@@Carol-sn2pz its possible for someone to be on retrovirals and not be infectious with HIV. Still its risky. Maybe that's where he was coming from? www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4196576/
FInally I found my thought in comments. I'm surprised A&P didn't make that comparison. That miss with HIV definitely will be spitting fire if partner wouldn't tell about herpes or syphilis.
@@alhassanetoure3088 As an individualist, I'm generally pleased to hear that. But for this it's hardly irrelevant: 1) Many actually do think this qualification is important, so it can lend authority to a rebuke-particularly those in his identitarian SJW ilk. 2) I do care that I'm gay as someone to whom this mentality can directly impact; I have a stake in this. 3) I do care that I'm gay as someone who cares for others within my community / demographic. 4) I do care that I'm gay as I don't want people to falsely get the impression that his behavior is acceptable (or endorsed) by other gays.
@@richardcletus6026 First thing to understand, youre not a community. Step away from that thought, its a form of tribalism. Youre unique individuals, and be proud of it.
Imagine all the people he’s infected and and could be slowly dying and they don’t know because he failed to utter a single sentence, “I have HIV”. That’s pretty sick if you ask me.
Isn't that against the law though? Aren't you supposed to tell someone you got it? I'm pretty sure it's very important to tell a person you gonna have sex with "Hey....I have HIV it might not be a good idea to sleep with me...." If he is sleeping with people he IS actively infecting people with HIV.
nephyril He isn’t talking about spreading it, he talks about disclosing his status. If the levels of the virus is low then you can’t transmit HIV. That being said, everyone should make an informed decision so personally I think he should tell but this comment section just shows the ignorance is abundant.
@@missylarsson3517 - Doesn't matter how low your HIV count it. Once you have it, you are OBLIGATED to inform your sexual prospect(s) of that fact. If they no longer want to have sex with you, that is their choice. My keeping valuable information from them, you have in all intents and purposes committed fraud by omission. When it comes to health risks, if you have a deadly disease and you knowingly spread it, you are in fact performing an act of terrorism. This law came into effect this year due to so many people who had COVID-19 and actively attempted to infect other via coughing, licking other people's food and spitting in people's faces. That will also include these anti-vaxxer crazy folks that take their measles, pox, or otherwise disease ridden children to a park to purposefully infect all the other children. If you have a disease, even if it is herpes, and you know it is catchy, you are OBLIGATED to keep from spreading that illness.
I work in the health domain as a nurse. This is incredibly problematic as well as a straight up crime. Anyone that does this should be ostracized from society. This type of behaviour is unacceptable.
Even if your as safe as possible you still have the right to be told what the situation is. Nothing is 100% effective, and people have the right to know so they can gives informed consent.
@Great Lakes Bruh just stop. Protection is not 100% full proof. You can keep saying to protect yourself over and over again all you want, it's not going to change the fact that you can still catch something despite all the preparations a person has made.
Raptors Post Game Talk "protect yourself" can also mean not engaging in the activity at all after finding out the risk, the best protection is not getting involved in the first place!
This is my opinion. We have a criminal data based that anyone can view. Why can we do it for people affected with HIV and AIDS. I know it's HIPPA law, however, it's a deadly disease and the public needs to know. Not everyone going to reveal their status.
This dude called you guys racist against black people because you called him out for being a disgusting human. Does he seriously think being black shields him from being a pile of human garbage? Talk about delusional.
The thing is we have been letting many black folks getting away with a lot of shit because they were blacks. It is not surprising to see the same people pushing it too far
@Zikomo Langston you gonna go for HIV testing for a one night stand that you met at 8pm in the bar? Nah boo they gotta address that. If they lie they are responsible for lying and should be prosecuted for that.
@Zikomo Langston but it is their responsibility it is illegal in most states to not tell your sexual partner that you have HIV it's the law so yes it is the person's responsibility
"It's Not my Responsibility to inform Someone of My HIV Status" Actually yes you do, knowingly Having HIV and not informing potential partners could result in 5 years Prison time.
Andrew Burgess-Linden - should be the equivalent of attempted murder in the first degree. If the partner never finds out they now have HIV, they could die without treatment. Plus the partner can infect tons of other people without even knowing.
Kings Of Read Is From Georgia Which Their Is A Law Saying If U Don't Tell Nobody You Have H.I.V You Could Get Five Years, Especially If They Can Prove You Give It To Them 🤦♀️😡😑😒
"If I got it, I don't have to disclose it. It's both people's responsibility." Basically saying, "if you don't ask, I won't tell". That's some BS right there!
Nothing the dude says makes sense. He's just avoiding personal responsibility because he's likely ashamed of what others will think. Let's assume someone did ask him and he did confirm he was positive. That person is gonna avoid him or judge him and he's clearly afraid of it.
its pretty much like saying " I mean... i stole this car before i sold it to you, but you didn't asked so its your fault that you got caught by the police 30 min afterwards "
My girlfriend told me in the first month of us dating that she takes medication for anxiety. I know that's nowhere near the same thing as HIV, but it's the principle of it. Be open and honest
@@luckybunny9456 the point is there are things that will affect a relationship. Sure mental illness isn't contagious but there are people who view this as a deal breaker if they don't want to deal with it or if they want to have children but there is a chance the children will inherent their parents mental illness.
@@Gabster1990 agree with your perspective! Was it very challenging and difficult to date someone with bipolar? There's differing degrees in severity and types of course and with medication but I have relatives with it which has been difficult to cope with especially when they don't get help.
@@anitaknight3915 Dating wasn't challenging and he took his medications but we ended things because he wasn't treating me well and I felt like it was becoming a one sided relationship.
He’s just one of those people that thinks he can win by being the loudest and most emotional person in the room. This guy never learned how to properly argue or know how to have solid talking points.
This time last year; I was dating a girl who gave me a sob story about how her ex was not only emotionally and physically abusive, but was also promiscuous while he would continuously sleep with her unprotected so she slept with someone else unprotected for revenge. Instead of running in the opposite direction, I bought the story but began pushing for us to get tested. She found ways to avoid testing twice but when I put my foot down the third time she dropped me and put the blame on me. It took me a while to accept that her dropping me was a blessing in disguise. That's some ass I'm glad I never got.
Lebogang Seleleko - she probably didn’t want to get tested because she knew she had STDs. Either that or she was afraid of what the test might reveal she had. Ignorance is bliss. Unfortunately she probably didn’t tell her next partner and fooled him into sex.
Women are constantly saying that men need to 'grow up' and be REAL men. Ok, 'real men' will have their potential partners vetted. Let me see your legal, medical and financial records, also review your cooking skills. I'm willing to bet 90% of women would get defensive and lose their damn minds over that.
"I been out here advocating since before I knew my status, before I was tested positive " Bro, evidently your advocating was flawed if you contacted the exact thing you were trying to bring awareness to. I guess we know what happens if you follow his advice.
😂😂😂😂😂 Im sorry but that shit is hilarious. Then he had the nerve to say "ARE YOU DUMB!?" ummm.... no but you definitely are showing some extreme signs of idiocy over there. 😂 Question: How you become an advocate for something like HIV before you get it, then once you get it you publicly say on Twitter of all places "I dont have to tell anyone" 😂 What happened to being an advocate for the cause? LOL I thought advocates actually stood up for what they advocate. Your parents must be so proud.
Did someone not disclose their HIV status to him? Did he intentionally get HIV? If not, then why would he promote the same behavior that led to his HIV positive status? People with this mindset are dangerous!
When you become a zombie, you are no longer fighting zombies. Equally if you are a zombie sympathizer and get turned into a zombie, you still are on the zombie's side.
@WhatISayMayHurtYou&Idc 😃 I might be wrong but I think that person was simply saying we should stop giving that as a response to serious issues because it makes it SEEM like we as society feel it's okay for hurt people to hurt people.
@mrlnwrld in the context that he misgenders Abba and Peach, it is an insult. If you are intentionally misgendering someone, you're implying some level of superiority and inferiority. He doesn't call Abba and Peach a "greeny" or some immature stupid nickname because the insult has no cultural significance.
@mrlnwrld insults like "you punch like a girl", "stop being a sissy" and others reinforce the general idea that being a woman makes you weak. And for him to misgender Abba and Peach intentionally, he's validating that same reinforcement.
@@deino4753 I don't think it's that deep. Trying to insult someone by purposefully misgendering someone doesn't necessarily imply any level of gender superiority. Insults like "you dress like a boy" or "you have a man's voice" do exist and yet it's not like it implies male inferiority.
And what this reckless guy doesn't know is that the law helps avoid situations where people might get enraged and attack him because they think he just risked their life and health
My question is, how did he advocate for HIV awareness and distigmatization, be knowledgable about HIV and prevention(a lot of people who say HIV status shouldnt be disclosed also say because with medication your viral load can be 0) and STILL end up HIV+? That proves that even with the most knowledge and understanding of how HIV works and how the medications work to prevent it or lower your load, it STILL comes down to transparency. Whoever gave him HIV either lied about being on medication, didnt take it consitantly or lied about their status..so Idk how he can say he doesnt have to disclose it.
@@vianjelos It's possible he wasn't read up about the subject of STD's before getting it himself, or at least encountering it at somepoint. Either way this man is a great example of how selfish we as a species can be when it comes to our primal instincts, self preservation in lieu of caring for others. 🤷♂️ We can only hope he wakes the fuck up someday.
That’s no different than slipping off the condom mid-stroke on a woman. You’re taking consent out of the equation by willfully choosing not to disclose that information so your partner isn’t able to make an informed decision. That’s manipulative and downright evil because you know that the person would probably back out if you disclosed your status.
I don't understand, it's a simple concept. If you have HIV, you don't have to tell the world however you should definitely disclose it to any intimate partner.🤷🏿♀️
I think he is afraid of being judged or shunned if someone he likes knows he is positive. And that seems to be why he's in denial over why it's someone's responsibility to ensure the disease isn't carelessly spread. It speaks to a serious lack of empathy to put someone in a situation that you already find to be deplorable. But I guess misery loves company.
@T Martin Awful logic tho. Like yes smart people ask questions but if they don't he should still tell, if not for their sake his own bc if they catch his bug he catches a case
@T Martin you're not informing me of anything! I know what i said & meant, and I agree with the person who's comment we're under. Like Lori's basically saying: Justin shouldn't have to tell the world, but should inform who he's intimate with or plan to be intimate with... which I AGREE! Which is what Justin was trying to say but it was misinterpreted as "he's not telling anybody anything"... Please Listen or Read To Comprehend, Not Just To Respond!!
That dude knew he was wrong...his body language in the video says everything. It's bad when he can't even look the camera in the face...just saying. You guys were spot on and he knew it.
@Great Lakes what about your responsibility to protect others? Don't be a piece of shit human. Yes, protect yourself, but also protect others around you. If you can't or you're too afraid, you're a coward.
Great Lakes i agree with what you are saying but two things can be true. So people are pointing out that you should be honest with your sexual partners about diseases and things of that nature... like in a perfect would that is what you should do... however like you said, the world isn’t perfect so people need to be more diligent as well and ask the people instead of waiting for them to assume and also they should use protection and get checked together. Now what you are missing is that Aba and Preach are talking about how things SHOULD BE. So all y’all are correct...
As someone who has an STD, it is 100% MY responsibility to tell someone who is sexually attracted to me. It's also true that it is no one else's business, but the moment someone becomes sexually attracted to me, it becomes their business too and I tell them. It's just the right thing to do (not to mention it's fucking illegal), and to not tell your sex partner comes off as very sleazy and says that you're just worried about getting your satisfaction and that's how this guy looks right now.
This irks me because i lost an aunt to this disease and watching another family member deal with it and it was because a previous partner didn't disclose...Justin was coming from emotion and not logic smh
I would have more respect for Justin if he just came out and said “I don’t disclose my HIV status because I don’t wanna be rejected”. But no, he responded in the most ignorant way possible.
He'd still be a rotted piece of green shit if that was his reason tho. If you got HIV, you either abstain from romantic relationship to stop spreading, or tell them.
@@vkak1 Legit if everyone who had HIV either stopped having sex or ONLY had sex with each other this shit could be phased out and done with in 50-60 yrs after everyone with it passes. But mfs lube this putting they're own sexual wants over another person's health. Disgusting
Nope, not an excuse. The fact is, this is what we know without him having to say it. People hide things about themselves that others may find objectionable so that they aren't rejected. That's human nature. We all want acceptance from someone. We have to stop putting people's feeling over logic, rational thinking and more poignantly, right and wrong. I sympathize with his position and I understand why he would want to hide his status. But based on sheer principle given the facts of the situation. He is still unequivocally wrong. His feelings do not negate that. We have to be able to say "I understand ,still love you aaaaaaand respect you as a fellow human being but you are wrong "period! Your feelings do not absolve you.
But then he blasts it on RUclips? I just don’t get it... if I had something life altering I would not knowingly put someone else at risk.... stigma or not, it’s life altering... I would probably feel too bad to even date... I know eventually ppl move past that and find partners... but it’s probably because they were honest (no matter how hard it is) about the situation....
He just had to go and prove u guys right🤦🏾♀️ why are they always using their sexuality to validate their points as if everything directed towards them is because of their sexuality 🤦🏾♀️
GHchic I was thinking about that the other day like for example a gay man can slap a straight man for no reason but if the straight man retaliates, it’s automatically a hate crime. “Oh he hit me because I’m gay” like really?
jojofromtx hate him? Not exactly what is needed... one should correct him from the community. Especially when he feels “outsiders” are only debating this due to him being gay.
I told y'all he was going to try and drag y'all. This man is so horrible and ridiculous. Guys becareful because I know you guys do comedy he will call the vendors and talk bad on your name. I know too many youTubers and people on Twitter whose job he has called and got them people fired. He will also, send his minions to report your channel as well this man is very nasty and petty. Love you guys keep the good work and commentory.
What he does is slander and defamation of character bc he's ignorant and petty. He's a gross human being, and him being hiv positive had nothing to do with it. He is just a gross human being.
In the first hour of our first date, my Mrs. told me of her Endometriosis and told her of my history of addiction. Two years later we are SERIOUSLY in love. Be honest. It works.
@@mic7able I have the utmost respect for you both as a couple!! Kudos to you because honesty and communication is so important. I have sympathy for your mrs. as I had endometriosis as well and it's no joke.
I’m to the point where I’m no longer interested in learning how to be inclusive. I’m just going to say whatever I want and whoever doesn’t like it can fight me. 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
Ned Slanders Inclusive is overrated. Nobody likes or gets along with everyone equally. If people would just learn some respect, tolerance and he passed the fact that everyone won’t like you we’d be fine.
No, it was colorism. I guess Aba is "lightskinn-ded" and not sure about Preach. Maybe he's hating cause he's darker. LMAO. I know colorism exists, but this guy just pulled that out of his over-stretched ass.
@@chewbacca4778 How exactly would colorism work along gay lines? Cause for straight black men colorism is flipped, dark skin men are prefered while these mixed/light skin dudes are automatically punks who can't fight etc.. This is why you always see these type of dudes trying to act super hard and doing the most to gain respect.
@@SpikeRazzor that's definitely not true in the US. Light skin and mixed, curly hair men and women are preferred for their features and perceived higher social hierarchy. Think organizations like Jack and Jill or boule. Not to mention corporate America as you mentioned see lighter skinned individuals as less threatening.
I wonder if he knew his previous partner had HIV, would he still be dating that person? I personally think that it is our duty to prevent spreading diseases if we are positive. I don't say that we have to tell the whole world, but before starting a relationship, it's very important to tell if you are positive or not. HIV kills people. Spreading voluntarily HIV is, for me, a crime.
Starting a relationship you don’t have to, but when the conversation of sex come up you should tell before that. I’m positive. Been poz for 7 years. But the first thing i promised myself i will always tell my sexual partners. yes the reactions can be hurtful. But the person who gave it to me did it purposely. N i never want to share that emotional pain i felt with no one. N be that person who “ruined” someone. Life. Sadly a lot of ppl when they first find out has his mind set due to fear.
I unsubbed after Flame. He wants everyone to listen n except his talking points, but is a crazed maniac with everyone else. He also perpetuates the stigma that the LGBT comm. can be mentally unstable.
"I'm a murderer and I've been advocating for murderers for the last 6 years, are you stupid, how DARE you tell me who I can and can't kill!!" Well, we decide that some people's problems effect others negatively, so yes, we do decide what certain people will do with their bodies and their time.
“Them small amount of subscribers yall got ain’t gon get y’all nowhere “ Jan 27 2021 Ava & Preach subscriber count: 983k King of reeds subscriber count: 167k Legend has it he still is making no sense... and yelling.
@@Nitrotix1 yep, I imagine getting even 100 people to follow you based purely on your content must be hard especially when the quality of your videos usually starts off low.
The disgusted/disappointed look on Aba's face the whole video. I'm just as flabbergasted as they are, with this person's response. You 2 keep up the good work.
It's because this dude is letting this nonsense come out of his mouth while sounding bold as fucking brass. As if he is actually making sense. This dude is a coward avoiding personal responsibility because he's afraid of being judged.
This line of thinking seems awfully familiar.... "I don't need to worry about coronavirus, I'm not gonna die from it! Screw all the health warnings." Selfish is as selfish does.
As adults we have to remember that A LOT of other adults we interact with did AWFUL in school in reading/ writing comprehension but still passed on and graduated obviously. There are people who are adults who legitimately lack comprehension skills lmao but since we're adults there's no mediator to be like "Hey bud actually you're wrong. The author (or commentator/creator/person) meant THIS not THAT.
@Jake McCoy is right but I am going to add this it's aggravating and puzzling how they received thag power too. Then you remember "It's who you know" + "Hard work". At least in my experience in the workplace at least.
musicvixen24 Most of his followers condemned him for the same thing Ana n Preach did. Well, maybe “condemned” is a strong word but none of his subbies, that I saw, agreed with him.
I watch him and laugh because he really gets passionate regarding certain topics but has no real clue on the topic... He yells and throws out all these different ism and it drives me crazy
I would want to know if someone has an STD before going out with them. That's common sense! I don't even care if there's some stigma attached. There are stigmas attached to just about everything anyway.
Forget STD, if you have the fucking flu, and know it you should tell the person you're about to be intimate with, it's not that fucking hard to understand. Let the person be the one to say "I don't care."
@Great Lakes you're fucking stupid. I cant project myself from someone sneezing in your direction. This is a fucking sexually transmitted disease in America you can be charged with manslaughter if you infect someone with out telling them your infected. If you have the flu it's your job to stay home and not infect the people you work with. I cant project myself form the flu if you come up and shake my hand after wiping your nose. You are a fucking moron
@Great Lakes There are people out there knowing screwing up other people's health because they aren't saying anything you moron. And how can someone protect themselves from certain diseases if they don't know what other people have? There are different ways to prevent each different disease.
@Great Lakes it's illegal to knowingly transmit an STD stupid. I don't care wtf you believe. If you have sex with someone knowing you are infected and you pass that bug to someone without telling them just because you want to fuck, YOU! Are a piece shit and do not deserve to even have sex.
@Great Lakes A customer came in at my job 2 years ago and had the flu. He didn't tell me until after we talked and we were closed to each other. It's crazy how people walk around with diseases and not say anything to individuals he or she comes in contact with.
Thank you Aba&Preach for your humor & integrity. -as a man with Hep-C it is my responsibility to tell my sexual partners about it so they can make an informed decision, even though there's just a 1% chance of transmission through sex --simple as that bros... You are most definitely correct.
Your stance is right. When it comes right down to it... not having the empathy, decency, and even a fraction of caring about the other person you're about to sleep with- 1 night or more- it's comes down to hedonistic entitlement- The guy doesn't want to throw something out there that will lessen his chance of getting some. - when that attitude is prevalent then riskier behavior tends to slip in. Those medications MUST.. I repeat MUST- be taken daily. You can't skip on them- they are like birth control pills... miss a day or two and the risk of things going wrong- increases. The question is do they really truly care about others- or their own desires. Here's a thought... If that person loved another that is positive- then that's up to that person to place their own self at risk - to fully love them- and what a better -blessing- that is. To be loved and intimate with someone who chose to take that risk.
O.o hiv-phobic is a thing now? Even in the way they are misusing the suffix phobia hatred of HIV is completely acceptable for all people to have, it is a disease that kills people, what are we supposed to do? Love it?
Clearly no self loathing happening there Huh! He needs counselling or something and I wish him well unless he spreads HIV willingly in which case I wish him jail time
Knowing each others sexual health is what slowed down the pandemic of the 80s in 90s. This guy is living in a luxurious world in comparison to what HIV victims lived with in the 80s. I was there, it was a really difficult decade where many good friends passed in the most horrific way. So YES. If you have sexual health issues, it is 💯 necessary to divulge to your intended partner.
King of reads is a walking contradiction. He speaks on everything from a personal experience. He’s pro-black until it comes to light skinned ppl. But to stay on topic, he cannot do that. You have to expose your status. He could be charged for a battery at the least. He’s the worst.
When I bring up getting tested people look at me like I grew a head, why is it insane to want to know I'm healthy? Why is it strange to be checked out before I get sick or show irreversible symptoms? In highschool there was always excuses and accusations, I wasn't pure, I knew exactly what I was doing, I knew when I got into bed with someone there was a possibility of anything, but I knew if it happened it wouldn't be from me.
When I got real health insurance through my job and went for my gyn appt I asked if they would do an HIV test like at planned parenthood and my dr said we don't do that here. And when I asked why she said they only accept patients with health insurance and no Medicaid and people in that population generally don't need an hiv test. So I had to take my ass to quest diagnostics for an actual blood test for hiv. I just feel safer getting tested for STDs at my appointments. Especially since they don't recommend yearly pap tests for women anymore. I'm getting checked every year idc. Every dr should have the 15min hiv test that is only a finger prick.
@Misslimitless23 I was just shocked for real. Like test me for everything....you never know. I won't say who, but someone close to me had clamydia that laid dormant for 10yrs and the only reason she knows that is bc she wasn't sexually active for a whole decade. And it wreaked havoc on her body ending up in a complete hysterectomy.
That's an official logical fallacy, bro... Specifically called "Ad Hominem Fallacy", which means attacking a flaw in someone's character as if those attacks somehow refute their argument. Just cause someone calls you a moron, doesn't mean their argument is invalid... Moron. ;D c wut i did thar? xD
You have a condition that can harm someone, you might not need to tell everyone but you do need to tell the person you planning to be intimate with, thats all.
thats a loaded topic and it is definitely not as black and why as being "educated" you have many educated people make poor choices ALL the time......look at the news
@@aweatherington1 no I get that totally, but this dude seems to have completely thrown away/forgotten his "education". He seems like the dude/chick (chicks do that shit too) that says fuck it, I got it now so I'm giving it to EVERYBODY! Then wants to throw it in your face when you find out. His attitude about is what really pisses me off. My comment was more rhetorical, I just wanted to be the asshole to poke holes in what he was saying.
Anonymiss Patriot Because somebody down the line didn’t feel like they had to disclose it to someone . That should be even more of a reason why he should shut up and apologize for the dumb comment .
Antwan weatherington educated on a topic is not the same as being educated in general. Being educated ON HIV doesn’t mean you have a degree. It means you know about HIV are educated about how it happens and all.
I would be SO heartbroken if my partner didn’t tell me they’re HIV positive... like, sex in general is vulnerable and intimate requiring trust. Not telling someone you have a disease that could permanently compromise their health/lifestyle is irresponsible. You don’t do that to people you care about. His logic is so selfish!
I think you put this so eloquently, being vulnerable with someone only to find that they have fatally betrayed you would be so heartbreaking on so many levels
@Mattia De Cecco not in the UK. Here you're told it's your legal responsibility to disclose your status to inform your partner. Unless that law has changed since the lecture I had in school.
😂😂😂😂😂I thought I was the only one looking at this man and thinking "Yup, he a Preach fanboy who's mad his idol disagrees with him and thinks he should do better" Suzie Q for the win😂😂😂😂😂
In what universe? Don't get me wrong I'm not a fan, but I'm trying to understand how is there even a comparison.... unless I missed some idiotic shit she said.
If a person says “I don’t have to inform someone of having HIV” they are immediately discredited in life.
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Inconsiderate is how I would describe him
Knowingly infecting someone with HIV is an actual treatable crime iirc.
Can anybody either confirm?
@@knes167 I think it is in some areas. I'd have to search.
@@Carol-sn2pz its possible for someone to be on retrovirals and not be infectious with HIV. Still its risky. Maybe that's where he was coming from?
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4196576/
Dude its illegal to knowingly infecting someone with a disease without their knowledge.
We have failed as a people. Fuck this nigga, figuratively of course.
Didn’t California legalise it?
Exactly!!! Thank you!
California change the law
@@rbob2416 no but they reduced the penalty
I'm just gonna leave this quote here: “Don't raise your voice, improve your argument." ― Desmond Tutu
Nicely put
Bro, I deal with it all the time
Exactly,. He just went into bitchy mode and did not address where they were wrong.
This should be the ONLY comment ALLOWED here...#GiveMeJESUS
Bam...
How is he comfortable telling the world but not the person they’re having some sort of relationship with..
Because then he won't get sex
Yunus Ahmed well now he won’t get sex from a lot of people
Ignorance, entitlement and stupidity are a dangerous combination...
@@AlexHero2812 add priviledge to that, cause he is in youtube and sending this to viewers and people are watching him talk about his garbage views.
Selfishness
I'm sure he wishes someone had told him that they had HIV.
😂😂😂😂😂
FInally I found my thought in comments. I'm surprised A&P didn't make that comparison. That miss with HIV definitely will be spitting fire if partner wouldn't tell about herpes or syphilis.
Bingo!
Hurt people hurt people
Absolutely
Once you start with personal attacks ... you've already lost.
That part!
Say it again for the ppl in the back!!! 👏👏👏👏
BIG FACTS!!!!
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I'm gay, and I cannot describe how vile and repulsive his perspective is. Just...wow.
Not alone in that. I feel physically sick knowing that people like him can be in our community.
@@alhassanetoure3088 As an individualist, I'm generally pleased to hear that. But for this it's hardly irrelevant: 1) Many actually do think this qualification is important, so it can lend authority to a rebuke-particularly those in his identitarian SJW ilk. 2) I do care that I'm gay as someone to whom this mentality can directly impact; I have a stake in this. 3) I do care that I'm gay as someone who cares for others within my community / demographic. 4) I do care that I'm gay as I don't want people to falsely get the impression that his behavior is acceptable (or endorsed) by other gays.
@@AurorXZ that was a knock out punch 😂
@@alhassanetoure3088 offside.
@@richardcletus6026 First thing to understand, youre not a community. Step away from that thought, its a form of tribalism. Youre unique individuals, and be proud of it.
Imagine all the people he’s infected and and could be slowly dying and they don’t know because he failed to utter a single sentence, “I have HIV”. That’s pretty sick if you ask me.
Isn't that against the law though? Aren't you supposed to tell someone you got it? I'm pretty sure it's very important to tell a person you gonna have sex with "Hey....I have HIV it might not be a good idea to sleep with me...." If he is sleeping with people he IS actively infecting people with HIV.
@@Melodyofthesea78 Yes. If you knowingly have it, you cannot spread it to other people that don't know you have it.
He aint that cute probably not many of these
nephyril He isn’t talking about spreading it, he talks about disclosing his status. If the levels of the virus is low then you can’t transmit HIV. That being said, everyone should make an informed decision so personally I think he should tell but this comment section just shows the ignorance is abundant.
@@missylarsson3517 - Doesn't matter how low your HIV count it. Once you have it, you are OBLIGATED to inform your sexual prospect(s) of that fact. If they no longer want to have sex with you, that is their choice. My keeping valuable information from them, you have in all intents and purposes committed fraud by omission. When it comes to health risks, if you have a deadly disease and you knowingly spread it, you are in fact performing an act of terrorism. This law came into effect this year due to so many people who had COVID-19 and actively attempted to infect other via coughing, licking other people's food and spitting in people's faces. That will also include these anti-vaxxer crazy folks that take their measles, pox, or otherwise disease ridden children to a park to purposefully infect all the other children. If you have a disease, even if it is herpes, and you know it is catchy, you are OBLIGATED to keep from spreading that illness.
When the debate is over, slander becomes the tool of the loser. - Socrates
"Slander is something little pussy ass bitches do my nigga"- Diogenes
Thy shall not give thy energy to a bitch nigga Niggalations 4:17
@@khalilali2450
Lmao
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wise philosopher.
I work in the health domain as a nurse. This is incredibly problematic as well as a straight up crime. Anyone that does this should be ostracized from society. This type of behaviour is unacceptable.
Even if your as safe as possible you still have the right to be told what the situation is. Nothing is 100% effective, and people have the right to know so they can gives informed consent.
@Great Lakes Bruh just stop. Protection is not 100% full proof. You can keep saying to protect yourself over and over again all you want, it's not going to change the fact that you can still catch something despite all the preparations a person has made.
@Great Lakes and protect others. Don't be a shitbag.
Raptors Post Game Talk "protect yourself" can also mean not engaging in the activity at all after finding out the risk, the best protection is not getting involved in the first place!
This is my opinion. We have a criminal data based that anyone can view. Why can we do it for people affected with HIV and AIDS. I know it's HIPPA law, however, it's a deadly disease and the public needs to know. Not everyone going to reveal their status.
But I bet he would be mad as hell if someone gave him the corona virus and had the nerve to say, “well you didn’t ask!”
Lol u petty
FACT!
js hooper 😂😂😂😂😂
Coronaphobe! I bet you drink Modelo, don’t you?
That would be ironic asf😅
He said, "I've been advocating for people for HIV before I even knew I had it." that dont make it no better. That actually makes you look foolish
Makes it much worse actually lol, because the most likely cause of him having it is getting it from a person who thinks like him lol.
Yup! It makes him look hypocritical asf teaching HIV positive ppl about protection, testing and whatnot only to get that very disease 🤦🏽♀️
Exactly !!!!;
He str8 lying!
My uncle told me " an empty pot makes the loudest noise", do with that as you will
CRE8TIV G4MING “do with that as you will” had me rolling for some reason 🤣🤣
This pot ain't cooking my ramen noodles.
The hell with that
@@GamingStar1995 lol
My uncle told me, you got a Pretty mouth boy. Ok he didn't say that, but it does fit the topic well.
Wisdom- 100
This dude called you guys racist against black people because you called him out for being a disgusting human. Does he seriously think being black shields him from being a pile of human garbage? Talk about delusional.
Amen to that
Wait i thought black people can't be racist..... wtf lmao
in cognito anybody can be racist lol don’t let these folks fool you
The thing is we have been letting many black folks getting away with a lot of shit because they were blacks. It is not surprising to see the same people pushing it too far
@@tyrone2608 racism is systematic oppression. Its not not liking somebody because of their race.
“That’s not a response, that just you being emotional.” PREACH.
That's why that's his name!! LOL
hm it'S funny bcuz in a sens aba is one of the name of GOD but it's written Abba
so you feel me, Aba & preach lol 😏 they may have done this on purpose
@Zikomo Langston you gonna go for HIV testing for a one night stand that you met at 8pm in the bar? Nah boo they gotta address that. If they lie they are responsible for lying and should be prosecuted for that.
@Zikomo Langston but it is their responsibility it is illegal in most states to not tell your sexual partner that you have HIV it's the law so yes it is the person's responsibility
"When people feel attacked they feel it's anti-them."
Preach Preach!
Miss Preach*🤣🤣🤣
Lmaooo! I told y’all he was gonna clap back. He can’t stand being called out on his bullshit
TRUTH!!!
if he can't stand been full of shit maybe he should clean his mess and not just putting it under the mop
unlimited971 Didn’t you see the video? This POS has a mop for a head.
@thematic 😂😂😂 straight dookie!
"It's Not my Responsibility to inform Someone of My HIV Status"
Actually yes you do, knowingly Having HIV and not informing potential partners could result in 5 years Prison time.
Should be 15 to 20 years if you knew you had it
Andrew Burgess-Linden - should be the equivalent of attempted murder in the first degree. If the partner never finds out they now have HIV, they could die without treatment. Plus the partner can infect tons of other people without even knowing.
Kings Of Read Is From Georgia Which Their Is A Law Saying If U Don't Tell Nobody You Have H.I.V You Could Get Five Years, Especially If They Can Prove You Give It To Them 🤦♀️😡😑😒
Gotem!
Except in California because their government hates them and refuses to protect them.
"If I got it, I don't have to disclose it. It's both people's responsibility."
Basically saying, "if you don't ask, I won't tell". That's some BS right there!
Nothing the dude says makes sense. He's just avoiding personal responsibility because he's likely ashamed of what others will think. Let's assume someone did ask him and he did confirm he was positive. That person is gonna avoid him or judge him and he's clearly afraid of it.
@@SnowyWolborg Welcome to the progressives, "our feelings are more important than the truth".
But he contradicted himself the moment he said it’s both parties/people responsibility to disclose. You are one of the people. So...
its pretty much like saying " I mean... i stole this car before i sold it to you, but you didn't asked so its your fault that you got caught by the police 30 min afterwards "
@Zikomo Langston I agree
My girlfriend told me in the first month of us dating that she takes medication for anxiety. I know that's nowhere near the same thing as HIV, but it's the principle of it. Be open and honest
Same. I was in a relationship with one guy who told me he had bipolar disorder. I appreciated that.
Not really because anxiety is genetic and not contagious. Like you should tell your partner but not even remotely for the same reasons.
@@luckybunny9456 the point is there are things that will affect a relationship. Sure mental illness isn't contagious but there are people who view this as a deal breaker if they don't want to deal with it or if they want to have children but there is a chance the children will inherent their parents mental illness.
@@Gabster1990 agree with your perspective! Was it very challenging and difficult to date someone with bipolar? There's differing degrees in severity and types of course and with medication but I have relatives with it which has been difficult to cope with especially when they don't get help.
@@anitaknight3915 Dating wasn't challenging and he took his medications but we ended things because he wasn't treating me well and I felt like it was becoming a one sided relationship.
"Miss Aba and Miss Preach"....oh here it goesssss...🤦🏽♀️
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he fucked up right there 😂😂😂😂
Abu and Peach back at it again
Miss preach bun looking nice in this episode 😍
"Miss Aba and Miss Preach..." that laugh afterwards, I died. lmaoooo.
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I hollered!
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Bro. I wish someone would make a supercut of Preach laughing. When he laughs, I instantly feel better because of how infectious and genuine it is
Yes!! Co-Signing Preach laugh super cut!
He’s just one of those people that thinks he can win by being the loudest and most emotional person in the room. This guy never learned how to properly argue or know how to have solid talking points.
Thomas Caprara facts
He's built like a bitch and a prime example of toxic feminity.
Just like majority of females.
TheTwinkiefoot toxic femininity!!!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@TheTwinkiefoot lol, wow
When someone can't attack your facts, they'll attack everything else.
Similar to Socrates quote.
-“When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser”
This time last year; I was dating a girl who gave me a sob story about how her ex was not only emotionally and physically abusive, but was also promiscuous while he would continuously sleep with her unprotected so she slept with someone else unprotected for revenge.
Instead of running in the opposite direction, I bought the story but began pushing for us to get tested. She found ways to avoid testing twice but when I put my foot down the third time she dropped me and put the blame on me. It took me a while to accept that her dropping me was a blessing in disguise. That's some ass I'm glad I never got.
Lebogang Seleleko - she probably didn’t want to get tested because she knew she had STDs. Either that or she was afraid of what the test might reveal she had. Ignorance is bliss. Unfortunately she probably didn’t tell her next partner and fooled him into sex.
@@HypocritesExposd right.
do realize her story about her ex cheating was more than likely a lie. she was doing the cheating not the ex
What a weird story to tell anyone, let alone a date. Think you not only dodged an std but a psychopath too
Women are constantly saying that men need to 'grow up' and be REAL men. Ok, 'real men' will have their potential partners vetted. Let me see your legal, medical and financial records, also review your cooking skills. I'm willing to bet 90% of women would get defensive and lose their damn minds over that.
"I been out here advocating since before I knew my status, before I was tested positive "
Bro, evidently your advocating was flawed if you contacted the exact thing you were trying to bring awareness to. I guess we know what happens if you follow his advice.
😂😂😂😂😂 Im sorry but that shit is hilarious. Then he had the nerve to say "ARE YOU DUMB!?" ummm.... no but you definitely are showing some extreme signs of idiocy over there. 😂 Question: How you become an advocate for something like HIV before you get it, then once you get it you publicly say on Twitter of all places "I dont have to tell anyone" 😂 What happened to being an advocate for the cause? LOL I thought advocates actually stood up for what they advocate. Your parents must be so proud.
Very good point. I bet he doesn’t even realize how dumb he sounded or made himself look.
Great point
I couldn’t believe my ears when he said that! Like sir... look in the mirror 1st, say hello, and now ask “ARE YOUUU DUMB? WTH
🤔😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I CANT!!
Did someone not disclose their HIV status to him? Did he intentionally get HIV? If not, then why would he promote the same behavior that led to his HIV positive status? People with this mindset are dangerous!
Hurt people, hurt people.
When you become a zombie, you are no longer fighting zombies. Equally if you are a zombie sympathizer and get turned into a zombie, you still are on the zombie's side.
@WhatISayMayHurtYou&Idc 😃 I might be wrong but I think that person was simply saying we should stop giving that as a response to serious issues because it makes it SEEM like we as society feel it's okay for hurt people to hurt people.
Right!
Perfume, Tears & Hair tf. You think they are the ting to justify it? They were agreeing with the other comments
The sad part is that by misgendering you, he is also reinforcing the narrative that to be a woman is lesser than. 🤷🏾
@mrlnwrld in the context that he misgenders Abba and Peach, it is an insult. If you are intentionally misgendering someone, you're implying some level of superiority and inferiority. He doesn't call Abba and Peach a "greeny" or some immature stupid nickname because the insult has no cultural significance.
@mrlnwrld insults like "you punch like a girl", "stop being a sissy" and others reinforce the general idea that being a woman makes you weak. And for him to misgender Abba and Peach intentionally, he's validating that same reinforcement.
@@deino4753 I don't think it's that deep. Trying to insult someone by purposefully misgendering someone doesn't necessarily imply any level of gender superiority. Insults like "you dress like a boy" or "you have a man's voice" do exist and yet it's not like it implies male inferiority.
@mrlnwrld he's saying being a woman makes you weak, which as a man is bad.
@mrlnwrld the fact of the matter is, he used "miss" as an insult.
Does he know that it’s a crime to have sexual relations with some one and not tell them you have HIV
Certain places are changing that law. I don't think it's a good idea but yeah this line of thinking is changing those laws
And what this reckless guy doesn't know is that the law helps avoid situations where people might get enraged and attack him because they think he just risked their life and health
I would want to know if you have any type of disease because it's not fair to sex someone and keep them in the blind because you're being selfish.
I think only in California you aren't responsible for telling the other person/ people before engagement 😳 in my state it's against the law.
Being ignorant is a crime if you ask me.... Lot of people going unconvicted
"how dare you tell me I can't dump this nuclear waste in this drinking water" is basically what that guy is saying.
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"Hey, how did you catch HIV?"
"Oh, y'know, Stigma."
My question is, how did he advocate for HIV awareness and distigmatization, be knowledgable about HIV and prevention(a lot of people who say HIV status shouldnt be disclosed also say because with medication your viral load can be 0) and STILL end up HIV+? That proves that even with the most knowledge and understanding of how HIV works and how the medications work to prevent it or lower your load, it STILL comes down to transparency. Whoever gave him HIV either lied about being on medication, didnt take it consitantly or lied about their status..so Idk how he can say he doesnt have to disclose it.
@@vianjelos It's possible he wasn't read up about the subject of STD's before getting it himself, or at least encountering it at somepoint. Either way this man is a great example of how selfish we as a species can be when it comes to our primal instincts, self preservation in lieu of caring for others. 🤷♂️ We can only hope he wakes the fuck up someday.
@@TestSubjectQWTD its possible, but IDK how you can advocate for something that you have no knowledge of.
@@vianjelos As I said man, I hope this guy wakes up.
"What's stigma?"
"Stigma balls"
That’s no different than slipping off the condom mid-stroke on a woman. You’re taking consent out of the equation by willfully choosing not to disclose that information so your partner isn’t able to make an informed decision. That’s manipulative and downright evil because you know that the person would probably back out if you disclosed your status.
This is how I got pregnant no lie
Its more like not using it and saying you have the condom on
My first husband used to do this, one of the reasons I divorced him. He wanted us to have kids but I didn't...
@@RosieWilliamOlivia why would you marry if you don't want kids im just curious?
@@inezgant2839 could you not feel the difference
He's just irresponsible and immature. His behavior is how it spreads. I can't stand people who don't take responsibility for their actions.
A walking contradiction.
Hello brother
Yup that’s how he got it in the first place.
Newton Sparetire facts
I don't understand, it's a simple concept. If you have HIV, you don't have to tell the world however you should definitely disclose it to any intimate partner.🤷🏿♀️
I think he is afraid of being judged or shunned if someone he likes knows he is positive. And that seems to be why he's in denial over why it's someone's responsibility to ensure the disease isn't carelessly spread. It speaks to a serious lack of empathy to put someone in a situation that you already find to be deplorable. But I guess misery loves company.
I agree and i think thats exactly what justin was saying/expressing but it was misinterpreted as him saying "he doesnt have to & not telling anyone.
@T Martin Awful logic tho. Like yes smart people ask questions but if they don't he should still tell, if not for their sake his own bc if they catch his bug he catches a case
I think u should find a partner with hiv too...no persons without giv would want to risk once they knew...its just common sense.
@T Martin you're not informing me of anything! I know what i said & meant, and I agree with the person who's comment we're under. Like Lori's basically saying: Justin shouldn't have to tell the world, but should inform who he's intimate with or plan to be intimate with... which I AGREE! Which is what Justin was trying to say but it was misinterpreted as "he's not telling anybody anything"...
Please Listen or Read To Comprehend, Not Just To Respond!!
That dude knew he was wrong...his body language in the video says everything. It's bad when he can't even look the camera in the face...just saying. You guys were spot on and he knew it.
@Great Lakes what about your responsibility to protect others? Don't be a piece of shit human. Yes, protect yourself, but also protect others around you. If you can't or you're too afraid, you're a coward.
it's cognitive dissonance at this point.
Great Lakes i agree with what you are saying but two things can be true. So people are pointing out that you should be honest with your sexual partners about diseases and things of that nature... like in a perfect would that is what you should do... however like you said, the world isn’t perfect so people need to be more diligent as well and ask the people instead of waiting for them to assume and also they should use protection and get checked together. Now what you are missing is that Aba and Preach are talking about how things SHOULD BE. So all y’all are correct...
@@Mellymellucky17 it's not that it should be,it IS that way,there's a law for that
Yeah his body language as well as the intonations in his voice
As someone who has an STD, it is 100% MY responsibility to tell someone who is sexually attracted to me. It's also true that it is no one else's business, but the moment someone becomes sexually attracted to me, it becomes their business too and I tell them. It's just the right thing to do (not to mention it's fucking illegal), and to not tell your sex partner comes off as very sleazy and says that you're just worried about getting your satisfaction and that's how this guy looks right now.
u wu thank you very much. You're a great person.
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It is absolutely a legal requirement to divulge certain viral infections before sex. I can confirm (uk at least)
It is also the responsibility of the other party to ask no cap
@@Naisy77 No it isn't. At all.
This irks me because i lost an aunt to this disease and watching another family member deal with it and it was because a previous partner didn't disclose...Justin was coming from emotion and not logic smh
I would have more respect for Justin if he just came out and said “I don’t disclose my HIV status because I don’t wanna be rejected”. But no, he responded in the most ignorant way possible.
mj XOXO exactly!
He'd still be a rotted piece of green shit if that was his reason tho. If you got HIV, you either abstain from romantic relationship to stop spreading, or tell them.
@OP
.1 IS higher than 0 so I guess I have to agree with you on that
@@vkak1
Legit if everyone who had HIV either stopped having sex or ONLY had sex with each other this shit could be phased out and done with in 50-60 yrs after everyone with it passes.
But mfs lube this putting they're own sexual wants over another person's health. Disgusting
Nope, not an excuse. The fact is, this is what we know without him having to say it. People hide things about themselves that others may find objectionable so that they aren't rejected. That's human nature. We all want acceptance from someone.
We have to stop putting people's feeling over logic, rational thinking and more poignantly, right and wrong. I sympathize with his position and I understand why he would want to hide his status. But based on sheer principle given the facts of
the situation. He is still unequivocally wrong. His feelings do not negate that.
We have to be able to say "I understand ,still love you aaaaaaand respect you as a fellow human being but you are wrong "period! Your feelings do not absolve you.
It’s obvious that he’s having dating issues and his solution is to just not tell.
His potential partners probably disliked his personality and this is a clincher.
But then he blasts it on RUclips? I just don’t get it... if I had something life altering I would not knowingly put someone else at risk.... stigma or not, it’s life altering... I would probably feel too bad to even date... I know eventually ppl move past that and find partners... but it’s probably because they were honest (no matter how hard it is) about the situation....
That's not emotional.
That's a narcissist having a temper tantrum.
He just had to go and prove u guys right🤦🏾♀️ why are they always using their sexuality to validate their points as if everything directed towards them is because of their sexuality 🤦🏾♀️
Pretty they are one dimensional and very superficial
When you choose to base your identity on your sexual orientation, you get caught in loops.
GHchic I was thinking about that the other day like for example a gay man can slap a straight man for no reason but if the straight man retaliates, it’s automatically a hate crime. “Oh he hit me because I’m gay” like really?
#Facts
jojofromtx hate him? Not exactly what is needed... one should correct him from the community. Especially when he feels “outsiders” are only debating this due to him being gay.
mis gendering people on purpose is a playground insult, it's so childish you cant take that person seriously anymore.
I told y'all he was going to try and drag y'all. This man is so horrible and ridiculous. Guys becareful because I know you guys do comedy he will call the vendors and talk bad on your name. I know too many youTubers and people on Twitter whose job he has called and got them people fired. He will also, send his minions to report your channel as well this man is very nasty and petty. Love you guys keep the good work and commentory.
Nah that bitch dude is not at their level he can't do shit to them
What he does is slander and defamation of character bc he's ignorant and petty. He's a gross human being, and him being hiv positive had nothing to do with it. He is just a gross human being.
Pre call the vendors and tell them about this POS
*That dude and his HIV some bitches.*
@@mahamedali5068 LMAO!!!
5:30 “small amount of subs”
Aba and Preach *chuckles in 1 million subs*
Right! That comment agrd doo eell. Cuz he's still at about the same amount hahal lolz
2M
In the first hour of our first date, my Mrs. told me of her Endometriosis and told her of my history of addiction. Two years later we are SERIOUSLY in love. Be honest. It works.
👏👏 yes Mick thats how its supposed to be
I agree, but so few know this.
Honesty is a beautiful thing!
@@mic7able I have the utmost respect for you both as a couple!! Kudos to you because honesty and communication is so important. I have sympathy for your mrs. as I had endometriosis as well and it's no joke.
I’m to the point where I’m no longer interested in learning how to be inclusive. I’m just going to say whatever I want and whoever doesn’t like it can fight me. 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
Ned Slanders Inclusive is overrated. Nobody likes or gets along with everyone equally. If people would just learn some respect, tolerance and he passed the fact that everyone won’t like you we’d be fine.
So you tryna be me huh? Well then, get ready to start winning Champ! 🏆🖖🏾
Send location!
@@RizztrainingOrder Self-distance yourself SJW internet tough guy.
I wish yo be like this. But boy them SJW's have the nastiest mouths... oof. I have had my feelings hurt a few times putting them in their place
lol , black dude pulling the "black card"
on 2 black dude's ...
ok XD
No, it was colorism. I guess Aba is "lightskinn-ded" and not sure about Preach. Maybe he's hating cause he's darker. LMAO. I know colorism exists, but this guy just pulled that out of his over-stretched ass.
@@chewbacca4778 How exactly would colorism work along gay lines? Cause for straight black men colorism is flipped, dark skin men are prefered while these mixed/light skin dudes are automatically punks who can't fight etc.. This is why you always see these type of dudes trying to act super hard and doing the most to gain respect.
Lol. I have not a clue. He's the one accusing them of colorism even though there were no prejudices expressed in their video.
@@chewbacca4778
ugh...
Americans and there "...isem's"
@@SpikeRazzor that's definitely not true in the US. Light skin and mixed, curly hair men and women are preferred for their features and perceived higher social hierarchy. Think organizations like Jack and Jill or boule. Not to mention corporate America as you mentioned see lighter skinned individuals as less threatening.
His logic: My feelings > life of a person
I wonder if he knew his previous partner had HIV, would he still be dating that person?
I personally think that it is our duty to prevent spreading diseases if we are positive. I don't say that we have to tell the whole world, but before starting a relationship, it's very important to tell if you are positive or not.
HIV kills people. Spreading voluntarily HIV is, for me, a crime.
It's ACTUALLY a crime lol
Yannick Mupompa well not disclosing it to a sexual partner is a crime where I am from.
Everywhere it's a crime. Charlie Sheen don't ring a bell to you?
Mary Jane Harris nope, I dont usually follow up on celeb bs
Starting a relationship you don’t have to, but when the conversation of sex come up you should tell before that. I’m positive. Been poz for 7 years. But the first thing i promised myself i will always tell my sexual partners. yes the reactions can be hurtful. But the person who gave it to me did it purposely. N i never want to share that emotional pain i felt with no one. N be that person who “ruined” someone. Life. Sadly a lot of ppl when they first find out has his mind set due to fear.
“How dare us, how dare I, how dare we?” ... I’m going to tell my kids that’s Shakespeare
nah give them credit, lol
"It's not my responsibility..."
OH YES TF IT IS!!!
I'm unsubbing from him... he a danger to our community.
Definitely unsubbing
Yup I unsubbed as well
I definitely unsubscribed from him as well. I can't believe he thinks this way.
I unsubbed after Flame. He wants everyone to listen n except his talking points, but is a crazed maniac with everyone else. He also perpetuates the stigma that the LGBT comm. can be mentally unstable.
I unsubbed as well after seeing the video
"I'm a murderer and I've been advocating for murderers for the last 6 years, are you stupid, how DARE you tell me who I can and can't kill!!" Well, we decide that some people's problems effect others negatively, so yes, we do decide what certain people will do with their bodies and their time.
He said anti-black because sadly there's a size-able group of people that will jump on his band wagon the moment they hear that.
Totally ignoring the fact that both men in the video are varying shades of the ethnicity all three share. Hilarious.
Onyxsolo factsss
Chew Bacca exactly!
Shawn C tell em
Man, that dude has some soul searching to do...
He’s too self righteous. For some reason he thinks he is lightyears ahead of ppl.
“It hurt you boo boo” yo that line will burn a person up .. lol lol
“Them small amount of subscribers yall got ain’t gon get y’all nowhere “
Jan 27 2021
Ava & Preach subscriber count: 983k
King of reeds subscriber count: 167k
Legend has it he still is making no sense... and yelling.
Let's correct that
1 million*
I just watched that moment as this comment came
Edit the numbers every month
It's such a petty insult regardless.
Even 100 subscribers is a lot.
@@Nitrotix1 yep, I imagine getting even 100 people to follow you based purely on your content must be hard especially when the quality of your videos usually starts off low.
The disgusted/disappointed look on Aba's face the whole video. I'm just as flabbergasted as they are, with this person's response. You 2 keep up the good work.
DAMN you got to it before I did!
It's because this dude is letting this nonsense come out of his mouth while sounding bold as fucking brass. As if he is actually making sense. This dude is a coward avoiding personal responsibility because he's afraid of being judged.
LMAO!!
This line of thinking seems awfully familiar....
"I don't need to worry about coronavirus, I'm not gonna die from it! Screw all the health warnings."
Selfish is as selfish does.
As adults we have to remember that A LOT of other adults we interact with did AWFUL in school in reading/ writing comprehension but still passed on and graduated obviously. There are people who are adults who legitimately lack comprehension skills lmao but since we're adults there's no mediator to be like "Hey bud actually you're wrong. The author (or commentator/creator/person) meant THIS not THAT.
@Jake McCoy is right but I am going to add this So true my man. So true!
@Jake McCoy is right but I am going to add this it's aggravating and puzzling how they received thag power too. Then you remember "It's who you know" + "Hard work". At least in my experience in the workplace at least.
Preach to Aba “Low Blow’s are fine? 👀 he’s gonna take that as an invitation!” 💀😭😩 im weaak
The best punchline in the video ever
Aba didn’t even realize how he’d put his foot into his mouth at first😂
🤣😂🤣
He doesn’t have an argument and he has no following that defends what he said
musicvixen24 Most of his followers condemned him for the same thing Ana n Preach did. Well, maybe “condemned” is a strong word but none of his subbies, that I saw, agreed with him.
It's just straight up evil not to tell someone that your in a relationship with that you have a serious disease
I see why Adrian dropped him, he's toxic, bitter, and a deplorable human being
I was thinking the same thing!
I was wondering about why they don't acknowledge each other anymore
Period
He was petty, sloppy in his rebuttal and his attitude is that of a child.
I watch him and laugh because he really gets passionate regarding certain topics but has no real clue on the topic... He yells and throws out all these different ism and it drives me crazy
I would want to know if someone has an STD before going out with them. That's common sense! I don't even care if there's some stigma attached. There are stigmas attached to just about everything anyway.
Forget STD, if you have the fucking flu, and know it you should tell the person you're about to be intimate with, it's not that fucking hard to understand. Let the person be the one to say "I don't care."
@Great Lakes you're fucking stupid. I cant project myself from someone sneezing in your direction. This is a fucking sexually transmitted disease in America you can be charged with manslaughter if you infect someone with out telling them your infected. If you have the flu it's your job to stay home and not infect the people you work with. I cant project myself form the flu if you come up and shake my hand after wiping your nose. You are a fucking moron
@Great Lakes There are people out there knowing screwing up other people's health because they aren't saying anything you moron. And how can someone protect themselves from certain diseases if they don't know what other people have? There are different ways to prevent each different disease.
@Great Lakes it's illegal to knowingly transmit an STD stupid. I don't care wtf you believe. If you have sex with someone knowing you are infected and you pass that bug to someone without telling them just because you want to fuck, YOU! Are a piece shit and do not deserve to even have sex.
@Great Lakes A customer came in at my job 2 years ago and had the flu. He didn't tell me until after we talked and we were closed to each other. It's crazy how people walk around with diseases and not say anything to individuals he or she comes in contact with.
"Small amount of subscriber"- Guess he doesn't realize they have more subs than him, not that it matters. Dude, most definitely in his feelings.
Techno Master 😂😂😂😂😂
Techno Master stfuuuuu 💀💀💀😂😂😂
@Techno Master 💀💀💀💀
the fact that these kind of people exist makes me worried. makes the disease harder to avoid.
Thank you Aba&Preach for your humor & integrity.
-as a man with Hep-C it is my responsibility to tell my sexual partners about it so they can make an informed decision, even though there's just a 1% chance of transmission through sex
--simple as that bros... You are most definitely correct.
Aba: "Let's hear the response."
(Plays video for 15 seconds)
Preach:(dies from laughter on the couch)
That shit had me weak lmao
His laugh had me rolling😂
It's like having COVID and going to a party, not telling anyone.
Going to a party n fucking everyone you can lol.
A guy actually did that😩
@@sephy980 orgy
@@BBBunny11 that's fucked up
Florida right now: Spring break mutha fuckas fuck it if old people die! My moms and pops ain’t here so not like they gona die so fuck it!
i bet if someone coughs on him, he would want to know if he just got the corona virus. lol
K1ll3rCombo 😂😂😂
Right
🤣🤣🤣😅
Your stance is right. When it comes right down to it... not having the empathy, decency, and even a fraction of caring about the other person you're about to sleep with- 1 night or more- it's comes down to hedonistic entitlement- The guy doesn't want to throw something out there that will lessen his chance of getting some. - when that attitude is prevalent then riskier behavior tends to slip in.
Those medications MUST.. I repeat MUST- be taken daily. You can't skip on them- they are like birth control pills... miss a day or two and the risk of things going wrong- increases. The question is do they really truly care about others- or their own desires.
Here's a thought... If that person loved another that is positive- then that's up to that person to place their own self at risk - to fully love them- and what a better -blessing- that is. To be loved and intimate with someone who chose to take that risk.
So he thinks biological warfare is fine but the criticism of it is racist, homophobic, Hiv-phobic transphobic etc
thats what you call fucked up priorities.
Spread the love lol.
None of which was evident in A&P's initial video. He just imagined a whole bunch of crimes against himself that weren't committed. This is lunacy.
O.o hiv-phobic is a thing now?
Even in the way they are misusing the suffix phobia hatred of HIV is completely acceptable for all people to have, it is a disease that kills people, what are we supposed to do? Love it?
@@lilchristuten7568 well said
When a gay dude refers to hetero men as Misses you know it’s about to get real ignant! 😂
Clearly no self loathing happening there Huh!
He needs counselling or something and I wish him well unless he spreads HIV willingly in which case I wish him jail time
Ignant 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hahahahaha
Justin: I'm end their career
Aba & Ms.Preach: UNO card: reverse
I remember a time when not disclosing one's HIV positive status to new partners could result in a murder charge.
As it should. Shit makes no sense otherwise
I'm with Aba&Preach on this one. I was expecting a rebuttal/learning experience and instead, I'm sitting here so confused I got Forrest Whitaker eye.
He was angry, sad and wants other people to suffer like him.
I'd say this guy was butthurt but I think that's kind of insensitive.
Lance Babcock 🤣🤣💀 I get the joke
His peener prolly hurts too
Lance Babcock 😂😂😂
Butt hurt is an understatement
This was that guys dream think about it : He juat got dicked down by facts from 2 dudes at once!!!!
Knowing each others sexual health is what slowed down the pandemic of the 80s in 90s. This guy is living in a luxurious world in comparison to what HIV victims lived with in the 80s. I was there, it was a really difficult decade where many good friends passed in the most horrific way. So YES. If you have sexual health issues, it is 💯 necessary to divulge to your intended partner.
King of reads is a walking contradiction. He speaks on everything from a personal experience. He’s pro-black until it comes to light skinned ppl. But to stay on topic, he cannot do that. You have to expose your status. He could be charged for a battery at the least. He’s the worst.
When I bring up getting tested people look at me like I grew a head, why is it insane to want to know I'm healthy? Why is it strange to be checked out before I get sick or show irreversible symptoms? In highschool there was always excuses and accusations, I wasn't pure, I knew exactly what I was doing, I knew when I got into bed with someone there was a possibility of anything, but I knew if it happened it wouldn't be from me.
When I got real health insurance through my job and went for my gyn appt I asked if they would do an HIV test like at planned parenthood and my dr said we don't do that here. And when I asked why she said they only accept patients with health insurance and no Medicaid and people in that population generally don't need an hiv test. So I had to take my ass to quest diagnostics for an actual blood test for hiv. I just feel safer getting tested for STDs at my appointments. Especially since they don't recommend yearly pap tests for women anymore. I'm getting checked every year idc. Every dr should have the 15min hiv test that is only a finger prick.
@Misslimitless23 I was just shocked for real. Like test me for everything....you never know. I won't say who, but someone close to me had clamydia that laid dormant for 10yrs and the only reason she knows that is bc she wasn't sexually active for a whole decade. And it wreaked havoc on her body ending up in a complete hysterectomy.
Already have me laughing and im 1 min in. "Miss Aba and Miss Preach" t shirts?
If someone has to resort to name calling, they already lost the argument
That's an official logical fallacy, bro... Specifically called "Ad Hominem Fallacy", which means attacking a flaw in someone's character as if those attacks somehow refute their argument.
Just cause someone calls you a moron, doesn't mean their argument is invalid... Moron. ;D
c wut i did thar? xD
I feel like if you willingly and knowingly transmit HIV to someone without them knowing, you should be charged and treated like a murderer
You have a condition that can harm someone, you might not need to tell everyone but you do need to tell the person you planning to be intimate with, thats all.
When the law is in the way, your opinion doesn’t matter. You goin to jail.
If he was so educated on HIV before he found out he was positive, then why did he get it in the first place?
thats a loaded topic and it is definitely not as black and why as being "educated" you have many educated people make poor choices ALL the time......look at the news
@@aweatherington1 no I get that totally, but this dude seems to have completely thrown away/forgotten his "education". He seems like the dude/chick (chicks do that shit too) that says fuck it, I got it now so I'm giving it to EVERYBODY! Then wants to throw it in your face when you find out. His attitude about is what really pisses me off. My comment was more rhetorical, I just wanted to be the asshole to poke holes in what he was saying.
Anonymiss Patriot Because somebody down the line didn’t feel like they had to disclose it to someone . That should be even more of a reason why he should shut up and apologize for the dumb comment .
@@thia9868 Exactly!!
Antwan weatherington educated on a topic is not the same as being educated in general. Being educated ON HIV doesn’t mean you have a degree. It means you know about HIV are educated about how it happens and all.
I would be SO heartbroken if my partner didn’t tell me they’re HIV positive... like, sex in general is vulnerable and intimate requiring trust. Not telling someone you have a disease that could permanently compromise their health/lifestyle is irresponsible. You don’t do that to people you care about. His logic is so selfish!
I think you put this so eloquently, being vulnerable with someone only to find that they have fatally betrayed you would be so heartbreaking on so many levels
Boggles the mind, doesn't it?
Also, what he is advocating for, is criminal and a felony in 49 States and a misdemeanor in CA.
Straight up, if I hook up with someone who's positive, unless we're both blind drunk, and they don't disclose... I'm taking that person to court!
@Jake McCoy is right but I am going to add this that's easy, proof would be on my medical record.
@Mattia De Cecco not in the UK. Here you're told it's your legal responsibility to disclose your status to inform your partner. Unless that law has changed since the lecture I had in school.
Never go off emotion because your argument becomes invalid after that when logic is not involved.
The "point and sputter" response. It shows he has nothing to say. He knows he has nothing to say so he just attacks like a child would.
0:39 - I was laughing so hard! But I so feel sorry for the both of you.
He’s mad Preach’s hair is longer! In my preach voice...he hatin! 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂I thought I was the only one looking at this man and thinking "Yup, he a Preach fanboy who's mad his idol disagrees with him and thinks he should do better"
Suzie Q for the win😂😂😂😂😂
Did he say he did research and still got it... y’all room is the shit my Gs
D Thom Meanwhile Justin has been kicked out of more places than the avg person his age. He’s such a hypocrite.
"Did you just misgender me?"😂, yes he did.
Lol, that was funny, what's your insta name tho🤔 asking for research purposes
Watching this a year later and Aba and Preach were the ones who grew they channel while homeboy is stagnant 😩
I just checked maybe 1,000 in a yr meanwhile these guys are over a million
Sounds like the male version of Amanda Seales
Do a video about that! : }
Kirby Augustine 💀😂
Kirby Augustine oof that’s a knock out 😂😂😂
He got white walls is that insane asylum. He sounds like a Great Value Seals.
In what universe? Don't get me wrong I'm not a fan, but I'm trying to understand how is there even a comparison.... unless I missed some idiotic shit she said.
Soooo he used his opportunity and platform to roast you guys instead of giving a better understanding about the situation. GREAT
nothing to understand. He was clear about what he said and meant in the first video. He is a piece of shit
He didn’t even roast them, he sure tried but nope. He has no credibility so that was his attempt. It’s no wonder no one like him.
"He's a god damn cliche. He validates everything 'cis white men' think about the gay community!"
OMG. It really pissed me off when he used that "cis" prefix. He wants to be treated normally but slings his watchwords left, right and center.
1godlessmonkey
There are many white male cliches roaming around too. What’s your point?