i'm having an awesome time blocking people💅 it amazes how so many online trolls hate black women, yet they can't seem to steer their asses away from channel🤔 if you hate all black women, then you have no business coming to a channel created by a black women. go watch the home girl ijustine😘
It's so frustrating. Date who you want, love who you love, but STAWP disrespecting black women for validation. It's corny, it's played out, it's old af. Update: because apparently y'all don't read. I'm not mad at the boy. He's 15. I'm not mad at his preference, he can date who he wants. It's the fact that they made his distaste for black women an entire plot when the audience is black women. And that poor girl had to be publicly humiliated on television just so the damn Smileys could get a check. That is disrespectful. Idc if you agree, this is my opinion on the situation.
exactly the only people you hear screaming "it's his preference, why care?" are other men who behave in the same manner. like i said in my serena video, date who you want to it's a free world, but stop with the b.s and bitterness. if you're truly happy with your exotic chick, then there is no need to disrespect women of your same race. it's sad that, this SIMPLE concept seems to go over so many people's heads in the so called black community..
Kit Bina there was just a black man in Ti's last video talking about how black women are hoes, we're the easiest to get, we have a lot of bastard children and all that bullshit and it's so sad. We're supposed to be a community and yet we're CONSTANTLY disrespected. I'm so sick of it
lovelyti2002 people hear what they wanna hear and see what they wanna see. At the end of the day it's not about the preference but about the blatant disrespect we receive on a daily. I'm grateful for the men who get it, that's who I choose to focus on.
I'm not black. & have had black men tell me "I don't date black girls" like that shit supposed to make me feel special or something. but tbh that's a turn off to hear a black man say that. like are you not proud of where u came from. like didn't you come from a black woman?
nyahmani mommy Coming out of a black woman's vagina doesn't mean you're obligated to find black women attractive and why be proud of something you had no control over like. skin color?
nyahmanis mommy glad to hear u say that. My white gf's say the same thing. When a black man downs black women, it's a turn off and they don't feel him anymore. They think it's something mentally wrong with him. And it's true. There's something mentally wrong and obsessive about one who turns against his own. It's also a red flag for the non black he is with because he is only with you for superficial reasons and that's disturbing. I don't mess with any man who talks down about women period, but any race who downs their own is a danger to the woman he end up with. 💀
Sincerely Eva yeah, I think it's coming sooner then later. Black girls are just getting tired of always being told we aren't good enough by a lot of black men. Smh, it used to hurt my feelings to hear stuff like this but Now I just wish they would go with their non black women (if that's what they "prefer") and leave us alone.
@Janae Ceaser This kid has a right to "prefer" who he wants. I just hope you younger black girls/women are waking up to this behavior. You DO have other options.
TheShawnshell Not once did I say it was bad to have a preference but I notice right after they state their preference they go into detail about why they don't like black girls and it shifts from preference to disrespect real quick. He should have just said he likes white and Hispanic girls and left it at that. Black girls get enough of people telling us why they don't like us. He just needs to date outside his race and hush. No need for him to explain why he doesn't like us.
Janae Ceaser. Stay Woke and stop accepting the BS, we cant afford to fall asleep with disrepect , vilification, vileness...because when you accept it you tell your daughters and every younger girl around you that it is ok. We Black women need to do some work on ourselves because too many are believing this shit.....WAKE UP!
Janae Ceaser I know you didn't. Your comment was more to my liking for my response. I need more of these younger black girls/women to stop responding with their feelings and start taking actions against this nonsense.
I'm a (white) cashier, so I talk to all types of people. I casually talk to black men of all different sorts all the time, and more often than not, they tell me that they "want them a white girl". It's disgusting to hear. Not only are they objectifying white women as this "superior" object, they are just casting black women aside like trash. Don't they realize if everyone gets a white woman that there will be way less black men left? God. It's just ridiculous and racist.
Those types are mentally weak and low in character. I wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy (if I had one). I can't imagine anyone in their right mind who would willingly become involved with them.
I guess you're gonna blame black women too for how bad your grammar is right? It is not all black women fault that your mother was unstable and she traumatized the hell out of you. not our fault. One thing is clear though. for the black men who openly bash black women, always seem to have had a problem in the past when it comes to their mother a lot of the time and then they go on attracting the same type of woman with their mothers energy because it is all they know unfortunately. Before you say black women ain't shit you need to find out why keep choosing black women who ain't shit. The problem is with yourself and you are projecting all your unresolved past on to other black women. If you are looking for the mother you never had, you will never find her. She is gone. You think you are gonna find that mommy love in a white woman you are wrong. Because when she starts demanding shit from you emotionally, how can you be there when you are emotionally fucked up. Nobody can fix it for you. You have to fix it for you. Now need to go heal bruh. I hope you can read this and it wasn't too long for ya.
Moto Myki when you don't embrace it it's hard for other's to. we as black women are labeled because of the type of black women that came before us. think about it.
i'm a white woman myself, love myself the way i am, wouldn't change a thing and i can say without a problem or jealousy, that i agree, the most beautiful women i have ever seen so far, have always been black women
Desmond Abrams lol you are useless. date who you want and keep that nasty comment to yourself. it's getting real old, we keep hearing black women are jealous etc. News Flash it's making as stronger and unite. 😂😂😂 it's so sad that you wasted all that time to write that. no one should respond to this guy with any negatives. we don't need him to validate our existence.
J Vocals I so agree with you. I will support black men. the good one and leave the self hating ones to their dooms. they should remember their daughters will be part black too. they can't erase that😂
Black women are beautiful! It's so annoying to see people call black women unattractive and stereotype them. May not mean much coming from a Latina, but black women deserve respect and love too.
i ain't tripping about his preference, but I would hope he (and the production) would apologize to the young lady he disrespected on national tv by using her image to demonstrate what he doesn't find attractive. I am not that bish who wants to publicly be called unattractive to 50s and 100s of people.
Now that it's gone VIRAL there are probably hundreds of thousands if not millions aware of it. They probably only did this self-inflicted racist-twist for PUBLICITY and to increase awareness or viewership of this little bootleg show. I hope it gets cancelled as a result of intelligent folk boycotting it. #DontsupportRickeySmileystvshow
He apologized and his dad apologized to the young lady and on the air to the fans. We have so much more to worry about in this country than what a young boy has to say. If any sista's worth is threatened by what a little boy says, then that person has a problem. That boy don't know any better. What bothers me, is this generation of Blacks trying to lighten their skin like it's the 30's.
N S Yeah that is fine and OK. Because we are beautiful strong and independent. And maybe we should appreciate our men more and teach them to be the same. And I'm only speaking on some of our black men not all. Because we still have strong black men that take care of their families and do what they have to do as men.Its just that somewhere black people have lost their way.
LUCRETIA TEPES Thanks, I had to speak truth. Truth may not always sound positive, but black girls are just as important as black boys. Preference is preference and that's fine. Having class and being cordial do not cost you anything, especially unnecessary drama. I appreciate you getting that.
LIL MEOWMEOW What does that mean Brazil has the highest African descendants outside Africa so they are black Brazilian period now your mix is what? Portuguese / European white Brazilian and African american or just straight TRU AFRO BRAZILIAN
I've never met a black man that wasn't a violent thug. To say that only a few of them are like that is being politically correct. People just say that to avoid hurting anyone's feelings even though it's true. I'm sure you agree with this statement, right Temica Titty Sprinkles?
This dude doesn't represent all of us at ALL!!! I love black women and honestly I've never dated anything but.... and I can't for the life of me figure out how white girls do it better!? Black women this black man stands with you
So he was told to say that....but his explanation is at age 15 he has had a LOT of bad experiences with black women? 🤔🤔🤔 Something ain't right in the milk....
Pharaoh Libra what you said made absolutely no sense to me either. Obviously we have two completely different point of views and commenting back and fourth with me would not solve anything.
Bridget M thank you I can make a simple statement and they take my words and twist it. I am not sure if they twist my words to support their argument or they love internet drama. 😂
"The most disrespected person in America is the black woman. The most unprotected person in America is the black woman. The most neglected person in America is the black woman."-Malcom X
Frugality Or....perhaps they did. Perhaps it is part of their agenda. No unity in the Black community. A Black show that subliminally teaches self-hatred. Each time a Black man denigrates the Black woman: * The gap between Black male & female (potential) relationships expands. * Negative energy is created, amplified, and saturates the minds of those hearing/watching. * They are encouraging division & endorsing self-hatred. Black males like Smiley's son participate in the rhetoric and perpetuate the LIE that all Black Women are undesirable. FOOLS! You see what happened to Stacey Dash. Oh, wait a minute. Stacey Dash has bleached her skin, so she is acceptable to them...and Black males like Smiley's son. So sad, so very sad. Putting down Black Women will not make the Black Man more acceptable to White people, and it certainly does not make him White.
there are black men that do genuinely prefer black women. we need to give more attention to these men and not the lost souls that dismiss us for the very same features they possess.
lovelyti2002 ti can you pls cover Paris Jackson coming out on Rolling Stones cover claiming she believes shes black? iwl to hear your opinion. ty ♡ much love
I remember the episode when his daughter went and got contacts but that was bc the girl she was with is her family and she has naturally different color eyes
I disagree. I think black women are often jealous of other races and are trying to compete with them while other races dont even perceive a competition. And quite frankly black women are the most masculine group of women even have higher testosterone counts in general. This might make them naturally less attractive in general. Sure you have your Gabrielle Unions and what not but many black women are physically and mentally masculine in a way that might be unappealing. In a way linked to their high testosterone.
As a beautiful black female who couldn't care any less about what some little boy's dating preference is, I remain UNBOTHERED. I know my worth, it's sad how other women tend to get wrapped up in the "why they don't like me" nonsense. There's plenty of others out there who will LOVE you. It's like your feeding into their ego when you cry and ask why you, a black woman, is not their "type." Don't give them that satisfaction! Rise above and leave them in the dust. Maybe they'll start feeling like they're missing out on something. By then you'll already be so far ahead in your happy place.👈🏾 👏🏾
Forever Diamonds the boy is only 15 years old, I think he is just going through a phase. your taste in the opposite sex can change several different times as you grow older.
Anthony Johnson True. Another reason not to get all hot and bothered about something so trivial. Regardless of age, we always grow. And if we don't, well tuff s***.
I'm mad as hell he said "Mexicans like foreign girls" WE ARE NOT A FUCKING NOVELTY. Latin girls are not some fucking trophy, we are regular women just like any other. This is disrespectful on every level. He doesn't even care about the CULTURE, he just wants the title of dating a Latina. Nope.
Jazzmine Bustillo Exactly I'm not latina but it's annoying as fuck when black man see you as a trophy. You're a woman who should be respected. I wouldn't fuck with guys like that.
I'm sick of hearing this "preference, preference bullshit" ok. This has gone beyond preference, this is blatant prejudice! Saying what you "prefer" is just your politically correct way of discriminating on bw. Enough is enough! Having your preference doesn't come along with harassment and bullying.
This is a question I have posted on this page and "have yet" to receive an answer....2 weeks ago on this very page lovelyti2002 did a video on serena williams "supposed" wedding to a Satanic-White Supremacist low life. A lot {I would say most} black women INSANELY SUPPORTED her decision saying "it's just a preference"...and these same women were saying nasty things about black men. Question: do you support serena williams? I find it hard to understand how 1 week these black females are SUPPORTIVE of interracial dating and a week or two later they are "suddenly" against it. YOU...CANT...HAVE...IT...BOTH...WAYS. You are ~completely~ against it or ~completely~ for it.
Balzac T. Bagher No. People "prefer" beef or chicken. To actually make a distinction in favor of or against a person belonging to a group (in this case the entire world population of black women) is sheer prejudice and discriminatory behavior.
exactly. just because I have a preference for Asian men doesn't mean I won't date a black guy there are and have been some black guys that I know that I've been attracted to. I had a crush on a cool black guy in high school named Darius. he's my friend till this day lol
Y'all are seriously bashing a 15 year old boy for having an immature opinion/preference. But if he would have said he only likes black women y'all would praise him for disregarding all other races. Leave people alone in decisions they make that doesn't affect anyone but themselves
I didn't think this would hit me so hard that I'd actually cry. A guy I dated for like 3 years told me he regretted not sleeping with an Asian girl cuz he thought it would be better than being with a black girl. He quickly backtracked and said he didn't mean it like that but it hurt the hell out of me cuz I was head over heels in love with him. I'm not dealing with him anymore but that hurt me bad and made me honestly not want to date black men anymore cuz that's all I ever hear is how much better other women are
Sevhen Vay @Don't worry. He was weak and a self hating person and doesn't deserve you. Sorry to hear u had to wait so long for the truth. A special guy will find "YOU". Don't let this negative experience stop you from finding luv. This happened to me as well and I had to find happiness within myself first thru spirituality , education, traveling, and other self interest. Good Luck to u and other women out there
Sevhen Vay @Don't worry. He was weak and a self hating person and doesn't deserve you. Sorry to hear u had to wait so long for the truth. A special guy will find "YOU". Don't let this negative experience stop you from finding luv. This happened to me as well and I had to find happiness within myself first thru spirituality , education, traveling, and other self interest. Good Luck to u and other women out there
I feel like Rickey Smiley is conscious for a check. if Rickey was really conscious his kids would be a reflection of that. His son wouldn't make disparaging remarks about black women on television whether we are his preference or not. His daughter wouldn't be getting colored contacts to appear more exotic, her natural brown eyes would be enough.
Maroon Horizon huh??? who said anything about bm not being able to date white women, hell to be honest I rather they go to white and latina women and leave bw alone, and keep us out their fucking mouths,my end goal is I want bw to be happy and go where they're appreciated, and bm for the most part do NOT appreciate bw, why are you even commenting on my post? are u a biracial with a blk dad? are you feeling TRIGGERED right now. #girlbye
KLG83 Exactly! The kid may have developed a false sense of privilege through his family, but got a rude awakening since he's no looker himself. Now he's projecting those insecurities onto black girls. I say let him date all the non-black girls he desires, and let him be their problem.
This makes me sad deep down inside because it makes me feel like I can't find a beautiful black man that will love me for the skin that is covering my flesh. It's also sad cause this is disrespecting their mothers who for several hours sat in pain just to give birth to you.
Macey Londan. Honey find your beauty and all the brilliant things about yourself and you will see who is attracted to that. Don't lament, learn to celebrate that beautiful melanin filled skin, your curves, your beautiful hair, lips and nose....when you truly truly embrace your own African beauty you will beat off men from everywhere with a stick. it begins with you not them.
I'm just over this whole thing. It seems like BM disrespecting BW is never gonna stop. At this point, it's just best to keep teaching black girls, especially the young ones, that they are beautiful and loved, regardless of what these self-hating black "men" or the media has to say. That's why shows like Black Girls Rock are so important. Some people think it's unnecessary & racist, but those same people are either racist themselves or they never speak up when it comes to BW being degraded... so their opinion is irrelevant lol. And as for this kid (forgot his name already lol)..... Look I'm 20 years old, so I'll be damned if I trip over what a 15 year old thinks, but I know they are black girls around his age who probably have a crush on him and who probably crushed when they saw this so yeah that's kinda fucked up
She's Kinkz He did not bash. Plenty times people bash black men all the time we have to take it in stride. As soon ass some one says they arent into black women it's bashing.
Carlos Clayton True, but let’s be real black women Support black men way more than black men support us. Y’all get love from women of all races, where as black women get disrespected by a lot of people outside our race , Hell including our own. What he said and the way he treated her was horrible. Ain’t no justifying that.If you don’t like black women cool, just don’t be a dick about it.
She's Kinkz But black women support rappers, comedians etc. All the time. All those black men do is disrespect black women and they have no problem getting them.
Ayana Peoples SAYS WHO THO..."OTHER BLACK WOMEN"?...NO EVERY BLACK WOMEN ISNT "AMAZING"..CMON BRUH..ITS A INDIVIDUAL EFFORT..NOT A GROUP ONE CUZ NOBODY LIVING IN A FANTASY WORLD THO..DONT LIE TO ME PLEASE!!!! FUCK KEEP IT GULLY, SHIT..CAN WE START TELLING THE TRUTH ABOUT SHIT INSTEAD OF BELIEVING OUR OWN LIES...FUCK!!! ITS NEVER "ALL" OF ANYTHING...ALL BLACK MEN ARE NOT THE SAME AND ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT THE FUCKING SAME..💯SOME BLACK WOMEN ARE AMAZING SOME AINT SHIT....SAME FOR MEN💯
Tree House, first of all, I never said ALL. Secondly, I believe white women are amazing, Asian women are amazing, Latina women are amazing, etc. women have an amazing power you obviously don't understand even the ones that YOU don't feel like are shit! Everyone is entitled to their own opinion
I don't have time for Ricky's son. He doesn't like himself and that is why he doesn't like black women. Those type of black men needs to stop blaming black women for their insecurities. Also Black women are Foreign. Black women are the most exotic women than any other women. I find it funny that a black men can have a bad experience with a black women then give up on all black women. But would have several bad experiences with non-black women and date them over and over again. I'd never and will never have time for the bullshit.
Candie Robertson .....You have a beautiful cousin and one day she will find a REAL man who will worship the ground she walks on. I'm so sorry she had to see this play out on tv, smh.
Girl I'm so over it. No matter how much you try to defy stereotypes, no matter how well you keep yourself up, lose weight, go to school, have a great career, submit, no children, it doesn't really matter because your never good enough! You would think with everything these black men go through this day and age and seeing how much black women go to bat for them that they would try to do better. I stopped caring honestly! Do you, live your life, and stop limiting yourself! They say there are some good ones out there butttttt until they cross my path I'm okay! I'll be the single dog lady traveling and enjoying my life! 😂😂😂😂
You're doing too much. There is no most beautiful race. Beauty is subjective. The only females I like are black women and women mixed with black though.
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. YOU ARE WORTHY. if a man/woman doesn't want you because of your skin color, or the color of your eyes(things you cannot control), they're not worth your time. You deserve better than a person who will put you down and make you feel bad about yourself for superficial reasons. You're absolutely beautiful and I love you. You is smart. You is kind. You is important. No matter what the color of your skin is or where you come from. Why does skin color even matter? Why can't we just date people for their characters and how good of a person they are to you and others?
Beautiful what you said but let's take it further. Don't love ourselves in spite of, love ourselves because of our beautiful skintones of different beautiful hues, ebony, chocolate, mahogany, mocha, caramel, honey beige, olive, vanilla, eyes as well. The sway of our hips and texture hair to straight. Full lips and almond eyes. We are Queens of Queens . Lift your heads up for the beauty outside should come also from the inside as well. Don't be discouraged by pathetic immature, insecure excuses of souls. We are Phenomenal. Now, let's drink our tea ladies.
If you all follow Rickey Smiley's radio show, he talks down on Black females all of the time. He's made similar comments himself & now his son has been caught he will lay off of his comments but he definitely has! Look up his girlfriend's recent allegations about him.
you can appreciate, love, date, and have a preference for other cultures WITHOUT putting down your own race, what about that is so hard to understand to these black men?
you're welcome, i saw far to many people praising him, like he was some bootleg super hero, for "calling out his brother." he's full of crap just like the other kid, i saw through that entire b.s. scene, he gets no props from me.
Both girls were beautiful but the "basic black girl" is in fact fits a more acceptable standard of beauty than the racially ambiguous girl. So I feel you on not falling for the brother's bull shit.
ALL black comedians are color struck. not surprised about his kids. rickey is conscious only when it relates to men. black feminism needs more of a platform. some of these brothers are down for a cause that is only relative to their own gender.
Most likely. Their beliefs are usually influenced by the relationships they have with their parents. Even if they date outside the race, their "reason" is very revealing.
I think people need to understand that young Black men are simply modeling the behavior of their elders (fathers, older brothers, uncles, etc.) and famous Black men young and old. As I am driving or just out in about, I am starting to notice young, school-age black boys ONLY dating, being with or "preferring" White or Latina females now. A lot of people don't realize how much the so-called "gender war" is having a negative psychological affect on our children. We are sending them the message that black is not beautiful (unless it is mixed with something) and that it is not good enough or worthy of being loved. The bashing is affecting both our boys AND girls and it is going to have lasting, negative consequences. The black woman bashing has gotten out of hand and is very irresponsible, and hurtful. Here we are folks 50 years after "integration," we are in a sad state of affairs.
K Mitchell He didn't disrespect them. All he said was he found them unattractive. No big deal. Move on and find someone who likes black women. Instead of saying black women rock, try believing it first.
Cruzan26 Yes he did! He has a history of tweeting derogatory stuff about black women, I find it funny that ppl will take so much time out talking about ppl they don't like. I don't find white guys attractive but I will never post videos, blogs or tweet about it. And YES! BLACK GIRLS DO ROCK!!!
K Mitchell Where are these tweets? If black girl rocks, why are they so insecure? Just don't say it, believe it. No way would I let a 15 year girl get under my skin.
It's just so sad that a lot of black men don't value us like we value them. Here we are, on the front lines advocating for not just us, but them as well, and this is what we get in return. This young man is completely misguided and I blame his father for that. He's a minor, so there is no way that the producers would make him say something so silly without the input of some parental guardian. Also, the term foreign is so misused it is not even funny. If a girl was born and raised in the US, then HER ASS IS NOT FOREIGN. This is typical slave mentality that he was taught. I think it's completely fine to have a preference, but when you judge an entire race of people, the same group in which you come from, as a whole then that's where the problem lies. But hey, what can you do? He's not going to change his way of thinking. He's only saying sorry because his ass, as well as his daddy's is getting drug up and down social media.
Meanwhile the woman who accused Emmett Till of flirting with her admitted that she lied today. He needs to read up on his history to connect the dots..
Ti I don't know if you're going to read this or not but I just wanted to let you know that when I was in high school I used to be so damn insecure about my skin colour and my features. A lot of black men would date every other race except black women because they did not find us attractive. I came across you're videos and I learned SO FUCKING much from you. I even had to check myself and be like "damn i fucking hypocrite" because you were always right about everything. I'm so happy that I am out high school because through your videos I really matured and I loved being black no matter what anybody fucking tells me. The sad part is that I will always love black men no matter how much they don't like us black females because I know that there are good black men out there who we love us no matter what. I will always respect a black men who respect their own race. But now these days, it getting harder and harder to find them (or at least from where I am from). All I want to say is thank you so much for everything. I respect you. Much Love
"I've had a lot of bad experiences with a lot of black women".... at 15. That makes no sense. He needs to stand by what he said and yes, Ti, how he acted. She was cute and seemed sweet. She was engaged and trying to have fun while he was acting an ass. So he actually gave HER a bad experience with a black man.
Totally agree. I think that it's a shame that in this day and age black children are being raised with this mentality and being made to think that it's okay.
Thank you so much for speaking on this topic Ti. I thought it was just me. I notice black men disrespect their own women so much but hold women that are closer to whiteness physically in a higher regard. Every time I say that people say it's not true, it's just preference, etc. thank you for discussing this girl. As a black woman who has been told I'm not dateable because I'm black, I really appreciate it.
Wow, it's difficult being a black person period but equally hard being a black woman. We not only receive negativity from other races but from our own community.
I firmly believe that any Black man or Black woman who places a tag of superiority on non-Black people was not raised to love himself or herself. You cannot love Black people if you are not raised at home to love Black people. Black men who are not raised with any knowledge about our history, our culture, OUR POWER, can never love Black women and will forever put them down. And the same for Black women who put down Black men; they were not raised at home by their parents to love Black people. I was raised by a woman who grew up in the Civil Rights era; my mother and grandmother daily faced discrimination, racial prejudice, and belittlement. I love myself, my people, and my culture. I blame the parents of any Black person who kept them from the same experience for failing our ancestors.
Majdi jones You don’t care about the history of your own people? A lot of what happens today is a direct reflection of the past, so you really ought to consider educating yourself. Shameful.
see i date all races and I'm not gonna knock down my race because I have preferences and I don't like it when other dudes knock down their race to talk to me... honestly I don't care what their race or nationality is but you will not catch me bringing down black men that's a nono
such a strange phenomenon. all I see is gorgeous black women everyday.. I seriously think this is a black AMERICAN thing... black Africans and black carribeans don't have this issue so much... or maybe it's a generational thing? because growing up it was all about 'hottest black couples' etc... we looked up to black Americans back then...
Yes it's an american thing. I've never heard of this type of mentality in my life until I discovered it on the internet. You don't see African/South American/Caribbean bashing black women like that.
when you think about it,it's an American thing because African Americans are the largest african group that share the most proximity with white people or in a predominantly white nation,so the diseased mentality from white people attached to them much faster.Black Caribbean people and africans usually live in predominantly black areas so we don't check for white people like that.
If anyone can't see the inherent beauty of black women than they really have life fucked up. Our women come in a variety of shapes, personality and hues. My momma is black, my sisters are black and god willing, the mother of my future children will be black. For every self-hating boy that doesn't see the potential in a good black women there are at least 9 good men who are waiting for the one to compliment their grind. Real talk.
Some guys are too weak to date and love a Black woman, and some Black people are too weak to embrace and love their Black selves which is why they feel the need to bleach their skin, wear long ass weaves and put in light colored contacts. Sad, but I LOVE MY BLACK PEOPLE WHOLEHEARTEDLY AND UNCONDITIONALLY!! ❤️️✊🏾❤️️
My father definitely hates black women. Only dates white, Asian, Latino and other women. My mother is Hawaiian so she has a lighter complexion but I have a milk chocolate tone but he would say I was a lighted skin girl. I'm not at all. It was very weird.
I thought it would be clear. The purpose was to be apart of the conversation and speak to my personal experience of a black man not liking black women. If you have a problem with it, you can move along.
Tiana Hosford lol I was just asking what was the purpose of you're comment because I didn't see the meaning in your comments but now that you explained it I understand how ever don't try to be tough on the comment section of RUclips. you have no reason to be defensive and maybe you shouldn't leave a comment if you can't handle a question the way your father can't handle black women
Self hatred it's a sad case. Most Black people think by dating non Blacks that their level of self esteem would change them but it only makes them worst. Physically they made feel good but internally they are tormented by the thought that they are Black. Your father is dealing with his own insecurities he believed if he dated or even have kids by non Black women it would ease his self hating dilemma but it only made it worst. I'm sorry you have a self hating Black man as your father.
I love my black women, and I hurt so much that they are being so disrespected and hated on by black men. I mean it's bad enough they are not respected by other races and less marketable in the eyes of managers, producers, and many other demographics in our country but this black self destruction by our own people reminds me of when Africans sold their own people to the Europeans as slaves. That's an extreme analogy but this is an extreme crisis we as blacks are facing in 2018. I'm fucked up with this. Black women I love you and that girl was beautiful and he was lucky to have her in his presence. I'm out. Peace and love.
THANK YOU, i'm glad you actually WATCHED the entire video instead of screaming "THAT'S HIS PREFERENCE STFU" smh some people will defend a anything blindly, i guess his disgusting tweets are apart of his "preference" as well.
I think black women are very attractive what the hell? GOD made us all beautiful and unique hunnie. we would be some pretty boring if we all looked or even acted the same :/
I keep trying to tell black women that black men ain't here for us. This happens way too often. Y'all gotta be hella cautious with these men. IJS. Also that's how a lot of conscious folks feel about black women. I've been done with that community. I sure hope that his son don't end being like Reggie Bush lol.
i'm having an awesome time blocking people💅 it amazes how so many online trolls
hate black women, yet they can't seem to steer their asses away from channel🤔
if you hate all black women, then you have no business coming to a channel created by a black women. go watch the home girl ijustine😘
lovelyti2002 lmao love you ti
lovelyti2002 yasss honey UA black girls rock #wearethebest #lovetheskinwearein love ur channel BTW, you are a beautiful black woman 😙😙
Agreed!
lovelyti2002 you speak nothing but the truth. i love seeing your videos pop up on my notifications! keep doing what youre doing!
this is so sad..black women are queens..is he slow!
It's so frustrating. Date who you want, love who you love, but STAWP disrespecting black women for validation. It's corny, it's played out, it's old af.
Update: because apparently y'all don't read. I'm not mad at the boy. He's 15. I'm not mad at his preference, he can date who he wants. It's the fact that they made his distaste for black women an entire plot when the audience is black women. And that poor girl had to be publicly humiliated on television just so the damn Smileys could get a check. That is disrespectful. Idc if you agree, this is my opinion on the situation.
exactly the only people you hear screaming "it's his preference, why care?"
are other men who behave in the same manner.
like i said in my serena video, date who you want to it's a free world,
but stop with the b.s and bitterness. if you're truly happy with your exotic chick, then there is no need to disrespect women of your same race.
it's sad that, this SIMPLE concept seems to go over so many people's heads in the so called black community..
Kit Bina there was just a black man in Ti's last video talking about how black women are hoes, we're the easiest to get, we have a lot of bastard children and all that bullshit and it's so sad. We're supposed to be a community and yet we're CONSTANTLY disrespected. I'm so sick of it
lovelyti2002 people hear what they wanna hear and see what they wanna see. At the end of the day it's not about the preference but about the blatant disrespect we receive on a daily. I'm grateful for the men who get it, that's who I choose to focus on.
Queen Keekee exactly if you want to date other races and ethnics groups that's okay just leave us alone.
I agree
I'm not black. & have had black men tell me "I don't date black girls" like that shit supposed to make me feel special or something. but tbh that's a turn off to hear a black man say that. like are you not proud of where u came from. like didn't you come from a black woman?
nyahmani mommy Coming out of a black woman's vagina doesn't mean you're obligated to find black women attractive and why be proud of something you had no control over like. skin color?
rep5281 what makes you this your gross sweat smelling skin color is best?
nyahmanis mommy glad to hear u say that. My white gf's say the same thing. When a black man downs black women, it's a turn off and they don't feel him anymore. They think it's something mentally wrong with him. And it's true. There's something mentally wrong and obsessive about one who turns against his own. It's also a red flag for the non black he is with because he is only with you for superficial reasons and that's disturbing. I don't mess with any man who talks down about women period, but any race who downs their own is a danger to the woman he end up with. 💀
Stacy fechi Emma
Gross? Smelly??😑
Ok
nyahmanis mommy girl i commend u....thank u thats all we been saying for years
It's annoying, I think a lot of us black girls are just so used to hearing it, We're literally becoming numb to it at this point.
Sincerely Eva yeah, I think it's coming sooner then later. Black girls are just getting tired of always being told we aren't good enough by a lot of black men. Smh, it used to hurt my feelings to hear stuff like this but Now I just wish they would go with their non black women (if that's what they "prefer") and leave us alone.
@Janae Ceaser
This kid has a right to "prefer" who he wants.
I just hope you younger black girls/women are waking up to this behavior.
You DO have other options.
TheShawnshell Not once did I say it was bad to have a preference but I notice right after they state their preference they go into detail about why they don't like black girls and it shifts from preference to disrespect real quick. He should have just said he likes white and Hispanic girls and left it at that. Black girls get enough of people telling us why they don't like us. He just needs to date outside his race and hush. No need for him to explain why he doesn't like us.
Janae Ceaser. Stay Woke and stop accepting the BS,
we cant afford to fall asleep with disrepect , vilification, vileness...because when you accept it you tell your daughters and every younger girl around you that it is ok. We Black women need to do some work on ourselves because too many are believing this shit.....WAKE UP!
Janae Ceaser
I know you didn't. Your comment was more to my liking for my response.
I need more of these younger black girls/women to stop responding with their feelings and start taking actions against this nonsense.
I definitely blame society. These rappers, NFL and NBA PRAISE foreign women .
J Vocals WHEN you come from a cultural background it's attractive to some men.
Chantele valerio we have PLENTY of culture ourselves, so what exactly are you saying again ? lol
J Vocals name one
J Vocals true. That plays a major role in why some blacks Refuse" to date black women.
that's foreign lands. he said he like foreign girls. he said African American girls he sees as his sis.
The Black girl was prettier than the big brother's date tho 💅
Yes!
avilik13 correct 👏
rightt
what part they showed her face? lol
vivi aquino you saw her face when the camera diverted back to her after Malik's disgusted face. Both girls were pretty to me but you sound mad lol.
Brazilian girls don't look like Mexicans, they can range from looking like Shakira, Lucy Liu, and to even Lupita Nyong'o.
Daniel Ragin Ironically Lupita is Latino lol.
Quinn She is Mexican born with two full black Kenyan parents.
S T.H That still makes her Latina....
S T.H If she was born in Mexico, she is a black Mexican. Her parents are Kenyan. It would be the same if she was born here in America.
Quinn No it makes her a black Mexican! If she had Hispanic heritage regardless of race she would be Latina.
I'm a (white) cashier, so I talk to all types of people. I casually talk to black men of all different sorts all the time, and more often than not, they tell me that they "want them a white girl". It's disgusting to hear. Not only are they objectifying white women as this "superior" object, they are just casting black women aside like trash. Don't they realize if everyone gets a white woman that there will be way less black men left? God. It's just ridiculous and racist.
Those types are mentally weak and low in character. I wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy (if I had one). I can't imagine anyone in their right mind who would willingly become involved with them.
Don't worry most of us don't want you.
1 or 2% of black men dating out won't cause everyone to be racially ambiguous.
=Just Me 99% of everyone worldwide date within their race, the black race will live on.
I guess you're gonna blame black women too for how bad your grammar is right? It is not all black women fault that your mother was unstable and she traumatized the hell out of you. not our fault. One thing is clear though. for the black men who openly bash black women, always seem to have had a problem in the past when it comes to their mother a lot of the time and then they go on attracting the same type of woman with their mothers energy because it is all they know unfortunately. Before you say black women ain't shit you need to find out why keep choosing black women who ain't shit. The problem is with yourself and you are projecting all your unresolved past on to other black women. If you are looking for the mother you never had, you will never find her. She is gone. You think you are gonna find that mommy love in a white woman you are wrong. Because when she starts demanding shit from you emotionally, how can you be there when you are emotionally fucked up. Nobody can fix it for you. You have to fix it for you. Now need to go heal bruh. I hope you can read this and it wasn't too long for ya.
I don't know what he's talking about but I'm black and I'm cute asf. Lolol
Jasmine lol.
I know that's right
Write your comment in CAPITALS
lol I just don't get it. Black women are literally some of the most beautiful women on the face of this planet. Truly.
Moto Myki when you don't embrace it it's hard for other's to. we as black women are labeled because of the type of black women that came before us. think about it.
this is what happens when black people buy into white supremacy.
i'm a white woman myself, love myself the way i am, wouldn't change a thing and i can say without a problem or jealousy, that i agree, the most beautiful women i have ever seen so far, have always been black women
Moto Myki facts!
I tell this to all my friends who are black women. I just think the facial features are more attractive (I'm gay, but I love black men, so lmao).
So humiliating! Smh..these same young black girls are their main supporters. How about
#blackwomenstopsupportingblackmen👌🏾
G GFleur don't get mad at all cuz this one person
Desmond Abrams .. smh.more disrespect huh? Thanks for proving my point!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
.#blackwomenstopsupportingblackmen
G GFleur I agree ! But it would make things worst at the same time .
Desmond Abrams lol you are useless. date who you want and keep that nasty comment to yourself. it's getting real old, we keep hearing black women are jealous etc. News Flash it's making as stronger and unite. 😂😂😂 it's so sad that you wasted all that time to write that. no one should respond to this guy with any negatives. we don't need him to validate our existence.
J Vocals I so agree with you. I will support black men. the good one and leave the self hating ones to their dooms. they should remember their daughters will be part black too. they can't erase that😂
Black women are beautiful! It's so annoying to see people call black women unattractive and stereotype them. May not mean much coming from a Latina, but black women deserve respect and love too.
xojanxo It actually does mean a lot.
xojanxo it means alot boo ...thank u
xojannxo ur white and ur Latina cz that ain’t a race
Black latinas exist but i know what you mean! thanks for your comment!
xojannxo well Latina ain’t a race so wtf cares
i ain't tripping about his preference, but I would hope he (and the production) would apologize to the young lady he disrespected on national tv by using her image to demonstrate what he doesn't find attractive. I am not that bish who wants to publicly be called unattractive to 50s and 100s of people.
J Carter These "preferences" are steeped in anti blackness point blank period.
Well said.
Now that it's gone VIRAL there are probably hundreds of thousands if not millions aware of it. They probably only did this self-inflicted racist-twist for PUBLICITY and to increase awareness or viewership of this little bootleg show. I hope it gets cancelled as a result of intelligent folk boycotting it. #DontsupportRickeySmileystvshow
He apologized and his dad apologized to the young lady and on the air to the fans. We have so much more to worry about in this country than what a young boy has to say. If any sista's worth is threatened by what a little boy says, then that person has a problem. That boy don't know any better.
What bothers me, is this generation of Blacks trying to lighten their skin like it's the 30's.
+cyndi williams sad aint it
"Black women are the most unprotected" Malcolm X mind you Malcolm was problack. #blackgirlsjumpthefence
Trice G-black women matter amen
Trice G-black women matter. .In the 21st century our own men have turned their backs on us..
N S Yeah that is fine and OK. Because we are beautiful strong and independent. And maybe we should appreciate our men more and teach them to be the same. And I'm only speaking on some of our black men not all. Because we still have strong black men that take care of their families and do what they have to do as men.Its just that somewhere black people have lost their way.
Trice G-black women matter What does jump the fence mean?
LUCRETIA TEPES
Thanks, I had to speak truth. Truth may not always sound positive, but black girls are just as important as black boys. Preference is preference and that's fine. Having class and being cordial do not cost you anything, especially unnecessary drama. I appreciate you getting that.
He said Brazilian is attractive well I'm Black AND Brazilian at the same damn time and so is half my country. American men need to do better
HEY STOB IT I was waiting on another Afro Latino.
LIL MEOWMEOW What does that mean Brazil has the highest African descendants outside Africa so they are black Brazilian period now your mix is what? Portuguese / European white Brazilian and African american or just straight TRU AFRO BRAZILIAN
Say that!!!!🙌🙌all the hispanics they druel over are usually BLACK latinos!❤👑
Yeah, like learning the cultural/ ethnic diversity of latin, south, and central America. Blacks are everywhere!
That profile pic tho 😍 yaaaassss lol
Black Women WE ARE BEAUTIFUL 👑
Catie Elizabeth yes we are!
Charmaine Grismore 😘 Most Definitely!!!
Catie Elizabeth yall are beautiful its plenty of black men thats attracted to black women any black man whos not attracted to his own is a fool
+Michael Brown as fuck
Catie Elizabeth black women are Georges
I don't understand why black guys feel this way towards us black girls. 😔💯
Mariah Smith What????? (lil Jon voice) 😂😂😂 where have you been?
Mariah Smith brainwashing girl. They were brainwashed.
cuz the elites control everything to keep us worshiping the slave masters
Temica Titty Sprinkles not all are like that tho, they blame a majority for a few. That's bad judgement.
I've never met a black man that wasn't a violent thug.
To say that only a few of them are like that is being politically correct.
People just say that to avoid hurting anyone's feelings even though it's true.
I'm sure you agree with this statement, right Temica Titty Sprinkles?
Being 15yrs old how many "bad" experiences have he had with women? Boy U still wet behind the ears!
ms crum1 15 years old is old enough to have had experiences. How is his relationship with his mother??
ms crum1 15 years old is old enough to have had experiences. How is his relationship with his mother??
ms crum1 exactly
ms crum1 right
I’m 15 and I agree you can’t have that many bad experiences
This dude doesn't represent all of us at ALL!!! I love black women and honestly I've never dated anything but.... and I can't for the life of me figure out how white girls do it better!? Black women this black man stands with you
Tre Sully, Thanks King.
Tre Sully
Tre Sully 😘
Tre Sully. all right brotha and we stand with RIGHTEOUS brothas like you....you cant buy loyalty.
Tre Sully Not even gonna lie, I cried when I read your comment. Thank you, brotha. Nothing but love to you.
So he was told to say that....but his explanation is at age 15 he has had a LOT of bad experiences with black women? 🤔🤔🤔 Something ain't right in the milk....
VivaLa GeeGee the milk been spoiled. that's why the cows are hardly being bought these days
VivaLa GeeGee I'd like to know how many bad experiences ..He had being only 15 ? That's crazy forreal ...
Shawna Thomas exactly
it was staged to get ratings
Hell.... I thought Ricky smiley was gay lol Never imagined he procreated 💁🏻💁🏻
Carmelwine I only know of Smiley from comic view way back in the day, I dont watch anything he does now...far to busy
He probably is gay, I thought the same thing.... he'll probably come out when he's dead
SRC 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You are not alone😳😳😳
Lol
I guess he doesn't find his mother attractive either. 🤔
Pharaoh Libra what you said made absolutely no sense to me either. Obviously we have two completely different point of views and commenting back and fourth with me would not solve anything.
lol the shade.
Right!
Bridget M thank you I can make a simple statement and they take my words and twist it. I am not sure if they twist my words to support their argument or they love internet drama. 😂
They probably just butt hurt. I made a valid point Pharaoh Libra just blocked me.
I feel sorry for the girl 🙁 They humiliated her on this show wow
Mesha Smith funny thing is she was really cute. I couldn't believe Ricky smiley awkward looking son had the audacity to say that.😞
Dawn Nicole I know right! he has no business turning down anyone.
"The most disrespected person in America is the black woman.
The most unprotected person in America is the black woman.
The most neglected person in America is the black woman."-Malcom X
So sad...but true. I must admit, it's hurtful 😞
The most disrespected in America are men. Women are too sensitive.
Decades later, this is still true... Black men openly disrespect us and society sees it and figure they don't have to either.
@@jasminejohnson2182 it's not true. Black women are not saints.
@@elicapers2446 maybe if yall treated us better we would be nicer now fuck off
Rickey definitely dropped the ball with his kids! of course the producers didn't make him say that.
Frugality Or....perhaps they did. Perhaps it is part of their agenda. No unity in the Black community. A Black show that subliminally teaches self-hatred.
Each time a Black man denigrates the Black woman:
* The gap between Black male & female (potential) relationships expands.
* Negative energy is created, amplified, and saturates the minds of those hearing/watching.
* They are encouraging division & endorsing self-hatred.
Black males like Smiley's son participate in the rhetoric and perpetuate the LIE that all Black Women are undesirable.
FOOLS! You see what happened to Stacey Dash. Oh, wait a minute. Stacey Dash has bleached her skin, so she is acceptable to them...and Black males like Smiley's son. So sad, so very sad.
Putting down Black Women will not make the Black Man more acceptable to White people, and it certainly does not make him White.
Frugality 🏈 He dropped the ball.
He is not cute in any way.
Nika Ford fr 💀💀
there are black men that do genuinely prefer black women. we need to give more attention to these men and not the lost souls that dismiss us for the very same features they possess.
Go,SheDot,Go! They are not lost because they don’t like black women
E M. No blackwomen are lost
@@coreyholloway9104 Imao I bet u Latina lol
@@lelarobinson2854 this how black kid open door for racist to insult there own people smh
@@majdijones587 ya majdi are you hear to praise white woman or to let white woman insult black women?
At this point I'm numb :/
Nevada Rose right? it's everywhere
Me too. Sure, it's annoying, but it happens so much that I genuinely expect stuff like this
I'm thankful for the guys that don't make my skin a big deal
Orange Blossom honestly, it's actually a surprise to see a black dude praise black women.
Me too.
here goes the most requested video of the day! i really wish folks would get themselves together and stop with the dumb shit. it's getting tiring! 🙄 ☕
lovelyti2002 hey girl
lovelyti2002 ti can you pls cover Paris Jackson coming out on Rolling Stones cover claiming she believes shes black? iwl to hear your opinion. ty ♡ much love
I remember the episode when his daughter went and got contacts but that was bc the girl she was with is her family and she has naturally different color eyes
Kathryn Dorsey idk why this made me laugh so hard! Caught me off guard I guess. 😂
Kiva Moore not Forrest
Black women are honestly the most beautiful. That's why people talk down on us all the time. #purejealousy #blackqueen
Every
I8thumper there’s a difference between “preference” and hatred.
I disagree. I think black women are often jealous of other races and are trying to compete with them while other races dont even perceive a competition. And quite frankly black women are the most masculine group of women even have higher testosterone counts in general. This might make them naturally less attractive in general. Sure you have your Gabrielle Unions and what not but many black women are physically and mentally masculine in a way that might be unappealing. In a way linked to their high testosterone.
That is not true at all.
You're 15 years old, how many "bad experiences " with black women could you have possibly had?? Chile bye!!
Yep lol
It starts as early as elementary school. At least it did with me. BW were already losing.
This... lmbo! He must be "mature" for his age!
Theblackspt.1 Are black men bitter beckys? Have some self-respect and get over baggage
MimiLocke she is being honest unlike the majority of you.
As a beautiful black female who couldn't care any less about what some little boy's dating preference is, I remain UNBOTHERED. I know my worth, it's sad how other women tend to get wrapped up in the "why they don't like me" nonsense. There's plenty of others out there who will LOVE you. It's like your feeding into their ego when you cry and ask why you, a black woman, is not their "type." Don't give them that satisfaction! Rise above and leave them in the dust. Maybe they'll start feeling like they're missing out on something. By then you'll already be so far ahead in your happy place.👈🏾 👏🏾
Forever Diamonds the boy is only 15 years old, I think he is just going through a phase. your taste in the opposite sex can change several different times as you grow older.
Anthony Johnson True. Another reason not to get all hot and bothered about something so trivial. Regardless of age, we always grow. And if we don't, well tuff s***.
Forever Diamonds amen best comment on here..
Forever Diamonds Smart young lady😊
Forever Diamonds. ONE RIGHTEOUS SISTA.....SPEAK ON IT!
This boy said he had a lot of bad situation with black girls and I'm like boy you're 15???????? how many have you dated ?2???? boy bye and shut up
I'm mad as hell he said "Mexicans like foreign girls" WE ARE NOT A FUCKING NOVELTY. Latin girls are not some fucking trophy, we are regular women just like any other. This is disrespectful on every level. He doesn't even care about the CULTURE, he just wants the title of dating a Latina. Nope.
Jazzmine Bustillo That's right. Know your worth!!!!!👏👏👏👏👏👏
Jazzmine Bustillo You better stay away from men like that. Any man who calls you exotic or special in a steer clear.
Jazzmine Bustillo Exactly I'm not latina but it's annoying as fuck when black man see you as a trophy. You're a woman who should be respected. I wouldn't fuck with guys like that.
Good for you!:Coming from a black grandma,You're a very intelligent beautiful young lady! Stay clear from those kind of people.
That's because it's a fetish to them smh
I'm sick of hearing this "preference, preference bullshit" ok. This has gone beyond preference, this is blatant prejudice! Saying what you "prefer" is just your politically correct way of discriminating on bw. Enough is enough! Having your preference doesn't come along with harassment and bullying.
DeepThink I respectfully disagree, some people just don't date or want to date black women.
This is a question I have posted on this page and "have yet" to receive an answer....2 weeks ago on this very page lovelyti2002 did a video on serena williams "supposed" wedding to a Satanic-White Supremacist low life. A lot {I would say most} black women INSANELY SUPPORTED her decision saying "it's just a preference"...and these same women were saying nasty things about black men. Question: do you support serena williams? I find it hard to understand how 1 week these black females are SUPPORTIVE of interracial dating and a week or two later they are "suddenly" against it. YOU...CANT...HAVE...IT...BOTH...WAYS. You are ~completely~ against it or ~completely~ for it.
DeepThink no it's preference. you can't force people to like something just because.
Balzac T. Bagher
No. People "prefer" beef or chicken. To actually make a distinction in favor of or against a person belonging to a group (in this case the entire world population of black women) is sheer prejudice and discriminatory behavior.
exactly. just because I have a preference for Asian men doesn't mean I won't date a black guy there are and have been some black guys that I know that I've been attracted to. I had a crush on a cool black guy in high school named Darius. he's my friend till this day lol
I'm sure he's not attracted to black women because he prefers black men 🤗
Shauna Rose 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Y'all are seriously bashing a 15 year old boy for having an immature opinion/preference. But if he would have said he only likes black women y'all would praise him for disregarding all other races. Leave people alone in decisions they make that doesn't affect anyone but themselves
Shauna Rose typical black woman shaming tactics call a person gay because they're not attracted to a black woman
LHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!
exactly
I didn't think this would hit me so hard that I'd actually cry. A guy I dated for like 3 years told me he regretted not sleeping with an Asian girl cuz he thought it would be better than being with a black girl. He quickly backtracked and said he didn't mean it like that but it hurt the hell out of me cuz I was head over heels in love with him. I'm not dealing with him anymore but that hurt me bad and made me honestly not want to date black men anymore cuz that's all I ever hear is how much better other women are
Sevhen Vay That guy sounds like he wasn't very bright. U are better off without him
Sevhen Vay @Don't worry. He was weak and a self hating person and doesn't deserve you. Sorry to hear u had to wait so long for the truth. A special guy will find "YOU". Don't let this negative experience stop you from finding luv. This happened to me as well and I had to find happiness within myself first thru spirituality , education, traveling, and other self interest. Good Luck to u and other women out there
Sevhen Vay @Don't worry. He was weak and a self hating person and doesn't deserve you. Sorry to hear u had to wait so long for the truth. A special guy will find "YOU". Don't let this negative experience stop you from finding luv. This happened to me as well and I had to find happiness within myself first thru spirituality , education, traveling, and other self interest. Good Luck to u and other women out there
Tricie R thank you, I'm trying to give someone a chance now but I still keep hearing that convo in my head
Stay positive and stay beautiful queen. Don't let that crown fall 💕
I feel like Malik said exactly how he feels about black women. I'm not buying that it was apart of the script and he HAD to say it bull.
I feel like Rickey Smiley is conscious for a check. if Rickey was really conscious his kids would be a reflection of that. His son wouldn't make disparaging remarks about black women on television whether we are his preference or not. His daughter wouldn't be getting colored contacts to appear more exotic, her natural brown eyes would be enough.
SERIOUSLY.....like why are bw still dating black men these days? #gowhereyoureappreciated #hopthefenseladies
PrincessLeah187 xx 💯
Lmfao! I saw you before in the comment section of christelyn karazin...Nah??I'm just saying😕 #Onlyblackmen #blacklove✊👊
DEMBELE Mahady hey to each it's own.
PrincessLeah187 xx we are not all that way so please don't give up on us!!!!!
Maroon Horizon huh??? who said anything about bm not being able to date white women, hell to be honest I rather they go to white and latina women and leave bw alone, and keep us out their fucking mouths,my end goal is I want bw to be happy and go where they're appreciated, and bm for the most part do NOT appreciate bw, why are you even commenting on my post? are u a biracial with a blk dad? are you feeling TRIGGERED right now. #girlbye
This is funny because looking at him he got no right to say what he said and i will leave it at that
KLG83 I hear u loud and clear. I'm trying hard not to go in because he's still a boy
KLG83 Right! He should have no preference the way he look... got the nerve to wanna be picky..😂😂
KLG83 Exactly! The kid may have developed a false sense of privilege through his family, but got a rude awakening since he's no looker himself. Now he's projecting those insecurities onto black girls. I say let him date all the non-black girls he desires, and let him be their problem.
yeah I have to say he wasn't too smart acting like he was Gods gift
KLG83 he's actually cute though.
i personal dont think blk women want him....lmao..... look at him...
noo im sorry i shouldn't of said that
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I wouldnt want hes crunchy lookin ass
Yall know it ain't nothing wrong with this child. Uglier guys them him end up with women.
#blackgirlsrock !
YoYo32071 Yes!!!
This makes me sad deep down inside because it makes me feel like I can't find a beautiful black man that will love me for the skin that is covering my flesh. It's also sad cause this is disrespecting their mothers who for several hours sat in pain just to give birth to you.
Yes it really horrible but one day you find a man who will love you for your beautiful brown skin and and your beautiful personality
Macey Londan stay positive and stay beautiful queen
Macey Londan Please don't limit yourself. Explore the world 'cause you'll never know what you may find.
WE'RE RIGHT HERE,don't get distracted by these little boys, the real black men who have integrity are out here.
Macey Londan. Honey find your beauty and all the brilliant things about yourself and you will see who is attracted to that. Don't lament, learn to celebrate that beautiful melanin filled skin, your curves, your beautiful hair, lips and nose....when you truly truly embrace your own African beauty you will beat off men from everywhere with a stick.
it begins with you not them.
I'm just over this whole thing. It seems like BM disrespecting BW is never gonna stop. At this point, it's just best to keep teaching black girls, especially the young ones, that they are beautiful and loved, regardless of what these self-hating black "men" or the media has to say. That's why shows like Black Girls Rock are so important. Some people think it's unnecessary & racist, but those same people are either racist themselves or they never speak up when it comes to BW being degraded... so their opinion is irrelevant lol. And as for this kid (forgot his name already lol)..... Look I'm 20 years old, so I'll be damned if I trip over what a 15 year old thinks, but I know they are black girls around his age who probably have a crush on him and who probably crushed when they saw this so yeah that's kinda fucked up
jackieangelify1 He did not disrespect BW. The boy has a preference. Get over it
Carlos Clayton It’s one thing to have a preference, it’s a WHOLE other thing to bash a person for them not meeting their preference.
She's Kinkz He did not bash. Plenty times people bash black men all the time we have to take it in stride. As soon ass some one says they arent into black women it's bashing.
Carlos Clayton True, but let’s be real black women Support black men way more than black men support us. Y’all get love from women of all races, where as black women get disrespected by a lot of people outside our race , Hell including our own. What he said and the way he treated her was horrible. Ain’t no justifying that.If you don’t like black women cool, just don’t be a dick about it.
She's Kinkz But black women support rappers, comedians etc. All the time. All those black men do is disrespect black women and they have no problem getting them.
The issue wasn't her features. It was her black skin.
Helen Short right he wasn't attracted to her because she was black.
Black Women are beyond amazing and deserve better than this bs
Ayana Peoples SAYS WHO THO..."OTHER BLACK WOMEN"?...NO EVERY BLACK WOMEN ISNT "AMAZING"..CMON BRUH..ITS A INDIVIDUAL EFFORT..NOT A GROUP ONE CUZ NOBODY LIVING IN A FANTASY WORLD THO..DONT LIE TO ME PLEASE!!!! FUCK KEEP IT GULLY, SHIT..CAN WE START TELLING THE TRUTH ABOUT SHIT INSTEAD OF BELIEVING OUR OWN LIES...FUCK!!!
ITS NEVER "ALL" OF ANYTHING...ALL BLACK MEN ARE NOT THE SAME AND ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT THE FUCKING SAME..💯SOME BLACK WOMEN ARE AMAZING SOME AINT SHIT....SAME FOR MEN💯
Tree House, first of all, I never said ALL. Secondly, I believe white women are amazing, Asian women are amazing, Latina women are amazing, etc. women have an amazing power you obviously don't understand even the ones that YOU don't feel like are shit! Everyone is entitled to their own opinion
Script? Wait isn't the show call Rickey Smiley for REAL??? ok.
Charlene Kongolo FINALLY! SOMEBODY caught that 👏👏👏
Script my ass. That apology statement didn't even make sence
I don't have time for Ricky's son. He doesn't like himself and that is why he doesn't like black women. Those type of black men needs to stop blaming black women for their insecurities. Also Black women are Foreign. Black women are the most exotic women than any other women. I find it funny that a black men can have a bad experience with a black women then give up on all black women. But would have several bad experiences with non-black women and date them over and over again. I'd never and will never have time for the bullshit.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
This is so true. Somebody had finally said it.
Raymond Wilkins Also many Latinas are also black. Latinos come in all colors, white, black, brown.
Eliza Miller
While that's true, that's besides the point. 👍
That pissed me off because Aranique Ernest is my cousin and she did not deserve what they did to her
Candie Robertson I'm sure this is very embarrassing for her. She is very beautiful I hope she isn't letting that boy's ignorance get her down
Candie Robertson .....You have a beautiful cousin and one day she will find a REAL man who will worship the ground she walks on. I'm so sorry she had to see this play out on tv, smh.
Your cousin is EXTREMELY gorgeous! Malik should've been happy to be in her presence. Tell her not to lose sleep and to go get a white guy.
Ascension 2000 if I was a guy I'd gladly date her
I am Somali woman and I never seen a Somali man says the same thing about their women and yes we are blacks.
No.
@@elicapers2446 "no" lmfao elaborate
Girl I'm so over it. No matter how much you try to defy stereotypes, no matter how well you keep yourself up, lose weight, go to school, have a great career, submit, no children, it doesn't really matter because your never good enough! You would think with everything these black men go through this day and age and seeing how much black women go to bat for them that they would try to do better. I stopped caring honestly! Do you, live your life, and stop limiting yourself! They say there are some good ones out there butttttt until they cross my path I'm okay! I'll be the single dog lady traveling and enjoying my life! 😂😂😂😂
AshleyMorgan Standing ovation! My friends call my crazy that I am a happy single! Say that again!
how can you not be attracted to black women? we are the most beautiful & VERSATILE race...
Nope.
You're doing too much. There is no most beautiful race. Beauty is subjective. The only females I like are black women and women mixed with black though.
Misz Bella Benzz Chill the fuck out.
KITTEN MAYZ neither race is more beautiful than the other just different.
Yes we are
clearly Rickey smiley is not that conscious........ he's children are an exhibit of that.
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. YOU ARE WORTHY. if a man/woman doesn't want you because of your skin color, or the color of your eyes(things you cannot control), they're not worth your time. You deserve better than a person who will put you down and make you feel bad about yourself for superficial reasons. You're absolutely beautiful and I love you. You is smart. You is kind. You is important. No matter what the color of your skin is or where you come from. Why does skin color even matter? Why can't we just date people for their characters and how good of a person they are to you and others?
Alexis Rose. RIGHT ON.....PREACH!
Beautiful what you said but let's take it further. Don't love ourselves in spite of, love ourselves because of our beautiful skintones of different beautiful hues, ebony, chocolate, mahogany, mocha, caramel, honey beige, olive, vanilla, eyes as well. The sway of our hips and texture hair to straight. Full lips and almond eyes. We are Queens of Queens . Lift your heads up for the beauty outside should come also from the inside as well. Don't be discouraged by pathetic immature, insecure excuses of souls. We are Phenomenal. Now, let's drink our tea ladies.
If you all follow Rickey Smiley's radio show, he talks down on Black females all of the time. He's made similar comments himself & now his son has been caught he will lay off of his comments but he definitely has! Look up his girlfriend's recent allegations about him.
Woman. Shut the hell up.
ikr
I don't have a problem with him having a preference BUT stop justifying it by degrading black women.
Courtnee Knight most definitely! Like if your comfortable with yourself then you don’t need to degrade other people
SILENCE!!!!
Exactly!
you can appreciate, love, date, and have a preference for other cultures WITHOUT putting down your own race, what about that is so hard to understand to these black men?
2017 is the year of blame it on production. #mariahnye #malik
J Carter 😂😂😂😂
J Carter 😂😂😂😂
ooh i get it he finds black men attractive.
Good one 😂😂😂💀
Glad you addressed the brother too Ti. he wasnt gonna get away with being slick.
you're welcome, i saw far to many people praising him, like he was some bootleg super hero, for "calling out his brother." he's full of crap just like the other kid, i saw through that entire b.s. scene, he gets no props from me.
Your response literally just made my morning 🙏🙌 Thanks Ti
Both girls were beautiful but the "basic black girl" is in fact fits a more acceptable standard of beauty than the racially ambiguous girl. So I feel you on not falling for the brother's bull shit.
Ty not
ALL black comedians are color struck. not surprised about his kids. rickey is conscious only when it relates to men. black feminism needs more of a platform. some of these brothers are down for a cause that is only relative to their own gender.
I'm so sick of black men down playing and disrespecting black women like would you say the same things to the black women who gave you life
ONCE UPON A VIDEO I think they would. Many of them do.
Most likely. Their beliefs are usually influenced by the relationships they have with their parents. Even if they date outside the race, their "reason" is very revealing.
mxlbabe it makes no sense that every black girl can remind of your sister or mother that's just a cheap cover up
ONCE UPON A VIDEO right! I've never heard this from someone who isn't black.
ONCE UPON A VIDEO I'm sick of black women like you trash talking black men u hypocrite
America is a very funny place.....move to Canada. we date everyone here
I always wanted to live in Canada
House.Targaryen I'm on the way, what's the best area to live in.. running
KyliesandTygas Baby exactly, people love to pretend that Canada is the promise land or something.Yall are just as bad.
House.Targaryen lmao 😂
This is a worldwide issue with black people tbh
#BLACK GIRLS ROCK 4EVA😘
I think people need to understand that young Black men are simply modeling the behavior of their elders (fathers, older brothers, uncles, etc.) and famous Black men young and old. As I am driving or just out in about, I am starting to notice young, school-age black boys ONLY dating, being with or "preferring" White or Latina females now. A lot of people don't realize how much the so-called "gender war" is having a negative psychological affect on our children. We are sending them the message that black is not beautiful (unless it is mixed with something) and that it is not good enough or worthy of being loved. The bashing is affecting both our boys AND girls and it is going to have lasting, negative consequences. The black woman bashing has gotten out of hand and is very irresponsible, and hurtful. Here we are folks 50 years after "integration," we are in a sad state of affairs.
Y'all say date who want to, but get pissed off when they date who they want to.
098lennox Wrong! Date who you want but don't disrespect the ones that you don't want! Simple! 👈🏽
K Mitchell He didn't disrespect them. All he said was he found them unattractive. No big deal. Move on and find someone who likes black women. Instead of saying black women rock, try believing it first.
Cruzan26 Yes he did! He has a history of tweeting derogatory stuff about black women, I find it funny that ppl will take so much time out talking about ppl they don't like. I don't find white guys attractive but I will never post videos, blogs or tweet about it. And YES! BLACK GIRLS DO ROCK!!!
K Mitchell Where are these tweets? If black girl rocks, why are they so insecure? Just don't say it, believe it. No way would I let a 15 year girl get under my skin.
and next season they gonna force and like (script) that boy to date a sista just to butter up
VernHayes Right!
It's just so sad that a lot of black men don't value us like we value them. Here we are, on the front lines advocating for not just us, but them as well, and this is what we get in return. This young man is completely misguided and I blame his father for that. He's a minor, so there is no way that the producers would make him say something so silly without the input of some parental guardian.
Also, the term foreign is so misused it is not even funny. If a girl was born and raised in the US, then HER ASS IS NOT FOREIGN. This is typical slave mentality that he was taught. I think it's completely fine to have a preference, but when you judge an entire race of people, the same group in which you come from, as a whole then that's where the problem lies. But hey, what can you do? He's not going to change his way of thinking. He's only saying sorry because his ass, as well as his daddy's is getting drug up and down social media.
True.
So true
scchin91 BW do not value themselves so why should we?
+Carlos Clayton no you don't value us and don't know anything about women so hush...cos u black men value themselves????....not lately...nop!
R l not many bw are worth being valued😩
I'm running out of tea☕😂😂
Lj Jones I need something😂😂
Meanwhile the woman who accused Emmett Till of flirting with her admitted that she lied today. He needs to read up on his history to connect the dots..
You 16 "having bad experiences with black women" is not a valid excuse. That's still that puppy love age.
@DEMETRIUS MOSLEY Yet...you are here and can't even write a proper sentence.
Ti I don't know if you're going to read this or not but I just wanted to let you know that when I was in high school I used to be so damn insecure about my skin colour and my features. A lot of black men would date every other race except black women because they did not find us attractive. I came across you're videos and I learned SO FUCKING much from you. I even had to check myself and be like "damn i fucking hypocrite" because you were always right about everything. I'm so happy that I am out high school because through your videos I really matured and I loved being black no matter what anybody fucking tells me. The sad part is that I will always love black men no matter how much they don't like us black females because I know that there are good black men out there who we love us no matter what. I will always respect a black men who respect their own race. But now these days, it getting harder and harder to find them (or at least from where I am from). All I want to say is thank you so much for everything. I respect you. Much Love
thank you for this, never realized i could make such san impact.
keep your head up & be blessed=)
Yes Ti really did educate my life. I'm glad that I found her on youtube!
Don't worry queen most black are with black women.
i love my black sista's starting with you ti ... cause ti you woo me.!
poor girl, I know this hurts but you are beautiful smh... black women need to stop supporting Ricky smiley and his self hating children.
Get over it. She is not a victim.
What's with the gender wars between black males and black females? Black people are already too divided.
Reluctant Zealot ask black men
Azrael6394 Exhibit A😂 everyone
Azrael6394 You have to look at the women you're dating. Not all black women the typical stereo type you're obviously attracting.
Ikr the comment section is full of women hating men ive yet to see a guy do what they are doing.
Wow! This is so disheartening. Black love is going to hell in a hand basket.
"I've had a lot of bad experiences with a lot of black women".... at 15. That makes no sense. He needs to stand by what he said and yes, Ti, how he acted. She was cute and seemed sweet. She was engaged and trying to have fun while he was acting an ass. So he actually gave HER a bad experience with a black man.
Totally agree. I think that it's a shame that in this day and age black children are being raised with this mentality and being made to think that it's okay.
Thank you so much for speaking on this topic Ti. I thought it was just me. I notice black men disrespect their own women so much but hold women that are closer to whiteness physically in a higher regard. Every time I say that people say it's not true, it's just preference, etc. thank you for discussing this girl. As a black woman who has been told I'm not dateable because I'm black, I really appreciate it.
Wow, it's difficult being a black person period but equally hard being a black woman. We not only receive negativity from other races but from our own community.
I firmly believe that any Black man or Black woman who places a tag of superiority on non-Black people was not raised to love himself or herself. You cannot love Black people if you are not raised at home to love Black people. Black men who are not raised with any knowledge about our history, our culture, OUR POWER, can never love Black women and will forever put them down. And the same for Black women who put down Black men; they were not raised at home by their parents to love Black people. I was raised by a woman who grew up in the Civil Rights era; my mother and grandmother daily faced discrimination, racial prejudice, and belittlement. I love myself, my people, and my culture. I blame the parents of any Black person who kept them from the same experience for failing our ancestors.
Jalon M. Gordon Yes Jalon. I agree and thank God for you and your family. 😘
Jalon M. Gordon I don’t care about anything that happened to black in the past but I still love my race so your argument is invalid
Majdi jones You don’t care about the history of your own people? A lot of what happens today is a direct reflection of the past, so you really ought to consider educating yourself. Shameful.
@@majdijones587 when bullshit you wrote proves the point of the original comment y'all mofos be yellow school bus S-L-O-W
see i date all races and I'm not gonna knock down my race because I have preferences and I don't like it when other dudes knock down their race to talk to me... honestly I don't care what their race or nationality is but you will not catch me bringing down black men that's a nono
I find it hilarious that the young man found black women unattractive when he's....um....well,...."aesthetically challenged" himself.
As a strong and very assertive white woman I LOVE ME SOME BLACK WOMEN! I just do NOT UNDERSTAND!
such a strange phenomenon. all I see is gorgeous black women everyday..
I seriously think this is a black AMERICAN thing... black Africans and black carribeans don't have this issue so much...
or maybe it's a generational thing?
because growing up it was all about 'hottest black couples' etc...
we looked up to black Americans back then...
BB McKinlay I do agree with it maybe being a black American thing. Black people in other countries don't have this as a problem.
BB McKinlay that's also what i notice. This is an American thing
Yes it's an american thing. I've never heard of this type of mentality in my life until I discovered it on the internet. You don't see African/South American/Caribbean bashing black women like that.
when you think about it,it's an American thing because African Americans are the largest african group that share the most proximity with white people or in a predominantly white nation,so the diseased mentality from white people attached to them much faster.Black Caribbean people and africans usually live in predominantly black areas so we don't check for white people like that.
BB McKinlay all I see is fine black women..everyday! I don't get it
If anyone can't see the inherent beauty of black women than they really have life fucked up. Our women come in a variety of shapes, personality and hues. My momma is black, my sisters are black and god willing, the mother of my future children will be black. For every self-hating boy that doesn't see the potential in a good black women there are at least 9 good men who are waiting for the one to compliment their grind. Real talk.
Hasani Burton www thanks! 💋
Hey, have to speak Truth to our queens. 😉
Be an adult and not know that people have preferences bruh.
098lennox ?
Ok family stop watching the show he don't like us we won't support his show simple
Some guys are too weak to date and love a Black woman, and some Black people are too weak to embrace and love their Black selves which is why they feel the need to bleach their skin, wear long ass weaves and put in light colored contacts. Sad, but I LOVE MY BLACK PEOPLE WHOLEHEARTEDLY AND UNCONDITIONALLY!! ❤️️✊🏾❤️️
My father definitely hates black women. Only dates white, Asian, Latino and other women. My mother is Hawaiian so she has a lighter complexion but I have a milk chocolate tone but he would say I was a lighted skin girl. I'm not at all. It was very weird.
Tiana Hosford You're light-skin
Tiana Hosford what was the purpose for your comment
I thought it would be clear. The purpose was to be apart of the conversation and speak to my personal experience of a black man not liking black women. If you have a problem with it, you can move along.
Tiana Hosford lol I was just asking what was the purpose of you're comment because I didn't see the meaning in your comments but now that you explained it I understand how ever don't try to be tough on the comment section of RUclips. you have no reason to be defensive and maybe you shouldn't leave a comment if you can't handle a question the way your father can't handle black women
Self hatred it's a sad case. Most Black people think by dating non Blacks that their level of self esteem would change them but it only makes them worst. Physically they made feel good but internally they are tormented by the thought that they are Black. Your father is dealing with his own insecurities he believed if he dated or even have kids by non Black women it would ease his self hating dilemma but it only made it worst. I'm sorry you have a self hating Black man as your father.
I love my black women, and I hurt so much that they are being so disrespected and hated on by black men. I mean it's bad enough they are not respected by other races and less marketable in the eyes of managers, producers, and many other demographics in our country but this black self destruction by our own people reminds me of when Africans sold their own people to the Europeans as slaves. That's an extreme analogy but this is an extreme crisis we as blacks are facing in 2018. I'm fucked up with this. Black women I love you and that girl was beautiful and he was lucky to have her in his presence. I'm out. Peace and love.
he 15 yr old what he know about black woman omg
right!! Smdh!😯😕
Dear black women, you girls are attractive. With or without that make up. Don't let him make you feel low.
at first I was like"well what's wrong with this boy having a preference?" then I watch the whole video...yikes
THANK YOU, i'm glad you actually WATCHED the entire video instead of screaming "THAT'S HIS PREFERENCE STFU" smh some people will defend a anything blindly, i guess his disgusting tweets are apart of his "preference" as well.
Yeah. I knew there was more to the story. Love your videos!!!
but he's not cute himself! boy bye
I think black women are very attractive what the hell? GOD made us all beautiful and unique hunnie. we would be some pretty boring if we all looked or even acted the same :/
When you didn't get the notification but your spirit told you a video was up
p.s. Ricky's son meant to say he doesn't like girls period😂😂
My suggestion is before you call some unattractive MAKE SURE you are attractive... ijs
Can someone explain to me what's wrong with Black Women? Like seriously.
We're black. If we were Asian or white we would be perfect.
Nothing black women is beautiful😍😍
I keep trying to tell black women that black men ain't here for us. This happens way too often. Y'all gotta be hella cautious with these men. IJS. Also that's how a lot of conscious folks feel about black women. I've been done with that community. I sure hope that his son don't end being like Reggie Bush lol.