He's literally telling people to repress their pain. Not a good long term mental health strategy. The best way of resolving pain is to create meaning from it. Read Viktor Frankl.
Jim wong. Rip. Kind of unfortunate, in a way. Jovial guy!!! But cancer ( if i m not wrong) took his life , in his 60s of age. Still young for a guy like him.
Despite the dodgy mental repression advice at the beginning this ended up being a brilliant talk with lots of gems. Just a small note though about a mistranslated subtitle: "Choi San" said "No, no, no, I live before" in response to the gweilo's question, and not "No, I leave before" as per the subtitles. He was contradicting the gweilo that it was because he's led a full life that he's not afraid of death, and not because he's died before. "Choice san"'s accent might have caused people to think he said "I leave before" but in fact "I live before" (or more grammatically correct would be "I've lived before") is the correct riposte to the question put to him on that airplane.
You can do whatever you want. A famous judge once said, every behavior has a following consequence. So think before you act. There are so many ways to solve any problem. God bless you and may you live a happy and fruitful life.
總結
1) 壓力的痛只是人的幻想, 不想就不痛
2) 如果壓力來自上司, 就把上司消除
3) 分散注意就能忘記壓力, 也可以培養不同的興趣
4) 不用顧一般人對自己的看法, 有時瘋狂一下做自己喜歡的事
5) 有自信心就不會怕死亡
其实自己内心就是孤寂时最好的朋友，看着自己的情绪心绪起伏变化，从而了解自己，知道一切都会过去，只要不钻牛角尖
欣賞蔡瀾先生的人生哲理👍👍
如何减压 蔡澜就在这个节目说出 无论人, 事, 物 凡事往好的地方想 有些事情 我们自己看不顺眼是因为我们自己有问题
談笑風生 百無禁忌 正合主題👍
好感動~作為90後好感恩❤
聽君一席話勝讀10年書
多謝倪匡先生❤
黃霑、蔡瀾、倪匡，這三位真是绝配👍
各有自己的才華，自信，談笑風生，百無禁忌，懂得活得精彩，享受人生🍻
三個永遠偶像
我觉得03年的时候受五住压力，都是小事，那时都有呢d名人出来化解，严重的是，很多压力延续到今天的香港，但今天的人有自己的解决方法，治标不一定要治本
22/3/2016，愛黃霑愛蔡瀾
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重有倪匡
@@EmilioCheng 我比較不喜歡倪匡 因為他太清醒 我最喜歡黃霑 因為他太浪漫 蔡瀾是半個日本人 自從黃霑死了 他是最好的導師
正是我最近的感受，用心地烹饪可以治愈，因为专心，从小就陪养兴趣，是为了以后困难的时候可以自己籍慰。
InstaBlaster...
@@jacedash89561❤_
謝謝你的上載😂
这两人真是有趣，活得可谓尽兴了
23/3/2016, be myself.🤘🐾🐾🐾🤘
戊戌男命是魁罡~（魁罡命主自身強～剛烈正直人勇猛～聰明果斷有義氣～疾惡如仇不服人。🌟蔡瀾~天干丙辛合化水～為財（金錢、父親、女人）地支無根是緣薄，一切盡是過雲煙；時柱七殺為子嗣，化成火局是無緣。❄️天干之水是合化，地支巳申亦相同；似有還無是過客，若想挽留亦艱難。【戊戌日生甲寅時，卓越超群富貴全；身強花木喜逢春，運福駢臻自非凡】
最尾個女人問問題好無水準，問左一大輪都唔知佢想點
我就理解她的意思。
有精神病；無伴侶，想叫鴨； 怨言他們去叫雞
真的好開心，人生如此也算不枉此生，😂
95年的论点犀利，确实大陆思想落后至少30年
蔡生有心喇，一版採排要不要一百年？
He's literally telling people to repress their pain. Not a good long term mental health strategy. The best way of resolving pain is to create meaning from it. Read Viktor Frankl.
、⋯唔使客氣、、唔可以再、唔使、蟹、唔、唔、唔使客氣嘅⋯！
蟹粥
人生值得🎉🎉
高人
首先要有健康嘅身體
大智慧。
蔡生是進階版的isfp?
翻译的啥玩意啊那37:14 you died before? 你之前死过吗？ I lived before. 我已经活（享受）过了。
黃霑大過蔡瀾十個月？
但眼見黃霑起碼後生十年😮
才子就是才子
蔡澜说58岁，1941年生，这年是1999年。
今年是2020 年，蔡先生也是銀髮滿頭的七十多歲的老頑童啦～祝蔡生健康平安，生活愉快。 🎬🎦🎬🙄🤗🙏
黃霑先生已作古了。 RIP 😔
眾人皆醒蔡生我獨醉翁之意不在酒出自己精采享受人生豐富風花雪月另類減壓哲學人生？？？
I'm
@@normanyuen5176的5呃呃u8❤
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反而是蔡San好大壓力, 只是用羅輯和笑話安慰自己。
蔡澜是过瘾
06:20 享受生活的关键是消除压力，不要去想痛苦。
12:40 避免思考并分散自己的注意力
19:00 吃一顿好饭可以将一个人的心态从想死变成不想死。
25:20 古龙之死与XO的惊人事件
31:40 文本包含从 1520 到 1900 的一系列数字
44:20 拥有自信并拥抱死亡可以带来更幸福的生活。
我觉得黃沾和林燕妮分手很可惜，最近我才追看这两位才女和才子的爱情故事。
睇到我都想食瓜子了😍
我也不相信有来生😂
福至心靈
他是喝醉了
他有什麼時候不醉的？ 哈哈哈
蔡生死而无憾😅而女人在中国是很压抑，有男人的艰辛，没有男人的潇洒
👍👍👍👍
所謂才子!
Super! I lived before!
J. L. 😄😂😭😜😜😜😜😜😜😂😜，，一丶丶
兩個富二代官二代 睇都眼軟
这是哪年哪月的视频？
3
😅😊
❤ 🎉
😊
欣賞眞才子三劍俠..👍
變左 今夜不設防
他们的人生是精彩呀！豁达
蔡生睇得出，佢真係睇唔起女人
饮肥宅水??
肥仔水即係酒
有意思
2023😊
禪宗大師曰 '誰縛汝?'.
36秒：蔡瀾話i live before, 我活過，唔係我走先
好懷念霑叔
蔡生就是個活生生的好例子~~~
眾人
如何享受人生？
由犧牲自己的小小健康開始😮🎉🎉
原来果时都有土地问题～
所以誰不在這就講誰，這是鐵律～
依老买老，买弄知识
Hi all of you, what is the speaker name and what is the year of this program? I knew that my idol Jim Wong had passed away.
Mr choi , should be in 1990s
Jim wong. Rip. Kind of unfortunate, in a way. Jovial guy!!! But cancer ( if i m not wrong) took his life , in his 60s of age. Still young for a guy like him.
怎麼少了一大段字幕
听君一席话 胜读十年书 我好喜欢蔡先生 把能够跟蔡先生喝酒作为自己人生的目标 加油💪
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Despite the dodgy mental repression advice at the beginning this ended up being a brilliant talk with lots of gems. Just a small note though about a mistranslated subtitle: "Choi San" said "No, no, no, I live before" in response to the gweilo's question, and not "No, I leave before" as per the subtitles. He was contradicting the gweilo that it was because he's led a full life that he's not afraid of death, and not because he's died before. "Choice san"'s accent might have caused people to think he said "I leave before" but in fact "I live before" (or more grammatically correct would be "I've lived before") is the correct riposte to the question put to him on that airplane.
一個揮水摸魚的，不予置評。
你都說了渾水摸魚還不予置評哈哈
什麼四大才子
最討厭偽康、一見佢個覺得煨鎖、講嘢口窒窒、作D嘢天馬行空、香港就係咁一窩風⋯⋯
考试尼滴💦唅版🐺
日日出街都遇見有惡女人，又無禮貌又惡毒，好泹喪。
謝謝分享
That question at the end by the female member of the audience was absolutely spot-on!! Go woman!
You can do whatever you want. A famous judge once said, every behavior has a following consequence. So think before you act. There are so many ways to solve any problem. God bless you and may you live a happy and fruitful life.
食色性也，真正隨心了解自己身體的需要，身體才會回饋你。