People grow so much in their 20s. It’s the first time they are on their own and learning about themselves. Who you are in your early 20s can be completely different in your late 20s. Sometimes people grow in different directions. 27 is still so young and it’s so important to make sure you’re ready before committing to a marriage. I think what Gabi did is so brave and right for her. Everyone has their own time line and things will happen when they happen. I think her and her ex are fine and are doing their own thing at their own pace. Experiencing this all online it’s not easy and being so vulnerable on camera can be hard. Thank you for sharing your experience, I know it’s not always easy.
I think people ask because SO many are in similar situations. It’s very, very hard. But seeing public figures like you open up about topics like this is SO healing. Thank you Gabi, truly. Seeing you handle this with grace gives me hope for my own difficult life transitions right now.
I'm glad that you were acting like a grown woman when you told him you weren't ready. Some people would have just gone through with it to end up divorced and hating each other. As hard as it was for you it's obviously better this way. Life is hard sometimes. I know it. But whenever you're ready things and people will come into your life at the right time and you'll look back and say, I'm so glad I did that when I was younger because now I've been able to grow and learn on my own. And you're stronger for that! 💕👑
i love how you say “I’m working on being comfortable when uncomfortable”. that is something I’m still working on too. It is OK and powerful to know that!
A small note some folks may be interested and asking your details because they find themselves in the same situation and they feel stronger from your strength, but I know it is bombarding and stressful. 💜
In complete agreement fans have to think about the emotional impact has on Gabi to speak about her personal life. She is a social influencer Colin is not famous she is truing to be respectful 💜💫
The phrase about people being fascinated with women's pain is so true. This is different than your situation but I have experienced the same intrusiveness in grief. I love your vlogs, they are my comfort vids
It’s so much more mature to be brave and end it before the wedding. So many people go through with it just to get divorced shortly after and end up with a complete mess on their hands, dividing assets and kids. You are so young and can still change your mind a million times over. ❤
I left my fiance that I was with for almost 8 years last year. I felt like I was loosing touch with myself in that relationship. It was a really hard thing to do but I'm so much happier now. Stay strong it will get easier!
@@Ollie.Bollie I thought about the decision for some awhile. I started to feel depressed and detached. I felt it was time to make myself happy and not worry about what people would say.
I can totally relate with the working through pain your way, it looks different for everyone. I applaud you for knowing who you are and what you want know. I thank you for the rant and wish you continued success.
I’m a single 31 year old. I hate how people make us feel like we have to be married by a certain age. I always thought I would have kids by now. Life doesn’t have a timeline. F society and its “ time lines “ But happy you’re happy ❤
I disagree. I think current society is pushing being single, working hard and not having children. There are literally ads that say having children is detrimental to the environment.
It really was the most mature thing you and Colin could've done. You're both so brave to be able to be sincere with each other. That's how you see there was true love even if their paths were going in different directions
This doesn’t apply to me right now because I’ve learned it on my own, but younger ladies PLEASE hear this. This is so relevant to life and it’s something that you truly will realize someday and I wish someone had said it when we were younger
Yup. So she basically says they cancelled plans to go thru with elopement in late Jan/Feb, got back home still in a relationship and that's when she ch£at£d.
Gabi i have been watching you since middle school and I am graduating college this year. This video is really something that I needed as a wake up call. I find myself thinking about my "old life" and missing it but it is important to realize it all as my life. Love and happiness are not dependent relationships. Thank you for this video Gabi ❤
this is honestly so inspiring! it’s so easy to feel pushed into doing what you ‘should do’ and not what feels right to you as an individual with your own individual arc as a person, especially in ur 20’s! this is v brave and pushing me to do the same x
I never wanted to get married, or have kids. I lived my life for me, in the moment, and it was beautiful and I was happy. Then I met my husband. It's been 5 years now, we are happily married, we have a baby, and I love my life just the same as I did when I was single. You do you❤
I'm really happy both you and niki are working on the people pleasing tendencies ( cause same lol) it's really beautiful to see you stand strong in the person you are growing into 😁
aside from looking at gabi and listening to her, i keep on looking at her bags and shoes at her back. thanks gabi for sharing your aesthetic girly style.
You have absolutely every right to keep certain things to yourself. You owe the internet nothing girl. Keep doing what's best for you - you're glowing!! Sending so much love xx (btw the podcast is everything)
you didn’t even answer any questions …… you just kept playing with you’re hair we’re asking about cheating because around the time Johny came into you’re is the same time you’re marriage fell apart
do you really have to hate on people.. you’re sick, she said she didn’t want to share much because it was difficult for her. and plus why does it matter to you
I have to say this that pink fuzzy hoodie is adorable and I truly think it’s amazing and takes so much strength to be so personal with us and you do just that and you are so incredible a always will be
People who are looking to watch something to see other peoples pain must be sick, I love watching your videos in general but I especially love videos where you share about your life’s story because it gives us someone to relate to. I am about the same age as you and let’s just say The 20s are not a walk in the park. God bless ya chika your videos are always wonderful.
I am healing my inner child too Gabi. I support you completely and I am sending you all love! Keeping doing you boo! Thank you for opening up! Just for the record, I LOOK UP TO YOU, NOT DOWN! ✨❤
it is ok and very common in my circle, some times couples think that they are stuck together, that that is not IT, breake up.. live their lives...and after year..or few.. they get back together stronger than ever. Knowing that they are not missing anything than eachother.
Thank you Gabi for keeping everything real with us and waiting to tell us about your life when you were ready. As a long term view and someone in their twenties I understand the boundaries and your relation although public was your private life. You are such a strong and inspirational women 🧡💫
I just ended my 9 year relationships. So I can see it’s hard for her to refer to call the one who shall not be named her Ex. It’s super hard for her. Like I see her pain. Your not alone. You and Niki need to know it’s not what we want. It’s what GOD wants. Even though we love them we have to let them go. Stay Strong 💋 also I’m 30
Love you Gabi🤍 It’s honestly so refreshing seeing someone be honest and unapologetic about the decisions they make that will help them grow and flourish in life!
Yes Gabi it's hard when you're young have the world on top but since things change general it difficult speak up about your personal life answering questions over and over so keep head up stay positive...
I love this 💕 I love how mature you guys grew apart , you guys truly love each other & that’s okay that two people out grow each other . You guys are definitely selfless people for letting each other go to grow more as individuals 💕 I hope god creates beautiful paths for you both . You’re glowing Gabi I love it 🤍
U need to give yourself credit for never settling for less cuz some people settle too soon and when they’re your age they’re stuck you did it correctly girl idc!!
i'm 33 and not married. and i am doing GREAT!!!! :) I am in a four year relationship and we are happy and jst taking our time. It is crazy how people are asking us ALL the time when/why aren't we married yet. Gabi, you do you sis. Coming from a 33 year old that has never been married....YOU WILL BE FINE. :)
You just made the best decision, not only for yourself, but for your ex partner. You put yourself first and that is okay. Like my mom says “the best moment for a divorce, is while dating”
You do you. I went through something similar with my ex so I get it I got asked all the time if I was okay ect and It drove me nuts. Now i get asked all the time when me and my husband are having kids and we are 34 and 35. It's annoying how ppl expect ppl to have kids the min they get married. so i suggest that you take your time and enjoy life. when your ready to have kids and to get married then do it in your own time.
@@nyxgore2952 girl knows exactly what she's doing by posting those pics cuddling up to him. It's totally fine, she's allowed to. But then she shouldn't complain when people ask about it.
I can relate to you a lot in this vid surprisingly and I appreciate you giving us pieces from your life thank you Gabi it makes me realize that I’m not alone 🎀💋
People grow so much in their 20s. It’s the first time they are on their own and learning about themselves. Who you are in your early 20s can be completely different in your late 20s. Sometimes people grow in different directions. 27 is still so young and it’s so important to make sure you’re ready before committing to a marriage. I think what Gabi did is so brave and right for her. Everyone has their own time line and things will happen when they happen. I think her and her ex are fine and are doing their own thing at their own pace. Experiencing this all online it’s not easy and being so vulnerable on camera can be hard. Thank you for sharing your experience, I know it’s not always easy.
I'm 27 and I'm still learning
What you are showing young girls that I find fascinating isn’t your pain but the grace and strength you’re showing through it.
THIS!!!
I think people ask because SO many are in similar situations. It’s very, very hard. But seeing public figures like you open up about topics like this is SO healing. Thank you Gabi, truly. Seeing you handle this with grace gives me hope for my own difficult life transitions right now.
I'm glad that you were acting like a grown woman when you told him you weren't ready. Some people would have just gone through with it to end up divorced and hating each other. As hard as it was for you it's obviously better this way. Life is hard sometimes. I know it. But whenever you're ready things and people will come into your life at the right time and you'll look back and say, I'm so glad I did that when I was younger because now I've been able to grow and learn on my own. And you're stronger for that! 💕👑
Amen to that! 🙏
Growth matters ✨️
Ughhhh me. Got married too young. Now wanting so many different things without him. Debating on divorce or not. I hate myself.
i love how you say “I’m working on being comfortable when uncomfortable”. that is something I’m still working on too. It is OK and powerful to know that!
A small note some folks may be interested and asking your details because they find themselves in the same situation and they feel stronger from your strength, but I know it is bombarding and stressful. 💜
In complete agreement fans have to think about the emotional impact has on Gabi to speak about her personal life. She is a social influencer Colin is not famous she is truing to be respectful 💜💫
The phrase about people being fascinated with women's pain is so true. This is different than your situation but I have experienced the same intrusiveness in grief. I love your vlogs, they are my comfort vids
It’s so much more mature to be brave and end it before the wedding. So many people go through with it just to get divorced shortly after and end up with a complete mess on their hands, dividing assets and kids.
You are so young and can still change your mind a million times over. ❤
Honestly it’s so so good that you and your ex felt comfortable to talk about the whole cold feet side
I left my fiance that I was with for almost 8 years last year. I felt like I was loosing touch with myself in that relationship. It was a really hard thing to do but I'm so much happier now. Stay strong it will get easier!
How did you make that decision. You are strong
@@Ollie.Bollie I thought about the decision for some awhile. I started to feel depressed and detached. I felt it was time to make myself happy and not worry about what people would say.
I can totally relate with the working through pain your way, it looks different for everyone. I applaud you for knowing who you are and what you want know. I thank you for the rant and wish you continued success.
I’m a single 31 year old. I hate how people make us feel like we have to be married by a certain age. I always thought I would have kids by now. Life doesn’t have a timeline. F society and its “ time lines “
But happy you’re happy ❤
not to mention dating in this age has become increasingly difficult. you are not alone and we have more single people than ever right now
@@alexia964 aww well thank you - that made me feel better to know im not totally alone lol. && i totally agree- dating nowadays is deff not easy!
I agree I have friends and family who are married and have kids or that just have kids or engaged
biological clock is ticking though
I disagree. I think current society is pushing being single, working hard and not having children. There are literally ads that say having children is detrimental to the environment.
It really was the most mature thing you and Colin could've done. You're both so brave to be able to be sincere with each other. That's how you see there was true love even if their paths were going in different directions
I'm 30 and I feel like I'm nothing like when I was in my 20's I like myself better now... You do what your heart tells you to
This doesn’t apply to me right now because I’ve learned it on my own, but younger ladies PLEASE hear this. This is so relevant to life and it’s something that you truly will realize someday and I wish someone had said it when we were younger
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Yup. So she basically says they cancelled plans to go thru with elopement in late Jan/Feb, got back home still in a relationship and that's when she ch£at£d.
“Sometime love isn’t enough” is so true
I wish I could give you a big hug gabi. Thank you for being and inspiration for others in a similar situation.
Thanks for being so open with us all!
I promise every 10 years we change so much. Love you and Niki..,,
Even in a few months we change a lot
Gabi i have been watching you since middle school and I am graduating college this year. This video is really something that I needed as a wake up call. I find myself thinking about my "old life" and missing it but it is important to realize it all as my life. Love and happiness are not dependent relationships. Thank you for this video Gabi ❤
this is honestly so inspiring! it’s so easy to feel pushed into doing what you ‘should do’ and not what feels right to you as an individual with your own individual arc as a person, especially in ur 20’s! this is v brave and pushing me to do the same x
“Healing my inner child” 😢I felt that on a whole other level
I never wanted to get married, or have kids. I lived my life for me, in the moment, and it was beautiful and I was happy. Then I met my husband. It's been 5 years now, we are happily married, we have a baby, and I love my life just the same as I did when I was single. You do you❤
Love how honest you were! I'm 28 and still trying to figure life out but take it always one day at a time :)
❤️thank you for being so honest with us !!
I'm really happy both you and niki are working on the people pleasing tendencies ( cause same lol) it's really beautiful to see you stand strong in the person you are growing into 😁
aside from looking at gabi and listening to her, i keep on looking at her bags and shoes at her back. thanks gabi for sharing your aesthetic girly style.
You have absolutely every right to keep certain things to yourself. You owe the internet nothing girl. Keep doing what's best for you - you're glowing!! Sending so much love xx (btw the podcast is everything)
you didn’t even answer any questions …… you just kept playing with you’re hair we’re asking about cheating because around the time Johny came into you’re is the same time you’re marriage fell apart
yes she did
She very much did and why do you care so much
do you really have to hate on people.. you’re sick, she said she didn’t want to share much because it was difficult for her. and plus why does it matter to you
@@valentinesclips4815 she did as in she cheated?
She very much did, totally agree @@valentinesclips4815
I have to say this that pink fuzzy hoodie is adorable and I truly think it’s amazing and takes so much strength to be so personal with us and you do just that and you are so incredible a always will be
this video made me respect you so much more. good for you for making your own choices. happy for you.
We appreciate you staying consistent with us Gabi💗
Love how honest you are with everything you do it shows growth and I’m
Here for it love you gabi keep being you 💕💕
Love that for you Gabi! I‘m glad you‘re finally doing something for yourself, thank you for sharing this!! You deserve happiness!! 💕
People who are looking to watch something to see other peoples pain must be sick, I love watching your videos in general but I especially love videos where you share about your life’s story because it gives us someone to relate to. I am about the same age as you and let’s just say The 20s are not a walk in the park. God bless ya chika your videos are always wonderful.
Thank you for explaining things a bit, Gabi. I support your journey going forward! ✨️ 💕
I am healing my inner child too Gabi. I support you completely and I am sending you all love! Keeping doing you boo! Thank you for opening up! Just for the record, I LOOK UP TO YOU, NOT DOWN! ✨❤
it is ok and very common in my circle, some times couples think that they are stuck together, that that is not IT, breake up.. live their lives...and after year..or few.. they get back together stronger than ever. Knowing that they are not missing anything than eachother.
People's speculations about your personal life are so gross.. I hope you're both happier now!!
If fact are not there do not spread rumours simple 🧡💫
Thank you Gabi for keeping everything real with us and waiting to tell us about your life when you were ready. As a long term view and someone in their twenties I understand the boundaries and your relation although public was your private life. You are such a strong and inspirational women 🧡💫
Right
Johnny is not a secret! He’s in every video! So it’s silly to “hide” him! Your elephant has left the room! 😘😘🌴🌴🍒🍒
I just ended my 9 year relationships. So I can see it’s hard for her to refer to call the one who shall not be named her Ex. It’s super hard for her. Like I see her pain. Your not alone. You and Niki need to know it’s not what we want. It’s what GOD wants. Even though we love them we have to let them go. Stay Strong 💋 also I’m 30
I got married at 33 I'm glad I didn't do it in my 20s.
I’m so happy for you today Gabby! You are doing a great job with yourself and your channel xo
I’m living for the new Gabi!! Honestly I’m so happy you are putting yourself first doing what you want to do doing you! You deserve it!
Completely agree with you there 💜💫
I love you so much Gabi! Im so happy that you are growing a learning about yourself and what you want!💗
I'm 38 and not in a relationship and I'm ok with it. Do I wish I was in a relationship? Yeah, but I'm ok with not being in one.
Love you Gabi🤍 It’s honestly so refreshing seeing someone be honest and unapologetic about the decisions they make that will help them grow and flourish in life!
i love you so much gabi,you have a beautiful heart and soul
This was so beautiful and healing for me 💕 Thank you so much for sharing. I wish I could be as open as you are and share my story.
It's so weird hearing this video. When it hits it hits when u catch yourself saying then to be bride... And it still hasn't hit you. YOU GO GIRL
thank you Gabi, for coming on here and just being strong! things like this are hard to talk about it!!! i love you. 🖤
Yes Gabi it's hard when you're young have the world on top but since things change general it difficult speak up about your personal life answering questions over and over so keep head up stay positive...
I love this 💕 I love how mature you guys grew apart , you guys truly love each other & that’s okay that two people out grow each other . You guys are definitely selfless people for letting each other go to grow more as individuals 💕 I hope god creates beautiful paths for you both . You’re glowing Gabi I love it 🤍
U need to give yourself credit for never settling for less cuz some people settle too soon and when they’re your age they’re stuck you did it correctly girl idc!!
u sound like niki in this vlog and i mean that in the best way possible. love u gab. been supporting since ur break free recreation 💚
Same though Gabi is wise and has such emotional strength ✨️🧡
i'm 33 and not married. and i am doing GREAT!!!! :) I am in a four year relationship and we are happy and jst taking our time. It is crazy how people are asking us ALL the time when/why aren't we married yet. Gabi, you do you sis. Coming from a 33 year old that has never been married....YOU WILL BE FINE. :)
sending you the most love possible gabi. through this journey, i’ll always support you ! happy holidays ! ♡
Beautiful message 💫💜
You would be such a FUN MOM!!!!
Your decisions were grown up and extremely smart!
You just made the best decision, not only for yourself, but for your ex partner. You put yourself first and that is okay. Like my mom says “the best moment for a divorce, is while dating”
Your mom is brilliant
I respect you and your sister, I have always watched and enjoy learning. Very relatable. I'm 28, and I hope things are going well. Loving the music.
Your amazing and you do you girl so much growth radiating through your videos
I started dating my bf the year u started dating your ex and now we both are going through 7 year breakups at the same time
Happy you uploaded this, and thank you. Queen. Slay.
she is a Queen
love your videos so much gabi
psa to those reading. cold feet may also be normal and natural for people who do not want to break up. marriage is a huge and scary step!
Yes that's something her younger fans need to know
Omg SLAY, those outfits look fire on you Gab!! 🍂💖
You are a beautiful human being, from the inside and outside
In complete agreement 🧡✨️
Love you Gabi ❤️ so happy you are living your best life. You deserve it!
Thank you so much for explaining this gabi! It means a lot to the fancy babes that actually support you xx
You do you. I went through something similar with my ex so I get it I got asked all the time if I was okay ect and It drove me nuts. Now i get asked all the time when me and my husband are having kids and we are 34 and 35. It's annoying how ppl expect ppl to have kids the min they get married. so i suggest that you take your time and enjoy life. when your ready to have kids and to get married then do it in your own time.
you did the right thing
4 sure
Go Gabi🎉 you are doing great & giving out a good & important message.
I love you so much, I love how you're so present even though you've gone through so much.
Very well said, and thank you for keeping it 💯, always. We love you, Gab!!!! 🥰💕
I am glad everything worked out for you in the end gabi :)
Same though 💜💫
Thank you for being honest Gabi ! So happy you're doing stuff for yourself and being happy,love youuu ♥️
Absolutely agree with you there 🧡💫
Omg u talking about the weather is so relatable, the mornings are so cold!
had to click fast ! i love u sm gabi 🎀💗💕
I'm glad you're really ok ❤️ wish you the best
Gabi, you seem to have grown so much this last year and it’s beautiful to see. Love this for you and your sister Niki 💕
That was such a strong message
Thank you gabi
Love you so much💕
Im just wondering how you and your sister relationship fall apart roughly at the same time. So interesting
It’s called life things just happen
Love the rants GABI ✨♥️
What about Johnnyyyyyyy…?
not really our business
@@nyxgore2952 she makes it everyones business
@@dancingdani25 not really bc she hasn’t talked about it
@@nyxgore2952 girl knows exactly what she's doing by posting those pics cuddling up to him. It's totally fine, she's allowed to. But then she shouldn't complain when people ask about it.
The vlog were all waiting for and wanting questions. But as long as your happy thats all that matters ❤
Wanting answers*
I love how Gabi is so open.
gabi u look so pretty in this viddd makeup so cute
I’m 34 years old and I’m not married yet. It will happen when you are ready.
I can relate to you a lot in this vid surprisingly and I appreciate you giving us pieces from your life thank you Gabi it makes me realize that I’m not alone 🎀💋
Thanks gabi for opening up im going through a rough breakup rn
im so proud! love u so much gorg xx
Well explained Gabi
Completely agree with you there 💫🧡
Gabi I’ve been watching you for 7 years and I feel as though you this year you seem so much more grown up
first thing I said when I clicked this video "she's so BEAUTIFUL"
glad you're doing well gabi. enjoy whatever adventures come your way
literally love you so so much.
Instantly play immaculate for all these rumors.
Because wth.