would definitely tell me to cut him off so 😭😭 even tho it's hurts I gotta do what I gotta smh this therapy Thursday was NEEDED
The real tea was on the live! You can tell Josh is a bit tired lol, but I seriously live for these types of videos, it feels like I'm just having a conversation with my friends
I can say that being best friends with your ex isn’t impossible BUT there MUST be a period of time where you detach from one another and learn to be independent. The feelings that the two of you had in the past have to be gone before you can even consider it. Luckily for me, my ex and I were the best of friends before we even got together. We’re still best friends now but some people just aren’t meant to be in a relationship with one another. It just doesn’t always happen like that. I think baby girl needs to detach herself from the situation altogether. I know it’s difficult to let go of someone you depend on but if they’re unstable (Don’t support you the way that you need to be) and disrespect/invalidate your feelings then they need to be dropped for your greater good.
@@emilyga1581 They had a set back due to a social media platform (instagram) I think not working. So Josh had to basically talk Is out of a mental breakdown.
Bro I'm having a heart attack in this comment section. What happened on the live mannnn. These comments torturing me. What happened bro I missed out somebody please spill the tea😩🥺🥺☹
I absolutely LOVE watching these Therapy Thursdays bc they really be spitting SO MUCH needed insight. Y’all might as well get you license in being Relationship Therapists 😂 I feel like if there are MULTIPLE red flags and they’re like the simple but necessary things that make or break a relationship both platonically or intimately, don’t waste your time feeding into it bc you will be hurt and eventually have pint up bitterness towards that person. That won’t help you emotionally.
For the 3rd person if you’re still having trouble my best advice Is detaching yourself your soul and Spirit from that by prayer or using the law of attraction if you don’t believe in God . If you chose to do by prayer search “how to break soul ties” once your said your soul goes breaking prayer before you know it you will know longer dwell or care about that personal from a loving stand point . Hope this helps anyone who needed this advice God bless and Jesus loves you ❤️❤️
Definitely feel it with the being friends with your ex. It does take TIME!!! and it DEFINITELY take true boundary setting and not being hesitant to walk away from the friendship if those boundaries can’t be respected.
My parents do not wear rings. They have been married since 1991. Rings do not make a marriage. An engagement ring is not a definite sign. There are people that have gotten legally married without an engagement ring. So many people put too much value on rings instead of the actual marriage .
that’s a super red flag 🥴🥴 side note i think it would be super cool if y’all did a match making thing with your subscribers y’all are like the perfect couples therapists that’s not therapists. not to say whoever y’all match will go to you for relationship advice bc that’s a lot but i think that’s really on brand!
This was my first time watching Therapy Thursday’s. I will be tuning in every Thursday! Everything y’all said was something I’d say with a few additions. I love it 👏🏽
Also side note, on the last story him being the only person who is there consistently could be a symptom of him isolating you! You may only notice or see him as the beckon of light cuz he has made everyone else look inferior to him through gaslighting or manipulation. Just throwing that out there!
A lot of these helped me realize where i went wrong with my ex :( like a few of the behaviors i could’ve and should’ve worked on to be better for him. I pray we get back together and i get another chance to make it up to him and make things right 🥺😫
I always tell my friends they need to protect their space. Because the energies they let into their space be so toxic it’s sad to watch unfold and also very emotionally tiring. Having to be that friend that is always there I have to remind my friends like listen when I start my family I’m not letting that toxicity into my world. I will cut you off if need be to protect my mental and emotional health. I don’t need that drama in my life.
Y'all are great at this, professionals or not, I think it's the rawness that you're able to give that helps. Because a lot of times people aren't able to hear and accept these things from friends or family, but hearing it from someone they look up to just might help them to get through it, over it, or push them to do what needs to be done. 💕💕💕 Love you guys! #QualittyQrew
Just some extra food for thought on the weed scenario discussed. Military personnel are held to military law in which military law still believes that any drug use (including marijuana usage) is illegal. If whatever military service he is in conducts a random urinalysis (which happens roughly once a month, in my experience)...that could be big trouble for him. I do still agree though that a conversation still needs to be held between the two and also like josh said, it’s really his decision at the end of the day.
“Comment below if you relate to any of these...” y’all I related to damn near every scenario. So much that I thought y’all answered my own question. 😔 there will be better days though
I’m a plant lover and encourage daily use If you don’t like the behavior of someone when they partake in, then it’s their personality🤷🏽♀️. Not the plant🌬🍃
17:49 that's why it's better for a man to do the chasing because he was probably dating her because she kept nagging him and chasing so he decided to just date her so she'd leave him alone.
Great vid! I know you guys wanted to stop tea time tuesday because it was centered around pettiness and it pretty much ran its course. But i definitaely thinkg you guys should keep therapy thursday because yall b talking about that real stuff that I dont think enough people know about. So proud, keep up the great work. I love yall, and I b putting all my friends on to yall!!! :D
"Just because someone loves you, doesn't mean they are the best for you." - Josh
That hit a nerve 😭
Facts
Instablaster...
I didn’t get to that part yet but whose boyfriend calling their best friend “Baby” uhhhuhhh chileeee 🚩 🚩🚩
I'd be highly bothered. I'm not playing those games.
Like how is she your baby??? What is she doing that gives her baby status???? Sir don't play with me
@@gabsterforever13 FACTSSSS❗️We don’t have the timeeee
@@eltina21 I’m sayinggg. Keep those games on the court💯
I am not on that part yet either, but I think that is a blatant sign that the girlfriend should keep it pushing. They definitely got something going on, and I personally refuse to be apart of the B.S
They way Josh be looking at Isi is so cute #relationshipgoals
I was abt to say the same thing 😭
y’all are so cute
Josh and Isi: “we are not therapists”
Me: oh well, y’all are to me🤷🏾♀️😂
They give advice like they are tho😂
Factsss
If you are anti-drugs and he isn't, RUN! Otherwise, you are either going to be annoyed the entire relationship or you are going to start doing drugs with him. So, if those aren't your goals, then you should find someone who is a better fit. I have experienced this and have seen it happen to many women. Ignoring the drug use (yes, marijuana is a drug) did not work. Once I included "drug-free" as a part of my requirements in a partner, I began to meet quality guys who didn't participate in that behavior. People will try to convince you that everyone does it so you should settle or accuse you of being judgmental, etc. Please do not listen to them. Just like everyone should respect his right to do drugs, it is your right to select someone who shares your same values and that should also be respected.
I absolutely agree with this. Im also a non-smoker/non-substance use user too. I personally hate the smell of weed, too strong for me and too much of it gives me a headache for some reason. So if I wanted a partner, I'd honestly wouldn't want that factor tbh.
"Future husband" without even an engagement ring, Ain't such a thing to me...
Too many people put too much value in a ring instead of the marriage. You can actually become legally married without a ring.
@@Stephaniealicianaturalhair yet she has none of the above... I'm not saying what you said is wrong but don't make the exception the rule please. Let's be honest here, how many happily married couple without a ring do you know?
"you can be" everything, that doesn't make it right nor fair
@@AliceMichele My parents that have been married since 1991 and my coworkers that have been married for about 20 years. My supervisor also been married to his wife for almost 30 years and no rings.
@@Stephaniealicianaturalhair so 3, and how many happily married couple with a ring do you know?
A ring is a token. And symbols are valuable :)
@@AliceMichele Plenty to name here. Yeah a ring is a token and that is it !
“You’re competing with his memories.” 🗣
"If you tell someone dont slap you and they do it again they dont love you"
Me thinking back to my ex that called me stupid and I said stop I dont like it. Then he proceeds to to tell me I cant keep up with any conversation that we have.
Emotional slapped.
so on the weed thing, i’m a person who smokes everyday, and when you date you have to acknowledge that not everyone smokes nor is everyone okay with it. the best thing honestly is for smokers to be with other smokers to stop that issue. I’ve never been broken up with because of my smoking, but it’s always brought up
My Guy Smokes, I Smoke, it works out great, 4 us!
I used to smoke but my dude still does. Every now and again I may request he slows down on the smoking to be more present with me but generally I'm fine with it. I think it comes down to understanding it.
getchu someone who looks at you like josh looks at isi💜
Saw the title and first thing I thought about was whooping someone ass🤣
😂😂💀
Girllllll 😂😂😂
literally
Same thing that I was thinking 😅😂😂😂
to sis worried about how he will treat the next girl, he could also do her worse. She could end up his baby mama with him still acting the same or worse. Please move on love.
The attention josh be giving isi when she talk 🤌🏿✨ chefs 💋
My favorite part was when Isi said better is out there for you and shows her ring!!! OKAY SIS !!! ENCOURAGE QUALITY LOVE👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 we love to see it #blacklove
The way my girl Isi just looks sooo good 😍😍😍😍
FACTSSSS. We expect nothing less!
Unrelated to the content itself, but the color scheme in this video was 10/10
I love these segments. I love when Isi is blunt Isi and Josh is savage Josh. It's hard for us to hear the truth from people we love, but hearing it from y'all just gives more confirmation
Chile me and "him" just broke up TODAY 💔 If y'all knew him Josh and isi you would definitely tell me to cut him off so 😭😭 even tho it's hurts I gotta do what I gotta smh this therapy Thursday was NEEDED
Aww sorry to hear that love. You deserve to be loved and truly respected. The best is yet to come for you! 🤎
Proud of you sis!!!!
Good for you, putting your well being first.
i just love how JOSH looking at his wife! thats everything
I loveeeeeee how Josh is rocking the Dreamville white tee! OKAYYY WE SEE YOU SIRR! #notificationgang #ogqualitycrew
yo guys need some prayers please for my country of St.Vincent and the Grenadines our volcano is about to erupt
💙🙏🏽
damn y’all fast in these comments 😭 i can’t breathe
Right already 50 comments lol
The real tea was on the live! You can tell Josh is a bit tired lol, but I seriously live for these types of videos, it feels like I'm just having a conversation with my friends
I can say that being best friends with your ex isn’t impossible BUT there MUST be a period of time where you detach from one another and learn to be independent. The feelings that the two of you had in the past have to be gone before you can even consider it. Luckily for me, my ex and I were the best of friends before we even got together. We’re still best friends now but some people just aren’t meant to be in a relationship with one another. It just doesn’t always happen like that.
I think baby girl needs to detach herself from the situation altogether. I know it’s difficult to let go of someone you depend on but if they’re unstable (Don’t support you the way that you need to be) and disrespect/invalidate your feelings then they need to be dropped for your greater good.
Can we please talk about the way JOSH be LOOKING at ISIIIII!!!! If my man can't look at me like that. I don't want himmmmmmm!
the real tea was on the live. if you’re not part of the live crew you missed out!
Where do they go live??! I don’t know how to join! 😩😩
Follow both Josh and Isi on IG they usually go live on either page mostly Isi before they post and spill tea also follow their couples ig
@@pmw5422 on instagram!
@@afrougbaad4058 we can be name gang unless you pronounce it like nah juh
The real tea was on the live. So glad to see therapy Thursday back and poppin.
When were they live?
@@addybaby7510 They were live on their instagram right before they posted the video.
What happened on the live?
@@emilyga1581 They had a set back due to a social media platform (instagram) I think not working. So Josh had to basically talk Is out of a mental breakdown.
I missed the live but y’all seem so tired, take a break nurture your relationship with each other and God and ghost us for a minute lol ❤️ all love
Isi's hairstyle is giving me life!!
The real tea is on live 😏 now let's get into this quality video❤😌
Highly relatable!! God Bless, mama said; “hurt me once shame on you, hurt me twice shame on me” have self love first💙!!!
Bro I'm having a heart attack in this comment section. What happened on the live mannnn. These comments torturing me. What happened bro I missed out somebody please spill the tea😩🥺🥺☹
Fr😂
Right lol
Fr😂😂😂
I absolutely LOVE watching these Therapy Thursdays bc they really be spitting SO MUCH needed insight. Y’all might as well get you license in being Relationship Therapists 😂 I feel like if there are MULTIPLE red flags and they’re like the simple but necessary things that make or break a relationship both platonically or intimately, don’t waste your time feeding into it bc you will be hurt and eventually have pint up bitterness towards that person. That won’t help you emotionally.
the real tea was on live !!! and get into the dreamville shirt 👏🏾
For the 3rd person if you’re still having trouble my best advice Is detaching yourself your soul and Spirit from that by prayer or using the law of attraction if you don’t believe in God . If you chose to do by prayer search “how to break soul ties” once your said your soul goes breaking prayer before you know it you will know longer dwell or care about that personal from a loving stand point . Hope this helps anyone who needed this advice God bless and Jesus loves you ❤️❤️
Definitely feel it with the being friends with your ex. It does take TIME!!! and it DEFINITELY take true boundary setting and not being hesitant to walk away from the friendship if those boundaries can’t be respected.
My parents do not wear rings. They have been married since 1991. Rings do not make a marriage. An engagement ring is not a definite sign. There are people that have gotten legally married without an engagement ring. So many people put too much value on rings instead of the actual marriage .
that’s a super red flag 🥴🥴 side note i think it would be super cool if y’all did a match making thing with your subscribers y’all are like the perfect couples therapists that’s not therapists. not to say whoever y’all match will go to you for relationship advice bc that’s a lot but i think that’s really on brand!
Oooo that’s a great idea! I second this!🙌🏾
✨THE REAL TEA WAS ON LIVE ✨
This was my first time watching Therapy Thursday’s. I will be tuning in every Thursday! Everything y’all said was something I’d say with a few additions. I love it 👏🏽
I feel so bad about missing the live, but I had to delete Instagram. It wasn't good for my mental.
I can’t get over the way josh looks @ issi 😍😍
Who else loves Therapy Thursdays 🥺🥺🥺🤝🏾🙈❤
The REAL tea was on the live! Y’all are the REALEST! 💯😘
Also side note, on the last story him being the only person who is there consistently could be a symptom of him isolating you! You may only notice or see him as the beckon of light cuz he has made everyone else look inferior to him through gaslighting or manipulation. Just throwing that out there!
Isi is so gorgeous 🤩🤩
I can’t relate to none of these questions but this some good advice! Love the honesty, y’all gained a new subscriber!!!
Been waiting for a Therapy Thursday! Y’all always come through! Also the REAL tea was on da live! 🤎
You guys seemed really chill in this episode. Hope yall are doing well!
The real tea is on live💕💕
ISIIIIII is soooo beautifulllll😩😩😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I always feel so weak and stupid for staying in my relationship after watching yalls videos😔
It takes time, you know what is best for you🥰
@@Hope.endless Thank you 💕
@@UnknownUnknown-yl1lt you are welcome 🤎🧸
Me too. I feel like I can give good advice but then I look where I am. Im so sad and hurt
@@camillewaugh3458 I hope things improve. Remember to be there for yourself as well.
The real tea was on live!!! Love you both
Please continue therapy Thursday ❤️❤️
A lot of these helped me realize where i went wrong with my ex :( like a few of the behaviors i could’ve and should’ve worked on to be better for him. I pray we get back together and i get another chance to make it up to him and make things right 🥺😫
That last analogy👏👏👏because yes!!
Love the maturity of Josh and Isi
I always tell my friends they need to protect their space. Because the energies they let into their space be so toxic it’s sad to watch unfold and also very emotionally tiring. Having to be that friend that is always there I have to remind my friends like listen when I start my family I’m not letting that toxicity into my world. I will cut you off if need be to protect my mental and emotional health. I don’t need that drama in my life.
You guys should do a video on emotional intelligence. I think that's a skill everyone needs to learn
The real tea was on live!!!! 💛💛💛
Y'all are great at this, professionals or not, I think it's the rawness that you're able to give that helps. Because a lot of times people aren't able to hear and accept these things from friends or family, but hearing it from someone they look up to just might help them to get through it, over it, or push them to do what needs to be done. 💕💕💕 Love you guys! #QualittyQrew
You guys did amazing job may TMH continue to bless you both
this advice was too good & i haven’t even been in a relationship yet 😩 like i felt everything
I wish this was an hour long🥺 I know I’m gonna love this series!!!
The real tea was on the IG Live! I literally just got here from IG Live, love from 🇨🇦❤️
THE OUTTRO OMG!💚 I LOVE YALL TOGETHER!💜
Just some extra food for thought on the weed scenario discussed. Military personnel are held to military law in which military law still believes that any drug use (including marijuana usage) is illegal. If whatever military service he is in conducts a random urinalysis (which happens roughly once a month, in my experience)...that could be big trouble for him. I do still agree though that a conversation still needs to be held between the two and also like josh said, it’s really his decision at the end of the day.
“Comment below if you relate to any of these...” y’all I related to damn near every scenario. So much that I thought y’all answered my own question. 😔 there will be better days though
Definitely! Chin up 😉❤️
Here early because we all know the real tea is on IG LIVE 🥰🥰🥰👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾
You should have seen my face when I read the title😂 WTH!
MEEE girl😂
This QuAlitTy advice *chef’s kisses* 🤌🏾😘
Marvelous content content Josh and Isi luv y’all and I love the fact that you’re natural and beautiful Isi 🥰🥰
I’m a plant lover and encourage daily use If you don’t like the behavior of someone when they partake in, then it’s their personality🤷🏽♀️. Not the plant🌬🍃
I am loving these therapy Thursday’s
I love the slapping analogy. Put things into perspective
I love the color coordination it’s simple, but reminds me of ting and yang
The real tea was on the live!!💜😌😌 Love you guys!!🥰🥰
I missed Therapy Thursday’s💯🙌🏾!!!!!
I know I'm invested in yall success because I've Never watched so many commercials 😂😂
Great advice for all those situations!
The real tea was on the live 👀☕️. Love y’all 😂❤️
With this new outro I swear i play it twice everytime I watch a video😍😍😍 the hype makes me smile hard❤️❤️❤️
Great advice ! I wish I heard some of this back when I was having relationship issues. But def valid info to carry into future relationships 🗣
I need longer videos man.. I jus got comfy.. nodding and agreeing wit y'all advice...😅
The real tea was on the live❤️ love yall!!
Their vibes from the first second of this video👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
17:49 that's why it's better for a man to do the chasing because he was probably dating her because she kept nagging him and chasing so he decided to just date her so she'd leave him alone.
Y’all saved the hook for last okurrrr💖🥰😍🔥🎉💥💝🎊🤗🤭🤭Gr8 Q & A🤗🥰❣️🔥🔥🔥🔥
I was waiting for this video to drop as soon as I saw that notification “ click “
That outro is giving life
The real tea was on live ❤️💙
I'm patiently waiting for the merch updates. Im feening for my sweatsuit 😩
Manufacturers just shipped them out this week and we will be receiving them some time next week!😬 Once received, we will ship them out ASAP!
@@JoshandIsi yasss Qualitty drip coming soon 😋😋🙃
Great vid! I know you guys wanted to stop tea time tuesday because it was centered around pettiness and it pretty much ran its course. But i definitaely thinkg you guys should keep therapy thursday because yall b talking about that real stuff that I dont think enough people know about. So proud, keep up the great work. I love yall, and I b putting all my friends on to yall!!! :D
The real tea was on the live✨✨✨
They are glowing ❤️
The tea is real on live😊
Josh please make a reaction channel i just know that's gone be fire and funny as hell to watch 😂
❗️Question: Will y’all do premarital counseling?
Hey, Isi can you do a make up tutorial? Your make up always look great.
the real tea was on live 😭🐸☕️