By listening to you, I have quite a few questions for you. Why you are single mom? Were you a bad girl? So now you learn your lesson? Your reason to date a foreigner is a way out? What type of foreign man?
You probably can date a foreign man but as from what you say you´re very cautious of the men you meet online and you´re not sure if he´s the right one for you......no one can know that beforehand.....if you meet a man to your liking,it may or may not turn out to be the one for you....there are many foreign men out there who wouldn´t have a problem supporting your daughter but since you seem to be an independent lady and built your own home, the person you want to meet will have to accept the way you live in the province, maybe far away from the big cities and towns, a humble person so to speak, hope it works out for you.
I will be frank. Most men will not date single mothers is they do not want to support another man's by product of his pleasure. It sounds cruel, women have to knw they have are responsible for the safety of their kids.
I'll give you credit for your honesty and stating the reason for not dating Pinoy guys. Most of the Pinays I see here looking to date foreigners have mostly negative things to say about their kababayan and try to put Pinoy men down just to score a point? They want to make it look and sound like they were mistreated and that all Pinoy men are abusive and irresponsible just to justify their actions to date a foreigner. I am not saying that all Pinoy men are good and responsible, but bear in mind that Pinoys and Pinays are cut from the same clothes. There are bad Pinays as well as there are bad Pinoys too, in the same way, that there are bad foreigners. As a Pinoy myself, who has lived in different parts of the world, I always preferred to date Pinays as they most likely result in a successful relationship with Pinays being a more dedicated partner than Western women. The failure rate in the west with marriage resulting in divorce is almost 50%. You are mistaken if you think western women are different from western men in terms of values with regard to relationships.
99% of Filipino Men wouldn't date her. She has kids already. If he does date her he will only get her pregnant then run away. She has a better chance with a non-Filipino man.
I'm finding the similarities of dating in the US to the rest of world very interesting. The main blame for dating/marriage in the US is hypergamy. American women having been increasing their requirements for men to such a height that the men don't exist. The 80 20 rule. Same thing is going on in the Philippines and many other countries. The only differences is the level of requirements. A man in the US who doesn't come close to meeting American women's requirements but will exceed the requirements of many women in many other countries. It's still hypergamy. In the US we hear exactly the same thing from women..."I can't find a husband after 30" or 40. Single moms complain men don't want them. This is being caused by women not locking down good husbands when the women are in their early 20's when their value as wives is the highest. Instead they get with hot exciting studs, have babies and think they'll look for a husband later. Then later they find out their value has fallen, but they still don't want to "settle" (meaning accept a man at their actual level) as their own value continues to fall. While men generally increase their value with age as they increase their wealth. I understand a foreign man is an almost sure path to a huge increase in security and relative wealth. But I have no doubt there are many Filipino men who would be good husbands too. Filipinas take a big risk in being alone for the rest of their lives waiting for a long shot. It's not just Filipino men who have a problem with single moms and women over 30. There are foreign men who will accept those terms, but it's not an unlimited supply. I know many American men who don't really want to raise another man's kids or pick a wife who has made poor choices. I suggest Filipinas reevaluate what they will accept in a partner.
Nakangiti ako habang nakikinig sayo Kabayan, and tamang tama di lang kaawaan ka bagkos mahalin karin, nag galing mo Miss, well done 👏 tama lang at tamang tama natamaan narin ako hhhh, blessed you 💖
First time viewer. I hit the like 👍 and subscribe button! You seem great. Did you say you worked overseas? Because I am very curious how Filipino men and women are legally able to work overseas in America?? Reason being I own Residential Assisted Living (RAL) multi-bed homes in upscale neighborhoods, here in the US. And I would L❤️VE to hire Filipinos for caregiver positions, because your people are the most caring in the world! Can you tell me what is required for Filipinos to come to America for the purpose of working full-time? Thank you so much!! 👌😃,🙏
The title of this video is " Why I don't date Filipino men" you didn't even talk about that until the last 10 seconds. Why do people mislead their videos. It is so annoying. I just found your channel and was about to subscribe but I see that it is misleading like most others.
Your forgetting to mention that in the filippines their is 12 women for each man and there is very little work for men there making it very hard for a single mother to get hooked up with a man. also most men just want sex not get into a relationship with a women who has kids. not to say it,s impossible but hard and last thing women in filipina want a better life will to meet foreigner because financial situation they have told me men in there country are unreilableand only want to fill there personal needs but again not all men are like that but most are.
i am 56 yrs old. my gf is 47 yr old widow with one 8 yr old, a 19 yr old in colledge and a 24 yr old. i went to ph to visit her in june for one month. she is my love. i will return in one year and marry her. the kids are great. she also said the same thing. no other philapino man would be interested in her. she now has a car and i pay for her daughter school. and other things. i have good income. i will retire there with three pentions. but now the neighbor ladies will not talk to her. they are jelous. her other family all support her choice. she was on facebook group for two days and found me. she laughs and calls me her jackpot. i finally found love again and i really like ph. central luzon area. small village. good luck to you.
I'm a 65 yo American. Been researching for 2 years. I went through the same phase...love...kids OK...etc... But now I'm starting to see things I think more clearly. Not saying it's bad or anything, still a win-win...but I prefer to understand what's really going on. Of course a Filipina is going to say "no Filipino man wants her" because that's exactly what you want to hear. Men do not want to hear it's because of their money. IMO it being about money is totally normal and natural. It's how men and women evolved. I like being a provider...don't really care who's kids. But if I stop and see this reality I can also consider my options. I could keep looking and find a great Filipina who's not married and wants to have kids. Then we can marry, have kids and I'm back to the same situation...providing for a family...but now it's my family. For me I like that better. I also met a 46 yo Filipina online, widow with 3 kids 9-15. Great woman. We fell in love within days. She's professional, has rental properties so didn't need any money. But she does have some health issues, high blood pressure. Plus the big one was if I move to PH I really would have no choice but to move into her city and probably her house. She's not going to want to move her kids, move away from her businesses. So despite "being in love" I kept it at a friendship level and cut communication to once a month or so. I'm going to explore in country to find out the area of SE Asia I like best and then decide whether to consider looking for a wife. And who knows, maybe she will be an older single mom...I'd have no huge problem with that. But quickly picking an older single mom? I'd rather keep my options open. I stopped online searches for woman about 10 months ago. I need to spend that time getting ready to move.
@@MrWaterbugdesign good luck and best wishes to you. if you haven't found what you are looking for yet then definatly keep looking. personaly i have found exactly what i was looking for. a simple life with a sweet wife. i accept all that comes with her. i spent a month with her and her family. so yes i will return to her and become and expat with a philapina wife and family. everyones journey is different. again. good luck to you.
That's the thing though, they won't even giver her the chance to even get to know her (little alone love her later) because of the kids. That is true in the Philippines.
@@johnclark7973 the problem I have are the low quality of men there. They make children all over the place and cannot afford to support them. And other richer men will end up footing the bill. Why women allow themselves to hook up w/ these losers is beyond me.
It doesn't matter that you are a single mom of 30 or not i'm 40 and i'm from Europe. I would love to move/work in your country if I would have the money to move. 1the of all if I want to date you I have to know that your a package deal that I will never be as much as important as your daughter is to you and that's normal you are a mom I known that from the start, on the other side of the coin if you and I would be dating and you just don't make time for me always sit around family or only make time for work and your daughter/family and never me offcourse then I would say like what i'm I doing here. Secondly that I would date you as a single mom of 30 or that I would date another girl of 20/25 9/10 they want kids too so what we say as men like ohhh yeah but it's a "hazard" to take care of a child is bullshit that I would raise your daughter with you or that I would date another girl and she wants kids and raise that boy/girl is the same. It's very simple if you don't want kids or just want to date a girl without kids you have to be straight up with the girl and say ok baby this is my reason why else you are lying to the girl and to yourself. In this world 30 years ago it was a shame to divorce cause it was a big blame today it's a shame to stay together if you can improve yourself that's the shame of the 2022/2030. You need to know that not every day will be rosy and sometimes you will have an argument, when you do: do what I do sit them down don't matter it's 20.00pm or 23.00pm and talk NEVER GO TO BED ANGRY as long as you can communicate you can work it out!!! that's what millennials need to learn Trust doesn't happen in a day you need to work on it from both side every day that's what LOVE is : if you truely believe something is there you work on it every day to STAY IN LOVE!!!
If you are the Filipina that I've been praying 2 God 4, I want 2 get to know you better, and visit you in your province and make u my reyna ko forever!
You are a beautiful lady in your own personal way. The simple fact that you choose to make your daughter your number one priority in your life tells all of us just you are truly a pleasure speaking with here. Speaking for myself here, you deserve a man who will treat both you and your daughter as the greatest thing ever in his life.
I mean to be fair the Filipina women I know in the USA will not date Filipino men in the usa mainly because "they are lazy," also they will put the "charm on" then be extremely machismo once you are married..... they will put you "in your place" as a woman. There is also a lot of just..well... immaturity.. you have to be their mom....
By listening to you, I have quite a few questions for you.
Why you are single mom?
Were you a bad girl?
So now you learn your lesson?
Your reason to date a foreigner is a way out?
What type of foreign man?
Exactly. Single mums are also a red flag for bad risk.
You probably can date a foreign man but as from what you say you´re very cautious of the men you meet online and you´re not sure if he´s the right one for you......no one can know that beforehand.....if you meet a man to your liking,it may or may not turn out to be the one for you....there are many foreign men out there who wouldn´t have a problem supporting your daughter but since you seem to be an independent lady and built your own home, the person you want to meet will have to accept the way you live in the province, maybe far away from the big cities and towns, a humble person so to speak, hope it works out for you.
A nice little video the philo men run around with plenty of young women i saw that when i was there you are right 30 is very old for a woman in the pi
I will be frank. Most men will not date single mothers is they do not want to support another man's by product of his pleasure. It sounds cruel, women have to knw they have are responsible for the safety of their kids.
I'll give you credit for your honesty and stating the reason for not dating Pinoy guys. Most of the Pinays I see here looking to date foreigners have mostly negative things to say about their kababayan and try to put Pinoy men down just to score a point? They want to make it look and sound like they were mistreated and that all Pinoy men are abusive and irresponsible just to justify their actions to date a foreigner. I am not saying that all Pinoy men are good and responsible, but bear in mind that Pinoys and Pinays are cut from the same clothes. There are bad Pinays as well as there are bad Pinoys too, in the same way, that there are bad foreigners. As a Pinoy myself, who has lived in different parts of the world, I always preferred to date Pinays as they most likely result in a successful relationship with Pinays being a more dedicated partner than Western women. The failure rate in the west with marriage resulting in divorce is almost 50%. You are mistaken if you think western women are different from western men in terms of values with regard to relationships.
99% of Filipino Men wouldn't date her. She has kids already. If he does date her he will only get her pregnant then run away. She has a better chance with a non-Filipino man.
As if you foreigners don't leave your family in the Philippines. Tell that to those abandoned mixed kids in Angeles City, Pamapanga. Touché!
Go ahead and be her beta bucks provider.
I'm finding the similarities of dating in the US to the rest of world very interesting. The main blame for dating/marriage in the US is hypergamy. American women having been increasing their requirements for men to such a height that the men don't exist. The 80 20 rule.
Same thing is going on in the Philippines and many other countries. The only differences is the level of requirements. A man in the US who doesn't come close to meeting American women's requirements but will exceed the requirements of many women in many other countries. It's still hypergamy.
In the US we hear exactly the same thing from women..."I can't find a husband after 30" or 40. Single moms complain men don't want them. This is being caused by women not locking down good husbands when the women are in their early 20's when their value as wives is the highest. Instead they get with hot exciting studs, have babies and think they'll look for a husband later. Then later they find out their value has fallen, but they still don't want to "settle" (meaning accept a man at their actual level) as their own value continues to fall. While men generally increase their value with age as they increase their wealth.
I understand a foreign man is an almost sure path to a huge increase in security and relative wealth. But I have no doubt there are many Filipino men who would be good husbands too. Filipinas take a big risk in being alone for the rest of their lives waiting for a long shot. It's not just Filipino men who have a problem with single moms and women over 30. There are foreign men who will accept those terms, but it's not an unlimited supply. I know many American men who don't really want to raise another man's kids or pick a wife who has made poor choices.
I suggest Filipinas reevaluate what they will accept in a partner.
Dude....
Write a book !
What can she actually offer a foreigner? Just wondered
Only something between her legs
You have such a sweet heart dear❤️❤️❤️🙏 love from India ❤️❤️🙏
Nakangiti ako habang nakikinig sayo Kabayan, and tamang tama di lang kaawaan ka bagkos mahalin karin, nag galing mo Miss, well done 👏 tama lang at tamang tama natamaan narin ako hhhh, blessed you 💖
Just subed and wishing you good luck
in growing your channel. JP (LA, Calif)
Good topic 👍🏽
What are the dating sites
Good luck.
How old is your daughter.
Huear you live.
Ha! If ALL Filipino women had a THE SAME MINDSET like yours... I DO NOT LIKE DATING FILIPINO WOMEN EITHER 🤣🤣
Hi, is it because I dont get attention from anyone here?
Great video
Is Christian Filipina the only worthwhile dating site that you recommend, if not can you name a couple other decent ones please?
First time viewer. I hit the like 👍 and subscribe button! You seem great.
Did you say you worked overseas?
Because I am very curious how Filipino men and women are legally able to work overseas in America??
Reason being I own Residential Assisted Living (RAL) multi-bed homes in upscale neighborhoods, here in the US. And I would L❤️VE to hire Filipinos for caregiver positions, because your people are the most caring in the world!
Can you tell me what is required for Filipinos to come to America for the purpose of working full-time?
Thank you so much!! 👌😃,🙏
Can I have your email address one more time, I lost it. ☹️
The title of this video is " Why I don't date Filipino men" you didn't even talk about that until the last 10 seconds. Why do people mislead their videos. It is so annoying. I just found your channel and was about to subscribe but I see that it is misleading like most others.
This video needs a part 2
Your forgetting to mention that in the filippines their is 12 women for each man and there is very little work for men there making it very hard for a single mother to get hooked up with a man. also most men just want sex not get into a relationship with a women who has kids. not to say it,s impossible but hard and last thing women in filipina want a better life will to meet foreigner because financial situation they have told me men in there country are unreilableand only want to fill there personal needs but again not all men are like that but most are.
Those are just their excuses because they are a bunch of rejects.
Do you ever think about having a Patreon account?
An economic thing.... kasabot ko....
Exotic
I'm 72,I was looking for a Lady my age and found one 68 we het it off very well
Hello nice to meet you
MALAYSIAN is the best....
i am 56 yrs old. my gf is 47 yr old widow with one 8 yr old, a 19 yr old in colledge and a 24 yr old. i went to ph to visit her in june for one month. she is my love. i will return in one year and marry her. the kids are great. she also said the same thing. no other philapino man would be interested in her. she now has a car and i pay for her daughter school. and other things. i have good income. i will retire there with three pentions. but now the neighbor ladies will not talk to her. they are jelous. her other family all support her choice. she was on facebook group for two days and found me. she laughs and calls me her jackpot. i finally found love again and i really like ph. central luzon area. small village. good luck to you.
I'm a 65 yo American. Been researching for 2 years. I went through the same phase...love...kids OK...etc... But now I'm starting to see things I think more clearly. Not saying it's bad or anything, still a win-win...but I prefer to understand what's really going on.
Of course a Filipina is going to say "no Filipino man wants her" because that's exactly what you want to hear. Men do not want to hear it's because of their money. IMO it being about money is totally normal and natural. It's how men and women evolved. I like being a provider...don't really care who's kids. But if I stop and see this reality I can also consider my options. I could keep looking and find a great Filipina who's not married and wants to have kids. Then we can marry, have kids and I'm back to the same situation...providing for a family...but now it's my family. For me I like that better.
I also met a 46 yo Filipina online, widow with 3 kids 9-15. Great woman. We fell in love within days. She's professional, has rental properties so didn't need any money. But she does have some health issues, high blood pressure. Plus the big one was if I move to PH I really would have no choice but to move into her city and probably her house. She's not going to want to move her kids, move away from her businesses. So despite "being in love" I kept it at a friendship level and cut communication to once a month or so. I'm going to explore in country to find out the area of SE Asia I like best and then decide whether to consider looking for a wife. And who knows, maybe she will be an older single mom...I'd have no huge problem with that. But quickly picking an older single mom? I'd rather keep my options open.
I stopped online searches for woman about 10 months ago. I need to spend that time getting ready to move.
@@MrWaterbugdesign good luck and best wishes to you. if you haven't found what you are looking for yet then definatly keep looking. personaly i have found exactly what i was looking for. a simple life with a sweet wife. i accept all that comes with her. i spent a month with her and her family. so yes i will return to her and become and expat with a philapina wife and family. everyones journey is different. again. good luck to you.
Abba s best song.. money,money,money
Older Filipinas that are widowed / annulled are excellent to date
A few that I met online that I really like . Grown children and also retired . Great relationship to have with as an older retired expat.
Regardless if kids or no kids does not matter if they love you. They will accept you for who you are.
That's the thing though, they won't even giver her the chance to even get to know her (little alone love her later) because of the kids. That is true in the Philippines.
@@johnclark7973 the problem I have are the low quality of men there. They make children all over the place and cannot afford to support them. And other richer men will end up footing the bill. Why women allow themselves to hook up w/ these losers is beyond me.
I agree with you …
It doesn't matter that you are a single mom of 30 or not i'm 40 and i'm from Europe. I would love to move/work in your country if I would have the money to move. 1the of all if I want to date you I have to know that your a package deal that I will never be as much as important as your daughter is to you and that's normal you are a mom I known that from the start, on the other side of the coin if you and I would be dating and you just don't make time for me always sit around family or only make time for work and your daughter/family and never me offcourse then I would say like what i'm I doing here. Secondly that I would date you as a single mom of 30 or that I would date another girl of 20/25 9/10 they want kids too so what we say as men like ohhh yeah but it's a "hazard" to take care of a child is bullshit that I would raise your daughter with you or that I would date another girl and she wants kids and raise that boy/girl is the same. It's very simple if you don't want kids or just want to date a girl without kids you have to be straight up with the girl and say ok baby this is my reason why else you are lying to the girl and to yourself. In this world 30 years ago it was a shame to divorce cause it was a big blame today it's a shame to stay together if you can improve yourself that's the shame of the 2022/2030. You need to know that not every day will be rosy and sometimes you will have an argument, when you do: do what I do sit them down don't matter it's 20.00pm or 23.00pm and talk NEVER GO TO BED ANGRY as long as you can communicate you can work it out!!! that's what millennials need to learn Trust doesn't happen in a day you need to work on it from both side every day that's what LOVE is : if you truely believe something is there you work on it every day to STAY IN LOVE!!!
Simp
Hi how r you I would love to date a philippnes woman
If you are the Filipina that I've been praying 2 God 4, I want 2 get to know you better, and visit you in your province and make u my reyna ko forever!
What ! Wow ! You're Super Cute !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL
Wow! You're super blind.
You could always date me.
Ur bueatiful
You haven't seen many pinays have you ? She's not that good looking.
You are a beautiful lady in your own personal way.
The simple fact that you choose to make your daughter your number one priority in your life tells all of us just you are truly a pleasure speaking with here.
Speaking for myself here, you deserve a man who will treat both you and your daughter as the greatest thing ever in his life.
@@davidtucker7219 put your money where your mouth is big man.
the men dont make much money..
I mean to be fair the Filipina women I know in the USA will not date Filipino men in the usa mainly because "they are lazy," also they will put the "charm on" then be extremely machismo once you are married..... they will put you "in your place" as a woman. There is also a lot of just..well... immaturity.. you have to be their mom....
Looks like we both have the same needs, would you mind provide me you contact, we can take it from there.
If you ever wanna chat hit me up