There's this thing that helped me with the guilt of what I had to do to keep myself for ever being sober which was someone saying, on youtube, i don't remember who: you are the best you can ever be in the moment. In the future, you might know better because you know more, because of what happened in the past. either way, you are always growing, hopefully. so tomorrow will always feel less better than what you are today in some way, however, you were the best you could be given that situation, given your body, past trauma, current, upbringing, financial state, mental state and belief system. Someone who had the same experience would've done the exact same thing. You are not a perfect being, meant to never do mistakes but to learn from the past so the past is not good. It shouldn't be, or else you didn't grow. However, if you never let the past be the past then that's where it gets dark. Also, the whole: i still miss some of the effects and things I did..that's a need that can't be fulfilled by the present. I love to escape reality. That's my addiction. i use shows now, even exercise, writing expescially, I am trying to use it in healthy ways but I'd still rather escape reality than do anything else. Still. It's just...not going to kill me as fast or get me locked up. Yay? Thanks for the vid, Alizee, you're great. As always.
@@deadliftsfordays5364 as an Italian & Mediterranean, as well as slavic & Russian, idfk what the hell gabbermouth Hanna is and I honestly couldn't give less of a shit but WE DO NOT CLAIM HER THANK U!!!! 😅🥴
@@SatanicKale I smoked a joint is completely fine. “Smoking a J” makes it feel like you’re trying to be ~ cool ~ and ~ different ~. I don’t say her edgy bullshit but if I did it would be more like “yeah I smoked a couple cones…” and then whatever the fuck she said and MOVE ON. Literally just wanted to be special because now it’s not super illegal in the US like it is in most countries, so making it a cool different slang for it. It’s just weird lmao.
If by “processing trauma” she means “obsessively catalogue her victim complex in a narrative entirely of her own invention” then sure. She’s processing her trauma.
I was hanging out at my mum’s house after family dinner when I watched a clip of Gabbie laughing. My mum asked why I was crying and I tried to explain that noise was Gabbie Hanna laughing.
I find the whole idea that Gabbie found this more therapeutic than actual therapy interesting. What immediately came to mind is that it probably feels a lot better to be able to vent and defend yourself to a camera convincing yourself that you were right and a victim than to have to go to a therapist. Especially if you went into therapy with the thought that the therapist would just validate everything she felt or said instead of telling somethings she probably didn't want to hear. Therapy can be really hard and sometimes you have to confront things about yourself you don't want to. I've had a councilor tell me a couple times that it's ok to be angry at him. So yeah I imagine ranting to a camera would feel a lot more cathartic and easy.
The echo chamber of her fanbase doesn’t hold her as accountable as a good therapist would. And it’s easier to decry detractors as “haters” and “abusers” than it is to dismiss a clinician’s examination of her behavior.
I have a friend that is on the narcissistic spectrum, on the lower end, but she has been in therapy for years now and I just realised that she really has a rough time getting out of this victim mentality, even when she realises she has been the one that fucked up, she will then keep digging to figure out what shaped her personality this way and then she has someone to blame so she's the victim again. She wants to change because it's driving people away and it sucks, but at the same time, she says she doens't know how to change, it's literally just that you have to stop blaming other people and admitting to yourself that you are at fault and improve your behaviour, but she just always jumps onto the road of wondering why she is to blame and that it's her mental health or her therapist or her mom or dad or a friend, that she is acting the way she does. I also came to realise that her therapist is always tryig to push her into a direction, but she really insists on having the type of conversation that will let her vent and blame it on some of her favourite traumas. It's really interesting, I feel like Gabbie has been the same, she kinda manipulated her therapist to the point where he stopped trying to push her for change, it's free money and the person he's talking to isn't exactly boring. All that therapy for my friend, serves at this point is to say that she's at least working on herself because she's doing therapy, when she compares herself to others and shift blame even more.
@@bethanythatsme I'm sorry you and the neurodivergent community have to deal with GH thinking she's the poster child and spokesperson for you. Most people are aware of her using it as an excuse rather than actually trying to educate anyone or take responsibility for bad behavior without having to fall back on it. Everyone shouldn't be lumped together or judged the same way based on one person's actions, and I think most neurotypical people are aware of that given how many people with ADHD have spoken up against her or just knowing someone with ADHD personally. Don't let her behavior deter you from moving forward, staying healthy and speaking up about your own struggles when you feel misunderstood or unjustified and have the capacity to actually educate someone.
More than half the people she shat on in her series are women/female presenting lol In fact, most of the people she's _ever_ shat on have been women. Hell, she chose a man over a female rape victim for who knows what reason. I'm so done with her fake feminism, she's very clearly got some kind of bias.
Masochists derive pleasure from their suffering. I can't imagine this being the case lol This is just torture for the sake of torture. The Markiplier syndrome
“I can be mean but I’m not malicious.” and the countless videos of her intentionally attacking people over the smallest slights, liking a tweet or saying she’s not their type, and all the awful behavior toward Rachel and Jessi really exist in the same universe.
"Leave women alone" is a good message against the media scrutiny and bullying of female celebrities who have done nothing but exist. It however is not that same as "never criticise me because I'm a woman and therefore can only be a victim", which is of course what Gabbie is saying
It’s like when Nikita Dragun gets criticism and then says it’s because she’s trans. Lol like, yeah, trans people deal with a lot but we’re not criticizing you because you’re trans.
Absolutely! She came out with a series talking about her ex friends! And attacking a Survivor! Yes girl you are a High School Bully in every since of the word!!
"I don't want to quit RUclips, it would give the people who hate me satisfaction!" It would be relief, Gabby. It would be a relief to not hear you spiraling every fucking month.
I'm autistic and have gone through the whole process of my world readjusting. You're not a bad person because they fidget, are unfocused, or misunderstand others. You're not a bad person because you take longer to arrive at a decision and can't help freaking out when people keep pressuring you for an immediate actionable response. These are things that many neurodivergent people deal with because they're different. We have felt deficient, like bad people, lazy, crappy, because we couldn't keep up with others' demands. Yes, emotional regulation can be a big issue. But your neurodivergence does not mean that you are free to go with every urge or feeling you have and not receive the consequences. It's not a pass to be an awful person and never apologize because you think differently. I won't apologize for stimming (usually, at least) because I'm meeting my sensory regulation needs and its not causing any harm to you, other than embarrassment if you're super into your social image or something. Very different.
"I thought Tana Mongoose was the best at making everything about herself. But maybe there's just something in the water in LA?" Truer words have never been spoken
She deliberately conflates genuine criticism with misogynistic bullying. Most women in the public eye receive both and it is important to be able to tell the two apart
Your point about her ADHD is SOOOOO accurate. As someone w multiple mental health diagnosis, I understand how great it can be to finally feel to get diagnosed. However, I think GH is using it more so as a token, or a Girl Scout badge saying “hey look what I got! I free excuse to be a bitch.”
And she did exactly that in her Escape the Night video -- she used ADHD and her eating disorder to excuse calling production assistants "c*nts" for informing her about a change in call time
I’m currently getting testing for adult ADHD and now I’m worried I sound as nuts as GH 😅😅 I will say I’ve suffered from bad mental health since I was a kid, abuse, disordered eating, trauma and I never found a reason to call someone a “c**t”.
Same it's so frusterating. Like I've got ADHD, PTSD, anxiety disorder like yeah I got my bad days everybody does but like I don't do shitty things and then say I've got this stuff so don't blame me. Like, it's not that hard to be decent.
Open letter to gabbie: when I was in high school I was stalked by one of my classmates. He always knew where I was, he made multiple Facebook accounts to harass me, he threatened to end his own life if I didn’t respond. He even threatened to hurt or kill me. He isolated me from everyone and when I finally got up the courage and confronted him about it, he said he couldn’t help it because of his autism. I never told him that I have autism too. I have autism and I never threatened violence, never stalked, never manipulated him. Now would be a good time to sit down with yourself and think about why this story might be relevant to you. Neurodivergence never excuses mean behaviour.
the beauty of her insisting that she's not ableist and then within the same minute using "sociopath" as an insult...i want to study her brain it's fascinating
also just the general behavior of trying to deflect responsibility over one's actions with your neurodivergency and mental health issues.. like that itself feels extremely infantilizing and ableist to me. i should be held accountable just like any other person because i'm a grown adult capable of self introspection and change ? regardless of whatever brain shit i got going on lol
sorry i'm months late to the party but using sociopath as an insult really makes me want to scream i just spent like ten minutes correcting somebody in my english class and telling them sociopathy, as a word, literally doesn't exist anymore in the DSM -5 and also even if it did it's somebody being diagnosed with a legitimate disorder that doesn't stop them from existing or make them an evil charicature
@@sawyer9969 the thing is im absolutely guilty of like. using it in casual conversation without thinking about it, and that's something i need to work on. But unlike gabby hanna i'm not a public figure whose entire brand has become explaining why im not responsible for my actions ever lmao
like it's absolutely a hing that people do without thinking about the implications. but the fact that shes self-entered enough to present herself as some kind of authority on mental health and she doesn't know that? unprecedented levels of lacking self-awareness, truly innovative
As someones who’s also “smoked a j and processed trauma”, it says a lot about her that this series ended up being a mean, vindictive, self-victimizing tirade against everyone who’s ever disliked her. I’ve gotten high with my best friend and opened up about my SA for the first time, cried my eyes out saying how much I loved them, and created really intimate, special memories that I’ll never forget. It’s one thing to heal from abuse, depression, grief, and trauma with the help of the Good Kush, but it’s another when your “abuse” and “trauma” consists of receiving criticism about your book, ricegum breaking your phone, and several women begging you to leave them alone. I know she’s been through some tough shit in the past and she has ADHD but so do I and so do hundreds of thousands of other people! Life sucks, but most of us don’t use that shittiness as an excuse to hurt others.
I used to be a huge fan. I was on her side. But she has really done a full flip. What happened to her with the ricegum situation wasn’t okay. But everything else is her fault. Trauma is a reason, not an excuse. ADHD is a reason not an excuse. My elementary students take more responsibility for their behavior than she does. Her music wasn’t terrible. I wish she’d focus on that instead of weaponizing trauma and deflecting. She needs to stop.
@Pord Lartsa like maybe if this series took the form of being songs she’s written (about each drama issue) and briefly explained it, that might’ve had a better reception and would’ve been unique. This is just…..not it
@Pord Lartsa also she ruined it by being the most awful person to work with, to the extent that the director of one of her music videos said they'd never work with her again. She killed her whole career just by being horrible.
When I learned Gabbie Hanna has a degree in *psychology and communications,* the irony almost did me in (well, that and the idea of anyone's mental health _ever_ being in Gabbie Hanna's hands.)
ya actually, why is she doing a adhd questionaire? I did that to get my diagnosis, she said she's already been formally diagnosed? What's the questionaire for?
@@zakai-kaz I personally actually quite relate to her type of adhd, it's similar to the way I acted at 21 up to 23 and then I got diagnosed. This is to say, I haven't gone to the extend of defending a rapist or stuff like that, but my behaviour caused me to lose enough people to seek help and crave change from that pattern. She says she had been in therapy for years. The first thing I learned was to forgive and to apologise. And I learned to pull away from certain situations to gain perspective. What were all these years of therapy for when she didn't learn these social skills which we didn't naturally learn because our minds couldn't pick up on that? Therapy isn't just to feel better about yourself, it's tough because you confront your demons with a guide/therapist. This isn't purely adhd, maybe she has been misdiagnosed.
I relapsed this year, and I’m absolutely sobbing listening to Alizee talk about her addiction right now. I’m not partaking in sus or criminal or any heinous behaviour. My use has mostly been solo, coping in a bad way by myself and hiding it from literally everyone. But because of the relapse I can’t stop blaming my younger self for getting me here, when she didn’t know better :( and now that I do instead of owning that, I’m dwelling on what got me here. This shit hurts but it’s needed. I doubt she will read this, but thank you Alizee.
I’m in recovery as well. And relapses suck BUT they can be super helpful in learning about your triggers. Recovery is literally one of the hardest things anyone can ever do, try to not be so hard on yourself (believe me, easier said than done, I know). Relapsing doesn’t necessarily mean failure. if you use this relapse as a learning experience, it can be really helpful to you in the long run. It’s said we get ready to relapse well before we actually use and it’s true. So make sure to look back and see what led up to your relapse, I know how it feels to think we failed, just wanted to tell you that it’s ok. Don’t beat yourself up for things you can’t change, don’t beat yourself up for things you did in the past or when you were using. We can’t go back in time (although it would be awesome). Everything you went through turned you into the person you are today and you’re probably amazing 🖤🖤 sending you all my good vibes!
hope ur doing welllll 💚 like the other comment says try not to be so hard on urself! i’m 4.5 years into my recovery and it hasn’t been easy by any means, but hey, i’m still here. i agree with trying to narrow down on what ur triggers are if ur able to! being as self aware as i can has helped me personally, rlly trying to know and understand myself; why i do things/why certain things make me feel a certain way, etc. also idk how to say this but try not to put ur sobriety on such a high pedestal; what i mean by that is, yes of course relapse is not what anyone wants but addiction is a disease that unfortunately it around for life pretty much. just like in all aspects of life, there will be ups and there will be downs. don’t get to hard on urself when ur experiencing a down moment bc right around the corner is an up moment waiting to happen. i would recommend maybe getting a solid support system around? a few solid people u rlly trust that understand ur on this journey, so when ur feeling stressed/triggered, u can go to them and vent and be distracted. it’s so cheesy but like taking it day by day has rlly helped me the most. not trying to be like “omg well what if in a week or month or whatever i relapse or something crazy stressful happens like how will i deal???”, but trying to be in the moment and focus on the 24 hours in the given day lol, now my anxiety tho she rlly messes this flow up for me, but it’s fine i’m fine lmao. hope ur journey goes well ma’am 💚 u can do this 😊
@@skillzzzzzzzzz agreed 100%! I def struggled with relapses. I’m on methadone so it still took my little addicted brain awhile to figure out that “hey, you can’t do other drugs”. I would feel super guilty and feel like a failure every time I relapsed but looking back, they all taught me something I needed to know
I get such a little seratonin shot every time you talk about your sobriety. I still get the existential cringe when I think about what I let myself do before I got sober and it's kind of warming to hear someone else talk about it.
same! i had been doing wayyy too much coke for a while and it's nice to hear her talk about her issues with it - it highlights that what i was doing would be seen as a problem by non-users, which has helped me remember why i'm not doing it these days. it sounds bad, but reminding myself that people would seriously be worried about the amount i was doing, plus the return of my beautiful phat ass after losing weight bc i ate so little when i was peak using, has kept me clean for a while :)
@@kailasmith7414 key word, 'was'. Don't let your past keep you from growing as a person. Instead of cringing at your past actions, let yourself feel pride that you have come so far. You are wonderful 💛
She has like a contract with the universe that pulls out every time she is called out and says to everyone that she can't legally be anything else other than a victim.
@@jenniferm7695 I’m rewatching this video just to find it. I tried to time skip and couldn’t remember what it was even related to so now I gotta suffer Gabbie but there’s also Alizee so 😭
The dog I'm looking after this eve was quite content with her toy until she heard Gabi screaming "Leave women alone!!!!" She looked at the screen, looked at me, then walked out the room. Even the dog ain't got time for that shit. (we're with you on this Alizee, down with the message, but not the messenger)
Anytime one of my animals hears Gabbie's voice, they get immediately stressed and walk away. Whenever there is a clip of her yelling in a video I turn it all the way down for their sake. Anything else I watch is usually good with them but Gabbie's voice really gets under their skin
The way she sits there and rocks back and forth yammering on about how she's suddenly neuro divergent while pasting ADHD and mental health facts on the screen just fucking kills me lol
it really actually upsets me the way gabbie talks about her mar*j**na use because i feel like i recognize the feeling she's talking about where you feel like you're getting something off your chest that's usually more painful to express, and that really is a very nice feeling. but for her to genuinely believe that those feelings mean that she's seeing reality exactly as it is--IS A SCARY THING. this doesn't feel--TO ME--like someone who has just released a lot of old and hard to process emotions/feelings and is moving on from them. it feels like someone who was able to use mar*j**na as a method by which to convince themselves of delusions that make reality easier to cope with. and that's not a replacement for therapy--BY ANY STRETCH. but what do i know.
I agree, and I feel like it can be a bit of an unpopular opinion these days. And I don’t think the use in general is bad, but it can most definitely be a crutch for people who have experienced trauma to escape and cope (which is not preferable to actually engaging in therapy). GH has even said before that she has tried to lessen her usage and she is right back to using a lot a short time later.
Oh but don’t you know she was just “masking” until now??!!?? 😭😭✋🏽Gabbie can miss me with that BS. I know a lot of people do mask, but we have YEARS of content from Gabbie and for some reason she’s just now “self soothing”. Sorry. I don’t buy it.
@@SatanicKale no just Gabbie and any people who use it as a shield to excuse behaviour without doing any of the work associated with having mental health struggles and how it affects behaviour 💖
I find it so hilariously ironic how gabbie mentions the people that interacted with her or defended her got were called "evil" or were "berated, harassed, doxxed, and their families were harrassed" even though gabbie did ALL of these things to others and PURPOSEFULLY sent her fans to do it because they "interacted with her" the only difference is nine times out of ten they were calling her out on her bs and not defending her not to mention most of the people she doxxed were minors
Alizee your "spicy hot take" during the Trisha segment is SPOT ON. The way GH throws the term "narcissistic abusers" on everyone, you'd think she would be sympathetic to them for having NPD, just like she's expecting everyone to excuse her shitty behaviors because of her ADHD.
not the same thing. NPD is when somebody gets diagnosed and narcissism is when they haven't been diagnosed as ofc those people are thriving in our world bc of their traits or lack there of. Narcissism is not a disorder as it again, isn't diagnosed and when it is, it is labelled NPD. So using the word narcissism outside of the realm of formal diagnoses is correct and again, these people like hurting others and don't care about them, so there is no reason to give empathy or respect to them. Watch dr Ramani to understand it as she is the leading expert on this in the us. She also mentioned how you can't diagnose somebody for being a jerk, which is basically what narcissists are. Unless they themselves want to improve and recognize their problems and be diagnosed with NPD, they are just that. Jerks and nothing more. In summary, a narcissist is somebody without a diagnosis, while somebody with NPD is diagnosed. Saying they are the same is actually disrespectful towards people with NPD, who are actually trying to work on themselves. We should not have sympathy for narcissists, we should guard ourselves from them. Also, gabbie ofc isn't right in the situation, but it is very likely that the people she mentioned are narcissists, but she is also one, so yeah
@@Laura-vs6fs GH was literally listing signs and examples of narcissistic abuse (i.e. abuse committed by people with NPD) and juxtaposing it to the "abuse" that Rachel Oates, Jessi Smiles, et al have allegedly done to her. Gabbie is the one doing the misdiagnosing other RUclipsrs. That's why I was pointing out that if she thinks all these people are narcissists, why wouldn't she be sympathetic to their mental illness.
@@perryrhinitis She apparently doesn’t think borderline is a mental illness so my guess is she has the same opinion on all personality disorders. Sucks that I’ve apparently been misdiagnosed for 15 years but thank god GH came and let me know my doctors didn’t know what they were talking about.
Her fake rocking back and forth when she's talking about her supposed ADHD makes me roll my eyes. It magically goes away when she gets mad and focused on a topic that she's pisses about and yet rocking is typically something that would intensify when mad
The 5 people in my fam are all neurodivergent. When we say or do something mean to someone, we say you’re just not getting the way I communicate. Oh wait! No, we apologize like decent human beings.
How on earth can she sit there explaining that harassing someone online is bullying without it computing in her mind of mystery that she's been guilty of doing just that to several people for years. HOW GODS HOW DOES THIS MAKE ANY SENSE
Her victim mentality is honestly so amusing. As someone who has definitely been that toxic person who chose to act like a special snowflake who the world was constantly working against and learned to grow out of it after plenty of self-analysing and understanding where my behaviour stems from, it's mindblowing to see people like Gabbie who never really seem to learn.
I hate how she talks about ADHD. I hate it. It’s not that she’s lying about what the symptoms are, it’s that she takes absolutely zero responsibility for how she treats anybody else. I’m autistic so sometimes I accidentally say things that hurt other people- once I realise, I sincerely apologise for saying something hurtful. Because I’m not a dickhead. P.S wait have you not been diagnosed as ADHD? I have ADHD too and assumed you did
Any artists here constantly have to remind people that you are an artist? I feel like it's like a smart person describing themselves as an intellectual or something.
Nope. People at school know me as an artist, probably mostly because drawing is a stim for me and I do it whenever there's paper in front of me, on top of my participation in artistic classes. I don't have to remind people lol
@@olhydra I don't like her shouting either, it's just not needed, uncomfortable & forced. Ironically a lot of neurodivergent people don't like sudden loud noises.
ADHD is not a personality disorder. A symptom of neurodivergence is emotion dysregulation but how we manage it is all us. The constant targeted harassment and abuse of women less powerful than her? That’s just her being a terrible, jealous, insecure, malignant person.
A different angle from someone with ADHD without doing that toxic "I have ADHD and I don't do this so it's not real and-" Gabbie knows she has ADHD. She also admits fully that she knows it impacts her life so negatively that she's lost friends over it and yet she's only gotten worse over the years. Her symptoms are very clearly untreated. Gabbie Hanna has all the time, money, support and services available to her to get real help that will *prevent* her ADHD from impacting her life so negatively and instead of seeking that help she instead just brushes off her actions as if they can't be controlled. She is the worst advocate for mental health not because she's a bitch, which she is, but because she's clearly advocating for excuse over explanation. Mental illness is the responsibility of the ill person, no matter how unfair that is it's life and we're responsible for our own wellbeing. She has opportunities most won't see a fraction of in her life. She can make all the excuses she wants but they're as empty as her poetry books.
Thank you for this!!! "She's clearly advocating for excuse over explanation" absolutely struck a chord with me. If I did something bad, I could *explain* why I did it but that wouldn't necessarily *excuse* what I did.
@@gregisalways Lately I've noticed that a lot of people stop completely at "explanation," but there's an entire bit after that. "This is the explanation for why this is happening and this is what I'm doing to correct this behavior. Though it won't change right away I am trying and I'm sorry for what I did."
How does eating ihop waffles with Shane lead to Gabbie sitting, swaying back and forth, miserably talking to herself in her million dollar mansion… idk but we’re here
😫 The way she maniacally laughs to herself while alone is enough to send chills up my spine. All kidding aside, she would play a great psychologically unraveling character in a movie. Mad Joker vibes.
Even just the fact that she spends the entire video talking about the small stuff that triggers and annoys her and how people should be mindful of that, but then fills every video with that awful scratchy intro, mouth sounds while eating, the sped up high-pitched voice, the teeth brushing and toothpaste spitting... No self awareness.
@@wilmagregg3131 I totally agree. But she seems genuinely clueless imo. She’s forfeiting all this information that’s making her look worse but she really believes that it’s a valid defense for herself. She hasn’t looked at any of these screenshots and “receipts” and thought “damn this could actually make me look worse”. Manipulative or not there’s a level of self awareness missing that’s alarming.
As someone who was also diagnosed with adhd as an adult, her use of it as an excuse for being vicious, mean, and “difficult” is infuriating. Do a lot of us have rejection sensitivity? Sure. Does sensory overload cause irritability? Yes. Are people with adhd more likely to interrupt or have trouble with social interactions? Yup. Does it make you an unfiltered asshole with no regard for other people’s feelings? No. Sorry, Gabs. That’s not in the DSM.
dude. "manic pixie dream girl," that's exactly it. I'm trying to figure out why these other youtube dudes are defending her so hard and I think these are the guys who think they're the "nice guys" to her quirky weird girl. that definitely explains Jimbo Snow
Jimmy has stated today hes done supporting her on a community post. He isnt gonna post a tea video but he did say hes done enabling her. Honestly good for him for the personal growth.
If it weren't for the big Alizeeyeezy echoing the same grievances and frustrations with the clips that I had I couldn't watch more than a minute of Gabbie Hannah's series You are doing God's work
I really appreciatie you opening up about things you struggle with regarding your addiction. My boyfriend is in recovery and it really helps me to hear your your perspective because he's still struggling to open up about a lot of his feelings and emotions. So thank you!
what’s even worse about the escape the night situation is that foods that fit gabbie’s dietary needs were available but she refused to eat it bc it wasn’t exactly what she wanted
Omg now I desperately want Gabbie on I'm A Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here to see her suffer cleaning the dunny, getting voted for all those early trials and yelling about how everyone are bullies thanks Alizee Then again I don't think even those celebs don't deserve that kind of suffering...
“Just ask her out already” it’s so apparent that she loves to hate Angelica when all she does is call out what Gabbie is doing as does everyone else but she can’t keep Angelika’s name out of her damn mouth 😂
Jeeeez I never saw the documentary so I didn't know how pushy Gabbie is with all this ADHD stuff. I hate it how she rocks back and forth (around 16:00) when she speaks about being VERY neurodivergent. I have ADHD and autism diagnosed and I am inclined to say I have never seen anything that pretentious 🙄
The VERY neurodivergent made me laugh- what makes you very neurodivergent?? Am I very neurodivergent because I I’m dyslexic and dyspraxic like it’s not a competition Gabbie
I'm always stimming like that and I can't tell if she's faking it for that segment or not, but she's definitely trying to hide behind her ADHD to avoid responsibility for anything. I have ADHD- I still do things I don't want to, things that make me uncomfortable. I don't do the shit that Gabbi does. It's not that ADHD.
Nobody seems to be talking about how Gabbie has ADHD and is being medicated for it but she also smokes weed and drinks alcohol which you are not supposed to do when you take medication because it counteracts the meds which her ADHD specialist should have told her. I have ADHD and bipolar disorder and I still sometimes drink but it tends to make me feel trash because of the meds. Also some of my worst behaviour was when I was medicated but drinking a lot and smoking weed because it makes the meds not work. So she's also doing the harm by leaving that educational part out.
I have ADHD too, and I absolutely hate to think that people will see her as an accurate representation of it. Yes there’s emotional disregulation but that’s not at all an excuse to be a pos. I’ve never smoked weed but I have been drunk on my meds and feel no difference, but I know people react differently. Has she ever stated to be on meds? No matter what it seems like after her “diagnosis” she’s suddenly acting way more ADHD, or at least the stereotypical representation of what ADHD looks like. I understand the relief to get diagnosed and learning to unmask but it just seems a little too forced for me
@@MaleneWithoutR I agree completely that her symptoms seem exaggerated. We all mask but you don't get diagnosed and suddenly unlearn that behaviour and start showing every symptom to the extreme.
its really nice to see your self reflection . recovery is very difficult and you're remarkable; how you carry yourself and speak about yourself - past or present.
I think she fully knows why people hate her but wants to be in control of that narrative: they hate her, sure, but that's because they're *bullies* and that's what they do. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. She wants all this attention, wants to be a villain, but she doesn't want it to be negative attention which...isn't how that works. If you invite a horde of wild animals into your house, you don't really get to complain if they wreck your shit.
idk how gh can preach that it's mean to say stuff to people online and then turn around and call rachel oates "unintelligent and untalented", tell angelika to go back to law school, call jessie her abuser, and the like... like gh no offense, but isn't that mEaN? ... the hypocrisy and double standard this woman has for herself is astounding
i know this word gets thrown around too much, but all of this really comes down to the fact that gabbie's just a narcissist. there's no point in listening to the explanations she gives, because the real explanation is always just that she loves hearing herself talk and she loves people paying attention to her and she can never be in the wrong in any situation.
watching this now and hearing how gabbi is talking about herself makes me so uncomfortable because i just learned recently how to actually self reflect and realize how my actions were wrong and what caused other people to react to how i originally acted. i viewed myself as the victim and that everyone else was out to get me. i just fully realized that like a week ago lol and now i have to process those feelings and how i've hurt people and use it to grow as a person so i don't hurt anyone else it's beyond me that she literally made someone cry and she still views herself as the victim
I can't bring myself to watch her series / offer her any more engagement. Just want her to go away. She plays up being "Crazy" when it suits her and then tries to act like she's also not "Crazy" in the way she frames herself. She's exhausting. I'm exhausted, but I love your videos so here I am.
she is right that harassing people online is bullying because it happened to me, unfortunately she is also not a good person and using those words to make people feel bad for her.
You content brings me much comfort Alizee. I’ve been struggling with a lot of existential dread and disassociation lately but these videos help me out with that. If you’re ever feeling uncomfortable in your existence, just know that your existence greatly comforts the existence of another person.
It really does seem like she overemphasises her adhd related movements throughout the videos, these are the longest clips I’ve seen of the videos and it really seems like she’s at the very least overemphasising, potentially to try and gather sympathy or make to more clear that she has adhd so it’s easier for her to fall back on. Ive seen so many videos of her before we knew about her diagnosis where she barely had any movements that were clearly to do with her “neurodivergency” so it’s obviously possible that since she had a diagnosis to show she now just leaves it all in or doesn’t try to hide it but it really seems like she’s specifically over emphasising
Also, as an autistic person who also has ADHD who frequently acts, when you're performing, as all videos on the internet are, you're usually supposed to stop fidgeting so it doesn't distract and it makes you look better? At least thats what I've always been taught...
She certainly could be, but it can also just be a result of her embracing her stimming to be comfortable or as an expression of self love. I don't have a mental illness, but I've read multiple comments in this comment section from people who have ADHD and autism, and some defend her by pointing to how people mask their symptoms, and that many start stimming more because they get a diagnosis. I'll copy and paste a comment that explained it after my comment. When her sudden shift of mannerisms could just be her dealing with and embracing her illness, it leaves a bad taste in my mouth to theorize she's faking, since we literally cannot know, and if we're wrong it must hurt her immensely. In my opinion we pass into mean territory if we misbelieve her expression of her ADHD as a way to discredit her. Peppa Bitch's comment: It's actually a common experience for people who get diagnosed with adhd or autism later in life to notice an increase of symptoms. ADHD displays differently over time, especially if its untreated. I stim and fidget a lot more after my diagnosis. I guess now that I know what certain experiences are I'm now more aware of them. Stimming, fidgeting, and sensory issues became more prominent to me because I know what they are. Also stimming can be conscious thing, she could've made the choice of rocking back and fourth and found it a soothing thing. People do actually try different forms of stimming to see if they like it. Other times it is unconsciously picked up, I recently started blinking rapidly as a stim and I have no idea where it came from. People do mask around people and unmask when alone, not entirely, some things do indeed stick and is incredibly difficult to take off, but when it comes to things like fidgeting and stimming, people are more comfortable to do those home alone but then suppress it when around people. Masking is partially conscious, people force themselves to make eye contract, not move so much, not make any vocal stims, not look uncomfortable to things that most people don't notice, physically react in way that is seen as "erratic" ect. That is part of masking. Gabbie could've definitely allowed herself to be comfortable stimming on camera, even force herself to do it on camera to try to get more comfortable with it, or like I said at the start, very much started fidgeting and stimming more after her diagnosis. I'm not defending Gabbie as a person. Because Gabbie uses ADHD as a big ol' "excuse my horrible actions" badge, people are starting to bring doubt to her ADHD experience that are actually legit things to ADHD people. She's damaging the ADHD community and how people perceive ADHD and I find that extremely frustrating. I hate her so much, she has negatively affected so many people and communities I just want her existence on the internet to completely vanish already
@@avaborch-solem2300 I totally agree it’s definitely possible that she just was hiding it before but she’s been speaking about her adhd for a while now and only seems to be showing her symptoms in these particular videos that I have seen/during the time that she wants people to feel sorry for her. Maybe she is just letting it happen rather than hiding it but it still feels as though she is using her mental health if that is the case as she is actively choosing to keep it in during only the videos where she wants sympathy
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you are the queen of pop alizee
Didn’t she literally get hit up by creepshow art? Lmao
There's this thing that helped me with the guilt of what I had to do to keep myself for ever being sober which was someone saying, on youtube, i don't remember who: you are the best you can ever be in the moment. In the future, you might know better because you know more, because of what happened in the past. either way, you are always growing, hopefully. so tomorrow will always feel less better than what you are today in some way, however, you were the best you could be given that situation, given your body, past trauma, current, upbringing, financial state, mental state and belief system.
Someone who had the same experience would've done the exact same thing. You are not a perfect being, meant to never do mistakes but to learn from the past so the past is not good. It shouldn't be, or else you didn't grow. However, if you never let the past be the past then that's where it gets dark.
Also, the whole: i still miss some of the effects and things I did..that's a need that can't be fulfilled by the present.
I love to escape reality. That's my addiction. i use shows now, even exercise, writing expescially, I am trying to use it in healthy ways but I'd still rather escape reality than do anything else. Still. It's just...not going to kill me as fast or get me locked up. Yay?
Thanks for the vid, Alizee, you're great. As always.
This women is Underdeveloped Ego wise. Brain wise. Maturity wise. Its so cringe boring and cheugy
Alright, but where is your sweater from?
Gabbie is that one girl in high school who smokes a joint once then instantly makes it her whole personality.
when she said ‘smoked a j’ it made me feel not good
This is the most accurate comment I’ve read
Thats an insult to the girls in high school who smoked a joint once and made it their personality tbh 😂
@@feefoofuu made me feels so icky 😭😭
and she holdsthe j and tells a story letting it just burn and burn and burn while she flaps her gums
She screams "leave women alone" while she continually harrasses Angelika Oles, Rachel Oates, and Jessi Smiles. Lol
not to mention she called Rachel Oates a bitch outright. not very girlboss of her tbh
@@mothmansboyfriend she's only the gatekeep and gaslight bit
''and that is what tox-ICK!people say..'' lol.
nobody-gabbie-''these UnTaLenTeD,NeUrOtYpICaLs!'' *stupid dance*
She could *genuinely* be a case study for performative feminism
The way she said “I smoked a J” gave me the most physical cringe I’ve ever had in my life
and the bitmoji bruh😭😭😭 like girl youre white
@@raspbrryy as a white person, we don't claim or want her either 😩
How exactly is she supposed to say it to where you wouldn't cringe? I have a feeling you're just cringing because it's her
@@deadliftsfordays5364 as an Italian & Mediterranean, as well as slavic & Russian, idfk what the hell gabbermouth Hanna is and I honestly couldn't give less of a shit but WE DO NOT CLAIM HER THANK U!!!! 😅🥴
@@SatanicKale I smoked a joint is completely fine. “Smoking a J” makes it feel like you’re trying to be ~ cool ~ and ~ different ~. I don’t say her edgy bullshit but if I did it would be more like “yeah I smoked a couple cones…” and then whatever the fuck she said and MOVE ON.
Literally just wanted to be special because now it’s not super illegal in the US like it is in most countries, so making it a cool different slang for it. It’s just weird lmao.
If by “processing trauma” she means “obsessively catalogue her victim complex in a narrative entirely of her own invention” then sure. She’s processing her trauma.
Wow, I've never seen such a concise and accurate summation of a situation before 👏
And add vocally (whether it was how she feels or not) trauma-dumping in manipulation style onto her young audience eyooo
@@ranellexposed I came here to say the same thing 😂
Beautiful syntax structure.
Processing her trauma by repeatedly talking about other people’s trauma when they’ve asked her not to
The psychotic forced laughter makes me astral project to another universe.
And the vocal fries
@@Mandombb and the ‘dude’
"DED AHSSS" 👃
Oh god and the ROCKING
I was hanging out at my mum’s house after family dinner when I watched a clip of Gabbie laughing. My mum asked why I was crying and I tried to explain that noise was Gabbie Hanna laughing.
I find the whole idea that Gabbie found this more therapeutic than actual therapy interesting. What immediately came to mind is that it probably feels a lot better to be able to vent and defend yourself to a camera convincing yourself that you were right and a victim than to have to go to a therapist. Especially if you went into therapy with the thought that the therapist would just validate everything she felt or said instead of telling somethings she probably didn't want to hear. Therapy can be really hard and sometimes you have to confront things about yourself you don't want to. I've had a councilor tell me a couple times that it's ok to be angry at him. So yeah I imagine ranting to a camera would feel a lot more cathartic and easy.
That whole part!
The echo chamber of her fanbase doesn’t hold her as accountable as a good therapist would. And it’s easier to decry detractors as “haters” and “abusers” than it is to dismiss a clinician’s examination of her behavior.
Gabbie to her therapist: "you're just a hater!"
Perfectly said! 💛
I have a friend that is on the narcissistic spectrum, on the lower end, but she has been in therapy for years now and I just realised that she really has a rough time getting out of this victim mentality, even when she realises she has been the one that fucked up, she will then keep digging to figure out what shaped her personality this way and then she has someone to blame so she's the victim again.
She wants to change because it's driving people away and it sucks, but at the same time, she says she doens't know how to change, it's literally just that you have to stop blaming other people and admitting to yourself that you are at fault and improve your behaviour, but she just always jumps onto the road of wondering why she is to blame and that it's her mental health or her therapist or her mom or dad or a friend, that she is acting the way she does.
I also came to realise that her therapist is always tryig to push her into a direction, but she really insists on having the type of conversation that will let her vent and blame it on some of her favourite traumas. It's really interesting, I feel like Gabbie has been the same, she kinda manipulated her therapist to the point where he stopped trying to push her for change, it's free money and the person he's talking to isn't exactly boring. All that therapy for my friend, serves at this point is to say that she's at least working on herself because she's doing therapy, when she compares herself to others and shift blame even more.
"I don't want to alarm anyone, but I think Gabbie might have ADHD. I wish she'd talk more about it." This is the dry sarcasm I subscribed for.
I never was hesitant to admit I've got adhd until that chick couldn't stop peppering it in to EVERY SINGLE SENTENCE. Exhausting.
@@bethanythatsme I'm sorry you and the neurodivergent community have to deal with GH thinking she's the poster child and spokesperson for you. Most people are aware of her using it as an excuse rather than actually trying to educate anyone or take responsibility for bad behavior without having to fall back on it. Everyone shouldn't be lumped together or judged the same way based on one person's actions, and I think most neurotypical people are aware of that given how many people with ADHD have spoken up against her or just knowing someone with ADHD personally.
Don't let her behavior deter you from moving forward, staying healthy and speaking up about your own struggles when you feel misunderstood or unjustified and have the capacity to actually educate someone.
@@missmisko429 💜💜💜
I came here to say … that is probably the funniest thing I’ve heard in the whole GH commentary community.
She is more Narcissistic than ADHD tho
Didn't Gabbie Hannah go after Rachel Oates, Angelika Oles and Jessie Smiles yet she's telling people to "LEAVE WOMEN ALONE"????
Negative 100 on the self awareness scale.
Yes, yes she did 😌
shes the female onscion what else did you expect but a pure hypocrisy?
Seriously what does she think they are? Broccoli?
More than half the people she shat on in her series are women/female presenting lol
In fact, most of the people she's _ever_ shat on have been women. Hell, she chose a man over a female rape victim for who knows what reason. I'm so done with her fake feminism, she's very clearly got some kind of bias.
Between watching Nikocado’s OnlyFans and Gabbie’s RUclips series, I feel like you’re subtly trying to tell us you’re a masochist.
Don't forget the entire Shane Dawson series, Alizee is truly dedicated to her content
But she’s putting us through the pain to so I think she’s more of a sadomasochist but maybe I’m just self-projecting
subtly?
☠
Masochists derive pleasure from their suffering. I can't imagine this being the case lol
This is just torture for the sake of torture. The Markiplier syndrome
“I can be mean but I’m not malicious.” and the countless videos of her intentionally attacking people over the smallest slights, liking a tweet or saying she’s not their type, and all the awful behavior toward Rachel and Jessi really exist in the same universe.
and then turning around and saying “you want a villain well here’s a fucking villain” like mmmmm i find that a bit malicious?
"Look, Gabs - can I call you Gabs? - this is kind of cringe, Gabs."
why did this kill meeeee
m8 i CACKLED
SAME 😂😂💀
"Leave women alone" is a good message against the media scrutiny and bullying of female celebrities who have done nothing but exist. It however is not that same as "never criticise me because I'm a woman and therefore can only be a victim", which is of course what Gabbie is saying
Gatekeep, gaslight, girlboss ✨
It’s like when Nikita Dragun gets criticism and then says it’s because she’s trans. Lol like, yeah, trans people deal with a lot but we’re not criticizing you because you’re trans.
“I’m not mean, I’m not evil.” Gabbie you’re literally wearing a sweatshirt that says awful. Which you are.
Absolutely! She came out with a series talking about her ex friends! And attacking a Survivor! Yes girl you are a High School Bully in every since of the word!!
''woah!''
Chuckleworthy
@@CarlsCozyCorner I'm not gabbie! I don't troll people!
😅
"I don't want to quit RUclips, it would give the people who hate me satisfaction!" It would be relief, Gabby. It would be a relief to not hear you spiraling every fucking month.
It's a bit like an antivaxxer deliberately infecting themselves with tetanus to "own the libs" or whatever the hell that phrase is supposed to be.
The "lol" in the title holds so much pain and anguish
if Gabbie Hanna pulls out another "my adhd made me do it" card she could combine them and have a blue-eye ultimate white dragon with three heads
She'd trying to get all the card pieces for Exodia
best comment i’ve ever fucking read
“Leave women alone”
Yes, PLEASE LEAVE JESSI ALONe GABRIEL
Gabbie: LEAVE WOMEN ALONE
Gabbie: (doesn’t leave women alone)
I feel like she’s the type to be like “oh no don’t treat women like that :((((“ but then turns around and does it to men lmao
@@LauraR0ckzLolz its more like "oh no don't treat women like that, only I get to be nasty to other women"
LMAO @ "gabriel"
I'm autistic and have gone through the whole process of my world readjusting. You're not a bad person because they fidget, are unfocused, or misunderstand others. You're not a bad person because you take longer to arrive at a decision and can't help freaking out when people keep pressuring you for an immediate actionable response. These are things that many neurodivergent people deal with because they're different. We have felt deficient, like bad people, lazy, crappy, because we couldn't keep up with others' demands. Yes, emotional regulation can be a big issue. But your neurodivergence does not mean that you are free to go with every urge or feeling you have and not receive the consequences. It's not a pass to be an awful person and never apologize because you think differently. I won't apologize for stimming (usually, at least) because I'm meeting my sensory regulation needs and its not causing any harm to you, other than embarrassment if you're super into your social image or something. Very different.
Beautifully put! 💜
Gorgeously said!
but Gabbie harassing people online and using others' trauma for clout is just her form of stimming, YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND HER LEAVE WOMEN ALONE
@@billyjones-1996 is this sarcasm? /gen
@@undergrrownd yes sorry if that wasn't clear
Gabbie Hannah thinks she's in her Reputation era but she's actually Kanye West
I cackled
She makes Kanye West look sane
I hate that I understood this, but I agree. 😎
lmao
kayne is 100000x better than shit swift
"I thought Tana Mongoose was the best at making everything about herself. But maybe there's just something in the water in LA?"
Truer words have never been spoken
You know it’s bad when even Tana Mongoose talks about Gabbies bad ways on her podcast 🥴🥴🥴
Alizee really tortures her mind for us. And we appreciate it
For real, I couldn't even watch one episode of that crap! She watched all of them!!!
@@MarieriedLee I agree. I refuse to watch GH series myself cuz I know it would cause me emotional distress.
She deliberately conflates genuine criticism with misogynistic bullying. Most women in the public eye receive both and it is important to be able to tell the two apart
Your point about her ADHD is SOOOOO accurate. As someone w multiple mental health diagnosis, I understand how great it can be to finally feel to get diagnosed. However, I think GH is using it more so as a token, or a Girl Scout badge saying “hey look what I got! I free excuse to be a bitch.”
And she did exactly that in her Escape the Night video -- she used ADHD and her eating disorder to excuse calling production assistants "c*nts" for informing her about a change in call time
@@memequeenofthepast215 yup. She’s used it as a “get out of jail free” card.
I’m currently getting testing for adult ADHD and now I’m worried I sound as nuts as GH 😅😅 I will say I’ve suffered from bad mental health since I was a kid, abuse, disordered eating, trauma and I never found a reason to call someone a “c**t”.
Same it's so frusterating. Like I've got ADHD, PTSD, anxiety disorder like yeah I got my bad days everybody does but like I don't do shitty things and then say I've got this stuff so don't blame me. Like, it's not that hard to be decent.
I was looking if anyone has thought this too
Open letter to gabbie: when I was in high school I was stalked by one of my classmates. He always knew where I was, he made multiple Facebook accounts to harass me, he threatened to end his own life if I didn’t respond. He even threatened to hurt or kill me. He isolated me from everyone and when I finally got up the courage and confronted him about it, he said he couldn’t help it because of his autism. I never told him that I have autism too. I have autism and I never threatened violence, never stalked, never manipulated him. Now would be a good time to sit down with yourself and think about why this story might be relevant to you. Neurodivergence never excuses mean behaviour.
the beauty of her insisting that she's not ableist and then within the same minute using "sociopath" as an insult...i want to study her brain it's fascinating
how does she handle this level of cognitive dissonance? wait, she doesn't
also just the general behavior of trying to deflect responsibility over one's actions with your neurodivergency and mental health issues.. like that itself feels extremely infantilizing and ableist to me. i should be held accountable just like any other person because i'm a grown adult capable of self introspection and change ? regardless of whatever brain shit i got going on lol
sorry i'm months late to the party but using sociopath as an insult really makes me want to scream i just spent like ten minutes correcting somebody in my english class and telling them sociopathy, as a word, literally doesn't exist anymore in the DSM -5 and also even if it did it's somebody being diagnosed with a legitimate disorder that doesn't stop them from existing or make them an evil charicature
@@sawyer9969 the thing is im absolutely guilty of like. using it in casual conversation without thinking about it, and that's something i need to work on. But unlike gabby hanna i'm not a public figure whose entire brand has become explaining why im not responsible for my actions ever lmao
like it's absolutely a hing that people do without thinking about the implications. but the fact that shes self-entered enough to present herself as some kind of authority on mental health and she doesn't know that? unprecedented levels of lacking self-awareness, truly innovative
As someones who’s also “smoked a j and processed trauma”, it says a lot about her that this series ended up being a mean, vindictive, self-victimizing tirade against everyone who’s ever disliked her. I’ve gotten high with my best friend and opened up about my SA for the first time, cried my eyes out saying how much I loved them, and created really intimate, special memories that I’ll never forget. It’s one thing to heal from abuse, depression, grief, and trauma with the help of the Good Kush, but it’s another when your “abuse” and “trauma” consists of receiving criticism about your book, ricegum breaking your phone, and several women begging you to leave them alone. I know she’s been through some tough shit in the past and she has ADHD but so do I and so do hundreds of thousands of other people! Life sucks, but most of us don’t use that shittiness as an excuse to hurt others.
I used to be a huge fan. I was on her side. But she has really done a full flip. What happened to her with the ricegum situation wasn’t okay. But everything else is her fault. Trauma is a reason, not an excuse. ADHD is a reason not an excuse. My elementary students take more responsibility for their behavior than she does. Her music wasn’t terrible. I wish she’d focus on that instead of weaponizing trauma and deflecting. She needs to stop.
@Pord Lartsa like maybe if this series took the form of being songs she’s written (about each drama issue) and briefly explained it, that might’ve had a better reception and would’ve been unique. This is just…..not it
@Pord Lartsa also she ruined it by being the most awful person to work with, to the extent that the director of one of her music videos said they'd never work with her again. She killed her whole career just by being horrible.
@Pord Lartsa idk what yall where hearing but her music was mid
okay but why is no one talking about how gabbie has totally exposed jessie as a physco
@@teleportingpotatoe because she totally hasn’t 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Also whataboutisms doesn’t negate her behavior.
When I learned Gabbie Hanna has a degree in *psychology and communications,* the irony almost did me in (well, that and the idea of anyone's mental health _ever_ being in Gabbie Hanna's hands.)
She seems like someone who googled why her arm hurts and webmd told her she has ADHD and she just ran with it.
The forced rocking back and forth she does makes her even more detestable
Absolutely.
ya actually, why is she doing a adhd questionaire? I did that to get my diagnosis, she said she's already been formally diagnosed? What's the questionaire for?
@@corneliahanimann2173 to make a show of her validity😒
@@zakai-kaz I personally actually quite relate to her type of adhd, it's similar to the way I acted at 21 up to 23 and then I got diagnosed. This is to say, I haven't gone to the extend of defending a rapist or stuff like that, but my behaviour caused me to lose enough people to seek help and crave change from that pattern.
She says she had been in therapy for years. The first thing I learned was to forgive and to apologise. And I learned to pull away from certain situations to gain perspective. What were all these years of therapy for when she didn't learn these social skills which we didn't naturally learn because our minds couldn't pick up on that? Therapy isn't just to feel better about yourself, it's tough because you confront your demons with a guide/therapist. This isn't purely adhd, maybe she has been misdiagnosed.
hahahah “i smoked a j” why does she sound like she’s 200 years old but also still in high school 😂
"everything I have learned in life has come from skillshare" ADKJBASFOS I CAN'T WITH THESE ADREADS LOL
I can imagine that quote in someone's bio lmaoo
I relapsed this year, and I’m absolutely sobbing listening to Alizee talk about her addiction right now. I’m not partaking in sus or criminal or any heinous behaviour. My use has mostly been solo, coping in a bad way by myself and hiding it from literally everyone. But because of the relapse I can’t stop blaming my younger self for getting me here, when she didn’t know better :( and now that I do instead of owning that, I’m dwelling on what got me here.
This shit hurts but it’s needed. I doubt she will read this, but thank you Alizee.
Same
I’m in recovery as well. And relapses suck BUT they can be super helpful in learning about your triggers. Recovery is literally one of the hardest things anyone can ever do, try to not be so hard on yourself (believe me, easier said than done, I know). Relapsing doesn’t necessarily mean failure. if you use this relapse as a learning experience, it can be really helpful to you in the long run. It’s said we get ready to relapse well before we actually use and it’s true. So make sure to look back and see what led up to your relapse,
I know how it feels to think we failed, just wanted to tell you that it’s ok. Don’t beat yourself up for things you can’t change, don’t beat yourself up for things you did in the past or when you were using. We can’t go back in time (although it would be awesome). Everything you went through turned you into the person you are today and you’re probably amazing 🖤🖤 sending you all my good vibes!
hope ur doing welllll 💚 like the other comment says try not to be so hard on urself! i’m 4.5 years into my recovery and it hasn’t been easy by any means, but hey, i’m still here. i agree with trying to narrow down on what ur triggers are if ur able to! being as self aware as i can has helped me personally, rlly trying to know and understand myself; why i do things/why certain things make me feel a certain way, etc. also idk how to say this but try not to put ur sobriety on such a high pedestal; what i mean by that is, yes of course relapse is not what anyone wants but addiction is a disease that unfortunately it around for life pretty much. just like in all aspects of life, there will be ups and there will be downs. don’t get to hard on urself when ur experiencing a down moment bc right around the corner is an up moment waiting to happen. i would recommend maybe getting a solid support system around? a few solid people u rlly trust that understand ur on this journey, so when ur feeling stressed/triggered, u can go to them and vent and be distracted. it’s so cheesy but like taking it day by day has rlly helped me the most. not trying to be like “omg well what if in a week or month or whatever i relapse or something crazy stressful happens like how will i deal???”, but trying to be in the moment and focus on the 24 hours in the given day lol, now my anxiety tho she rlly messes this flow up for me, but it’s fine i’m fine lmao. hope ur journey goes well ma’am 💚 u can do this 😊
@@skillzzzzzzzzz agreed 100%! I def struggled with relapses. I’m on methadone so it still took my little addicted brain awhile to figure out that “hey, you can’t do other drugs”. I would feel super guilty and feel like a failure every time I relapsed but looking back, they all taught me something I needed to know
i hope your recovery continues and you find healing. good luck on your journey!
I get such a little seratonin shot every time you talk about your sobriety. I still get the existential cringe when I think about what I let myself do before I got sober and it's kind of warming to hear someone else talk about it.
Litterally feel like passing away whenever I think about anything I did before getting sober 🥴 I was terrible
Same here. I've been struggling with a lot of thoughts of relapse lately, so it's always nice to hear her speak so openly about her sobriety.
also proud of u all for staying sober !!! u are amazing keep it up 🌟
same! i had been doing wayyy too much coke for a while and it's nice to hear her talk about her issues with it - it highlights that what i was doing would be seen as a problem by non-users, which has helped me remember why i'm not doing it these days. it sounds bad, but reminding myself that people would seriously be worried about the amount i was doing, plus the return of my beautiful phat ass after losing weight bc i ate so little when i was peak using, has kept me clean for a while :)
@@kailasmith7414 key word, 'was'. Don't let your past keep you from growing as a person. Instead of cringing at your past actions, let yourself feel pride that you have come so far. You are wonderful 💛
Gabbie the H in ADHD didn't stand for horrible.
Gabbie as that "omg I'm such a crackhead" girl energy
"Manic pixie dream girl. Very big quirky"
I feel like Gabs is trying to make this her personality.
Also I am 💯 using this phrase whenever I can.
She has like a contract with the universe that pulls out every time she is called out and says to everyone that she can't legally be anything else other than a victim.
Alizee saying "You're welcome LADIES" pointedly into the camera made me 30% more sapphic
same my heart skipped a beat 🥵
Put a timestamp in the comments cus I was busy watering my car
@@jenniferm7695 I’m rewatching this video just to find it. I tried to time skip and couldn’t remember what it was even related to so now I gotta suffer Gabbie but there’s also Alizee so 😭
It's at 15:42 yw 😎
@@sagevf our champion!
The dog I'm looking after this eve was quite content with her toy until she heard Gabi screaming "Leave women alone!!!!" She looked at the screen, looked at me, then walked out the room. Even the dog ain't got time for that shit. (we're with you on this Alizee, down with the message, but not the messenger)
A very intelligent animal.
Anytime one of my animals hears Gabbie's voice, they get immediately stressed and walk away. Whenever there is a clip of her yelling in a video I turn it all the way down for their sake. Anything else I watch is usually good with them but Gabbie's voice really gets under their skin
@@meganb1106 BAHAHAH i don’t blame them though
Oh Christ all her "not-focused" moments are so performative
Honestly lizard mom’s reaction to this disaster is the only one that I wanted.
The way she sits there and rocks back and forth yammering on about how she's suddenly neuro divergent while pasting ADHD and mental health facts on the screen just fucking kills me lol
That sweater looks so comfy
but what does the sweater say?!
it really actually upsets me the way gabbie talks about her mar*j**na use because i feel like i recognize the feeling she's talking about where you feel like you're getting something off your chest that's usually more painful to express, and that really is a very nice feeling. but for her to genuinely believe that those feelings mean that she's seeing reality exactly as it is--IS A SCARY THING. this doesn't feel--TO ME--like someone who has just released a lot of old and hard to process emotions/feelings and is moving on from them. it feels like someone who was able to use mar*j**na as a method by which to convince themselves of delusions that make reality easier to cope with. and that's not a replacement for therapy--BY ANY STRETCH. but what do i know.
I agree, and I feel like it can be a bit of an unpopular opinion these days. And I don’t think the use in general is bad, but it can most definitely be a crutch for people who have experienced trauma to escape and cope (which is not preferable to actually engaging in therapy). GH has even said before that she has tried to lessen her usage and she is right back to using a lot a short time later.
Am I misremembering or has Gabbie NEVER FUCKING ONCE rocked back and forth like that until her 'diagnosis'
So tiring.
Oh but don’t you know she was just “masking” until now??!!?? 😭😭✋🏽Gabbie can miss me with that BS. I know a lot of people do mask, but we have YEARS of content from Gabbie and for some reason she’s just now “self soothing”. Sorry. I don’t buy it.
Why is diagnosis in quotes? Is it normal for you to question people's mental health?
Exactly. She is trying the MOST.
@@SatanicKale no just Gabbie and any people who use it as a shield to excuse behaviour without doing any of the work associated with having mental health struggles and how it affects behaviour 💖
@@SatanicKale also dig the pfp I was professor chaos for Halloween a few years back!
I find it so hilariously ironic how gabbie mentions the people that interacted with her or defended her got were called "evil" or were "berated, harassed, doxxed, and their families were harrassed" even though gabbie did ALL of these things to others and PURPOSEFULLY sent her fans to do it because they "interacted with her" the only difference is nine times out of ten they were calling her out on her bs and not defending her not to mention most of the people she doxxed were minors
Alizee your "spicy hot take" during the Trisha segment is SPOT ON. The way GH throws the term "narcissistic abusers" on everyone, you'd think she would be sympathetic to them for having NPD, just like she's expecting everyone to excuse her shitty behaviors because of her ADHD.
not the same thing. NPD is when somebody gets diagnosed and narcissism is when they haven't been diagnosed as ofc those people are thriving in our world bc of their traits or lack there of. Narcissism is not a disorder as it again, isn't diagnosed and when it is, it is labelled NPD. So using the word narcissism outside of the realm of formal diagnoses is correct and again, these people like hurting others and don't care about them, so there is no reason to give empathy or respect to them. Watch dr Ramani to understand it as she is the leading expert on this in the us. She also mentioned how you can't diagnose somebody for being a jerk, which is basically what narcissists are. Unless they themselves want to improve and recognize their problems and be diagnosed with NPD, they are just that. Jerks and nothing more. In summary, a narcissist is somebody without a diagnosis, while somebody with NPD is diagnosed. Saying they are the same is actually disrespectful towards people with NPD, who are actually trying to work on themselves. We should not have sympathy for narcissists, we should guard ourselves from them. Also, gabbie ofc isn't right in the situation, but it is very likely that the people she mentioned are narcissists, but she is also one, so yeah
Laura - doesn’t NPD just stand for Narcissistic Personality Disorder?
@@Laura-vs6fs GH was literally listing signs and examples of narcissistic abuse (i.e. abuse committed by people with NPD) and juxtaposing it to the "abuse" that Rachel Oates, Jessi Smiles, et al have allegedly done to her. Gabbie is the one doing the misdiagnosing other RUclipsrs. That's why I was pointing out that if she thinks all these people are narcissists, why wouldn't she be sympathetic to their mental illness.
@@perryrhinitis She apparently doesn’t think borderline is a mental illness so my guess is she has the same opinion on all personality disorders. Sucks that I’ve apparently been misdiagnosed for 15 years but thank god GH came and let me know my doctors didn’t know what they were talking about.
@@justapanpirate so much for Gabbie Hanna the mental health advocate 🙄
Her fake rocking back and forth when she's talking about her supposed ADHD makes me roll my eyes. It magically goes away when she gets mad and focused on a topic that she's pisses about and yet rocking is typically something that would intensify when mad
I feel like Gabbie Hanna is giving her supervillian monolog.
The 5 people in my fam are all neurodivergent. When we say or do something mean to someone, we say you’re just not getting the way I communicate. Oh wait! No, we apologize like decent human beings.
How on earth can she sit there explaining that harassing someone online is bullying without it computing in her mind of mystery that she's been guilty of doing just that to several people for years. HOW GODS HOW DOES THIS MAKE ANY SENSE
Nah, it’s different because she’s VERY neurodivergent, so she was just communicating in a way that people didn’t understand. 🙄
Her victim mentality is honestly so amusing. As someone who has definitely been that toxic person who chose to act like a special snowflake who the world was constantly working against and learned to grow out of it after plenty of self-analysing and understanding where my behaviour stems from, it's mindblowing to see people like Gabbie who never really seem to learn.
I've never watched any of Gabbie's content but will I watch Alizee react to it for 41 minutes while I draw? Yes of course
I hate how she talks about ADHD. I hate it. It’s not that she’s lying about what the symptoms are, it’s that she takes absolutely zero responsibility for how she treats anybody else. I’m autistic so sometimes I accidentally say things that hurt other people- once I realise, I sincerely apologise for saying something hurtful. Because I’m not a dickhead.
P.S wait have you not been diagnosed as ADHD? I have ADHD too and assumed you did
now shes been diagnosed! (also, hey, im autistic too)
the way gabbie deflected from how she harassed a creator who is also neurodivergent
Any artists here constantly have to remind people that you are an artist? I feel like it's like a smart person describing themselves as an intellectual or something.
I think she wants to be SEEN as an artist (not just... be one lol) but cannot fathom the fact that people just... don't.
@@justwannafreefx9419 I hear her say it all the time in videos like these. Honey...artist? where?
@@paigehall4830 narcs think every hum and doodle they create is on par with the mona lisa
Nope. People at school know me as an artist, probably mostly because drawing is a stim for me and I do it whenever there's paper in front of me, on top of my participation in artistic classes. I don't have to remind people lol
Gabbie Hanna reminds me of those 14 year olds I knew in high school who forced "i'm so random lol rawr XD" to be their ENTIRE personality
I forgot my playback speed was set at .5 and I started the video thinking Alizee was just THAT EXHAUSTED from watching Gabbies series.
😂🤣😂
I would pay a million dollars so gabbie’s therapist and I could watch her videos together
Her constant need to yell at people no matter what* mood. Just rubs me the wrong way lol. This is why i watch other people
I am suuuuper sensitive to yelling and everything about her sets off my anxiety so hard.
She's very shrill and annoying.
And i listen to screamer growler metal.
@@olhydra I don't like her shouting either, it's just not needed, uncomfortable & forced. Ironically a lot of neurodivergent people don't like sudden loud noises.
Just as I read this an annoying ass clip of gabbie yelling went off she’s so annoying oh hell no
ADHD is not a personality disorder. A symptom of neurodivergence is emotion dysregulation but how we manage it is all us. The constant targeted harassment and abuse of women less powerful than her? That’s just her being a terrible, jealous, insecure, malignant person.
A different angle from someone with ADHD without doing that toxic "I have ADHD and I don't do this so it's not real and-"
Gabbie knows she has ADHD. She also admits fully that she knows it impacts her life so negatively that she's lost friends over it and yet she's only gotten worse over the years. Her symptoms are very clearly untreated.
Gabbie Hanna has all the time, money, support and services available to her to get real help that will *prevent* her ADHD from impacting her life so negatively and instead of seeking that help she instead just brushes off her actions as if they can't be controlled.
She is the worst advocate for mental health not because she's a bitch, which she is, but because she's clearly advocating for excuse over explanation. Mental illness is the responsibility of the ill person, no matter how unfair that is it's life and we're responsible for our own wellbeing. She has opportunities most won't see a fraction of in her life. She can make all the excuses she wants but they're as empty as her poetry books.
Thank you for this!!! "She's clearly advocating for excuse over explanation" absolutely struck a chord with me. If I did something bad, I could *explain* why I did it but that wouldn't necessarily *excuse* what I did.
Well said 👍
@@gregisalways Lately I've noticed that a lot of people stop completely at "explanation," but there's an entire bit after that.
"This is the explanation for why this is happening and this is what I'm doing to correct this behavior. Though it won't change right away I am trying and I'm sorry for what I did."
Exactly exactly exactly
@@CL-lx2pm I completely agree with you :)
"Gabby really has alot of faith in her shirt" Had to pause cause that killed me🤣🤣🤣
How does eating ihop waffles with Shane lead to Gabbie sitting, swaying back and forth, miserably talking to herself in her million dollar mansion… idk but we’re here
That's a good question.
😫 The way she maniacally laughs to herself while alone is enough to send chills up my spine. All kidding aside, she would play a great psychologically unraveling character in a movie. Mad Joker vibes.
Come on now, dont insult joker like that, he's a genius, Gabbie ..... Is far from smart....
@@kopykat6843 yesssssss joker was a friggin badass
everyone say *THANK YOU ALEEZY* for putting urself through this
Alizee literally giving out GCSE English essays with that giant run-on sentence that ends with "discuss:"
I don't think it's a runoin sentence, I think it's several sentences spoken quickly... Although I am dyslexic!
Gabbie has no self awareness. It’s both funny and sad how clueless she is
Even just the fact that she spends the entire video talking about the small stuff that triggers and annoys her and how people should be mindful of that, but then fills every video with that awful scratchy intro, mouth sounds while eating, the sped up high-pitched voice, the teeth brushing and toothpaste spitting... No self awareness.
shes not clueless shes blatantly maniplative and malicious she is the female version of onscion and should be treated the same way he is.
@@wilmagregg3131 I totally agree. But she seems genuinely clueless imo. She’s forfeiting all this information that’s making her look worse but she really believes that it’s a valid defense for herself. She hasn’t looked at any of these screenshots and “receipts” and thought “damn this could actually make me look worse”. Manipulative or not there’s a level of self awareness missing that’s alarming.
As someone who was also diagnosed with adhd as an adult, her use of it as an excuse for being vicious, mean, and “difficult” is infuriating.
Do a lot of us have rejection sensitivity? Sure.
Does sensory overload cause irritability? Yes.
Are people with adhd more likely to interrupt or have trouble with social interactions? Yup.
Does it make you an unfiltered asshole with no regard for other people’s feelings? No. Sorry, Gabs. That’s not in the DSM.
dude. "manic pixie dream girl," that's exactly it. I'm trying to figure out why these other youtube dudes are defending her so hard and I think these are the guys who think they're the "nice guys" to her quirky weird girl. that definitely explains Jimbo Snow
Situations like that, with Gabbie and Jimothy, are the only times I feel comfortable calling someone a simp.
@@olhydra it makes me wonder what GH told Jimothée to make him simp so hard to the point that he was willing to throw away his friendship with Rachel
@@olhydra hard same
Jimmy has stated today hes done supporting her on a community post. He isnt gonna post a tea video but he did say hes done enabling her. Honestly good for him for the personal growth.
@@emptyframes3684 that's good. I hope it's genuine and not a ploy to deflect from him being a creep toward some of his fans
"I can't be ableist, I'm neurodivergent!" And? Nikita Dragun, an LGBT woman, is still bi-phobic. You ain't special.
At 16:01 she uses a screenshot to blame her “mood swings” on ADHD but it says “a child or teen with ADHD”…. Gabbie you’re 30.
she finally feels like this is good therapy because there is no one there to try to hold her accountable and actually be honest with herself
Alizee : I watched gabbie hannas series
Her audience: ... Why tho?...
If it weren't for the big Alizeeyeezy echoing the same grievances and frustrations with the clips that I had I couldn't watch more than a minute of Gabbie Hannah's series
You are doing God's work
gabbie hanna is the type of person who would go on a rampage if you did as little as give her the wrong type of look
The dancing at 4:45 almost scared me off this video but I’m powering through for you, alizee.
I'm still laughing at this comment 9 months later.
I really appreciatie you opening up about things you struggle with regarding your addiction. My boyfriend is in recovery and it really helps me to hear your your perspective because he's still struggling to open up about a lot of his feelings and emotions. So thank you!
what’s even worse about the escape the night situation is that foods that fit gabbie’s dietary needs were available but she refused to eat it bc it wasn’t exactly what she wanted
Omg now I desperately want Gabbie on I'm A Celebrity Get Me Out Of Here to see her suffer cleaning the dunny, getting voted for all those early trials and yelling about how everyone are bullies thanks Alizee
Then again I don't think even those celebs don't deserve that kind of suffering...
“Just ask her out already” it’s so apparent that she loves to hate Angelica when all she does is call out what Gabbie is doing as does everyone else but she can’t keep Angelika’s name out of her damn mouth 😂
Jeeeez I never saw the documentary so I didn't know how pushy Gabbie is with all this ADHD stuff. I hate it how she rocks back and forth (around 16:00) when she speaks about being VERY neurodivergent. I have ADHD and autism diagnosed and I am inclined to say I have never seen anything that pretentious 🙄
The VERY neurodivergent made me laugh- what makes you very neurodivergent?? Am I very neurodivergent because I I’m dyslexic and dyspraxic like it’s not a competition Gabbie
SEE HOW HYPERACTIVE I AM????!!?!
Same, I’m adhd and have Aspergers. It’s so pretentious what she’s doing and it makes us look stupid.
LOL you said it perfectly. it bothers the hecks out of me
I'm always stimming like that and I can't tell if she's faking it for that segment or not, but she's definitely trying to hide behind her ADHD to avoid responsibility for anything. I have ADHD- I still do things I don't want to, things that make me uncomfortable. I don't do the shit that Gabbi does. It's not that ADHD.
She got diagnosed with ADHD and started giving off the “omg i’m SO random 🤪” vibes
i'm not saying she's evil, but, yes she is extremely mean and it's just a blatant lie to say otherwise
Every time she states that so many people have stories of her being unprofessional, I just think why is that a flex?
Alizee ain't lyin'. Piers Morgan's Vegan Lover IS a thrilling novella! I bought it like almost a year ago I think.
Nobody seems to be talking about how Gabbie has ADHD and is being medicated for it but she also smokes weed and drinks alcohol which you are not supposed to do when you take medication because it counteracts the meds which her ADHD specialist should have told her.
I have ADHD and bipolar disorder and I still sometimes drink but it tends to make me feel trash because of the meds. Also some of my worst behaviour was when I was medicated but drinking a lot and smoking weed because it makes the meds not work. So she's also doing the harm by leaving that educational part out.
I have ADHD too, and I absolutely hate to think that people will see her as an accurate representation of it. Yes there’s emotional disregulation but that’s not at all an excuse to be a pos. I’ve never smoked weed but I have been drunk on my meds and feel no difference, but I know people react differently. Has she ever stated to be on meds? No matter what it seems like after her “diagnosis” she’s suddenly acting way more ADHD, or at least the stereotypical representation of what ADHD looks like.
I understand the relief to get diagnosed and learning to unmask but it just seems a little too forced for me
@@MaleneWithoutR I agree completely that her symptoms seem exaggerated. We all mask but you don't get diagnosed and suddenly unlearn that behaviour and start showing every symptom to the extreme.
Good point
its really nice to see your self reflection . recovery is very difficult and you're remarkable; how you carry yourself and speak about yourself - past or present.
Gabbie admits that she KNOWS people hate her but fails to evaluate WHY people hate her she's always this close🤏🏾
I think she fully knows why people hate her but wants to be in control of that narrative: they hate her, sure, but that's because they're *bullies* and that's what they do. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. She wants all this attention, wants to be a villain, but she doesn't want it to be negative attention which...isn't how that works. If you invite a horde of wild animals into your house, you don't really get to complain if they wreck your shit.
„I had my voice and autonomy completely stripped away from me... anyway I can go viral on a whim if I want to“
idk how gh can preach that it's mean to say stuff to people online and then turn around and call rachel oates "unintelligent and untalented", tell angelika to go back to law school, call jessie her abuser, and the like... like gh no offense, but isn't that mEaN? ... the hypocrisy and double standard this woman has for herself is astounding
Sing it with me: if you have problems wherever you go, you may be causing them.
GabHan: *is mean and bullys people*
Commenters: You are mean and a bully
GabHan: OH ILL GIVE YOU A BULLY
i know this word gets thrown around too much, but all of this really comes down to the fact that gabbie's just a narcissist. there's no point in listening to the explanations she gives, because the real explanation is always just that she loves hearing herself talk and she loves people paying attention to her and she can never be in the wrong in any situation.
watching this now and hearing how gabbi is talking about herself makes me so uncomfortable because i just learned recently how to actually self reflect and realize how my actions were wrong and what caused other people to react to how i originally acted. i viewed myself as the victim and that everyone else was out to get me. i just fully realized that like a week ago lol and now i have to process those feelings and how i've hurt people and use it to grow as a person so i don't hurt anyone else
it's beyond me that she literally made someone cry and she still views herself as the victim
I can't bring myself to watch her series / offer her any more engagement. Just want her to go away. She plays up being "Crazy" when it suits her and then tries to act like she's also not "Crazy" in the way she frames herself. She's exhausting. I'm exhausted, but I love your videos so here I am.
she is right that harassing people online is bullying because it happened to me, unfortunately she is also not a good person and using those words to make people feel bad for her.
You content brings me much comfort Alizee. I’ve been struggling with a lot of existential dread and disassociation lately but these videos help me out with that. If you’re ever feeling uncomfortable in your existence, just know that your existence greatly comforts the existence of another person.
It really does seem like she overemphasises her adhd related movements throughout the videos, these are the longest clips I’ve seen of the videos and it really seems like she’s at the very least overemphasising, potentially to try and gather sympathy or make to more clear that she has adhd so it’s easier for her to fall back on. Ive seen so many videos of her before we knew about her diagnosis where she barely had any movements that were clearly to do with her “neurodivergency” so it’s obviously possible that since she had a diagnosis to show she now just leaves it all in or doesn’t try to hide it but it really seems like she’s specifically over emphasising
Also, as an autistic person who also has ADHD who frequently acts, when you're performing, as all videos on the internet are, you're usually supposed to stop fidgeting so it doesn't distract and it makes you look better? At least thats what I've always been taught...
She certainly could be, but it can also just be a result of her embracing her stimming to be comfortable or as an expression of self love. I don't have a mental illness, but I've read multiple comments in this comment section from people who have ADHD and autism, and some defend her by pointing to how people mask their symptoms, and that many start stimming more because they get a diagnosis. I'll copy and paste a comment that explained it after my comment. When her sudden shift of mannerisms could just be her dealing with and embracing her illness, it leaves a bad taste in my mouth to theorize she's faking, since we literally cannot know, and if we're wrong it must hurt her immensely. In my opinion we pass into mean territory if we misbelieve her expression of her ADHD as a way to discredit her.
Peppa Bitch's comment:
It's actually a common experience for people who get diagnosed with adhd or autism later in life to notice an increase of symptoms. ADHD displays differently over time, especially if its untreated. I stim and fidget a lot more after my diagnosis. I guess now that I know what certain experiences are I'm now more aware of them. Stimming, fidgeting, and sensory issues became more prominent to me because I know what they are.
Also stimming can be conscious thing, she could've made the choice of rocking back and fourth and found it a soothing thing. People do actually try different forms of stimming to see if they like it. Other times it is unconsciously picked up, I recently started blinking rapidly as a stim and I have no idea where it came from.
People do mask around people and unmask when alone, not entirely, some things do indeed stick and is incredibly difficult to take off, but when it comes to things like fidgeting and stimming, people are more comfortable to do those home alone but then suppress it when around people. Masking is partially conscious, people force themselves to make eye contract, not move so much, not make any vocal stims, not look uncomfortable to things that most people don't notice, physically react in way that is seen as "erratic" ect. That is part of masking. Gabbie could've definitely allowed herself to be comfortable stimming on camera, even force herself to do it on camera to try to get more comfortable with it, or like I said at the start, very much started fidgeting and stimming more after her diagnosis.
I'm not defending Gabbie as a person. Because Gabbie uses ADHD as a big ol' "excuse my horrible actions" badge, people are starting to bring doubt to her ADHD experience that are actually legit things to ADHD people. She's damaging the ADHD community and how people perceive ADHD and I find that extremely frustrating. I hate her so much, she has negatively affected so many people and communities I just want her existence on the internet to completely vanish already
@@avaborch-solem2300 I totally agree it’s definitely possible that she just was hiding it before but she’s been speaking about her adhd for a while now and only seems to be showing her symptoms in these particular videos that I have seen/during the time that she wants people to feel sorry for her. Maybe she is just letting it happen rather than hiding it but it still feels as though she is using her mental health if that is the case as she is actively choosing to keep it in during only the videos where she wants sympathy