“You’ll all forget about this post in a day anyway, while I’ll have to live with this shit for the rest of my life.” Is such a raw reminder that while people love hearing these stories, we shouldn’t forget that they’re real people (at least for the stories that aren’t incredibly fake)
I know! Warmed my heart. The walls in my building seem pretty thick, but I praise my cats all the time and wouldn't be super embarrassed if my neighbors could hear it 😂
In sickness and servitude to the capitalist system. No one should ever have to make the decision to work while sick, if that jeopardize the project that's a failure if the management, not the worker.
@@informitas0117that’s more so for service jobs, vs a more technical job that requires at least some knowledge of not just the field but the specific project being worked on. Covering a sick service worker is generally a matter of making sure you have enough competent staff able to complete the shift/allotted work. Covering for a technical job that requires knowledge of a specific project, that may even have some confidential, is a little more difficult on short notice. This is by no means saying one persons job is more important than another, just some tasks do require a little more heads up to make appropriate accommodations.
Onlyfans story, the husband could've easily saved himself if he said 'yeah I got a card but I wasn't interested cuz I'm in a committed relationship. I also didn't want to ruin the day so I was going to bring it up later in private.' Instead he denied it and lied to his partner.
That would require him to be a good human being. Apparently, he's not capable of that and if he was, he's clearly not smart enough to weaponize it. At least he showed his crappy side before they got married. And that cousin is out of her mind.
I could see that but I've know both guys and girls that are just this bad. They're just that sort of insecure and paranoid. Then when they ant find anything wrong, they cause it, and if that doesn't work, they just start to make up reasons. Its...Really sad to see.
Oh IDK I was told by my ex fiancé that I don’t actually love him because I was ready to forgive cheating if we worked on it hard together. I don’t think he wanted to end it because he was shocked when I did and even threatened me, begged etc. I truly think some people are just addicted to drama. I never understood jealousy as an emotion and his parents were extremely jealous (for no reason might i add they barely left the house) so I think in his mind he thought that is how love should be and since we were getting close to finally getting married after seven years of relationship I think he was actually worried that I don’t love him due to lack if jealousy… Dodged a whole automatic riffle on that one
She might have paranoia issues, so when her 'theres some kind of issue here' fixation couldn't find another woman, it jumped to 'only because he's not into women'.
it's still absolutely possible to cheat if you're poly. identifying as polyamorous isn't a free-card to get away with cheating. as soon as you do something that you and your partner didn't explicitly agree was okay beforehand, that's cheating, and that can happen even if you're in a poly relationship.
I didn't know until like a few weeks ago that apparently people can't tell the difference between polyamory and open relationship 🤦♀ Polyamory is a relationship with multiple people, open relationship is where partners are free to have sex with whoever else they want, why is this so confusing😩
The shopaholic wife: The fact she is not willing to sell her things, admit her wrongs, or even find getting help "steep" is proof of the woman she actually is. This is probably why her daughter and her are on such rocky grounds, because she is clearly self -absorbed and doesn't think about anyone outside herself. Step dad will probably always be this girl's parent, but I would not be surprised if the daughter went no contact with mom down the road.
The shopping addicted wife should become a paid organ donor to get some of her daughter's money back. There are several organs and tissues that can be live donated with reasonable safety. Blood and blood products, bone marrow. One kidney, one lung can be donated. Sections of liver can regrow in time so that could be an ongoing donation. Oh one cornea could've also be donated, a portion of their pancreas or intestine could also be donated.
Anyone else think that maybe, 1+ million people have $170k between them? On one hand, I feel kinda bad for Cassie, because I know what it's like when your future gets ripped away from you because of something other people did, and they're not even sorry. On the other, it would be awesome to see Click go through r/HumansBeingBros and finding a post about how his fans got that girl into college because of his videos.
Agreed. And the thing is also... if she doesn't want to do anything for her daughter, to correct HER OWN mistake, then... why is she even saying she wants to keep her daughter in her life? Like, to me this whole thing just sounds like the mom going "if I'm going down, I'm taking you down with me, because why should I be the only one suffering, if we're BOTH her parents" and that's just so incredibly twisted...
As a polyam person, thank you for talking about polyamoury and ethical non-monogamy. What the person did is what we call "Poly-bombing" and is so horrible for the other person.
Yup. My partners are informed before they become my partners exactly what my situation is. Everyone is involved. I'm in a mono relationship right now and I'm happy with that. 😊 no secret partners to poly bomb with
The guy that took the dog to see his owner? That guy deserves all the praise in the world, and I hope he eventually finds someone who would never be that petty and cruel.
Yeah.. if that was me, the post would have ended with "I left the dog with her ex and then broke up with her and told everyone else in town she's a dog thief and to never date her". That guy was too soft on her, she needs to be metaphorically slapped in the face and taught a lesson, it's not fair she gets to believe she let that man die without ever seeing his dog and she thinks that's hilarious, she's sick in the head. People who break the bond between a dog and their first human just to hurt the person, are pure evil. I wouldn't have been able to leave the dog with her knowing she could behave like that, and I definitely wouldn't be able to date her, I've broken up with people for less, I'm asexual and single now but when I dated, I didn't tolerate cruel assholes, ever. You say one mean thing about someone in public being fat, you push one puppy aside, you laugh one time at seeing someone get hurt, and we're done. So I just can't see how low standards people must have to find out your gf is keeping a dying man and his loving dog from ever seeing each other, and still want to even look at that disgusting jerk. I'd be disgusted to even be in a room with her again, we would not still be together and I'd do everything in my power to get that dog to a safe place away from her.
@@-desertpackrat I 100% agree with everything you said. I just wish there were more people like this who didn't tolerate any signs of cruelty instead of ignoring it and eventually enabling it. People like that get worse and you're right how could you want to be in a relationship with someone that deliberately cruel. She's absolutely vile.
It's really a good litmus to see how someone treats people they hate. They can be mean, but are they dishonest, unfair, or properly abusive? Cause you can't be sure your relationship won't end that way, and the person they're treating horribly now probably thought it was unlikely too, and maybe they didn't actually deserve the hate either.
Yeah, I love the "oh no my bf lies, hides things and doesn't give a fuck about me, better go blame a woman for it" mentality that still lives on. And ye it's technically just porn, but it's not the same when the center of that porn is right there 'in the flesh' 😅
As someone who has a recovering shopaholic mom, if you take any advice on a family member like this NEVER under any circumstances let them off the hook EVER, not even on the first big offense if you can help it. Because when the shopaholic addiction gets this bad, it’s going to go on for as long as you keep bailing them out. The biggest clue to how you know it’s beyond bad is how well they hide it, Click you asked how the husband didn’t notice all the stuff from the missing money, that’s because she has probably had this problem since she was a teenager and these long standing addicts are THAT good at hiding the evidence, at least until someone notices the hundreds of dollars missing.
Have open finances with your partner. That doesn't mean you control each other's money or whatever, just be transparent. Or you'll end up in a bad place. Relationships end over financial stress.
Its easy to see why Cassie has such a rocky relation with her mother considering the mom doesn't want to take any responsibility or consequences for her actions and refuses to be a part of the solution.
Yeah, that was infuriating to hear. I would be divorcing her and telling Cassie the truth as well as making sure she knew I would still be a parent even though her pathetic mother would be on her own.
Getting in a monogamous relationship and then deciding you want a poly relationship doesn't mean your spouse has to go along with it. They didn't consent to that kinda relationship and it'd disrespecting to THEM to decide that without their concent.
Yeah, so poly person here; If you want a polyamourous relationship if one: you know before this relaionship explain exactly what and how this would work. Two: If you are already in a relationship but you realize there's more you want out of it, you explain. Then you and your partner have to decide is this something we're okay with? if not you can either continue to be monogamous or make the decision to end the relationship. Communication is so important because being poly is not an excuse to cheat that is a betrayal of trust and it sucks a lot.
@@dumbnoodleman Just sorting out everything at the start means nothing huge that can happen and end it immediately, as well as just having those conversations can lead to even more interesting things.
Hell yeah! Love listening to these videos in the background while I do other things, them being so long allows me to concentrate instead of choosing the next video after 15 minutes 💕
Fictional Media (and *maybe* reality shows sometimes), where a relationship's Only Purpose is for drama and nothing else. Because people just Don't get to love each other in shows that aren't centered on drama...
My parents always represented a united front, both to their children and the church my father pastored. They were married for 25 years. One day, out of the blue, they flew down to tell us they were getting divorced because my dad had secretly been cheating for years, and my mom no longer wanted to "live a lie". So, idk. Even a superficially stable and secure relationship model can lead to having a hard time knowing what love really looks like 💔
@@T.Florenzagreed my dad my my mom's hype man. They wouldn't make decisions without the other for a reason. I can't be mad at that lol. I learned the importance of a united front by them too.
Stoner: "k... K .. Kevin, how did you knock like a human??" Kevin: "I'm a cat. I summoned a demon." (walks inside) "And you didn't hear me talk either."
As a Poly woman who moved from a more 'progressive' area where the poly community had a huge emphasis on open honest relationships to a more 'conservative' area, I can speak the the relatively ridiculous number of 'I'm poly but don't tell my wife' number of openers I got on the dating ap I was using when I first got here.... I still don't have a new polycule 5 years later.... like guys I am that bitch that will not only not 'not tell your wife' , this is a small town, I will go find her and show her the messages. Mean while the number of times my SO would walk in and see a wall of text on my chat screen and ask 'So we got to the, so your partner really does know your on here' , these guys can't even wrap their head around Actually being honestly poly, like my partner knows, sees and reads my conversations, helps me vet potential new partners etc....
Lol. Oh yes, so many guys I've met just can't grok it. Not complicated. Hubby and I want each other to be happy, and multiple relationships make us happy. Truly wanting your partner to be happy is such a foreign concept to some people. I don't get it.
@@kaylaHat exactly ugH! I'm poly, but in a mono relationship with my now gf because of her negative experience with a 'poly' ex who dated someone else without communication and just said it was because they were poly. That's just cheating.
@@beau4612I just feel really sorry for both of you in this. Getting cheated on and blaming an innocent group of people sucks, but not being allowed to be who you are also sucks (unless your partner and you agreed on this). It’s happened to me and now I’m slowly starting to be a “you can be poly but I won’t be involved with the other partners” type person again after three years.
I read the update about the guy with the stealing wife : he has told the truth to Cassie, is planning to divorce his wife and explains that she spent that money over years so it wasn't that obvious to him. She was the only one who had access to her daughter's account and everytime he caught her buying something expensive, she'd say it was on sale or that she had a nice bonus at work. So, I really believe he didn't caught up with her spending habits until too late and despite the situation, I'm pretty happy to know he and Cassie will probably be OK (she's applying for scholarships in order for her step father not to drain his retirement funds to make up for everything). Thank you so much for this long video Click !
@@tak1751 my aunt lose her house because of a shopping addiction and when the family tried to talk to her about it, she cut them off for a while. it is a very difficult problem to fix.
The mother should have agreed to not just admitting her longtime theft, but admitting her addiction to her daughter, AND getting help for it. Her relationship with her daughter is so bad even without this because she’s not handling life well. Hopefully, stories like this will get well known so the realities of lesser known addictions can be better recognized and help offered. Part of the problem with identifying it is shopping doesn’t always go that far; “too much of anything is a bad thing”. In limited amounts or with a controlled budget, something like shopping can also be a coping mechanism- window shopping without being able to buy anything, just to get out of the house and move around a bit, for example. My mom occasionally does a form of this where she browses the clearance racks during good additional sales and buys things for other people, since giving gifts that will be enjoyed is part of how she expresses love to family and it gets her out of her head, focusing on others rather than herself.
Thanks for posting this update! It's really a heartbreaking story. I'll never understand how parents can betray their children so utterly and completely. Lucky for Cassie that her step dad has his heart in the right place.
The jealous girlfriend accusing the bf of being gay because he wont cheat reads to me like she wanted to be done with the relationship but didnt want to sit down and have a reasonable, adult conversation with the bf so she ended up making up bullshit so she could end it.
That last story with the brother in law photoshopping nudes of OP was gross but I have a lot of respect for OP's hubby and parents in law. Hubby because he was levelheaded and cautious enough to take the time to both confirm the nudes WEREN'T hers, and to call out brother in law in front of everyone. Respect to the parents for recognizing they were wrong and apologizing, as well as taking action to punish the brother. They could have easily stuck to their guns and been stubborn, insisting they didn't have proof it wasn't her and demanding to see proof etc, disowned OP and OP's hubby etc. That's a good hubby right there, and the parents are good too. Often I feel the parents are to blame for children's actions, since it's the parents' job to teach their kids right from wrong. But on account of the fact that 1) the kid is 17, nearly a legal adult, and 2) they were surprisingly apologetic, it seems like this toxic behavior was entirely unprompted by them and all just the brother. One would expect a little more maturity by that age, and the fact he insisted they 'ruined Christmas' is laughable. They didn't ruin Christmas; he did it himself.
I personally got the vibe that the younger brother was spoiled since he said his Christmas was ruined just because he didn't get to keep his new game console.
An argument could also be made that it was a misunderstanding, since OP never said that BIL had claimed they were sent by her. All we know is that he showed the family those pictures, after all. We don't know what he was planning, or why he made them, or whatever. It could be that he found that model online, realized she looked a lot like his new relative, and decided to do some stupid teenager stuff, on account of being a stupid teenager.
@@Kartoffelkamm he said that he's showing how much of a degenerate she is, so yes, that's implying that she was on the photos. He planned her character assassination, no matter what would happen afterwards. "Just a prank, bro" is not really a good excuse to do stuff like that, even if he planned it just as a prank and planned to joke it off later (which we have *no* proof of in the OP's description).
I really would like to know why the kid did it.. and wasn't even ashamed after getting caught for such a disgusting stunt... Was he jealous about his brother or something.. that's the weirdest thing I've heard in awhile..
Staying with her until she carried the baby to full term is actually incredibly kind (albeit accidentally). The stress the mother might’ve gone through could have been detrimental to the baby so yeah. Doing it this way was sensible. Best for baby, worse for mother haha
Nah trust me, getting left alone the day you give birth would be a lot more stressful than halfway through the pregnancy when you still have time to sort out other support systems. Once the baby is born, chaos ensues and you need all the help you can get. I can't feel sorry for her but he definitely went for maximum punishment.
@@natk1105but she was FULLY committed to pretending it was OPs to hide the cheating and get him to sign the certificate. He waited till she was sewn up and comfortable and she's lucky enough that both men are willing to get tested and assume responsibility if it's theirs. Pretty stressful but if the "other man" cares more about you and an innocent baby than it's own mother/your partner...she ain't a good person and I don't feel bad for her.
Ana is probably going to be complaining about being left out of family events in the near future, because I'm pretty sure there's going to be a lot of "if she's there, we're not coming" after that stunt.
Honestly, creating drama has been a thing way before Social media. My grandma, when she wanted to feel right/better, would deliberately do weird stuff. Like one time she left a mug balanced on the edge of the table, so it would fall and break as grandpa would enter (he was very heavy and the front door was metal), but he didn't trigger her trap, instead she turned in anticipation, bumped the table and the mug fell and broke. What followed was the most illogical thing I've ever witnessed, she started crying and hitting him because he was supposed to break the mug and that it was her favorite tea cup and then it spun into "if you love me you'd have broken it instead of me" and "you don't love me enough to admit that you are at fault"... Anywho, that was a 70+ year old woman that had gotten away with that behavior all her life.
I will never fathom people like that. I genuinely don't understand fabricating drama because life is "too good" and you're actively seeking a reason to be upset. Is there any psychology major that can crack this code?
@@RiveroftheWither I actually have a theory about this. It connects to the standards of media we consume and the sheer volume of what’s available. The reason we interact with entertainment is commonly cited to be “a distraction from our boring lives”. It’s cheap, mostly accessible, and easy to get far too swept up in if you have enough free time. The problem is that telling stories requires conflict, and people tend to write over-the-top conflict to make movie, series, and book stories more… interesting. It makes sense for media, but real life comes across as boring after consuming too much of this exaggerated reality. Some people who desperately want excitement like the kind in their programming of choice can try to manufacture this same exaggerated reality and get angry when it doesn’t work. This can come across as illogical or even “insane” to anyone but them. This isn’t saying that media is bad or anything. It’s more a commentary on how much of it we consume and how our desire for escapism can spiral dangerously out of hand if not kept in check.
Hold up. That first story... SHE STOLE HIS DOG FOR NO OTHER REASON THAN BITTER ANGER OVER A BREAKUP?!? I am so happy her new partner took matters into their own hands and let the ex see his dog. Though, if I'm honest, not only would I have left the dog with the original owner, unless asked to bring it back since he was terminally ill, I would have left the girlfriend as soon as I found out she took the dog from her ex! Unless a pet is mistreated, I would never take them away from their original human! What an absolute asshole.
@tommorrison1960 Yeah, cudos to him for transporting a dog in his car, when he isn't fond of dogs, but the poor dog! I can't imagine if someone did this with one of my cats! Even if it was my jerk cat, who rarely wants cuddles and sometimes wake me up in the middle of the night. I would be so upset and heartbroken. If I got really sick on top of that? Shit... I probably wouldn't even have the energy or willpower to fight the illness at that point...
Unfortunately in many places pets are considered "property" and I have no doubt the gf would have immediately called the police and made issues both for op and the ex if she knew he had done that. At the very least the dog would have been returned to her by police and at worst they'd both be facing charges of theft. Personally I'd have taken the dog over every time she was at work and broken up with her ASAP after the ex passed away, the only reason I wouldn't have broken up with her after realising how toxic she was is to give the ex and the dog the chance to spend time together. I might have tried to find a way of getting the dog out of there without her knowing it went to the ex, like telling her it ran off while on a walk or something, but only if I could trust the ex and his family not to let it slip that they had the dog
@@Lilith-Rose I am very aware that pets, any non-human animals really, are often seen as "property" more than living beings, but if he was the original owner then he should have some kind of registry of ownership. If she has the legal paperwork showing he's the owner, then I imagine it can be a hard battle, but the ex should still have a better claim, legally speaking.
@@lampekartoffel sounds like he was trying until he got too sick, property disputes like that are a civil court matter and take a very long time and a lot of lawyers fees to resolve, and in some states who owned the property prior to the relationship means nothing, everything is counted as communal property (awful law, I'd never willingly live in a place where that was the case myself) also unless it's a registered purebred from a breeder with a purchase history or adopted from a shelter there's not going to be much of a paper trail, even vaccination and other vet records etc aren't going to be much help
Imo she took the dog because she was emotionally attached as well(which is scummy when that was the ex's dogs. You cant just take a dog that youre babysitting for years because you saw it everyday, 10 hours a day), but ngl she is a devil if thats how she acted with the ex on his deathbed...i wouldve given the dog back and break up, she is a walking red flag
As far as the shopaholic mom and what she did with her purchases goes, designer stuff can be RIDICULOUSLY expensive, for stuff that genuinely doesn’t look that special at all. The mom could’ve dropped 9k on a tracksuit that you would think cost 150$, but it’s 20x more than that because it’s designer. Honestly I think designer clothes are such a scam because of that - obviously some stuff is nice but I’ve seen people basically wearing tarps, but tarps that cost 6,000$ because they’re designer. 🙄
Designer clothes are a total scam. For one, a lot of them are made in the facilities as the off-brand stuff... You're literally pay 20x more for the label. And honestly, I think people being obsessed with buying designer labels are the epitome of "having money, but not knowing how to spend it". Example: Jojo Siwa, when she was trying to defend Colleen Ballinger's bs, was wearing a Gucci pride-looking shirt that runs for about $950... that shit literally looked like something you could buy from target for $20... if I'm gonna wear a $950 garment, that bitch better LOOK like I spent $950 on it.
I have a wallet that looks like a designer item, but actually it was about $5 off Amazon lol My purse is actually a Coach bag that probably cost over $200 brand new that I got at a thrift store for $24 Designer stuff is a huge scam of paying hundreds more just to have someone's name on your clothes that don't even look all that special.
That last story. Her POS brother in law is lucky that he wasn't hospitalized for pulling a stunt like that. If my brother did that, he would be lucky if he was out of the hospital by the next Christmas. Trying to ruin a marriage by faking nudes, she supposedly sent to you, a minor is just evil.
Yeah, and that's even if the ex wasn't sick. If I found out my bf's dog actually belonged to his gf, and he kept it out of spite, I'd probably go drop off the dog for a "play date" with the ex, and then delete my (now ex-)bf's number.
Why does everyone assume that a dying ex is an angel? Maybe he beat the shit out of both of them and the new bf is being condescending and dismissive about her reasons? You don't know the details
@@Lilian040210 well that's the point, we don't know nor need the details - it's none of our business what the dead ex did or what kind of relationship the two had or whether or not the current partner is aware of what happened. i don't think anyone is claiming the dead ex was an angel by any means, we have no idea who this person is, but either way it's still a cruel thing to do to a person; steal their pet and refuse to at least let them see their pet before they die. plus, if this ex did something horrible to his ex partner i'm sure they would've told their current partner. especially if this ex is messaging them about their dog. and then the current partner would've respected their partner's decision!! but that isn't what happened, it seems like this person stole their ex's dog and refused to give it back even while they were dying. that's all we know. not every relationship ends because of someone beating the other, it could've just been a mutual agreement that they weren't a perfect fit or the partner who stole the dog was an asshole to the dying ex. there are SO MANY possibilities, perhaps even endless possibilities, of what could've happened in that relationship. but we don't know anything, therefore we can't assume. we can't assume the dying ex is an angel, but we also can't assume the dying ex was an evil person as well. we just know that the OP gave this person the chance to see their beloved pet before they died. pls be a bit more respectful, especially when talking about someone who is no longer even alive. we don't know this person and we never will, so the best bet is to just appreciate the story and hope the dead ex rests in peace
@@Lilian040210 It wasn't the ex who made the post though, it was his friend, and from the way it was written, It's pretty obvious they were there while the dog and the ex were together. If they had observed abusive behaiviour then, I don't think they'd have been ok with it. Also, shame on you for assuming the worst of someone you never knew with zero evidence to back you up.
@@justusb.plorer8773 They were just throwing out the possibility that maybe the motivation for not wanting to meet up with their ex so they can see the dog might be something other than sheer spite. We don't have the full story from the dog owner, as far as we know it's an assumption the OP made based on the information they had. It's just a shame so many on here are backing it up as gospel truth. Besides, just because he didn't act abusive in front of a stranger for the few hours they were together doesn't mean there's no history of abuse. It's not like abusive people are abusive 24/7. When The Click read it, basing it on my own experiences, I too thought maybe an abusive history would explain it.
God that cheater who came out as polyamorous pisses me off so badly. I'm polyamorous- I discovered it while I was engaged to my fiance. What I did was talk that out with him, turns out he's polyamorous too! But if he wasn't, I'd either respect that and stay with him, or respect that and break up bc we needed different things. Cheaters give us a bad name, and it's so frustrating. Even within polyamorous relationships there are boundaries that crossing means cheating! I can't just go and sleep with whoever without getting the go-ahead from the whole polycule first. Hate people who do shit like that.
@@foxinabox5103 Open relationships are a form of polyamory, though ours is generally closed- if that were to change, I'd need to renegotiate boundaries. That's what I was getting at- it's cheating to sleep with people outside your relationship even if you're polyamorous, unless the boundary is "go ahead do whatever", which are some people's arrangements, but not mine, and not hers! And it doesn't necessarily have to be agreed upon from the beginning, but DEFINITELY before you take any action to pursue someone outside the relationship. It just so happened for me the person I was interested in pursuing, my fiance was ALSO interested in lol , but my fiance and I started out fully monogamous. But you can't go back and retroactively "fix" cheating by coming out as polyamorous, even if your partner DOES agree
As someone in a polyamorous relationship, Click's explanation on polyamory vs cheating made my heart warm, like it's so good when people explain it so well and don't conflate the two. Polyamory exists without cheating as there is knowledge and consent! Thanks Click
I may not be polyamorous or in a polyamorous relationship for that matter, but I’m still fairly certain that the main idea of a relationship like that is to have multiple partners WITH KNOWLEDGE AND CONSENT from every partner. It’s not just a relationship where you can be with a partner, but still get to go around and do this type of stuff.
She followed tik tok advice because she wanted drama in the relationship? Girl, I don't know about you, but I personally don't want drama in my relationships. No relationship is perfect and there are going to be times where you'll disagree/misunderstand each other, but dealing with drama and working on getting passed disagreements are stressful and anxiety inducing. I don't think manufacturing fights with your partner is a good idea to *spice things up*
One of my exes _loved_ drama in her relationships. She used to say that she got bored easily, or something to that effect. And apparently the drama inside her own head worked just as well, because she took my lack of enthusiasm in the relationship, turned it into Teh Suspense (le GASP) and happily stewed in it until I eventually ghosted her. Then again, she was a low grade narcissist and an actual masochist.
i think she just may feel insecure/lonely. thankfully she did learn her lesson, but i feel as though those tiktok videos made her feel insecure about her relationship. especially if you have a past history of being abused, healthy relationships can feel barren.
I was kinda expecting Anna in the OF story to reveal that she, in a backwards way, was doing that to help her relatives weed out partners that would be likely to cheat, but it seemed like she was serious about the whole marketing thing.
@@jessicapurdum5084 so why not "market" her business to the gay couple then? I mean, chances are they wont even consider it but MAYBE they would refer the service to their friends or coworkers
My mom never made alcohol taboo, which is pretty impressive since my dad is an abusive alcoholic. I had my first glass of wine at 14 or something. She always had the same rule that she wouldn't get mad if we called her needing a ride for whatever reason at whatever time. Luckily for her my brother and I were very boring teenagers and never needed it.
This validates my parenting. I have a 13 y/o who has no interest now, but they know that if they feel the desire to experiment, I will still unconditionally love and support them. All I ask is that they do their best to be safe and remember that they can always, always call or text me for any reason.
I live in germany, to be precise the capital area of alcohol, bavaria. i had my first sip of alcohol (beer and cola) with 10 and then continued to try various different beverages over the years, once i wwas old enough to legally drink my mom and especially my kinda alcoholic dad told me to always call them once i am too drunk to drive. i am now 19 yrs old (legally in bavaria with 16) and never needed their help because here in bavaria we are taught a very reasonable behaviour with alcohol. sometimes we even drink with teachers or in bars even authorities. i now have my drivers licence too and i often declare myself the driver on purpose (that means im not allowwed to drink anything because of police controls) TL;DR: i grew up in a region where alcohol is your daily life drink, yet i almost live abstinent because despite living with alc we also know what can happen here
@@tak1751 My parents didn’t restrict alcohol either. Instead they modeled healthy drinking habits for my brother and me. We have a pretty good relationship with alcohol today, though I can no longer drink much at all because of medication.
if parents are okay with it, it is less likely kids are interested. Mine also said if we needed a ride or to get home when drunk or on drugs they would NO QUESTIONS ASKED (drugs as in any of the illegal ilicit substances.) as long as we get home safe
I've had a couple of women assert that I must be gay, *and in denial about it,* because I wasn't interested in having sex with them, but believed that I was straight. It didn't inspire me to change my mind about having sex with them. Nor did I put a great deal of energy into refuting them. They were wrong, but if they needed to believe that nonsense to salve their egos... that wasn't my problem. I wasn't troubled by their beliefs. I was (and am) interested in women and not in men, but their attitude helped confirm that they weren't good relationship candidates.
The last one pisses me off so much. At 17 you should know this shit messes up people's entire lives and is illegal to do. I'm 17 rn and couldn't imagine doing something like this in my wildest dreams. Like, if the BIL was 11 I would understand it more, but this is just ridiculous.
One thing Click didn't mention about that one was how the parents apologized after they realized what was happening and their younger son was to blame. I felt quite a bit of respect for them there.
@@barrylangille3523 I agree those parents have my respect, but that son shouldn't be allowed to use electronics for a while. Who knows what else he might've done.
@@readingdino711 oh definitely. Just returning his Christmas present isn't enough, and I'm not just wanting punishment here. He needs to learn that what he did could destroy someone's life. How a 17 year old could be so literally thoughtless is beyond me. He tried to get a family member accused of a serious crime, and then pouts because his victim "spoiled Christmas"? The kid is not only entitled but clueless.
I feel like the BIL has some huge crush on his brothers wife and thinks if they get divorced he might have a chance. Very stupid, horrible thing to do. He has definitely a lot of growing up to do mentally. 😐
Him and his stupid friends, I hope they feel the consequences of their actions in the form of their parents never trusting them again along with the rest of their families, if they are willing to ruin people's lives for no real reason at all, who knows what other crazy stuff they are willing to do?
On the “not his baby” one: this may have happened in my family. My cousin and I were close all growing up, but his mom (my aunt by marriage) was a piece of work. She cheated on my uncle so many times and they divorced. At some point someone in my family realized my cousin looks identical to one of the guys his mom cheated with, but my uncle has always raised him as his own son. My cousin grew distant to the whole family as an adult, I have always wondered if he found out. When my family wants to gossip about it, I try not to let them. It doesn’t matter who his dad is, he’s still family. It’s messed up though. I’m so glad that guy in the story came clean.
One of my uncles is also an affair child. The whole family always suspected, but he was raised by grandma's husband. He probably knew, too. When grandma died, he did a paternity test and confirmed he's the affair's son. But ofc he's still part of the family, too.
Nah, I love it too. Though that's not really saying much. Anyways, congrats on being the 40th comment! You don't really get anything for it, but you do get bragging rights, so that's fun.
the girl who’s ignoring her boyfriend and then texting him the next day saying “i love you” etc is literally a textbook manipulation technique called lovebombing, and it works on insecure people very well.
Exactly. In my case, I actually asked my bf whether he'd be okay having an open/polyamorous relationship, and when he didn't want to, I decided to stay with him instead of cheating or breaking up, since even though I do have moments where I'm like "Hmm, that'd be fun", I treasure and respect him way too much to ever wrong him in any way. I would never cheat on him, and I know the happiness I feel when I'm around him would never be less than when breaking up with him (This would of course change in case of abuse or anything, but that's not happening currently, nor has it in the past 3 years we've been dating). I made the decision to respect his choice. As long as I do not have permission from him, I shall never even consider having another relationship during ours.
Going on with the thing with the pets at the start, I took custody of my ex-roommates cat after she left because she never took care of him. Never cleaned his litter box, didn't get him food and when he would try to get attention from her she would shoo him away and only go to him if something bad happened. It got so bad that normally when people leave the condo he would run to the door they left from and just meow sadly wanting them to come back but when she left for good he didn't even bother to look in her direction and just went to play with the toys I bought him. Now almost a year later this cat never wants to leave my side and sleeps on me almost literally all day aside from when he eats and stuff.
Congrats on being the 58th comment! I'd send something more personalized to your comment, but I'm kind of in a hurry, as I spent too much time replying to the first 57, and want to get to the 69th comment before the end of the hour, because that placement has the best bragging rights, and I can't just let them not get those bragging rights.
The TikTok one is spot on. I was seeing a guy a few months ago who suddenly started openly flirting with other women when we went out even to just a cashier at a supermarket. This was not usual behavior and I could tell he was awkward doing it. When I asked him about it he just got weird and defensive and after a week or two he admitted to looking at relationship advice tiktoks and youtube 'gurus' telling him to 'play hard to get'. I told him he was immature and stunted and broke up with him 2 days before Christmas.
My father once sold my mums car and kept the money for himself. An even more fucked up story is that we had pet rabbits but they didn't get along with every one of us children so he decided to "give them away to his friend". My mum realised he had a Butcher friend and told him not to give it to him and my dad swore he wouldn't.. A few nights later we ate chicken for dinner that didn't taste like chicken..
Gotta love the big ol' can of worms that is my childhood 👍 Those are probably some of the best things he's done compared to other things he has done and that's just sad
If he really fed you those rabbits that's really fucked up. I can understand giving them away to someone since they didn't get along with you, Could've maybe even sold them, but to butcher them seems very unnecessary. And feeding them to you is even more screwed up.
A similar thing happened to my Mum's pet goat when she was little. She knew what she was eating, she had seen the blood in the bathtub and couldn't find her pet goat. I'm putting this online because Deda (granddad) just decided not to let Mum come to his house for Christmas last year and I just heard about it. I'm f*cking fuming. When I was young I thought he was nice. Every new thing I hear about him, I just hate him more. It's no wonder that Baba divorced him.
For some reason the story about the guy not being the father of the baby his gf was carrying gave me an image in my head like i imagined a future where a guy would come up to me at work and telling me the baby my wife would be carrying isnt mine and me just being like "yeah... i know- we're... lesbians, bryan.." IDEK OKAY
The photoshopped nudes story: just insane. This isnt a prank. This is spend years in jail kind of deal. Sending nudes to a minor? Im just glad it came out as fake so easily, this could have been a lot worse, and im so glad for OP that the truth came out so quickly
The shopaholic story is disgusting. If the dad had taken the fall for where the money went, or the money had somehow been replenished with the dad out of the picture it'd have only been a matter of time until the mom spent it all anyway. She has an addiction. Blaming her husband, which might end up in a divorce or separation if the daughter doesnt want to be around him because of that lie would result in the mom being free to indulge in her addictive tendencies without any checks and balances.
I wonder what the mum actually bought. I would imagine it was jewellery to spend that much and no one notice because you can spend thousands on a piece that would be easy to hide.
Yeah, it's disgusting that she had the audacity to ask him to take the fall. 170k on designer goods over years (and say stuff like Botox,fillers, cosmetics) isn't that far fetched with shoes running 1k, and bags up to 30k...
People get so confused on this point. Action is not a sexual orientation. You can be polyamorous, and you can cheat on someone. These are two completely different things.
@Shawna Burt I honestly don't think you're in any position to try playing moral police with anyone else. Please go and educate yourself before you spout your usual brand of dumb shit, please and thank you.
"For the people calling me a psychopath, I don't care. I have to live this life and you'll forget about this post tomorrow" so true.... and she was ok with giving him this burden forever. Even if he found out when the kid was 18 he raised the child for 18 years, he'll never get money back, those feelings don't just go away, every memory is tainted. I think him playing it off for a few months is WAY less than the lives she planned to ruin over decades.
What she did was fucked up, there’s no excuse. But he didn’t have to stoop to that level. He made it worse for himself, dragging it out and letting resentment grow and feeling sad looking at the baby he wanted. Dating someone for 3 months knowing you’re going to break up with them at their lowest moment just to spite them is fucked up, but it’s also fucking yourself over keeping yourself in that situation for three months.
@@nekoshadowwolf that’s the thing. Even if you get revenge, you’ve dedicated yourself to that and kept yourself in that position of suffering for longer than you needed to, so really you’ve made it worse for yourself.
@@Jellybeansatdusk Honestly, the guy she had the affair with may be the closest to a winner in that whole situation. He has a kid to raise, maybe a relationship (thiugh I don't know if you'd want to be with your baby mama after finding out yiu were her drive by fricking)
I am a relationship advisor and that relationship advice off tik tok is the bane of my career, and the amount of people in their 20s, 30s ,50s and old who do this kind of stuff and have no idea how to have a healthy relationship is insane. I very much realize I am needed.
“…Kevin?!?” 😈 I loved this wholesome story SO much. Definitely what I needed to hear today stuck inside from dangerous weather conditions - hope everyone else watching/listening is staying safe out there!
The pet story reminds me of that one story where OP described her date describing taking the pet they shared with their EX to the VET and HAD IT PUT DOWN! The dog was perfectly healthy and the EX was supposed to get it. The date described having asked for just one day and then took it to the vet to have it killed. They described it with a smirk if i recall correctly. OP nope'd out of there.
The worst part of that mother taking all that money from the daughters college fund is that she is the mother, whereas the father who actually cares about the daughters future and is willing to sacrifice his own retirement and inheritance for her education is the stepfather that has only been in her life 8 of the 17 years of her life. The STEPFATHER cares so much more for the girl and her future and education than the MOTHER.
14:54 no Click, this is terrible! Of course, it's awesome of the wife to sacrifice so much of her time and energy for her husband, but the fact they feel it's necessary to do this is actually really sad! Labor laws, work culture and proper management should allow him to call in sick whenever he needs to without feeling guilty towards his team! It's great for OP that he has such a supportive wife, but OP's employer does not deserve the free labor from her!
5:00 I'm so glad that the Kevin the cat story ended the way it did. I was genuinely concerned, as you were reading it, that it was going to end with the owner killing himself.
I was a bit concerned too hearing the way the OP described the loud meowing, so I was relieved(and cracking up) when it turned out the cat was basically just screaming at their stoned owner, "Dammit, open this f***ing door! You locked me out, dumba**!!"
The poly one really got to me. I’m poly. So are both my girlfriends. Hell one of my girlfriends has several more girlfriends. We ALL knew what we were getting into before hand. Being poly requires an enormous amount of communication. You absolutely do not spring it after the fact!
This subreddit is so wild and Click's voice makes it better. I literally cried laughing at Kevin's story. I also greet my cat when I come home from work (seriously, who doesn't?)
I dont trust anyone who doesnt greet their pets. Whenever i came home, i always instinctively greet my dog and gave her her deserved belly rubs. (maybe if you have a pet fish or something like that, but you get the point)
@@foxinabox5103 So true! I always great my dogs, but its not like i have a choice. They almost always greet me at the door. And if they don't greet me I need to check that it's 'cause they are asleep and not because they are feeling sick or something.
21:47 this is the real MVP here. Giving out of his own pockets to take care of his child. She's his stepdaughter but he's 100% here for her. I love it. Cassie has a good dad and I hope the mom gets the help she needs. However she needs to face the truth about what she did and hope that with time Cassie will forgive her.
I am housebound and my ex tried to use it as an excuse to take our dog with him despite the fact he works 12 hr shifts. His best friend found out and called the RSPCA on him so they did a check on his activities. He was told to give me the dog because I have a back garden and carers that can come walk him every day. Going through our documents I found out legally the dog is mine and only mine, just shared due to living circumstances at the time. The dog hasn't missed my ex once and I know this because whenever my ex comes to see him, my dog just lifts his head and will jump into my lap as if to say 'like I give a crap'!
12:30 I'm betting OP could have turned the older gen against her real quick had she explained it as being a digital stripper or showing the site itself to them. Family bias can be usually broken with something really shocking.
I love that you set things about Poly folks straight. I hate the hate they keep getting. And that person, who cheated and alligned it with the lifestyle is just horrendous
Starting off the week strong with some content from Clicky! I'm a little low on energy today, so some content from Click should help give me enough giggles and chuckles to keep me going! Congrats on the Emotional Support Demon's success, you earned it! :D
Omg that first one made me so sad. I would honestly break up with that girl, like how can you stay with someone who not only takes away someone's pet, but won't even let them see it when they're literally dying?! OP is amazing in this story, bless them for giving the ex something so precious before they passed.
About the cheating woman story, it reminds me of an old acquaintance of my grandpa. He was married and had a happy life, but he and his wife decided, back in the 80s, that they would have an "agreement" about cheating. They could "cheat" on each other no problem at all, but family couldn't know the identity of the boyfriends or girlfriends. It was very scandalous back then, but they agreed on it and were both happy about it
Could also be a result of growing up around men who justify their bad behaviour by saying its "only natural" and anyone who doesn't do the same is gay.
I think she probably was cheating on him and wanted to find something that made it "okay" that she cheated. Every time someone I've known has been accused of cheating by their partner out of nowhere, it's *always* been the partner who cheated. Projection is a helluva mindfuck.
It's either that or she was raised in an environment where the men around her used the "it natural for men to look elsewhere for sex" and other such lines to justify their own behaviour and any man who doesn't behave like them must be gay. Depending on her family, she may truly think this is normal.
@@kiku-goldenflower7731 the one thing that makes me think this could be true is how her brother wanted to fight him for being gay. not for cheating on her with a man- for being gay. implies some things about that family.
I've met poly groups at AMA-style things and the two most important parts of a poly relationship are communication and consent. This person did neither. She's either very new to poly and doesn't know the rules or isn't poly and just likes the attention from multiple men at once.
Sadly, I've mainly found that a partner that is always looking for "Proof" that you're cheating, is the one cheating and just trying to justify their actions.
The Kevin story is amazing. And totally something I could see happening to me when dead sober and leaving lasting life-long confusion/curiosity. Heck, honestly, considering I've watched past cats I've owned stretch up and turn a round door knob to open doors I'd be in total belief that Kevin had figured out how to knock.
Plot twist: She's like that one CollegeHumor guy who only does wholesome content on a naughty site. She just does that as a twisted way to weed out awful partners.
Fun animal fact: The blood ‘Dracula ant’ has the fastest recorded animal movement when it snaps its mandible. This cannibalistic ant can go from zero to 200mph(~322kph) in 0.000015 seconds when it snaps its mandibles, that’s roughly 5,000 times faster than humans blink
The "my girlfriend accused me of being gay because I didn't cheat on her" comes across like she has some kind of untreated mental health disorder that causes her to sabotage relationships, I've been with people like this and it's exhausting and upsetting. Definitely not worth the trouble, at least until they receive the help they need.
Shopping addicts will most often buy on impulse, but never really use whatever they bought. It's possible in that story just got some stuff at a time, shelved it somewhere, and never got back to it. It's also possible she was actively hiding it from her husband, since she sounds very aware of her problem.
For the first story, if it’s his dog, pretty sure he should have been able to take legal action to get it back but considering he was terminally ill, I don’t blame him for not trying.
21:35 you know as your talking I'll I'm hearing is "it takes $200,000 to get a good education". That's more money than many people will see in their entire lives.
innit I'm actually shocked... I'm from the UK and I'm pretty sure that every uni here, however good, charges the same £9.5k yearly, so you're paying about £27k for three years. I'm going to apply to uni this year but my courses are 4 years (year abroad for MFL); even then, it's nowhere close to US uni debt?? it seems to be actually horrific over there.
So, i am poly. A 22 year old polyamorous pansexual trans dude. I told my bf about my feeling for my gf as soon as i found out i was poly. We talked A LOT but my feelings and his feeling and we found out... we both love her equally. And she loved us both. But if i wasn't honest to him this would have never turned out so well. I'm single by now but not because a poly relationship doesn't work. Both me and gf got mentally very ill and thats why we split up in the end. None of us wanted the relationship to become a toxic hellfire
It is also so fascinating to me how the holidays seem to bring out the Toxic family behavior to the nth degree. Like MILs etc doing above and beyond petty things to try and destroy a relationship because they don't like it and with any luck, the partner that they are targeting can open the eyes of the SO and help them see how awful their parents are acting, and get their SO to support them and shut the family down. Alas, it doesn't always turn out that way.
My best friend is polyamorous, and just from being around them and their polycule I can tell it takes a lot of communication and trust. I really admire people who have the capacity to make it work, and I hate that people use polyamory as a disguise for cheating :/
The girl in the first story is the type of crazy ex that you tell you friends and family about. From the sounds of it, she only took the dog because she knew it would hurt her ex the most. If the dog didn't exist, it would've been an item of great sentimental value to her ex. She's the type of petty that should be shamed and shunned. The type who, it doesn't matter who or how many she hurts, she will do anything to get her revenge if she doesn't get her way. In this case, getting broken up with.
Thanks for what you said about polyamory! As a poly person, it really frustrates me to see people using polyamory as an excuse to cheat. People can and SHOULD figure out they're poly BEFORE getting into another relationship if they're already in one. I figured out I was poly while I was totally single! I just did a lot of research and self-reflection and realized that was what sounded best to me, so by the time I got into my next relationship, my new partner knew I was poly and was good with that. Now I have two commitmented partners and one secondary partner, and all of them knew I was poly and knew about all my other partners and romantic entanglements before we started anything together.
39:25 not young honestly 17 is old enough to not do shit like this, if you’re nearly old enough to shoot and kill people in the military, then you’re old enough to face criminal charges and prison time for shit like that. That is BEYOND fucked behavior, and literally life ruining shit
You'd think people would be too old to play games in relationships, but my last boyfriend was in his 30's and would try to give me the silent treatment and then get mad when I tried to give him space to calm down instead of begging him to talk to me 🤦♀️
Also, I'd be deeply disturbed if a family member's partner just gave me a promo code so I can pay to see their feet/see them naked. Like who tf thinks like that???
What's the deal with feet anyway? Do people think feet are...s*xy? All I've ever associated with feet are dirty sneakers and smelly socks, definitely not s*xy.
@@ferretqueen2908 historically, foot fetishes often are rooted in eras where fashion/clothing covered up most of the body (like the Victorian era). As for why it's a thing now, not entirely sure, but as someone who studied psychology, I can say that fetishes are pretty diverse, and are typically an overall harmless (and can actually be healthy) expression of sexuality. That being said, always make sure everyone involved in a person's fetish is consenting to be part of it. Consent matters!
@ferretqueen2908 feet are fascinating, even if you only look at it from anatomy. Please be more nice and respectful to your feet. They have so many bones and complex sinews and stuff and they carry us around for such a long time.
I love these long videos as background audio. There are multiple moments that are just "WAIT A DAMN MOMENT" or "WTF DID YOU JUST SAY?!! Repeat please?" Thank you so much Click and Cliccy editor.
33:26, On one hand "Lmao OP why dont you break up with this lunatic" On the other hand being in a relationship with a clown must be incredibly entertaining and amusing
The first story with the dog is honestly so sad. That girl is evil. This is why you should always keep a full record of your pet's purchase/adoption and veterinary care. I'll be damned if I bring a dog into a relationship, and my vindictive and sadistic ex tries to hold my dog hostage. However, if the pet was a mutual purchase/adoption, I suppose that would be more complicated. A pet is a big commitment, so I'd suggest considering this when deciding to get a pet with your partner.
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“You’ll all forget about this post in a day anyway, while I’ll have to live with this shit for the rest of my life.”
Is such a raw reminder that while people love hearing these stories, we shouldn’t forget that they’re real people (at least for the stories that aren’t incredibly fake)
Hey, guess what? You are the 69th comment! Which means you get bragging rights to the funny number! Donwith these bragging rights what you will!
i manifested superpowers after taking a dump in area 51. i am not lying it is a very real thing that happened in my life
❤❤❤ and that we shouldn’t take comments we get online to close to heart
@@hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195 yeah or people shouldn't be dicks to strangers online that would be even better
@@neko_my_cat i still think both is good, what OP wrote and also not caring about online d1ckheads
I'm here for Kevin and his stoned out owner. That's just straight adorable
I know! Warmed my heart. The walls in my building seem pretty thick, but I praise my cats all the time and wouldn't be super embarrassed if my neighbors could hear it 😂
@TheClick…. I think there is spam of someone pretending to be you!
“K-kevin..?? When did you have hands..? You are magic cat?”
Yeah, Kevin's dad is hilarious.
My cat will kick the door hard lol. So I get the stone owner
That software engineer couple is the definition of ''in sickness and in health'' and im jealous as hell 😭❤
In sickness and servitude to the capitalist system. No one should ever have to make the decision to work while sick, if that jeopardize the project that's a failure if the management, not the worker.
@@informitas0117that’s more so for service jobs, vs a more technical job that requires at least some knowledge of not just the field but the specific project being worked on.
Covering a sick service worker is generally a matter of making sure you have enough competent staff able to complete the shift/allotted work. Covering for a technical job that requires knowledge of a specific project, that may even have some confidential, is a little more difficult on short notice.
This is by no means saying one persons job is more important than another, just some tasks do require a little more heads up to make appropriate accommodations.
@@informitas0117that's correct, but this could can't overthrow the whole system.
They did what they can
I love that the husband in the last story was like “bitch, I know my wife’s naked body, and that ain’t it!”
Onlyfans story, the husband could've easily saved himself if he said 'yeah I got a card but I wasn't interested cuz I'm in a committed relationship. I also didn't want to ruin the day so I was going to bring it up later in private.' Instead he denied it and lied to his partner.
That would require him to be a good human being. Apparently, he's not capable of that and if he was, he's clearly not smart enough to weaponize it. At least he showed his crappy side before they got married. And that cousin is out of her mind.
doesn't look like op gave any update or context so it could be he's not a bad dude and you're reading too much into it
@@kamo7293 There is a non-zero possibility he isn't a scumbag, but I'd put those odds at maybe 5% at best.
I feel like the girl calling her bf gay for not interacting with other women was looking for an excuse to blame a breakup on him.
I could see that but I've know both guys and girls that are just this bad. They're just that sort of insecure and paranoid. Then when they ant find anything wrong, they cause it, and if that doesn't work, they just start to make up reasons. Its...Really sad to see.
Oh IDK I was told by my ex fiancé that I don’t actually love him because I was ready to forgive cheating if we worked on it hard together. I don’t think he wanted to end it because he was shocked when I did and even threatened me, begged etc.
I truly think some people are just addicted to drama. I never understood jealousy as an emotion and his parents were extremely jealous (for no reason might i add they barely left the house) so I think in his mind he thought that is how love should be and since we were getting close to finally getting married after seven years of relationship I think he was actually worried that I don’t love him due to lack if jealousy…
Dodged a whole automatic riffle on that one
@@hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195 luckily you did that
Maybe she has BPD? Would explain the self sabotaging, insecure, & anger issues. Or she just an a-hole idk
She might have paranoia issues, so when her 'theres some kind of issue here' fixation couldn't find another woman, it jumped to 'only because he's not into women'.
it's still absolutely possible to cheat if you're poly. identifying as polyamorous isn't a free-card to get away with cheating. as soon as you do something that you and your partner didn't explicitly agree was okay beforehand, that's cheating, and that can happen even if you're in a poly relationship.
Agree. The problem is dishonesty and that can occur in any relationship
Hell, even in a poly relationship, if you cheat by violating what people want, that's worse, since you're betraying way more people.
@@DeisFortuna exactly
I didn't know until like a few weeks ago that apparently people can't tell the difference between polyamory and open relationship 🤦♀ Polyamory is a relationship with multiple people, open relationship is where partners are free to have sex with whoever else they want, why is this so confusing😩
Absolutely true.
The shopaholic wife: The fact she is not willing to sell her things, admit her wrongs, or even find getting help "steep" is proof of the woman she actually is. This is probably why her daughter and her are on such rocky grounds, because she is clearly self -absorbed and doesn't think about anyone outside herself. Step dad will probably always be this girl's parent, but I would not be surprised if the daughter went no contact with mom down the road.
The shopping addicted wife should become a paid organ donor to get some of her daughter's money back. There are several organs and tissues that can be live donated with reasonable safety. Blood and blood products, bone marrow. One kidney, one lung can be donated. Sections of liver can regrow in time so that could be an ongoing donation. Oh one cornea could've also be donated, a portion of their pancreas or intestine could also be donated.
That's what I thought!
Anyone else think that maybe, 1+ million people have $170k between them?
On one hand, I feel kinda bad for Cassie, because I know what it's like when your future gets ripped away from you because of something other people did, and they're not even sorry.
On the other, it would be awesome to see Click go through r/HumansBeingBros and finding a post about how his fans got that girl into college because of his videos.
Agreed. And the thing is also... if she doesn't want to do anything for her daughter, to correct HER OWN mistake, then... why is she even saying she wants to keep her daughter in her life?
Like, to me this whole thing just sounds like the mom going "if I'm going down, I'm taking you down with me, because why should I be the only one suffering, if we're BOTH her parents" and that's just so incredibly twisted...
And that (step) dad willing to pay for ivy league outright so she never has to deal with loan debt?!
As a polyam person, thank you for talking about polyamoury and ethical non-monogamy. What the person did is what we call "Poly-bombing" and is so horrible for the other person.
Yup. My partners are informed before they become my partners exactly what my situation is. Everyone is involved. I'm in a mono relationship right now and I'm happy with that. 😊 no secret partners to poly bomb with
Gotta put the ethical in ethical non monogamy. These people need to read The Ethical Slut
Poly-bombing is a term I’d not heard of even though I’m poly myself. Thanks for the info! ☺️
As with every other thing in this realm, it's about ✨️consent✨️
The guy that took the dog to see his owner? That guy deserves all the praise in the world, and I hope he eventually finds someone who would never be that petty and cruel.
Yeah.. if that was me, the post would have ended with "I left the dog with her ex and then broke up with her and told everyone else in town she's a dog thief and to never date her". That guy was too soft on her, she needs to be metaphorically slapped in the face and taught a lesson, it's not fair she gets to believe she let that man die without ever seeing his dog and she thinks that's hilarious, she's sick in the head. People who break the bond between a dog and their first human just to hurt the person, are pure evil. I wouldn't have been able to leave the dog with her knowing she could behave like that, and I definitely wouldn't be able to date her, I've broken up with people for less, I'm asexual and single now but when I dated, I didn't tolerate cruel assholes, ever. You say one mean thing about someone in public being fat, you push one puppy aside, you laugh one time at seeing someone get hurt, and we're done. So I just can't see how low standards people must have to find out your gf is keeping a dying man and his loving dog from ever seeing each other, and still want to even look at that disgusting jerk. I'd be disgusted to even be in a room with her again, we would not still be together and I'd do everything in my power to get that dog to a safe place away from her.
@@-desertpackrat I 100% agree with everything you said. I just wish there were more people like this who didn't tolerate any signs of cruelty instead of ignoring it and eventually enabling it. People like that get worse and you're right how could you want to be in a relationship with someone that deliberately cruel. She's absolutely vile.
It's really a good litmus to see how someone treats people they hate.
They can be mean, but are they dishonest, unfair, or properly abusive?
Cause you can't be sure your relationship won't end that way, and the person they're treating horribly now probably thought it was unlikely too, and maybe they didn't actually deserve the hate either.
That software engineer couple is the most wholesome thing I've heard all year.
I loved it too it was so sweet and wonderful
It really is amazing
As a software engineer, I was already quite aware that we're more powerful in teams. Turns out we can be even more powerful in couples.
@@M_M_ODonnell brains teamwork and good hearts...techies taking over the world!
Damn really? We are in January
Cassie's stepfather is the absolute gold standard. Heart, melted.
Yeah. That, the programming couple, and the dad of the drunk girl, are absolute goals.
King energy
So true
@@Kartoffelkamm Yep
Don’t forget the husband who stood by his wife when she was framed by the petty, despicable brother in law.
To be honest, "Ana" gave everyone the gift of truth by weeding out the shitty partners out of the family 😂
So.... Ana is Chaotic good...
@@undamaged1813 maybe more chaotic neutral
Yeah definitely
Yeah, I love the "oh no my bf lies, hides things and doesn't give a fuck about me, better go blame a woman for it" mentality that still lives on. And ye it's technically just porn, but it's not the same when the center of that porn is right there 'in the flesh' 😅
I mean if someone handed me that i would probably pocket it and when I could get my wife alone talk to her about it
As someone who has a recovering shopaholic mom, if you take any advice on a family member like this NEVER under any circumstances let them off the hook EVER, not even on the first big offense if you can help it. Because when the shopaholic addiction gets this bad, it’s going to go on for as long as you keep bailing them out.
The biggest clue to how you know it’s beyond bad is how well they hide it, Click you asked how the husband didn’t notice all the stuff from the missing money, that’s because she has probably had this problem since she was a teenager and these long standing addicts are THAT good at hiding the evidence, at least until someone notices the hundreds of dollars missing.
Plus even if it was over something like 10 years, she was still spending around enough to buy a used car every year
Have open finances with your partner. That doesn't mean you control each other's money or whatever, just be transparent. Or you'll end up in a bad place. Relationships end over financial stress.
Its easy to see why Cassie has such a rocky relation with her mother considering the mom doesn't want to take any responsibility or consequences for her actions and refuses to be a part of the solution.
Yeah, that was infuriating to hear.
I would be divorcing her and telling Cassie the truth as well as making sure she knew I would still be a parent even though her pathetic mother would be on her own.
Getting in a monogamous relationship and then deciding you want a poly relationship doesn't mean your spouse has to go along with it. They didn't consent to that kinda relationship and it'd disrespecting to THEM to decide that without their concent.
I talked to my lover about that, I ain't sure if I would want polygamy but he would be okay with considering it if I am otherwise it is just us
Yeah, so poly person here; If you want a polyamourous relationship if one: you know before this relaionship explain exactly what and how this would work. Two: If you are already in a relationship but you realize there's more you want out of it, you explain. Then you and your partner have to decide is this something we're okay with? if not you can either continue to be monogamous or make the decision to end the relationship. Communication is so important because being poly is not an excuse to cheat that is a betrayal of trust and it sucks a lot.
@@dumbnoodleman Just sorting out everything at the start means nothing huge that can happen and end it immediately, as well as just having those conversations can lead to even more interesting things.
@@kempolar9768 Of course I meant as in having these convos and you just cannot agree this is like worst case scenario stuff
Yeah, I’d be like “Cool. I support you in your pursuit of a poly relationship with a group of people that doesn’t include me.”
These videos are getting longer and longer and I couldn't be happier about it. Respect to The Click's editor whose job keeps getting harder though
Hell yeah! Love listening to these videos in the background while I do other things, them being so long allows me to concentrate instead of choosing the next video after 15 minutes 💕
Yeah. They're great videos, though. Anyways, congrats on being the 44th comment on the video!
You counted?
@@kittydemonoverkill I can't believe you actually took the time to do this to every one of the first 69 comments, nice
We're gonna get an hour-long Clck video in not too long, I can feel it.
That wife who did her husband's work and took care of him while he was sick, is a freaking keeper. Like what an MVP.
My good person, that's not an MVP. That's a freaking GOAT
I feel sad for these partners that think a non-drama filled relationship isn't the norm, like what the heck are your role models?!
Fictional Media (and *maybe* reality shows sometimes), where a relationship's Only Purpose is for drama and nothing else.
Because people just Don't get to love each other in shows that aren't centered on drama...
Their parents
Sadly many parents aren't great role models with relationships, especially divorced/separated parents.
My parents always represented a united front, both to their children and the church my father pastored. They were married for 25 years. One day, out of the blue, they flew down to tell us they were getting divorced because my dad had secretly been cheating for years, and my mom no longer wanted to "live a lie".
So, idk. Even a superficially stable and secure relationship model can lead to having a hard time knowing what love really looks like 💔
@@T.Florenzagreed my dad my my mom's hype man. They wouldn't make decisions without the other for a reason. I can't be mad at that lol. I learned the importance of a united front by them too.
Stoner: "k... K .. Kevin, how did you knock like a human??"
Kevin: "I'm a cat. I summoned a demon." (walks inside) "And you didn't hear me talk either."
This should be a comic!
That's every "talk with animals" interaction in bauldurs gate.
As a Poly woman who moved from a more 'progressive' area where the poly community had a huge emphasis on open honest relationships to a more 'conservative' area, I can speak the the relatively ridiculous number of 'I'm poly but don't tell my wife' number of openers I got on the dating ap I was using when I first got here.... I still don't have a new polycule 5 years later.... like guys I am that bitch that will not only not 'not tell your wife' , this is a small town, I will go find her and show her the messages. Mean while the number of times my SO would walk in and see a wall of text on my chat screen and ask 'So we got to the, so your partner really does know your on here' , these guys can't even wrap their head around Actually being honestly poly, like my partner knows, sees and reads my conversations, helps me vet potential new partners etc....
"I'm not a bad person im just polly!" Is an easier pill to swallow than "I'm a cheater and a bad person", so now being polly got a terrible reputation
Lol. Oh yes, so many guys I've met just can't grok it. Not complicated. Hubby and I want each other to be happy, and multiple relationships make us happy. Truly wanting your partner to be happy is such a foreign concept to some people. I don't get it.
@@kaylaHat exactly ugH! I'm poly, but in a mono relationship with my now gf because of her negative experience with a 'poly' ex who dated someone else without communication and just said it was because they were poly. That's just cheating.
@@beau4612I just feel really sorry for both of you in this. Getting cheated on and blaming an innocent group of people sucks, but not being allowed to be who you are also sucks (unless your partner and you agreed on this). It’s happened to me and now I’m slowly starting to be a “you can be poly but I won’t be involved with the other partners” type person again after three years.
Everyone needs to know. That is the basic start. Cheating is not polygamy, and polygamy is not cheating.
I read the update about the guy with the stealing wife : he has told the truth to Cassie, is planning to divorce his wife and explains that she spent that money over years so it wasn't that obvious to him. She was the only one who had access to her daughter's account and everytime he caught her buying something expensive, she'd say it was on sale or that she had a nice bonus at work. So, I really believe he didn't caught up with her spending habits until too late and despite the situation, I'm pretty happy to know he and Cassie will probably be OK (she's applying for scholarships in order for her step father not to drain his retirement funds to make up for everything).
Thank you so much for this long video Click !
Unfortunately shopping addiction is an actual thing. Basically failed adulting and needing someone to manage your funds for you.
@@tak1751 my aunt lose her house because of a shopping addiction and when the family tried to talk to her about it, she cut them off for a while. it is a very difficult problem to fix.
Didn't she also fake deposit slips to "prove" she deposited the money in the account and instead pocketed it?
The mother should have agreed to not just admitting her longtime theft, but admitting her addiction to her daughter, AND getting help for it. Her relationship with her daughter is so bad even without this because she’s not handling life well. Hopefully, stories like this will get well known so the realities of lesser known addictions can be better recognized and help offered. Part of the problem with identifying it is shopping doesn’t always go that far; “too much of anything is a bad thing”. In limited amounts or with a controlled budget, something like shopping can also be a coping mechanism- window shopping without being able to buy anything, just to get out of the house and move around a bit, for example. My mom occasionally does a form of this where she browses the clearance racks during good additional sales and buys things for other people, since giving gifts that will be enjoyed is part of how she expresses love to family and it gets her out of her head, focusing on others rather than herself.
Thanks for posting this update! It's really a heartbreaking story. I'll never understand how parents can betray their children so utterly and completely. Lucky for Cassie that her step dad has his heart in the right place.
The jealous girlfriend accusing the bf of being gay because he wont cheat reads to me like she wanted to be done with the relationship but didnt want to sit down and have a reasonable, adult conversation with the bf so she ended up making up bullshit so she could end it.
Calling your own partner gay for doing stuff that isn't at all gay, is peak 90s love language.
That last story with the brother in law photoshopping nudes of OP was gross but I have a lot of respect for OP's hubby and parents in law. Hubby because he was levelheaded and cautious enough to take the time to both confirm the nudes WEREN'T hers, and to call out brother in law in front of everyone.
Respect to the parents for recognizing they were wrong and apologizing, as well as taking action to punish the brother. They could have easily stuck to their guns and been stubborn, insisting they didn't have proof it wasn't her and demanding to see proof etc, disowned OP and OP's hubby etc. That's a good hubby right there, and the parents are good too.
Often I feel the parents are to blame for children's actions, since it's the parents' job to teach their kids right from wrong. But on account of the fact that 1) the kid is 17, nearly a legal adult, and 2) they were surprisingly apologetic, it seems like this toxic behavior was entirely unprompted by them and all just the brother. One would expect a little more maturity by that age, and the fact he insisted they 'ruined Christmas' is laughable. They didn't ruin Christmas; he did it himself.
I personally got the vibe that the younger brother was spoiled since he said his Christmas was ruined just because he didn't get to keep his new game console.
An argument could also be made that it was a misunderstanding, since OP never said that BIL had claimed they were sent by her. All we know is that he showed the family those pictures, after all. We don't know what he was planning, or why he made them, or whatever.
It could be that he found that model online, realized she looked a lot like his new relative, and decided to do some stupid teenager stuff, on account of being a stupid teenager.
@@Kartoffelkamm he said that he's showing how much of a degenerate she is, so yes, that's implying that she was on the photos. He planned her character assassination, no matter what would happen afterwards. "Just a prank, bro" is not really a good excuse to do stuff like that, even if he planned it just as a prank and planned to joke it off later (which we have *no* proof of in the OP's description).
I'm wondering what the hell was the goal on doing that?
I really would like to know why the kid did it.. and wasn't even ashamed after getting caught for such a disgusting stunt... Was he jealous about his brother or something.. that's the weirdest thing I've heard in awhile..
Staying with her until she carried the baby to full term is actually incredibly kind (albeit accidentally). The stress the mother might’ve gone through could have been detrimental to the baby so yeah. Doing it this way was sensible. Best for baby, worse for mother haha
Nah trust me, getting left alone the day you give birth would be a lot more stressful than halfway through the pregnancy when you still have time to sort out other support systems. Once the baby is born, chaos ensues and you need all the help you can get. I can't feel sorry for her but he definitely went for maximum punishment.
@@natk1105but she was FULLY committed to pretending it was OPs to hide the cheating and get him to sign the certificate. He waited till she was sewn up and comfortable and she's lucky enough that both men are willing to get tested and assume responsibility if it's theirs.
Pretty stressful but if the "other man" cares more about you and an innocent baby than it's own mother/your partner...she ain't a good person and I don't feel bad for her.
Ehhh. Bad for both, the baby has to live in this.
Ana is probably going to be complaining about being left out of family events in the near future, because I'm pretty sure there's going to be a lot of "if she's there, we're not coming" after that stunt.
If she's there, at least the males are 'coming'...
@@babafo6788 Only the desperate ones.
Honestly, creating drama has been a thing way before Social media. My grandma, when she wanted to feel right/better, would deliberately do weird stuff. Like one time she left a mug balanced on the edge of the table, so it would fall and break as grandpa would enter (he was very heavy and the front door was metal), but he didn't trigger her trap, instead she turned in anticipation, bumped the table and the mug fell and broke. What followed was the most illogical thing I've ever witnessed, she started crying and hitting him because he was supposed to break the mug and that it was her favorite tea cup and then it spun into "if you love me you'd have broken it instead of me" and "you don't love me enough to admit that you are at fault"... Anywho, that was a 70+ year old woman that had gotten away with that behavior all her life.
I will never fathom people like that. I genuinely don't understand fabricating drama because life is "too good" and you're actively seeking a reason to be upset. Is there any psychology major that can crack this code?
Jesus H. Christ.
@@RiveroftheWither Sounds more like "I want a reason to be pissed off or to feel like I'm better than you, how dare you not give me that?"
@@RiveroftheWither I actually have a theory about this. It connects to the standards of media we consume and the sheer volume of what’s available. The reason we interact with entertainment is commonly cited to be “a distraction from our boring lives”. It’s cheap, mostly accessible, and easy to get far too swept up in if you have enough free time.
The problem is that telling stories requires conflict, and people tend to write over-the-top conflict to make movie, series, and book stories more… interesting. It makes sense for media, but real life comes across as boring after consuming too much of this exaggerated reality. Some people who desperately want excitement like the kind in their programming of choice can try to manufacture this same exaggerated reality and get angry when it doesn’t work. This can come across as illogical or even “insane” to anyone but them.
This isn’t saying that media is bad or anything. It’s more a commentary on how much of it we consume and how our desire for escapism can spiral dangerously out of hand if not kept in check.
@@carniethedat7071
Sounds like people whose life is way too good and easy. I personally do take any and every win I can and cherish it.
Hold up. That first story... SHE STOLE HIS DOG FOR NO OTHER REASON THAN BITTER ANGER OVER A BREAKUP?!? I am so happy her new partner took matters into their own hands and let the ex see his dog. Though, if I'm honest, not only would I have left the dog with the original owner, unless asked to bring it back since he was terminally ill, I would have left the girlfriend as soon as I found out she took the dog from her ex!
Unless a pet is mistreated, I would never take them away from their original human! What an absolute asshole.
@tommorrison1960 Yeah, cudos to him for transporting a dog in his car, when he isn't fond of dogs, but the poor dog!
I can't imagine if someone did this with one of my cats! Even if it was my jerk cat, who rarely wants cuddles and sometimes wake me up in the middle of the night. I would be so upset and heartbroken. If I got really sick on top of that? Shit... I probably wouldn't even have the energy or willpower to fight the illness at that point...
Unfortunately in many places pets are considered "property" and I have no doubt the gf would have immediately called the police and made issues both for op and the ex if she knew he had done that. At the very least the dog would have been returned to her by police and at worst they'd both be facing charges of theft.
Personally I'd have taken the dog over every time she was at work and broken up with her ASAP after the ex passed away, the only reason I wouldn't have broken up with her after realising how toxic she was is to give the ex and the dog the chance to spend time together. I might have tried to find a way of getting the dog out of there without her knowing it went to the ex, like telling her it ran off while on a walk or something, but only if I could trust the ex and his family not to let it slip that they had the dog
@@Lilith-Rose I am very aware that pets, any non-human animals really, are often seen as "property" more than living beings, but if he was the original owner then he should have some kind of registry of ownership. If she has the legal paperwork showing he's the owner, then I imagine it can be a hard battle, but the ex should still have a better claim, legally speaking.
@@lampekartoffel sounds like he was trying until he got too sick, property disputes like that are a civil court matter and take a very long time and a lot of lawyers fees to resolve, and in some states who owned the property prior to the relationship means nothing, everything is counted as communal property (awful law, I'd never willingly live in a place where that was the case myself) also unless it's a registered purebred from a breeder with a purchase history or adopted from a shelter there's not going to be much of a paper trail, even vaccination and other vet records etc aren't going to be much help
Imo she took the dog because she was emotionally attached as well(which is scummy when that was the ex's dogs. You cant just take a dog that youre babysitting for years because you saw it everyday, 10 hours a day), but ngl she is a devil if thats how she acted with the ex on his deathbed...i wouldve given the dog back and break up, she is a walking red flag
As far as the shopaholic mom and what she did with her purchases goes, designer stuff can be RIDICULOUSLY expensive, for stuff that genuinely doesn’t look that special at all.
The mom could’ve dropped 9k on a tracksuit that you would think cost 150$, but it’s 20x more than that because it’s designer.
Honestly I think designer clothes are such a scam because of that - obviously some stuff is nice but I’ve seen people basically wearing tarps, but tarps that cost 6,000$ because they’re designer. 🙄
Designer clothes are a total scam. For one, a lot of them are made in the facilities as the off-brand stuff... You're literally pay 20x more for the label. And honestly, I think people being obsessed with buying designer labels are the epitome of "having money, but not knowing how to spend it".
Example: Jojo Siwa, when she was trying to defend Colleen Ballinger's bs, was wearing a Gucci pride-looking shirt that runs for about $950... that shit literally looked like something you could buy from target for $20... if I'm gonna wear a $950 garment, that bitch better LOOK like I spent $950 on it.
I have a wallet that looks like a designer item, but actually it was about $5 off Amazon lol
My purse is actually a Coach bag that probably cost over $200 brand new that I got at a thrift store for $24
Designer stuff is a huge scam of paying hundreds more just to have someone's name on your clothes that don't even look all that special.
That last story. Her POS brother in law is lucky that he wasn't hospitalized for pulling a stunt like that. If my brother did that, he would be lucky if he was out of the hospital by the next Christmas. Trying to ruin a marriage by faking nudes, she supposedly sent to you, a minor is just evil.
Yeah, very truly evil in law. I hope he gets legal repercussions for this.
It's practically a form of false allegation at this point.
With that first one, I’d consider breaking off the relationship because of that. I wouldn’t want to spend time with someone so needlessly cruel.
Yeah, and that's even if the ex wasn't sick. If I found out my bf's dog actually belonged to his gf, and he kept it out of spite, I'd probably go drop off the dog for a "play date" with the ex, and then delete my (now ex-)bf's number.
Why does everyone assume that a dying ex is an angel? Maybe he beat the shit out of both of them and the new bf is being condescending and dismissive about her reasons? You don't know the details
@@Lilian040210 well that's the point, we don't know nor need the details - it's none of our business what the dead ex did or what kind of relationship the two had or whether or not the current partner is aware of what happened. i don't think anyone is claiming the dead ex was an angel by any means, we have no idea who this person is, but either way it's still a cruel thing to do to a person; steal their pet and refuse to at least let them see their pet before they die.
plus, if this ex did something horrible to his ex partner i'm sure they would've told their current partner. especially if this ex is messaging them about their dog. and then the current partner would've respected their partner's decision!!
but that isn't what happened, it seems like this person stole their ex's dog and refused to give it back even while they were dying. that's all we know. not every relationship ends because of someone beating the other, it could've just been a mutual agreement that they weren't a perfect fit or the partner who stole the dog was an asshole to the dying ex.
there are SO MANY possibilities, perhaps even endless possibilities, of what could've happened in that relationship. but we don't know anything, therefore we can't assume.
we can't assume the dying ex is an angel, but we also can't assume the dying ex was an evil person as well.
we just know that the OP gave this person the chance to see their beloved pet before they died.
pls be a bit more respectful, especially when talking about someone who is no longer even alive. we don't know this person and we never will, so the best bet is to just appreciate the story and hope the dead ex rests in peace
@@Lilian040210 It wasn't the ex who made the post though, it was his friend, and from the way it was written, It's pretty obvious they were there while the dog and the ex were together. If they had observed abusive behaiviour then, I don't think they'd have been ok with it.
Also, shame on you for assuming the worst of someone you never knew with zero evidence to back you up.
@@justusb.plorer8773 They were just throwing out the possibility that maybe the motivation for not wanting to meet up with their ex so they can see the dog might be something other than sheer spite. We don't have the full story from the dog owner, as far as we know it's an assumption the OP made based on the information they had. It's just a shame so many on here are backing it up as gospel truth.
Besides, just because he didn't act abusive in front of a stranger for the few hours they were together doesn't mean there's no history of abuse. It's not like abusive people are abusive 24/7. When The Click read it, basing it on my own experiences, I too thought maybe an abusive history would explain it.
Fun fact: If you ever find yourself in need of it, leather armour is best for sneaking.
Because its made of hide.
I'll see myself out.
Oh jeez. That joke was so bad, I think it gave me a migraine.
10/10
*Set jokes to DAD*
@@AndrewD8Red my dad left me when I was born...
But yeah I agree that was a dad joke
Take my like and leave >:[
You should pair them with a ninja's favourite shoes for the best results:
Sneakers
@@ShinTriAce
Oh god, stop! Please!
God that cheater who came out as polyamorous pisses me off so badly. I'm polyamorous- I discovered it while I was engaged to my fiance. What I did was talk that out with him, turns out he's polyamorous too! But if he wasn't, I'd either respect that and stay with him, or respect that and break up bc we needed different things. Cheaters give us a bad name, and it's so frustrating. Even within polyamorous relationships there are boundaries that crossing means cheating! I can't just go and sleep with whoever without getting the go-ahead from the whole polycule first. Hate people who do shit like that.
exactly my words, couldn’t have said it better
And im sure the last thing you said is an open relationship? CMIIW
But it had to be established in the beginning, not used as a convenient reason
@@foxinabox5103 Open relationships are a form of polyamory, though ours is generally closed- if that were to change, I'd need to renegotiate boundaries. That's what I was getting at- it's cheating to sleep with people outside your relationship even if you're polyamorous, unless the boundary is "go ahead do whatever", which are some people's arrangements, but not mine, and not hers! And it doesn't necessarily have to be agreed upon from the beginning, but DEFINITELY before you take any action to pursue someone outside the relationship. It just so happened for me the person I was interested in pursuing, my fiance was ALSO interested in lol , but my fiance and I started out fully monogamous. But you can't go back and retroactively "fix" cheating by coming out as polyamorous, even if your partner DOES agree
@@samwinchester9362 ahh thank you
As someone in a polyamorous relationship, Click's explanation on polyamory vs cheating made my heart warm, like it's so good when people explain it so well and don't conflate the two. Polyamory exists without cheating as there is knowledge and consent! Thanks Click
I may not be polyamorous or in a polyamorous relationship for that matter, but I’m still fairly certain that the main idea of a relationship like that is to have multiple partners WITH KNOWLEDGE AND CONSENT from every partner.
It’s not just a relationship where you can be with a partner, but still get to go around and do this type of stuff.
She followed tik tok advice because she wanted drama in the relationship? Girl, I don't know about you, but I personally don't want drama in my relationships. No relationship is perfect and there are going to be times where you'll disagree/misunderstand each other, but dealing with drama and working on getting passed disagreements are stressful and anxiety inducing. I don't think manufacturing fights with your partner is a good idea to *spice things up*
I will never understand why some people like drama
One of my exes _loved_ drama in her relationships. She used to say that she got bored easily, or something to that effect. And apparently the drama inside her own head worked just as well, because she took my lack of enthusiasm in the relationship, turned it into Teh Suspense (le GASP) and happily stewed in it until I eventually ghosted her. Then again, she was a low grade narcissist and an actual masochist.
i think she just may feel insecure/lonely. thankfully she did learn her lesson, but i feel as though those tiktok videos made her feel insecure about her relationship. especially if you have a past history of being abused, healthy relationships can feel barren.
I was kinda expecting Anna in the OF story to reveal that she, in a backwards way, was doing that to help her relatives weed out partners that would be likely to cheat, but it seemed like she was serious about the whole marketing thing.
She didn’t care about her family members; she’s trying to make some more $ at any means possible.
@@jessicapurdum5084 so why not "market" her business to the gay couple then? I mean, chances are they wont even consider it but MAYBE they would refer the service to their friends or coworkers
@@jessicapurdum5084Yeah, I was able to figure that out by the end. I was just trying to rationalize her motives because of how absurd her stunt was.
@@foxinabox5103 maybe she thought the gay men were more likely to inform the wives/gfs than the straight men
@@jessicapurdum5084 makes sense, yeah.
My mom never made alcohol taboo, which is pretty impressive since my dad is an abusive alcoholic. I had my first glass of wine at 14 or something. She always had the same rule that she wouldn't get mad if we called her needing a ride for whatever reason at whatever time. Luckily for her my brother and I were very boring teenagers and never needed it.
This validates my parenting. I have a 13 y/o who has no interest now, but they know that if they feel the desire to experiment, I will still unconditionally love and support them. All I ask is that they do their best to be safe and remember that they can always, always call or text me for any reason.
I live in germany, to be precise the capital area of alcohol, bavaria. i had my first sip of alcohol (beer and cola) with 10 and then continued to try various different beverages over the years, once i wwas old enough to legally drink my mom and especially my kinda alcoholic dad told me to always call them once i am too drunk to drive. i am now 19 yrs old (legally in bavaria with 16) and never needed their help because here in bavaria we are taught a very reasonable behaviour with alcohol. sometimes we even drink with teachers or in bars even authorities. i now have my drivers licence too and i often declare myself the driver on purpose (that means im not allowwed to drink anything because of police controls)
TL;DR: i grew up in a region where alcohol is your daily life drink, yet i almost live abstinent because despite living with alc we also know what can happen here
Yop. My mom did the same. Never needed it as well
@@tak1751 My parents didn’t restrict alcohol either. Instead they modeled healthy drinking habits for my brother and me. We have a pretty good relationship with alcohol today, though I can no longer drink much at all because of medication.
if parents are okay with it, it is less likely kids are interested. Mine also said if we needed a ride or to get home when drunk or on drugs they would NO QUESTIONS ASKED (drugs as in any of the illegal ilicit substances.) as long as we get home safe
I'm so glad polyamory is starting to get mentioned in more spaces in a positive light. As a polyamorous individual, it's so, so very important to me
I am Grey Ace Demi and monogamous and single for a decade. I totally have always supported my Polyamorous Allo friends.
I've had a couple of women assert that I must be gay, *and in denial about it,* because I wasn't interested in having sex with them, but believed that I was straight. It didn't inspire me to change my mind about having sex with them. Nor did I put a great deal of energy into refuting them. They were wrong, but if they needed to believe that nonsense to salve their egos... that wasn't my problem. I wasn't troubled by their beliefs. I was (and am) interested in women and not in men, but their attitude helped confirm that they weren't good relationship candidates.
Isn't it useful how many people eliminate themselves as candidates for those who approach relationships sanely.
The last one pisses me off so much. At 17 you should know this shit messes up people's entire lives and is illegal to do. I'm 17 rn and couldn't imagine doing something like this in my wildest dreams. Like, if the BIL was 11 I would understand it more, but this is just ridiculous.
One thing Click didn't mention about that one was how the parents apologized after they realized what was happening and their younger son was to blame. I felt quite a bit of respect for them there.
@@barrylangille3523 I agree those parents have my respect, but that son shouldn't be allowed to use electronics for a while. Who knows what else he might've done.
@@readingdino711 oh definitely. Just returning his Christmas present isn't enough, and I'm not just wanting punishment here. He needs to learn that what he did could destroy someone's life. How a 17 year old could be so literally thoughtless is beyond me. He tried to get a family member accused of a serious crime, and then pouts because his victim "spoiled Christmas"? The kid is not only entitled but clueless.
I feel like the BIL has some huge crush on his brothers wife and thinks if they get divorced he might have a chance.
Very stupid, horrible thing to do. He has definitely a lot of growing up to do mentally. 😐
Him and his stupid friends, I hope they feel the consequences of their actions in the form of their parents never trusting them again along with the rest of their families, if they are willing to ruin people's lives for no real reason at all, who knows what other crazy stuff they are willing to do?
On the “not his baby” one: this may have happened in my family. My cousin and I were close all growing up, but his mom (my aunt by marriage) was a piece of work. She cheated on my uncle so many times and they divorced. At some point someone in my family realized my cousin looks identical to one of the guys his mom cheated with, but my uncle has always raised him as his own son. My cousin grew distant to the whole family as an adult, I have always wondered if he found out. When my family wants to gossip about it, I try not to let them. It doesn’t matter who his dad is, he’s still family. It’s messed up though. I’m so glad that guy in the story came clean.
Maybe itd be nice if you reach out and tell him he is still family..im sure it would mean a lot to him
One of my uncles is also an affair child. The whole family always suspected, but he was raised by grandma's husband. He probably knew, too.
When grandma died, he did a paternity test and confirmed he's the affair's son.
But ofc he's still part of the family, too.
I love this channel's mix of wholesome, life affirming alongside frustrating and painful.
Maybe that says more about me though.
Nah, I love it too. Though that's not really saying much.
Anyways, congrats on being the 40th comment! You don't really get anything for it, but you do get bragging rights, so that's fun.
@@kittydemonoverkill
40th comment? I'll take it!
It's not just you. I think that's why we all keep coming back. Clicky Wicky is like entertainment and therapy rolled into one.
the girl who’s ignoring her boyfriend and then texting him the next day saying “i love you” etc is literally a textbook manipulation technique called lovebombing, and it works on insecure people very well.
Exactly. In my case, I actually asked my bf whether he'd be okay having an open/polyamorous relationship, and when he didn't want to, I decided to stay with him instead of cheating or breaking up, since even though I do have moments where I'm like "Hmm, that'd be fun", I treasure and respect him way too much to ever wrong him in any way. I would never cheat on him, and I know the happiness I feel when I'm around him would never be less than when breaking up with him (This would of course change in case of abuse or anything, but that's not happening currently, nor has it in the past 3 years we've been dating). I made the decision to respect his choice. As long as I do not have permission from him, I shall never even consider having another relationship during ours.
Going on with the thing with the pets at the start, I took custody of my ex-roommates cat after she left because she never took care of him. Never cleaned his litter box, didn't get him food and when he would try to get attention from her she would shoo him away and only go to him if something bad happened. It got so bad that normally when people leave the condo he would run to the door they left from and just meow sadly wanting them to come back but when she left for good he didn't even bother to look in her direction and just went to play with the toys I bought him. Now almost a year later this cat never wants to leave my side and sleeps on me almost literally all day aside from when he eats and stuff.
Congrats on being the 58th comment! I'd send something more personalized to your comment, but I'm kind of in a hurry, as I spent too much time replying to the first 57, and want to get to the 69th comment before the end of the hour, because that placement has the best bragging rights, and I can't just let them not get those bragging rights.
You're a hero 🥰
Good job👍
Poor kitty, I’m really glad you are taking care of him now!
The TikTok one is spot on. I was seeing a guy a few months ago who suddenly started openly flirting with other women when we went out even to just a cashier at a supermarket. This was not usual behavior and I could tell he was awkward doing it. When I asked him about it he just got weird and defensive and after a week or two he admitted to looking at relationship advice tiktoks and youtube 'gurus' telling him to 'play hard to get'. I told him he was immature and stunted and broke up with him 2 days before Christmas.
You dodged a bullet. That kind of thing is so manipulative!
Good job
Good on ya!
It’s not immature, it’s straight up abusive
My father once sold my mums car and kept the money for himself. An even more fucked up story is that we had pet rabbits but they didn't get along with every one of us children so he decided to "give them away to his friend". My mum realised he had a Butcher friend and told him not to give it to him and my dad swore he wouldn't.. A few nights later we ate chicken for dinner that didn't taste like chicken..
Gotta love the big ol' can of worms that is my childhood 👍 Those are probably some of the best things he's done compared to other things he has done and that's just sad
Geez I’m sorry your father is like that, hope you don’t have to deal with him anymore.
If he really fed you those rabbits that's really fucked up. I can understand giving them away to someone since they didn't get along with you, Could've maybe even sold them, but to butcher them seems very unnecessary. And feeding them to you is even more screwed up.
J E S US
FU C K I N G
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A similar thing happened to my Mum's pet goat when she was little. She knew what she was eating, she had seen the blood in the bathtub and couldn't find her pet goat.
I'm putting this online because Deda (granddad) just decided not to let Mum come to his house for Christmas last year and I just heard about it. I'm f*cking fuming. When I was young I thought he was nice. Every new thing I hear about him, I just hate him more.
It's no wonder that Baba divorced him.
For some reason the story about the guy not being the father of the baby his gf was carrying gave me an image in my head like i imagined a future where a guy would come up to me at work and telling me the baby my wife would be carrying isnt mine and me just being like "yeah... i know- we're... lesbians, bryan.."
IDEK OKAY
I'm just imagining some idiot prank bro trying to do that at work but it flops because his chosen target is a lesbian 😂
The photoshopped nudes story: just insane. This isnt a prank. This is spend years in jail kind of deal. Sending nudes to a minor? Im just glad it came out as fake so easily, this could have been a lot worse, and im so glad for OP that the truth came out so quickly
Glad the brat got a comeuppance as well. Seriously I have no clue what that kid was thinking.
The shopaholic story is disgusting.
If the dad had taken the fall for where the money went, or the money had somehow been replenished with the dad out of the picture it'd have only been a matter of time until the mom spent it all anyway. She has an addiction. Blaming her husband, which might end up in a divorce or separation if the daughter doesnt want to be around him because of that lie would result in the mom being free to indulge in her addictive tendencies without any checks and balances.
I wonder what the mum actually bought. I would imagine it was jewellery to spend that much and no one notice because you can spend thousands on a piece that would be easy to hide.
Yeah, it's disgusting that she had the audacity to ask him to take the fall. 170k on designer goods over years (and say stuff like Botox,fillers, cosmetics) isn't that far fetched with shoes running 1k, and bags up to 30k...
People get so confused on this point. Action is not a sexual orientation. You can be polyamorous, and you can cheat on someone. These are two completely different things.
Not really, no. Poly IS cheating.
@@wmdkitty No.
If both members agree, who is being cheated?
@@wmdkitty It's only cheating if someone involved doesn't consent to it.
@Shawna Burt I honestly don't think you're in any position to try playing moral police with anyone else. Please go and educate yourself before you spout your usual brand of dumb shit, please and thank you.
@@paigemosher8697 You are correct, but it isn't effective to blurt it all out that way, in fact it is rather counter-productive.
"For the people calling me a psychopath, I don't care. I have to live this life and you'll forget about this post tomorrow" so true.... and she was ok with giving him this burden forever. Even if he found out when the kid was 18 he raised the child for 18 years, he'll never get money back, those feelings don't just go away, every memory is tainted. I think him playing it off for a few months is WAY less than the lives she planned to ruin over decades.
What she did was fucked up, there’s no excuse.
But he didn’t have to stoop to that level. He made it worse for himself, dragging it out and letting resentment grow and feeling sad looking at the baby he wanted. Dating someone for 3 months knowing you’re going to break up with them at their lowest moment just to spite them is fucked up, but it’s also fucking yourself over keeping yourself in that situation for three months.
If he raised the kid, it would be his kid even if not biologically. Doesn't make her less of a liar though.
@@Jellybeansatdusk Spite is a double-edged sword. Sometimes it's a great motivator and sometimes it's a waste of energy. He got the latter.
@@nekoshadowwolf that’s the thing. Even if you get revenge, you’ve dedicated yourself to that and kept yourself in that position of suffering for longer than you needed to, so really you’ve made it worse for yourself.
@@Jellybeansatdusk Honestly, the guy she had the affair with may be the closest to a winner in that whole situation. He has a kid to raise, maybe a relationship (thiugh I don't know if you'd want to be with your baby mama after finding out yiu were her drive by fricking)
As someone that is polyamorous, I want to thank you for being so real about it. I couldn't have explained it any better 🙏🏻
I am a relationship advisor and that relationship advice off tik tok is the bane of my career, and the amount of people in their 20s, 30s ,50s and old who do this kind of stuff and have no idea how to have a healthy relationship is insane. I very much realize I am needed.
I'm also a little stoned waiting for classes and Kevin's story almost made me die laughing in the hall; that was so wholesome 😂
“…Kevin?!?” 😈
I loved this wholesome story SO much. Definitely what I needed to hear today stuck inside from dangerous weather conditions - hope everyone else watching/listening is staying safe out there!
The pet story reminds me of that one story where OP described her date describing taking the pet they shared with their EX to the VET and HAD IT PUT DOWN!
The dog was perfectly healthy and the EX was supposed to get it. The date described having asked for just one day and then took it to the vet to have it killed.
They described it with a smirk if i recall correctly.
OP nope'd out of there.
What the fuck. That’s fucked.
Jesus Christ people like that make me wish “euthanizing” people for that was legal.
Good for OP leaving because that is a flag redder than Rudolph's nose
The worst part of that mother taking all that money from the daughters college fund is that she is the mother, whereas the father who actually cares about the daughters future and is willing to sacrifice his own retirement and inheritance for her education is the stepfather that has only been in her life 8 of the 17 years of her life. The STEPFATHER cares so much more for the girl and her future and education than the MOTHER.
14:54 no Click, this is terrible! Of course, it's awesome of the wife to sacrifice so much of her time and energy for her husband, but the fact they feel it's necessary to do this is actually really sad! Labor laws, work culture and proper management should allow him to call in sick whenever he needs to without feeling guilty towards his team!
It's great for OP that he has such a supportive wife, but OP's employer does not deserve the free labor from her!
5:00 I'm so glad that the Kevin the cat story ended the way it did. I was genuinely concerned, as you were reading it, that it was going to end with the owner killing himself.
i thought it was gonna be like a fire had started and kevin was trying to get peoples attention
Yeah I was worried that something had happened to Kevin or his owner. I’m glad it ended wholesomely
I was a bit concerned too hearing the way the OP described the loud meowing, so I was relieved(and cracking up) when it turned out the cat was basically just screaming at their stoned owner, "Dammit, open this f***ing door! You locked me out, dumba**!!"
The poly one really got to me. I’m poly. So are both my girlfriends. Hell one of my girlfriends has several more girlfriends. We ALL knew what we were getting into before hand.
Being poly requires an enormous amount of communication. You absolutely do not spring it after the fact!
wow
This sounds like a set up for a greek mythology story
@@galuxius1861 I know I love it!
This subreddit is so wild and Click's voice makes it better.
I literally cried laughing at Kevin's story. I also greet my cat when I come home from work (seriously, who doesn't?)
I dont trust anyone who doesnt greet their pets. Whenever i came home, i always instinctively greet my dog and gave her her deserved belly rubs. (maybe if you have a pet fish or something like that, but you get the point)
K… Kevin? 😳😂
@@foxinabox5103 So true! I always great my dogs, but its not like i have a choice. They almost always greet me at the door. And if they don't greet me I need to check that it's 'cause they are asleep and not because they are feeling sick or something.
@@foxinabox5103 Agreed, anyone who doesn't greet their pet when they get home is a major red flag in my book
I don't, at least not verbally. I give them a "what's up?" semi-slow blink.
21:47 this is the real MVP here. Giving out of his own pockets to take care of his child. She's his stepdaughter but he's 100% here for her. I love it. Cassie has a good dad and I hope the mom gets the help she needs. However she needs to face the truth about what she did and hope that with time Cassie will forgive her.
I am housebound and my ex tried to use it as an excuse to take our dog with him despite the fact he works 12 hr shifts. His best friend found out and called the RSPCA on him so they did a check on his activities. He was told to give me the dog because I have a back garden and carers that can come walk him every day. Going through our documents I found out legally the dog is mine and only mine, just shared due to living circumstances at the time. The dog hasn't missed my ex once and I know this because whenever my ex comes to see him, my dog just lifts his head and will jump into my lap as if to say 'like I give a crap'!
12:30 I'm betting OP could have turned the older gen against her real quick had she explained it as being a digital stripper or showing the site itself to them. Family bias can be usually broken with something really shocking.
I love that you set things about Poly folks straight. I hate the hate they keep getting. And that person, who cheated and alligned it with the lifestyle is just horrendous
Starting off the week strong with some content from Clicky! I'm a little low on energy today, so some content from Click should help give me enough giggles and chuckles to keep me going! Congrats on the Emotional Support Demon's success, you earned it! :D
Oh, interesting. The 43rd comment is a Super Thanks! Anyways, hello there!
@@kittydemonoverkill Yep! I like supporting creators once in a while since it's within my capacity. Hello to you, too!
Omg that first one made me so sad. I would honestly break up with that girl, like how can you stay with someone who not only takes away someone's pet, but won't even let them see it when they're literally dying?! OP is amazing in this story, bless them for giving the ex something so precious before they passed.
About the cheating woman story, it reminds me of an old acquaintance of my grandpa. He was married and had a happy life, but he and his wife decided, back in the 80s, that they would have an "agreement" about cheating. They could "cheat" on each other no problem at all, but family couldn't know the identity of the boyfriends or girlfriends. It was very scandalous back then, but they agreed on it and were both happy about it
About the “gay ‘cause didn’t cheat” one, I can’t help but wonder if the gf is cheating or wanting to and looking to justify
Its possible, yeah. Or she's "bored" with her current bf.
Or she has some kind of mental health issues.
Could also be a result of growing up around men who justify their bad behaviour by saying its "only natural" and anyone who doesn't do the same is gay.
The one at 35:02 makes me think that she’s just looking for a reason to break up with him at this point but doesn’t want to look like the ‘bad guy’
I thought exactly this. But he seems solid. I wonder how old she'll be when she realises she drove away a good guy.
I think she probably was cheating on him and wanted to find something that made it "okay" that she cheated. Every time someone I've known has been accused of cheating by their partner out of nowhere, it's *always* been the partner who cheated. Projection is a helluva mindfuck.
It's either that or she was raised in an environment where the men around her used the "it natural for men to look elsewhere for sex" and other such lines to justify their own behaviour and any man who doesn't behave like them must be gay. Depending on her family, she may truly think this is normal.
@@kiku-goldenflower7731 the one thing that makes me think this could be true is how her brother wanted to fight him for being gay. not for cheating on her with a man- for being gay. implies some things about that family.
I've met poly groups at AMA-style things and the two most important parts of a poly relationship are communication and consent. This person did neither. She's either very new to poly and doesn't know the rules or isn't poly and just likes the attention from multiple men at once.
12:52 It just occurred to me: she's technically offering them a family discount XD
Sadly, I've mainly found that a partner that is always looking for "Proof" that you're cheating, is the one cheating and just trying to justify their actions.
The Kevin story is amazing. And totally something I could see happening to me when dead sober and leaving lasting life-long confusion/curiosity.
Heck, honestly, considering I've watched past cats I've owned stretch up and turn a round door knob to open doors I'd be in total belief that Kevin had figured out how to knock.
@TheClick_1 Reported channel
Plot twist: She's like that one CollegeHumor guy who only does wholesome content on a naughty site. She just does that as a twisted way to weed out awful partners.
Which one college humor guy?
@@spacenoodle8207 I think the OF Christmas one
@@spacenoodle8207 Ryan Creamer
@@wind64a39 well that's a great coincidence
I think OnlyFans at some point wasn't supposed to be just for sex work, it just had rules good enough for it.
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@@uihbedixubwebnxihdwb6356 if you’ve never seen the videos of these lil guys, it’s super cool to see!
Ok, that's kinda scary.
But to lighten the mood, congrats on being the 19th comment!
The "my girlfriend accused me of being gay because I didn't cheat on her" comes across like she has some kind of untreated mental health disorder that causes her to sabotage relationships, I've been with people like this and it's exhausting and upsetting. Definitely not worth the trouble, at least until they receive the help they need.
Shopping addicts will most often buy on impulse, but never really use whatever they bought. It's possible in that story just got some stuff at a time, shelved it somewhere, and never got back to it. It's also possible she was actively hiding it from her husband, since she sounds very aware of her problem.
For the first story, if it’s his dog, pretty sure he should have been able to take legal action to get it back but considering he was terminally ill, I don’t blame him for not trying.
The Kevin the cat story is the absolute best. I love it.
The "not cheating so you're gay" story is the slightly older version of the "TikTok dating tips" story.
27:08 MY GUY THIS IS MANIPULATION . you act like you want someonr then ghost them , You start to crave the affection then BOOM . toxic realtionship
21:35 you know as your talking I'll I'm hearing is "it takes $200,000 to get a good education". That's more money than many people will see in their entire lives.
to get into an ivy league debt free? yeah i guess
innit I'm actually shocked... I'm from the UK and I'm pretty sure that every uni here, however good, charges the same £9.5k yearly, so you're paying about £27k for three years.
I'm going to apply to uni this year but my courses are 4 years (year abroad for MFL); even then, it's nowhere close to US uni debt?? it seems to be actually horrific over there.
So, i am poly. A 22 year old polyamorous pansexual trans dude. I told my bf about my feeling for my gf as soon as i found out i was poly. We talked A LOT but my feelings and his feeling and we found out... we both love her equally. And she loved us both. But if i wasn't honest to him this would have never turned out so well. I'm single by now but not because a poly relationship doesn't work. Both me and gf got mentally very ill and thats why we split up in the end. None of us wanted the relationship to become a toxic hellfire
Very good for you guys! I'm glad you communicated. Best of luck, I hope you can make a safe mental recovery
@@pikaqte5418 Thanks a lot
It is also so fascinating to me how the holidays seem to bring out the Toxic family behavior to the nth degree.
Like MILs etc doing above and beyond petty things to try and destroy a relationship because they don't like it and with any luck, the partner that they are targeting can open the eyes of the SO and help them see how awful their parents are acting, and get their SO to support them and shut the family down.
Alas, it doesn't always turn out that way.
My best friend is polyamorous, and just from being around them and their polycule I can tell it takes a lot of communication and trust. I really admire people who have the capacity to make it work, and I hate that people use polyamory as a disguise for cheating :/
The girl in the first story is the type of crazy ex that you tell you friends and family about. From the sounds of it, she only took the dog because she knew it would hurt her ex the most. If the dog didn't exist, it would've been an item of great sentimental value to her ex.
She's the type of petty that should be shamed and shunned. The type who, it doesn't matter who or how many she hurts, she will do anything to get her revenge if she doesn't get her way. In this case, getting broken up with.
Thanks for what you said about polyamory! As a poly person, it really frustrates me to see people using polyamory as an excuse to cheat. People can and SHOULD figure out they're poly BEFORE getting into another relationship if they're already in one. I figured out I was poly while I was totally single! I just did a lot of research and self-reflection and realized that was what sounded best to me, so by the time I got into my next relationship, my new partner knew I was poly and was good with that. Now I have two commitmented partners and one secondary partner, and all of them knew I was poly and knew about all my other partners and romantic entanglements before we started anything together.
16:07
…neighbour’s cat smoking weed…
finally, a snoop cat
lmaooo
The first story… you think you were being a human, but you were a hero to a dying man.
I really like the balance between cringey drama and cute stuff to remind you not everyone is this way and acting that way is silly
39:25 not young honestly 17 is old enough to not do shit like this, if you’re nearly old enough to shoot and kill people in the military, then you’re old enough to face criminal charges and prison time for shit like that. That is BEYOND fucked behavior, and literally life ruining shit
You'd think people would be too old to play games in relationships, but my last boyfriend was in his 30's and would try to give me the silent treatment and then get mad when I tried to give him space to calm down instead of begging him to talk to me 🤦♀️
How attractive is Anna that every man is throwing away their relationship just for somes pics of her feet.
lmao
Also, I'd be deeply disturbed if a family member's partner just gave me a promo code so I can pay to see their feet/see them naked. Like who tf thinks like that???
What's the deal with feet anyway? Do people think feet are...s*xy? All I've ever associated with feet are dirty sneakers and smelly socks, definitely not s*xy.
@@ferretqueen2908 historically, foot fetishes often are rooted in eras where fashion/clothing covered up most of the body (like the Victorian era). As for why it's a thing now, not entirely sure, but as someone who studied psychology, I can say that fetishes are pretty diverse, and are typically an overall harmless (and can actually be healthy) expression of sexuality. That being said, always make sure everyone involved in a person's fetish is consenting to be part of it. Consent matters!
@ferretqueen2908 feet are fascinating, even if you only look at it from anatomy. Please be more nice and respectful to your feet.
They have so many bones and complex sinews and stuff and they carry us around for such a long time.
I love these long videos as background audio. There are multiple moments that are just "WAIT A DAMN MOMENT" or "WTF DID YOU JUST SAY?!! Repeat please?" Thank you so much Click and Cliccy editor.
I love that this subreddit tackles both wholesome and crazy stories and Click does such a great job talking about all of them! Great video!
33:26, On one hand "Lmao OP why dont you break up with this lunatic" On the other hand being in a relationship with a clown must be incredibly entertaining and amusing
The first story with the dog is honestly so sad. That girl is evil. This is why you should always keep a full record of your pet's purchase/adoption and veterinary care. I'll be damned if I bring a dog into a relationship, and my vindictive and sadistic ex tries to hold my dog hostage. However, if the pet was a mutual purchase/adoption, I suppose that would be more complicated. A pet is a big commitment, so I'd suggest considering this when deciding to get a pet with your partner.